In re Ariana G. CA2/2 ( 2021 )


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  • Filed 10/6/21 In re Ariana G. CA2/2
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    IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
    SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT
    DIVISION TWO
    In re ARIANA G., a Person                                 B310511
    Coming Under the Juvenile                                 (Los Angeles County
    Court Law.                                                Super. Ct. No. 17CCJP01801)
    LOS ANGELES COUNTY
    DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN
    AND FAMILY SERVICES,
    Plaintiff and Respondent,
    v.
    MANUEL G.,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    In re ARIANA G., a Person            B311415
    Coming Under the Juvenile            (Los Angeles County
    Court Law.                           Super. Ct. No. 17CCJP01801)
    LOS ANGELES COUNTY
    DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN
    AND FAMILY SERVICES,
    Plaintiff and Respondent,
    v.
    MELISSA H.,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of Los
    Angeles County, Brett Bianco, Judge. Affirmed.
    William Hook, under appointment by the Court of Appeal,
    for Defendant and Appellant Manuel G.
    Carol A. Koenig, under appointment by the Court of
    Appeal, for Defendant and Appellant Melissa H.
    Rodrigo A. Castro-Silva, County Counsel, Kim Nemoy,
    Assistant County Counsel, and Jessica S. Mitchell, Deputy
    County Counsel, for Plaintiff and Respondent.
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    Manuel G. (father) and Melissa H. (mother) have filed
    separate, concurrent appeals challenging termination of their
    parental rights to their daughter Ariana G. (born September
    2017). Because the facts and legal arguments overlap, we
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    address the two appeals together in this single opinion. Both
    parents argue that the juvenile court erred in declining to apply
    the beneficial relationship exception to termination of parental
    rights found in Welfare and Institutions Code section 366.26,
    subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i).1 Neither father nor mother has shown
    that the juvenile court’s factual determinations lacked
    substantial evidence or that the juvenile court abused its
    discretion in balancing the factors concerning detriment to the
    child. Therefore, we find no error and affirm the juvenile court’s
    order terminating parental rights.
    FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
    The Family
    The family consists of father, mother and Ariana. The
    parents never married. Mother has a son (born July 2003), who
    resides with his maternal aunt through a family court legal
    guardianship. Mother voluntarily agreed to this arrangement
    because she was unable to obtain adequate housing.
    Mother’s prior child welfare history with her older child
    included referrals from 2006 through 2017. The four referrals
    during this time alleged that mother physically abused,
    emotionally abused, or neglected her son. The referrals were
    either closed due to mother’s situation becoming stable or deemed
    inconclusive.
    Mother and father both have criminal histories. Mother’s
    criminal history is extensive, including convictions for driving
    while her license was suspended, vandalism, and arrests for
    1     All further statutory references are to the Welfare and
    Institutions Code.
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    infliction of corporal injury on a spouse/cohabitant and violation
    of a protective order. Father’s criminal history includes a 2017
    arrest for battery on a spouse/ex-spouse. He also has arrests and
    convictions from 2007 to 2011 for driving while his license was
    suspended.
    Referral and initial investigation in the present matter
    On October 19, 2017, the Los Angeles County Department
    of Children and Family Services (DCFS) received a referral
    alleging that mother neglected one-month-old Ariana by smoking
    marijuana, drinking beer, and using her welfare money to buy
    marijuana and beer.
    The investigating social worker obtained a call log from the
    referral address and noted that there were four calls made to law
    enforcement for domestic violence in December 2016.
    Mother permitted the social worker to enter her home on
    October 24, 2017, for a face-to-face interview. Mother lived with
    maternal grandfather (MGF) in his studio apartment. Mother
    believed that father made the referral, stating that father told
    her via text message that he would be calling DCFS. Mother
    believed that father did this in retaliation because she left his
    home and would not return. Mother described father as
    “possessive” and “manipulative.” Mother admitted to prior
    domestic violence with father, and stated that she intended to
    obtain a permanent restraining order against him by the end of
    the week. Mother reported that father called DCFS with false
    reports because he was trying to obtain custody of their child and
    because she had ended their romantic relationship. Mother had a
    temporary restraining order against father, but admitted that
    they continued to contact each other in violation of the order.
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    Mother agreed to and signed a safety plan that day. The
    safety plan provided that no one transporting or caring for
    Ariana would be under the influence of any substances, and the
    parents would comply with any existing court orders regarding
    domestic violence. The safety plan lasted for 30 days or until
    closure of the referral.
    In a telephone conversation with the social worker on
    October 24, 2017, father expressed concern that mother was both
    exposing the child to marijuana smoke and was a violent
    individual. Father stated that there had not been any violence in
    the past month because mother was not allowing father to visit
    the child. The social worker informed father that DCFS was
    investigating the matter and both parents would be asked to test
    for drugs. Father agreed but admitted to smoking marijuana,
    offering to provide his medical marijuana card.
    At a subsequent in-person interview father denied smoking
    marijuana since Ariana was born. When asked about the
    parents’ incidence of domestic violence in May 2017, father stated
    that mother was to blame because she could not control her
    anger. As a result of the incident, father had enrolled in domestic
    violence classes and was on probation. Father said he had to call
    law enforcement on mother several times, that he had a
    restraining order against mother, but admitted that both parties
    violated the order. Father claimed they were trying to figure out
    their relationship now that they had a child. Father alleged that
    mother was not fit to take care of the child and signed the same
    safety plan that mother signed.
    On October 27, 2017, mother sought a restraining order to
    protect both her and Ariana from father and for father to have no
    contact with the child. Two days later father called the social
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    worker and expressed concern regarding Ariana’s safety in
    mother’s care. Father admitted that he and mother continued to
    violate the restraining orders. Father added that he would
    rather have Ariana in foster care than with mother.
    Mother called the social worker on November 1, 2017,
    claiming father had violated the restraining order and came to
    her home that day. Mother did not allow father in the house and
    called law enforcement. Mother also informed the social worker
    that MGF wanted her to move due to the issues she had with
    father. The social worker determined that mother was open to
    going to a shelter and provided information for a shelter intake.
    Section 300 petition and detention
    On November 14, 2017, DCFS filed a section 300 petition
    on behalf of Ariana alleging that she was at risk of serious
    physical harm as a result of mother and father’s history of
    engaging in violent altercations in the child’s home and by
    violating a criminal protective order. It was further alleged that
    father had a history of substance abuse, was a current abuser of
    marijuana and incapable of providing regular care for the child.
    The juvenile court ordered Ariana detained from father and
    released to mother, with father having monitored visitation three
    times per week. The court ordered DCFS to provide the parents
    with appropriate referrals for weekly random drug testing,
    individual counseling, parenting, and a domestic violence
    program.
    On December 18, 2017, DCFS filed a section 385 petition
    requesting that Ariana be detained from mother, following the
    events of December 13, 2017, at which time the parents engaged
    in domestic violence at father’s home while mother was under the
    influence of alcohol and marijuana. Law enforcement responded,
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    and mother was arrested for child endangerment and assault
    with a deadly weapon. Father requested an emergency protective
    order. Ariana was detained in foster care.
    Mother was incarcerated for spousal abuse with pending
    court dates of December 18 and 19, 2017. Father admitted that
    he allowed mother and Ariana to live with him so the couple
    could work things out. Father was adamant that he and mother
    could resolve their problems even though he acknowledged that
    mother was violent and drunk at the time of the recent incident.
    Father thought it was the fault of DCFS for leaving the child
    with mother. If instead the child had been released to him, he
    would not have had to deal with mother in order to be with
    Ariana.
    The juvenile court made detention findings and ordered
    Ariana detained from both parents. Monitored visits for mother
    three times weekly for three hours per visit were ordered, and
    father’s visits too remained monitored, three times per week for
    three hours per visit.
    First amended petition, jurisdiction and disposition
    On January 10, 2018, DCFS filed a first amended petition
    adding allegations surrounding the December 2017 incidence of
    domestic violence. The petition alleged that Ariana was exposed
    to violence in which mother punched, slapped, and kicked father
    multiple times while the child was attached to mother in a baby
    harness. Mother was arrested and was convicted of willful
    cruelty to a child on December 27, 2017. She was placed on four
    years’ probation.
    In later interviews mother admitted to vandalizing father’s
    car and striking him on December 13, 2017. The dependency
    investigator observed a videotape of the incident and noted that
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    mother hit father continuously to the point where he fell to the
    ground.
    Father said mother was physically aggressive towards him
    and denied ever assaulting her. Father thought mother needed
    domestic violence and anger management counseling. DCFS
    observed that though a criminal protective order was in place
    since April 2017, both parents violated the order by continuing to
    see each other, culminating in the December 2017 incident in the
    presence of the child.
    On January 25, 2018, mother signed a waiver of rights.
    The juvenile court adjudicated the first amended section 300
    petition, sustained the petition as amended by interlineation,
    declared Ariana a dependent of the court, and removed her from
    parental custody. The court ordered family reunification services
    with monitored visitation for the parents three times per week
    for three hours each visit. The parents were not to visit together.
    Father’s case plan required him to complete a 26-week domestic
    violence program, eight random or on-demand consecutive drug
    tests and a full drug rehabilitation program if any test was
    missed or positive, a parenting program, and individual
    counseling to address case issues. Mother was ordered to
    complete a 52-week domestic violence program, five random or
    on-demand consecutive drug tests, and individual counseling to
    address case issues.
    First six-month reunification period (January through
    August 2018)
    On April 11, 2018, father filed a modification petition
    requesting he be granted unmonitored visits and asking that
    DCFS terminate weekly drug testing. Since father had
    completed his 26-week domestic violence program, parenting
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    classes, and five drug tests, on April 26, 2018, the court granted
    father’s modification petition.
    Mother also made progress having completed individual
    counseling, submitted to drug testing, enrolled in a 52-week
    domestic violence program and a parenting education program,
    as well as consistently visiting Ariana. Mother progressed from
    monitored to unmonitored day visits with Ariana.
    Ariana had been placed with licensed foster parents M.A.
    and her husband. Ariana was thriving in her placement. She
    was well cared for and had formed a bond with her foster parents.
    Ariana was developing at an age appropriate level, was healthy
    and appropriately engaged with adults.
    Despite the parents’ progress, DCFS remained concerned
    about returning Ariana to their care. DCFS noted that the
    parents continued to have a contentious relationship and to
    speak ill of each other. In addition, the parents had not yet had
    unmonitored overnight visits with Ariana, due to unresolved
    safety issues including mother obtaining appropriate sleeping
    accommodations, all adults in both homes being approved, and
    both homes being free from safety hazards.
    August 2018 six-month review hearing and placement
    with father
    On August 8, 2018, over DCFS’s objection, the juvenile
    court terminated the suitable placement order and released the
    child to father with family maintenance services and
    unannounced home visits by DCFS.
    The court also ordered unmonitored visits for mother with
    the child, including overnight and enhancement services. The
    court set a progress hearing for November 7, 2018, and a section
    364 hearing on February 6, 2019.
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    August to December 2018, home-of-father placement
    During the last week of August 2018 the parents reported
    that father allowed mother to reside in his home for
    approximately one week so that mother could spend more time
    with Ariana. Father intended to seek amendment of the previous
    no-contact order to allow peaceful contact between the parents.
    DCFS held a child family team meeting with mother and father
    to address the importance of complying with the no-contact order.
    Father agreed to adhere to the no-contact order. In a separate
    meeting with mother in September 2018, mother also committed
    to complying with the court orders and working towards creating
    a safe home for Ariana.
    The parents made more progress in their court-ordered
    programs. Father completed 36 group sessions of “Project
    Fatherhood,” the 26-week domestic violence program and
    individual counseling to address case issues, as well as 22
    consecutive parenting classes. Mother completed 20 individual
    therapy sessions, 39 parenting classes, and 32 out of 52 weeks of
    domestic violence for aggressors.
    Father provided the social worker with an updated
    restraining order dated October 30, 2018, from the superior court
    allowing peaceful contact between the parents.
    On November 16, 2018, DCFS filed a section 388 petition
    asking the juvenile court to suspend unmonitored visitation for
    mother. The social worker learned that mother had gone to
    father’s home and attempted suicide by ingesting psychotropic
    medications in the presence of the sleeping child. This was the
    second time that mother violated the juvenile court’s no-contact
    order. Father called 911, and mother was admitted to the
    hospital.
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    Father later admitted that he and mother were living
    together from early October 2018 through November 11, 2018,
    when their last physical altercation occurred.
    On November 30, 2018, the juvenile court ordered
    monitored visitation for mother three times per week.
    December 2018 detention and removal from father’s
    custody
    On December 12, 2018, DCFS detained Ariana from father
    into foster care. The child was returned to the same foster
    parents she had resided with previously.
    On December 14, 2018, DCFS filed a section 342 petition on
    behalf of then 15-month-old Ariana alleging that she was at risk
    due to father’s failure to protect her by allowing mother to reside
    in father’s home with unlimited access to the child. The petition
    alleged that mother was suffering from mental and emotional
    problems, and father failed to protect the child.
    DCFS also filed a section 387 petition alleging the parents
    had a history of physical altercations and had failed to comply
    with the juvenile court’s order that the parents have no contact
    with each other.
    Father did not understand why the child had been detained
    from him since he no longer had a relationship with mother,
    despite admitting that he and mother lived together from October
    2018 through November 11, 2018.
    DCFS opined that mother had not embraced or
    implemented any of the tools she learned from the domestic
    violence program or individual counseling to prevent her from
    getting into physical altercations with father.
    On December 17, 2018, the juvenile court ordered the child
    detained in foster care under the supervision of DCFS.
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    DCFS filed a jurisdiction/disposition report in advance of
    the January 31, 2019 hearing. Ariana remained in foster care
    with the same caregivers. They reported that she was healthy
    and appeared to have normal mental and emotional development
    for a child her age. Father and mother were participating in
    monitored visitation with Ariana in separate locations on
    separate days.
    DCFS observed that Ariana had been detained from father
    on three different occasions: November 12, 2017, December 14,
    2017, and December 12, 2018. The latter two detentions were
    due to father allowing mother to reside in his home despite a
    restraining order and a no-contact order in both the criminal
    court and the juvenile court. On both occasions father stated that
    he wanted to work on his relationship with mother and believed
    that she had changed.
    DCFS reported that father admitted to having failed to
    protect the child by allowing mother to be around her. Father
    expressed that he believed mother was “psychotic” and “suicidal”
    and therefore unable to take care of Ariana. Father did not want
    Ariana influenced by mother’s actions, stating that mother
    always “ha[d] to drink something.”
    Mother denied that she ever tried to commit suicide, but
    had put all of her pills in her mouth because father tried to take
    them away from her. Mother reported that father and Ariana
    came to pick her up when she was released from the hospital on
    November 15, 2018. When reminded about the no-contact order,
    mother stated, “As long as he has my daughter, I’m going to be
    around because he says he can’t take care of her on his own.”
    DCFS noted that the parents continued to contact each
    other in the presence of the child and were unable to understand
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    the toxicity of their relationship or implement the skills of
    peaceful contact to avoid violence. DCFS took the position that
    the parents needed extra time in their court-ordered programs to
    learn the importance of implementing the skills learned from
    these programs before the child could be safely returned to their
    care.
    January 31, 2019 hearing on DCFS’s petitions
    On January 31, 2019, the juvenile court granted DCFS’s
    section 388 petition and ordered mother’s visits to remain
    monitored. The parents pled no contest to the amended section
    387 petition. The juvenile court ordered Ariana removed from
    parental custody with family reunification services in place and
    monitored visitation three times per week. The parents were not
    to visit together. They were each ordered to complete several
    court-ordered programs. The court admonished the parents that
    they were to have no contact with each other.
    May 2, 2019 progress report and hearing
    Ariana had been in the home of M.A. and her husband from
    December 14, 2017, through August 8, 2018, when she was
    placed with father. When Ariana was detained from father on
    December 14, 2018, father asked if the same caregivers could
    again care for Ariana. M.A. and her husband were both
    employed, so Ariana spent time at daycare. The caregivers were
    attentive and ensured that Ariana was safe. DCFS requested
    that Ariana be allowed to go on vacation with the caregivers.
    Father had completed nine domestic violence classes and
    10 individual counseling sessions. He remained consistent with
    his monitored visits and was attentive to Ariana during the
    visits. Father informed the social worker that he would not
    coparent with mother because she was unfit to parent the child.
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    Mother completed a 52-week domestic violence program,
    parenting education, and individual therapy. Mother was
    consistently participating in twice-weekly monitored visits with
    Ariana. Mother displayed appropriate parenting skills. Ariana
    seemed comfortable in mother’s care and moved towards mother
    when she needed help.
    At the May 2, 2019 progress hearing, the juvenile court
    ordered unmonitored visitation with Ariana for the parents and
    gave discretion to DCFS to allow overnight visits.
    August 2019 status review
    DCFS filed a report in anticipation of an August 2019
    status review hearing. Ariana remained in foster care with the
    same caregivers who were providing Ariana with all of her basic
    needs, including food, shelter, clothing, nurturing, medical care,
    and access to the parents for visitation.
    Mother was living in transitional housing. While at the
    homeless shelter mother had enrolled in school to study
    phlebotomy and culinary skills. Mother consistently visited
    Ariana every Friday.
    Father was renting a room that was equipped with a crib
    for Ariana, a bathroom, and access to a kitchen. Father was
    working as a driver and could set his own hours.
    DCFS held meetings with the parents in June 2019.
    Father continued to be critical of mother, stating “mother is not
    fit to be a parent, mother continues to choose drinking before her
    daughter, my daughter is not safe in mother’s care, mother
    doesn’t have anywhere to live with my daughter, I am a better
    parent because I have a place to stay and a job.” Father was
    defensive with the social workers regarding Ariana’s care. For
    example, when a social worker mentioned that Ariana was
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    returned from a visit with a wet diaper, father stated that the
    social worker was accusing him of not taking care of his baby.
    Father was animated, hitting the table with opened hands.
    When asked why he did not stop to get diapers, father deflected
    with threats to sue DCFS if he did not get his child back.
    Father’s defensive attitude also arose during a discussion of
    Ariana’s diet. During father’s monitored visits Ariana was
    drinking excessive amounts of juice and eating fruit at the same
    time and ended up with diarrhea before the end of the visit.
    When the social worker noted the issue, father stated, “You don’t
    tell me what to do with my baby” and “She’s only drinking juice.”
    During her meetings, mother appeared passive and
    disconnected. She sat at the end of the table, faced away from
    the participants, did not engage until asked a question, and sat
    with her arms crossed and a flat facial expression. Mother
    seemed focused on blaming father and was provoked when
    hearing father speak about things mother has done, including
    drinking and attempting suicide. Mother did not express the
    positive things she was doing.
    DCFS opined that neither parent took responsibility for
    their own actions, but instead continued to blame each other.
    The parents had developed a pattern of getting along for a few
    days, then going back to arguing and fighting. Then father was
    quick to share all that happened and argue that mother would
    not be a good parent. During the meetings DCFS social workers
    attempted to explain this to the parents and try to reach a
    resolution. After an hour and a half it was clear that the parents
    were not able to devise a safety plan or supply any ideas that
    would allow for the child to return to their care. Therefore, DCFS
    could not recommend that the child return to the parents’ care.
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    Instead, DCFS recommended that the court terminate the
    parents’ reunification services and set a section 366.26 hearing.
    DCFS’s section 388 petition and September 2019 18-month
    review and release to parents
    On August 26, 2019, DCFS filed a section 388 petition
    asking the juvenile court to revert the parents’ visitation with
    Ariana to monitored, after it learned that the parents were
    visiting the child together in violation of the court’s order. The
    social worker had observed mother and Ariana walking up to
    father’s car. When the social worker addressed the issue with the
    parents, mother said father had just called her. Father denied
    that he was present for the purpose of visiting mother and
    Ariana. He said he just happened to be in the area where mother
    was visiting and called her. DCFS expressed concern that the
    parents were visiting the child together in violation of the court’s
    order. Mother also reported that she and father were engaged to
    be married.
    Father informed DCFS that he and mother were attending
    couple’s counseling and were planning to be in a relationship
    together. Father questioned why DCFS would not allow the
    parents to visit the child together. Initially father denied that he
    and mother were engaged, but later admitted that they were.
    Father also denied that they were living together, but later
    admitted that they had moved in together on August 20, 2019,
    were getting along, and had no further issues.
    DCFS expressed concern regarding the parents’ pattern of
    disobeying court orders and being dishonest with DCFS.
    On September 23, 2019, the juvenile court denied DCFS’s
    section 388 petition and held the 18-month review hearing. The
    court found that the progress made by the parents had been
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    substantial, that returning the child to the parents would not
    create a substantial risk to the child, and ordered her released to
    the parents with family maintenance services.
    Family maintenance September 2019 through June 2020
    In January 2020, the parents were cooperative and Ariana
    was adjusting well to living with them. The parents were
    participating in conjoint therapy but stopped participating after
    moving to San Bernardino. DCFS recommended that the case be
    transferred to San Bernardino County.
    DCFS filed a report for the March 23, 2020 section 364
    hearing expressing continued concerns regarding the parents’
    relationship. On February 10, 2020, father contacted the social
    worker because there had been an incident which prompted
    father to contact the police. Father had observed mother
    jaywalking with Ariana while mother was drunk. Father asked
    mother to let him take Ariana, but mother refused. Father knew
    she was drunk and stated that mother had been arrested but was
    not presently in jail. Father did not then know mother’s
    whereabouts. The social worker contacted mother who was
    staying at a motel because father would not let her back in the
    house. Father confirmed that mother had come back to the house
    but stated that he and his family did not allow her in. They
    informed her that she could not live there if she was going to be
    an alcoholic.
    The social worker made an unannounced visit to the home.
    The paternal aunt stated that she had not seen mother drinking
    on the day of the incident and did not believe mother was drunk
    that day. The paternal aunt opined that mother and father were
    not good together. The social worker checked the local police
    station where it was determined that there had been no calls for
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    service at the parents’ address in the past year. The mother had
    been arrested due to an outstanding warrant but nothing related
    to the father’s claims.
    On March 5, 2020, father informed the social worker that
    the family had temporarily moved to a motel in El Monte while
    they looked for affordable housing. Father stated that the reason
    they were moving was that the paternal aunt with whom they
    were residing no longer wanted mother in the home and raised
    their rent.
    On April 16, 2020, the juvenile court continued the section
    364 hearing due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
    May 2020 removal from father
    On May 29, 2020, the juvenile court granted an order
    removing Ariana from father’s custody, but denied removal from
    mother’s custody.
    DCFS had received multiple messages from mother and
    father, each accusing the other of various things. On May 2,
    2020, father reported that mother was acting up in the car and
    almost hit him. Father reported that mother was an alcoholic
    and “is out of the picture, she doesn’t live here anymore.” Father
    reported that mother had called the police because mother
    wanted to take Ariana but father would not let the child go. The
    police officer who arrived would not allow mother to take the
    child because she was drunk and did not have a car seat. Father
    accused DCFS of failing to do anything about mother’s drinking
    problem. Father subsequently reported that he allowed mother
    to spend time with him and Ariana for Mother’s Day because
    mother promised not to drink, and he agreed to give her one more
    chance.
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    Mother reported that father pushed her when she tried to
    say goodbye to Ariana on Mother’s Day and that father was lying
    about her consuming alcohol.
    June 2020 section 342 petition and removal from parents
    On June 3, 2020, DCFS filed another section 342 petition
    on behalf of then two-year-old Ariana, alleging the child was at
    risk due to the parents’ history of engaging in violent
    altercations. The petition alleged that on May 11, 2020, mother
    grabbed Ariana’s arm while father held her, and father pushed
    mother. The petition further alleged that mother had a history of
    substance abuse and was a current user of alcohol, and father
    failed to protect the child from mother’s conduct.
    On June 8, 2020, the juvenile court made detention
    findings and ordered Ariana into suitable placement under the
    supervision of DCFS, with monitored visitation for the parents.
    On July 29, 2020, DCFS filed a jurisdiction/disposition
    report. Ariana had been placed in the same foster home where
    she had previously lived from December 2017 through August
    2018, then again from December 2018 through September 2019.
    DCFS reported that Ariana appeared to have a proper bond with
    her foster mother, M.A. The child was too young to provide any
    meaningful statement.
    Mother admitted to ongoing violence throughout her
    relationship with father and that she and father were engaged
    the last time the court released the child to them (September
    2019). After mother ended the relationship with father in May
    2020, father would not allow mother to see the child.
    Father confirmed that the parents’ relationship was “on
    and off.” Father said he tended to resume a relationship with
    mother because she did not have a place to live, she promised to
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    stop drinking alcohol, and he wanted to raise Ariana in an intact
    family. The last time they ended their relationship was May 1,
    2020, when mother called law enforcement on him. Father stated
    that DCFS was involved because mother could not control
    herself, was often under the influence of alcohol, and does not
    have a stable living environment. Father wanted Ariana
    released to him and mother stripped of her rights. Father
    continued to have monitored visits with Ariana, which were going
    well.
    On July 29, 2020, the juvenile court sustained the section
    342 petition and removed Ariana from her parents. The child
    was ordered placed in suitable placement under the supervision
    of DCFS with monitored visits for the parents.
    The court noted that despite the child’s young age, the
    parents were given two and a half years of family reunification
    services even though the law only entitled the parents to six
    months of reunification services. The court set a section 366.26
    hearing for November 24, 2020.
    Permanency planning
    In November 2020, DCFS reported that Ariana continued
    to live with the same foster family. She appeared to be
    comfortable and thriving in the home. Ariana had a good
    attachment to her caregivers, who were providing her with a
    loving, stable home. At her three-year-old well-child
    appointment, no concerns were noted, and she appeared to be
    developing appropriately. She attended daycare three to five
    days a week where she was able to follow instructions and
    interacted with the other children. There were no concerns
    regarding Ariana’s mental and emotional health, with the
    exception of her being in an agitated state postvisitation with her
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    parents. Ariana’s caregivers were committed to providing her
    permanency through adoption.
    The foster parents noted that visits between Ariana and
    her parents were difficult on the child. She appeared to be tired
    and emotionally drained after the monitored visits. She would be
    grumpy, fussy, and have difficulty going to bed. Ariana would
    hit, scratch, and bite her four year-old foster sibling. When she
    saw a marked police car, she would say, “[M]y daddy called the
    police on my mommy, and mommy was in handcuffs.” When she
    observed arguments on television, she would say, “[T]hey fight
    like my mommy and daddy.” The foster parents believed Ariana
    was being negatively affected by the extensive visits with her
    parents, and she was not thriving in her educational growth and
    development. DCFS recommended that the parents’ monitored
    visits be reduced to weekly two-hour visits and that the matter be
    continued for six months for a review of the permanent plan
    hearing.
    On November 24, 2020, the juvenile court continued the
    section 366.26 hearing to complete the adoption readiness. On
    January 8, 2021, Ariana’s foster parents were approved for
    adoption.
    Contested hearing
    The contested section 366.26 permanency planning hearing
    was held on February 17 and 18, 2021. Mother and father
    appeared with counsel via Webex. Father’s counsel called
    father’s therapist, father, and the human services aide to testify.
    Therapist
    Father’s therapist had seen father since 2018, weekly
    during periods of high stress, every two weeks during periods of
    low stress, and every three weeks during periods of extremely low
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    stress. Father and the therapist discussed his relationship with
    mother, father’s grief and pain over the loss of custody of his
    child, and the domestic violence issues. The therapist felt that
    father had been successful in using anger management tools to
    address the domestic violence issues.
    The therapist had seen father interact with Ariana once
    about a year earlier when father brought Ariana to a therapy
    session. The child was comfortable with father. When asked
    whether it would be detrimental to sever the parental bond
    between father and Ariana, the therapist replied, “Of course,
    absolutely. It always i[s].” He added that to be raised in the
    home of a biological parent is always preferable for a child’s well-
    being and mental health. On cross-examination, the therapist
    agreed that it was also important for a child to reside in a home
    that was physically safe.
    In answer to the court’s question when the parents last
    engaged in domestic violence, the therapist responded, “August of
    2020.” The court observed that this was after father had been
    seeing the therapist for over two years.
    Father
    Father testified that he was in therapy to address why his
    child was taken from him, his issues with mother, and their
    domestic violence. Father learned that his relationship with
    mother was toxic and that he needed to set boundaries. Father
    was visiting with Ariana every Tuesday and Thursday.
    Father testified that when he visited with Ariana, she ran
    to him and hugged him, calling him “daddy.” Ariana would tell
    father how much she loved him and that she wanted to go to
    home with him. Father stated that his inability to bring Ariana
    to his home was hurting her as much as it was hurting him.
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    Father testified that he had been visiting regularly, and at the
    end of the visits, Ariana holds his leg and does not want to let go.
    Father would bring food, toys, and a tablet to the visits to play
    learning games. Father had pictures to share of himself and
    Ariana.
    Human services aide
    The human services aide testified that she monitored most
    of father’s visits with Ariana. Father was always prepared for
    the visits, on time, and had food and toys for Ariana. Ariana was
    usually happy to see father, and they always greeted each other
    with hugs. Ariana would say, “Hi daddy” and “I love you daddy.”
    The monitored visits were positive. The human services aide
    testified that Ariana did not cry at the end of the visits, though
    there were times when she would hold on to him and tell him she
    did not want to go home. When father would leave the visits,
    Ariana would ask for whatever toy or type of food she wanted
    father to bring to the next visit. She would say, “‘Daddy, can you
    bring me my scooter next time?’ Things like that.”
    Argument of counsel
    DCFS argued that Ariana was adoptable, her foster
    parents’ home was approved for adoption, and DCFS did not
    believe there was any applicable exception to adoption. DCFS
    took the position that any benefit Ariana derived from her
    ongoing parental relationship with mother and father were
    outweighed by the benefit provided to her through adoption and
    permanence. Ariana’s counsel joined DCFS in requesting that
    the parental rights of both parents be terminated, noting that
    any parental benefit would not outweigh her need for
    permanence. Ariana’s counsel observed that while father’s visits
    with Ariana were positive, “that was more of a play/friendship
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    relationship with the father as she was looking forward to toys
    and different play interaction with the father rather than a
    parental relationship.” Ariana’s counsel further noted that
    Ariana viewed the caretakers’ home as her real home.
    Mother’s counsel requested that the court not terminate
    mother’s parental rights. She argued that mother had occupied a
    parental role in the child’s life, the two were bonded, and there
    had never been a lapse in visitation. Father’s counsel also argued
    that parental rights should not be terminated. Father’s counsel
    stated that father had proved that he maintained consistent and
    regular visits as well as showing that he occupied a parental role
    in Ariana’s life. Father’s counsel argued that the therapist’s
    testimony showed that “there’s a secured attachment that is
    essential to the health and development of Ariana’s personality
    structure.” Father requested the permanent plan be legal
    guardianship rather than adoption.
    The court’s decision
    The juvenile court found that clear and convincing evidence
    existed that Ariana was adoptable, and that any benefit accruing
    to the child from her relationship with her parents was
    outweighed by the physical and emotional benefit she would
    receive through the permanency of adoption, and that adoption
    was in the best interest of the child. The court found that no
    exception to adoption applied, and terminated the parental rights
    of both parents.
    Father and mother separately appealed.
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    DISCUSSION
    I.     Applicable law and standard of review
    If a court cannot safely return a dependent child to a
    parent’s custody within statutory time limits, the court must set
    a permanency planning hearing under section 366.26. (In re
    Caden C. (2021) 
    11 Cal.5th 614
    , 630 (Caden C.).) “[W]hen the
    court orders the section 366.26 hearing, reunification services
    have been terminated, and the assumption is that the problems
    that led to the court taking jurisdiction have not been resolved.”
    The goal is to select and implement a permanent plan for the
    child. (Ibid.) “To guide the court in selecting the most suitable
    permanent arrangement, the statute lists plans in order of
    preference and provides a detailed procedure for choosing among
    them.” (Ibid.) When it is determined that a child is adoptable,
    the court “shall” terminate parental rights to allow for adoption.
    (Ibid.; § 366.26, subd. (c)(1).)
    If the parent shows that termination of parental rights
    would be detrimental for at least one specifically enumerated
    reason, the court should decline to terminate parental rights and
    select another permanent plan. (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at
    pp. 630-631.) One such exception exists where the juvenile court
    finds that termination of parental rights would be detrimental to
    the child and (1) the parents have maintained regular visitation
    and contact with the child; and (2) the child would benefit from
    continuing the relationship. (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).) Thus,
    the parent must prove three elements in order to prevail under
    this exception: (1) regular visitation and contact; (2) a
    relationship, the continuation of which would benefit the child
    such that (3) the termination of parental rights would be
    detrimental to the child. (Caden C., supra, at p. 631.) In
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    assessing whether termination would be detrimental to the child,
    “the trial court must decide whether the harm from severing the
    child’s relationship with the parent outweighs the benefit to the
    child of placement in a new adoptive home.” (Id. at p. 632.) “By
    making this decision, the trial court determines whether
    terminating parental rights serves the child’s best interests.”
    (Ibid.)
    A substantial evidence standard of review applies to the
    first two elements of this exception. (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th
    at p. 639.) “The determination that the parent has visited and
    maintained contact with the child ‘consistently,’ taking into
    account ‘the extent permitted by the court’s orders’ [citation] is
    essentially a factual determination. It’s likewise essentially a
    factual determination whether the relationship is such that the
    child would benefit from continuing it.” (Id. at pp. 639-640.)
    Under the substantial evidence standard, we do not reweigh the
    evidence. Instead, the juvenile court’s factual determinations
    should be upheld if “‘supported by substantial evidence, even
    though substantial evidence to the contrary also exists and the
    trial court might have reached a different result had it believed
    other evidence.’” (Id. at p. 640.)
    The third element—whether termination of parental rights
    would be detrimental to the child—is different. (Caden C., supra,
    11 Cal.5th at p. 640.) The “ultimate decision—whether
    termination of parental rights would be detrimental to the child
    due to the child’s relationship with his parent—is discretionary
    and properly reviewed for abuse of discretion.” (Ibid.) A court
    abuses its discretion “only when ‘“‘the trial court has exceeded
    the limits of legal discretion by making an arbitrary, capricious,
    or patently absurd determination.’”’” (Id. at p. 641.)
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    II.   Father’s appeal
    Father appeals from the order terminating parental rights
    on the ground that the juvenile court erred in declining to apply
    the beneficial parental relationship exception to termination of
    parental rights found in section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i).
    We discuss each element father was required to prove below. We
    find that the evidence below supports the juvenile court’s
    decision, and the court did not abuse its discretion in finding that
    termination of father’s parental rights would not be detrimental
    to the child.
    A.      Regular visitation and contact
    Father showed regular visitation and contact during the
    pendency of this case. However, father’s visits with Ariana
    reverted back to monitored visits in July 2020 due to the parents’
    inability to stop engaging in violence in the presence of the child.
    Further, regular visitation with the child is only part of the
    test. Father was also required to show that the child would
    benefit from continuing the relationship and that the termination
    of parental rights would be detrimental to Ariana. (Caden C.,
    supra, 11 Cal.5th at p. 631.)
    B.      A benefit to the child from continuing the
    relationship
    In determining whether the parent and child have a
    beneficial relationship such that parental rights should not be
    terminated, the juvenile court “must engage in a balancing test,
    juxtaposing the quality of the relationship and the detriment
    involved in terminating it against the potential benefit of an
    adoptive family.” (In re Cliffton B. (2000) 
    81 Cal.App.4th 415
    ,
    424-425.)
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    “Interaction between natural parent and child will always
    confer some incidental benefit to the child.” (In re Autumn H.
    (1994) 
    27 Cal.App.4th 567
    , 575.) Frequent and loving contact is
    not sufficient to establish the benefit from continuing the
    relationship contemplated by the statute. (In re Beatrice M.
    (1994) 
    29 Cal.App.4th 1411
    , 1418.) Instead, the parent must
    show that he or she “occupied a parental role” in relation to the
    child. (Id. at p. 1419.) The beneficial parental relationship exists
    only where the parent’s contact with the child has “‘developed a
    significant, positive, emotional attachment from child to parent.’”
    (Ibid.)
    Substantial evidence in the record suggests that such a
    relationship did not exist between father and Ariana. The
    evidence showed that father and Ariana enjoyed fun, playful
    visits. Father would bring food, toys, and a tablet to play games
    with Ariana. When the visits ended, Ariana would ask father to
    bring certain toys or items of food the next time. This evidence
    suggested that Ariana looked to father as more of a playmate
    than a parental figure. The human services aide testified that
    Ariana did not cry at the end of the monitored visits. While the
    two had positive and loving interactions, the evidence does not
    suggest that Ariana looked to father to fulfill a parental role.
    Instead, there was evidence that Ariana looked to her prospective
    adoptive parents to fulfill the parental role in her life. Ariana
    was appropriately bonded to her prospective adoptive parents,
    who provided her with a loving, stable home, and acted as her
    primary caregivers.
    Father cites In re Brandon C. (1999) 
    71 Cal.App.4th 1530
    (Brandon C.), as a comparable case. In Brandon C., two boys
    were declared dependents of the court because they had been the
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    victims of domestic violence. (Id. at p. 1532.) At the time of the
    section 366.26 permanency hearing, the mother objected to
    termination of her parental rights due to her close bond with the
    children. The mother testified that she had visited them every
    week for the past three years, except when she was out of state,
    and that the boys were happy and affectionate to her when she
    visited. Notably, the paternal grandmother agreed that it was
    not in the boys’ best interest to terminate their relationship with
    the mother and father because they had a good relationship that
    should continue. (Brandon C., at p. 1533.) The juvenile court
    found that it would be in the children’s best interests to maintain
    the relationship between the minors and the mother, and DCFS
    appealed. (Ibid.)
    On appeal, the Brandon C. court gave proper deference to
    the juvenile court’s view of the evidence, noting “[t]he trial court
    obviously credited the testimony from both mother and
    grandmother that there was a close bond between mother and the
    boys, and that a continuation of contact would be beneficial to the
    children. DCFS did not present any evidence to the contrary.”
    (Brandon C., supra, 71 Cal.App.4th at p. 1537.) Here, in
    contrast, the juvenile court had to weigh conflicting evidence as
    to the strength and importance of Ariana’s bond with father.
    While father, and his therapist, testified that it would benefit
    Ariana to maintain the relationship with father, DCFS presented
    evidence of insufficient benefit to Ariana from the relationship.
    DCFS presented ample evidence that Ariana’s bond with her
    prospective adoptive parents was stronger and more significant
    in her life, that she was thriving in their care, and that she
    viewed father as more of a playmate than a parent. The juvenile
    court was entitled to credit DCFS’s evidence.
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    The evidence supports the juvenile court’s determination
    that father did not provide Ariana the type of significant, positive
    emotional attachment required for the section 366.26, subdivision
    (c)(1)(B)(i) exception to termination of parental rights.
    C.     The juvenile court did not abuse its discretion
    in determining that termination of father’s
    parental rights would not be detrimental to the
    child
    The final decision by the juvenile court involves a “delicate
    balancing” of the court’s factual determinations regarding the
    specific features of the child’s relationship with the parent and
    how a “prospective adoptive placement may offset and even
    counterbalance those harms.” (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at
    p. 640.) In this matter, given the evidence that father’s current
    relationship with Ariana did not rise to the level of a significant,
    parental relationship, the court found that “any benefit accruing
    to the child from her relationship with the parents is outweighed
    by the physical and emotional benefit the child would receive
    through the permanency and stability of adoption, and that
    adoption is in the best interest of the child.”
    The juvenile court had given father many chances in this
    case to gain permanent custody of Ariana. Father’s failure to
    obey the court’s orders that he and mother stay away from each
    other and refrain from engaging in domestic violence in the
    child’s presence caused Ariana to be detained multiple times.
    Ariana had returned several times to the home of her prospective
    adoptive parents, with whom she had appropriately bonded.
    They provided her with loving care and met all of her needs. In
    addition, there was evidence that Ariana’s visits with her parents
    were becoming detrimental to her development. She returned
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    from recent visits grumpy, had trouble sleeping, and would
    assault her foster sibling. The juvenile court was entitled to
    credit the evidence that severing the parent-child relationship
    between Ariana and father would not be detrimental to Ariana.
    Although father’s therapist testified that he believed severing the
    parent-child relationship would be detrimental to Ariana, the
    court was not required to give weight to this evidence
    particularly since the therapist had not seen father and Ariana
    together in a year.
    Ariana’s caretakers were prepared to give her a permanent,
    loving and stable home through adoption. “‘Adoption is the
    Legislature’s first choice because it gives the child the best
    chance at [a full] emotional commitment from a responsible
    caretaker.’” (In re Celine R. (2003) 
    31 Cal.4th 45
    , 53.) The
    juvenile court appropriately used its discretion in determining
    that providing Ariana this full commitment outweighed the
    benefit that she would gain through maintaining her pleasant,
    positive relationship with father. The juvenile court did not
    exceed the limits of legal discretion by making this reasonable
    decision. (Caden C., 
    supra, 11
     Cal.5th at p. 641.)
    Father cites several cases in support of his position that his
    relationship with Ariana rose to the level required for application
    of the section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) exception to apply.
    First, father cites In re S.B. (2008) 
    164 Cal.App.4th 289
     (S.B.)
    where the father had been his daughter’s primary caregiver for
    the first three and a half years of her life until he was arrested on
    drug charges. At the 12-month review hearing, the court
    concluded that the father had complied with every aspect of his
    case plan, including maintaining sobriety. (Id. at p. 293.) In
    addition to maintaining regular, consistent and appropriate visits
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    throughout the proceedings, the juvenile court found that the
    father had an “emotionally significant relationship” with his
    child. (Id. at p. 298.) The social worker noted that even after she
    was removed from his care, the father continued to “‘consistently
    put[] his daughter[’]s needs and safety before his own.’” (Ibid.)
    The S.B. court concluded, “The record here fully supports the
    conclusion [the father] continued the significant parent-child
    relationship despite the lack of day-to-day contact with S.B. after
    she was removed from his care.” (Id. at p. 299.) The court noted
    that the juvenile court “recognized that S.B. would benefit from
    continuing her relationship with [her father] and based its
    decision to terminate parental rights in part on the grandparents’
    willingness to allow [the father] to continue to visit S.B.” (Id. at
    p. 300.) The S.B. court did not believe the father should be
    deprived of his legal relationship with his child based on an
    unenforceable promise of future visitation by the child’s
    prospective adoptive parents. (Ibid.)
    The present matter is distinguishable. Ariana did not
    consistently spend the first three years of her life with father.
    Instead, she was repeatedly removed from his custody and placed
    with the foster parents due to the parents’ inability to follow
    court orders and refrain from violence in the child’s presence.
    Further, the juvenile court’s decision to terminate parental rights
    was not based on an unenforceable promise that Ariana continue
    to be permitted to visit with father. On the contrary, father’s
    visits had recently been reduced due to the negative effects the
    visits were having on Ariana. Unlike the S.B. court, the juvenile
    court here did not acknowledge an emotionally significant
    relationship between father and Ariana. Instead, it implicitly
    concluded that the emotionally significant relationship for Ariana
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    was the one that existed between Ariana and her prospective
    adoptive parents.
    Father attempts to distinguish this matter from In re
    Bailey J. (2010) 
    189 Cal.App.4th 1308
     (Bailey J.). In Bailey J.,
    the court found that a mother’s relationship with her child did
    not rise to the level of that which would support application of
    the beneficial relationship exception. The court noted that the
    child was detained when he was two days old and spent no part
    of his life in his mother’s custody. Thus, “[a]t best, mother’s
    supervised interactions with Bailey amounted to little more than
    play dates for him with a loving adult.” (Id. at p. 1316.) In
    contrast, father argues, he had custody of Ariana twice
    throughout these proceedings, providing Ariana day-to-day care
    for a total of one year of her life. And when she was not in his
    custody, father argues, he continued to develop his parental
    relationship with her through frequent visits.
    While father had more time with custody of Ariana than
    the mother in Bailey J., the evidence before the juvenile court
    supported a finding that the relationship between father and
    Ariana did not benefit Ariana such that it outweighed the
    benefits of adoption. Like the caregivers in Bailey J., Ariana
    looked to her prospective adoptive parents as the ones who
    provided for her physical care, nourishment, comfort, affection
    and stimulation. (Bailey J., supra, 189 Cal.App.4th at p. 1316.)
    In addition, as in Bailey J., there is no basis to find that the
    juvenile court abused its discretion in finding that the
    relationship between father and Ariana did not provide a
    compelling reason to find that termination of parental rights
    would be detrimental to Ariana. (Ibid.)
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    Finally, father relies on In re E.T. (2018) 
    31 Cal.App.5th 68
    (E.T.). In E.T., a mother’s twins were removed from her care at
    the age of four months due to mother’s mental health issues and
    drug addiction. After more than a year of reunification services,
    the children were returned to her care. However, over a year
    later, mother admitted to her social worker that she had relapsed
    and needed help and agreed to a safety plan placing the children
    in the home of their godparents. (Id. at p. 71.) Mother relapsed
    again during the proceedings despite her efforts to overcome her
    addiction. (Id. at p. 74.) By the time of the permanency hearing,
    the children had lived with their godparents for 24 months of
    their lives and had lived with mother for 22 months of their lives.
    The court determined that although the children were “‘very
    tied’” to mother, their relationship with mother was not
    substantial enough to outweigh the children’s need for stability
    with their godparents. (Id. at p. 75.) The E.T. court reversed,
    finding that severing the natural parent/child relationship would
    deprive the children of a substantial, positive emotional
    attachment such that they would be greatly harmed. (Id. at
    p. 77.) The court noted, “the twins have a substantial and
    positive attachment to Mother such that terminating their
    familial relationship would cause them great harm.” (Ibid.) As
    in S.B., the E.T. court noted that although the juvenile court
    likely considered that the mother would still have contact with
    her children in the future due to her close relationship with the
    godparents, “‘the court cannot nevertheless terminate parental
    rights based upon an unenforceable expectation that the
    prospective adoptive parents will voluntarily permit future
    contact between the child and a biological parent, even if
    substantial evidence supports that expectation.’” (E.T., at p. 78.)
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    Finally, the mother’s self-reporting of her relapses showed that
    she recognized when the children were in jeopardy and needed
    help. Thus, the mother showed insight into her parental
    responsibilities and was attentive to her children’s best interests.
    (Ibid.)
    Father points out that like the mother in E.T., Ariana was
    tied to father and would get emotional when visits ended.
    However, there was conflicting evidence on this point. The
    human services aide testified that Ariana did not cry when the
    visits ended. In addition, she testified that Ariana requested
    things from father like food items and toys for him to bring to
    future visits, supporting the conclusion that she viewed him as
    more of a playmate. Finally, there was evidence that the visits
    were negatively affecting Ariana’s emotional state, as she would
    come home agitated and her behavior would deteriorate. Unlike
    E.T., there was no suggestion that the prospective adoptive
    parents had a close relationship with father that would cause
    father to be included in Ariana’s life in the future. These factual
    differences between the cases sufficiently distinguish them such
    that we are not persuaded that we should follow E.T. in this case.
    Substantial evidence supported the juvenile court’s factual
    determination that father’s relationship with Ariana would not
    benefit Ariana to the extent required for application of the
    exception to termination of parental rights found in section
    366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i). The juvenile court did not abuse
    its discretion in finding that termination of father’s parental
    rights would not be detrimental to the child.
    III. Mother’s appeal
    Like father, mother appeals from the order terminating
    parental rights on the ground that the juvenile court erred in
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    declining to apply the beneficial parental relationship exception
    to termination of her parental rights found in section 366.26,
    subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i). We discuss each element mother was
    required to prove below. As in father’s appeal, we find that the
    evidence below supports the juvenile court’s decision, and the
    court did not abuse its discretion in finding that termination of
    mother’s parental rights would not be detrimental to the child.
    A.     Regular visitation and contact
    As in father’s appeal, the first element of the beneficial
    parental relationship exception is not at issue in mother’s appeal.
    DCFS does not dispute that mother maintained consistent
    visitation throughout the case to the extent that such visitation
    was permitted. However, as was the case with father, mother’s
    visits reverted from unmonitored to monitored in July 2020 given
    the parents’ inability to stop engaging in domestic violence in the
    child’s presence.
    B.     A benefit to the child from continuing the
    relationship
    Mother’s burden of showing a sufficiently beneficial
    relationship with Ariana was the same as father’s. She was
    required to show more than frequent and loving contact. (In re
    Beatrice M., supra, 29 Cal.App.4th at p. 1418.) Instead, she was
    required to show that she occupied a parental role in Ariana’s
    life. (Id. at p. 1419.) Such a parental relationship exists only
    where the parent’s contact with the child has “‘developed a
    significant, positive, emotional attachment.’” (Ibid.) Substantial
    evidence supports the juvenile court’s decision that this type of
    significant relationship did not exist between mother and Ariana
    at the time of termination of parental rights.
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    Like father, mother had pleasant, fun visits with Ariana.
    Ariana enjoyed the monitored visits, which took place twice
    weekly. However, mother presented no evidence that Ariana
    looked to her as a parental figure. In contrast, the evidence
    showed that Ariana looked to her foster caregivers as her
    parental figures. Each time that Ariana was redetained from her
    parents’ care, the prospective adoptive parents had recommitted
    to caring for her. Mother provided no evidence that the bond
    between mother and Ariana was a significant, emotional
    attachment that rose to the level of the beneficial parental
    relationship exception.
    In addition, like father, mother had multiple opportunities
    to reunify with Ariana, only to have her detained again due to the
    parents’ violation of court orders requiring them to stay away
    from each other and refrain from domestic violence in her
    presence. Unlike the parents in S.B., supra, 164 Cal.App.4th at
    page 298 and E.T., supra, 31 Cal.App.5th at page 78, mother was
    not able to put Ariana’s needs first and stay away from father.
    This evidence weighed against a finding of a beneficial
    relationship.
    Further, there was evidence that the visits with mother did
    not benefit Ariana. She would be upset, tired and emotionally
    drained after her visits with her parents, causing her to act out
    and have trouble sleeping. Ariana associated her parents with
    police activity and arguments that she would see on television.
    Mother bore the burden of proof in this matter. She
    presented no evidence of a bonding study, nor did she present any
    evidence from a therapist or psychologist suggesting that
    Ariana’s bond with her was significant. In contrast, DCFS
    presented ample evidence that Ariana’s bond with her
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    prospective adoptive parents was far stronger and more
    significant in her life than her relationship with mother. Ariana
    was thriving in their care. The juvenile court was entitled to
    credit DCFS’s evidence.
    Under the circumstances, we find that the evidence
    supports the juvenile court’s determination that mother did not
    provide the type of significant, positive emotional attachment
    required for the section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) exception
    to termination of parental rights.
    C.     The juvenile court did not abuse its discretion
    in determining that termination of mother’s
    parental rights would not be detrimental to the
    child
    The evidence in this matter supported the juvenile court’s
    finding that mother’s current relationship with Ariana did not
    rise to the level of a significant, parental relationship such that
    the section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) applied. Given that
    finding, we cannot find that the juvenile court abused its
    discretion in finding that “any benefit accruing to the child from
    her relationship with the parents is outweighed by the physical
    and emotional benefit the child would receive through the
    permanency and stability of adoption, and that adoption is in the
    best interest of the child.”
    The evidence supporting the juvenile court’s reasonable
    exercise of its discretion on the detriment issue in this matter
    overlaps with its findings regarding the beneficial relationship.
    As set forth in detail above, Ariana was detained multiple times
    from her parents because they violated court orders and
    continued to engage in violence in Ariana’s presence even after
    participating in court-ordered programs. Ariana was continually
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    placed back in the home of the same foster parents, who became
    her prospective adoptive parents. While the parents continued to
    visit with Ariana, the visits began to cause Ariana distress and
    began to interfere with her normal development. The visits were
    reduced accordingly. The evidence supports the juvenile court’s
    finding that the prospective adoptive parents were the ones
    providing Ariana with her daily care, meeting all of her needs,
    and providing a stable and loving environment. The juvenile
    court did not abuse its discretion in finding that termination of
    mother’s parental rights would not be detrimental to the child.
    D.    The juvenile court did not apply the wrong legal
    standard
    Mother contends that the juvenile court applied an
    incorrect legal standard when it terminated parental rights.
    Mother argues that the juvenile court “erroneously combined two
    standards, part of the third component of the beneficial
    relationship test, and a best interests standard.”
    We disagree that the juvenile court erred. The juvenile
    court specifically found that Ariana was adoptable, that any
    benefit to the child accruing from her relationship with the
    parents was outweighed by the physical and emotional benefit
    she would receive through the permanency and stability of
    adoption, and that no exceptions were applicable. As part of its
    ruling, the court noted that “adoption is in the best interest of the
    child.”
    The juvenile court did not err in mentioning Ariana’s best
    interests. As set forth in Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at page
    633, “In each case, then, the court acts in the child’s best interest
    in a specific way: it decides whether the harm of severing the
    relationship outweighs ‘the security and the sense of belonging a
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    new family would confer.’” To balance the various factors is a
    “daunting prospect” for trial courts. (Id. at p. 635.) However, as
    the Caden C. court noted, the juvenile court must do its best to
    act in the child’s best interest throughout this difficult
    decisionmaking. The juvenile court did not err in noting that
    adoption was in Ariana’s best interest, and its reference to
    Ariana’s best interest does not undermine the careful weighing of
    evidence that the juvenile court appropriately undertook during
    the section 366.26 proceedings.
    DISPOSITION
    The order is affirmed.
    ________________________
    CHAVEZ, J.
    We concur:
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    LUI, P. J.                           ASHMANN-GERST, J.
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Document Info

Docket Number: B310511

Filed Date: 10/6/2021

Precedential Status: Non-Precedential

Modified Date: 10/6/2021