W.M. and W.D. ( 2021 )


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  •                  IN THE SUPREME COURT OF IOWA
    No. 20–1319
    Submitted January 20, 2021—Filed April 2, 2021
    IN THE INTEREST OF W.M. and W.D.,
    Minor Children,
    S.C., Mother, STATE OF IOWA, and W.B., Father,
    Appellants.
    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Jackson County, Phillip J.
    Tabor, District Associate Judge.
    The State appeals denial of its petition to terminate a mother’s
    parental rights. The mother appeals appointment of a guardian for the
    children.      One father appeals termination of his parental rights.
    AFFIRMED IN PART, REVERSED IN PART, AND REMANDED.
    Oxley, J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which Christensen,
    C.J., and Appel, Waterman, and Mansfield, JJ., joined. McDermott, J.,
    filed an opinion concurring in part and dissenting in part in which
    McDonald, J., joined.
    Stuart G. Hoover of Alliance Law Firm, PC, Dubuque, for appellant
    mother.
    Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, Mary A. Triick, Assistant
    Attorney General, and Sara Davenport, County Attorney, for appellant
    State.
    Joshua J. Reicks of Schoenthaler, Bartelt, Kahler & Reicks,
    Maquoketa, for appellant father.
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    OXLEY, Justice.
    In this case, the juvenile court terminated the parental rights of both
    of the fathers of two children but denied the State’s petition to terminate
    the mother’s parental rights. Instead, the court entered a permanency
    order appointing the paternal grandmother of one of the boys as the
    guardian for both.      Mom appeals the permanency order, asking us to
    reverse the appointment of the grandmother as guardian and directing the
    State to continue reunification efforts.      The State also appeals the
    termination order, arguing Mom’s parental rights should have been
    terminated. Thus, neither the State nor Mom supports the juvenile court’s
    resolution of the case with respect to Mom.
    One father has also appealed termination of his rights, but his notice
    of appeal was untimely filed. We therefore must first determine whether
    he is entitled to a delayed appeal before addressing the merits of the
    father’s termination.
    I. Factual Background and Proceedings.
    Mom has struggled with addiction to methamphetamine. She has
    sought treatment, but she has relapsed many times over. The two children
    involved in this case are W.M. and W.D., who have different fathers. At
    the start of this case, W.M. was seven and W.D. was three. W.M. was
    involved in a prior child-in-need-of-assistance (CINA) proceeding where he
    was removed from Mom’s care but ultimately returned to her custody.
    W.M.’s father has not appealed the termination of his parental rights.
    W.D’s father appealed, but the notice of appeal was filed two days late. We
    will refer to W.D.’s father as “Dad.”
    This case was brought to the department of human service (DHS)’s
    attention in August 2018 when Mom’s paramour (neither of the children’s
    fathers) abused Mom in front of her sons. There were also concerns about
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    Mom’s use of illegal substances, particularly methamphetamine. Mom
    was living with her paramour and the children in Maquoketa, and,
    following the assault and DHS intervention, she became homeless. She
    stayed with family and friends during this time period. She found housing
    at the Theresa House in Dubuque, but she was asked to leave the shelter
    house due to concerns about substance abuse.
    DHS placed the children in the custody of their respective paternal
    grandparents, and Mom moved from town to town.           After her mother
    helped her get a hotel room, Mom left behind drug paraphernalia in the
    room. A caseworker found shelter housing for Mom, and Mom entered a
    residential substance abuse treatment program at High Tower on
    September 21, 2018.
    Once in inpatient treatment, Mom did well.       She worked toward
    sobriety, and it appeared she was dedicated to remaining clean. She had
    visitations with the children where workers helped her learn parenting
    skills, particularly follow-through on discipline.   W.M. exhibited many
    behavioral problems throughout the visits, and his paternal grandmother
    reported his behavioral problems increased directly in correlation to visits
    with Mom. Notably, W.M. has lived with his paternal grandparents on and
    off since he was three years old, long before DHS became involved in this
    proceeding.   He had issues with bedwetting that his grandparents
    attributed to his past living situation.   The bedwetting improved when
    W.M. was living with his grandparents, but it increased or resumed when
    W.M. saw or spoke to Mom. W.D. exhibited some behavioral problems,
    primarily centered on hyperactivity and not listening. However, he did not
    exhibit the same concerns directly tied to seeing Mom as W.M.
    DHS returned W.D. to Mom’s care at High Tower after W.D. tested
    positive for methamphetamine while in his paternal grandparents’ care.
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    Mom had a negative hair test for substances in the same time period. W.M.
    continued to have visits with Mom but often acted out throughout those
    visits.
    While Mom stayed in the highly-structured High Tower setting, she
    continued to do well in her personal life and with respect to the children,
    although there was concern that she contacted the abusive ex-paramour
    despite a no-contact order. DHS worked with her and emphasized the
    importance of respecting the no-contact order. W.M. was placed back in
    her care on January 24, 2019, while Mom continued to participate in
    inpatient care.
    Around February 12, Mom used marijuana outside the presence of
    the children. She reported this to her caseworker promptly and looked
    into modifying her medications, which she believed were not working.
    Mom found a job, but her hours interfered with seeing the children, so she
    quit.
    Mom successfully completed the substance abuse programing at
    High Tower in April. Unfortunately, shortly thereafter, she relapsed and
    the children were again removed from her care. W.M. returned to the care
    of his paternal grandparents, and W.D. was placed in foster care.
    Throughout the summer of 2019, Mom had visitation with the
    children at the maternal grandmother’s house, where Mom was living.
    Mom provided a negative sweat patch for several illegal substances in
    August, and she reengaged with services and again worked toward
    bettering herself and getting her children back. In September, Mom was
    permitted overnight visits with W.D. and extended visits with W.M.
    However, in October, Mom started avoiding her caseworkers. On
    October 10, the worker met with Mom, and she admitted to yet another
    relapse with methamphetamine and marijuana. The worker asked Mom
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    to undergo drug testing throughout October, November, and December,
    which she repeatedly failed to do. When Mom finally provided a sample
    on   December      23,   she    tested     positive   for     amphetamines,
    methamphetamine, and THC. The caseworkers urged Mom to return to
    inpatient treatment; the maternal grandmother gave Mom an ultimatum
    to either seek treatment or move out. In response, Mom requested visits
    no longer take place at her mother’s house.       Mom continued to have
    semisupervised visits overseen by her mother on weekends.
    In January 2020, W.M.’s paternal grandmother reported that W.M.’s
    therapist had recommended he stop seeing Mom. W.M. increasingly began
    refusing to go to visits, sometimes agreeing to go after being convinced by
    caseworkers but other times stating he was only going to see his brother.
    Mom struggled with disciplining the children.         During one visit,
    W.M. acted out by throwing snow at Mom and W.D. Mom resorted to
    yelling and swearing at W.M. and then threatened to call the police if W.M.
    did not listen.   The children reported Mom sometimes slept during
    interactions. W.M. also started wetting his pants surrounding his visits
    with Mom. W.M.’s paternal grandparents pushed for termination of Mom’s
    parental rights so they could adopt him.
    Shortly thereafter, Mom checked herself into inpatient treatment at
    Prairie Ridge. Following her time in Prairie Ridge, Mom returned to High
    Tower on February 24. Once again, Mom began engaging in treatment
    and working toward sobriety.       However, her caseworker expressed
    concerns, noting Mom had been in treatment many times before and
    admitted she only went to Prairie Ridge to avoid going to prison. Mom also
    had a new paramour at this time who had a history of substance abuse.
    Nonetheless, Mom excelled at High Tower, and her counselor
    reported that it seemed she was more committed to remaining clean this
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    time. Due to the difficulties of administering services while complying with
    the social and physical distancing requirements caused by the COVID-19
    pandemic, W.D. was placed back with Mom at High Tower, while W.M.
    remained with his paternal grandparents.          Visits with W.M. were
    conducted by videoconference, which he struggled with. W.M.’s paternal
    grandmother reported that he wanted to remain permanently with his
    grandparents, not return to Mom’s care.        His paternal grandmother
    reported that during a recent trip to Maquoketa, where W.M. had
    previously lived with Mom when she was using drugs, W.M. told his
    grandparents about times when he had to sleep in the alleys of Maquoketa.
    She believed he had been traumatized and still struggled to speak about
    it.
    Mom completed treatment at High Tower again and moved into her
    own apartment in July. After she moved into her apartment, she stopped
    attending drug counseling.     Additionally, Mom began associating with
    people who had criminal and substance abuse histories and allowed them
    to be around W.D. Mom admitted she stopped taking her medications and
    stopped attending therapy.      Rather than use the approved daycare
    arranged by DHS, Mom allowed an unapproved male friend with a history
    of domestic violence to babysit W.D. when she was at work. Mom tested
    positive for methamphetamines and THC in early August. W.D. was once
    again removed from her care and was placed with W.M. at W.M’s paternal
    grandparents’ home. The grandparents expressed an intention to adopt
    both boys if Mom’s parental rights were terminated.
    At this time, the caseworker noted Mom did not understand why
    W.D. had to be removed from her care. The worker observed that Mom did
    “not appear to see how her actions have affected [W.D.] and his safety. She
    [did] not appear to have the capability of making long term safe choices.”
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    Dad spent most of this case incarcerated or in halfway houses.
    Despite expressing an interest in participating in the case in September
    2018, Dad did not follow through. Case notes between October 2018 and
    February 2019 consistently indicate Dad had only minimal participation
    in services, so the worker could not assess his parenting capabilities. In
    March, Dad was arrested and jailed.
    Following his release from jail in April 2019, Dad contacted
    caseworkers and had two positive interactions with W.D. in May. However,
    Dad relapsed in late May and returned to jail.         No interactions were
    reported in July, August, September, or October.
    Dad was residing at the Elm Street Facility, a residential corrections
    facility (RCF), but absconded on November 21, 2019, and was picked up
    on new charges on December 4. He remained incarcerated throughout the
    following months, where caseworkers encouraged him to take advantage
    of offered classes. He was released on May 13, 2020, and again resided in
    an RCF. Dad failed to respond to communications from DHS workers, who
    later learned he had again absconded from the RCF and a warrant had
    been issued for his arrest. The last contact Dad had with W.D. was in late
    2019.
    On August 21, 2020, the State moved to terminate parental rights
    to all parents pursuant to Iowa Code sections 232.116(1)(f) and
    232.116(1)(l) (2020). The guardian ad litem (GAL) supported termination
    of all parents’ rights. After a hearing, the court concluded the State had
    proven the grounds for termination and terminated the rights to both
    fathers under Iowa Code section 232.116(f). However, the court did not
    terminate Mom’s parental rights, concluding the bond between Mom and
    both boys precluded termination.           Instead, the court entered a
    permanency order placing W.M. and W.D. in a guardianship with W.M.’s
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    paternal grandmother pursuant to Iowa Code section 232.104(2)(d)(1). It
    clarified that the guardianship was a “Juvenile Court guardianship”1 and
    provided that DHS was relieved from providing further services, but
    requested both DHS and the GAL provide annual reports to the court as
    part of the guardianship proceedings.
    The State appealed, arguing the court should have terminated
    Mom’s parental rights. In the alternative, the State seeks relief from the
    court’s permanency order imposing annual reporting obligations on DHS.
    Because we reverse the imposition of the guardianship, we do not address
    the reporting requirements.
    Mom also appealed, arguing the court should have ordered
    continued efforts toward reunification with Mom rather than appoint the
    grandmother as guardian and relieve DHS of providing further services.
    Dad filed an untimely notice of appeal.       The court entered the
    termination order on September 28, 2020, so the notice of appeal was due
    October 13. Iowa R. App. P. 6.101(1)(a). Dad’s notice of appeal was filed
    on October 15 along with a motion for relief from filing deadline. Dad’s
    attorney explained that the notice of appeal was late because he sent the
    termination order and a notice of appeal for Dad’s signature to the Iowa
    Medical and Classification Center, but Dad had been transferred to a
    correctional facility in the interim. The attorney filed the notice of appeal
    the same day he received the signed copy back from Dad, but he ascribes
    the delay to the amount of time it took for the letter he sent to the medical
    facility to be redirected.
    W.M.’s father did not appeal termination of his parental rights with
    W.M., who was placed with the father’s parents.
    1We    take this to mean a Chapter 232D guardianship.   See 
    Iowa Code § 232.104
    (8)(b).
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    II. Standard of Review.
    We review termination of parental rights de novo. In re M.W., 
    876 N.W.2d 212
    , 219 (Iowa 2016). We are not bound by the factual findings of
    the juvenile court, though we give them respectful consideration,
    particularly with respect to credibility determinations. 
    Id.
    The State must prove termination was proper by clear and
    convincing evidence. 
    Id.
     “Evidence is considered clear and convincing
    ‘when there are no “serious or substantial doubts as to the correctness [of]
    conclusions of law drawn from the evidence.” ’ ” 
    Id.
     (alteration in original)
    (quoting In re D.W., 
    791 N.W.2d 703
    , 706 (Iowa 2010)). “[O]nce the State
    has proven a ground for termination, the parent resisting termination
    bears the burden to establish an exception to termination” identified in
    Iowa Code section 232.116(3).     In re A.S., 
    906 N.W.2d 467
    , 476 (Iowa
    2018).
    III. Analysis.
    We must address three issues in this case: (1) whether the juvenile
    court erred in denying termination of Mom’s parental rights or in placing
    the children in a guardianship with W.M.’s paternal grandmother,
    (2) whether to grant Dad’s request for a delayed appeal, and, if we grant
    that request, (3) whether the juvenile court erred in terminating Dad’s
    parental rights.
    The State alleged termination of parental rights was proper for all
    three parents on the basis of Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f), which
    requires the state to prove:
    (1) The child is four years of age or older.
    (2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of
    assistance pursuant to section 232.96.
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    (3) The child has been removed from the physical
    custody of the child’s parents for at least twelve of the last
    eighteen months, or for the last twelve consecutive months
    and any trial period at home has been less than thirty days.
    (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that at the
    present time the child cannot be returned to the custody of
    the child’s parents as provided in section 232.102.
    The State also alleged termination was proper under Iowa Code
    section 232.116(1)(l), which requires the State to prove:
    (1) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of
    assistance pursuant to section 232.96 and custody has been
    transferred from the child’s parents for placement pursuant
    to section 232.102.
    (2) The parent has a severe substance-related disorder
    and presents a danger to self or others as evidenced by prior
    acts.
    (3) There is clear and convincing evidence that the
    parent’s prognosis indicates that the child will not be able to
    be returned to the custody of the parent within a reasonable
    period of time considering the child’s age and need for a
    permanent home.
    “Our review of termination of parental rights under Iowa Code
    chapter 232 is a three-step analysis.” In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d at 219.
    First, we determine “whether any ground for termination under section
    232.116(1) has been established.” Id. If we conclude affirmatively, we next
    “determine whether the best-interest framework as laid out in section
    232.116(2) supports the termination of parental rights.” Id. at 219–20. If
    we conclude section 232.116(2) supports termination, “we consider
    whether any exceptions in section 232.116(3) apply to preclude
    termination of parental rights.” Id. at 220.
    A. Mom’s Parental Rights.          The reason DHS petitioned to
    terminate Mom’s parental rights is clear on this record. Throughout this
    case, Mom engaged in a cycle of abusing drugs, getting clean, relapsing,
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    seeking treatment, and again abusing drugs. When she was using, Mom
    exposed her children to dangerous people and dangerous situations.
    We conclude the State proved grounds for termination of Mom’s
    parental rights under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f), so we do not
    address the second ground under section 232.116(1)(l). See In re A.B., 
    815 N.W.2d 764
    , 774 (Iowa 2012) (“When the juvenile court terminates
    parental rights on more than one statutory ground, we may affirm the
    juvenile court’s order on any ground we find supported by the record.”).
    As to whether the children could be safely returned to Mom’s
    custody, we note the children were returned to Mom’s custody only to be
    removed again multiple times (twice for W.M., three times for W.D.)
    throughout this case, each time shortly after Mom’s release from a
    treatment center. While Mom was in the supervised structure of inpatient
    treatment, she capably cared for her children. However, once she left
    treatment, Mom quickly returned to old habits, including contact with
    dangerous people and relapse to illegal drug use. Although the record
    does not reveal she used in the presence of her children, her use had a
    direct impact on her ability to safely parent the children, evidenced by
    increasingly erratic behavior when she relapsed         and a     lack of
    understanding of how her actions affected her children. A long history of
    substance abuse, repeated relapses, and demonstrated inability to
    maintain sobriety outside a supervised setting demonstrates the children
    could not have been returned to her care at the time of the termination
    hearing. See In re N.F., 
    579 N.W.2d 338
    , 341 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998) (“Where
    the parent has been unable to rise above the addiction and experience
    sustained sobriety in a noncustodial setting, and establish the essential
    support system to maintain sobriety, there is little hope of success in
    parenting.”).
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    We next consider whether termination is in the best interests of the
    children under section 232.116(2). In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d at 224.
    When we consider whether parental rights should be
    terminated, we “shall give primary consideration to the child’s
    safety, to the best placement for furthering the long-term
    nurturing and growth of the child, and to the physical, mental,
    and emotional condition and needs of the child.” . . . For
    integration, we look at how long the children have been living
    with the foster family, how continuity would affect the
    children, and the preference of the children if they are capable
    of expressing a preference. Last, we may also consider
    statements of foster parents or relatives with whom the
    children have been placed.
    Id. (quoting 
    Iowa Code § 232.116
    (2)).       Additionally, in evaluating the
    children’s best interests we note
    [i]t is well-settled law that we cannot deprive a child of
    permanency after the State has proved a ground for
    termination under section 232.116(1) by hoping someday a
    parent will learn to be a parent and be able to provide a stable
    home for the child.
    
    Id.
     (alteration in original) (quoting In re A.M., 
    843 N.W.2d 100
    , 112 (Iowa
    2014)). Finally, it is usually in the best interests of siblings to remain
    together.   In re L.B.T., 
    318 N.W.2d 200
    , 202 (Iowa 1982) (“Wherever
    possible brothers and sisters should be kept together . . . .”); see also 
    Iowa Code § 232.108
    (1).
    We conclude termination of Mom’s parental rights is in the best
    interests of the children. W.M. has been traumatized and, seemingly, does
    not feel safe with Mom. While W.D. may not bear emotional scars to the
    same extent, repeatedly bouncing in and out of Mom’s chaotic life cannot
    be healthy for him, either. Continuing to place W.D. with Mom only to be
    removed again is harmful to his need for permanency.
    W.M. has been well cared for by his paternal grandparents, who
    have worked to keep him safe. They have responded to his needs and
    expressed genuine concern about him throughout this case. W.M. has
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    lived with his grandparents on and off since he was three years old, and
    his behaviors improve while he is with them. They have wanted to adopt
    him for some time.
    W.D. was also placed with his brother’s paternal grandparents not
    long before the termination hearing, so there is little in the record as to
    how he has adjusted to living with them. However, the grandparents have
    agreed to adopt W.D., keeping the brothers together.                      It is clear the
    brothers have a significant bond.
    This is exactly the sort of case where we must not deprive a child of
    permanency on the hope Mom will get better.                    Mom clearly loves her
    children. Yet, we cannot deprive these children of a stable home on the
    hope that Mom will someday be able to succeed in her efforts to remain
    sober. We conclude termination is in the best interests of both children.
    Finally, we must “determine whether any exceptions in section
    232.116(3) apply to preclude the termination.” In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d at
    225. Despite finding the State proved grounds for termination, the juvenile
    court concluded termination would be detrimental to the children based
    on the closeness of the parent–child relationship, a statutory exception to
    termination. See 
    Iowa Code § 232.116
    (3)(c). The juvenile court concluded
    a guardianship with W.M.’s paternal grandmother for both children was
    preferable to termination.
    Neither Mom nor the State seems content with that resolution;
    indeed, Mom appeals appointment of the guardian.2 In any event, as we
    2It is not entirely clear who initially advocated for a guardianship as an alternative
    permanency plan. Counsel for Dad is the only one who asked about a guardianship
    during the hearing. In response to his questions, both of the social workers testified
    additional time under a guardianship was not preferable to termination given the length
    of time the boys had been involved with DHS and their needs for permanency. While the
    mother later testified in response to Dad’s counsel’s question that a guardianship would
    be preferable to termination, notably her own counsel did not ask her the same question.
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    have said before, “a guardianship is not a legally preferable alternative to
    termination.” In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 477 (quoting In re B.T., 
    894 N.W.2d 29
    , 32 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017)).             There are some instances where a
    guardianship may be appropriate, where, for example, “the mother and
    the [maternal] Grandmother have a close, mature, and healthy
    relationship that is free of conflict” and it is “evident the mother and the
    Grandmother can work together in the best interests of the child.” In re
    B.T., 894 N.W.2d at 34.
    That does not appear to be the case here. The juvenile court ordered
    a long-term guardianship under Chapter 232D and relieved DHS “of any
    further services.” Thus, Mom would not receive the benefit of additional
    services but would remain the parent of children who are under the
    guardianship of W.M.’s paternal grandmother. While the grandmother has
    indicated she will allow the children to see Mom if she is sober, the
    grandmother also supported termination of Mom’s parental rights. Mom
    would also be allowed to challenge the guardianship, see Iowa Code
    § 232D.503(3), further complicating that relationship.
    Having concluded the guardianship was not a proper permanency
    plan, we consider whether the juvenile court properly denied termination
    based on “clear and convincing evidence that the termination would be
    detrimental to the child at the time due to the closeness of the parent–
    child relationship.” 
    Iowa Code § 232.116
    (3)(c). We do not discount that
    there is a bond between Mom and both boys.                 But Mom has failed to
    The mother’s counsel argued in closing that reunification services should be continued,
    noting he would “agree with what [Dad] is about to say,” that if some type of permanency
    decision needed to be made, a guardianship was preferable to termination of the mother’s
    parental rights. Despite the suggestion of a guardianship at the hearing, the GAL
    continued to recommend termination.
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    provide the clear and convincing evidence necessary to show that, on
    balance, that bond makes termination more detrimental than not.
    Throughout this case, W.M. had increased behavioral problems in
    direct correlation to interactions with Mom. Time spent with her made
    him more defiant, and he wet the bed or his pants in relation to visits with
    Mom. He described trauma from his time in her care, and his therapist
    reportedly recommended he stop seeing Mom. He is well adjusted living
    with his grandparents.
    While W.D. has a closer relationship with Mom, the bond is not so
    strong that it clearly outweighs his need for permanency. W.D. was almost
    six years old at the time of the hearing and had been removed from Mom’s
    care three times in the prior two years. He clearly loves Mom and is glad
    to see her, but the evidence showed he did not ask for her when she was
    not around.   Moreover, “[w]e gain insight into the child’s prospects by
    reviewing evidence of the parent’s past performance—for it may be
    indicative of the parent’s future capabilities.” In re D.W., 791 N.W.2d at
    709 (alteration in original) (quoting In re M.S., 
    519 N.W.2d 398
    , 400 (Iowa
    1994)). Mom has shown a pattern of behavior in the past that indicates
    how she will act in the future.     We do not disagree with the court’s
    observation “that the bond and the knowledge of the boys with their
    mother is going to be a lifetime relationship and that a simple termination
    order will not change this life bond.” But that does make termination
    improper here. See In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d at 778 n.8 (“[W]e concur in the
    juvenile court’s view that there is a bond between [the father] and A.B. and
    S.B., but the children’s safety, long-term nurturing and growth, and
    physical, mental, and emotional needs would be better served by
    termination of parental rights notwithstanding that bond.”); In re D.W.,
    791 N.W.2d at 709 (analyzing this exception and explaining “our
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    consideration must center on whether the child will be disadvantaged by
    termination, and whether the disadvantage overcomes [the parent’s]
    inability to provide for [the child’s] developing needs”).
    We conclude that Mom’s parental rights should be terminated and
    thus reverse the juvenile court’s judgment.
    B. Delayed Appeal. We addressed whether to extend the delayed
    appeal process we have recognized in criminal cases to termination-of-
    parental-rights cases in In re A.B., ___ N.W.2d ___, ___ (Iowa 2021), also
    filed today. As noted there, the significant liberty interests at stake when
    a parent’s rights are terminated support recognizing delayed appeals in
    the limited context in which we have allowed them in criminal cases. Id.
    at ___.
    While there are some differences between the procedural problems
    in this case and In re A.B., the same reasoning applies. Although the father
    in In re A.B. filed a timely notice of appeal, he missed the deadline for filing
    his petition on appeal. Id. at ___. In the context of Chapter 232 cases, our
    rules provide that a timely petition on appeal is required to properly perfect
    the appeal. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.102(b) (“An appeal in a [Chapter 232]
    case will be dismissed unless a petition on appeal is timely filed . . . .”); id.
    r. 6.201(1)(b) (“The time for filing a petition on appeal shall not be
    extended.”); id. r. 6.201(3) (“If the petition on appeal is not filed . . . within
    15 days . . . , the supreme court shall dismiss the appeal . . . .”). Here,
    Dad filed his notice of appeal two days late, but his petition on appeal was
    timely filed. We do not find the distinction between a late notice of appeal
    and a late petition on appeal material to whether a delayed appeal should
    be considered.    Delayed appeals are an exception to our jurisdictional
    rules. See In re A.B., ___ N.W.2d at ___ n.2; State v. Anderson, 
    308 N.W.2d 17
    42, 46 (Iowa 1981) (recognizing delayed appeal may be allowed despite an
    untimely notice of appeal).
    As explained in In re A.B., we will consider a delayed appeal “only
    where the parent clearly intended to appeal and the failure to timely perfect
    the appeal was outside of the parent’s control.” ___ N.W.2d at ___. Even
    then, we still consider the timing of the appeal and will not allow a delayed
    appeal to prolong the appeal process. 
    Id.
     The delay must be “no more
    than negligible.” 
    Id.
     Applying those criteria here, we grant Dad’s request
    for a delayed appeal.      Dad’s attorney was apparently only able to
    communicate with Dad by U.S. postal mail and sent the termination order
    and a notice of appeal form to Dad to be signed at the Iowa Medical and
    Classification Center on September 29, the day after the order was filed.
    Counsel received the signed notice of appeal back from Dad on October 15
    with a return address from the Fort Dodge Correctional Facility, not the
    Classification Center where it was originally mailed, with an October 13
    postmark, the deadline for filing the notice of appeal. While it is unclear
    whether counsel attempted to obtain Dad’s consent to use the modified
    signature requirements allowed under our COVID-19 supervisory order,
    what is clear is that Dad would not have known about the order until
    receiving it from his attorney. The notice of appeal was filed two days after
    the fifteen-day deadline, and the petition on appeal was filed on October
    28, so that the petition was filed thirty days after the termination order.
    Given the limited communication capabilities, we conclude Dad
    clearly intended to timely appeal and the late filing was beyond his control.
    The timing did not delay the appeal process.       We therefore proceed to
    address whether the juvenile court properly terminated Dad’s parental
    rights.
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    C. Termination of Dad’s Parental Rights. In deciding whether it
    was proper for the court to terminate Dad’s parental rights, we follow the
    same analysis we did for Mom.       The juvenile court terminated Dad’s
    parental rights pursuant to Iowa Code sections 232.116(f), concluding
    W.D. could not be returned to Dad’s care and custody at the time of trial.
    Dad does not dispute that W.D. cannot be returned to his care, as
    he is currently incarcerated. He argues, however, that his parental rights
    should not have been terminated because W.D. was placed in a
    guardianship. He also argues that he is scheduled to be released soon and
    he should have been given an additional six months to work toward
    reunification. See 
    Iowa Code § 232.104
    (2)(b). We reject both arguments.
    Our conclusion that the juvenile court erred by placing the boys in
    a guardianship as an alternative to terminating Mom’s rights defeats his
    first argument. With respect to additional time toward reunification, Dad
    greatly overstates his involvement in W.D.’s life. He participated in two
    supervised visitations during the two-year history of this case and a
    handful of phone calls from jail. Although he had positive interactions
    during those visitations, he failed to take advantage of services offered to
    him throughout, limiting the caseworkers’ ability to even evaluate his
    parenting capabilities.
    The record also fails to demonstrate he has the stability to care for
    a child. On multiple occasions, Dad was jailed, released to an RCF, and
    absconded from the RCF, resulting in rearrest and further confinement.
    He continued to get into legal trouble and took no responsibility for his
    conduct. DHS workers noted W.D. and his father do not have a functional
    bond due to Dad’s absence from W.D.’s life.       We therefore affirm the
    judgment of the juvenile court terminating Dad’s parental rights to W.D.
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    IV. Conclusion.
    We reverse the juvenile court’s determination as to Mom and affirm
    as to Dad. The case is remanded for entry of an order terminating Mom’s
    parental rights to both W.M. and W.D. and further proceedings consistent
    with this opinion.
    AFFIRMED IN PART, REVERSED IN PART, AND REMANDED.
    Christensen, C.J., and Appel, Waterman, and Mansfield, JJ., join
    this opinion.   McDermott, J., files an opinion concurring in part and
    dissenting in part in which McDonald, J., joins.
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    #20–1319, In re W.M. and W.D.
    McDERMOTT, Justice (concurring in part and dissenting in part).
    I concur in the majority’s opinion as to the mother’s appeal and
    remanding for termination of the mother’s parental rights.           But I
    respectfully dissent from the majority’s grant of the untimely appeal by
    W.D.’s father and would dismiss his appeal for lack of jurisdiction for the
    reasons stated in my concurrence in part and dissent in part in In re A.B.,
    ___ N.W.2d ___, at ___ (Iowa 2021). W.D.’s father admits he failed to file
    his notice of appeal within the deadline as required by Iowa Rule of
    Appellate Procedure 6.101.      Appeal deadlines are “mandatory and
    jurisdictional.” Root v. Toney, 
    841 N.W.2d 83
    , 87 (Iowa 2013); Lundberg
    v. Lundberg, 
    169 N.W.2d 815
    , 817 (Iowa 1969). We lack jurisdiction to
    hear W.D.’s father’s appeal and should dismiss it without reaching the
    merits of his argument.    In re J.H., 
    952 N.W.2d 157
    , 165 (Iowa 2020)
    (dismissing terminated mother’s appeal “because it was untimely”).
    McDonald, J., joins this concurrence in part and dissent in part.