In re N.S. ( 2020 )


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  • Filed 9/17/20 Certified for Publication 10/9/20 (order attached)
    COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT
    DIVISION ONE
    STATE OF CALIFORNIA
    In re N.S., a Person Coming Under the
    Juvenile Court Law.
    D077177
    SAN DIEGO COUNTY HEALTH AND
    HUMAN SERVICES AGENCY,
    (Super. Ct. No. NJ14703)
    Plaintiff and Respondent,
    v.
    C.V.,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County,
    Michael Imhoff, Commissioner. Affirmed.
    Annie Greenleaf, under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for
    Defendant and Appellant.
    Thomas E. Montgomery, County Counsel, Caitlin E. Ray, Chief Deputy
    County Counsel, and Tahra Broderson, Deputy County Counsel, for Plaintiff
    and Respondent.
    C.V. (Mother) appeals from an order under Welfare and Institutions
    Code section 366.261 selecting adoption as the permanent plan for her son
    N.S. and terminating her parental rights.2 N.S.’s father is a member of the
    San Pasqual Band of Mission Indians (the Tribe). The Tribe has been
    involved in this case since the juvenile court found that N.S. is an Indian
    child and that the Indian Child Welfare Act (25 U.S.C. § 1901 et seq.) (ICWA)
    applies.3
    Mother contends (1) the Tribe’s “decree” selecting guardianship as the
    best permanent plan option for N.S. preempts the statutory preference for
    adoption under section 366.26; (2) N.S.’s counsel breached his duties under
    section 317 and provided ineffective assistance of counsel by failing to
    discover what Tribal benefits or membership rights were available to N.S.
    before the termination of parental rights; (3) the court erred in finding that
    1    All further statutory references are to the Welfare and Institutions
    Code unless otherwise specified.
    2     N.S.’s father visited N.S. only once and is not a party to this appeal.
    3     “ICWA, enacted in 1978, was Congress’s response to statistics showing
    a widespread practice of unwarranted removal of Indian children from their
    families by social services agencies. Congress declared that the policy behind
    the Act was ‘to protect the best interests of Indian children and to promote
    the stability and security of Indian tribes and families.’ (25 U.S.C. § 1902.)
    This was to be accomplished in part by the establishment of ‘minimum
    Federal standards’ governing the removal of Indian children from their
    families and the placement of such children according to preferences for
    homes reflecting Indian culture.” (Crystal R. v. Superior Court (1997) 
    59 Cal. App. 4th 703
    , 706.)
    “In 2006, to increase compliance with ICWA, the California Legislature
    passed Senate Bill No. 678 (2005-2006 Reg. Sess.), codifying and elaborating
    on ICWA’s requirements through revisions to several provisions of the
    Family, Probate and Welfare and Institutions Codes.” (In re Michael V.
    (2016) 
    3 Cal. App. 5th 225
    , 232, fn. 4.)
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    the Indian child exception of section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(vi)(I) and
    (II) does not apply to preclude termination of parental rights; (4) there is
    insufficient evidence to support the court’s finding beyond a reasonable doubt
    that continued custody in Mother’s care would be a substantial risk to N.S.;
    and (5) the court erred in finding that the beneficial parent-child relationship
    exception of section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) does not apply to preclude
    termination of parental rights. We affirm.
    FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
    In August 2012, when N.S. was 16 months old, the San Diego County
    Health and Human Services (the Agency) detained him and filed a petition
    under section 300, subdivision (b), after Mother’s roommate found Mother
    unresponsive, lying in her own vomit with N.S. in his crib in the same room.
    Mother had been using prescription drugs and alcohol since January 1, 2012,
    and admitted that she had a history of using illegal drugs that began in 1993
    and a history of alcoholism dating to 2004. She also admitted that she was
    not stable enough to care for N.S.
    The juvenile court assumed jurisdiction over N.S. and removed him
    from Mother’s custody. As noted, the juvenile court found that N.S. was an
    Indian child and that ICWA applied based on the father’s membership in the
    Tribe. N.S. was placed with the maternal grandparents about three weeks
    after he was detained. He was returned to Mother’s care on a trial visit in
    May 2013, but was removed again from Mother in September 2013 and
    placed with the maternal grandparents because Mother admitted to using
    methamphetamines, amphetamines, and alcohol since August 2013, and had
    used synthetic urine to pass a drug test.
    In September 2014, the court ordered a permanent plan of legal
    guardianship, appointed the maternal grandparents as legal guardians, and
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    terminated dependency jurisdiction. The grandparents hoped that Mother
    would reunify with N.S., but they expressed their willingness to adopt him if
    Mother were unable to successfully reunify. The maternal grandfather
    passed away in 2017. N.S. has been with the maternal grandmother
    (Grandmother) without disruption since he was placed in her home in 2013.
    In November 2018, Mother filed a petition under section 388 to change
    the juvenile court’s visitation order. She alleged that Grandmother was not
    allowing her to have contact and visitation with N.S. “as per the order,” and
    that she had not seen N.S. since December 26, 2016. She asked the court to
    allow her to have unsupervised and overnight visits with N.S. The court
    scheduled a hearing on Mother’s petition for December 4, 2018, and on that
    date continued the hearing to January 3, 2019, to allow the Agency social
    worker time to assess Mother’s request and provide a report to the court.
    In its report regarding Mother’s petition, the Agency recommended that
    the court maintain its previous orders. The Agency social worker met with
    Mother on November 29, 2018, at the Family Recovery Center (FRC), where
    Mother had been in residential substance abuse treatment for a month.
    Mother told the social worker that her “clean date” was September 22, 2018.
    She said that she had been struggling to arrange visits with N.S. for the past
    two years and had tried to contact him through regular mail, e-mail, and by
    telephone, but Grandmother had blocked the numbers that Mother called
    from. Mother said that she also tried to send care packages to N.S. with
    letters providing her contact information, but Grandmother never responded.
    Mother claimed that she had frequent visits with N.S. when the dependency
    case was open, but that Grandmother refused to allow visits once the
    guardianship was established.
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    After meeting with Mother, the social worker met with Grandmother
    and N.S. When she was able to speak with Grandmother alone, the social
    worker asked her why Mother’s visitation with N.S. had lapsed.
    Grandmother said that the last visit had occurred in December 2016 and
    explained that she had to get a restraining order against Mother in January
    2016 because Mother had threatened to physically harm her. She continued
    to allow regular visits with the mother that year, but throughout 2017, her
    husband was very ill and was in and out of the hospital. Mother came to the
    hospital to see Grandmother and N.S. and told them, “Don’t worry. I’m just
    here to protect my inheritance.” Grandmother did not think that Mother was
    in a stable place. Mother had been “in and out of different substance abuse
    programs 15 or more times.”
    Grandmother told the social worker that telephone messages from
    Mother could be pleasant or abusive and that Mother could “also be
    argumentative and twist words.” Mother would call eight to 10 times a day
    from different and random telephone numbers and although Grandmother
    gave Mother rules regarding phone calls, she was constantly getting calls
    from strangers using different phone numbers in the middle of the night.
    The social worker asked about the packages that Mother reportedly sent to
    Grandmother’s residence. Grandmother said that Mother sent packages in
    February 2017, March 2018, and April 2018, and that N.S. “correlates”
    Mother to receiving presents. The social worker reminded Grandmother that
    Mother still had parental rights and a right to visit N.S. The social worker
    scheduled a visit at FRC and informed Grandmother that she (the social
    worker) would be supervising visits, initially.
    N.S. was in second grade and was doing well academically and socially
    at school. He enjoyed reading and playing with his friends and was enrolled
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    in extracurricular activities including soccer, basketball, and a Christian
    scouting group that Grandmother viewed as a way for him to be around
    positive male role models. The social worker asked N.S. about his life in
    Grandmother’s home and he said, “Everything here is awesomely best!”
    When the social worker spoke privately with N.S., she asked him whether he
    had any worries. He said “no.” She asked him how he felt about visiting with
    his mother and he said okay, but appeared hesitant. However, he said that
    he would be “okay” with a visit supervised by the social worker the following
    week at Mother’s place.
    The social worker supervised four visits between Mother and N.S. in
    December 2018. N.S. appeared nervous during the first visit. Mother
    greeted him affectionately and had activities planned for each visit. N.S. was
    very well behaved initially, but as he became more comfortable with the
    visits, he began to test limits and boundaries with Mother and needed more
    redirecting, reminding, and prompting about his behavior. Grandmother told
    the social worker that Mother had a history of allowing inappropriate
    behavior to continue rather than stopping it. The social worker’s assessment
    was that Mother and N.S. generally enjoyed the visits but that Mother
    allowed some misbehavior without consequences.
    The social worker’s overall assessment was that Mother and
    Grandmother’s relationship was strained and conflicted due to Mother’s
    chronic substance abuse. Grandmother’s position was that Mother had never
    been stable and that it was not beneficial for N.S. to be subjected to Mother’s
    lack of consistency, stability, and sobriety. Mother’s only desire was to build
    a relationship with N.S. Although Mother was in residential treatment and
    expressed a desire to successfully complete it, based on her past failed
    attempts to maintain sobriety, the Agency and Grandmother doubted her
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    ability to succeed. Grandmother was aware that she (Grandmother) had
    violated the court’s orders by not following through on visitation. The Agency
    recommended that the court admonish Grandmother, but noted that N.S.
    was thriving in her care. The Agency recommended that he remain in her
    care and that Mother be allowed supervised visitation.
    Grandmother filed a section 388 petition on January 3, 2019,
    requesting that the court reinstate dependency jurisdiction, change its order
    making guardianship N.S.’s permanent plan, and set a new section 366.26
    hearing to determine the most appropriate permanent plan for N.S.
    Grandmother alleged that the proposed change of order would promote N.S.’s
    best interests and that Grandmother adopting N.S. would “afford [him] the
    greatest degree of permanency and stability.”
    At the hearing on January 3, 2019, the court “re-acquire[d] juvenile
    dependency jurisdiction[]” and appointed counsel to represent both Mother
    and N.S. Grandmother was represented by retained counsel. Maya
    Goodblanket, appeared at the hearing as the Tribe’s ICWA representative
    and the court noted the previous finding that ICWA applied. The court
    continued the hearing on Mother’s and Grandmother’s section 388 petitions
    to January 17, 2019 “to allow counsel to provide proper notice to the Indian
    tribe of their respective requests.”
    At the hearing on January 17, 2019, Mother withdrew her section 388
    petition and the court reiterated its order allowing her supervised visitation.
    The court gave the social worker discretion to expand Mother’s supervised
    visits with the concurrence of N.S.’s counsel. The court granted
    Grandmother’s section 388 petition and set a section 366.26 hearing for
    May 16, 2019.
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    In February 2019, Mother began participating in dependency drug
    court. Her compliance in the program was good until she submitted a diluted
    test in April 2019, which was viewed as a positive result. On May 3, 2019,
    Mother withdrew from the drug court program.
    Agency social worker Steffi Navarro was assigned to the case in
    February 2019 and prepared the Agency’s report for the May 16 section
    366.26 hearing. In the initial report filed in April 2019, the Agency’s
    recommendation was that the court select tribal customary adoption (TCA)4
    as N.S.’s permanent plan. When Navarro first met with Mother in February
    2019, Mother told her that she had been sober for five months and said that
    she had learned coping skills and changed her lifestyle while participating in
    therapy and treatment.
    Mother had been having weekly one-hour supervised visits with N.S.
    She asked about increasing the frequency of visitation. Visitation had not
    changed because N.S. had repeatedly expressed that he did not want more
    visitation and asked that it remain at one hour per week. At the time she
    wrote her report, Navarro had supervised five visits between Mother and
    N.S. at a family visitation center between February 21 and April 18, 2019.
    Mother consistently brought food, toys, games, and activities to the visits,
    although she had been advised by the visitation center staff to limit the
    amount of food and gifts and to focus more on bonding with N.S. Mother
    showed affection to N.S. throughout the visits by frequently kissing, hugging,
    and expressing her love for him. N.S. was observed to be receptive to
    4     The statutory definition of “tribal customary adoption” is “adoption by
    and through the tribal custom, traditions, or law of an Indian child’s tribe.
    Termination of parental rights is not required to effect the tribal customary
    adoption.” (§ 366.24, subdivision (a)(1).)
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    Mother’s affection but occasionally appeared to be frustrated and resistant to
    it. He sometimes did not respond appropriately to Mother’s attempts to
    redirect him.
    Navarro observed that overall, the comfort level between Mother and
    N.S. had improved over the course of the visits, but she continued to see a
    struggle between Mother’s redirection and N.S.’s compliance. Navarro
    noticed that N.S. had a nervous twitch that occurred mainly during his visits
    with Mother. The psychologist who evaluated N.S. confirmed that he
    appeared to have a twitch when he became anxious.
    In addition to the weekly visitation, Mother had two scheduled
    telephone calls with N.S. each week. However, as of April 2, 2019, Mother
    had been calling only once a week, at N.S.’s request. Regarding the phone
    calls, Mother said to Navarro, “I can tell he is not excited. He tells me before
    the phone call that he doesn’t like to talk on the phone.”
    N.S. told Navarro that he enjoyed his visits with Mother and that his
    favorite part was the playground and playing soccer. He had been observed
    telling Mother that he loved her, but did not appear distressed at the end of
    visits. When asked whether he wanted more visits or time to visit, N.S. said
    he was okay with one visit and did not want any more. N.S.’s counsel told
    Navarro that N.S. had told her the same thing.
    Regarding telephone calls, N.S. told Navarro that he did not like to talk
    on the phone and preferred one weekly call rather than two. He had not
    expressed that to Mother because he did not want to hurt her feelings, but he
    agreed to let Navarro explain it to her. Navarro asked N.S. if he would like
    Mother to attend his extracurricular activities like karate. He expressed that
    he would not and added, “I don’t like anything different. I want everything to
    stay the same.” Navarro also asked N.S. why he appeared to not listen to
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    Mother’s redirections during visits. He responded that he just wanted to
    have fun when he visited with Mother.
    Contrary to what N.S. communicated to Navarro, Mother told Navarro
    on March 7, 2019 that N.S. had requested more visits with Mother and had
    asked about living with Mother. On March 25, Navarro asked N.S. whether
    he had ever mentioned wanting to move in with Mother. He told Navarro, “I
    never said that. I don’t recall saying that.” Navarro asked N.S. how he felt
    about adoption and N.S. said, “Happy!” She then asked him how he felt
    about being adopted by Grandmother and he said, “Excited! I want her to
    adopt me.” During a psychological evaluation, N.S. said, “I’m not ready to
    live with [Mother].” When asked why, he said, “I would really miss my
    grandma.”
    Navarro reported that Grandmother and the Tribe were requesting,
    and the Agency was recommending, a TCA for N.S. During a child and
    family team (CFT) meeting in April 2019, Goodblanket, the Tribal ICWA
    representative, expressed concern that N.S. was not becoming involved or
    connected with the Tribe and its traditions. At that meeting, Grandmother
    inquired about the possibility of receiving a newsletter from the Tribe that
    would provide information about the Tribe’s events. Navarro reported that
    Grandmother understood the responsibilities of a TCA and had a strong
    desire to adopt N.S. and continue to provide him a safe and nurturing home.
    She had shown over the past six years that she was willing and able to meet
    his physical, emotional, and developmental needs.
    N.S.’s court appointed special advocate (CASA) also filed a report for
    the section 366.26 hearing. The CASA believed that N.S. was thriving and
    that all of his needs were being met in Grandmother’s care. While it was
    evident that Mother loved N.S., the CASA thought that Mother’s visits
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    should remain supervised to ensure N.S.’s safety and well-being. The CASA
    believed that Mother had neglected to acknowledge or take responsibility for
    how her behavior was unsettling and potentially unsafe for N.S., who had
    stated that he did not want his visits with Mother to be expanded. The CASA
    agreed with the Agency’s recommendation for a TCA.
    In an addendum report for the section 366.26 hearing filed on May 14,
    2019, Navarro reported that she had visited N.S. at school on May 9, 2019,
    and asked him if he wanted more visitation with Mother. N.S. said he would
    like to have a second one-hour visit during the week, but he did not want to
    increase the time of the visits to more than one hour. He confirmed that he
    still wanted Grandmother to adopt him, and that although he was requesting
    an additional weekly visit with Mother, he did not want to live with her.
    In addendum reports filed on May 14 and 15, 2019, the Agency
    requested a 90-day continuance of the section 366.26 hearing to complete its
    efforts to locate the father and provide him notice of the hearing. At the
    hearing on May 16, 2020, the court granted the Agency’s request for a
    continuance and set the section 366.26 hearing for August 19, 2019.
    In an addendum report filed on August 16, 2019, Navarro reported that
    the Agency’s recommendation was termination of parental rights and
    adoption instead of TCA. Goodblanket had notified Navarro by e-mail on
    August 13 that the Tribe was selecting guardianship for N.S.’s permanent
    plan. Navarro contacted Goodblanket by phone and asked whether TCA was
    “completely off the table” for the Tribe. Navarro explained that although the
    Tribe’s input and recommendation were valuable to the Agency, the Agency
    would be recommending adoption, but if TCA were an option for the Tribe,
    the Agency would recommend TCA because the Agency believed that
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    Mother’s involvement in N.S.’s life was important.5 Goodblanket told
    Navarro that the Tribe was currently seeking guardianship, but that TCA
    was not completely off the table.
    The Tribe sent the Agency a letter dated August 13, 2019, stating that
    after careful consideration of N.S.’s best interests, it believed that
    guardianship with Grandmother was the best permanent plan option for N.S.
    The letter stated that the Tribe did not feel that TCA was in N.S.’s best
    interests “due to concerns of the rights and responsibilities that would be
    listed in the TCA Order not being adhered to by [Grandmother]. These
    include but are not limited to: regular visitation and contact with the birth
    mother, informing [N.S.] of his Native American heritage, making reasonable
    efforts to have [N.S.] participate in cultural and/or traditional activities of
    San Pascual, making reasonable efforts to enroll [N.S.] in native language
    classes/programs, meet with the San Pasqual Tribe within 30 days of [N.S.’s]
    eighteenth birthday, and preserving familial and cultural ties to the San
    Pasqual Tribe and extended family residing both on and off the San Pasqual
    Indian Reservation.”
    In its assessment/evaluation for the permanency hearing, the Agency
    explained that it was not opposed to TCA with the Tribe’s concurrence, but
    5      Navarro reported that since the May 16, 2019 hearing, Mother and
    Grandmother had “made great strides to rebuild their relationship, all for the
    best interest of [N.S.]” Grandmother had “expressed that she sees the value
    and importance [Mother] has in [N.S.’s] life and stated she continues to
    encourage their relationship as long as it is in the best interest of [N.S.]. In
    addition, [Grandmother had] willingly supervised and supported an extra
    visit/outing between [Mother and N.S.] while [Grandmother] supervised.”
    Grandmother reported having “more communication with [Mother] via email,
    overall reporting that the relationship between them is growing and
    improving.”
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    because the Tribe was requesting guardianship, the Agency was changing its
    recommendation to termination of parental rights. Under the circumstances,
    adoption appeared to be the best permanent plan for N.S. and the plan that
    he continued to request.
    In June 2019, N.S. told Navarro that he continued to want
    Grandmother to adopt him and did not want to live with Mother, but he
    wanted to continue to have visitation with Mother even after being adopted
    by Grandmother. He said he was confused as to why the adoption was taking
    so long. He wrote the court a letter stating, “Dear judge I REALLY Want to
    get adopted By my grandma Because Shes nice great[.] [I’]ve lived with her a
    long time please let my grandma adopt me. I enjoy the visits with mom. Let
    my grandma adopt me. – [N.S.]”
    On August 19, 2019, Mother filed a new section 388 petition requesting
    that the court terminate the legal guardianship, reinstate reunification
    services to transition N.S. back to her care, and then offer family
    maintenance services. As changed circumstances, Mother alleged that she
    had addressed the issues that led to the filing of the original dependency
    petition and removal of N.S. from her care. She completed the FRC inpatient
    substance abuse program in January 2019, which included weekly individual
    therapy, and her drug tests were all negative during the program. After
    FRC, she completed an intensive three-month outpatient program followed
    by another three-month outpatient program, during which she had all
    negative drug tests except for one that was too diluted to get an accurate
    reading. All of her subsequent tests were negative and a hair follicle test
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    from June 5, 2019, was negative for drugs and alcohol.6 Since leaving FRC,
    she had been residing in North County Sober Living and participating in
    various other substance abuse programs and meetings, and had been testing
    negative biweekly. She had also completed a parenting class through the
    Indian Health Council, Inc.
    Mother alleged that returning N.S. to her care would be in his best
    interests because they had developed a strong bond despite several years of
    Grandmother’s not allowing visitation. The Agency’s reports showed that
    Mother’s visits with N.S. had gone well, and that N.S. had asked for more
    visits and wanted to continue his relationship with Mother. Mother alleged
    that she could continue to facilitate contact with Grandmother and other
    maternal relatives and that she was “also dedicated to [N.S.’s] understanding
    his paternal side of this family and his heritage as a child of the San Pasqual
    Band of Mission Indians.” She claimed that she had worked closely with the
    Tribe, which did not endorse adoption by Grandmother, and that she “would
    like to continue to facilitate [N.S.’s] knowledge and connection to his rich
    cultural heritage, which is essential to a Native American child.” She noted
    the Tribe’s concerns that the Grandmother had not allowed Mother visitation
    and had not made efforts to inform N.S. of his Native American heritage and
    involve him with the Tribe.
    At the hearing on August 19, 2019, the juvenile court found that
    Mother had carried her prima facie burden on her section 388 petition. The
    court set the petition for an evidentiary hearing to precede the section 366.26
    hearing on September 27, 2019. On September 19, 2019, Mother advised the
    6     Mother did the hair follicle test to prove that she had not used any
    controlled substances at the time she submitted the diluted urine sample in
    April 2019.
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    court that the Tribe’s representative was not available on September 27 and
    asked the court to continue the contested hearing. The court granted
    Mother’s request and continued the trial date to November 8 “to allow the
    Tribal representative to be present.”
    On November 7, 2019, Agency social worker Lisa Olimpio filed an
    addendum report recommending that the court deny Mother’s section 388
    petition, proceed with the section 366.26 hearing, and order adoption as
    N.S.’s permanent plan. Addressing whether granting Mother’s petition
    would be in N.S.’s best interests, Olimpio noted that N.S. was an “incredibly
    articulate” eight-year-old boy who read at a fifth grade level and “appear[ed]
    to have cognitive understanding way above his chronological age.” N.S. had
    consistently expressed to his Grandmother, the Agency social workers, his
    attorney, the Tribal representative, and his psychological evaluator that he
    wanted to be adopted and that he did not want to live with Mother, although
    he wanted to continue to visit her.
    Olimpio noted that the Tribal representative had told Navarro that the
    Tribe had “little to no” contact with Grandmother during the period of her
    guardianship. Grandmother told Olimpio that the Tribe had not reached out
    to her, and that even when she requested information during a CFT meeting
    about Tribal activities that N.S. could attend, the Tribe had not responded to
    her. Olimpio reported that “the Tribe equates this apparent lack of contact
    with lack of interest, which the grandmother states is not true.”
    Olimpio’s report emphasized that the Agency strongly favored TCA as
    the best plan for adoption because it would facilitate the Tribe’s involvement
    in N.S.’s life. Olimpio stated, “A permanent plan of [TCA] makes the most
    sense in this case, whereby the Tribe would have on-going input into
    promoting [N.S.’s] Native American heritage and a TCA would provide for
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    contact with [Mother].” Olimpio noted that the Tribe’s letter requesting
    guardianship rather than TCA stated that the Tribe had “ ‘concerns’ that the
    rights and responsibilities that would be listed in a TCA would not be
    adhered to by [Grandmother], yet they cite no evidence for their concerns.”
    The Agency’s position was that if the Tribe was concerned, it was
    encouraged to “to take a stance of offering support and encouragement to
    [Grandmother] so that they might have more input into helping
    [Grandmother] include more Native American culture into their daily lives.
    The plans of Guardianship or standard adoption do not leave [the Tribe] in
    much of a position to interact with [N.S.] and [Grandmother] while TCA
    would, in many ways. TCA would include the 3 varied positions in this case:
    [Mother] would be able to continue contact [with N.S.], the Tribe would have
    some input into encouraging and strengthening Native American culture and
    TCA would provide the permanence of adoption for [N.S.], which he is asking
    for.” Olimpio noted: “The Tribe has apparently stated that they do not have
    the staff to monitor a TCA, yet this Tribe continues to promote TCA’s with
    this Agency in other cases; I have personal experience with other cases I have
    worked, that have TCA as a permanent plan with this Tribe.”
    Olimpio reported that she had been referred to an out-of-county Indian
    expert, Richard England, to provide a declaration assessing the Agency’s
    proposed plan of adoption. She stated that the section 366.26 hearing would
    have to be continued because England had informed her that he needed 10
    more working days to review various materials that he had requested in
    order to make his assessment.
    In her overall assessment and evaluation, Olimpio reiterated that the
    Agency recommended that Mother’s section 388 petition be denied based on
    N.S.’s best interests. She reiterated that the permanent plan of TCA would
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    best “incorporate everyone’s interest: the Tribe, [N.S.] and [Grandmother].”
    She asserted that “[t]he Agency would support this wholeheartedly.
    However, the Tribe is not open to TCA and instead, recommended keeping
    the permanent plan of Guardianship.” Consequently, the Agency’s
    recommendation was adoption with termination of parental rights.
    Goodblanket filed the Tribe’s report and recommendations for the
    November 8, 2019 hearing. The Tribe did not support Mother’s section 388
    petition but continued to recommend guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan.
    The Tribe believed that guardianship was in N.S.’s best interests because he
    had stability in Grandmother’s home. However, the Tribe also believed that
    Mother was capable of maintaining sobriety and the Tribe “would be
    supportive of a [section] 388 [petition] with a minimum of 6 more months of
    sobriety.”
    Responding to Olimpio’s promotion of TCA as the best plan, the Tribe
    acknowledged that although an explicit visitation schedule could be written
    into a TCA, guardianship would also allow Mother visitation, which the Tribe
    would recommend. And although TCA would allow the Tribe to have some
    input into encouraging and strengthening Native American culture with
    N.S., the Tribe had “reason to believe this would not be followed” because of
    Grandmother’s lack of initiative since the beginning of the case. The Tribe
    stated that “there [were] no known efforts of [Grandmother] reaching out to
    the Tribe to encourage or strengthen [N.S.’s] ties to his Native American
    culture.” Goodblanket noted that when she spoke with Grandmother in May
    2019 about what would be included in a TCA order, Grandmother stated that
    she did not understand the amount of the Tribe’s involvement and hesitated
    about N.S.’s being able to attend Tribal events and classes. She also
    expressed unwillingness to be responsible for visitation between N.S. and
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    Mother. Regarding permanency, the Tribe agreed that a TCA would provide
    the permanence that N.S. was asking for, but the Tribe was “comfortable
    with the level of stability and permanency [N.S.] has through Guardianship.”
    The Tribe stated that it had remained consistent with its preference for
    guardianship and had “not been in support of, nor in agreement of adoption
    of [N.S.], dating to 5/15/19.”
    On November 8, 2019, the court held the evidentiary hearing on
    Mother’s section 388 petition and continued the section 366.26 hearing to
    December 13, 2019. The court received in evidence the Agency’s reports that
    it had prepared for the May, August, and November hearings and heard
    testimony from Mother and several witnesses whom Mother called to testify
    in support of her petition. After hearing argument from counsel for Mother,
    Grandmother, N.S., and the Agency, the court found that Mother had met her
    burden of showing changed circumstances, but that she had not met her
    burden of showing that it would be in N.S.’s best interests to place him with
    Mother. Accordingly, the court denied Mother’s petition, but gave the social
    worker discretion to allow Mother to have short unsupervised daytime visits
    with N.S. with the concurrence of N.S.’s counsel.
    On December 12, 2019, Olimpio filed the Agency’s addendum report for
    the section 366.26 hearing on December 13. The Agency continued to
    recommend adoption for N.S.
    Grandmother was reluctant to move to unsupervised visitation.
    Olimpio told Grandmother that she (Olimpio) would have to ask N.S. how he
    felt about unsupervised visits before they would begin. Olimpio met with
    N.S. alone and reported that he was enthusiastic about having unsupervised
    visits with Mother and had no fears about being alone with her. N.S.’s
    counsel concurred in allowing the unsupervised visits. The next day,
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    November 26, 2019, N.S. and Mother had an unsupervised visit during which
    they had lunch together at the restaurant where Mother worked and then
    walked to nearby stores for the rest of the visit. Mother reported that the
    visit was “wonderful.” Mother had additional unsupervised visits with N.S.
    on December 8 and December 10, 2019. When Olimpio met with N.S. on
    December 12, he reported with a smile that the unsupervised visits were
    going well and that he enjoyed them.
    Olimpio asked N.S. about his understanding of the difference between
    adoption and guardianship. N.S. understood that with adoption he would
    stay with Grandmother and Mother could not try to get him back and with
    guardianship he would still be with Grandmother but Mother could try to get
    him back with her. Olimpio reminded N.S. that with adoption Grandmother
    could stop all visits with Mother. N.S. said, “But I know she would never do
    that.” Olimpio told N.S. that Grandmother had stopped visits in the past and
    obtained a restraining order against Mother to stop visits. N.S. responded,
    “No she didn’t.”
    Olimpio asked N.S. what his future would look like if he were a
    magician and could make it any way he wanted. N.S. said he would be
    adopted and Mother would keep visiting him and he would like her to spend
    the night at his house but he did not want to spend the night at her house.
    Olimpio asked whether he ever thought about living with Mother in the
    future or spending the night at her house and told N.S. that she knew that
    Mother wanted that. N.S. continued to say “no.”
    Olimpio also asked N.S. about his Tribal heritage and whether he knew
    which tribe he was connected to. He said he could not recall. Olimpio told
    him the name of the Tribe but he had no memory of having heard it before.
    He had never been to the reservation or to an American Indian museum in
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    San Diego County but he had books about Native Americans. Olimpio asked
    whether he had any questions about his Tribal heritage and he said “no.”
    The Agency’s report included, as an attachment, the declaration of
    ICWA expert England. England’s knowledge of this case was based on his
    review of the Agency’s reports for the May 16 and August 19, 2019 hearings.
    England believed that it was important to respect the Tribe’s
    recommendations regarding permanency plans of Indian children and that
    supporting the Tribe’s recommendation of guardianship as N.S.’s long-term
    plan was in N.S.’s best interests and would provide Mother the opportunity to
    reunify with him at some point. He noted the Tribe’s concern that if N.S.
    were adopted by Grandmother through a TCA, he could be cut off from his
    Tribal family and extended Tribal family. Although Mother is not Native
    American, England averred that she is familiar with the Tribe and can access
    available resources and support to ensure that N.S. maintains his connection
    to the Tribe. England opined that termination of parental rights “will impact
    [N.S.’s] ability to have a connection to his Tribe and to learn about this part
    of who he is.”
    The Agency also attached to its report a declaration prepared by
    Mother’s Indian expert Halona Alexander. Alexander had reviewed the
    Agency’s reports and the Tribe’s letter recommending guardianship, spoken
    with Goodblanket and Mother’s counsel, and met with Mother. Her opinion
    was that a state adoption and termination of parental rights would be
    detrimental to N.S. Although Grandmother provided N.S. a stable home,
    which the Tribe highly valued, adoption by a non-Native family member who
    had not demonstrated a commitment to exposing N.S. to his tribal culture
    would substantially interfere with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe, his
    understanding of his identity and culture, and potentially his “ability to make
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    future choices regarding his relationship to his Tribe that would provide him
    with a cultural identity and sense of belonging.” Alexander concluded:
    “Given the history that led to the enactment of the ICWA and the realization
    by Congress that children are essential to tribes’ survival, I believe honoring
    the San Pasqual Tribe’s selection of guardianship in this case is necessary
    under the ICWA.”
    In the Agency’s report, Olimpio noted that Grandmother had been
    criticized for not placing a stronger emphasis on N.S.’s Tribal heritage and
    educating him about it. However, Olimpio further noted that Grandmother
    had stated that she was presently willing to do this and had requested
    guidance on the issue. Olimpio reiterated that “the best fit for this case at
    this time seems to be TCA, but this is not the preference of the Tribe.”
    Consequently, the Agency continued to support N.S.’s request that he be
    adopted by Grandmother.
    At the contested section 366.26 hearing on December 13, 2019, the
    court proceeded with Mother’s case-in-chief but suspended the Agency’s case-
    in-chief and continued that portion of the hearing to January 14, 2020,
    because England was not available to testify on December 13. On December
    13, the court received in evidence the Agency’s reports that it prepared for
    May, August, November, and December 2019 hearings; Olimpio’s curriculum
    vitae; and Alexander’s curriculum vitae. The court heard testimony from
    Olimpio, Alexander, and Goodblanket.
    Olimpio testified that Grandmother seemed receptive to engaging in
    activities with N.S. that would promote his Indian heritage, such as taking
    N.S. to Native American museums. However, Grandmother was confused
    about how often she had to engage N.S. in such activities and was concerned
    about how she would fit them into her busy schedule of other activities with
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    N.S. Grandmother told Olimpio that the Tribe had not attempted to contact
    her during the guardianship until Mother filed her section 388 petition.
    Goodblanket testified that when she spoke with Grandmother at the
    April 2019 CFT meeting and in a telephone conversation in May 2019, she
    told Grandmother that she (Goodblanket) could be a point of contact for
    Grandmother to find out about upcoming Tribal events. Grandmother had
    asked to receive a newsletter. In December 2019, Goodblanket discussed
    with Grandmother ideas about involving N.S. in Tribal activities and taking
    him to museums. Grandmother mentioned that N.S. was reading what
    sounded to Goodblanket like a fictional book about the relationship between a
    pioneer and Indian boy. Goodblanket got Grandmother’s e-mail address and
    told her that she would speak with the Tribe and see if there was a way for
    Grandmother to get on a mailing list for the Tribe’s activities. The Tribe did
    not have a mailing list but they gave Goodblanket their website address and
    told her about a Christmas party that Grandmother was invited to attend.
    Goodblanket passed that information on to Grandmother.
    Goodblanket further testified that if N.S. were adopted, the Tribe
    would no longer recognize him as an Indian child because a state adoption
    would sever all of his biological ties to the Tribe. Consequently, he would not
    be eligible for enrollment in the Tribe if the enrollment criteria would at some
    point otherwise make him eligible.7 To her knowledge, N.S. was not
    presently eligible for enrollment in the Tribe; there would have to be a
    change in the Tribe’s rules regarding enrollment for him to be eligible to
    enroll.
    7     Goodblanket testified that the Tribe has enrolled members and non-
    enrolled members, and that N.S. is considered a member of the Tribe but is
    not an enrolled member.
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    On January 14, 2020, the court heard testimony from England and
    received in evidence Mother’s section 388 petition and a handwritten letter
    from N.S. as an offer of proof of his anticipated testimony, as stipulated to by
    all counsel. The parties also stipulated that if Olimpio were called to testify
    at that hearing, she would testify that during her last in-person meeting with
    N.S., he asked for overnight visitation with Mother. However, in the same
    conversation, N.S. reiterated that he wanted Grandmother to adopt him.
    After hearing argument from counsel for the Agency, Mother,
    Grandmother, and N.S., the juvenile court issued its ruling. The court began
    by noting that “this case does illustrate the tension that exists between two
    sovereign states: the Indian tribe, which is a separate sovereign, and the
    state of California, which is a separate sovereign.”8 The court observed that
    Grandmother “has shown that she is well oriented towards what’s in the best
    interests of this child. If he has Indian heritage, then [Grandmother], I
    think, will recognize that and assist him. Certainly, the family could rally
    around him and let him know that.”
    Regarding the Tribe’s role in fostering N.S.’s involvement with the
    Tribe, the court felt that “it [had] to be stated” that “up until the time the
    Tribe utilized Ms. Goodblanket to come in and address these issues, the Tribe
    had its own responsibilities to reach out to [N.S.] and see how he was doing.
    I don’t mean that as criticism of the Tribe, but I can’t ignore the fact that if
    we’re looking at the competing tensions of the culture, that the court should
    be gauging not just the best intentions and motivations of the respective
    parties, but also the concrete actions that they took in order to advance what
    8     The reporter’s transcript is printed in all capital letters. We have
    modified all quotations from that transcript to reflect conventional
    capitalization.
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    they are sincerely asking the court to recognize.” In other words, the court
    considered not only the Tribe’s stated interest in having a connection with
    N.S., but the extent to which the Tribe had taken, or failed to take, concrete
    actions to foster that connection.
    The court found that N.S. was specifically adoptable, and also found, by
    clear and convincing evidence, that none of the circumstances listed in
    section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B) that would make termination of parental
    rights detrimental to N.S. exist. Regarding the beneficial parent-child
    relationship exception to adoption, the court found that the stability in N.S.’s
    placement with Grandmother outweighed the benefits that he had gained
    from his contact with Mother and, therefore, “it would not be in his best
    interests to promote or facilitate a mother-child relationship.”
    The court noted the following two Indian child exceptions to adoption
    specified in section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(vi)(I) and (II): “(I)
    Termination of parental rights would substantially interfere with the child’s
    connection to his or her tribal community or the child’s tribal membership
    rights[;]” and “(II) The child’s tribe has identified guardianship . . . [as a]
    planned permanent living arrangement for the child.”
    Regarding substantial interference with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe,
    the court found that “once [Grandmother] is properly informed, once the
    expectations are concretely articulated, . . . she will encourage [N.S.] to learn
    about his heritage.” The court further found that given N.S.’s development,
    maturity, and curiosity, he would not “permit anybody [to] dissuad[e] him
    from making up his own mind as to not just his Indian heritage, but how it
    fits into his life.” Thus, the court concluded that there was not a compelling
    reason not to terminate parental rights based on a substantial interference
    with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe.
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    Regarding the Tribe’s identification of guardianship as the best
    permanent plan for N.S., the court believed that N.S.’s “guardianship was a
    very vital tool and opportunity for him to get to this point.” However, the
    court asserted that, “merely identifying guardianship to maintain the status
    quo would not recognize the increasing, the deep, the published connection
    [that N.S.] has with his grandmother.” The court found that in light of N.S.’s
    “current developmental progression and attachment to the grandmother,”
    guardianship was not in his best interests; therefore, the Tribe’s
    identification of guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan had not “been
    established as a compelling reason not to terminate parental rights.”
    The court then found beyond a reasonable doubt that “under
    25USC1912(f),” continued custody by Mother would likely result in serious
    emotional or physical damage to N.S. The court terminated parental rights
    and referred N.S. to the Agency for adoptive placement.
    DISCUSSION
    I.
    The Tribe’s Preference for Guardianship Does not Preempt the Preference for
    Adoption Under section 366.26
    Mother contends that the Tribe’s “decree” selecting guardianship as the
    best permanent plan option for N.S. preempts the statutory preference for
    adoption under section 366.26. What Mother refers to as the Tribe’s “decree”
    is the letter dated August 13, 2019 from the Chairman of the Tribe to the
    Agency stating that the Tribe believed that guardianship with Grandmother
    was the best permanent plan option for N.S. Mother argues that because the
    Tribe’s decree directly conflicts with California’s statutory preference for
    termination of parental rights and adoption over other permanent plan
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    options under section 366.26, subdivision (b), it preempts California’s
    preference for adoption.
    In support of this contention, Mother cites authority that Native
    American tribes are sovereign nations (Campo Band of Mission Indians v.
    Superior Court (2006) 
    137 Cal. App. 4th 175
    , 181) and, as such, they have
    higher status and authority than states. (In re M.M. (2007) 
    154 Cal. App. 4th 897
    , 908-909). She notes that the United States Supreme Court has held
    that “ ‘ “absent governing Acts of Congress,” a State may not act in a manner
    that “infringe[s] on the right of reservation Indians to make their own laws
    and be ruled by them.” ’ ” (Three Affiliated Tribes of Ft. Berthold Reservation
    v. Wold Engineering, P.C. (1986) 
    476 U.S. 877
    , 890.) She maintains that this
    principle is exemplified in 25 United States Code section 1915(c) of ICWA,
    which provides that “if the Indian child’s tribe shall establish a different
    order of [adoptive, preadoptive, or foster care placement] preference by
    resolution, the agency or court effecting the placement shall follow such
    order . . . .”9 Mother argues that this provision recognizes the inherent
    authority that the Tribe possesses in determining what is best for the Tribe’s
    children. Mother further argues that federal preemption under the
    supremacy clause of the United States Constitution applies in this case
    because there is a conflict between state law and federal law (conflict
    preemption), and the state law frustrates the purpose of the federal law
    9      25 United States Code section 1915(a) and (b) list options for adoptive
    placement and foster care or preadoptive placement in order of statutory
    preference. 25 United States Code section 1915(c) addresses an Indian tribe’s
    ability to establish a different order of preference by resolution. In the
    present case, the Tribe did not establish an order of preference for placement
    by resolution.
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    (obstacle preemption), citing Akopyan v. Wells Fargo Home Mortgage, Inc.
    (2013) 
    215 Cal. App. 4th 120
    , 138.
    Although Mother’s federal preemption argument is necessarily based
    on conflict or inconsistency between ICWA (federal law) and California’s
    juvenile dependency statutes (state law), the direct conflict that she
    addresses is the conflict between the Tribe’s preference for guardianship as
    N.S.’s permanent plan and the state law preference for termination of
    parental rights and adoption. Mother argues that the state’s legislative
    preference for adoption as a child’s permanent plan, unless a specific
    statutory exception applies, “frustrates the purpose of the tribal cultural
    tenet that parental rights should remain intact.” She maintains that
    termination of parental rights is antithetical to the cultural beliefs of the
    Tribe and many other Native American tribes, and that the Tribe has stated
    that its selection of guardianship as the best plan for N.S. is based on its on
    its cultural policy that it is in the best interests of children to provide parents
    with additional opportunities for reunification even when it is outside the
    state statutory timeframes.10 She asserts that because the state’s statutory
    preferences for permanent plans conflict with “the Tribe’s laws and tenets,”
    the doctrine of preemption applies, and the state court is barred from
    overriding the Tribal decree. In other words, Mother contends that the court
    10     In support of that representation, Mother cites the statement in the
    Tribe’s written report that “[t]he Tribe is committed to the reunification of
    their families, even when that is outside of the legal timeline of the Court.”
    She also cites Goodblanket’s testimony that “this tribal council believes in
    second chances. This tribal council believes in Mother’s—all of her efforts in
    the last year of maintaining sobriety and all of those things are part of the
    reason why they wanted to leave it in guardianship, to give her an
    opportunity to potentially become [N.S.’s] full parent again.”
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    lacked the authority to order any permanent plan other than the one that the
    Tribe selected for N.S.
    We disagree that the Tribe’s letter selecting guardianship as the best
    permanent plan option for N.S. precludes the court from ordering a different
    plan. The Agency contends that Mother waived the right to raise this
    contention on appeal because she conceded the issue at the section 366.26
    hearing. The Agency’s contention has merit. At the section 366.26 hearing,
    the court raised the issue as follows: “I think the legal issue was whether or
    not the tribe had an unquestioned, unfettered position to demand a legal
    guardianship, or whether, under state law, it comes under the natural
    statutory scheme where the court would have to consider it within the
    context of a compelling reason.”
    The Agency’s counsel told the court that the following two cases he had
    cited to the court addressed that issue: In re H.R. (2012) 
    208 Cal. App. 4th 751
    (H.R.) and In re T.S. (2009) 
    175 Cal. App. 4th 1031
    (T.S.). The court stated
    that it had read those cases but believed that Mother’s counsel “wanted to
    argue otherwise.” Mother’s counsel stated, “No, your honor. I believe that
    the Tribe doesn’t have automatic veto power.” The court then asked counsel
    for the other parties to weigh in. Grandmother’s counsel stated, “I agree.
    I’ve read those cases, as well, your honor, and I think the court has the
    authority to review what the permanent plan ought to be, and it’s not
    automatically got to be a guardianship because the [T]ribe says they want
    guardianship.” N.S.’s counsel concurred and said that he thought that H.R.
    was “directly on point.” Thus, Mother’s counsel expressly agreed that the
    Tribe did not have “automatic veto power” over whatever permanent plan the
    court ordered.
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    It is settled that an appellant waives or forfeits the right to challenge a
    ruling on appeal by agreeing with or acquiescing to the ruling at trial. (Hood
    v. Gonzales (2019) 
    43 Cal. App. 5th 57
    , 70; In re A.S. (2018) 
    28 Cal. App. 5th 131
    , 151 [acquiescence to the scope of the section 366.26 hearing forfeited
    parents’ right to claim on appeal that the court improperly limited the scope
    of the hearing].) Because Mother expressly agreed at trial that the juvenile
    court was not required to order the permanent plan that the Tribe selected,
    she has forfeited the right to claim on appeal that the court was required to
    order guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan because the Tribe selected that
    plan.
    In any event, Mother’s argument that the Tribe’s permanent plan
    choice “preempts” the state law permanent plan preference for adoption and
    termination of parental rights is without merit. There is no conflict between
    state and federal law that raises federal preemption concerns because under
    both ICWA and the state statutory dependency scheme, the state court has
    jurisdiction to select N.S.’s permanent plan and is not required to order
    whatever plan the Tribe selects.
    Under 25 U.S.C. section 1911(b), a dependency case that involves an
    Indian child not domiciled or residing within the reservation of the child’s
    tribe remains in state court unless a parent, the tribe, or the Indian
    custodian petitions to transfer the proceeding to the jurisdiction of the tribe;
    the court does not find good cause not to transfer the case; neither parent
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    objects to the transfer; and the tribe does not decline the transfer.11 Welfare
    and Institutions Code section 305.5, subdivision (d) similarly provides that
    “[i]n the case of an Indian child who is not a ward of a tribal court or subject
    to the exclusive jurisdiction of an Indian tribe, . . . the state court shall
    transfer the proceeding to the jurisdiction of the child’s tribe upon petition of
    either parent, the Indian custodian, or the child’s tribe, unless the state court
    finds good cause not to transfer.” Thus, under both federal and state law,
    jurisdiction remained with the state juvenile court in this case because no one
    petitioned to transfer the case to the jurisdiction of the Tribe.
    Under California’s dependency scheme TCA is the preferred permanent
    plan for an Indian child if the child’s tribe recommends TCA. 
    (H.R., supra
    ,
    208 Cal.App.4th at pp. 761-764.) “Absent some evidence of countervailing
    detriment to the minor that the [juvenile] court, in its discretion, concludes
    would result from this form of adoption, the default in the case of an Indian
    child is [TCA].” (Id. at p. 764.) However, even when a tribe has selected
    TCA, the court may exercise its discretion to reject TCA as the child’s
    permanent plan and order a different plan, including traditional adoption
    with termination of parental rights. (Ibid.) “[N]othing in the [statutory
    provisions regarding TCA] suggests that the Legislature intended to alter the
    long-standing rule that the selection of a permanent plan is vested in the
    11     25 U.S.C. section 1911(b) states: “In any State court proceeding for the
    foster care placement of, or termination of parental rights to, an Indian child
    not domiciled or residing within the reservation of the Indian child’s tribe,
    the court, in the absence of good cause to the contrary, shall transfer such
    proceeding to the jurisdiction of the tribe, absent objection by either parent,
    upon the petition of either parent or the Indian custodian or the Indian
    child’s tribe: Provided, that such transfer shall be subject to declination by
    the tribal court of such tribe.”
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    sound discretion of the trial court. [Citation.] Whether there is a compelling
    reason not to terminate parental rights has been described as a
    ‘quintessentially discretionary determination.’ [Citation.] Nothing in Section
    366.24 removes that discretion.” (Ibid.)
    Thus, in the present case, where the Tribe did not even recommend
    TCA, the court unquestionably had discretion to order a permanent plan
    other than the Tribe’s recommended plan of guardianship. There is no
    statutory preference for guardianship when recommended by an Indian
    child’s tribe as there is for TCA. The juvenile court had the discretion to
    order traditional adoption with termination of parental rights as N.S.’s
    permanent plan absent a compelling reason not to terminate parental rights.
    
    (H.R., supra
    , 208 Cal.App.4th at p. 764.)
    In T.S., as in the present case, the dependent Indian child’s tribe
    selected guardianship as the child’s permanent plan that would meet the
    tribe’s social and cultural standards and protect the child’s best interests as
    an Indian child. 
    (T.S., supra
    , 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 1037.) The child’s
    mother, joined by the appellant father, argued that the tribe’s choice was an
    exception to the statutory preference for adoption. (Ibid.) The juvenile court
    concluded that it had the discretion to find that adoption was in the child’s
    best interests notwithstanding the tribe’s preference and terminated parental
    rights and ordered adoption as the child’s permanent plan. (Id. at pp. 1037-
    1038.) On appeal, the father argued that the juvenile court was required to
    order a permanent plan of guardianship because that was the tribe’s
    recommendation. (Id. at pp. 1038, 1039.)
    The T.S. court disagreed, concluding that, “a juvenile court is not
    obligated to adopt the permanent plan designated by a child’s tribe without
    conducting an independent assessment of detriment. The exceptions to
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    adoption relating to Indian children, like the other enumerated exceptions to
    adoption, are contained in section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B), and,
    therefore, apply only if the described circumstances are present and there is a
    compelling reason for determining that termination of parental rights would
    be detrimental to the child as a result of such circumstances. . . . Had the
    Legislature intended to preclude the court from ordering a permanent plan of
    adoption when a tribe has identified another permanent plan, it could have
    placed this provision in the next subdivision of section 366.26, subdivision
    (c)(2), which enumerates circumstances under which the juvenile court ‘shall
    not terminate parental rights,’ and includes other provisions involving Indian
    children . . . . Instead, the provision was added to a subdivision that contains
    plain, unambiguous language conferring discretion upon the juvenile court to
    reject the exceptions in the absence of compelling evidence of detriment.”
    
    (T.S., supra
    , 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 1040, fn. omitted.)
    H.R. and T.S. make it clear that in ordering a permanent plan for an
    Indian child subject to ICWA, the juvenile court is not restricted to ordering
    the permanent plan that the child’s tribe selects. The permanent plan of
    adoption ordered in this case may have conflicted with the Tribe’s preference
    and the Tribe’s “laws and tenets,” but it did not conflict with or frustrate the
    purpose of ICWA and it was not “preempted” by the Tribe’s letter
    recommending guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan.
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    II.
    Mother Has not Established That N.S.’s Counsel Was Prejudicially Ineffective
    Mother contends that N.S.’s counsel12 breached his duties under
    section 317 and provided ineffective assistance of counsel by failing to
    investigate and determine what benefits or membership rights N.S. was
    entitled to receive from the Tribe before the court terminated parental
    rights.13 Mother specifically faults N.S.’s counsel for not being aware that
    the Tribe would no longer recognize N.S. as an Indian child if he were
    adopted with termination of parental rights until counsel cross-examined
    Goodblanket at the section 366.26 hearing. Mother argues that N.S. was
    prejudiced by counsel’s lack of knowledge regarding how state adoption would
    affect N.S.’s potential status as a member of the Tribe because the lack of
    that information caused the court, in considering whether termination of
    parental rights would substantially interfere with N.S.’s connection to the
    Tribal community or his membership rights, to conclude that “his
    membership rights are not defined.”14
    12    Two different attorneys from Children’s Legal Services appeared on
    behalf of N.S. in the relevant proceedings, Julia Schooler and Steve Wedel.
    Wedel appeared at the hearing on Mother’s section 388 petition and the
    section 366.26 hearing.
    13    The Agency does not challenge Mother’s standing to raise this issue.
    14    After making this statement, the court added, “And no one is indicating
    that [N.S.] is an enrolled member of the Tribe. But he does have a connection
    to the Tribe.” The court presumably was referring to Goodblanket’s
    testimony that N.S. is not an enrolled member of the Tribe and is not eligible
    for enrollment, and that the Tribe would have to change its rules regarding
    enrollment in order for N.S. to become eligible in the future.
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    “To succeed on a claim of ineffective assistance of counsel, the appellant
    must show: (1) counsel’s representation fell below an objective standard of
    reasonableness; and (2) the deficiency resulted in demonstrable prejudice.
    [Citations.] Unless the record affirmatively establishes counsel had no
    rational tactical purpose for the challenged act or omission, we must affirm
    the judgment.” (In re Kristen B. (2008) 
    163 Cal. App. 4th 1535
    , 1540-1541.) “A
    violation of the right to effective counsel is reviewed under the test of
    harmless error. [Citation.] ‘Thus the parent must demonstrate that it is
    “reasonably probable that a result more favorable to the appealing party
    would have been reached in the absence of the error” ’ [Citation.] It is not
    necessary to examine whether counsel’s performance was deficient before
    examining the issue of prejudice. [Citation.] A court may reject a claim of
    ineffective counsel if the party fails to show the result would have been more
    favorable but for trial counsel’s failings.” (In re N.M. (2008) 
    161 Cal. App. 4th 253
    , 270.)
    Section 317 provides that a primary responsibility of counsel appointed
    to represent a child is “to advocate for the protection, safety, and physical and
    emotional well-being of the child . . . .” (§ 317, subd. (c)(2).) Counsel is also
    required to “investigate the interests of the child beyond the scope of the
    juvenile proceeding, and report to the court other interests of the child that
    may need to be protected by the institution of other administrative or judicial
    proceedings.” (§ 317, subd. (e)(3).)
    The Agency argues that it is Mother’s burden to establish that N.S.’s
    counsel failed to adequately investigate whether N.S. was eligible for Tribal
    benefits, and because counsel’s confidential attorney work product is not part
    of the record, under Evidence Code section 664 we must presume that counsel
    performed all necessary investigation to adequately represent N.S. in the
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    contested section 366.26 hearing, including the facts relevant to whether the
    Indian child exception to adoption should be applied. We agree with the
    Agency, but even assuming that N.S.’s counsel did not sufficiently investigate
    whether termination of parental rights would cause N.S. to lose Tribal
    benefits, we conclude that Mother has not met her burden of showing that
    she was prejudiced by counsel’s allegedly deficient performance.
    Mother cannot show that she was demonstrably prejudiced by N.S.’s
    counsel’s alleged failure to conduct an investigation to determine what Tribal
    benefits would be available to N.S. if parental rights were not terminated
    because there is no indication in the record that any such undiscovered
    benefits were available. The record indicates that the Tribe took little
    interest in N.S. or this case during the period of Grandmother’s guardianship
    until Grandmother filed her section 388 petition seeking adoption in January
    2019.15 Goodblanket became involved in the case as the Tribe’s
    representative in 2019 and testified at the section 366.26 hearing that N.S. is
    not eligible for membership in the Tribe and would lose his Indian child
    status with the Tribe if the court terminated parental rights.16 However,
    she did not testify or provide any information to the Agency or Grandmother
    before the hearing that there were Tribal benefits, other than his Indian child
    status, that N.S. would lose if the court terminated parental rights and
    15    As noted, the Tribal representative, presumably Goodblanket, told
    Navarro that the Tribe had “little to no” contact with Grandmother during
    the period of her guardianship.
    16    Mother’s Indian expert Alexander testified that the Tribe recognized
    descendants of members of the Tribe in ICWA cases and considered them
    “members under ICWA,” but that did not mean that they are eligible to be
    enrolled members of the Tribe.
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    ordered adoption. The juvenile court could reasonably infer from the record
    that there were no such undisclosed benefits and Mother has not shown that
    there were such benefits.17
    In asking us to conclude that N.S.’s counsel was prejudicially
    ineffective for not determining whether such benefits exist and to reverse the
    order terminating parental rights on that basis, Mother is essentially asking
    us to conclusively presume that such benefits are available to N.S. and that
    they are of such magnitude that the court would have found them to be a
    compelling reason not to terminate parental rights. However, any potential
    loss of Tribal benefits to N.S. as a result of adoption is speculative,
    particularly in light of Goodblanket’s testimony that he is not eligible for
    enrollment in the Tribe. “We will not reverse . . . on the basis of speculation
    regarding theoretical possibilities . . . .” (People v. Ayala (2000) 
    24 Cal. 4th 243
    , 267.)
    In sum, Mother has not met her burden of showing that a proper
    investigation into N.S.’s Tribal benefits would have tipped the scales in favor
    of guardianship by revealing benefits that the court would have found to
    constitute a compelling reason to determine that termination of parental
    rights would be detrimental to N.S. Mother may be able to make such a
    showing in a future proceeding, but in this appeal, she has not shown that
    she was prejudiced by N.S.’s counsel’s alleged ineffective assistance—i.e.,
    17    England testified generally that if a “child is not allowed to be enrolled
    because they’ve been adopted, they wouldn’t be able to be afforded things we
    are able to access as Native Americans, very basic things, which is health
    care, medical care, dental and vision, mental health services.” England’s
    testimony about basic benefits that generally would be available to enrolled
    members of an Indian tribe is not evidence that such benefits were available
    to N.S., who is not eligible for enrollment in the Tribe.
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    that but for counsel’s deficient investigation into N.S.’s available Tribal
    benefits, it is reasonably probable that she would have obtained a more
    favorable result at the section 366.26 hearing.
    III.
    The Court Did Not Err in Finding That the Indian Child
    Exception to Adoption Does Not Apply
    Mother contends that the court erred in finding that the Indian child
    exception of section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(vi)(I) and (II) did not apply
    to preclude the termination of parental rights. In addition to renewing her
    argument that “the statutory exceptions are preempted by the Tribe’s
    decree,” she contends that the evidence does not support the juvenile court’s
    conclusion that adoption would not interfere with N.S.’s connection to the
    Tribe. Additionally, Mother argues that the court should have deferred to the
    Tribe’s selection of guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan because
    guardianship served N.S.’s best interests as an Indian child. The essential
    basis for both arguments is Mother’s contention that Grandmother will not
    make efforts to foster N.S.’s connection to the Tribe if she adopts N.S. and
    parental rights are terminated, whereas Mother would foster N.S.’s
    connection with the Tribe if his permanent plan were guardianship.
    “ ‘ “At the selection and implementation hearing held pursuant to
    section 366.26, a juvenile court must make one of four possible alternative
    permanent plans for a minor child. . . . The permanent plan preferred by the
    Legislature is adoption. [Citation.]” [Citations.] If the court finds the child is
    adoptable, it must terminate parental rights absent circumstances under
    which it would be detrimental to the child.’ ” 
    (T.S., supra
    , 175 Cal.App.4th at
    p. 1038.)
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    “Before the juvenile court may find an exception to adoption for an
    otherwise adoptable child, a parent must establish a ‘compelling reason for
    determining that termination would be detrimental to the child’ due to one of
    several specified circumstances. (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B).)” 
    (T.S., supra
    , 175
    Cal.App.4th at p. 1038.) “The parent has the burden of establishing the
    existence of any circumstance that constitutes an exception to termination of
    parental rights. [Citation.] ‘Because a section 366.26 hearing occurs only
    after the court has repeatedly found the parent unable to meet the child’s
    needs, it is only in an extraordinary case that preservation of the parent’s
    rights will prevail over the Legislature’s preference for adoptive placement.’ ”
    (Id. at p. 1039.)
    Section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(vi), referred to in case law as the
    Indian child exception, actually specifies two exceptions to the termination of
    parental rights that apply to an Indian child as follows: “The child is an
    Indian child and there is a compelling reason for determining that
    termination of parental rights would not be in the best interest of the child,
    including, but not limited to: [¶] (I) Termination of parental rights would
    substantially interfere with the child’s connection to his or her tribal
    community or the child’s tribal membership rights. [¶] (II) The child’s tribe
    has identified guardianship, foster care with a fit and willing relative, tribal
    customary adoption, or another planned permanent living arrangement for
    the child.” (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(vi).)
    “[W]hether a compelling reason exists under the Indian Child
    Exception is an issue committed to the trial court as the trier of fact and its
    discretion to resolve whether, on any statutory grounds, that termination
    would be detrimental to an otherwise adoptable child. (§ 366.26, subd.
    (c)(1)(B).)” (In re A.A. (2008) 
    167 Cal. App. 4th 1292
    , 1322 (A.A.), italics
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    added.)18 Accordingly, we apply the substantial evidence standard of review
    to the juvenile court’s relevant factual findings, and the abuse of discretion
    standard to the court’s determination of whether, based on its factual
    findings, there was a compelling reason under the Indian child exception to
    not terminate parental rights. (See In re Anthony B. (2015) 
    239 Cal. App. 4th 389
    , 395 (Anthony B.).)
    Under the substantial evidence standard, we do not pass on the
    credibility of witnesses, attempt to resolve conflicts in the evidence, or
    reweigh the evidence. Instead, we draw all reasonable inferences in support
    of the findings, view the record favorably to the juvenile court’s order and
    affirm the order even if there is other evidence to the contrary. (In re Casey
    D. (1999) 
    70 Cal. App. 4th 38
    , 52-53.) The appellant has the burden of
    showing that there is no evidence of a sufficiently substantial nature to
    support the court’s finding. (In re L.Y.L. (2002) 
    101 Cal. App. 4th 942
    , 947.)
    We conclude that the juvenile court reasonably determined that
    termination of parental rights would not substantially interfere with N.S.’s
    connection to the Tribe. There was no evidence that N.S. actually had any
    connection to the Tribe at the time of the section 366.26 hearing. Rather, the
    evidence showed that Tribe had “little to no” contact with Grandmother
    during the period of her guardianship, and that in December 2019, N.S. did
    not know which tribe he was connected to and did not recall having heard the
    Tribe’s name when he was told what it was.
    18     The Agency correctly notes that the three major published opinions
    that have addressed the Indian child exception to adoption have reviewed the
    juvenile court’s decision as to whether the exception applies under an abuse
    of discretion standard. 
    (A.A., supra
    , 167 Cal.App.4th at pp. 1322-1323; 
    T.S., supra
    , 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 1038; 
    H.R., supra
    , 208 Cal.App.4th at p. 764.)
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    The juvenile court found that “Grandmother, once she is properly
    informed, once the expectations are concretely articulated, that she will
    encourage [N.S.] to learn about his [Native American] heritage. Obviously,
    the Tribe is a wonderful resource for that if, in fact, there are bridges or
    common ground that can be established for that.” The court also believed
    that as N.S. grew older, he would become curious about his Native American
    heritage and would pursue connections with members of the Tribe to learn
    about it on his own. Thus, the court concluded, “I cannot find there would be
    a compelling reason [not to order termination of parental rights and adoption
    as N.S.’s permanent plan] based on a substantial interference with his
    connection [to the Tribe].”
    The court’s finding that Grandmother would encourage N.S. to learn
    about his heritage going forward is supported by substantial evidence. When
    Goodblanket, at a CFT meeting in April 2019, expressed concern that N.S.
    was not becoming involved with the Tribe, Grandmother asked about the
    possibility of receiving a newsletter from the Tribe that would provide
    information about the Tribe’s events. Navarro reported that Grandmother
    understood the responsibilities of a TCA when Grandmother and the Tribe
    were both requesting that plan with the Agency’s support. When Olimpio
    asked Grandmother about Goodblanket’s concern that the Tribe had “little to
    no” contact with Grandmother during the period of her guardianship,
    Grandmother told Olimpio that the Tribe had not reached out to her, and
    that even when she requested information at a CFT meeting about Tribal
    activities that N.S. could attend, the Tribe had not responded to her. Olimpio
    reported that “the Tribe equates this apparent lack of contact with lack of
    interest, which the grandmother states is not true.” Regarding the Tribe’s
    letter requesting guardianship, in which the Tribe expressed concern that
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    Grandmother would not adhere to the “rights and responsibilities that would
    be listed in a TCA,” Olimpio noted that the Tribe “cite[d] no evidence for their
    concerns.”
    Goodblanket testified that she met with Tribe, informed it that
    Grandmother was willing to engage N.S. in Tribal activities and asked
    whether there was a mailing list that Grandmother could be on. The Tribe
    responded that it did not have a mailing list but they gave Goodblanket the
    address for their website and told her about a Christmas party that
    Grandmother was invited to attend. Goodblanket testified that the Tribe’s
    not having a mailing list made it “a little bit harder” for the Tribe to facilitate
    a relationship with Grandmother or to facilitate Grandmother’s “ability to
    know what’s going on in the community.” Given Grandmother’s record of
    excellent care, the fact that Grandmother had been made aware of the
    expectation that she would foster a connection between N.S. and the Tribe,
    and the evidence that she was willing to involve N.S. with the Tribe if she
    were made aware of relevant Tribal activities, the court could reasonably find
    that Grandmother would make an effort to foster a connection between N.S.
    and the Tribe in the future.
    The Agency analogizes the Indian child exception to adoption to the
    sibling relationship exception set forth in section 366.26, subdivision
    (c)(1)(B)(v), and notes that in In re D.O. (2016) 
    247 Cal. App. 4th 166
    (D.O.),
    this court concluded that the juvenile court could properly consider a
    grandmother caregiver’s assurances that she would continue to allow
    visitation between the dependent minor and her half siblings as a factor in
    determining whether termination of parental rights would substantially
    interfere with the sibling relationship. (Id. at pp. 175-176.) The appellants
    in D.O. (mother and siblings) argued that that “ ‘no evidence supported the
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    juvenile court’s finding that the sibling relationship would remain intact,
    except for speculation that the caregivers would continue to allow it.’ ” (Id. at
    p. 176.) The D.O. court observed: “This argument ignores that it was
    appellants’ burden to establish there would be substantial interference, not
    the Agency’s burden to establish there would not.” (Ibid.; see 
    A.A., supra
    , 167
    Cal.App.4th at p. 1324 [argument that caregivers failed to take steps to
    promote children’s connection to the tribal community overlooked that it was
    appellants’ evidentiary burden to establish termination of parental rights
    would substantially interfere with the children’s connection to the tribe].)
    The juvenile court in D.O. had found that there was no evidence that there
    would be interference with the sibling relationships, and the D.O. court
    viewed the appellants “assertion on appeal that ‘many things can happen
    over the next 16 years’ [as] speculative.” (D.O., at p. 176.)
    The analogy between assurances of future sibling visitation and
    assurances of future efforts to foster an Indian child’s connection to his or her
    tribe is valid. Based on the evidence that Grandmother expressed
    willingness to involve N.S. with the Tribe after she adopted him, the court
    could reasonably find that termination of parental rights and adoption by
    Grandmother would not substantially interfere with N.S.’s connection to the
    Tribe.
    In addition to the evidence that Grandmother would make efforts in the
    future to foster N.S.’s connection with Tribe, the court could also reasonably
    find that termination of parental rights would not substantially interfere
    with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe based on evidence that there was very
    little connection to interfere with. Mother faults Grandmother for not
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    fostering a connection,19 but there are two other circumstances that factor
    into N.S.’s lack of connection with the tribe: the lack of any evidence of a
    connection between N.S. and his paternal Indian relatives, and the lack of
    interest in N.S. by the Tribe itself during the period of Grandmother’s
    guardianship.20 This is not a case where a significant connection to a tribe
    through the dependent minor’s Indian relatives stood to be severed or
    severely limited through termination of parental rights and adoption by a
    non-Indian family. The record does not indicate the existence of any
    connection between N.S. and his paternal relatives or any indication that any
    paternal relative has ever attempted to connect with him in any way. The
    record is silent on this point, except for the testimony of Mother’s Indian
    expert Alexandra that, to her knowledge, none of N.S.’s father’s family
    members, who “would be his ancestors that are San Pasqual Indian,” had
    “been involved with N.S. at all[.]” The Indian child exception to adoption
    concerning interference with the child’s connection to his or her tribal
    community is unlikely to be a compelling reason for determining that
    termination of parental rights would not be in the best interests of the child
    19    Olimpio asked N.S. about his Tribal heritage in December 2019, after
    he had been having regular visits with Mother the entire year. As noted,
    N.S. did not know which tribe he was connected to, and when Olimpio told
    him the name of the Tribe, he had no memory of having previously heard it.
    A reasonable inference from this evidence is that neither Grandmother nor
    Mother at that point had made significant efforts to foster a connection
    between N.S. and the Tribe.
    20    As noted, at the section 366.26 hearing the court felt compelled to state
    that “up until the time the Tribe utilized Ms. Goodblanket to come in and
    address these issues, the Tribe had its own responsibilities to reach out to
    [N.S.] and see how he was doing[,]” suggesting that the Tribe had not met
    those responsibilities.
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    where, as here, the child has no connection to the tribe through his or her
    relatives who are members of the tribal community.
    It may be that the Tribe’s apparent lack of interest in N.S. during the
    period of Grandmother’s guardianship and the lack of any connection
    between N.S. and his paternal relatives are related—i.e., that the main
    reason that N.S. had no connection with the Tribe in his early childhood was
    because none of his Indian relatives were involved in his life. However,
    regardless of the cause, the reality at the time of the section 366.26 hearing
    was that any substantial interference with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe for
    the court to consider would be interference with a potential future connection,
    because there was no significant past or present connection. As discussed,
    the juvenile court reasonably found that Grandmother would make efforts to
    foster a connection in the future. Accordingly, we conclude that the court
    reasonably found that termination of parental rights would not substantially
    interfere with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe.
    We further conclude that the juvenile court acted well within its
    discretion in determining that the Tribe’s recommendation of guardianship
    as N.S.’s permanent plan was not a compelling reason to find that
    termination of parental rights would not be in N.S.’s best interests. As we
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    discussed ante, the juvenile court was not required to order the permanent
    plan that the Tribe preferred.21
    The evidence amply supports a finding that termination of parental
    rights and not applying the Indian child exception would not be detrimental
    to N.S. N.S. had spent nearly his entire childhood in Grandmother’s care and
    it was undisputed that she met all of his needs and that he had thrived in her
    care. He repeatedly expressed that he wanted Grandmother to adopt him,
    even though he wanted to continue to have visitation with Mother. He had
    been in Grandmother’s care under guardianship since he was three years old
    and, at age eight, he understood the difference between guardianship and
    adoption. He recognized that with adoption, he would remain with
    Grandmother and Mother could not try to regain custody of him, and with
    guardianship, he would still be with Grandmother but Mother could request
    that he be returned to her care. When asked what his future would look like
    if he could make it any way he wanted, he said he would be adopted and
    Mother would keep visiting him. He would like Mother to spend the night at
    his house but did not want to spend the night at her house. He expressed his
    desire to be adopted by Grandmother but to continue to visit Mother to the
    Agency social workers, his attorney, the Tribal representative, and his
    psychological evaluator.
    21     Mother acknowledges that under case law, the juvenile court conducts
    an independent assessment of detriment in determining whether a statutory
    exception to adoption is a compelling reason not to terminate parental rights.
    
    (T.S., supra
    , 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 1040.) However, she argues that this
    principle “recognizes the Tribe only as a mere participant rather than a
    sovereign nation.” Her criticism of case law on this point reflects her position
    that a tribe’s selection of a permanent plan preempts any statutory
    preference for a different plan and must be followed by the court. We rejected
    that position in part I of this opinion.
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    N.S.’s statements evidence his need and desire for the stability and
    permanency of adoption. Whether or not N.S. was an Indian child, he “ had a
    fundamental interest in stability and permanency. [Citation.] Adoption
    gives a child the best chance at a full emotional commitment from a
    responsible caretaker. [Citation.] Guardianship, while a more stable
    placement than foster care, is not irrevocable and falls short of the secure and
    permanent future the Legislature had in mind for a dependent child.” 
    (A.A., supra
    , 167 Cal.App.4th at p. 1325; In re Priscilla D. (2015) 
    234 Cal. App. 4th 1207
    , 1215-1216 [“Continuity in a legal guardianship is not equivalent to the
    security and stability of a permanent caretaker.”].) “ ‘While the ICWA
    focuses on preserving Indian culture, it does not do so at the expense of a
    child’s right to security and stability.’ ” (In re Collin E. (2018) 
    25 Cal. App. 5th 647
    , 660, fn. 4.)
    The Tribe supported guardianship in large part because it would give
    Mother a future opportunity to have N.S. returned to her care. The Tribe
    stated that it would support another section 388 petition by Mother if she
    had a minimum of six more months of sobriety, and that it was “committed to
    the reunification of their families, even when that is outside of the legal
    timeline of the Court.” Goodblanket testified that the reason the Tribe
    wanted to maintain N.S.’s guardianship was to give Mother “an opportunity
    to potentially become [N.S.’s] full parent again.” Thus, in recommending
    guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan, the Tribe’s focus was on Mother’s
    interest and the Tribe’s general cultural preference to not terminate parental
    rights. However, in the words of the A.A. court, “although guardianship may
    have served the Tribe’s interests, the court, in assessing [N.S.’s] best
    interests, was not compelled to agree with the Tribe.” 
    (A.A., supra
    , 167
    Cal.App.4th at p. 1325.)
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    The evidence regarding the benefit that N.S. would gain from being
    adopted by Grandmother versus continuing in his guardianship supports the
    juvenile court’s determination that guardianship was not in N.S.’s best
    interests and, therefore, the Tribe’s identification of guardianship as N.S.’s
    permanent plan was not a compelling reason to preserve parental rights.
    The juvenile court did not abuse its discretion in determining that the Indian
    child exception to adoption did not preclude termination of parental rights
    based on either substantial interference with N.S.’s connection to the Tribe or
    the Tribe’s identification of guardianship as N.S.’s permanent plan.
    IV.
    There is Sufficient Evidence to Support the Court’s Finding Beyond a
    Reasonable Doubt That Continued Custody in Mother’s Care Would Be a
    Substantial Risk to N.S.
    Mother contends that there was insufficient evidence to support the
    juvenile court’s finding beyond a reasonable doubt that continued custody in
    Mother’s care would likely result in serious emotional or physical damage to
    N.S.
    “ICWA protects the interests of Indian children and promotes the
    stability and security of Indian tribes and families by establishing minimum
    federal standards in juvenile dependency cases. [Citations.] Those standards
    require the juvenile court to make certain findings affecting an Indian child
    before ordering foster care or terminating parental rights. Before the court
    can terminate parental rights it must make a finding, ‘supported by evidence
    beyond a reasonable doubt, including testimony of qualified expert witnesses,
    that the continued custody of the child by the parent or Indian custodian is
    likely to result in serious emotional or physical damage to the child.’ (25
    U.S.C. § 1912(f); see also § 366.26, subd. (c)(2)(B)(ii).) This finding is
    commonly referred to as the ICWA detriment finding.” (In re M.B. (2010) 182
    
    47 Cal. App. 4th 1496
    , 1502 (M.B.).) We review the court’s ICWA detriment
    finding for substantial evidence. . . . The appellant has the burden of
    showing there is no evidence of a sufficiently substantial nature to support
    the court’s finding.” (Id. at p. 1506.)
    We conclude that the juvenile court’s ICWA detriment finding is
    supported by substantial evidence. Although Mother had been doing well in
    maintaining her sobriety at the time of the section 366.26 hearing, she had a
    long history of repeatedly attaining sobriety through treatment and then
    relapsing into substance abuse. According to Grandmother, Mother had been
    “in and out of different substance abuse programs 15 or more times.” The
    Agency’s initial report for the section 366.26 hearing filed in April 2019 noted
    Mother’s chronic substance abuse history dating back to when she was
    approximately 15 years of age, and her inability to maintain sobriety. After
    the case was closed in 2014, Mother “would sober up for approximately 6
    months and then relapse.” The Agency noted that Mother cited the lack of
    visits with N.S. as a contributing cause of her relapses, but further noted that
    between 2012 and 2014, Mother had episodes of relapse despite receiving
    services and even after she reunified with N.S. at one point. The Agency
    reported that Mother had “been unable to demonstrate substantial progress
    to address her substance abuse, which does not decrease the protective
    issue.” The Tribe did not support Mother’s section 388 petition requesting
    termination of the guardianship and reunification services to transition N.S.
    back into her care, stating it “would be supportive of a [section] 388 with a
    minimum of 6 more months of sobriety.” The Tribe believed that it was in
    N.S.’s best interests to remain in Grandmother’s home where he had
    stability. The court could reasonably view Mother’s history of substance
    abuse as a risk factor in returning N.S. to Mother’s custody.
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    ICWA expert England, who had been an Indian expert for over 20 years
    and had testified in more than 2,000 cases in 22 states, stated in his
    declaration that, based on the information provided to him, including the
    Agency’s reports, it was his “opinion that a causal relationship exists between
    the conditions in [Mother’s] home and the likelihood that continued custody
    of [N.S.] by [Mother] or [the father] is likely to result in serious emotional or
    physical damage to [N.S.].”
    It was undisputed that Grandmother took excellent care of N.S., that
    he thrived in her care, and was happy living with her, as reflected in his
    statement that “[e]verything here is awesomely best!” As noted, N.S.
    repeatedly made it clear that he wanted to be adopted by Grandmother and
    did not want to live with Mother, although he wanted to continue to visit her.
    In finding beyond a reasonable doubt that custody with Mother would
    likely to result in serious emotional or physical damage to N.S., the court
    noted England’s opinion to that effect and focused on the fact that N.S.’s
    primary attachment was to Grandmother and that his clear preference was
    to remain in her care. The court stated that the “emotional difficulty” N.S.
    would experience if he were returned to Mother’s care “would stem primarily
    from the fact that his entire world and environment would be disrupted. And
    this is a young man who has relied very heavily on his environment. So I do
    believe, by evidence beyond a reasonable doubt, that there would be
    emotional damage to him with respect to continued custody [by Mother].”22
    The court added that “[N.S.] enjoys being with his mother. He knows his
    mother is his mother. But he also knows that someone else occupies an even
    22     The court clarified that it was referring to physical custody rather than
    legal custody.
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    more hallowed position in his life, and that is his Grandmother. His
    Grandmother’s been there through thick and thin. When he’s had a cold, she
    has assisted him. When he’s had a headache, she’s been there to alleviate the
    pain. When he’s had the flu, she’s put that cold compress on his forehead and
    had him bend over the commode. [¶] Those types of activities, that type of
    experience, really does forge the attachment and bond he has with his
    grandmother. There is no similar forging of an attachment or bond with the
    mother because of the practical aspects of being out of his mother’s care for
    two-thirds of his life.”
    The evidence overwhelmingly supports the court’s view that N.S.’s
    primary attachment is to his Grandmother and that his “entire world” would
    be disrupted if he were removed from her care against his express and
    repeated wishes. Accordingly, the court reasonably found beyond a
    reasonable doubt that returning N.S. to Mother’s custody would likely result
    in serious emotional damage to N.S.
    V.
    The Court Did Not Err in Finding That the Beneficial Parent-Child
    Relationship Exception to Adoption Does Not Apply
    Mother contends that the juvenile court erred in finding that the
    beneficial parent-child relationship exception of section 366.26, subdivision
    (c)(1)(B)(i) does not apply to preclude termination of parental rights. We
    disagree.
    At a permanency hearing, under section 366.26, subdivision (b), the
    court must select the dependent child’s permanent plan from a number of
    statutory alternatives, including adoption, TCA, guardianship and long-term
    foster care. “ ‘If the dependent child is adoptable, there is a strong preference
    for adoption over the alternative permanency plans.’ [Citation.] ‘Once the
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    court determines the child is likely to be adopted, the burden shifts to the
    parent to show [a compelling reason to determine] that termination of
    parental rights would be detrimental to the child under one of the exceptions
    listed in section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1). [Citations.] Section 366.26,
    subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i), provides an exception to termination of parental
    rights when “[t]he parents have maintained regular visitation and contact
    with the child and the child would benefit from continuing the
    relationship.” ’ ” (In re G.B. (2014) 
    227 Cal. App. 4th 1147
    , 1165 (G.B.).)
    This court has interpreted “the ‘benefit from continuing the [parent[-
    ]child] relationship’ exception to mean the relationship promotes the well-
    being of the child to such a degree as to outweigh the well-being the child
    would gain in a permanent home with new, adoptive parents. In other words,
    the court balances the strength and quality of the natural parent[-]child
    relationship in a tenuous placement against the security and the sense of
    belonging a new family would confer. If severing the natural parent[-]child
    relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive emotional
    attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed, the preference for
    adoption is overcome and the natural parent’s rights are not terminated.” (In
    re Autumn H. (1994) 
    27 Cal. App. 4th 567
    , 575 (Autumn H.).)
    “A parent asserting the parental benefit exception has the burden of
    establishing that exception by a preponderance of the evidence. [Citation.] It
    is not enough to show that the parent and child have a friendly and loving
    relationship. [Citation.] ‘ “Interaction between [a] natural parent and child
    will always confer some incidental benefit to the child . . . .” ’ [Citation.] For
    the exception to apply, ‘a parental relationship is necessary[.]’
    [Citation.] ‘ “While friendships are important, a child needs at least one
    parent. Where a biological parent . . . is incapable of functioning in that role,
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    the child should be given every opportunity to bond with an individual who
    will assume the role of a parent.” ’ ” (In re J.C. (2014) 
    226 Cal. App. 4th 503
    ,
    529 (J.C.).)
    “We apply the substantial evidence standard of review to the factual
    issue of the existence of a beneficial parental relationship, and the abuse of
    discretion standard to the determination of whether there is a compelling
    reason for finding that termination would be detrimental to the child.”
    (Anthony 
    B., supra
    , 239 Cal.App.4th at p. 395.)
    Regarding the existence of a parental relationship, substantial evidence
    supported the juvenile court’s determination that although N.S. enjoyed his
    visitation with Mother and wanted it to continue, the relationship between
    Mother and N.S. was not a parent-child relationship; N.S.’s parental bond
    was with Grandmother. In the Agency’s initial report for the section 366.26
    hearing, Navarro noted that although Mother had been consistent and loving
    in her visitation with N.S., “due to the fact that [N.S.] has only resided with
    his mother for approximately 20 months of his seven years of life, their
    relationship can be described as a loving and friendly relationship.
    Furthermore, [N.S.] shows no signs of grief when separating from the mother
    at the end of each visit. Moreover, [N.S.] has expressed his needs to multiple
    professional identities that increasing visitation is not something he desires
    or appears to need. [N.S.] has also voiced not wanting to keep the scheduled
    two phone calls a week and requested to decrease it to one. Additionally,
    when [N.S.] was asked about his mother’s involvement and attendance to his
    [extracurricular] activities, Noah specified he did not want his mother
    present as he does not want anything to change.” Navarro reported that N.S.
    had a great love for Grandmother and that he had “developed a parental
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    relationship and bond with [Grandmother] as he had lived with her for the
    majority of his life.”
    Although N.S. increasingly enjoyed visitation with Mother and
    progressed to wanting to have overnight visits with her, he never wavered in
    his wish to be adopted by Grandmother. Thus, at the section 366.26 hearing,
    the juvenile court reasonably found that N.S.’s primary attachment was with
    Grandmother and that his clear preference was to remain in her care. The
    court observed that “[N.S.’s] established connection to his grandmother, who
    he regards as a mother figure, is the most powerful and persuasive aspect of
    this case.”
    Even assuming that there is sufficient evidence to support a finding of
    a beneficial parent-child relationship between Mother and N.S., we conclude
    that Mother has not met her burden of showing that the juvenile court
    abused its discretion in determining that termination of parental rights
    would not be detrimental to N.S. Although the court recognized at the
    section 366.26 hearing that N.S. enjoyed being with Mother, and that both
    Mother and N.S. described their visits, in the court’s words, “as appropriate
    and enjoyable[ and] loving,” the court found that “the benefits that the
    mother confers upon [N.S. are] greatly outweighed by his need for stability in
    placement, which can only be achieved by adoptive placement.” Noting N.S.’s
    stability and developmental progress in Grandmother’s care and reiterating
    that the stability of N.S.’s placement with Grandmother outweighed the
    benefits that he received from his contact with Mother, the court concluded
    that “it would not be in [N.S.]’s best interests to promote or facilitate a
    mother-child relationship.” In connection with its ICWA detriment finding,
    the court acknowledged that it was important for N.S. to have a connection
    with Mother. The court added, “But that does not mean that the connection,
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    if it is disrupted . . . would be so detrimental to him[] that termination of
    parental rights should not occur.”
    The evidence discussed ante that supports the juvenile court’s rejection
    of the Indian child exception to adoption and the court’s finding beyond a
    reasonable doubt that custody with Mother would likely result in serious
    emotional or physical damage to N.S. also supports the court’s determination
    that terminating parental rights would not be detrimental to N.S. under the
    beneficial parent-child relationship exception to adoption. In particular, the
    evidence that N.S. is happy and thriving in Grandmother’s care and that he
    has consistently and unequivocally expressed the desire to be adopted by
    Grandmother sufficiently supports the court’s determination that
    terminating parental rights would not cause N.S. to be greatly harmed.
    Accordingly, we conclude that the court did not abuse its discretion in
    determining that there is no compelling reason to find that termination of
    parental rights would be detrimental to N.S. Substantial evidence in the
    record supports the court’s finding that, notwithstanding the positive aspects
    of the relationship between Mother and N.S., the benefit that N.S. would gain
    from adoption by Grandmother outweighs any detriment to him that would
    result from termination of parental rights. Mother has not met her burden of
    showing that the juvenile court erred in finding that the beneficial parent-
    child relationship exception of section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) did not
    apply to preclude termination of her parental rights.
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    DISPOSITION
    The order terminating parental rights and selecting adoption as N.S.’s
    permanent plan is affirmed.
    AARON, J.
    WE CONCUR:
    BENKE, Acting P. J.
    HUFFMAN, J.
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    Filed 10/9/20
    CERTIFIED FOR PUBLICATION
    COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT
    DIVISION ONE
    STATE OF CALIFORNIA
    In re N.S., a Person Coming Under the
    Juvenile Court Law.
    D077177
    SAN DIEGO COUNTY HEALTH AND
    HUMAN SERVICES AGENCY,
    (Super. Ct. No. NJ14703)
    Plaintiff and Respondent,
    ORDER CERTIFYING
    v.                                       OPINION FOR PUBLICATION
    C.V.,
    Defendant and Appellant.
    THE COURT:
    The opinion in this case filed on September 17, 2020, was not certified for
    publication. It appearing the opinion meets the standards for publication specified in
    California Rules of Court, rule 8.1105(c), the request pursuant to rule 8.1120(a) for
    publication is GRANTED.
    IT IS HEREBY CERTIFIED that the opinion meets the standards for publication
    specified in California Rules of Court, rule 8.1105(c); and
    ORDERED that the words "Not to Be Published in the Official Reports" appearing
    on page one of said opinion be deleted and the opinion herein be published in the Official
    Reports.
    BENKE, Acting P. J.
    Copies to: All parties
    

Document Info

Docket Number: D077177

Filed Date: 10/9/2020

Precedential Status: Precedential

Modified Date: 4/17/2021