DCPP VS. C.J.R. AND C.R.A., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF A.A.R., C.L.A., AND C.A. (FG-07-0117-16, ESSEX COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (CONSOLIDATED) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2019 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NOS. A-5424-17T4
    A-5425-17T4
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION
    OF CHILD PROTECTION
    AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    C.J.R.,
    Defendant-Appellant/
    Cross-Respondent,
    and
    C.R.A.,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    _______________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE
    GUARDIANSHIP OF A.A.R.
    and C.L.A., Minors,
    Respondents/Cross-Appellants,
    and
    C.A.,
    Minor.
    _______________________________
    Argued September 18, 2019 – Decided October 22, 2019
    Before Judges Whipple, Gooden Brown and Mawla.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Essex County, Docket
    No. FG-07-0117-16.
    Adrienne Marie Kalosieh, Assistant Deputy Public
    Defender, argued the cause for appellant/cross-
    respondent (Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender,
    attorney; Robyn A. Veasey, Deputy Public Defender,
    of counsel; Adrienne Marie Kalosieh, on the briefs).
    Eric R. Foley, Designated Counsel, argued the cause for
    appellant (Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender,
    attorney; Robyn A. Veasey, Deputy Public Defender,
    of counsel; Eric R. Foley, on the briefs).
    Melissa R. Vance, Assistant Deputy Public Defender,
    argued the cause for respondents/cross-appellants
    (Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law Guardian,
    attorney; Melissa R. Vance, on the brief).
    Christian Arthur Arnold, Assistant Attorney General,
    argued the cause for respondent (Gurbir S. Grewal,
    Attorney General, attorney; Jason Wade Rockwell,
    Assistant Attorney General, of counsel; Christian
    Arthur Arnold, on the brief).
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    Todd S. Wilson, Designated Counsel, argued the cause
    for minor C.A. (Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender,
    Law Guardian, attorney; Todd S. Wilson, on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    In these consolidated appeals, following a remand to the Family Part,
    defendants C.J.R. (Cindy) and C.R.A, (Charles) both appeal from the judgment
    terminating their parental rights to their children A.A.R. (Anne), C.L.A.
    (Claire), and C.A. (Chip).1      Anne and Claire cross-appeal the entry of
    guardianship as to them. The issue on appeal is whether the Division of Child
    Protection and Permanency (Division) proved by clear and convincing evidence
    that parental rights should be terminated pursuant to N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a).
    We reverse.
    The facts in the record of the original trial are also recounted fully in our
    previous decision, N.J. Div. of Child Protection & Permanency v. C.J.R., 
    452 N.J. Super. 454
    , 458, 463-64 (App. Div. 2017), therefore, we repeat only those
    necessary to address the issues raised here.
    The Division's involvement with the family began in February 2014, after
    defendants brought six-week-old Chip to the emergency room for medical
    1
    For simplicity, we refer to the parties by the same pseudonyms as used in the
    prior Appellate Division decision.
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    treatment. Chip had suffered four rib fractures as well as head trauma, including
    brain contusions and subdural hematomas, injuries a consulting physician
    concluded were consistent with physical abuse, but ones for which defendants,
    the child's only caregivers, offered no explanation. 
    Id. at 458-59
    . All three
    children were removed from defendants' care but were returned to their custody
    that October. 
    Ibid.
    In November 2014, Chip was rushed to the hospital after having a seizure.
    
    Id. at 459
    . Tests revealed subdural hematomas, not attributable to his prior
    condition, and "extensive multi-layered retinal hemorrhages." 
    Id. at 459-60
    .
    Although Cindy reported that Chip fell from a sitting position on the floor and
    hit his head a few weeks earlier, an emergency room physician opined the
    injuries were likely sustained just a few days prior and, absent any explanation,
    were indicative of physical abuse. 
    Ibid.
     All three children were again removed
    from defendants' care. 
    Id. at 460
    .
    After a hearing, the Family Part judge found, by the heightened standard
    of clear and convincing evidence and relying on a burden-shifting paradigm
    permissible under Title Nine, that both defendants abused and neglected Chip.
    
    Id. at 461-62
    . In light of that heightened standard, the judge gave the abuse and
    neglect finding preclusive effect at the subsequent termination proceeding,
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    concluding that the Division thereby met its burden as to the first prong of the
    applicable best interest standard. 
    Id. at 464, 467
    . Ultimately, the judge found
    the Division also satisfied its burden as to the balance of the standard and
    therefore, the defendant's parental rights should be terminated as to all three
    children. 
    Id. at 467
    .
    We reversed, concluding that a finding made using the burden-shifting
    paradigm authorized only under Title Nine could not be given preclusive effect
    in a Title Thirty guardianship proceeding, and remanded the matter for a new
    trial to be completed within sixty days. 
    Id. at 470-75
    . We also noted the court
    made findings as to Chip on all except the first prong of the standard, but "made
    no specific findings under prongs one or two regarding Claire and Anne." 
    Id. at 474
    . We explained:
    While N.J.S.A. 9:6–8.46(a)(1) provides that "proof of
    the abuse or neglect of one child shall be admissible
    evidence on the issue of the abuse or neglect of any
    other child of . . . the parent," this does not mean that
    harm to one child is conclusive proof of harm to another
    child. The Title Nine findings made by the judge were
    confined to consideration of whether Chip was abused;
    there were no explicit findings that either Anne or
    Claire were abused or neglected. Moreover, the
    Division caseworker conceded neither was harmed,
    meaning that any harm attributed to have been visited
    upon either girl was derived from the harm to Chip.
    Therefore, the determination of the judge terminating
    Charles and Cindy's parental rights to Claire and Anne
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    was not supported by sufficient credible evidence, and
    was in error. We therefore vacate the judgment of
    guardianship entirely as to Claire and Anne.
    [Id. at 474-75.]
    However, we continued that, "we believe that going forward from here,
    the trial court should be allowed to consider each prong in the light of any
    developments since trial, and shall have the discretion to permit any updated
    evaluations or discovery that may be warranted." 
    Id. at 475
    . We then directed
    that a new trial be conducted on remand within sixty days with no indication
    that the trial must be limited to Chip. 
    Ibid.
    On remand, the Family Part judge, at a permanency hearing on March 23,
    2018, found by a preponderance of the evidence that it was not safe to return the
    children to defendants due to the significant injuries Chip suffered in 2014. The
    Family Part judge approved the Division's plan to retry the matter as to all three
    children,2 but did not meet our sixty-day deadline. Rather, the court sought an
    extension lasting until May 11, 2018, because the previous trial judge was out
    of state. The trial judge further requested a second extension from this court,
    which we granted. The case was finally retried six months after the remand
    2
    The record does not include a new permanency order.
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    order. In the remand proceedings, Chip was represented by one law guardian
    and his sisters by another.
    A five-day trial took place via audio video conferencing before the same
    judge who presided over the first trial, who was no longer sitting in Essex
    County. The record is silent as to why the trial was conducted by a judge who
    both viewed and listened to testimony remotely from chambers in another
    county. He heard testimony from the following witnesses: Dr. Monica Weiner,
    the medical doctor who testified about Chip's injuries in the first trial; Latoya
    Bowers, the Division caseworker; Dr. Carolina Mendez, the Division's expert;
    Dr. Andrew Brown, Cindy's expert; Dr. Elizabeth Smith, a forensic psychology
    and bonding expert who evaluated defendants' bonds with Chip; and Dr. Eric
    Kirschner, who conducted bonding evaluations as to the girls.
    Regarding the injuries from February 2014, Dr. Weiner again testified that
    Chip had suffered acute posterior rib fractures consistent with squeezing the
    child's torso or applying force in some other manner, such as shaking, and that
    Chip's birth three weeks prior could not cause these fractures. Dr. Weiner
    further opined that a seizure could not cause the subdural and retinal
    hemorrhages from which Chip was suffering when admitted to the hospital in
    November 2014. Consistent with her prior testimony, she concluded that the
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    injuries were caused by trauma, but could not rule out accidental trauma, noting
    that no accidental trauma was reported that would have generated enough force
    to cause the injuries given Chip's age and limited mobility.
    Latoya Bowers, the Division caseworker, testified that following each
    removal, Anne and Claire, were placed in one resource home and Chip, in
    another. The Division provided the parents with weekly visitation and arranged
    bonding and psychological evaluations. It also considered Charles' sister and
    Cindy's mother as potential relative placements for the children, but Charles'
    sister did not have space to accommodate the children and Cindy's mother was
    under investigation in a placement matter related to Cindy's nieces.
    Bowers testified that since the second removal, Cindy completed two
    rounds of therapy and parenting skills instructions.           Cindy successfully
    completed services in 2015, and the Division did not ask her to undergo
    additional services geared toward reunification. However, the Division worker
    did not go out to see the apartment Cindy rented in anticipation of reunification,
    conceding that there was no excuse for not having done so.
    Defendants' visits with the children initially took place at a Division-
    approved program, but following the first trial, visits took place with the
    resource parents, sometimes lasting up to six hours. The girls' resource parents
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    notified defendants when the girls had softball games, which defendants
    attended. Bowers noted that, during visits, Anne and Claire were happy and
    excited to see their mother. Although the girls were doing well in resource
    placement, Anne was having trouble at school, and told her teacher she did not
    have to do school work or listen anymore because she was going home with her
    mother. On several occasions, Chip's resource parents reported Cindy seemed
    "cold" during visits, simply handing Chip her cell phone to play games while
    she sat back. They had fewer concerns with Charles, who was more attentive to
    Chip.
    Defendants separated in 2015 and both agreed that all three children
    should live with Cindy alone, Bowers stated. However, both sets of resource
    parents were committed to adopting the children for whom they provided care.
    Bowers observed no concerns in either resource placement during her monthly
    visits.
    Four experts conducted updated bonding and psychological evaluations,
    and testified as to their results. The Division's expert, Dr. Carolina Mendez, and
    Cindy's expert, Dr. Andrew Brown, each evaluated defendants' bonds with Chip
    and with the girls. Dr. Elizabeth Smith, an expert in forensic psychology and
    bonding, conducted bonding evaluations that related to Chip only, while Dr. Eric
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    Kirschner conducted bonding evaluations specific to the girls. All four experts
    concluded the results of the updated bonding evaluations were positive, as the
    children established bonds with both their biological parents and with their
    resource parents.
    Kirschner and Brown both recommended reunification of the girls with
    Cindy. Brown also recommended returning Chip to Cindy's care, whereas
    Mendez and Smith recommended terminating defendants' parental rights to all
    of the children based solely on the parents' inability to explain what or who
    caused Chip's injuries.
    All of the experts who conducted updated bonding evaluations of Cindy's
    relationship with Anne and Claire, who at the time were seven and six years old
    respectively, concluded the girls were highly attached to their mother in a strong,
    positive bond. Kirschner and Brown both testified that Cindy was Anne's and
    Claire's primary attachment figure, and Mendez similarly testified that the girls
    "had no reservations about their preference" to live with their mother. Brown
    testified that severing the girls' relationship to Cindy would likely have
    "psychologically devastating" consequences for both girls and "would induce a
    significant harm . . . and trauma that could never be mitigated" by the resource
    parents. Kirschner similarly testified that termination of parental rights could
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    cause the girls to suffer "serious and enduring harm." Mendez opined the girls
    had an "equal bond with their mother and their resource mother," but agreed
    there was "no doubt that if parental rights were terminated, the girls would suffer
    . . . severe and enduring psychological harm." Nonetheless, Mendez believed
    the resource parents could mitigate that harm.
    In an interview Brown conducted with Anne alone, Anne stated that she
    wished "all the time" she could be with her mother. She cried for her mother
    and said she would be "very upset" if she never saw her again. Brown opined
    Anne had a deep emotional attachment to Cindy and that severing the
    relationship "would serve no purpose but to induce harm in this child." Claire
    also told Brown, in a private interview, that she missed her mother, dreamt about
    her, and would be sad if she never saw her again.3            Brown opined that
    terminating Cindy's parental rights could lead Claire to suffer "severe emotional
    trauma" that could lead to "truncated psychological development." Both Anne
    and Claire stated they wanted to live with their brother as well. Brown opined
    that, even with the aid of psychotherapy, the resource parents would be
    incapable of mitigating any harm to the girls resulting from the severance of
    their relationship with their mother.
    3
    None of the children testified.
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    In regard to Chip, Brown opined that Chip also had a healthy, positive
    attachment with Cindy and to his big sisters, who appeared to operate as a family
    unit. Cindy was more capable, in Brown's view, than the resource parents of
    keeping up with Chip, an active child who was full of energy. The resource
    parents, who were in their sixties, struggled to keep up with and play with Chi p
    during the bonding evaluation.      As with the girls, Brown believed that
    terminating Cindy's parental rights to Chip would destroy his healthy, positive
    attachment to her and to his sisters. Brown opined that as Chip grows and
    develops, he would wonder about his mother and sisters if not reunited with
    them, and "in the long run," severing those attachments would result in greater
    harm. Severing Chip's relationship with his resource parents would not cause
    severe and enduring harm, in Brown's view, because he already developed a
    positive and healthy attachment to Cindy and to his sisters.
    Mendez and Smith both testified that in their opinions, Chip's primary
    attachment was his resource mother. Smith conceded, however, that Chip was
    also positively bonded with Cindy and Charles and would miss them if not able
    to see them anymore. Smith noted Chip called both defendants and the resource
    parents "mommy" and "daddy."
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    In Smith's view, compelling factors for a child of Chip's age (four years
    old) were his age at the time of placement and the length of time in place ment.
    At the time, Chip was in placement nearly his entire life, with the exception of
    the first two weeks of his life and the six weeks he was briefly reunified with
    defendants prior to the second removal.
    Mendez was similarly concerned with depriving the children of
    permanency further, as permanency is important to a child's health and
    development. Accordingly, Mendez concluded that termination of defendants'
    parental rights was in the best interests of all three children, because " [t]he most
    important relationships that need to be maintained" were the children's
    relationships with their respective resource parents.
    As to ending the relationship the girls had with their resource parents,
    Mendez, Kirschner, and Brown all agreed it would have a harmful effect on the
    girls.     Nonetheless, Kirschner and Brown agreed Cindy was capable of
    mitigating those harmful effects. 4 Brown noted that Cindy was aware the
    children could not simply be removed immediately from resource placement,
    but would start with overnight and weekend visitation and expand from there.
    4
    Mendez did not directly address in her testimony whether she believed
    defendants were capable of mitigating the harm to the girls from severing their
    relationship to their resource caretaker.
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    Kirschner recommended family counseling for Cindy and the girls if
    reunification occurred. He believed the strength of the maternal relationship
    could potentially mitigate any anxiety to the girls stemming from the loss of the
    relationship with the resource parents. He further noted that Cindy was open, if
    reunification occurred, to allowing the children to maintain a relationship with
    their respective resource parents.
    Kirschner and Mendez both agreed the bond between Charles and the girls
    was generally positive and appropriate. However, Kirschner concluded it was
    not realistic or feasible to return the children to Charles' care, both based on his
    psychological assessment, and because Charles did not portray himself as able
    to assume care of the children.
    None of the expert witnesses expressed any concerns about the results of
    Cindy's updated psychological evaluations.       Mendez testified Cindy "made
    significant achievements" since the first trial, in that she had stable housing and
    steady employment. She noted Cindy participated in counseling from which she
    learned "how to better handle her negative emotions." Cindy also stated to
    Mendez that if reunified with her children she would require all of Charles' visits
    to be supervised, which showed Mendez that Cindy recognized there was a
    concern with Charles.
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    Similarly, Smith viewed Cindy as "a very intelligent, very sincere
    person[,]" who "works hard" and was "pursuing more education to . . . better
    support her children." The sticking point for both Mendez and Smith was their
    perception of Cindy's response to Chip's injuries. Mendez worried that Cindy
    "used the language of acceptance and moving on," even though she did not know
    how the injuries occurred. In Mendez's view, "[a]ny reasonably well-adjusted
    parent would want to know what happened to their son, would want to figure it
    out," and "would not . . . stop asking questions until she figured it out." Smith
    was similarly troubled that neither parent seemed concerned about discovering
    what happened to Chip.
    Kirschner found no evidence of any significant psychological dysfunction
    or impairment that would affect Cindy's parenting. He believed she came to "a
    psychologically healthier place" since his prior testimony at the first trial—when
    she had only recently separated from Charles and had not yet demonstrated she
    could be self-sufficient. Cindy had since benefited from therapy, according to
    Kirschner, which allowed her to focus on trying to be present for her children in
    the best way possible, a psychologically healthier perspective than focusing on
    things she could not control. Although Cindy was unable to offer an opinion as
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    to how Chip's injuries had occurred, she showed an ability to cope with what
    happened in a healthier way through therapeutic treatment.
    Like Kirschner, Brown concluded Cindy was "capable of providing
    stability and a safe environment for her children." Cindy lived on her own in a
    two-bedroom apartment since February 2018, worked as a mortgage processor,
    and complied with all recommended services. Brown was not concerned, as
    Mendez was, that Cindy psychologically "move[d] on" from inquiring further
    about her son's injuries, because, according to Brown, that is the goal and
    mission of psychotherapy.
    Brown's impression was that Cindy's only contact with Charles, as of trial,
    was during visitation. Brown opined Cindy was committed to her children,
    wanted to remain in their lives, and demonstrated the stability to be able to raise
    the children in her home. Brown also agreed that Cindy knew the children could
    not simply be removed immediately from resource placement, and supported
    gradual reunification.
    Cindy also testified. She stated she met Charles when she was seventeen
    and recounted the history of their relationship, noting from early on, Charles had
    a drinking habit which often led to verbally aggressive behavior. Charles never
    hit Cindy, but he would hit furniture at times, and scream loudly. Charles began
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    drinking less during Cindy's first pregnancy, when she was nineteen, and shortly
    thereafter he gave up drinking altogether, which led Cindy to believe Charles'
    behavior would improve. Cindy asserted that even after he stopped drinking,
    however, Charles continued to aggressively argue with Cindy.
    Cindy recounted how Charles never participated equally in parenting, but
    would instead come home from work tired and want to eat and sleep rather than
    be involved with the children as a father. After Chip was born, Charles became
    increasingly annoyed with Cindy's preoccupation in caring for both their
    children as well as Cindy's two young nieces, who lived with them at the time.
    Prior to Chip's birth, and up until his removal, Cindy's nieces, about eight
    and seven years old, were placed in defendants' home on a temporary basis.
    While in defendants' custody, the older niece, who is schizophrenic, engaged in
    troubling behaviors such as cutting up family pictures and hiding food in
    drawers. The niece also once reportedly opened a car door on the Garden State
    Parkway and attempted to jump out. Both nieces had a tendency to play rough
    with Anne and Claire.
    Cindy further testified that on one occasion, when she was eight months
    pregnant with Chip, she became frustrated during an argument with the older
    niece and slapped her, causing the child to fall and injure her chin on the railing
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    of her bed. Although the niece was not badly hurt, the chin injury left a mark
    and led to a Division referral. A Division caseworker advised Cindy against
    using corporal punishment, but did not substantiate abuse. Cindy testified that
    she felt terrible about the slap and did not apply corporal punishment to any
    child thereafter.
    After Chip's birth, in January 2014, Cindy testified that she made it a habit
    to be in the room when her nieces wanted to touch the baby, and she never saw
    them behave roughly around Chip. Following the first removal, Cindy testified
    that she initially suspected that her nieces might have hurt Chip. She testified
    in the first and second trials she had doubts and concerns about whether Charles
    may have caused the injuries. She reported confronting him numerous times, to
    which Charles would respond by becoming irate and defensive, screaming that
    "he didn't do it," that he loved Chip, and that he waited his whole life to have a
    son.
    When Chip returned to the family for six weeks in fall of 2014, Cindy's
    nieces no longer lived there. Before the second removal, Cindy recalled Chip
    appeared sick, weak, and not able to keep food down. Cindy took him to the
    emergency room where the child was diagnosed with eye and ear infections and
    was prescribed antibiotics.
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    By his second day on antibiotics, on November 18, 2014, Cindy stated
    that Chip's mobility improved and he could move around more. At one point,
    Cindy testified she put Chip down in his playpen for a nap and told Charles to
    watch him while she went upstairs to bathe their daughters. About three or four
    minutes after going upstairs, Cindy heard Chip "scream very loudly," and that
    "it was not a normal cry like if he just woke up from a nap." Cindy asserted that
    as she entered the room, she observed Chip having a seizure as Charles was
    trying to lift him out of the playpen. This was the first time Cindy s aw Chip
    have a seizure, a condition she recognized because it runs in her family. Cindy
    stated that she screamed at Charles, asking him what happened, and Charles
    replied that he did not know. Cindy called an ambulance and went to the hospital
    with Chip. At the hospital, medical testing revealed Chip's subdural hematomas
    and retinal hemorrhages that led to the second removal. See C.J.R., 453 N.J.
    Super. at 459-60.
    Cindy testified she was immediately suspicious of Charles after the second
    injury, both because she never hurt Chip and because she perceived Charles to
    be "very cold about everything," while Cindy described herself as "freaking out"
    and panicking.      Cindy confronted Charles again about Chip's injuries, and
    Charles continued to be defensive and irate. Cindy stated he would get angry
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    and walk away when she brought up the conversation and tell her she "should
    know better that it wasn't him."
    Despite this, Cindy did not tell the Division she was suspicious of Charles,
    but offered to take a lie detector test to prove her innocence. Cindy did not
    believe her daughters could have injured Chip, because the injuries sustained
    were inconsistent with those that would result from being picked up by a five or
    six-year old.
    Cindy noted that her second round of therapy, which took place after the
    second removal of her children, helped her interpret and cope with her feelings .
    She also stated it helped her acknowledge that even though she "may never have
    an answer to what exactly happened" with respect to Chip's injuries, she "still
    needed to move on in order to have a healthy life" for herself and her children.
    Cindy testified she had a great relationship and close bond with all three
    children, that she never hurt them, and that she would not do so in the future.
    To discipline them, Cindy asserted she would do brief time-outs or, for the older
    children, take away their toys. She testified she never used drugs and rarely
    drinks alcohol.
    Cindy testified she would have no difficultly reuniting with the children.
    Chip would have his own room in Cindy's two-bedroom apartment, the girls
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    would share the other bedroom, and Cindy would sleep in the living room. As
    of trial, however, the Division had not conducted a safety assessment of Cindy's
    home. Cindy further testified that she would work while the children were at
    school and would enroll the children in after-school activities. She testified she
    would never again have a relationship with Charles, but if the children were
    reunified with her, she would allow Charles only weekly supervised visits.
    Cindy acknowledged if the children were removed from their resource
    homes, they would be upset at first. However, she intended for the resource
    parents to always have a place in the children's lives, as the children "see us like
    one big happy family." For example, Chip calls his resource parents "mama,"
    and "papa," terms that a child, in Puerto Rican culture, would use for his
    grandmother and grandfather, respectively, she noted. She stated it was good
    for the children to have "another person who loves them" and did not see any
    benefit in taking that away. She would rather the children just have three sets
    of grandparents.
    As part of a gradual reunification process, Cindy anticipated allowing the
    children sleepovers at the resource parents' homes periodically or on weeken ds
    and having the group still celebrate events and holidays together. Cindy was
    willing to engage in family therapy or other services to help the children with
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    the transition. Conversely, if her parental rights were terminated, Cindy did not
    believe she would be able to see her children as often, because at times, her calls
    to the resource parents went unanswered.
    On the last day of trial, immediately after closing arguments, the court
    rendered an oral decision that all four prongs of the "best interest" test were met.
    The court entered an order of guardianship as to all three children on July 10,
    2018.
    On July 27, 2018, defendants filed appeals.            The appeals were
    consolidated. On August 10, 2018, the Law Guardian for Anne and Claire joined
    the appeal.
    Our review of a trial judge's findings and decision to terminate parental
    rights is limited. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    ,
    278-79 (2007) (citation omitted).         We do not reverse the family court's
    termination decision "when there is substantial credible evidence in the record
    to support the court's findings." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 104 (2008) (citation omitted).
    We defer to the trial court's credibility findings and fact-findings because
    of its expertise in family matters and its ability to develop a "feel of the case
    that can never be realized by a review of the cold record." N.J. Div. of Youth
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    & Family Servs. v. M.C. III, 
    201 N.J. 328
    , 342-43 (2010) (citation omitted).
    This court should not disturb these findings unless they are "so wide of the mark
    that the judge was clearly mistaken." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    G.L., 
    191 N.J. 596
    , 605 (2007) (citations omitted).
    Parents have a constitutionally protected right to raise their biological
    children, even if the children are placed in the care of a resource family. In re
    Guardianship of J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 9-10 (1992) (citing Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
     (1982)). The State may act to protect the welfare of the children, but
    this is a limited authority, applying to circumstances where the parent is unfit or
    the child has been harmed or placed at risk of harm. Id. at 10; N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    12; see N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. I.S., 
    214 N.J. 8
    , 34-35 (2013).
    To prevail in a proceeding to terminate parental rights, the Division must
    establish each element of the "best interests test":
    (1) The child's safety, health, or development has
    been or will continue to be endangered by the parental
    relationship;
    (2) The parent is unwilling or unable to eliminate the
    harm facing the child or is unable or unwilling to
    provide a safe and stable home for the child and the
    delay of permanent placement will add to the harm.
    Such harm may include evidence that separating the
    child from his resource family parents would cause
    serious and enduring emotional or psychological harm
    to the child;
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    (3) The division has made reasonable efforts to
    provide services to help the parent correct the
    circumstances which led to the child’s placement
    outside the home and the court has considered
    alternatives to termination of parental rights; and
    (4) Termination of parental rights will not do more
    harm than good.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a).]
    These four prongs "relate to and overlap with one another to provide a
    comprehensive standard that identifies a child's best interests."           In re
    Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 348 (1999). The State must prove each
    prong of this test by clear and convincing evidence. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Svcs. v. R.G., 
    217 N.J. 527
    , 559 (2014). Additionally, courts may not use
    presumptions of parental unfitness and any "doubts must be resolved against
    termination of parental rights." K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 347
    .
    On appeal, Cindy argues the judge erred in terminating her parental rights
    because the Division did not establish she was responsible for the harm to her
    children under prongs one and two of N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a). She also argues
    the Division offered no evidence as to Anne and Claire beyond what was
    presented in the first trial, which resulted in a reversal. Finally, Cindy argues
    the expert evidence was in equipoise, at best, as to prong four, and therefore the
    Division did not meet the standard of clear and convincing evidence.
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    Charles argues he, as well as Cindy, were deprived of a fair trial because
    the judge was not physically present in the courtroom but conducted the entire
    trial remotely through an audio video feed. 5 Charles also argues the judge
    misapplied the law and ignored the directive of this court by relying upon the
    shifted burden of proof. He also raises the arguments raised by Cindy. It is
    significant that Charles is not asking to be reunified with his children but asks
    they be returned to their mother.
    Anne and Claire argue the Division again failed to show the parents
    harmed them or would continue to harm them and that they wished to be reunited
    with their mother.
    Having reviewed the trial record in its entirety we are constrained to
    conclude there is not "substantial credible evidence in the record to support the
    court's findings." E.P., 
    196 N.J. at 104
    . We previously instructed the Family
    Part that its decision to give preclusive effect to the Title Nine fact-finding in
    the Title Thirty proceedings, which shifted the burden to defendants and
    required them to rebut the presumption of abuse and neglect through their own
    evidence, created an unconstitutional asymmetry we consider to be plain error
    5
    The record does not identify whether this was done via Skype or some other
    audio video feed.
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    on a critical question of law warranting reversal.           The record herein
    demonstrates the essential error was repeated by the trial court.
    As to Chip, the court considered prongs one and two together. The court
    noted that unrefuted testimony established that Chip's two life-threatening
    injuries "were caused by physical abuse by one of the parents." The court then
    asked, rhetorically, "what type of monster or person could inflict these types of
    injuries on a baby and a small child?" The court added this was a question "the
    parents should have been asking," and that defendants were the only two people
    in the courtroom who knew what happened to Chip since one parent caused the
    injuries and the other knew who was responsible. The court said:
    I have no way of knowing sitting here who actually
    committed this horrific abuse . . . [but] one of the two
    people sitting in this courtroom is an abuser and capable
    of doing tremendous harm to a child, and the other one
    was an enabler and excuser and stuck her head in the
    sand.
    The court found that there was harm under prongs one and two—both "harm
    from the abuse," and "harm from protecting it."
    The court noted that Smith and Mendez testified there existed "a
    substantial clear and present danger and substantial risk of harm" to the children
    that defendants had not alleviated. The harm involved both the abuse and the
    subsequent removal.     Notwithstanding the positive bonding reports of the
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    Division's own expert, the court disbelieved the "false picture" of a "happy
    family" the court believed defendants were presenting and stated that
    reunification, "which the parents have apparently instilled in their children with
    these visitations, is a myth."
    Cindy's testimony that she had suspicions about Charles seemed, in the
    court's view, to be "measured, rehearsed," and "designed to present herself in
    the best light." The court was also concerned that Cindy had continued to live
    with Charles for ten months after the second removal and further believed Cindy
    was "sweeping the dirt under the rug" by "moving ahead with this case." The
    judge offered no assessment of the fact the parties had not lived together for
    over three years. The judge did not appear to consider the evidence presented
    by the Division and its experts regarding Cindy's progress as well as her
    separation from Charles, and did not address her current situation. The court
    rejected Brown's testimony that the mission of psychotherapy was to "move on,"
    noting: "I can't believe any psychologist should take the stand and say those type
    of things and believe that the child is now safe because they've gone past it."
    The court was skeptical that, through therapy, Cindy had achieved "great
    psychological insight and . . . great benefit," notwithstanding that all of the
    experts testified she had made progress.
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    With respect to the girls, the court found that they also suffered harm
    under prongs one and two from twice being removed from their home and that
    defendants had still "not dealt with this clear and present danger that exists in
    this case." The court noted it did not know how Cindy would be able to monitor
    Charles on visits if she was reunified with the children. Defendants had "not
    come forward to deal with whatever happened four years ago" and remained "in
    the same position" as then.
    With respect to prong three, the court held that the Division made
    reasonable efforts and that the court did not know "if there is a service that will
    change these people or change these parents to have them recognize where they
    are or where they should be," but that, in any event, the Division provided
    visitation, assessed relatives, and provided psychological counseling and
    evaluations.
    With respect to prong four, as to Chip, the court found it clear that
    terminating Chip's relationship to his foster parents would cause more harm than
    terminating Cindy's and Charles' parental rights. The court opined without
    support from the record that Chip, an infant when removed, had no memory of
    living with defendants or his sisters and had bonded well with his resource
    parents with whom he had lived for most of his life.
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    As to the girls, the court noted that their resource parents had also
    developed good relationships with them and met their needs for four years. The
    girls, despite living apart from their parents that whole time, had thrived. The
    court noted that the resource parents had shown "every inclination to keep a
    relationship with the natural parents" voluntarily, without any court ord er, and
    questioned why they would stop doing so if defendants' parental rights were
    terminated. The court noted that "with appropriate counseling," the termination
    of defendants' parental rights to the girls would "not do more harm than good"
    and that "returning them to their parents would do extensive harm." Given the
    opinions presented at trial by all of the experts, we consider these findings about
    the girls "wide of the mark."
    In addition, the trial judge's finding with regard to the first and second
    prongs, that he could not determine from "sitting here who actually committed
    this horrific abuse . . . [but] one of the two people sitting in this courtroom is an
    abuser and capable of doing tremendous harm to a child, and the other one was
    an enabler and excuser and stuck her head in the sand," was indeterminate.
    Under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a), the Division must prove by clear and
    convincing evidence termination is in the best interest of the child. New Jersey
    Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 447 (2012) (citing New
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    Jersey Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.D., 
    207 N.J. 88
    , 113 (2011)). Our
    Supreme Court has determined the clear and convincing evidence standard is
    satisfied when, in the mind of the factfinder, there is a "firm belief or conviction
    as to the truth of the allegations sought to be established, evidence so clear,
    direct and weighty and convincing as to enable the factfinder to come to a clear
    conviction, without hesitancy, of the precise facts in issue." New Jersey Div. of
    Youth & Family Servs. v. I.S., 
    202 N.J. 145
    , 168 (2010) (quoting In re Seaman,
    
    133 N.J. 67
    , 74 (1993) (citation, internal quotation and editing marks omitted)).
    "Because of the elemental nature of the parent-child relationship, and
    recognizing that the severing of that relationship is among the most 'severe and
    . . . irreversible' forms of state action," E.P., 
    196 N.J. at 102
     (quoting Santosky,
    
    455 U.S. at 759
    ), courts "consistently impose[] strict standards for the
    termination of parental rights" and "all doubts must be resolved against
    termination of parental rights." K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 347
     (citations omitted). The
    issue under the statute is "the 'best interests of any child,' not simply the presence
    or absence of culpable fault on the parent's part." In re Guardianship of R., 
    155 N.J. Super. 186
    , 195 (App. Div. 1977) (quoting N.J.S.A.30:4C-15(c)).
    The clear and convincing standard of proof requires that the result shall
    not be reached by a mere balancing of doubts or probabilities, but rather by
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    rigorous evidence which convinces the fact finder that the allegations sought to
    be proved are true. The issue of how Chip sustained his injuries is critical to all
    four factors.
    We reject the Division's assertion that it established by clear and
    convincing evidence the children's health and development will continue to be
    harmed by a parental relationship with Cindy. The record demonstrates Cindy
    and Charles both present differently from the parents they were when the
    litigation began and present differently as individuals now. They are no longer
    together as a couple. Charles is not asking for the children to be reunited with
    him.   Cindy successfully completed services in 2015, and since then, the
    Division has not asked her to undergo additional services geared toward
    reunification. The Division worker conceded they did not inspect the apartment
    Cindy rented for herself and the children.         The court treated the parents
    monolithically by failing to differentiate between the parents individually and
    by disregarding their current respective circumstances. Likewise, the court also
    treated the children in a monolithic fashion, despite the differences in their
    experiences, both as to the abuse and the time spent with their parents pre-
    removal. The Division offered no new evidence of harm to the two girls as a
    result of their relationship with their mother or their father.
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    We reverse the entry of guardianship with instructions to the Family Part 6
    to reunite Anne and Claire with their mother within fifteen days. We recognize
    reunification with Chip is more complicated.         We conclude, however, the
    Division did not meet its burden of proof as to Chip and we also reverse the
    entry of guardianship as to him. We are mindful of the legitimate concerns
    raised by the Division and its experts and we do not order the immediate
    reunification of Chip with his mother. The matter shall continue under the abuse
    or neglect (FN) docket with reconsideration of the plan for permanency. We
    note the trial judge did not consider or discuss alternatives to termination such
    as kinship legal guardianship, and those alternatives should now be explored.
    See N.J. Div. of Child Prot. & Permanency v. M.M., 
    459 N.J. Super. 246
     (App.
    Div. 2019).
    While we recognize the risks attendant to returning a twice-injured child
    to a parent under the circumstances presented here, we remind the parties the
    Division is not without the ability to continue to monitor a family in need of
    services and to reinstitute litigation for as long as is necessary. The Supreme
    Court of the United States stated in Rivera v. Minnich,
    6
    We direct this matter be assigned to the Presiding Judge of the Family Part.
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    "natural parents have no 'double jeopardy' defense"
    against the State's repeated efforts to terminate parental
    rights. If the State initially fails to win termination . . .
    it always can try once again as family circumstances
    change or as it gathers more or better evidence. "Even
    when the parents have attained the level of fitness
    required by the State, they have no similar means by
    which they can forestall future termination efforts."
    [
    483 U.S. 574
    , 582 (1987) (quoting Santosky, 
    455 U.S. at 764
    ).]
    The imposition of a higher standard of proof protects the parents, and to some
    degree the child, from renewed efforts to sever their familial ties.
    We add the following comments about the manner in which the case was
    tried. We need not reach the issue of whether a trial conducted remotely by a
    judge over video and audio conferencing deprived the parties of a fair trial.
    Although no evidentiary rule specifically governs the admissibility of either
    telephonic or remote video testimony, both Aqua Marine Prod., Inc. v. Pathe
    Computer Control Systems Corp., 
    229 N.J. Super. 264
    , 275 (App. Div. 1988)
    and State v. Santos, 
    210 N.J. 129
    , 142 (2012) framed the admissibility of remote
    testimony as an evidentiary admissibility issue.
    We recognize some situations require flexibility. See, eg., N.J.S.A. 2A:4-
    30.155(f) (stating in child support proceedings, "a tribunal of this State shall
    permit a party or witness residing outside this State to . . . testify under penalty
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    of perjury by . . . audiovisual means."); N.J.S.A. 2A:34-63(b) (stating in a child
    custody proceeding, "[a] court of this State may permit an individual residing in
    another state to . . . testify by telephone, audiovisual means or other electronic
    means before a designated court or at another location in that state."); R. 1:20-
    6(c)(2)(A) (allowing, in attorney disciplinary hearings, the acceptance of
    testimony by video "[i]f special circumstances dictate"); R. 1:20A-3(b)(4)
    (allowing, in arbitration proceedings, for the acceptance of testimony by video
    "[i]f special circumstances dictate"); R. 7:8-7(a) (permitting a municipal court
    defendant to appear at trial "by means of a video link as approved by the
    Administrative Office of the Courts").
    The record here does not explain why this trial was conducted in this
    manner, or why, if there was a courtroom available in Essex County where the
    parties and witnesses were all in attendance, the trial judge considered it
    acceptable to conduct a trial from a distant county. We do not endorse this
    practice in trials of such constitutional magnitude as termination of parental
    rights.
    Reversed and remanded with directions consistent with this opinion. We
    do not retain jurisdiction.
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