Adoption of Garret ( 2018 )


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    17-P-79                                              Appeals Court
    ADOPTION OF GARRET (and two companion cases1).
    No. 17-P-79.
    Hampden.    October 4, 2017. - January 22, 2018.
    Present:   Agnes, Sacks, & Lemire, JJ.
    Adoption, Care and protection, Dispensing with parent's consent,
    Visitation rights. Parent and Child, Adoption, Care and
    protection of minor, Dispensing with parent's consent to
    adoption, Custody. Minor, Care and protection, Custody,
    Visitation rights.
    Petitions filed in the Hampden County Division of the
    Juvenile Court Department on August 2, 2012.
    The cases were heard by Lois M. Eaton, J.
    Katrina McCusker Rusteika for the mother.
    Madeline Weaver Blanchette for Garret & another.
    Briana Rose Cummings for Susan.
    Jeremy Bayless for Department of Children and Families.
    William B. Tobey, for the father, was present but did not
    argue.
    1
    Adoption of Michael and Adoption of Susan. The children's
    names, and all other names used in this opinion, are pseudonyms.
    2
    AGNES, J.   This termination of parental rights case
    involves a blended family consisting of seven individuals:      the
    mother, the father, and their child, Susan; Garret and
    Elizabeth, the father's children from a prior relationship; and
    Peter and Michael, the mother's children from her prior
    marriage.   On August 2, 2012, the Department of Children and
    Families (DCF) filed two petitions pursuant to G. L. c. 119,
    § 24, in the Juvenile Court alleging that all five children were
    in need of care and protection.   A judge granted DCF temporary
    custody of Elizabeth that same day.     DCF was subsequently
    granted temporary custody of the remaining four children on
    August 21, 2012.   Both the mother and the father waived their
    rights to a temporary custody hearing on September 10, 2012.
    The care and protection petitions were later consolidated.
    The termination trial occurred over the course of eleven
    days in 2014; twenty-three witnesses testified and over fifty
    exhibits were introduced in evidence.     The judge subsequently
    made 913 written findings of fact and seventy-one conclusions of
    law, including conclusions regarding the fourteen factors
    enumerated in G. L. c. 210, § 3(c), with respect to each parent.2
    As relevant to this appeal, the judge found that the mother and
    2
    These included findings and conclusions as to the
    biological mother of Garret and Elizabeth, whom we shall refer
    to as Harriet, and the biological father of Peter and Michael,
    whom we shall refer to as Kevin. Harriet and Kevin are not
    parties to this appeal.
    3
    the father were unfit to parent Susan and their other respective
    children both at the time of trial and into the future.3    All of
    the children were adjudicated in need of care and protection and
    were committed to the care of DCF pursuant to G. L. c. 119,
    § 26.    Pursuant to G. L. c. 210, § 3, the judge terminated the
    mother's parental rights to Susan and Michael,4 and the father's
    parental rights to Susan, Garret, and Elizabeth.5,6   The judge
    found that it was in Garret's best interests to be placed in the
    custody of his maternal grandmother.    After concluding that the
    mother (i.e., Garret's stepmother) was not Garret's de facto
    parent, the judge further determined that visitation between
    3
    Despite the moral overtones of the statutory term "unfit,"
    the judge's decision was not a moral judgment or a determination
    that the parents do not love the children in question. The
    inquiry instead is whether the parents' deficiencies or
    limitations "place the child at serious risk of peril from
    abuse, neglect, or other activity harmful to the child."
    Adoption of Bianca, 
    91 Mass. App. Ct. 428
    , 432 n.8 (2017),
    quoting from Care & Protection of Bruce, 
    44 Mass. App. Ct. 758
    ,
    761 (1998).
    4
    Although the mother was found unfit with regard to Peter,
    her parental rights to him were not terminated. The mother does
    not appeal this aspect of the judge's decision. Peter's motion
    to dismiss his appeal as moot based on his attaining the age of
    majority has been allowed.
    5
    The father does not contest the termination of his
    parental rights on appeal.
    6
    Harriet's parental rights to Garret and Elizabeth were
    also terminated. Kevin was found currently unfit to parent
    Peter and Michael, but his parental rights were not terminated.
    As previously noted, Harriet and Kevin are not parties to this
    appeal.
    4
    Garret and the mother should be left to the discretion of DCF,
    or any adoptive parent or guardian, "consistent with the best
    interests of the child."   The judge declined to order visitation
    between Garret and the father on the basis that they did not
    have a significant relationship or bond.   No order was issued
    for posttermination sibling visitation.
    The mother, the father, Garret, Michael, and Susan raise a
    variety of issues on appeal, which we address in detail below.
    For the reasons that follow, we conclude that the judge's
    findings were supported by the evidence before her, that she
    properly applied the law to the facts found, and that she did
    not abuse her discretion with regard to fitness, termination,
    custody, and visitation.   We therefore affirm the decrees.
    Background.   We summarize the relevant facts as found by
    the judge, reserving some facts for later discussion.7
    1.   Familial relationship of the parties.   a.   Family one.
    While living in New York, the father and Harriet entered into a
    relationship at some point in 1999.   The father was eighteen
    7
    The mother does not challenge any of the judge's 913
    subsidiary factual findings, apart from the judge's finding,
    discussed infra, that Garret spent only "a few months in
    mother's care." While Garret and Michael state in their brief
    that the judge relied on clearly erroneous findings, they do not
    state which specific factual findings were erroneous. Instead,
    they argue that the judge relied on some evidence while ignoring
    other contrary evidence. The father also states that some of
    the judge's findings "have no record support at all," but fails
    to specify which findings are unsupported. We do not detect any
    such findings among the ones upon which we rely.
    5
    years old at the time, and Harriet was thirteen years old.
    Harriet became pregnant shortly after the relationship began,
    giving birth to Garret in the summer of 2000.     Harriet later
    gave birth to the couple's second child, Elizabeth, in
    September, 2001.
    During the course of their relationship, the father
    committed multiple acts of violence against Harriet.     The father
    did not live with Harriet and the children, did not support them
    financially, and only visited the children when Harriet
    requested that he do so.   The relationship between the father
    and Harriet ended in 2003.   Garret and Elizabeth continued to
    live with Harriet until 2010, when New York's Administration for
    Children's Services removed the children from Harriet's custody,
    citing her daily marijuana use, lack of suitable housing, and a
    history of domestic violence between Harriet and her partners.
    b.   Family two.   While living in New York, the mother and
    Kevin began a relationship in 1996.   Their first child, Peter,
    was born in the winter of 1998.   The mother and Kevin married in
    1999, when the mother was sixteen years old.     The couple had
    another child, Michael, in the winter of 2003.
    The couple's relationship was marred by Kevin's physical
    abuse of the mother, which occasionally took place in front of
    Peter and Michael.   At some point in 2004 or 2005, Kevin moved
    to Florida, where he currently resides.   The mother petitioned
    6
    for custody of Peter and Michael in April, 2007, and the
    petition was allowed on May 17, 2007.    The mother and Kevin
    divorced in 2010.   Kevin did not see Peter or Michael again
    until they were placed in DCF custody,8 although he did attempt
    to contact them after he separated from the mother.
    c.   Blended family.   The mother and the father entered into
    a relationship in the summer of 2004, when the mother was
    twenty-one years old and the father was twenty-three years old.
    That same year, the mother and the father moved in together,
    along with the mother's children, Peter and Michael.    The
    mother's and the father's child, Susan, was born in April, 2009.
    However, Garret and Elizabeth, the father's older children, were
    living with their mother, Harriet, and their maternal
    grandmother, until the father received custody of both children
    in the summer of 2010.
    The mother and the father married on February 14, 2011.      On
    February 16, 2011, the mother and the father, along with the
    five children, moved to Massachusetts.    The trial judge found
    that this move was motivated in part by the father's desire to
    remove Garret and Elizabeth from the presence of their mother,
    Harriet, and their maternal grandmother, and in part by the
    8
    Kevin was able to attend one in-person visit with Peter
    and Michael since their placement in DCF custody. Kevin also
    spoke with Peter over the telephone once per week in the time
    leading up to trial.
    7
    mother's desire to hide from Kevin.     With the exception of
    Garret, who was sent to live in New York with his paternal
    grandmother from October, 2011, to July, 2012, the blended
    family lived together in a three-bedroom apartment until August,
    2012, when the children were placed in DCF custody.
    Although the mother filed for divorce from the father prior
    to the trial in this matter, the judge found that the
    relationship between the mother and the father continued
    unabated throughout the course of trial.     A judgment of divorce
    nisi between the mother and father entered in the Probate and
    Family Court in August, 2017.
    2.   Abuse of Elizabeth.   a.   Factual circumstances.     On
    August 1, 2012, Elizabeth, who was then eleven years old, ran
    away from home.   She was ultimately transported to a local
    hospital after she was found with several injuries.     Upon her
    arrival at the hospital, a report pursuant to G. L. c. 119,
    § 51A (51A report), alleging neglect of all five children and
    abuse of Elizabeth, was screened in for investigation.9       A DCF
    investigator met with Elizabeth at the hospital and observed
    numerous injuries on her body.    When questioned about the source
    9
    The 51A report was supported after an investigation
    conducted pursuant to G. L. c. 119, § 51B. The record includes
    the 51A report, which was received in evidence without objection
    for a limited purpose and played no role in the judge's
    determinations. Both the 51A report and the 51B investigative
    report were redacted prior to their introduction at trial.
    8
    of her injuries, Elizabeth indicated that they were inflicted by
    the father.
    At the hospital, Elizabeth was examined by a physician, who
    was qualified at trial as an expert in pediatrics and child
    abuse medical assessments.   The physician's examination revealed
    that Elizabeth had a number of traumatic injuries at various
    stages of healing, including a broken arm.   The physician
    determined that these injuries likely resulted from abuse.     As a
    result, Elizabeth was placed in a foster home on August 2, 2012.
    Garret, Peter, Michael, and Susan were removed from the mother's
    and the father's care on August 21, 2012, after the mother and
    the father were arrested and charged with crimes arising from
    the abuse of Elizabeth.
    On April 27, 2015, the father pleaded guilty to charges
    arising from his abuse of Elizabeth.10   The father was sentenced
    to from five to seven years in State prison, followed by a
    probationary term of six years to be served from and after his
    incarceration.   On that same date, the mother pleaded guilty to
    10
    The father pleaded guilty to abuse of a child under
    sixteen with bodily injury, two counts of assault and battery by
    means of a dangerous weapon, and assault and battery. The
    Commonwealth nol prossed two counts of rape of a child and two
    additional counts of assault and battery by means of a dangerous
    weapon.
    9
    assault and battery and wantonly permitting the endangerment of
    a child.11   The mother was sentenced to five years of probation.
    At trial, Elizabeth testified at length about the physical
    and verbal abuse that she was subjected to by both the mother
    and the father.12   Other evidence, including the testimony of the
    physician who treated Elizabeth upon her arrival at the
    hospital, two court investigator reports, and the testimony of
    Elizabeth's foster mother, provided the judge with a detailed
    account of Elizabeth's extensive injuries.   While abundant
    evidence regarding the abuse of Elizabeth was presented at
    trial, the evidence was in conflict as to whether any of the
    four other children living with the mother and the father were
    physically abused.13
    b.   The mother's testimony at trial.   At trial, the mother
    consistently denied that she had knowledge of or participated in
    the abuse of Elizabeth.   The mother denied ever seeing the
    11
    With regard to the mother, the Commonwealth nol prossed
    three counts of abuse of a child under sixteen with bodily
    injury, and assault and battery by means of a dangerous weapon.
    12
    The mother denied physically abusing Elizabeth, but this
    testimony was not credited by the judge.
    13
    Michael denied being hit by the mother or the father, and
    Garret gave conflicting testimony as to whether he was
    physically disciplined by either the mother or the father.
    Elizabeth testified that the mother and the father also hit
    Garret. The children were seen by doctors after being placed in
    foster care, none of whom reported any concern that the children
    (other than Elizabeth) had been physically abused.
    10
    father hit Elizabeth and stated that she was unaware of the
    extensive injuries sustained by Elizabeth beyond two "cat
    scratches."    When questioned about photographs of Elizabeth's
    injuries that she was shown prior to trial, the mother stated
    that she believed that Elizabeth was abused, but denied any
    knowledge of the abuse and indicated that she never saw the
    father being abusive toward Elizabeth.    The judge did not credit
    any of this testimony.    Instead, she concluded that the
    "[mother] was a participant in [Elizabeth's] abuse, and that she
    conspired with [the father] to intentionally deny [Elizabeth]
    medical treatment."
    The mother also testified that her relationship with the
    father ended after she saw photographs of Elizabeth's wounds and
    heard the allegations of the father's sexual abuse of Elizabeth.
    The judge did not credit these assertions by the mother.
    Instead, the judge concluded that the mother and the father
    remained in a committed relationship throughout the duration of
    the trial.14
    14
    Pursuant to Mass.R.A.P. 16(l), as amended, 
    386 Mass. 1247
    (1982), the mother submitted portions of a Probate and Family
    Court docket indicating that a judgment of divorce nisi between
    the mother and father entered in August, 2017. We may take
    judicial notice of the records of other courts in related
    actions. See Jarosz v. Palmer, 
    436 Mass. 526
    , 530 (2002).
    However, the fact that a judgment of divorce nisi entered does
    not undermine the judge's conclusion that the mother and the
    father remained in a committed relationship during trial and
    11
    3.      DCF service plans.   A total of seven DCF service plans
    were formulated and approved prior to trial.      DCF's initial goal
    was to reunify the family.       However, in April, 2013, after an
    investigation conducted pursuant to G. L. c. 119, § 51B,
    supported an allegation that Elizabeth was sexually abused by
    the father, DCF's goal for all of the children was changed to
    adoption.
    The mother's service plan tasks were regularly updated
    throughout the pendency of the case.      Her tasks included
    requirements that she attend parenting classes and engage in
    anger management services and individual therapy.      The service
    plans also set boundaries related to the mother's supervised
    visits with the children.     In November, 2013, the mother was
    given new tasks to complete under a revised service plan.       The
    revised plan assigned the mother twenty-two tasks to complete,
    and included new tasks requiring the mother to (1) "[g]ain
    insight regarding how the choice to remain in a relationship
    with [the father] affects her ability to parent"; (2)
    "acknowledge responsibility for not protecting [Elizabeth] from
    abuse by [the father]"; and (3) "acknowledge responsibility for
    does not conclusively demonstrate that the relationship has
    ended.
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    abusing [Elizabeth]."15    The judge found that the mother complied
    with the majority of the tasks laid out in the service plans,
    but that she failed to complete the new tasks assigned to her in
    the November, 2013, plan.    More specifically, the judge found
    that the mother did not gain any insight into how her choice to
    remain with the father affected her ability to parent and that
    she failed to acknowledge her own responsibility for Elizabeth's
    abuse.    The mother's failure to complete those enumerated tasks
    led the judge to conclude that the mother did not benefit from
    the services provided to her under her service plans.
    Discussion.    1.   Termination of the mother's parental
    rights.    Before a parent's rights may be terminated, the trial
    judge must engage in a two-step analysis.     Adoption of Nancy,
    
    443 Mass. 512
    , 515 (2005).    First, the judge must determine
    whether the parent is fit to carry out the duties and
    responsibilities required of a parent.     Adoption of Gillian, 
    63 Mass. App. Ct. 398
    , 403-404 (2005).     If the parent is deemed
    unfit, the judge must then determine whether termination of
    parental rights is in the child's best interests.     
    Ibid. "[T]he 'parental fitness'
    test and the 'best interests of the child
    test' are not mutually exclusive, but rather 'reflect different
    15
    Although the mother signed this service plan, she listed
    a number of reservations that she had with its terms, which
    included a statement that she "can't acknowledge having
    physically abused the children because she didn't abuse them."
    13
    degrees of emphasis on the same factors.'"    Care & Protection of
    Three Minors, 
    392 Mass. 704
    , 714 (1984), quoting from Petition
    of the New England Home for Little Wanderers to Dispense with
    Consent to Adoption, 
    367 Mass. 631
    , 641 (1975).
    a.   The mother's fitness.   While their underlying arguments
    vary, the mother, the father, and Michael challenge the judge's
    ultimate conclusion that the mother was unfit to parent Michael
    and Susan as erroneous.16    We disagree.
    In determining whether parental rights should be
    terminated, parental fitness is the "critical inquiry," and a
    determination that a parent is unfit must be proved by clear and
    convincing evidence.    Adoption of 
    Gillian, 63 Mass. App. Ct. at 404
    , quoting from Adoption of Frederick, 
    405 Mass. 1
    , 4 (1989).
    In making this determination, a judge must consider "a parent's
    character, temperament, conduct, and capacity to provide for the
    child in the same context with the child's particular needs,
    affections, and age."   Adoption of Mary, 
    414 Mass. 705
    , 711
    (1993).   "[O]ur role on review of a trial judge's findings is
    extremely limited; we do not 'assess the evidence de novo, but
    rather . . . determine whether the judge's findings were clearly
    erroneous and whether they proved parental unfitness by clear
    and convincing evidence.'"    Adoption of Roni, 
    56 Mass. App. Ct. 16
           Susan herself does not challenge the determination of the
    mother's unfitness.
    14
    52, 58 (2002), quoting from Custody of Eleanor, 
    414 Mass. 795
    ,
    802 (1993).
    In Custody of Vaughn, 
    422 Mass. 590
    , 595 (1996), the
    Supreme Judicial Court observed that "physical force within the
    family is both intolerable and too readily tolerated, and . . .
    a child who has been either the victim or the spectator of such
    abuse suffers a distinctly grievous kind of harm."   In this
    case, there was considerable evidence that the other children
    living in the household with the mother and the father knew of,
    and were affected by, the abuse of Elizabeth.17   The judge found
    17
    The father challenges the judge's use of this evidence in
    finding the mother unfit, arguing that much of the evidence
    consisted of hearsay statements made by the children set forth
    in the court investigator's report and that he did not have an
    adequate opportunity to question the children about these
    statements. However, it is settled that the report of a court
    investigator is admissible and becomes part of the record in a
    care and protection proceeding. See, e.g., Care & Protection of
    Zita, 
    455 Mass. 272
    , 281 (2009). See also Mass. G. Evid.
    § 1115(c)(1) (2017). Any hearsay statements contained in the
    report, including multilevel hearsay, are admissible if the
    declarant is identifiable and the parties have a fair
    opportunity to rebut the statements of both the investigator and
    her sources "through cross-examination and other means."
    Custody of Michel, 
    28 Mass. App. Ct. 260
    , 266 (1990). Such
    opportunity exists as to the hearsay statements of children
    "where the child testifies, or where the trial judge has other
    means to assess the credibility and accuracy of the child's
    statements." Care & Protection of Inga, 
    36 Mass. App. Ct. 660
    ,
    664 (1994). See Adoption of Carla, 
    416 Mass. 510
    , 514 (1993).
    Here, Garret, Elizabeth, and Michael testified at trial, and all
    parties were provided with the opportunity to submit questions
    to them, which were read to the children by the judge. The
    court investigator was also listed as a potential witness, and
    the opportunity to present her as a witness and question her was
    afforded to the parties. See Care & Protection of Leo, 
    38 Mass. 15
    that the other children described Elizabeth as "bad" and
    confirmed that she was "hit with a belt because she is bad."
    The judge further found that Michael knew of Elizabeth's abuse
    based on his immediate denial, during his interview with a DCF
    investigator, that anyone in the household was abused.
    Moreover, Garret told the court-appointed investigator that
    Elizabeth constantly did bad things, and he believed that the
    investigator also would have beaten Elizabeth if the
    investigator had been in the position of caring for her.     The
    judge credited the statements of Garret and Michael and relied
    on those statements as evidence that the other children in the
    household were aware of the abuse suffered by Elizabeth.
    Contrast Care & Protection of Lillith, 
    61 Mass. App. Ct. 132
    ,
    142 (2004) (remanding case for clarification of judge's findings
    of domestic violence occurring in front of child, where judge
    failed to assess credibility of witnesses' conflicting
    testimony).   The judge thus was warranted in finding that the
    other children in the home were exposed to the abuse of
    Elizabeth while they were in the care of the mother, and they
    thereby "suffer[ed] a distinctly grievous kind of harm."
    Custody of 
    Vaughn, 422 Mass. at 595
    .   See G. L. c. 210,
    § 3(c)(ix) ("severe or repetitive conduct of a physically,
    App. Ct. 237, 243 (1995). The judge thus did not err in relying
    on the court investigator's report in support of her findings as
    to the mother's unfitness.
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    emotionally or sexually abusive or neglectful nature toward the
    child or toward another child in the home" to be considered in
    determining parental fitness [emphasis added]).
    Although the brunt of the abuse endured by Elizabeth was at
    the hands of the father, the mother's role in the abuse was
    significant.   The testimony of Elizabeth and her foster mother,
    which need not be recounted here, depicted the severity of the
    physical abuse inflicted directly by mother.   See G. L. c. 210,
    § 3(c)(ix).    The mother pleaded guilty to criminal charges
    brought against her for her role in the abuse of Elizabeth and
    received a lengthy probationary sentence.    In addition to
    abusing Elizabeth directly, the mother also failed to protect
    Elizabeth from the even more severe abuse perpetrated by the
    father.   The judge concluded that the mother "conspired with
    [the father] to intentionally deny [Elizabeth] medical
    treatment" for injuries inflicted by the father.    See Adoption
    of Larry, 
    434 Mass. 456
    , 472 (2001) (failure of mother to
    protect child from father's physical abuse probative of mother's
    parental unfitness).
    The judge also made extensive findings that the mother
    remained in a committed relationship with the father, despite
    his serving from five to seven years in State prison after
    pleading guilty to charges stemming from his abuse of
    17
    Elizabeth.18   The judge further found that the mother failed to
    benefit from the services set forth in her DCF service plan and
    concluded that the mother's parenting deficiencies were not
    resolved, based on her "refusal to acknowledge her role in
    [Elizabeth]'s abuse, her alliance with [Elizabeth]'s abuser, and
    her deceitful actions to hide the abuse," which "continued
    unabated despite the services offered."   Despite the mother's
    compliance with the majority of the tasks assigned to her under
    her DCF service plan, the judge was warranted in concluding that
    the mother's failure to benefit from those services rendered her
    unfit to carry out her parental duties with respect to Michael
    and Susan.19   See G. L. c. 210, § 3(c)(ii); Adoption of Lorna, 46
    18
    While the mother argues that the judge failed to consider
    evidence demonstrating the mother's intent to separate from the
    father, it is apparent from the judge's findings that she did
    consider this evidence and determined that it was not credible.
    See Adoption of Hugo, 
    428 Mass. 219
    , 229 (1998), cert. denied
    sub nom. Hugo P. v. George P., 
    526 U.S. 1034
    (1999) ("As the
    trier of fact, [the judge] was in the best position to evaluate
    all the evidence, contradictory at times"); Adoption of 
    Larry, 434 Mass. at 467-468
    .
    19
    The father argues that DCF failed to make reasonable
    efforts to reunify the children with the mother because it did
    not give mother more tasks to complete under her service plan.
    Assuming that the father has standing to make such an argument,
    it was not raised in a timely manner and is therefore waived.
    See Adoption of Gregory, 
    434 Mass. 117
    , 124 (2001); Adoption of
    Daisy, 
    77 Mass. App. Ct. 768
    , 781 (2010), S.C., 
    460 Mass. 72
    (2011). In any event, the argument is without merit, as "[a]
    determination by the court that reasonable efforts were not made
    shall not preclude the court from making any appropriate order
    conducive to the child's best interest." G. L. c. 119, § 29C.
    We also note that the recent decision in Care & Protection of
    
    18 Mass. App. Ct. 134
    , 143 (1999) (judge's determination that
    parents failed to benefit from service plans not clearly
    erroneous despite parents' substantial compliance with plan
    requirements).   The judge was entitled to conclude that the
    mother's past actions, her failure to benefit from her service
    plan, and her continued commitment to the father indicated that
    she would be unable to protect her children from any future
    abuse by the father, should such abuse occur.   See Adoption of
    Carlos, 
    413 Mass. 339
    , 349-350 (1992) (inquiry into future
    parental fitness is appropriate when determining whether to
    terminate parental rights).
    Although little evidence was presented at trial as to the
    physical abuse of any child in the home apart from Elizabeth, we
    agree with the judge's conclusion that the exposure of the other
    children in the care of the mother to the abuse of Elizabeth, in
    addition to the mother's role in the physical abuse of
    Elizabeth, her refusal to acknowledge and take responsibility
    Walt, 
    478 Mass. 212
    (2017), concerning "reasonable efforts" when
    transferring custody to DCF at an emergency hearing and at a
    seventy-two hour hearing, does not undermine our decision in
    this case because the seventy-two hour hearing in the case
    before us was waived by both the mother and the father, and the
    removal of the children from their home was due to the severe,
    repetitive abuse of Elizabeth by the mother and the father. See
    G. L. c. 119, § 29C (reasonable efforts not required prior to
    removal of children from home where a parent has subjected "the
    child or other children in the home to . . . severe or
    repetitive conduct of a physically or emotionally abusive
    nature").
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    for such abuse, and her continued commitment to the father,
    rendered the mother unfit to parent the children who were not
    directly subjected to physical abuse.
    b.   Best interests of the children.   The mother maintains
    that the judge erred in finding that the termination of the
    mother's parental rights was in the best interests of Michael
    and Susan.   Michael also argues that termination of the mother's
    rights was not in his best interests.   The mother further argues
    that the judge abused her discretion by failing to articulate
    her reasoning as to why the mother's parental rights were
    terminated with respect to Michael but not Peter.   The mother
    also asserts that it was an abuse of discretion for the judge to
    find that it was in Michael's best interests to terminate the
    mother's parental rights, where the judge did not terminate the
    parental rights of Kevin, Michael's biological father.
    Once a parent is deemed unfit, the judge must then
    determine whether it is in the best interests of the child to
    end all legal relations between the child and the parent, taking
    into consideration "the ability, capacity, fitness and readiness
    of the child's parents" as well as "the plan propose by [DCF]."
    Adoption of 
    Nancy, 443 Mass. at 515-516
    , quoting from G. L.
    c. 210, § 3(c).   The "best interests of the child" standard
    requires the trial judge to make a discretionary decision based
    on her experience and judgment, and will not be overturned
    20
    unless it amounts to an abuse of discretion or a clear error of
    law.    Adoption of Hugo, 
    428 Mass. 219
    , 225 (1998), cert. denied
    sub nom. Hugo P. v. George P., 
    526 U.S. 1034
    (1999).
    After reviewing the judge's extensive factual findings and
    conclusions of law, it is apparent that the judge carefully
    considered the evidence before her, including evidence that
    Michael wished to live with the mother, the father (his
    stepfather), and the other children, in reaching her best
    interests determinations with respect to Michael and Susan.      The
    judge did not abuse her discretion in concluding that the
    termination of the mother's parental rights was in the best
    interests of both children.     See Adoption of 
    Nancy, 443 Mass. at 516
    .    See also L.L. v. Commonwealth, 
    470 Mass. 169
    , 185 n.27
    (2014).     As to the mother's contention that the judge abused her
    discretion in terminating the mother's parental rights to
    Michael where the judge did not terminate the mother's parental
    rights to Peter, the judge specifically noted that Peter was
    approaching his seventeenth birthday, whereas Michael was eleven
    years old at the time of trial.     The decision was not an abuse
    of discretion, but rather an indication of the judge's close
    consideration of the record before her.20    The same is true with
    20
    The mother argues that the judge's failure to make a
    distinction in her reasoning as to why termination of her
    parental rights was in Michael's interest and not Peter's "casts
    doubt on the justification for terminating [the m]other's rights
    21
    respect to the judge's decision not to terminate Kevin's
    parental rights to Peter and Michael, given the differences in
    the mother's and Kevin's respective circumstances that were
    carefully detailed in the judge's factual findings.
    Based on the foregoing, we conclude that the judge's
    decisions with respect to the best interests of Michael and
    Susan were not an abuse of discretion.
    2.   Custody of Garret.   Garret's biological parents, the
    father and Harriet, were both found unfit to care for Garret and
    their parental rights were terminated.   The termination of their
    parental rights is not disputed on appeal.    However, the mother
    (Garret's stepmother) argues that she should have been granted
    custody of Garret, and that the judge thus erred in granting
    custody of him to his maternal grandmother.    The mother relies
    on her arguments in support of her fitness to parent Michael and
    Susan, as well as the close bond between herself and Garret, in
    support of this contention.
    In making a custody determination, the "driving factor" is
    the best interests of the child.   Adoption of Irene, 54 Mass.
    to [Michael]." However, "[w]hile not specifically stating the
    reasons that termination was in the [child's] best interest, the
    judge's factual findings were specific and detailed,
    demonstrating that close attention was paid to the evidence and
    the fourteen factors listed in G. L. c. 210, § 3(c). Although
    it would be better practice specifically to state the reasons
    that termination is in the child's best interest, such
    specificity is not required." Adoption of 
    Nancy, 443 Mass. at 516
    .
    22
    App. Ct. 613, 617 (2002).    The wishes of the child at the center
    of the custody determination must be considered, but are not
    dispositive.    Adoption of 
    Nancy, 443 Mass. at 518
    .   A judge's
    determination as to what is in the best interests of the child
    will not be overturned on appeal unless it amounts to an abuse
    of discretion or a clear error of law.    Adoption of 
    Hugo, 428 Mass. at 225
    .
    As 
    discussed supra
    , it is apparent that the judge
    considered all of the evidence before reaching each of her
    conclusions in this case, including her decision as to what
    custody arrangement was in Garret's best interests.     The judge
    noted Garret's wish to remain in the custody of the mother, but
    ultimately decided that placing him in the custody of his
    maternal grandmother, with whom he had previously lived for an
    extended period of time, was in his best interests.     The record
    makes clear that Garret's wishes were properly considered in
    determining which placement would best serve his interests, and
    the judge was not required to make a custody determination in
    accordance with his views on the matter.    See Adoption of 
    Nancy, 443 Mass. at 518
    .    The judge did not abuse her discretion in
    approving DCF's plan to place Garret in the custody of his
    maternal grandmother; the judge considered the relevant factors
    23
    and her decision did not "fall[] outside the range of reasonable
    alternatives."21    L.L. v. 
    Commonwealth, 470 Mass. at 185
    n.27.
    3.   Visitation.   a.   Visitation with the mother.   Garret
    and the mother contend that the mother should have been deemed
    Garret's de facto parent and, as such, visitation between the
    two should have been ordered by the judge.
    "A de facto parent is one who has no biological relation to
    the child, but has participated in the child's life as a member
    of the child's family.     The de facto parent resides with the
    child and, with the consent and encouragement of the legal
    parent, performs a share of the caretaking functions at least as
    great as the legal parent."      E.N.O. v. L.M.M., 
    429 Mass. 824
    ,
    829, cert. denied, 
    528 U.S. 1005
    (1999).       A finding that a
    person is a de facto parent permits a judge to order visitation
    between a child and the de facto parent in the absence of a
    statute explicitly authorizing such visitation.       See 
    id. at 827-
    832.    In such a case, a judge may, through an exercise of her
    equitable powers, order visitation between a child and the de
    21
    The father claims error on the basis that the judge
    failed to consider his plan for placement of his children.
    While the judge made no explicit finding as to the father's
    plan, his proposed plan placed his children in the care of the
    mother. The reasoning underlying the judge's adjudication of
    the mother as unfit to care for her own children makes clear
    that the mother was equally ill-suited to care for Garret. It
    should also be noted that a condition of the mother's probation
    required that she not have unsupervised contact with children
    under the age of sixteen, except for her three biological
    children, Peter, Michael, and Susan.
    24
    facto parent, provided that such an order is in the best
    interests of the child.   See 
    ibid. See also Care
    & Protection
    of Sharlene, 
    445 Mass. 756
    , 767 (2006).
    For a caretaker to be recognized as a de facto parent,
    there must be "a significant preexisting relationship that would
    allow an inference, when evaluating a child's best interests,
    that measurable harm would befall the child on the disruption of
    that relationship."   Care & Protection of 
    Sharlene, supra
    .
    Inherent in this determination is the idea that the bond between
    the prospective de facto parent and the child is "above all,
    loving and nurturing."    
    Ibid. In reviewing a
    trial judge's de
    facto parent determination, "[a]bsent clear error, we will not
    substitute our weighing of the evidence for that of a trial
    judge who had the opportunity to observe the witnesses and form
    conclusions about their credibility, even if our weighing of the
    evidence might have differed from that of the judge."     A.H. v.
    M.P., 
    447 Mass. 828
    , 838 (2006).
    The judge concluded that the mother was not Garret's de
    facto parent on the basis that Garret spent most of his time
    living with his maternal grandmother after the mother and the
    father married, and that he was only in the care of the mother
    for "a few months."   Our review of the record leads us to
    conclude that the finding that Garret was in the care of the
    mother for "a few months" was erroneous, as the evidence shows
    25
    that he lived with the mother for approximately fifteen months.
    Additionally, we conclude that the judge erred in relying solely
    on the length of time that Garret was in the mother's care in
    concluding that the mother had not established her status as his
    de facto parent.    These errors, however, do not affect the
    judge's ultimate conclusion that the mother was not Garret's de
    facto parent.
    In Blixt v. Blixt, 
    437 Mass. 649
    , 659 n.15 (2002), the
    Supreme Judicial Court noted that the definition of "de facto
    parent" set forth in ALI Principles of the Law of Family
    Dissolution § 2.03(c) (Tent. Draft No. 4 2000) required that an
    individual seeking de facto parent status live with the child
    and perform care taking functions for at least two years.      The
    court again referred to the two-year requirement in the context
    of de facto parent status in Care & Protection of 
    Sharlene, 445 Mass. at 766-767
    .    In that case, the court deemed the two-year
    requirement a "further refinement[]" to the concept of de facto
    parenthood, but expressly noted that such a requirement has not
    been adopted in Massachusetts.    
    Ibid. Again in A.H.
    v. 
    M.P., 447 Mass. at 837
    n.13, the court discussed the two-year
    requirement set forth in the ALI Principles, but chose to
    "express no opinion on the two-year requirement."    The court's
    repeated references to the two-year requirement indicate that
    the length of time a person seeking de facto parent status has
    26
    lived with the child is relevant to the court's determination,
    but is not the sole factor.
    Here, in addition to the fact that Garret and the mother
    lived together for less than two years,22 the judge's findings
    lead us to conclude that the bond between Garret and the mother
    was far from nurturing.   In our discussion of mother's parental
    
    fitness, supra
    , we explained in detail that the children in the
    household were exposed to the abuse of Elizabeth while in the
    mother's care.   While we do not ignore the close relationship
    between Garret and the mother,23 the exposure of Garret to such
    abuse leads us to conclude that the mother did not provide him
    with the nurturing bond necessary to establish that she was his
    de facto parent.   See Care & Protection of 
    Sharlene, 445 Mass. at 767-768
    .   As she is not his de facto parent, the mother is
    not entitled to court-ordered visitation with Garret.   See
    E.N.O. v. 
    L.M.M., 429 Mass. at 827-832
    .   See also Care &
    Protection of 
    Sharlene, supra
    at 767.
    22
    This should not be understood as an expression of the
    opinion that a caretaker of an infant or child under two years
    of age cannot be considered a de facto parent.
    23
    Garret calls the mother "mommy" or "mom," and wants to be
    placed in her care. The mother sees Garret as her son and, as
    discussed above, sought custody of him. The mother also
    regularly attended supervised visits with him prior to trial.
    27
    b.   Visitation with the father.    Garret argues that the
    judge abused her discretion in failing to order posttermination
    visits between Garret and the father.
    In terminating parental rights pursuant to G. L. c. 210,
    § 3, the Juvenile Court judge has the equitable authority to
    order visitation between a child and a biological parent where
    such contact is in the best interests of the child.    See
    Adoption of Greta, 
    431 Mass. 577
    , 588 (2000); Adoption of Ilona,
    
    459 Mass. 53
    , 63 (2011).    "Whether such contact in any given
    case is wise is a matter that should be left to the discretion
    of the judge."   Youmans v. Ramos, 
    429 Mass. 774
    , 783 (1999).
    See Adoption of John, 
    53 Mass. App. Ct. 431
    , 439 (2001).
    Here, the judge found that there was no significant
    relationship or bond between Garret and the father and concluded
    that visitation should be left to the discretion of DCF or
    Garret's adoptive family.    The evidence shows that the father
    was largely absent from Garret's life until receiving custody of
    Garret in the summer of 2010.    After the custody award in New
    York, Garret only lived with the father for a period of
    approximately fifteen months, during which time Garret was
    living in an abusive household.    The judge did not err in
    28
    concluding that it was not in Garret's best interests to order
    visitation with the father.24
    c.   Sibling visitation.   The father, Garret, Michael, and
    Susan all contend that the judge erred in failing to order
    sibling visitation for the children.    Garret, Michael, and Susan
    argue that the language of G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b), requires the
    judge in this case to make a determination regarding sibling
    visitation.
    Posttermination sibling visitation is governed by G. L.
    c. 119, § 26B(b), inserted by St. 2008, c. 176, § 84, which
    states in pertinent part:   "The court or [DCF] shall, whenever
    reasonable and practical and based upon a determination of the
    best interests of the child, ensure that children placed in
    foster care shall have access to and visitation with siblings in
    other foster or pre-adoptive homes . . . ." (emphasis added).
    The plain language of the statute states that posttermination
    sibling visitation may be managed by either the court or DCF.
    Here, evidence was presented that sibling visitation was being
    24
    We note that DCF was exploring the idea of
    posttermination contact between the father and Garret at the
    time of trial.
    29
    provided by DCF, and the judge was thus under no obligation to
    order visitation pursuant to G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b).25
    Prior to the enactment of G. L. c. 119, § 26B, in 2008,
    G. L. c. 119, § 26(5), inserted by St. 1997, c. 43, § 99, gave
    the court exclusive control over sibling visitation orders.    In
    Adoption of Rico, 
    72 Mass. App. Ct. 214
    , 221 (2008), S.C., 
    453 Mass. 749
    , 753 n.12 (2009), this court construed the sibling
    visitation provision set forth in G. L. c. 119, § 26(5), as
    mandating that the judge decide "whether, and if so, how
    visitation is to occur."   Because we were interpreting a
    different statute in that case, which by its plain language
    provided that the judge alone was required to make sibling
    visitation determinations, our decision there has no bearing on
    our interpretation of the language set forth in the current
    statute, G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b), which gives the judge and DCF
    concurrent authority to ensure that sibling visitation is
    carried out.26   The same can be said of this court's decision in
    Adoption of Galvin, 
    55 Mass. App. Ct. 912
    , 913-914 (2002).
    25
    Additionally, the children have a statutory right to
    petition the Juvenile Court under G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b), if
    they are dissatisfied with the state of visitation.
    26
    Garret's and Michael's assertion that the Supreme
    Judicial Court's decision on further appellate review, see
    Adoption of Rico, 
    453 Mass. 749
    , is controlling is also
    misplaced. The Supreme Judicial Court did not substantively
    discuss sibling visitation beyond a footnote denoting its
    approval of the manner in which the Appeals Court had dealt with
    30
    Finally, Garret and Michael rely on Care & Protection of
    Jamison, 
    467 Mass. 269
    (2014), in arguing that the judge below
    was required to make a sibling visitation order.    In that case,
    the court determined that G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b), gave the
    Juvenile Court subject matter jurisdiction to adjudicate a
    petition for visitation between a child in DCF custody and his
    siblings, who were subject to guardianship.    
    Id. at 280.
       In its
    analysis, the court stated:   "Paragraph one [of G. L. c. 119,
    § 26B(b),] states that the Juvenile Court 'shall, whenever
    reasonable and practical and based on a determination of the
    best interests of the child, ensure that children placed in
    foster care shall have access to and visitation with siblings in
    other foster or pre-adoptive homes . . . .'"    
    Id. at 277.
      This
    language omits any reference to the initial portion of G. L.
    c. 119, § 26B(b), which states:   "The court or the department
    shall, whenever reasonable and practical and based upon a
    determination of the best interests of the child, ensure that
    children placed in foster care shall have access to and
    visitation with siblings in other foster or pre-adoptive homes
    . . ." (emphasis added).   In light of this plain language, Care
    the issue. 
    Id. at 753
    n.12. The entirety of the Supreme
    Judicial Court's opinion, rather, focused on the equitable
    authority of the Juvenile Court to order posttermination
    visitation between a child and his biological father. As such,
    it also has no bearing on our adjudication of this case with
    respect to sibling visitation.
    31
    & Protection of Jamison should not be read to foreclose a
    judge's leaving sibling visitation to DCF, subject to further
    review by the court.27
    In sum, we conclude that the Juvenile Court did not err in
    failing to make sibling visitation orders based on the plain
    language of G. L. c. 119, § 26B(b), which allows DCF to manage
    posttermination sibling visitation.
    Decrees affirmed.
    27
    The same can be said of this court's decision in Adoption
    of Zander, 
    83 Mass. App. Ct. 363
    , 367 (2013). In that case, the
    trial judge chose to leave the timing and frequency of sibling
    visitation to the discretion of the children's adoptive parents.
    We held that the trial judge was required to provide a
    posttermination sibling visitation schedule because G. L.
    c. 119, § 26B(b), precluded the judge from leaving such
    visitation to the discretion of adoptive parents. While we did
    not mention the portion of the statute giving DCF concurrent
    jurisdiction over sibling visitation, DCF was not involved in
    the sibling visitation process in that case, and we do not read
    it as precluding DCF from ensuring that sibling visitation is
    being carried out.