DCPP VS. M.E.L.-G. AND B.E.C., JR., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF R.S.C. AND L.W.C. (FG-09-0108-20, HUDSON COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2021 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-4452-19
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION
    OF CHILD PROTECTION
    AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    M.E.L.-G.,
    Defendant,
    and
    B.E.C., JR.,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    ___________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE
    GUARDIANSHIP OF
    R.S.C. and L.W.C., minors.
    ___________________________
    Submitted December 13, 2021 – Decided December 22, 2021
    Before Judges Fasciale and Sumners.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Hudson County,
    Docket No. FG-09-0108-20.
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, attorney for
    appellant (Anastasia P. Winslow, Designated Counsel,
    on the brief).
    Andrew J. Bruck, Acting Attorney General, attorney for
    respondent (Melissa H. Raksa, Assistant Attorney
    General, of counsel; Sara M. Gregory, Deputy Attorney
    General, on the brief).
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law Guardian,
    attorney for minors (Meredith Alexis Pollock, Deputy
    Public Defender, of counsel; Louise M. Cho, Assistant
    Deputy Public Defender, of counsel and on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Defendant B.E.C., Jr. (the father) appeals from a July 22, 2020 order
    terminating his parental rights to R.S.C. (Rachelle), born in 2011, and L.W.C.
    (Liam), born in 2012.1 The father, who did not physically attend the Family
    Guardianship (FG) trial,2 argues that the Division of Child Protection and
    1
    These are fictitious names. See R. 1:38-3(d)(13).
    2
    The father participated in the trial telephonically as he was incarcerated in
    Arizona. The judge found his testimony was "honest and sincere" and that he
    was straightforward about the significance of his substance abuse addiction,
    incarceration and history of homelessness, periodic lack of communication with
    the Division, failure to comply with the Division's services, and failure to seek
    visitation with the children or make inquiry about the children's general welfare.
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    Permanency (Division) failed to prove by clear and convincing evidence each
    prong of the statutory best interests test under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a).       We
    disagree with defendant's arguments and affirm.
    I.
    We begin our discussion with the legal framework regarding the
    termination of parental rights. Parents have a constitutionally protected right to
    the care, custody, and control of their children. Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
    , 753 (1982); In re Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 346 (1999). That
    right is not absolute. N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. R.G., 
    217 N.J. 527
    ,
    553 (2014). At times, a parent's interest must yield to the State's obligation to
    protect children from harm. N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. G.M., 
    198 N.J. 382
    , 397 (2009); In re Guardianship of J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 10 (1992). To effectuate
    these concerns, the Legislature created a test for determining when parental
    rights must be terminated in a child's best interests. N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)
    requires the Division prove by clear and convincing evidence the following four
    prongs:
    (1) The child's safety, health, or development has been
    or will continue to be endangered by the parental
    relationship;
    (2) The parent is unwilling or unable to eliminate the
    harm facing the child or is unable or unwilling to
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    provide a safe and stable home for the child and the
    delay of permanent placement will add to the harm; 3
    (3) The [D]ivision has made reasonable efforts to
    provide services to help the parent correct the
    circumstances which led to the child's placement
    outside the home and the [judge] has considered
    alternatives to termination of parental rights; and
    (4) Termination of parental rights will not do more
    harm than good.
    The four prongs are not "discrete and separate," but "relate to and overlap with
    one another to provide a comprehensive standard that identifies a child's best
    interests."   K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 348
    .       "The considerations involved in
    determinations of parental fitness are 'extremely fact sensitive' and require
    particularized evidence that address the specific circumstances in the given
    case." 
    Ibid.
     (quoting In re Adoption of Children by L.A.S., 
    134 N.J. 127
    , 139
    (1993)).
    II.
    We now turn to the father's argument that the judge erred in finding the
    Division proved by clear and convincing evidence each of the four prongs under
    3
    We are aware that on July 2, 2021, the Legislature enacted L. 2021 c. 154,
    deleting the last sentence of N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(2), which read "[s]uch harm
    may include evidence that separating the child from his resource family parents
    would cause serious and enduring emotional or psychological harm to the child."
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    the best interests test.   We conclude that there exists substantial credible
    evidence to find that the Division satisfied the first prong under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a). We agree substantially with the decision rendered by the judge, and
    add these remarks.
    A.
    The first prong of the best interests test requires the Division demonstrate
    that the "child's safety, health, or development has been or will continue to be
    endangered by the parental relationship." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(1); see also
    K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 352
     (applying the first prong). The Division must prove that
    the child's health and development were threatened and will continue to be
    affected by the parent-child relationship. K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 348
    . The concern
    is not only with actual harm to the child, but also the risk of harm. In re
    Guardianship of D.M.H., 
    161 N.J. 365
    , 383 (1999). The focus is not on a single
    or isolated event, but rather on the effect "of harms arising from the parent-child
    relationship over time on the child's health and development." K.H.O., 161 N.J.
    at 348. However, the judge need not wait "until a child is actually irreparably
    impaired by parental inattention or neglect" to find child endangerment.
    D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 383. A parent's withdrawal of nurture and care for an
    extended time is a harm that endangers the health of a child. Id. at 379. When
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    children "languish in foster care" without a permanent home, their parents'
    failure to provide a permanent home may itself constitute harm. Id. at 383.
    The judge focused on the instability the children experienced since the
    father last saw them in 2012 or 2013. The judge found that during the father's
    absence, the children experienced medical neglect, housing instability, and
    Rachelle's maternal grandmother's paramour sexually abused her.                 She
    expressed concern about the father's long-term absence and found he "did little
    to nothing to protect [his] children." The judge also found that "[h]e had not
    seen the children for years since both the children were under three years old the
    last time he saw them. This neglect included failure to even keep in touch with
    the Division, failure to even inquire about the children, [and] failure to ask about
    visiting them."
    The judge noted that the father acknowledged "he hadn't seen the children
    in approximately [seven] years or even talked to them" and "he was difficult to
    contact." The judge found that the father
    made minimal attempts to reach out to the Division to
    follow-up on his children's status. He was offered
    visitation by letter sent to the addresses he claimed to
    reside at. But he simply didn't avail himself of these
    opportunities. He did not bother to read the complaint
    concerning his children, the complaint regarding the
    fact finding. Nor did he contact the [c]ourt to find out
    what the status of that case was.
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    The judge further noted that
    [w]hile his contact information and his phone number
    and address may have frequently changed[,] the
    Division's number was always accessible. In his
    testimony he claimed he didn't have it, but that's hard
    to accept when we do have information for the Division
    . . . as it was called then, certainly, has a phone number
    that is easy to find. His failure to make even minimal
    efforts to keep the children in a safe protected
    environment is clear. He simply wasn't available to the
    children. He failed to protect them and care for them.
    The judge found the Division established by clear and convincing
    evidence that the father endangered the children's safety, health, and
    development. His failure to provide even minimal parenting to his children
    resulted in harm to them. The father did not provide paternal care or support for
    the children. Indeed, even though he was allowed supervised visitation, the
    father visited the children only sporadically and when they were very young. In
    early 2020, he admitted he had not seen Rachelle since 2013 and could not recall
    the last time he saw Liam.
    The father was never able to maintain stable housing for himself, much
    less for his children. While residing in New Jersey and Arizona, he repeatedly
    moved from place-to-place living with relatives, girlfriends, out in the streets,
    or in hotels. As the record shows, his homelessness was due mainly to his
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    substance use; thus, the Division could not assess whether the homes he resided
    in were appropriate. Further, his lack of stable housing was for prolonged
    periods.
    B.
    The second prong of the best interests test requires the Division to present
    clear and convincing evidence that "[t]he parent is . . . unable or unwilling to
    provide a safe and stable home for the child and the delay of permanent
    placement will add to the harm." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(2). The inquiry for
    the judge is whether the parent has cured and overcome the initial harm that
    endangered the child, and the parent is able to continue the parental relationship
    without recurrent harm to the child. K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 348. The Division must
    show continued harm to the child because the parent is unable or unwilling to
    overcome or remove the harm. N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. L.J.D., 
    428 N.J. Super. 451
    , 483 (App. Div. 2012). The first and second prongs relate to
    one another and "evidence that supports one informs and may support the other
    as part of the comprehensive basis for determining the best interests of the
    child." D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 379. "Parental unfitness may also be demonstrated
    if the parent has failed to provide a 'safe and stable home for the child' and a
    'delay in permanent placement' will further harm the child." K.H.O., 161 N.J.
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    at 352 (quoting N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(2)). "Keeping [a] child in limbo, hoping
    for some long term unification plan, would be a misapplication of the law." N.J.
    Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. A.G., 
    344 N.J. Super. 418
    , 438 (App. Div. 2001).
    The judge found the Division established by clear and convincing
    evidence that the father is unwilling or unable to eliminate the harm posed to the
    child. The judge found there was "no indication he'll be able to parent the
    children in the foreseeable future." She based her finding on the father's history
    of substance abuse addiction, domestic violence issues, multiple incarcerations,
    mental health issues, and homelessness. The judge noted his "children simply
    do not know him." She noted the experts expressed concerns "that delay of
    permanency will cause the children harm." The father "has no home and no
    ability to care for the children."
    Although he acknowledged and was candid about his persistent substance
    abuse, the father declined and was inconsistent in attending treatment while
    under the supervision of the Division despite the services provided to help him
    overcome his substance abuse issue, which led to homelessness and multiple
    incarcerations throughout New Jersey and Arizona. The father had no plan to
    have the children placed with him. Although he maintained a period of sobriety
    in the past, his extensive history of relapses demonstrated his inability to remain
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    sober. His periods of sobriety only lasted a few months, with the longest being
    about nine months. His unstable housing combined with drug use, mental health
    issues, and voluntary withdrawal from his children's lives support the findings.
    C.
    The third prong requires evidence that "[t]he [D]ivision has made
    reasonable efforts to provide services to help the parent correct the
    circumstances which led to the child's placement outside the home and the
    [judge] has considered alternatives to termination of parental rights." N.J.S.A.
    30:4C-15.1(a)(3). "Reasonable efforts may include consultation with the parent,
    developing a plan for reunification, providing services essential to the
    realization of the reunification plan, informing the family of the child's progress,
    and facilitating visitation." N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 281 (2007) (internal quotation marks omitted). However, "the [D]ivision
    shall not be required to provide reasonable efforts to reunify the child with a
    parent if a court of competent jurisdiction has determined that . . . [t]he rights of
    the parent to another of the parent's children have been involuntarily
    terminated." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-11.3(c).
    The judge found the Division established by clear and convincing
    evidence that the Division made many attempts over the years to locate the father
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    by contacting his mother and probation officers, and reaching out to him through
    letters, phone calls, emails, and Facebook. The judge also found that he was
    incarcerated multiple times, experienced homelessness, and changed his phone
    number many times—making it difficult for the Division to locate him and
    implement services and visitation. The judge noted, "[i]t's difficult to conceive
    of what other services the Division could have offered [the father] through the
    years given their constant efforts to locate him and get [a] response from him,
    and his failure to get back to them or participate in and successfully finish most
    of the services."
    "The diligence of [the Division's] efforts on behalf of a parent is not
    measured by their success." D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 393. The Division "must
    encourage, foster and maintain the bond between the parent and child as a basis
    for the reunification of the family." Id. at 390. Reasonable efforts to reunite the
    family will depend on the circumstances of removal. N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam.
    Servs. v. F.H., 
    389 N.J. Super. 576
    , 620 (App. Div. 2007). The efforts by the
    Division to reunite the family should include, at a minimum:
    (1) consultation and cooperation with the parent in
    developing a plan for appropriate services;
    (2) providing services that have been agreed upon, to
    the family, in order to further the goal of family
    reunification;
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    (3) informing the parent at appropriate intervals of the
    child's progress, development, and health; and
    (4) facilitating appropriate visitation.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).]
    The father argues the Division did not make reasonable efforts to locate
    him, provide him with services, and facilitate visitation. He cites four cases in
    support of this assertion, but they do not support his position.
    The father's reliance on N.J. Division of Child Protection & Permanency
    v. A.S.K., 
    457 N.J. Super. 304
     (App. Div. 2017) is misplaced. In A.S.K., the
    Division failed to locate the defendant after filing a complaint for guardianship
    of the defendant's son. Id. at 311. The Division did not locate the defendant
    until eleven months after the filing. Ibid. The Division acknowledged that, in
    its search efforts for the defendant, there were some deviations from its normal
    procedure, but the defendant was ultimately located. N.J. Div. of Child Prot. &
    Permanency v. A.S.K, 
    236 N.J. 429
    , 430 (2019).              The Supreme Court
    "perceive[d] no prejudice" in the delay of service "on a biological parent who is
    not currently in the picture for a child under the [Division's] supervision." 
    Ibid.
    (internal quotation marks omitted). The Court determined that the Division's
    current "processes would be enhanced by conducting a new search for a parent
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    for each phase of litigation, regardless of the recency of the previous search, and
    implementing procedures that retain a party's past contact information, with
    effective dates, to promote the accuracy of such information." 
    Ibid.
    Here, defendant contends "for a significant span of the proceedings below
    and lasting a period of nearly seven years (from early 2013 through 2019), [the
    Division] made—in its own words—'minimal efforts to contact [defendant].'"
    Unlike in A.S.K., where the issue was the Division's failure to run a new search
    after it filed the guardianship complaint, the father was served but again chose
    to make himself unavailable. The record shows that he did not respond to
    multiple calls, emails, or letters from the Division and was aware the Division
    was involved with the children when he relocated to Arizona. The Division
    granted him supervised visitation while residing in New Jersey, but he often
    failed to show up. After he was served with the guardianship complaint, he did
    not stay in contact with the Division, obtain suitable housing, or develop a plan
    for how he would care for his children.
    N.J. Division of Youth & Family Services v. R.G., 
    217 N.J. 527
     (2014) is
    distinguishable as well. Six months after the child's birth, the defendant was
    arrested and sentenced to a five-year prison term. 
    Id. at 536
    . The defendant
    remained incarcerated during the Division's attempts to reunify the family and
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    during the guardianship trial. 
    Id. at 536-37
    . The Court concluded the Division
    failed to show the defendant's incarceration caused harm to the child because
    the defendant parented the child prior to his incarceration, remained a part of
    the child's life, and communicated with the child while incarcerated. 
    Id.
     at 559-
    62.
    The Court further held that "incarceration alone—without particularized
    evidence of how a parent's incarceration affects each prong of the best-interests-
    of-the-child standard—is an insufficient basis for terminating parental rights."
    
    Id. at 556
    . "[I]ncarceration is a relevant factor in resolving termination of
    parental rights cases," but "it is by no means settled or obvious that incarceration
    is so inimical to the parental relationship as to justify its termination as a matter
    of law." 
    Id. at 555
     (quoting In re Adoption of Children by L.A.S., 
    134 N.J. at 137-38
    ). The Court found that the Division visited the parent once in prison,
    called him once, completed two psychological evaluations but did not complete
    a bonding evaluation, did not provide him with his daughter's letters, did not
    facilitate telephone calls with his children, and never compared the programs he
    participated in prison to the Division's programs. Id. at 562-63.
    Here, the Division's inability to provide the father services was not a result
    of its unreasonableness or his incarceration. Unlike the defendant in R.G., the
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    father has never lived with his children and has never cared for or supported
    them. Other than the occasional interactions with the children during the few
    supervised visitations he chose to attend seven years before trial, he never made
    any effort to communicate with or contact his children, either during or between
    his periods of incarceration. Also, even when the father resided in New Jersey,
    he failed to arrange for visits or to show up for scheduled visits arranged by the
    Division.
    When he relocated to Arizona and was aware the Division was still
    involved with his children, he failed to inform the Division of his move or
    inquire about his children's status. The father did not contact, communicate
    with, or write to the children during defendant's periods of incarceration over
    the years. Even though he believed he could not contact them due to a Final
    Restraining Order (FRO), the FRO and court orders did not prohibit contact.
    Further, the record does not show whether he knew anything about his children's
    lives, such as names of their doctors or the schools they attended. Instead, the
    credible evidence in the record supports the judge's finding that the children
    "simply do not know him."
    In New Jersey and Arizona, the Division attempted to locate the father
    through police searches, litigation searches, Human Services Police, letters to
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    known addresses, Facebook, emails, and phone calls to relatives and his
    probation officers. When the Division could locate him, he was referred for
    services including psychological evaluations, substance abuse evaluations,
    anger management classes, domestic violence counseling, and supervised
    visitation. Aside from completing one series of anger management classes, he
    was non-compliant with services. Additionally, defendant admitted he did not
    make himself available to the Division and that he was homeless for prolonged
    periods.
    The father contends the Division failed to investigate potential paternal
    relative placements, specifically his aunt and uncle in Little Egg Harbor and
    relatives in Ohio. The father does not argue the children should have been
    placed with another relative. The judge concluded that the Division considered
    alternatives to termination of parental rights. She noted the children's placement
    with the maternal uncle "did not work out" and other relatives did not offer a
    workable placement.
    As part of its analysis of the third prong, the judge must consider
    alternatives to the termination of parental rights. N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(3).
    The Division must "initiate a search for relatives . . . who may be willing and
    able to provide the care and support required by the child." N.J.S.A. 30:4C -
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    12.1(a). When the Division has identified a willing and able relative, it "shall
    complete an assessment of each interested relative's . . . ability to provide the
    care and support, including placement, required by the child." Ibid.
    Generally, a child's placement in the care of a relative or friend who is
    willing and able to accept the child is preferred. In re E.M.B., 
    348 N.J. Super. 31
    , 34 (App. Div. 2002) (noting the Division's "policy to place children with
    relatives when possible"). However, N.J.S.A. 30:4C-12.1(b) grants the Division
    the authority to "rule out" relatives or friends whom the agency determines are
    unable or unwilling to assume care for the child or with respect to whom
    placement would not be in the child's best interest. See N.J. Div. of Youth and
    Fam. Servs. v. J.S., 
    433 N.J. Super. 69
    , 85 (App. Div. 2013) (upholding the
    Division's rule-out authority based on a person's unwillingness or inability to
    care for the child, as well the child's best interests). In those circumstances, the
    Division "shall not be required to re-evaluate the relative." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    12.1(b).
    There is substantial evidence in the record to show the Division
    considered available alternatives to termination of parental rights. The Division
    investigated placement with relatives from the children's mother, M.E.L.-B.,
    (Megan)'s and the father's families. The record is unclear on whether Megan's
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    relatives were ruled out due to no response or housing concerns. The father's
    mother was ruled out due to ongoing mental health concerns, ongoing substance
    abuse issues, and financial inability to provide care for the children.         The
    children were initially placed with the maternal uncle, but then he requested the
    children be removed. The Division also investigated Megan's half-sister S.B.
    (Sonia).
    Defendant argues that only two rule-out letters were provided in the record
    and that the Division failed to investigate his relatives in Little Egg Harbor and
    Ohio. His argument is misplaced. There is no suggestion in the record that
    these relatives were interested in caring for the children, let alone that they were
    able to provide a safe and stable placement. Under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-12.1(a), the
    Division is only obliged to assess "each interested relative's ability to provide
    the care and support." As to these relatives, there is no basis to conclude they
    were interested in being considered as placements; therefore, the Division had
    no obligation to investigate them further.
    The judge found that Sonia credibly testified as to her desire to adopt the
    children. The judge determined that she understood the differences between
    Kinship Legal Guardianship (KLG) and adoption and, ultimately, she decided
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    to adopt because she loved the children, did not want to enable Megan, and
    wanted to ensure the children's safety from the father.
    KLG serves as a potential alternative to the termination of parental rights.
    N.J. Div. of Child Prot. & Permanency v. M.M., 
    459 N.J. Super. 246
    , 259 (App.
    Div. 2019). KLG "was enacted because 'the Legislature recognized that an
    increasing number of children who cannot safely reside with their parents are in
    the care of a relative or a family friend who does not wish to adopt the child or
    children.'" 
    Ibid.
     (quoting N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. L.L., 
    201 N.J. 210
    , 222-23 (2010)); N.J.S.A. 3B:12A-1(c). The relative caregiver must be
    informed about the pros and cons of KLG, as required under the Kinship Legal
    Guardianship Notification Act. 
    Id. at 261
    . If a trial judge approves KLG as an
    alternative to termination, the birth parent retains the right to consent to his or
    her child's adoption, name change, can have visits with the child, and remains
    obligated to pay child support. 
    Id.
     at 260 (citing N.J.S.A. 3B:12A-4(a)(2)-(5)).
    However, "when the permanency provided by adoption is available, kinship
    legal guardianship cannot be used as a defense to termination of parental rights."
    N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. P.P., 
    180 N.J. 494
    , 513 (2004).
    Accordingly, a caregiver's consent regarding adoption needs to be informed,
    "unconditional, unambiguous, and unqualified." M.M., 459 N.J. Super. at 264.
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    The father's contentions that Sonia "repeatedly testified her first choice
    was KLG," and that she "repeatedly . . . felt pressured by [Division] caseworkers
    to select adoption," misrepresents the record. At first, Sonia considered KLG
    because she wanted to give her "sister the opportunity to prove herself ."
    However, she ultimately preferred adoption because she wanted to ensure the
    children's safety from the father. Unlike in M.M., she was fully committed to
    adoption and understood that, under KLG, the judge could order visitation for
    Megan and the father, and under adoption she would control visitation.
    D.
    The fourth prong of the best interests test requires a determination that the
    termination of parental rights "will not do more harm than good." N.J.S.A.
    30:4C-15.1(a)(4). The judge must ask whether "after considering and balancing
    the two relationships, the child will suffer a greater harm from the termination
    of ties with [his or] her natural parents than from the permanent disruption of
    [his or] her relationship with [his or] her foster parents." K.H.O, 161 N.J. at
    355. This prong "cannot require a showing that no harm will befall the child as
    a result of the severing of biological ties." Ibid. "The overriding consideration
    under this prong remains the child's need for permanency and stability." L.J.D.,
    428 N.J. Super. at 491-92. "Ultimately, a child has a right to live in a stable,
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    nurturing environment and to have the psychological security that his most
    deeply formed attachments will not be shattered." N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam.
    Servs. v. F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 453 (2012). "A child cannot be held prisoner of
    the rights of others, even those of his or her parents. Children have their own
    rights, including the right to a permanent, safe and stable placement." N.J. Div.
    of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. C.S., 
    367 N.J. Super. 76
    , 111 (App. Div. 2004).
    The judge found the Division established by clear and convincing
    evidence that terminating the father's parental rights would not do more harm
    than good. She relied upon experts Dr. Gerard Figurelli's and Dr. Elizabeth
    Smith's testimony regarding the children's need for permanency, how the
    children were suffering from lack of permanency, and that delaying
    "permanency would cause serious and enduring harm." The judge noted the
    experts opined "that termination of parental rights would not cause more harm
    than good, but will instead free these children from limbo. The limbo is itself
    causing them harm." The judge also found that the children expressed their
    desire to be with Sonia and that the children "clearly need permanency."
    Figurelli's and Smith's testimony supports the conclusion that the fourth
    prong was satisfied, and that termination will not do more harm than good. Both
    experts opined the children were suffering from a lack of permanency, the
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    children were on their way to irreparable harm, and that termination would free
    the children from limbo. Sonia's testimony established that termination is likely
    to result in the countervailing benefit of adoption, and a permanent and stable
    home.
    The children had no bond with the father. He admitted that he had been
    absent from their lives for seven years and chose not to be involved in their lives.
    He could not recall the last time he saw Liam. Thus, although the law recognizes
    that some harm to a child inevitably results from the termination of a parental
    relationship, where a parent is estranged from the child, that harm cannot be
    considered significant, particularly when balanced against the certain good of a
    stable placement and the likelihood of adoption.
    The father's arguments "that the children had spent little time in foster
    care, had not bonded with their foster parents, and [the Division] did not even
    engage an expert to opine on the nature and extent of the children's relationship
    with the foster parents at the time of trial" is misplaced. The Division's plan
    was adoption by Sonia rather than continued placement with the resource
    parents. The judge had sufficient evidence based on her testimony and the
    testimony from the experts to conclude that placement with and adoption by
    Sonia would greatly benefit the children. The father argues the Division did not
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    conduct a bonding evaluation with him. But he conceded that if a bonding
    evaluation was conducted between him and the children, it would have been
    "unnatural" because the children did not know him.
    To the extent we have not addressed any other argument, we conclude that
    they lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion in a written opinion. R. 2:11-
    3(e)(1)(E).
    Affirmed.
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