In re: E.P-L.M. ( 2020 )


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  •               IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA
    No. COA19-803
    Filed: 4 August 2020
    Duplin County, No. 18 JA 46
    IN THE MATTER OF: E.P.-L.M.,
    A Juvenile.
    Appeal by Respondent-Mother from orders entered 15 January 2019, 22 April
    2019, and 15 May 2019, by Judge Shelly Holt in Duplin County District Court. Heard
    in the Court of Appeals 27 May 2020.
    Elizabeth Myrick Boone for Petitioner-Appellee Duplin County Department of
    Social Services.
    Parent Defender Wendy C. Sotolongo, by Assistant Parent Defender Jacky L.
    Brammer, for Respondent-Appellant Mother.
    Matthew D. Wunsche for guardian ad litem.
    INMAN, Judge.
    This appeal arises from a trial court’s adjudication of a child as abused,
    neglected, and dependent, termination of the juvenile proceeding, and modification
    of visitation in a civil custody proceeding.     Because the adjudication order is
    supported by findings of fact not challenged on appeal, the adjudication will not be
    disturbed, and it is not necessary for this Court to review other findings of fact.
    Because the trial court entered an order complying with statutory requirements to
    terminate juvenile jurisdiction and determine visitation in a civil custody proceeding,
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    we will affirm the transfer of jurisdiction and the trial court’s finding that supervised
    visitation is in the best interest of the child. But because the trial court failed to
    make a necessary finding regarding a parent’s ability to pay costs associated with
    supervised visitation, we vacate the visitation provisions and remand for further
    findings on that issue.
    Respondent-Mother (“Mother”) appeals. After careful review, we affirm in part
    the orders of the trial court but vacate the provisions of the trial court’s orders
    allowing supervised visitation by Mother and remand for necessary findings on her
    ability to pay associated costs.
    I. Factual and Procedural Background
    Ellen was born in December 2014 in Onslow County to parents Mother and
    Father. Four months later, Mother and Father separated due, in part, to drug use
    by Mother, and Father moved to Georgia. Father initiated a civil custody proceeding
    (the “Civil Custody Case”) in Onslow County District Court. The trial court granted
    Mother and Father joint physical custody of Ellen and instructed Mother to allow
    Father routine visitation with Ellen. Ellen continued to live primarily with Mother
    in the home of Ellen’s maternal grandmother (“Grandmother”) in Onslow County.
    Beginning in 2016, the Onslow Department of Social Services (“DSS”) provided
    continuing in-home services to Mother. DSS also received reports concerning Ellen
    since her birth, including claims of substance abuse by Mother, concerns that the
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    family lacked resources to properly care for Ellen, and repeated allegations that Ellen
    had been sexually abused by Father. In September 2016, Grandmother reported
    finding a small object inside Ellen’s vagina, removed the object at home, then took
    Ellen to the hospital for examination. Grandmother stated she feared Father had
    sexually abused Ellen, but the hospital found no evidence of sexual trauma. In June
    2017, Mother and Grandmother again reported that Father had sexually abused
    Ellen. DSS, law enforcement in North Carolina and Georgia, and a child advocacy
    center investigated the reports and found no evidence of sexual abuse. Mother and
    Grandmother thereafter continued to report sexual abuse allegations against Father
    to DSS.
    On 5 December 2017, the trial court entered an order in the Civil Custody Case
    instructing DSS to investigate Mother’s allegations of sexual abuse by Father. DSS
    attempted to temporarily place Ellen with paternal relatives during the investigation
    and family evaluation, but Mother expressed fears that other members of Father’s
    family had also sexually abused Ellen.         Mother continually refused to allow
    placement of Ellen with any paternal relatives. Due to the “high conflict and severity
    of the allegations” in the case, the trial court appointed an independent expert,
    forensic psychologist Dr. Amy James, to evaluate Ellen.
    Dr. James concluded that it was “improbable” that Ellen had been sexually
    abused; that it was “highly probable” Ellen had been subjected to circumstances that
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    could cause emotional abuse; that it was “possible” that subjecting Ellen to multiple
    invasive medical procedures as a result of sexual abuse allegations had a negative
    impact on Ellen’s well-being; and that she had “concerns regarding [Mother’s] current
    ability to parent.”
    On 26 January 2018, DSS1 filed a petition alleging that Ellen was abused,
    neglected, and dependent. The petition alleged that Mother had a substance abuse
    history, that Mother and Ellen lived with Grandmother, and that Mother and
    Grandmother had submitted multiple unsubstantiated sexual abuse allegations
    against Father. Later that same day, the trial court removed Ellen from Mother’s
    residence and placed Ellen in non-secure custody pending an outcome in the case.
    The trial court held a hearing on DSS’s petition on 19 December 2018, with all
    parties present and represented by counsel. DSS, the GAL, and Father tendered
    stipulations to the trial court concerning Mother’s alleged conduct giving rise to the
    petition; Mother, however, did not sign the stipulations. DSS and the GAL both
    argued that the stipulations could be used to establish Mother’s conduct even absent
    her agreement to them. When the stipulations were first proffered, the trial court
    directly asked DSS, “is it your contention . . . that if I accept these stipulated facts,
    that shifts the burden now to Mom?” DSS replied, “I wouldn’t say it shifts the burden,
    1   The Onslow County Department of Social Services filed the initial petition in this case, but
    the trial court transferred the matter to Duplin County in August 2018. We use “DSS” to refer to both
    counties’ departments interchangeably for simplicity and ease of reading.
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    but those stipulations become evidence, [Mother is] allowed to present [her] own
    evidence.” Father’s counsel offered that, “It’s still the—DSS (inaudible) to prove
    what’s in the stipulation. . . . They still have to put on evidence to prove the allegation
    of abuse, neglect, dependency through DSS testimony or whatever type of evidence
    they have.” The GAL confirmed this understanding of DSS’s burden, telling the court
    “these stipulations do not shift the burden.” As discussion continued, DSS argued to
    the court that the stipulations could—without more—be used to meet its burden.
    At no point did Mother object to the stipulations or argue that they could not
    be used to establish her conduct; although her counsel did argue against a motion to
    admit other evidence during the discussion of the stipulations, the transcript reveals
    that Mother and her counsel made no mention of the stipulations whatsoever at any
    stage of the proceeding.
    The trial court ultimately accepted the stipulations as “between three out of
    the four parties as to the facts in the stipulation[s].” It then asked DSS if it intended
    to put forth additional evidence. In response, DSS presented testimony from a DSS
    social worker regarding, among other things, the reports of sexual abuse,
    investigations of those reports, and Mother’s refusal to cooperate with efforts by DSS
    to place Ellen in the household of any relative of Father. Mother testified on her own
    behalf and called her substance abuse counsellor as an additional witness.
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    After all the evidence on adjudication had been received, DSS argued that “the
    Department’s shown by clear, cogent, convincing evidence, the child is depend[e]nt,
    neglected, and abused at the time the petition was filed. . . . [T]hese are just the same
    things that are in the stipulated facts[.]” The GAL argued next, expressly contending
    the stipulation was sufficient to establish proof of abuse, neglect, and dependency:
    “we agree with . . . [DSS’s] assessment of the case and would ask that you accept the
    stipulation. Using those facts into evidence . . . the mother is essentially causing the
    child to be depend[e]nt[.]”    Father’s counsel followed, presenting an alternative
    argument that, “even if the stipulations we handed you at the beginning, if you were
    to not give them any weight today, Ms. Brown testified . . . . But without the
    stipulations, Judge, if you didn’t feel comfortable with those, Ms. Brown’s testified
    fully to that type of neglect and abuse that’s occurred[.]”
    The trial court asked Mother to respond to the arguments of the other parties.
    Her counsel conceded that Mother’s allegations of sexual abuse were unsubstantiated
    and simply “ask[ed] that the Court acknowledge it’s not abuse just because they went
    and sought medical help.” Mother did not discuss the stipulations, address the
    argument that the stipulations alone established DSS’s burden of proof, or contend
    that the stipulations were inadmissible or incompetent in any way. Indeed, Mother
    did not address the stipulations at all.
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    Immediately following Mother’s closing argument, the trial court asked if there
    would be “[a]ny closing argument then for DSS since you’re the—having the burden?”
    DSS responded by arguing that the social worker’s testimony constituted clear,
    cogent, and convincing evidence of “the allegations in the petition . . . specifically,
    those outlined in the stipulation[s], and other than that, just to reiterate what
    everyone else says.”
    The trial court adjudicated Ellen abused, neglected, and dependent in open
    court, stating:
    All right, on the adjudication then, this order is based on
    the stipulated facts between [DSS], the [GAL], and
    [Father], the evidence presented by [DSS], and the
    evidence presented by [Mother], and the arguments of all
    four counsel.
    And going through the stipulated facts that make a finding
    that [Mother] did not stipulate to these facts [sic], however,
    after [Mother] presented evidence, the Court finds that
    with regard to all of the stipulated facts, the Court finds
    them to be fact. That [Mother’s] evidence did not convince
    the Court that any of these stipulations were not in fact
    accurate.
    ....
    So the Court does adjudicate abuse, neglect, and
    dependency.
    Immediately after the adjudication hearing, the trial court proceeded with a
    disposition hearing. DSS and the GAL presented additional testimonial evidence. At
    the conclusion of that hearing, the trial court found that juvenile court supervision of
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    the child was no longer necessary, and that the adjudication of the child as abused,
    neglected, and dependent constituted a change in circumstances warranting a
    modification of the custody order previously entered in the Civil Custody Case. The
    trial court instructed counsel for the parties prepare and submit proposed orders
    providing, among other things, that Father would have primary physical custody of
    Ellen and was required to allow Mother supervised visitation with Ellen both
    electronically and in person.
    On 15 January 2019, the trial court entered a written order adjudicating Ellen
    abused, neglected, and dependent, “based upon the stipulated facts, the evidence
    presented, testimony of [Mother], and arguments of counsel[.]”
    On 3 April 2019, the trial court entered a Chapter 7B-911 Disposition Order in
    the ongoing Civil Custody Case (the “7B-911 Order”), finding that a substantial
    change of circumstances existed which warranted modification of the prior custody
    order in the case. The 7B-911 Order awarded Mother and Father joint legal custody,
    awarded Father primary physical custody of Ellen, and ordered supervised in-person
    and electronic visitation by Mother. On 15 May 2019, the trial court entered a
    disposition order (the “Disposition Order”) mirroring the terms of the 7B-911 Order
    while also finding there was no longer a need for State intervention on behalf of Ellen
    in a juvenile proceeding. Mother timely appealed.
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    II. Analysis
    Mother challenges the trial court’s adjudication of Ellen as abused, neglected,
    and dependent, as well as the 7B-911 and Disposition Orders. We address each of
    Mother’s arguments in turn.
    A. Stipulations and Burden of Proof
    Mother first contends that the stipulations are not admissible evidence. She
    further argues that the trial court, in erroneously considering the inadmissible
    stipulations as competent evidence of Mother’s conduct, impermissibly placed a
    burden of production on Mother to refute the stipulations’ contents. After careful
    review, we hold Mother has failed to preserve these issues for appellate review.
    Mother did not object to the admission of the stipulations into evidence. “In
    order to preserve an issue for appellate review, a party must have presented to the
    trial court a timely request, objection, or motion, stating the specific grounds for the
    ruling the party desired the court to make if the specific grounds were not apparent
    from the context.” N.C. R. App. P. 10(a)(1) (2019). “It is well settled that an error,
    even one of constitutional magnitude, that defendant does not bring to the trial
    court’s attention is waived and will not be considered on appeal.” State v. Bell, 
    359 N.C. 1
    , 28, 
    603 S.E.2d 93
    , 112 (2004) (citation and internal quotation marks omitted).
    This rule is equally applicable to evidentiary arguments in the context of abuse,
    neglect, and dependency proceedings. See In re H.D.F., 
    197 N.C. App. 480
    , 488-89,
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    677 S.E.2d 877
    , 883 (2009) (holding a mother could not challenge admissibility of
    evidence—or the findings in adjudication and disposition orders based on that
    evidence—when no objection to the evidence was raised at the hearing). Because
    Mother raised no objection to the introduction of the stipulations into evidence at the
    hearing, we hold this issue has not been preserved for review. 
    Id.
    By extension, Mother’s argument that the trial court impermissibly considered
    the stipulations as “competent for adjudication” as to her and erroneously shifted the
    burden of production to “[Mother] to refute the incompetent stipulations” is also
    unpreserved.2 The transcript reveals that Mother and her counsel were completely
    silent on the competency and use of the stipulations to show her alleged misconduct,
    even in the face of direct argument by DSS and the GAL that the stipulations were
    admissible and sufficient, standing alone, to prove Mother’s abuse, neglect, and
    dependency by clear, cogent, and convincing evidence. Just as she failed to object to
    the admission of the stipulations, Mother did not object to the use of the stipulations
    as competent evidence establishing Mother’s conduct. When a party fails to object to
    incompetent evidence, she cannot complain of its admission—or the trial court’s
    reliance on it—on appeal: “Evidence admitted without objection is properly considered
    by the court and, on appeal, the question of its competency cannot be presented for
    2  We note that DSS, the GAL, and Father’s attorney all contended that DSS bore the burden
    of proof notwithstanding the stipulations, and the trial court expressly placed the burden of proof on
    DSS prior to making its findings on adjudication when it asked “[a]ny closing argument then for DSS
    since you’re the—having the burden?”
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    the first time.” Joyner v. Garrett, 
    279 N.C. 226
    , 234, 
    182 S.E.2d 553
    , 559 (1971)
    (emphasis added) (citation omitted). See also In re H.D.F., 197 N.C. App. at 488-89,
    
    677 S.E.2d at 883
     (holding that findings of fact were binding on appeal as supported
    by competent evidence—notwithstanding the mother’s argument that the evidence in
    question was inadmissible—as the mother failed to object to the admissibility of the
    evidence at trial).
    B. Evidence Supporting Adjudication
    Mother next argues that the trial court’s order adjudicating Ellen abused,
    neglected, and dependent was not supported by sufficient evidence and that the trial
    court did not make appropriate findings of fact. We review a trial court’s abuse,
    neglect, and dependency adjudication “to determine whether the findings are
    supported by clear, cogent, and convincing evidence and the findings support the
    conclusions of law.” In re I.G.C., 
    373 N.C. 201
    , 203, 
    835 S.E.2d 432
    , 434 (2019)
    (citation and quotation omitted). “Where no exception is taken to a finding of fact by
    the trial court, the finding is presumed to be supported by competent evidence and is
    binding on appeal.” Koufman v. Koufman, 
    330 N.C. 93
    , 97, 
    408 S.E.2d 729
    , 731
    (1991). A trial judge sitting without a jury has the duty to consider and weigh the
    evidence, pass upon the weight and credibility of witness testimony, and draw
    reasonable inferences therefrom. Knutton v. Cofield, 
    273 N.C. 355
    , 359, 
    160 S.E.2d 29
    , 33 (1968). “A trial court’s finding of fact that is supported by clear, cogent, and
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    convincing evidence is deemed conclusive even if the record contains evidence that
    would support a contrary finding.” In re B.O.A., 
    372 N.C. 372
    , 379, 
    831 S.E.2d 305
    ,
    310 (2019).
    The purpose of the adjudication hearing is to determine the existence of the
    juvenile’s conditions as alleged in the petition. In re A.B., 
    179 N.C. App. 605
    , 609,
    
    635 S.E.2d 11
    , 14 (2006); N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-802 (2015). At this stage, the court’s
    decisions must often be “predictive in nature, as the trial court must assess whether
    there is a substantial risk of future abuse or neglect of a child based on the historical
    facts of the case.” In re McLean, 
    135 N.C. App. 387
    , 396, 
    521 S.E.2d 121
    , 127 (1999).
    Here, the trial court made the following findings of fact not challenged on
    appeal:
    11. That [Mother] lacks housing of her own. The [Mother]
    lives with [Grandmother], who lives in her ex-husband’s
    home.
    12. That [Mother] has no employment or income.
    13. That since [Ellen] was three months old, [Mother] and
    [Grandmother] have made several reports of sexual abuse
    against [Father] that were found to be unsubstantiated.
    14. That while in the home and under [Mother’s] care,
    [Grandmother] stated that she removed a foreign object
    from [Ellen’s] vagina with mineral oil.
    15. That while under [Mother’s] care, [Grandmother] has
    taken pictures of the [Ellen’s] vagina and attempted to give
    them to [DSS].
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    16. That [Mother] disrupted a potential kinship placement
    by contacting the potential placement despite [DSS’s]
    recommendations to not contact the potential placement.
    17. That [Mother] failed to bring [Ellen] to [DSS] as
    directed to meet with a potential temporary resource
    provider (the paternal aunt).
    ....
    19. That [Mother] stated that she would rather [Ellen] be
    placed in foster care than with a paternal relative.
    20. That [Mother] and [Grandmother] have attempted to
    thwart any placement of [Ellen] with any paternal relative.
    21. That [Mother], by raising unsubstantiated sexual abuse
    allegations, has caused [Ellen] to receive unnecessary and
    harmful medical care, including:
    a. Multiple invasive vaginal inspections by various
    medical providers (none of which showed any
    physical findings); and
    b. Two interviews by Child Forensic interviewers
    (both found no findings consistent with sexual
    abuse).
    22. That [DSS] and law enforcement from two states have
    conducted investigations due to the [Mother’s] allegations,
    all of which were unsubstantiated.
    The trial court then made the following conclusions of law:
    2. That [Ellen] is an abused juvenile pursuant to N.C. Gen.
    Stat. §7B-101 (1).
    3. That [Ellen] is a neglected juvenile pursuant to N.C.
    Gen. Stat. §7B-101(15).
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    4. That [Ellen] is a dependent juvenile pursuant to
    N.C. Gen. Stat. §7B-101 (9).
    We hold that the trial court’s unchallenged findings of fact were sufficient to
    support the trial court’s adjudication of Ellen as abused, neglected, and dependent.
    1. Abuse
    Mother argues that the evidence presented at the hearing did not support an
    adjudication of abuse based on the grounds DSS alleged in its petition. DSS alleged
    that Mother (1) “has used or allowed to be used upon the juvenile cruel or grossly
    inappropriate devices or procedures to modify behavior,” one definition of abuse
    provided in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-101(1)(c), and (2) “has created or allowed to be
    created serious emotional damage to the juvenile,” another definition of abuse
    provided in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-101(1)(e).
    Our Court has held that the term “cruel or grossly inappropriate” typically
    refers to “extreme examples of discipline” beyond what a reasonable parent would
    employ. See In re F.C.D., 
    244 N.C. App. 243
    , 249, 
    780 S.E.2d 214
    , 219 (2015). We
    need not address this issue, because we hold that the evidence supports an
    adjudication of abuse based on serious emotional damage.
    An abused juvenile is defined, in relevant part, as one whose caretaker by act
    or omission allows serious emotional damage to the juvenile, evidenced by the
    juvenile’s anxiety, depression, withdrawal, or aggressive behaviors. N.C. Gen. Stat.
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    § 7B-101(1)(e) (2015). “[T]he nature of abuse, based upon its statutory definition, is
    the existence or serious risk of some nonaccidental harm inflicted or allowed by one’s
    caretaker.” In re M.G., 
    363 N.C. 570
    , 574, 
    681 S.E.2d 290
    , 292 (2009).
    Mother contends that the trial court “erred in adjudicating Ellen abused
    because neither the findings nor the evidence show Ellen having any physical harm,
    severe anxiety, depression, withdrawal or aggressive behavior.” Mother specifically
    challenges findings of fact 10 and 18 as unsupported by the evidence. However,
    finding 18 is supported by the stipulations and, because the competency of the
    stipulations as evidence has not been preserved for review, that finding is deemed
    supported and binding on appeal. In re H.D.F., 197 N.C. App. at 489, 
    677 S.E.2d at 883
    . She does not challenge findings of fact 11 through 17, or 19 through 22. As such,
    these findings are binding on appeal. Koufman, 
    330 N.C. at 97
    , 
    408 S.E.2d at 731
    .
    And, assuming, arguendo, that findings of fact 10 and 18 are unsupported by clear
    and convincing evidence, we hold that the trial court’s remaining, unchallenged
    findings of fact support its abuse adjudication. See In re J.R., 
    243 N.C. App. 309
    , 312,
    
    778 S.E.2d 441
    , 443 (2015) (“[E]rroneous findings unnecessary to the determination
    do not constitute reversible error where an adjudication is supported by sufficient
    additional findings grounded in competent evidence.”          (citation and quotation
    omitted)).
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    The trial court found, in finding 21, that Ellen had been subjected to repeated
    unnecessary   and   harmful    medical     procedures,   including   invasive   vaginal
    examinations and forensic interviews involving sexual content.        The DSS social
    worker who filed the petition testified at the hearing that DSS had documented at
    least four allegations of sexual abuse for which Ellen received medical examinations,
    in addition to an informal examination by Grandmother to allegedly remove a
    “pebble” from Ellen’s vagina. Each of these five examinations occurred before Ellen
    reached four years old. Law enforcement and child welfare agencies in two states
    found no signs of physical or sexual abuse but did report that Ellen displayed signs
    of emotional abuse. Mother and Grandmother nonetheless continued to make claims
    of sexual abuse, and to subject Ellen to additional invasive medical procedures. The
    trial court found that these procedures were harmful and inflicted as a result of
    Mother’s actions. The trial court did not err in concluding that Ellen was an abused
    juvenile.
    2. Neglect
    Mother argues the trial court failed to make the necessary findings of fact that
    Ellen was experiencing, or at a substantial risk of experiencing, any kind of
    emotional, psychological, or behavioral impairment, and that the record evidence did
    not support such a finding. We disagree.
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    A neglected juvenile is defined, in relevant part, as one whose caretaker “does
    not provide proper care, supervision, or discipline; . . . or who is not provided
    necessary medical care; . . . or who lives in an environment injurious to the juvenile’s
    welfare.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-101(15) (2015). The petition in this case alleged Ellen
    neglected on those grounds. Additionally, our Courts have required “some physical,
    mental, or emotional impairment of the juvenile or a substantial risk of such
    impairment as a consequence of the failure to provide proper care, supervision, or
    discipline” in order to adjudicate a juvenile neglected. In re Stumbo, 
    357 N.C. 279
    ,
    283, 
    582 S.E.2d 255
    , 258 (2003) (citation and quotation omitted). “Section 7B-101(15)
    affords the trial court some discretion in determining whether children are at risk for
    a particular kind of harm given their age and the environment in which they reside.”
    In re N.G., 
    186 N.C. App. 1
    , 8–9, 
    650 S.E.2d 45
    , 50 (2007) (citation and quotations
    omitted).
    Mother does not challenge the trial court’s findings that Ellen has been
    subjected to numerous harmful and invasive medical procedures following repeated,
    unsubstantiated allegations of sexual abuse and that Mother repeatedly claimed that
    Ellen had been abused by others following determinations that each prior allegation
    was unsubstantiated. Finding 21 states that these procedures were already harmful
    to Ellen. The trial court’s unchallenged findings establish that Mother’s improper
    care of Ellen and repeated allegations of sexual abuse exposed Ellen to harmful
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    medical procedures, creating an environment injurious to Ellen’s welfare. Although
    the trial court’s unchallenged findings do not track the language used in N.C. Gen.
    Stat. § 7B-101(15) or expressly state Ellen has suffered some impairment, we hold
    they are sufficient to show the existence, or risk, of neglect when Ellen is in Mother’s
    care. See In re L.M.T., 
    367 N.C. 165
    , 168, 
    752 S.E.2d 453
    , 455 (2013) (“The trial
    court’s written findings must address the statute’s concerns, but need not quote its
    exact language.”). The trial court did not err in adjudicating Ellen neglected.
    3. Dependency
    Mother’s last challenge to the trial court’s adjudication argues that it was
    improper to adjudicate Ellen dependent when Father was able to provide proper care
    and supervision at the time of the adjudication hearing. We disagree. Mother’s
    argument misconstrues the law.
    A juvenile may be adjudicated dependent where DSS proves “the juvenile’s
    parent, guardian, or custodian [1] is unable to provide for the juvenile’s care or
    supervision and [2] lacks an appropriate alternative child care arrangement.” N.C.
    Gen. Stat. § 7B-101(9) (2015). “Findings of fact addressing both prongs must be made
    before a juvenile may be adjudicated as dependent[.]” In re B.M., 
    183 N.C. App. 84
    ,
    90, 
    643 S.E.2d 644
    , 648 (2007). Further, a child may not be adjudicated dependent
    when she has at least one parent capable of providing care or supervision. In re V.B.,
    
    239 N.C. App. 340
    , 342, 
    768 S.E.2d 867
    , 868 (2015) (citation omitted).
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    Mother’s argument fails because it requires consideration of Father’s status at
    the time of the adjudication hearing, rather than the circumstances as they existed
    at the time the petition was filed.        Section 7B-802 expressly provides “[t]he
    adjudicatory hearing shall be a judicial process designed to adjudicate the existence
    or nonexistence of any of the conditions alleged in a petition.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-
    802 (emphasis added). Absent exceptional circumstances, the trial court may only
    look to the circumstances before the court at the time the petition was filed when
    considering whether a juvenile is dependent at the adjudication stage. In re V.B., 239
    N.C. App. at 344, 768 S.E.2d at 869 (“[P]ost-petition evidence generally is not
    admissible during an adjudicatory hearing for abuse, neglect, or dependency.”); see
    also In re A.B., 
    179 N.C. App. 605
    , 609, 
    635 S.E.2d 11
    , 15 (2006) (holding that “post-
    petition evidence is admissible for consideration of the child’s best interest in the
    dispositional hearing, but not an adjudication[.]”).
    Our Court has carved out exceptions to this general rule; for instance, when
    evidence is discovered after the filing of the petition that reflects a “fixed and ongoing
    circumstance” rather than a “discreet event or one-time occurrence,” that evidence
    may be considered in a dependency adjudication. In re V.B., 239 N.C. App. at 344,
    768 S.E.2d at 870 (considering post-petition evidence of father’s paternity in
    dependency adjudication because paternity was a “fixed and ongoing circumstance”
    relevant to whether the juvenile had a parent capable of supervision and care).
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    More recent case law has muddied the waters regarding what evidence a trial
    court may consider in an adjudication hearing.                    Although this case is factually
    distinguishable from those decisions, we take the opportunity here to survey the state
    of the law in hopes that it may be clarified by our Supreme Court or the legislature.
    In In re F.S., this Court reversed a dependency adjudication because there was
    no evidence that, at the time of the adjudication, the mother was unable to care for
    her child. In re F.S., ___ N.C. App. ___, ___, 
    835 S.E.2d 465
    , 473 (2019). The Court
    explained that because the child had not been in the mother’s custody for several
    months both before DSS filed a petition alleging dependency or during the four
    months pending the adjudication hearing, the trial court needed to consider evidence
    of the mother’s ability to care for the child at the time of the adjudication hearing.
    Id.3 This case is distinguishable from In re F.S. because Ellen was in Mother’s
    custody until and at the time DSS filed its petition.
    3 The decision in In re F.S. also included the broad statement that “[t]he trial court must look
    at the situation before the court at the time of the hearing when considering whether a juvenile is
    dependent.” 
    Id.
     The Court cited a previous decision, In re B.P., 
    257 N.C. App. 424
    , 
    809 S.E.2d 914
    (2018), which quoted another case, In re K.J.D., 
    203 N.C. App. 653
    , 661, 
    692 S.E.2d 437
    , 443 (2010),
    for the proposition. B.P. and K.J.D. discussed this language in the context of adjudications based on
    the risk of future neglect where the parents did not have custody of the children prior to the filing of
    the petitions. See In re K.J.D., 203 N.C. App. at 660, 
    692 S.E.2d at 443
     (“This case resembles those
    that deal with termination of parental rights based upon neglect in that the child has not lived in a
    home with a parent for a substantial period of time prior to the filing of the petition.”); In re B.P., 257
    N.C. App. at 433-34, 809 S.E.2d at 919-20 (discussing K.J.D. but distinguishing it in part because the
    trial court did not find a substantial risk of harm if B.P. were returned to her mother’s custody and
    such a finding could not be implied from the evidence). Here, Ellen was in Mother’s custody at the
    time of the petition, and Mother’s challenge to post-petition evidence in this case concerns the
    adjudication of Ellen as dependent, not as neglected based on any future risk should she be returned
    to Mother’s custody.
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    When DSS filed the petition in this case, neither Mother nor Father was
    available to provide care or supervision to Ellen, and Mother disrupted DSS’s
    attempts to temporarily place Ellen with relatives. Mother was not available because
    of her then-alleged emotional abuse of Ellen stemming from the unsubstantiated
    belief that Ellen was being sexually victimized. Father was not available because
    Mother and Grandmother had alleged Father sexually abused Ellen. The trial court
    adjudicated Ellen dependent after finding that, at the time the petition was filed,
    each parent was “unable to provide for [Ellen’s] care or supervision and lack[ed] an
    appropriate alternative child care arrangement[.]” The trial court also found that,
    contrary to Mother’s allegations, there was no evidence Father had sexually abused
    Ellen.
    In addition to not fitting within the narrow exceptions to the rule that only pre-
    petition facts can be considered by the court in an adjudication hearing, this case is
    uniquely distinguishable because Mother was responsible for the allegations and DSS
    investigation which rendered Father unavailable to provide care or supervision to
    Ellen at the time of the petition.
    C. Disposition
    In the disposition hearing, based upon additional, post-petition facts, the trial
    court found that it was in Ellen’s best interests to reside with Father and awarded
    Father primary physical custody of Ellen. Mother challenges the trial court’s 7B-911
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    and Disposition Orders modifying custody and transferring the case from juvenile
    court to the parents’ civil custody action. “[D]ispositional orders of the trial court
    after abuse, neglect and dependency hearings must contain findings of fact based
    upon the credible evidence presented at the hearing.” In re Weiler, 
    158 N.C. App. 473
    , 477, 
    581 S.E.2d 134
    , 137 (2003). Findings based upon competent evidence are
    conclusive on appeal. 
    Id.
     “The trial court’s assessment of a juvenile’s best interests
    at the dispositional stage is reviewed for abuse of discretion.” In re E.H.P., 
    372 N.C. 388
    , 392, 
    831 S.E.2d 49
    , 52 (2019).
    1. Termination and Transfer to Civil Custody Proceeding
    In addition to the Disposition Order, the trial court entered its 7B-911 Order
    terminating the juvenile proceeding. Mother contends the 7B-911 Order is void
    because it did not contain a finding required to transfer jurisdiction to the civil case.
    See N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-911(c)(2)(a) (2015) (stating the trial court must make a
    finding that “[t]here is not a need for continued State intervention on behalf of the
    juvenile through a juvenile court proceeding” to modify custody in a corresponding
    civil case). This deficiency in the 7B-911 Order is immaterial because the trial court’s
    Disposition Order contained the requisite language to transfer the matter from
    juvenile court to a private civil proceeding. In re A.S., 
    182 N.C. App. 139
    , 142, 
    641 S.E.2d 400
    , 402 (2007) (“The trial court may enter one order for placement in both
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    the juvenile file and the civil file as long as the order is sufficient to support
    termination of juvenile court jurisdiction and modification of custody.”).
    2. Change of Custody
    Mother argues the trial court erred in entering a “7B-911 order and initial
    disposition order that changed custody of Ellen without considering the prior custody
    order and otherwise did not make sufficient findings to modify the underlying custody
    order.” Mother contends that in order to determine whether there had been a change
    of circumstances since the prior custody order, entered on 18 July 2017, the trial court
    was required to consider that prior custody order.
    We reject Mother’s argument concerning the trial court’s failure to literally
    examine the 18 July 2017 custody order. The only authority Mother cites as squarely
    supporting this proposition, Woodring v. Woodring, 
    227 N.C. App. 638
    , 645, 
    745 S.E.2d 13
    , 19 (2013),4 concerns an entirely different scenario. See Woodring at 645-
    46, 745 S.E.2d at 19-20 (holding the trial court erred in modifying a temporary
    custody order entered in 2010 based on a substantial change in circumstances
    without regard to a more recent 2011 permanent custody order that had already
    4  Plaintiff also suggests Kenney v. Kenney, 
    15 N.C. App. 665
    , 
    190 S.E.2d 650
     (1972), requires
    the trial court to directly examine the specific findings and terms of the earlier custody decree in order
    to modify it. Although we did compare the prior custody order and the appealed order modifying
    custody in Kenney, we did so to identify whether the facts and circumstances themselves had changed
    between the entry of the two orders. 
    Id. at 668-69
    , 
    190 S.E.2d at 652-53
    . Here, the facts giving rise
    to the modification of custody in the Disposition and 7B-911 Orders occurred after the 18 July 2017
    custody order and remained unsettled at the time of the trial court’s most recent 5 December 2017
    temporary custody order.
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    litigated those purportedly changed circumstances).5 Woodring itself states that,
    “when evaluating whether there has been a substantial change in circumstances,
    courts may only consider events which occurred after the entry of the previous order,
    unless the events were previously undisclosed to the court.” Id. at 645, 745 S.E.2d at
    20 (citations omitted) (emphasis added). We based this statement on the underlying
    rationale for showing a substantial change in circumstances: “ ‘The reason behind the
    often stated requirement . . . is to prevent relitigation of conduct and circumstances
    that antedate the prior custody order.’ ”                  Id. at 645, 745 S.E.2d at 19 (quoting
    Newsome v. Newsome, 
    42 N.C. App. 416
    , 425, 
    256 S.E.2d 849
    , 854 (1979)).
    The events relied upon by the trial court in identifying a substantial change in
    circumstances—specifically,           Mother’s      continuing       allegations      of   abuse,     the
    investigation and evaluation of those allegations, the determination that those
    allegations and examinations were unfounded and harmful to Ellen, and the
    adjudication of Ellen as abused, neglected, and dependent—occurred after the 18 July
    2017 order pointed to by Mother and had not been resolved at the time of the most
    5   Here, the trial court considered the most recent temporary custody order—entered on 5
    December 2017 and directing DSS to investigate Mother’s allegations of abuse against Father—in
    determining a substantial change in circumstances existed. Although the December 2017 order stated
    that an earlier temporary custody order, entered on 18 July 2017, “shall remain in full force and
    effect[,]” it also made clear that a full investigation into Mother’s allegations and their effect on Ellen
    had not been completed as of the previous order. This is unlike Woodring, where the most recent
    permanent order had not been considered in determining whether a change in circumstances required
    for modification under 
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.7
     existed and the trial court relied on events that were
    previously litigated in that most recent permanent order. 227 N.C. App. at 645-46, 745 S.E.2d at 19-
    20.
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    recent 5 December 2017 order. Mother does not contend that those events were
    previously litigated in the 18 July 2017 order. As a result, we reject this argument
    that a literal examination of the earlier 2017 order was necessary to find a change of
    circumstances here.
    We also disagree with Mother’s contention that the trial court’s findings are
    inadequate to support the conclusion of a substantial change in circumstances. In its
    7B-911 Order, the trial court found that Ellen “was adjudicated abused, neglected
    and dependent due to actions of the defendant as detailed in the aforesaid
    Adjudication Order.” That Adjudication Order, in turn, recounted those actions,
    namely, her submission of Ellen to numerous unnecessary and harmful medical
    procedures based on continuing allegations of sexual abuse by Father that were
    ultimately determined to be unsubstantiated. In the Disposition Order, the trial
    court found that Mother continuously levelled unfounded allegations of sexual abuse
    by Father, and that those allegations led to a determination that Ellen was abused,
    neglected, and dependent. We hold that these findings were adequate to support a
    conclusion of law that a substantial change in circumstances had occurred.
    Mother also argues that the trial court “erred in concluding a change in
    circumstances existed warranting modification of a custody order without
    affirmatively stating the standard of proof.” Mother correctly states that, where a
    standard of proof is necessary, “there is clear case law that holds the order of the trial
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    court must affirmatively state the standard of proof utilized.” In re E.N.S., 
    164 N.C. App. 146
    , 152, 
    595 S.E.2d 167
    , 171 (2004). However, Mother cites to no case law
    defining a standard of proof required in dispositional orders. Rather, as our Supreme
    Court has explained, no party “bears the burden of proof in [dispositional] hearings,
    and the trial court’s findings of fact need only be supported by sufficient competent
    evidence.” In re L.M.T., 
    367 N.C. 165
    , 180, 
    752 S.E.2d 453
    , 462 (2013). It is only
    essential that the court receive sufficient evidence to determine what is in the best
    interests of the child. 
    Id.
     (citation omitted). The trial court’s determination of Ellen’s
    best interests “based upon evidence and the records” was sufficient.
    3. Visitation
    Lastly, Mother argues the trial court “erred in effectively denying [Mother]
    appropriate visitation and in making no findings as to [Mother]’s obligations or ability
    to pay for supervised visitation.” We agree.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-905.1 provides, in pertinent part:
    (a) An order that removes custody of a juvenile from a
    parent, guardian, or custodian or that continues the
    juvenile's placement outside the home shall provide for
    appropriate visitation as may be in the best interests of the
    juvenile consistent with the juvenile's health and safety.
    The court may specify in the order conditions under which
    visitation may be suspended.
    ....
    (c) If the juvenile is placed or continued in the custody or
    guardianship of a relative or other suitable person, any
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    order providing for visitation shall specify the minimum
    frequency and length of the visits and whether the visits
    shall be supervised. The court may authorize additional
    visitation as agreed upon by the respondent and custodian
    or guardian.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 7B-905.1(a), (c) (2015).
    The Disposition Order in the present case ordered the following:
    3. That until further order of the Court regarding the
    [Mother's] visitation, the [Mother] shall have the following
    supervised visitation:
    a. Facetime twice a week, Sundays from 2-·3 pm and
    Wednesdays from 7-8 pm;
    b. Christmas day Facetime from 2-3 pm;
    c. If [Mother] travels to the [Father's] hometown,
    Ackworth, Cobb County, Georgia, prior to further
    hearing on visitation, she can have supervised
    visitation for 2 hours on a Saturday and 2 hours on
    a Sunday.
    4. That each of the parties need to come up with a
    supervision plan for supervised visits for the [Mother].
    5. That Charlotte, North Carolina is the half-way point
    between the parties, and the parties need to explore
    visitation centers in the City of Charlotte, to include hours
    and costs, possibly at the Mecklenburg County Supervised
    Visitation Center.
    First, the visitation provisions appropriately (1) provide for physical and
    electronic visitation, (2) set out the length and frequency of visitation, and (3) direct
    whether the visitation should be supervised, but they “fail[] to provide any direction
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    as to the frequency or length of [Mother’s] visits in the event that she does not [go to
    Georgia].” In re J.D.M.-J., 
    260 N.C. App. 56
    , 69, 
    817 S.E.2d 755
    , 757 (2018).
    Second, in setting out instructions for future visitation in a supervised
    visitation center, the trial court failed to make findings as to who would pay for the
    resulting costs of visitation and the chosen party’s ability to pay. In In re J.C., 
    368 N.C. 89
    , 
    772 S.E.2d 465
     (2015), the trial court specifically ordered that visitation be
    supervised and that the mother pay for supervision expenses. Id. at 89, 772 S.E.2d
    at 465. Our Supreme Court ordered that the visitation provisions be vacated and the
    matter remanded for further findings because “[t]he district court made no findings
    whether respondent mother was able to pay for supervised visitation once ordered.”
    Id. In doing so, the Supreme Court held that such findings were necessary “to
    determine if the trial court abused its discretion” and “to support meaningful
    appellate review.” Id.
    Our Court then expanded on J.C. in In re Y.I., 
    262 N.C. App. 575
    , 582, 
    822 S.E.2d 501
    , 506 (2018). In Y.I., the trial court ordered supervised visitation but did
    not order a specific party to pay for supervision and did not make any assessment of
    the mother’s ability to pay. 
    Id.
     We found error and reversed because it appeared
    likely that the mother would be required to pay for visitation, as DSS was relieved of
    authority in the case, and the trial court failed to determine whether the mother could
    pay for supervised visitation. 
    Id.
     Our Court has since squarely relied on Y.I. and
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    reversed without further discussion where “the trial court made no findings as to the
    costs associated with supervised visitation, who would bear the responsibility of
    paying such costs, or [the visiting party]’s ability to pay the costs.” In re J.T.S., ___
    N.C. App. ___, ___, 
    834 S.E.2d 637
    , 646 (2019).
    In the present case, the trial court ordered that Mother only gets visitation (1)
    if she travels from Onslow County to Georgia or (2) if visitation is supervised in
    Charlotte. Having determined that it is in the best interests of Ellen that Mother
    have in-person visitation with her child, the trial court was required to determine
    whether any inability to pay for visitation on Mother’s part would prevent the best
    interests of Ellen from being met. Without such findings, we cannot determine
    whether the trial court abused its discretion in setting the conditions for Mother’s
    visitation with Ellen. See In re Y.I., 262 N.C. App. at 582, 822 S.E.2d at 505 (“[T]he
    trial court’s order is not specific enough to allow this Court to determine whether the
    trial court abused its discretion in setting the conditions of visitation.” (citing In re
    J.C., 368 N.C. at 89, 772 S.E.2d at 465)). Therefore, we vacate and remand the
    portion of the dispositional order setting out Mother’s visitation for additional
    findings regarding Mother’s ability to pay for costs associated with visitation.
    III. Conclusion
    We hold that the trial court did not commit error in adjudicating Ellen abused,
    neglected, and dependent and did not err in its transfer of proceedings from Chapter
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    7B to Chapter 50 under Section 7B-911. However, we hold that the trial court failed
    to make necessary findings as to Mother’s ability to pay for visitation as ordered in
    the 7B-911 and Disposition Orders. As a result, we vacate the visitation provisions
    of those orders and remand for further findings on Mother’s ability to pay for
    visitation. The trial court may elect to take further evidence on the question in its
    discretion.
    AFFIRMED IN PART; VACATED IN PART AND REMANDED.
    Judge ARROWOOD concurs.
    Judge MURPHY concurs by separate opinion.
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    MURPHY, Judge, concurring.
    I concur with the Majority that Mother’s arguments regarding the “stipulation”
    entered into by Father, DSS, and the GAL, but not Mother, were not properly
    preserved for our review. Supra at 9. However, I write separately to reject the GAL’s
    and DSS’s arguments that, were the issues related to the “stipulation” preserved, the
    trial court’s use of the “stipulation” against Mother was appropriate and did not
    impermissibly shift the burden to Mother.
    DSS and the GAL would urge us to approve of the trial court’s reliance on the
    “stipulation,” a document that discusses the alleged actions of a party to the litigation
    who did not assent to the “stipulation.” The trial court improperly relied on the
    document during the adjudication stage of the proceeding despite Mother not being a
    party to it:
    All right, on the adjudication then, this order is based on
    the stipulated facts between [DSS], the [GAL], and [Father],
    the evidence presented by [DSS], and the evidence
    presented by [Mother], and the arguments of all four
    counsel.
    (Emphasis added).      The trial court went on to improperly place the burden of
    disproving the “stipulation” on Mother:
    And going through the stipulated facts that make a finding
    that the [Mother] did not stipulate to these facts, however,
    after the mother presented evidence, the Court finds that
    with regard to all of the stipulated facts, the Court finds
    them to be fact. That the mother's evidence did not convince
    the Court that any of these stipulations were not in fact
    accurate.
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    Murphy, J., concurring
    (Emphasis added). Ultimately, the trial court “adjudicate[d the child to be] abuse[d],
    neglect[ed], and dependen[t].”
    There are two errors in the trial court’s actions regarding the “stipulation”—
    first, the “stipulation” was not properly considered as evidence against Mother given
    that she did not stipulate to it; and, second, the trial court placed a burden on Mother
    to disprove the allegations of her adversaries.
    To adjudicate a child as abused, neglected, and dependent the trial court must
    “find[] from the evidence, including stipulations by a party, that the allegations in the
    petition have been proven by clear and convincing evidence[.]” N.C. G. S. § 7B-807(a)
    (2019) (emphasis added). Despite the contemplation of “stipulations by a party” in
    the statute, our caselaw has made clear that stipulations do not extend beyond what
    was agreed to by those stipulating. See Rickert v. Rickert, 
    282 N.C. 373
    , 380, 
    193 S.E.2d 79
    , 83 (1972). Stipulations do not extend beyond what was agreed to, and do
    not extend to parties who did not agree to them either. The GAL suggests that a
    party who did not agree to a stipulation may be bound by the content of the
    stipulation. This is not the law, this has never been the law, and this should never
    be the law in an adversarial system.6
    6  “Where facts are stipulated, they are deemed established as fully as if determined by the
    verdict of a jury. A stipulation is a judicial admission. As such, [i]t is binding in every sense,
    preventing the party who makes it from introducing evidence to dispute it, and relieving the opponent
    from the necessity of producing evidence to establish the admitted fact.” Moore v. Humphrey, 
    247 N.C. 423
    , 430, 
    101 S.E.2d 460
    , 466-467 (1958) (internal citations and quotation marks omitted). Similar to
    2
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    Our Supreme Court has discussed the rules regarding stipulations and how
    those rules apply when the stipulation is used beyond its intended scope to also
    include attorney fees, as follows:
    It has been said in North Carolina that courts look with
    favor on stipulations, because they tend to simplify,
    shorten, or settle litigation as well as saving cost to the
    parties. . . .
    In Lumber Co. v. Lumber Co., . . . this Court considered
    judicial admissions, and Walker, J., speaking for the Court,
    stated: “Such agreements and admissions are of frequent
    occurrence and of great value, as they dispense with proof
    and save time in the trial of causes. The courts recognize
    and enforce them as substitutes for legal proof, and there
    is no good reason why they should not. . . . While this is so,
    the court will not extend the operation of the agreement
    beyond the limits set by the parties or by the law.”
    It has been the policy of this Court to encourage
    stipulations and to restrict their effect to the extent
    manifested by the parties in their agreement. . . . In
    determining the extent of the stipulation we look to the
    circumstances under which it was signed and the intent of
    the parties as expressed by the agreement. Similarly,
    stipulations will receive a reasonable construction with a
    our caselaw, Black’s Law Dictionary’s second definition of stipulation is “[a] voluntary agreement
    between opposing parties concerning some relevant point; esp. an agreement relating to a proceeding,
    made by attorneys representing adverse parties to the proceeding [for example,] the plaintiff and
    defendant entered into a stipulation on the issue of liability[]. . . . A stipulation relating to a pending
    judicial proceeding, made by a party to the proceeding or the party's attorney, is binding without
    consideration.” Stipulation, Black’s Law Dictionary (11th ed. 2019). Its third definition is “Roman
    law. A formal contract by which a promisor (and only the promisor) became bound by oral question
    and answer. []By the third century A.D., stipulations were always evidenced in writing.” Stipulation,
    Black’s Law Dictionary (11th ed. 2019). In fact, even the first edition of Black’s Law Dictionary states
    “[t]he name ‘stipulation’ is familiarly given to any agreement made by the attorneys engaged on
    opposite sides of a cause, (especially if in writing,) regulating any matter incidental to the proceedings
    or trial, which falls within their jurisdiction. Such, for instance, are agreements to extend the time for
    pleading, to take depositions, to waive objections, to admit certain facts, to continue the cause.”
    Stipulation, Black’s Law Dictionary (1st ed. 1891) (emphasis added).
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    view to effecting the intent of the parties; but in seeking
    the intention of the parties, the language used will not be
    so construed as to give the effect of an admission of a fact
    obviously intended to be controverted, or the waiver of a
    right not plainly intended to be relinquished, . . .
    Judge Martin's order enumerated concisely each of
    defendant's obligations, all of which related to subsistence
    and child custody. Further, the fact that the stipulation
    did not include an award of counsel fees is reflected in the
    following portion of Judge Martin's order: “The court
    expressly refrains from ruling on the question of attorneys’
    fees for plaintiff's attorneys at this time, and that said
    motion for attorneys’ fees may be ruled upon at the final
    determination of this action.”
    Recognition that allowance of counsel fees had not been
    considered by either judge was again clearly shown by
    paragraph 15 of the consent order awarding permanent
    alimony and child custody signed by Judge Allen on 25 July
    1971, . . .
    Rickert, 
    282 N.C. at 379-381
    , 
    193 S.E.2d at 83-84
     (internal citations and marks
    omitted) (emphasis added).
    The language above recognized the longstanding application of the limits of
    stipulations to only what is agreed upon. Our Supreme Court in Rickert goes on to
    state:
    Manifestly, it was not the intent of the parties or the
    understanding of the respective trial judges that allowance
    of counsel fees be affected by defendant's stipulation. We
    cannot by construction broaden or extend this stipulation
    to encompass allowance of counsel fees. We therefore hold
    that defendant's stipulation, standing alone, did not
    support the award of counsel fees.
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    The trial judge could not have, without more, awarded
    counsel fees even if we concede defendant's stipulation
    included admissions of all requirements of [N.C.]G.S. [§]
    50-16.3 as relating to subsistence, and that the stipulation
    met the statutory prerequisite that plaintiff was entitled to
    the principal relief demanded.
    Id. at 381,
    193 S.E.2d at 84
    . Stipulations are not evidence of anything against a party
    beyond what is stipulated to by that party. As our Supreme Court stated, even if a
    stipulation could fully establish a claim on its own, it still would not entitle a party
    to relief on that claim when the stipulation was not intended to extend to the claim.
    This further demonstrates that a stipulation is not evidence to the extent there is not
    agreement to its terms. See also Estate of Carlsen v. Carlsen, 
    165 N.C. App. 674
    , 678,
    
    599 S.E.2d 581
    , 584 (2004) (“A stipulation need not follow any particular form, but
    its terms must be sufficiently definite and certain as to form a basis for judicial
    decision, and it is essential that the parties or those representing them assent to the
    stipulation.”). If a stipulation is not evidence beyond the extent of the parties agreed-
    upon terms, it cannot be evidence against a party who does not agree to it. If this
    were not true, it would make the requirement “that the parties or those representing
    them assent to the stipulation” pointless, as in any action with three or more parties,
    two parties could enter a stipulation only about the other party, as happened here,
    that would be included in evidence against all other parties despite the other parties
    not agreeing to the stipulation. 
    Id.
     Using the “stipulation” here as evidence against
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    Mother despite her not being a party to it was improper, and the trial court erred in
    considering the “stipulation” as evidence against her.
    The error here, if it was preserved, would be reversable due to the trial court’s
    apparent reliance on the “stipulation” to shift the burden of proof to Mother when it
    came to the facts in the “stipulation.” The trial court stated:
    And going through the stipulated facts that make a finding
    that the mother did not stipulate to these facts, however,
    after the mother presented evidence, the Court finds that
    with regard to all of the stipulated facts, the Court finds
    them to be fact. That the mother's evidence did not
    convince the [trial c]ourt that any of these stipulations were
    not in fact accurate.
    (Emphasis added). The plain meaning of this statement shows the trial court placed
    a burden of disproving the content of the stipulation on Mother.
    DSS suggests that the language above instead reflects the trial court having
    weighed and considered conflicting evidence. The language itself is that Mother had
    to “convince the [trial c]ourt” that the “[contents of the] stipulation[] were not in fact
    accurate.” Placing a burden on Mother to disprove the facts in the “stipulation” DSS
    provided to the trial court as evidence that the child was neglected, dependent, and
    abused is the same as placing a burden on Mother to disprove DSS’s evidence that
    the child was neglected, dependent, and abused. This impermissibly shifted the
    burden of proof to Mother to show her child was not neglected, dependent, or abused.
    Placing this burden of proof on Mother was erroneous, as “[t]he burden of proof in an
    adjudicatory hearing lies with the petitioner to show by clear and convincing evidence
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    that a minor child has been neglected[, abused, or is dependent].” In re E.P., 
    183 N.C. App. 301
    , 306, 
    645 S.E.2d 772
    , 775 (2007).
    Our Supreme Court has held:
    “The rule as to the burden of proof (the burden of the issue)
    constitutes a substantial right, for upon it many cases are
    made to turn, and its erroneous placing is regarded as
    reversible error.”
    ...
    When [a] judge has expressly placed the burden of proof
    upon the wrong party, and conflicting inferences may be
    drawn from the evidence, it is impossible for an appellate
    court to know whether the erroneous allocation of the
    burden dictated his findings of fact. [Such a] proceeding,
    therefore, must be remanded to the Superior Court for a
    rehearing.
    Joyner v. Garrett, 
    279 N.C. 226
    , 236-237, 
    182 S.E.2d 553
    , 560-561 (1971) (quoting
    Williams v. Insurance Company, 
    212 N.C. 516
    , 518, 
    193 S.E. 728
    , 730 (1937)).
    According to the rule set out in Joyner, if this issue was preserved, we would be
    required to vacate the trial court’s order and remand.
    Here, as established above, the trial court expressly placed the burden of proof
    on Mother to disprove the evidence presented by DSS, while DSS should have had
    the burden of proof. Additionally, conflicting inferences may be drawn from the
    evidence here, as Mother testified to the allegedly legitimate reasons for her concerns
    of sexual abuse.   The trial court’s order was based on the conflicting evidence,
    including “the stipulated facts,” that supported the findings of fact relied on to
    adjudicate the child as dependent, neglected, and abused.          As a result, “it is
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    impossible for an appellate court to know whether the erroneous allocation of the
    burden dictated [the trial court’s] findings of fact” where the trial court “expressly
    placed the burden of proof upon the wrong party, and conflicting inferences may be
    drawn from the evidence.” 
    Id.
     According to Joyner, if this issue was preserved, we
    would be required to vacate the order and remand for determination of this issue
    without considering the “stipulation” against a stranger to the document. 
    Id.
    Were the trial court able to consider this stipulation against Mother in the
    manner the trail court did, it would allow a filing entitled “stipulation” to be
    considered as evidence of a claim, even if the party it is used against does not agree
    to it, unless she is able to disprove the contents of the “stipulation.” In other words,
    for a party to not be bound by a “stipulation” she never agreed to, she must disprove
    its contents. Such a rule greatly expands how stipulations may be used by parties as
    the law otherwise requires stipulations to be limited to the agreeing parties’
    intentions and to the agreeing parties. Such a rule would turn our adversarial system
    on its head. The GAL’s and DSS’s positions before the trial court and on appeal as to
    the trial court’s use of the “stipulation” are incorrect and have no place in our
    adversarial system.
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