Toney v. Edgerton ( 2014 )


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    NO. COA14-453
    NORTH CAROLINA COURT OF APPEALS
    Filed: 31 December 2014
    DEBORAH J. TONEY,
    Plaintiff,
    v.                                            Rutherford County
    No. 12 CVD 864
    LEE ANNA EDGERTON,
    Defendant.
    Appeal    by        Plaintiff     from   an     amended    order    entered       11
    October     2013      by    Judge      Dennis   Redwing     in    Rutherford         County
    District Court.            Heard in the Court of Appeals 7 October 2014.
    Cerwin Law Firm, P.C.,                   by     Brittany    N.     Waters,       for
    Plaintiff-Appellant.
    Aaron G. Walker, P.A., by Aaron G. Walker, and Roberts &
    Stevens, P.A., by Phillip T. Jackson, for Defendant-
    Appellee.
    DILLON, Judge.
    Deborah     J.       Toney   (“Plaintiff”)        appeals    from        an   order
    dismissing her claim for custody of the adoptive daughter of Lee
    Anna   Edgerton       (“Mother”),         her   former     partner,       for    lack    of
    standing.       We affirm.
    I. Background
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    The parties to this custody action were partners                                      for a
    number    of   years,    during    which        Mother      adopted         a    child        from
    Guatemala.       The parties began experiencing difficulties in their
    relationship,      culminating         eventually          in    Mother         obtaining       a
    domestic violence protective order against Plaintiff and forcing
    Plaintiff to leave her home.
    In     June    of   2012,    following       a    hearing,         the       trial    court
    entered    a   temporary       consent       order   awarding          primary         physical
    custody of the child to Mother and granting Plaintiff visitation
    privileges.
    Two months later, on the date the temporary consent order
    expired,    Plaintiff     arrived       at    Mother’s          home   to       pick     up    the
    child,    only    to    find    that    nobody       was    home.           As    a     result,
    Plaintiff      filed    this    action       seeking       custody      of       the     child.
    Mother filed a timely answer.
    In October of 2012, following a hearing, the trial court
    entered another temporary consent order granting Mother primary
    physical custody and allowing Plaintiff visitation pending the
    outcome of the trial.
    Over the next year, the trial court conducted hearings and
    presided over a two-day trial, all of which led to the entry of
    a number of orders.            Ultimately, however, in October of 2013,
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    the court entered an order determining that Plaintiff lacked
    standing to proceed in the matter and dismissing her claim for
    custody.     Plaintiff timely filed written notice of appeal of
    several orders, but only argues error arising from the October
    2013 order dismissing her claim for lack of standing, so we
    review only that order in this appeal.
    II. Standard of Review
    In custody proceedings, “the trial court’s findings of fact
    are conclusive on appeal if there is evidence to support them,
    even    though     the    evidence    might   sustain   findings   to   the
    contrary.”       Owenby v. Young, 
    357 N.C. 142
    , 147, 
    579 S.E.2d 264
    ,
    268 (2003).       We review de novo whether the findings support the
    conclusions of law.         Hall v. Hall, 
    188 N.C. App. 527
    , 530, 
    655 S.E.2d 901
    , 904 (2008).
    III. Analysis
    Plaintiff argues that the trial court erred in concluding
    that she had not demonstrated by clear, cogent, and convincing
    evidence      that       Mother      acted    inconsistently   with     her
    constitutionally protected paramount status as legal parent of
    her adoptive child.        We disagree.
    A. Standing
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    At the outset, we note, as we did in Mason v. Dwinnell, 
    190 N.C. App. 209
    , 
    660 S.E.2d 58
    (2008), “that the factual context
    of   this      case   —    involving     same    sex   domestic      partners      —   is
    immaterial to the proper analysis of the legal issues involved.”
    
    Id. at 211,
    660 S.E.2d at 60.                   A third party has no standing
    under    the    United      States     Constitution     or    the    North    Carolina
    Constitution      to      assert   a   claim    for    custody      against   a    legal
    parent “unless the evidence establishes that the legal parent
    acted in a manner inconsistent with his or her constitutionally-
    protected status as a parent.”                 Estroff v. Chatterjee, 190 N.C.
    App. 61, 63-64, 
    660 S.E.2d 73
    , 75 (2008).                     “By looking at both
    the legal parent’s conduct and his or her intentions, we ensure
    that the situation is not one in which the third party has
    assumed a parent-like status on his or her own without that
    being the goal of the legal parent.”                   
    Id. at 70,
    660 S.E.2d at
    78-79.      Simply put, the question in such cases is this:                        “Did
    the legal parent act inconsistently with her fundamental right
    to custody, care, and control of her child and her right to make
    decisions      concerning     the      care,    custody,     and    control   of   that
    child?”     
    Mason, 190 N.C. App. at 222
    , 660 S.E.2d at 67.
    Plaintiff contends that this case is analogous to Mason,
    where     we    held      that,    through      the    performance       of   various
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    affirmative acts, a constitutionally protected relationship in
    the   nature   of    a    parent-child           relationship          had    been       created
    between a child and the former partner of the child’s biological
    mother.     
    See 190 N.C. App. at 225-26
    , 660 S.E.2d at 68-69.                                 In
    Mason, the     biological mother                and    her partner       raised a child
    together,    jointly      supporting            the    child    and    making        decisions
    regarding the child’s upbringing and executing an agreement in
    the third year of the child’s life wherein they stipulated that
    the   mother’s      partner         occupied      a     relationship          of    de    facto
    parentage with the child.                  
    Id. at 212,
    660 S.E.2d at 60-61.
    Based on our Supreme Court’s decision in Price v. Howard, 
    346 N.C. 68
    , 
    484 S.E.2d 528
    (1997), we identified as the central
    issue in the case whether the biological mother, as the legal
    parent of the child, both created the family unit of which her
    partner   claimed        to    be    a    part        and    induced    her        partner    to
    participate in that family unit, thereby “allow[ing] that family
    unit to flourish in a relationship of love and duty with no
    expectations that it would be terminated.”                             
    Id. at 225,
    660
    S.E.2d at 68 (quoting 
    Price, 346 N.C. at 83
    , 484 S.E.2d at 537)
    (emphasis removed).            We reasoned that the biological mother had
    created     such    a     family         unit     and       induced     her    partner        to
    participate    in    it       through     various       acts,    not     least       of    which
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    included the execution of the parenting agreement, creating a
    constitutionally protected relationship between her partner and
    the child by ceding her own paramount status as against her
    partner.     Id. at 
    225-26, 660 S.E.2d at 68-69
    .          We concluded that
    the biological mother could not unilaterally exclude her then-
    former partner from the child’s life after voluntarily allowing
    a   constitutionally    protected      relationship    between    her   former
    partner and the child to develop even though her former partner
    did not possess full rights of legal parentage.              
    Id. at 227-28,
    660 S.E.2d at 70.
    On the same day we filed our decision in Mason, we also
    filed our decision in Estroff, applying the same constitutional
    principles    to   similar,   albeit    crucially     distinct,   facts,   and
    reaching the opposite result.          
    See 190 N.C. App. at 63-64
    , 660
    S.E.2d at 74-75.       We find the present case far more closely
    analogous to Estroff than Mason.             In Estroff, we affirmed the
    trial court’s dismissal of a former partner’s action for custody
    of children born during her relationship with the children’s
    mother for lack of standing.           
    Id. Specifically, we
    concluded
    that there was competent evidence to support the trial court’s
    findings establishing that the mother neither voluntarily chose
    to create the requisite family unit nor induced her partner to
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    participate          in    it.      
    Id. at 73-74,
         660    S.E.2d    at   81.     In
    pertinent part, the trial court based its conclusion on findings
    that while the partner “played a unique and special role in the
    lives of [the              mother’s] children,” she was not a biological
    parent, adoptive parent, parent by estoppel, or de facto parent,
    never entered an agreement with the mother granting her legal
    status     as        a    parent,     custodian,        or      legal   guardian,        never
    discussed entering into such an agreement with the mother, never
    filed a friendly lawsuit or otherwise attempted to establish
    parental        or       custodial    rights       to     the      children    during     the
    relationship, and furthermore, that the mother “would never have
    agreed to bestow on [her partner] or anyone else any parental or
    custodial rights with regard to her children.”                               
    Id. at 66-67,
    660 S.E.2d at 76.
    In the present case,                    the trial court found that               Mother
    intended the child to be her legal child; that while Plaintiff
    was in a relationship with Mother at the time she adopted the
    child,   Mother           intended    for    Plaintiff’s         relationship      with   the
    child to be temporary; that a friendly lawsuit was never filed
    to establish Plaintiff’s custodial rights to the child; that
    Mother never contacted an attorney about drafting a parenting
    agreement       to        establish    Plaintiff’s        custodial      rights     to    the
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    child; that Mother amended her will to include a clause naming
    Plaintiff as the guardian of her child in the event of her death
    because she was intimidated by Plaintiff but later removed that
    provision without Plaintiff’s knowledge; and finally that these
    actions showed that Mother did not intend to form a permanent
    relationship between her child and Plaintiff.                      We believe that
    these    findings,     like    the    trial      court’s   findings      in    Estroff,
    establish     that   Mother     neither       voluntarily    chose    to      create   a
    family unit of which Plaintiff claimed to be a part nor induced
    Plaintiff to participate in such a family unit.                          Accordingly,
    Plaintiff’s argument that the trial court erred in concluding
    that    she   failed    to     show   by    clear,     cogent,     and     convincing
    evidence      that      Mother        acted        inconsistently         with      her
    constitutionally protected paramount status is overruled.
    Plaintiff     next      argues      that     the    trial     court       relied
    inappropriately        on     Mother’s     intent     to    create    a       permanent
    relationship between Plaintiff and her child in arriving at the
    conclusion that she lacked standing to seek custody of Mother’s
    child.     Specifically, Plaintiff contends that in focusing solely
    on whether Mother intended to create a permanent relationship in
    the nature of a parent-child relationship between her child and
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    Plaintiff, the court applied the incorrect legal standard.                         We
    disagree.
    Plaintiff quotes the following language from our decision
    in Estroff in support of her argument:
    [T]he court’s focus must be on whether the
    legal parent has voluntarily chosen to
    create a family unit and to cede to the
    third   party   a  sufficiently   significant
    amount   of   parental   responsibility   and
    decision-making   authority   to   create   a
    permanent parent-like relationship with his
    or her child.
    
    Id. at 70,
    660 S.E.2d at 78.              According to Plaintiff, “[t]he
    circumstances     here    are   simply    summed   up       in   an    old    English
    Proverb[,]     ‘actions    speak      louder    than    words.’”          Plaintiff
    conveniently    omits     the   two   sentences    that      follow     the    above-
    quoted passage, wherein we explain:
    The   parent’s   intentions  regarding  that
    relationship are necessarily relevant to
    that inquiry.   By looking at both the legal
    parent’s conduct and his or her intentions,
    we ensure that the situation is not one in
    which the third party has assumed a parent-
    like status on his or her own without that
    being the goal of the legal parent.
    
    Id. at 70,
    660 S.E.2d at 78-79.              Thus, while true that Mother’s
    intent was not the only relevant consideration under Price, it
    was   certainly   a   relevant     consideration       to    the      trial   court’s
    determination of whether Plaintiff had standing.                       We note also
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    that we rejected essentially the same argument Plaintiff now
    makes in Estroff.       See 
    id. at 68-69,
    660 S.E.2d at 77-78 (“[The
    mother’s partner] argues, . . . that Price supports her view
    that only manifested intentions are relevant. . . .                        We disagree
    with [this] reading of Price. . . .                 [B]oth conduct and intent
    are   relevant.”).          Estroff   thus    cannot       bear      the    weight   of
    Plaintiff’s assertions.
    Plaintiff’s characterization of the trial court’s decision
    as    based    solely   on    Mother’s       intent     to    form     a     permanent
    relationship      between     Plaintiff      and    her      child    is    not   even
    descriptively accurate.         The court found that Mother transported
    the child from Guatemala to the United States; that the child
    lived in      Mother’s home; that         Mother    adopted the child; that
    Mother frequently asked Plaintiff to leave the home and tried to
    end   their     relationship;    that     after     a     harrowing        episode   of
    domestic violence, Plaintiff did leave the home after Mother
    obtained a domestic violence protective order forcing her to do
    so; that Mother amended her will to include a provision granting
    Plaintiff custody of her child in the event of her death, but
    subsequently amended the will again to remove that provision
    without       Plaintiff’s    knowledge;       and     that     Mother        routinely
    prepared meals for the child, played with the child, and read to
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    the child.       These actions all qualified as conduct relevant to
    the   trial      court’s      determination     of    whether       Mother        acted
    inconsistently with her constitutionally paramount status under
    Price.      See 
    id. at 68-69,
    660 S.E.2d at 77-78.                     We do not
    believe   that     the     trial   court   focused   on     Mother’s   intentions
    concerning     her     child’s     relationship      with    Plaintiff       to    the
    exclusion     of     her    actions.       Accordingly,      this    argument       is
    overruled.
    B. Findings
    Plaintiff also contends that certain of the trial court’s
    findings were not supported by competent evidence.                     “Competent
    evidence is evidence that a reasonable mind might accept as
    adequate to support [a] finding.”             City of Asheville v. Aly, ___
    N.C. App. ___, ___, 
    757 S.E.2d 494
    , 499 (2014).                  We address the
    challenged findings in turn.
    In relevant part, finding of fact number four1 states that
    Mother began working with an adoption agency to adopt a child
    from Guatemala in 2007, and that Mother transported the child
    from Guatemala to the United States in 2008.                 Plaintiff contends
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    As Mother alerted the Court to in her brief, Plaintiff
    mistakenly refers to finding of fact number four as finding of
    fact number nine.     We believe that the issue was properly
    preserved for our review despite this error, and will review the
    challenged finding using the number from the trial court’s
    order.
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    that the only evidence related to the finding that Mother began
    working with an adoption agency was her testimony that she, and
    not   Mother,    initiated       contact      with    an     adoption       agency.       We
    disagree.       Mother    testified      that     in    2005         or   2006,   she    and
    Plaintiff encountered a couple who had adopted a child from
    Guatemala,      prompting        her   to     investigate            an    international
    adoption.    She also testified that she informed Plaintiff that
    she wanted to be the adoptive parent and further, that Plaintiff
    never   informed    her     of    a    desire    to     be      an    adoptive      parent.
    Plaintiff also asserts that the language in the finding suggests
    – without support from the record – that Mother transported the
    child from Guatemala by herself.               We do not find the language of
    the   finding    impermissibly         suggestive          in   this      manner.       The
    finding merely states that Mother transported the child.                                Both
    parties     testified       that       they      were        present        during       the
    transportation     of     the     child.        We     therefore          conclude      that
    competent evidence existed to support the trial court’s finding
    as to both      Mother’s involvement in working with an adoption
    agency and in transporting the child back to the United States.
    Plaintiff next challenges finding of fact number five, that
    Mother attempted to have children in the early 1990s prior to
    her relationship with Plaintiff.                However, Mother testified that
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    she pursued having children with her then-husband from 1989 to
    1991.     We therefore conclude that competent evidence existed to
    support this finding.
    Plaintiff      next    challenges    finding       of   fact    number   seven,
    regarding her issues with anger management.                      Plaintiff claims
    that there was no evidence of Mother’s concerns about her lack
    of anger management.           We disagree.        The record is replete with
    references    to     Plaintiff’s     quick      temper   and    violent    behavior.
    Specifically, Mother’s account of the events leading up to her
    pursuing a domestic violence restraining order against Plaintiff
    amply     support    the     trial   court’s      finding      regarding    Mother’s
    concerns about Plaintiff’s inability to manage her anger.                          We
    therefore conclude that competent evidence existed to support
    this finding.
    Plaintiff also challenges the portion of finding of fact
    number seven which states, in relevant part, that “[Mother] . .
    . intended the relationship between the Plaintiff and the child
    to   be   temporary.”         However,     Plaintiff      concedes     that    Mother
    testified     that     she     did   not     intend      to    form    a   permanent
    relationship between her child and Plaintiff.                     As the trier of
    fact, the trial court was entitled to credit Mother’s testimony
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    regarding   her     intent.       We    therefore      conclude        that   competent
    evidence supports this finding.
    Plaintiff next challenges the language in finding of fact
    number eight, that she frequently passed out after consuming
    excess    amounts    of   alcohol.         Plaintiff         claims    that   the     only
    evidence of her passing out frequently due to excessive alcohol
    consumption was Mother’s testimony.                   Though Mother’s testimony
    is sufficient to support this finding, we note that another
    witness    testified      about   an    occasion       where    Plaintiff,       in    the
    presence of the child for parts of the day, consumed four Bloody
    Marys in the morning immediately after waking up, continued to
    drink    beer   throughout      the    day,     and    then    passed     out    in   the
    evening after drinking coffee mixed with liqueur while “barely
    able to sit up” in a chair in the living room.                         Plaintiff also
    takes issue with the court’s use of the word “frequently” in the
    finding.        However,        Mother’s      testimony        regarding        numerous
    specific    instances      of     Plaintiff      drinking        heavily      and     then
    falling asleep, both at home as well as in public places like
    restaurants,        describes         behavior        more      than     sufficiently
    “frequent” to warrant characterization by the court as such.
    Plaintiff also challenges finding of fact number eleven,
    where the court found that Mother had asked Plaintiff to leave
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    the home and communicated her desire to end the relationship
    frequently    over       a   four-year     period,     claiming      again     that    the
    characterization of Mother’s communication as “frequent” was not
    supported by the record.             However, this finding is supported by
    Mother’s    testimony.          Specifically,        Mother    testified       that    she
    initiated     between         fifteen      and      twenty     conversations          with
    Plaintiff about moving out of her home dating back to 2008 and
    2009.     According to Mother, Plaintiff would behave the next day
    as   though       these      conversations         never     took     place,    despite
    indicating    her    amenability         at   the    time    Mother    initiated       the
    conversations.           Mother   further        testified    that     the   issue     was
    discussed frequently during the year of 2009.                           We therefore
    conclude that competent evidence supported this finding.
    Plaintiff next challenges finding of fact number twelve,
    claiming that no competent evidence existed that Mother provided
    for Plaintiff’s appointment as guardian of the child in her will
    because     she    was       intimidated      by    Plaintiff       into     doing     so.
    However, Mother testified that she felt tremendous pressure to
    include the guardianship clause in her will, and that Plaintiff
    was very adamant both that she do it and about the manner in
    which   she   did    it.        We   believe        this    evidence    supports       the
    finding.
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    Plaintiff finally challenges the portion of finding of fact
    number fourteen, where the court found that Mother was generally
    unaware of Plaintiff’s representations of her relationship with
    the child to third parties, arguing that no evidence supported
    this finding because Mother did not testify about whether she
    knew how Plaintiff represented her relationship with the child
    to    third     parties.         Plaintiff       cites       Mother’s     apparent
    acquiescence to her representations to third parties regarding
    her relationship with the child as contrary evidence to the
    finding     that      Mother   was   unaware     of    those    representations.
    However, Mother testified that these representations were made
    without her consent.           A reasonable mind might accept Mother’s
    testimony      that     such   representations        were   made    without   her
    consent as adequate to support the trial court’s finding that
    she   was   generally      unaware   of    how   Plaintiff      represented    her
    relationship with the child to third parties.                   Accordingly, we
    conclude that competent evidence supported this finding.
    IV. Conclusion
    The     trial    court   correctly     concluded       based   on   findings
    supported by competent evidence that Plaintiff lacked standing
    to seek custody of Mother’s adoptive daughter.
    AFFIRMED.
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    Judge HUNTER, Robert C. and Judge DAVIS concur.
    Report per Rule 30(e).