Herbolsheimer v. Koenig ( 2014 )


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  •                          IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS
    MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL
    HERBOLSHEIMER V. KOENIG
    NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION
    AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).
    EDITH M. HERBOLSHEIMER, APPELLANT,
    V.
    CHAD R. KOENIG, APPELLEE.
    Filed April 22, 2014.   No. A-13-536.
    Appeal from the District Court for Dodge County: GEOFFREY C. HALL, Judge. Affirmed
    in part, and in part reversed and remanded for further proceedings.
    Chinazo Christopher Odigbo for appellant.
    Timothy M. Schulz, of Yost, Schafersman, Lamme, Hillis, Mitchell, Schulz & Hartmann,
    P.C., L.L.O., for appellee.
    INBODY, Chief Judge, and MOORE and PIRTLE, Judges.
    PIRTLE, Judge.
    INTRODUCTION
    Edith M. Herbolsheimer (Edith) appeals from an order of the district court for Dodge
    County which granted the application for modification of child custody filed by Chad R. Koenig
    (Chad). Edith challenges the change in custody and the court’s determination of her child support
    obligation. We determine that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in finding a material
    change in circumstances and that the modification was in the best interests of the children. We
    further determine that the trial court did not have sufficient evidence of the parties’ incomes to
    calculate child support, and we reverse, and remand the child support matter to the trial court for
    further proceedings. Accordingly, the order of the district court is affirmed in part and in part
    reversed, and the cause is remanded for further proceedings.
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    BACKGROUND
    Edith and Chad are the parents of two sons: one born in August 2001 and the other born
    in September 2004. The parties were never married but cohabitated from 2000 to 2008 before
    separating. On January 29, 2009, a stipulated order was entered granting Edith physical custody
    of the children, subject to Chad’s parenting time, and granting both parties legal custody.
    On July 13, 2009, Chad filed an application for modification of custody alleging that a
    material change in circumstances existed warranting a change in custody. Over the next 3 years,
    Edith filed or caused to be filed a myriad of motions, contempt applications, protection orders,
    and reports to Child Protective Services (CPS). The trial court finally entered its order modifying
    custody on May 23, 2013.
    The following sets forth the numerous court hearings and CPS intake reports that
    occurred between Chad’s application for modification and the court’s final order.
    In May 2010, Edith obtained a protection order against Chad. Chad testified it was based
    on allegations that he was harassing and threatening her. Edith testified that she sought the
    protection order against Chad after he was charged on May 8 with third degree assault on
    JoAnna Lierman (JoAnna), his wife at the time.
    On June 24, 2010, the court held Edith in contempt of court for refusing to allow Chad
    visitation in violation of the stipulated order. Her refusal to allow visitation was based on the
    assault charge against Chad. The court found that the fact Chad was arrested and charged with
    assault raised suspicion, but based on the evidence presented at the hearing, did not rise to the
    level of proof necessary to establish that the children’s physical or psychological well-being was
    in jeopardy.
    On October 1, 2010, the court terminated the supervised visitation limitation that had
    been placed on Chad’s visitation as a result of a motion filed by Edith.
    On April 12, 2011, following a hearing on another motion to cease/modify Chad’s
    visitation filed by Edith, the court entered an order restoring Chad’s visitation rights in their
    entirety. The court also appointed a guardian ad litem (GAL), Christina Boydston, at this time to
    represent the children and their best interests.
    The trial on Chad’s application for modification of custody initially took place on several
    dates between October 5 and December 1, 2011. The trial was continued, and the next trial dates
    were July 18, 2012, and February 14, 2013.
    During the initial trial dates between October 5 and December 1, 2011, Boydston testified
    that since being appointed, she had interviewed many people who knew the parties and had
    reviewed a multitude of documents dating back to the original stipulated order. Based on her
    research, she had several concerns about Edith.
    She testified that she was concerned about Edith’s instability in housing. Edith had
    moved at least six times since 2008 and had discussed moving to Florida on two occasions.
    Boydston testified that she was concerned that Edith might move to Florida with the children
    without court approval.
    Boydston testified that she was also concerned about the way Edith talked about the
    custody matter constantly with the children and with everyone else, and talked negatively about
    Chad in front of the children. Edith indicated to Boydston that the custody matter is a “full-time
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    job” for her. Boydston described the discussions between Edith and the children as a constant
    barrage of criticism and manipulation that is not in their best interests.
    Boydston also expressed concern about the multiple therapists Edith had taken the
    children to see. She testified that it is hard for the children to establish a relationship with a
    therapist if the therapist keeps changing. She also testified that when she spoke with the
    therapists, it was hard to get objective information because there was very little collateral
    information outside of information Edith had provided. The therapists had neither spoken to
    Chad nor observed him with the children.
    Boydston also testified that Edith has repeatedly failed to comply with orders of the court
    and did not believe that was going to change. She testified that Edith does not believe rules apply
    to her.
    Boydston testified about the first time she met with the children at Edith’s home. She
    testified that the older son was very upset and did not want to talk to her, but that the younger
    son was very personable and easy to talk to. While Boydston was talking to the younger son,
    Edith interrupted and told him to tell Boydston what he wanted to tell the judge. Boydston
    testified that he responded very mechanically, “my daddy strangled JoAnna.” She testified that
    his response seemed very rehearsed.
    Boydston testified that a short time later, she met with the children individually at their
    school and the older son’s demeanor was completely different than it was at Edith’s home. She
    testified that he was happy and willing to talk to her. He said nothing negative about either parent
    and had no concerns about Chad, indicating that he loved his father and liked spending time with
    him. Boydston also testified that she talked to the younger son and that he also had no concerns
    about Chad.
    Boydston also went to Chad’s home and visited with him while the children were present.
    She indicated no concerns with Chad as a result of that visit.
    Boydston testified that Edith had indicated that Chad was physically abusive to her
    during their relationship. She was also aware of allegations that Chad had assaulted the children.
    She testified that her investigation revealed inconsistencies in Edith’s claims of abuse by Chad.
    Boydston stated that in reviewing records, there was a great deal of story changing in reporting
    the allegations to different authorities so it was difficult to form an opinion as to what actually
    occurred. She also testified that her review of reports from doctors and CPS prepared during
    Edith and Chad’s relationship indicated there was no physical abuse in the relationship, just a lot
    of yelling. It was not until after the relationship between Edith and Chad ended that Edith began
    making reports to therapists and doctors that there was physical abuse.
    Chad testified that there is a difficult, hostile relationship between Edith and him. He
    testified that he was aware that Edith claims that he was abusive to her, and he denied that he
    was. He also testified that his ex-wife, JoAnna, claims he was abusive, which he denied. Chad
    gave his account of the incident that led to the third degree assault charge against him. He
    testified that he and JoAnna had been arguing and that they subsequently both went outside and
    were doing separate activities. The younger son was also outside at the time, and Chad believed
    that JoAnna was going to hit the younger son for something he had just done. Chad confronted
    JoAnna, and she swung a brick at him. He then called the police and “held her at bay” until the
    police arrived. Chad testified that when the police arrived, JoAnna reported that Chad threw her
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    on the ground. Chad testified that he was convicted of assault and that his sentence was a $500
    fine. Chad also denied any physical abuse to the children.
    JoAnna also testified about the incident that led to Chad’s conviction for assault, stating
    that Chad picked her up by the throat and threw her. She testified that this was not the only
    instance of assault by Chad. JoAnna testified that she is afraid of both Chad and Edith. She is
    afraid of Edith because Edith has reported her to CPS two or three times in regard to her own
    children.
    Despite her allegations of abuse against Chad, JoAnna testified that during the short time
    she was married to Chad, he was a good father to the children.
    Edith testified that Chad was physically abusive to her during their relationship and that
    he has been mentally and verbally abusive to her since the stipulated order was entered in
    January 2009. Despite the allegations Edith made against Chad, she testified that she still wanted
    him to have regular contact with the children and have a loving, caring relationship with them.
    In regard to her income at the time of trial, Edith testified that she was working for a
    medical center as a medical technician on an “as-needed basis,” earning $14.65 per hour. She
    testified that she has been working an average of 32 hours per week. She testified that she had
    also recently started a part-time job at a hospital, where she was working an average of 20 hours
    per week.
    On January 9, 2012, the trial court entered a temporary order in regard to Chad’s
    application for modification of custody. The court ordered that physical custody would continue
    with Edith, subject to certain visitation modifications until the final order of the court was
    entered. The court stated it was concerned about the mental well-being of the children based on
    “the ongoing, never-ending psychological warfare between the parties.” It further stated that
    “[t]he volatile, obsessive, irrational, self-serving, controlling, and manipulative conduct of
    [Edith] and the anger issues of [Chad] are of chief concern of the Court as it relates to [the
    children].”
    The court’s January 9, 2012, temporary order ordered Edith to undergo therapeutic
    counseling in an attempt to alleviate the “ongoing mental abuse/turmoil that [she] has forced
    upon her children.” The court ordered Chad to undergo anger management counseling to deal
    with his anger issues that occur when he is placed in stressful situations, particularly when he is
    involved in a domestic relationship. In addition, the court ordered Chad and his girlfriend, with
    whom he was living, to go to therapeutic counseling.
    On March 8, 2012, a hearing was held on a motion to cease/modify visitation filed by
    Edith. Edith filed the motion after she took the older son to a hospital emergency room following
    a visit with Chad because the older son was complaining of pain and told her that Chad threw
    him. Following the hearing, the court denied the motion, finding it frivolous, and ordered that
    Chad was to have visitation that same day.
    After the conclusion of another hearing in March 2012, Edith filed a police report against
    the guardian ad litem, Boydston, alleging that Boydston assaulted her in the hallway outside the
    courtroom by spitting on her. Edith’s allegation was determined to be unfounded, and no charges
    were filed against Boydston.
    On May 2, 2012, Edith filed a petition and affidavit to obtain a domestic abuse protection
    order against Chad, alleging abuse against the children. An ex parte protection order was issued
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    preventing him from having any contact with Edith or the children. Chad contested the order,
    and following a hearing, the protection order against Chad was dismissed.
    A continuation of the trial on Chad’s complaint to modify custody was held on July 18,
    2012. Jason Workman, a child and family services specialist with the Nebraska Department of
    Health and Human Services (Department), testified. He testified that he conducted an
    investigation concerning allegations of abuse by Chad against the children and generated a report
    based on his investigation. The report was received into evidence.
    Workman testified that CPS received intake reports of child abuse by Chad on February
    27 and March 1 and 7, 2012, and that he received an “emergency contact” from Edith on
    March 8.
    Workman indicated that this was an unusual case because there were a lot of allegations
    and a lot of variations in the allegations that were being presented to him. In regard to the three
    intake reports, they all involved the same incident--the older son’s complaining of ankle and
    shoulder pain after coming home from a visit with Chad, initially reporting that Chad picked him
    up and threw him. Edith took him to the emergency room to be examined on February 27, 2012,
    took him in for an x ray of his ankle on March 1, and asked the school nurse’s aide for an
    icepack on March 7.
    Workman concluded that based on collateral information he obtained from medical
    professionals and the fact that the older son gave different accounts about the incident to him and
    medical professionals, the allegations were unfounded.
    Workman further testified that Edith contacted him on March 8, 2012, after the hearing
    that was held that day in which the trial court ordered that Chad be given visitation that same
    day. Edith called Workman, informing him that the court had ordered a visit with Chad, but that
    the older son was scared to go. Workman testified that he eventually went to Edith’s home,
    where he spoke with both children. The older son told Workman that Chad had hit him and threw
    him in his bedroom, and the younger son alleged that Chad had hit him with a belt. Workman
    testified that the children’s behaviors and answers to his questions were “very unusual” and that
    it seemed the answers were coached or rehearsed. He testified that their statements were “very
    matter of fact, flat affect, not exhibiting any fear. There [were] no tears. There was no descriptive
    [sic] of, oh, my gosh, you can’t sent [sic] us back into that home. It was just very flat.”
    Workman testified that during a subsequent interview with the older son, he admitted to
    Workman that he had not been abused by Chad as he had alleged. The younger son also stated
    that Chad does not hit him with a belt. Both children also indicated that they felt safe with their
    father.
    Workman concluded in his report that the case should be closed because the allegations
    were unfounded. The report states that “it appears [Edith] is using every avenue [at] her disposal
    [sic] discredit [Chad].” Workman’s report concludes, in part:
    There is no evidence to support that there is abuse physically going on in the family home
    of the Koenig household. Also there are numerous inconsistent stories coming from
    [Edith] in terms of what she believes to be evidence of abuse or neglect. These are not
    consistent with collateral contacts that are involving professional, formal supports and
    informal being family and relatives. The children have changed their stories[.] [I]t
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    appears that [Edith] may have coached and rehearsed the story to the boys; the boys have
    changed or recant[ed] being comfortable with [Chad] and not being fearful.
    Workman also testified that Edith contacted his supervisor and requested that he be fired
    based on his investigation. Workman further testified that Edith accused him of following her.
    Workman explained that Edith made this allegation after he was shopping at a grocery store and
    saw Edith and the children in the store’s parking lot and in the store. The next day, Edith sent
    him an e-mail accusing him of following her in public. Workman testified that it was simply a
    coincidence that they were shopping at the same grocery store.
    Workman testified that he was aware of one other report of child abuse or neglect against
    Chad after his investigation ended, which was also determined to be unfounded.
    Boydston also testified, reporting on the parties’ compliance with the January 2012
    temporary order. As previously stated, the court had ordered Edith to attend therapeutic
    counseling with the children. Boydston testified that she spoke with the therapist and the children
    had been attending fairly consistently, but that the therapist had not yet incorporated Edith into
    the therapy sessions through no fault of Edith’s.
    The court’s January 2012 order had also ordered Chad to undergo anger management
    counseling and to engage in therapeutic counseling with his girlfriend. Boydston testified that
    Chad was participating in both types of counseling and that both were going well.
    Boydston testified that she was still concerned about Edith possibly moving to Florida
    because she and her fiance had sold the house they were living in and were living with the
    fiance’s parents. She also testified that her other concerns about Edith as stated in previous
    testimony remained the same. These concerns included the level of communication and
    discussion that Edith has with the children regarding the custody matter, and her history of
    failing to follow court orders and doing what she wants.
    Following the evidence presented on July 18, 2012, the trial court entered a temporary
    order on August 10, granting Chad physical and legal custody of the children. In its order, the
    court noted:
    The Court continues to be extremely concerned about the well-being of the two
    minor children due to the ongoing conduct of [Edith]. The evidence presented at the
    recent hearing further illustrates that [Edith] has continued to subject the children to
    manipulation, mental anguish and emotional trauma. This Court believes that the
    children’s acting-out conduct is most likely caused by the unstable, chaotic and
    narcissistically dramatic way [Edith] lives her life and the ongoing manner by which she
    subjects the children to behavior and conduct that this Court fears borders on mental and
    emotional abuse.
    The trial court also ordered Edith to pay temporary child support in the amount of $668
    per month.
    The final trial date on Chad’s application for modification of custody occurred on
    February 14, 2013. Workman testified that in October 2012, CPS received three intake reports of
    child abuse and/or neglect against Chad. All three reports related to Chad’s failing to provide the
    children with their medication. Workman testified that the Department determined that no
    investigation was warranted on any of the intakes and that it took no action.
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    Boydston testified as to how the children were doing in Chad’s temporary custody.
    Boydston testified that the younger son is doing well in school and seems happy. She testified
    that the older son is doing well behaviorally in school and is not exhibiting the odd behaviors
    that he was at his former school. Boydston reported that the older son does not want to study or
    do his homework, which is hurting his grades, but that the school was working with the parents
    and the therapist in finding a way to solve the problem. Boydston also testified that Chad was
    taking the children to therapy on a regular basis and that the therapy was going well.
    Edith testified that she called CPS on October 2, 2012, to report that Chad was not giving
    the children their asthma medication. She testified that she made the report after she had the
    children for visitation, their breathing became difficult, and she had to take them to the doctor.
    She testified that after the doctor visit, Chad contacted her by text message, telling her that she
    had no right to take the children to the doctor. Edith testified that the text message was in all
    capital letters, which she perceived as Chad yelling at her. She testified that because of the text
    message, she feared for her safety and called the police to be present at the exchange of the
    children.
    Edith also testified about her employment at the time. She testified that she had been
    working for a counseling service since October 2012. She testified that her hourly rate of pay
    there varies depending on what work she is doing. She testified that she works on an “as-needed”
    basis and is not scheduled for specific hours. Edith testified that in January 2013, she had also
    started working for an airline where she works 17.9 hours per week, earning $10.85 per hour.
    At the end of trial on February 14, 2013, the court asked both parties to submit W-2’s for
    2012 and pay stubs for 2013 by March 8. There is nothing in the record to indicate the parties
    did so.
    The trial court subsequently entered an order granting Chad’s application for
    modification of custody, finding that there was a material change in circumstances regarding the
    ongoing safety, welfare, and best interests of the children. The court stated:
    [The court] continues to be very concerned about the conduct of [Edith] as it relates to the
    minor children. The instability and emotional trauma brought by her into the family
    dynamic continues to exist. . . . [T]he Court finds it is extremely clear that the most stable
    and best environment for the minor children is with [Chad].
    The trial court also ordered Edith to pay $643 per month in child support.
    ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
    Edith assigns that the trial court erred in (1) finding that a material change in
    circumstances existed to warrant a modification in custody, (2) finding that it is in the best
    interests of the children to be placed in Chad’s custody, (3) awarding Chad custody despite his
    conviction for domestic violence, and (4) ordering her to pay an unreasonable amount of child
    support.
    Chad also sets forth assignments of error in his brief; however, we do not reach them
    because he did not file a brief for cross-appeal in accordance with the requirements of Neb. Ct.
    R. App. P. § 2-109(D) (rev. 2012). A party filing a cross-appeal must set forth a separate division
    of the brief prepared in the same manner and under the same rules as the brief of appellant. Vokel
    v. Nebraska Acct. & Disclosure Comm., 
    276 Neb. 988
    , 
    759 N.W.2d 75
    (2009). Thus, the
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    cross-appeal section must set forth a separate title page, a table of contents, a statement of the
    case, assigned errors, propositions of law, and a statement of facts. 
    Id. Chad’s brief
    does not
    include these requirements for a cross-appeal. Also, the cross-appeal was not noted on the cover
    of the brief, as is required by § 2-109(D)(4). Therefore, we do not consider the merits of the
    purported cross-appeal.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    Child custody determinations are matters initially entrusted to the discretion of the trial
    court, and although reviewed de novo on the record, the trial court’s determination will normally
    be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion. Watkins v. Watkins, 
    285 Neb. 693
    , 
    829 N.W.2d 643
    (2013). An abuse of discretion occurs when a trial court bases its decision upon reasons that are
    untenable or unreasonable or if its action is clearly against justice or conscience, reason, and
    evidence. 
    Id. Ordinarily, custody
    of a minor child will not be modified unless there has been a material
    change in circumstances showing that the custodial parent is unfit or that the best interests of the
    child require such action. 
    Id. On appeal
    of a trial court order determining child custody, when the evidence is in
    conflict, the appellate court considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial court heard
    and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts rather than another. Citta v.
    Facka, 
    19 Neb. Ct. App. 736
    , 
    812 N.W.2d 917
    (2012).
    An appellate court reviews child support cases de novo on the record and will affirm the
    trial court’s decision in the absence of an abuse of discretion. Hill v. Hill, 
    20 Neb. Ct. App. 528
    , 
    827 N.W.2d 304
    (2013).
    ANALYSIS
    Modification of Child Custody.
    Edith argues that the trial court erred in finding that a material change in circumstances
    existed to warrant a modification in custody and in finding that it was in the best interests of the
    children to be placed in Chad’s custody.
    Ordinarily, custody of a minor child will not be modified unless there has been a material
    change in circumstances showing that the custodial parent is unfit or that the best interests of the
    child require such action. Heistand v. Heistand, 
    267 Neb. 300
    , 
    673 N.W.2d 541
    (2004). The
    party seeking modification of child custody bears the burden of showing a change in
    circumstances. Adams v. Adams, 
    13 Neb. Ct. App. 276
    , 
    691 N.W.2d 541
    (2005). A material change
    in circumstances means the occurrence of something which, had it been known to the dissolution
    court at the time of the initial decree, would have persuaded the court to decree differently.
    Heistand v. 
    Heistand, supra
    .
    Prior to modification of a child custody order, two steps of proof must be taken by the
    party seeking modification. Adams v. 
    Adams, supra
    . First, the party seeking modification must
    show a material change in circumstances, occurring after the entry of the previous custody order
    and affecting the best interests of the children. 
    Id. Next, the
    party seeking modification must
    prove that changing the custody is in the children’s best interests. 
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    conclude that Chad has met his burden to prove that a material change in
    circumstances has occurred since the entry of the stipulated order in January 2009. Since the
    entry of that order, Edith has engaged in a widespread and extensive effort to tarnish Chad’s
    character in an effort to maintain custody of the children.
    She has made or has caused to be made numerous reports to CPS alleging child abuse or
    neglect by Chad. All of the reports to CPS were determined to be unfounded or were not even
    investigated.
    Workman performed a thorough investigation of the entire family based on reports to
    CPS and an “emergency contact” by Edith in February and March 2012, and he concluded that
    there was no merit to the allegations. His report also outlined the manipulative and irrational
    behavior by Edith in attempting to maintain custody and discredit Chad as a father. When she did
    not like the results of Workman’s investigation, she contacted his supervisor and requested that
    he be fired. She also accused Workman of following her in public.
    Workman also testified about other intake reports to CPS in October 2012, all relating to
    Chad failing to provide the children with their medication. The Department determined that no
    investigation was necessary and took no action in regard to the intake reports.
    In addition to the reports to CPS, Edith was held in contempt of court for refusing to
    allow Chad visitation, she has filed motions to cease or limit Chad’s visitation, and she has filed
    two protection orders against Chad, one of which was in place for a year and the other was
    dismissed following a hearing.
    Boydston expressed several concerns about Edith, namely her instability in housing, the
    multiple therapists she took the children to, her failure to comply with court orders, and the level
    of communication and discussion that she has with the children about the custody matter.
    Boydston and Workman also both testified that the children’s answers to certain questions about
    Chad seemed coached or rehearsed. Boydston further testified that Edith filed a police report
    against her, claiming that Boydston had assaulted her after a court hearing. The report was
    determined to be unfounded.
    As a result of Edith’s continual attempts to damage Chad’s character, she has interfered
    with his relationship with the children and subjected the children to emotional trauma and
    manipulation.
    In regard to Chad, there was evidence that he has anger issues, particularly in regard to
    domestic relationships, and has a conviction for third degree assault. However, he had no prior
    convictions and no convictions after the conviction in 2010. Also, in January 2012, the court
    ordered him to undergo anger management counseling and to engage in therapeutic counseling
    with his girlfriend. Boydston testified in July 2012 that Chad was participating in both types of
    counseling and both were going well.
    On appeal of a trial court order determining child custody, when the evidence is in
    conflict, the appellate court considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial court heard
    and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts rather than another. Citta v.
    Facka, 
    19 Neb. Ct. App. 736
    , 
    812 N.W.2d 917
    (2012).
    Based on our de novo review of the record in this case, and taking into consideration and
    giving weight to the trial court’s acceptance of Chad’s version of the facts, we conclude that
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    Chad has met his burden to prove a material change in circumstances since the entry of the
    stipulated order in January 2009.
    Having found a material change in circumstances to exist, we must also determine
    whether it is in the children’s best interests to be placed in Chad’s custody. The best interests of a
    child require a parenting arrangement which provides for a child’s safety, emotional growth,
    health, stability, and physical care and regular and continuous school attendance and progress.
    Neb. Rev. Stat. § 43-2923(1) (Cum. Supp. 2012); Donscheski v. Donscheski, 
    17 Neb. Ct. App. 807
    ,
    
    771 N.W.2d 213
    (2009). When deciding custody issues, the court’s paramount concern is the
    child’s best interests. Citta v. 
    Facka, supra
    .
    While the evidence was conflicting, it seems clear that it is in the best interests of these
    children to be in Chad’s custody. Following the court’s temporary order giving Chad custody,
    Boydston testified in February 2013 that the children were doing well in his care and were
    getting settled into a routine. She testified that the children seemed to have adjusted to their new
    school and that they had made friends. The younger son was doing well in school and seemed
    happy. The older son’s behavior in school was good, but he was resisting studying and doing
    homework, which was affecting his grades. However, the school was working with both parents
    and his therapist to find a solution. Boydston also testified that Chad was taking the children to
    therapy on a regular basis and that the therapy was going well.
    Boydston testified that the children’s lives seem calmer in Chad’s care. She testified that
    the children were under pressure regarding the custody matter when they were in Edith’s care
    and that it was something they were dealing with on a daily basis. She testified that there have
    not been any reports to CPS or the Department since October 2012 and that the chaos in the
    children’s lives seemed to have settled down.
    Chad’s home appears to provide a better environment for the children, particularly with
    respect to their emotional growth, stability, and school progress. Therefore, we find that the trial
    court did not abuse its discretion in concluding that it was in the children’s best interests to be
    placed in Chad’s custody.
    Chad’s Assault Conviction.
    Edith also assigns that the trial court erred in awarding Chad custody, because of his
    conviction for domestic assault. Relying on Neb. Rev. Stat. § 43-2932 (Reissue 2008), Edith
    argues that based on Chad’s conviction, the court was required to make certain written findings
    before it could award Chad custody, which it failed to do. Section 43-2932(3) provides that if a
    parent is found to have committed domestic intimate partner abuse, “the court shall not order
    legal or physical custody to be given to that parent without making special written findings that
    the child and other parent can be adequately protected from harm by such limits as it may impose
    under such subsection.”
    While it is true that Chad was convicted of third degree assault, the conviction was the
    result of an incident with JoAnna, whom Chad was married to at the time. The incident did not
    involve Edith. The statute refers to protecting “the child and other parent” when a parent has
    engaged in domestic abuse. Accordingly, we conclude that the statute applies to instances where
    domestic abuse occurred between the parents of the children at issue, where it is necessary to
    ensure that there is no future domestic abuse to the “other parent.” If there has been no domestic
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    intimate partner abuse between the parents, there is no reason to protect the child or the other
    parent.
    In the present case, the domestic abuse was between Chad and a third party. Although
    Edith made numerous allegations of abuse by Chad against herself, there was no finding by the
    court that such abuse occurred. Accordingly, § 43-2932 is inapplicable and it was not necessary
    for the court to make special written findings pursuant to the statute before awarding Chad
    custody. This assignment of error is without merit.
    Child Support.
    Edith also argues that the trial court erred in the amount of child support it ordered her to
    pay. The court ordered her to pay $643 per month. Edith contends that the trial court failed to use
    her income from 2012 to calculate child support, which would have resulted in a child support
    obligation of $335 per month.
    During the trial dates in 2011, Edith testified that she was working for a medical center as
    a medical technician on an “as-needed basis,” earning $14.65 per hour. She testified that she had
    been working an average of 32 hours per week. She testified that she had also recently started a
    part-time job at a hospital, where she was working an average of 20 hours per week.
    On the last day of trial, February 14, 2013, Edith testified that she had been working for a
    counseling service since October 2012. She testified that her hourly rate of pay at the counseling
    service varied depending on what work she is doing. She testified that she worked on an
    “as-needed” basis and is not scheduled for specific hours. Edith testified that in January 2013,
    she also started working for an airline where she works 17.9 hours per week, earning $10.85 per
    hour.
    At the end of trial on February 14, 2013, the trial court asked both parties to submit
    current income information, specifically 2012 W-2 wage and tax statements and pay stubs from
    2013. The parties were given until March 8 to submit the requested information. There is nothing
    in the record to indicate that the parties provided this information to the court by that date.
    However, Edith’s 2012 W-2’s were presented to the court at a hearing in April 2013, in
    regard to a motion for modification of child support filed by Edith. Although the motion is not in
    the record before us, based on the hearing date, we know that the motion was filed prior to the
    court’s entering its order of modification on May 23. It appears that Edith filed the motion in
    response to a document entitled “Order” filed by the court on March 29 setting forth its findings
    in regard to Chad’s application to modify child custody. The “Order” directed Chad’s counsel to
    prepare a modified decree and a modified parenting plan that comported with the court’s
    decision and to send both to Edith’s counsel for approval as to form and content prior to
    submission to the court for its signature. We determined that the March 29 “Order” was not a
    final, appealable order. See Wagner v. Wagner, 
    275 Neb. 693
    , 
    749 N.W.2d 137
    (2008) (court’s
    direction to counsel to prepare final decree, and submit that decree for approval to opposing
    counsel and then court, clearly indicates that letter was not intended to be court’s final
    adjudication of rights and liabilities of parties).
    As the Supreme Court stated:
    Because of the potential for confusion, trial courts should be very careful if they
    decide to inform the parties of their findings before entering a final judgment. In
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    particular, trial courts, and the clerks of those courts, should not file stamp any
    court-issued document that is not meant to take legal effect. Instead, “the trial court
    should notify the parties of its findings and intentions as to the matter before the court by
    an appropriate method of communication” without file stamping any document. And only
    the signed final order should be filed with the clerk of the court.
    Wagner v. Wagner, 
    275 Neb. 693
    , 700-01, 
    749 N.W.2d 137
    , 143.
    The trial court’s May 23, 2013, order of modification was the final, appealable order in
    the present case. Therefore, when Edith presented evidence of her 2012 income in support of her
    motion, she was trying to modify an order that had not yet been entered. The trial court denied
    Edith’s motion, finding in part that “if [Edith’s] Motion is deemed to be a request for a new trial,
    then it is untimely filed, and as such, it cannot stand under Nebraska law.”
    We agree that Edith’s motion for modification of child support was premature, or
    “untimely” as the trial court referred to it. Accordingly, any evidence of her income presented at
    the hearing on her motion was not properly before the court and should not have been considered
    by the court in determining her child support obligation.
    However, even if Edith’s evidence of her income from 2012 could be considered, the trial
    court did not have sufficient evidence of either party’s income to calculate child support.
    Pursuant to the Nebraska Child Support Guidelines, the trial court needed current income
    information from both parties, preferably copies of at least 2 years’ tax returns, financial
    statements, and current wage stubs. See Neb. Ct. R. § 4-204. There is no evidence of Chad’s
    current income. Thus, we reverse the trial court’s child support determination and remand the
    child support matter to the trial court for further proceedings to determine the income of both
    parties and calculate child support based on those figures.
    CONCLUSION
    After our de novo review of the record, we conclude that the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion in granting Chad’s application for modification of custody. We further conclude that
    the trial court did not have sufficient evidence of the parties’ income to calculate child support,
    and we reverse the trial court’s child support order and remand the cause for further proceedings.
    AFFIRMED IN PART, AND IN PART REVERSED AND
    REMANDED FOR FURTHER PROCEEDINGS.
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