PAUL W. BENSON v. MARIA L. BENSON (FM-02-2458-17, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) ( 2022 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-0481-20
    PAUL W. BENSON,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    MARIA L. BENSON,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    _______________________
    Argued May 18, 2022 – Decided July 11, 2022
    Before Judges Gilson and Gummer.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County,
    Docket No. FM-02-2458-17.
    Andrew M. Shaw argued the cause for appellant (Shaw
    Divorce & Family Law LLC, attorneys; Andrew M.
    Shaw, on the briefs).
    Timothy J. Foley argued the cause for respondent
    (Foley & Foley, attorneys; Timothy J. Foley and
    Christopher T. Karounos, of counsel and on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    In this post-judgment matrimonial action, defendant Maria L. Benson
    appeals from the denial of her cross-motion to compel the recusal of plaintiff's
    counsel. Because defendant waived the right to object to plaintiff's counsel's
    representation in post-judgment matters related to enforcement of the judgment
    of divorce and did not demonstrate any new basis to disqualify counsel, we reject
    her arguments and affirm.
    I.
    The following facts are gleaned from the record, focusing on the facts
    pertaining to the issue of the disqualification of plaintiff's counsel, the sole issue
    raised on appeal.
    The parties were married in 1995. Plaintiff Paul W. Benson filed a
    complaint for divorce in 2017. During this contentious litigation, plaintiff has
    been represented by the same lawyer, Christopher T. Karounos. Defendant
    made several attempts to disqualify him based on a purported conflict. Those
    efforts were either denied by the trial court or withdrawn by defendant.
    After several trial days, the parties reached a final comprehensive
    settlement regarding all issues except custody.1 Both parties were represented
    1
    In a February 6, 2020 order, the trial judge awarded temporary legal and
    physical custody of the parties' fifteen-year-old son to plaintiff and designated
    plaintiff as the parent of primary residence.
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    by counsel when the terms of the settlement were placed on the record on
    February 5, 2020.        The parties had an extensive discussion about the
    disqualification issue on the record.       In that discussion, defense counsel
    expressly acknowledged defendant was waiving her right to appeal the
    disqualification-motion orders.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Okay. Because this is a
    global financial settlement as it relates to equitable
    distribution and all other financial issues, both parties
    are waiving their right to appeal any of the issues,
    including any pretrial motions relating to
    disqualification [of counsel] or the like.
    ....
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: It doesn't in any way prevent
    anybody to take any action with regard to any collateral
    actions, but that as it relates to the appeal in the
    Appellate Division, those issues are waived.
    THE COURT: In other words, this is over once we
    settle it, nobody can go to appeal and say, well it's not
    really a settlement because somebody had a conflict.
    Do you understand that, Ms. Benson?
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes, Your Honor.
    THE COURT: And you understand that?
    [PLAINTIFF]: Yes, sir.
    THE COURT: Okay. Go ahead.
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    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: And Your Honor, just to
    clarify that language. And again, all other rights are
    preserved. It's not only the appeal, any arguments
    regarding conflict as to, from March 10th 2018 --
    THE COURT: Entering into the agreement.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: -- through today.
    THE COURT: For litigation purposes.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]:          For the purposes of
    litigation, trial.
    THE COURT: Not for any other collateral purposes.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Correct.
    THE COURT: Any other venues, but to say that there
    was a conflict here in this litigation for appeal, for
    appeal purposes.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: That's it, limited --
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: And for the purposes of
    right now me representing Mr. Benson, I am here as a
    nonconflicted attorney appearing for this.
    THE COURT: Well, but the only place to go is appeal,
    you can't --
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Right.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: And the validity of this
    agreement.
    THE COURT: The agreement is valid.
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    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Okay.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: What we're doing right --
    THE COURT: For litigation purposes, it's valid.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: The actions we are taking
    today are in an effort to resolve the case, both parties
    are entering into an arm's length transaction.
    THE COURT: Right.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: That's --
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: With counsel. If down the
    road there is a reason for my client, in another venue,
    subject to another issue, even if it's a court, not an
    appellate court, she has the right to assert any claims or
    defenses she may have in a court. It doesn't mean that
    [plaintiff's counsel] if for something, there's an
    intervening event that she has an objection to, she can
    raise it.
    THE COURT: Yes, but that will not in any way void
    or affect the judgment of divorce.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: That's our understanding as
    well.
    THE COURT: With the terms and conditions that we're
    entering into.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Correct, Judge.
    THE COURT: That's the, as between [the parties], all
    things are resolved today, let's put it that way.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Correct, Judge.
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    THE COURT: Maybe that's the best way to put it.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]:           Correct. That's fine,
    Judge.
    THE COURT: Okay.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: And just to make it clear,
    any post judgment of divorce actions, relating to this,
    there is no disqualification.
    THE COURT: Well, that -- what do you mean there's
    no disqualification?
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: If there's a motion based
    on whatever is put on the record here today, there's no
    disqualification, it's gone.
    THE COURT: Yes, I am not precluding anybody, in a
    post judgment motion, to file a motion to disqualify
    somebody in that post judgment motion.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]:            That's what I'm saying,
    Judge.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Well --
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: You can deny it, but --
    THE COURT: Or I could grant it. Or so another
    [j]udge --
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: I don't think we can prevent
    someone from making --
    THE COURT: -- in the future.
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    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: -- such an application.
    THE COURT: For in the future, for a post judgment
    motion on one of these things, somebody could say --
    and there could be other reasons for conflicts.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Correct.
    THE COURT: But it's not grounds to invalidate the
    agreement --
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: This agreement.
    THE COURT: -- as of today.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]:               Understood.        My
    understanding Your Honor, was that the issue of
    conflict for the purposes of the divorce, is gone.
    Nothing therein affects [defendant's] rights as to any
    ethics issues or other types of entities, but as far as the
    divorce and my representation of [plaintiff] --
    THE COURT: Up to today.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: It was my understanding
    for the divorce.
    THE COURT: And appeal.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: For appeal. If there's post
    judgment motions, I'm still his lawyer.
    THE COURT: Well he don't -- maybe -- she can make
    an application.
    [DEFENSE COUNSEL]: She has to have the right.
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    THE COURT: Going forward there might be, she
    always has that right.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Okay.
    THE COURT: If there's any post judgment motion.
    After a series of questions by her counsel, defendant confirmed she
    believed the settlement was "a fair and reasonable outcome under all of the
    circumstances."   The following exchange took place after defense counsel
    completed his questioning of defendant:
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: And Mrs. Benson, for the
    purposes only of the trial through this moment right
    now, and appeal purposes, between March 10, 2018 and
    today, you heard the terms, you agree for these
    purposes only, there is no conflict, we can put the
    settlement through as we have just done, with me
    representing Mr. Benson, correct?
    THE COURT: No, don't turn, this is to you -- do you
    understand that?
    [DEFENDANT]: I didn't know he was going to start
    talking again after --
    THE COURT:        Do you have a problem with that
    question?
    [DEFENDANT]: Say it again, can you repeat that.
    THE COURT: All right, let me say it. Do you
    understand that between the agreement and today, all
    that time, and everything that went on, at least for
    purposes of appeal and litigation, that Mr. Karounos
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    has no conflict, that you can't allege on appeal that
    whatever happened all along and today --
    [DEFENDANT]: And today.
    THE COURT: And today, not just for today, but
    everything that went along in this litigation.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes, Your Honor.
    THE COURT: For purposes of appeal.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes.
    THE COURT: You understand that.
    [DEFENDANT]: Not including post judgment.
    THE COURT: Not including post judgment, just for
    today.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes.
    THE COURT: You understand that.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes.
    THE COURT: Okay.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]:                And lastly you
    understand that I will still be drafting and interacting
    with your attorney until the [c]ourt --
    THE COURT: Well --
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: I have to put in an order
    in Judge.
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    THE COURT: No, when post judgment --
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Until the actual entry of
    the judgment of divorce and everything is finalized, I
    will still be acting as Mr. Benson's attorney, you
    understand that.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes.
    [PLAINTIFF'S COUNSEL]: Without conflict, for this
    purpose.
    [DEFENDANT]: Yes.
    Defense counsel did not object to any of those questions.
    The judge issued a judgment of divorce on February 5, 2020, apparently
    intending to issue an amended judgment with a copy of the February 5, 2020
    transcript attached. 2 In a February 20, 2020 letter to counsel, the judge stated
    the court could not accept "the transcript as an attachment to an [a]mended
    [j]udgment of [d]ivorce to establish the terms of the agreement" and directed
    plaintiff's counsel to file under the five-day rule, R. 4:42-1(c), an amended
    judgment of divorce, "itemizing the terms and conditions of the agreement as
    testified to on the record and memorialized in the transcript." On March 20,
    2020, the trial judge heard oral argument regarding the proposed form of the
    2
    The record does not include a copy of the February 5, 2020 judgment.
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    amended judgment and issued the amended dual judgment of divorce (AJOD)
    on March 23, 2020.3 The AJOD states, in relevant part:
    Both parties are waiving their right to appeal any of the
    issues in the entire divorce, from inception through
    entry of the JOD and the within Amended JOD,
    including any pretrial or trial motions relating to the
    disqualification of Plaintiff's counsel, or the like but
    defendant does not waive the right to bring
    administrative or ethics claims, or object to plaintiff's
    counsel's representation in any post judgment matter
    unrelated to enforcement of the Judgment of Divorce or
    Agreement memorialized on the record on February 5,
    2020.
    Plaintiff moved for reconsideration of the AJOD, and defendant cross-
    moved for various relief, including relieving plaintiff's counsel.4 In a June 29,
    2020 order, the trial judge granted in part and denied in part the motion and
    cross-motion, specifically denying the aspect of defendant's cross-motion
    concerning plaintiff's counsel: "This issue was addressed . . . during extensive
    pretrial proceedings, motions, and case management conferences and was
    addressed by the court at the trial. Any issues regarding plaintiff's counsel
    3
    The record does not include a transcript of the March 20, 2020 argument or
    any documents the parties may have submitted under the five-day rule regarding
    the proposed form of order.
    4
    The record does not include copies of the parties' submissions or a transcript
    of any subsequent oral argument.
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    pertaining to this litigation are concluded at the trial level." Defendant did not
    appeal the AJOD or the June 29, 2020 order.
    On July 18, 2020, plaintiff moved to enforce litigant's rights, compel
    compliance with certain provisions of the AJOD, and for fees. Defendant cross-
    moved for, among other things, entry of an
    [o]rder compelling the [p]laintiff's attorney to recuse
    himself based upon his clearly inappropriate conduct
    relative to his preparation and filing of pro se papers on
    behalf of his client in the State of Florida, and,
    thereafter, his attempt to force service of process of
    those pro se pleadings, through the use of his law
    offices, upon [d]efendant's attorney in New Jersey, and
    his admitted photographing of [d]efendant's attorney's
    law offices.
    In her notice of cross-motion, defendant did not make any other reference to
    recusing plaintiff's counsel or state any other reason or basis for his recusal. In
    one sentence in her twelve-page certification in support of her cross-motion,
    defendant describes plaintiff's counsel as "[p]laintiff's best friend, and his long-
    standing attorney, who was my attorney personally and the attorney of the
    business for which I was principal for years . . . ." In her certification, defendant
    recounted how in response to a request defendant had made through her counsel
    for a visit with the parties' minor son, plaintiff's counsel stated the following in
    an August 4, 2020 email on which the parties' reunification therapist was copied:
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    Even though [the minor son's b]irthday has been August
    4th for the past 17 years it appears your client only
    recalled same earlier today. What that says about her
    as [the minor son's] biological mother (clearly referring
    to her as his mom would not be appropriate at this time)
    is better left to [the parties' therapists] to determine.
    Defendant asserted plaintiff's counsel's description of her "as a mother [wa]s .
    . . outrageous."
    In defense counsel's certification in support of the cross-motion, he stated
    plaintiff's counsel had "demonstrated a complete disregard of basic [c]ourt
    [r]ules, appropriate decorum, and decency as it relates to his submissions to the
    [c]ourt" and "[h]e has also demonstrated a predisposition to blur the line between
    himself and his client to the point that he can no longer be designated the
    attorney of record in this matter." At oral argument, defense counsel elaborated,
    accusing plaintiff's counsel of using "deceptive" motion practice techniques,
    such as using extremely small font and single spaces to add more pages to his
    motions and certifications. Defense counsel asserted plaintiff's counsel had
    "engag[ed] in invasive and outrageous activity at [his] offices, taking
    photographs, performing surveillance, and who knows what else" when he
    attempted on August 7, 2020, to serve defendant through defense counsel with
    a pro se application plaintiff had filed in Florida. Defendant's counsel also
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    contended plaintiff's counsel had prepared the pro se application on behalf of
    plaintiff in the Florida lawsuit.
    In opposition to defendant's cross-motion, plaintiff's counsel described the
    photographs of defense counsel's office doors as "an example of a mainstream
    process server's open advertisement of how they use video confirmation for
    when service is actually attempted." Plaintiff's counsel denied attempting to
    serve the Florida documents on defendant through her counsel and indicated that
    copies of the documents were simply forwarded to defense counsel. Defendant
    apparently had filed in Florida an application seeking a temporary restraining
    order against plaintiff and temporary custody of the parties' minor son, contrary
    to the February 6, 2020 custody order. The Florida court subsequently dismissed
    her application. Her counsel acknowledged it was a "mistake" to seek custody
    of the parties' minor son in Florida. The trial judge called her Florida application
    "frivolous."
    After hearing oral argument, the trial judge denied the aspect of
    defendant's cross-motion seeking to compel the recusal of plaintiff's counsel:
    [D]efendant's application to the [c]ourt to order
    plaintiff's counsel to recuse himself is denied. I know
    there's vitriol between the parties, between counsel,
    among each other. It's still denied. You can go to the
    Appellate Division, you could go to . . . other forums
    should people want to go. I had advise[d] counsel, they
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    are aware there are other forums to go, but I'm not going
    to recuse [plaintiff's counsel] now or in the future,
    hopefully there is no future in this case.
    On September 3, 2020, the trial judge issued an order in which he, among other
    things, denied the aspect of defendant's motion seeking an order compelling
    plaintiff's counsel to recuse himself.
    On appeal, defendant argues the trial judge erred in denying the recusal
    aspect of her motion because plaintiff's counsel (1) previously had represented
    defendant in "matters substantially related to the underlying divorce
    proceedings" and (2) had violated Rules of Professional Conduct 3.2 and 3.4(a).
    Defendant asks us to remand the case and require it be assigned to a different
    judge. In response, plaintiff argues defendant failed to raise the conflict issue
    in her cross-motion, the conflict issue was adjudicated in the AJOD, and his
    counsel's zealous advocacy did not warrant the extreme sanction of
    disqualification.   In reply, defendant denies she waived the right to seek
    disqualification of plaintiff's counsel in post-judgment proceedings and argues
    plaintiff's counsel "both prejudgment and post-judgment . . . acted in a matter
    that violates both the courtesy and fairness requirements under the Rules of
    Professional Conduct."
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    II.
    "We review the Family Part judge's findings in accordance with a
    deferential standard of review, recognizing the court's 'special jurisdiction and
    expertise in family matters.'" Thieme v. Aucoin-Thieme, 
    227 N.J. 269
    , 282-83
    (2016) (quoting Cesare v. Cesare, 
    154 N.J. 394
    , 413 (1998)). We reverse "only
    when a mistake must have been made because the trial court's factual findings
    are 'so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant
    and reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice . . . .'"
    Spangenberg v. Kolakowski, 
    442 N.J. Super. 529
    , 535 (App. Div. 2015)
    (quoting Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Invs. Ins. Co. of Am., 
    65 N.J. 474
    , 484
    (1974)). We review de novo questions of law. Amzler v. Amzler, 
    463 N.J. Super. 187
    , 197 (App. Div. 2020).       For example, the "[i]nterpretation and
    construction of a contract is a matter of law for the court subject to de novo
    review."   Steele v. Steele, 
    467 N.J. Super. 414
    , 440 (App. Div.) (quoting
    Fastenberg v. Prudential Ins. Co. of Am., 
    309 N.J. Super. 415
    , 420 (App. Div.
    1998)), certif. denied, 
    248 N.J. 235
     (2021).
    Settlement of matrimonial disputes is "encouraged and highly valued in
    our system." Quinn v. Quinn, 
    225 N.J. 34
    , 44 (2016). Settlement agreements,
    including settlement agreements in matrimonial actions, are governed by basic
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    contract principles and, as such, courts should discern and implement the parties'
    intent. J.B. v. W.B., 
    215 N.J. 305
    , 326 (2013). "The court's role is to consider
    what is written in the context of the circumstances at the time of drafting and to
    apply a rational meaning in keeping with the 'expressed general purpose.'"
    Pacifico v. Pacifico, 
    190 N.J. 258
    , 266 (2007) (quoting Atl. N. Airlines, Inc. v.
    Schwimmer, 
    12 N.J. 293
    , 302 (1953)). "[A] court should not rewrite a contract
    or grant a better deal than that for which the parties expressly bargained."
    Quinn, 225 N.J. at 45. "[W]hen the intent of the parties is plain and the language
    is clear and unambiguous, a court must enforce the agreement as written, unless
    doing so would lead to an absurd result." Ibid.
    The parties placed the terms of their settlement agreement on the record
    on February 5, 2020. Those terms were memorialized in the AJOD. Neither
    party appealed that judgment or the June 29, 2020 order regarding plaintiff's
    motion for reconsideration and defendant's cross-motion for various relief. The
    language of the AJOD is unambiguous.
    Both parties are waiving their right to appeal any of the
    issues in the entire divorce, from inception through
    entry of the JOD and the within Amended JOD,
    including any pretrial or trial motions relating to the
    disqualification of Plaintiff's counsel, or the like but
    defendant does not waive the right to bring
    administrative or ethics claims, or object to plaintiff's
    counsel's representation in any post judgment matter
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    unrelated to enforcement of the Judgment of Divorce or
    Agreement memorialized on the record on February 5,
    2020.
    [(Emphasis added).]
    Thus, pursuant to the AJOD, defendant was barred from raising a
    disqualification argument except in "any post judgment matter unrelated to the
    enforcement of the Judgment of Divorce or Agreement . . . ."
    The post-judgment matter in response to which defendant filed the cross-
    motion seeking an order to compel plaintiff's counsel's recusal was plaintiff's
    motion directly related to the enforcement of the AJOD. The trial court properly
    denied the disqualification aspect of defendant's cross-motion based on the clear
    language of the AJOD.
    Relying on isolated quotes from the February 5, 2020 transcript, defendant
    attempts to argue the AJOD does not reflect the parties' agreement. The way to
    object to the language of a judgment is to appeal the judgment – something
    neither party did. Defendant can't make an end run around her failure to appeal
    the AJOD by belatedly arguing now it does not reflect the parties' agreement.
    Moreover, reviewing the transcript of the February 5, 2020 proceeding in
    its entirety, we are convinced the terms of the AJOD match the parties'
    agreement regarding defendant's disqualification argument.       It is clear the
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    parties intended that the judgment or any effort to enforce it could not be
    attacked by a renewed effort by defendant to raise again her previously-rejected
    disqualification argument. As defense counsel stated on the record:
    Because this is a global financial settlement . . . , both
    parties are waiving their right to appeal any of the
    issues, including any pretrial motions relating to
    disqualification or the like.
    ....
    It doesn't in any way prevent anybody to take any action
    with regard to any collateral actions, but that as it
    relates to the appeal in the Appellate Division, those
    issues are waived.
    ....
    The actions we are taking today are in an effort to
    resolve the case.
    ....
    If down the road there is reason for my client, in another
    venue, subject to another issue, even if it’s a court, not
    an appellate court, she has the right to assert any claims
    or defenses she may have in a court.
    Plaintiff's motion was not a "collateral action[]," "in another venue, subject to
    another issue." It was a motion to enforce the AJOD. Defendant raised again
    her disqualification argument in a cross-motion, trying to defeat plaintiff's
    motion to enforce the AJOD. Both on the record and as memorialized in the
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    AJOD, defendant clearly waived the ability to renew that argument in an effort
    to defeat a motion to enforce the judgment.
    In addition to her previously-made conflict argument, defendant raised a
    purportedly new basis for plaintiff's counsel's disqualification, alleged
    violations of Rules of Professional Conduct 3.2 and 3.4(a), based on events that
    occurred after the AJOD was issued. Specifically, defendant faulted plaintiff's
    counsel for the April 4, 2020 email in which he referred to defendant as a
    "biological mother" and for allegedly attempting to serve papers from the
    Florida action on defense counsel.
    In considering defendant's argument, we are mindful "[d]isqualification
    of counsel is a harsh discretionary remedy which must be used sparingly."
    Dental Health Assocs. S. Jersey, P.A. v. RRI Gibbsboro, LLC, 
    471 N.J. Super. 184
    , 192 (App. Div. 2022) (quoting Cavallaro v. Jamco Prop. Mgmt., 
    334 N.J. Super. 557
    , 572 (App. Div. 2000)). "In determining whether to disqualify
    counsel, the court must balance 'the need to maintain the highest standards of
    the profession against a client's right to freely choose his [or her] counsel.'" Van
    Horn v. Van Horn, 
    415 N.J. Super. 398
    , 415 (App. Div. 2010) (quoting
    Cavallaro, 
    334 N.J. Super. at 572
    ). Because the determination of whether
    counsel should be disqualified presents an issue of law, we review that decision
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    de novo. City of Atl. City v. Trupos, 
    201 N.J. 447
    , 463 (2010); Dental Health
    Assocs., 471 N.J. Super. at 192.
    Rule of Professional Conduct (RPC) 3.2 provides, in relevant part, "[a]
    lawyer . . . shall treat with courtesy and consideration all persons involved in
    the legal process."     Our Supreme Court has stated "[t]he concept of
    professionalism embodied in RPC 3.2 lies at the core of what it means to be a
    good lawyer."      Baxt v. Liloia, 
    155 N.J. 190
    , 203 (1998).      "Vilification,
    intimidation, abuse and threats have no place in the legal arsenal."      In re
    Mezzacca, 
    67 N.J. 387
    , 389-90 (1975).
    In In re Vincenti, an attorney violated RPC 3.2 "by clear and convincing
    evidence" when he "threatened opposing counsel, engaged in vulgar name -
    calling" before trial and "continued to engage in vulgar name-calling" of
    opposing counsel and opposing counsel's witnesses during trial, while also
    challenging both opposing counsel and one of opposing counsel's witnesses to a
    fight. 
    114 N.J. 275
    , 278, 281 (1989). The attorney also "used threatening,
    abusive, and vulgar language directed to the trial judge's law clerk" and
    repeatedly made "verbal attacks" that "carried invidious racial connotations."
    
    Id. at 278, 283
    .
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    RPC 3.4(a) provides that a lawyer shall not "unlawfully obstruct another
    party's access to evidence or unlawfully alter, destroy or conceal a document or
    other material having potential evidentiary value, or counsel or assist another
    person to do any such act." In In re Forrest, 
    158 N.J. 428
    , 436 (1999), the
    Supreme Court found an attorney had violated RPC 3.4(a) by failing to disclose
    to his adversary that his client had died and had deliberately misled his adversary
    by serving discovery responses propounded on his client without disclosing his
    client was deceased.
    The trial judge rejected defendant's new disqualification argument,
    acknowledging the "vitriol between the parties, between counsel, among each
    other." Mutual vitriol does not call for disqualification of one party's attorney.
    Plaintiff's counsel's alleged post-judgment bad acts – referring to defendant as a
    "biological mother" and serving on defense counsel papers from a Florida case
    his client had initiated – are not comparable to the actions of counsel in In re
    Vincenti, 
    114 N.J. at 281
    , or In re Forrest, 
    158 N.J. at 436
    , and do not merit the
    ultimate sanction of disqualification.
    Affirmed.
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