DCPP VS. D.C. AND C.A.R., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF C.E.R. (FG-13-0056-19, MONMOUTH COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2021 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-2656-19T1
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION
    OF CHILD PROTECTION
    AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    D.C.,
    Defendant-Appellant,
    and
    C.A.R.,
    Defendant.
    __________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE
    GUARDIANSHIP OF C.E.R.,
    a minor.
    __________________________
    Argued November 30, 2020 – Decided January 14, 2021
    Before Judges Fasciale and Susswein.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County,
    Docket No. FG-13-0056-19.
    Beatrix W. Shear, Designated Counsel, argued the
    cause for appellant (Joseph E. Krakora, Public
    Defender, attorney; Beatrix W. Shear, on the briefs).
    Jane C. Shuster, Assistant Attorney General, argued the
    cause for respondent (Gurbir S. Grewal, Attorney
    General, attorney; Jane C. Shuster, of counsel; Mary L.
    Harpster, Deputy Attorney General, on the brief).
    Meredith Alexis Pollock, Deputy Public Defender,
    argued the cause for minor (Joseph E. Krakora, Public
    Defender, Law Guardian, attorney; Meredith Alexis
    Pollock, of counsel; Margo Hirsch, Designated
    Counsel, on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Defendant D.C. (the mother) appeals from a January 28, 2020 order
    terminating her parental rights to her son C.E.R. (the child), who was born in
    2012.1    The mother has a substance abuse problem and a history of
    homelessness. She was living with her son in a car when the Division of Child
    Protection and Permanency (the Division) removed the child. The mother also
    has a criminal record, including a conviction for child endangerment.
    Throughout this litigation she has demonstrated little to no interest in reunifying
    1
    The order also terminates the parental rights of the father, C.A.R. He is not a
    party to this appeal.
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    with her son, having repeatedly failed to take advantage of offered services and
    visitation opportunities. Meanwhile, Division workers consistently reported
    that the child adapted well and appeared to be thriving and bonding with his
    resource family, who wish to adopt as opposed to pursuing kinship legal
    guardianship. The child advanced developmentally in the resource home, with
    marked improvements to his previously limited vocabulary and motor skills.
    Judge Honora O'Brien-Kilgallen presided over the guardianship trial, entered
    judgment, and rendered a thorough and detailed oral opinion.         We affirm
    substantially for the reasons stated by Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen on the record.
    On appeal, the mother argues:
    POINT I
    THE TRIAL COURT'S BLANKET DECISION
    OVERRULING ALL OF THE EMBEDDED
    HEARSAY/RELEVANCE OBJECTIONS MADE BY
    D.C.'S ATTORNEY, MR. FRAIDSTERN, WAS AN
    ERROR THAT MANDATES REMAND
    POINT II
    THE TRIAL COURT ERRED BY ALLOWING
    [DIVISION] WORKER GREGORIO TO TESTIFY
    WITHOUT PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE
    POINT III
    THE GUARDIANSHIP DECISION IN THIS CASE
    SHOULD BE REVERSED BECAUSE DCPP FAILED
    TO PROVE PRONGS ONE, THREE, AND FOUR OF
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    THE   N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a) TEST FOR
    TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS BY
    CLEAR AND CONVINCING EVIDENCE
    A. DCPP DID NOT PROVE N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a)(1), BECAUSE IT DID NOT PROVE BY
    CLEAR AND CONVINCING EVIDENCE
    THAT [MOTHER] HARMED [C.E.R.] OR
    THAT           [C.E.R.'S]    CONTINUED
    RELATIONSHIP WITH [MOTHER] WOULD
    ENDANGER HIS SAFETY, HEALTH, OR
    DEVELOPMENT
    B. DCPP DID NOT PROVE THE REASONABLE
    EFFORTS REQUIREMENT OF N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a)(3) BY CLEAR AND CONVINCING
    EVIDENCE
    C. DCPP DID NOT PROVE N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a)(4), THAT TERMINATION WOULD
    NOT DO MORE HARM THAN GOOD, BY
    CLEAR AND CONVINCING EVIDENCE
    POINT IV
    THE GUARDIANSHIP ORDER IN THIS CASE
    SHOULD BE REVERSED BECAUSE DCPP
    IMPROPERLY    RUSHED      TO    FACILITATE
    ADOPTION OF [C.E.R.] BY MS. AND MRS. W
    I.
    We begin by addressing the mother's contention that the Division
    inappropriately expedited the guardianship process and rushed to facilitate the
    child's adoption at the expense of reunification efforts. To provide context for
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    her claim that the Division sought termination of her parental rights prematurely,
    we briefly recount the sequence of events leading to the guardianship trial.
    On September 4, 2018, police were called to conduct a welfare check after
    receiving information about a family living in a car parked at a local
    QuickChek.2 Police found the then-six-year-old child living in the car with his
    parents. The mother reportedly had heroin in her hands, and both parents
    admitted to being active drug users.        The parents were arrested for child
    endangerment and possession of heroin, marijuana, and drug paraphernalia. At
    the police station, the mother was introduced to Division workers who expressed
    concern for the child's safety and well-being.       The workers explained the
    emergency removal process and instructed the mother to apply for a public
    defender. They also discussed the Division's policies regarding visitation and
    reunification. The mother asked to remain informed as to her son's whereabouts.
    The workers emphasized that it was the mother's responsibility to maintain
    communication with the Division if she wanted to pursue reunification with her
    son.
    2
    This was not the family's first interaction with the Division. The Division had
    previously received referrals from Child Welfare Services, but they were not
    substantiated.
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    On September 6, 2018, Judge Teresa Kondrup Coyle granted an order to
    show cause for temporary custody. Judge Coyle further ordered that:
    The Court upholds the emergent removal of the child
    [C.E.R.]. [C.E.R.] shall remain in the legal and
    physical custody of the Division.
    The mother shall submit to a substance abuse
    evaluation and comply with any treatment
    recommendations.
    The father shall submit to a substance abuse evaluation
    and comply with any treatment recommendations.
    The parents shall sign releases for all current and
    former treating physicians, hospitals, and treatment
    programs.
    The parents shall have weekly visitation with [the
    child], supervised by the Division or a Division-
    approved supervisor.
    The parents shall notify the Division when they are
    released from [Monmouth County Correctional
    Institution] and keep the Division updated on the status
    of their criminal case.
    Judge Terence P. Flynn presided over the order to show cause hearing on
    October 5, 2018. Neither parent attended. Judge Flynn ordered that the child
    remain in the custody of the Division. In December 2018, the child was placed
    in a new resource home with the mother's cousin and his wife.
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    Judge Flynn convened a fact-finding hearing in February 2019. As would
    become her standard practice throughout this litigation, the mother did not
    attend the court proceeding. Judge Flynn determined by a preponderance of
    evidence that both parents abused or neglected the child by failing to provide
    shelter and by possessing illicit drugs and paraphernalia in the presence of the
    child. The mother was ordered to complete substance abuse evaluations and to
    comply with the Division's recommendations.
    The mother failed to maintain contact with the Division. On February 8,
    2019, case worker Meghan Clemente happened to see the mother while
    investigating another matter. Ms. Clemente used this chance meeting as an
    opportunity to explain the seriousness of the mother's failure to contact the
    Division. As Ms. Clemente reported,
    [D]ue to the length of time there has been no contact,
    worker would recommend that visits start as
    therapeutic[;] however[,] she had to contact the
    Division. Worker informed her that worker was aware
    of her concerns regarding her [bench] warrant [for
    failure to appear at a hearing on her criminal matter]
    and promised that DCPP did not try and trick people by
    making them come to the office and then having them
    picked up. Worker explained to her that it was very
    possible that [the child's] case goal would be changed
    to adoption should she still choose to not be in contact
    with the Division.
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    Eleven days after her discussion with Ms. Clemente, the mother finally
    contacted the Division to arrange for a meeting with the case worker. Although
    the Division scheduled a substance abuse evaluation for the mother, she did not
    appear at the evaluation and subsequently failed to remain in contact with the
    Division. The Division conducted an active search for both parents, which
    proved unsuccessful.
    As the mother's whereabouts remained unknown and because she made no
    attempts to visit her child, the Division opted to pursue termination of parental
    rights followed by adoption.      On May 6, 2019, Judge Flynn convened a
    permanency hearing and approved the Division's goal.
    Once the decision was made to pursue termination of parental rights, an
    adoption case worker, Jennifer Gregorio, was assigned to the case. Ms. Gregorio
    continued the Division's efforts to locate the mother, finally meeting with the
    mother at a mall food court in June 2019. The appointment was scheduled, as
    opposed to previous Division worker Ms. Clemente's encounter. Ms. Gregorio
    introduced herself and explained why the case had been assigned to the adoption
    unit.   During their conversation, Ms. Gregorio offered to arrange another
    substance abuse evaluation and to expedite intake for a treatment program, but
    the mother declined. Additionally, Ms. Gregorio scheduled psychological and
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    bonding evaluations with Dr. Lori Lessin. As per her usual practice, the mother
    failed to attend the evaluations.
    Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen convened the guardianship trial over three non-
    consecutive days in late December 2019 and late January 2020. The mother did
    not attend any portion of the trial.
    We consider these events in light of the applicable legal principles. The
    court is required to hold a permanency hearing to determine a child's
    permanency placement no later than twelve months after a child enters foster
    care. N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.54(b)(2); N.J.S.A. 30:4C-61.2(a); N.J. Div. of Youth &
    Family Servs. v. A.R.G., 
    361 N.J. Super. 46
    , 65 (App. Div. 2003).           The
    permanency hearing functions to determine if reunification is an appropriate
    goal or whether an alternative goal is required. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. G.M., 
    198 N.J. 382
    , 400 (2009). Permanency is deemed to be better
    than protracted efforts for reunification. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    C.S., 
    367 N.J. Super. 76
    , 112 (App. Div. 2004). As we noted in N.J. Div. of
    Youth & Family Servs. v. A.G., "[k]eeping the child in limbo, hoping for some
    long term unification plan, would be a misapplication of the law." 
    344 N.J. Super. 418
    , 438 (App. Div. 2001).
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    In this instance, the permanency hearing held on May 6, 2019 occurred
    less than twelve months after the guardianship complaint was filed but fifteen
    months after the emergency removal. The Division's decision to shift the goal
    from reunification to adoption, moreover, was carefully reviewed and approved
    by the trial judge at the permanency hearing.
    The timing of the permanency hearing complies with N.J.S.A. 9:6-
    8.54(b)(2) and 30:4C-61.2(a). These statutes provide that the court shall hold
    the permanency hearing "no later than 30 days after placement in cases in which
    the court has determined that reasonable efforts to reunify the child are not
    required[,]" or, if the court determined that reunification efforts are required,
    "no later than 12 months after placement[.]" N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.54(b)(2). The
    record shows, moreover, that the mother had notice of the hearing and that Ms.
    Clemente informed her of the Division's new goal during their February 7, 2019
    scheduled meeting at the mall food court.
    In these circumstances, we believe the Division did not act with undue
    haste in reaching its decision that termination of parental rights and adoption
    would best serve the child's needs. That decision was made only after the mother
    demonstrated that she was not prepared to take the steps needed for
    reunification. As we explain further in Section III(C), infra, we agree with Judge
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    O'Brien-Kilgallen's conclusion that "permanency should not be delayed because
    of [the mother's] lack of involvement."
    II.
    We next address the mother's contention that the trial judge improperly
    admitted hearsay evidence by allowing Ms. Gregorio to testify to the content of
    reports and records prepared by other Division workers involved in the case.
    The mother also argues the judge improperly issued a "blanket" decision
    overruling her series of hearsay and relevance objections with regard to Ms.
    Gregorio's testimony.    We disagree.      Because we affirm for the reasons
    explained in the judge's thoughtful evidentiary ruling, we need not re-address
    the mother's hearsay arguments at length. We add only the following remarks.
    A trial court's evidentiary decisions are reviewed under the abuse of
    discretion standard. N.J. Div. of Child Prot. & Permanency v. A.B., 
    231 N.J. 354
    , 366 (2017). This includes hearsay rulings. 
    Ibid.
     See also Carmona v.
    Resorts Int'l Hotel, Inc., 
    189 N.J. 354
    , 379 (2007). The danger of hearsay,
    moreover, is mitigated in a bench trial.      See N.J. Div. of Child Prot. &
    Permanency v. J.D., 
    447 N.J. Super. 337
    , 349 (App. Div. 2016).
    Rule 5:12-4(d) permits the Division to "submit into evidence, pursuant to
    N.J.R.E. 803(c)(6) and 801(d), reports by staff personnel or professional
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    consultants. Conclusions drawn from the facts stated therein shall be treated as
    prima facie evidence, subject to rebuttal." The Division's reports, moreover, fall
    under the business records exception found in N.J.R.E. 803(c)(6).              This
    exception provides for "[a] statement contained in a writing or other record of
    acts, events, conditions . . . made at or near the time of observation by a person
    with actual knowledge or from information supplied by such person" that is
    written or recorded "in the regular course of business[,]" and if it is "the regular
    practice of that business to make [a] writing or other record."            N.J.R.E.
    803(c)(6). See also N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. M.C. III, 
    201 N.J. 328
    , 347 (2010).
    We believe that Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen did not abuse her discretion in
    ruling that the reports prepared by various case workers were admissible unde r
    the business record exception. The judge was mindful, moreover, of the need to
    differentiate embedded hearsay, that is, out-of-court statements made by others
    memorialized in the case worker reports. Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen explained
    that she would not allow inadmissible hearsay statements to be swept into
    evidence because such statements are surrounded by permissible business
    records text. The judge further noted that "[hearsay] statements made by others
    are inevitably going to be intertwined with the Division's records, as they are
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    relevant in how the Division carries out their statutory duties." Accordingly,
    Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen announced that when considering Ms. Gregorio's
    testimony and the reports and records she discussed, the judge would distinguish
    between embedded out-of-court statements offered for their truth—which is
    inadmissible hearsay—and those offered, for example, to explain why the
    Division was motivated to act. See Carmona, 
    189 N.J. at 376
     (holding that a
    report that shows the motivation behind an action is admissible as to the action,
    even if not admitted for the truth of matters asserted in the document). The
    judge thus made clear that she would not consider embedded hearsay unless it
    was an admission against interest made by a parent.
    In view of these explicit assurances, we are satisfied that the judge did not
    rely on inadmissible hearsay statements as substantive evidence. We note that
    the mother points to no factual finding that was supported by inadmissible
    embedded hearsay. On the contrary, Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen made factual
    findings and further identified competent evidence supporting those findings in
    her detailed oral ruling.
    We likewise reject the mother's related contention that the trial judge
    abused her discretion by allowing Ms. Gregorio to testify as to matters of which
    she had no personal knowledge. The mother claims that the witness, under the
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    guise of refreshed recollection, merely recited information gleaned from the
    reports and records prepared by other Division case workers. This contention
    does not warrant extensive discussion. It is well-established that "under both
    the New Jersey and federal rules of evidence, the foundation witness generally
    is not required to have personal knowledge of the facts contained in the record."
    Hahnemann Univ. Hosp. v. Dudnick, 
    292 N.J. Super. 11
    , 17–18 (1996). In In
    re Guardianship of Cope, moreover, we recognized that Division case worker
    reports "supply a reasonably high degree of reliability as to the accuracy of t he
    facts contained therein." 
    106 N.J. Super. 336
    , 343–44 (App. Div. 1969). We
    acknowledged the practical aspects of a guardianship trial, noting,
    we are dealing here with a statutory scheme established
    to provide a means by which the Bureau [predecessor
    to the Division] or other petitioner may obtain
    guardianship of children in the Bureau's custody. As
    the Bureau and the court below both properly indicate,
    a rule requiring all Bureau personnel having contact
    with a particular case to give live testimony on all the
    matters within their personal knowledge would cause
    an intolerable disruption in the operation of the Bureau.
    [Id. at 343.]
    In view of this long-established practice in guardianship trials, we reject
    the mother's argument that Ms. Gregorio's foundation testimony was improper.
    The alternative would have been to require the other Division employees who
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    worked on the case to testify, which would have imposed an "intolerable
    disruption" in the Division's operation. 
    Ibid.
     In Cope, we further recognized
    that "[i]n a situation such as this it is of great importance that the evidence upon
    which judgment is based be as reliable as the circumstances permit and that the
    answering parent be given the fullest possible opportunity to test the reliability
    of the petitioner's essential evidence by cross-examination."        
    Ibid.
       In this
    instance, Ms. Gregorio's testimony relating to information contained in the
    reports prepared by other Division workers provided an additional layer of
    protection by affording the mother's counsel the opportunity to cross-examine
    Ms. Gregorio with respect to her notes and the Division reports and records. 3
    III.
    We next address the mother's contention that the Division failed to satisfy
    its burden of proof at the guardianship trial. Specifically, she contends that the
    Division failed to prove three of the four prongs of the best-interests-of-the-
    3
    The mother also contends that Ms. Gregorio's testimony violates the best
    evidence rule set forth in N.J.R.E. 1002. That argument lacks sufficient merit
    to warrant discussion, R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E), as N.J.R.E. 1002 applies to writings
    or photographs, not testimony.
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    child test codified in N.J.S.A. 30:40-15.1(a).4 We disagree. We begin our
    analysis by acknowledging certain foundational principles. There exists a well-
    settled legal framework regarding the termination of parental rights. A parent
    has a constitutional right to raise his or her biological child, which "is among
    the most fundamental of all rights." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. F.M.,
    
    211 N.J. 420
    , 447 (2012) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 102 (2008)); In re Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 346 (1999).
    However, that right is not absolute. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.G.,
    
    217 N.J. 527
    , 553 (2014); N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.W., 
    103 N.J. 591
    , 599 (1986). At times, a parent's interest must yield to the State's obligation
    to protect children from harm. G.M., 
    198 N.J. at 397
    ; In re Guardianship of
    J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 10 (1992).
    To effectuate these concerns, the Legislature created a test to determine
    when it is in the child's best interest to terminate parental rights. Specifically,
    N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a) requires the Division to prove four prongs by clear and
    convincing evidence:
    4
    The mother acknowledges that the Division proved the second prong of the
    statutory test, N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(2), by clear and convincing evidence.
    That prong requires proof that the parent is unable or unwilling to provide a safe
    and stable home for the child and the delay of permanent placement will add to
    the harm.
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    (1) The child's safety, health, or development has been or
    will continue to be endangered by the parental
    relationship;
    (2) The parent is unwilling or unable to eliminate the harm
    facing the child or is unable or unwilling to provide a
    safe and stable home for the child and the delay of
    permanent placement will add to the harm. Such harm
    may include evidence that separating the child from
    [her] resource family parents would cause serious and
    enduring emotional or psychological harm to the child;
    (3) The Division has made reasonable efforts to provide
    services to help the parent correct the circumstances
    which led to the child's placement outside the home and
    the court has considered alternatives to termination of
    parental rights; and
    (4) Termination of parental rights will not do more harm
    than good.
    See also A.W., 
    103 N.J. at
    604–11. The four prongs of the test are "not discrete
    and separate," but rather "relate to and overlap with one another to provide a
    comprehensive standard that identifies a child's best interests." K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 348
    . "The considerations involved in determinations of parental fitness are
    'extremely fact sensitive' and require particularized evidence that addresses the
    specific circumstances in the given case." 
    Ibid.
     (quoting In re Adoption of
    Children by L.A.S., 
    134 N.J. 127
    , 139 (1993)). The trial court must consider
    "not only whether the parent is fit, but also whether he or she can become fit
    within time to assume the parental role necessary to meet the child's needs."
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    N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.L., 
    388 N.J. Super. 81
    , 87 (App. Div.
    2006) (citing J.C., 
    129 N.J. at 10
    ). When applying the best-interests test,
    moreover, a trial court must pay careful attention to a child's need for
    permanency and stability without undue delay. In re Guardianship of D.M.H.,
    
    161 N.J. 365
    , 385–86 (1999).
    Our review of a family judge's factual findings in a guardianship trial is
    limited. In re Guardianship of J.N.H., 
    172 N.J. 440
    , 472 (2002). Findings by a
    Family Part judge are "binding on appeal when supported by adequate,
    substantial, and credible evidence." Cesare v. Cesare, 
    154 N.J. 394
    , 412 (1998)
    (citing Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Inv’rs Ins. Co., 
    65 N.J. 474
    , 484 (1974)). We
    may reverse a factual finding only if there is "'a denial of justice' because the
    family court's 'conclusions are [] "clearly mistaken" or "wide of the mark."'"
    Parish v. Parish, 
    412 N.J. Super. 39
    , 48 (App. Div. 2010) (alteration in original)
    (quoting E.P., 
    196 N.J. at 104
    ). Accordingly, an appellate court should not
    disturb the trial court’s factfinding unless we are "convinced that they are so
    manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant, and
    reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice." Cesare, 
    154 N.J. at 412
     (quoting Rova Farms, 
    65 N.J. at 484
    ). "[T]he conclusions that
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    logically flow from those findings of fact are, likewise, entitled to deferential
    consideration upon appellate review." R.L., 388 N.J. Super. at 89.
    After carefully reviewing the record in light of the applicable legal
    principles, we conclude that the Division proved all four prongs by clear and
    convincing evidence. We do so substantially for the reasons given by Judge
    O'Brien-Kilgallen in her thorough oral opinion. We add the following remarks
    with respect to each of the three prongs that the mother challenges on appeal.
    A.
    The mother argues that Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen erred in finding that the
    child was physically, emotionally, or psychologically harmed by her behavior.
    Under the first prong of the best-interests test, the trial court examines the effect
    of the harm that stems from the parent-child relationship over time. N.J. Div.
    of Youth & Family Servs. v. P.P., 
    180 N.J. 494
    , 506 (2004). The court may
    consider both physical and psychological harm and, therefore, may base its
    termination decision on emotional injury in the absence of physical harm. See
    In re Guardianship of R., 
    155 N.J. Super. 186
    , 194 (App. Div. 1977) ("The
    absence of physical abuse or neglect is not conclusive on the issue of custody.
    The trial court must consider the potential for serious psychological damage to
    the child inferential from the proofs."). Furthermore, "[a] parent's withdrawal
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    of . . . solicitude, nurture, and care for an extended period of time is in itself a
    harm that endangers the health and development of the child." D.M.H., 161 N.J.
    at 379 (citing K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 352–54). Stated differently, "[s]erious and
    lasting emotional or psychological harm to children as the result of the action or
    inaction of their biological parents can constitute injury sufficient to authorize
    the termination of parental rights." In re Guardianship of K.L.F., 
    129 N.J. 32
    ,
    44 (1992) (emphasis added) (citing J.C., 129 N.J. at 18).
    In this instance, Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen found, based on credible
    evidence including expert testimony, that "[the child's] relationship with his
    parents caused him physical harm, stunted his development, and caused lasting
    emotion harm which would likely continue if the parental relationship was not
    terminated." In reaching this conclusion, the judge accounted for a number of
    salient circumstances that were proved by the Division. Notably, the family
    lived in a vehicle and the child was not enrolled in school. It also bears emphasis
    that the mother was convicted of child endangerment. In view of her guilty plea,
    she is hard-pressed to argue on appeal that the child was not harmed by her
    behavior.
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    B.
    We likewise reject the mother's argument that Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen
    erred in finding that the Division had proved the third prong of the best -interest
    test by clear and convincing evidence. Under this prong, the trial court must
    decide if the Division made reasonable efforts to reunify the family. K.H.O.,
    161 N.J. at 354 (citing N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(3)). Pursuant to the statute,
    "reasonable efforts" are defined as:
    (1) consultation and cooperation with the parent in
    developing a plan for appropriate services;
    (2) providing services that have been agreed upon, to
    the family, in order to further the goal of family
    reunification;
    (3) informing the parent at appropriate intervals of the
    child's progress, development, and health; and
    (4) facilitating appropriate visitation.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).]
    We have previously recognized that reasonable efforts "vary depending
    upon the circumstances of the removal." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    F.H., 
    389 N.J. Super. 576
    , 620 (App. Div. 2007) (citing A.G., 
    344 N.J. Super. at 437
    ). The Division's success regarding this prong is not measured by the
    parent's participation in the necessary services.      D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 393.
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    "[E]ven [the Division's] best efforts may not be sufficient to salvage a parental
    relationship." F.M., 211 N.J. at 452. Pursuant to statute, the Division must: (1)
    work with parents to develop a plan for services; (2) provide the necessary
    services; (3) facilitate visitation; and (4) notify parents of the children's progress
    during an out-of-home placement. N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).
    In this case, the record amply supports the trial judge's determination that
    the Division made reasonable efforts to help the mother correct her parental
    deficiencies and that the Division pursued alternatives to termination. The
    mother's evasiveness, however, effectively thwarted the Division's reunification
    efforts. The Division worked indefatigably to contact the mother, using old
    phone numbers, mailing letters, reaching out to her family members, and even
    using Facebook. Further, the Division repeatedly advised the mother that it was
    her responsibility to remain in contact with the Division. We are satisfied that
    the lack of interaction with the Division is attributable entirely to the mother and
    despite reasonable efforts by the Division to maintain contact.
    Furthermore, the mother was afforded numerous opportunities to pursue
    treatment for her substance abuse, which she declined. 5 She did not attend the
    5
    The mother entered a detox program in late December 2018 to prepare for a
    fourteen to twenty-eight-day inpatient treatment program. She began the
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    bonding evaluation that was twice rescheduled for her benefit. She did not
    appear at any court hearings despite the Division's persistent efforts to inform
    her of upcoming and ongoing proceedings.
    In sum, the fact that reunification failed in this case by no means suggests
    that the Division did not make reasonable efforts to achieve that goal. As Judge
    O'Brien-Kilgallin aptly noted in her oral decision, "[t]he parents, whether they
    are unable to follow through with services or unwilling to do so, have abandoned
    any efforts to become fit parents, and permanency should not be delayed because
    of their lack of involvement."      In short, the mother, not the Division, is
    responsible for the failure to achieve reunification.
    C.
    Finally, we address the mother's contention that the Division failed to
    prove the fourth prong of the best-interests test, which requires that the Division
    demonstrate by clear and convincing evidence that "[t]ermination of parental
    rights will not do more harm than good." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(4). When
    conducting its analysis under this prong, a trial court may rely on expert
    testimony when balancing the potential injury that a child could experience
    inpatient program on January 1, 2019 but left on January 7, 2019, contrary to
    medical advice.
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    through the termination of parental rights against the harm the child might suffer
    if removed from the resource placement.          K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 355, 363.
    Termination of parental rights is necessary when it permits a child to have a
    secure and permanent home. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. B.G.S., 
    291 N.J. Super. 582
    , 592–95 (App. Div. 1996).          Relatedly, a child should not
    "languish indefinitely" in an out-of-home placement while a parent tries to
    correct his or her parenting difficulties. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    S.F., 
    392 N.J. Super. 201
    , 209 (App. Div. 2007) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth &
    C.S., 
    367 N.J. Super. at 111
    ). In K.H.O., the Supreme Court affirmed the trial
    court's decision to terminate parental rights, holding that "where it is shown that
    the bond with foster parents is strong and, in comparison, the bond with the
    natural parent is not as strong, that evidence will satisfy the [fourth prong of the
    best-interests test]." 161 N.J. at 363.
    Furthermore, in evaluating evidence under the fourth prong, the child's
    need for permanency continues to be an important consideration. N.J. Div. of
    Youth & Family Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 281 (2007). "[I]f one thing is
    clear, it is that [a] child deeply needs association with a nurturing adult. Since
    it seems generally agreed that permanence in itself is an important part of
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    nurture, a court must carefully weigh that aspect of a child's life." A.W., 
    103 N.J. at 610
    .
    In this instance, Judge O'Brien-Kilgallen placed appropriate emphasis on
    the need to afford the child a sense of permanency. In reaching her conclusion,
    the judge relied on credible expert testimony from the Division's expert, Dr.
    Lessin, who recommended that the child remain with his resource family
    because they had developed a loving, bonded relationship. 6
    Furthermore, the child expressed his desire to stay with his resource
    family permanently. The mother contends on appeal that the Division "unfairly
    swayed" the child to express a desire to be adopted by his resource family. We
    find no support in the record for this assertion. The fact that the child told
    Division workers that he wants to see his mother does not suggest that the
    6
    The resource parents testified at the guardianship trial and expressed their
    preference for adoption rather than kinship legal guardianship (KLG). One
    resource parent explained:
    Well, why do I want to adopt him, is cause we love him.
    He is part of our household. He – why I want adoption
    over K.L.G. is, because he's seven years old, he – he
    needs to know he has a permanent home [and] that he
    will never have to go back to a situation that he was in
    prior to this.
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    Division convinced him to express his desire for adoption. Defendant also
    asserts that "[o]nce [the mother's] rights to [the child] are terminated, [she] will
    become a legal stranger to her son with no right to post termination visitation."
    The record belies this assertion. The resource parents testified that they would
    consider therapeutic visits so long as the mother is sober. We agree with the
    Division that requiring sobriety as a condition of post-termination visits is
    reasonable and appropriate, consistent with Dr. Lessin's expert recommendation.
    In sum, we conclude that the mother has repeatedly demonstrated that she
    is unfit as a parent and is unable or unwilling to make the lifestyle changes
    necessary to provide a safe and stable environment for her son. As we noted in
    A.G., "[k]eeping [a] child in limbo, hoping for some long-term unification plan,
    would be a misapplication of the law." 
    344 N.J. Super. at 438
    . Termination of
    the mother's parental rights was therefore appropriate and necessary to afford
    the child a permanent home in which he will be safe, loved, and cared for.
    To the extent we have not addressed them, any remaining arguments
    raised by defendant lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion.          R. 2:11-
    3(e)(1)(E).
    Affirmed.
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