Cigana v. Moreau CA2/3 ( 2015 )


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  • Filed 10/23/15 Cigana v. Moreau CA2/3
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    IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
    SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT
    DIVISION THREE
    STEPHANIE CIGANA,                                                       B255230
    Plaintiff and Respondent,                                      (Los Angeles County
    Super. Ct. No. BD592858)
    v.
    PHILIP MOREAU,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    APPEAL from orders of the Superior Court of Los Angeles County,
    Scott Gordon, Judge. Affirmed in part, reversed in part, with directions.
    Paul Kujawsky for Defendant and Appellant.
    Law Offices of Jeffrey W. Doeringer and Jeffrey W. Doeringer for Plaintiff and
    Respondent.
    _____________________
    INTRODUCTION
    Appellant Philip Moreau appeals from a restraining order issued in favor of his
    wife, Stephanie Cigana, pursuant to the Domestic Violence Protection Act, Family Code
    section 6200 et seq. (the DVPA). Moreau also appeals from a custody order granting
    Cigana sole physical custody of the couple’s daughter in connection with the DVPA
    restraining order. Moreau contends the trial court’s evidentiary rulings and management
    of the evidentiary hearing deprived him of his right to due process. We conclude the
    court acted within its discretion and that the domestic violence restraining order and
    physical custody order are supported by the evidence.
    Respondent Cigana challenges the legal custody order on the ground that the
    finding of domestic violence raised a mandatory rebuttable presumption against granting
    Moreau joint legal custody. (See Fam. Code, § 3044, subd. (a).) While the presumption
    is rebuttable, the statute requires the court to consider several enumerated factors before
    granting a domestic violence perpetrator sole or joint legal or physical custody. (Id.,
    subd. (b).) Because the record does not indicate whether the trial court considered these
    mandatory factors before granting Moreau joint legal custody, we will reverse the legal
    custody order and remand the matter to the trial court for the limited purpose of
    determining and setting forth findings as to whether Moreau should be granted joint legal
    custody under the factors set forth in Family Code section 3044, subdivision (b). In all
    other respects, the domestic violence restraining order and custody order are affirmed.
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    FACTS1 AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
    1.     Family Background
    Moreau and Cigana met in 1999 and married in 2004. Their daughter, Laetitia,
    was born in 2006. Moreau has a teenage daughter from a previous marriage, Kelly, who
    has lived with Moreau and Cigana on a half-time basis since 2009.
    In 1994, Moreau founded Monaco Baking Company (Monaco Baking). In 2008,
    he gave Cigana half of his shares in the company. At the time of the events preceding the
    restraining order, Houdini Inc. (Houdini) owned 75 percent of Monaco Baking; Moreau
    and Cigana were minority shareholders and both worked for the company.
    2.     Cigana’s Request for a DVPA Restraining Order
    On November 6, 2013, Moreau and Cigana met with a representative from
    Houdini, Bill Shea, in Moreau’s office. According to Shea, Moreau “berat[ed]” Cigana
    during the meeting over her management of Monaco Baking, until Cigana finally
    declared, “ ‘I can’t do this anymore,’ ” and told Shea, “ ‘either he goes or I go.’ ” Cigana
    then turned to Moreau and said, “ ‘I want you out of the house. We’re going to get a
    divorce.’ ” Shea testified that he previously observed Moreau lose his temper four or five
    times at work, during which Moreau had similarly berated and belittled other employees.
    After Cigana left the room, Moreau turned to Shea and said, “ ‘This is why people
    buy guns and kill people.’ ” Shea reported Moreau’s statement to Houdini’s owner and
    the company’s human resources department. Shea also called Cigana to warn her about
    what Moreau said. He made the reports because he was concerned for Cigana’s safety
    and the safety of everyone at Monaco Baking.
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    We state the facts in the light most favorable to the trial court’s order, resolving all
    conflicts and indulging all reasonable inferences in support of the court’s ruling. (In re
    Marriage of Rossi (2001) 
    90 Cal. App. 4th 34
    , 40; see In re Marriage of Zimmerman
    (1993) 
    16 Cal. App. 4th 556
    , 561 [substantial evidence rule applies to trial court’s implied
    factual findings, while resulting legal conclusions based on those findings are reviewed
    for abuse of discretion].)
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    Cigana returned to the meeting moments later, unaware of what Moreau had said,
    and verbally resigned from Monaco Baking. A few days later she submitted a written
    resignation. Shea took the resignation, but told Cigana he would hold it because he
    intended to convince her to stay. According to Shea, Moreau later told him, “ ‘You
    should keep [Cigana] and let me go.’ ” “ ‘[Cigana] is very talented and she’ll do a good
    job for you. It’s time for me to move on.’ ” After Moreau refused to submit a written
    resignation, the board of directors terminated Moreau from his position as Monaco
    Baking’s executive director. Cigana participated in the meeting, but abstained from the
    vote to terminate Moreau.
    On November 22, 2013, Cigana returned from work to find Moreau in a very
    angry mood and somewhat drunk. He began criticizing Cigana, prompting her to lock
    herself in the bedroom to avoid another argument. Despite Cigana making it clear that
    she did not wish to speak with Moreau, he repeatedly came to the room to insult her,
    eventually using tools to unlock the door. Cigana retreated to the bathroom and locked
    the door, but Moreau continued to harass her by yelling through the door.
    Moreau ultimately unlocked the bathroom door and forced himself in, this time
    “holding a small black axe in his right hand[] and another tool in his left hand,” later
    identified as an awl. Though he never overtly threatened to kill Cigana, Moreau held the
    axe about a foot from her face, saying, “ ‘Now we’re going to talk,’ ” or “ ‘Are you going
    to listen to me now?’ ” Cigana was terrified and rushed to find Laetitia, who Moreau had
    apparently instructed to lock herself in her room. When Laetitia heard Cigana at her
    door, she let her mother in. Cigana locked the door and called the police.
    When the police arrived they were unable to find an axe. Absent a threat of
    violence, the police told Cigana the incident was merely a “domestic disturbance.” The
    police did not prepare a report.
    Though Cigana was shocked by Moreau’s conduct and distressed by the police
    reaction, she was unwilling to leave the home without Laetitia. Moreau had told her he
    would accuse her of kidnapping if she left the home with their daughter. Cigana put
    Laetitia to bed and slept in her daughter’s room that night with the door locked. Later,
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    Cigana bought a chain lock and safety bar to secure the guest bedroom, where she slept
    following the incident.
    On December 5, 2013, Cigana came home from work to find Moreau in a bad
    mood. Realizing it was going to be “another difficult evening,” Cigana turned on her
    cellular phone’s microphone to record the anticipated dispute. As Moreau played with
    the couple’s daughter, he made comments about how he was going to have Cigana’s
    parents and brother put in jail and ruin Cigana financially. When Moreau eventually
    realized Cigana was recording the conversation, he became very angry. After he grabbed
    the phone and attempted to delete the recording, Moreau took the phone outside and
    dropped it in the jacuzzi. When Cigana attempted to retrieve the phone, Moreau reached
    into the jacuzzi, grabbed the phone, threw it on the ground and began stomping on it.
    Ultimately, Moreau took a hammer to the phone, smashing the glass until the phone was
    dead. Cigana grabbed Laetitia, locked herself and her daughter in the guestroom, secured
    the door with the safety bar, and called the police.
    The police could not find the broken phone, but did interview Laetitia, who
    confirmed Cigana’s account. The officers advised Cigana to get a restraining order and
    assisted her with gathering things so she and Laetitia could stay at a friend’s house that
    night.
    On December 6, 2013, Moreau and Cigana attended a parent-teacher conference at
    Laetitia’s school. The teacher advised them that Laetitia had spoken to her about what
    occurred the night before. Though the teacher did not disclose the details of what Laetitia
    said, Moreau immediately started raising his voice, accusing Cigana of manipulating
    Laetitia. When Cigana attempted to leave the school in a separate car, Moreau used his
    car to block her exit. He then came to Cigana’s window and said, “ ‘You want to know
    what’s going to happen? I am going to ruin you. Ruin your family. Destroy you. And
    then when that’s all over I will kill you. That’s what’s going to happen!’ ”
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    On December 6, 2013, the day of the parent teacher conference, Cigana filed a
    petition for dissolution of her marriage to Moreau.
    On December 7, 2013, Cigana went to the family home to drop off Laetitia.
    Moreau began harassing Cigana as she attempted to gather clothing and personal items.
    While she was loading a bag of clothing into the trunk of her car, Moreau approached
    her. Moreau told Cigana he “wanted to make sure [she] was getting his new flyer” and
    showed her a printout of a nude photo of her. He told her it was “the photo-of-the-day,”
    which he had sent to some of her coworkers.2 When Kelly, Moreau’s older daughter,
    came outside, Moreau crushed the paper and rushed into the house. He called through
    the door for Kelly to come inside, but she refused until he calmed down. Moreau
    continued to yell so loudly through the door that two neighbors stopped to ask if they
    should call the police.
    On December 10, 2013, Cigana filed a request for a domestic violence restraining
    order against Moreau. The court issued a temporary restraining order and custody order
    in advance of a full evidentiary hearing. The custody order granted the parents joint legal
    and physical custody, and provided for Laetitia to spend weekdays with Cigana and all
    but the fifth weekend of the month with Moreau.
    3.     Evidentiary Hearing on the DVPA Restraining Order
    The three-day hearing on Cigana’s restraining order request commenced on
    January 24, 2014. Moreau denied that he ever threatened Cigana, and his account of the
    foregoing confrontations was markedly different from the evidence Cigana presented.
    Contrary to Shea’s testimony concerning the November 6, 2013 incident, Moreau
    denied making the statement, “ ‘This is why people buy guns and kill people.’ ”
    According to Moreau, he said nothing to Shea after Cigana left the room, and he ran after
    Cigana to apologize for the argument. Moreau further maintained that the meeting had
    been orchestrated by Cigana and Shea to oust him from Monaco Baking. On cross-
    examination, Moreau’s counsel questioned Shea about whether he and Cigana had been
    2
    As far as Cigana knows, Moreau did not actually send the picture to anyone.
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    in discussions for “at least a couple of months leading up to [the] incident on
    November 6, [about how] the two of you wanted [Moreau] out of the company.” The
    court permitted Shea to answer the question over Cigana’s counsel’s objection. Shea
    denied having the discussion with Cigana.
    Moreau’s counsel pursued a similar line of questioning during his cross-
    examination of Cigana. Over her counsel’s objection, the court permitted Moreau to
    elicit testimony from Cigana regarding her involvement in Moreau’s termination from
    Monaco Baking. Cigana testified that she advised Moreau to take the separation package
    he had been offered, but she otherwise refused to involve herself in the separation
    negotiations and abstained from the vote to terminate Moreau. When Moreau’s counsel
    asked Cigana to confirm she was the one “who wanted [Moreau] ousted from Monaco
    Baking,” the court again overruled her counsel’s objection. Consistent with Shea’s
    testimony, Cigana testified that she resigned first, and it was only after Moreau decided to
    leave that she resolved to stay with the company.3
    Moreau testified that Cigana’s request for a restraining order was “an elaborate
    fabrication” to deprive him of his company. He attempted to bolster the assertion, in part,
    by questioning Cigana’s father about an email he sent his daughter advising her to “set
    herself up as to appear to be the victim.” Though the trial court questioned the relevance
    of the inquiry to the domestic violence restraining order, the court permitted Moreau to
    pursue it. Cigana’s father testified that the advice related to Cigana’s resignation and the
    fact that Monaco Baking was performing poorly financially; it had nothing to do with
    portraying herself as Moreau’s victim.
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    The court also permitted Moreau’s counsel to elicit testimony from Cigana, over
    her counsel’s objection, regarding a dispute Moreau had with Houdini concerning the
    couple’s personal liability on a line of credit. Cigana confirmed that she sided with
    Houdini in the dispute.
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    Moreau also testified that Cigana lied about the December 5, 2013 incident
    involving her cellular phone, and suggested again that she instigated the incident as part
    of a conspiracy to oust him from Monaco Baking. According to Moreau, he did not
    smash the phone, but he did take it from Cigana because she had been using it to secretly
    record “information about what [Moreau] was going to do legally against the business
    and against her.” In Moreau’s version of events, Cigana surreptitiously placed the phone
    on the dining table to record him while he played with Laetitia, then she began “talking
    about the business,” making “bizarre and provocative” comments, and “fishing for
    information to give to [his] partners.” When he discovered he was being recorded,
    Moreau testified that he grabbed the phone and questioned Cigana about the recording, at
    which point Cigana attacked him, forcing him to flee to the outside deck where the
    jacuzzi was located. Moreau never said what he ultimately did with the phone.
    Moreau denied holding an axe to Cigana’s face and making death threats against
    her. Though he sent unsolicited pictures of Cigana in a bikini to Cigana’s counsel, he
    denied that he had any nude photos of her. Moreau’s evidence also included testimony
    from two of the couple’s friends, who confirmed that they had never seen Moreau drunk
    and had no concerns about whether he was a good parent or dangerous to children.
    4.     Custody and Summation Arguments
    After the parties completed their evidentiary presentations on the restraining order,
    the court asked them to meet and confer then submit their requests regarding custody.
    Cigana requested that Laetitia spend the weekdays with her and alternating weekends
    with each parent. Cigana based her request on the fact that she had moved to a residence
    very close to Laetitia’s school, while Moreau continued to reside at the marital home,
    which was significantly farther away. Moreau requested a “3, 5, 5, 3” arrangement—the
    same custody arrangement he had for his daughter Kelly—under which Laetitia would
    spend two sets of weekdays and two sets of weekends a month with each parent. Moreau
    argued his request was reasonable in view of the fact that he was unemployed and thus
    had the ability to care for Laetitia during the day, while Cigana, in contrast, had assumed
    additional responsibilities at Monaco Baking. The court inquired about the distance from
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    Moreau’s home to Laetitia’s school, then asked for “[a]rgument on the whole thing,”
    reiterating, “I don’t need any further testimony. The whole thing.”
    Cigana’s counsel focused on the several confrontations with Moreau that
    precipitated Cigana’s filing of the restraining order petition and the evidence that
    corroborated her version of events. Moreau’s counsel argued Cigana filed the petition to
    assist herself and Houdini in their business dispute with Moreau, citing the timing of the
    alleged incidents and the fact that Cigana continued to interact with Moreau even after he
    allegedly threatened her life. Counsel argued Cigana’s conduct showed she did not have
    a “reasonable belief that she was being disturbed or assaulted” and that her charges of
    domestic violence were “simply a painted picture to try to gain an advantage in the
    collateral [business dispute].”
    5.     The DVPA Restraining Order and Custody Order
    The court granted Cigana a two-year domestic violence restraining order and sole
    physical custody of Laetitia, with visitation for Moreau on the first, third and fifth
    weekends of each month. The court preserved its prior order for joint legal custody.
    In its oral statement of decision, the court acknowledged that “[t]he parties are
    clearly in a business dispute” and “are intertwining [their] personal relationship within
    that.” While the court recognized this raised “some interesting issues with regard to
    [Cigana’s] credibility,” it observed that the “strongest evidence with regard to [Moreau’s]
    conduct” was his demeanor “during the course of the hearing,” which included “him
    mocking, making mocking gestures at [Cigana], [and] rolling his eyes.” The court
    characterized Moreau’s conduct as “disturbing,” noting it was consistent with the tone of
    inflammatory statements he made in emails to Cigana, and tended to corroborate the
    evidence of harassment and emotional instability on Moreau’s part. In particular, the
    court found the evidence left no reason to doubt Shea’s testimony concerning Moreau’s
    “comments at the meeting with regard to getting a gun.” Concluding with the
    observation that “[t]he purpose of the DVPA is to allow parties to go through the divorce
    process in a peaceful [and] safe manner,” the court found the evidence sufficient to
    support Cigana’s request for a restraining order.
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    DISCUSSION
    1.     The Court Did Not Abuse Its Discretion in Managing and Controlling the
    Evidentiary Hearing on the DVPA Restraining Order
    The DVPA’s purpose “is to prevent acts of domestic violence, abuse, and sexual
    abuse and to provide for a separation of the persons involved in the domestic violence for
    a period sufficient to enable these persons to seek a resolution of the causes of the
    violence.” (Fam. Code, § 6220.) To achieve this purpose, the DVPA authorizes the court
    to issue an order enjoining a party from, among other things, “stalking, threatening, . . .
    harassing, . . . coming within a specified distance of, or disturbing the peace of the other
    party.” (Fam. Code, § 6320.)
    Several times during the hearing on Cigana’s restraining order request, the trial
    court reminded the parties to keep the DVPA’s purpose in mind and to direct their
    evidentiary presentations to issues relevant to this purpose, in order to make the best use
    of the court’s limited time and resources. On appeal, Moreau contends the court’s efforts
    to focus the parties’ presentations went too far and, in his case, “eliminate[d] [his]
    defense completely.” To support the assertion, Moreau quotes a handful of exchanges in
    which the court questioned how evidence related to the couple’s business dealings with
    Monaco Baking and Houdini was relevant to the allegations underpinning Cigana’s
    request for a DVPA restraining order. Moreau argues the quoted passages confirm the
    court’s “blinkered view of the case,” and that by “refusing to consider the business-
    related evidence,” the court deprived him of due process and committed per se reversible
    error. Neither the law nor the record supports Moreau’s contention.
    Though “[t]he failure to accord a party litigant his constitutional right to due
    process is reversible per se” (In re Marriage of Carlsson (2008) 
    163 Cal. App. 4th 281
    ,
    293), not every ruling by a trial court that adversely affects a litigant’s evidentiary
    presentation rises to the level of constitutional error. On the contrary, the trial court
    unquestionably “has the power to rule on the admissibility of evidence, exclude proffered
    evidence that is deemed to be irrelevant, prejudicial or cumulative and expedite
    proceedings which, in the court’s view, are dragging on too long without significantly
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    aiding the trier of fact.” (Id. at p. 291.) It is only when the court abuses this discretion
    “ ‘in such manner as to prevent a full and fair opportunity to the parties to present all
    competent, relevant, and material evidence bearing upon any issue properly presented for
    determination’ ” that a litigant’s due process rights are implicated. (Elkins v. Superior
    Court (2007) 
    41 Cal. 4th 1337
    , 1357)
    The trial court has broad authority and a statutory duty to control trial proceedings,
    including the introduction and exclusion of evidence. (Evid. Code, §§ 320, 352.)
    Evidence Code section 765 directs the trial court to “exercise reasonable control over the
    mode of interrogation of a witness so as to make interrogation as rapid, as distinct, and as
    effective for the ascertainment of the truth, as may be, and to protect the witness from
    undue harassment or embarrassment.” Because the trial court has the power and the duty
    to exclude inadmissible, duplicative or unduly prejudicial evidence, “[i]t is well
    established that where questions are asked which are improper, the court acts within the
    scope of its duty in refusing to allow them to be answered, even though no objection [is]
    made. [Citations.]” (People v. White (1954) 
    43 Cal. 2d 740
    , 747; see also People v. Clark
    (1992) 
    3 Cal. 4th 41
    , 144.)
    Far from establishing per se reversible error, many of the passages quoted by
    Moreau reflect the court’s considered approach to its duty to control the trial proceedings
    and encourage the presentation of evidence that would best assist the court in its role as
    the trier of fact. In several of the passages cited, though the court raised questions about
    relevance, it nevertheless allowed Moreau’s counsel to pursue his line of questioning,
    while admonishing counsel to make the best use of his time by keeping the DVPA’s
    purpose in mind. In other instances when the court challenged the relevance of the
    testimony Moreau sought to elicit, Moreau’s counsel simply withdrew the question rather
    than make an offer of proof. If counsel, as the proponent of the evidence, could not
    articulate why it would be relevant, there is no basis to claim the court acted in error.
    (See Evid. Code, § 354.)
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    Furthermore, contrary to Moreau’s contention that the court’s rulings
    “eliminate[d] [his] defense completely,” our review of the record confirms that the court
    allowed Moreau wide latitude to prove his claim that Cigana fabricated the DVPA
    allegations purely to gain an advantage in the collateral business dispute. In several
    instances, as noted in our recitation of the evidence admitted at the hearing, the court
    overruled Cigana’s objections, allowing Moreau to elicit testimony concerning, among
    other things, whether Shea and Cigana had discussions about ousting Moreau from
    Monaco Baking; Cigana’s involvement in the separation negotiations and vote to
    terminate Moreau; Cigana’s role in Moreau’s dispute with Houdini over a line of credit;
    and Cigana’s father’s advice to “set herself up as to appear to be the victim” in tendering
    her resignation.
    The problem for Moreau was not, as he claims, that “[t]he court refused to
    consider [his] evidence.” Quite the contrary. The court considered Moreau’s evidence,
    and grasped his defense theory. The problem for Moreau was that the court simply did
    not find his theory compelling in light of all the other evidence presented. In its oral
    statement of decision, the court acknowledged that “[t]he parties are clearly in a business
    dispute” and recognized that this raised “some interesting issues with regard to [Cigana’s]
    credibility.” But even setting aside questions about Cigana’s credibility, the court found
    that Moreau’s inflammatory email messages and other communications, coupled with his
    emotional and provocative demeanor at the hearing, left no reason to question Shea’s
    testimony about Moreau’s statement, “ ‘This is why people buy guns and kill people.’ ”
    That statement, together with the evidence cited by the trial court and the reasonable
    inferences the court could draw from the evidence, was more than sufficient to support
    the court’s conclusion that a restraining order was warranted to prevent further acts of
    abuse and harassment. (Fam. Code, § 6220.) We conclude the court acted within its
    discretion and the DVPA restraining order was supported by the evidence.
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    2.     The Custody Order Is Supported by Sufficient Evidence; Moreau Forfeited
    His Objection by Failing to Raise It with the Trial Court
    Early in the proceedings, the court signaled to the parties that the hearing would
    have two phases: first, the DVPA restraining order; second custody and visitation. As a
    practical matter, this phased approach is sensible, because a finding of domestic violence
    precludes application of the preference favoring frequent contact with both parents and
    creates a rebuttable presumption that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody to
    the domestic violence perpetrator would be detrimental to the child’s best interest. (Fam.
    Code, § 3044, subd. (a).) This presumption does not eliminate the best interest of the
    child analysis, which remains the central element of any initial custody determination.
    (Keith R. v. Superior Court (2009) 
    174 Cal. App. 4th 1047
    , 1051.) The best interest
    analysis requires the court to consider evidence pertaining to the child’s health, safety and
    welfare, the nature and contact with the parents, and any history of abuse by one parent
    against the child or other parent. (Fam. Code, § 3011.)
    Because the court instructed the parties to focus their evidentiary presentation on
    the DVPA restraining order during the initial phase of the hearing, and received only the
    parties’ requests and arguments on custody, Moreau contends “there is no evidence to
    support the court’s [custody] ruling.” Additionally, because the court instructed the
    parties that it “[did not] need any further testimony” prior to summation arguments,
    despite having thrice instructed them not to elicit testimony directly related to custody
    during the restraining order phase, Moreau contends the court deprived him of his right to
    due process. Neither argument establishes reversible error.
    Though it is true that the court directed the parties to limit their evidentiary
    presentations to the DVPA restraining order, it is not the case, as Moreau contends, that
    the court ruled on custody in “an evidentiary vacuum.” On the contrary, our review of
    the record confirms that the court received ample evidence during the restraining order
    phase to make a determination under Family Code section 3011 concerning Laetitia’s
    best interests with respect to physical custody. Among other things, that evidence
    showed that Moreau’s irrational and harassing behavior had twice subjected Laetitia to
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    visits from the police, causing her in the most recent incident to disclose the troubles at
    home to her school teacher. The evidence also showed that Moreau continued to reside
    in the marital home, some 30 miles away from Laetitia’s school, while Cigana had moved
    to the same town where her daughter’s school was located. This evidence, which the
    court elicited from the parties in connection with discussing custody, also supported a
    reasonable inference that the weekday custody arrangement Moreau requested would not
    be in Laetitia’s best interest.
    As for Moreau’s contention that the court’s management of the proceedings
    deprived him of the opportunity to present direct evidence on the custody issue, we agree
    with Cigana that Moreau forfeited this objection by failing to raise it with the trial court.
    “ ‘An appellate court will ordinarily not consider procedural defects . . . in connection
    with relief sought or defenses asserted, where an objection could have been but was not
    presented to the lower court by some appropriate method.’ ” (Doers v. Golden Gate
    Bridge etc. Dist. (1979) 
    23 Cal. 3d 180
    , 184-185, fn. 1.) Where the claimed error involves
    the exclusion of evidence, the complaining party generally must preserve the issue by
    making an appropriate objection and offer of proof. (Evid. Code, § 354, subd. (a).)
    A complaining party is relieved of this obligation, however, where the court’s earlier
    rulings indicate an objection would be futile. (Id., subd. (b).)
    Moreau contends the court’s admonitions during the DVPA restraining order
    phase, and its statement, “I don’t need any further testimony,” made absolutely clear that
    an objection would be futile. We disagree. The court’s earlier admonitions all came
    during the restraining order phase of the hearing, but the court stipulated that it would
    receive direct evidence on custody once it had decided whether domestic violence
    occurred. When the court seemingly changed course after receiving the parties’ custody
    requests, and asked for argument on “the whole thing,” it plainly had determined that the
    evidence presented with respect to the restraining order was sufficient to make a ruling on
    custody as well. At that point it was incumbent upon Moreau to remind the court of its
    earlier stipulation and, if challenged, to make an offer of proof as to what new evidence
    he could present regarding custody. Had the offer of proof been compelling, and the
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    court nevertheless precluded the evidence notwithstanding its prior stipulation, we would
    be in a position to find an abuse of discretion. However, in view of the evidence
    supporting the court’s custody ruling, and absent Moreau’s offer of proof, we cannot
    assess whether a miscarriage of justice occurred. (See Evid. Code, § 354 [“A verdict or
    finding shall not be set aside, nor shall the judgment or decision based thereon be
    reversed, by reason of the erroneous exclusion of evidence unless the court which passes
    upon the effect of the error or errors is of the opinion that the error or errors complained
    of resulted in a miscarriage of justice”].) Having failed to adequately preserve the issue,
    Moreau has not met his burden of establishing reversible error.
    3.     The Court Failed to Make the Requisite Findings for Granting Joint Legal
    Custody
    Under Family Code section 3044, a finding of domestic violence creates a
    mandatory rebuttable presumption that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody
    to the domestic violence perpetrator would be detrimental to the child’s best interest.
    (See In re Marriage of Fajota (2014) 
    230 Cal. App. 4th 1487
    , 1498 [“The presumption
    [under section 3044] is rebuttable, but the court must apply the presumption in any
    situation in which a finding of domestic violence has been made”].) In determining
    whether the presumption has been rebutted, the statute directs that the trial court “shall
    consider all of the . . . factors” enumerated in section 3044, subdivision (b). (Italics
    added.) Here, the court failed to indicate on the record whether it considered these
    mandatory factors before granting Moreau joint legal custody. Both parties agree this
    was an abuse of discretion. Accordingly, we will reverse the joint legal custody order
    and remand the matter to the trial court for the limited purpose of determining and setting
    forth findings as to whether Moreau should be granted joint legal custody under the
    factors set forth in section 3044, subdivision (b).
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    4.     Nothing in the Record Indicates the Court Was Influenced by the Excluded
    Audio Recording
    During her cross-examination of Moreau concerning the nude picture incident,
    Cigana’s counsel sought to introduce an audiotape that Cigana recorded without
    Moreau’s consent. Counsel offered the recording to impeach Moreau’s testimony
    regarding statements he exchanged with his teenage daughter Kelly during the incident.
    After a separate hearing to assess the tape’s admissibility, the court excluded it from
    evidence pursuant to Penal Code section 632, subdivisions (a) and (d) on the ground that
    Cigana recorded it without the consent of all parties to the communication.4
    Notwithstanding the order excluding the tape, Moreau contends “[t]he court
    abused its discretion by relying on an illegal and inadmissible audio recording.”
    (Boldface omitted.) Moreau premises his argument on the “impossibility of ‘unringing
    the bell,’ ” stressing that the court twice reviewed a transcript of the recording before
    ruling on its admissibility. Contrary to the logic of Moreau’s contention, our
    presumption of correctness dictates a different conclusion.
    4
    Penal Code section 632, subdivision (a) prohibits the intentional recording of a
    “confidential communication” without the consent of all parties to the communication,
    and subdivision (d) precludes the admission into evidence of any recording made in
    violation of the statute in any judicial proceeding. As noted, the statute applies to
    “confidential communications,” which are defined in Penal Code section 632,
    subdivision (c) to include “any communication carried on in circumstances as may
    reasonably indicate that any party to the communication desires it to be confined to the
    parties thereto, but excludes a communication made in . . . any other circumstance in
    which the parties to the communication may reasonably expect that the communication
    may be overheard or recorded.” (Italics added.) Though not necessary to our resolution
    of the claimed error, we question whether Penal Code section 632 applied to the subject
    recording in view of the statute’s “confidential communication” requirement. The
    undisputed evidence, including testimony elicited by Moreau’s counsel during the
    admissibility hearing, established that the subject communications occurred largely
    outside the home, and were so loud as to be overheard by passing neighbors who stopped
    to ask whether they should call the police.
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    The most fundamental rule of appellate review is that “ ‘[a] judgment or order of
    the lower court is presumed correct. All intendments and presumptions are indulged to
    support it on matters as to which the record is silent, and error must be affirmatively
    shown. This is not only a general principle of appellate practice but an ingredient of the
    constitutional doctrine of reversible error.’ ” (Denham v. Superior Court (1970) 
    2 Cal. 3d 557
    , 564.)
    It is not enough for Moreau to simply argue that the trial court must have erred in
    view of the supposed “impossibility of ‘unringing the bell.’ ” As the appellant, Moreau
    bears the burden of overcoming the presumption of correctness by presenting a record
    that affirmatively demonstrates the court erroneously and prejudicially relied on the
    excluded audiotape. While Moreau asks this court to indulge outside-the-record
    “empirical research” that suggests judges are “unable to suppress inconvenient
    knowledge” and broad assertions about the “normal range of humanity’s intellectual
    powers to forget on command,” he fails to cite anything in the record suggesting these
    sweeping generalities applied to the trial court in this case. On the contrary, Moreau
    admits “[t]here is no implication that the trial judge was anything but as conscientious
    and scrupulous as he could be.” Enough said. Moreau has failed to establish reversible
    error with respect to the court’s exclusion of the audiotape.
    5.     The Denial of Moreau’s New Trial Motion Is Not Reviewable on Appeal
    Cigana’s counsel personally served Moreau with the DVPA restraining order on
    January 29, 2014. Moreau filed a notice of intention to move for new trial 40 days later,
    on March 10, 2014. The court concluded that Cigana’s service of the restraining order
    constituted service of notice of entry of judgment under Code of Civil Procedure section
    659, subdivision (a)(2), which started the 15-day jurisdictional time limit for Moreau to
    file his notice of intention to move for new trial. Because Moreau failed to file his notice
    of intention within the prescribed time, the court concluded it lacked jurisdiction to grant
    a new trial under Code of Civil Procedure section 660. Moreau contends this was error.
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    An order denying a motion for new trial is not independently appealable. (Walker
    v. Los Angeles County Metropolitan Transportation Authority (2005) 
    35 Cal. 4th 15
    , 19;
    see Code Civ. Proc., § 904.1.) Although we may review such an order if it “involves the
    merits or necessarily affects the . . . order appealed from or . . . substantially affects the
    rights of a party” (Code Civ. Proc., § 906), that is not the case here.5
    In this case, Moreau challenges the court’s ruling on purely procedural grounds
    that have nothing to do with the merits of the appealable DVPA restraining order. Nor
    does the ruling “substantially affect[]” his rights, as that phrase is to be understood in
    Code of Civil Procedure section 906. “It is implicit within section 906’s language that
    the ‘intermediate’ order or decision that substantially affects the rights of a party must be
    one that led up to, or directly relates to, the judgment or order being appealed.” (Cahill
    v. San Diego Gas & Electric Co. (2011) 
    194 Cal. App. 4th 939
    , 948, italics added.) The
    denial of Moreau’s new trial motion for failure to file within the time prescribed by Code
    of Civil Procedure section 659 is both “substantively and[] procedurally collateral to” the
    DVPA restraining order from which he appeals. (Cahill, at p. 948.) The ruling is not
    subject to appellate review. (Ibid.)
    5
    Because an appealable order is essential to appellate jurisdiction, we must consider
    the question of appealability sua sponte, and decline to review the order if it is
    nonappealable. (Harrington-Wisely v. State of California (2007) 
    156 Cal. App. 4th 1488
    ,
    1494; Caruso v. Snap-Tite, Inc. (1969) 
    275 Cal. App. 2d 211
    , 213.)
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    DISPOSITION
    The joint legal custody order is reversed and the matter is remanded to the trial
    court with directions to determine and set forth its findings as to whether Moreau should
    be granted joint legal custody under the factors set forth in Family Code section 3044,
    subdivision (b). In all other respects the domestic violence restraining order and custody
    order are affirmed. Cigana is entitled to her costs on appeal.
    NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN THE OFFICIAL REPORTS
    JONES, J.*
    We concur:
    EDMON, P. J.
    ALDRICH, J.
    *
    Judge of the Los Angeles Superior Court, assigned by the Chief Justice pursuant to
    article VI, section 6 of the California Constitution.
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