In re the Parentage of M.V.U. , 2020 IL App (1st) 191762 ( 2020 )


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    2020 IL App (1st) 191762
    FIRST DISTRICT
    FOURTH DIVISION
    December 3, 2020
    No. 1-19-1762
    )   Appeal from the
    IN RE THE PARENTAGE OF M.V.U.:                                  )   Circuit Court of
    )   Cook County
    Rocio Montes,                                                   )
    )
    Petitioner-Appellee,                            )
    )   No. 18 D 79090
    v.                                                              )
    )
    Jose Guadalupe Ignacio Ulloa Toscano,                           )
    )   Honorable
    )   Mary S. Trew,
    Respondent-Appellant.                           )   Judge Presiding.
    )
    JUSTICE REYES delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion.
    Justices Hall and Lampkin concurred in the judgment and opinion.
    OPINION
    ¶1     We begin by acknowledging the unique procedural posture of this case. This matter
    commenced as a parentage action in the circuit court of Cook County filed by petitioner, Rocio
    Montes (Rocio), against respondent Jose Guadalupe Ignacio Ulloa Toscano (Jose) seeking an
    acknowledgement of parentage and child support for their daughter M.V.U. During the
    pendency of the parentage petition, however, Jose filed a petition to return his daughter under the
    Hague Convention (
    22 U.S.C. § 9001
    ) (Hague petition) and the Uniform Child Custody
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    Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) (750 ILCS 36/201 (West 2018)). As a result, the
    parentage petition was stayed while litigation proceeded on the Hague petition. After an
    evidentiary hearing, the circuit court determined that while Rocio wrongfully removed M.V.U.
    from Mexico, Rocio proved by clear and convincing evidence that she was justified in doing so
    because the child was subject to a grave risk of harm. Jose now appeals this ruling, arguing that
    the circuit court erred in its determination where the evidence failed to demonstrate that Rocio
    met her burden. Because we conclude there was clear and convincing evidence supporting this
    defense, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court.
    ¶2                                      BACKGROUND
    ¶3     For the purposes of the issue on appeal, we recite only those facts relevant to the
    disposition of the case.
    ¶4     Rocio (a citizen of Mexico and the United States) and Jose (a citizen of Mexico) had a
    daughter together, M.V.U. (a citizen of Mexico and the United States), in 2014. The parties were
    never married. The child was born and resided in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico until September
    29, 2017, when Rocio moved to Chicago with the child.
    ¶5     On January 19, 2018, Rocio filed a petition in the circuit court to establish parentage,
    custody, and child support as well as permission to change her daughter’s name.
    ¶6     After being served with the parentage petition, Rocio obtained a default judgment. Two
    days before the matter was set for prove up, Jose filed a motion to vacate the default judgment
    order. On July 11, 2018, Jose was granted 30 days to file a response or otherwise plead to
    Rocio’s parentage petition. 1 In August 2018, Jose filed a Hague petition entitled “Verified
    1
    We observe that the order granting Jose leave to respond to the petition did not
    expressly vacate the default judgment. No order vacating this judgment is included in the record
    on appeal.
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    Petition for Return of Child Under the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International
    Child Abduction and the International Child Abduction Remedies Act” in August 2018. Jose
    alleged he is the child’s father and the child was wrongfully taken by Rocio from her habitual
    residence in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico on September 29, 2017, and now resides in Chicago
    with Rocio. Jose further alleged that he has was living with the child at the time she was
    removed from Mexico and has exercised custody rights over her since her birth. The court
    stayed Rocio’s parentage petition until further order of court. 2
    ¶7     On September 12, 2018, Rocio filed an answer to the Hague petition as well as
    affirmative defenses. Pertinent to this appeal, Rocio denied that Mexico was the child’s habitual
    residence and that Jose was carrying out his responsibilities towards their daughter. Rocio
    asserted three affirmative defenses; however, the affirmative defense at issue in this appeal is the
    grave risk exception under Article 13(b) of the Hague Convention. In regard to that affirmative
    defense, Rocio alleged Jose was verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive towards her while
    they were living together in Mexico. She asserted three specific allegations of abuse. The first
    allegation involved a March 2017 argument where Jose grabbed her by the neck while she was
    holding their two-year-old child and choked her. Rocio asserted that her aunt, Maria de Lourdes
    Lozano Flores (Flores), heard her cry out and witnessed Jose choking her. The second allegation
    occurred in January 2016 where the parties were arguing and Jose yelled, “If you move back to
    Chicago, I’ll kill you first before you take my baby.” The final allegation was that in August
    2017, the parties argued over Rocio’s desire to work outside of the home and have the child
    attend school. According to Rocio, Jose refused to allow her to leave the home to work.
    2
    Article 16 provides that “until it has been determined that the child is not to be returned
    under the Convention,” the state to which the child has been removed “shall not decide on the
    merits of rights of custody.” Hague Convention, art. 16.
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    ¶8     In support of her affirmative defenses, Rocio attached affidavits from her family
    members. Each of these affidavits was written in Spanish and was accompanied by a notarized
    certificate of translation. The first affidavit was from Flores, Rocio’s aunt. She attested that she
    resided next door to Rocio in Mexico and she was able to hear the arguments she and Jose had.
    In April 2017, she heard “a lot of yelling” coming from Rocio’s home and she went into the
    house to see what was happening. When she came in “[Rocio’s] boyfriend Jose Guadalupe
    Ignacio Ulloa Toscano was holding her by the neck trying to choke her and as soon as he saw me
    he let her go.” She further attested that she “often would hear how he would threaten [Rocio]
    with not letting her go to work or take her daughter to her sister’s house for visits, nor take her to
    Chicago with her family. His phrase was always ‘calale’ (try me). Letting her know that if she
    contradicted him, there would be consequences. He always tried to manipulate her, and
    everything was bad to Jose ***.”
    ¶9     Rocio’s uncle, Jose Santana Lopez, also submitted an affidavit in which he averred he
    helped take Rocio to the airport on September 29, 2017, at 3:30 a.m. “since she had to flee the
    mistreatments of her boyfriend Jose.”
    ¶ 10   Rocio’s sister, Cynthia Lizette Montes Lozano, averred that Rocio and Jose “have always
    been fighting.” Jose did not let Rocio work, even when he was unemployed and was mad when
    Rocio went to work as an English teacher. According to Cynthia, “On several occasions my
    sister Rocio Montes would kick her boyfriend Jose Guadalupe Ignacio Ulloa Toscano out of the
    house because they would fight daily, and she didn’t want her daughter to witness daily fights
    and mistreatments.”
    ¶ 11   Rocio’s grandfather, Jose Gilberto Montes Duenas (Duenas), averred that he resides in
    Chicago and has a vacation home in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico. Between May 24, 2015, and
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    September 29, 2017, he loaned his vacation home to Rocio so she could live there with the child.
    On some occasions, Jose would sleep over. Duenas further testified that Jose was “always in a
    bad mood.”
    ¶ 12   Jose filed a reply to Rocio’s affirmative defenses in which he denied all of her
    allegations.
    ¶ 13   Jose moved for judgment on the pleadings pursuant to section 2-615(e) of the Code of
    Civil Procedure (Code) (735 ILCS 5/2-615(e) (West 2018)). 3 After hearing arguments from both
    parties, the circuit court granted Jose’s section 2-615(e) motion as to two issues. First, the circuit
    court found there was no material issue of fact with regard to the issue of habitual residence of
    the minor child, that being the country of Mexico. Second, the circuit court found that there was
    no material issue of fact with regard to the exercise of custodial rights by Jose at the time of
    removal. Therefore, the circuit court granted the section 2-615(e) motion as to those issues only.
    ¶ 14                                   Evidentiary Hearing 4
    ¶ 15   Having determined that Jose’s Hague petition met the prima facie requirements for a
    wrongful removal determination, the circuit court conducted an evidentiary hearing on Rocio’s
    affirmative defenses. The circuit court heard testimony from Jose, Rocio, Denise Montes
    (Rocio’s sister), and Duenas (Rocio’s grandfather). As the sole issue on appeal is whether the
    circuit court properly found that the grave risk exception applied, we limit the recitation of the
    3
    The record does not contain a written motion for judgment on the pleadings. However,
    there is no dispute between the parties that Jose made this motion orally. The record is further
    devoid of any other motions made in conjunction with this petition.
    4
    The evidentiary hearing was conducted with the assistance of a Spanish language
    interpreter.
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    facts to that specific issue. 5
    ¶ 16    Jose testified with the assistance of a Spanish language interpreter as follows. The child
    was born in Jalisco, Mexico. At that time he was not residing in Jalisco, but would visit each
    weekend. In the middle of 2016, he moved into Duenas’ home in Jalisco to live with Rocio and
    the child. Jose denied having a difficult relationship with Rocio.
    ¶ 17    As to the March 2017 incident, Jose testified they were inside Duenas’ home and they
    were arguing. While they were arguing, Flores (Rocio’s aunt) came inside the house. He denied
    getting angry with Rocio, raising his voice, and touching her. Jose further testified that after this
    incident they continued to reside together.
    ¶ 18    Regarding the alleged January 2016 argument, Jose testified that it was a discussion, not
    an argument. Jose denied saying that if Rocio tried to take the child to Chicago he would kill
    Rocio. Jose also denied telling Rocio that her job was to stay home and take care of the baby.
    According to Jose, Rocio decided on her own to quit her job.
    ¶ 19    On cross-examination, Jose testified that he never hit or choked Rocio and he never
    physically abused their daughter.
    ¶ 20    Rocio testified in Spanish with the assistance of a Spanish language interpreter. Rocio
    testified she met Jose in 2005 while she was living in Jalisco. After she informed him she was
    pregnant Jose demanded she obtain an abortion. Rocio disagreed and Jose moved out. Almost
    two years after the child was born Jose moved in with her in March 2016. Regarding the March
    2017 argument, Rocio testified that they were arguing about her going to the United States to
    5
    After Rocio presented her case-in-chief, Jose moved for a directed finding as to all three
    of her affirmative defenses. The circuit court granted the directed finding as to the other two
    affirmative defenses. The circuit court’s determination as to these directed findings is not at
    issue on appeal.
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    visit her family—Jose did not want her to go. During the argument, Jose choked her with one
    hand while she was holding their two-year-old child. She was screaming for him to stop when
    her aunt came into the room and he let go. After that fight, she stayed in her bedroom with the
    child and kept the door locked. Jose slept in a different room.
    ¶ 21   Regarding the January 2016 incident, Rocio testified that Jose threatened to kill her if she
    moved to Chicago with the child. She also testified that in August 2017 she obtained
    employment at a school as an English teacher. The school would allow the daughter to attend
    kindergarten for free. Jose did not want her to go to work or for their child to attend school, so
    he threatened her and she only worked there for a few days as a result.
    ¶ 22   In addition, Rocio testified that there were other incidents where Jose threatened her. In
    September 2017, she wanted to visit her sister (who resided in the same town) and he threatened
    her so she would not go. According to Rocio, she did not report Jose to the police because she
    does not trust the police. She was also scared of Jose and believed that she and her daughter are
    in physical danger from him.
    ¶ 23   Denise Montes, Rocio’s sister, testified that in August 2017 Rocio called her during an
    argument with Jose and told her Jose was not allowing her to work and take the child to school.
    According to Denise, Rocio sounded upset, angry, and sad. She also heard Jose in the
    background through the phone. Denise testified that Jose sounded “very upset” and that he was
    speaking loudly. She heard him say he did not want Rocio to work because “it was not her duty
    and that if she did she should expect the consequences.”
    ¶ 24   Rocio’s grandfather, Duenas, testified that he owns the property where Rocio and Jose
    stayed in Jalisco, Mexcio. According to Duenas, he had very little contact with Jose, but when
    he observed Jose he appeared as though he was not happy.
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    ¶ 25   Rocio rested and Jose declined to put on any other evidence. After obtaining written
    closing arguments the circuit court took the matter under advisement.
    ¶ 26   On April 11, 2019, the circuit court issued a written memorandum order denying Jose’s
    Hague petition. In doing so, the circuit court determined that Rocio was “a highly credible
    witness” and that Jose was not a credible witness. The court further found that Denise’s
    testimony was credible, and the grandfather’s testimony was not relevant to the issue at bar. The
    circuit court then made the following findings of fact:
    “The sister, Denise, who lives in Chicago, testified to the fact that she overheard
    conversations between Jose and Rocio while on the telephone in mid-August 2017 with
    Rocio. The topic of conversation she overheard between Jose and Rocio was Jose saying
    ‘no’ to Rocio working. She described Jose as saying ‘no’ and speaking to Rocio in a loud
    and upset tone of voice. The call was initiated by Rocio to Denise. On cross-
    examination Denise said there were several phone calls to her during this same time
    period about the same topic.”
    ¶ 27   In regard to Rocio’s testimony, the circuit court made the following findings about the
    March 2017 argument:
    “[Rocio] described an argument where, in March 2017 while she was holding the baby,
    Jose began choking her with one hand. Rocio began screaming, and Jose stopped the
    assault when Rocio’s Aunt walked in. She told Jose to leave and he left for a couple of
    weeks and then returned. Rocio testified on cross examination that in January 2016, Jose
    threatened to kill her, and then he moved in two months later. Rocio testified she did not
    call the police because she believed the local police to be corrupt. She admitted on cross
    examination that she continued to reside with Jose until August 2017. Rocio testified as
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    to the fact that, in August 2017, Jose prohibited her from working as an English teacher
    where she could have also had free childcare. She testified that she resigned on the third
    day because Jose told her she could not work. In September 2017 Rocio left Mexico with
    the minor child and traveled to the United States. She did not inform Jose.”
    ¶ 28    The circuit court found the following facts regarding Jose’s testimony:
    “He testified he moved in with Rocio in 2016, and while he does not remember the
    month, he thinks it was in the middle of the year. He testified that Rocio’s parents moved
    back to Chicago in May 2016. He said that he and Rocio did not have a difficult
    relationship, but, like all couples, they did argue. Jose acknowledged that there was an
    argument in March 2017 in Rocio’s grandparent’s [sic] house. He claimed that Rocio
    was not holding the baby, and that the baby was outside with no one watching her. He
    testified (as did Rocio) that Rocio’s Aunt came in because she heard the argument. He
    denied being angry or raising his voice, but acknowledge that the Aunt heard the
    commotion. He denied choking Rocio. He also denied that Rocio asked him to move out
    in August 2017.”
    ¶ 29    Based on these findings of fact and the court’s assessment of the witnesses’ credibility,
    the circuit court found by clear and convincing evidence that there was a grave risk that the
    return of the minor child would expose her to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place
    the child in an intolerable situation.
    ¶ 30    On May 10, 2019, Jose filed a motion to reconsider the April order, which the trial court
    denied. The trial court further found that the April 11, 2019, order was final and appealable
    pursuant to Illinois Supreme Court Rule 304(a) (eff. Mar. 8, 2016) and that there was no just
    reason to delay its enforcement or appeal. This appeal followed.
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    ¶ 31                                        ANALYSIS
    ¶ 32   We initially observe that while state and federal courts share concurrent jurisdiction over
    Hague petitions, most are brought in federal courts. See 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (a), (b), (d). This is
    especially true in Illinois as this court has had no opportunity to review a respondent’s grave risk
    defense. Therefore, we must look outside our Illinois jurisprudence. Although federal law and
    the law of those states outside of Illinois do not have any precedential value, we may consider
    this case law as persuasive authority. See Duncan v. FedEx Office and Print Services, Inc., 
    2019 IL App (1st) 180857
    , ¶ 20; see also State Bank of Cherry v. CGB Enterprises, Inc., 
    2013 IL 113836
    , ¶ 53 (“we may afford a Seventh Circuit decision more persuasive value than we would
    the decisions of other federal courts, provided it is reasonable and logical”).
    ¶ 33                                      Hague Convention
    ¶ 34   We begin our analysis with some background on the Hague Convention, which was
    implemented in the United States by the International Child Abduction Remedies Act (
    22 U.S.C. § 9001
     et seq.) “[t]o address the problem of international child abductions during domestic
    disputes.” Lozano v. Montoya Alvarez, 
    572 U.S. 1
    , 4 (2014) (internal quotation marks omitted).
    It provides that a child wrongfully removed from her country of “habitual residence” ordinarily
    must be returned to that country. Monasky v. Taglieri, 
    140 S.Ct. 719
    , 722-23 (2020). Both the
    United States and Mexico are Hague Convention signatories. It is the Hague Convention’s core
    premise that “the interests of children *** in matters relating to their custody” are best served
    when custody decisions are made in the child’s country of “habitual residence.” Hague
    Convention Preamble, Treaty Doc., at 7; see Abbott v. Abbott, 
    560 U.S. 1
    , 20 (2010).
    ¶ 35   The Hague Convention recognizes certain exceptions to the return obligation. See
    Lozano, 572 U.S. at 5; Chafin v. Chafin, 
    568 U.S. 165
    , 169 (2013). Prime among them, a child’s
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    return is not in order if the return would place her at a “grave risk” of physical or psychological
    harm or otherwise in “an intolerable situation.” 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (e)(2)(A); Hague Convention,
    art. 13(b); see Monasky, 140 S. Ct. at 723. This provision has been recognized by the United
    States Supreme Court as “a mechanism for guarding children from the harms of domestic
    violence.” Monasky, 140 S. Ct. at 729; see also Khan v. Fatima, 
    680 F.3d 781
    , 786 (7th Cir.
    2012) (credible testimony of spousal abuse, carried out in the presence of the child at issue,
    supports a finding that return of the child to the abuser poses a grave risk of at least
    psychological harm).
    ¶ 36                     Standard of Review – Denial of a Hague Petition
    ¶ 37   We review the factual findings of the circuit court for clear error but determine de novo
    whether those facts establish a grave risk of harm. Ortiz v. Martinez, 
    789 F.3d 722
    , 728 (7th Cir.
    2015); Ermini v. Vittori, 
    758 F.3d 153
    , 160 (2d Cir. 2014); Cuellar v. Joyce, 
    596 F.3d 505
    , 509
    (9th Cir. 2010). “Clear-error review has a particular virtue in Hague Convention cases. It has
    been observed by the Supreme Court that, as a deferential standard of review, clear-error review
    speeds up appeals and thus serves the Convention’s premium on expedition.” Monasky, 140 S.
    Ct. at 730.
    ¶ 38                                       Grave Risk
    ¶ 39   On appeal, Jose maintains that the only issue is whether Rocio established that return to
    Mexico would place the child at “grave risk of harm” under the demanding standard of clear and
    convincing evidence. Jose argues that the two isolated incidents (the March 2017 choking
    incident and the January 2016 threat) do not rise to the level of grave risk.
    ¶ 40   Since the adoption of the Hague Convention, there has been a shift toward recognizing
    domestic violence as posing a grave risk toward the child. This shift commenced in 1990 when a
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    congressional resolution passed which specifically found that “children are at increased risk of
    physical and psychological injury themselves when they are in contact with a spousal abuser”
    and “the effects of physical abuse of a spouse on children include *** the potential for future
    harm where contact with the batterer continues [because] *** children often become targets of
    physical abuse themselves or are injured when they attempt to intervene on behalf of a parent.”
    H.R. Con. Res. 172, 101st Cong., 
    104 Stat. 5182
    , 5182 (1990); see also Gomez v. Fuenmayor,
    
    812 F.3d 1005
    , 1014 (11th Cir. 2016) (it “requires no stretch of the imagination to conclude that
    serious, violent domestic abuse repeatedly directed at a parent can easily be turned against a
    child”). The courts commenced recognizing these concepts around 2000 and stated so in Walsh
    v. Walsh, 
    221 F.3d 204
    , 220 (1st Cir. 2000). In that case, the First Circuit gave express
    recognition to the fact that the exposure of a child to domestic violence is a sufficient risk to
    preclude the child’s return under the Convention. 
    Id.
     Recently, the grave risk defense was also
    recognized by the United States Supreme Court as “a mechanism for guarding children from the
    harms of domestic violence.” Monasky, 140 S. Ct. at 729.
    ¶ 41   A review of the case law in this area, however, reveals that a judicial consensus has not
    emerged. While some federal courts read the grave risk defense narrowly (see Simcox v. Simcox,
    
    511 F.3d 594
    , 607 (6th Cir. 2007)) others, including our Seventh Circuit, have a broader view,
    recognizing that domestic violence toward a spouse can amount to grave risk of psychological
    injury to the child. See Van De Sande v. Van De Sande, 
    431 F.3d 567
    , 571 (7th Cir. 2005);
    Khan, 680 F.3d at 787; see also Walsh, 
    221 F.3d at 220
     (“both state and federal law have
    recognized that children are at increased risk of physical and psychological injury themselves
    when they are in contact with a spousal abuser”); Gomez, 812 F.3d at 1014 (holding that “ruling
    to the contrary would artificially and unrealistically ignore the powerful effect that a pattern of
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    serious violence directed at a parent may have on his children.”); Noergaard v. Noergaard, 
    244 Cal. App. 4th 76
    , 84 (2015) (“domestic violence or child abuse constitutes a grave risk to the
    child”). The Seventh Circuit has made clear that “[i]f handing over custody of a child to an
    abusive parent creates a grave risk of harm to the child, in the sense that the parent may with
    some nonnegligible probability injure the child, the child should not be handed over[.]” Van De
    Sande, 
    431 F.3d at 571
    . In fact, some courts have found that a threat to kill a child or a history of
    domestic violence qualifies as a grave risk. See 
    id. at 570
    ; see also Ermini v. Vittori, 
    758 F.3d 153
    , 164 (2d Cir. 2014); Mohacsi v. Rippa, 
    346 F.Supp.3d 295
    , 321 (E.D.N.Y. 2018) (finding the
    respondent met her burden of demonstrating a grave risk of harm where the petitioner engaged in
    a prolonged course of abuse of the respondent that included an incident where he “nearly choked
    her to death” and had threatened to kill her).
    ¶ 42   The Second Circuit has characterized the grave risk exception as follows:
    “[A]t one end of the spectrum are those situations where repatriation might cause
    inconvenience or hardship, eliminate certain educational or economic opportunities, or
    not comport with the child's preferences; at the other end of the spectrum are those
    situations in which the child faces a real risk of being hurt, physically or psychologically,
    as a result of repatriation. The former does not constitute a grave risk of harm under
    Article 13(b); the latter do.” Blondin v. Dubois, 
    238 F.3d 153
    , 162 (2d Cir. 2001).
    Although “[s]poradic or isolated incidents of physical discipline directed at the child, or some
    limited incidents aimed at persons other than the child, even if witnessed by the child, have not
    been found to constitute a grave risk,” the Second Circuit has recognized that “[e]vidence of
    prior spousal abuse, though not directed at the child, can support the grave risk of harm defense,
    as could a showing of the child’s exposure to such abuse.” Souratgar v. Lee, 
    720 F.3d 96
    , 104
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    (2d Cir. 2013) (quotation marks, citation, and alterations omitted); see also Ermini, 758 F.3d at
    164-65 (noting spousal abuse can establish a grave risk of harm to the child in certain
    circumstances).
    ¶ 43     The State Department, however, has cautioned that “the person opposing the child’s
    return must show that the risk to the child is grave, not merely serious,” and has stressed that
    Article 13(b) “was not intended to be used by defendants as a vehicle to litigate (or relitigate) the
    child’s best interests.” Hague International Child Abduction Convention; Text and Legal
    Analysis, 
    51 Fed. Reg. 10494
    ; see Blondin, 
    238 F.3d at
    162 n. 10 (according “great weight” to
    the State Department’s interpretation of the Convention). But, as previously established herein,
    there is an exception “where the petitioner showed a ‘sustained pattern of physical abuse and/or a
    propensity for violent abuse’ that presented an intolerably grave risk to the child.” Souratgar,
    720 F.3d at 104 (quoting Laguna v. Avila, No. 07-CV-5136 (ENV), 
    2008 WL 1986253
    , at *8
    (E.D.N.Y. 2008)); see also Baran v. Beaty, 
    526 F.3d 1340
    , 1352 (11th Cir. 2008) (affirming
    district court’s finding of grave risk due to the credible evidence that the father was “a violent
    and abusive man with a lengthy history of inflicting physical and psychological abuse on those
    he ostensibly loves the most”). As observed by the First Circuit, the alleged harm “must be a
    great deal more than minimal” and “greater than would normally be expected on taking a child
    away from one parent and passing him to another.” Walsh, 
    221 F.3d at 218
     (internal quotation
    marks omitted).
    ¶ 44   Based on the case law, we find the circuit court properly considered the evidence
    presented in this case and correctly determined that Rocio proved by clear and convincing
    evidence a grave risk of harm or otherwise an intolerable situation under Article 13(b). See 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (e)(2)(A); Hague Convention, art. 13(b); see Monasky, 140 S. Ct. at 723. The
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    evidence and testimony presented in support of this defense demonstrated a pattern of escalating
    violence as well as a pattern of interference with Rocio’s personal liberty which, in turn, effected
    the psychological welfare of the child. Rocio’s testimony (which the circuit court found to be
    credible) indicated that Jose’s interference with her personal liberty commenced when she
    became pregnant with the child and he demanded she obtain an abortion. After the child was
    born, Jose did not reside with the child nor did he provided any support to Rocio or the child. It
    was only in mid-2016 that Jose began living with Rocio and the child, but the evidence
    demonstrated he still did not provide for their financial support. In fact, the record demonstrates
    Jose made no effort to establish or assert his parentage of the child in any legal or administrative
    forum.
    ¶ 45      Rocio’s testimony and the testimony of her various family members established that she
    and Jose were frequently arguing and these arguments—at times—were witnessed by the child.
    These arguments escalated into threats, with Jose threatening to kill Rocio on various occasions
    if she were to leave him and take the child with her. These threats interfered with Rocio’s
    personal liberty as demonstrated by the fact that when she did decide to leave Jose, she did so
    secretly with the assistance of her family members during the middle of the night while Jose was
    asleep.
    ¶ 46      Rocio further established that Jose was more than capable and willing to follow through
    on his threats of physical harm when she testified regarding the March 2017 argument where
    they argued about Rocio desiring to return to the United States with the child. Jose did not want
    her to return and he choked her while she was holding the child. This instance of physical abuse
    was corroborated by the testimony of Rocio’s aunt who witnessed Jose choking Rocio. The
    circuit court found Rocio’s testimony regarding this instance of physical abuse to be credible.
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    See In re Marriage of Bates, 
    212 Ill. 2d 489
    , 515 (2004) (“The trial court is in the best position
    to review the evidence and to weigh the credibility of the witnesses.”). As observed by the
    Seventh Circuit, “Under the clear error standard, we will not overturn the district court’s factual
    findings unless, after reviewing all the evidence, we are ‘left with [a] definite and firm
    conviction that a mistake has been [made].” Ortiz, 789 F.3d at 728. “In other words, a district
    court’s credibility findings are ‘binding on appeal unless the -court] has chosen to credit
    exceedingly improbable testimony.’ ” (Emphasis in original.) Id. at 729. Our review of the
    record reveals that the circuit court did not chose to credit “exceedingly improbable testimony”
    and, in fact, much of it was corroborated, albeit by Rocio’s family members. Id.
    ¶ 47    In addition, Rocio demonstrated that Jose interfered with her personal liberty when he
    prohibited her from working as a teacher outside the home. While Jose testified Rocio quit the
    position based on her own free will, the circuit court determined Rocio to be credible while at the
    same time found Jose not to be credible. The circuit court was also presented with the testimony
    of Rocio’s sister Denise who testified that she overheard arguments between Rocio and Jose
    regarding Rocio’s desire to be employed. We see no reason on the record to disagree with the
    circuit court’s credibility findings and, in fact, afford them great deference. See In re Marriage
    of Bates, 
    212 Ill. 2d at 515
    .
    ¶ 48    In total, Rocio’s evidence clearly and convincingly established a pattern of escalating
    domestic abuse beginning with Jose’s demand she obtain an abortion and ending with him
    choking her while she held the child in her arms and making repeated threats on her life. In our
    view, the evidence demonstrates that the child faces “a real risk” of being hurt psychologically
    due to her witnessing these events. Souratgar, 720 F.3d at 103 (domestic violence can satisfy
    the grave risk defense when a “sustained pattern of physical abuse and/or a propensity for
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    violent abuse” is demonstrated by clear and convincing evidence) (Emphasis added.). For this
    court to set aside the circuit court’s credibility and factual findings and grant Jose’s Hague
    petition would be to ignore the fact that domestic violence toward a partner does cause grave
    harm to the child or place the child in an intolerable situation. As recognized by the First Circuit,
    “credible social science literature establishes that serial spousal abusers are also likely to be child
    abusers.” Walsh, 
    221 F.3d at
    220 (citing Jeffrey L. Edleson, The Overlap Between Child
    Maltreatment and Woman Battering, 5 Violence Against Women 134 (1999); Anne E. Appel &
    George W. Holden, The Co-Occurrence of Spouse and Physical Child Abuse: A Review and
    Appraisal, 12 J. Fam. Psychol. 578 (1998); Lee H. Bowker et al., On the Relationship Between
    Wife and Child Abuse, in Kersti Yllo & Michele Bograd, Feminist Perspectives on Wife Abuse
    158 (1988); Susan M. Ross, Risk of Physical Abuse to Children of Spouse Abusing Parents, 20
    Child Abuse & Neglect 589 (1996)). The First Circuit also recognized that “both state and
    federal law have recognized that children are at an increased risk of physical and psychological
    injury themselves when they are in contact with a spousal abuser.” 
    Id.
     (quoting H.R. Con. Res.
    172, 101st Cong., 
    104 Stat. 5182
    , 5182 (1990) (“Whereas the effects of physical abuse of a
    spouse on children include *** the potential for future harm where contact with the batterer
    continues; *** Whereas children often become targets of physical abuse themselves or are
    injured when they attempt to intervene on behalf of a parent”).
    ¶ 49   In that vein, we disagree with Jose’s suggestion that for a grave risk defense to prevail the
    incidents of domestic violence must have occurred over an extended period of time and involve
    vicious circumstances. In support of this position Jose cites numerous cases where courts have
    found the grave risk defense applied in instances of extreme violence perpetuated on a domestic
    partner. See Friedrich v. Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d 1060
    , 1069 (6th Cir. 1996); Simcox v. Simcox, 511
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    1762 F.3d 594
    , 607 (6th Cir. 2007); Hernandez v. Cardoso, 
    844 F.3d 692
    , 695 (7th Cir. 2016); Khan,
    680 F.3d at 787; Habrzyk v. Habryzk, 
    775 F.Supp.2d 1054
    , 1059 (N.D. Ill. 2011); Van de Sande,
    
    431 F.3d at 570
    . While the case law in this area has correctly found a grave risk to the child
    under these circumstances, we cannot say that a spouse must endure years of violent abuse for
    this exception to be established. Here, Rocio established by clear and convincing evidence an
    escalating pattern of verbal and physical abuse, which included restrictions on her movement and
    employment. This court finds such evidence supports her asserted defense.
    ¶ 50    In so finding we also reject Jose’s argument that Rocio failed to prove the grave risk
    defense by clear and convincing evidence because she did not present any expert testimony
    regarding the psychological impact Jose’s behavior had on the child. We find that such evidence
    is not required by Article 13(b). Although such evidence may be helpful in a grave risk defense,
    it is not necessary. Moreover, Jose provides us with no authority that places such a burden on
    Rocio and the case law in this area does not require it. Indeed, to require an individual in
    Rocio’s position to obtain, at her expense, medical and psychological experts would undermine
    the purpose of the grave risk defense. As observed by Judge Posner, “The Hague Convention
    was created to discourage abductions by parents who either lost, or would lose, a custody contest
    ***. The Convention drafters adopted a ‘remedy of return’ *** to discourage abductions,
    reconnect children with their primary caretakers, and locate each custody contest in the forum
    where most of the relevant evidence existed. But while the remedy of return works well if the
    abductor is a non-custodial parent, it is inappropriate when the abductor is a primary caretaker
    who is seeking to protect herself and the children from the other parent’s violence.” Khan, 680
    F.3d at 784. Indeed, because Rocio is the “abductor” (while also being a domestic violence
    victim), the implementation of the Convention creates an imbalance between Jose and Rocio
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    from its inception. Specifically, the Convention assists petitioners (Jose) in obtaining and paying
    for counsel, but not respondents (Rocio). See 
    22 C.F.R. § 94.6
    (e) (1989). As Rocio notes, Jose
    was assigned pro bono legal representation from a large family law firm. In contrast, she is
    paying for her own private counsel. In addition, as Rocio asserts in her brief and as is evident in
    the record, she does not have the financial means to present expert witnesses on her behalf. For
    us to require such experts in order for her to meet her burden of clear and convincing evidence
    would further the imbalance between Jose and Rocio.
    ¶ 51   In sum, based on the evidence presented in the record we affirm the judgment of the
    circuit court of Cook County.
    ¶ 52                                     CONCLUSION
    ¶ 53   For the reasons stated above, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court of Cook County.
    ¶ 54   Affirmed.
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    1-19-1762
    No. 1-19-1762
    Cite as:                 In re the Parentage of M.V.U., 
    2020 IL App (1st) 191762
    Decision Under Review:   Appeal from the Circuit Court of Cook County, No. 18-D-79090;
    the Honorable Mary S. Trew, Judge, presiding.
    Attorneys                Evan Dylan Whitfield, of Schiller DuCanto & Fleck LLP, of
    for                      Chicago, for appellant.
    Appellant:
    Attorneys                John Andrew Coladarci and Anne Margaret Coladarci, of
    for                      Coladarci & Coladarci, of Chicago, for appellee.
    Appellee:
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