Sheana Keinath v. Michael Keinath ( 2022 )


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  •             If this opinion indicates that it is “FOR PUBLICATION,” it is subject to
    revision until final publication in the Michigan Appeals Reports.
    STATE OF MICHIGAN
    COURT OF APPEALS
    SHEANA KEINATH,                                                      UNPUBLISHED
    April 7, 2022
    Plaintiff-Appellee,
    v                                                                    No. 358548
    Tuscola Circuit Court
    Family Division
    MICHAEL KEINATH,                                                     LC No. 20-031322-DM
    Defendant-Appellant.
    Before: GLEICHER, C.J., and K. F. KELLY and PATEL, JJ.
    PER CURIAM.
    Defendant appeals by right the trial court’s judgment of divorce in which the trial court
    ordered primary physical custody of the parties’ minor children to plaintiff. Finding no errors
    warranting reversal, we affirm.
    I. BASIC FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
    The parties married on September 22, 2007 and have two minor children, SK and TK.
    They moved into the current marital home in October 2017, where plaintiff now resides with the
    children. In December 2017, plaintiff discovered that defendant had engaged in an affair with a
    coworker, and the parties temporarily separated. There were numerous confrontations between
    the parties around the time of this initial separation when defendant would allegedly become
    physical and violent. There was also an argument between the parties in August 2020, at which
    time defendant cut his hand on a glass candle he broke. In September 2020, plaintiff discovered a
    second affair between defendant and a woman he is now dating.
    In early October 2020, defendant left the marital home. At the time, the parties agreed that
    defendant would still get the children for three afternoons per week and every other weekend.
    Defendant initially exercised his afternoon time in the marital home, but conflict arose when
    plaintiff and her father arrived at the home during defendant’s parenting time. There also was an
    instance during this time in which defendant threw one of the children’s puzzles across the room.
    After some time, defendant began exercising his parenting time elsewhere.
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    Though defendant provided substantial assistance in caring for the children during the
    majority of the parties’ marriage, this changed once he left the marital home. After temporarily
    staying with a cousin, defendant secured a rented condominium with space for him and the
    children. However, at the same time, defendant was searching for alternative housing that would
    accommodate the new family he was planning with his current girlfriend, at whose house he spent
    multiple nights per week. Plaintiff solely handled the children’s morning and evening routines,
    took them to all doctor’s visits, and attended school conferences, though defendant still attended
    the children’s dentist appointments and select after-school activities, and regularly spoke with
    them over the phone.
    Plaintiff filed for divorce on October 15, 2020. With respect to custody of the children,
    plaintiff alleged that it was in the children’s best interests for the trial court to grant her physical
    custody and grant joint legal custody with defendant. Defendant filed an answer, countering that
    it was in the children’s best interests for the parties to share joint legal and joint physical custody.
    During the divorce proceedings, plaintiff filed an ex parte motion for temporary custody of the
    marital home and children, which the trial court granted.
    A hearing before a referee was conducted, after which the referee entered a report and
    recommendation concluding that clear and convincing evidence supported plaintiff having primary
    physical custody of the children. Following the de novo hearing before the trial court, the trial
    court rendered an opinion regarding its judgment of divorce. Regarding custody, the trial court
    determined that the children had an established custodial relationship with plaintiff. And after
    evaluating each best interest factor, the trial court concluded that defendant failed to demonstrate
    that modification of the ex parte order to equal physical custodial time was warranted. Therefore,
    the trial court awarded the parties joint legal custody, with plaintiff having primary physical
    custody and defendant having parenting time per the order. This appeal followed.
    II. STANDARDS OF REVIEW
    This Court applies three standards of review in child custody cases:
    The great weight of the evidence standard applies to all findings of fact. A trial
    court’s findings regarding the existence of an established custodial environment
    and regarding each custody factor should be affirmed unless the evidence clearly
    preponderates in the opposite direction. An abuse of discretion standard applies to
    the trial court’s discretionary rulings such as custody decisions. Questions of law
    are reviewed for clear legal error. A trial court commits clear legal error when it
    incorrectly chooses, interprets, or applies the law. [Vodvarka v Grasmeyer, 
    259 Mich App 499
    , 507-508; 675 NW2d 847 (2003) (quotation marks and citations
    omitted).]
    A trial court abuses its discretion when the result is “so palpably and grossly violative of
    fact and logic that it evidences not the exercise of will but perversity of will, not the exercise of
    judgment but defiance thereof, not the exercise of reason but rather of passion or bias.” Fletcher
    v Fletcher, 
    447 Mich 871
    , 879-880; 526 NW2d 889 (1994) (quotation marks and citation omitted).
    “A finding is clearly erroneous if, after a review of the entire record, the reviewing court is left
    with a definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.” Seifeddine v Jaber, 327 Mich
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    App 514, 516; 934 NW2d 64 (2019) (citation omitted). “[A] reviewing court should not substitute
    its judgment on questions of fact unless the factual determination clearly preponderate[s] in the
    opposite direction.” Pierron v Pierron, 
    486 Mich 81
    , 85; 782 NW2d 480 (2010) (quotation marks
    and citation omitted; second alteration in original). Furthermore, in reviewing a trial court’s
    findings, this Court defers to any determinations of credibility made below. Shann v Shann, 
    293 Mich App 302
    , 305; 809 NW2d 435 (2011).
    III. ANALYSIS
    On appeal, defendant contends the trial court made factual findings against the great weight
    of the evidence when it evaluated the children’s established custodial environment and statutory
    best interest factors, and abused its discretion when it awarded primary physical custody to
    plaintiff. We disagree.
    Custody disputes are resolved by determining the best interests of the child using the
    statutory factors set forth in MCL 722.23. Eldred v Ziny, 
    246 Mich App 142
    , 150; 631 NW2d 748
    (2001). These factors are:
    (a) The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties
    involved and the child.
    (b) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child
    love, affection, and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child
    in his or her religion or creed, if any.
    (c) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child
    with food, clothing, medical care or other remedial care recognized and permitted
    under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs.
    (d) The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory
    environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity.
    (e) The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial
    home or homes.
    (f) The moral fitness of the parties involved.
    (g) The mental and physical health of the parties involved.
    (h) The home, school, and community record of the child.
    (i) The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child
    to be of sufficient age to express preference.
    (j) The willingness and ability of each of the parties to facilitate and
    encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and
    the other parent or the child and the parents. A court may not consider negatively
    for the purposes of this factor any reasonable action taken by a parent to protect a
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    child or that parent from sexual assault or domestic violence by the child’s other
    parent.
    (k) Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed
    against or witnessed by the child.
    (l) Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular
    child custody dispute. [MCL 722.23.]
    Furthermore, because a trial court may not “issue a new order so as to change the
    established custodial environment of a child unless there is presented clear and convincing
    evidence that it is in the best interest of the child,” MCL 722.27(1)(c), it must generally make a
    finding of whether an established custodial environment existed with either or both parties before
    evaluating a child’s best interests. See Brausch v Brausch, 
    283 Mich App 339
    , 356 n 7; 770 NW2d
    77 (2009). An established custodial environment exists “if over an appreciable time the child
    naturally looks to the custodian in that environment for guidance, discipline, the necessities of life,
    and parental comfort,” MCL 722.27(1)(c), though a child can have multiple custodians and
    custodial environments. See Berger v Berger, 
    277 Mich App 700
    , 707; 747 NW2d 336 (2008). If
    a proposed change to custody would modify an established custodial environment, then the
    proponent of the change must prove by clear and convincing evidence that it is in the child’s best
    interests. See Pierron, 
    486 Mich at 92
    . On the other hand, if the proposed change would not
    modify an established custodial environment, then the proponent need only prove by a
    preponderance of the evidence that it is in the child’s best interest. 
    Id.
    Defendant asserts the trial court made findings against the great weight of evidence when
    it determined that (1) the children only had an established custodial environment with plaintiff; (2)
    best interest factors (a), (b), (d), (e), (f), (h), and (k) all favored plaintiff; and (3) factor (j) was
    neutral between the parties. Defendant asserts, therefore, that the trial court abused its discretion
    in awarding primary physical custody to plaintiff.
    A. CUSTODIAL ENVIRONMENT
    Regarding whether the children had an established custodial relationship with either or both
    parties, the trial court stated:
    When Plaintiff filed her Complaint for Divorce on October 15, 2020, the parties
    were residing together at the marital home. Thereafter, on November 6, 2020, an
    Ex Parte Order was entered, awarding the Plaintiff with exclusive possession of the
    marital home, as well as primary domicile of the children. The parties were
    awarded joint legal custody and the Defendant was awarded parenting time on
    Monday, Wednesday and Fridays, from approximately 3:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m.
    This routine has continued to date.
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    Prior to November 2020, the parties would work together for the care of the
    children. Both parties would provide care in the morning. The Defendant would
    retrieve the children from either school or day care and provide the care until the
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    Plaintiff returned home in the evening. Then, again, both parties would provide
    care until bedtime. Thereafter, the Defendant would leave for work and the Plaintiff
    would be the supervising parent within the home.
    Beginning in November 2020, the care of the children changed. Originally,
    the Defendant was to retrieve the children on every Monday and Wednesday from
    3:00 [to] 8:00 p.m. and then on alternate Thursdays and on the “off weeks” from
    Friday through Sunday. Due to the plans of each party, the Defendant did not
    receive his first weekend. Thereafter, an Order was entered providing the
    Defendant with parenting time on Monday, Wednesday and Fridays from
    afterschool until 7:00 p.m. The Plaintiff has been responsible for the remainder of
    the care. This has been the routine of the children for the past 7 ½ months.
    From these facts, the trial court concluded that, in their current routine, the children looked
    to plaintiff for guidance, discipline, and the necessities of life and, accordingly, that the children
    had established a custodial environment with her alone. The trial court explicitly acknowledged
    the delays in the proceedings prior to the referee hearing and de novo hearing, but, citing Treutle
    v Treutle, 
    197 Mich App 690
    , 693; 495 NW2d 836 (1992), the court stated that it was limited to
    determining “if a custodial environment has been established and not the reason why it was
    established.”
    Defendant claims the trial court’s finding regarding the children’s custodial environment
    ignored that the children were under the care of both parties for the overwhelming majority of the
    children’s lives. Defendant claims he regularly assisted in caring for the children, at least until the
    parties’ separation and the trial court’s imposition of restrictions on his time with them. Defendant
    argues that this long-standing situation evidenced the children’s established custodial environment
    with both parents, which, according to him, could not be undone in the relatively short amount of
    time since the parties’ separation.
    In Bofysil v Bofysil, 
    332 Mich App 232
    , 243-244; 956 NW2d 544 (2020), we concluded
    the trial court’s findings that the child’s established custodial environment was solely with a stay-
    at-home parent was against the great weight of the evidence. The trial court erred by discounting
    the plaintiff’s status as a working parent and her other efforts to care for the children when not
    working. See 
    id.
     Similarly here, defendant maintains that he continued to care for the children to
    the best of his ability following the court’s restrictions on his time and, therefore, believed they
    still looked to him for care, comfort, and guidance. Accordingly, defendant asserts that under
    Bofysil, the trial court committed error by concluding that the children only had an established
    custodial environment with plaintiff.
    Contrary to defendant’s argument, the trial court explicitly acknowledged the parties’ joint
    caregiving efforts and shared responsibility for raising the children during the majority of their
    marriage. The trial court recognized that this preexisting situation changed as a result of the
    separation, after which the children primarily looked to plaintiff for guidance and support. This
    conclusion was adequately supported by the record: during the period of separation plaintiff
    resided with the children in their existing home, handled their entire daily routines and
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    appointments, and was involved in their schooling. In contrast, defendant spent time with the
    children for three afternoons per week.1
    Furthermore, Bofysil is unhelpful to defendant. Rather than one parent being responsible
    for the majority of caregiving and the other being the family’s primary wage earner, see Bofysil,
    332 Mich App at 237, here both parties worked outside the home and maintained separate bank
    accounts throughout the marriage. Moreover, in Bofysil, the Court stressed that the parents, while
    occupying distinct roles in the home, both provided “security, stability, and permanence” for the
    children. Bofysil, 332 Mich App at 244. In contrast with the present case, however, plaintiff has
    been primarily responsible for the children since fall 2020 such that they primarily look to her for
    security and guidance. Accordingly, the trial court’s finding that the children had an established
    custodial environment solely with plaintiff was not clearly erroneous. See Seifeddine, 327 Mich
    App at 516.
    B. BEST INTEREST FACTORS
    The trial court found that factor (a) (love, affection, and other emotional ties between
    parties and child) favored plaintiff. Defendant contends that the trial court unduly faulted him for
    the alleged deterioration of his relationship with the children and ignored substantial evidence that
    plaintiff actively poisoned his relationship with the children. Accordingly, defendant claims this
    factor should have been equal between the parties or favored him. While noting both parties’ love
    and affection for the children, the trial court stated that “[t]he crux of this factor . . . lies in the
    emotional ties that exist.” The trial court elaborated:
    The Plaintiff has a good, strong bond with each child. The Defendant, though, has
    admitted that his bond with [SK] is not good. He testified that he tries to hug [SK]
    but she doesn’t reciprocate. He believes that more time with [SK], as well as with
    [TK], will improve the relationship. Both children’s demeanor has reflected
    disrespect and has gotten worse. The emotional ties between the Defendant and the
    children have diminished. During the first hearing in January 2021, the Defendant
    was having pretty good conversations with the children during the week. However,
    over the months, the conversations have not proceeded well. This is sad. Pursuant
    to the total proofs, the deterioration of the relationship may be tied to the Defendant
    having a girlfriend. And, while the Court is a firm believer that there is hope that
    the relationships can be mended, the Court must view the facts that are presented
    at the time of its determination.
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    The trial court correctly declined to consider any impact on the children’s custodial environment
    resulting from the ex parte order itself or the delay in the proceedings below. See Berger, 277
    Mich App at 707 (“A custodial environment can be established as a result of a temporary custody
    order, in violation of a custody order, or in the absence of a custody order.”); Treutle, 197 Mich
    App at 693 (“In determining whether a custodial environment exists, the court’s concern is not
    with the reasons behind the custodial environment, but with the existence of such an
    environment.”).
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    We disagree with defendant that this finding was made against the great weight of
    evidence. It is undisputed that defendant had weaker emotional ties to the children, as he conceded
    at both the referee hearing and the de novo hearing that his relationship with the children had
    deteriorated over time. While plaintiff admitted to telling defendant near the children that she
    wished the girlfriend would die at one point, she denied actively encouraging any resentment or
    alienation. And though defendant notes plaintiff’s anger and toxicity toward him, he gives no
    other specific instances of any negative communication by her to the children. Thus, defendant
    offers nothing more than speculation that the children’s disrespect originates from plaintiff.
    The trial court also found factor (b) (capacity and disposition of parties to give child love,
    affection, and guidance and to continue education and raising child in his or her religion or creed,
    if any) favored plaintiff, noting defendant’s inconsistency in his involvement in the children’s
    education and in the type of discipline he administers to them. Defendant contends that the trial
    court failed to adequately consider his active involvement with the children over the majority of
    their lives. He also asserts that any noninvolvement was due to plaintiff or the COVID-19
    pandemic. Defendant claims, therefore, that this factor should have been weighed equally between
    the parties.
    Though the trial court acknowledged issues with plaintiff’s discipline, it stressed that
    defendant would yell and swear at the children and noted two violent altercations in August and
    October of 2020. The court also highlighted defendant’s reduced involvement in the children’s
    lives since the parties’ separation, stating:
    Since the separation of the parties, due to COVID, the Plaintiff has been the
    parent to take the children to appointments. The Defendant complained that there
    was a time that he was not informed of an appointment, but still admitted that he
    would not have attended. The Plaintiff has been the parent to ensure that the
    children are bathed and presentable. The Plaintiff has been the parent involved and
    attending parent-teacher conferences, as well as seeing to the completion of
    homework. In fact, the Defendant admitted that he hasn’t talked to [SK]’s teacher
    over this past year. And, while the Defendant indicates that the Plaintiff reset the
    Defendant’s phone, thus deleting the “school app” for tracking of progress, the
    Defendant hadn’t bothered to reinstall it. The Plaintiff asserts that the Defendant
    has the app in his phone and that he just needs to set it up to receive notifications.
    Nevertheless, it is the Plaintiff that has attended conferences, field trips and assisted
    with the children’s education.
    We disagree with defendant that this finding was made against the great weight of
    evidence. The record demonstrates defendant stopped attending the children’s doctor’s visits and
    school conferences and events. While he blames COVID-19 and plaintiff’s actions for his lack of
    involvement, the pandemic did not impede plaintiff’s involvement with the children. It was thus
    not against the great weight of the evidence for the trial court to balance these factors to find
    plaintiff favored in the consistency of her discipline of the children and her involvement with the
    children’s education.
    The trial court also found that factor (d) (length of time child has lived in stable, satisfactory
    environment, and desirability of maintaining continuity) favored plaintiff. The court specifically
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    stated that the marital home, which plaintiff desired to keep and where the children had lived since
    2017, was a stable, satisfactory environment. The court further acknowledged that, when the
    parties temporarily separated in 2017 and again in 2020, the children continued to reside with
    plaintiff in the marital home while defendant stayed in alternate locations. While noting that
    defendant was no longer making a claim to retain the marital home himself and did apparently
    have a place for the children to sleep at his current residence, the court also stated that defendant
    often stayed with the girlfriend, where there was insufficient room for the children, and was
    uncertain concerning where he would reside permanently in the future. From these facts, the trial
    court concluded that plaintiff provided the greatest amount of continuity for the children.
    Defendant argues the trial court did not account for the fact that he had been forcibly
    removed from the marital home and, nevertheless, had since reestablished a stable environment
    and support system elsewhere. Defendant also contends that any instability resulting from his
    plans to purchase a new home with his girlfriend was mirrored by plaintiff’s uncertainty about her
    own living situation after the divorce. Defendant asserts, therefore, that this factor should have
    been weighed equally between the parties. We disagree.
    The trial court acknowledged the increased stability for the children in defendant’s newly-
    acquired condominium, but merely noted the continued, relative instability of this arrangement
    compared with plaintiff’s situation in the marital home. And though both parties recognized the
    possibility of needing to relocate following the divorce, defendant’s testimony established a near-
    certainty of relocation, while plaintiff’s goal was to keep the marital home where the children had
    lived consistently for years. In particular, defendant stated his current living situation was
    temporary, he planned to raise another child with his girlfriend, and the two were currently
    searching for new housing together. Furthermore, despite defendant’s claim that the ex parte order
    forced him from the marital home, he concedes on appeal that he willingly left the home on
    October 5, 2020, one month before entry of the ex parte order. It was, therefore, not against the
    great weight of the evidence for the trial court to conclude this factor favored plaintiff.
    With respect to factor (e) (permanence, as a family unit, of existing or proposed custodial
    home(s)), the trial court found this factor to be in plaintiff’s favor as well. Comparing the family
    units of the parties, the court noted that plaintiff’s extended family lived nearby and had close
    relationships with the children. In contrast, the court stated that defendant, who was expecting
    another child with his girlfriend, was expanding his own family unit. Furthermore, while
    recognizing the apparent ability of defendant’s girlfriend to watch the children when defendant is
    unavailable, the court stressed defendant’s stated uncertainty about his future living situation.
    Accordingly, the trial court concluded that plaintiff had the more stable and permanent family unit.
    Defendant faults the trial court for apparently basing this finding on testimony regarding
    the availability and defendant’s potential use of a babysitter if he was to be given partial custody.
    And defendant, similar to his argument on factor (d), also argues that the parties were facing similar
    levels of instability concerning their future living situations. Defendant thus claims that this factor
    should have been weighed equally between the parties.
    We disagree with defendant that this finding was made against the great weight of
    evidence. To the extent that the trial court’s findings concerning babysitting and extended family
    relied on the acceptability—as opposed to the permanence—of the parties’ family units, the trial
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    court erred. See Fletcher, 
    447 Mich at 885
     (“[A]cceptability of the home is not pertinent to factor
    e”). However, we do not interpret the trial court’s finding in such a manner. Specifically, the trial
    court, noting the girlfriend’s apparent availability to babysit in conjunction with defendant’s stated
    uncertainty regarding their future living situation, found that it was “uncertain who will be a
    ‘direct’ family unit” with defendant. This uncertainty regarding the actual makeup of defendant’s
    family unit implicates permanence, even if the facts also touch on comparative acceptability of the
    parties’ family units as well. Moreover, it was undisputed that defendant would soon have a new
    child with his girlfriend and planned to find new housing with her, evincing a more fluid, changing
    family unit. Accordingly, the trial court’s finding that plaintiff had a more permanent family unit
    was not against the great weight of the evidence.
    Next, we address the trial court’s finding that factor (f) (moral fitness of parties) favored
    plaintiff. Though recognizing that plaintiff’s act of changing defendant’s Caller I.D. to “cheater”
    reflected poorly on her, defendant did not submit any evidence to show this conduct was ever
    known to, or had an effect on, the children. On the other hand, the court found that it was
    “apparent” that defendant’s affair and subsequent relationship with his girlfriend had a negative
    impact on the children.
    Defendant asserts that the trial court improperly relied on his affair in evaluating his fitness
    as a parent because the affair only had an impact on the children due to plaintiff’s own behavior.
    Defendant further asserts that, if anything, plaintiff’s fitness was hindered by the affair as a result
    of her extreme emotional reaction to it and her inability to separate her feelings for defendant from
    decisions involving the children. According to defendant, the children would not have known of
    his affair until an appropriate time but for plaintiff’s intentional involvement of the children.
    Accordingly, defendant asserts that this factor should have been weighed equally or slightly in
    favor of him.
    In Fletcher, the Michigan Supreme Court stated with respect to extramarital affairs and
    child custody:
    Extramarital relations are not necessarily a reliable indicator of how one will
    function within the parent-child relationship. While such conduct certainly has a
    bearing on one’s spousal fitness, it need not be probative of how one will interact
    with or raise a child. Because of its limited probative value and the significant
    potential for prejudicially ascribing disproportionate weight to that fact,
    extramarital conduct, in and of itself, may not be relevant to factor f. To the extent
    that one’s marital misconduct actually does have an identifiable adverse effect on
    a particular person’s ability or disposition to raise a child, those parental
    shortcomings often may be reflected in other relevant statutory factors. [Fletcher,
    
    447 Mich at 887
    .]
    In Fletcher, however, “the evidence[ ]was clear that the children had no knowledge of [the
    affairs].” 
    Id. at 886
    . In contrast, the children here were aware of defendant’s affair, at least to the
    extent that he had a new girlfriend and, later on, was having a child with her. Moreover, as the
    trial court recognized, SK, on numerous occasions, reacted negatively to defendant having his
    girlfriend around. Furthermore, concerning defendant’s contention that plaintiff was responsible
    for any impact the affair had on the children, such a consideration is appropriately made under
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    factor (j) (willingness and ability of parties to facilitate and encourage close and continuing
    relationship between child and other parent).
    The trial court also found factor (h) (home, community, and school record of child) favored
    plaintiff. Highlighting that both children had been living in the marital home for a significant time
    with plaintiff and attended school and other activities within that community, the court found that
    defendant’s proposed living plans would result in relocation of the children away from their
    existing community environment. Defendant reiterates that the trial court discounted his extensive
    involvement with the children over the majority of their lives and improperly relied on his forced
    removal from the marital home. Defendant also notes testimony that he and the girlfriend were
    looking for housing in the same community as plaintiff. Defendant claims, therefore, that this
    factor should have been weighed equally between the parties.
    For the same reasons given above, defendant’s reliance on his involvement with the
    children before the parties’ separation and on being allegedly forced from the marital home is
    unpersuasive. And while the record supports that defendant and the girlfriend were looking for
    new housing, no evidence was presented to show they were specifically looking in the children’s
    existing community. In fact, while noting a general desire to keep the children “where they’re at,”
    defendant explicitly recognized that he did not yet have a specific location in mind and that their
    plans would be dependent on market conditions. Furthermore, plaintiff’s uncontested testimony
    established that defendant refused to pay for SK’s counseling. Therefore, it was not against the
    great weight of the evidence for the trial court to rely on defendant’s lack of involvement over the
    prior year and likelihood of moving out of the community to conclude that the children’s home,
    school, and community record favored plaintiff.
    Lastly, we address defendant’s contention that the trial court erred in finding factor (j)
    (willingness and ability of parties to facilitate and encourage close and continuing relationship
    between child and other parent) weighed equally between the parties. The trial court noted that,
    when discussing their separation, the parties were able to agree on a set schedule for defendant’s
    parenting time, but problems arose when plaintiff had relatives pick up the children from school
    early and when she would arrive at the marital home early. The court stated further that this
    prompted defendant to take the children elsewhere and the parties’ communication began to
    decline. The trial court also noted plaintiff’s flexibility since entry of the ex parte order in adjusting
    to circumstances so defendant could exercise his allotted parenting time, as well as her offer for
    him to have additional time over the Easter holiday. The court also stated that the parties had
    abided by their set schedules since the order. Lastly, the trial court acknowledged that plaintiff
    has requested defendant spend more alone time with the children and defendant admitted that
    plaintiff is a proper caregiver for them, thus concluding that “both parties recognize the importance
    of the relationship that the children have with the other.”
    Defendant argues that the trial court erred because it ignored overwhelming evidence that
    plaintiff actively desired and attempted to poison defendant’s relationship with the children. We
    disagree with defendant that this finding was made against the great weight of evidence. As we
    noted in addressing factor (a), while plaintiff admitted to telling defendant near the children that
    she wished his girlfriend would die at one point, she denied actively encouraging any resentment
    or alienation. Plaintiff also stated that she “tr[ies]” not to speak negatively about defendant in front
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    of the children. And though defendant notes plaintiff’s anger and toxicity toward him, he provides
    no other specific instances of any negative communication by her to the children.
    Relatedly, while defendant relies, in part, on plaintiff’s opposition to defendant getting
    more parenting time even if it would reduce childcare costs, he still fails to show that any of
    plaintiff’s negative feelings were ever specifically communicated to, or directed at, the children.
    Defendant merely assumes that the children’s disrespect originates from plaintiff. And the trial
    court did consider plaintiff’s failure to properly discipline the children when they disrespect
    defendant over the phone; however it also considered defendant’s similar issues with discipline,
    including evidence that he would yell and scream at the children.
    The trial court’s findings were sufficiently supported by the evidence; thus, the trial court
    did not abuse its discretion by determining that it was in the children’s best interest for plaintiff to
    have primary physical custody.
    Affirmed. Plaintiff, as the prevailing party, may tax costs.
    /s/ Elizabeth L. Gleicher
    /s/ Kirsten Frank Kelly
    /s/ Sima G. Patel
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Document Info

Docket Number: 358548

Filed Date: 4/7/2022

Precedential Status: Non-Precedential

Modified Date: 5/3/2022