Michael Koch, Former Husband v. Emily A. Koch, Former Wife ( 2016 )


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  •                                      IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF APPEAL
    FIRST DISTRICT, STATE OF FLORIDA
    MICHAEL KOCH, Former                 NOT FINAL UNTIL TIME EXPIRES TO
    Husband,                             FILE MOTION FOR REHEARING AND
    DISPOSITION THEREOF IF FILED
    Appellant,
    CASE NO. 1D16-0478
    v.
    EMILY A. KOCH, Former Wife,
    Appellee.
    _____________________________/
    Opinion filed December 5, 2016.
    An appeal from the Circuit Court for Levy County.
    Stanley H. Griffis, III, Judge.
    Michael Koch, pro se, Appellant.
    S. Scott Walker of Folds & Walker, LLC, Gainesville, for Appellee.
    CORRECTED OPINION
    BILBREY, J.
    Appellant challenges the Partial Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage
    and the subsequent Final Judgment on Parenting Plan and Timesharing, raising
    thirteen issues. We affirm the Partial Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage
    without further comment. The Final Judgment on Parenting Plan and Timesharing
    is also affirmed, but we write to address Appellant’s second asserted point of error
    — the trial court’s prohibition of Appellant’s discussion of “ANY religious matters
    during visitation with his children.”
    The free exercise of religious beliefs and practices is protected by the First
    Amendment to the United States Constitution and by article I of the Florida
    Constitution. In family law proceedings, a court may not restrict a post-dissolution
    parent’s religious beliefs, no matter how unconventional. See Rogers v. Rogers,
    
    490 So. 2d 1017
    , 1018 (Fla. 1st DCA 1986) (reversing condition of mother’s
    primary residential custody that she sever ties with specific religious organization
    and refrain from subjecting the children to “any of the dogmas” of that
    organization). And, as noted in Pierson v. Pierson, 
    143 So. 3d 1201
    , 1203 (Fla. 1st
    DCA 2014), “[r]estrictions upon a noncustodial parent’s right to expose his or her
    child to his or her religious beliefs have consistently been overturned in the
    absence of a clear, affirmative showing that the religious activities at issue will be
    harmful to the child.”
    However, because section 61.13(2)(c), Florida Statutes (2015) requires
    Florida courts to “determine all matters relating to parenting and time-sharing of
    each minor child of the parties in accordance with the best interests of the child,”
    we agree with the Supreme Court of Kansas’ observation that “consideration of
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    religiously motivated behavior with an impact on a child’s welfare cannot be
    ignored.” Harrison v. Tauheed, 
    292 Kan. 663
    , 683, 
    256 P.3d 851
    , 863 (2011).
    This differentiation between religious beliefs and religiously motivated actions
    which affect the welfare of the child is consistent with the rule announced in
    Pierson and earlier, in Mesa v. Mesa, 
    652 So. 2d 456
    , 457 (Fla. 4th DCA 1995),
    that restrictions on a parent’s “exposure” of his or her child to the parent’s
    religious beliefs “have consistently been overturned in the absence of a clear,
    affirmative showing that the religious activities at issue will be harmful to the
    child.” 
    Pierson, 143 So. 3d at 1203
    citing 
    Mesa, 652 So. 2d at 457
    .
    In this case, the record supports “a clear, affirmative showing” that
    Appellant’s actions towards his children, which he adamantly believes are
    religiously motivated, have been harmful to the children. After one child suffered
    a psychotic episode which required hospitalization, and upon the former wife’s
    request, Appellant left the marital residence in February of 2013. The children had
    resided exclusively with the former wife since that time. At the time of the bench
    trial, a temporary injunction against domestic violence directed towards Appellant
    was in place. At the conclusion of the trial, the court extended the temporary
    injunction for the next year. During the trial, the court heard the testimony of three
    professionals, all of whom had extensive counseling experience with the family
    over several years. All three professionals consistently testified that Appellant’s
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    admonishments, threats of damnation, and demonization of the children’s mother
    caused each of the three children anxiety and emotional distress severe enough to
    qualify as abuse. Mental health counselor, Alicia Pfahlor, was concerned enough
    by what she heard from one of the children that she reported suspected
    psychological abuse to the Department of Children and Families. 1
    Ms. Pfahlor testified that Appellant admitted to her that “he had been
    abusive to his wife and he had been abusive to his children. To me he said he had
    been a monster in his family.” The court-appointed social investigator Dr. Linda
    Abeles, PhD., also testified that Appellant admitted to her that he had been abusive
    to his wife and children earlier in the marriage, but that he had experienced a
    religious “epiphany” and attempted to change his behavior towards his wife.     Dr.
    Abeles stated that in her opinion, based on her counseling with Appellant and the
    other members of the family, that Appellant had not changed his behavior towards
    the children, that each of the children suffered from anxiety disorder, that
    Appellant was engaging in domestic violence against the mother and the children
    prior to his leaving the home, and that unsupervised parenting time with Appellant
    would not be in the children’s best interest.
    The trial court relied heavily on the testimony of marriage and family
    counselor Dr. Stephen Figley, PhD., who had a long history of counseling this
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    The Department found no abuse, abandonment, or neglect, and took no action on
    the report.
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    family. In addition to his counseling qualifications, Dr. Figley had extensive
    theological training and was familiar with Appellant’s religious beliefs.       His
    testimony was consistent with the other testimony, that Appellant’s extensive
    proselytizing of the children was used as leverage over them to persuade the
    former wife to reconcile with Appellant. Dr. Figley also testified that Appellant’s
    harsh “admonishment” of the children had harmful effects upon them. Appellant
    readily admitted that he used Biblical verses as a “rod” to justify his severe
    punishments of the children and to control their behavior.
    In an effort to allow Appellant to improve his interactions with the children,
    the trial court ordered supervised visitation for Appellant in the partial final
    judgment and ordered Appellant to continue counseling with Dr. Figley. The court
    held three review hearings after the partial final judgment and heard testimony
    from Dr. Figley about Appellant’s progress. However, this effort was unsuccessful
    and Dr. Figley testified that Appellant adamantly refused any suggestion that
    Appellant change his aggressive communications with the children so as to
    improve his relationships with them.
    After considering the testimony presented in both the bench trial and the
    review hearings, the trial court changed Appellant’s supervised visitation to
    unsupervised visitation in the Final Judgment on Parenting Plan. Appellant’s
    parenting time remained at two hours per week.
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    The testimony of the expert witnesses during the bench trial, and Dr.
    Figley’s follow-up testimony in the third review hearing, constituted a “clear,
    affirmative showing that the religious activities at issue will be harmful to the
    child[ren],” as required under Pierson and the cases cited therein. The trial court
    explained its injunction of Appellant discussing religious matters with the children
    in its finding that “in this unique case, the Father’s use and/or leverage of religious
    views has been abusive to the children as the Father has sought to pit religion
    against the children’s Mother. A year’s worth of pro bono and subsidized therapy
    has not changed his insight regarding his conduct.” The record on appeal supports
    this finding. Under the particular circumstances of this case, the trial court’s
    restriction on Appellant’s discussion of “religious matters” during his parenting
    time did not exceed the court’s discretionary authority or violate Appellant’s
    rights. The welfare and best interests of the children must prevail. § 61.13(2)(c) &
    (3), Fla. Stat.
    AFFIRMED.
    ROBERTS, C.J. and WETHERELL, J., CONCUR.
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Document Info

Docket Number: 16-0478

Filed Date: 12/4/2016

Precedential Status: Precedential

Modified Date: 4/17/2021