In re V.V. CA2/5 ( 2022 )


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  • Filed 8/10/22 In re V.V. CA2/5
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    IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
    SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT
    DIVISION FIVE
    In re V.V. et al., Persons Coming                               B317159
    Under the Juvenile Court Law.
    LOS ANGELES COUNTY                                              (Los Angeles County
    DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN                                          Super. Ct. No.
    AND FAMILY SERVICES,                                            18CCJP03513A-B)
    Plaintiff and Respondent,
    v.
    D.V.,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    APPEAL from orders of the Superior Court of Los Angeles
    County, Mary E. Kelly, Judge. Affirmed.
    Gina Zaragoza, under appointment by the Court of Appeal,
    for Defendant and Appellant.
    Dawyn R. Harrison, Acting County Counsel, Kim Nemoy,
    Assistant County Counsel, and Navid Nakhjavani, Principal
    Deputy County Counsel, for Plaintiff and Respondent.
    Dan. V. (Father) challenges the juvenile court’s order
    terminating his parental rights to his daughter V.V. and son D.V.
    We are asked to decide whether the juvenile court erred in
    declining to rely on the parental benefit exception to forgo
    terminating parental rights. In particular, we consider whether
    substantial evidence supports the juvenile court’s finding that no
    beneficial relationship existed between Father and the children
    and whether the juvenile court abused its discretion when it
    found terminating Father’s parental rights would not be
    detrimental to the children.
    I. BACKGROUND
    A.    Investigation and Assumption of Dependency
    Jurisdiction
    V.V. was born in August 2008; D.V. was born in December
    2009. The events that led to the dependency orders challenged in
    this appeal began in May 2018.1
    A teacher at V.V.’s school reported to the Los Angeles
    County Department of Children and Family Services (the
    Department) that V.V. disclosed an uncle had been sexually
    1
    The children had been adjudicated dependents of the
    juvenile court on two previous occasions. In August 2012, the
    juvenile court sustained a dependency petition alleging the
    children were at risk based on their mother A.U.’s (Mother’s)
    history of mental and emotional problems and drug use, plus
    Father’s failure to protect them. In October 2014, the juvenile
    court sustained allegations based on both parents’ alcohol abuse
    as well as Mother’s history of mental and emotional problems and
    drug use. The children were released to Father in both cases,
    and he was granted sole physical and legal custody.
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    abusing her for years.2 V.V. discussed the abuse in detail with a
    Department social worker. V.V. said she mentioned the abuse to
    D.V. about a year earlier, but D.V. could not recall what she told
    him. V.V. did not believe anyone else in the home was aware of
    the abuse, and she had not reported it to any adults because her
    uncle threatened to “break the house down” and she was worried
    she would get in trouble.
    The children told a Department social worker they lived
    with Father, their maternal grandmother, and two uncles.3 The
    grandmother cared for the children, and V.V. said she is
    “everything to [them]. She’s [their] mom, dad, gramma and
    grandpa. She does everything for [them].” D.V. reported Father
    “drinks a little bit” and “[s]ometimes he gets drunk. He always
    goes to his room and locks the door. . . . He’s mean sometimes.
    He argues with us and tries to take us somewhere . . . . He says
    mean stuff like [you’re] dumb and ugly . . . .” V.V. said Father
    left the home for days at a time, explaining: “He gets drunk
    sometimes and goes somewhere. He does that and he likes it
    because he won’t stop. He has red eyes and a grumpy voice. He
    acts a little scary.”
    Father, who had red eyes and smelled of alcohol at the time
    of an interview with a social worker, said it was “possibl[e]” V.V.
    had been abused by her uncle but the allegations were “difficult”
    to believe because he had not observed any concerning behavior
    and the uncle was someone he trusted. Father also suspected the
    2
    A school psychologist also reported V.V. said the uncle
    abused D.V., but D.V. denied this and V.V. told a social worker
    she was not aware of anyone touching D.V.
    3
    Neither child had seen Mother for at least a year.
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    allegations were fabricated by Mother, who had accused the uncle
    of molesting D.V. a couple years earlier.4 Nonetheless, Father
    acknowledged the uncle “ha[d] to leave.” When a medical
    examination confirmed injuries to V.V. consistent with sexual
    abuse, Father “began crying and said he believe[d] his daughter.”
    Within a couple months, however, V.V. told her grandmother that
    Father said he would punish V.V. the next time she “speaks up or
    says anything.”
    Father claimed he stopped drinking alcohol during the
    earlier dependency proceedings involving the children but
    relapsed a few months earlier when his mother died. He
    acknowledged leaving the home for days at a time, and he said
    the children’s grandmother took care of them. While the
    Department was investigating the sexual abuse allegations,
    Father tested positive for cocaine.
    The children’s grandmother told a social worker she moved
    in to the family home to look after the children and she was their
    primary caregiver. As she put it, she had “played the role of the
    children’s ‘mother’ since they were born.” She had not witnessed
    any inappropriate behavior, but she did not spend time in the
    portion of the house occupied by Father and his brothers.
    The juvenile court asserted dependency jurisdiction over
    the children in September 2018 based on the substantial risk of
    serious physical harm presented by the uncle’s sexual abuse of
    V.V., Father’s failure to protect her, and Father’s alcohol and
    drug abuse. Father was ordered to participate in a substance
    abuse program, to submit to alcohol and drug testing, and to
    4
    The Department’s investigation of this claim in 2015 was
    “inconclusive.”
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    participate in individual counseling and sex abuse counseling.
    He was granted three monitored, two-hour visits per week.
    B.    Supplemental and Subsequent Petitions
    The children were placed in foster care at the beginning of
    these proceedings, but they were later placed with their
    grandmother. Father smelled of alcohol during a visit with the
    children in October 2018, but he enrolled in Alcoholics
    Anonymous and had been “consistent and appropriate with
    visitation” as of March 2019. The Department exercised its
    discretion to permit Father unmonitored overnight visits, and
    these “went well.” The juvenile court ordered the children placed
    with Father on the condition that the family continue to reside
    with the children’s grandmother.
    The following month, the Department received a report
    from V.V.’s school that she “said she wanted to hurt herself”
    because “[F]ather has been talking about seeing [the uncle who
    abused her] at family get togethers in the future . . . .” She told
    classmates she was worried about “her uncle moving back home,
    possibly within the next four days.” V.V. was briefly hospitalized.
    The children’s grandmother told a social worker Father had
    been drinking and absent from the family home for days at a
    time. Father denied talking with V.V. about her uncle. He also
    denied—initially—he had begun drinking again and claimed he
    had been intermittently staying at his Alcoholics Anonymous
    provider site. (Residents at this facility told a social worker
    Father recently arrived drunk.) Within weeks, however, Father
    admitted to a social worker that he was drinking again and said
    he had not “been home lately because [he did not] want [his]
    children to see [him] like this.”
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    Father agreed to leave the home within a few days and
    signed an affidavit stating he needed the children’s grandmother
    to care for them while he sought mental health treatment. When
    asked about his role in the family home, Father said he would
    “come and see if everything is fine” but the children’s
    grandmother took care of the children, cooked for them, and took
    them to school. The children’s grandmother reported D.V. missed
    a recent mental health appointment because Father was away
    from home. V.V. said she only saw Father a few days each week
    and he would “sleep and sleep.”
    In May 2019 (less than two months after the children were
    returned to Father’s care), the Department filed supplemental
    and subsequent dependency petitions. The children were
    removed from Father’s custody and placed with their
    grandmother, who monitored one two-hour visit with Father each
    week. The Department exercised its discretion to grant Father
    unmonitored daytime visits in September 2019, and these were
    “going well.”
    In October 2019, the juvenile court sustained an allegation
    in the supplemental petition that Father failed to participate in
    court-ordered services and failed to ensure the children
    participated in wraparound services. The juvenile court also
    sustained an allegation in the subsequent petition that the
    children were at serious risk of physical harm because Father did
    not ensure V.V. received mental health services and left the
    children with their grandmother without making an appropriate
    plan for their care and supervision (including providing
    documentation needed to obtain medical treatment). Father was
    again ordered to participate in a substance abuse program, to
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    submit to testing, and to participate in individual counseling. He
    was granted three unmonitored three-hour visits per week.
    C.    Second Supplemental Dependency Petition
    Around the time the juvenile court ruled on the
    Department’s supplemental and subsequent petitions, the
    Department exercised its discretion to grant Father overnight
    weekend visits. Although Father missed some of these visits
    while in an inpatient program, they were generally “going well”
    as of February 2020. The juvenile court once again returned the
    children to Father’s care that month.
    A few months later, however, the children’s grandmother
    told a social worker Father was drinking again. He was also “in
    and out of the home”—sometimes promising to bring the children
    food and not following through and other times coming home late
    after the children were in bed.
    V.V. told a social worker she had seen Father drunk
    outside through her window. She also mentioned that when
    Father drank, he sometimes summoned D.V. to his room to
    discuss “adult stuff.” D.V. made it “very clear” to the social
    worker that he did not enjoy these conversations. He asked V.V.
    to accompany him because he did not want to be alone with
    Father when Father had been drinking. D.V. said Father “talks
    to [him] about when he dies and says that [D.V.] will be the boss
    of the house.” Father told the children he was being deported
    and planned to move to Nicaragua with a new wife, but he
    subsequently recanted these statements. V.V. said she felt safe
    at home when Father was sober, but not when he was drinking.
    D.V. said he did not feel safe “recently” with Father in the home.
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    When interviewed by the Department, Father denied he
    had begun abusing alcohol again and he said he was anxious
    because his group programs had been canceled due to the
    COVID-19 public health emergency. When a social worker told
    Father he had recently tested positive for cocaine, Father said he
    would move out of the family home so the children could remain
    there with their grandmother. Father had a phone visit with
    D.V. shortly after he moved out, but V.V. declined to speak with
    him because he missed her virtual graduation earlier that day.
    The Department filed yet another supplemental petition
    alleging the previous disposition was not effective in protecting
    the children because Father tested positive for cocaine and was
    under the influence of alcohol on multiple occasions while the
    children were under his care. The juvenile court sustained this
    allegation in July 2020 and again removed the children from
    Father’s custody. The court also terminated family reunification
    services, but Father was allowed to continue monitored visitation
    with the children.
    D.    Events After Termination of Family Reunification
    Services
    The children’s grandmother expressed interest in adopting
    them, but, as of November 2020, the Department was still
    reviewing her eligibility as a permanent placement because she
    was going through a divorce and expected to move to a different
    home. The divorce was finalized in April 2021 and the
    Department found “no impediments to the placement or
    adoption” at that time.
    The Department reported the children have a “wonderful
    bond” with their grandmother and called her “mami.” V.V.
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    favored adoption, stating, “I do not want [Father] to take care of
    us because of how he treated us in the past. He would get drunk.
    I want to be adopted by my grandma because she knows us better
    than [Father]. I worry that he will begin to start drinking again.”
    V.V. reiterated in another conversation that she “worr[ied] about
    the case closing and [Father] going back to how he was.” She
    “[did] not trust” Father because of his drinking, because he
    “lie[d]” about being deported, and based on instances in which he
    promised outings and gifts without following through. V.V. knew
    Father “was trying,” but she felt their “connection [was] not
    there.” D.V. said he wanted Father to visit or “be home,” but he
    wanted his grandmother to adopt him and V.V. because she
    “knows us well and knows how to take good care of us.” D.V. was
    also “worr[ied] about [Father] drinking again.”
    Between July 2020 and August 2021, Father generally
    attended two of his three authorized weekly visits with the
    children.5 At times during this period, Father also brought the
    children lunch one day per week. (When in-person learning
    resumed, Father also drove the children to school.) The children
    told a social worker their visits with Father were short, “lasting
    30 minutes to an hour,” and he “sometimes only drop[ped] off food
    for the children, greet[ed] them and le[ft].” At other times,
    Father would greet the children, “inquire[ ] about school, bring[ ]
    them food and sometimes watch[ ] TV with them,” but there was
    “no other form of bonding.” The children said they enjoyed the
    visits, but V.V. asked Father to “stay a little longer” and D.V.
    5
    Father missed at least a couple visits each month between
    January and August 2021.
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    wanted Father to “talk with [him and V.V.] more.” Both children
    said Father did not play with them.
    In January 2021, Father filed a changed circumstances
    petition seeking reinstatement of family reunification services.
    He argued, among other things, that he was sober and had
    recently completed an outpatient substance abuse program. The
    Department recommended the juvenile court deny the petition.
    The juvenile court held a hearing in June 2021 to consider
    Father’s changed circumstances petition and to address whether
    the parental benefit exception to law that would otherwise
    require termination of Father’s parental rights might apply.
    Both the Department and the children’s attorney asked the
    juvenile court to deny the changed circumstances petition based
    on Father’s long history of substance abuse, his pattern of
    recovery only to be followed by relapse, and the children’s desire
    for their grandmother to adopt them. Father’s attorney argued
    he was currently sober, testing, and continuing to participate in
    treatment; he had completed sexual abuse awareness and other
    parenting classes; and he had enhanced his bond with the
    children, who, he asserted (in contrast to the position taken by
    their attorney), supported the changed circumstance petition.
    The juvenile court found that circumstances were
    changing—but not changed—and that reinstating family
    reunification services was not in the children’s best interest.
    Among other things, the juvenile court emphasized Father’s
    inappropriate statements to the children, the anxiety those
    statements produced, and the children’s concern that Father
    might once again relapse. With respect to the parental benefit
    exception, the juvenile court continued the hearing on that issue
    because it believed a bonding study would be helpful. The court
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    stated legal guardianship was an available option and remarked
    the children appeared to be “still . . . very attached” to Father.
    E.     The Bonding Study and the Juvenile Court’s
    Termination of Parental Rights
    The bonding study was prepared by Dr. Nancy Kaser-Boyd,
    who met with Father, V.V., and D.V. in October 2021.
    V.V. told Dr. Kaser-Boyd she did not want to return to
    Father’s care because he had done things that “affected [her] in a
    bad way.” Specifically, she was concerned that Father invited
    “[u]nsafe people” to their home. V.V. did not want to have
    overnight visits or go on any trips with Father, but she was “open
    to” continued visits with Father at her grandmother’s home. Dr.
    Kaser-Boyd noted V.V. has “lingering anxiety” and appeared to
    be “still working through the issues of molestation.” She is “quite
    needy” and “too fragile to be thrown into anxiety-provoking
    situations.”
    D.V. told Dr. Kaser-Boyd he was concerned that Father
    might resume drinking when social workers were no longer
    present. D.V.’s principal concern with respect to Father’s
    drinking was that Father would have long, uncomfortable
    conversations with him. D.V. wanted to remain with his
    grandmother and, when asked whether he was interested in
    overnight visits or trips with Father, appeared anxious and said
    no. Nonetheless, D.V. was “very definite” that he wanted Father
    to continue to visit.
    Dr. Kaser-Boyd observed Father “appears to have a
    commitment to the children” and believed the fact that he
    “maintain[ed] a cooperative relationship with the children’s
    [maternal grandmother] . . . demonstrates a good character . . . .”
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    She opined, with respect to both children, that “they are attached
    to [Father], but have experienced him at his times of weakness
    and are lacking in security about whether his rehab is a stable
    condition.”
    The juvenile court held a further hearing to consider the
    bonding study and the applicability of the parental benefit
    exception in December 2021.6
    Father’s attorney argued he maintained regular contact
    with the children, emphasized Dr. Kaser-Boyd’s view that the
    children were bonded with Father, and pointed out that Father
    provided financially for the children. Counsel for the children
    and the Department’s attorney asked the juvenile court to
    terminate Father’s parental rights. The children’s attorney
    argued that Father visited the children frequently but the visits
    were so “brief” and “lacking in quality” that they did not “result[ ]
    in the cultivation . . . or preservation of a bond so beneficial to the
    children that its benefits, in conjunction with his history of
    relapse and removal, outweigh the benefits of permanency in the
    safe and stable home that the grandmother has been providing.”
    The children’s attorney further stated that V.V. asked them to
    inform the court that she did not “have an active bond” with
    Father and also highlighted a prior statement by D.V. that he
    wanted his grandmother to adopt him. The Department argued
    “inconsistent visits and short visits” by Father, “as well as his
    pattern of really just failing to live up to his promises,”
    6
    Shortly before the hearing, in November 2021, V.V. was
    twice hospitalized based on concerns about her mental health.
    The appellate record does not include a detailed discussion of
    these episodes.
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    demonstrated the lack of a parental bond. Additionally, in the
    Department’s view, the stability offered by the children’s
    grandmother demonstrated that terminating Father’s parental
    rights would not harm the children.
    The juvenile court found the first element of a parental
    benefit exception showing—regular visitation and contact—was
    satisfied. As to the second element—whether the children would
    benefit from continuing the relationship—the juvenile court was
    concerned the children did not “have the trust in Father that he
    will continue to go forward as he has not been able to gain their
    trust and keep their trust.” The juvenile court believed the
    children were mature enough “to assess how they feel about their
    relationship” and emphasized that, “[f]rom [their] statements, it
    appears very obvious . . . that it is the maternal grandmother
    who has provided that psychological importance and that
    important relationship to them.” With respect to the third
    element—whether terminating the relationship would be
    detrimental to the children—the juvenile court noted the
    grandmother would probably continue to allow the children to
    visit Father,7 but concluded, even assuming the contrary, “life
    would be much better for these children in the adoptive home
    because they are secure” and “[t]hey are safe.” The juvenile court
    accordingly could not “find that the loss of the relationship [with
    Father] outweigh[ed] the benefit of the new adoptive home” and
    terminated Father’s (and Mother’s) parental rights.
    Father appeals the parental rights termination order.
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    A status review report prepared a couple weeks after the
    juvenile court terminated Father’s parental rights confirmed that
    Father continued to visit the children and drive them to school.
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    II. DISCUSSION
    The juvenile court determined the parental benefit
    exception did not apply for two independent reasons: Father did
    not prove the requisite beneficial relationship and did not show
    terminating his parental rights would be detrimental to the
    children. Father’s challenge to the first of these findings focuses
    on statements by the children indicating they missed Father and
    wanted him to visit more. That, however, fails to account for
    evidence that the children no longer trusted Father. Moving to
    the second of these findings, the juvenile court did not abuse its
    discretion in concluding that terminating the relationship would
    not be detrimental where the children’s grandmother had looked
    after them since before these proceedings began, shared a
    “wonderful” bond with them, and was the adoptive parent the
    children wanted.
    A.     The Parental Benefit Exception
    When a parent is unable to remedy the issues giving rise to
    dependency jurisdiction, the juvenile court holds a hearing under
    Welfare and Institutions Code section 366.26 to determine
    “whether to terminate parental rights, making way for adoption,
    or to maintain parental rights and select another permanent
    plan.”8 (In re Caden C. (2021) 
    11 Cal.5th 614
    , 625 (Caden C.).)
    “To ease the court’s difficult task in making this important
    decision, the statute provides a carefully calibrated process.
    Even if a court finds by clear and convincing evidence that the
    child is likely to be adopted, the parent may avoid termination of
    8
    Undesignated statutory references that follow are to the
    Welfare and Institutions Code.
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    parental rights by establishing at least one of a series of
    enumerated exceptions.” (Ibid.)
    One of these exceptions, set forth at section 366.26,
    subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i), is the parental benefit exception. The
    exception is “limited in scope” and applies where “‘[t]he court
    finds a compelling reason for determining that termination would
    be detrimental to the child due to one or more of the following
    circumstances: [¶] (i) The parents have maintained regular
    visitation and contact with the child and the child would benefit
    from continuing the relationship.’ (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).)
    From th[is] statute, [our Supreme Court] readily discern[ed]
    three elements the parent must prove to establish the exception:
    (1) regular visitation and contact, and (2) a relationship, the
    continuation of which would benefit the child such that (3) the
    termination of parental rights would be detrimental to the child.”
    (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at 631, third, fourth, and fifth
    alterations added.) Because we conclude the juvenile court
    correctly determined the second and third elements were not
    satisfied, we do not consider the Department’s contention—
    contrary to the juvenile court’s finding—that Father also failed to
    establish the first element.
    The second element—whether the child would benefit from
    continuing the relationship—depends on “a slew of factors, such
    as ‘[t]he age of the child, the portion of the child’s life spent in the
    parent’s custody, the “positive” or “negative” effect of interaction
    between parent and child, and the child’s particular needs.’”
    (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal5th at 632, citing In re Autumn H. (1994)
    
    27 Cal.App.4th 567
    , 576 (Autumn H.).) As emphasized in
    Autumn H., which Caden C. cited as “the seminal decision
    interpreting the exception” (Caden C., supra, at 631), the
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    parental benefit exception is not concerned with the “incidental
    benefit” that “[i]nteraction between natural parent and child will
    always confer.” (Autumn H., supra, at 575-576 [holding that a
    relationship comparable to that of a “‘friendly visitor’” or “‘family
    friend’” is insufficient to trigger the exception].) Nonetheless,
    juvenile courts “must remain mindful that rarely do ‘[p]arent-
    child relationships’ conform to an entirely consistent pattern.
    [Citations.]” (Caden C., supra, at 632, second alteration added.)
    The third element—whether terminating the relationship
    would be detrimental to the child—requires the juvenile court to
    determine “whether the harm of severing the relationship
    outweighs ‘the security and the sense of belonging a new family
    would confer.’ [Citation.] ‘If severing the natural parent/child
    relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive
    emotional attachment such that,’ even considering the benefits of
    a new adoptive home, termination would ‘harm[ ]’ the child, the
    court should not terminate parental rights. [Citation.]” (Caden
    C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at 633, citing Autumn H., supra, 27
    Cal.App.4th at 575.) Relevant factual determinations include
    “the specific features of the child’s relationship with the parent
    and the harm that would come from losing those specific
    features,” “how harmful in total that loss would be,” and “for the
    particular child, how a prospective adoptive placement may offset
    and even counterbalance those harms.” (Caden C., supra, at
    640.)
    A reviewing court uses the substantial evidence standard to
    evaluate a juvenile court’s determination of the existence vel non
    of a beneficial relationship. (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at 639.)
    “[T]he ultimate decision—whether termination of parental rights
    would be detrimental to the child due to the child’s relationship
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    with his parent—is discretionary and properly reviewed for abuse
    of discretion.” (Id. at 640.)
    B.     Analysis
    1.    Beneficial relationship
    Our Supreme Court has made clear that the issues leading
    to dependency are of limited relevance in determining whether
    the parental benefit exception applies. (Caden C., supra, 11
    Cal.5th at 638 [“The parent’s continuing difficulty with mental
    health or substance abuse may not be used as a basis for
    determining the fate of the parental relationship by assigning
    blame, making moral judgments about the fitness of the parent,
    or rewarding or punishing a parent”].) Nonetheless, “[a] parent’s
    struggles may mean that interaction between parent and child at
    least sometimes has a ‘“negative” effect’ on the child,” and “are
    relevant to that extent.” (Id. at 637-638)
    There is no question in this case that Father’s recurring
    substance abuse issues tainted his relationship with the children.
    He left the house for days at a time without notice, he was unable
    to follow through on promises to the children, he forced them into
    conversations that made them uncomfortable, and he made
    comments—e.g., about his plans to leave the country—that
    undermined their sense of stability. As Dr. Kaser-Boyd put it in
    the bonding study, the children “have experienced [Father] at his
    times of weakness and are lacking in security about whether his
    rehab is a stable condition.” As a result, neither V.V. nor D.V.
    trusted Father or wanted to have extended visits with him.
    Moreover, even when Father was sober, there is little
    evidence that he was able to develop a beneficial relationship
    with the children. He drove the children to school and dropped
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    off meals, but visits were short, both children said he did not play
    with them, and D.V. remarked that Father should talk with them
    more. Father also demonstrated insensitivity to V.V.’s
    “‘particular needs’”—indeed, he provoked her to threaten self-
    harm—by suggesting she would have to see her abuser again.
    (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at 632.) Under these circumstances,
    substantial evidence supports the finding that the children would
    not benefit from continuing their relationship with Father. (Ibid.
    [“[C]ourts often consider how children feel about, interact with,
    look to, or talk about their parents” when assessing whether a
    child would benefit from continuing the relationship]; In re B.D.
    (2021) 
    66 Cal.App.5th 1218
    , 1230 [“A positive attachment
    between parent and child is necessarily one that is not
    detrimental to the child but is nurturing and provides the child
    with a sense of security and stability”].)
    In arguing the contrary, Father primarily relies on the
    children’s statements that they missed him and enjoyed their
    visits. He cites no evidence, however, indicating these
    statements reflect anything more than the “incidental benefit”
    that “[i]nteraction between natural parent and child will always
    confer.” (Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at 575.) Father also
    argues the children lived with him most of their lives, but this
    carries little weight in proving the existence of a beneficial
    relationship given the circumstances in which they lived
    together: Father was absent for extended periods—whether going
    to his room and locking the door or leaving the home altogether—
    and it was generally acknowledged that Father delegated the
    physical and emotional care of the children to their grandmother.
    As V.V. put it, their grandmother did “everything” for them and
    assumed the roles of “mom, dad, gramma and grandpa.”
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    2.   Detriment
    The juvenile court did not abuse its discretion in
    determining that any harm that may result from terminating
    Father’s parental rights would be outweighed by the security and
    stability they found living with their grandmother. The
    children’s grandmother had been “everything” to them (since
    even before this dependency proceeding began) and they called
    her “mami.” (In re A.L. (2022) 
    73 Cal.App.5th 1131
    , 1157 [“[I]t
    was proper for the juvenile court to consider whether, and the
    extent to which, the caregivers and [the] father occupied parental
    roles with the minor”].) Both children wanted the grandmother
    to adopt them. She was a constant presence when Father
    relapsed and left the home for extended periods of time. Father’s
    periodic reappearances—during which, among other things, he
    broached the prospect of further contact with V.V.’s abuser and
    engaged D.V. in inappropriate conversation—destabilized the
    children’s lives with their grandmother.
    Father contends the juvenile court could not properly
    conclude the children would not be harmed by the termination of
    his parental rights without concrete evidence of the children’s
    feelings concerning the possibility that they would never see him
    again. While Father is correct that “courts must assume that
    terminating parental rights terminates the relationship” (Caden
    C., supra, 11 Cal.5th at 633), there is no reason why the juvenile
    court could not infer the impact on the children from other
    evidence, including his sporadic disappearances.
    Father’s further contention that terminating his parental
    rights is bound to be detrimental to the children because D.V.
    missed Mother (who had already been out of the children’s lives
    for a significant period) also misses the mark. Father’s burden
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    was not merely to establish that terminating his parental rights
    may have negative consequences, but that these consequences
    outweigh the benefits of adoption. (Caden C., supra, 11 Cal.5th
    at 640.) With only weak evidence that detriment would flow from
    severing any bond between Father and the children (including
    the children’s own stated preference for adoption) and strong
    evidence that the children’s grandmother was providing the
    safety and security they would otherwise lack, the juvenile court
    was within its discretion in deciding that terminating Father’s
    parental rights would not be detrimental.
    DISPOSITION
    The juvenile court’s orders are affirmed.
    NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN THE OFFICIAL REPORTS
    BAKER, J.
    We concur:
    RUBIN, P. J.
    MOOR, J.
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Document Info

Docket Number: B317159

Filed Date: 8/10/2022

Precedential Status: Non-Precedential

Modified Date: 8/10/2022