In the Matter of the Termination of the Parent-Child Relationship of: X.M., Minor Child, A.B., Mother v. Indiana Department of Child Services ( 2013 )


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  •                                                                           Aug 19 2013, 5:36 am
    Pursuant to Ind.Appellate Rule 65(D),
    this Memorandum Decision shall not be
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    ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT:                         ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE:
    CAROLYN J. NICHOLS                              MICHAEL C. PRICE
    Noblesville, Indiana                            DCS, Hamilton County Local Office
    Noblesville, Indiana
    ROBERT J. HENKE
    DCS Central Administration
    Indianapolis, Indiana
    IN THE
    COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA
    IN THE MATTER OF THE TERMINATION OF )
    THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP OF:   )
    X.M., Minor Child,                  )
    )
    A.B., Mother,                       )
    )
    Appellant-Respondent,        )
    )
    vs.                   )                   No. 29A02-1212-JT-961
    )
    INDIANA DEPARTMENT OF CHILD         )
    SERVICES,                           )
    )
    Appellee-Petitioner.         )
    APPEAL FROM THE HAMILTON CIRCUIT COURT
    The Honorable Paul A. Felix, Judge
    The Honorable Todd L. Ruetz, Master Commissioner
    Cause No. 29C01-1203-JT-398
    August 19, 2013
    MEMORANDUM DECISION - NOT FOR PUBLICATION
    BROWN, Judge
    A.B. (“Mother”) appeals the involuntary termination of her parental rights to her
    child, X.M. Mother raises one issue, which we revise and restate as whether the evidence
    is sufficient to support the trial court’s judgment terminating her parental rights. We
    affirm.
    FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
    Mother is the biological mother of X.M., born on July 31, 1998. 1 X.M. is non-
    verbal and has moderate range cognitive disability as well as speech impairment.2 The
    evidence most favorable to the trial court’s judgment reveals that in July 2011, the local
    Hamilton County office of the Indiana Department of Child Services (“HCDCS”)
    received a report that X.M. had been beaten with a belt across his upper back and torso in
    order to discipline him. HCDCS initiated an assessment of the matter, and, on July 25,
    2011, filed a petition alleging X.M. was a child in need of services (“CHINS”), stating
    that Mother had struck X.M. with the belt, causing bruising and lacerations. The petition
    also stated that Mother admitted to sleeping during the day and leaving X.M. and his
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    The juvenile court also terminated the parental rights of X.M.’s biological father, M.M.
    (“Father”). Father, however, does not participate in this appeal. We therefore limit our recitation of the
    facts to those pertinent solely to Mother’s appeal.
    An Initial Evaluation and Treatment Plan prepared by Children’s Bureau and contained in the
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    record indicates that X.M. has been diagnosed with spina bifida. Exhibit A at Children’s Bureau’s Initial
    Evaluation and Treatment Plan, at page 2. Jeri Gibson, one of the HCDCS case managers who worked on
    this matter, testified that X.M. has an IQ of 59 and has a communication disability, and she noted that
    X.M. “needs 24/7 care for all his basic needs.” Transcript at 37-38.
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    sibling, P.B.,3 without adult supervision. The petition further stated that there were two
    prior substantiated reports of physical abuse related to Mother.4
    That same day, the court held a probable cause hearing on HCDCS’s request to
    file the CHINS petition, found that probable cause existed that X.M. was a CHINS, and
    awarded HCDCS responsibility for placement of X.M. The court also held an initial
    hearing on the CHINS petition wherein Mother denied the allegations, and the court
    appointed counsel for Mother and set a date for a fact-finding hearing. The court also
    issued an emergency custody order allowing for the immediate removal of X.M. from
    Mother’s home, noting that X.M. had been beaten with a belt across his upper back and
    torso leaving discernible wounds, abuse had previously been substantiated as to Mother
    for the same conduct against the child, Mother had been arrested for battery against
    another child, and highlighting that X.M. “suffers from mental impairment . . . and is
    reportedly non-verbal,” and that his “physical or mental condition will be seriously
    impaired or endangered if not immediately removed from the home . . . .” Appellant’s
    Appendix at 69.
    On August 25, 2011, Mother met with Brooke Hartman at LifeSolutions
    Counseling (“LifeSolutions”) and indicated that she had not used drugs in the last six
    months, but that she used marijuana weekly “to zone out.” Exhibit A at August 25, 2011
    Mental Health Assessment.           Hartman noted that Mother appeared to be cognitively
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    P.B. was also removed from Mother’s care in July 2011, and a CHINS action was pursued on
    her behalf as well.
    4
    The record reveals that Mother had previous involvement with the Department of Child Services
    four years ago due to a previous spanking incident involving X.M. Mother received counseling through
    Children’s Bureau. The record also reveals that the Department of Child Services became involved in
    investigating an incident in which Mother was previously arrested for hitting her boyfriend’s child in the
    mouth.
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    delayed and that Mother reported she had a learning disability but that she was unsure
    what it was specifically. Hartman stated in her report that Mother was fully cooperative,
    that she maintained eye contact and displayed an appropriate mood, and her thought
    content was appropriate.    She also estimated that Mother’s intelligence was below
    average and that she displayed poor judgment. Hartman determined that Mother was to
    receive treatment on a weekly basis and that the focus would be to help her obtain a
    GED, a job, financial resources, transportation, a driver’s license, and basic child
    development skills, and that the goal was reunification and for Mother to better
    understand discipline.
    On August 26, 2011, the court entered an order appointing the GAL/CASA
    Program as Guardian ad Litem (the “GAL”) to represent X.M.’s interests, appointing
    Maggie Petersen as the GAL/CASA volunteer, and appointing Trenna Parker as the
    attorney for the GAL/CASA volunteer. On September 12, 2011, the court held a fact-
    finding hearing and adjudicated X.M. a CHINS. The court also conducted a dispositional
    hearing and issued a dispositional order in which it granted wardship of X.M. to HCDCS
    and ordered that he continue in his placement in relative care, and that Mother fulfill
    certain requirements and participate in various services, including that she: (1) cooperate
    with HCDCS and the GAL by maintain routine and weekly contact, keep all scheduled
    appointments, including with all service providers, and respond to telephone calls and
    letter correspondence; (2) notify HCDCS and the GAL of any change of living situation;
    (3) allowing HCDCS, service providers, and/or the GAL to make announced or
    unannounced visits to her home; (4) sign any necessary releases of information for
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    HCDCS and the GAL to monitor compliance and progress in service provision; (5)
    obtain and/or maintain housing and a source of support, income, or employment; (6)
    participate in and successfully complete a parenting assessment and follow all
    recommendations; (7) participate in visitation as established by HCDCS; (8) participate
    in and successfully complete home-based therapy and follow all recommendations; and
    (9) participate and successfully complete a psychological evaluation and follow all
    recommendations.
    Mother’s participation in court-ordered services was inconsistent throughout the
    CHINS case and ultimately unsuccessful. Hartman thought that Mother was engaged and
    motivated to work toward her goals when they first began working together, but she also
    noticed that Mother had difficulty understanding the reasons for her children’s removal.
    Hartman would repeatedly explain to Mother why X.M. had been removed. Hartman
    also encouraged Mother to schedule a psychological evaluation as ordered by the court
    and as HCDCS requested, but Mother resisted undergoing the evaluation because “she
    was afraid that they would tell her that she was dumb or that they would use the
    information to not let her have her kids back.” Transcript at 147-148. Although Mother
    initially attended her scheduled appointments at LifeSolutions, she began missing
    appointments beginning in October of 2011. On October 21, 2011, Mother attended an
    appointment and appeared frustrated that she could not have X.M. back despite the fact
    that the reason had been explained to her multiple times. Mother stated her belief that the
    reason why X.M. and P.B. had been removed was due to their behavior and not Mother’s
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    actions, and Mother indicated that, given the same circumstances, she would discipline
    her children in the same manner.
    Also, in October 2011, HCDCS changed X.M.’s placement and placed him at the
    home of T.G., the biological father of X.M.’s half sibling, J.G., who also lived in the
    home. J.G. is the offspring of T.G. and Mother, and T.G. has cared for J.G. for about five
    years. T.G. was in a relationship with Mother for the first two years of X.M.’s life and
    was a caregiver to X.M.
    On November 1, 2011, Mother walked to Aspire to begin a psychological
    evaluation, and she completed the initial intake. The tests identified that Mother had an
    impulse control disorder, unspecified mental retardation, and other psychological and
    environmental problems. Mother’s Exhibit C. Despite completing the intake, Mother did
    not follow through with follow up meetings in order to complete a full evaluation. On
    December 13, 2011, Aspire sent Mother an outreach letter, but Mother did not respond to
    that letter. Aspire terminated the referral, noting “Client withdrew” as the reason for
    termination. Id. Also, in late November 2011, Mother quit returning Hartman’s calls on
    behalf of LifeSolutions. Hartman attempted to reach Mother by phone on seven different
    days in late November and left voicemail until Mother’s voicemail box became full,
    Mother did not return the calls, and in mid-December LifeSolutions terminated their
    services to Mother because they were no longer able to contact her.
    The case manager with HCDCS, Korina Galang, made multiple attempts in
    December 2011 to contact Mother but was unsuccessful. In February 2012, a new family
    case manager, Jeri Gibson, was assigned to Mother and, after multiple phone calls, on
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    February 8, 2012, she succeeded in reaching Mother. Mother agreed to come to the
    HCDCS office on February 10, 2012, in order to discuss restarting services with the goal
    of reunification; however, Mother did not show for the appointment. Gibson left a
    voicemail message for Mother, but she did not hear back from her. Gibson also went to
    Mother’s home a couple of times and left her business card in Mother’s door. Gibson
    obtained a new phone number for Mother, but in March 2012, she learned that the
    number had been disconnected. Gibson also contacted a relative of Mother and obtained
    an additional phone number for Mother, but she was unsuccessful in establishing contact.
    Despite Gibson’s overtures and the fact that Mother knew that HCDCS’s office
    was located about a mile from her home and was walkable, Mother never contacted
    Gibson. Further, at one point Mother moved into a different apartment in the same
    apartment complex but did not inform Gibson, and later, in March or April Gibson found
    out about the move from T.G. Gibson visited the new apartment and again left her
    business card, but Mother never contacted her.
    On March 12, 2012, the court held a review hearing in which Mother failed to
    appear, although her counsel did appear.       The court issued an order approving the
    proposed permanency plan filed by HCDCS to terminate the parent-child relationship
    between X.M. and Mother, and for X.M. to be adopted by T.G. The order noted that
    Mother:
    is not in compliance with [X.M.’s] case plan as follows: [She] has failed to
    participate in home-based therapy and case management leading to services
    being closed out due to lack of commitment and missed appointments.
    [She] has also failed to complete a mental health evaluation as previously
    ordered. [She] has not had visitation with the child since December of
    2011, and has had multiple cancelled or missed visitation sessions.
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    [Mother] has failed to maintain routine contact with [HCDCS], the GAL, or
    engaged service providers.
    Appellant’s Appendix at 45-46. The court also ordered that reunification services be
    suspended. On March 15, 2012, Mother filed a Motion for Review of Permanency Plan
    which was denied.5
    On March 19, 2012, HCDCS filed its petition for involuntary termination of the
    parent-child relationship pursuant to 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
    . On April 30, 2012, the court
    held an initial hearing on the termination petition in which Mother entered a denial, and
    the court set the matter for a fact-finding hearing on July 9, 2012, which was continued at
    Mother’s request. On July 23, 2012, the court held the fact-finding hearing at which
    Mother appeared. At the hearing, Gibson testified that a parenting assessment was not
    completed “due to lack of responding to the service providers’ contact.” Transcript at 26.
    Gibson testified that, in addition to the discontinuation of services by LifeSolutions at the
    end of 2011 due to lack of participation by Mother, supervised visitation of X.M. was
    discontinued in November 2011 because Mother repeatedly cancelled or failed to show
    for scheduled visits. Gibson testified that, to her knowledge, Mother had not visited
    X.M. since December of 2011 despite the fact that T.G. has “had an open door as far as
    [Mother] wanting to come and visit her children as well as making phone calls.” 
    Id. at 35
    . She also noted that Mother does periodically phone X.M., although it is on a less-
    than-weekly basis.
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    Mother stated in her motion that the permanency hearing occurred on March 12, 2012, at 9:30
    a.m., that she appeared on March 12, 2012, at 10:30 a.m., and that she believed that the hearing was
    scheduled for 10:30 a.m. Mother requested to “be heard as to her desire to complete services [] and the
    reasons for any problems in completing services.” Appellant’s Appendix at 50.
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    Gibson stated that when she took over the case in February of 2012 and attempted
    repeatedly to contact Mother, her intent was to try and “keep this going and get [Mother]
    engaged in services and efforts to reunify.” 
    Id. at 31
    . Gibson testified that, by being
    persistent in making contact with Mother and by offering to meet with Mother in her
    home, she was attempting to accommodate Mother’s lower cognitive abilities. Gibson
    also testified that when she spoke with Mother on February 8, 2012, she did not recall
    any difficulty about the conversation and believed that Mother understood what was
    being asked of her and that “if [Mother] didn’t understand, [she would be] concerned
    [about Mother’s] ability to care for a child with the extent of the disabilities that [X.M.]
    does have.”    
    Id. at 67
    .   Gibson further testified that on February 8, 2012, Mother
    specifically told her that she preferred to come to the HCDCS office, that Mother knew
    where the office was, that Mother could walk to the office, and that Mother had said that
    she would be there at 1:00 p.m. on Friday, February 10, 2012, but did not show.
    Gibson told the court that up to that point, Mother had not made contact with her,
    and she noted that contact was necessary in order for a successful reunification because
    she would need to speak with Mother about services and progress. Gibson also noted that
    she and Mother spoke in the courthouse hallway on March 12, 2012 following the review
    hearing as Mother had arrived after the hearing had ended, and that Gibson had not
    spoken with Mother since that time.
    Gibson also testified that T.G. maintains a clean and appropriate home and that
    T.G. “is very in tune with what [X.M.’s] needs are pertaining to his disability. He’s very
    nurturing. There’s a definite bond.” 
    Id. at 38
    . When asked her opinion regarding what
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    was in X.M.’s best interest, Gibson stated that T.G. wants to adopt X.M., that X.M. wants
    to be adopted by T.G. and calls him daddy, that X.M. is very attached to J.G., and that it
    would be in X.M.’s best interest to proceed with the permanency plan. Gibson also
    indicated that, to her knowledge, Mother was not employed. When asked on cross-
    examination about how HCDCS approaches a client with “significant cognitive delays,”
    and specifically what HCDCS does differently to accommodate such clients, Gibson
    replied: “I think that’s why we were asking to get a parenting assessment and a
    psychological evaluation so they could give us recommendations as to how to proceed
    with services for [Mother].” 
    Id. at 50
    .
    Following Gibson’s testimony, the court continued the hearing. On July 27, 2012,
    Mother filed a Renewed Motion for Review of Permanency Plan and Request for
    Guardian Ad Litem under the CHINS Cause Number in which she reiterated her reasons
    for review as made in March 2012, including that she was mistaken as to the time for the
    review hearing. Additionally, Mother’s counsel stated that in preparing for the July 23,
    2012 termination hearing, she discovered “a report from Aspire dated November of 2011
    which indicates that biological Mother has possibly severe mental limitations” and
    counsel was previously “unaware of the extent of the issue but was aware of ‘cognitive
    delays.’” Appellant’s Appendix at 36. Then, on August 14, 2012, Mother filed an
    identical motion in the termination proceeding. The next day, the court entered an order
    in the CHINS proceeding setting the matter for hearing on September 10, 2012, and
    ordering the appointment of a Guardian ad Litem for Mother. On August 20, 2012, the
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    court issued an order in the termination proceeding noting that the permanency plan
    would be reviewed as part of the fact-finding hearing set for October 1, 2012.
    On September 10, 2012, the court held a hearing on Mother’s motion in the
    CHINS proceeding, Mother failed to appear despite proper notice, although her counsel
    did appear. Mother’s counsel indicated that “she did send notice of the hearing to
    [Mother], and is unaware as to where her client is or why” Mother was not present. 
    Id. at 26
    . The court issued an order maintaining the permanency plan of termination and
    adoption by T.G. in which it noted that Mother had failed to participate in reunification
    services, failed to participate in a mental health assessment, had missed multiple
    appointments, and that, following the termination hearing on July 23, 2012, HCDCS
    “attempted to engage [her] to participate in another psychological assessment referral”
    and “[d]espite multiple attempts to reach [her] . . . [she] made no response or other effort
    to participate” and “failed to attend [the] hearing as well.”6 
    Id. at 27
    .
    On October 1, 2012, the court resumed the fact-finding hearing in the termination
    proceeding, and again Mother failed to appear. When asked if there was a reason for
    Mother’s absence, Mother’s counsel stated that she did not know of a reason, that she
    corresponded with Mother and received correspondence back from Mother, and that
    Mother “has or should have had knowledge of today’s date with the correspondence.”
    Transcript at 79. Mother’s counsel speculated that Mother was “just withdrawing from
    the particular issues at hand . . . .” 
    Id.
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    The order noted to be “effective the 10th day of September 2012,” but it was filed on November
    9, 2012. Appellant’s Appendix at 30.
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    The court proceeded with the hearing, and HCDCS called T.G. as a witness. T.G.
    testified that he first met X.M. when X.M. was two years old, that he lived with Mother
    for three or four years when X.M. was between two and five or six years old, that he and
    Mother have a daughter together, J.G., who is eight years old, and that J.G. had been in
    T.G.’s care for the past five years. T.G. testified that after he and Mother ended their
    relationship, Mother married a person who would abuse X.M. and J.G., specifically
    beating them, burning J.G. with cigarettes and fondling her, and due to such incidences
    T.G. established paternity and obtained custody of J.G. T.G. testified that he decided to
    have X.M. live with him because X.M. is J.G.’s sibling and deserved to grow up with his
    sister and that T.G. has known X.M. for most of X.M.’s life. T.G. stated that currently
    X.M. “now has some pride” in himself, that he loves going to school and is a straight A
    student, and that T.G. is making X.M. work on his speech, noting that before he would
    not try to speak and would instead make animal noises. 
    Id. at 90
    . T.G. also noted that
    X.M. enjoys wrestling and was enrolled in a boxing self-defense class which he enjoys.
    T.G. testified that he was employed by the Amazon Distribution Center and was able to
    provide for all of X.M.’s necessities. T.G. was asked about the progress X.M. has made
    and whether it would continue if he were returned to Mother, and T.G. stated that the
    progress “would decline just like that” because Mother would “not do anything to try to
    keep the progress going.” 
    Id. at 103
    .
    When asked about Mother’s ability to communicate effectively and comprehend
    what others tell her, T.G. testified that she “understands completely what’s going on and .
    . . all this right here is a game to her.” 
    Id. at 92-93
    . T.G. testified that he spoke with
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    Mother on August 15th and told her “this little game that you’re trying to play that you’re
    retarded, it’s not going to fly,” and Mother responded: “Well, we’ll see about that.” 
    Id. at 93
    . He said that Mother will usually call the children soon before an upcoming court
    date, and he estimated that her frequency of calling was less than once per month. T.G.
    also testified that X.M. does not want to be returned to Mother and is fearful of being sent
    home with her. T.G. specifically spoke about the second-to-last time X.M. and Mother
    saw each other, which was at Christmas in 2011. He said that X.M. did not talk to
    Mother and would walk past her, and near the end of the gathering they spoke and X.M.
    grabbed T.G.’s arm, holding it tight while speaking to Mother. Mother also saw X.M. in
    March or April of 2012 when T.G. took Mother some food because she did not have any
    food.
    HCDCS then called Hartman who testified to facts consistent with the foregoing.
    Andrew Dickerson, who took over as case manager from Gibson, was then called, and he
    testified that when he received the case he attempted to have Mother undergo a
    psychological assessment through LifeSolutions. LifeSolutions made between six and
    eight attempts to arrange for the assessment which were unsuccessful.            Dickerson
    testified that there were no concerns about T.G.’s household, that he was impressed with
    T.G., and that it would be in X.M.’s best interests to stay with T.G.
    HCDCS next called Trenna Parker, who by that time was both the attorney and the
    volunteer representing the GAL, and she testified that, at that juncture, it was in the best
    interest of X.M. to remain with T.G. and noted that X.M. was very strongly attached to
    J.G. Parker testified that she also had made attempts to contact Mother but had been
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    unsuccessful in doing so.       She stated that although “mental health issues are not
    necessarily the fault of the person who has them, if they are untreated . . . it is difficult for
    them to care for their children” and that although not blaming Mother, “inability to
    provide for your children one way or the other is an inability to provide for them and in
    [her] opinion it’s in [X.M.’s] best interest for him to remain with [T.G.].” 
    Id. at 169
    .
    At the conclusion of the termination hearing, the trial court took the matter under
    advisement. On November 9, 2012, the court entered its findings of fact, conclusions of
    law, and judgment terminating the parent-child relationship between Mother and X.M.
    Mother now appeals.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    When reviewing the termination of parental rights, we will not reweigh the
    evidence or judge the credibility of the witnesses. Bester v. Lake Cnty. Office of Family
    & Children, 
    839 N.E.2d 143
    , 147 (Ind. 2005). Instead, we consider only the evidence
    and reasonable inferences that are most favorable to the judgment. 
    Id.
     In accordance
    with 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-8
    (c), the trial court’s judgment contains specific findings of
    fact and conclusions thereon. We therefore apply a two-tiered standard of review. First,
    we determine whether the evidence supports the findings, and second, we determine
    whether the findings support the judgment. 
    Id.
     In deference to the trial court’s unique
    position to assess the evidence, we will set aside the court’s judgment terminating a
    parent-child relationship only if it is clearly erroneous. In re L.S., 
    717 N.E.2d 204
    , 208
    (Ind. Ct. App. 1999), reh’g denied, trans. denied; see also Bester, 839 N.E.2d at 147.
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    Thus, if the evidence and inferences support the trial court’s decision, we must affirm.
    Id.
    “The traditional right of parents to establish a home and raise their children is
    protected by the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution.” In re M.B.,
    
    666 N.E.2d 73
    , 76 (Ind. Ct. App. 1996), trans. denied. Although parental rights are of a
    constitutional dimension, the law provides for the termination of these rights when
    parents are unable or unwilling to meet their parental responsibilities. In re R.H., 
    892 N.E.2d 144
    , 149 (Ind. Ct. App. 2008). Moreover, a trial court need not wait until a child
    is irreversibly harmed before terminating the parent-child relationship.       McBride v.
    Monroe Cnty. Office of Family & Children, 
    798 N.E.2d 185
    , 203 (Ind. Ct. App. 2003).
    Before parental rights may be involuntarily terminated in Indiana, the State is
    required to allege and prove, among other things:
    (B)   that one (1) of the following is true:
    (i)     There is a reasonable probability that the conditions
    that resulted in the child’s removal or the reasons for
    placement outside the home of the parents will not be
    remedied.
    (ii)    There is a reasonable probability that the continuation
    of the parent-child relationship poses a threat to the
    well-being of the child.
    (iii)   The child has, on two (2) separate occasions, been
    adjudicated a child in need of services;
    (C)    that termination is in the best interests of the child . . . .
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    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
    (b)(2).7           The State’s burden of proof for establishing these
    allegations in termination cases “is one of ‘clear and convincing evidence.’” In re G.Y.,
    
    904 N.E.2d 1257
    , 1260-1261 (Ind. 2009) (quoting 
    Ind. Code § 31-37-14-2
     (2008)), reh’g
    denied. “[I]f the court finds that the allegations in a petition described in section 4 of this
    chapter are true, the court shall terminate the parent-child relationship.” 
    Ind. Code § 31
    -
    35-2-8(a) (emphasis added). Here, Mother appears to challenge the sufficiency of the
    evidence supporting the trial court’s findings as to subparagraph (b)(2)(B) and (b)(2)(C)
    of the termination statute cited above.
    DISCUSSION
    A. ARGUMENTS OF PARTIES.
    First, we observe that 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
    (b)(2)(B) is written in the disjunctive
    and requires the State to establish, by clear and convincing evidence, only one of the
    three requirements of subparagraph 4(b)(2)(B). Here, Mother “requests appellate review”
    of the facts alleged under both parts (i) and (ii), arguing that HCDCS “failed in its burden
    of proving either” because “the findings of fact are based upon an erroneous assumption
    that she was provided appropriate family preservation and reunification services” and
    that, accordingly, “it is impossible to find with any degree of accuracy that there is a
    reasonable probability” that either the conditions that resulted in X.M.’s removal will not
    be remedied or that the continuation of the parent-child relationship poses a threat to
    X.M.’s well-being.         Appellant’s Brief at 18.           Mother also asserts, pursuant to
    subparagraph 4(b)(2)(C), that “Indiana law presumes the best interests of its children are
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    We observe that 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
     was amended by Pub. L. No. 48-2012 (eff. July 1,
    2012). The changes to the statute became effective after the filing of the termination petition involved
    herein and are not applicable to this case.
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    served by remaining in the care and custody of their natural parents,” that she was “only
    trying to protect her son” by administering the discipline that led to X.M.’s removal, and
    again argues that “without an adequate opportunity to be engaged in modified and
    appropriate parenting education services, she has not had a full and fair opportunity to
    demonstrate her ability to learn, to change, and to properly parent her children.” 
    Id. at 23-24
    . Thus, Mother raises essentially the same issue in challenging the trial court’s
    findings under both subparagraphs 4(b)(2)(B) and 4(b)(2)(C).
    Specifically, Mother asserts that “the format of the parenting education services . .
    . frustrated Mother to the point that she would break down and cry,” noting that the
    counselors “simply reiterated the same information in the same verbal format week after
    week . . . .” 
    Id. at 18-19
    . Mother notes that the Termination Summary prepared by
    Aspire “listed ‘Unspecified Mental Retardation’ as [her] Axis II diagnoses,” and she
    contends that although “she did fail to follow the court order and the service providers’
    recommendations to obtain a full scale psychological evaluation,” it “is hard to
    understand why, when a home based case manager was seeing Mother every week, the
    case manager did not transport Mother to the local Aspire office to be certain that this
    goal was accomplished early in the case.” 
    Id. at 19
    . Mother points to her frequency in
    missing court hearings and other meetings “due to her mental confusion” and argues that
    “[s]he needed more help and direction in order to attend appointments in a timely
    manner.” 
    Id. at 20
    .
    Mother goes on to discuss “effective techniques for providing parenting education
    to developmentally disabled parents,” including using education employing “both verbal
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    and non-verbal (modeling) training,” over a period of several months and “using charts
    with stickers so that parents track their behavior changes” as well as using “tangible
    positive reinforcements such as gift certificates, toys, or clothing provided to parents who
    maintained improved parenting techniques over time.” 
    Id.
     Mother also argues that
    “modifications of parent training techniques” such as these “would be expected of any
    State program providing services to disabled parents in compliance with requirements of
    the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990, 42 USCS §§ 12101, et seq.” Id. at 21.
    Mother also acknowledges in her brief that HCDCS was “not required to prove the
    adequate provision of reunification services in a proceeding to terminate parental rights”
    but notes that HCDCS was required to provide reasonable efforts at reunification as part
    of the underlying CHINS case. Id. at 22 (citing 
    Ind. Code § 31-34-21-5
    .5(b)).
    HCDCS begins by asserting that “Mother’s entire argument on appeal is that DCS
    did not provide Mother with adequate services to address her mental capacity issues and
    parenting deficits” and that, as a result, the court was unable to make an accurate
    determination based upon parts (i) and (ii) of 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
    (b)(2)(B) or
    4(b)(2)(C). Appellee’s Brief at 17. HCDCS argues that Mother’s “arguments are not
    supported by citations to authorities and relevant parts of the record on appeal to show
    that [HCDCS] has an obligation to do so” and that accordingly Mother has waived these
    issues. 
    Id.
     HCDCS also contends that Mother is raising an issue more appropriate for a
    CHINS case rather than a termination of parental rights case, noting that Indiana courts
    have consistently held that failing to provide services does not serve as a basis on which
    to directly attack a termination order as contrary to law. 
    Id.
     at 18 (citing In re H.L., 915
    
    18 N.E.2d 145
    , 148 n.3 (Ind. Ct. App. 2009)). HCDCS notes that this court has stated that
    “even a complete failure to provide services would not serve to negate a necessary
    element of the termination statute and require reversal,” In re E.E., 
    736 N.E.2d 791
    , 796
    (Ind. Ct. App. 2000), and thus to the extent Mother raises such issues pursuant to 
    Ind. Code § 31-34-21-5
    .5, she has waived the issue. Appellee’s Brief at 18.
    HCDCS proceeds to address Mother’s claims regarding its efforts towards
    reunification, arguing that Indiana case law places the onus on the parent to request
    additional assistance from the court or DCS, that Mother did not seek out or request
    additional services, and that “Mother effectively removed herself from continued
    participation in home-based therapy, refusing to respond to multiple attempts to engage
    her.” 
    Id.
     at 20 (citing Prince v. Allen Cnty. DCS, 
    861 N.E.2d 1223
    , 1231 (Ind. Ct. App.
    2007) (“The responsibility to make positive changes will stay where it must, on the
    parent. If the parent feels the services ordered by the court are inadequate to facilitate the
    changes needed for reunification, then the onus is on the parent to request additional
    assistance from the court or DCS.”). HCDCS argues that Mother’s decision not to
    participate in services, including undergoing a psychological evaluation, “killed any
    opportunity for [HCDCS] or engaged service providers to get a full and thorough
    assessment, and therefore any opportunity to identify specific treatment or therapy
    mechanisms or formats that may have made a greater difference.” 
    Id.
    HCDCS maintains that although it is clear that “Mother had some form of
    cognitive delay,” HCDCS “needed more information about how to deal with [her]
    condition,” and Mother “simply did not comply with completing the full evaluation . . . .”
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    Id. at 21. HCDCS also notes that it “did not give up on Mother” and points to its
    repeated attempts to “re-engage Mother in services . . . even after [it] had initiated
    termination proceedings and the juvenile court had ordered that [HCDCS] did not have to
    provide [her] with services.” Id. at 21-22. HCDCS also responds to Mother’s suggestion
    that it did not comply with the Americans with Disabilities Act by noting that the case
    Mother cites in support actually “held that parents’ discrimination claim under the ADA
    cannot serve as a basis to attack the termination order itself.” Id. at 21 (citing Stone v.
    Daviess Cnty. Div. of Children and Family Servs., 
    656 N.E.2d 824
    , 830 (Ind. Ct. App.
    1995), trans. denied). Finally, to the extent that HCDCS discusses the elements of 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
    (b)(2), it notes that “Mother does not specifically challenge any of the
    juvenile court’s findings of fact” and accordingly “this Court only need review the
    juvenile court’s unchallenged findings to determine whether they support the court’s
    termination judgment.” 
    Id. at 27
    .
    B. ANALYSIS AND DECISION
    In E.E., this court affirmed the termination of the biological mother’s parental
    rights to her daughter, and on appeal the mother challenged the termination on the
    grounds that the governing agency, the Marion County Office of Families and Children,
    failed to accommodate Mother’s disability when providing services in compliance with
    the Americans with Disabilities Act (the “ADA”). 
    736 N.E.2d at 793, 795
    . The court
    acknowledged that “[w]hen an agency opts to provide services to assist parents in
    improving parental skills, the provision of those services must be in compliance with the
    ADA,” but it also noted that “the provision of family services is not a requisite element of
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    our parental rights termination statute, and thus, even a complete failure to provide
    services would not serve to negate a necessary element of the termination statute and
    require reversal.” 
    Id. at 796
    ; see also 
    id.
     (citing Jackson v. Madison Cnty. Dep’t of
    Family & Children, 
    690 N.E.2d 792
    , 793 (Ind. Ct. App. 1998) (holding that in a
    termination of parental rights proceeding, a welfare department is not required to plead
    and prove that it offered services), trans. denied). The court held that providing “family
    services is not a requisite element of our parental rights termination statute” and “[a]
    failure to provide services, or the provision of services in an allegedly discriminatory
    manner, does not serve as a basis on which to directly attack a termination order as
    contrary to law.” Id.; see also In re B.D.J., 
    728 N.E.2d 195
    , 201 (Ind. Ct. App. 2000)
    (noting that at a termination hearing, a “trial court can reasonably consider the services
    offered . . . and the parent’s response to those services” but that “the law concerning
    termination of parental rights does not require” that services be offered to correct
    deficiencies in childcare and that “termination of parental rights may occur . . . as long as
    the elements of 
    Ind. Code § 31-35-2-4
     are proven by clear and convincing evidence”);
    Stone, 
    656 N.E.2d at 830
     (“Our supreme court has held that the Indiana termination of
    parental rights statute does not require the agency to prove that any services have been
    offered to the parent to assist in fulfilling parental obligations.”).
    In addition, the record before us reveals that HCDCS’s efforts to reunify Mother
    and X.M. were reasonable, and indeed, to the extent that Mother may have received
    inadequate reunification services, it was not for lack of effort on the part of HCDCS. The
    record reveals that Mother met with Hartman at LifeSolutions on August 25, 2011, which
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    was a month following the filing of the CHINS petition. Hartman set up a weekly
    treatment schedule to help Mother obtain a GED, a job, financial resources,
    transportation, a driver’s license, and basic child development skills, and the goal of the
    treatment was reunification of Mother with X.M. and to help Mother better understand
    discipline. Hartman also referred Mother to Aspire in order to obtain a psychological
    evaluation. Initially, Mother attended her appointments with Hartman at LifeSolutions,
    but by October of 2011 she began missing appointments. Mother did complete an initial
    intake with Aspire, but she did not follow through with attending any follow up meetings
    in order to complete a full evaluation. Also, despite repeated attempts by Hartman to
    reach Mother, including phoning her on seven different days, Mother did not return any
    of her calls.   Near the end of 2011, due to Mother’s failure to communicate with
    LifeSolutions and Aspire, both organizations terminated their services with Mother.
    Galang, the initial HCDCS case manager assigned to Mother, repeatedly attempted
    to reach her in December 2011 but was similarly unsuccessful. Gibson was assigned to
    Mother in February 2012, and although she was eventually able to contact Mother on
    February 8, 2012 and schedule a meeting to discuss restarting reunification services,
    Mother did not show up for the appointment. Gibson visited Mother’s home on multiple
    occasions and left her business card. Gibson also tried a different phone number in order
    to reach Mother, but was again unsuccessful. Also around that time, Mother moved to a
    different unit in the same apartment building and did not inform Gibson despite an order
    from the court that she do so. Gibson found out about Mother’s new unit from T.G., and
    she attempted to visit Mother at that location but was unsuccessful. Dickerson, the third
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    HCDCS case manager to handle Mother’s case, also attempted to engage Mother and
    have her undergo a psychological assessment, making between six and eight attempts to
    do so, but he was unsuccessful. Mother may not fail to accept and participate in services
    offered, including failing to participate in a psychological evaluation which would have
    assisted the service providers in tailoring services to fit Mother’s needs, and then
    successfully argue that she was denied adequate services. See B.D.J., 
    728 N.E.2d at 201
    (“[A] parent may not sit idly by without asserting a need or desire for services and then
    successfully argue that he was denied services to assist him with his parenting.”); see also
    H.L., 915 N.E.2d at 148 (observing that the parent did not show that DCS “failed to make
    reasonable efforts toward family preservation”). Indeed, we note that in the court’s initial
    dispositional order issued on September 12, 2011, the court ordered that Mother fulfill
    certain requirements and participate in various services and listed nine specific
    requirements, but Mother failed to comply with almost all of them. We also note that
    Mother’s assertions that HCDCS failed to provide adequate services amount to an
    impermissible invitation to reweigh the evidence.8 See In re D.D., 
    804 N.E.2d 258
    , 265
    (Ind. Ct. App. 2004), trans. denied.
    8
    We observe that the court’s Finding 22 addresses the issue of provision of services as follows:
    [Mother] is either incapable of understanding what was required of her to successfully
    reunify with her child, or unwilling to comply with those requirements. This includes
    even the most basic requirement of maintaining contact with service providers, attending
    meetings, or even responding to phone messages. [Her] failure on at least two occasions
    to complete psychological evaluations has made it impossible to diagnose or treat her
    conditions. Ultimately, whether it is an inability or an unwillingness to participate makes
    no difference to the demonstrations that the elements of this termination petition have
    been clearly and convincingly proven. Mother has, however, clearly demonstrated an
    ability to communicate with and respond to her own counsel including use of the postal
    service to do so.
    Appellant’s Appendix at 24.
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    We also observe that Mother repeatedly failed to appear at court hearings which
    further frustrated the efforts of HCDCS to effect a reunification of Mother with X.M.
    First, on March 12, 2012, prior to the filing of the termination petition, the court held a
    review hearing in the CHINS matter and Mother failed to appear. As a result, the court
    issued an order approving the proposed permanency plan to terminate the parent-child
    relationship and noted in the order various failures on Mother’s part to comply with the
    case plan, including failing to participate in home-based therapy, failing to complete a
    mental health evaluation, failing to communicate with HCDCS and other service
    providers, and repeatedly missing visitation sessions. Also, on September 10, 2012, the
    court held a hearing on Mother’s Motion for Review of Permanency Plan, and Mother
    again failed to appear. Then, Mother failed to appear at the second day of the fact-
    finding hearing in the termination proceeding. Mother’s counsel advised to the court that
    she corresponded with Mother and received correspondence back from Mother, and that
    Mother “has or should have had knowledge of today’s date with the correspondence,”
    and she speculated that Mother was “just withdrawing from the particular issues at hand .
    . . .” Transcript at 79. Such failures to appear reflect ambivalence on Mother’s part.
    B.D.J., 
    728 N.E.2d at 201
     (“A parent’s failure to appear for assessments and court
    hearings reflects ambivalence . . . .”).
    Despite the fact that Mother’s arguments fail, we examine whether the court’s
    judgment is clearly erroneous. First, regarding 4(b)(2)(B), as noted above it is written in
    the disjunctive and thus we may affirm the court’s judgment based upon either clause (i)
    or (ii). In that regard, we limit our review to clause (i), that is, whether HCDCS
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    presented clear and convincing evidence establishing that there is a reasonable
    probability that the conditions leading to the removal and continued placement of X.M.
    outside Mother’s care will not be remedied, and that accordingly the court’s judgment is
    not clearly erroneous.
    In its termination order, in addition to reciting detailed findings regarding the
    specific testimony of Gibson, T.G., Hartman, Dickerson, and Parker, the court entered the
    following as Finding 16 summarizing the evidence presented demonstrating that the
    conditions leading to X.M.’s removal and continued placement outside of Mother’s care
    will not be remedied as follows:
    [Mother] has failed to remedy her parenting deficits through participation in
    reunification services. Multiple referrals for home-based therapy and case
    management, as well as mental health or psychological evaluations, have
    all been unsuccessfully closed due to [Mother’s] failure to maintain any
    kind of long term participation. [She] has demonstrated an ability to
    participate for up to two months consecutively, and to take part in intake
    meetings, but has failed to change her position or attitude about the
    conditions leading to the removal of the child from her care. [She] has
    specifically re-iterated that she would continue to discipline the child in the
    manner that led to the original removal of the child (beating the child about
    the arms and torso with a belt), after multiple counseling sessions to get her
    to discipline in another way. [Mother] is not capable of providing food,
    care, shelter, or basic necessities for herself or the child on a long term
    basis. [She] has now failed to have participation in any CHINS or
    termination proceedings since July 23, 2012. [She] has not made serious
    efforts to maintain contact with the child. . . .
    Appellant’s Appendix at 23.
    DECISION
    Our review of the record reveals that clear and convincing evidence supports the
    trial court’s findings detailed above. As noted above, Hartman, Gibson, and Dickerson
    all testified extensively regarding Mother’s repeated failures to engage in services or
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    maintain contact with both HCDCS and service providers. Hartman specifically noted in
    her testimony that Mother was engaged and motivated to work toward her goals when
    they first began working together and that Mother initially attended her appointments, but
    a few months into the process she began to miss them, and, by late November, she had
    stopped attending her appointments and returning phone calls.               HCDCS and
    LifeSolutions made repeated attempts to have Mother obtain a psychological evaluation,
    but Mother consistently resisted these efforts, noting that “she was afraid that they would
    tell her that she was dumb or that they would use the information to not let her have her
    kids back.” Transcript at 147-148. Also, on October 21, 2011, after receiving services
    for two months, Mother stated to Hartman her belief that the reason why X.M. and P.B.
    had been removed was due to their behavior and not Mother’s actions, and Mother
    indicated that, given the same circumstances, she would discipline her children in the
    same manner.
    Gibson testified that, to her knowledge, Mother was not employed at the time of
    the termination hearing. T.G. testified that he brought Mother food in March or April of
    2012 when she informed him that she did not have any food in her home. T.G. testified
    that Mother had consistently failed to visit X.M. at his home despite the fact that he had
    an open door policy for Mother to visit at her choosing, and he estimated that Mother
    phoned X.M. less than once per month, usually doing so in advance of a court date. T.G.
    also testified regarding his opinion, based upon his twelve years of experience knowing
    Mother, that she “understands everything” and that “[a]ll this is a joke and a game to
    her.” Id. at 94. We also note that, as discussed above, Mother failed to appear at
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    numerous court proceedings in both the CHINS and termination matters. See B.D.J., 
    728 N.E.2d at 201
     (noting that “[a] parent’s failure to appear for assessments and court
    hearings reflects ambivalence, and the failure to attend parenting classes reflects an
    unwillingness to change existing conditions”).
    Second, we examine whether the court’s determination that termination of
    Mother’s parental rights is in the best interest of X.M. is not clearly erroneous. We
    observe that in determining what is in the best interests of a child, the trial court is
    required to look beyond the factors identified by the Indiana Department of Child
    Services and to the totality of the evidence. McBride, 
    798 N.E.2d at 203
    . In so doing,
    the court must subordinate the interests of the parent to those of the child. 
    Id.
     The court
    need not wait until a child is irreversibly harmed before terminating the parent-child
    relationship. 
    Id.
     Moreover, we have previously held that the recommendations by both
    the case manager and child advocate to terminate parental rights, in addition to evidence
    that the conditions resulting in removal will not be remedied, is sufficient to show by
    clear and convincing evidence that termination is in the child’s best interests. In re M.M.,
    
    733 N.E.2d 6
    , 13 (Ind. Ct. App. 2000).
    The court recited the following in Finding 20 of its termination order regarding the
    best interest of X.M.:
    The child has resided with and been raised by [T.G.] for approximately the
    last twelve (12) months. [X.M.] has established a strong and loving bond
    with [T.G.], who has a reciprocal bond with the child. The child is an
    integral part of that family. [X.M.] is not subjected to physical abuse or
    inappropriate discipline, neglect, abandonment, deprivation, lack of
    supervision, or lack of provision of his basic necessities while in this
    placement, which he had been subjected to, and would continue to be
    subjected to if the parent-child relationship continues. . . .
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    Appellant’s Appendix at 24.
    At the termination hearing, Gibson testified that T.G. maintains a clean and
    appropriate home and “is very in tune with what [X.M.’s] needs are pertaining to his
    disability. He’s very nurturing. There’s a definite bond.” Transcript at 38. She testified
    that T.G. wants to adopt X.M., that X.M. wants to be adopted by T.G. and calls him
    daddy, that X.M. is very attached to J.G., and that it would be in X.M.’s best interest to
    proceed with the permanency plan. Parker testified that it was in X.M.’s best interest to
    remain with T.G., noting that X.M. was very strongly attached to his half-sister, J.G.
    Dickerson testified that he did not have concerns with T.G.’s household and was
    impressed with T.G., and that it would be in X.M.’s best interests to stay with T.G. The
    recommendations of Gibson, Parker, and Dickerson, coupled with our analysis under
    subparagraph 4(b)(2)(B), is sufficient to prove by clear and convincing evidence that
    termination is in X.M.’s best interests. See, e.g., In re A.I., 
    825 N.E.2d 798
    , 811 (Ind. Ct.
    App. 2005) (testimony of court-appointed advocate and family case manager, coupled
    with evidence that conditions resulting in continued placement outside home will not be
    remedied, is sufficient to prove by clear and convincing evidence termination is in child’s
    best interests), trans. denied.
    In addition, T.G. testified that he has known X.M. since X.M. was two years old.
    He noted that, in the time X.M. has been living with T.G., X.M. “now has some pride” in
    himself, loves going to school and is a straight A student, and is working on his speech,
    noting that before X.M. would not try to speak and would instead make animal noises.
    Id. at 90. X.M. also is enrolled in a boxing self-defense class which he enjoys. T.G. was
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    asked about the progress X.M. has made and whether it would continue if he were
    returned to Mother, and T.G. stated that the progress “would decline just like that”
    because Mother would “not do anything to try to keep the progress going.” Id. at 103.
    T.G. also stated that he was employed by the Amazon Distribution Center and that he
    was able to provide for all of X.M.’s necessities.
    After reviewing the record in its entirety, we conclude that clear and convincing
    evidence supports the trial court’s specific findings addressing the requirements of 
    Ind. Code §§ 31-35-2-4
    (b)(2)(B) and 4(b)(2)(C). These findings, in turn, provide ample
    evidence to support the trial court’s ultimate decision to terminate Mother’s parental
    rights to X.M. This court will reverse a termination of parental rights “only upon a
    showing of ‘clear error’ – that which leaves us with a definite and firm conviction that a
    mistake has been made.” Matter of A.N.J., 
    690 N.E.2d 716
    , 722 (Ind. Ct. App. 1997)
    (quoting Egly v. Blackford Cnty. Dep’t of Pub. Welfare, 
    592 N.E.2d 1232
    , 1235 (Ind.
    1992)). We find no such error here. Finally, Mother’s arguments to the contrary amount
    to an impermissible invitation to reweigh the evidence. See D.D., 
    804 N.E.2d at 265
    .
    CONCLUSION
    For the foregoing reasons, we affirm the trial court’s involuntary termination of
    Mother’s parental rights to her child, X.M.
    Affirmed.
    RILEY, J., and BRADFORD, J., concur.
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