In re the Marriage of Heim ( 2021 )

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 20-0442
Filed January 21, 2021
IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF JOHN LORENZO HEIM
AND SHIELA RENAE HEIM
Upon the Petition of
JOHN LORENZO HEIM,
Petitioner-Appellee,
And Concerning
SHIELA RENAE HEIM,
Respondent-Appellant.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Harrison County, Richard H.
Davidson, Judge.
Shiela Heim appeals the denial of her petition to modify child custody and
her contempt action. AFFIRMED.
Kyle E. Focht of Focht Law Office, Council Bluffs, for appellant.
Matthew J. Hudson of Law Office of Matthew J. Hudson, Harlan, for
appellee.
Considered by Doyle, P.J., and Mullins and Greer, JJ.
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DOYLE, Presiding Judge.
Shiela Heim appeals the denial of her petition to modify the child custody
provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to John Heim and denial of her
contempt action. She contends a substantial change in circumstances has
occurred since their divorce that warrants granting her sole legal custody of the
children. She also contends John willfully violated the court orders.
Shiela and John were married in 2008. John petitioned for dissolution of
the marriage in 2013. The district court dissolved the marriage in 2014, granting
joint legal custody of their two children and placing them in Shiela’s physical care.
Each party has since initiated numerous contempt actions. In 2018, Shiela
petitioned to modify custody to grant her sole legal custody, and John countered
by asking the court to grant him sole legal and physical care. The court denied the
requests for modification of legal custody or physical care but modified portions of
the decree relating to visitation. While the modification proceedings were pending,
both parties also filed contempt actions. The court denied both.
Shiela first raises a number of claims concerning the district court’s
evidentiary rulings and the conduct of trial. She challenges the court’s decisions
to not appoint a successor guardian ad litem before allowing the first guardian ad
litem to withdraw, to not allow the children to testify, and to not admit video exhibits
depicting arguments between the parties. Such decisions are generally within the
discretion of the trial court. See In re Marriage of Ihle, 577 N.W.2d 64, 67 (Iowa
Ct. App. 1998). We presume the rulings are correct and do not disturb them on
appeal unless the court clearly abused its discretion. Glenn v. Carlstrom, 556
N.W.2d 800, 804 (Iowa 1996).
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The district court did not abuse its discretion by allowing the guardian ad
litem to withdraw. The withdrawal followed the guardian ad litem’s appointment as
a district associate judge. In its order, the court stated it would schedule a status
hearing to revisit whether a guardian ad litem or custody evaluator would be
appointed. But that never happened, and Shiela never requested a hearing.
Shiela obtained new counsel after the order and complains her counsel was
unaware that the court neglected to schedule the hearing. She complains that “it
is not the responsibility of a party to ensure that the court submits orders on issues
that have properly raised and litigated.” But that is precisely what our law of error
preservation requires. See, e.g., Meier v. Senecaut, 641 N.W.2d 532, 537 (Iowa
2002) (noting that a motion to enlarge or amend is necessary to preserve error
when the court fails to resolve an issue properly submitted for adjudication).
The court also acted within its discretion in disallowing testimony from the
children. The court must consider the child’s best interests in custody proceedings,
see In re Marriage of Fennelly, 737 N.W.2d 97, 101 (Iowa 2007), which extends to
making determinations as to whether the children should be allowed to testify in
the proceeding, see In re Marriage of Abkes, 460 N.W.2d 184, 186 (Iowa Ct. App.
1990) (noting that it is “within the inherent power of the trial court to protect the
children in [child custody proceedings] and not allow them to testify”). At the time
of trial, one child was seven years old and the other was nine. The court’s
reluctance to have the children testify on the record in the courtroom given their
young ages is reasonable. See Abkes, 460 N.W.2d at 186 (affirming district court’s
refusal to allow children testify in dissolution trial involving child custody “because
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the risk of harm to the young children (ages six and eight) was greater than any
potential benefit from their testimony”).
Finally, the court did not abuse its discretion in ruling on two videos Shiela
sought to admit into evidence. Shiela recorded the videos during verbal
altercations with John. Because the court heard testimony about what occurred
during those arguments, the videos are cumulative evidence that the court could
exclude regardless of its relevance. See Iowa R. Evid. 5.403.
We turn our attention to Shiela’s claim regarding modification of legal
custody. We review the modification order de novo. See Thorpe v. Hostetler, 949
N.W.2d 1, 4 (Iowa Ct. App. 2020). Although they are not binding, we give weight
to the district court’s fact-findings, especially those concerning witness credibility.
See id. at 5. Shiela has the burden of showing modification is in the children’s best
interests based on a substantial change in material circumstances since entry of
the dissolution decree. See id.
Shiela argues changes have occurred since the dissolution that warrant
modifying legal custody. She claims that John harms the children physically and
emotionally by failing to address their medical and educational needs properly, by
refusing to allow them to participate in extracurricular activities, and by denying the
children the ability to contact her by phone. The district court rejected her claims,
noting that neither the children’s family care provider nor therapist expressed
concern about the children’s safety in either parent’s home.
Legal custody refers to the ability to make decisions “affecting the child’s
legal status, medical care, education, extracurricular activities, and religious
instruction.” Iowa Code § 598.1(5) (2018). “The legislature and judiciary of this
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State have adopted a strong policy in favor of joint custody from which courts
should deviate only under the most compelling circumstances.” In re Marriage of
Winnike, 497 N.W.2d 170, 173 (Iowa Ct. App. 1992). Sole legal custody should
only be granted if there is clear and convincing evidence “that joint custody is
unreasonable and not in the best interest of the child to the extent that the legal
custodial relationship between the child and a parent should be severed.” Iowa
Code § 598.41(2)(b).
We agree with the district court that Shiela has failed to show a substantial
change in circumstances sufficient to modify legal custody. The biggest detriment
to the children is the contentious relationship between their parents, to which both
Shiela and John contribute.1 But even this is insufficient to justify modification to
grant either party sole legal custody. “Although cooperation and communication
are essential in joint custody, tension between the parents is not alone sufficient
to demonstrate it will not work.” In re Marriage of Bolin, 336 N.W.2d 441, 446 (Iowa
1983).
[O]ur legislature was aware that in a divorce the parties are generally
not getting along well and a custody contest magnifies the
adversarial nature of the dissolution proceeding. To be significant
enough to justify a denial of joint custody, a lack of ability to
communicate must be something more than the usual acrimony that
accompanies a divorce.
In re Marriage of Ertmann, 376 N.W.2d 918, 920 (Iowa Ct. App. 1985). As the
district court cautioned, both Shiela and John need to work harder to communicate
1 The district court explicitly found John’s testimony to be more credible, finding
“Shiela often overreacted or exaggerated John’s alleged misdeeds and in some
instances manipulated the situation to her advantage.” The court also found that
some of Sheila’s allegations were simply not credible.
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and must “put aside this immaturity and childish ways and learn how to co-parent”
without seeking the court’s intervention. If both fail to heed the court’s warning,
their relationship could devolve to cause the type of harm that requires ending joint
legal custody. Fortunately for the children, the conflict has not yet reached that
point.
Shiela also appeals the dismissal of her contempt action. We review
contempt rulings to determine whether substantial evidence supports the district
court’s judgment. See In re Marriage of Jacobo, 526 N.W.2d 859, 866 (Iowa 1995).
Substantial evidence is evidence that would convince a rational trier of fact. See
id. We are not bound by the district court’s conclusions of law and “exercise
unfettered review of the court’s application of the law.” Id.To succeed in her contempt action, Shiela must show beyond a reasonable
doubt that John willfully violated a court order or decree. See id. She alleges John
did so by failing to pay child support, provide health insurance, allow telephone
contact, take one child to summer school, administer the children’s prescriptions,
and provide appropriate medical care with her prior knowledge. But as to each
allegation, the court found Shiela failed to show John’s willful disobedience. “Our
review is not de novo; the decision of the trial will not be lightly reversed . . . . ”
McDonald v. McDonald, 170 N.W.2d 246, 247 (Iowa 1969). Having reviewed the
evidence and the court’s ruling, we agree that Shiela failed to show John willfully
disobeyed a court order and thus affirm.
Shiela requests an award of appellate attorney fees. Iowa Code section
598.36 gives us discretion to award attorney fees to the prevailing party in a
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modification proceeding. Because Shiela has not prevailed on any of the claims
raised on appeal, we decline her request.
AFFIRMED.