C.M. v. J.M. ( 2023 )

C.M. v. J.M., No. 852, September Term, 2022. Opinion by Wright, J.
FINAL PROTECTIVE ORDER – SUFFICIENT EVIDENCE OF MENTAL
INJURY TO SUSTAIN FINDING OF ABUSE OF A CHILD
Trial court could find by a preponderance of the evidence that father engaged in mental
abuse of his 13-year-old child by creating a substantial risk of harm, and that Father’s
actions were intentional or with reckless disregard to the consequences of his actions,
where, among other things, child expressed during judicial interview with court that he
was frightened of father’s reaction to child identifying as gay; father’s numerous text
messages to mother, child’s older sibling, and child; and a child protective services report
that child did not feel safe with father and child was concerned that father might hit him
for identifying as gay.
FINAL PROTECTIVE ORDER - JUDICIAL INTERVIEW OF CHILD
Trial court need not provide a detailed recitation of private, judicial child interview. Trial
court committed no error when it summarized for the parties the gist of its interview with
child.
FINAL PROTECTIVE ORDER – RELIEF
Relief granted by trial court was reasonable and well-tailored to the facts presented given
father’s view of gay child where the relief ordered did not change quantity of contact but
stated that visitation can only occur if child “is comfortable doing so” and father may not
communicate with child via telephone or text messages about child’s sexual orientation.
Circuit Court for Anne Arundel County
Case No. C-02-FM-22-808824
REPORTED
IN THE APPELLATE COURT
OF MARYLAND*
No. 852
September Term, 2022
______________________________________
C.M.
v.
J.M.
______________________________________
Kehoe,
Zic,
Wright, Alexander, Jr.
(Senior Judge, Specially Assigned),
JJ.
Pursuant to the Maryland Uniform Electronic Legal Materials ______________________________________
Act (§§ 10-1601 et seq. of the State Government Article) this
document is authentic.
Opinion by Wright, J.
2023-05-24 14:59-04:00
______________________________________
Filed: May 24, 2023
Gregory Hilton, Clerk
* At the November 8, 2022 general election, the voters of Maryland ratified a
constitutional amendment changing the name of the Court of Special Appeals of Maryland
to the Appellate Court of Maryland. The name change took effect on December 14, 2022.
The Circuit Court for Anne Arundel County entered a final protective order against
C.M. (“Father”) on grounds that he was mentally abusive to his 12-year-old son (“N.”)
regarding his son’s sexual orientation. On appeal, Father raises three questions, which we
have rephrased for clarity:
I. Did the circuit court err in finding that Father had inflicted mental
injury on N.?
II. Did the circuit court err when it interviewed N. outside the presence
of the parties and their counsel?
III. Did the circuit court err because the relief granted was not reasonably
tailored to address the mental injury inflicted?
For the following reasons, we shall affirm.
BACKGROUND FACTS
Father and J.M. (“Mother”) were married for about five years and had two children
before divorcing in 2012. As part of the divorce settlement, the parties agreed to joint legal
custody of their two children with Mother to have primary physical custody and Father to
have visitation every other weekend from Friday to Sunday.
Roughly three years later, on June 15, 2022, Mother filed for a protective order for
herself and her children, then aged 15 and 12, alleging that Father had caused her and the
children mental injury based on abusive texts and emails he had sent to them. The District
Court granted the temporary petition; requested the Department of Human Services
investigate and issue a Child Protective Services Report (“CPS Report”), and transferred
the case to the circuit court for a final order.
At the final protective order hearing on June 22, 2022, both parties testified, the
children were separately interviewed by the court, and several exhibits were entered into
evidence, including the CPS Report.
Mother testified that she filed the protective order because she was concerned for
her and her children’s safety as a result of the numerous texts Father had sent, which over
the years had “progressively gotten worse.” The parties focused on events that occurred
during the four months that preceded the filing of the protective order.
As to their older child, “S.”, Mother testified that about three years ago, S. told her
that he believed he was transgender.1 Mother denied steering S. toward identifying as
transgender but has actively supported S. by arranging for therapy and attending meetings
of Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (“PFLAG”). When S. told Father
that he identified as transgender, Father “opposed” his decision and refused to call him by
his preferred name. S. subsequently engaged in the self-harming behavior of “cutting.”
On March 4, 2022, Father sent the following text messages to S.:
What is your email address? I’m sending you an email and I’m copying your
mother and my lawyer. I’m t[ir]ed the BS manipulations. Your grandmother
doesn’t call you S[.] and neither does either one of your aunts and uncle up
here and for some reason my Christian beliefs are being attacked, so the
intent is for a trial, so that everyone can understand what your mother that
has manipulated a wedge after you and I had already came to an agreement
[to call you a shortened version of your given name]. Thanks[.]
1
We shall refer to the parties’ oldest child as “S.” which is the first letter of the
name the child prefers to be called rather than his given name. We shall also refer to S.
with his preferred pronouns, he/him/his.
2
Mother testified that S. is “scared” to be around Father because “he doesn’t feel support;
doesn’t feel that S[.] can be himself, . . . his true self[.]”
As to their younger child, N., Mother testified that about five months ago N. told
her that he believed he was gay. On June 11, 2022, Father sent N. the following text:
You can text me anytime. Just between us and call if you ever need to talk.
I will tell you like I told you before – you are being heavily manipulated and
influenced by your mother and sister. Son. Listen to your dad and our father
who created us (God) in this matter. Please please do not allow these demons
you are surrounded by influence you. Pray my son. For protection. I love
you. Dad.
The next day, while N. was visiting Father at his house, Father asked N. to show him his
TikTok account. According to Father, N. started acting “very strangely[,]” eventually
walking outside the house and calling and then texting his Mother. Father testified he told
N. that he was not “happy with” him because he had every right to see N.’s social media
account. Father then told N. that because he was undercutting his authority by calling
Mother, he could “[j]ust go home.” N. called his Mother to pick him up and while she was
enroute, Father and N. had a conversation in which N. told him he was gay. Father testified
that he responded by telling N.: “I love [you] no matter what, and that whatever he is when
he’s an adult and down the road, that I will love him, but he needs to respect that his father
doesn’t actually hold the same beliefs due to my Biblical beliefs.” He explained to the
court that his “Christian beliefs, my Biblical beliefs, preclude me from agreeing with any
LGBTQ agenda.” Father testified that his Christian religion “means everything” to him.
Mother was asked about her observations of N. when she drove him home from
Father’s house. She testified that N. “seemed a little down and out, and was a little shaken
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up, and you know, I just asked if he was okay, and he said . . . ‘I am now.’” She testified
that N. told her that when he told his Father he was gay, his Father said, “No, you’re not,
but I love you anyway.”
Later that evening, Father texted a picture to S. The picture is of two unhappy
looking teenage girls with zig zag stitching across their chests with the typed statement
above it: “It’s not ‘top surgery.’ It’s a radical elective double mastectomy performed on
healthy girls who have been sucked into a cult by groomer schools and online influencers.”
Father wrote underneath the picture: “Don’t ever do this stuff to yourself. If you ever want
to talk about the thousands of UK children who regretted this and other things later in life,
let me know. Also, I hope you read my google email to you.”
Father sent a second text a few hours later to S. that showed a photograph of a bull
with horns with the message, “If you’re still confused about gender, try milking a bull and
you’ll learn real quick.” Father texted underneath the photograph: “I think this one is
hilariously accurate.”
The next day Father texted Mother the following text messages over the course of
an hour, each paragraph represents a separate text:
You really have no idea who you are talking to. . . . The wolves will enter in
and not spare the flock says our father. . . . The ascension of Christ opened
the book of Revelation, it has been 80 generations now, but we are the last.
And time is almost up. I will not be staying. Many will. You will understand
after all of this is over. I promise, you will live to see. . . . You have no idea
who I am. And you should thank me because if I can have you and your
parents repent and turn before this is over, that’s 3 souls I will get credit for
saving.
***
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I am a child of God. I am a watchm[a]n. They have been warned, but as
instructed each has to work out our own salvation says our father. Your fake
Christian parents have been warned, or at least your father, to Repent and
turn.
***
For example, our father tells us about tranny’s and gays right in the bible.
He says any one who cuts off things or if man lay with man or women with
women will be burned. But the Holy See and most other Churches say, no,
it’s all good now.
***
This is what Christ was talking about when he said, when I leave, I know the
wolves will enter and not spare the flock. You have no idea how close we
are to Michael standing up. But I promise, short of God taking you out
prematurely, I do believe you will see.
***
The spirit of Truth is upon you. You are being shown the truth that you must
bend to or you and your parents will burn. It’s that simple.
***
You have been warned and will have no excuse now once asked to give an
account.
Half an hour later, Father texted Mother a picture of a horned, animal-like human sitting
on a throne and wrote that it is a picture of a deity called “Baphomet” that was “after
everyone’s children right now.” He continued:
What you are going to see very shortly in this world is of Biblical
proportions. . . . As I stated to you before, we are the last and you have no
idea how close we are to Michael standing up. If you and your family do not
repent and turn before that happens, you will be subjected to the plagues that
follows after Michael stands. Again, and for the last time, you and yours
have been warned.
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A CPS report dated June 21, 2022, was admitted into evidence. The case worker, a
licensed social worker, wrote that five days after the incident between Father and N., she
interviewed the children in person at their respective schools, and Mother and Father over
the telephone. As to the interview with the children, she wrote:
S[.] stated around 6th grade, his relationship with his father went downhill.
S[.] stated he came out as transgender and his father blames his mother and
says he is a part of a cult. S[.] stated he wanted to get into therapy and his
father blamed his mother. S[.] stated his father threatens to sue his mother
because he is transgender. S[.] stated he stopped seeing his father regularly
in late 2019. S[.] stated he sometimes goes to his father’s around the holidays
because he wants to continue to see his cousins. S[.] stated his father has
sent him text messages and emails with information against the LGBTQ+
community. S[.] denied feeling safe with his father. This worker asked why.
S[.] stated he guesses it is more of an uncomfortable situation because he
does not feel like he can be himself.
This worker asked how his father treats N[.] S[.] stated this past
weekend, their father kicked N[.] out of the house because he would not show
him a TikTok because it stated he was gay. S[.] stated his father also
threatened to break the phone. S[.] was not present for the incident. S[.]
denied his father ever becoming physical with him or his mother. S[.] stated
years ago, his father “slammed” N[.] because he was learning how to ride a
bike and said something like “mom would have done it better”. S[.] denied
witnessing what happened.
***
N[.] stated he sees his father every other weekend. N[.] stated this past
weekend was not good but normally they are fine. N[.] stated his father was
mad because he would not show him his TikTok. N[.] stated he would not
show him his TikTok because it showed his sexual orientation. N[.] stated
he eventually told his father he was gay. N[.] denied his father becoming
physical with him and stated it was only verbal. N[.] stated his father was
insulting his mother and said “you can go back with your psychotic mother”.
N[.] stated he was picked up by his mother after this occurred. N[.] stated
his father sent him a text message stating he was being manipulated by his
mother and sister and he should not allow the demons that surround him to
influence him. This worker asked how his father treats S[.] N[.] stated his
father often uses the slur “tranny”.
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***
This worker asked if his father ever became physical with him. N[.]
stated when he was 9 years old, his father hit him on the head with an open
hand because he said his mother would have taught him how to ride a bike
better. N[.] denied any other physical altercations with his father and denied
seeing his father become physical with anyone else. This worker asked if
N[.] felt safe with his father. N[.] stated not really because his father has
“anger issues” and makes him feel scared like he may hit him. This worker
asked what could help N[.] feel safe with his father. N[.] stated his father
accepting him, getting less angry, and not saying bad things about their
mother would help him to feel safe.
(Emphasis added.)
During the social worker’s interview with Mother, Mother told her that she filed the
protective order because Father told her she “would rot in hell if she did not repent[,]” that
he was “not of this world” and he was a “messenger of God” and it scared her. Although
the social worker attempted to schedule an in-person appointment with him, Father was
unwilling to do so. Father told the social worker over the telephone that Mother has
influenced their children to believe that they are transgender and gay by taking them to
pride parades before they have fully gone through puberty. He told her that “no one, not
even a police officer, a judge, or a social services worker, will ever tell him what he is
going to call his children or the pronouns he is going to use.” He mentioned that “God
does not agree with a man laying down with a man” and he expressed “how his faith does
not agree with the LGBTQ+ community.”
Father testified that since 2019, he has not seen S. nor does he have a relationship
with S. He claims the lack of a relationship has “nothing to do with h[im] wanting to be
called S[.]” or because he identifies as transgender but because Mother “encourages the
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isolation, alienation, compartmentalization of the [F]ather.” He testified that “most” of the
texts that he has sent to S. over the last couple of years are related to S. identifying as
transgender, and that his texts, which “reflect[] the truth[,]” are sent to present S. with an
opposing view of the transgender community. He also admitted to sending a three page,
single-spaced email to S. on March 5, 2022, which was admitted into evidence, in which
he presented his detailed view of Mother’s faults, the parties’ failed marriage, and why the
parties’ divorced.
The court asked Father a few questions. The court asked if he and his children were
“just not discuss[ing] the idea of transgender or homosexuality, or [do] you want them to
be tolerant of you not accepting it, . . . are you . . . expecting tolerance both ways, or are
you expecting only tolerance your way?” Father responded that when the children are
older they can all be in the same room and “agree to disagree[,]” but that he texts S. “so
that she has a picture of all sides.” The court then asked Father if he texts S. “about
anything else” and the following colloquy occurred:
[FATHER]: Uh . . . I could check my phone, Your Honor, but – and I could
talk for hours about what my beliefs are about –
THE COURT: I’m not – that’s not – look; this, to me, just so it’s clear to
everyone in the room, everyone can be – have their own beliefs. That’s fine;
I’m not one who’s going to tell you what you should believe or shouldn’t
belie[ve], because some persons believe what’s right or wrong. . . . You’re
not here to make me have your beliefs or anybody else. You’re not here to
convince me that their beliefs are right and you[rs] are wrong. I don’t care.
Right? All I care about is the impact in this circumstance of what is going
on with regard to your children, and whether I believe they need some
protection. That’s what I – that’s my job.
So, I understand your beliefs, and you have very strong Biblical
beliefs and you are entitled to those. But it’s my question, what I’m trying
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to get at, because I believe – and [Father’s attorney], I apologize for asking
some questions, but I believe that’s really the heart of this case, is what is
going on when you are communicating with them. Is there any more to you
[inaudible] other than you trying to show these different views about
transgender[?]
The court then reiterated its question about whether Father communicates with S. on other
topics or texts him, ‘“I love you’, ‘I miss you’, ‘How are things going?’, ‘How’s school?’”
Father responded, “[t]here hasn’t been much communication[.]”
Father again admitted that his relationship with his children is “pretty contentious
because of what I would consider to be a concerted effort on their mother’s part to pit one
child against a parent” and to “purposely steer my son into this arena, because it’s to her
liking.” He admitted to calling the police when Mother took the children to the Pride
Parade, after which he called the Crisis Hotline and then Legal Aid. He testified that he is
concerned for his children’s souls and has no intent to harm them.
After both parties testified, the court interviewed both children privately. After the
interview, the court summarized the interviews. The court stated that S. “is a strong
person[,]” and although S. was “worried” about Father’s behavior in the past, he was not
upset by Father’s current text messages. In contrast, the court stated that N. is “frightened”
by Father’s behavior and “worries” that Father does not believe him around his sexual
identity, believing instead that it has to do with Mother’s “manipulat[ion.]”
The court granted the protective order petition as to N. but denied the petition as to
Mother and S. The court found by a preponderance of the evidence that Father “has
repeatedly communicated in person and through text messages homophobic comments and
religious beliefs, causing mental injury to N[.] N[.] communicated to the court that he is
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fearful of his father because of his father’s anger and aggressiveness in the past and his
reaction to him coming out as gay.” The order provides that Father: 1) shall not abuse or
threaten to abuse N.; 2) shall not enter N.’s residence; 3) may continue to have visitation
as set forth in the previous order but visitation with Father “can only occur if N[.] is
comfortable doing so”; and 4) may call or text N. “but may not use that communication to
abuse N[.] regarding sexual orientation and/or religion.” The order is effective until June
22, 2023.
Father has timely appealed the court’s order. We shall provide additional facts
below where necessary to address the questions raised on appeal.
DISCUSSION
I.
Father argues that the circuit court erred in finding that Father inflicted a mental
injury on N. and he advances two contentions. First, Father contends that Mother’s petition
for a temporary protective order was insufficient because it failed to allege facts from which
a court could find that Father’s actions and behavior caused mental injury to N. Second,
Father contends that there was insufficient evidence presented at the final protective order
hearing for the court to find that he caused mental injury to N. or that he did so intentionally.
Mother responds that she sufficiently pled mental injury in her petition for a temporary
protective order, and there was sufficient evidence presented at the hearing from which the
circuit court could find by a preponderance of evidence that Father’s actions caused mental
injury to N. and that those actions were intentional. We agree with Mother. We explain.
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Family Law (“FL”) Article, subsection 5 of title 4 of the of the Maryland Code,
governs domestic violence. Its purpose is “to protect and aid victims of domestic abuse by
providing . . . immediate and effective remed[ies]” wide in variety and scope to “avoid
future abuse.” Katsenelenbogen v. Katsenelenbogen, 365 Md. 122, 134 (2001) (quotation
marks and citations omitted). “[T]he primary goals of the statute are preventative,
protective and remedial, not punitive.” Id. (quotation marks and citations omitted).
A judge may issue a final protective order if they find abuse by a preponderance of
the evidence. FL § 4-506(c)(1)(ii). ‘“[P]reponderance of the evidence’ means ‘more likely
than not[.]’” State v. Sample, 468 Md. 560, 598 (2020) (citation omitted). “Abuse” of a
child is defined as “the physical or mental injury of a child under circumstances that
indicate that the child’s health or welfare is harmed or at substantial risk of being
harmed[.]” FL § 5-701(b)(1)(i). See FL § 4-501(b)(1) and (2) (defining abuse and, if the
victim is a child, includes the definition of abuse found in FL § 5-701(b)(1)(i)). See also
Charles Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs. v. Vann, 382 Md. 286, 300-02 (2004) (holding that the
definition of child abuse for the issuance of a protective order includes the definitions stated
in both FL §§ 4-501(b)(1)(2) and 5-701(b)(1)(i)).
“Mental injury” is defined by statute as “the observable, identifiable, and substantial
impairment of a child’s mental or psychological ability to function caused by an intentional
act or series of acts[.]” FL § 5-701(r). Both physical and mental harm must be intentional
and cannot be the product of an accident. FL § 5-701(b)(2) (“‘Abuse’ does not include the
physical injury of a child by accidental means.”) and McClanahan v. Washington Cnty.
Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 445 Md. 691, 705-06 (2015) (holding that a finding of an intent to
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harm is required in both mental and physical abuse cases). The scienter element of mental
and physical injury can be met by showing a parent acted in reckless disregard for the
child’s welfare. McClanahan, 445 Md. at 712. “Reckless conduct” is conduct that
amounts to a “gross departure from the type of conduct a reasonable person would engage
in under the circumstances.” Id. See also Taylor v. Harford Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs.,
384 Md. 213, 227 (2004) (Reckless conduct “is defined as . . . the creation of a substantial
and unjustifiable risk of harm to others and by a conscious (and sometimes deliberate)
disregard for or indifference to that risk.”) (quotation marks and citations omitted).
“Allegations of past abuse provide the court with additional evidence that may be relevant
in assessing the seriousness of the abuse and determining appropriate remedies” because
“a history of prior abusive acts implies that there is a stronger likelihood of future abuse.”
Coburn v. Coburn, 342 Md. 244, 257-58 (1996).
When reviewing the issuance of a final protective order, we accept the circuit court’s
findings of facts, unless they are clearly erroneous. See Md. Rule 8-131(c) and Barton v.
Hirshberg, 137 Md. App. 1, 21 (2001). We “must consider evidence produced at the trial
in a light most favorable to the prevailing party[.]” Friedman v. Hannan, 412 Md. 328,
335 (2010) (quotation marks and citation omitted). We defer to the trial court’s credibility
determinations because it “has the opportunity to gauge and observe the witnesses’
behavior and testimony during the trial.” Barton, 137 Md. App. at 21 (quotation marks
and citation omitted). It is “not our role, as an appellate court, to second-guess the trial
judge’s assessment of a witness’s credibility.” Gizzo v. Gerstman, 245 Md. App. 168, 203
(2020). As to the circuit court’s ultimate conclusion, “we must make our own independent
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appraisal by reviewing the law and applying it to the facts of the case.” Piper v. Layman,
125 Md. App. 745, 754 (1999).
A. Temporary protective order petition
Father contends that Mother’s petition for a protective order was insufficient to meet
the applicable statutory requirements. Appellant did not raise this contention below, and
therefore, it is not preserved for our review on appeal. See Md. Rule 8-131(a) (“Ordinarily,
the appellate court will not decide any other issue unless it plainly appears by the record to
have been raised in or decided by the trial court[.]”). See also DiCicco v. Baltimore Cnty.,
232 Md. App. 218, 224-25 (2017) (noting that a contention not raised or considered below
is not properly before an appellate court). Even if he had, we would find it without merit.
The primary purpose of pleadings is notice. Tshiani v. Tshiani, 436 Md. 255, 270
(2013). The Supreme Court of Maryland2 has explained that “there need only be [a]
substantial agreement between what is pleaded and what is proved[,]” but there shall be no
“material variance” of the sort that would cause the other party to be “surprised unfairly or
otherwise prejudiced in trying [his/her] case.” Id. at 270. However, evidence in support
of a protective order is not limited to the “four corners” of a petition and “allegations of a
prior history of abuse are admissible at a protective order hearing regardless of whether
such allegations were sufficiently pleaded in the original petition for protection.” Coburn,
342 Md. at 262.
2
At the November 8, 2022 general election, the voters of Maryland ratified a
constitutional amendment changing the name of the Court of Appeals of Maryland to the
Supreme Court of Maryland. The name change took effect on December 14, 2022.
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In Mother’s pro se petition for a protective order, Mother wrote that “on or about
06/11/22-06/12/22 & on”, Father caused “mental injury” by engaging in the following:
“mental abuse texts sent to the children, emails sent to children, texts sent to Petitioner.”
Under the circumstances, Mother’s petition provided Father with sufficient notice of the
relevant information that would support the issuance of a protective order. Father has never
claimed surprise or unfair prejudice. We are persuaded that Father’s contention regarding
Mother’s petition for a protective order is without merit.
B. Final protective order
Father argues that there was insufficient evidence presented at the final protective
order hearing to prove that he caused mental injury to N. or that he did so intentionally. In
advancing this argument, Father attempts to redirect the gravamen of the case to the
incident on June 12, 2022. He reframes the incident as not about his reaction to N.’s
statement that he was gay but about N.’s refusal to let him see his phone and TikTok
account, which was a challenge to Father’s authority. Father then argues that his decision
to end the visit was a “reasonable” way to discipline his son for refusing to give him access
to his TikTok account. Father also reframes the court’s conclusion after interviewing N.
that he is “frightened,” “worried,” and “fearful with his [F]ather’s anger,” as a result of the
text message Father sent N. the day before the incident. Father argues that the court’s
conclusion lacked “legal analysis or rational explanation” because the court failed to
explain how the one text message frightened N. or how N.’s fear and worry impacted his
ability to function mentally. Lastly, Father argues that because he specifically testified that
he did not intend to harm N., there was insufficient evidence of the required intent.
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We disagree with Father’s arguments and hold that the circuit court did not err in
finding that it was more likely than not that Father’s actions caused substantial risk of harm
to N. within the meaning of FL § 5-701(b)(1)(i), and Father’s actions were intentional or
with reckless disregard as to the consequences of his actions.
The Supreme Court of Maryland in Katsenelenbogen, 365 Md. at 139, addressed
the standard by which we measure whether a child’s mental or psychological ability has
been impaired by an intentional act or series of acts. The Court stated:
[A] belief as to imminent danger is necessarily founded upon the defendant’s
sensory and ideational perception of the situation that he or she confronts,
often shaded by knowledge or perceptions of ancillary or antecedent events.
The issue . . . [is] not whether those perceptions were right or wrong, but
whether a reasonable person with that background could perceive the
situation in the same way.
We believe that to be the proper test to be applied in this context as
well. A person who has been subjected to the kind of abuse defined in § 4-
501(b) may well be sensitive to non-verbal signals or code words that have
proved threatening in the past to that victim but which someone else, not
having that experience, would not perceive to be threatening. The
reasonableness of an asserted fear emanating from that kind of conduct or
communication must be viewed from the perspective of the particular victim.
Any special vulnerability or dependence by the victim, by virtue of physical,
mental, or emotional condition or impairment, also must be taken into
account.
Id. (quotation marks and citation omitted).
Under the circumstances presented, we find no error by the trial court in finding that
Father had mentally abused N. The circuit court concluded that N. was “frightened,”
“scared,” and “fearful” of his Father’s anger and his Father’s refusal to accept his sexual
orientation. Contrary to Father’s argument, in reaching that conclusion the court relied on,
among other things, its interview with N. in which the court “saw with my own eyes” N.’s
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fear about his Father’s anger regarding his sexual orientation; the text message Father sent
N. the day before their interaction on June 12, 2022, in which Father stated “you are being
heavily manipulated and influenced by your mother and sister. . . . Please please do not
allow these demons you are surrounded by influence you. Pray my son. For protection.”;
and the CPS report in which the social worker related that N. told her that he does not feel
safe with Father, and he fears that Father might hit him because Father is angry and does
not accept N.’s sexual orientation.
The court also heard Mother’s testimony that when she picked N. up from Father’s
house after the incident and asked if N. was okay, N. responded, “I am now[,]” clearly
suggesting that N. was not okay when he had been with Father. Additionally, the court
expressly stated that it did not find credible Father’s testimony that his actions were not
intended to harm his children but were only intended “to just share another view.” In
assessing credibility, the circuit court is “entitled to accept – or reject – all, part, or none
of the testimony of any witness, whether that testimony was or was not contradicted or
corroborated by any other evidence.” Omayaka v. Omayaka, 417 Md. 643, 659 (2011)
(emphasis in original). Moreover, Father’s communications with N.’s sibling and the
resulting harm provided the court with additional evidence that was relevant in assessing
the seriousness of the abuse and the “substantial risk of harm” to N. by Father’s actions.
See Coburn, 342 Md. at 257-58.
Under these circumstances, we find no error by the circuit court in ruling that there
was sufficient evidence of mental abuse of N. by Father and that these acts were done
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intentionally or with a conscious disregard or indifference to N.’s welfare.3 See FL § 5-
701(r); McClanahan, 445 Md. at 712; Taylor, 384 Md. at 227.
II.
Father argues that the circuit court abused its discretion in questioning the children.
He seems to argue that first, the court should not have questioned the children at all, and
second, the court erred when it failed to summarize the questions and responses during the
private, judicial interviews of the children so that the attorneys could “understand what was
asked and answered in order to present additional evidence[.]” Although Father
acknowledges that the Maryland General Assembly has not set out any rules regarding
judicial interviews of children, he argues that the circuit court should have followed the
guidelines set forth in Karanikas v. Cartwright, 209 Md. App. 571 (2013). We find both
of Father’s arguments unpreserved, and even if he had preserved those arguments for our
review, we would have found them meritless.
At the beginning of the hearing and prior to taking any testimony, Mother’s attorney
asked the court to speak to the children privately, and, if the court agreed, suggested that
Mother could step out of the courtroom briefly to make arrangements for their presence.
3
To the extent that Father baldly argues that only expert testimony can sustain a
finding of mental injury, he cites no case law or rationale for this statement, and we decline
to address it. See Md. Rule 8-504(a)(6) (stating that an appellate brief “shall” include
“[a]rgument in support of the party’s position on each issue”) and Md. Rule 8-504(c) (An
“appellate court may dismiss the appeal or make any other appropriate order with respect
to the case” for noncompliance with this Rule.). See also Oak Crest Vill., Inc. v. Murphy,
379 Md. 229, 241 (2004) (“An appellant is required to articulate and adequately argue all
issues the appellant desires the appellate court to consider in the appellant’s initial brief.”).
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The court asked Father’s attorney whether he had any objection, and the following colloquy
occurred:
[FATHER’S ATTORNEY]: I don’t really see any reason why a
conversation with the children is happening in Chambers. These aren’t two
young children; they’re a fifteen- and a twelve-year-old.
THE COURT: Oh, I’m not putting them on the stand. If I’m going to talk
to them, I’m going to talk to them like I do any child, and that’s going to be
in the courtroom with all of you outside, and I will summarize what is said
when we come back in.
[MOTHER’S ATTORNEY]: That’s what I’m requesting.
THE COURT: Uh-huh. Uh-huh.
[FATHER’S ATTORNEY]: I would just request, if he wants evidence from
the kids, that they be required to testify, which is the normal protocol.
[MOTHER’S ATTORNEY]: That is not the normal protocol in a family law
case.
THE COURT: Yeah; I’m not . . . going to do that for 15 and 12, with these
allegations. I will speak to them privately in the courtroom, and I will do
what I’m required to do, which is to summarize what it is that [inaudible] so
everyone can present whatever other evidence they want, and we’ll go from
there.
Mother then stepped out to arrange for the children’s presence, after which both parties
then testified.
Following the testimony of both Father and Mother, the following colloquy
occurred:
THE COURT: All right; this is how this is going to work. I want to make
this absolutely clear. We are all going to walk down that hallway together.
I am going to bring the children in, one at a time, and I am going to tell them,
in front of them, what I am telling you right now, which is, the conversation
between the two of us will be a conversation between the two of us. I will
summarize, as I’m required to do, after I have that discussion, when we come
back into court. But neither parent is to ask either child what I – what
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questions I said, I asked, what they responded; that is not a topic of debate
today or at any point moving forward. Does everyone understand that?
(INDISCERNIBLE CROSS-RESPONSE)
[FATHER’S ATTORNEY]: Is there going to be any cross-examination, or
is this simply you’re going to –
THE COURT: Just me.
[FATHER’S ATTORNEY]: Just the kids?
THE COURT: Just me. I’ll summarize what was said. Just me.
The transcript reflects everyone left the courtroom at 3:54 p.m.; the court returned to the
courtroom with one child and then the second; and the parties returned to the courtroom
less than 20 minutes later, at 4:13 p.m.
Once the parties reconvened, the court stated:
All right; first of all, you have beautiful children; handsome children, very
nice, educated, smart kids. And I will tell you, I am amazed how well-
adjusted S[.] is. I’m going to call [him] S[.] because that’s what [he] asked
me to call [him], so I’m going to call [him] S[.] And [he] really is a strong
person; right? And I will tell you that based on my conversation with [him],
I’m going to deny any protective order with regard to S[.] [He]’s fine. [He]’s
not worried about it; it’s not mentally bothering [him]. [He] says it did, at
times; [he]’s past that. And that [he] is – [he] loves the messages that you
send [inaudible] but doesn’t really faze [him] in terms of that. [He]’s not
upset by them; it doesn’t impact [him] on a daily basis, and it’s not impacting
[his] – [his] mental health or [his] physical health, and I don’t feel like there’s
sufficient evidence with regard to mental injury as it’s defined in the statute
with regard to S[.]
The court then stated its reasonings for also denying a protective order for Mother. The
court then began addressing his assessment of N., stating:
Now, N[.] is another case. He is – he is not as strong as S[.], at all,
and I see him based on our conversation, he’s frightened. He – he read a text
message that, you know, you sent – that worries him about you not believing
– believing that [inaudible]; you believe they’re all being manipulated by
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Mom, and that he needs to separate himself from that and – and things of that
nature. And I think it’s doing a lot of damage to N[.] right now, and it would
be damag[ing] mentally if I did not grant a protective order [for N.]
At this point, Father’s attorney asked if he could present a closing argument. The court
said: “You can; sure. Say whatever you want to say.” Father’s attorney then presented
argument that there was no abuse because: if there was abuse, it was an accident for Father
never intended to abuse N., and the CPS Report did not indicate a finding of abuse.
A.
As to Father’s first argument, i.e., that the court should not have questioned the
children, he supports his argument by stating that had the court utilized the CPS Report, it
could have avoided questioning the children; the court was “hellbent” on questioning the
children; and the court was insensitive to the fact that special arrangements were required
to transport the children to the courtroom for questioning.
Contrary to his argument on appeal, Father never argued below that the court should
not speak to the children. Rather, he argued that the court should have required the children
to testify in front of everyone by taking the stand in the courtroom. By not arguing below
that the court should not question the children, he has not preserved his argument for our
review. See Md. Rule 8-131(a). Even if he had, we do not believe that the court abused
its discretion in questioning the children. We see absolutely no basis in the record to
believe that the trial court was “hellbent” on interviewing the children or insensitive to the
arrangements that were made to bring the children to the courtroom. Given the issues
before the court, we find no abuse of discretion by the trial court in deciding to question
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the children in the manner it did to minimize any further trauma to the children in this
highly charged hearing.
B.
As to Father’s second argument, i.e., that the court erred when it failed to follow the
guidelines set out in Karanikas for child interviews, Father’s argument is again both
unpreserved and meritless.
In child custody cases, it is axiomatic that a trial court has “discretion to interview
a child[,]” and we review a trial court’s decision “under an abuse of discretion standard.”
Karanikas, 209 Md. App. at 590-91 (quotation marks and citation omitted). Moreover, a
“trial judge has discretion as to the length and content of a child interview.” Id. at 588.
Child interview law generally arises in the context of child custody cases because a child’s
preference to live with one parent over the other is a factor that “may” be considered in a
custody order, although the court is not required to speak to the child. Lemley v. Lemley,
102 Md. App. 266, 288 (1994) (emphasis and citation omitted). We have found no law,
nor have the parties directed us to any, that discusses the parameters of a court’s interview
of a child in the context of a protective order case.
Our jurisprudence provides that, at least in the context of a child custody case, a
court’s private interview with a child, in the absence of waiver or consent, is proper only
(1) where the court reveals the contents of the conversation prior to making the custody
award; or (2) the award is based on evidence produced in open court rather than on
information obtained in private. Marshall v. Stefanides, 17 Md. App. 364, 368 (1973). We
stated that one purpose of this requirement is to ensure that “some means of appellate
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review of the interview is available.” Id. at 369-70. This procedure is designed to
“minimize[], as much as possible, the psychological impact on the child, and at the same
time allow[] interested parties to produce all the evidence that is necessary to enable the
court to arrive at a fair and just determination in accordance with the best interest of the
child.” Id. at 370.
Marshall concerned a child custody proceeding brought by parents of two children,
aged 6 and 8, in which a court conducted a private interview that was not consented to by
the mother, the substance of the children’s statements in the interview was not revealed,
and the Chancellor stated in awarding custody of the children to the father that it relied to
a great extent upon information garnered from the interview. Id. at 367-85. The interviews
took place after the father’s testimony, during which the children appeared to have been in
the courtroom. On appeal, we reversed and remanded. We agreed with the mother that
the children were “possibly schooled” by the father’s testimony as they had been in the
courtroom when he testified, and because the mother had a “total lack of knowledge” of
what the children told the Chancellor, found the interview was “fundamentally unjust”
because the circumstances left the mother “in the untenable position of being called upon
to answer, explain, or defend the alleged preferences of her [children] when she did not
know what preferences or ‘desires’ they had expressed.” Id. at 369.
Karanikas concerned parental requests for a modification of custody and visitation
of the parties’ 9-year-old child. 209 Md. App. at 575. At trial, the father asked the court
to either interview the child in open court or chambers and to ask the child during the
interview whether she preferred to live with one parent over the other. The court
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interviewed the child in chambers. Id. at 587. Upon completion of the interview, the court
advised the parties that he had asked the child general questions about her interests and her
custody preference, and she had said that she had no preference for living with either
parent. Id. at 587, 595. On appeal, father argued that the trial court erred because it
conducted the interview in an “‘an extremely limited and unreasonable fashion’” by only
“‘grudgingly’” agreeing to interview the child and refusing to ask the child her custody
preference. Id. at 586, 589. We rejected the father’s arguments. We failed to see any basis
to support the idea that the judge “grudgingly” agreed to interview the child and, contrary
to the father’s argument, the court did ask the child its preference. Id. at 595.
Here, the court revealed the overall substance of its interview of the children, and
the parties were given an opportunity to respond prior to issuing its order. While the court
did not give a detailed, word-for-word question/response recitation of the interviews, the
court revealed to the parties the gist of the interviews as related above. We note that what
the court related about the interviews with the children was not surprising or new evidence
to the parties. Before the interviews occurred, evidence was elicited that N. had stated to
both his Mother and a social worker that he was fearful of Father because of his statements,
actions, and texts regarding his views. Therefore, the general summation by the court about
its interview with N. did not prevent Father from addressing N.’s concerns, and in fact,
Father did address N.’s concerns by recasting and minimizing them. We think that under
the circumstances, the court did not abuse its discretion in interviewing N. and allowing
Father to respond to the gist of what was revealed. Accordingly, we hold that nothing more
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was required under the circumstances presented, and we find no abuse of discretion by the
court in its conduct of the interviews.
III.
Father argues that the circuit court erred because its order was “only intended to
punish [Father] for his unpopular parenting style and not to prevent future harm to N.”
According to Father, if the court believed Father might inflict mental injury on N., the court
should have granted a “no contact” order. We disagree. We are persuaded that the relief
granted was well-tailored to prevent future abuse.
Protective orders are intended “to protect any person eligible for relief from abuse.”
See FL § 4-506(c)(1)(ii). The Supreme Court of Maryland has said:
The purpose of the domestic abuse statute is to protect and “aid
victims of domestic abuse by providing an immediate and effective” remedy.
Barbee v. Barbee, 311 Md. 620, 623 (1988). The statute provides for a wide
variety and scope of available remedies designed to separate the parties and
avoid future abuse. Thus, the primary goals of the statute are preventive,
protective and remedial, not punitive. The legislature did not design the
statute as punishment for past conduct; it was instead intended to prevent
further harm to the victim.
Coburn, 342 Md. at 252. Once a finding of abuse has been established, “the court’s focus
must be on fashioning a remedy that is authorized under the [domestic abuse] statute and
that will be most likely to provide that protection.” Katsenelenbogen, 365 Md. at 136-37.
“Prior abuse and the nature and severity of abuse may be relevant to certain types of
relief[.]” Id. at 132 (quotation marks and citation omitted). Although issuance of a
protective order may have consequences in subsequent litigation, “[t]hat is not the concern
of the court[.]” Id. at 137 (emphasis in original). Rather, the concern is doing “what is
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reasonably necessary – no more and no less – to assure the safety and well-being of those
entitled to relief.” Id. (emphasis in original).
Here, the court ordered the following relief:
1. Father “shall not abuse, threaten to abuse N[.]”
2. Father “shall not enter the residence of N[.] at [address omitted] or
wherever the person eligible for relief resides.”
3. “Custody shall remain as set forth in previous order, however, visitation
with [Father] can only occur if N[.] is comfortable doing so.”
4. Father “may communicate with N[.] through phone calls and/or text
messages but may not use that communication to abuse N[.] regarding
sexual orientation and/or religion.”
(Capitalization omitted.) We think the relief ordered was reasonable and well-tailored to
the facts presented.
It was N.’s fear and worry regarding Father’s views about N.’s sexual orientation
and Father’s seeming inability to see that his views caused and could cause a substantial
risk of harm to his son that the court attempted to address in its order. See Boswell v.
Boswell, 352 Md. 204, 221 (1998) (“[W]hen the child’s health or welfare is at stake[,]
visitation may be restricted or even denied.”). We find the court’s relief went to addressing
the substantial risk of harm to N. and the risk of future harm.4 Father has put forth no
evidence or argument that would convince us to the contrary.
JUDGMENT OF THE CIRCUIT COURT FOR
ANNE ARUNDEL COUNTY AFFIRMED.
COSTS TO BE PAID BY THE APPELLANT.
4
The parties do not raise in their appeal nor shall we address any constitutional
rights regarding the freedom of religion or parental rights.
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