Schmeidler v. Schmeidler , 912 N.W.2d 278 ( 2018 )


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    Benjamin J. Schmeidler, appellant, v.
    Jessica F. Schmeidler, appellee.
    ___ N.W.2d ___
    Filed April 17, 2018.    No. A-17-361.
    1.	 Divorce: Child Custody: Child Support: Property Division: Alimony:
    Appeal and Error. An appellate court’s review in an action for dissolu-
    tion of marriage is de novo on the record to determine whether there has
    been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge. This standard of review
    applies to the trial court’s determinations regarding custody, child sup-
    port, division of property, and alimony.
    2.	 Divorce: Child Custody. When custody of a minor child is an issue in a
    proceeding to dissolve the marriage of the child’s parents, child custody
    is determined by parental fitness and the child’s best interests.
    3.	 Child Custody. When both parents are found to be fit, the inquiry for
    the court is the best interests of the children.
    4.	 ____. In determining a child’s best interests under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-364
     (Reissue 2016), courts may consider factors such as general
    considerations of moral fitness of the child’s parents, including the
    parents’ sexual conduct; respective environments offered by each par-
    ent; the emotional relationship between child and parents; the age, sex,
    and health of the child and the parents; the effect on the child as the
    result of continuing or disrupting an existing relationship; the attitude
    and stability of each parent’s character; parental capacity to provide
    physical care and satisfy educational needs of the child; and many
    other factors relevant to the general health, welfare, and well-being of
    the child.
    5.	 Evidence: Appeal and Error. Where credible evidence is in conflict
    on a material issue of fact, the appellate court considers, and may give
    weight to, the fact that the trial court heard and observed the witnesses
    and accepted one version of the facts rather than another.
    6.	 Child Custody: Appeal and Error. In contested custody cases, where
    material issues of fact are in great dispute, the standard of review and
    the amount of deference granted to the trial judge, who heard and
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    observed the witnesses testify, are often dispositive of whether the trial
    court’s determination is affirmed or reversed on appeal.
    7.	 Child Custody. Joint physical custody must be reserved for those cases
    where, in the judgment of the trial court, the parents are of such maturity
    that the arrangement will not operate to allow the child to manipulate
    the parents or confuse the child’s sense of direction, and will provide a
    stable atmosphere for the child to adjust, rather than perpetuating tur-
    moil or custodial wars.
    8.	 ____. Courts typically do not award joint legal custody when the parties
    are unable to communicate effectively.
    9.	 ____. Where the parties are unable to communicate and trust one
    another, joint decisionmaking by the parents is not in the child’s best
    interests.
    10.	 Visitation. The trial court has discretion to set a reasonable parenting
    time schedule.
    11.	 ____. The determination of the reasonableness of a parenting plan is to
    be made on a case-by-case basis.
    12.	 ____. Parenting time relates to continuing and fostering the normal
    parental relationship of the noncustodial parent.
    13.	 ____. The best interests of the children are the primary and paramount
    considerations in determining and modifying visitation rights.
    14.	 ____. Although limits on visitation are an extreme measure, they may be
    warranted where they are in the best interests of the children.
    15.	 Visitation: Courts: Stipulations. It is the responsibility of the trial
    court to determine questions of custody and visitation of minor children
    according to their best interests. This is an independent responsibility
    and cannot be controlled by the agreement or stipulation of the parties
    themselves or by third parties.
    16.	 Parent and Child. The best interests of a child require a parenting
    arrangement which provides for a child’s safety, emotional growth,
    health, stability, and physical care.
    17.	 Divorce: Property Division. Under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue
    2016), the equitable division of property is a three-step process. The
    first step is to classify the parties’ property as marital or nonmarital.
    The second step is to value the marital assets and marital liabilities
    of the parties. The third step is to calculate and divide the net marital
    estate between the parties in accordance with the principles contained in
    § 42-365.
    18.	 ____: ____. Property which one party brings into the marriage is gener-
    ally excluded from the marital estate.
    19.	 Divorce: Property Division: Proof. The burden of proof to show that
    property is nonmarital remains with the person making the claim in a
    dissolution proceeding.
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    20.	 Property Division. Marital debt includes only those obligations incurred
    during the marriage for the joint benefit of the parties.
    Appeal from the District Court for Clay County: Vicky L.
    Johnson, Judge. Affirmed as modified.
    Scott D. Grafton, of Grafton Law Office, P.C., L.L.O., for
    appellant.
    Benjamin H. Murray, of Germer, Murray & Johnson, for
    appellee.
    Moore, Chief Judge, and R iedmann, Judge, and Inbody,
    Judge, Retired.
    R iedmann, Judge.
    INTRODUCTION
    Benjamin J. Schmeidler appeals the order of the district
    court for Clay County which dissolved his marriage to Jessica
    F. Schmeidler, awarded custody and parenting time of the par-
    ties’ minor child, and divided the marital estate. We affirm as
    modified as explained below.
    BACKGROUND
    Benjamin and Jessica were married in September 2011.
    Their daughter was born in 2014. On May 19, 2016, Benjamin
    filed a complaint for dissolution of the marriage.
    Trial on the issues of property division, custody, parenting
    time, and child support was held on February 23, 2017. At
    the time of trial, Benjamin was 28 years old and worked as a
    general farmhand. His parents, friends, and boss generally tes-
    tified that he was a good, involved father to his daughter and
    acted as a “father figure” to Jessica’s older son from a previous
    relationship. They testified that they had seen Jessica belittle
    Benjamin and yell at him in public. They admitted seeing both
    Benjamin and Jessica drink alcohol during the marriage but
    denied that Benjamin had a drinking problem.
    To the contrary, Jessica testified that Benjamin drank alco-
    hol every day when she first met him and that his drinking
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    escalated during the marriage. She claimed that he became
    angry and violent when he was drinking. Jessica’s mother testi-
    fied that Benjamin drank frequently and excessively and that
    there were occasions where she was scared for the safety of
    Jessica’s older child while he was under Benjamin’s care.
    On March 15, 2017, the district court entered an order dis-
    solving Benjamin and Jessica’s marriage. The court found that
    the parties have “a long history of conflict,” rendering joint
    decisionmaking and custody impossible. Thus, the court deter-
    mined that the best interests of the child would be served by
    placing her legal and physical custody with Jessica, subject to
    Benjamin’s parenting time. The court adopted the parenting
    plan proposed by Jessica, which granted Benjamin parenting
    time with the child every other weekend and every Wednesday
    evening. Benjamin was required to provide transportation to
    and from his parenting time, and the parenting plan prohibited
    the child from having contact with certain family members of
    Jessica’s during Benjamin’s parenting time. In addition, the
    parenting plan contained a provision that prohibited Benjamin
    from consuming alcohol while the child was in his possession,
    or for 24 hours prior. Benjamin was also ordered to pay $568
    per month in child support.
    The court added a “safety plan” to the parenting plan, which
    provides that if at any time during Benjamin’s parenting time
    Jessica learns Benjamin has been drinking alcohol, it is under-
    stood and agreed that Benjamin’s parenting time should end,
    and that Jessica, or a responsible adult, is allowed to pick up
    the child and Benjamin’s parenting time concludes. In addi-
    tion, under the safety plan, if Jessica suspects that Benjamin
    has been consuming alcohol during his parenting time, she
    is allowed to request that Benjamin perform a breath test. If
    Benjamin tests positive at the beginning of parenting time, he
    will forfeit that parenting time, and if he tests positive at the
    end of a parenting time period, he forfeits his next parenting
    time period. The safety plan further requires that Benjamin
    “self-report” to Jessica any time he has consumed alcohol
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    and that if the child was present while he was drinking, he
    forfeits his next parenting time. Finally, under the safety plan,
    if Benjamin has an alcohol-related criminal offense, his parent-
    ing time is to be suspended, unless supervised by his parents,
    until Benjamin and Jessica are able to reach further agreement
    for the reinstatement of parenting time or further order of
    the court.
    The court valued and divided the marital assets and debts
    and ordered that Benjamin make an equalization payment to
    Jessica in the amount of $5,000. Benjamin timely appeals to
    this court.
    ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
    Benjamin assigns, summarized, that the district court erred
    in (1) failing to adopt his proposed parenting plan, (2) adopt-
    ing Jessica’s proposed parenting plan despite several errors, (3)
    impermissibly delegating to Jessica the authority to unilaterally
    suspend his parenting time, and (4) classifying and valuing
    certain assets and debts of the parties and ordering him to pay
    an equalization payment of $5,000.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    [1] An appellate court’s review in an action for dissolution
    of marriage is de novo on the record to determine whether there
    has been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge. Burcham v.
    Burcham, 
    24 Neb. App. 323
    , 
    886 N.W.2d 536
     (2016). This
    standard of review applies to the trial court’s determinations
    regarding custody, child support, division of property, and ali-
    mony. 
    Id.
    ANALYSIS
    Failing to Adopt Benjamin’s
    Proposed Parenting Plan.
    Benjamin argues that the district court should have adopted
    the parenting plan he proposed as opposed to adopting Jessica’s
    proposed parenting plan. We find no abuse of discretion in the
    adoption of Jessica’s proposed plan.
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    In his parenting plan, Benjamin sought joint legal and
    physical custody of the child. Thus, on appeal, Benjamin
    argues that the court erred in failing to award joint legal and
    physical custody, because imposing joint custody and allow-
    ing him additional parenting time is in the best interests of
    the child.
    [2,3] When custody of a minor child is an issue in a pro-
    ceeding to dissolve the marriage of the child’s parents, child
    custody is determined by parental fitness and the child’s best
    interests. Maska v. Maska, 
    274 Neb. 629
    , 
    742 N.W.2d 492
    (2007). When both parents are found to be fit, the inquiry for
    the court is the best interests of the children. 
    Id.
     The district
    court made no explicit finding, in the present case, that either
    Benjamin or Jessica was unfit, and thus, its task was to deter-
    mine whether a joint physical custody arrangement was in the
    child’s best interests.
    [4] In determining a child’s best interests under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-364
     (Reissue 2016), courts may consider factors
    such as general considerations of moral fitness of the child’s
    parents, including the parents’ sexual conduct; respective envi-
    ronments offered by each parent; the emotional relationship
    between child and parents; the age, sex, and health of the child
    and the parents; the effect on the child as the result of con-
    tinuing or disrupting an existing relationship; the attitude and
    stability of each parent’s character; parental capacity to provide
    physical care and satisfy educational needs of the child; and
    many other factors relevant to the general health, welfare, and
    well-being of the child. Maska v. Maska, 
    supra.
    Benjamin claims that upon an examination of these factors,
    the best interests of the minor child require joint legal and
    physical custody with the parties. We disagree.
    [5,6] In this case, both Benjamin and Jessica presented evi-
    dence concerning their own parenting strengths and the weak-
    nesses of the other. The trial court determined that Jessica was
    a more credible witness. Where credible evidence is in conflict
    on a material issue of fact, the appellate court considers, and
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    may give weight to, the fact that the trial court heard and
    observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts
    rather than another. Barth v. Barth, 
    22 Neb. App. 241
    , 
    851 N.W.2d 104
     (2014). In fact, in contested custody cases, where
    material issues of fact are in great dispute, the standard of
    review and the amount of deference granted to the trial judge,
    who heard and observed the witnesses testify, are often disposi-
    tive of whether the trial court’s determination is affirmed or
    reversed on appeal. 
    Id.
    The court additionally concluded that Jessica had been the
    primary parent of the child, Benjamin had a history of domes-
    tic violence and abuses alcohol in a way that poses a danger
    to the child, and placing the child’s custody with Jessica will
    allow the child to have a stronger relationship with Jessica’s
    older child.
    [7-9] More importantly with respect to the issue of joint
    custody, the court found that the parties have a long history of
    conflict, rendering joint decisionmaking and custody impos-
    sible, and that therefore, joint custody was not in the child’s
    best interests. The Nebraska Supreme Court has repeatedly
    held that joint physical custody must be reserved for those
    cases where, in the judgment of the trial court, the parents are
    of such maturity that the arrangement will not operate to allow
    the child to manipulate the parents or confuse the child’s sense
    of direction, and will provide a stable atmosphere for the child
    to adjust, rather than perpetuating turmoil or custodial wars.
    See, e.g., Donald v. Donald, 
    296 Neb. 123
    , 
    892 N.W.2d 100
    (2017); Zahl v. Zahl, 
    273 Neb. 1043
    , 
    736 N.W.2d 365
     (2007).
    And this court has acknowledged that courts typically do
    not award joint legal custody when the parties are unable to
    communicate effectively. See State on behalf of Maddox S. v.
    Matthew E., 
    23 Neb. App. 500
    , 
    873 N.W.2d 208
     (2016). Where
    the parties are unable to communicate and trust one another,
    joint decisionmaking by the parents is not in the child’s best
    interests. See Kamal v. Imroz, 
    277 Neb. 116
    , 
    759 N.W.2d 914
     (2009).
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    Given the evidence presented at trial, our standard of
    review, and deference to the trial court’s observation of the
    witnesses, we cannot find that the district court abused its dis-
    cretion in declining to award joint custody and instead award-
    ing custody of the child to Jessica.
    Jessica’s Proposed Parenting Plan.
    Benjamin challenges the parenting plan as ordered in sev-
    eral respects. He claims that the court erred in ordering that
    the minor child have no contact with certain family members
    of Jessica, ordering that Benjamin provide all transporta-
    tion to and from his parenting time, and only granting him
    2 weeks of summer parenting time, rather than the 6 weeks
    he requested.
    [10-14] The trial court has discretion to set a reasonable
    parenting time schedule. Thompson v. Thompson, 
    24 Neb. App. 349
    , 
    887 N.W.2d 52
     (2016). The determination of the reason-
    ableness of a parenting plan is to be made on a case-by-case
    basis. 
    Id.
     Parenting time relates to continuing and fostering the
    normal parental relationship of the noncustodial parent. 
    Id.
     The
    best interests of the children are the primary and paramount
    considerations in determining and modifying visitation rights.
    
    Id.
     Although limits on visitation are an extreme measure, they
    may be warranted where they are in the best interests of the
    children. Aguilar v. Schulte, 
    22 Neb. App. 80
    , 
    848 N.W.2d 644
     (2014).
    In the instant case, the district court found Jessica’s tes-
    timony credible. Jessica testified that certain of her family
    members have threatened her and drive by her house on almost
    a daily basis. Based on this evidence, we cannot find that the
    district court abused its discretion by placing a limitation on
    Benjamin’s parenting time and not allowing contact between
    the child and these family members.
    With respect to transportation and summer parenting time,
    the district court has the authority to impose a reasonable
    parenting plan according to the best interests of the child. The
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    record is unclear as to the distance between Benjamin’s and
    Jessica’s current residences; however, it appears they live some
    distance apart. Prior to imposition of the temporary order in
    September 2016, the parties would share transportation and
    “meet halfway” in Clay Center, Nebraska, in order to exchange
    the child. The parenting plan attached to the decree requires
    that Benjamin pick up the child from Jessica at the beginning
    of his parenting time and return the child to Jessica at the
    conclusion of his parenting time. We conclude that requiring
    Benjamin to provide all transportation constitutes an abuse
    of discretion given his limited parenting time, particularly
    on Wednesday evenings. We therefore modify the parenting
    plan to require that the parties meet in Clay Center in order to
    exchange the child for Benjamin’s Wednesday evening parent-
    ing time.
    Further, although the district court is not required to grant
    equal parenting time to the parents, Nebraska’s Parenting Act
    recognizes the importance of both parents remaining active
    and involved in parenting in order to serve the best inter-
    ests of the child. See, 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 43-2923
    (3) (Reissue
    2016); Kamal v. Imroz, 
    277 Neb. 116
    , 
    759 N.W.2d 914
     (2009).
    Indeed, the parenting plan adopted by the district court in this
    case acknowledges that the best interests of the child will be
    maintained through the ongoing involvement of both Jessica
    and Benjamin. And parenting time relates to continuing and
    fostering the normal parental relationship of the noncustodial
    parent. Thompson v. Thompson, supra. Thus, we conclude that
    the district court abused its discretion in awarding Benjamin
    only 2 weeks of summer parenting time absent evidence that it
    would be in the child’s best interests.
    As such, we modify the parenting plan to allow Benjamin 6
    continuous weeks of parenting time during the child’s school
    summer vacation. As currently required in the parenting plan,
    Benjamin must notify Jessica, in writing, not later than May 1
    of each calendar year of the dates he will exercise his summer
    parenting time. All other provisions contained in the current
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    parenting plan with respect to summer parenting time remain
    the same.
    Benjamin additionally argues that there is confusion with
    respect to the Christmas holiday as provided for in the parent-
    ing plan, and we agree. The plan defines the Christmas holiday
    as beginning at 5 p.m. on the day the child is released from
    school for the Christmas holiday and concluding at 12 p.m.
    on the day before the child returns to school. The plan then
    divides the Christmas vacation into two visitation periods: the
    first period runs from 5 p.m. on the day the child is released
    from school and ends at 9 a.m. on December 25, and the sec-
    ond period runs from 9 a.m. on December 25 and ends at 9
    a.m. on January 1. The ending dates of the defined Christmas
    holiday and the second visitation period are inconsistent. We
    therefore modify the second visitation period to end at 12 p.m.
    on the day before the child returns to school. We otherwise
    affirm the parenting plan.
    Safety Plan.
    Benjamin argues that the district court erred in including
    the safety plan in the parenting plan, because it impermissi-
    bly grants Jessica unilateral authority to suspend Benjamin’s
    parenting time upon her belief that he has been drinking.
    The Nebraska Supreme Court has previously upheld a provi-
    sion in a parenting plan that restricted a parent’s ability to
    consume alcohol during parenting time, or for a reasonable
    time prior thereto. See Von Tersch v. Von Tersch, 
    235 Neb. 263
    , 
    455 N.W.2d 130
     (1990). A similar provision appears in
    the present parenting plan, and Benjamin does not argue error
    with its inclusion. Rather, it is the inclusion of the safety
    plan that Benjamin contests because of the authority it grants
    Jessica. We find merit in his argument and conclude that the
    district court’s order giving Jessica the discretion to suspend
    Benjamin’s parenting time is an unlawful delegation of the
    trial court’s duty.
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    [15] It is the responsibility of the trial court to determine
    questions of custody and visitation of minor children accord-
    ing to their best interests. This is an independent responsibility
    and cannot be controlled by the agreement or stipulation of
    the parties themselves or by third parties. Deacon v. Deacon,
    
    207 Neb. 193
    , 
    297 N.W.2d 757
     (1980), disapproved on other
    grounds, Gibilisco v. Gibilisco, 
    263 Neb. 27
    , 
    637 N.W.2d 898
     (2002). In Deacon v. Deacon, 
    supra,
     the Supreme Court
    reversed an order which granted a psychologist the authority
    to effectively determine visitation and to control the extent and
    time of such visitation, concluding that such an order was an
    unlawful delegation of the trial court’s duty that could result
    in the denial of proper visitation rights of the noncustodial
    parent. As authority for its conclusion, the Deacon court cited
    Lautenschlager v. Lautenschlager, 
    201 Neb. 741
    , 
    272 N.W.2d 40
     (1978). In Lautenschlager, the court observed:
    The rule that custody and visitation of minor children
    shall be determined on the basis of their best interests,
    long established in case law and now specified by statute,
    clearly envisions an independent inquiry by the court.
    The duty to exercise this responsibility cannot be super-
    seded or forestalled by any agreements or stipulations by
    the parties.
    
    201 Neb. at 743-44
    , 
    272 N.W.2d at 42
    .
    The Supreme Court in Deacon specifically took note that
    the reasoning of Lautenschlager was being extended to third
    parties. The reasoning of Deacon has also been applied in
    other contexts. See, In re Interest of D.M.B., 
    240 Neb. 349
    ,
    
    481 N.W.2d 905
     (1992) (finding plain error in juvenile court’s
    requirement that parent participate in support group and fol-
    low all directions of counselor); Ensrud v. Ensrud, 
    230 Neb. 720
    , 
    433 N.W.2d 192
     (1988) (disapproving of district court
    order authorizing child custody officer to control custody and
    visitation rights of minor child); In re Interest of Teela H., 
    3 Neb. App. 604
    , 
    529 N.W.2d 134
     (1995) (holding that juvenile
    court order granting psychologist authority to determine time,
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    manner, and extent of parental visitation was improper delega-
    tion of judicial authority).
    In Barth v. Barth, 
    22 Neb. App. 241
    , 
    851 N.W.2d 104
    (2014), this court disapproved of the district court’s order
    granting the child’s father, the custodial parent, the discre-
    tion to withhold overnight visitation with the child’s mother,
    the noncustodial parent, if she cohabits with someone of the
    opposite sex. We concluded that the rationale of the aforemen-
    tioned cases applies with equal force when it is the custodial
    parent who is granted the authority to determine the visitation
    privileges of the noncustodial parent, because setting the time,
    manner, and extent of visitation is solely the duty of the court.
    The same holds true in the present case.
    Jessica argues that the authority to determine whether
    Benjamin is permitted parenting time with the child is not
    delegated to her, but, rather, to Benjamin himself. She claims
    that the choice to drink belongs to Benjamin, knowing that if
    he does so, he is not entitled to visitation with the child. The
    same could be said for the parties in Barth v. Barth, supra,
    however. There, the choice to cohabit with someone of the
    opposite sex belonged to the mother, and she knew that if she
    did so, she would not be entitled to overnight visitation with
    the child.
    Although we agree with Jessica that drinking is a conscious
    decision of Benjamin’s, it is the sole responsibility of the dis-
    trict court to determine questions of visitation regarding the
    child according to her best interests, including the time, man-
    ner, and extent of visitation. This independent responsibility
    cannot be delegated to Jessica. More problematic is the fact
    that the safety plan allows Jessica to retrieve the child during
    Benjamin’s parenting time if she “learns that [Benjamin] has
    been drinking alcoholic beverages.” There is no requirement
    that such information be confirmed, which essentially permits
    Jessica to unilaterally terminate Benjamin’s parenting time
    based on an unconfirmed belief that he has been drinking. This
    authority has the potential to become problematic, particularly
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    given the parties’ history of conflict, and could result in the
    denial of proper visitation rights of the noncustodial parent.
    See Deacon v. Deacon, 
    207 Neb. 193
    , 
    297 N.W.2d 757
     (1980),
    disapproved on other grounds, Gibilisco v. Gibilisco, 
    263 Neb. 27
    , 
    637 N.W.2d 898
     (2002).
    [16] In addition, we note that the safety plan requires
    Benjamin to report to Jessica if “he has slipped from his plan
    not to consume alcohol.” There is no requirement that such
    consumption occur in the presence of the child or pose any
    danger to the child; he is required to report all alcohol con-
    sumption. The best interests of a child require a parenting
    arrangement which provides for a child’s safety, emotional
    growth, health, stability, and physical care. See § 43-2923.
    Although limits on visitation are an extreme measure, they
    may be warranted where they are in the best interests of the
    children. Aguilar v. Schulte, 
    22 Neb. App. 80
    , 
    848 N.W.2d 644
     (2014). Because the requirement to “self-report” is not
    confined to alcohol consumption during the time period in
    which he has or will have the child, it is an inappropriate
    provision to be included in the parenting plan. We therefore
    conclude that the district court abused its discretion in includ-
    ing the safety plan, which allows Jessica to determine whether
    Benjamin is entitled to visitation and prohibits Benjamin
    from consuming alcohol even outside the presence of the
    child. We therefore modify the parenting plan to remove the
    safety plan.
    Valuation and Division of Property.
    Benjamin challenges the district court’s valuation and divi-
    sion of the parties’ property in several respects. We modify the
    decree as explained below.
    [17] Under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue 2016), the
    equitable division of property is a three-step process. The first
    step is to classify the parties’ property as marital or nonmarital.
    The second step is to value the marital assets and marital lia-
    bilities of the parties. The third step is to calculate and divide
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    the net marital estate between the parties in accordance with
    the principles contained in § 42-365. Burcham v. Burcham, 
    24 Neb. App. 323
    , 
    886 N.W.2d 536
     (2016).
    [18,19] Benjamin first challenges the classification of fenc-
    ing supplies, a Shop-Vac, and some hay as marital assets. He
    claims these assets were his nonmarital property and should
    not have been included in the marital estate. Property which
    one party brings into the marriage is generally excluded from
    the marital estate. 
    Id.
     The burden of proof to show that prop-
    erty is nonmarital remains with the person making the claim in
    a dissolution proceeding. 
    Id.
    Benjamin testified that he owned the fencing supplies prior
    to the marriage, and therefore, they are not marital property.
    In addition, Benjamin and both of his parents testified that the
    Shop-Vac was a Christmas gift to Benjamin from his parents,
    and his mother testified that the gift was given prior to the
    marriage. Jessica did not testify as to the fencing supplies or
    the Shop-Vac. Because the undisputed evidence establishes
    that these items are Benjamin’s nonmarital property, the dis-
    trict court erred in classifying them as marital property. The
    court valued the Shop-Vac at $100 and the fencing supplies
    at $3,000. We therefore decrease Benjamin’s portion of the
    marital assets by $3,100.
    The evidence with respect to the hay is less clear. Benjamin
    testified that the parties did not own any hay at the time of
    the divorce. He later explained that the hay was food for
    the horses owned jointly by the parties. Jessica first testified
    that Benjamin has an unlimited supply of hay, but she later
    stated that they both had an unlimited supply of hay at the
    time they were married. She said the hay was a “bonus” from
    Benjamin’s job. Because the record is unclear as to whether
    the hay was in existence as a separate asset or was Benjamin’s
    separate property, he has not met his burden to show the prop-
    erty is nonmarital. We therefore affirm the inclusion of the hay
    in the marital estate.
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    Finally, Benjamin asserts that the district court erred in valu-
    ing a Farm Service Agency (FSA) loan. The court accepted
    Jessica’s value of $20,000 for the loan, but Benjamin claims it
    should be valued at $32,000.
    As of March 2016, the FSA loan had an available balance
    of $32,000 total. Benjamin testified that initially, he used
    $22,000 of the available balance to purchase 11 cows at a cost
    of $2,000 each. He explained that he attempted to breed the
    cows to have calves in the spring of 2017, but sold the cows
    that did not become pregnant. He was advanced an additional
    $7,900 from the FSA loan to buy cows to replace those he had
    sold. This apparently occurred after he filed the complaint for
    dissolution of the marriage in May 2016.
    [20] Marital debt includes only those obligations incurred
    during the marriage for the joint benefit of the parties. Millatmal
    v. Millatmal, 
    272 Neb. 452
    , 
    723 N.W.2d 79
     (2006). Thus, any
    increase in the debt amount that occurred after the parties sepa-
    rated was not for the joint benefit of the parties and should not
    be considered a marital debt. Thus, the additional $7,900 that
    Benjamin received after he filed for dissolution of the marriage
    does not constitute a marital debt.
    Jessica valued the FSA loan at $20,000, but she did not
    provide evidence as to how she arrived at that value. Thus,
    accepting such value without supporting evidence constitutes
    an abuse of discretion. The undisputed evidence presented at
    trial supports assigning a value of $22,000 to the loan, and
    we therefore modify Benjamin’s portion of the marital liabili-
    ties accordingly.
    Based on the foregoing modifications, the total mar-
    ital assets equal $60,577.41 and the marital debts equal
    $24,414.44. Due to our modifications, Benjamin’s portion of
    the marital assets has decreased by $3,100 and his portion of
    the marital debts has increased by $2,000. Thus, the value
    of Benjamin’s portion of the net marital estate now equals
    $20,612.97 and Jessica’s portion equals $15,550. As a result,
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    we modify the equalization payment due from Benjamin to
    Jessica to a total of $2,531.
    CONCLUSION
    We find no abuse of discretion in the district court’s deci-
    sion to decline to impose joint custody of the parties’ minor
    child and award custody to Jessica. We modify the parenting
    plan, the valuation and distribution of the marital estate, and
    the equalization payment as explained above. The district
    court’s order is otherwise affirmed.
    A ffirmed as modified.