E.S. VS. H.A. (FM-01-0562-09, ATLANTIC COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)(RECORD IMPOUNDED)(CONSOLIDATED) ( 2017 )


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    APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-3230-14T2
    A-3256-14T2
    E.S.,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,            APPROVED FOR PUBLICATION
    AS REDACTED
    v.                                         August 15, 2017
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    H.A.,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    _____________________________
    E.S.,
    Plaintiff-Appellant,
    v.
    H.A.,
    Defendant-Respondent.
    ______________________________________________
    Argued February 28, 2017 – Decided August 15, 2017
    Before Judges Messano, Suter and Guadagno.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New
    Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part,
    Atlantic County, Docket No. FM-01-0562-09.
    Bruce   P.  Matez   argued the   cause  for
    appellant in A-3230-14 and respondent in A-
    3256-14 (Borger Matez, P.A., attorneys; Mr.
    Matez, on the briefs).
    Patricia A. Darden argued the cause for
    respondent in A-3230-14 and appellant in A-
    3256-14 (Law Offices of Patricia A. Darden,
    attorneys; Ms. Darden, on the briefs).
    The opinion of the court was delivered by
    MESSANO, P.J.A.D.
    Plaintiff E.S. and defendant H.A. are the parents of R.A.
    (Richard), born in 2004.1                       The parties separated in December
    2008,   and     after        a   contentious          period   during   which    plaintiff
    alleged        acts     of        domestic        violence      (DV),    and     defendant
    successfully litigated against her claims, the marriage ended in
    a consent judgment of divorce (JOD) filed on September 8, 2009.
    The   parties         were       unable    to     resolve      issues   of   custody     and
    parenting time prior to entry of the JOD.
    Earlier in 2009, plaintiff had contacted the Division of
    Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP or the Division) regarding
    Richard's inappropriate, overtly sexual behavior. The Division
    began   to      investigate          whether       defendant     had    sexually    abused
    Richard.        In April 2009, the parties entered into a consent
    order     in    the     matrimonial             action   that    restored      defendant's
    parenting       time,        which        had    been     suspended     during     the    DV
    proceedings.          However, a subsequent domestic violence complaint
    1
    We use initials and pseudonyms to maintain the confidentiality
    of the parties and their child.
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    resulted in a temporary restraining order and renewed suspension
    of defendant's parenting time.
    When the court dismissed the last of plaintiff's domestic
    violence complaints following a multi-day trial that also ended
    in September 2009, plaintiff thereafter successfully sought an
    order to show cause temporarily suspending defendant's parenting
    time     until    the    judge   could        review       the   Division's       records
    regarding        its    investigation.          On     October      5,    2009,     after
    completing her review, the judge dissolved any restraints and
    ordered resumption of defendant's parenting time in accordance
    with the April 2009 order.
    On November 10, 2009, the Division advised defendant its
    "investigation         determined      that    abuse       was   substantiated        for
    sexual molestation with regard to [Richard]," and that "[y]ou
    have been identified as a person responsible for the abuse."
    Defendant apparently sought an administrative appeal because, on
    February 19, 2010, the Division advised him the "finding of
    abuse"    as     to    one   incident,    July       27,    2009,   was    overturned.
    However, the Division's finding of abuse as to a second incident
    on July 6, 2009, remained in place.                    Defendant filed a request
    for    further     review     before    the    Office       of   Administrative       Law
    (OAL).
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    Meanwhile, plaintiff sought reconsideration of the denial
    of her earlier request to suspend all parenting time.                         By July
    2010, the OAL hearing still had not taken place, nor had the
    Division initiated a Title 9 or Title 30 action.                         The Family
    Part judge overseeing the matrimonial action entered an order
    setting   a   plenary     hearing   for       October    "on   the    issue     .    .   .
    whether it is in the best interests of . . . [Richard] that
    parenting time with his father . . . should resume."
    No hearing took place, as issues and disputes continued to
    arise regarding expert witnesses.                In January 2011, the judge
    appointed Dr. Jennifer L. Perry, Psy.D., as the court's expert,
    and charged her with evaluating "when and in what manner it
    w[ould] be in the best interest of . . . [Richard] to resume
    parenting time with his father . . . ."                  The parties' litigious
    conduct continued; it is unnecessary to detail the reasons for,
    or results of, various court appearances that followed.
    In a February 2012 order, the judge provided copies of Dr.
    Perry's   reports    to    counsel,   and       the     parties      again    appeared
    before the court on April 2, 2012.                Although the order entered
    that day indicates the judge took "sworn testimony," there was
    no testimony.     After listening to the arguments of counsel, the
    judge   prohibited      defendant   "from       any     and    all    contact       with"
    Richard, "with the exception of the supervised visitation with
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    Dr. Perry or any other visitation ordered by th[e] court."                     The
    judge permitted the parties to engage in discovery and set new
    dates for a plenary hearing in July 2012.
    In May 2012, defendant withdrew his administrative appeal
    of the Division's substantiated finding of abuse.                    No plenary
    hearing took place during the summer of 2012.                    In November, a
    different Family Part judge took over the litigation, and a
    plenary hearing began in January 2013 and continued on non-
    consecutive days until May.           The parties thereafter submitted
    written proposed factual findings and legal conclusions.
    On November 22, 2013, the judge issued an oral opinion on
    the record explaining the reasons supporting his order filed
    that day (the November 2013 order).                  The record reflects only
    defense counsel was present; plaintiff's counsel had a court
    appearance in another county, was running late and the judge
    decided not to wait.
    The     judge   found   by   clear        and   convincing   evidence,   that
    defendant    had    sexually     abused       Richard.     The   order   granted
    plaintiff sole legal and physical custody of Richard and denied
    defendant parenting time.         Section 3 of the order required that,
    before making any application for parenting time, defendant
    shall comply with the requirements set forth
    by Dr. Jennifer Perry in her testimony,
    which include:
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    a. Admission of wrongdoing;
    b.   A psycho-sexual evaluation by
    a   professional  specializing  in
    same; and
    c. Individual therapy.
    In Section 4, the order further provided that, "[i]f and when
    the [d]efendant completes the aforementioned requirements, he
    may   apply       for     consideration          of   parenting      time     through
    Therapeutic Management of Reunification (TMR)."2
    In   his    oral    opinion      denying    both   parties'     requests      for
    counsel fees, the judge noted plaintiff's counsel's request was
    "vague,"    and    he     did    not    "know     whether   she's    going     to    do
    something.       Some post judgment motion probably . . . ."                        The
    November 2013 order simply denied both parties' requests for
    counsel and expert fees.
    Plaintiff         sought        reconsideration,      asking     the      order
    specifically      include       the    judge's    finding   that     defendant      had
    sexually abused his son, and modifying the order to clarify that
    her request for fees was denied without prejudice.                          The judge
    granted the motion for reconsideration and entered the January
    10, 2014 order (the January 2014 order) that stated defendant
    "sexually abused" Richard, and denied plaintiff's request for
    2
    TMR was described at trial as a visitation modality, utilizing
    a "progression" of steps aimed at "rebuilding rapport" between
    Richard and defendant.
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    fees without prejudice.3          The January 2014 order reiterated the
    requirements of the November 2013 order imposing preconditions
    on defendant's future applications for parenting time.
    Plaintiff        submitted    a   request          for       fees.         Defendant's
    opposition     never     asserted      an       inability         to    pay.          Rather,
    defendant     claimed    plaintiff        was     solely      responsible             for    the
    plenary    hearing,     because     she     refused      to       accept        Dr.   Perry's
    initial recommendation of TMR.                  Defendant asserted the "proper
    forum   for    this    case   should      have     been       .    .    .   a    proceeding
    initiated by the Division."4
    After     conducting     a   hearing,        the    judge         rendered       an    oral
    opinion and memorialized it in his June 9, 2014 order (the June
    2014 order), requiring defendant to pay plaintiff $60,000 in
    attorney fees and $2488 in costs in monthly installments of
    $10,000.      The order further provided that "these fees and costs
    shall not be dischargeable in bankruptcy."
    3
    It would appear from the order itself that defendant did not
    oppose the motion for reconsideration, and defendant's appendix
    does not include any opposition, if indeed any was filed.
    4
    However, the record reveals that prior to the plenary hearing,
    defense counsel urged the judge not to accept the substantiated
    finding of abuse as dispositive of the issue.    Because we are
    rejecting the arguments defendant now raises and affirming the
    judge's order in most respects, we choose not to address a
    specific argument raised in plaintiff's opposition, i.e., that
    defendant's "abandonment of his administrative law appeal is
    fatal . . . to his attempts to overturn the finding that he
    sexually abused" Richard.
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    Defendant moved for reconsideration and plaintiff cross-
    moved to enforce the award.                   In his certification, defendant,
    for the first time, asserted an inability to pay counsel fees
    awarded to plaintiff.             The judge's August 29, 2014 order (the
    August 2014 order) granted defendant's motion in part, reducing
    the monthly installments to $500, but denying all other relief.
    The     judge     denied    plaintiff's           request       for   counsel        fees    in
    opposing the motion.
    Plaintiff filed another motion for reconsideration, seeking
    an order reducing the counsel fee award to judgment, as well as
    an award of additional fees for making the motion.                                 Defendant
    cross-moved, seeking a stay of the award and counsel fees for
    opposing the motion.             The judge's February 4, 2015 order (the
    February        2015   order)     denied      plaintiff's         motion       and    granted
    defendant's motion in part, awarding him $2520 in counsel fees
    as    an    offset     against    the    award      previously        made    in     favor   of
    plaintiff.
    In    A-3230-14,     defendant         appeals     the    November       2013     order
    that followed the hearing; the January 2014 order that granted
    plaintiff's        motion   for     reconsideration             and    added       additional
    terms      to   the    original     order;        the    June    2014    order       awarding
    plaintiff        counsel    fees;       and   the       August    2014       order    largely
    denying his request for reconsideration of the fee award.
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    In A-3256-14, plaintiff appeals from the August 2014 order
    reconsidering the fee award and the February 2015 order denying
    her motion for reconsideration.                 We calendared the cases back-
    to-back, and now consolidate them for purposes of issuing a
    single decision.
    In A-3230-14, we reverse those provisions of the November
    2013 and January 2014 orders that required defendant to "comply
    with    [certain]       requirements"           "[p]rior     to"      making       "any
    application     for    parenting    time"       with   his   son,    but   otherwise
    affirm.     We affirm in A-3256-14.
    As to A-3230-14
    [At the court's direction, Section I of its
    opinion, which concerns discrete issues, has
    been redacted from the published opinion
    because it does not meet the criteria set by
    R. 1:36-2(d) for publication. The published
    parts of the opinion continue as follows.]
    II.
    A.
    In   Point     II,     defendant    argues      the   provisions       of    the
    November 2013 and January 2014 orders requiring his admission of
    "wrongdoing" "[p]rior to" making "any application for parenting
    time"       violate     his      constitutional         right       against        self-
    incrimination.        As a corollary argument, defendant claims the
    judge erred in relying on Hoch's and Perry's opinions that his
    admission     of    wrongdoing     was    a     necessary    predicate        to   TMR,
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    because they were "net" opinions unsupported by any indicia of
    scientific reliability.       In response, plaintiff only contends
    defendant failed to raise the issue in the trial court, and
    Richard's best interests require defendant's admission of abuse
    before TMR can commence.
    Preliminarily,      defendant's     claim   that   the    opinions
    expressed by Hoch and Perry were net opinions lacks sufficient
    merit to warrant discussion.          R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).       Defendant
    also    suggests   Perry    never   conditioned    parenting    time,    or
    initiation of TMR, upon his admission of wrongdoing.             However,
    in responding to a question from the judge, Perry said:
    I would say that if . . . Your Honor
    determines that sexual abuse has occurred
    and a perpetrator is not willing to admit to
    that and get the services needed in order to
    prevent that — or reduce the likelihood of
    that occurring again, . . . there should be
    no visitation.
    Plaintiff   is   correct     that   defendant   never    raised     a
    constitutional challenge to conditioning future applications for
    parenting time upon an admission of wrongdoing, and we
    adhere[] to th[e] long-standing principle[]
    . . . 'that our appellate courts will
    decline to consider questions or issues not
    properly presented to the trial court when
    an opportunity for such a presentation is
    available unless the questions so raised on
    appeal go to the jurisdiction of the trial
    court or concern matters of great public
    interest.'
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    [State v. Robinson, 
    200 N.J. 1
    , 20 (2009)
    (quoting Nieder v. Royal Indem. Ins. Co., 
    62 N.J. 229
    , 234 (1973)).]
    "However,     if     the    issue       is   of      special       significance    to    the
    litigant, to the public, or to the achievement of substantial
    justice, and the record is sufficiently complete to permit its
    adjudication,        we    may    consider          it."      Borough    of   Keyport     v.
    Maropakis, 
    332 N.J. Super. 210
    , 216 (App. Div. 2000); see also
    Ricci   v.    Ricci,       448    N.J.    Super.       546,    567    (App.   Div.     2017)
    (considering constitutional challenge to Family Part's award of
    college costs because "clarification of the law is necessary");
    J-M Mfg. Co. v. Phillips & Cohen, LLP, 
    443 N.J. Super. 447
    , 458
    (App. Div. 2015) (considering argument raised for the first time
    on   appeal    regarding          application          of    the     entire   controversy
    doctrine to be "of sufficient importance to merit discussion"),
    certif.    denied,        
    224 N.J. 527
       (2016).         "[T]he    Nieder       rule's
    exceptions are most fruitfully applied where the focal issue is
    entirely a question of law, in respect of which lower court
    determinations        are       accorded     limited        deference."         Am.     Civil
    Liberties Union of N.J. v. Cty. of Hudson, 
    352 N.J. Super. 44
    ,
    72   (App.    Div.    2002).        For      the     following       reasons,     we   relax
    Nieder's     restrictions         and    consider          defendant's    constitutional
    arguments.
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    The issue defendant now raises is of significant importance
    to defendant, his son and other potential litigants in cases of
    this nature.      As we said nearly twenty years ago:
    This case is an example of a tragic but
    recurring dilemma in certain family court
    cases involving allegations of child sexual
    abuse.   On the one hand, there are clearly
    cases of imagined or even fabricated charges
    against a parent, especially when raised
    during the pendency of divorce proceedings.
    For a parent to stand accused of such an
    offense   is   devastating    both   to   that
    individual, and to the child's lifelong
    relationship with the parent.     On the other
    hand,   proof  of   such   abuse,   especially
    involving a very young child, is rarely
    clear, and the potential danger to a child
    from a reoccurrence, if the suspicions and
    accusations are well-founded, is enormous.
    [P.T. v. M.S., 325        N.J.   Super.   193,       198
    (App. Div. 1999).]
    Further, although the issue at trial was whether and under what
    conditions should defendant's parenting time be restored, it is
    entirely unclear whether defendant had an opportunity to address
    potential    judicially-imposed      pre-conditions         to    any     future
    request he might make.       Defendant might have properly moved for
    reconsideration, but his failure to do so should not bar our
    consideration of this significant issue.             Moreover, the record
    is complete, because both Hoch and Perry testified at length,
    were    subject    to   extensive    cross-examination       and       defendant
    eschewed    any   opportunity   to   present   his    own    expert      on   the
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    subject of TMR or any necessary preconditions.                             Lastly, whether
    the provisions violate defendant's constitutional rights raises
    a purely legal issue, and even if the trial judge were afforded
    the opportunity to consider the argument, we would review his
    decision de novo.               Motorworld, Inc. v. Beckendorf, 
    228 N.J. 311
    ,
    329 (2017).
    As       a    result,       we   move    to       the     substance   of    defendant's
    arguments.
    B.
    Our courts have long recognized "[t]he right of a parent to
    raise     a   child       and    maintain     a        relationship     with    that    child,
    without undue interference by the state, is protected by the
    United States and New Jersey Constitutions."                           N.J. Div. of Youth
    & Family Servs. v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 102 (2008) (citations
    omitted).          Our court has held that "a parent's rights to the
    care and companionship of his or her child are so fundamental as
    to   be       guaranteed         protection        under        the    First,    Ninth       and
    Fourteenth Amendments of the United States Constitution."                                 Wilke
    v. Culp, 
    196 N.J. Super. 487
    , 496 (App. Div. 1984), certif.
    denied, 
    99 N.J. 243
    (1985); see also                           N.J.S.A. 9:2-4 (declaring
    it to be the State's public purpose "to assure minor children of
    frequent       and       continuing    contact          with    both   parents    after      the
    parents           have     separated         or        dissolved       their     marriage").
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    Therefore, "the law favors visitation and protects against the
    thwarting of effective visitation[.]"                      
    Wilke, supra
    , 196 N.J.
    Super. at 496.
    "That fundamental parental right, however, is not without
    limitation.         The State has a basic responsibility, as parens
    patriae,       to   protect      children       from       serious    physical       and
    psychological harm, even from their parents."                    
    E.P., supra
    , 196
    N.J.    at    102    (citation     omitted).           A    parent's    custody       or
    visitation "rights may be restricted, or even terminated, where
    the relation of one parent (or even both) with the child cause
    emotional or physical harm to the child, or where the parent is
    shown to be unfit."        
    Wilke, supra
    , 196 N.J. Super. at 496.
    "New     Jersey's      privilege         against        self-incrimination,
    although      not   enshrined    in   the      State   Constitution,      is    deeply
    rooted in this State's common law and codified in both statute
    and an evidence rule[,]" State v. Muhammad, 
    182 N.J. 551
    , 567
    (2005),       and   "offers     broader        protection      than    its     federal
    counterpart under the Fifth Amendment."                     
    Id. at 568.
         Pursuant
    to N.J.S.A. 2A:84A-19, and its equivalent, N.J.R.E. 503, every
    person in New Jersey "has a right to refuse to disclose in an
    action . . . any matter that will incriminate him or expose him
    to penalty . . . ."
    [A] matter will incriminate (a) if it
    constitutes an element of a crime against
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    this State, or another State or the United
    States, or (b) is a circumstance which with
    other circumstances would be a basis for a
    reasonable inference of the commission of
    such a crime, or (c) is a clue to the
    discovery of a matter which is within
    clauses (a) or (b) above; provided, a matter
    will not be held to incriminate if it
    clearly appears that the witness has no
    reasonable cause to apprehend a criminal
    prosecution. . . .
    [N.J.S.A. 2A:84A-18; N.J.R.E. 502.]
    Although the orders under review do not define the necessary
    prerequisites of defendant's admission of wrongdoing, based upon
    the   evidence    at   trial   and   the   judge's      factual   findings    and
    conclusions, it can be presumed that defendant would have to
    admit he sexually assaulted Richard.              See N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(b)
    (defining sexual assault as sexual contact between a victim less
    than thirteen years of age by an actor at least four years
    older).    A prosecution for a violation of N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(b)
    may be commenced at any time.              N.J.S.A. 2C:1-6(a)(1).            As a
    result, defendant's admission of "wrongdoing," whenever made,
    potentially exposes him to criminal liability.
    "Both the United States Supreme Court and our New Jersey
    courts have consistently held that the state may not force an
    individual   to    choose      between     his   or     her   Fifth   Amendment
    privilege and another important interest because such choices
    are deemed to be inherently coercive."                State v. P.Z., 
    152 N.J. 15
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    86,   106    (1997).       It    does    not    matter   whether    the   particular
    proceeding         is   itself    a     criminal     prosecution.         See        
    ibid. (collecting cases). Rather,
    "the Fifth Amendment is violated
    'when a State compels testimony by threatening to inflict potent
    sanctions unless the constitutional privilege is surrendered.'"
    
    Id. at 106-07
    (quoting Lefkowitz v. Cunningham, 
    431 U.S. 801
    ,
    805, 
    97 S. Ct. 2132
    , 2135, 
    53 L. Ed. 2d 1
    , 7 (1977)).
    In P.Z., the Court considered "whether a caseworker from
    the [Division] must give Miranda warnings to a parent prior to a
    non-custodial interview related to a child abuse investigation."
    
    Id. at 92.
            The defendant acknowledged he was not in custody at
    the time, 
    id. at 102,
    but argued "his statement was obtained in
    a similarly coercive manner because he was faced with an implied
    threat      that    his   children       would     not   be    returned   unless       he
    admitted responsibility for his youngest daughter's injuries."
    
    Id. at 107.
    Citing two out-of-state decisions, which we discuss below,
    the Court concluded, "Although an admission of abuse may aid in
    the   rehabilitative        process,       termination        of   custody      is    not
    automatic on invocation of the privilege.                     We therefore consider
    inapplicable those cases holding unconstitutional a requirement
    that an individual choose between the right to remain silent and
    another vital interest."                
    Id. at 108.
         The Court recognized a
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    distinction between a "direct threat" to a vital interest or a
    "previously    held    benefit"    and,     "instead,    a   possibility       that
    therapeutic outcomes will be determinative of parental rights."
    
    Ibid. It explained: [The
    defendant] was not asked to choose
    between his children and the exercise of his
    right to remain silent.       If he abused his
    daughter, and if he refused to acknowledge
    his acts of abuse, he would find it
    difficult to demonstrate that he could care
    for his children without harming them. This
    was the risk he faced.          [The Division's
    caseworker]   did    not   threaten   him   with
    termination of his parental rights if he did
    not confess; nor did she tell him that the
    only way he could get his children back was
    to   confess.      We    conclude   that   [the]
    defendant's statement . . . was not coerced
    in   violation    of    his   Fifth    Amendment
    privilege against self-incrimination.
    [Id. at 209.]
    Here,     however,     the   orders     directly    threaten   defendant's
    parental rights, because defendant may not petition the Family
    Part for modification unless and until he waives his privilege
    against     self-incrimination      and      admits     "wrongdoing."          The
    decisions of several of our sister states have explained the
    distinction drawn by the Court in P.Z., between compelled self-
    incrimination    —    in   violation   of    constitutional     rights     —    and
    incriminatory statements that might be necessary for meaningful
    reunification therapy to begin.
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    In In re Welfare of J.W., 
    415 N.W.2d 879
    , 880-81 (Minn.
    1987), a case cited by the P.Z. Court, the defendant-parents
    challenged a dispositional order that required them to undergo
    psychological   evaluations,   which   included   explanation   of    the
    circumstances that led to the death of a two-year old child in
    their care.     The State threatened to terminate their parental
    rights if they would not agree.          
    Id. at 881.
         The parents
    objected claiming the order violated their constitutional right
    against self-incrimination.     
    Ibid. The court concluded
    "that
    the trial court's order, to the extent it requires appellants to
    incriminate   themselves,   violates    appellants'   Fifth   Amendment
    rights and is unenforceable."     
    Id. at 883.
         However, the court
    made clear the limits of the parents' privilege:
    While the state may not compel therapy
    treatment that would require appellants to
    incriminate themselves, it may require the
    parents to otherwise undergo treatment.
    Therapy, however, which does not include
    incriminating     disclosures,     may     be
    ineffective; and ineffective therapy may
    hurt the parents' chances of regaining their
    children.    These consequences lie outside
    the protective ambit of the Fifth Amendment.
    . . . .
    . . . In the lexicon of the Fifth
    Amendment, the risk of losing the children
    for failure to undergo meaningful therapy is
    neither a "threat" nor a "penalty" imposed
    by the state. It is simply a consequence of
    the reality that it is unsafe for children
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    to be with         parents    who   are   abusive    and
    violent.
    [Id. at 883-84.]
    The Vermont Supreme Court reached a similar conclusion in
    In re M.C.P., 
    571 A.2d 627
    (Vt. 1989), another case cited by the
    P.Z. Court.     There, the trial court ordered continued custody of
    the minor with the child welfare agency "until the parents g[ot]
    over the extreme denial of any abuse and seek counseling to
    overcome these problems . . . ."               
    Id. at 640.
          Adopting the
    analysis   of   the   court    in   J.G.W.,    the   court     concluded   that
    portion of the dispositional order "may be read as a requirement
    that the parents waive their Fifth Amendment Privilege," and
    then struck that provision from the order.               
    Id. at 641.
           The
    court explained:
    The trial court cannot specifically require
    the parents to admit criminal misconduct in
    order to reunite the parents to admit
    criminal misconduct in order to reunite the
    family. On the other hand, the parents must
    demonstrate to the court that it is in the
    juvenile's best interest to return custody
    to the parents in the face of the serious
    misconduct the court found they engaged in.
    While the court may not specify that the
    only   route    to   reunification   is   an
    abandonment of the self-incrimination right,
    the parents must expect that the court and
    [the child welfare agency] will act based on
    the findings of extreme parental abuse.   If
    the parents can find a way to show that they
    have become good parents, without admitting
    to any misconduct, and that a restoration of
    custody of the juvenile to them is in the
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    best interest of the child and is safe, the
    court may not foreclose the option. If the
    court finds in the future, however, that the
    parents    have   made    no   progress   to
    reunification because their denial prevents
    effective therapy, it may act on that
    finding to the parents' detriment without
    offending the Fifth Amendment privilege.
    [Ibid.; accord Mullin v. Phelps, 
    647 A.2d 714
    , 724-25 (Vt. 1994).]
    Most    courts    around      the        country   have    recognized    the
    distinction between a court-compelled waiver of a parent's right
    against self-incrimination, which violates the Fifth Amendment,
    and an order compelling a parent's participation in counseling
    or reunification services, the success of which might hinge on
    the admission of abuse.      See, e.g., In re A.W., 
    896 N.E.2d 316
    ,
    326 (Ill. 2008) ("[A] trial court may order a service plan that
    requires a parent to engage in effective counseling or therapy,
    but may not compel counseling or therapy requiring the parent to
    admit to committing a crime."); In the Interest of C.H., 
    652 N.W.2d 144
    , 150 (Iowa 2002) ("The State may require parents to
    otherwise undergo treatment, but it may not specifically require
    an admission of guilt as part of the treatment."); Minh T. v.
    Ariz. Dep't of Econ. Sec., 
    41 P.3d 614
    , 618 (Ariz. Ct. App.
    2001) (recognizing "a distinction between a treatment order that
    requires   parents   to   admit    criminal       misconduct    and   one   that
    merely orders participation in family reunification services");
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    State v. Suzette M. (In re Clifford M.), 
    577 N.W.2d 547
    , 558-59
    (Neb. Ct. App. 1998) (reversing termination of parental rights
    "solely because [the defendant] refused to waive her right to be
    free from self-incrimination," but recognizing court may order
    enrollment in therapy as "essential to a particular parent's
    rehabilitation"), appeal dismissed, 
    606 N.W.2d 742
    (Neb. 2000).
    No reported New Jersey decision has squarely addressed this
    issue,5   and   we   find   the    cited      out-of-state    decisions     to   be
    persuasive.     Here, the November 2013 and January 2014 orders
    conditioned any future request by defendant for parenting time
    upon his admission of "wrongdoing," which we presume, based on
    Perry's testimony, means defendant must admit that he sexually
    abused Richard.      Such a requirement compels defendant to waive
    his privilege against self-incrimination and violates his rights
    under the Fifth Amendment and our State Constitution.
    Although    defendant        has   not    specifically    challenged        the
    balance of the November 2013 and January 2014 orders that impose
    5
    In In re Guardianship of D.J.M., 
    325 N.J. Super. 150
    , 151 (Ch.
    Div. 1999), the Family Part considered "whether to stay a
    guardianship proceeding pending the outcome of a simultaneous
    criminal proceeding arising out of the same facts."        While
    finding the defendant's Fifth Amendment arguments to be
    "compelling," the court concluded the child's interest in
    permanency outweighed the defendant's rights, and suggested the
    Legislature should grant "use immunity" to parents in the
    defendant's position.   
    Id. at 162.
      Because the issues in this
    case are significantly different, we express no opinion about
    the court's holding in D.J.M.
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    other preconditions upon him "[p]rior to any application for
    parenting      time,"       and     further      provide        he    may    apply      "for
    consideration     of    parenting       time"     only     if    he    completes       these
    requirements, we conclude these portions of the orders must also
    be vacated.
    In Parish v. Parish, 
    412 N.J. Super. 39
    , 48 (App. Div.
    2010), we recognized that a citizen's constitutional right to
    access to the courts applied to matters in the Family Part.
    While reaffirming the court's inherent power "to control the
    filing    of   frivolous          motions   and    to    curtail       'harassing        and
    vexatious litigation,'" 
    ibid. (quoting Rosenblum v.
    Borough of
    Closter, 
    333 N.J. Super. 385
    , 387, 391 (App. Div. 2000)), we
    nevertheless reversed the judge's order enjoining the plaintiff-
    father from filing any future motions, including enforcement of
    parenting time requests, unless the parties and their attorneys
    first    conducted      a   settlement        conference.            
    Id. at 44.
         We
    concluded that "in the absence of any finding of a need to
    control baseless litigation, the balance struck by the motion
    judge in favor of restricting access to the court was an abuse
    of discretion."        
    Id. at 51.
    We    reach    the      same     conclusion     here.            Undoubtedly,      this
    litigation has been protracted, contentious and, on occasion,
    unnecessary.      However, defendant has consistently denied that he
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    abused his son, and so testified at trial.                           Clearly, the judge
    rejected      this    testimony       and    found,       by     clear      and    convincing
    evidence, that defendant had sexually abused Richard.                              The judge
    also    clearly       accepted       Perry's      testimony       that      not     only    was
    defendant's admission of wrongdoing a necessary precondition to
    effective      therapy       and    future       parenting       time,      but    also    that
    defendant      must     undergo       individual         therapy      and    submit       to    a
    psycho-sexual evaluation before the process can begin.
    Putting        aside        preconditioning             any       application           of
    defendant's admission of wrongdoing, which, as explained above,
    violated       defendant's           constitutional            rights,       we      conclude
    imposition      of    these    other     preconditions            violated        defendant's
    right   to    invoke     the       equitable      powers    of    the     Family     Part      to
    modify its order denying him any parenting time.                            It may well be
    that any future application may fail, absent defendant's efforts
    to address the very issues Perry saw as vital to the gradual
    reinstitution of parenting time.                   However, the court should not
    reach that conclusion in advance of such a request.                                  Although
    the judge undoubtedly made a good faith attempt to foreclose
    unnecessary         motion    practice      in    what     had    been      an    excessively
    litigated      case,     these       provisions      of     the      November       2013    and
    January      2014    orders    improperly         restrict       defendant's        right      to
    seek further review by the court.
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    We vacate Section 3 and 4 of the November 2013 order and
    sections 4 and 5 of the January 2014 order.
    [At the court's direction,      Section III of
    its opinion, which concerns    discrete issues,
    has   been   redacted   from     the  published
    opinion, because it does         not meet the
    criteria set by R. 1:36-2(d)   for publication.
    The published parts of the     opinion continue
    as follows.]
    For the reasons stated, we affirm in A-3230-14, except as
    to those provisions of the November 2013 and January 2014 orders
    which we have now vacated.
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