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    Heather Wright, appellee, v.
    Lucas Wright, appellant.
    ___ N.W.2d ___
    Filed April 27, 2021.    No. A-20-443.
    1. Divorce: Child Custody: Child Support: Property Division:
    Alimony: Attorney Fees: Appeal and Error. In a marital dissolution
    action, an appellate court reviews the case de novo on the record to
    determine whether there has been an abuse of discretion by the trial
    judge. This standard of review applies to the trial court’s determinations
    regarding custody, child support, division of property, alimony, and
    attorney fees.
    2. Judges: Words and Phrases. A judicial abuse of discretion exists if the
    reasons or rulings of a trial judge are clearly untenable, unfairly depriv-
    ing a litigant of a substantial right and denying just results in matters
    submitted for disposition.
    3. Visitation: Appeal and Error. Parenting time determinations are mat-
    ters initially entrusted to the discretion of the trial court, and although
    reviewed de novo on the record, the trial court’s determination will nor-
    mally be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion.
    4. Evidence: Appeal and Error. When evidence is in conflict, an appel-
    late court considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge
    heard and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts
    rather than another.
    5. Visitation. If a parent has been found to have committed child abuse
    or neglect, committed domestic intimate partner abuse, or interfered
    persist­ently with the other parent’s access to the child, limits shall be
    imposed within the parenting plan that are reasonably calculated to pro-
    tect the child or child’s parent from harm.
    6. Divorce: Property Division. In a divorce action, the purpose of a
    property division is to distribute the marital assets equitably between
    the parties.
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    7. Property Division. Equitable property division under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue 2016) is a three-step process. The first step is to
    classify the parties’ property as marital or nonmarital. The second
    step is to value the marital assets and marital liabilities of the parties.
    The third step is to calculate and divide the net marital estate between
    the parties.
    8. Divorce: Property Division: Proof. In a marital dissolution proceed-
    ing, the burden of proof rests with the party claiming that property
    is nonmarital.
    9. Divorce: Property Division. Generally, all property accumulated and
    acquired by either spouse during a marriage is part of the marital estate.
    Exceptions include property that a spouse acquired before the marriage,
    or by gift or inheritance.
    10. Property Division. Marital debt includes only those obligations incurred
    during the marriage for the joint benefit of the parties.
    11. Divorce: Attorney Fees. In awarding attorney fees in a dissolution
    action, a court shall consider the nature of the case, the amount involved
    in the controversy, the services actually performed, the results obtained,
    the length of time required for preparation and presentation of the case,
    the novelty and difficulty of the questions raised, and the customary
    charges of the bar for similar services.
    Appeal from the District Court for Douglas County: Leigh
    Ann Retelsdorf, Judge. Affirmed.
    Liam K. Meehan, of Wagner, Meehan & Watson, L.L.P., for
    appellant.
    Justin A. Quinn for appellee.
    Moore, Riedmann, and Bishop, Judges.
    Bishop, Judge.
    INTRODUCTION
    Lucas Wright appeals the amended decree entered by the
    Douglas County District Court dissolving his marriage to
    Heather Wright. He claims errors related to the parenting plan,
    premarital personal property, nonmarital gifts, student loans,
    and the court’s award of attorney fees to Heather. We affirm.
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    BACKGROUND
    Heather and Lucas were married on September 15, 2012;
    prior to filing for divorce, they had “lived as a family unit”
    for “approximately ten years.” They had two sons, one born in
    2008 and another in 2009.
    Heather filed a complaint for dissolution on April 4, 2018.
    Following an incident between herself and Lucas on May 1,
    Heather petitioned for and was granted a domestic abuse pro-
    tection order on May 2 that gave Heather temporary custody
    of the children for 90 days and prohibited contact between
    Heather and Lucas. She then motioned the district court to
    enter a temporary order granting her sole legal and physical
    custody of the children, providing temporary child support,
    and directing the allocation of certain property and debts
    between herself and Lucas. Heather further filed an amended
    complaint on June 21, seeking sole legal and physical custody
    of the children.
    On August 2, 2018, the district court entered a temporary
    order awarding Heather and Lucas joint legal and physical
    custody of their children, with a “week on/week off schedule.”
    Each party was restrained from making disparaging com-
    ments regarding the other party to the minor children or in
    their presence, as well as directed to exercise diligence in
    preventing third parties from doing the same. The order also
    required Lucas to pay $409 per month in child support and
    addressed how the parties were to handle certain expenses,
    assets, and debts.
    Trial began on February 28, 2019, and numerous hearings
    were held in the months thereafter, with an initial “Decree
    of Dissolution” entered on December 30. Notably, after the
    parties each presented their case in chief in trial proceedings
    held on April 3 and 11, the district court addressed the parties
    on the record at the conclusion of the proceedings on April
    11. It noted that there was “no doubt” both parties love their
    children, but that Heather knew “how to get under [Lucas’]
    skin” and Lucas had “some anger” and was not controlling
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    that very well. And while Heather admitted that mistakes hap-
    pen and she was not perfect, Lucas, on the other hand, did not
    understand that what he was doing was hurting the children.
    The court pointed out that Lucas was talking to the children
    about Heather and that he was saying things he should not be
    saying to them. The court stated:
    They do not need to be involved in the protection order
    business. They do not need to be involved in what her
    allegations are against you. They did not need to take a
    Valentine’s Day present [from Lucas to Heather] when
    there was a protection order and put it on her pillow
    [for Lucas].
    The court criticized both parents for videotaping the children
    with the other parent; “[t]hat is horrible to do to those chil-
    dren.” The court told Lucas how things he was saying to the
    children “messes them up” and “makes them feel like they
    have to pick sides, and you can imagine what that does to
    them.” The court expressed concern that Lucas was not think-
    ing of the children first, but was instead focused on his anger
    toward Heather. The court stated:
    What I would like to do because . . . I entered a pro-
    tection order and you ignored it. I — and don’t say you
    didn’t. I mean, you didn’t hurt her, but you did stuff, you
    ignored it, because you’re upset at her. I get all of that. But
    I entered that order and you ignored that. We had some
    issues with the temporary order that weren’t followed.
    I . . . don’t want to enter a final order today that puts
    you behind the eight ball for a long period of time. I
    want to give you the opportunity to show that you under-
    stand what that is doing to those absolutely wonderful
    little guys.
    . . . I’m going to modify the temporary [order] and I’m
    going to make your visitation less right now for a period
    — now, I have the option of doing something quite a
    bit more rigorous, but I don’t want to do that right now
    because I want you . . . to put this in a situation where
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    this can be fixed. You know, some judges would just rule
    from the bench that that behavior is alienation. I don’t
    want to do that. I want to give you an opportunity to
    show me that you get how to fix this.
    I also think that that gives you an opportunity to heal
    because you need to get over your anger at [Heather].
    The district court proceeded to verbally modify the tempo-
    rary order to give Lucas parenting time every other weekend
    from Friday after school until Monday morning when school
    started, as well as after school until 9 p.m. on Wednesdays.
    The court also temporarily awarded Heather legal and physi-
    cal custody. The court was going to leave the record open for
    60 days, and the modified temporary order was to be in effect
    during that time. Dr. Glenda Cottam was to be “significantly
    involved”; family therapy was ordered. The parties were to
    have no contact with one another. The court informed Lucas
    that it wanted him “to get a good understanding of what these
    behaviors have done to these boys. They should not be mad
    at their mom. Do you understand what I’m saying? They
    shouldn’t be mad at her for this divorce.”
    The district court provided this 60-day period for Lucas
    to correct his behaviors, informing him that it was avoiding
    entering a final order at that time so the parties could “get to
    a point where [they] can parallel-parent” and Lucas could rec-
    ognize that “the best way to be a good dad is to encourage his
    children . . . to love their mom . . . no matter how he feels.”
    The court told Lucas that the children were “not in a healthy
    situation because they’re angry at [Heather] and they’re angry
    because of the things you have said to them, and you can
    deny it if you want, but I have talked to them.” The children
    “know you’re hurt,” and “they’re mad at [Heather] because
    you’re hurt. What a horrible thing for those kids to feel. They
    shouldn’t be mad at their mom because she loves them. They
    shouldn’t even know that you’re mad at their mom.” A second
    temporary order consistent with the court’s verbal directives
    was entered on April 29, 2019.
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    Following a contempt hearing on July 3, 2019, the district
    court entered a third temporary order on July 11. The court
    found that Lucas violated the August 2018 temporary order
    by sending a series of text messages to the minor children that
    included disparaging comments about their mother, which mes-
    sages “were an effort to manipulate the minor children.” The
    court also found that Lucas violated the April 2019 temporary
    order by failing to return the children in accordance with the
    court-ordered parenting schedule. Lucas was sentenced to 5
    days in jail, but the sentence was suspended, and Lucas was
    given the ability to purge his contempt by “complying with all
    parts of the further temporary order regarding parenting time
    entered contemporaneously with this Order.” The third tempo-
    rary order restricted Lucas’ communication with the children
    and suspended his parenting time except for court-ordered
    therapeutic parenting time. Lucas was to have no communica-
    tion whatsoever with the children outside of his therapeutic
    parenting time.
    The district court entered a fourth temporary order on
    September 16, 2019, increasing Lucas’ temporary child support
    obligation to $1,419 per month and dividing certain expendi-
    tures between Heather and Lucas.
    On December 30, 2019, the district court entered a decree
    dissolving the parties’ marriage. The court later entered an
    amended decree on May 18, 2020, addressing issues regarding
    the child support calculation raised in Lucas’ motion for new
    trial. The court found it to be in the children’s best interests
    to grant Heather their sole legal and physical custody sub-
    ject to Lucas’ therapeutic and supervised parenting time. The
    amended decree noted that Lucas had been convicted of three
    separate misdemeanor crimes involving Heather as a victim
    during the pendency of the case. These included a May 2018
    incident when Lucas threatened and choked Heather, resulting
    in a disturbing the peace conviction, and various violations
    of protection orders in 2018 and 2019. Lucas was sentenced
    to 24 months’ probation beginning in October 2019 for his
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    convictions for violating a protection order and stalking, and
    Lucas was ordered to have no contact with Heather.
    The amended decree detailed the district court’s concerns
    about Lucas’ manipulation of the children, which included
    an instance when Lucas had the children assist him “in the
    criminal act of violation of the protection order,” referencing
    when Lucas had the children place a Valentine and a “mixed
    tape [CD song mix]” on Heather’s bedroom pillow. The court
    also mentioned incidents when Lucas followed and stalked
    Heather, “ending up at places [Heather] had gone when she
    was with other men friends and co-workers.” The court also
    pointed out an incident when Lucas showed up at a football
    equipment meeting even though Lucas was not supposed to
    be there, but Lucas asked his oldest son, “‘I have a right to be
    here, don’t I [son]?’” The video of the incident showed that the
    oldest son was “extremely uncomfortable and anxious due to
    [Lucas’] behaviors.” The amended decree stated, “The record
    shows [Lucas] has little regard for court orders, including dis-
    covery orders, temporary orders, and the protection order.” The
    amended decree further provided:
    The Court finds [Lucas] has repeatedly engaged in
    behaviors which cause “alienation between the chil-
    dren and their mother.” This finding is supported by Dr.
    Cottam. [Lucas] denies any manipulation of the chil-
    dren or use of the children, particularly [the oldest son],
    to maintain control over [Heather]. The Court finds he
    appears to have no insight into how his desire to control
    or punish [Heather] hurts his children. This pattern of
    behavior, according to Dr. Cottam, has a significant effect
    on the minor children, causing them confusion, sadness
    and anxiety.
    The evidence before the Court shows that [Lucas] has
    engaged in a pattern of discussing his criminal matters
    with the children and placing blame on [Heather], tell-
    ing the children their mother was having him arrested,
    discussing the protection order issued against him and
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    blaming [Heather], referring to her as a liar, and telling
    the children to tell their mother what to do and how to
    do it, criticizing [Heather] to the children, and directing
    the children to [Heather’s] private/dating life by speaking
    to them about it or directing them to social media. The
    Court interviewed the children, [the oldest son] on two
    occasions and [the youngest son] on a single occasion.
    Although those interviews are sealed, they corroborate Dr.
    Cottam’s opinions and the Court[’]s findings. Dr. Cottam
    remains concerned about [Lucas] making “statements that
    could arise to the level of emotional abuse or confusion
    for the children.”
    Dr. Cottam recognized that [Lucas’] attempt to commu-
    nicate through the children causes undue stress. [Lucas]
    shares his sadness, emotional instability, and desire to
    reunite, even to the extent of praying with the children
    that the parents will reunite. The Court finds [Lucas] has
    placed the children in a position where they assume the
    responsibility to mend the relationship or blame one par-
    ent for the failure of the marriage. [Lucas] continues to
    tell the children that their mother poorly cares for them,
    reminds the children of past issues, and shares legal dif-
    ficulties in an apparent attempt to ensure their loyalty and
    posture against their mother.
    [Lucas] both overtly and covertly attempts to pro-
    mote anger by the children towards their mother. [Lucas]
    directly encouraged [the oldest son] to gather evidence to
    use against their mother, telling him to videotape ants in
    the home and tell police he is scared. . . .
    [Lucas] has used the children by withholding them
    from [Heather’s] father, who was to pick up the children
    at the end of [Lucas’] parenting time. [Lucas] harassed
    and badgered [Heather’s] father, continuing to with-
    hold the children over a period of several days in an
    attempt to obtain information as to Heather’s location
    and return time. These acts were in direct violation of
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    the temporary orders. Again, [Lucas] appears to have no
    insight and continues to justify these types of behaviors
    by attempting to deflect all blame away from himself.
    Dr. Cottam testified . . . that the minor children . . .
    made a number of statements which appeared to have
    been influenced by an adult [and] that the statements, and
    wording . . . were not consistent with a child of [the old-
    est son’s] age and development. . . .
    ....
    The Court has continued this matter and attempted to
    involve experts in the hope that [Lucas] can gain insight
    into the effect of these strategies and behaviors. However,
    the testimony of Dr. Cottam suggests that [Lucas] has
    not yet been able to gain that insight or separate from the
    divorce conflict which continues to negatively affect the
    minor children.
    . . . Dr. Cottam testified that both children love their
    parents and the parents love the children. The children
    want to spend time with their father and have him in
    their lives.
    The amended decree pointed out Dr. Cottam’s concerns that
    “she has been working with the family for over 100 days” and
    that she has “not seen [Lucas] exhibit sufficient improvement”
    to recommend unsupervised parenting time with the children.
    Dr. Cottam “believes that supervised visitation should continue
    for [Lucas].” The district court further stated:
    [B]ased upon the evidence before the Court, at this time,
    the Court cannot speculate as to when [Lucas] will take
    the steps necessary to adjust his behaviors to allow for
    unsupervised visitation to be in the children’s best inter-
    ests. At this time, any plan with graduated suspension of
    supervised visitation is speculative and in reliance upon
    [Lucas’] completion of certain milestones that may or
    may not affect [Lucas’] behaviors. . . . The Court does
    find it to be in the best interests of the minor children to
    increase [Lucas’] supervised visitation, per Dr. Cottam’s
    suggestion. The children want this contact with [Lucas].
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    Accordingly, the parenting plan attached to and incorporated
    into the amended decree provided:
    [Lucas] shall have therapeutic parenting time with Dr.
    . . . Cottam until the children have reached maximum
    therapeutic benefit and shall additionally have supervised
    parenting time each week. The supervised parenting time
    shall be through [C]apstone or such other professional
    supervising agency approved by [Heather]. The supervi-
    sion shall be every Tuesday evening from 5:30 p.m. to
    7:30 p.m. and every other Saturday from 3:00 p.m. to
    5:00 p.m. The supervision shall be at [Lucas’] expense.
    [Lucas] shall have no communication or contact with
    the minor children other than during their Therapeutic
    Parenting Time and his Supervised Parenting Time. If
    the children have an activity or sporting event during the
    pre-arranged Supervised Parenting Time, [Lucas] may
    attend while being supervised. However, [Lucas] is still
    under order of the Douglas County Court to have no
    contact with [Heather], pursuant to his order of proba-
    tion and shall have no contact with [Heather] during
    these activities.
    The parenting plan did not include any specific holiday or
    vacation schedule for Lucas’ parenting time, but it did indi-
    cate that Lucas “may have supervised Holiday time during
    his regular Supervised Parenting Time, if it can be arranged
    with the supervising agency.” The parenting plan further pro-
    vides that “[t]he terms concerning parenting time and access
    to the children may be adjusted or temporarily modified in
    length, timing or terms upon reasonable advance notice, com-
    munication and agreement between [Heather] and [Lucas].”
    Any permanent changes could be made by agreement of the
    parties but “must be approved by the Court to be binding and
    enforceable.”
    The amended decree also required Lucas to pay $960
    per month in child support for two children. The district
    court divided expenses pertaining to the children and further
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    distributed marital and nonmarital property and debts between
    Heather and Lucas. The court ordered Heather to pay an equal-
    ization payment of $10,957.50 to Lucas and ordered Lucas to
    pay $13,000 of Heather’s attorney fees within 365 days of the
    entry of the decree.
    Lucas timely appealed.
    ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
    Lucas claims the district court erred by (1) ordering super-
    vised and therapeutic visitation for an indefinite duration, (2)
    failing to order the return of premarital property, (3) excluding
    credit for gifts made by Lucas’ family during the marriage, (4)
    excluding student loan debt from the marital estate, and (5)
    awarding attorney fees.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    [1,2] In a marital dissolution action, an appellate court
    reviews the case de novo on the record to determine whether
    there has been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge. Doerr
    v. Doerr, 
    306 Neb. 350
    , 
    945 N.W.2d 137
     (2020). This standard
    of review applies to the trial court’s determinations regarding
    custody, child support, division of property, alimony, and attor-
    ney fees. 
    Id.
     A judicial abuse of discretion exists if the reasons
    or rulings of a trial judge are clearly untenable, unfairly depriv-
    ing a litigant of a substantial right and denying just results in
    matters submitted for disposition. 
    Id.
    ANALYSIS
    Therapeutic and Supervised
    Parenting Time
    The district court ordered the implementation of the par-
    enting plan as described above, which restricted Lucas’ par-
    enting time to scheduled instances of therapeutic parenting
    time and supervised parenting time. Based on the evidence at
    trial, the court found the plan to be in the best interests of the
    minor children. In making this finding, the court highlighted
    two issues that predominated the proceedings. The first was
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    the pattern of domestic conflict between Heather and Lucas
    occurring prior to and during this case, which was marked by
    three misdemeanor crimes committed by Lucas against Heather
    after she filed her petition. The second, as the district court
    described in the amended decree, was a pattern of “behaviors
    which cause[d] ‘alienation between the children and their
    mother’” by “overtly and covertly attempt[ing] to promote
    anger by the children towards their mother” and by “plac[ing]
    the children in a position where they assume the responsibility
    to mend the relationship or blame one parent for the failure of
    the marriage.”
    We understand Lucas’ argument on appeal to primarily
    challenge the propriety of the district court’s parenting plan
    restricting his parenting time to therapeutic and supervised
    instances. Lucas asserts that “[t]he restrictions ordered by
    the court were too expansive when applying Neb. Rev. Stat.
    ­§43-2932 . . . .” Brief for appellant at 21. He claims the court’s
    limitations on his parenting time could not be reasonably cal-
    culated to protect the children because “[t]he record was clear
    that the children were not in physical danger with Lucas . .
    . .” Id. at 24. Lucas also argues the district court erred “in not
    thoroughly weighing the standard best interest factors” when
    setting Lucas’ parenting time. Id. at 25. In support of his argu-
    ments, he points to Dr. Cottam’s testimony indicating “the
    children were not in physical danger with [him]” or “testing
    on a depression or anxiety scale,” and he further highlights
    the children’s expressed desire “to see their father.” Id. at 24.
    Contrasting his role as the children’s father with Heather’s as
    their mother, Lucas emphasizes the complaints raised by the
    children about the condition of Heather’s home and that “the
    only allegation of actual physical harm occurring to a child
    came against [Heather].” Id. at 26.
    [3,4] Parenting time determinations are matters initially
    entrusted to the discretion of the trial court, and although
    reviewed de novo on the record, the trial court’s determina-
    tion will normally be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion.
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    Bornhorst v. Bornhorst, 
    28 Neb. App. 182
    , 
    941 N.W.2d 769
    (2020). When evidence is in conflict, an appellate court consid-
    ers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge heard
    and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the
    facts rather than another. Donald v. Donald, 
    296 Neb. 123
    , 
    892 N.W.2d 100
     (2017).
    [5] When a court is required to develop a parenting plan,
    
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 43-2932
    (1) (Reissue 2016) permits limita-
    tions to parenting time or other access for a parent if the pre-
    ponderance of the evidence demonstrates the parent has, among
    other things, “committed child abuse or neglect,” committed
    “domestic intimate partner abuse,” or “interfered persist­ently
    with the other parent’s access to the child.” If a parent is found
    to have engaged in such activity, “limits shall be imposed that
    are reasonably calculated to protect the child or child’s parent
    from harm.” 
    Id.
     Further, the limitations permitted by § 43-2932
    include, but are not limited to, “allocation of sole legal or
    physical custody to one parent”; “[s]upervision of the parent-
    ing time, visitation, or other access between a parent and the
    child”; “[e]xchange of the child between parents through an
    intermediary or in a protected setting”; “[r]estraints on the par-
    ent from communication with or proximity to the other parent
    or the child”; “[d]enial of overnight physical custodial parent-
    ing time”; and “[a]ny other constraints or conditions deemed
    necessary to provide for the safety of the child, a child’s par-
    ent, or any person whose safety immediately affects the child’s
    welfare.” See, also, Fine v. Fine, 
    261 Neb. 836
    , 
    626 N.W.2d 526
     (2001) (although limits on visitation are extreme meas­
    ure, they may be warranted where they are in best interests of
    children; supervised visitation for mother required until she
    can make satisfactory showing she is able to provide safe and
    stable environment for unsupervised visitation with her chil-
    dren consistent with their best interests).
    Notwithstanding the record’s substantial evidence concern-
    ing the incidents of domestic conflict between Heather and
    Lucas, Lucas emphasizes the lack of evidence that he posed
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    a risk of physical harm to the children as the core of his argu-
    ment against the parenting plan. However, physical harm is
    not the sole form of harm that may be posed to a child. The
    district court described, at significant length and detail, the
    nature and extent of Lucas’ involvement of the children in
    the conflict between Heather and himself, which we set forth
    previously. Lucas engaged in a pattern of discussing his crimi-
    nal matters with the children and placing blame on Heather,
    telling the children their mother was having him arrested, dis-
    cussing the protection order issued against him and blaming
    Heather, referring to her as a liar, telling the children to tell
    their mother what to do and how to do it, criticizing Heather
    to the children, and directing the children to Heather’s private/
    dating life by speaking to them about it or directing them to
    social media.
    The district court further described circumstances where
    Lucas interfered with transitions between the parties’ parenting
    times or otherwise injected the children directly into incidents
    between Heather and himself to harmful effect. Dr. Cottam,
    noting the tests for depression and anxiety she administered to
    the children were not always reliable, believed Lucas’ behav-
    iors have had significant negative effects on the children’s
    mental and emotional well-being that manifested in the chil-
    dren as anxiety, stress, confusion, and sadness. It is evident
    the court believed therapeutic and supervised parenting time to
    be in the children’s best interests and necessary to their heal-
    ing and development through this contentious period. It is also
    plain the court believed this arrangement necessary to better
    foster Lucas’ positive role as the children’s father going into
    the future. Given the record underlying the district court’s find-
    ings, we cannot say limiting Lucas’ interactions with the chil-
    dren to therapeutic and supervised parenting time at the time of
    the decree constituted an abuse of discretion.
    Lucas contends the district court abused its discretion
    because it did not provide a “step down” from the ­supervised
    parenting time and because “[l]ess restrictive alternatives
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    exist[],” such as ordering supervised parenting time for 90
    days or less or “until more of the criminal probation order had
    been complied with.” Brief for appellant at 24. However, the
    district court noted in its May 18, 2020, amended decree that
    “any plan with graduated suspension of supervised visitation is
    speculative and in reliance upon [Lucas’] completion of certain
    milestones that may or may not affect [his] behaviors” and that
    it could not “speculate as to when [Lucas] will take the steps
    necessary to adjust his behaviors to allow for unsupervised
    visitation to be in the children’s best interests.”
    Given the lack of progress made by Lucas following the
    April 11, 2019, proceeding, it is not surprising the district
    court was unwilling to place a speculative deadline on the
    therapeutic and supervised parenting time. A year earlier, at
    the conclusion of that April 11 hearing, the district court spe-
    cifically admonished Lucas about how things he was saying
    to the children “messes them up” and “makes them feel like
    they have to pick sides,” and the district court stated that some
    judges “would just rule from the bench that [this] behavior is
    alienation.” That said, the court was willing to delay entering
    a final decree in order to give Lucas an opportunity to correct
    those behaviors. Despite that opportunity to show improve-
    ment, Lucas elected instead to engage in further parental
    alienation behaviors which adversely impacted the children. As
    noted by the district court in the amended decree, Lucas con-
    tinued to have “little regard for court orders.” Unfortunately,
    Lucas continued to fail to recognize how his behavior and
    improper influence on his children was detrimental to their
    emotional well-being. Additionally, when the court was con-
    templating whether 90 days would be sufficient for Lucas “to
    gain insight,” the court asked Dr. Cottam whether she had
    seen Lucas make the progress she “had hoped for” in the past
    100 days; Dr. Cottam responded, “No.” Further, even in Dr.
    Cottam’s presence as a supervisor over Lucas’ parenting time,
    she observed Lucas over those 100 days to continue to make
    statements with a “derogatory implication to [Heather].”
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    Based upon the evidence in the record before us, we cannot
    say the district court abused its discretion by ordering thera-
    peutic and supervised parenting time. The ability to transition
    to unsupervised parenting time is in Lucas’ control. He simply
    needs to demonstrate that he will no longer engage in manipu-
    lative or alienating behavior which adversely impacts the chil-
    dren’s relationship with their mother. This will require Lucas
    to move past his emotional distress, anger, and/or resentment
    toward Heather over the deterioration of their relationship, and
    it will require Lucas to instead focus on being a good father
    to his sons. The evidence reflects Lucas loves his sons and
    is fully capable of being such a father. Upon proper evidence
    presented to the court, the current parenting plan is subject to
    modification. See State on behalf of Maddox S. v. Matthew E.,
    
    23 Neb. App. 500
    , 
    873 N.W.2d 208
     (2016) (right of parenting
    time is subject to continuous review by court, and party may
    seek modification of parenting time order on grounds there has
    been material change in circumstances; best interests of chil-
    dren are primary and paramount considerations in determining
    and modifying parenting time).
    Premarital Property
    Lucas argues the district court abused its discretion in not
    awarding him certain property he claimed to be nonmarital.
    The court awarded Heather and Lucas “the personal prop-
    erty currently in their possession.” The court additionally
    awarded Lucas “any tools listed on Exhibit 103 that remain in
    [Heather’s] possession[,] . . . his mother’s hutch and china, his
    golf clubs, . . . a set of knives belonging to [his] father,” and
    “any items noted on Exhibit 114, which were marked with an
    ‘L’ by [Heather].” Exhibit 103 is a list of specific tools, which
    exhibit was offered by Lucas as an aid to the district court.
    Exhibit 114 is a spreadsheet offered as an aid setting forth a
    division of property between Heather and Lucas. Except for
    the gifts of $3,000 made to Heather by each of her parents,
    the district court determined that “[n]either [Heather] nor
    [Lucas] met their burden as to any other property claimed
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    to be non-marital.” The court further ordered Heather to pay
    Lucas an equalization payment of $10,957.50.
    Lucas asserts the district court abused its discretion in not
    awarding him all the property he listed as nonmarital in exhibit
    101. Exhibit 101 is an inventory offered by Lucas in which
    he designated certain property as marital or nonmarital. Lucas
    argues the district court erred by “only provid[ing] a division
    of joint marital property and a few limited pieces of family
    heirlooms” while “not properly identifying the non-marital
    property of Lucas.” Brief for appellant at 28. Lucas also identi-
    fies that when responding to the question of whether Heather
    and Lucas had “divided [their] personal property as much
    as [they were] going to,” Heather testified that if “[t]here
    [were] still items that [Lucas] would like to retrieve, he can
    have, absolutely.”
    [6-8] In a divorce action, the purpose of a property division
    is to distribute the marital assets equitably between the parties.
    Stanosheck v. Jeanette, 
    294 Neb. 138
    , 
    881 N.W.2d 599
     (2016).
    Equitable property division under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
    (Reissue 2016) is a three-step process. Stanosheck v. Jeanette,
    
    supra.
     The first step is to classify the parties’ property as mari-
    tal or nonmarital. 
    Id.
     The second step is to value the marital
    assets and marital liabilities of the parties. 
    Id.
     The third step
    is to calculate and divide the net marital estate between the
    parties. 
    Id.
     In a marital dissolution proceeding, the burden of
    proof rests with the party claiming that property is nonmarital.
    Burgardt v. Burgardt, 
    304 Neb. 356
    , 
    934 N.W.2d 488
     (2019).
    The division of property is a matter entrusted to the discre-
    tion of the trial judge, which will be reviewed de novo on
    the record and will be affirmed in the absence of an abuse of
    discretion. Schuman v. Schuman, 
    265 Neb. 459
    , 
    658 N.W.2d 30
     (2003). When evidence is in conflict, an appellate court
    considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge
    heard and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of
    the facts rather than another. Donald v. Donald, 
    296 Neb. 123
    ,
    
    892 N.W.2d 100
     (2017).
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    In this circumstance, we give weight to the fact that the
    trial judge heard and observed the witnesses on this matter.
    The district court took the parties’ exhibits and testimony into
    consideration and made determinations as to the credibility
    and weight that evidence should be given in its decree. While
    we note the record before us could have supported the court’s
    award to Lucas of the items listed in exhibit 101, we cannot
    say the court abused its discretion in finding that Lucas had not
    carried his burden to prove this property to be nonmarital. That
    said, to the extent the items alleged by Lucas in exhibit 101
    are known by Heather to have belonged to Lucas prior to their
    marriage, and there is no disagreement whatsoever as to their
    premarital status, it would certainly be reasonable for Heather
    to return such items to Lucas given her testimony generally
    indicating her willingness for Lucas to “absolutely” have his
    personal property.
    Payments From Lucas’ Mother
    Lucas claims the district court abused its discretion in not
    awarding him credit for certain payments received from his
    mother during the marriage. Lucas claims two amounts given
    by his mother should have been credited to him as nonmarital.
    At trial, he testified his “mother transferred $1,000” into the
    parties’ joint account for Heather, the children, and himself “to
    go to Arizona for a Christmas vacation” in 2014. Also, Lucas’
    mother affirmed that she “made contributions to a car payment
    for a period of . . . years” that “totaled in excess of $6,000.”
    She also agreed that she had helped Heather and Lucas “with
    other money during their marriage.” As noted previously, the
    district court found that outside of items specifically charac-
    terized in its decree as nonmarital, “[n]either [Heather] nor
    [Lucas] met their burden as to any other property claimed to
    be non-marital.”
    [9] The general rule in dissolution actions is that all prop-
    erty accumulated and acquired by either spouse during a mar-
    riage is part of the marital estate. See Dooling v. Dooling,
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    , 
    930 N.W.2d 481
     (2019). Exceptions include
    property that a spouse acquired before the marriage, or by
    gift or inheritance. 
    Id.
     In a marital dissolution proceeding, the
    burden of proof rests with the party claiming that property is
    nonmarital. Burgardt v. Burgardt, 
    304 Neb. 356
    , 
    934 N.W.2d 488
     (2019).
    We find no abuse of discretion by the district court on this
    issue. The record does not establish that the amounts alleged
    by Lucas and his mother were ever intended to be nonmarital
    gifts to Lucas. Lucas’ mother paid $1,000 into the parties’
    joint account for the express purpose of funding the family’s
    Christmas vacation to Arizona to visit her; its purpose was to
    help facilitate a family gathering beneficial to all involved.
    As for the alleged $6,000 paid through an unspecified num-
    ber of “contributions to a car payment” at unspecified times
    over an unspecified “period of . . . years,” there was simply
    no evidence that such payments were intended as nonmarital
    gifts to Lucas. Further, Heather affirmed during her testimony
    that these car payments were for “a car [Lucas] owned before-
    hand” that “has been sold” with the corresponding proceeds
    “dissipated.” Notably, Lucas’ mother affirmed that she had
    helped “them” with other money during the parties’ marriage,
    and she had done so “on a regular basis.” No evidence sup-
    ported that any of these payments were made solely for Lucas’
    benefit outside the marital estate; rather, it appears from
    Lucas’ mother’s testimony that she was generous in helping
    the couple when they needed help. Lucas did not carry his
    burden of proving these amounts should be credited to him as
    nonmarital property.
    Student Loan Debt
    Lucas returned to school for his master’s degree in 2012
    just before the parties’ marriage, and he graduated in 2014.
    Lucas testified that he “took an additional $41,000 . . . to cover
    expenses” beyond the amount necessary to pay off his “tuition
    and schooling.” He testified that the “additional $41,000”
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    was “deposited into [the parties’] joint account.” In her depo-
    sition testimony, Heather affirmed that these amounts “went
    into the joint account where [the parties’] bills were paid.”
    Neither party provided evidence of how that money was spent.
    According to bank records offered by Lucas, certain deposits
    attributed to the “STATE OF NE” were made into the parties’
    joint account beginning from August 22, 2012, until January
    17, 2014. During that time period, a total of $40,622.80 was
    deposited into the joint account. A loan statement in the record
    indicated that as of July 9, 2019, the outstanding balance on
    Lucas’ student loans was $124,157.14.
    In its decree, the district court determined there was insuffi-
    cient evidence “to determine an equitable amount to attribute as
    marital debt from the loans borrowed by [Lucas] to further his
    education.” The court further noted that while it was “possible
    that a portion of [Lucas’] student loan debt was utilized for
    support of the family,” there was “no evidence as to how much
    of the loan deposits . . . were used to pay for tuition, books[,]
    or other school expenses or to what extent the student loans
    used for support had been repaid with marital money between
    the time they were incurred and the time of separation.”
    Lucas asserts the district court abused its discretion by
    not including his student loans as marital debt, at least as to
    “$40,622.80 of non-tuition student loans” deposited into the
    parties’ joint account. Brief for appellant at 29. Lucas asserts
    the district court erred through “misconstru[ing] how student
    loan deposits work and fail[ing] to incorporate facts proven
    by admitted exhibits.” Id. at 30. He claims that the deposited
    amounts were not used to pay for tuition, as his tuition was
    paid through loan proceeds “sent directly to the school.” Id. at
    31. He further argues that the court erred in “suggest[ing] that
    the loan could have been repaid or paid down [when] Lucas
    has an outstanding balance . . . larger than the original princi-
    pal amount.” Id.
    [10] Marital debt includes only those obligations incurred
    during the marriage for the joint benefit of the parties.
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    Fetherkile v. Fetherkile, 
    299 Neb. 76
    , 
    907 N.W.2d 275
     (2018).
    As the parties discuss in their briefs on appeal, this court found
    in Walker v. Walker, 
    9 Neb. App. 694
    , 
    618 N.W.2d 465
     (2000),
    that the district court did not abuse its discretion in finding
    student loan debt accrued during the marriage to be nonmarital
    where the parties disputed the extent to which the student loans
    were used for joint marital interests or the obligor’s education.
    The record showed a student loan indebtedness of $63,800,
    which was approximately $20,000 in excess of the obligor’s
    direct educational expenses. In that case, we noted the obligor
    took “with her all of the benefits of her law school education,
    and equity requires that she take with her those debts directly
    related to obtaining that degree.” Id. at 700, 
    618 N.W.2d at 471
    . This holding demonstrates the importance of presenting a
    sufficient record that establishes the distribution and utilization
    of student loans incurred during the marriage.
    Despite Lucas’ assertion on appeal that certain amounts of
    his loan were directly paid to the school and that the entirety of
    the $40,622.80 was for joint marital benefit, we have before us
    neither any sort of itemization of the student loan proceeds nor
    records of tuition payments to the school or other educational
    costs that would identify whether or not the deposited amounts
    were in excess of such costs, thus making them available to
    use for joint marital expenses. The record does not contain any
    accounting for how the student loan proceeds deposited into
    the joint account were utilized during the marriage. Rather,
    the record before us shows only that $40,622.80 was deposited
    into the parties’ joint account while Lucas was in school and
    that there remains an outstanding balance on Lucas’ student
    loans. Lucas asserts that these facts, without further context,
    compel this court to attribute the $40,622.80 to the marital
    estate as a marital debt. In effect, Lucas asks this court to
    assume the $40,622.80 went to the joint benefit of the parties
    purely through its presence in the joint account. However, the
    evidence does not indicate whether the deposited proceeds
    went toward Lucas’ education or support for the family while
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    he was in school. In the absence of further evidence and con-
    text regarding Lucas’ student loans, we cannot say the district
    court abused its discretion in not attributing any amount of
    Lucas’ student loan debt to the marital estate.
    Attorney Fees
    The district court ordered Lucas to pay $13,000 in attor-
    ney fees to Heather. Lucas claims the district court abused its
    discretion in awarding Heather attorney fees given the par-
    ties’ similar earning capacities and the balance of equities in
    the case.
    [11] It has been held that in awarding attorney fees in a dis-
    solution action, a court shall consider the nature of the case,
    the amount involved in the controversy, the services actually
    performed, the results obtained, the length of time required
    for preparation and presentation of the case, the novelty and
    difficulty of the questions asked, and the customary charges
    of the bar for similar services. Garza v. Garza, 
    288 Neb. 213
    ,
    
    846 N.W.2d 626
     (2014). The award of attorney fees is discre-
    tionary with the trial court, is reviewed de novo on the record,
    and will be affirmed in the absence of an abuse of discretion.
    See 
    id.
    According to an affidavit for attorney fees received into
    evidence at the hearing held on October 16, 2019, Heather’s
    attorney charged her at a rate of $210 per hour. Prior to the
    conclusion of trial, the affidavit indicated that Heather had
    incurred $25,483.97 in attorney fees and expenses. We have
    reviewed the record, and we conclude the district court did
    not abuse its discretion in ordering Lucas to pay $13,000 in
    attorney fees.
    CONCLUSION
    For the reasons set forth above, we affirm the district court’s
    amended decree in all respects.
    Affirmed.