Smith v. Small , 2022 IL App (4th) 220057-U ( 2022 )


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  •             NOTICE
    
    2022 IL App (4th) 220057-U
                            FILED
    This Order was filed under
    June 2, 2022
    Supreme Court Rule 23 and is
    NO. 4-22-0057                             Carla Bender
    not precedent except in the                                                         4th District Appellate
    limited circumstances allowed                                                              Court, IL
    under Rule 23(e)(1).                  IN THE APPELLATE COURT
    OF ILLINOIS
    FOURTH DISTRICT
    MATTHEW SMITH,                                                )      Appeal from the
    Petitioner-Appellant,                                )      Circuit Court of
    v.                                                   )      Macoupin County
    LACEY SMALL,                                                  )      No. 21F34
    Respondent-Appellee.                                 )
    )      Honorable
    )      Kenneth R. Deihl,
    )      Judge Presiding.
    JUSTICE HARRIS delivered the judgment of the court.
    Justices DeArmond and Holder White concurred in the judgment.
    ORDER
    ¶1      Held: The trial court’s judgment allocating the majority of the parenting time to
    respondent was not against the manifest weight of the evidence.
    ¶2               Petitioner, Matthew Smith, appeals from the trial court’s order awarding
    respondent, Lacey Small, a majority of the parenting time with respect to their minor son, T.D.S.
    (born July 23, 2012). On appeal, petitioner argues the court’s determination was against the
    manifest weight of the evidence. We affirm.
    ¶3                                       I. BACKGROUND
    ¶4               On January 19, 2021, petitioner filed a petition for allocation of parenting time.
    Petitioner requested that the trial court award him the majority of the parenting time with respect
    to T.D.S.
    ¶5                                 A. The Best-Interest Hearing
    ¶6             On October 1, 2021, and November 29, 2021, the trial court conducted a hearing
    on the petition. We discuss the evidence relevant to the issue raised on appeal.
    ¶7                                            1. Petitioner
    ¶8             Petitioner testified he was in a relationship with respondent for approximately
    eight years. He lived with respondent and T.D.S. in Carlinville. The parties separated in 2018,
    when T.D.S. was five years old. T.D.S. has Down’s syndrome, is nonverbal, and wears diapers.
    After the separation, petitioner moved into a two-bedroom apartment in Collinsville. According
    to petitioner, T.D.S. lived with petitioner during the summer and on the weekends during the
    school year. T.D.S. lived with respondent in Carlinville when T.D.S. was in school until August
    2020.
    ¶9             Petitioner testified he works at America’s Auto Auction in Centreville. He stated
    he begins work between 7 and 8 a.m. and leaves anywhere between 3 and 5 p.m. Petitioner
    testified that if he is still working when the school day ends, his mother or daughter watches
    T.D.S. until he returns from work. Petitioner’s mother was 73 years old at the time of the hearing
    and his daughter was 18 years old. Petitioner testified T.D.S. also “sees my sister, her kids, their
    kids, brother-in-law, pretty much any of my immediate family that lives in the area around at
    least a couple times a month, if not more.”
    ¶ 10           Around March 2020, respondent and T.D.S. “needed someplace to stay” so they
    moved in with petitioner. Petitioner testified that respondent moved out of her then-boyfriend’s,
    Donald Burcham’s, home because it was a “bad place.” After about a week, respondent and
    T.D.S. moved back in with Burcham. According to petitioner, in April 2020, Burcham “kicked
    her out again and [T.D.S.] came to stay with me.”
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    ¶ 11           In August 2020, the parties agreed that T.D.S. should live with petitioner during
    the upcoming school year. Respondent helped petitioner enroll T.D.S. in the Collinsville school
    district. The parties further agreed they would discuss the possibility of T.D.S. returning to live
    with respondent when her living situation stabilized. Respondent typically saw T.D.S. once every
    other weekend during this time.
    ¶ 12           Sometime in late 2020, respondent moved back in with Burcham. One weekend in
    January 2021, prior to petitioner dropping T.D.S. off with respondent for the weekend, petitioner
    told respondent she needed to start providing her own supplies for T.D.S. Petitioner testified
    “that escalated into an argument that ended with her going to the police saying I took him.” The
    parties met at the Collinsville police station with the understanding respondent would return
    T.D.S. the following Monday. However, respondent did not return him on that Monday. As a
    result, petitioner started custody proceedings, and the Circuit Court of Madison County entered a
    temporary order requiring respondent to return T.D.S. to petitioner. As part of the order,
    respondent received parenting time on the weekends.
    ¶ 13           Petitioner testified T.D.S. attended the Carlinville school district “from Pre K and
    through the end of the 2020 school year.” Due to his disabilities, T.D.S. has always had an
    individualized education plan (IEP). Petitioner attended the IEP meetings when he lived in
    Carlinville. Petitioner testified that he also attends T.D.S.’s medical appointments. Petitioner
    testified respondent was unable to attend one of T.D.S.’s eye doctor appointments because she
    had to take Burcham to the hospital. On cross-examination, he acknowledged she had a
    “legitimate reason” for missing the appointment.
    ¶ 14           Petitioner agreed that respondent had raised concerns about T.D.S.’s weight gain.
    Petitioner testified he “immediately called his doctor and scheduled a blood workup to make sure
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    everything was okay.” Petitioner claimed T.D.S. grew a “foot and a half” and “seem[ed] to be
    losing weight” ever since it was brought to his attention.
    ¶ 15           Petitioner testified T.D.S. receives $800 per month in social security payments
    due to his disability. Respondent had received the payments until about a month prior to the
    hearing. Petitioner testified he did not believe respondent was “financially, physically, or
    mentally capable of taking care of [T.D.S.] on a day-to-day basis.”
    ¶ 16                                     2. Emma Reichert
    ¶ 17           Emma Reichert testified she is employed as a behavioral specialist with a “special
    education cooperative that supports local rural school districts.” Prior to that, she “worked as the
    early childhood special education teacher in [the] Carlinville School District.” Reichert testified
    she was previously T.D.S.’s teacher and subsequently consulted on his case in her role as a
    behavioral specialist.
    ¶ 18           Reichert testified T.D.S.’s first IEP took place shortly before his third birthday.
    The service plan provided for “speech and language services, occupational therapy, ***
    developmental, cognitive, social, emotional skills.” Reichert testified T.D.S. was happy in the
    Carlinville school district and had friends and “great relationships with staff.” Reichert stated she
    had reviewed the “move-in IEP” created by the Collinsville school district. She testified the
    services provided by the two school districts were comparable.
    ¶ 19           Reichert stated that, in her opinion, respondent was more involved with the
    minor’s education because she spoke with respondent regularly on the phone and saw her in-
    person at meetings. Reichert also testified that respondent “is a very good mother. She is a hard
    worker. She always puts [T.D.S.’s] needs above her own.” Reichert further testified she did not
    believe T.D.S. would have any difficulty transferring back to Carlinville from Collinsville
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    because “he would be returning to the same teachers, the same assistants, the same therapists
    who have known him for eight years.”
    ¶ 20                                   3. Donald Burcham
    ¶ 21           Donald Burcham testified he had been dating and living with respondent for
    approximately two years. T.D.S. lived with them during respondent’s parenting time. Burcham
    stated he is much older than respondent. Burcham testified that, in March 2020, he and
    respondent agreed that given their age difference, she “needed a chance to reconcile” with
    petitioner so T.D.S. could have a better relationship with his father. Burcham testified respondent
    and T.D.S. only lived with petitioner for about a week before moving back in with him.
    Respondent and T.D.S. moved out again in August 2020 because Burcham’s family still “wasn’t
    accepting her because of the age difference.” Burcham testified he never kicked respondent out
    of his house, stating instead that the two of them reached a mutual agreement. They remained in
    constant communication until respondent moved back in with him around November 2020.
    Burcham and respondent became engaged in February 2021.
    ¶ 22           Burcham testified T.D.S. is his “pride and joy” and described him as “my son.”
    According to Burcham, T.D.S. “needs waited on 24/7 practically” and, in his opinion, petitioner
    is unable to meet T.D.S.’s needs because he frequently leaves the child with a babysitter who is
    not willing to provide the intensive care necessary. Burcham testified that when they meet
    petitioner for exchanges, T.D.S. “runs to his mother for hugs every time when his dad brings him
    to us. *** But he doesn’t run up to his dad and hug him or anything like he does his mother.”
    Burcham further testified that T.D.S. “hasn’t been him[s]elf” since the temporary order was
    entered in January 2021, and he appears “run down” when petitioner drops him off. Burcham
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    further testified T.D.S. frequently has diaper rashes after he has spent several days with
    petitioner.
    ¶ 23                                       4. Respondent
    ¶ 24            Respondent testified that she lives in Carlinville with Burcham and T.D.S., when
    T.D.S. is with them. She has lived there since 2019, except for a brief period in March 2020
    when she lived with petitioner and “in August when we agreed for me to leave due to conflict in
    the family.”
    ¶ 25            Respondent testified she was previously in a relationship with petitioner from
    2010 to 2018. She stated their relationship was initially good following T.D.S.’s birth but
    “started going downhill” after she had several surgeries. Respondent claimed petitioner was
    verbally abusive to her and did not want to care for T.D.S. even when she was recovering from
    her surgeries. According to respondent, when the parties separated in 2018, petitioner initially
    denied being T.D.S.’s father. However, after a few weeks he agreed to visit with the child. The
    parties agreed respondent would have T.D.S. during the week and petitioner would have him on
    the weekends.
    ¶ 26            Respondent testified T.D.S. was diagnosed with Down’s syndrome when he was
    approximately three months old. She stated T.D.S. requires 24-hour care because “[t]here is
    nothing he can do without someone being there at least supervising, if not helping him.” For
    example, T.D.S. frequently chokes on his food, needs his diaper changed often, and cannot bathe
    himself or wash his own hands.
    ¶ 27            Respondent testified that in March 2020, petitioner called her to ask if she and
    T.D.S. would move in with him “to try to make our family whole again.” Respondent discussed
    this with Burcham, and they both agreed she should do it so T.D.S. could have a better
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    relationship with petitioner. However, respondent and T.D.S. moved out of petitioner’s house
    within several days and moved back in with Burcham. Respondent described petitioner’s
    apartment as “a dumpster.”
    ¶ 28           Respondent again moved out of Burcham’s house in August 2020 due to concerns
    about the age difference between the two—respondent is approximately the same age as
    Burcham’s children. Respondent and petitioner agreed T.D.S. should live with petitioner and
    attend school in Collinsville until respondent “got back on [her] feet” because she did not have a
    house of her own at the time. In November, respondent moved back in with Burcham because
    they “really do love each other” and did not want to let “the conflict in the family” keep them
    from being together. However, respondent did not want T.D.S. to move back in with them until
    she resolved the conflict with Burcham’s family. Respondent was able to resolve the conflict in
    December and asked petitioner to let T.D.S. live with her during the school year. According to
    respondent, petitioner refused to return T.D.S. to her and told her she “better have $10,000 if I
    wanted to see my child again.” Respondent had to call the Collinsville police to have petitioner
    meet her at the police station to exchange T.D.S. Respondent re-enrolled T.D.S. in the Carlinville
    school district, and he remained living with her until the Circuit Court of Madison County
    entered a temporary order awarding petitioner the majority of the parenting time.
    ¶ 29           Respondent testified she has had three jobs since T.D.S.’s birth and has not had a
    paying job since approximately March 2020. Respondent stated she did not want to get a job so
    that she would be available to care for T.D.S. whenever possible. Respondent acknowledged that
    she depended on Burcham to pay her bills and for transportation. Nonetheless, she maintained
    her situation was stable because she was engaged to Burcham and he intended to give her the
    house when he dies.
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    ¶ 30           Respondent testified that when the parties meet for exchanges, T.D.S. “always
    runs right up to me and hugs me real tight.” Respondent further stated that “[w]hen it’s time ***
    to get him ready to come back [to petitioner], he fights me getting him dressed, just pushing
    everything away.” Once respondent “finally” is able to get T.D.S. ready, “he seems happy to see
    his dad.” Respondent testified T.D.S. usually is not dressed appropriately for the weather when
    petitioner drops him off at exchanges. Additionally, respondent claimed T.D.S. has diaper rashes
    whenever petitioner returns him to her and he has gained nearly 30 pounds since he began living
    with petitioner following the Madison County court order. According to respondent, petitioner
    told T.D.S.’s doctor in January 2021 “that he could only get [T.D.S.] to eat popcorn, pork rinds,
    and milk, and that was it.”
    ¶ 31                                      5. Ian Murphy
    ¶ 32           Ian Murphy was appointed to serve as the guardian ad litem (GAL) and prepared
    a report containing his recommendations. Murphy testified he did not need to make any changes
    to his report after hearing the testimony of the witnesses. In his report, Murphy recommended
    petitioner be awarded the majority of the parenting time. Murphy based his recommendation on
    “two factors.” First, Murphy noted respondent did not have her own home in August 2020 and
    had to give T.D.S. to petitioner because she was unable to adequately care for him. Murphy
    further noted that, “because [respondent] doesn’t have a job currently, she is relying on the
    relationship that she has to avoid her becoming homeless, which puts her in a slightly unstable
    position.” Second, Murphy considered the fact that T.D.S. had been living with petitioner and
    attending the Collinsville school district for the past year and he did not “want to upend” his
    environment. However, in making his recommendation, Murphy also stated he had no reason to
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    believe either household or school district was better than the other and he would have
    recommended equal parenting time if the parties lived closer to one another.
    ¶ 33                               B. The Trial Court’s Judgment
    ¶ 34           On December 27, 2021, the trial court entered a written order finding it was in
    T.D.S.’s best interests to award the majority of the parenting time to respondent. In its detailed
    order, the court made findings with respect to each of the best-interest factors enumerated in
    section 602.7 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (Marriage Act) (750 ILCS
    5/602.7(b)(1)-(17) (West 2020)).
    ¶ 35           This appeal followed.
    ¶ 36                                       II. ANALYSIS
    ¶ 37           On appeal, petitioner argues the trial court erred in awarding the majority of the
    parenting time with T.D.S. to respondent. Petitioner asserts “the court failed to take into
    consideration multiple facts that weighed in [his] favor.” Most importantly, according to
    petitioner, the court “failed to consider the obvious instability of [respondent].” Petitioner also
    points to the fact that the GAL recommended he be awarded the majority of the parenting time.
    ¶ 38           As an initial matter, we note respondent did not file an appellee’s brief. However,
    because the record is straightforward and we can easily address petitioner’s argument without the
    aid of an appellee’s brief, we will decide the merits of this appeal. See, e.g., First Capitol
    Mortgage Corp. v. Talandis Construction Corp., 
    63 Ill. 2d 128
    , 133 (1976) (“[I]f the record is
    simple and the claimed errors are such that the court can easily decide them without the aid of an
    appellee’s brief, the court of review should decide the merits of the appeal.”).
    ¶ 39           Section 602.7 of the Marriage Act provides “[t]he court shall allocate parenting
    time according to the child’s best interests.” 750 ILCS 5/602.7(a) (West 2020). “In determining
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    the child’s best interests for purposes of allocating parenting time, the court shall consider all
    relevant factors.” 
    Id.
     § 602.7(b). The relevant factors for the court to consider include, but are not
    limited to, the following:
    “(1) the wishes of each parent seeking parenting time;
    (2) the wishes of the child, taking into account the child’s maturity and
    ability to express reasoned and independent preferences as to parenting time;
    (3) the amount of time each parent spent performing caretaking functions
    with respect to the child in the 24 months preceding the filing of any petition for
    allocation of parental responsibilities ***;
    (4) any prior agreement or course of conduct between the parents relating
    to caretaking functions with respect to the child;
    (5) the interaction and interrelationship of the child with his or her parents
    and siblings and with any other person who may significantly affect the child’s
    best interests;
    (6) the child’s adjustment to his or her home, school, and community;
    (7) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved;
    (8) the child’s needs;
    (9) the distance between the parents’ residences, the cost and difficulty of
    transporting the child, each parent’s and the child’s daily schedules, and the
    ability of the parents to cooperate in the arrangement;
    (10) whether a restriction on parenting time is appropriate;
    (11) the physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child’s
    parent directed against the child or other member of the child’s household;
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    (12) the willingness and ability of each parent to place the needs of the
    child ahead of his or her own needs;
    (13) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a
    close and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child;
    (14) the occurrence of abuse against the child or other member of the
    child’s household;
    (15) whether one of the parents is a convicted sex offender or lives with a
    convicted sex offender and, if so, the exact nature of the offense and what if any
    treatment the offender has successfully participated in; the parties are entitled to a
    hearing on the issues raised in this paragraph (15);
    (16) the terms of a parent’s military family-care plan that a parent must
    complete before deployment if a parent is a member of the United States Armed
    Forces who is being deployed; and
    (17) any other factor that the court expressly finds to be relevant.”
    Id. § 602.7(b)(1)-(17).
    ¶ 40           “[T]he best interests of the child is the ‘guiding star’ by which all matters
    affecting children must be decided.” In re Parentage of J.W., 
    2013 IL 114817
    , ¶ 41. “A trial
    court’s findings as to a child’s best interest are entitled to great deference because the trial judge
    is in a better position than we are to observe the personalities and temperaments of the parties
    and assess the credibility of the witnesses.” In re Marriage of Whitehead, 
    2018 IL App (5th) 170380
    , ¶ 21. We will not reverse a trial court’s best-interest determination “unless it is clearly
    against the manifest weight of the evidence and it appears that a manifest injustice has occurred.”
    In re Marriage of Eckert, 
    119 Ill. 2d 316
    , 328 (1988). “A decision is against the manifest weight
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    of the evidence where the opposite conclusion is clearly evident or where the court’s findings are
    unreasonable, arbitrary, and not based on any of the evidence.” In re Marriage of Bhati, 
    397 Ill. App. 3d 53
    , 61 (2009). Under a manifest-weight-of-the-evidence standard, a court of review
    “must not substitute its judgement for that of the trial court regarding the credibility of witnesses,
    the weight to be given to the evidence, or the inferences to be drawn.” In re D.F., 
    201 Ill. 2d 476
    ,
    499 (2002).
    ¶ 41           Here, in its written order awarding respondent the majority of the parenting time,
    the trial court made express findings with respect to each of the factors enumerated in
    section 602.7 of the Marriage Act. See 750 ILCS 5/602.7(b)(1)-(17) (West 2020). The court
    found the factors listed in paragraphs (1), (7), and (13) were neutral, the factors listed in
    paragraphs (2)-(6), (8), and (12) favored respondent, and the factor in paragraph (9) favored
    petitioner. On appeal, petitioner challenges the court’s findings with respect to the factors in
    paragraphs (2)-(6), (8), (12), and (17). We will address each of petitioner’s contentions in turn.
    ¶ 42           The trial court found the factor in paragraph (2)—the wishes of the child—
    slightly favored respondent. 
    Id.
     § 602.7(b)(2). The court relied on respondent’s unrebutted
    testimony that T.D.S. “wishes to primarily reside with her because his conduct at exchanges
    indicates he does not want to go with [petitioner], and because the child gets excited at
    exchanges when it is [respondent’s] time.” Petitioner argues the court erroneously failed to
    consider that respondent also testified T.D.S. seems happy to see him at exchanges as well.
    Initially, we note the court stated that because T.D.S. is nonverbal and therefore unable to
    convey his wishes, it “afforded little weight” to this factor. Moreover, while it is true respondent
    testified T.D.S. “seems happy to see his dad,” she also testified T.D.S. would struggle with her
    whenever she attempted to get him ready to meet petitioner. Respondent testified it was not until
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    she “finally” got T.D.S. ready and walked him all the way to petitioner’s vehicle that he would
    let go of her hand and seemed happy to see petitioner. Based on the evidence, we cannot say it is
    clearly apparent the court should have found this factor favored petitioner.
    ¶ 43           The trial court determined the factor in paragraph (3)—the amount of time each
    parent spent performing caretaking functions in the two years preceding the filing of the petition
    for allocation of parenting time—favored respondent. Id. § 602.7(b)(3). The court found
    respondent provided the majority of care for T.D.S. until August 2020, when T.D.S. went to live
    with petitioner while respondent sought appropriate housing. Petitioner contends the court failed
    to consider the testimony that he “had the minor at a minimum of every weekend for at least two
    or three days each week.” However, petitioner’s statement—that he cared for T.D.S. “at least
    two or three days each week”—is itself an acknowledgment that respondent cared for the minor
    four or five days each week. Thus, we cannot say the court erred in finding that respondent cared
    for the minor the majority of the time leading up to the filing of the petition.
    ¶ 44           In finding the factor in paragraph (4)—any prior agreement or course of conduct
    between the parents relating to caretaking functions—favored respondent, the trial court noted
    respondent had performed the majority of the caretaking functions until August 2020, when “the
    parties agreed Father would care for the child until Mother was back on her feet.”
    Id. § 602.7(b)(4). Petitioner asserts the court erred because “[t]he ultimate question is whether
    [respondent] moving back into the exact situation that caused the need for [T.D.S.] to reside with
    [petitioner] constitutes getting back on her feet. If not, then the parties’ agreement that [T.D.S.]
    was to continue to live with [petitioner] should have been given more weight.” It appears
    petitioner is asking this court to substitute its judgment for that of the trial court in determining
    whether respondent’s situation had stabilized after she moved back in with Burcham. We decline
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    to do so. See D.F., 
    201 Ill. 2d at 499
     (stating a court of review “must not substitute its judgement
    for that of the trial court regarding the credibility of witnesses, the weight to be given to the
    evidence, or the inferences to be drawn”). The trial court concluded respondent was “back on her
    feet,” and petitioner fails to point to anything in the record demonstrating the opposite
    conclusion was clearly apparent.
    ¶ 45            The trial court concluded the factor in paragraph (5)—the child’s interaction and
    interrelationship with his parents, siblings, and any other person who significantly affects the
    child’s best interests—favored respondent. 750 ILCS 5/602.7(b)(5) (West 2020). The court
    found T.D.S. had a “close bond and positive relationship” with respondent and Burcham. The
    court also found, based on Reichert’s testimony, that T.D.S. had a close bond with his friends,
    teachers, and other staff in the Carlinville school district. Petitioner argues the court “failed to
    give any weight to the relationship that [T.D.S] had with his father or his father’s family.”
    However, the court explicitly noted in its written order that “the child interacts with his paternal
    grandmother and paternal adult half-sister.” Moreover, petitioner did not present any evidence
    that T.D.S. was uniquely attached to any of his family members. Instead, he merely testified
    T.D.S. occasionally spent time with his family members. Thus, it is not clearly apparent this
    factor favored petitioner.
    ¶ 46            Petitioner also challenges the trial court’s finding with respect to the factor in
    paragraph (6)—the child’s adjustment to his home, school, and community. 
    Id.
     § 602.7(b)(6).
    Petitioner points to the testimony that T.D.S. was doing well in the Collinsville school district.
    However, he fails to acknowledge the testimony by Burcham that T.D.S. “ha[d]n’t been
    hi[m]self” since living with petitioner for the majority of the time and appeared “run down”
    when he returned to respondent’s house after spending the week with petitioner. Moreover,
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    Reichert testified the Collinsville school district was not providing any services that the minor
    would not receive in Carlinville. Reichert also testified that, in her opinion, it “would be an easy
    transition” for T.D.S. to transfer back to the Carlinville school district because “he would be
    returning to the same teachers, the same assistants, the same therapists who have known him for
    eight years.” Thus, it is not clearly apparent this factor favored petitioner merely because T.D.S.
    had been doing well in the Collinsville school district.
    ¶ 47           The trial court found the factor in paragraph (8)—the child’s needs—favored
    respondent. Id. § 602.7(b)(8). The court noted respondent had always been attentive to T.D.S.’s
    medical and dietary needs. It found respondent was unemployed and had plenty of time to attend
    to T.D.S. and that the Carlinville school district was better situated to meet T.D.S.’s development
    needs due to the “school’s long history and familiarity with the child’s education and abilities.”
    Petitioner argues “there was ample evidence [he] was also able to meet [T.D.S.’s] needs” and
    “[t]he court should not have penalized [him] for working given the overwhelming evidence it has
    not affected his ability to care for or meet [T.D.S.’s] needs and there was no evidence that the
    Carlinville school district was in a better position to address [his] needs.” Notwithstanding
    petitioner’s assertion, we cannot say the trial court was incorrect in its assessment. Respondent
    testified T.D.S. had gained nearly 30 pounds in the short period of time he had been living
    mostly with petitioner. According to respondent, petitioner told T.D.S.’s doctor that “he could
    only get [T.D.S.] to eat popcorn, pork rinds, and milk.” Moreover, respondent and Burcham both
    testified T.D.S. regularly had diaper rashes when he would return to their home after spending
    the week with petitioner. Thus, the court’s finding was not arbitrary or unsubstantiated by the
    evidence.
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    ¶ 48            The trial court found the factor in paragraph (12)—the willingness and ability of
    each parent to place the needs of the child ahead of his or her own needs—weighed in favor of
    respondent. Id. § 602.7(b)(12). The court noted respondent’s “life has revolved around the child
    and his health, safety, and welfare.” The court also noted she had to make a “difficult choice” in
    August 2020 to arrange for T.D.S. to live with petitioner “until she got back on her feet.”
    Petitioner asserts that because respondent missed one of T.D.S.’s eye doctor appointments when
    she had to take Burcham to the hospital, there is “sufficient evidence” demonstrating respondent
    is unable to place the child’s needs ahead of her own. Initially, we note petitioner acknowledged
    at the hearing that respondent “had a legitimate reason” to miss the eye doctor appointment.
    Moreover, missing a single appointment because of a medical emergency is not compelling
    evidence that a parent is unable to place her child’s needs above her own. As noted by the court,
    the evidence presented demonstrates respondent had worked to meet T.D.S.’s needs since he was
    born.
    ¶ 49            Lastly, petitioner maintains “the most significant factor the court failed to take
    into consideration was the stability of the parties.” Id. § 602.7(b)(17). Petitioner argues the court
    “failed to consider the obvious instability of [respondent] when making its decision.” Petitioner
    contends respondent’s current situation is no different than her situation was in August 2020, and
    he also points out the fact that the GAL recommended he receive the majority of the parenting
    time. First, we note the trial court “is not bound by the GAL’s recommendation.” In re Marriage
    of Virgin, 
    2021 IL App (3d) 190650
    , ¶ 51. Moreover, petitioner is incorrect in stating the court
    failed to consider respondent’s level of stability. In its written order, the court explicitly
    acknowledged the GAL “recommended [petitioner] receive the majority of parenting time based
    solely on the stability of the parties.” Nonetheless, the court found “no testimony was presented
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    to suggest [respondent’s] life with her fiancé moving forward would not be stable. In fact, the
    testimony presented was to the contrary, and the Court cannot follow the GAL’s
    recommendation based on speculation alone.” While petitioner’s contention is supported by the
    GAL’s recommendation, there is also sufficient evidence in the record to support the court’s
    determination. Thus, we cannot say its judgment was erroneous.
    ¶ 50           Accordingly, for the reasons discussed, we find the trial court’s best-interest
    determination awarding respondent the majority of the parenting time with T.D.S. was not
    against the manifest weight of the evidence.
    ¶ 51                                   III. CONCLUSION
    ¶ 52           For the reasons stated, we affirm the trial court’s judgment.
    ¶ 53           Affirmed.
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Document Info

Docket Number: 4-22-0057

Citation Numbers: 2022 IL App (4th) 220057-U

Filed Date: 6/7/2022

Precedential Status: Non-Precedential

Modified Date: 6/7/2022