S.M. v. M.P. ( 2017 )


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    15-P-1047                                            Appeals Court
    S.M. & another1   vs.   M.P. & another.2
    No. 15-P-1047.
    Bristol.      April 12, 2016. - July 14, 2017.
    Present:   Green, Trainor, & Milkey, JJ.
    Adoption, Visitation rights. Minor, Adoption, Visitation
    rights. Parent and Child, Adoption. Jurisdiction,
    Juvenile Court, Equitable. Juvenile Court, Jurisdiction.
    Contract, Visitation rights, Condition, Implied covenant of
    good faith and fair dealing.
    Complaint in equity filed in the Bristol County Division of
    the Juvenile Court Department on July 14, 2014.
    The case was heard by Siobhan E. Foley, J.
    Harold N. Robertson for the defendants.
    TRAINOR, J.    The plaintiffs are the biological parents of
    two children whom the defendants have adopted.     At the time the
    plaintiffs (biological parents) surrendered their parental
    1
    G.R.
    2
    J.P.
    2
    rights, they entered into open adoption agreements with the
    defendants (adoptive parents) that allowed for continued
    visitation on certain specified terms.3   After the adoptive
    parents notified the biological parents that they were
    terminating visitation under the agreements, the biological
    parents filed an equity complaint for noncompliance with the
    adoption agreements, seeking their specific performance.
    Following a hearing, a Juvenile Court judge ruled in the
    biological parents' favor, while at the same time ordering them
    to discontinue a particular practice that the adoptive parents
    opposed.    On the adoptive parents' appeal, we vacate the judge's
    order and remand the matter for further proceedings.
    Background.    The older child, Abby,4 was born on June
    2, 2008.    From about two weeks after her birth until thirteen
    months old, she lived with a cousin.    At age thirteen months,
    she was placed with her now parents, who adopted her when she
    was about three and one-half years old.     She has diagnoses of
    fetal alcohol syndrome, neurosensory hearing loss, and anxiety.
    She uses hearing aids; she has had physical therapy and
    occupational therapy services; she is followed by a speech
    therapist; and she has been involved with a counselor at school.
    3
    Although we refer to the defendants as the "adoptive
    parents" for ease of reference, we emphasize that they are now
    the children's legal parents.
    4
    A pseudonym.
    3
    The child was subject to a care and protection petition
    brought by the Department of Children and Families (DCF) in the
    Bristol County Division of the Juvenile Court Department.       That
    matter was ultimately concluded with the biological parents and
    the adoptive parents executing an open adoption agreement.
    On January 1, 2012, the biological parents had a second
    child, Betsy.5    She was born with neonatal abstinence syndrome
    and was hospitalized following birth in the neonatal intensive
    care unit (NICU).       She was placed directly with the adoptive
    parents upon discharge from the NICU, and at no point did the
    biological parents provide care for her.       There was another care
    and protection petition brought by DCF on behalf of this child.
    She was also adopted by the adoptive parents.       Open adoption
    agreements were executed identically for each biological parent,
    which declared the prior agreements to be null and void, became
    the governing agreements for both children, and provided for
    four supervised visits per year.       Because the substantive terms
    of these agreements are identical, we will refer to them as "the
    agreement."
    As pertinent here, the agreement provides that, in the
    event a visit "causes undue stress or anxiety to the Child," the
    adoptive parents "have the sole ability to modify visitation to
    conform to what they believe is in that child's best interest,
    5
    A pseudonym.
    4
    including the ability to terminate the visit."   Further, "[t]he
    visits will be considered unduly stressful if either as a result
    of a visit, or in anticipation of one, the Child demonstrates,
    either verbally or behaviorally, that the visit is detrimental
    to the [child's] welfare."   The agreement also requires the
    biological parents to provide a working telephone number to the
    adoptive parents, and further provides that failure to do so
    "may result in this agreement becoming null and void at the
    discretion of [the adoptive parents]."   Lastly, the agreement
    provides that either party may seek specific performance of its
    terms.
    In June, 2014, the adoptive mother sent the biological
    parents a letter purporting to terminate all future visits.    As
    reasons therefor, she stated that the biological parents had
    failed to provide a working telephone number; they had "failed
    to stop referring to [themselves] as 'mom and dad' as agreed
    upon";6 and the visits were causing "undue stress, anxiety and
    confusion to the children,"7 and thus, "[w]e do not feel that it
    is in the best interest of the children to continue visits."
    6
    The adoptive parents had made this request of the
    biological parents, although it was not made part of the written
    agreement.
    7
    At the hearing below, the adoptive mother testified that
    she believed the visits were causing Abby undue stress because
    "several days" after the visits, she would resume her old habit
    5
    After a hearing on the biological parents' petition for
    specific performance of the agreement, the judge found that
    their failure to provide a telephone number was not a material
    breach of the agreement, and that there was no indication that
    their use of the term "mom and dad" had caused undue stress or
    anxiety to Abby.    The judge issued an order reinstating
    visitation pursuant to the terms of the agreement, and further
    ordering the biological parents to provide a working telephone
    number to the adoptive parents, and to refrain from engaging the
    children in conversation as to their status as biological
    parents.
    On appeal, the adoptive parents allege that the judge erred
    by not following the requirements of G. L. c. 210, §§ 6C-6E
    (statute), which governs the enforcement of an open adoption
    agreement.8    The adoptive parents claim that the judge
    of picking the skin off her fingers and toes, and this behavior
    would resolve several weeks after the visit.
    8
    The adoptive parents state in their brief:
    "Open Adoption Agreements are governed by [G. L.
    c. 210, §§ 6C-6E,] which limit judicial authority over
    their enforcement and preserve the rights of adoptive
    parents to make decisions on behalf of their children."
    The adoptive parents specifically argue in this regard that
    "[t]he court has no authority over conduct in a visit. It
    may modify an agreement only if it finds a change in
    circumstances . . . , which the court expressly did not
    find."
    6
    substituted her judgment for that of the adoptive parents,
    thereby abrogating their statutory and contractual rights.    The
    adoptive parents also claim that the judge erred by finding that
    the biological parents' admitted breach of the provision in the
    agreement requiring them to provide a telephone number was an
    insufficient basis for the adoptive parents to exercise their
    explicit right to terminate visitation based on that breach.    We
    discuss each argument in turn.
    Discussion.   1.    The Juvenile Court's equity powers.   While
    the Juvenile Court Department has jurisdiction in equity in all
    matters arising under the provisions of chapters 119 and 210 of
    the General Laws, see G. L. c. 218, § 59, the sole remedy for
    the breach of a court-approved agreement (an open adoption
    agreement) for postadoption contact is a court order for
    specific performance.   See G. L. c. 210, § 6D; Adoption of
    Tammy, 
    416 Mass. 205
    , 210 (1993) (law of adoption is entirely
    statutory and governing statute must be strictly followed).     See
    also Beloin v. Bullett, 
    310 Mass. 206
    , 210 (1941).   The
    agreement here explicitly mirrors the statute and requires that
    any enforcement of "the agreement [be pursued] by commencing a
    Despite the dissent's contentions to the contrary, the adoptive
    parents are appealing the fact that the judge modified the
    agreement without finding a material and substantial change in
    circumstances. The new prohibition against the biological
    parents referring to themselves as "mom and dad" was never in
    the original agreement.
    7
    civil action for specific performance."9    In addition to the
    unequivocal statutory mandate, the general rule for the exercise
    of equity jurisdiction is that no adequate and complete remedy
    exists at law.10    See Bank of America, N.A. v. Diamond Financial,
    LLC, 
    88 Mass. App. Ct. 564
    , 567 (2015), quoting from Cadigan v.
    Brown, 
    120 Mass. 493
    , 494 (1876) ("Our courts . . . have limited
    even express grants of equitable authority to situations where
    there is no 'plain, adequate and complete remedy at law'").
    The prescribed statutory and contractual procedure mandates
    that "[i]n an enforcement proceeding, the court may modify the
    terms of the agreement if the court finds that there has been a
    material and substantial change in circumstances and the
    modification is necessary in the best interests of the child"
    (emphasis added).    G. L. c. 210, § 6D, inserted by St. 1999,
    c. 3, § 21.   See the similar contract provision in article IV,
    § 3(d) of the agreement.    The Juvenile Court judge correctly
    stated this standard in her findings and noted that "[t]he court
    finds no material and substantial change in circumstances in the
    9
    The court's order was issued pursuant to a petition in
    equity.
    10
    Specific performance is an equitable remedy, but it is
    one that has been fully incorporated into our common law and is
    employed when the common-law remedy is insufficient. See
    Keeton, An Introduction to Equity 241 (Pitman's Equity Series
    6th ed. 1965). Here, the General Court has determined that the
    usual common-law remedy (monetary damages) is inadequate and has
    provided the statutory remedy of specific performance.
    8
    present case."     The judge, however, then modified the terms of
    the agreement by ordering that the biological parents "shall not
    intentionally engage the minor children in conversation as to
    their status as their Biological Parents."
    The fact that the judge did not follow the requirements of
    the statute or the agreement when she modified the agreement
    suggests that she believed that she was exercising her general
    equitable powers.    As we have already observed however, the
    court's general equitable powers are not available for use in
    matters controlled by the provisions of G. L. c. 210, §§ 6C &
    6D, or in contradiction of the applicable and specific contract
    provisions.   Equity cannot be used when there is a prescribed
    and adequate remedy at law.     See Bank of America, N.A., 88 Mass.
    App. Ct. at 567.    Instead, the judge must follow the
    requirements of the statute and the agreement.     As we have
    observed, under the statute the judge's ability to modify the
    terms of the agreement rests on her finding of a material and
    substantial change in circumstances.11    However, the judge made
    11
    The judge heard the adoptive mother's testimony that she
    believed that an oral agreement existed, whereby the biological
    parents agreed not to refer to themselves as "mom and dad," and
    that such agreement was subsequently breached. Certainly, the
    judge could, within her discretion, find that the biological
    parents' persistent references to themselves as "mom and dad,"
    in breach of an oral agreement not to do so, constituted a
    material and substantial change in circumstances, if she
    considered the evidence of the agreement and its breach to be
    both probative and credible.
    9
    no such finding here.12   Therefore, the judge's order must be
    vacated and the matter remanded to the Juvenile Court.      This
    will afford the judge the opportunity to comply with the
    controlling provisions of the statute and the agreement by
    entering the appropriate findings and an order of modification
    if "a material and substantial change of circumstances" is
    found, and the judge determines that "the modification is
    necessary in the best interests of the child[ren]."
    2.   Discretion to terminate visitation.   Under the
    agreement, the adoptive parents and the biological parents had
    12
    The only limitation on the court's power to modify an
    agreement is that it cannot "expand, enlarge or increase the
    amount of contact between the birth parents and the child or
    place new obligations on adoptive parents." G. L. c. 210, § 6D.
    See the similar provision in article IV, § 3(d) of the
    agreement. There are no other limitations to a modification in
    either the statute or the agreement, except that any
    modification be determined to be in the child's best interest.
    In addition, the adoptive parents' determination that the
    biological parents should no longer discuss or refer to
    themselves as the children's biological parents could be based
    on the provisions of G. L. c. 210, § 6E. Section 6E, inserted
    by St. 1999, c. 3, § 21, states:
    "Nothing contained in sections 6C and 6D shall be construed
    to abrogate the right of an adoptive parent to make
    decisions on behalf of his child."
    "None of the words of a statute is to be regarded as
    superfluous, but each is to be given its ordinary meaning
    without overemphasizing its effect upon the other terms
    appearing in the statute." Commonwealth v. Woods Hole, Martha's
    Vineyard & Nantucket S.S. Authy., 
    352 Mass. 617
    , 618 (1967),
    quoting from Bolster v. Commissioner of Corps. & Taxn., 
    319 Mass. 81
    , 84-85 (1946).
    10
    agreed that "[the adoptive parents] or their designated agent
    (visitation center staff or monitor) retain[] sole discretion to
    terminate the visit if it is determined that either one of the
    Child(ren) is suffering from undue stress or anxiety either due
    to the actions or behavior of the biological parent or due to
    the Child[ren]'s special needs emotionally and/or medically."
    The agreement further states, "In the event that a visit with
    [the biological parent] causes undue stress or anxiety to the
    child[ren], [the adoptive parents] have the sole ability to
    modify visitation to conform to what they believe is in that
    child's best interest, including the ability to terminate the
    visit."
    When a party to a contract is given sole discretionary
    power as to the occurrence of a condition, the exercise of such
    right is measured by whether the party has acted honestly and in
    good faith.   See 1A Corbin, Contracts § 165, at 86-87 (1963)
    ("Even if the promisor is himself to be the judge of the cause
    or condition [in a contract], he must use good faith and an
    honest judgment").   See also Murach v. Massachusetts Bonding &
    Ins. Co., 
    339 Mass. 184
    , 187 (1959) (insurer must exercise
    discretionary power to settle claims in good faith).
    Similar to a contract in which the promisor agrees to
    perform on the condition that the promisor is personally
    satisfied, the occurrence of the condition present in this case,
    11
    as to the adoptive parents' ability to modify the children's
    visitation with the biological parents, "is dependent on the
    . . . individual judgment of [the adoptive parents as] the party
    to be satisfied."      2 Corbin, Contracts § 31.8, at 102 (rev. ed.
    fall supp. 2016).13     In circumstances where a promise is
    conditioned solely on one party's personal satisfaction, the
    promisor's determination "even on the witness stand, is not
    conclusive."   2 Corbin, Contracts § 5.33, at 187 (rev. ed.
    1995).    Instead, "the promisor is subject to the requirement of
    good faith."   Ibid.    See 2 Corbin, Contracts § 5.32, at 177 n.5
    (rev. ed. 1995), citing California Lettuce Growers v. Union
    Sugar Co., 
    45 Cal. 2d 474
     (1955) ("[W]here a contract confers on
    one party a discretionary power affecting the rights of the
    other, a duty is imposed to exercise that discretion in good
    faith and in accordance with fair dealing"); 8 Corbin, Contracts
    § 31.8, at 102 (rev. ed. fall supp. 2016) ("[T]he party's
    dissatisfaction cannot be given in bad faith, dishonestly,
    insincerely, or fraudulently").
    13
    Where, as here, parties expressly agree that a condition
    is determined solely by one party's personal satisfaction, good
    faith measures that party's determination, and "the
    reasonableness or justice of the party's dissatisfaction cannot
    be questioned." 8 Corbin, Contracts § 31.8, at 102 (rev. ed.
    fall supp. 2016). In contrast, when a contract requires that a
    condition be determined by one party based on objective
    standards, the reasonableness of the determinant's decision is
    considered. See 2 Corbin, Contracts § 5.33 (rev. ed. 1995).
    12
    The agreement provides that the adoptive parents "retain[]
    sole discretion to terminate the visit[ation] if it is
    determined that either one of the Child(ren) is suffering from
    undue stress or anxiety."   The adoptive parents have the sole
    ability to modify visitation to what they believe is in the
    child's best interest and, in making this determination, they
    "shall rely upon the input and observations made by the
    person(s) supervising the visit."   The agreement further
    provides that "[the adoptive parents] or their designated agent
    . . . retains sole discretion to terminate the visit[ation] if
    it is determined that either . . . child[] is suffering from
    undue stress or anxiety" (emphasis added).   The particular party
    supervising the visit is given the sole discretion to make that
    determination.   But here, where Abby's symptoms manifested
    themselves after the actual visits, the adoptive parents
    retained the sole discretion to make that determination.
    The adoptive parents' sole discretionary power is also
    similar to an option to terminate14 that is contractually
    provided to a party when "supervening events or new information
    makes the original bargain unsatisfactory to the holder of the
    14
    "The 'option to terminate' is a common method of
    producing a result very similar to that produced by making a
    promise conditional on personal satisfaction." 2 Corbin,
    Contracts § 6.10, at 291 (rev. ed. 1995). "The party having the
    power can . . . observ[e] results as performance of the contract
    proceeds and terminat[e] the contract if these results are not
    found to be satisfactory." Ibid.
    13
    power."   2 Corbin, Contracts § 6.10, at 291 (rev. ed. 1995).
    Here, the adoptive parents have the discretionary right to
    modify or terminate, if they so desire, the biological parents'
    visitation with the children if such visitation causes the
    children undue anxiety or stress.15   See ibid. ("[T]he . . .
    'option to terminate' is not generally made conditional upon
    dissatisfaction with the results[;] [i]t is a power to terminate
    [the contract] if the contractor so wills and desires").
    However, a party may not exercise its power to terminate a
    contract without exercising such discretion in good faith.      See
    2 Corbin, Contracts § 6.14 (rev. ed. 1995).
    Therefore, the judge's review, upon remand, should be
    primarily focused on, and limited to, a determination of whether
    the adoptive parents exercised their sole discretion to
    terminate the children's visitation with the biological parents
    honestly and in good faith.
    "[E]very contract in Massachusetts is subject to an implied
    covenant of good faith and fair dealing."     Robert & Ardis James
    Foundation v. Meyers, 
    474 Mass. 181
    , 188 (2016).    Here, the
    judge, as the finder of fact, must make an explicit
    15
    While the adoptive parents have an option to terminate
    merely visitation, and not the agreement, under these
    provisions, they also possess the discretionary right to
    terminate the agreement upon a separate condition, if the
    biological parents fail "to provide [the adoptive parents] with
    a current address and working telephone number at all times."
    14
    determination as to whether the adoptive parents exercised their
    discretion in good faith.    See Bay Colony R.R. v. Yarmouth, 
    470 Mass. 515
    , 524 (2015) (jury reasonably concluded party failed to
    act in good faith under contract).    See also 2 Corbin, Contracts
    § 5.33, at 187 (rev. ed. 1995) ("[T]he honesty of the promisor's
    assertions and testimony [as to his personal satisfaction] is a
    matter of fact to be determined by the trier of fact").    In
    determining whether a party has breached the implied covenant of
    good faith and fair dealing, the judge may "look to the party's
    manner of performance."     Weiler v. PortfolioScope, Inc., 
    469 Mass. 75
    , 82 (2014), quoting from T.W. Nickerson, Inc. v. Fleet
    Natl. Bank, 
    456 Mass. 562
    , 570 (2010).16    While "[t]here is no
    requirement that bad faith be shown . . . [t]he lack of good
    faith can be inferred from the totality of the circumstances."
    Weiler, supra, quoting from T.W. Nickerson, Inc., 
    supra.
    When considering whether the implied covenant of good faith
    and fair dealing was violated in the context of one party's
    discretion as the sole determinant of a condition, the Supreme
    Judicial Court has held that, in the totality of the
    circumstances, there was no breach where the party acted in good
    faith within its sole discretion as provided by the terms in the
    16
    "[In Massachusetts,] [t]here is a presumption that all
    parties act in good faith, and the plaintiff bears the burden of
    presenting evidence of bad faith or an absence of good faith."
    T.W. Nickerson, Inc. v. Fleet Natl. Bank, 
    supra at 574
    , citing
    23 Williston, Contracts § 63.22, at 507 (Lord 4th ed. 2002).
    15
    contract.   See Eigerman v. Putnam Invs., Inc., 
    450 Mass. 281
    ,
    287-290 (2007).   "[T]he implied covenant of good faith and fair
    dealing cannot create rights and duties that are not already
    present in the contractual relationship."    
    Id. at 289
    .   See
    Merriam v. Demoulas Super Mkts., Inc., 
    464 Mass. 721
    , 731
    (2013), quoting from Uno Restaurants, Inc. v. Boston Kenmore
    Realty Corp., 
    441 Mass. 376
    , 386 (2004) (stating that covenant
    does not "provide[] a specific form of protection that is not
    mentioned in the parties' contract").   Thus, the judge must look
    to the duties and terms provided in the agreement when
    determining whether the adoptive parents' discretionary action
    was within the scope of the covenant of good faith and fair
    dealing.    See Eigerman, supra ("The covenant concerns the manner
    in which existing contractual duties are performed"); 2 Corbin,
    Contracts § 6.10, at 295 (rev. ed. 1995) ("The extent of the
    reserved power [to terminate a contract] depends upon the
    expressions in the agreement and the reasonable implications to
    be drawn therefrom").
    Further, a party breaches the covenant of good faith and
    fair dealing when the party exceeds its contractual discretion
    or uses its discretionary power in a pretextual manner.    See
    Anthony's Pier Four, Inc. v. HBC Assocs., 
    411 Mass. 451
    , 473
    (1991) (party's use of discretionary right as pretext justified
    judge's finding of breach of good faith and fair dealing);
    16
    Robert & Ardis James Foundation, 474 Mass. at 191 (breaching
    party "had taken an extreme and unwarranted view of his rights
    under the contract").    The party may also be in breach of the
    covenant of good faith and fair dealing as a result of the
    party's motivations.    See T.W. Nickerson, Inc., 
    456 Mass. at 574
    (looking to whether party's motive was "to affect negatively the
    plaintiff's rights" under the contract); Weiler, 469 Mass. at 84
    (considering party's desire to enrich another at expense of
    plaintiff in determining breach of covenant of good faith and
    fair dealing).
    In viewing the totality of the circumstances and terms
    provided by the adoption agreement, the judge may review not
    only the adoptive mother's testimony, but also, to the extent
    appropriate, the conclusions of the guardian ad litem (GAL) and
    the assigned supervisor's notes in determining whether the
    adoptive parents exercised good faith in making their
    discretionary determination.17   Paragraph 13 of the agreement
    clearly states that the adoptive parents maintain "the sole
    ability to modify visitation to conform to what they believe is
    in th[e] child's best interest" (emphasis added).    In making
    this determination they shall rely upon input and observations
    17
    We note, however, that little, if any of these
    conclusions and notes may be probative of the adoptive parents'
    good faith because Abby's concerning behavior occurred after the
    visits, outside of the GAL and the visit supervisor's
    observation.
    17
    made by the person supervising the visit.18    The judge may
    consider, therefore, the GAL's conclusions and the assigned
    supervisors' observations only when determining if the adoptive
    parents' discretionary decision to terminate the children's
    visitation with the biological parents was made in good faith.
    See Uno Restaurants, Inc., 441 Mass. at 385 ("[T]he purpose of
    the covenant [of good faith and fair dealing] is to guarantee
    that the parties remain faithful to the intended and agreed
    expectations of the parties in their performance"); Eigerman,
    450 Mass. at 289 (scope of breach of covenant of good faith and
    fair dealing is within contract).
    3.    Contact information requirement.   Finally, paragraph 25
    of the agreement states that "[f]ailure on the part of [the
    biological parents] to provide [the adoptive parents] with a
    current address and working telephone number at all times may
    result in this agreement becoming null and void at the
    discretion of [the adoptive parents]."    This language is
    sufficient to create an express condition, which means, simply
    18
    Paragraph 13 of the agreement reads in its entirety:
    "In the event that a visit with [the biological parent]
    causes undue stress or anxiety to the Child, [the adoptive
    parents] have the sole ability to modify visitation to
    conform to what they believe is in that child's best
    interest, including the ability to terminate the visit. In
    making this determination, [the adoptive parents] shall
    rely upon the input and observations made by the person(s)
    supervising the visit."
    18
    stated, that in the event that the plaintiffs fail to provide a
    working telephone number at all times, the adoptive parents, in
    their discretion, may terminate the agreement.19
    Even if we were to determine that this provision was not an
    express condition and that the manner of enforcing the condition
    was discretionary (a question we do not decide), the exercise of
    the adoptive parents' subjective discretion would have
    appropriate limitations in contract law.   The covenant of good
    faith and fair dealing would be applicable in such a situation.
    "Where a party to a contract makes the manner of its performance
    a matter of its own discretion, the law does not hesitate to
    imply the proviso that such discretion be exercised honestly and
    in good faith.   See 3A Corbin, Contracts, § 644, pp 78-84."
    Burkhardt v. City Natl. Bank of Detroit, 
    57 Mich. App. 649
    , 652
    (1975).   See McAdams v. Massachusetts Mut. Life Ins. Co., 
    391 F.3d 287
    , 301-302 (1st Cir. 2004); Restatement (Second) of
    Contracts § 205 (1981).
    There is no burden upon the adoptive parents to show harm
    in order to enforce such a contract provision.     In theory, the
    adoptive parents were only attempting to exercise the explicit
    right that they, and the biological parents, freely bargained
    19
    See Restatement (Second) of Contracts § 226 comment a, at
    170 (1981) ("No particular form of language is necessary to make
    an event a condition").
    19
    for in the contract.20    Having said that, however, the judge
    concluded that it was inappropriate, in these circumstances, to
    terminate the agreement because the biological parents' failure
    to provide a working telephone number was not an intentional
    act.21    We agree, but for a different reason.   The adoptive
    parents had acquiesced in this failure for almost a year while
    communicating solely by written correspondence.     A contract
    condition can be waived by continuing to perform or to receive
    performance from the other party if there is knowledge that the
    condition has not been performed.    8 Corbin, Contracts § 40.4
    (rev. ed. 1999).    The judge correctly deemed this provision to
    have been waived.    See KACT, Inc. v. Rubin, 
    62 Mass. App. Ct. 689
    , 695 (2004), quoting from Attorney Gen. v. Industrial Natl.
    Bank, 
    380 Mass. 533
    , 536 n.4 (1980) ("Waiver may occur by an
    express and affirmative act, or may be inferred by a party's
    20
    The judge found:
    "The Open Adoption Agreement was entered into by the
    parties freely, voluntarily and with a free understanding
    of the consequences. It was a valid contract between the
    parties. The Court notes all parties were represented by
    counsel at the signing of the contract."
    21
    The judge credited the biological mother's statement that
    it was an accidental oversight on her part to not provide a
    current telephone number. But see Restatement (Second) of
    Contracts § 225 comment e, at 169 (1981) ("Ignorance immaterial.
    The rules stated in this Section apply without regard to whether
    a party knows or does not know of the non-occurrence of a
    condition of his duty").
    20
    conduct, where the conduct is 'consistent with and indicative of
    an intent to relinquish voluntarily a particular right [such]
    that no other reasonable explanation of [the] conduct is
    possible'").   The judge, appropriately, drew no negative
    inferences against the adoptive parents; nor did she impugn
    their motives.    The judge, also appropriately, reinstated (or
    retained) the agreement's requirement of providing a working
    telephone number, including the provision for the potential
    negative consequences of failing to do so.
    Conclusion.    The judge's order is vacated and the matter is
    remanded to the Juvenile Court for further proceedings
    consistent with this opinion.     The judge must follow the
    requirements of the relevant statutes, applicable provisions of
    the agreement, and our common law as related to contract
    interpretation and enforcement.    Finally, the judge should
    consider whatever evidence is probative, and necessary, to
    determine whether the adoptive parents acted honestly and in
    good faith in terminating the agreement.     Pending final
    disposition, the judge may make such temporary orders for
    continued visitation as she may deem appropriate.
    So ordered.
    MILKEY, J. (dissenting).   By today's ruling, we are
    displacing the Juvenile Court judge's thoughtful resolution of a
    challenging controversy with a problematic remand that is almost
    certain to please no one.   Because I view that disposition as
    neither necessary nor appropriate, I respectfully dissent.
    Although the judge rejected the adoptive parents' argument
    that they had present cause to terminate the open adoption
    agreement, she agreed with them that it was their right to make
    "[t]he decision of when and how this information [regarding the
    biological parents' status] is to be conveyed to these children
    . . .."1   She therefore enjoined the biological parents from
    making such references going forward.   In this manner, the judge
    thoughtfully sought to forge a solution that directly would
    address the adoptive parents' concerns, while still allowing the
    biological parents the visitation rights that all parties
    contemplated in their agreement.   This resolution brought the
    parties to a point of stasis.   If the biological parents abided
    by the injunction so as not to engage in the behavior that the
    adoptive parents identified as the source of their daughter's
    stress, problem solved.   If they did not conform their behavior
    1
    I follow the majority's lead of referring to the
    defendants as "adoptive parents" for ease of reference, while
    emphasizing that they now are the children's only legal parents.
    It bears noting, however, that at the point in time when they
    committed to allow visitation, the defendants were not the
    children's parents (adoptive or otherwise).
    2
    as required, the adoptive parents had multiple remedies
    available to them.    Notably, the judge achieved this resolution
    while deftly sidestepping having to engage in inherently
    intrusive inquiries into the adoptive parents' motives.
    Two years have now passed with that Solomonic resolution in
    place.    As the adoptive parents confirmed at oral argument,
    because the judge's order was not stayed, the regular visits
    between the children and the biological parents have continued
    in the interim.    Now, we are upending the equilibrium that the
    judge achieved.    And to make matters worse, we are doing so in a
    way that maximizes judicial meddling with the parent-child
    relationship.
    1.   Propriety of the injunctive relief against the
    biological parents.    The majority remands this case in great
    part because of its ruling that the judge erred when she ordered
    the biological parents not to refer to their status in front of
    the children.    According to the majority, the judge could have
    granted such relief only through a modification of the adoption
    agreement, which could have been done only if the judge had
    found a material and substantial change in circumstances.       The
    judge erred, the theory goes, by effectively modifying the
    agreement even though she found no such change in circumstances.2
    2
    The judge expressly found "no material and substantial
    change in circumstances in the present case." It is not clear
    3
    The majority's conclusion that the judge's remedial options were
    limited in this manner, in turn, depends on its legal premise
    that the specific legislative parameters of G. L. c. 210, § 6D,
    effectively ousted the general equity jurisdiction that Juvenile
    Court judges otherwise enjoy pursuant to G. L. c. 218, § 59.
    That conclusion is the centerpiece of the majority's opinion.
    For the reasons it states, the majority may well be correct
    that it would have been more proper for the judge to invoke
    § 6D, the modification provision of c. 210, as the basis for
    issuing the injunctive relief against the biological parents.
    But see Adoption of Vito, 
    431 Mass. 550
    , 560-561 (2000)
    (rejecting the argument that by enacting the open adoption
    agreement statute, the Legislature intended to prohibit judges
    from using their equitable power to order postadoption
    visitation where the parties had not entered into such an
    agreement).   My quarrel is not with the majority's substantive
    conclusion on this point of law, but instead with its reaching
    the issue at all in the present posture of this case.
    The injunctive relief requiring the biological parents to
    change their behavior was in the adoptive parents' favor;
    indeed, it gave the adoptive parents precisely what they
    why the judge felt the need to address this issue where neither
    side requested a modification of the agreement. In any event,
    it appears that in issuing the injunctive relief against the
    biological parents, the judge believed she was exercising
    general equitable powers, not adding a term to the agreement.
    4
    originally had sought.     The biological parents have not filed
    any cross appeal challenging the propriety of the injunctive
    relief entered against them, and the issue therefore, at a
    minimum, is not squarely presented.    To be sure, the adoptive
    parents did touch on the issue in their appellate brief,3 but
    neither they nor the biological parents have adequately briefed
    it.4   Accordingly, we should not be reaching this issue in the
    current appeal.    See Phillips v. Youth Dev. Program, Inc., 
    390 Mass. 652
    , 660 (1983) (recognizing that important legal
    questions "should not be resolved on an argument raised as an
    afterthought and not fully briefed on both sides").    See also
    Lee v. Mt. Ivy Press, L.P., 
    63 Mass. App. Ct. 538
    , 560 (2005),
    citing Mass.R.A.P. 16(a)(4), as amended, 
    367 Mass. 921
     (1975)
    (where a party devoted only one paragraph of a sixty-five page
    brief to an issue and included no citations, that issue was
    waived).
    Nor is the resolution of that issue likely to make any
    difference in this case.    There are ample grounds on which the
    3
    Although the relevant portion of the adoptive parents'
    brief is short and cryptic, they appear to be saying that the
    judge herself had a problem with the biological parents' conduct
    and resolved that problem only through an improper means.
    4
    The adoptive parents addressed the propriety of the
    injunction against the biological parents only in passing. The
    biological parents, who are now representing themselves, did not
    file any brief.
    5
    judge could have found a material and substantial change in
    circumstances -- as the majority itself appears to acknowledge
    -- and therefore the judge in any event could have ordered the
    injunctive relief that she did.5    Once she focuses on that issue
    in the remand, I have little doubt that she will follow that
    path.
    In sum, where the issue has not squarely been raised or
    adequately briefed, and it may not ultimately make any
    difference, our choosing to expound on it in the current appeal
    is improvident at best.     Having explained why I would not have
    reached the propriety of the injunctive relief issued against
    the biological parents, I turn now to my differences with the
    other possible justifications for a remand.
    2.    Undue stress.   Abby6 long has suffered from profound
    anxiety.    The adoptive parents' concern over that issue and
    their efforts to address it are highly laudable, and a testament
    to the love they have for their daughter.     Moreover, I certainly
    agree that if the adoptive parents had demonstrated that the
    biological parents' actions during the visits was the cause of
    5
    Thus, the Juvenile Court plainly had jurisdiction to issue
    its order; the only question is whether it had to do so as a
    modification of the adoption agreement. Accordingly, our
    reaching an issue not properly presented cannot be justified on
    the theory that it goes to the trial court's subject matter
    jurisdiction.
    6
    A pseudonym.
    6
    Abby's behavior, as the adoptive mother testified, they would be
    within their rights to take action, including through
    termination of the visitation.7   However, nothing in the language
    of the adoption agreement relieves the adoptive parents of the
    obligation to demonstrate objectively a threshold connection
    between the anxious behaviors that Abby exhibited and the
    actions of the biological parents.    Rather, the agreement states
    that "[i]n the event that" a visit is causing undue stress, the
    adoptive parents have the "sole ability" to modify visitation as
    they see fit to remedy that stress.   Contrary to what the
    majority states, the agreement does not by its terms grant the
    adoptive parents the "sole ability" to determine the threshold
    question whether the visits are causing such stress.    Nor does
    7
    The agreement expressly provides that if a visit is
    causing either child "undue stress," the adoptive parents "have
    the sole ability to modify visitation to conform to what they
    believe is in that child's best interest, including the ability
    to terminate the visit." Strictly speaking, these provisions
    speak in terms of the adoptive parents' ability to terminate
    individual visits, not in terms of terminating the agreement.
    However, mindful that we are to interpret the rights provided to
    biological parents by open adoption agreements narrowly in favor
    of upholding the rights of the children's legal parents, see
    G. L. c. 210, § 6E, I agree with the adoptive parents that -- in
    appropriate circumstances -- they could rely on the undue stress
    provisions as a basis for terminating all visitation with the
    affected child going forward. It does not follow, as the
    adoptive parents appear to assume, that if visitation is fully
    terminated to address the particular sensitivities of one child,
    then they automatically can terminate any visitation with
    respect to the other child. Given how she ruled, the judge had
    no occasion to consider how the relevant language of the
    agreement would apply with respect to that issue.
    7
    anything in the agreement imply that the adoptive parents have
    unreviewable discretion to determine whether visitation is
    causing the children undue stress.   In fact, to the contrary,
    other provisions in the agreement demonstrate that the adoptive
    parents do not have unfettered discretion to terminate
    visitation based on unsupported allegations that the visits are
    causing stress.8
    In addition, it is important to keep in mind the over-all
    context in which the question before us arises.   Before the
    adoptions here were finalized (that is, at a time when the
    adoptive parents had no legal relationship with the children),
    the adoptive parents legally committed to allowing quarterly
    visits to go forward so long as the visits were not causing the
    children undue stress (and the biological parents otherwise were
    complying with the agreement's terms).   In this context, it is
    not reasonable to conclude that the biological parents agreed --
    in the absence of express language to that effect -- that their
    bargained-for rights to visit the children could be terminated
    8
    For example, to the extent that the asserted stress is
    grounded in behaviors that the children exhibit during the
    visits, the agreement expressly provides that in determining
    what remedial measures should be taken, the adoptive parents
    "shall rely upon the input and observations made by the
    person(s) supervising the visit." Although this provision is
    not implicated here (since, by all third party reports, the
    visits themselves went remarkably well), its existence undercuts
    the adoptive parents' assertion that they had unreviewable
    discretion.
    8
    permanently based on a mere assertion by the adoptive parents
    that the visits were causing the children undue stress.   See
    Downer & Co., LLC v. STI Holding, Inc., 
    76 Mass. App. Ct. 786
    ,
    797 (2010) (contracts are to be interpreted to fulfil "the
    reasonable expectation of the parties when they entered into the
    contract").   It follows that the adoptive parents' contention
    that the biological parents' behavior was causing the skin
    picking was not insulated from judicial review.
    As the plaintiffs in a specific performance action, the
    biological parents had the burden of proving the existence of
    the agreement and the adoptive parents' refusal to comply with
    its nominal terms.   However, whether the agreement properly had
    been terminated was an affirmative defense on which the adoptive
    parents bore the burden of proof.   See generally Patriot Power,
    LLC v. New Rounder, LLC, 
    91 Mass. App. Ct. 175
    , 179-180 (2017).
    The judge's findings directly address whether they met their
    burden of proof regarding undue stress.   As she found, and the
    adoptive parents do not contest, "[t]here have been no reports
    made by the children to a licensed clinical social worker or
    other professional relative to stress or anxiety as a result of
    visits with the Biological Parents."   In fact, the hearing
    documented that while the visits between the children and the
    9
    biological parents went extremely well,9 Abby gave no indication
    that she saw the biological parents as anything more than
    occasional playmates or that she was confused about who her
    parents were.10   As to the adoptive parents' claims that the
    visits were causing Abby's skin picking, the judge stated:      "At
    the present time, this Court does not find a sufficient nexus
    between [Abby's] behaviors and statements attributed to [the
    biological mother]."   Thus, the judge expressly found that the
    adoptive parents had not met their burden to provide sufficient
    proof that it was the biological parents' behavior during the
    visits that was causing Abby undue stress.
    9
    For example, the court-appointed guardian ad litem (GAL) -
    - whose conclusions the judge expressly credited -- reported
    that the visit she observed between the children and the
    biological parents was "one of the best visits [she had] ever
    seen" in her thirty-eight-year career, and she emphatically
    concluded that continued visitation remained in the children's
    best interests. The adoptive parents appear to fault the GAL
    for failing to look into whether Abby was exhibiting stress
    related to the visits outside of the visits themselves.
    However, the GAL was not asked to examine that issue, something
    that is hardly surprising given that the adoptive mother raised
    it for the first time at the evidentiary hearing before the
    judge.
    10
    The adoptive mother herself testified that Abby
    "understands that I'm her mother and [the adoptive father] is
    her father," and that the biological mother was merely "a friend
    that she plays with." In addition, the GAL testified that six
    year olds such as Abby "know the people who take care of them
    every day as mommy and daddy," and that Abby had "never
    indicated . . . that she had any type of familial relationship
    with the [biological parents]," but instead knew them only as
    people who "were fun and she played with them and she had seen
    them periodically."
    10
    In fact, a close examination of the proof that the adoptive
    parents put forward demonstrates just how thin it was.   The
    adoptive mother laid out the basis for her belief that the
    visits were causing Abby undue stress for the first time at the
    hearing.   Specifically, she testified that "several days" after
    the visits, Abby would resume her old habit of picking the skin
    off her fingers and toes, and that this behavior would resolve
    prior to the next quarterly visit.   Based on this timing, the
    adoptive mother attributed Abby's behavior to the visits causing
    her undue stress.   Her specific concern was that the biological
    parents' references to themselves as "mom and dad" were causing
    such stress.11
    Thus, the adoptive parents' proof of a causal nexus was
    based exclusively on observations that Abby resumed her skin
    picking several days after the visits and stopped it at some
    unspecified time before the next quarterly visit.   Our case law
    recognizes the difficulties incumbent in trying to use gross
    temporal associations to prove what may be causing emotional
    distress in a child.   See Guardianship of Yushiko, 50 Mass. App.
    11
    The adoptive mother admitted in her testimony that, prior
    to the hearing, she never had raised the skin picking behavior
    as a reason for her concern about the visits. The biological
    mother addressed the fact that she was unaware of the skin
    picking concerns in her pro se closing argument. Although she
    denied that any actions she took had caused Abby to exhibit such
    behavior, she indicated that had she been made aware of it,
    "[w]e would have [taken] precautions."
    11
    Ct. 157, 159 (2000).   In Yushiko, we rejected a trial court
    finding that the child in question "experienced stuttering
    problems and physical manifestations of emotional upset upon her
    return from visitation with her father and that those episodes
    occurred more frequently prior to the [child's] move to Florida
    [with her guardians]."   As we explained,
    "[T]here is nothing in the evidence to suggest that the
    emotional distress experienced by the child after visits
    with her father was caused by those visits rather than the
    child's anxiety over the move to Florida. Nor was there
    evidence that the return to her father would cause the
    child severe emotional trauma."
    Ibid.12   Here, the judge was well within the bounds of her
    authority to conclude that the adoptive parents' proof was not
    sufficient to meet their burden.   Because her findings are not
    clearly erroneous, we are bound by them, and we should be
    affirming her ruling on that ground.
    None of this is to say that I take issue with the
    majority's point that the judge could have rejected the adoptive
    parents' claims if she found they were put forward in bad faith.
    I certainly agree with that proposition.    However, an inquiry
    into whether a parent is acting in good faith should be a last
    resort given the extent to which this mode of inquiry meddles
    12
    It bears noting that in other contexts, proof of medical
    causation "generally must be established by expert testimony."
    Harlow v. Chin, 
    405 Mass. 697
    , 702 (1989) (medical malpractice).
    I do not think expert proof is necessarily required in the
    context of the case before us, but more proof than what the
    adoptive parents offered is.
    12
    with the parent-child relationship.    See Adoption of Vito, 431
    Mass. at 565 (cautioning judges against "meddling in the child's
    and adoptive family's life").   In fact, I cannot imagine
    anything more intrusive to the parent-child relationship than a
    searching inquiry into such questions as whether the adoptive
    parents sought to terminate visitation here not because it was
    going badly, but because it was going so well.    In my view, the
    judge appropriately resolved the dispute before her without
    questioning the adoptive parents' honesty and good faith.    She
    recognized that regardless of whether the adoptive mother
    honestly believed that the biological mother's references led
    Abby to pick her skin, this does not mean that such a belief
    actually was founded.   Simply put, the judge understood that a
    good faith belief that a causal link exists does not equate to
    adequate proof of it.
    3.    Absent telephone number.    I turn now to the remaining
    claim that the adoptive parents raised, namely the biological
    parents' temporary failure to provide a working telephone
    number.   It is undisputed that the agreement required the
    biological parents to provide such a number and that the
    biological parents had not complied with this provision at the
    point that the adoptive parents purported to terminate all
    visitation.   However, the judge found -- and the adoptive
    parents do not contest -- that the parties, historically, had
    13
    always communicated by mail without incident.   It is undisputed
    that the adoptive parents never asked for the missing telephone
    number, and the judge found that the biological parents promptly
    would have cured their omission had the adoptive parents called
    it to their attention.   Indeed, other than pointing out that
    they had to confirm the visits directly with the visitation
    center and not with the biological parents, the adoptive parents
    were unable to articulate -- either at the hearing in the court
    below or in the argument before us -- how the missing telephone
    number caused them or their children any problem whatsoever.
    Citing to the Restatement (Second) of Contracts, the judge
    ruled that the biological parents' failure to provide a working
    telephone number was an "oversight" that was too inconsequential
    to preclude them from seeking specific performance of the
    agreement.13   To the extent that the majority concludes that the
    judge's analysis skirts over the fact that the agreement
    expressly grants them discretion to determine the agreement
    "null and void" based on the biological parents' failure to
    supply contact information, I agree.
    The majority concludes that the judge's rejection of this
    ground should nevertheless be affirmed based on acquiescence.
    13
    The judge cited the Restatement (Second) of Contracts for
    the five "significan[t]" factors that determine whether a given
    breach is material. See Restatement (Second) of Contracts
    § 241, at 237 (1981): "Circumstances Significant in Determining
    Whether a Failure is Material."
    14
    See generally KACT, Inc. v. Rubin, 
    62 Mass. App. Ct. 689
    , 695
    (2004).   Passing over whether such analysis necessarily is
    correct, I add that we could uphold what the judge did with
    respect to the telephone number issue on a separate ground.     The
    adoptive parents acknowledge that their effort to declare the
    agreement null and void is not immune from all judicial review.14
    See Computer Sys. of America, Inc. v. Western Reserve Life
    Assur. Co., 
    19 Mass. App. Ct. 430
    , 437 & n.11 (1985), citing
    Chandler, Gardener & Williams, Inc. v. Reynolds, 
    250 Mass. 309
    ,
    314 (1924) (although a contract for the lease of certain
    equipment expressly entitled one party to terminate the
    agreement if it determined, in its "sole judgment," that the
    equipment had become obsolete, that provision still "must be
    exercised . . . in a reasonable and honest fashion").   See also
    Anthony's Pier Four, Inc. v. HBC Assocs., 
    411 Mass. 451
    , 473
    (1991) (party's "use of a discretionary right under the
    agreements as a pretext justifies the judge's ruling that [it]
    breached the covenant of good faith and fair dealing").
    The judge recognized that the adoptive parents purported to
    deprive the biological parents of their bargained-for visitation
    rights based on the missing telephone number even though the
    14
    The adoptive parents suggest that their decision could be
    reviewed either for bad faith or for "an abuse of discretion."
    As to the latter, it would not be appropriate to graft that
    administrative law standard of review onto an action involving
    the exercise of discretion under a private contract.
    15
    biological parents' lapse in this regard had no material
    consequence for them.     Because the judge believed that the
    telephone number issue could be resolved in the biological
    parents' favor on other grounds, she did not directly address
    whether the adoptive parents' purporting to declare the
    agreement null and void on this ground was pretextual.
    Nevertheless, that conclusion flows from the findings that the
    judge did make:     if someone is unable to offer any justification
    for taking an action on a particular ground, then she must have
    pursued that action for a different reason.     I emphasize that I
    accept that the adoptive parents honestly believed that
    termination of visitation was in their children's best
    interests, and I am not suggesting that they acted in bad faith
    in that sense.     However, on the facts of this case, it is
    inescapable that the missing telephone number issue was not the
    real reason they were seeking to terminate the agreement.       A
    remand is unnecessary to resolve that issue (regardless of
    whether acquiescence by itself suffices).15
    Conclusion.    I close with the following observations.    When
    circumstances permit, an adopted child potentially can benefit
    15
    Moreover, our decisions recognize that remands can be
    avoided in cases involving the welfare of children where "the
    evidence before us on appeal 'convincingly establishes' that [a]
    result is correct." Prenaveau v. Prenaveau, 
    75 Mass. App. Ct. 131
    , 143 (2009), quoting from Rosenthal v. Maney, 
    51 Mass. App. Ct. 257
    , 272 (2001) (Duffly, J.).
    16
    from supportive relationships with her biological family.    Too
    much love, by itself, is seldom a problem.
    All that said, relationships between adoptive families and
    biological families can be challenging even in the best of
    circumstances.    Open adoption agreements present one means of
    assisting parties in navigating such relationships.    See
    Adoption of Ilona, 
    459 Mass. 53
    , 65 n.15 (2011) (endorsing
    judges' encouraging biological parents and prospective adoptive
    parents to enter into open adoption agreements, presumably
    because their doing so minimizes the need for judicial
    intervention in familial relationships).     Here, the judge issued
    an order that thoughtfully sought to honor the agreement the
    parties freely reached, while still supporting the adoptive
    parents' judgment as to how the biological parents should
    conform their conduct in order to serve the best interests of
    the children.    For the reasons detailed above, we should be
    affirming that decision.