Anderson v. Anderson , 27 Neb. Ct. App. 547 ( 2019 )


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    Brandi J. A nderson, appellee and cross-appellant,
    v. Donald J. A nderson, appellant
    and cross-appellee.
    ___ N.W.2d ___
    Filed September 3, 2019.   No. A-18-754.
    1. Divorce: Appeal and Error. In a marital dissolution action, an appellate
    court reviews the case de novo on the record to determine whether there
    has been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge.
    2. Judges: Words and Phrases. A judicial abuse of discretion exists if the
    reasons or rulings of a trial judge are clearly untenable, unfairly depriv-
    ing a litigant of a substantial right and denying just results in matters
    submitted for disposition.
    3. Evidence: Appeal and Error. In a review de novo on the record, an
    appellate court is required to make independent factual determinations
    based upon the record, and the court reaches its own independent con-
    clusions with respect to the matters at issue.
    4. ____: ____. When evidence is in conflict, the appellate court con-
    siders and may give weight to the fact that the trial court heard and
    observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts rather than
    another.
    5. Divorce: Attorney Fees: Appeal and Error. In an action involving
    a marital dissolution decree, the award of attorney fees is discretion-
    ary with the trial court, is reviewed de novo on the record, and will be
    affirmed in the absence of an abuse of discretion.
    6. Divorce: Property Division. Under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue
    2016), the equitable division of property is a three-step process. The
    first step is to classify the parties’ property as marital or nonmarital, set-
    ting aside the nonmarital property to the party who brought that property
    to the marriage. The second step is to value the marital assets and mari-
    tal liabilities of the parties. The third step is to calculate and divide the
    net marital estate between the parties in accordance with the principles
    contained in § 42-365.
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    7. ____: ____. The ultimate test in determining the appropriateness of the
    division of property is fairness and reasonableness as determined by the
    facts of each case.
    8. ____: ____. As a general rule, all property accumulated and acquired
    by either party during the marriage is part of the marital estate, unless it
    falls within an exception to the general rule.
    9. ____: ____. Exceptions to the rule that all property accumulated and
    acquired during the marriage is marital property include property accu-
    mulated and acquired through gift or inheritance.
    10. Divorce: Property Division: Proof. The burden of proof to show that
    property is nonmarital remains with the person making the claim.
    11. Divorce: Property Division. As a general rule, a spouse should be
    awarded one-third to one-half of the marital estate, the polestar being
    fairness and reasonableness as determined by the facts of each case.
    12. Divorce: Property Division: Words and Phrases. “Dissipation of
    marital assets” is defined as one spouse’s use of marital property for a
    selfish purpose unrelated to the marriage at the time when the marriage
    is undergoing an irretrievable breakdown.
    13. Divorce: Property Division. Marital assets dissipated by a spouse for
    purposes unrelated to the marriage should be included in the marital
    estate in dissolution actions.
    14. ____: ____. Debts, like property, ought to also be considered in dividing
    marital property upon dissolution.
    15. ____: ____. When one party’s nonmarital debt is repaid with marital
    funds, the value of the debt repayments ought to reduce that party’s
    property award upon dissolution.
    16. Child Support: Evidence. Generally, earning capacity should be used
    to determine a child support obligation only when there is evidence that
    the parent can realize that capacity through reasonable efforts.
    17. Divorce: Property Division: Alimony. In dividing property and consid-
    ering alimony upon a dissolution of marriage, a court should consider
    four factors: (1) the circumstances of the parties, (2) the duration of the
    marriage, (3) the history of contributions to the marriage, and (4) the
    ability of the supported party to engage in gainful employment without
    interfering with the interests of any minor children in the custody of
    each party.
    18. ____: ____: ____. In addition to the specific criteria listed in 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue 2016), in dividing property and considering
    alimony upon a dissolution of marriage, a court should consider the
    income and earning capacity of each party and the general equities of
    the situation.
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    19. Alimony: Appeal and Error. In reviewing an alimony award, an appel-
    late court does not determine whether it would have awarded the same
    amount of alimony as did the trial court, but whether the trial court’s
    award is untenable such as to deprive a party of a substantial right or
    just result. The ultimate criterion is one of reasonableness.
    20. ____: ____. An appellate court is not inclined to disturb the trial court’s
    award of alimony unless it is patently unfair on the record.
    21. Visitation. The trial court has discretion to set a reasonable parenting
    time schedule.
    22. ____. A reasonable visitation schedule is one that provides a satisfactory
    basis for preserving and fostering a child’s relationship with the noncus-
    todial parent, and the determination of reasonableness is to be made on
    a case-by-case basis.
    23. ____. Parenting time relates to continuing and fostering the normal
    parental relationship of the noncustodial parent.
    24. ____. The best interests of the children are the primary and paramount
    considerations in determining and modifying visitation rights.
    25. Attorney Fees. Attorney fees and expenses may be recovered only
    where provided for by statute or when a recognized and accepted uni-
    form course of procedure has been to allow recovery of attorney fees.
    26. Divorce: Attorney Fees. A uniform course of procedure exists in
    Nebraska for the award of attorney fees in dissolution cases.
    27. ____: ____. Attorney fees and costs are often awarded to prevailing par-
    ties in dissolution cases as a matter of custom.
    28. ____: ____. In awarding attorney fees in a dissolution action, a court
    shall consider the nature of the case, the amount involved in the contro-
    versy, the services actually performed, the results obtained, the length of
    time required for preparation and presentation of the case, the novelty
    and difficulty of the questions raised, and the customary charges of the
    bar for similar services.
    29. Attorney Fees: Affidavits: Evidence. Where a party seeks to recover
    attorney fees, the best practice will always be to provide an affidavit
    or other evidence such as testimony or exhibits. Litigants who do not
    file such an affidavit or present other evidence risk the loss of attorney
    fees because of the difficulty of discerning such information from the
    record alone.
    Appeal from the District Court for Hall County: M ark J.
    Young, Judge. Affirmed as modified.
    Mark Porto, of Porto Law Office, for appellant.
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    Nicholas D. Valle, of Langvardt, Valle & James, P.C., L.L.O.,
    for appellee.
    R iedmann, A rterburn, and Welch, Judges.
    A rterburn, Judge.
    I. INTRODUCTION
    Donald J. Anderson appeals from the decree of dissolution
    entered in the district court for Hall County, which dissolved
    his marriage to Brandi J. Anderson. On appeal, Donald chal-
    lenges the court’s property distribution and the calculations of
    his child support and alimony obligations. On cross-appeal,
    Brandi challenges the court’s visitation schedule, alimony
    award, and attorney fees determination. For the reasons that
    follow, we affirm the decision of the district court as to child
    support, alimony, the visitation schedule, and attorney fees.
    We modify in part the district court’s decision as to prop-
    erty division.
    II. BACKGROUND
    Donald and Brandi were married on September 25, 1999,
    and had three children together: a son, S.A., born in 2006; a
    daughter born in 2008; and a son born in 2015. After nearly
    17 years of marriage, the parties separated in July 2016, and
    Brandi filed an amended complaint for dissolution of marriage
    on August 15.
    After a hearing on October 14, 2016, the court entered tem-
    porary orders that found the children’s need for a “significant
    amount of stability in their lives” made it inappropriate for
    the court to order joint custody with weekly transitions. Thus,
    the court gave Brandi temporary legal and physical custody of
    the children and allowed Donald to have parenting time every
    other weekend from Friday at 5 p.m. until Sunday at 7 p.m.
    During the weeks when Donald did not have weekend parent-
    ing time, he had 2 hours of parenting time with S.A. and his
    sister, individually, on one weeknight each. The parties subse-
    quently agreed that Donald’s weekend parenting time would
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    begin on Thursdays instead of Fridays. They also agreed that
    Donald would have parenting time with all the children on
    Thursday evenings during weeks when he did not have week-
    end parenting time. The court also ordered Donald to pay
    temporary child support of $1,251 per month and temporary
    spousal support of $1,100 per month.
    Trial was held on February 1 and 13, 2018. At trial, Brandi
    testified that she had obtained a student loan prior to the mar-
    riage, a portion of which was repaid during the marriage. In
    November 2017, the principal balance was $21,785, while
    interest payments totaled over $31,897 during the loan’s life-
    time, which began in 1990. The loan financed Brandi’s educa-
    tion, which enabled her to become a licensed teacher. Brandi
    worked as a schoolteacher from the time the parties married in
    1999 until 2006, when S.A. was born. When S.A. was born,
    Brandi quit teaching and began caring for him full time. She
    testified that no daycare would accept him, because he rarely
    slept as an infant and cried, screamed, and needed to be rocked
    nearly constantly for several years. S.A. was later diagnosed
    with Asperger’s syndrome (Asperger’s).
    S.A. developed violent tendencies and was prone to out-
    bursts if unexpected or unplanned events occurred. Brandi tes-
    tified that inconsistency in rules and consequences oftentimes
    led to S.A.’s bad behavior. Jealousy and seeing his siblings
    receive attention also led to S.A.’s outbursts. S.A. experienced
    suicidal thoughts, and in April 2017, he began talking about
    suicide in more detail and began acting out a plan to commit
    suicide. Brandi admitted S.A. to a hospital at that time.
    Brandi offered testimony from a licensed independent men-
    tal health practitioner, Joan Schwan, who counseled S.A.
    from October 2016 through January 2018. Schwan also met
    the other children briefly. Schwan testified that because S.A.
    has Asperger’s, he needs a calm, structured living environ-
    ment. She worked with him to process his feelings and
    handle anger. Schwan said that S.A. needs consistency across
    both parents’ homes and that it was detrimental for him to
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    view visitations with Donald as more fun because it was just
    the two of them. After a 5-day visit with Donald, S.A. told
    Schwan that he had not taken his medications and showered
    only once during that time. She knew that S.A. had “blow-
    ups” and “meltdowns” during which he would scream, kick,
    and hit others, particularly after spending one-on-one visita-
    tions with Donald.
    Schwan opined that one-on-one visitations were not appro-
    priate for S.A., because he viewed the individual attention as
    indicating that he was more special than his siblings. Schwan
    described that S.A. demands increasing amounts of his parents’
    attention, especially once they respond by giving him attention.
    Schwan said that because of that attention-seeking cycle, one-
    on-one visitations may be appropriate for other children but
    were not appropriate for S.A., because “he plays it” and sees
    the additional attention as indicating that he is special, which
    leads to him demanding more time. She testified that it was
    important for S.A. to see Donald giving time to S.A.’s siblings
    and to “actually witness that [his sister] is just as important as
    he is.” She testified that her understanding was that S.A. would
    return from one-on-one visitations with Donald and brag and
    bully his sister about it. Schwan said that S.A.’s attitude simi-
    larly affects his schoolwork and recalled an instance of S.A.’s
    calling a classmate “a jerk because he wasn’t getting his way
    immediately.” Brandi also testified that S.A. returned from
    visitations with Donald and taunted his siblings but that S.A.’s
    behavior was much better when he returns from visitations that
    all the children attend.
    Brandi described S.A.’s need for consistent routines and
    said that he “holds it all together during the school day” but
    can become volatile for a few hours after school until he gets
    into a routine again. However, she testified that S.A. does
    very well in school and had not had any disciplinary problems
    in school for the past 2 years. Her opposition to individual
    parenting time with Donald was based on her concern for
    the number of transfers and disruptions to their routine that
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    it caused. Brandi testified that she did not want to keep the
    children from Donald. Donald similarly testified that S.A. does
    “great in school” and had no more behavioral problems than
    any other student. Donald said that individual parenting time
    with S.A. was important to him in order to enjoy quality time
    together and described that the youngest child requires most of
    his attention when all the children are together.
    Beginning in 2006, when S.A. was born, Donald was the
    family’s sole income earner. Donald worked as a business
    development manager at a construction company from some-
    time before the parties were married through 2003. He then
    worked briefly as a personal banker before beginning to work
    at Credit Management Services, Inc. (Credit Management), in
    2005. Donald left Credit Management in 2013 after having
    difficulties with his boss and because he was traveling for 7
    to 10 nights each month. When he left Credit Management
    in 2013, he was making an estimated $112,000 per year.
    From October 2013 through June 2014, Donald worked for
    an insurance company, earning commission only. He testified
    that the job required extensive travel and staying in hotels a
    minimum of three nights per week. Donald began working for
    Axis Capital, Inc., in 2014, earning a base salary of $45,000
    plus commission. When he was promoted in 2015, his base
    salary was raised to $70,000 plus commission. Tax documents
    show that the couple earned $132,200 in wages during 2015,
    the vast majority of which came from Donald’s work at Axis
    Capital. In 2016, after disclosing an affair with a colleague,
    Donald was demoted and his pay was reduced by $2,000
    per month. Donald then left his job with Axis Capital at the
    end of July, having earned $98,000 from January through
    July 2016.
    Donald then worked for another construction company for
    2 months, where his annualized salary was approximately
    $81,000 before commission. In October 2016, he began working
    for Providence Capital, which paid him approximately $6,000
    per month plus commission during a 120-day probationary
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    period. He resigned from Providence Capital in February 2017
    and returned to Credit Management from March through May
    2017. At that time, Credit Management paid Donald an annual
    salary of $50,000 plus commission, which he said “wasn’t
    significant.” His territory included western Nebraska and east-
    ern Kansas, which he said was not conducive to visitations
    with his children, because the divorce proceedings had begun
    by that time. When he left Credit Management in May 2017,
    he started his own firm, while also “actively seeking” other
    employment. He testified that he made approximately $4,400
    through that venture.
    In September 2017, Donald began working for Hamilton
    Telecommunications and remained employed there at the time
    of trial. Hamilton Telecommunications paid Donald an initial
    base salary of $55,000 per year plus commission. His base sal-
    ary would decrease by $5,000 per year as commissions built
    up, eventually bottoming out at a $35,000 minimum. His salary
    was projected to grow significantly year to year if he met his
    sales goals.
    In 2007, Donald and Brandi purchased a home together in
    Grand Island, Nebraska, for $145,000. They added a bedroom
    and remodeled the master bathroom. Brandi testified that at
    the time of trial, the home’s roof was in “horrible shape” and
    needed repairs because the area around the chimney leaked
    when it rained. She said that roof repairs were estimated to
    cost $12,500. Brandi also testified that the windows were cav-
    ing in, needed to be propped up, and let cold air blow inside.
    Brandi offered testimony from a real estate appraiser, who
    valued the home at $150,000. He testified that his appraisal
    accounted for the renovations and additions to the home. He
    also testified that, traditionally, a county assessor’s appraisal is
    supposed to be within 3 to 5 percent of a home’s full value and
    that county assessors do not individually appraise homes and
    do not make physical inspections of every home.
    When the parties refinanced their home mortgage in
    2012, an appraisal was required, which valued the home at
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    $160,000. In 2017, the Hall County assessor valued the home
    for tax purposes at $171,449. At trial, Donald testified that he
    believed an accurate valuation of their home was $185,000,
    which he calculated by assuming that the tax-assessed value
    was 92 percent of the home’s actual value. Donald took issue
    with the valuation offered by Brandi’s expert, because he
    believed that the expert’s appraisal did not accurately reflect
    the home’s square footage, number of rooms, or age and that
    the homes used for comparison’s sake were substantially dif-
    ferent. The appraiser, when asked about his report’s inaccura-
    cies, said that the errors did not affect his valuation, because
    his ultimate opinion was based on his physical inspection of
    the property.
    Donald testified that he and Brandi withdrew $20,000
    from his Credit Management retirement account in 2008 or
    2009 and used some of the funds to repay their home loan.
    They repaid the withdrawal before Donald’s employment
    with Credit Management ended. He said that the funds were
    used for home renovations and household items, while also
    acknowledging that some of the withdrawn funds were used to
    pay down gambling debts he incurred, but he did not estimate
    the amount.
    In 2014, the parties withdrew approximately $60,000 from
    retirement accounts to offset decreased income, and Donald
    acknowledged that “a few thousand dollars” went toward gam-
    bling debt. Brandi stated that $2,000 of a $12,000 withdrawal
    in 2014 was never accounted for and that she assumed it was
    for gambling, because “[t]hat’s his pattern.” Donald acknowl-
    edged that he spent $570 on gambling in February 2017 and
    $1,762 on gambling in April 2017 after the parties’ separa-
    tion. Brandi testified that Donald’s gambling was an issue
    throughout their marriage, because they had lost “thousands.”
    She acknowledged that Donald sought help for gambling and
    secured a church friend to act as his “accountability partner,”
    who met with Donald and went with him “to [his] bookie to
    cut ties” with him.
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    Donald also described withdrawing $12,000 from retirement
    accounts during the summer of 2017 pursuant to an agreement
    with Brandi. He used the money to catch up on child support,
    spousal support, and health care payments.
    During the marriage, Brandi’s grandmother made a number
    of gifts by checks that were made out to both Donald and her
    and some made to her alone. Brandi calculated the total of the
    checks made out to Donald and her jointly as $3,750, while
    the checks to her alone totaled $20,900. Brandi also acknowl-
    edged that Donald’s parents gave them approximately $5,000
    when they bought their first home.
    Brandi testified that her grandmother died “about a week
    after [Donald] moved out of the house” and that she inher-
    ited $7,000 from her grandmother. Shortly thereafter, Brandi’s
    father, who was the personal representative of her grand-
    mother’s estate, made gifts to a number of the heirs, including
    Brandi. Brandi said that the total amount she received was
    “[r]oughly lower 30’s, 30 some thousand.”
    On July 6, 2018, the court entered a decree dissolving the
    marriage between Donald and Brandi. The court awarded legal
    and physical custody of the children to Brandi based on “the
    difficulties the parties have in communicating and the need
    for stability of the children (particularly [S.A.]).” The court
    awarded Donald parenting time every other weekend from
    5:30 p.m. on Thursdays until 7 p.m. on Sundays. Additionally,
    on the weeks when Donald did not have weekend parenting
    time, the court awarded him parenting time with the younger
    son for 11⁄2 hours on Mondays, with S.A. for 11⁄2 hours on
    Tuesdays, and with the daughter for 11⁄2 hours on Wednesdays.
    In awarding Donald one-on-one visitations with each of the
    children, the court cited the “lack of any evidence from the
    schools that the visitations were causing [S.A.] increased
    behavioral problems or any evidence concerning behavioral
    problems from a party other than [Brandi].” The court found
    that Schwan’s testimony was “unpersuasive” when she opined
    that one-on-one visitation was not best for S.A.
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    The court found that the circumstances required using
    Donald’s earning capacity, not actual income, in computing his
    child support obligation. The court noted that while Donald’s
    changes to lower earning occupations may have been made in
    good faith, he nonetheless could earn more than he currently
    was. Additionally, the court held that the children would be
    seriously impaired as a result of Donald’s voluntarily dimin-
    ished earnings. The court ordered Donald to pay support of
    $1,503 for three children, $1,302 for two children, and $883
    for one child. The court also ordered Donald to pay spousal
    support of $500 per month for 24 months.
    In dividing the parties’ property, the court first found that
    Brandi’s expert offered “the most accurate valuation” of the
    marital home and, thus, valued it at $150,000. The court fur-
    ther found that a $20,000 loan from Donald’s IRA account
    was used to pay gambling debts and, as a matter of equity,
    “ultimately deprived the marital estate of $20,000 (by virtue
    of having to be repaid from the marital estate).” Therefore, the
    court considered that as a $20,000 asset belonging to Donald.
    Despite a difference of approximately $27,000 in the parties’
    resulting property division, the court held that no equaliza-
    tion payment from Brandi to Donald was required, because
    Donald’s financial circumstances had resulted in a lower ali-
    mony award.
    Donald now appeals from the district court’s order, and
    Brandi cross-appeals.
    III. ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
    Donald alleges that the court erred with respect to its prop-
    erty division in undervaluing the marital home, awarding a
    $20,000 retirement withdrawal to him as an asset, not account-
    ing for Brandi’s student loan payments, and not ordering
    Brandi to make a property equalization payment. Donald also
    alleges that the court erred in calculating his child support obli-
    gation based on imputed income, not his actual income, and in
    ordering him to pay spousal support to Brandi.
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    Brandi alleges on cross-appeal that the court erred in allow-
    ing Donald to have one-on-one parenting time with the chil-
    dren, not extending spousal support for longer than 24 months,
    and not awarding her attorney fees.
    IV. STANDARD OF REVIEW
    [1,2] In a marital dissolution action, an appellate court
    reviews the case de novo on the record to determine whether
    there has been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge.
    Westwood v. Darnell, 
    299 Neb. 612
    , 
    909 N.W.2d 645
     (2018).
    This standard of review applies to the trial court’s determina-
    tions regarding both division of property and alimony. See 
    id.
    A judicial abuse of discretion exists if the reasons or rulings
    of a trial judge are clearly untenable, unfairly depriving a liti-
    gant of a substantial right and denying just results in matters
    submitted for disposition. Brozek v. Brozek, 
    292 Neb. 681
    , 
    874 N.W.2d 17
     (2016).
    [3,4] In a review de novo on the record, an appellate court
    is required to make independent factual determinations based
    upon the record, and the court reaches its own independent
    conclusions with respect to the matters at issue. Osantowski v.
    Osantowski, 
    298 Neb. 339
    , 
    904 N.W.2d 251
     (2017). However,
    when evidence is in conflict, the appellate court considers
    and may give weight to the fact that the trial court heard and
    observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts
    rather than another. 
    Id.
    [5] In an action involving a marital dissolution decree, the
    award of attorney fees is discretionary with the trial court, is
    reviewed de novo on the record, and will be affirmed in the
    absence of an abuse of discretion. Moore v. Moore, 
    302 Neb. 588
    , 
    924 N.W.2d 314
     (2019).
    V. ANALYSIS
    1. Property Division
    [6,7] Under 
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-365
     (Reissue 2016), the
    equitable division of property is a three-step process. The
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    first step is to classify the parties’ property as marital or non-
    marital, setting aside the nonmarital property to the party who
    brought that property to the marriage. Despain v. Despain,
    
    290 Neb. 32
    , 
    858 N.W.2d 566
     (2015). The second step is to
    value the marital assets and marital liabilities of the parties.
    
    Id.
     The third step is to calculate and divide the net marital
    estate between the parties in accordance with the principles
    contained in § 42-365. Despain v. Despain, supra. The ulti-
    mate test in determining the appropriateness of the division of
    property is fairness and reasonableness as determined by the
    facts of each case. Lorenzen v. Lorenzen, 
    294 Neb. 204
    , 
    883 N.W.2d 292
     (2016).
    [8-11] As a general rule, all property accumulated and
    acquired by either party during the marriage is part of the
    marital estate, unless it falls within an exception to the general
    rule. Westwood v. Darnell, 
    supra.
     Such exceptions include
    property accumulated and acquired through gift or inheritance.
    
    Id.
     The burden of proof to show that property is nonmarital
    remains with the person making the claim. 
    Id.
     As a general
    rule, a spouse should be awarded one-third to one-half of
    the marital estate, the polestar being fairness and reasonable-
    ness as determined by the facts of each case. Osantowski v.
    Osantowski, 
    supra.
    (a) Home Valuation
    With respect to the parties’ property division, Donald
    first argues that the district court erred in accepting Brandi’s
    $150,000 valuation of the marital home over his proposed
    $185,000 valuation. Brandi argues that the district court did not
    err in accepting her certified appraiser’s valuation of the home
    after observing his testimony. We find no abuse of discretion
    by the district court and, thus, affirm its valuation of the par-
    ties’ marital home.
    The appraiser testified that the parties’ home was worth
    $150,000 based on his physical inspection. He acknowl-
    edged that his valuation was lower than the county assessor’s
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    valuation and explained that county assessors do not make
    physical inspections of individual homes. The appraiser also
    testified that the assessor’s valuations are usually not 100 per-
    cent of a home’s value but are within 3 to 5 percent of the full
    value. Brandi testified that the home’s roof was in “horrible
    shape” and described issues with the windows and chimney
    as well, all of which were also observed by her appraiser.
    Meanwhile, Donald based his opinion on the county assessor’s
    valuation of the home at $171,449, coupled with his belief that
    the assessor’s valuation was only 92 percent of the home’s
    actual value. Based on that assumption, Donald valued the
    home at $185,000. Donald also noted that the home had been
    appraised at $160,000 in 2012.
    While we recognize that the district court accepted the
    home’s lowest valuation, we cannot find that its decision was
    an abuse of discretion. The district court benefited from observ-
    ing testimony from Donald, Brandi, and Brandi’s appraiser
    and then determined that the valuation offered by Brandi’s
    appraiser was the most accurate, particularly given the testi-
    mony regarding the home’s condition. We give weight to the
    district court’s observations and acceptance of the $150,000
    valuation and, thus, affirm the property division with respect
    to the valuation of the marital home.
    (b) IRA Depletion
    In dividing the parties’ property, the district court allocated
    an “IRA Loan” valued at $20,000 to Donald, finding that the
    loan had been used to pay Donald’s gambling debts and that
    its repayment ultimately deprived the marital estate of that
    value. Donald’s arguments on appeal are twofold. First, he
    argues his gambling expenses were not incurred when the
    end of the marriage was inevitable and, thus, did not consti-
    tute dissipation of marital assets. Second, he argues that the
    evidence does not show that his gambling losses amounted
    to $20,000. Brandi argues in reply that Donald’s gambling
    expenses were not incurred for the benefit of the marriage and
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    that they totaled at least $20,000. We conclude that the dis-
    trict court erred in its property division regarding retirement
    withdrawals.
    [12,13] We begin by reiterating the general rules that all
    property accumulated and acquired by either party during the
    marriage is part of the marital estate, unless it falls within an
    exception to the general rule, and that the burden of proof
    to show that property is nonmarital remains with the per-
    son making the claim. Westwood v. Darnell, 
    299 Neb. 612
    ,
    
    909 N.W.2d 645
     (2018). “Dissipation of marital assets” is
    defined as one spouse’s use of marital property for a selfish
    purpose unrelated to the marriage at the time when the mar-
    riage is undergoing an irretrievable breakdown. Reed v. Reed,
    
    277 Neb. 391
    , 
    763 N.W.2d 686
     (2009). As a remedy, marital
    assets dissipated by a spouse for purposes unrelated to the
    marriage should be included in the marital estate in dissolu-
    tion actions. 
    Id.
     The court held in Reed v. Reed that disputed
    bank transfers took place when the marriage was undergo-
    ing an irretrievable breakdown, because the transfers were
    made “specifically because [the husband] intended to file
    for divorce.” 
    277 Neb. at 402
    , 763 N.W.2d at 695 (emphasis
    in original).
    However, in the present case, there was little evidence that
    Donald’s gambling occurred while the marriage was undergo-
    ing an irretrievable breakdown. Although Donald’s gambling
    may have been an issue throughout the marriage, the parties
    did not separate until 2016, following Donald’s affair. Donald
    testified that a $20,000 loan from his IRA account occurred in
    2008 or 2009, 7 or 8 years before the marriage’s breakdown.
    While Donald acknowledged that some of the loan may have
    been used to pay gambling losses, the evidence indicates that
    the majority of the proceeds were used for other legitimate
    purposes. The district court assumed that the $20,000 loan
    was used to pay Donald’s gambling debts and thus assigned
    it as an asset belonging to him. However, there is little spe-
    cific evidence that establishes Donald’s total gambling debts
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    during the entirety of the marriage to be $20,000. Even if we
    were to accept the district court’s finding as correct, there is
    no evidence that the loan or its repayment occurred during a
    time period in which the marriage was undergoing an irre-
    trievable breakdown.
    During questioning from the court, Donald acknowledged
    that he spent $570 on gambling in February 2017 and $1,762
    in April 2017. He also acknowledged that he spent “a few
    thousand dollars” on gambling in 2014. Similarly, Brandi testi-
    fied that $2,000 from a withdrawal in 2014 was unaccounted
    for, which she believed indicated Donald spent the sum on
    gambling. Therefore, taken together, the record reflects that
    Donald may have expended approximately $4,300 on gam-
    bling. While it may be true that Donald gambled throughout
    the parties’ marriage, leading, in part, to its eventual demise,
    our record does not reflect that Donald dissipated $20,000 of
    marital property when the marriage was undergoing an irre-
    trievable breakdown. As such, we find that the district court
    erred in classifying the $20,000 IRA loan as an asset belonging
    to Donald.
    (c) Student Loan Payments
    In dividing the marital estate, the district court held that
    Brandi’s inheritance and the use of marital funds to repay
    Brandi’s student loan debt “cancel each other” and therefore
    did not include either in the property division. Donald argues
    on appeal that the district court erred in not accounting for
    Brandi’s premarital student loan debt that was repaid, in part,
    with marital funds during the marriage. Brandi argues that the
    marriage benefited from the debt incurred, because the debt
    enabled her to obtain a teaching license and employment as
    a teacher from 1999 through 2006. She also argues that the
    amount of loan repayments was not sufficiently proved and
    that the gifts and inheritance that she received during the mar-
    riage offset the debt repayments, as the district court found.
    Although our reasoning varies from that of the district court,
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    we find no abuse of discretion in its ultimate conclusion and,
    thus, affirm.
    [14,15] In dividing marital property, the first step is to clas-
    sify the parties’ property as marital or nonmarital, setting aside
    the nonmarital property to the party who brought that property
    to the marriage. Despain v. Despain, 
    290 Neb. 32
    , 
    858 N.W.2d 566
     (2015). Debts, like property, ought to also be considered
    in dividing marital property upon dissolution. See Black v.
    Black, 
    221 Neb. 533
    , 
    378 N.W.2d 849
     (1985). When one
    party’s nonmarital debt is repaid with marital funds, the value
    of the debt repayments ought to reduce that party’s property
    award upon dissolution. See Gangwish v. Gangwish, 
    267 Neb. 901
    , 
    678 N.W.2d 503
     (2004).
    In Wiech v. Wiech, 
    23 Neb. App. 370
    , 
    871 N.W.2d 570
    (2015), the trial court’s property division upon dissolution
    did not account for either spouse’s premarital debts that were
    reduced during the course of the marriage using the par-
    ties’ wages. The wife had a premarital bankruptcy debt that
    totaled $56,400, while the husband had an unspecified debt of
    $3,549.95, which he brought to the marriage. On appeal, the
    wife contended that she paid her debt using only her wages
    and that the debt was therefore paid without marital funds. We
    reiterated the general principle that any income accumulated
    during a marriage is a marital asset. See Harris v. Harris, 
    261 Neb. 75
    , 
    621 N.W.2d 491
     (2001). Because the trial court did
    not account for the parties’ premarital debts that were paid
    with marital funds, we remanded the matter with instructions
    to offset the wife’s portion of the marital estate by $56,400
    and to offset the husband’s portion of the marital estate by
    $3,549.95. Wiech v. Wiech, supra.
    Brandi acknowledges that she brought student loan debt to
    the marriage. This student loan debt enabled Brandi to work
    as a schoolteacher, both from 1999 to 2006 at the beginning
    of the parties’ marriage and again upon the parties’ separation.
    Any repayments made after the parties’ marriage and prior to
    separation were made with marital funds. The value of those
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    repayments should therefore reduce Brandi’s share of the
    property division. See Gangwish v. Gangwish, 
    supra.
     We note,
    however, that the value of Brandi’s premarital debt that was
    repaid using marital funds was not established during trial.
    The burden of proving the amount of the reduction of Brandi’s
    nonmarital debt during the marriage was on Donald.
    Donald opined that $33,000 of Brandi’s premarital debt
    was repaid during the marriage, based on multiplying what
    he believed the monthly payment to be, $294, by 120 months,
    notwithstanding the fact that the parties’ marriage lasted for
    longer than 120 months. In her brief on appeal, Brandi accu-
    rately points out there was no evidence that the monthly
    payment was consistent throughout the loan’s life, that pay-
    ments were made every month, or that the loan was never in
    deferment. A monthly student loan statement dated October
    30, 2017, reveals that a total of $35,643 had been paid in
    interest and $9,494 had been paid toward the principal of the
    consolidated loan since its inception in 1990. As of October
    30, the remaining balance on the loan was $24,105. However,
    the evidence at trial did not show what portion had been paid
    during the course of the marriage. Donald did not introduce
    any documentation that demonstrated what payments were
    made during the 9 years the loan existed prior to the marriage
    or what payments were made during the marriage. We find
    the evidence adduced by Donald to be insufficient to prove
    his claim.
    The facts of this case are analogous to cases in which a
    party has attempted to claim a nonmarital asset, but could not
    do so since they were unable to definitively establish the value
    of that asset. In Brozek v. Brozek, 
    292 Neb. 681
    , 
    874 N.W.2d 17
     (2016), the trial court found that crops in storage and the
    balance of the husband’s bank accounts that held the proceeds
    of past crop sales as of the date of marriage should not be
    awarded to him as nonmarital property. The Nebraska Supreme
    Court affirmed the trial court judgment, finding that the hus-
    band had not definitively identified the values of his premarital
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    assets. As a result, since one cannot trace an unknown value
    of assets, the court found it to be unreasonable to set off a
    value of assets that is not proved. See, also, Osantowski v.
    Osantowski, 
    298 Neb. 339
    , 
    904 N.W.2d 251
     (2017).
    In Onstot v. Onstot, 
    298 Neb. 897
    , 
    906 N.W.2d 300
     (2018),
    the husband testified that he purchased the family home 9
    years prior to the marriage. He testified to the purchase price
    and what he believed to be the amount of the original mort-
    gage. He then testified to what he believed to be the value of
    the home on the date of marriage but provided no evidence
    regarding the balance of the mortgage at that time. No docu-
    mentation was provided to confirm his testimony regarding
    the date of purchase, the purchase price, the amount of the
    mortgage, or the value of the house at the time of the marriage.
    The Supreme Court found that the equity in the residence at
    the time of the parties’ marriage would be a nonmarital asset,
    which, if established, should be set aside to the husband.
    However, given the lack of documentation that any equity
    existed at the time of the parties’ marriage, the Supreme Court
    found that the husband failed to meet his burden of proving
    that the property was a nonmarital asset.
    Most recently, in Burgardt v. Burgardt, 
    27 Neb. App. 57
    ,
    
    926 N.W.2d 452
     (2019), the evidence demonstrated that the
    husband possessed a 401K at the time the parties were mar-
    ried. While the husband testified that the 401K was worth
    $130,000 at the time the parties were married, he provided no
    documentation to support his claim. The testimonial evidence
    raised further questions as to the accuracy of the husband’s
    valuation. Since an initial value could not be determined, it
    was impossible to determine what, if any, of the 401K was
    traceable to the time of the divorce. We concluded that since
    the husband had not proved the initial value of his claimed
    asset, he had failed to meet his burden of proving that a non-
    marital asset still existed.
    Here, while we can ascertain that Brandi’s student loan
    is nonmarital, the record before us provides us no way of
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    knowing how much of the principal and interest paid on the
    loan was paid during the marriage. Therefore, it is impossible
    to set off any specific value to Brandi based on marital funds
    that were used to pay off her student loan debt. We note that
    Donald’s testimony does not match the length of the marriage
    or the amount of the payment noted on the October 30, 2017,
    statement. Since we have no evidence which discloses the
    amount of money paid on the student loan during the mar-
    riage, we must find that Donald has failed to meet his burden
    of proof. As such, though for a different reason than stated by
    the district court, we find that no amount of payments made
    on the student loan can be attributed to Brandi as a mari-
    tal asset.
    (d) Equalization Payment
    Donald assigns that the district court erred in not ordering
    Brandi to make an equalization payment based on his con-
    tentions addressed above and on the disparate shares of the
    marital estate that were awarded. We, like Donald, acknowl-
    edge that the district court’s division of the marital estate does
    narrowly fall within the general rule that a spouse be awarded
    one-third to one-half of the parties’ assets, because the court
    awarded approximately 361⁄2 percent of the marital estate to
    Donald. Our finding above that the district court should not
    have attributed the $20,000 loan from Donald’s retirement
    account as an asset to Donald requires us to first recalculate
    the value of the marital estate and then determine what, if any,
    equalization payment is required to be paid by Brandi.
    In the decree, Brandi was awarded net assets of $64,936.67.
    Donald was awarded net assets of $37,402.57, which, due to
    our finding above, is reduced to $17,402.57 if no equalization
    payment is made. Without equalization, Donald’s portion of
    the net marital estate would only constitute approximately 21
    percent of the total. We find that amount to be untenable and
    in need of adjustment. However, we also find that the district
    court’s decision to award Brandi the majority of the marital
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    estate is supported by the evidence. The major portion of the
    marital estate granted to Brandi is the marital home, a find-
    ing not contested by Donald. Brandi has few liquid assets
    from which she can pay an equalization payment, particularly
    given Donald’s history of being in arrears on his payment of
    alimony, child support, and other expenses for the children he
    was obligated to pay under the temporary order. Brandi will
    continue to need the marital home for the children’s benefit.
    Thus, we modify the district court’s order and direct Brandi
    to make an equalization payment in the amount of $10,000 in
    order to bring Donald’s share of the marital estate back up to
    an approximately 33-percent share, thus conforming with the
    general rule that a spouse should be awarded one-third to one-
    half of the marital estate.
    2. Child Support Obligation
    Donald argues on appeal that the district court erred in
    calculating his child support obligation based on his earn-
    ing capacity instead of his actual income at the time of trial.
    Brandi argues in reply that imputing a higher income to
    Donald was appropriate because he voluntarily left more lucra-
    tive employment, during which his average annual salary over
    the past 5 years exceeded $100,000. We agree with the district
    court and find that imputing a higher income to Donald based
    on his earning capacity was not an abuse of discretion and,
    thus, affirm.
    [16] The Nebraska Child Support Guidelines state that
    “[i]f applicable, earning capacity may be considered in lieu
    of a parent’s actual, present income and may include factors
    such as work history, education, occupational skills, and job
    opportunities.” Neb. Ct. R. § 4-204 (rev. 2016). Use of earning
    capacity to calculate child support is useful “‘“when it appears
    that the parent is capable of earning more income than is pres-
    ently being earned.”’” Johnson v. Johnson, 
    290 Neb. 838
    ,
    848, 
    862 N.W.2d 740
    , 749 (2015). Generally, earning capacity
    should be used to determine a child support obligation only
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    when there is evidence that the parent can realize that capacity
    through reasonable efforts. 
    Id.
    In the present case, Donald’s work history shows that he
    worked a number of jobs in which he earned more than $100,000
    per year. In 2013, when Donald left Credit Management, he
    was earning $112,000 per year. Donald earned a base salary
    of $70,000 plus commission in 2015 when he worked for Axis
    Capital, and records showed the couple’s income from wages
    was $132,200 that year, the vast majority of which came from
    Donald. When he disclosed an affair with a colleague in 2016,
    his salary was reduced by $2,000 per month. Nevertheless,
    when Donald voluntarily left Axis Capital, he had earned
    $98,000 from January through July 2016. Thereafter, Donald
    worked for a construction company, which paid a base salary
    of $81,000 per year plus commission, and then he worked for
    Providence Capital, which paid a base salary of $6,000 per
    month plus commission. At the time of trial, however, Donald
    was employed by Hamilton Telecommunications, which paid a
    base salary of $55,000 per year plus commission. He obtained
    that job after a brief return to Credit Management, which paid
    him $50,000 per year plus commission, and a brief stint of
    self-employment, during which he earned $4,400.
    Donald indicated that he left more lucrative employment
    because he tired of traveling and being away from his children.
    The evidence does not show the extent of Donald’s efforts to
    obtain more lucrative employment. However, the evidence
    shows that when Donald maintains a job for more than a year,
    his income increases substantially by virtue of increased com-
    missions. Much like his past work, Donald’s employment with
    Hamilton Telecommunications at the time of trial was pro-
    jected to become significantly more lucrative during each sub-
    sequent year of employment if he met his sales goals. Based
    on the historical data contained in the offer letter, Donald has
    the potential to again have an income exceeding $100,000
    per year by his fourth year of employment if he performs
    according to expectations. We agree with the district court
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    that Donald’s financial position diminished due to his own
    conduct and decisions to leave more lucrative employment.
    Given Donald’s track record in past sales positions, the self-
    inflicted nature of his losses of income, and his demonstrated
    potential to increase his income in his current position, we
    find no reason to believe that Donald’s earning capacity has
    diminished. We further find that reducing child support would
    seriously impair the needs of his three children. Accordingly,
    we find that the district court did not abuse its discretion in
    relying on Donald’s earning capacity in calculating his child
    support obligation.
    3. Spousal Support Obligation
    Donald argues on appeal that the district court erred in order-
    ing him to pay alimony to Brandi, because they earned similar
    salaries at the time of trial, he had paid temporary spousal sup-
    port while the dissolution was pending, and his child support
    obligation was based on a greater-than-realized income. Brandi
    argued in reply that alimony was warranted because she had
    lost out on annual salary increases for the 10 years between
    S.A.’s birth and their separation that the parties had agreed
    she would not teach. On cross-appeal, Brandi assigns that the
    court erred in not ordering Donald to pay her alimony for more
    than 24 months. We find that the district court did not abuse its
    discretion in ordering Donald to pay Brandi alimony of $500
    for 24 months.
    [17,18] “The purpose of alimony is to provide for the con-
    tinued maintenance or support of one party by the other when
    the relative economic circumstances and the other criteria
    enumerated in this section make it appropriate.” § 42-365. In
    dividing property and considering alimony upon a dissolution
    of marriage, a court should consider four factors: (1) the cir-
    cumstances of the parties, (2) the duration of the marriage, (3)
    the history of contributions to the marriage, and (4) the ability
    of the supported party to engage in gainful employment with-
    out interfering with the interests of any minor children in the
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    custody of each party. Anderson v. Anderson, 
    290 Neb. 530
    ,
    
    861 N.W.2d 113
     (2015). In addition to the specific criteria
    listed in § 42-365, in dividing property and considering ali-
    mony upon a dissolution of marriage, a court should consider
    the income and earning capacity of each party and the general
    equities of the situation. Anderson v. Anderson, supra.
    [19,20] In reviewing an alimony award, an appellate court
    does not determine whether it would have awarded the same
    amount of alimony as did the trial court, but whether the
    trial court’s award is untenable such as to deprive a party of
    a substantial right or just result. The ultimate criterion is one
    of reasonableness. Wiedel v. Wiedel, 
    300 Neb. 13
    , 
    911 N.W.2d 582
     (2018). An appellate court is not inclined to disturb the
    trial court’s award of alimony unless it is patently unfair on the
    record. 
    Id.
    Here, the district court awarded Brandi alimony of $500 per
    month for 24 months, effective August 1, 2018, after entry of
    the decree of dissolution. We do not find the amount awarded
    to be excessive, as assigned by Donald, nor do we find it to be
    insufficient, as assigned by Brandi. At the time of trial, Brandi
    had secured employment as a teacher earning $56,474.50 per
    year. We recognize that through the parties’ joint decision to
    have Brandi care for the children full time after they were
    born, she did lose the benefit of annual step salary increases
    that she would have received had she remained employed as a
    teacher. However, we also note that by the time the decree was
    entered, Brandi had already been awarded alimony at the rate
    of $1,100 per month for 22 months. Based on the duration of
    the marriage, Brandi’s employment, and other economic con-
    siderations, we find no abuse of discretion by the district court.
    The award of $500 per month for an additional 24 months
    properly balances the countervailing interests of the parties.
    4. Parenting Time
    On cross-appeal, Brandi assigns that the district court erred
    in finding that it was in the children’s best interests to have
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    individual visitations with Donald. She specifically argues
    that one-on-one visitations with Donald were inappropriate for
    S.A. because of his Asperger’s. We find that the district court
    did not abuse its discretion in allowing Donald to have indi-
    vidual parenting time with each of the children.
    [21-24] The trial court has discretion to set a reasonable
    parenting time schedule. Schmeidler v. Schmeidler, 
    25 Neb. App. 802
    , 
    912 N.W.2d 278
     (2018). A reasonable visitation
    schedule is one that provides a satisfactory basis for preserv-
    ing and fostering a child’s relationship with the noncustodial
    parent, and the determination of reasonableness is to be
    made on a case-by-case basis. State ex rel. Pathammavong
    v. Pathammavong, 
    268 Neb. 1
    , 
    679 N.W.2d 749
     (2004).
    Parenting time relates to continuing and fostering the normal
    parental relationship of the noncustodial parent. Thompson
    v. Thompson, 
    24 Neb. App. 349
    , 
    887 N.W.2d 52
     (2016).
    The best interests of the children are the primary and para-
    mount considerations in determining and modifying visitation
    rights. 
    Id.
    In the present case, Brandi argues that Donald’s individual
    parenting time with S.A. is detrimental because it exacerbates
    symptoms of S.A.’s Asperger’s. During trial, Brandi presented
    evidence that one-on-one visitations with Donald oftentimes
    preceded S.A.’s outbursts. She also offered testimony from a
    counselor, who treated S.A. and opined that individual visi-
    tations were not in S.A.’s best interests. Donald argued that
    individual parenting time was important because S.A. required
    more attention than the other children, thus shortchanging the
    other children of his attention during visitations with all the
    children. We note that Brandi did not contend that individual
    visitations for the two younger children with Donald had been
    or would be detrimental to the children, nor was there any evi-
    dence to support such a contention.
    Under our standard of review, we do not supplant the trial
    court’s determinations with our own. We are mindful that the
    district court had the benefit of observing the counselor testify
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    in the present case before determining that her testimony was
    “unpersuasive.” The decree, which allows Donald to have
    individual parenting time with each child, is reasonable and
    preserves the children’s relationships with Donald. We further
    note that there was no evidence presented that S.A.’s one-on-
    one visits with Donald resulted in misbehavior or diminished
    performance at school. Much of the counselor’s information
    regarding repercussions of the visits at home appears to be
    based on the report of Brandi. Therefore, we must give defer-
    ence to the finding of the district court which gave little weight
    to the counselor’s testimony. We find no abuse of discretion by
    the district court in ordering Donald to have individual parent-
    ing time with each child and, thus, affirm the court’s determi-
    nations regarding parenting time.
    5. Attorney Fees
    On cross-appeal, Brandi assigns that the district court erred
    in denying her request for an award of attorney fees but goes
    on to argue that the court erred only if the division of the mari-
    tal estate is modified pursuant to Donald’s appeal.
    [25-28] Attorney fees and expenses may be recovered only
    where provided for by statute or when a recognized and
    accepted uniform course of procedure has been to allow recov-
    ery of attorney fees. Moore v. Moore, 
    302 Neb. 588
    , 
    924 N.W.2d 314
     (2019). A uniform course of procedure exists in
    Nebraska for the award of attorney fees in dissolution cases.
    
    Id.
     Additionally, attorney fees and costs are often awarded to
    prevailing parties in dissolution cases as a matter of custom.
    See 
    id.
     See, e.g., Garza v. Garza, 
    288 Neb. 213
    , 
    846 N.W.2d 626
     (2014). In awarding attorney fees in a dissolution action, a
    court shall consider the nature of the case, the amount involved
    in the controversy, the services actually performed, the results
    obtained, the length of time required for preparation and pre-
    sentation of the case, the novelty and difficulty of the ques-
    tions raised, and the customary charges of the bar for similar
    services. 
    Id.
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    [29] Where a party seeks to recover attorney fees, the best
    practice will always be to provide an affidavit or other evi-
    dence such as testimony or exhibits. 
    Id.
     The filing of an affi-
    davit is not absolutely required, however. 
    Id.
     Litigants who do
    not file such an affidavit or present other evidence risk the loss
    of attorney fees because of the difficulty of discerning such
    information from the record alone. 
    Id.
    The district court declined to award attorney fees to either
    party in the present case, noting that an award in favor of
    Brandi would be inappropriate “given the current relative
    financial situation of the parties.” We conclude that the district
    court did not err in not awarding attorney fees. Accordingly,
    we affirm the denial of an award of attorney fees to Brandi.
    VI. CONCLUSION
    Based on the foregoing, we affirm the district court’s prop-
    erty division with respect to its valuation of the marital home.
    We further find that Donald failed to prove the amount of
    money paid from marital funds on Brandi’s premarital student
    loan so as to attribute the amount of any payments made to
    Brandi as a marital asset. We also affirm the decree with respect
    to its calculation of Donald’s child support and spousal support
    obligations, parenting time, and attorney fees. However, we
    find the district court erred in its property division with respect
    to attributing the 2008 loan taken against Donald’s retirement
    account as an asset to Donald and therefore order Brandi to
    pay $10,000 to Donald in order to bring the division of the
    marital estate to a two-thirds to one-third split.
    A ffirmed as modified.