Dolgorsuren Schmidt v. James Quinn ( 2018 )


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  •                     IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
    No. 18-0056
    Filed September 12, 2018
    DOLGORSUREN SCHMIDT,
    Plaintiff-Appellant,
    vs.
    JAMES QUINN,
    Defendant-Appellee.
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    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Scott County, Mary E. Howes,
    Judge.
    Mother appeals from an order denying her petition to modify the physical
    care provisions of the parties’ decree of dissolution of marriage. AFFIRMED.
    Robert S. Gallagher and Peter G. Gierut of Gallagher, Millage & Gallagher,
    P.L.C., Bettendorf, for appellant.
    James J. Quinn, Davenport, pro se appellee.
    Considered by Potterfield, P.J., and Bower and McDonald, JJ.
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    MCDONALD, Judge.
    Dolgorsuren Schmidt (a/k/a Julia) appeals from an order denying her
    petition to modify the decree dissolving her marriage to James (Joe) Quinn. At
    issue in this appeal are the physical care provisions of the decree.
    This court’s review is de novo. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.907; In re Marriage
    of Hoffman, 
    867 N.W.2d 26
    , 32 (Iowa 2015) (noting modification actions lie in
    equity). Prior cases have little precedential value; this court applies the relevant
    law to the unique facts and circumstances of each case. See In re Marriage of
    Kleist, 
    538 N.W.2d 273
    , 276 (Iowa 1995); In re Marriage of Snowden, No. 14-1920,
    
    2015 WL 4233449
    , at *1 (Iowa Ct. App. July 9, 2015). Although review is de novo,
    appellate courts “afford deference to the district court for institutional and pragmatic
    reasons.” Hensch v. Mysak, 
    902 N.W.2d 822
    , 824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017); see In re
    P.C., No. 16-0893, 
    2016 WL 4379580
    , at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Aug. 17, 2016) (“There
    are other, less questionable reasons to exercise ‘de novo review with deference,’
    including: notions of judicial comity and respect; recognition of the appellate court’s
    limited function of maintaining the uniformity of legal doctrine; recognition of the
    district court’s more intimate knowledge of and familiarity with the parties, the
    lawyers, and the facts of a case; and recognition there are often undercurrents in
    a case—not of record and available for appellate review—the district court does
    and should take into account when making a decision.”).
    The record reflects the parties married in 2006 and divorced by way of
    stipulated decree in 2013. The parties have two children. During the course of the
    parties’ marriage, Joe adopted Julia’s son, C.Q., now eighteen years of age and
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    entering his senior year of high school. The parties also have a younger son, M.Q.,
    now eleven years of age. Pursuant to the stipulated decree, the parties were
    granted joint legal custody of both children, Julia was awarded physical care of
    C.Q., Joe was awarded physical care of M.Q., and each parent was granted
    visitation with the other child. Shortly after the entry of the decree, the parties
    modified the decree to expand summer visitation for the parents and to better
    accommodate Julia’s observance of White Month, a Mongolian holiday. In 2016,
    Julia filed the instant petition to modify the decree, seeking physical care of both
    children and child support. The district court denied the petition, concluding Julia
    failed to prove a material change in circumstances not in contemplation of the
    decretal court. Julia timely filed this appeal.
    “The general principles guiding our adjudication of petitions for modification
    of dissolution decrees are well-established.” In re Marriage of Hoffman, 867
    N.W.2d at 32.
    To change a custodial provision of a dissolution decree, the applying
    party must establish by a preponderance of evidence that conditions
    since the decree was entered have so materially and substantially
    changed that the children’s best interests make it expedient to make
    the requested change. The changed circumstances must not have
    been contemplated by the court when the decree was entered, and
    they must be more or less permanent, not temporary. They must
    relate to the welfare of the children. A parent seeking to take custody
    from the other must prove an ability to minister more effectively to
    the children’s well being.
    In re Marriage of Frederici, 
    338 N.W.2d 156
    , 158 (Iowa 1983). “The burden on the
    party seeking modification is a heavy one.” In re Marriage of Morrison, No. 16-
    0886, 
    2017 WL 936152
    , at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Mar. 8, 2017). Courts are chary to
    disturb the physical care provisions of a decree because “once custody of children
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    has been fixed it should be disturbed only for the most cogent reasons.” Hoffman,
    867 N.W.2d at 32. Ultimately, when reaching a conclusion, “[t]he children’s best
    interest is the controlling consideration.” Id.; accord Marriage of Winter, 
    223 N.W.2d 165
    , 166–67 (Iowa 1974) (listing factors to consider when reaching a best-
    interest determination).
    Julia contends the animosity between the parties warrants modification of
    the physical-care provisions of the decree. It is not disputed the parties have a
    contentious relationship. It also does not seem disputed the parties’ contentious
    relationship negatively impacts the children. However, the contentious nature of
    the relationship does not support modification here.          First, “[t]he parties’
    contentious relationship is merely a continuation of what came before.” Morrison,
    
    2017 WL 936152
    , at *3. There has been no change in circumstances since the
    entry of the decree. See Albertus v. Albertus, 
    160 N.W. 830
    , 831 (Iowa 1917) (“It
    would be a sufficient change of circumstances within the reasoning of those cases
    if this alleged animosity or other unfitness were not in existence when the original
    decree was entered.”). Second, while the parties’ relationship is contentious, we
    cannot say the hostility between the parents rises to the level requiring judicial
    intervention. Finally, much of the contentiousness between the parties is initiated
    by Julia. This is evidenced in her own video exhibits, which show her creating
    contentious situations with Joe regarding the children and then recording the
    exchanges for evidentiary purposes.      Julia cannot leverage her instigation of
    conflict into a legal reason to support modification of the decree. The level of
    conflict in this case does not warrant a change in physical care of the child, but
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    both parents must mature and find a way to interact in a non-confrontational
    manner for the benefit of their children. See In re Marriage of Fortelka, 
    425 N.W.2d 671
    , 672 (Iowa Ct. App. 1988) (“Parents must put away their personal animosities
    toward each other and work together to meet the children’s needs.”).
    Julia also contends modification is warranted because Joe’s care of the
    children negatively affects their physical health.    Specifically, she notes Joe
    smokes in the home. She also notes Joe’s home has mold in the basement. Both
    of these facts, she contends, contribute to M.Q.’s alleged respiratory ailments. The
    evidence relevant to this issue does not support modification. The district court
    made several credibility findings regarding this issue to which we defer. The
    district court credited Joe’s denial that he smoked in the home and that he smoked
    around M.Q. There was no evidence of the existence of mold in Joe’s house other
    than Julia’s assertion. Finally, there was no credible evidence M.Q.’s respiratory
    health was affected by smoke or mold. Because the evidence does not support
    Julia’s concerns, these concerns do not serve as a basis for modification of the
    decree.
    There is evidence in the record showing both parents fail to provide or fail
    to timely provide each other with information regarding the children, including
    educational and medical information. The parties’ mutual failures to communicate
    with each other regarding the children’s educational and medical information,
    among other things, is contrary to their duties as joint legal custodians. See 
    Iowa Code § 598.1
    (3) (2013) (providing when parents are awarded joint legal custody,
    both parents have “legal custodial rights and responsibilities toward the child” and
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    “neither parent has legal custodial rights superior to those of the other parent”).
    The parents’ failures do not support modification. Both parents are at fault, and
    changing physical care of M.Q. from Joe to Julia does not resolve the
    communication failure. Again, both parents will have to improve in communicating
    relevant information to the other regarding both children.
    Even assuming Julia had established a material and substantial change in
    circumstances, she has not established the ability to provide superior care. To
    justify modification, Julia must show she can provide superior care to the child at
    issue. See In re Marriage of Whalen, 
    569 N.W.2d 626
    , 628 (Iowa Ct. App. 1997).
    As noted above, Julia causes much of the tension between her and Joe. She does
    not share or does not timely share relevant information. She is not supportive, or
    only minimally supportive, of Joe’s relationships with the children. Joe has a strong
    bond with M.Q. Joe has coached M.Q.’s sports teams. Joe has been M.Q.’s scout
    master in cub scouts. M.Q. expressed to his therapist his desire to reside with Joe.
    All things considered, the children are doing well in the current care arrangement.
    There is nothing in the record supporting the conclusion Julia can provide superior
    care to the children. See In re Marriage of Thielges, 
    623 N.W.2d 232
    , 238 (Iowa
    Ct. App. 2000) (finding the father failed to prove he could provide superior care
    because, “[a]t most, the record shows [the father] and [the mother] are both fallible
    human beings who can provide the same level of care for their children”).
    On de novo review, we have considered each of the parties’ arguments,
    whether or not explicitly referenced in this opinion.        “[T]he district court has
    reasonable discretion in determining whether modification [of physical care] is
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    warranted and that discretion will not be disturbed on appeal unless there is a
    failure to do equity.” In re Marriage of McKenzie, 
    709 N.W.2d 528
    , 531 (Iowa 2006)
    (quoting In re Marriage of Walters, 
    575 N.W.2d 739
    , 741 (Iowa 1998)). We find no
    reason to disturb the judgment of the district court.
    AFFIRMED.