Commonwealth v. Packer , 88 Mass. App. Ct. 585 ( 2015 )


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    13-P-928                                                Appeals Court
    COMMONWEALTH   vs.   CHRISTINE M. PACKER.
    No. 13-P-928.
    Hampden.     May 6, 2014. - October 27, 2015.
    Present:   Berry, Milkey, & Maldonado, JJ.
    Assault and Battery. Parent and Child, Discipline. Child
    Abuse. Practice, Criminal, Affirmative defense, Request
    for jury instructions, Instructions to jury, Presumptions
    and burden of proof.
    Complaint received and sworn to in the Westfield Division
    of the District Court Department on April 1, 2011.
    The case was tried before Philip A. Contant, J.
    Jessica L. LaClair for the defendant.
    Deborah D. Ahlstrom, Assistant District Attorney, for the
    Commonwealth.
    MILKEY, J.    Following a jury trial in the District Court,
    the defendant, Christine M. Packer, was convicted of assault and
    battery of her fourteen year old stepdaughter (daughter),
    pursuant to G. L. c. 265, § 13(A)(a).        The daughter's father was
    likewise charged, and there was a joint trial.        Both defendants
    requested a jury instruction on the affirmative defense of
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    parental discipline.    At the conclusion of the evidence, the
    judge instructed the jury that they could consider excusing the
    father's actions as reasonable parental discipline, but that
    they could not do so with regard to the defendant.       The jury
    found the defendant guilty, while acquitting the father.       On
    appeal, the defendant argues that this differential treatment
    constituted reversible error.     Under the particular
    circumstances presented, we agree.
    Background.    The family.   At the time of the incident, the
    daughter lived with her father, the defendant, and the
    daughter's eight year old half-sister (born of the father and
    the defendant).    The father and the defendant were married, and
    the jury reasonably could have inferred that the couple had been
    together for at least eight years (the age of the half-sister).1
    The father was never married to the daughter's biological
    mother, and the daughter never lived with her.     In fact, there
    was no evidence whatsoever that the daughter's biological mother
    had any ongoing parenting role in her life.
    With the biological mother playing no apparent role in the
    daughter's life, the daughter viewed the defendant as her
    "mother" or "mom" (as she repeatedly referred to the defendant
    1
    In assessing whether the requested instruction was
    warranted, we view the relevant trial evidence in the light most
    favorable to the defendant. See Commonwealth v. Randolph, 
    438 Mass. 290
    , 299 (2002).
    3
    in her trial testimony).    Despite this, or perhaps because of
    it, the adolescent daughter's relationship with the defendant
    was somewhat volatile.     The daughter testified that she
    simultaneously loved and could not "stand" the defendant.    When
    the father's counsel tried to get her to acknowledge that she
    did not consider the defendant as her "mother," the daughter
    denied this.
    The daughter fought with both her father and the defendant
    from time to time.   She acknowledged that at least some of that
    conflict was over whether she "lied to them or told the truth."
    She also acknowledged multiple instances of her lying to the
    defendant or others.2    The events that gave rise to the assault
    and battery charges arose in this context.
    The incident.   On March 30, 2011, the daughter went into
    the family's kitchen at approximately 5:30 A.M. to eat breakfast
    before school.   The defendant was already there, where she was
    2
    In her testimony, the daughter admitted to lying to the
    defendant, school officials (Q.: "You lied to the school
    officials, correct?"; A.: "Yes."), and the police (Q.: "And
    it's fair to say you didn't tell [the investigating officer] the
    truth, correct?"; A.: "Yes."). In fact, she "admitted to at
    least being inaccurate on a minimum of five occasions" in the
    testimony she had given at trial. The daughter also admitted
    that in February of 2012 (that is, some ten months after the
    incident), she wrote the father a letter in which she stated,
    "When this is all resolved, I hope you'll be able to believe and
    trust me." The jury could have inferred from such a statement
    that the daughter was acknowledging that she had given her
    parents reason not "to believe and trust" her. There was ample
    evidence on which reasonable jurors could conclude that the
    daughter lied on a persistent basis.
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    making the daughter a boxed lunch for school.    The two had a
    conversation in which the defendant "very nicely" offered the
    daughter some fruit that she was cutting up.    At one point, the
    defendant noticed that some cheese she had expected to find in
    the refrigerator was missing, and she asked the daughter whether
    she had eaten it.   The daughter initially denied that she had
    done so.   However, after being challenged by the defendant about
    the truthfulness of that denial, the daughter admitted to having
    eaten the cheese.
    According to the daughter's testimony, the defendant
    proceeded to strike the daughter's right ear with her hand
    causing it to bleed.   In addition, the defendant threw the
    daughter's cellular telephone across the room.    After the
    daughter went to her bedroom, the defendant entered the bedroom
    and grabbed and pulled the daughter's hair.    The defendant and
    the father then spoke privately.   Although there was no direct
    testimony about what the two said to each other, the daughter
    testified that the defendant went to get the father to "settle
    the dispute."   The father proceeded to the daughter's bedroom
    where -- according to the daughter's testimony -- he twice
    pretended to punch her in the face and then actually did so.
    Later that day, the daughter reported the incident to her
    ninth grade adjustment counselor at a regularly scheduled
    meeting.   The counselor did not notice any physical marks on the
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    daughter when she first arrived.   However, after the daughter
    reported the incident, the counselor carefully examined the
    daughter's head and was able to observe a swollen lip and cut
    gum (in the area where the father allegedly "punched" her), and
    a "red like scratch mark" on the daughter's right ear (where the
    defendant allegedly struck her).   An investigation and these
    charges ensued.
    The jury instruction.   When the defendant and the father
    requested a parental discipline instruction, the Commonwealth
    argued that neither one was entitled to such an instruction.
    Specifically, the Commonwealth argued that no reasonable jury
    could conclude either that the defendant and the father were
    engaged in disciplining the daughter, or -- even if their
    actions did amount to discipline -- that they employed only
    "reasonable" force.   The judge ultimately rejected that
    argument, and he therefore decided to give a parental discipline
    instruction for the father, the daughter's legal parent.    He
    instructed the jury that "[a] parent may use reasonable force to
    discipline his minor child . . . [but] may not use excessive
    force as a means of discipline or chastisement."3
    3
    The judge appears to have relied on instruction 3.15 of
    the Massachusetts Superior Court Criminal Practice Jury
    Instructions (Mass. Cont. Legal Educ. 1st Supp. 2003), which
    reads in full as follows:
    "PARENTAL DISCIPLINE
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    Notably, in opposing a parental discipline instruction for
    both the defendant and the father, the Commonwealth did not
    differentiate between the two.   Indeed, the prosecutor himself
    earlier in the trial referred to the defendant as "the mother"
    and used the term "their . . . daughter" in reference to the
    defendant and the father.4   Nevertheless, the judge sua sponte
    decided to treat the defendant differently from the father.     He
    not only denied the defendant's request for the same
    instruction, but also instructed the jury that "you may consider
    this principle [of parental discipline] only in the case against
    [the codefendant father], not in the case against [the
    defendant]."   As discussed infra, the judge read Commonwealth v.
    O'Connor, 
    407 Mass. 663
    (1990) (O'Connor), as commanding this
    result.   The defendant timely objected to this differential
    treatment.
    "A parent, or one acting in the position of a parent and
    who has assumed the responsibilities of a parent, may use
    reasonable force to discipline (his/her) minor child.
    However, a parent may not use excessive force as a means of
    discipline or chastisement."
    We note that in 2013, although the language did not change, this
    instruction became instruction 5.11.
    4
    To the extent that anyone at trial emphasized the
    defendant's status as a mere stepparent, it was the father's
    counsel. Relying in part on an allusion to Cinderella, the
    father's counsel suggested to the jury that the daughter so
    wanted to escape living with the defendant that she lied about
    the assaults.
    7
    Discussion.    In Commonwealth v. Dorvil, 
    472 Mass. 1
    , 2, 12
    (2015) (Dorvil), the Supreme Judicial Court expressly recognized
    a common-law parental privilege to use reasonable force to
    discipline a minor child.    The court laid out the contours of
    such a defense as follows:
    "[A] parent or guardian may not be subjected to criminal
    liability for the use of force against a minor child under
    the care and supervision of the parent or guardian,
    provided that (1) the force used against the minor child is
    reasonable; (2) the force is reasonably related to the
    purpose of safeguarding or promoting the welfare of the
    minor, including the prevention or punishment of the
    minor's misconduct; and (3) the force used neither causes,
    nor creates a substantial risk of causing, physical harm
    (beyond fleeting pain or minor, transient marks), gross
    degradation, or severe mental distress."
    
    Id. at 12.
      Moreover, "[a]s with other affirmative defenses,
    where the parental privilege defense is properly before the
    trier of fact, the Commonwealth bears the burden of disproving
    at least one prong of the defense beyond a reasonable doubt."
    
    Id. at 13.
      On the trial record established in Dorvil, which
    included evidence that the defendant there administered a
    "smack" to the clothed bottom of a two year old, the court
    determined the evidence insufficient as a matter of law to
    support the defendant's conviction of assault and battery.      
    Id. at 13-15.
    In the case before us, the defendant's principal claim is
    that the judge erred by instructing the jury that they could
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    consider a parental discipline defense only as to the father.5
    The judge denied the defendant the requested instruction solely
    because she was not the daughter's legal parent and -- in the
    judge's view -- had not sufficiently demonstrated that she was
    acting in loco parentis.   See 
    O'Connor, 407 Mass. at 668
    (a
    nonparent seeking to secure a parental discipline instruction
    bears the burden of showing "that he or she stands in loco
    parentis to the child . . . [and this in turn requires a showing
    that the] person . . . assume[s] all the duties and obligations
    of a parent toward the child").
    Commenting on O'Connor, the judge stated that being a
    stepparent by itself is insufficient to establish that one is
    acting in loco parentis and that instead "you'd almost have to
    take over for the actual parent."   The judge then highlighted
    that here, "the actual parent [presumably, the father] lived in
    the same household."   The judge added that "there's no evidence
    or basis on which a jury could decide that [the defendant] stood
    in local parentus [sic] for this child."
    As an initial matter, we consider whether Dorvil left open
    the possibility that one acting in loco parentis may raise a
    5
    There is no merit to the defendant's separate argument
    that the evidence of an assault and battery was insufficient as
    a matter of law. Viewing the trial evidence in the light most
    favorable to the Commonwealth, see Commonwealth v. Latimore, 
    378 Mass. 671
    , 677-678 (1979), there was ample basis upon which
    jurors could have concluded that the defendant's hitting the
    daughter did not constitute reasonable parental discipline.
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    parental discipline defense.    The Commonwealth accurately
    observes that Dorvil states that such a defense is available to
    a "parent or 
    guardian." 472 Mass. at 12
    .   However, Dorvil
    involved a defendant who was the child's legal parent, and it
    therefore unsurprisingly did not address the rights of someone
    acting in loco parentis.     To be sure, at the time the Supreme
    Judicial Court resolved O'Connor, it had not squarely decided
    that a common-law parental discipline defense existed for
    anyone.     However, the analytical premise of O'Connor is that one
    serving in loco parentis has whatever rights a legal parent has.
    We see nothing in Dorvil's shorthand reference to "parent or
    guardian" as intended to undo that premise.
    The defendant urges us to adopt a general presumption that
    stepparents act in loco parentis with regard to their spouses'
    children.    We decline to do so.   The mere fact that one is
    married to a legal parent obviously may say little about the
    nature and extent of the particular parenting role that he or
    she plays, and that role presumably will vary from household to
    household.    See 
    O'Connor, 407 Mass. at 668
    ("an in loco parentis
    relationship does not arise merely because someone in a position
    of stepparent has taken a child into his or her home and cares
    for the child").
    At the same time, we consider it equally self-evident that
    stepparents are not precluded from playing an in loco parentis
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    role just because one of the children's legal parents also
    resides in the same household (as is typically the case).
    Massachusetts cases have long recognized the pervasiveness of
    diverse family structures, including the blended family.      For
    example, in Mulhern v. McDavitt, 
    16 Gray 404
    , 406 (1860), the
    Supreme Judicial Court observed that "[i]n this commonwealth it
    is quite common, upon second marriages, that the wife's children
    are received into the family as members; and such an arrangement
    must tend to promote the happiness of the mother and the welfare
    of the children."     The court noted that a stepparent, by
    receiving a spouse's child into the family, may stand in loco
    parentis, with the "rights and obligations of a parent," and
    further noted that "the policy of the law is to encourage an
    extension of the circle and influence of the domestic fireside,
    and its presumptions are in favor of the existence of this
    relation."   Ibid.6   Massachusetts case law firmly recognizes and
    affirms the reality that many children live in households headed
    by at least one person who, although performing a critical
    parenting role, is neither biologically nor legally related to
    them.   See E.N.O. v. L.M.M., 
    429 Mass. 824
    , 829, cert. denied,
    6
    See Roush v. Director of the Div. of Employment Security,
    
    377 Mass. 572
    , 575-576 (1979), quoting from Coakley's Case, 
    216 Mass. 71
    , 74 (1913) ("The voluntary assumption of the
    obligations of parenthood toward children of a spouse by another
    marriage is one favored by the law. They may be included under
    the descriptive word 'family'").
    11
    
    528 U.S. 1005
    (1999) (observing, in the context of same-sex
    couples prior to the recognition of same-sex marriage rights,
    that a "child may be a member of a nontraditional family in
    which he is parented by a legal parent and a de facto parent").
    Massachusetts statutes, too, recognize the important parental
    role that stepparents and others can serve.7
    Against this rich backdrop, the meaning and reach of the
    dicta in O'Connor come into sharper focus.     Although the court
    stated there that an "[i]ntent to replace a natural parent is
    never to be lightly inferred," it did not purport to establish a
    bright line test for resolving whether in loco parentis status
    applies.   
    O'Connor, 407 Mass. at 668
    .   The defendant in O'Connor
    was a mere boy friend of the child victim's mother who resided
    in the same home in an "impermanent living arrangement," and who
    made no apparent financial contribution to the household.     
    Id. at 664,
    668-669.   In addition, the child's biological father (in
    addition to the mother) continued to play an active parenting
    7
    See, e.g., G. L. c. 209B, § 5, inserted by St. 1983,
    c. 680, § 1 (rights of "persons acting as parents" to notice and
    the opportunity to be heard in child custody proceedings); G. L.
    c. 112, § 12E 1/2, inserted by St. 2012, c. 244, § 10 (mandated
    notification of "other person[s] having custody or control of a
    minor child" where the minor is treated for drug or alcohol
    overdose); G. L. c. 175, § 123 (stepparents are authorized to
    include stepchildren as insured family members on joint life
    insurance policies); G. L. c. 118, § 1 (stepparents are included
    within the definition of parent for the purposes of public
    assistance); G. L. c. 119, § 21 (stepparents are included within
    the definition of relatives under the child protection statute).
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    role in the child's life.    
    Id. at 669.
      It was under these
    circumstances that the court concluded that "there was no basis
    on which a jury could decide that the defendant stood in loco
    parentis to the victim."    Ibid.8
    The adult-child relationship before us bears little
    resemblance to the one at issue in O'Connor.     Instead of being
    an itinerant boy friend or girl friend, the defendant was the
    child's long-term stepparent who lived full time in the same
    household.   Moreover, as noted, there was no evidence that the
    daughter's biological mother played any ongoing role in her
    life.   Significantly, the daughter viewed the defendant as her
    "mother," providing robust evidence that the defendant served
    that role in the family.    Cf. Commonwealth v. Torres, 
    442 Mass. 554
    , 568 (2004) (fact that children referred to the defendant as
    "Daddy" signified their "understanding that the defendant had a
    parental role in the household").    Although the precise nature
    of the relationship between the daughter and the defendant was
    not fully developed at trial, the thrust of the evidence was
    that the defendant was part of a stable family unit and that she
    8
    It was also in this context that the court commented that
    "[t]he key factors to a threshold showing of in loco parentis
    status are the intent to take over the position of parent, and
    the discharge of support and maintenance responsibilities toward
    the child." 
    O'Connor, 407 Mass. at 668
    . We do not interpret
    that passage as precluding fact finders from inferring a
    defendant's "intent to take over the position of parent" from
    her actions and circumstances. Nor do we view it as requiring a
    defendant to prove that she is the family "bread winner."
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    functionally served as mother and coparent to the daughter.      In
    our view, there was a sufficient basis on which the jury could
    have concluded that the defendant served an in loco parentis
    role.9    See 
    O'Connor, 407 Mass. at 668
    , citing with apparent
    approval Gribble v. Gribble, 
    583 P.2d 64
    , 66, and see 65-68
    (Utah 1978) (where the former stepfather had "lived with the
    child from the time he was two months old . . . and . . . the
    child . . . had no contact with his biological father," a
    hearing was required to determine whether an in loco parentis
    relationship existed entitling the stepfather to visitation
    rights).10   Any doubt as to whether the defendant was playing an
    9
    The Commonwealth is incorrect in asserting that the
    defendant cannot claim in loco parentis status and the
    concomitant parental discipline instruction where she did not
    take the stand or otherwise put on her own case. The defendant
    was entitled to such an instruction if "any view of the evidence
    would provide support for an affirmative defense." Commonwealth
    v. Monico, 
    373 Mass. 298
    , 299 (1977). See Commonwealth v.
    Eberle, 
    81 Mass. App. Ct. 235
    , 239 (2012) (evidence supporting
    an affirmative defense may come entirely from the Commonwealth's
    case). Nor was the defendant precluded from requesting the
    instruction by her taking the position that she never in fact
    struck the daughter. See generally Commonwealth v. Callahan,
    
    401 Mass. 627
    , 636 (1988) (recognizing that it can be a
    reasonable defense strategy for counsel to argue only one theory
    of defense to the jury and to leave it to the judge to instruct
    them on another).
    10
    See also Commonwealth v. Clark, 
    393 Mass. 361
    , 366
    (1984), which concerned a nonparent's potential criminal
    liability for failing to obtain medical care for his partner's
    child. The court reversed the dismissal of a criminal
    indictment, declining to hold on the undeveloped record that
    "only a parent, guardian or person entrusted with legal custody
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    in loco parentis role should have been left to the jury as fact
    finder.11
    The Commonwealth asks us to affirm on the ground that the
    defendant was not entitled to a parental discipline instruction
    even if she had been serving in loco parentis.    Its contention
    that there was "no evidence" that the defendant was engaged in
    discipline is simply at odds with the record.    There was
    evidence that the daughter had a history of conflict with her
    parents over whether she lied to them, that she had given her
    parents reason not "to believe and trust" her, that she lied on
    a persistent basis, and that the defendant in fact struck her in
    direct response to her having admitted just such a lie.      On the
    record before them, it was open for the jury to find (had they
    been so instructed) that the defendant's actions were
    "reasonably related to the purpose of safeguarding or promoting
    the welfare of the minor, including the prevention or punishment
    of a child" may have legal duties with regard to a child in the
    same household.
    11
    This could have been accomplished by giving the full
    model parental discipline instruction available at the time,
    which referred to a "parent, or one acting in the position of a
    parent and who has assumed the responsibilities of a parent."
    See note 
    3, supra
    . Presumably, the model instruction will be
    modified to include the additional teachings of Dorvil.
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    of the minor's misconduct [here, the daughter's repeated
    lying]."12   
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 12
    .
    The Commonwealth principally contends, as it did below,
    that the defendant struck the daughter out of anger or
    frustration, and that she therefore cannot claim that she was
    engaged in discipline at all.   However, the Supreme Judicial
    Court rejected just such an argument in Dorvil, ruling that the
    viability of a parental discipline defense should not turn on
    the parent's emotional state.   See 
    id. at 13-14
    (expressly
    abrogating dicta in Commonwealth v. Rubeck, 
    64 Mass. App. Ct. 396
    , 400-401 [2005]).   As the court explained, "It is
    understandable that parents would be angry at a child whose
    misbehavior necessitates punishment, and we see no reason why
    such anger should render otherwise reasonable uses of force
    impermissible."   
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 14
    .
    The Commonwealth additionally argues that the defendant
    (and the father) should not have been allowed to raise a
    parental discipline defense because the amount of force they
    used was excessive as a matter of law.   We are not unsympathetic
    to this argument, especially with regard to the father.    See
    Commonwealth v. 
    Torres, 442 Mass. at 568-569
    n.11 (parental
    12
    The evidence supporting an affirmative defense need not
    come from a defense witness. See note 
    9, supra
    . In assessing
    whether a jury instruction was warranted, the question is
    whether "any view of the evidence would provide support for an
    affirmative defense." Commonwealth v. 
    Monico, 373 Mass. at 299
    .
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    discipline instruction was not warranted where the evidence of
    physical abuse by the parent was so extreme that no reasonable
    jury could have found it justified).   However, viewing the
    evidence in the light most favorable to the defendant,
    reasonable jurors could have concluded on this record that she
    did not "cause[], []or create[] a substantial risk of causing,
    physical harm (beyond fleeting pain or minor, transient marks),
    gross degradation, or severe mental distress."   
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 12
    .   In this regard, we note that although the jury
    evidently concluded that the defendant touched the daughter in
    some fashion, the degree of force she used was hardly
    definitively established, especially where the corroborating
    testimony described the resulting injury only as a "scratch."13
    While there is considerable force to the Commonwealth's position
    that the defendant's behavior should not be viewed as reasonable
    parental discipline, her actions were not so out of bounds as to
    exclude such a defense from the jury's consideration.14   In our
    13
    Police photographs of the daughter's injuries were never
    entered in evidence because the Commonwealth failed to turn over
    the photographs in timely discovery. Our dissenting colleague
    has not explained how, even if the jurors credited the testimony
    that the daughter suffered a "scratch," they were precluded as a
    matter of law from finding that the daughter suffered only a
    "minor, transient mark[]." 
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 12
    .
    14
    In Dorvil, the court concluded, as a matter of law, that
    a parent cannot be convicted of assault and battery for
    disciplining a disobedient two year old child by "smack[ing]"
    her on a clothed 
    bottom. 472 Mass. at 13
    . Our dissenting
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    view, the judge did not err in concluding -- after considerable
    reflection -- that were the defendant acting in loco parentis,
    it would have been for the jury to weigh her parental discipline
    defense.15
    Moreover, even if neither codefendant were entitled to a
    parental discipline instruction, the judge's differential
    treatment of the two similarly situated codefendants caused
    fundamental unfairness to the defendant and independently
    constituted error.   By treating the defendant and the father
    differently in a manner not warranted by the evidence, the
    judge's instructions tended to invite the jury to focus on the
    defendant as the more culpable party.   Cf. United States v.
    Brandon, 
    17 F.3d 409
    , 453 (1st Cir.), cert. denied sub nom.
    Granoff v. United States, 
    513 U.S. 820
    (1994) (discussing the
    difficult choices trial judges face in fashioning jury
    colleague urges that we hold, again as a matter of law, that
    disciplining a disobedient fourteen year old by striking her ear
    cannot constitute reasonable parental discipline. If we were so
    to conclude, one would be left to wonder what role, if any,
    juries are to play in resolving what constitutes reasonable
    parental discipline.
    15
    The trial judge in fact initially expressed his
    reservations about giving either party such an instruction,
    stating that he was "not convinced at this point that there's
    sufficient evidence to raise this disciplinary defense."
    However, as noted, the judge ultimately provided the father the
    requested instruction, and he deprived the defendant of the
    instruction solely because of his view that she could not show
    in loco parentis status. Thus, the judge ultimately rejected
    the Commonwealth's argument that the evidence was insufficient
    to raise a parental discipline defense.
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    instructions in multiple defendant cases and the potential
    dangers of inadvertently "turn[ing] the spotlight" on one
    defendant).
    The defendant's claim of error was fully preserved, and the
    only remaining question is whether the faulty instructions
    constituted prejudicial error.   The father received the benefit
    of the instruction, and the jury acquitted him even though the
    evidence strongly suggests that, if anything, he struck the
    daughter with more force than did the defendant.   Under these
    circumstances, we "cannot say, with fair assurance . . . that
    the judgment was not substantially swayed by the error."
    Commonwealth v. Flebotte, 
    417 Mass. 348
    , 353 (1994)
    (quotation omitted).16   In any new trial, the judge will be free
    to revisit whether a parental discipline instruction is
    warranted on the evidence presented.
    Judgment reversed.
    Verdict set aside.
    16
    The defendant also asserts error in the prosecutor's
    closing. We need not address that claim, which is unlikely to
    arise in any retrial.
    BERRY, J. (dissenting).   The majority opinion, I
    respectfully submit, misapprehends the law of affirmative
    defenses in this very important area of parental discipline.
    One who invokes the affirmative defense of parental discipline
    has a burden to offer some evidence warranting such an
    affirmative defense instruction -- either by cross-examination
    in the direct case or in a defense case.   That was not done
    here.   Instead, the defense case rested on a theory of
    fabrication.   See note 4, infra.
    The effect of the majority opinion, I believe, may have
    untoward consequences.   It may be read to mean a parental
    discipline instruction is warranted in any case involving the
    hitting of a child for any/every lie, major or minor -- and a
    host of other childhood infractions.   Under the majority
    opinion, if a child lies about doing homework, is a parental hit
    within the majority's realm?   If a child eats candy and is not
    supposed to do that, is that within the majority realm?     If a
    child has been untruthful at any time in the past and argued
    with parents in the past, then may the child be whacked across
    the face yielding blood, the child's cellular telephone taken
    and flung across a small room, and the child pursued to her
    bedroom to have hair pulled, all within the majority realm?        The
    last answer is "yes," based on this case, and that should be
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    beyond the pale of any reasonable excuse/justification/parental
    discipline affirmative defense.
    In what appears to me to be a misapprehension of the law of
    evidence on affirmative defenses, the majority seems to take the
    position that the simple answer is that all this is just a jury
    question.   See ante at    ("On the record before them, it was
    open for the jury to find [had they been so instructed] that the
    defendant's actions were 'reasonably related to the purpose of
    safeguarding or promoting the welfare of the minor, including
    the prevention or punishment of the minor's misconduct [here,
    the daughter's repeated lying]'").   However, the majority
    incorrectly, I think, is merging the "it is a jury question" for
    jury deliberations and verdict, with the separate and distinct
    precedent governing the legal responsibility of a judge to make
    a preliminary legal ruling whether a defendant has adduced
    sufficient evidence to get an affirmative defense jury
    instruction.   Put another way, the affirmative defense of
    parental discipline is not just a jury question; it is a judge's
    legal instruction determination, followed by a judge's yea or
    nea on whether a jury instruction is warranted on the evidence.
    To follow the path of the majority, I believe, will yield the
    result of most defendants claiming, and trial judges wondering,
    whether every lie (or other child misbehavior) is a predicate
    for a parental discipline affirmative defense instruction.
    3
    The daughter did admit throughout her testimony to eating,
    and lying about eating, the cheese, which led to the defendant
    mother's assaults on the day of the encounter.    But, contrary to
    the majority's casting of the record, it is not so on this
    record that there was evidence that the daughter "lied on a
    persistent basis."   Ante at   .
    As basis for this supposed "persistent lying" not proved on
    the record, the majority strings together without context a
    bunch of the daughter's minor inaccuracies about the events
    transpiring on the day of the cheese theft.    Thus for example,
    the majority, without context, writes that "she 'admitted to at
    least being inaccurate on a minimum of five occasions' in the
    testimony she had given at trial."   Ante at note 2.    What the
    majority fails to say to provide necessary context is that the
    supposed lies and inaccuracies in the daughter's testimony,
    including what the majority says were on "five occasions,"
    related to the daughter telling the school official that she had
    not brought her lunch to school.
    Furthermore, contrary to the majority, the daughter
    testified that she told the police the truth.     Thus, there is a
    similar out-of-context reference, and the record is contrary to
    what the majority writes in note 2, ante.     That is, when
    confronted by what was fairly standard defense cross-examination
    about what was and was not in the police report and the
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    counselor's description of what she remembered being told, the
    daughter was adamant and did not waver, holding fast that she
    told the police and the counselor the truth, and did not lie
    about the cheese incident.    So I do not know from whence in the
    transcript comes this majority reference to supposedly heavy
    lying to the police and school officials.     From what I see in
    black and white in the trial transcript, the daughter was
    adamant that she told the police and the school counselor the
    truth about the assault, and the supposed lies to school
    officials seem to be about lunch brought or not brought to
    school.
    Lastly, I would also note that in other sentence fragments
    (see ante at    ,    ) there is a misreading of the evidence to
    support a suggestion that the daughter was a serial liar, thus
    justifying the beating she received from the mother.       In one
    such sentence fragment, the majority writes that "[t]here was
    evidence that the daughter had a history of conflict with her
    parents over whether she lied to them."     Ante at    -     .
    Again, this description is without necessary context.       The
    actual context is as follows, which shows this reference relates
    to the daughter living with the grandmother:
    Defense counsel:     "Okay.   You currently live with your
    grandmother?"
    Daughter:   "Yes."
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    Defense counsel:      "And you have since this incident?"
    Daughter:   "Yes."
    Defense counsel:      "And do you enjoy living with her?"
    Daughter:   "Yes."
    Defense counsel: "When you -- before this incident, did
    you at times wish that you lived with your grandmother?"
    Daughter:   "Sometimes."
    Defense counsel: "And sometimes you wished you lived with
    grandmother because sometimes you fought with your
    parents?"
    Daughter:   "Yes."
    Defense counsel: "And sometimes you fought with your
    parents about whether you lied to them or told the truth,
    is that true?"
    Prosecutor:   "Objection."
    Daughter:   "Yes."1
    In sum, the evidence -- particularly the daughter's
    testimony -- does not support the majority position that the
    assault was justified because of a pattern of regular lies that
    warranted child discipline.
    1
    The same flaws appear in the majority sentence fragment,
    ante at    -   , where the evidence is represented to say that
    the daughter "had a history of conflict with her parents over
    whether she lied to them, that she had given her parents reason
    not 'to believe and trust' her, that she lied on a persistent
    basis." This additional reference, like the other majority
    reference detailed above, is in the context of the daughter
    leaving the parents' household and going to live with her
    grandmother.
    6
    To be clear further about my position in this dissent, even
    if the daughter in the past told lies to her parents, what kid
    has not done that?   Do lies in the past, none of which were even
    probed into at trial or shown to be major or to be of and
    concerning matters of the child's safety, justify an assault
    upon the daughter for taking some cheese from a refrigerator and
    not immediately confessing thereto for a minute or so?    I simply
    do not see the justification for the affirmative defense of
    parental discipline that the majority would take from this
    record.
    Lastly, as discussed further herein, the majority would
    make one legal error in giving the father a parental discipline
    instruction (to which he was not entitled after he punched his
    daughter in the face) into a different and separate legal error
    as grounds to reverse the conviction of the mother, who also was
    not, on the evidence, entitled to a parental discipline
    affirmative defense instruction.
    It is clear that the majority -- having determined that
    there will be a reversal -- turns its attention to an in loco
    parentis analysis.   I disagree with the majority analysis and
    its seeking to make this arcane case law the foundation for the
    parental discipline instruction in future cases -- especially on
    this extremely thin trial record.   I think the Supreme Judicial
    Court decision in Commonwealth v. Dorvil, 
    472 Mass. 1
    , 12 (2015)
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    (Dorvil), was clear in its extension to a "parent or guardian,"
    and was not intended to rest on in loco parentis.   But, perhaps,
    whether the Supreme Judicial Court wants trial judges to study
    in loco parentis is a matter for that court to determine should
    it deem further appellate review warranted -- a path I would
    urge in this case.
    I turn now in this dissent to analysis of those points of
    divergence from the majority opinion.
    As to the defendant mother's appeal (which is the only
    appeal before this court),2 there was not sufficient evidence by
    any measure to support a parental discipline affirmative defense
    to the mother's assault and battery upon the daughter by a hit
    across the face that led to bleeding, the grabbing and pulling
    of the daughter by her hair, or the throwing of the daughter's
    cellular telephone across the kitchen while the daughter sat in
    the kitchen -- all of this because the daughter ate some cheese
    from the refrigerator, and then initially lied, denying she had
    eaten the cheese.
    2
    Neither the mother nor the father was, I believe, entitled
    to a parental discipline instruction. Only the appeal of the
    convicted defendant mother is before us. The father, who
    received an unwarranted parental discipline instruction, was
    acquitted of assault and battery, despite that he punched his
    daughter in the face, yielding a fat lip. Since he was
    acquitted, the erroneously given instruction to the benefit of
    the father is not before us.
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    1.   The Dorvil reasonableness prerequisite to parental
    discipline and the three reasonableness prongs.     According to
    
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 12
    -13, as a matter of law, parental
    discipline is an affirmative defense to an alleged assault and
    battery upon a child.   To this end, Dorvil specifically holds
    that, before the affirmative defense of parental discipline may
    be presented to a jury (by instruction charge) or to a judge as
    trier of fact, the essential prerequisite to the use of parental
    force in disciplining a child, is reasonableness.    "[T]he force
    used against the minor child [must be] reasonable," and such
    force must be "reasonably related to the purpose of safeguarding
    or promoting the welfare of the minor" (emphasis supplied).        
    Id. at 12.
      Neither of these reasonableness prerequisites is
    satisfied on the evidence introduced in this case by the
    defendant mother.   In my opinion, because of that insufficient
    evidence, the affirmative defense was not applicable, no
    instruction on parental discipline was warranted, and there was,
    accordingly, no reversible error.   Hence, I dissent.
    This case must be considered in light of the governing
    Dorvil holding that the affirmative defense of parental
    discipline only stands and may only be properly brought for
    consideration before the jury (or judge) as the trier of fact if
    there is sufficient evidence to warrant the parental discipline.
    Only then, "[a]s with other affirmative defenses[] [in cases]
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    where the parental privilege defense is properly before the
    trier of fact, [does] the Commonwealth [then] bear[] the burden
    of disproving at least one prong of the defense beyond a
    reasonable doubt" (emphasis supplied).    
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 13
    .
    Here, the evidence fails by sufficiency to meet either the first
    reasonable force prong of Dorvil, or the second reasonable
    relation prong.   See 
    id. at 12.
      To the contrary in this case,
    the level of violence inflicted by the defendant mother negates
    the affirmative defense that the daughter could be subjected to
    violent assault and battery because of a lie about eating a
    particular piece of food in the family refrigerator.3
    Because such an affirmative defense has an insufficient
    foundation in the evidence and was not established either in the
    Commonwealth's direct case by cross-examination of the
    prosecution witnesses or in the defense case (there was no
    defense case), the mother never met the burden of production to
    3
    The court in Dorvil also considered a third prong that
    would focus on the child's offense; here, stealing cheese and
    lying about eating the cheese. "In applying the [parental
    discipline defense] framework, each of the three prongs
    constitutes a question for the trier of fact. In evaluating the
    reasonableness of the force used, and of the relation of that
    force to a permissible parental purpose (the first two prongs of
    the test), the trier of fact may consider, among other factors,
    the child's 'age,' the 'physical and mental condition of the
    child,' and 'the nature of [the child's] offense'" (emphasis
    supplied). 
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 13
    , citing Restatement (Second)
    of Torts § 150 (1965). Because there is a failure of proof on
    the other two prongs, I will leave aside the question whether a
    child eating cheese deserves to be assaulted.
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    be entitled to an affirmative defense jury instruction
    concerning parental discipline for the assault and battery upon
    the daughter.   See generally Commonwealth v. Cabral, 
    443 Mass. 171
    , 179 (2005) (Cabral), quoting from Model Penal Code
    § 1.12(1), (2) (1985) ("[W]here a defendant asserts an
    'affirmative defense,' [the defendant] takes on a burden of
    production, because the Commonwealth has no burden of disproving
    an affirmative defense 'unless and until there is evidence
    supporting such defense'").   As with the general law concerning
    affirmative defenses and jury instructions to that effect, "[i]f
    the defense is 'affirmative,' [as is the defense of parental
    discipline, it is only when] a defendant raises the defense to a
    charge and the defense is supported by sufficient evidence,
    [that] the defendant is entitled to have a jury instruction on
    the defense, and the Commonwealth has the burden of disproving
    the defense" (emphasis supplied).   Cabral, supra at 179-180.4
    Given this trial record, I believe the judge's original
    position was on the mark when he stated that he was "not
    convinced at this point that there's sufficient evidence to
    4
    I agree with the Commonwealth's position in its filing
    pursuant to Mass.R.A.P. 16(l), as amended, 
    386 Mass. 1247
    (1982), submitted after Dorvil was decided, that "[n]o evidence
    on the issue of parental discipline was adduced at trial.
    Instead, the defendant relied on the defense of fabrication --
    that the victim lied about what happened to her. This was the
    theme in the opening . . . [and] in cross-examination."
    (Emphasis supplied.)
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    raise this disciplinary defense."    That was a correct assessment
    of the evidence, and nothing changed once the evidence closed.
    At trial, there was no affirmative defense evidence
    introduced that the mother engaged in parental discipline so as
    to justify the assaults and batteries.    This alleged affirmative
    defense was not developed in the cross-examination of the three
    prosecution trial witnesses -- i.e., the daughter, the school
    counselor, and the police officer.    Nor was any such parental
    discipline theory presented in a defense case because neither
    the father nor the mother testified in defense, and the mother
    did not present any other evidence concerning purportedly
    justified parental discipline.
    To be clear, the importance of this issue is not only
    whether or not the mother was entitled to a parental discipline
    affirmative defense instruction.    The true reach of the issue
    extends to the important obligation of a trial judge not to give
    the instruction when, as here, there is no foundation in the
    evidence for such a parental discipline affirmative defense
    instruction.    To this end the majority appears to fundamentally
    misunderstand when an affirmative defense is properly raised by
    the evidence.   Before one can reach the question whether, as the
    majority writes, "[v]iewing the trial evidence in the light most
    favorable to the Commonwealth, see Commonwealth v. Latimore, 
    378 Mass. 671
    , 677-678 (1979), there was ample basis upon which
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    jurors could have concluded that the defendant's hitting the
    daughter did not constitute reasonable parental discipline,"
    ante at note 5, one must first ask whether the evidence
    presented at trial, viewed in the light most favorable to the
    defendant, was sufficient to raise the affirmative defense of
    parental discipline, entitling the defendant to such an
    instruction.
    That is because Dorvil specifically holds that parental
    discipline is an affirmative defense.   
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 13
    .
    Thus, to be entitled to a parental discipline affirmative
    defense instruction, the evidence must sufficiently raise both
    the first reasonable force prong of Dorvil, and the second
    reasonable relation prong.
    In this respect whether the evidence sufficiently raises
    the affirmative defense of parental discipline is similar in
    many ways to whether and when a defendant is entitled to a jury
    instruction on the affirmative defense of self-defense (and the
    use of deadly force in self-defense).   See Commonwealth v. Toon,
    
    55 Mass. App. Ct. 642
    , 644-645 (2002) ("Whether an allegedly
    erroneous instruction on self-defense [and the use of excessive
    force in self-defense] is prejudicial [or creates a substantial
    risk of a miscarriage of justice] necessarily involves examining
    first whether self-defense was raised sufficiently.   If not, the
    defendant received more than he was entitled to . . . [because
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    such an instruction is warranted only if] the evidence, together
    with the reasonable inferences, raises a reasonable doubt as to
    each of the predicates for the use of deadly force in self-
    defense").   See also Commonwealth v. Harrington, 
    379 Mass. 446
    ,
    450 (1980) (citation omitted) ("A defendant is [only] entitled
    to have the jury at his trial instructed on the law relating to
    self-defense if the evidence, viewed in its light most favorable
    to him, is sufficient to raise the issue.   There must be
    evidence warranting at least a reasonable doubt that the
    defendant:   [1] had reasonable ground to believe and actually
    did believe that he was in imminent danger of death or serious
    bodily harm, from which he could save himself only by using
    deadly force, [2] had availed himself of all proper means to
    avoid physical combat before resorting to the use of deadly
    force, and [3] used no more force than was reasonably necessary
    in all the circumstances of the case").5
    5
    It is interesting to compare the facts in the present case
    to the facts of Dorvil. First, in Dorvil, both the defendant
    father and the child's mother testified at trial. Dorvil, 
    472 Mass. 4-5
    . Not so here. Second, in Dorvil, the defendant and
    the child's mother testified at trial "that [the defendant]
    administered the spanking because the child disobeyed [the
    defendant's] direction to go to her mother, and continued
    playing on the sidewalk near the street." 
    Id. at 13.
    Not so
    here. Finally, the factual setting in Dorvil, a young child
    running around near a bus terminal on a sidewalk close to the
    street raises safety concerns tied to the child's conduct. 
    Id. at 5,
    13. Not so here.
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    Rather than addressing the question whether there was
    sufficient affirmative defense evidence introduced consistent
    with the Dorvil prongs and warranting a parental discipline
    affirmative defense instruction justifying the assault and
    battery, the majority summarily concludes that "[t]he evidence
    supporting an affirmative defense need not come from a defense
    witness," ante at note 12, and relies on snippets to suggest
    (erroneously I would say) that the record has evidence of
    persistent lying.    First, I do not disagree that an affirmative
    defense of parental discipline can be developed in the cross-
    examination of prosecution trial witnesses.    See ante at note 9.
    But here, it was not.   And I do not think the snapshot of
    testimony from the daughter was sufficient to properly put this
    affirmative defense of parental discipline by instruction before
    the jury, as trier of fact.
    2.   The majority in loco parentis pronouncements.
    Furthermore, given that 
    Dorvil, 472 Mass. at 12
    , makes perfectly
    clear that it encompasses a "parent or guardian," I cannot
    follow the majority's attachment to the twenty-five year old
    Commonwealth v. O'Connor, 
    407 Mass. 663
    , 668 (1990) (O'Connor),
    and its in loco parentis analysis which, in turn, is tied to
    financial support.   Given the empty trial evidence on this
    important affirmative defense, I would not (as does the
    majority) reach out to address in the abstract the parameters of
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    parental discipline instructions, with the majority focus on an
    in loco parentis theory.
    Nor do I think O'Connor provides a springboard to the
    rights and obligations of parents within the wake of Dorvil.
    Further, the "domestic fireside" warmth of the century-old case
    of Mulhern v. McDavitt, 
    16 Gray 404
    , 406 (1860), on which the
    majority relies in its in loco parentis analysis, is not where
    the world of family is today.   That arcane in loco parentis
    analysis does not fit modern life models.   In effect, the
    majority harkens back to 1860 ancient law, notwithstanding an
    evidentiary void in this 2013 case.    I decline to follow that
    path.    And, more significantly, the 2015 Dorvil decision
    expressly encompasses parents and guardians.6   So the majority's
    focus on in loco parentis is an exploration with no trial record
    path related to modern decisional law.
    In my humble view, given the wholly inadequate trial
    record, this is not the case in which to move into this fraught
    area of child discipline.   Furthermore, the nonexistence of any
    trial evidence leaves me with little assurance that this court
    should be making pronouncements in the abstract on the arcane
    doctrine of in loco parentis, in a case where the affirmative
    defense is not justified in the first place.
    6
    See, e.g., the editorial in the July 20, 2015, issue of
    the Massachusetts Lawyers Weekly that fully catches that Dorvil
    applies to parents and guardians.
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    3.   The majority failure to consider the insufficiency of
    the evidence.   Finally, I do not accept, and dissent from, the
    part of the majority analysis that concludes that "[w]hile there
    is considerable force to the Commonwealth's position that the
    defendant's behavior should not be viewed as reasonable parental
    discipline, her actions were not so out of bounds as to exclude
    such a defense from the jury's consideration."    Ante at     .   To
    the contrary, this beating by a violent slap across the face,
    delivered with such force that it caused the daughter's ear to
    bleed, the throwing of a cellular telephone as a projectile, and
    the pursuit of the daughter into the bedroom to pull her hair
    were all acts arising out of anger.     Such volatile anger-driven
    acts did not in any way reflect reasonable use of force or
    proportionality to the child's "major offense" of eating cheese
    stored in the refrigerator and then denying/lying about that.
    Hence, no affirmative defense instruction on parental discipline
    was warranted under Dorvil.
    In sum, respectfully, I see the majority as not resolving
    the fundamental question whether the evidence sufficed for the
    mother to receive the benefit of this affirmative defense and a
    parental discipline jury instruction.    Furthermore, I am
    troubled that a conviction is being reversed, with a lot of
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    writing about in loco parentis and the parental discipline
    affirmative defense, without any supporting trial evidence.7
    For all of these reasons, I dissent from the majority's
    decision reversing the conviction of assault and battery upon
    the daughter.
    7
    After summarily concluding that there was sufficient
    evidence introduced at trial to warrant a parental discipline
    instruction, the majority ultimately decides that reversal of
    the conviction of the mother is required because of an
    "unfairness to the defendant," ante at    , such that a new
    trial is warranted. According to the majority, this unfairness
    inured when the judge, having changed his position, gave the
    father the unwarranted benefit of a parental discipline
    instruction while expressly telling the jury not to consider
    whether the mother may have engaged in parental discipline.
    But, if the mother had no reasonable tenable basis for the
    parental discipline instruction anyway, there was no error in
    depriving her of the instruction. Where one defendant gets a
    requested affirmative defense instruction (not warranted by the
    evidence) and the codefendant does not get the instruction (even
    though the instruction as to the other codefendant is also not
    warranted by the evidence) that does not lead to reversal for
    the defendant correctly denied a jury instruction on an
    affirmative defense. The abstract analysis of in loco parentis
    in the majority as to stepparents becomes a very small part of a
    very big discussion of other parental discipline legal issues,
    with which I do not agree.