Derek Redmond v. Mary Redmond , 724 F.3d 729 ( 2013 )


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  •                              In the
    United States Court of Appeals
    For the Seventh Circuit
    No. 12-2511
    D EREK R EDMOND,
    Petitioner-Appellee,
    v.
    M ARY R EDMOND,
    Respondent-Appellant.
    Appeal from the United States District Court
    for the Northern District of Illinois, Eastern Division.
    No. 11 C 8542—Charles R. Norgle, Judge.
    A RGUED O CTOBER 31, 2012—D ECIDED JULY 25, 2013
    Before E ASTERBROOK, Chief Judge, and W ILLIAMS and
    S YKES, Circuit Judges.
    S YKES, Circuit Judge. Mary Redmond left her home
    in Illinois at age 19 to attend college in Ireland. There
    she met Derek Redmond, and the two began a romantic
    relationship. For most of the next 11 years, the couple
    lived together in Ireland, though they never married;
    their common last name is a coincidence.
    In 2006 Mary became pregnant. She and Derek agreed
    that the baby would be born in America but raised in
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    Ireland. On March 28, 2007, their son, “JMR,” was born
    in Illinois. They returned to Ireland with the baby 11 days
    later, but their relationship soon deteriorated. On Novem-
    ber 10, 2007, Mary moved back to Illinois with JMR
    against Derek’s wishes. The child was not quite eight
    months old.
    Ordinarily a parent in Derek’s position might have
    recourse to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects
    of International Child Abduction, Oct. 25, 1980,
    T.I.A.S. No. 11670, which requires signatories to
    promptly return children to the country of their habitual
    residence when they are “wrongfully removed to or
    retained in” another country in breach of the custody
    rights of the left-behind parent. Hague Convention art. 3,
    supra, T.I.A.S. No. 11670. The catch for Derek was that he
    had no custody rights under Irish law; unmarried
    fathers in Ireland are not legally recognized as parents,
    although they may petition a court for guardianship
    and custody rights. The Hague Convention remedy
    was unavailable.
    Derek thereafter waged a three-and-a-half-year battle
    to establish his paternity rights in Ireland. On February 10,
    2011, an Irish court granted Derek’s request for guardian-
    ship and joint custody of JMR, and also ordered that
    the child live in or near Ballymurphy, Ireland. Mary
    participated in these proceedings and was in Ireland with
    JMR for the final hearing. The court allowed her to
    take JMR back to Illinois to make preparations for their
    move to Ireland, but only on condition that she promise
    under oath to return with the child by March 30, 2011.
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    Mary made the promise but did not intend to keep it;
    she returned to Illinois with JMR and remained with
    him there. Eight months later Derek filed a Hague Con-
    vention petition in federal court in Illinois claiming
    that Mary wrongfully “retained” JMR in the United
    States in breach of his newly recognized custody rights
    in Ireland.
    The district court held that as of March 30, 2011, when
    Mary disobeyed the Irish court’s order and the alleged
    wrongful “retention” occurred, JMR’s habitual residence
    was Ireland. This was so, the court held, even though
    JMR had lived in the United States almost all his life.
    The court focused instead on the parents’ initial agree-
    ment to raise their son in Ireland—their last shared
    intent about where he would live—and gave this
    evidence decisive effect. Because Mary’s move to
    Illinois was unilateral, the court concluded that JMR’s
    residence in the United States was temporary and contin-
    gent on the results of the Irish guardianship proceeding.
    The court ordered JMR returned to Ireland. Mary appealed.
    We reverse. The district court treated the parents’
    last shared intent as a kind of fixed doctrinal test for
    determining a child’s habitual residence. It is not. The
    determination of habitual residence under the Hague
    Convention is a practical, flexible, factual inquiry that
    accounts for all available relevant evidence and con-
    siders the individual circumstances of each case. Here,
    the parents’ shared intent when JMR was born sheds
    little light on the question of his habitual residence in
    2011. When Mary moved with the baby to Illinois in
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    November 2007, she had the exclusive right to decide
    where he would live; because she was JMR’s sole legal
    custodian, his removal from Ireland was not wrongful
    under the Convention. By March 2011, the time of the
    alleged wrongful “retention,” JMR’s life was too firmly
    rooted in Illinois to consider Ireland his home. Because
    JMR was habitually resident in the United States, the
    district court was wrong to order him “returned”
    to Ireland.
    I. Background
    Mary is an American citizen and also a citizen of Ireland
    through her father, who was born in Ireland. Derek is a
    citizen of Ireland. In 1996 Mary left her family home
    in Illinois to attend community college in Ireland, re-
    turning during the summers and at other times during
    the year. She met Derek soon after she arrived, and they
    began an intimate relationship. She remained in Ireland
    after completing her associate’s degree, and the couple
    lived together for more than a decade. But they never
    married.
    In 2006 Mary became pregnant. The couple agreed
    that the child would be born in America but raised in
    Ireland. They traveled together to the United States, and
    on March 28, 2007, their son, JMR, was born in Blue
    Island, Illinois. Derek was present at the birth and
    signed a voluntary acknowledgment of paternity; he is
    also listed as JMR’s father on the child’s birth certificate.
    Under Illinois law a properly executed voluntary acknowl-
    edgment of paternity creates a presumption of paternity
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    and may serve as a basis for a child-support order
    without more elaborate proceedings to establish pater-
    nity. See 750 ILL. C OMP . S TAT. 45/3, 45/5, 45/6. A child-
    support order entered pursuant to an acknowledgment
    of paternity may also include a determination of custody
    rights, guardianship, and visitation terms. See id. § 45/14.
    In contrast, in Ireland the natural father of an
    illegitimate child does not have parental rights. See Guard-
    ianship of Infants Act, 1964, Part I, § 2 (Act No. 7/1964) (Ir.),
    available at http://www.irishstatutebook.ie/1964/en/act/
    pub/0007/. Under Irish law “[t]he mother of an illegitimate
    infant shall be guardian of the infant,” id. Part II, § 6(4);
    the definition of “father” excludes “the natural father of
    an illegitimate infant,” id. Part I, § 2. An unmarried
    father may formally petition a court for recognition of
    paternity and appointment as a guardian of his child,
    and if recognized may seek a determination of custody
    and access rights. See id. Part I, § 3; Part II, § 11.
    In accordance with their original plan, Mary and Derek
    returned to Ireland with JMR on April 8, 2007, when
    the baby was 11 days old. The couple remained
    together for several months, but during this time, their
    relationship fell apart. Mary alleges in the underlying
    custody dispute that Derek suffered problems with
    alcohol and abused her. In November 2007 Mary
    decided to end the relationship, move back to Illinois,
    and raise JMR there. On November 10, 2007, she and
    JMR left Ireland and flew to Illinois.
    In February 2008 Mary returned to Ireland with JMR
    for a visit. The purpose of the trip is not entirely clear.
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    At least in part, Mary wanted to finish collecting her
    belongings. She also met with a community welfare
    officer, either to request information regarding mainte-
    nance payments or to apply for “periodic payments”
    for JMR (we do not know which). On March 25, 2008,
    while Mary and JMR were still in Ireland, Derek filed a
    petition for guardianship and custody rights in an Irish
    court and obtained an ex parte order preventing them
    from leaving the country. On the basis of this order, Mary
    and JMR were stopped by authorities at the airport. On
    April 22, 2008, an Irish court vacated the ex parte
    order, and Mary left Ireland with JMR the next day.
    During the course of the next three years, Mary
    returned to Ireland periodically to participate in hearings
    on Derek’s guardianship and custody petition. She at-
    tended a May 15, 2008 hearing and flew back to Illinois
    two days later. She returned to Ireland and attended
    another hearing on June 25, during which the Irish court
    declined to exercise jurisdiction over the case. Derek
    appealed this decision, and another hearing was set
    for July 29. Less than a week before the hearing, Derek
    obtained an ex parte order requiring that Mary and
    JMR appear. Mary and JMR did not appear but her
    counsel filed for a continuance, which was denied. At
    the hearing the reviewing court reversed the lower
    court’s ruling and held that the court had jurisdiction
    over Derek’s application. Mary appealed. The Irish
    High Court heard the case on November 18 and ruled
    against her on November 26, 2008.
    Mary then filed her own application in the Irish court
    to relocate with JMR to the United States permanently.
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    Dueling petitions were now before the court in Ireland.
    At a hearing on July 2, 2009, the court ordered that JMR
    undergo an independent psychiatric assessment, and
    the court-appointed examiner interviewed JMR and his
    parents, and also other paternal and maternal relatives.
    The psychiatric report concluded that JMR was well-
    adjusted and happy but would benefit from growing up
    near both parents—an arrangement that could only
    work if JMR and Mary moved to Ireland given Derek’s
    lack of American citizenship. The report recommended
    that Derek be granted guardianship and custody rights,
    and also that JMR live in Ireland so that Derek could
    have regular access to his son. Finally, the report recom-
    mended that the parents develop a parenting plan
    for JMR with “appropriate weekly and regularized
    access plans.”
    Throughout this time JMR lived with Mary in Orland
    Park, Illinois. More than a year and a half passed
    from Mary’s move to Illinois and the hearing at which
    the Irish court commenced consideration of Derek’s
    guardianship petition on the merits and ordered a psychi-
    atric evaluation; another year and a half elapsed before
    the final hearing on February 9, 2011. By the time of
    that hearing, JMR had spent well over three of his four
    years in Illinois. He attended daycare and preschool
    in Orland Park from the age of two and a half, and was
    enrolled in kindergarten at St. Michael’s School in
    Orland Park for September 2012. He saw a pediatrician
    and a dentist in Illinois, where all of his medical records
    were kept. He played on a children’s baseball team
    with the local baseball association, had playdates with
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    friends, and went to church with his mother and played
    in the neighborhood park on Sundays. He has a large
    extended family in Illinois and had frequent contact
    with his grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. During
    this time, he periodically traveled to Ireland with Mary,
    mostly for court proceedings. Between November 2007
    and February 2011, he spent about ten and a half
    separated weeks in Ireland.
    On February 10, 2011, the day after the final hearing,
    the Irish court entered an order denying Mary’s applica-
    tion to relocate and granting Derek’s request for guardian-
    ship and joint custody over JMR. The court ordered
    that JMR live in Ireland, in or near Ballymurphy, Carlow
    County, and attend the Ballymurphy National School.
    Derek and Mary were ordered to share custody on an
    equal basis. Mary and JMR were in Ireland for the final
    hearing; the court allowed her to return to Illinois with
    JMR to wind up her affairs. As a condition of her return
    to Illinois, Mary promised under oath not to apply to
    any court outside of Ireland regarding JMR’s custody,
    not to remove JMR to a third country, and to quit her
    job and move with JMR to Ireland on or before March 30,
    2011. The Irish court incorporated these undertakings
    into its order. For his part Derek promised not to remove
    JMR to a third country, to pay $200 per month in child
    support, and to pay for Mary’s plane ticket to return
    to Ireland.
    Mary admits that she never intended to keep these
    promises. On February 15, 2011, she returned to Illinois
    with JMR, and on March 23 she petitioned for sole
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    custody in Cook County Circuit Court. The next day she
    moved for an emergency protective order against Derek
    alleging a history of abuse and alcohol-related misconduct.
    The March 30 deadline came and went. Mary did not
    move to Ireland with JMR as ordered. On May 10, 2011,
    the Irish court issued a further order compelling Mary
    to bring JMR to Ireland on or before June 30. This order
    stated that retaining the child in the United States
    violated the Hague Convention. Again Mary did
    not comply.
    Back in Cook County Circuit Court, Derek moved
    through counsel to dismiss Mary’s sole-custody petition
    for lack of jurisdiction under the Uniform Child-Custody
    Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, 750 ILL. C OMP. S TAT.
    36/101 et seq. Under the Act Illinois courts generally lack
    jurisdiction over a custody petition when a valid
    custody order of another state or foreign court already
    governs the disposition of the child. See id. §§ 36/105,
    36/206. After conferring with the Irish court, see id. § 36/110,
    the Illinois state-court judge concluded as follows:
    (1) Derek had timely invoked the jurisdiction of the Irish
    court; (2) the Irish guardianship and custody decree
    was issued in substantial conformity with the require-
    ments of the Act; and (3) the decree did not violate funda-
    mental principles of human rights. Accordingly, on July 27,
    2011, the Illinois court deferred to the prior claim of
    jurisdiction by the Irish court, see id. §§ 36/105, 36/206,
    and declined to exercise jurisdiction over Mary’s petition.
    At this point Derek might have sought registration
    and enforcement of the Irish decree in Cook County
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    Circuit Court, along with an order granting him immedi-
    ate physical custody of JMR, as provided under the
    Uniform Act. See id. §§ 36/303-306, 36/310, 36/313. Instead,
    on December 1, 2011—five months after the state judge
    dismissed Mary’s sole-custody petition—Derek filed a
    Hague Convention petition in the United States District
    Court for the Northern District of Illinois seeking an
    order that JMR be returned to Ireland. Derek contended
    that by disobeying the Irish custody order, Mary had
    wrongfully retained JMR in the United States. The
    district court held an evidentiary hearing on June 8, 2012,
    and by written order entered on June 19, 2012, granted
    Derek’s petition. The judge concluded that as of March 30,
    2011, when Mary defied the Irish court’s order and the
    alleged wrongful retention occurred, JMR’s habitual
    residence was Ireland, not the United States. The judge
    ordered JMR returned to Ireland by July 9, 2012, accompa-
    nied by Mary.1
    Mary appealed and asked the district court to stay
    the return order pending appeal, but the court denied
    the motion. She then moved this court for an emergency
    stay. A motions panel denied the stay and also denied
    her motion to expedite the appeal. In compliance with
    1
    We do not know why the court thought it had authority to
    order Mary, a free adult citizen, to go to Ireland. As far as
    we can determine, neither the Hague Convention nor its
    implementing legislation, the International Child Abduction
    Remedies Act, 
    102 Stat. 437
     (1988) (codified at 
    42 U.S.C. §§ 11601
    et seq. (2006)), authorizes the court to order the relocation
    of parents.
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    the district court’s order, JMR was returned to Ireland,
    where he remains.
    II. Discussion
    A. Mootness
    Before addressing the merits, we note a jurisdictional
    question. Article III of the Constitution limits the
    federal judicial power to actual, ongoing cases or contro-
    versies, a limitation understood to require a live
    dispute involving a party with “an actual injury
    traceable to the defendant and likely to be redressed by
    a favorable judicial decision.” Lewis v. Cont’l Bank Corp.,
    
    494 U.S. 472
    , 477 (1990). The case-or-controversy require-
    ment “subsists through all stages of federal judicial
    proceedings, trial and appellate.” 
    Id.
     If on appeal it be-
    comes “impossible for a court to grant any effectual
    relief whatever,” the case becomes moot and jurisdic-
    tion no longer exists. Knox v. Serv. Emps. Int’l Union,
    Local 1000, 
    132 S. Ct. 2277
    , 2287 (2012) (internal quotation
    marks omitted).
    At oral argument we asked whether Mary’s appeal
    became moot when JMR was returned to Ireland. The
    question arose because a favorable decision may not
    redress Mary’s injury; it was not clear as a legal or
    practical matter that a reversal could secure JMR’s “re-
    return” to Illinois. We ordered supplemental briefing,
    noting that the Supreme Court had granted certiorari
    in Chafin v. Chafin, 
    133 S. Ct. 81
     (2012), to decide this
    very question. The Court has now issued its decision in
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    Chafin, holding that an appeal from an adverse return
    order under the Hague Convention is not rendered moot
    by the child’s return. Chafin v. Chafin, 
    133 S. Ct. 1017
    ,
    1028 (2013).
    The facts in Chafin track the facts of this case in all
    material respects. There, as here, the parents disputed
    the question of their child’s habitual residence for
    purposes of the Hague Convention’s return remedy. The
    father claimed it was the United States; the mother
    claimed it was Scotland. The district court sided with the
    mother and ordered the child returned to Scotland, and
    mother and child left for Scotland the next day. 
    Id. at 1022
    .
    The question before the Supreme Court was “whether,
    after a child is returned pursuant to [a Hague Conven-
    tion] order, any appeal of the order is moot.” 
    Id. at 1021
    .
    The Court applied the standard rule that a case
    becomes moot only where it is “impossible for a court
    to grant any effectual relief whatever to the prevailing
    party.” 
    Id.
     at 1023 (citing Knox, 
    132 S. Ct. at 2287
    ). The
    Court held that the district court’s authority to issue a
    re-return order—either “under the Convention itself or
    according to general equitable principles”—was a merits
    question, not a jurisdictional question, and the propriety
    of a re-return order was not “so implausible that it
    is insufficient to preserve jurisdiction.” Id. at 1024.
    The Court also brushed aside concerns about practical
    impediments to enforcing a re-return order. Jurisdic-
    tional continuation did not depend on the likelihood
    that a re-return order would be obeyed by the parent
    with custody or enforced by a foreign court; “difficulties
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    in enforcement,” the Court said, do not render a case
    moot. Id. at 1024-26. Instead, the proper question is if
    the court issues a re-return order, and if the custodial
    parent complies with the order, will the aggrieved
    parent get the child back? Absent a “law of physics
    prevent[ing] [the child’s] return” or a similar impedi-
    ment, the answer to that question is generally “yes.”
    Id. at 1025. Accordingly, the Court held that a parent’s
    appeal of an adverse return order under the Hague Con-
    vention does not become moot by the child’s return.
    Id. at 1028.
    The holding in Chafin resolves the primary mootness
    concern we raised at oral argument. As a secondary
    jurisdictional point, we speculated that the appeal may
    be moot because the Illinois state-court judge has
    deferred to the Irish court’s jurisdiction in the under-
    lying custody battle. In other words, if we reverse and
    remand and the district court orders JMR returned to
    Illinois, will he go straight back to Ireland pursuant to
    the Illinois court’s decision? We asked for supplemental
    briefing on this issue as well, and as things stand right
    now, the answer to our question is “no.” The Irish court’s
    custody ruling was before the Illinois court on the
    limited question of the court’s jurisdiction to decide
    Mary’s petition for sole custody. Derek had asked the
    Illinois court to defer to the Irish court’s earlier claim of
    jurisdiction under the terms of the Uniform Child-
    Custody and Jurisdiction Enforcement Act. The court
    granted Derek’s motion and dismissed the petition for
    lack of subject-matter jurisdiction, but its order did not
    alter the status quo; that is, the Illinois court did not
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    give effect to the Irish court’s order. The decision clears
    the way for Derek to register the Irish order in the
    Cook County Circuit Court and seek its enforcement
    under the Uniform Act, but as far as the record discloses,
    he has not yet sought that relief. In the meantime, Mary
    has moved for reconsideration of the court’s jurisdic-
    tional ruling, and that motion is stayed pending the
    outcome of these proceedings. See Agreed Order,
    Redmond v. Redmond, No. 11 D 79473 (Circuit Ct. of Cook
    Cnty.) (filed Oct. 22, 2012). If Mary’s motion for recon-
    sideration is denied, she may appeal.
    The upshot of all this is that the Illinois court’s jurisdic-
    tional decision does not moot this appeal. Unwinding
    the district court’s return order will not inevitably
    result in a speedy transatlantic round trip for JMR. Here,
    as in Chafin, “[t]his dispute is still very much alive.”
    Chafin, 
    133 S. Ct. at 1023
    . The question of JMR’s habitual
    residence is contested, and the correct answer determines
    the propriety of the district court’s return order. Reversal
    may precipitate new legal and practical challenges sur-
    rounding JMR’s re-return, and if the child is returned to
    Illinois, he may not stay for long. His status will depend
    on the outcome of the presently pending litigation—and
    possible future litigation—in the Illinois state courts.
    But Mary unquestionably has an interest in the return
    of her son, and “however small that concrete inter-
    est may be due to potential difficulties in enforcement,
    it is not simply a matter of academic debate, and is
    enough to save this case from mootness.” 
    Id. at 1026
    (alterations and internal quotation marks omitted).
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    B. Was JMR Wrongfully Retained in the United States?
    The Hague Convention “was adopted in 1980 in
    response to the problem of international child abduc-
    tions during domestic disputes.” Abbott v. Abbott, 
    130 S. Ct. 1983
    , 1989 (2010). The Convention aims “to deter
    parents from absconding with their children and
    crossing international borders in the hopes of obtaining
    a favorable custody determination in a friendlier juris-
    diction.” Walker v. Walker, 
    701 F.3d 1110
    , 1116
    (7th Cir. 2012). The Convention’s main purpose is to
    “secure the prompt return of children wrongfully
    removed to or retained in” another signatory State. Hague
    Convention art. 1, supra, T.I.A.S. No. 11670. Among other
    things, signatory States commit to have in place judicial
    and administrative remedies for the return of children
    taken from the State of their habitual residence to
    another signatory State in violation of the left-behind
    parent’s custody rights under the law of the State of the
    child’s habitual residence. Id. arts. 3, 4, 7, 12. The United
    States implements the Hague Convention via the Interna-
    tional Child Abduction Remedies Act (“ICARA”),
    
    102 Stat. 437
     (1988) (codified at 
    42 U.S.C. §§ 11601
     et seq.
    (2006)) (authorizing federal courts to entertain Hague
    Convention petitions).
    The central question in any petition seeking the return
    of a child under the Hague Convention and ICARA is
    whether the child who is the subject of the petition
    has been “wrongfully” removed or retained within the
    meaning of the Convention. Article 3 of the Convention
    defines the concept of “wrongful” removal or retention:
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    The removal or the retention of a child is to be consid-
    ered wrongful where—
    a)   it is in breach of rights of custody attributed to
    a person, an institution[,] or any other body,
    either jointly or alone, under the law of the State
    in which the child was habitually resident im-
    mediately before the removal or retention; and
    b)   at the time of removal or retention[,] those rights
    were actually exercised, either jointly or alone,
    or would have been so exercised but for the re-
    moval or retention.
    Hague Convention art. 3, supra, T.I.A.S. No. 11670. This
    definition reflects the basic premise of the Convention’s
    return remedy:
    In order for the Convention to apply[,] the child
    must have been “habitually resident in a Contracting
    State immediately before any breach of custody . . .
    rights.” Article 4. In practical terms, the Convention
    may be invoked only where the child was habitually
    resident in a Contracting State and taken to or retained
    in another Contracting State.
    Department of State, Hague International Child Abduc-
    tion Convention; Text and Legal Analysis, 
    51 Fed. Reg. 10,494
    , 10,504 (Mar. 26, 1986) (emphasis added). In addi-
    tion, a court faced with a Hague petition must keep the
    following important principle in mind:
    A Hague Convention case is not a child custody
    case. Rather, a Hague Convention case is more akin
    to a provisional remedy—to determine if the child
    was wrongfully removed or kept away from his or
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    her habitual residence, and if so, then to order the
    child returned to that nation. The merits of the child
    custody case—what a parent’s custody and visitation
    rights should be—are questions that are reserved
    for the courts of the habitual residence.
    JAMES D. G ARBOLINO, F ED. JUDICIAL C TR., T HE 1980 H AGUE
    C ONVENTION ON THE C IVIL A SPECTS OF INTERNATIONAL
    C HILD A BDUCTION: A G UIDE FOR JUDGES ix (2012).
    Accordingly, a Hague Convention case asks the fol-
    lowing questions in this order: (1) When did the
    removal or retention of the child occur? (2) In what State
    was the child habitually resident immediately prior to
    the removal or retention? (3) Was the removal or reten-
    tion in breach of the custody rights of the petitioning
    parent under the law of the State of the child’s habitual
    residence? and (4) Was the petitioning parent exercising
    those rights at the time of the unlawful removal or reten-
    tion? See Karkkainen v. Kovalchuk, 
    445 F.3d 280
    , 287 (3d
    Cir. 2006); Mozes v. Mozes, 
    239 F.3d 1067
    , 1070 (9th Cir.
    2001). The first two questions are factual inquiries cen-
    tering on the determination of the child’s habitual resi-
    dence; the second two questions involve both legal
    and factual inquiries regarding the left-behind parent’s
    custody rights under the law of the State of the child’s
    habitual residence and whether the parent was actually
    exercising those rights at the time of the removal or
    retention.2
    2
    The Convention also contains several defenses that may
    be asserted against a prima facie case for a return order, see
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    1. An anomaly in Derek’s Hague Convention petition
    We note at the outset that this is not a case of wrongful
    removal. Derek does not argue, nor could he, that Mary’s
    move with JMR from Ireland to Illinois in Novem-
    ber 2007 was wrongful under the Hague Convention.3
    Under Irish law only the mother is recognized as the
    guardian of an illegitimate child; Ireland does not pre-
    sumptively confer parental rights on unmarried fathers.
    The “rights of custody” at issue in a Hague Convention
    petition are “rights relating to the care of the person of
    the child and, in particular, the right to determine the
    child’s place of residence.” Hague Convention art. 5(a),
    supra, T.I.A.S. 11670. They arise “by operation of law or
    by reason of a judicial or administrative decision, or by
    reason of an agreement having legal effect under the
    law [of the child’s habitual residence].” Id. art. 3. As of
    November 2007, when Mary moved with JMR to the
    United States, Derek had no custody rights to assert
    against Mary’s removal of their son from Ireland;
    under Irish law he was not recognized as JMR’s legal
    guardian and had no right to direct the child’s
    2
    (...continued)
    Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International
    Child Abduction arts. 12, 13, 20, Oct. 25, 1980, T.I.A.S. No. 11670,
    but they are not relevant here.
    3
    Derek initially alleged in his petition that Mary’s removal
    of JMR from Ireland in November 2007 was wrongful under
    the Hague Convention, but he has dropped that claim.
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    upbringing or decide where he would live.4 So it is no
    surprise that Derek does not challenge Mary’s removal of
    JMR from Ireland in November 2007. Assuming that
    Ireland was the child’s habitual residence at that time,
    Mary’s conduct was not wrongful under the Hague
    Convention.5 See, e.g., White v. White, No. 12-1835, 
    2013 WL 4
      As we have explained, Derek’s voluntary acknowledgment
    of paternity gave rise to a presumption of paternity in Illinois.
    After Mary and JMR moved to Illinois, he could have filed an
    action in Illinois state court to perfect his paternity rights,
    acknowledge his support obligation, and obtain a determina-
    tion of custody. Instead, he spent years litigating the recogni-
    tion of his paternity, guardianship, and custody rights in
    Ireland. By foregoing the available Illinois remedies to
    establish joint custody under Illinois law—thus establishing
    his joint right to direct where JMR would live—Derek enabled
    Mary to fix JMR’s residence in the United States. Cf. Kijowska
    v. Haines, 
    463 F.3d 583
    , 589 (7th Cir. 2006) (the father’s failure
    to pursue available remedies after the mother relocated the
    child to Poland “enabled [the child] to obtain a habitual resi-
    dence in the country to which her mother took her”).
    5
    Mary hints that the entire inquiry could end here. She suggests
    that the only date relevant to the analysis is November 10, 2007,
    when she removed JMR from Ireland, and because her conduct
    was not wrongful as of that date, further analysis is unnecessary.
    We disagree, although the point has intuitive force. The cases
    refer to the “first step” in a Hague petition—in which the
    court identifies the date of the alleged wrongful removal or
    retention—because the court must determine the child’s
    habitual residence “immediately before” the alleged removal or
    (continued...)
    20                                                  No. 12-2511
    2284877, at *4-5 (4th Cir. May 24, 2013) (holding that
    the mother’s removal of her son from Switzerland
    was not wrongful under the Hague Convention because
    the child’s father lacked custody rights under Swiss law,
    giving her sole custody of the child and the exclusive
    authority to move with him to the United States).
    5
    (...continued)
    retention. Hague Convention art. 3, supra, T.I.A.S. No. 11670.
    In the case of alleged wrongful removals, that date is fairly easy
    to ascertain; with alleged wrongful retentions, however, the
    answer is not always clear. See JAMES D. G ARBOLINO , F ED .
    JUDICIAL C TR ., T HE 1980 H AGUE C ONVENTION ON THE C IVIL
    A SPECTS OF I NTERNATIONAL C HILD A BDUCTION : A G UIDE FOR
    JUDGES 24 (2012). Wrongful retentions typically occur when a
    parent takes a child abroad promising to return with the
    child and then reneges on that promise; disputes sometimes
    arise over when such a temporary sojourn ripens into a wrong-
    ful retention. See, e.g., Walker v. Walker, 
    701 F.3d 1110
    , 1118
    (7th Cir. 2012).
    In a given Hague Convention case, an “abduction” might
    have occurred on one of several dates; the question is always
    whether there was any date on which a wrongful removal
    or retention occurred. A court may entertain the possibility
    that a wrongful removal occurred on one date, conclude that
    the child’s removal on that date was not wrongful, then
    move on to other possibilities. The district court conducted
    this kind of analysis, in substance if not in form. The court
    skipped over the question of JMR’s removal from Ireland,
    implicitly concluding that it was not wrongful, and then
    moved forward in time to determine when a wrongful reten-
    tion might have occurred.
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    Instead, Derek contends that Mary wrongfully “re-
    tained” JMR in the United States on or after March 30,
    2011, when she failed to return with him to Ireland in
    violation of the Irish court’s guardianship and custody
    order. This is an unconventional use of the Hague Con-
    vention—one that raises a threshold question about
    its scope. The child-return remedy is a potent and im-
    portant one, but its application is limited, and the
    limited nature of the remedy must be kept in mind to
    avoid drawing federal courts into the merits of interna-
    tional custody disputes. See Koch v. Koch, 
    450 F.3d 703
    ,
    711 (7th Cir. 2006) (“An action under the Convention
    and ICARA is not an action to determine the merits
    of custody rights.”).
    The Hague Convention is an antiabduction treaty; it is
    “ ‘not a treaty on the recognition and enforcement of
    [foreign] decisions on custody.’ ” Barzilay v. Barzilay, 
    600 F.3d 912
    , 921-22 (8th Cir. 2010) (quoting Elisa Pérez-Vera,
    Explanatory Report on the 1980 Hague Child Abduction
    Convention, in H AGUE C ONFERENCE ON P RIVATE INT’L
    L AW, 3 A CTS AND D OCUMENTS OF THE F OURTEENTH S ESSION,
    C HILD A BDUCTION 426, 435 (1982)); see also Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 711
     (recognizing the Pérez-Vera report as the official
    history of the Hague Convention and an authoritative
    source of its meaning and scope); Holder v. Holder, 
    392 F.3d 1009
    , 1013 (9th Cir. 2004) (same). “The Convention’s
    procedures are not designed to settle international
    custody disputes, but rather to restore the status quo
    prior to any wrongful removal or retention, and to deter
    parents from engaging in international forum shopping
    in custody cases.” Karkkainen, 
    445 F.3d at 287
    ; see also
    22                                                  No. 12-2511
    Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 711
    ; Ruiz v. Tenorio, 
    392 F.3d 1247
    , 1250
    (11th Cir. 2004); Friedrich v. Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d 1060
    , 1064
    (6th Cir. 1996).
    Nor does the Convention contain rules for resolving
    competing claims of jurisdiction in international custody
    struggles or procedures for obtaining recognition and
    enforcement of foreign judgments or orders governing
    child custody. As we have explained, those rules and
    procedures are found in state law under the Uniform
    Child-Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act. See
    750 ILL. C OMP. S TAT. 36/110 et seq. (the Uniform Act, as
    adopted in Illinois); 
    id.
     § 36/105 (governing the interna-
    tional aspects of the Act).6 The court’s inquiry in a
    Hague petition is limited to the merits of the abduction
    claim; the Convention is not a vehicle for resolving com-
    peting jurisdictional or merits claims in the underlying
    custody dispute. Cf. Ruiz, 
    392 F.3d at 1250
    .
    Here, Derek seems to be using the Hague Convention
    as a substitute for an action in Illinois state court under
    the Uniform Act to enforce his newly recognized
    custody rights pursuant to the Irish court’s order.
    Perhaps this invocation of the Convention’s remedy is
    permissible under an expansive understanding of the
    term “retention,” but we have our doubts. Although
    6
    The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement
    Act (“UCCJEA”), 9 U.L.A. 657 (Master ed.) (1999), has been
    adopted in 49 states, the District of Columbia, Guam, and the
    U.S. Virgin Islands. See 
    id.
     Table of Jurisdictions, 9 U.L.A. 114-
    15 (Supp. 2012).
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    Derek has won a legal victory in Ireland and his custody
    rights are now recognized in the courts of his country,
    it’s hard to see how Mary’s refusal to comply with the
    Irish court’s order is, without more, a “retention” of JMR
    in the sense meant by the Convention. Derek’s petition
    thus presents a threshold question: Is a change in one
    parent’s custody rights enough to make the other’s
    parent’s continued physical custody of the child a puta-
    tive wrongful “retention” under the Convention? Stated
    differently, does the parent with physical custody of a
    child commit a wrongful retention—colloquially, an
    “abduction”—by reneging on a promise, made under
    oath, to obey a newly entered custody order in favor of
    the other parent?
    We asked for supplemental briefing on this question as
    well, but the parties seem to have missed our point. As
    far as we can tell, this is a question of first impression in
    this circuit and in most other circuits as well. The
    Eighth Circuit has come closest to addressing the issue. In
    Barzilay Israeli parents lived with their three children
    in Missouri for several years. 
    600 F.3d at 914-15
    . They
    divorced and the father returned to Israel. 
    Id. at 915
    . On
    a visit to Israel, the mother and three children were
    hailed into an Israeli court, and as a condition of
    allowing them to return to the United States, the court
    entered a consent judgment providing that Israel was
    the stipulated habitual residence of the children and
    giving the father custody rights. 
    Id.
     After returning to the
    United States, the mother refused to send the children
    back. 
    Id.
     The father asserted that her refusal constituted
    a wrongful retention, placing great emphasis on the
    24                                                  No. 12-2511
    Israeli court’s consent judgment, 
    id. at 916, 919
    ; he also
    relied on an earlier stipulation in the Missouri divorce
    proceeding that the entire family would return to Israel
    if either parent did, 
    id.
    The Eighth Circuit first addressed the question of
    habitual residence and affirmed the district court’s
    finding that the circumstances of the children’s lives
    clearly established Missouri as their home. 
    Id. at 915
    . The
    court then rejected the father’s reliance on the Israeli
    consent judgment and the Missouri repatriation stipula-
    tion, noting that although he characterized these agree-
    ments as “prospective stipulations of habitual residence,”
    they were “in fact custody decrees,” and the father was
    “trying to use the Hague Convention as a vehicle to
    enforce his custody rights[] simply by relabeling them as
    stipulations of habitual residence.” 
    Id. at 921
    . The court
    explained the problem this way:
    Having obtained a favorable judgment [in the Israeli
    court], [the father] then turned to the federal court
    seeking enforcement of his newly minted custody
    rights through [a Hague Convention] petition. This
    course of litigation not only betrays a fundamental
    misunderstanding of the Hague Convention, but [is]
    also precisely the sort of international forum
    shopping the Convention seeks to prevent.
    
    Id. at 922
    .7
    7
    Barzilay thus refused to give preclusive effect to the habitual-
    residence determination in the Israeli court’s consent judg-
    (continued...)
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    The Fourth Circuit’s recent decision in White is also
    instructive. There, a husband and wife living in Switzer-
    land with their son obtained an order of legal separation
    that gave custody of the child to the mother and limited
    visitation rights to the father. White, 
    2013 WL 2284877
    ,
    at *3-4. The mother then moved with her son to the
    United States. The father filed a Hague Convention
    petition seeking return of the child, and in the meantime,
    the Swiss court adjusted its ordering of parental rights,
    giving the father legal custody and the mother visitation
    7
    (...continued)
    ment. Under ICARA American courts must give full faith
    and credit to the Hague Convention determinations of other
    American courts, state or federal, but only when those determi-
    nations are rendered “pursuant to the Convention, in an
    action brought under [ICARA and the Convention].” 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (g). This special preclusion rule does not, on its face,
    affirmatively authorize American courts to apply res judicata
    principles to the Hague Convention determinations of foreign
    courts; it’s an open question whether it precludes application
    of res judicata principles to foreign Hague Convention deter-
    minations. See Holder v. Holder, 
    305 F.3d 854
    , 864-65 (9th Cir.
    2002). Applying general preclusion doctrine to Hague Con-
    vention determinations by foreign courts raises complex
    comity considerations in the context of a treaty that itself
    targets international forum shopping. Derek has not raised the
    preclusion issue or otherwise relied on the Irish court’s determi-
    nation that Mary’s retention of JMR in Illinois violated the
    Hague Convention. Accordingly, he has forfeited the issue.
    See, e.g., Simmons v. Gillespie, 
    712 F.3d 1041
    , 1041 (7th Cir.
    2013); Marcus v. Sullivan, 
    926 F.2d 604
    , 614 (7th Cir. 1991).
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    rights only. 
    Id.
     The district court concluded that the
    mother’s removal of the child from Switzerland was not
    wrongful because she had the sole right of custody, and
    the Fourth Circuit affirmed. The court noted that at the
    time of removal, the father had only visitation rights,
    which are insufficient to support the Convention’s return
    remedy. Id. at *3-5 (explaining that the visitation
    rights—known as “rights of access” under the Conven-
    tion—are not a basis for the return remedy). The court
    also held that the Swiss court’s later custody order—issued
    two years after the child’s removal to the United
    States—was ineffective to render the removal “wrongful”
    under the Convention. Id. at *6-7. Although the Fourth
    Circuit did not separately address the issue of “retention,”
    the court did note that “[State] signatories [to the Con-
    vention] agree that orders claiming to adjust custody
    arrangements after removal or retention do not typically
    affect rights under Article 3 of the Convention.” Id. at *6
    (emphasis added).
    Although our case is not perfectly analogous to
    either Barzilay or White, the basic point is the same. The
    Hague Convention targets international child abduc-
    tion; it is not a jurisdiction-allocation or full-faith-and-
    credit treaty. It does not provide a remedy for the recogni-
    tion and enforcement of foreign custody orders or proce-
    dures for vindicating a wronged parent’s custody rights
    more generally. Those rules are provided in the Uniform
    Child-Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act. Rather
    than applying to the Cook County Circuit Court for
    enforcement of the Irish custody order under the
    Uniform Act, Derek sought to enforce his newly declared
    No. 12-2511                                            27
    custody rights via a Hague petition by treating Mary’s
    refusal to comply with the Irish court’s order as a
    wrongful “retention” of their son in the United States.
    But the concepts of removal and retention can be under-
    stood only by reference to the child’s habitual residence;
    a legal adjustment of a parent’s custody rights does not
    by itself give rise to an abduction claim. “The determina-
    tion of a child’s habitual residence is significant
    because wrongful removal can occur only if the child
    has been taken away from his or her habitual residence.”
    G ARBOLINO, FED. JUDICIAL C TR., supra, at 41.
    A fundamental premise of the Hague Convention is
    that the interests of children are best served when they
    remain in their country of habitual residence while their
    parents resolve contested custody questions in the courts
    of that country. When a child is taken from its country
    of habitual residence, the left-behind parent may invoke
    the Convention’s return remedy to restore the factual
    status quo—in ordinary language, to bring an abducted
    child home. But a parent may not use the Convention
    to alter the child’s residential status based on a legal
    development in the parent’s favor. The availability of the
    return remedy depends on the child’s habitual residence
    because the “retention of a child in the state of its
    habitual residence is not wrongful under the Conven-
    tion.” Barzilay, 
    600 F.3d at 916
    . Or as the Second Circuit
    put it:
    A petitioner cannot invoke the protection of the
    Hague Convention unless the child to whom the
    petition relates is “habitually resident” in a State
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    signatory to the Convention and has been removed to
    or retained in a different State. The petitioner must
    then show that the removal or retention is “wrongful.”
    Gitter v. Gitter, 
    396 F.3d 124
    , 130 (2d Cir. 2005).
    Accordingly, every Hague Convention petition turns on
    the threshold determination of the child’s habitual resi-
    dence; all other Hague determinations flow from that
    decision. If a child has not been moved from its habitual
    residence, there is no “left-behind” parent with grounds to
    complain about the move, and it makes no sense to speak
    in terms of ordering the child’s “return.” In that situation,
    relief under the Hague Convention must be denied without
    further inquiry into whether the petitioning parent’s
    custody rights have been breached or whether the petition-
    ing parent was actually exercising those rights at the
    relevant time.
    2. JMR’s habitual residence
    With these background understandings in place, we
    proceed to the disputed question of JMR’s habitual resi-
    dence. Our review of the district court’s decision is subject
    to a split standard of review; findings of fact are reviewed
    for clear error, issues of law are reviewed de novo, and
    “[t]he ultimate determination of habitual residence is a
    mixed question of law and fact to which we will apply
    de novo review.” Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 710
    . There is no real
    dispute about the historical facts; this appeal turns on
    the ultimate determination of JMR’s habitual residence.
    The Convention does not define the term “habitual
    residence.” Early courts faced with Hague petitions
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    sought to avoid overcomplicating the issue of habitual
    residence with layers of rigid doctrine. An English
    opinion widely cited in American courts expressed this
    aspiration nicely:
    “It is greatly to be hoped that the courts will resist
    the temptation to develop detailed and restrictive
    rules as to habitual residence, which might make it
    as technical a term of art as common law domicile.
    The facts and circumstances of each case should
    continue to be assessed without resort to presump-
    tions or pre-suppositions.”
    Re Bates (1989), No. CA 122/89 (High Ct. of Justice, Fam.
    Div., Eng.), 
    1989 WL 1683783
     (quoting A LBERT V ENN D ICEY
    & JOHN H UMPHREY C ARLILE M ORRIS, T HE C ONFLICTS OF
    L AWS 166 (11th ed. 1987)); see Whiting v. Krassner, 
    391 F.3d 540
    , 546 (3d Cir. 2004) (citing quoted passage); Silverman v.
    Silverman, 
    312 F.3d 914
    , 916 (8th Cir. 2002) (same);
    Friedrich v. Friedrich, 
    983 F.2d 1396
    , 1401 (6th Cir. 1993)
    (same). We elaborated on this point in Kijowska v. Haines:
    The determination of “habitual residence” is to be
    made on the basis of the everyday meaning of these
    words rather than the legal meaning that a particular
    jurisdiction attaches to them, as otherwise forum
    shopping would come in by the back door—each
    contestant would seek a forum that would define
    “habitual residence” in the contestant’s favor.
    
    463 F.3d 583
    , 586 (7th Cir. 2006).
    Accordingly, we interpret the phrase “habitual resi-
    dence” in accordance with “the ordinary and natural
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    meaning of the two words it contains, as a question of fact
    to be decided by reference to all the circumstances of any
    particular case.” Mozes, 
    239 F.3d at 1071
     (internal quotation
    marks and alterations omitted); see also Norinder v.
    Fuentes, 
    657 F.3d 526
    , 534 (7th Cir. 2011); Kijowska,
    
    463 F.3d at 586
    ; Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 712
    . Determining a
    child’s habitual residence thus requires an assessment of
    the observable facts on the ground, not an inquiry into
    the child’s or parent’s legal status in a particular place.
    Only after habitual residence is determined does an ex-
    amination of custody rights come into play; treating
    the question of habitual residence as a legal inquiry
    would misconstrue the Convention as a custody-rights
    enforcement treaty.
    Under this commonsense and fact-based approach,
    we think it clear that as of March 30, 2011, when the
    alleged wrongful retention occurred, JMR habitually
    resided in Illinois and had for some time. He was born
    in Illinois, and except for seven and a half months of
    his infancy, he lived continuously in Illinois with only
    periodic, brief visits to Ireland. By March 30, 2011, he
    had spent more than three of his four years in Illi-
    nois—approximately 80% of his young life. It is true that
    the length of time a child has spent in one place is not
    dispositive and must be considered with care. We have
    recognized that “[t]he length of the child’s residence in
    the country of one of the parents cannot be decisive. [A]
    parent cannot create a new ‘habitual residence’ by the
    wrongful removal and sequestering of a child. That would
    invite abduction.” Kijowkska, 
    463 F.3d at 587
     (internal
    quotation marks and citations omitted). Here, however,
    Mary’s removal of JMR from Ireland was not wrongful, so
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    giving weight to the substantial duration of the child’s
    residence in the United States does not undermine
    the purposes of the Convention.
    In addition to the length of time JMR had spent in
    the United States prior to the Irish court’s order, the
    everyday details of his life confirm that Illinois was
    home. JMR had frequent contact with his extended family
    in Illinois; he received regular care from an Illinois pedia-
    trician and an Illinois dentist; he went to daycare, pre-
    school, and church in Orland Park; he had neighborhood
    friends and played on a children’s baseball team in the
    area. The district court credited this evidence: “[T]hese
    facts, coupled with the passage of nearly three-and-a-
    half years of very early childhood, suggest that JMR is
    happy and well-adjusted to his life in Illinois.”
    In contrast, on March 30, 2011, JMR’s ties to Ireland
    were tenuous. As of that date, he had spent only a
    small fraction of his life in Ireland—not more than
    20%—and much of that time was prior to his
    initial move to Illinois when he was an infant. After the
    move, which occurred when he was not yet eight
    months old, JMR spent only about ten and a half
    separated weeks in Ireland and then primarily for the
    purpose of attending court proceedings. Although
    Derek and his extended family live in Ireland, these ties,
    without more, do not translate to habitual residence. As
    of March 30, 2011, any objective observer of the facts
    of JMR’s everyday life would not call Ireland the
    child’s home.
    The district court recognized that JMR’s life was
    firmly situated in Illinois but held that his residence in
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    the United States was only “temporary” and “contingent”
    based on the evidence of the last shared intent of his
    parents about where he would live. The last time Mary
    and Derek agreed on anything, they agreed that their
    son should be raised in Ireland; this parental intent to
    raise JMR in Ireland and his presence there during his
    first seven months were enough to establish his habitual
    residence in Ireland as of the fall of 2007. When
    in early November 2007 Mary abandoned the couple’s
    earlier plans and relocated with JMR to Illinois, she did
    so unilaterally, and the district court chose to disregard
    her unilateral intent. The court held that Mary “was
    fully aware” that JMR’s stay in Illinois depended on the
    outcome of the Irish custody proceedings, so her “hopes
    and desires” about JMR’s life were ineffective to
    establish his habitual residence in the United States.
    The district court’s reliance on the parents’ last shared
    intent was misplaced, though perhaps understandable.
    Many Hague Convention cases emphasize the last
    shared intent of the parents as an important factor in the
    analysis of a child’s habitual residence. But the habitual-
    residence inquiry remains a flexible one, sensitive to the
    unique circumstances of the case and informed by
    common sense. The parents’ last shared intent is one
    fact among others, and indeed may be a very important
    fact in some cases. But it is not a uniformly applicable
    “test” for determining habitual residence, as the district
    court seemed to think.
    Not all circuits agree on the role or significance of
    parental intent in resolving habitual-residence questions.
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    In one of the earliest American applications of the
    Hague Convention, the Sixth Circuit held that “[t]o deter-
    mine the habitual residence, the court must focus on
    the child, not the parents, and examine past experience,
    not future intentions.” Friedrich, 
    983 F.2d at 1401
    . In
    Friedrich an American woman married a German man
    and they had a son. When the child was a year and a
    half, she separated from her husband and moved with
    the child from Germany to the United States with-
    out the father’s knowledge or consent. In the ensuing
    Hague Convention proceedings, she claimed that her son
    habitually resided in the United States simply because
    she wanted to raise him there, even though the child
    had been born in Germany and had spent his entire life
    prior to removal there. The court rejected her argument:
    All of the factors listed by Mrs. Friedrich pertain to the
    future. Moreover, they reflect the intentions of Mrs.
    Friedrich; it is the habitual residence of the child
    that must be determined. Mrs. Friedrich undoubtedly
    established ties between Thomas and the United
    States and may well have intended for Thomas to
    move to the United States at some time in the future.
    But before Mrs. Friedrich removed Thomas to the
    United States without the knowledge or consent of
    Mr. Friedrich, Thomas had resided exclusively in
    Germany. Any future plans that Mrs. Friedrich had for
    Thomas to reside in the United States are irrelevant to
    our inquiry.
    
    Id.
     (emphases added).
    So the Sixth Circuit focuses on habitual residence
    from the child’s perspective, downplaying parental intent.
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    See 
    id.
     The Third and Eighth Circuits have generally
    followed suit. See, e.g., Feder v. Evans-Feder, 
    63 F.3d 217
    ,
    224 (3d Cir. 1995) (“[A] child’s habitual residence is
    the place where he or she has been physically present
    for an amount of time sufficient for acclimatization
    and which has a ‘degree of settled purpose’ from the
    child’s perspective. . . . [A] determination of whether any
    particular place satisfies this standard must focus on the
    child and consists of an analysis of the child’s circum-
    stances in that place and the parents’ present, shared
    intentions . . . .” (emphases added)); Barzilay,
    
    600 F.3d at 918
     (8th Cir.) (“The ‘settled purpose’ of a
    family’s move to a new country is a central element of the
    habitual residence inquiry. . . . [T]he settled purpose
    must be from the child’s perspective, although parental
    intent is also taken into account.” (emphasis added)
    (internal quotation marks omitted)).
    On the other hand, the Ninth Circuit emphasizes
    the parents’ perspective, explaining in its influential
    opinion in Mozes that the concept of habitual residence
    is based on the “settled purpose” to live in a particular
    place. 
    239 F.3d at 1074
    . It is not the child’s purpose
    that matters, however. “[T]he intention or purpose
    which has to be taken into account is that of the person
    or persons entitled to fix the place of the child’s resi-
    dence”—usually, the parents. 
    Id. at 1076
     (internal quota-
    tion marks omitted). When parents jointly intend to
    raise a child in a place and actually live there, that
    place becomes the child’s habitual residence. The child’s
    habitual residence may change later if the parents
    mutually intend to abandon the residence in favor of a
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    new one, but only a shared intent will do; the unilateral
    intent of a single parent will not. 
    Id. at 1075-77
    .
    This is not to say that the Ninth Circuit ignores the
    child’s perspective entirely. In some circumstances “a
    child’s life may become so firmly embedded in the
    new country as to make it habitually resident even
    though there be lingering parental intentions to the con-
    trary.” 
    Id. at 1078
    . But “in the absence of settled parental
    intent, courts should be slow to infer from such
    contacts that an earlier habitual residence has been aban-
    doned.” 
    Id. at 1079
    . A court should infer a change in
    habitual residence only where “the objective facts
    point unequivocally to a person’s ordinary or habitual
    residence being in a particular place”; that is, when
    the court “can say with confidence that the child’s
    relative attachments to the two countries have changed
    to the point where requiring return to the original
    forum would now be tantamount to taking the child out
    of the family and social environment in which its life
    has developed.” 
    Id. at 1081
     (internal quotation marks
    omitted).
    A majority of the circuits have preferred the Ninth
    Circuit’s approach and adopted the so-called “Mozes
    framework.” See Gitter, 
    396 F.3d at 131
     (2d Cir.);
    Maxwell v. Maxwell, 
    588 F.3d 245
    , 251 (4th Cir. 2009);
    Ruiz, 
    392 F.3d at 1252
     (11th Cir.). We too have “adopted
    a version of the analysis set out by the Ninth Circuit
    in Mozes.” Norinder, 
    657 F.3d at
    534 (citing Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 715
    ). Conventional wisdom thus recognizes a split
    between the circuits that follow Mozes and those that use
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    a more child-centric approach, but we think the dif-
    ferences are not as great as they might seem. Although
    the Third, Sixth, and Eighth Circuits focus on the child’s
    perspective, they consider parental intent, too. In Feder
    the Third Circuit observed that the inquiry into a
    child’s habitual residence “must focus on the child and
    consists of an analysis of the child’s circumstances in
    that place and the parents’ present, shared intentions
    regarding their child’s presence there.” 
    63 F.3d at 224
     (em-
    phasis added). Feder reversed the district court’s habitual-
    residence determination precisely because the district
    court had given insufficient attention to the intentions
    of one of the parents. See 
    id.
     Similarly, in the Eighth
    Circuit, “[t]he ‘settled purpose’ of a family’s move to a
    new country is a central element of the habitual
    residence inquiry. . . . [T]he settled purpose must be
    from the child’s perspective, although parental intent is
    also taken into account.” Barzilay, 
    600 F.3d at 918
     (emphasis
    added).
    The same is true on the other side. Although the
    Mozes framework focuses on the shared intent of the
    parents, the child’s “acclimatization” in a country has
    an important role to play. Indeed, the Ninth Circuit
    explained in Mozes that “a child’s life may become so
    firmly embedded in the new country as to make it habitu-
    ally resident even though there be lingering parental
    intentions to the contrary.” 
    239 F.3d at 1078
    . We have
    emphasized that the Mozes approach is “flexible” and
    takes account of “the realities of children’s and family’s
    lives despite the parent’s hopes for the future.” Koch,
    
    450 F.3d at 715-16
    .
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    In substance, all circuits—ours included—consider
    both parental intent and the child’s acclimatization, dif-
    fering only in their emphasis. The crux of disagreement
    is how much weight to give one or the other, especially
    where the evidence conflicts. See Karkkainen, 
    445 F.3d at 297
     (describing the disagreement among the circuits as
    a difference of opinion about how to “weigh [parental
    intent and the child’s acclimatization] against each other
    if they conflict[]”). We have not yet had occasion
    to resolve how to balance the parents’ and child’s per-
    spectives, but nothing in our caselaw justifies the over-
    whelming weight the district court gave the parents’
    last shared intent at the expense of the undisputed evi-
    dence of JMR’s acclimatization. To repeat, in loosely
    adopting the Mozes framework, we highlighted its flexi-
    bility. See Koch, 
    450 F.3d at 715
    . We emphasized that
    the inquiry is “not . . . rigid” and “does not require
    courts to ignore reality,” 
    id. at 716
    , and noted that the
    Ninth Circuit had acknowledged as much when it said
    in a subsequent case that “it was ‘keenly aware of the
    flexible, fact-specific nature of the habitual residence
    inquiry envisioned by the Convention,’ ” 
    id.
     (quoting
    Holder, 
    392 F.3d at 1015
    ).
    In the final analysis, the court’s focus must remain
    on “the child[]’s habitual residence.” Holder, 
    392 F.3d at 1016
     (emphasis added). Shared parental intent may be a
    proper starting point in many cases because “[p]arental
    intent acts as a surrogate” in cases involving very
    young children for whom the concept of acclimatization
    has little meaning. 
    Id. at 1016-17
    . “Acclimatization is an
    ineffectual standard by which to judge habitual
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    residence in such circumstances because the child lacks
    the ability to truly acclimatize to a new environment.”
    Karkkainen, 
    445 F.3d at 296
    . On the other hand, an em-
    phasis on shared parental intent “does not work when . . .
    the parents are estranged essentially from the outset.”
    Kijowska, 
    463 F.3d at 587
    . In short, the concept of “last
    shared parental intent” is not a fixed doctrinal require-
    ment, and we think it unwise to set in stone the
    relative weights of parental intent and the child’s ac-
    climatization. The habitual-residence inquiry remains
    essentially fact-bound, practical, and unencumbered
    with rigid rules, formulas, or presumptions. See
    Kijowska, 
    463 F.3d at 586
    ; Karkkainen, 
    445 F.3d at 291
    ;
    Friedrich, 
    983 F.2d at 1401
    ; Re Bates, No. CA 122/89.
    Here, all relevant indicators point to Illinois as JMR’s
    habitual residence. We already have discussed JMR’s
    perspective; by all accounts and by any measure, Illinois
    was his home. That leaves the matter of how to weigh
    parental intent. On this issue the district court erred
    by heavily weighting the parents’ last shared intent.
    That might make sense when both parents have the
    right to fix the child’s place of residence, but shared
    intent has less salience when only one parent has the
    legal right to do so. “[T]he intention or purpose which
    has to be taken into account is that of the person or
    persons entitled to fix the place of the child’s residence.”
    Mozes, 
    239 F.3d at 1076
     (emphasis added) (internal quota-
    tion marks omitted). Most often two parents exercise
    that authority jointly, but not always. Here, Mary had
    sole custody under Irish law from the time of JMR’s
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    birth until March 2011; as such, she had the exclusive
    right to fix the place of JMR’s residence.
    Because Mary had the lawful authority to relocate
    without Derek’s consent, JMR’s residence in Illinois
    was neither “temporary” in fact nor wrongful as a
    matter of law under the Hague Convention. Moreover,
    the actual facts of JMR’s life in Orland Park and his thor-
    oughgoing acclimatization there for almost all of his
    life suffice to establish the United States as JMR’s
    habitual residence notwithstanding Derek’s objections.
    Mary and Derek were “estranged essentially from the
    outset.” Kijowska, 
    463 F.3d at 587
    . Under the circumstances
    here, JMR’s acclimatization in Illinois overwhelmingly
    outweighs the last shared parental intent. Immediately
    prior to March 30, 2011, when the alleged wrongful
    retention occurred, JMR’s life was in Illinois, and legiti-
    mately so. Based on a commonsense view of all the evi-
    dence, we “can say with confidence that the child’s rela-
    tive attachments to the two countries have changed to
    the point where requiring return to [Ireland] would now
    be tantamount to taking the child out of the family
    and social environment in which its life has developed.”
    Mozes, 
    239 F.3d at 1081
     (internal quotation marks omitted).
    Accordingly, immediately prior to March 30, 2011, JMR
    was habitually resident in Illinois, so sending him to
    Ireland was not sending him home. See Holder, 
    392 F.3d at 1019
     (“Simply put, would returning the children to Ger-
    many be tantamount to sending them home?”). Mary and
    Derek are obviously locked in an international struggle
    over JMR’s custody, and the potential for a jurisdictional
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    conflict remains. But the Hague Convention does not
    provide a procedure for resolving the disputed jurisdic-
    tional and merits claims in this child-custody battle.
    Because JMR was habitually resident in Illinois, Mary
    did not wrongfully retain him in the United States. The
    district court should not have ordered the child returned
    to Ireland. For the foregoing reasons, we R EVERSE
    the district court’s order and R EMAND this case for
    further proceedings consistent with this opinion.8
    8
    Although the Supreme Court did not decide the matter in
    Chafin, and the parties have not briefed the question here,
    we think it clear that the court has the equitable authority to
    issue an order requiring JMR’s return to the United States.
    That’s the position of the U.S. Department of State, the desig-
    nated Central Authority for assisting the implementation of
    the Hague Convention in the United States. On its behalf the
    United States filed an amicus curiae brief in Chafin explaining
    its position that because the court has the inherent equitable
    power to order the child’s re-return, an appeal of a return
    order under the Hague Convention does not become moot by
    the return of the child. See Br. for the U.S. as Amicus Curiae
    Supporting Pet’r at 14-18, Chafin v. Chafin, 
    133 S. Ct. 1017
     (2013)
    (No. 11-1347), 
    2012 WL 7069914
     at *14-18; see also id. at 15, 
    2012 WL 7069914
     at *15 (“If the court of appeals concluded that
    the district court’s return order was erroneous because
    the United States was the country of the child’s habitual
    residence, it could reverse the district court’s decision and
    order respondent to bring the child back to the United States.”).
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    E ASTERBROOK, Chief Judge, dubitante. Chafin v. Chafin, 
    133 S. Ct. 81
     (2012), shows that this litigation is not moot,
    despite the fact that JMR is in Ireland. Still, I find it hard
    to understand why this litigation continues or how
    any good can come of it.
    The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Interna-
    tional Child Abduction specifies where a child is to
    stay while the normal legal procedures for determining
    ultimate custody run their course. Yet here the order or
    decision has been reversed. The courts of Ireland have
    reached a final decision and awarded custody to Derek
    Redmond. The courts of Illinois also have reached a
    final decision and concluded that they have no warrant
    to disagree with the Irish decision. Unlike the common
    situation in which each parent runs to the jurisdiction he
    or she thinks favorable and obtains an ex parte order
    of custody, both the Irish and the Illinois proceedings
    were adversarial, producing judgments that bind both
    parents in personam. This litigation under the Hague
    Convention did not even begin until both Ireland and
    Illinois had made their decisions about JMR’s custody.
    Instead of asking officials in Illinois to send JMR to
    Ireland, Derek filed suit under the Hague Convention.
    Mary Redmond not only is bound by the Irish judg-
    ment awarding custody to Derek but also promised to
    obey that judgment. Her promise was essential to ob-
    taining permission to travel with JMR to Illinois, pur-
    portedly to tidy up a few personal matters in prepara-
    tion for a long-term stay in Ireland. Mary broke her
    promise and defied the Irish judgment. Ireland considers
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    her a fugitive from justice (her contempt of court is obvi-
    ous), which also makes it impossible to see how she can
    realistically hope to obtain lawful custody of JMR in
    Illinois. It is not simply that she violated both a valid
    judicial order and her own undertaking; it is that she
    has revealed that she will violate any order in Derek’s
    favor. No legal system can accept that “heads I win, tails
    you lose” approach. See Homola v. McNamara, 
    59 F.3d 647
     (7th Cir. 1995). Mary has disqualified herself as a
    candidate for favorable treatment by the judiciary of
    any state or nation.
    Yet the parties have not asked us to dismiss the
    federal suit on the ground that the suits in Ireland
    and Illinois are over. Nor has Derek invoked the Irish
    judgment as a ground of issue or claim preclusion, even
    though the Irish court not only awarded Derek joint
    custody as a matter of Ireland’s domestic law but also
    concluded, under the Hague Convention, that Mary’s
    custody of JMR in Illinois was wrongful. The parties’
    indifference to principles of preclusion is why my col-
    leagues proceed to render a second decision under the
    Hague Convention—one at odds with Ireland’s. This is
    within the judicial power, given Chafin, but teeters on
    the brink of being an advisory opinion. Under Chafin the
    district court has the legal power to direct a parent to
    return a child to the United States (see slip op. 40 n.8),
    but given the Irish judgment—whose validity the
    parties do not question—it would be an abuse of discre-
    tion to issue such an order to Derek.
    That’s not the only problem with this litigation. My
    colleagues discuss at length where JMR was “habitually
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    resident” when Mary violated the Irish judgment and
    retained JMR in Illinois. The premise of this discussion
    is that JMR was lawfully present in Illinois, in
    Mary’s custody, beginning in November 2007, when she
    unilaterally removed JMR from Ireland. JMR’s presence
    in Illinois was lawful, and therefore counts toward estab-
    lishing “habitual residence”, because under Irish law
    Derek, as an unmarried father, had no right to control
    his child’s residence. Derek did not obtain parental
    rights, as a matter of Irish law, until February 2011, when
    an Irish court granted his petition for guardianship
    and joint custody of JMR.
    This is right from the perspective of Ireland. Is it right
    from the perspective of Illinois too? What happens to
    the “habitual residence” issue when the jurisdiction in
    which the child is physically present does not view a
    change of residence as valid?
    That question potentially matters because, although
    Ireland treats unmarried fathers as having no custodial
    rights, Illinois has a different approach. JMR was born
    in Illinois, and Derek acknowledged being the father.
    His name is on JMR’s birth certificate. Under Illinois
    law, an acknowledged but unmarried father has some
    custodial rights, which go with obligations to support
    the child. 750 ILCS §45/14; see also slip op. 19 n.4. I do not
    want to resolve any issue of Illinois law (my colleagues
    correctly state that rights under the Hague Convention
    are a matter of federal law), but Illinois could well
    deem Mary’s action in 2007 to have been a violation of
    Derek’s rights—as Illinois understands those rights,
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    though not as Ireland understands them. And if Illinois
    would deem JMR’s presence in Illinois to be unlawful,
    how can the time he spent in Illinois count toward ac-
    quiring “habitual residence” in Illinois?
    My colleagues recognize that time in Illinois would
    not count toward habitual residence if Mary’s unilateral
    removal of JMR from Derek’s custody had violated
    Irish law. Slip op. 30–31, citing Kijowska v. Haines, 
    463 F.3d 583
    , 587 (7th Cir. 2006). So why would time in Illinois
    count toward habitual residence if Mary’s unilateral
    removal of JMR from Derek’s custody violated Illinois
    law? My colleagues do not address that question—nor
    did the parties, though we issued an order after oral
    argument directing them to do so. Perhaps they misun-
    derstood the question. But the result is an opinion
    that discusses a subject that may matter to other cases
    (though likely not to this one) without considering
    a potentially vital issue.
    I am not sure how this issue should be resolved, and
    I am content to let it pass because nothing we say here
    is likely to affect JMR’s ultimate placement. The courts
    of Ireland and Illinois have made their decisions in ad-
    versarial litigation. It is time for this federal overlay
    to end and the subject be returned to the domestic-
    relations apparatus of Illinois and Ireland, where
    it should have been all along.
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