D.S. VS. J.S. (FV-19-0219-18, SUSSEX COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2021 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-5021-17T2
    D.S.,
    Plaintiff-Appellant,
    v.
    J.S.,
    Defendant-Respondent.
    ________________________
    Submitted January 6, 2020 – Decided January 14, 2021
    Before Judges Ostrer, Vernoia and Susswein.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Sussex County,
    Docket No. FV-19-0219-18.
    John V. McDermott, Jr., attorney for appellant.
    Laemers Murphy & Neggia, LLC, attorneys for
    respondent (Peter J. Laemers, of counsel and on the
    brief; Mariann C. Murphy and Doreen J. Neggia, on the
    brief).
    The opinion of the court was delivered by
    OSTRER, J.A.D.
    Plaintiff D.S. (Doris), appeals from the trial court's order dismissing her
    domestic violence complaint against her husband J.S. (John), and denying her a
    final restraining order under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA),
    N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35.1 Doris principally contends the court mistakenly
    barred crucial evidence, undervalued other evidence, and erred when it
    concluded that, as a matter of law, John did not commit a predicate act of assault,
    N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19; N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1. She contends the court's legal conclusion
    was at odds with its own factual finding that, during a tussle over a cellphone,
    John grabbed Doris by her hair and pushed her head against the steering wheel
    of the car she was driving. We are constrained to remand, as we are convinced
    the court overlooked evidence of her injuries, and failed to explain its conclusion
    that John did not assault Doris, or, if he did, Doris did not need the protection
    of a final restraining order (FRO).
    I.
    The alleged assault occurred while Doris and John were on their way home
    from a pre-Thanksgiving Day gathering with friends. Married less than a year,
    and parents of a three-week-old daughter, they had been having marital
    1
    We use initials and pseudonyms to protect the privacy of the alleged victim of
    domestic violence. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).
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    difficulties. Each blamed the other for the discord. Doris was driving and had
    just turned onto the parties' street. The two were arguing and John started
    recording Doris with his cellphone. What happened next was a major point of
    dispute in the trial.
    The court heard three versions. According to Doris, John was intoxicated
    from drinking a bottle of bourbon at the party. After she slapped John's phone
    out of his hand, he grabbed Doris by the neck, pulled her toward him, so her
    body was across the center console, and her head was in his lap in the front
    passenger seat. She said he put the car in park from the passenger seat, and
    strangled her to the point she felt her neck crack, her vision became "snowy,"
    and she gasped for air. He then exited and walked around the car to Doris. He
    pulled her out by her hair and dragged her along the road. He threatened to kill
    her. They were "rolling around, like two children would roll down like a grass
    hill." He bashed the right side of her head on the pavement while the right side
    of her body leaned against the lip of the roadway. John then returned to the car,
    and backed it up so close she thought he was going to run over her. He then got
    out, grabbed her by the hair again, and led her stumbling to the car. He threw
    her into the back seat. Before he could drive off, she escaped. She ran to a
    nearby public works building.
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    She called John's father F.S. (Fred), who, with his wife, had been
    babysitting the parties' daughter. She told him that John just tried to kill her.
    He came to pick her up. Doris contended that on the way to her in-laws, she
    overheard John call Fred on the Bluetooth and say, "Dad bring [Doris] home.
    I'm going to kill her. I'm going to lose my job." John was a sergeant in the local
    police department. Fred ignored the request and took Doris to his own house.
    Doris said that when she arrived, she collapsed on the living room floor,
    convulsing and hyperventilating. She went to the bathroom, to wash her scraped
    hands, tidy her hair, and "wipe[] off some of the makeup from crying." After
    hearing John arrive, she then took refuge in a bedroom alone.
    John told a different story. He said he had only three drinks during a six-
    hour period. Once he started recording the argument, Doris threw the car in
    park, and then grabbed his phone from his hand, and hit him with it. He reached
    across the center console and grabbed his phone back from her hands. He denied
    scratching or hitting her, although when he was confronted with a prior
    statement, which he did not recall making, he acknowledged that he may have
    scratched her as he retrieved his phone.2 Doris then left the car. John sat in the
    2
    Doris testified that John scratched her as he reached into her shirt to grab her
    cellphone, which she tucked in her bra.
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    car for a few moments, then stepped over the console into the driver's seat and
    drove home, which was a short distance away. Fred called John, not the other
    way around, to tell him that Doris was at his house, and she accused him of
    assault. John went to his father's house, distraught that her false accusation
    would interfere with his access to his daughter.
    There was yet a third version of what happened in the car that night. It
    was one John's fellow sergeant reported he heard from John himself. Once John
    arrived at the deck of his parents' house, John hurled and broke the plastic deck
    furniture and made a commotion. John testified he was upset because his father
    told him that Doris was threatening to take their daughter.
    Shortly afterward, the local police chief and the sergeant arrived. Fred
    had called the chief on his personal phone to ask him to come talk to his son.
    The sergeant was dispatched after someone called 911 with a report that
    someone had fallen off a deck, and there were "possible gunshots" heard. The
    sergeant overheard John cursing and crying, and saw the plastic debris. Dressed
    in plain clothes, the chief approached John on the deck and put his hand on his
    shoulder, in an effort to encourage him to calm down. John quickly turned and
    pushed the chief, knocking him to the ground. The sergeant then handcuffed
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    John and took him into the house. John said his chief had not announced his
    presence, and John did not know who was grabbing his arm.
    John was placed in a bedroom, accompanied by a patrolman. Once John
    calmed down, the chief told the sergeant to remove the handcuffs. Despite
    orders to remain in the bedroom, John pushed the patrolman in an effort to exit.
    The patrolman tackled John and subdued him.
    According to the sergeant's written report and his trial testimony, John
    appeared intoxicated at his father's house. John told the sergeant what happened
    in the car earlier that night.   The sergeant reported that once John began
    recording his argument with Doris, she slapped his hand repeatedly, grabbed his
    phone, and hit him twice on the arm. The sergeant wrote, "[W]hile attempting
    to get his phone back and get [Doris] off of him he grabbed [Doris] by her hair
    and pushed her head against the steering wheel of the vehicle." The sergeant
    wrote that John displayed no observable signs of injury.
    However, both parties refuted the version the sergeant attributed to John.
    John said his fellow sergeant misunderstood him; he was simply repeating what
    Doris had said, according to Fred. Doris also denied that John grabbed her head
    and pushed it against the steering wheel.
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    The sergeant and chief both testified that Doris's demeanor and physical
    appearance in the aftermath of the incident did not reflect she was a victim of
    the violent assault she described. They inspected her hair and found no debris
    or signs of injury on her scalp. The chief observed some redness on her chest
    and a barely visible scratch on her neck. The chief told Doris to report to police
    headquarters if marks became more prominent, as they sometimes do with time,
    so the police could document them. Officers then checked on Doris, who had
    gone to the marital home to retrieve clothing and other items for her and the
    baby. When the sergeant arrived and saw Doris, he noted more distinct scratch
    marks on her neck and upper chest. He advised her to come to the police station,
    so her injuries could be documented. An assistant prosecutor, advised of the
    situation, directed that John be charged with simple assault. He was arrested
    shortly afterwards.
    The next day, caseworkers from the Division of Child Protection and
    Permanency (DCPP) visited Doris at her parents' home, where she relocated
    with the baby. The caseworker's discussion prompted her to file a domestic
    violence complaint and seek a temporary restraining order (TRO), which she
    obtained that afternoon. Doris later filed two amendments of her complaint.
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    Doris alleged three other instances of domestic violence in the weeks
    preceding the assault. John called Doris derogatory names; he allegedly
    threatened to strangle her; and he pushed his foot into Doris's lower stomach
    where she recently had a C-section, to block Doris from taking their child out of
    his hands. She also claimed that John harassed her by sending her multiple texts
    the morning after the incident, before she obtained the TRO. John admitted
    calling Doris one name, but not the others. He denied threatening to strangle
    her. And he said he only raised his foot to block Doris; she walked into it, and
    then falsely accused him of kicking her. He admitted sending the texts, but
    denied they were harassing.
    II.
    The trial judge found the chief and sergeant were credible. John was
    partly credible; and Doris was not credible. In rejecting Doris's version of
    events, the court relied on circumstantial evidence that belied Doris's claims, as
    well as numerous inconsistent statements.
    As depicted in videos and photographs taken as she entered and left Fred's
    house and at the police station, Doris's clothing — her white pants, soft suede
    jacket, and soft leather boots — showed no signs that she was dragged along a
    rough roadway, or that she rolled around on the ground. She walked and turned
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    her head normally during the minutes and hours after the allegedly vicious
    attack. Although the chief noticed some redness on Doris's upper chest and a
    barely visible scratch mark that later became more prominent, the police found
    no petechiae or redness in her head; there was no debris in her hair; and her
    breathing, speaking and demeanor appeared normal. The court also concluded
    that the attack Doris described and her flight to the public building, which John
    said was 900 feet away, would have taken more time than the three minutes
    between when John's cellphone ceased recording, and Doris called Fred.
    The court also found that Doris's allegation was unsupported by "the
    medical evidence which found no objective signs of injury." We address that
    last finding in depth below.
    The court also cited Doris's inconsistent statements. Video of Doris's
    jacket immediately after the incident belied her testimony that a belt loop of her
    jacket, which she brought to court, was torn in the altercation. The chief's and
    the sergeant's testimony, and her own initials on the victim's rights notification
    form, belied her claim that the chief and sergeant failed to explain her right to
    seek a restraining order under the PDVA. In her written statement the night of
    the incident, she claimed John dragged her fifty to seventy-five feet from and
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    then back to the car, yet at trial, she said it may have been only ten to fifteen
    feet.
    The court found that John was partly credible. The court rejected John's
    claim he was not intoxicated. His conduct at his father's house demonstrated
    otherwise.     The court also found incredible his claim that the sergeant
    misunderstood his statement, and that he was merely repeating what his father
    reported to him when he referred to grabbing Doris by her hair and pushing her
    head into the steering wheel. The court found that the sergeant accurately
    reported that John admitted doing just that. The court found that the chief and
    sergeant were credible as to other matters, as well.
    However, in other respects, the court credited John's version of events that
    night. The court rejected Doris's argument that John's "out of control conduct"
    at his father's house reflected his guilt of the assault she alleged. Rat her, it
    reflected his "propensity to drink too much or behave in an out of control manner
    when intoxicated and upset." The court also credited John's statement that he
    was recording Doris to protect himself against a potential false claim of
    impropriety or domestic violence. The court found that certain texts between
    the parties justified John's concern, including a text that John sent to Doris
    stating that she had begged him to hit her and that was "crazy."
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    The court also credited John's version of the prior incident in which Doris
    came in contact with his foot while attempting to take the baby from his arms.
    While acknowledging his mother's potential bias, the court noted that L.S.
    (John's mother) corroborated John's account. 3
    The court found that Doris's redness and scratches were not caused by the
    "violent struggle and choking event" she described. Based on its credibility
    findings, the court rejected Doris's claim that John committed the predicate act
    of a terroristic threat to kill, during the incident in and near the car. The court
    also concluded there was no prior or subsequent act of domestic violence. As
    noted, the court rejected Doris's claim that John purposely kicked her in the
    stomach. The court also found that his prior and subsequent communications,
    including some coarse language and threats to end their relationship, did not
    constitute harassment or terroristic threats.
    Turning to its ultimate legal conclusions, the court held, "taking as true
    defendant's admission" that he grabbed Doris by the hair and pushed her head
    against the steering wheel, defendant's admitted acts did not constitute a
    3
    The court did not mention another reason for rejecting Doris's claim. In her
    testimony in support of the TRO, the judge asked if there had been any "prior
    domestic violence," and she said "never," adding that the assault in and near the
    car was "very unexpected."
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    predicate offense of assault. The court added that even if John committed an
    assault, Doris did not need an FRO for protection.
    This appeal followed.     Doris presents the following points for our
    consideration:
    POINT I:
    THE TRIAL COURT COMMITTED CRITICAL
    FACTUAL AND LEGAL ERRORS REGARDING
    THE     ASSAULT THAT   PRODUCED     AN
    INCORRECT AND UNJUST RESULT THAT
    COMPELS REVERSAL BY THIS COURT. (Raised
    Below).
    A.     Bodily Injury. (Raised Below).
    B.     Adverse Inferences. (Raised Below).
    C.     Admissions Against Interest.     (Raised
    Below).
    POINT II:
    THE COURT BELOW ABUSED ITS DISCRETION
    AND CAUSED AN UNJUST RESULT BY
    ADMITTING       THE  SECURITY     CAMERA
    VIDEOTAPE       INTO  EVIDENCE      AFTER
    DEFENDANT CAUSED PORTIONS OF IT
    BENEFICIAL TO THE PLAINTIFF TO DISAPPEAR.
    (Raised Below).
    POINT III:
    THE    OVERWHELMING     NUMBER    OF
    EVIDENTIARY ERRORS BELOW CONSTITUTED
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    A   CLEAR    ABUSE     OF   DI[S]CRETION,
    INDIVIDUALLY AND COLLECTIVELY, THAT
    RESULTED IN A MANIFEST DENIAL OF JUSTICE
    TO THE PLAINTIFF THAT COMPELS REVERSAL
    AND REMAND. (Raised Below).
    A.      Admission of videotape from [Fred's]
    security camera. (Raised Below).
    B.      Unemployment Fraud. (Raised Below).
    C.      Report to D.C.P.P. (Raised Below).
    D.      [Doris's] Diary. (Raised Below).
    E.      Reports of Chief [of Police].      (Raised
    Below).
    F.      Unreliable Evidence of Time Related to the
    Assault was used by the Trial Court to
    Discredit Plaintiff and Conclude Her
    Testimony was not Credible and the
    Assault could not have Occurred. (Not
    raised below).
    POINT IV:
    THE TRIAL JUDGE'S CONCLUSIONS WERE SO
    FAR WIDE OF THE MARK THEY REQUIRE
    REASSESSMENT BY THIS COURT BECAUSE HE
    IGNORED       DEFENDANT'S          HIGHLY
    INTOXICATED      CONDITION,       VIOLENT
    DESTRUCTION     OF      FURNITURE,    AND
    ASSAULTIVE   BEHAVIOR       AGAINST   TWO
    FELLOW     POLICE      OFFICERS,    WHILE
    DEFENDANT CONTINUED HIS ATTEMPTS TO
    ASSAULT HIS WIFE. (Raised Below).
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    POINT V:
    THE POLICE OFFICERS WHO INVESTIGATED
    THIS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE WERE LONG TIME
    FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES OF DEFENDANT
    AND   THEIR   PARTISAN    ACTIONS      AND
    OMISSIONS WERE FLAGRANTLY OVERLOOKED
    BY THE TRIAL JUDGE WHOSE FACTUAL
    DETERMINATIONS WENT SO FAR AWRY
    BECAUSE OF THIS THAT HIS SERIOUSLY
    FLAWED       CONCLUSIONS           REQUIRE
    RECONSIDERATION, REVERSAL AND REMAND
    TO CORRECT THIS INJUSTICE. (Raised Below).
    POINT VI:
    THERE WAS NO CREDIBLE EVIDENCE BELOW
    WHICH THE TRIAL COURT COULD FACTUALLY
    AND LEGALLY RELY UPON TO CONCLUDE
    DEFENDANT DID NOT MAKE TERRORISTIC
    THREATS TO HIS WIFE AND THIS COURT MUST
    CORRECT          THOSE         ERRONEOUS
    DETERMINATIONS THAT DENIED JUSTICE TO
    THE PLAINTIFF. (Raised Below).
    III.
    We generally defer to the Family Part's fact-finding in a domestic violence
    case, because of the court's expertise and training, J.D. v. M.D.F., 
    207 N.J. 458
    ,
    482 (2011); and because of the court's feel of the case, and its opportunity to
    assess the demeanor of live witnesses, see Cesare v. Cesare, 
    154 N.J. 394
    , 412
    (1998). In general, a trial court's "findings . . . are binding on appeal when
    supported by adequate, substantial, credible evidence." 
    Id. at 411-12
    . Yet, an
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    appellate court may disturb a trial court's fact-findings that rest on an "obvious
    overlooking or under-evaluation of crucial evidence." State v. Johnson, 
    42 N.J. 146
    , 161-63 (1964). That is true here, because the court mischaracterized
    significant medical evidence of Doris's injuries.
    We also owe no deference to the trial judge's "interpretation of the law
    and the legal consequences that flow from established facts." Manalapan Realty,
    L.P. v. Twp. Comm. of Manalapan, 
    140 N.J. 366
    , 378 (1995). When John pulled
    Doris by the hair and pushed her head into the steering wheel, he committed an
    assault, see N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(a), unless he was justified by self-defense, see
    N.J.S.A. 2C:3-4, or protection of property, see N.J.S.A. 2C:3-6(c). Although
    the trial court found no assault, it did not address the elements of either
    affirmative defense. The court also held an FRO was unneeded even if there
    were an assault, but failed to address the factors essential to that finding. See
    Silver v. Silver, 
    387 N.J. Super. 112
    , 127 (App. Div. 2006) (discussing the
    factors). We are constrained to remand when a trial court does not "state clearly
    its factual findings and correlate them with the relevant legal conclusions."
    Curtis v. Finneran, 
    83 N.J. 563
    , 570 (1980); see also Elrom v. Elrom, 
    439 N.J. Super. 424
    , 443 (App. Div. 2015).
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    A.
    We turn first to the trial court's "overlooking or under-evaluation of
    crucial evidence." A critical element in the court's reasoning was its finding that
    Doris displayed only minor injuries. Immediately after the alleged assault, Doris
    displayed only redness and a barely visible scratch. The court questioned "how
    plaintiff's neck became so scratched as depicted" in photographs in evidence,
    "as the police did not notice anything other than general redness and," as the
    sergeant reported, "'a barely visible scratch on plaintiff's neck when plaintiff
    was at [Fred's] house.'"
    The court also relied on its understanding of the medical evidence
    presented at trial. The court stated it could not "reconcile the lack . . . of any
    objective and substantiated medical proof of injury with the violence that
    plaintiff was alleged . . . to have been subjected to during the . . . struggle." In
    addition to relying on the chief's and sergeant's testimony that they observed few
    signs of injury shortly after the incident, the court heard from a physician's
    assistant (PA) who examined Doris at a nearby hospital thirty-six hours after the
    alleged assault. Doris testified that she sought medical attention because she
    continued to experience pain and headaches.
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    The court found that the PA was credible, and that Doris's allegations were
    at odds with "the medical evidence which found no objective signs of injury."
    The court stated, "It is not believable that the scratches on plaintiff's neck were
    anything more than superficial insofar as there were no signs of them only two
    days later at the hospital. It was further confirmed by the credible testimony of
    . . . the Physician's Assistant." The court reviewed the PA's negative findings.
    There were no signs of petechiae, which sometimes results from strangulation,
    although the PA said that petechiae would not follow blockage of the carotid
    artery. The PA observed no hematoma, which might result from being dragged
    by one's hair. There was no misalignment of the neck. And the CAT scan was
    negative.   According to the PA, it did not disclose "acute post-traumatic
    changes."
    However, the court significantly mischaracterized the PA's testimony in
    finding that there was no other "objective and substantiated medical proof of
    injury." The court erred in stating that the PA "testified that there [were] no . . .
    abrasions." The PA actually testified that Doris had abrasions, as well as redness
    on her neck. More significantly, the PA testified that Doris had swelling on her
    head, and other parts of her body. The PA testified,
    But in the back of her head, the parieto-occipital area,
    she had swelling and pain to palpation, but no open
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    skin. And on the same side of her trunk, same thing,
    she had swelling and pain to palpation. She had
    abrasions and [e]rythema and swelling, which is
    redness on the front of her neck. And tenderness
    throughout her neck. [4]
    Based on her objective findings, as well as Doris's subjective complaints,
    the PA stated that Doris had a "contusion, closed-head injury, cervical strain,
    abrasions" and she suffered an "assault by manual strangulation" and "strain of
    thoracic region." The court may have discounted that diagnosis, because the
    court questioned Doris's veracity in describing her subjective symptoms and the
    events that caused them. But, the court also overlooked the objective findings
    that did not depend on Doris's veracity.
    We conclude that the court "overlooked or under-evaluated" the
    testimony, by finding that there was no objective medical evidence of injury.
    We also conclude that the PA's evidence was "crucial," because the court
    expressly relied on the medical evidence, as the court understood it.
    We recognize that the trial court weighed heavily Doris's inconsistent
    statements, her post-incident demeanor, the state of her clothing, and the
    timeline of events that the court deemed inconsistent with the attack Doris
    4
    We acknowledge that tenderness and expressions of pain are subjective
    manifestations of injury. We focus here on objective indicators the court
    overlooked, such as swelling, abrasions and erythema.
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    described. We may not weigh those facts anew, or second guess the court's
    determination that those facts undermined her credibility. See Johnson, 
    42 N.J. at 161
    .
    Nonetheless, had the court noted the objective medical evidence the PA
    presented of swelling at the bottom of the head, on the front of the neck, and on
    the right side of the body, along with redness and abrasions of the neck, the court
    may have been persuaded that the altercation was more serious than John
    admitted to the sergeant, even if it did not rise to the level Doris described. And,
    a revised finding about the nature of the physical interaction may have affected
    the court's finding that John's out-of-control behavior at his father's house
    reflected only intoxication and impulsivity, and not a consciousness of guilt. A
    revised finding regarding Doris's injury may also have affected the court's
    determination that Doris did not need an FRO for protection. For that reason,
    we conclude the court's error was clearly capable of producing an unjust result.
    See R. 2:10-2. Therefore, we are constrained to vacate the trial court's judgment.
    B.
    We also consider the court's legal conclusion that John's admitted conduct
    did not constitute an assault; and even if it did, that an FRO was unneeded.
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    In deciding whether to grant a final restraining order, a trial court must
    engage in a two-step inquiry. Silver, 
    387 N.J. Super. at 125
    . The court must
    first determine whether the plaintiff proved, "by a preponderance of the credible
    evidence," that the defendant committed a predicate act listed in the PDVA.
    
    Ibid.
     One such predicate act is assault. N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(2). If the court
    finds that the defendant committed a predicate act, the court must decide
    whether to issue a restraining order. Silver, 
    387 N.J. Super. at 127
    . The court
    will issue a restraining order if one is necessary to protect a victim from further
    abuse. 
    Ibid.
    The court's legal conclusions regarding the two prongs lacked adequate
    reasoning, and in the case of the first prong, may have rested on a mistake of
    law. Absent legal justification, there should be no debate that the purposeful act
    of grabbing a person by the hair and pushing the person's head into a steering
    wheel constitutes an assault. The two acts doubtlessly cause "physical pain"
    and, therefore, "bodily injury." See N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(a)(1) (defining simple
    assault to include purposefully causing "bodily injury to another"); and N.J.S.A.
    2C:11-1(a) (stating "'bodily injury' means physical pain"). Along with proof of
    purposeful conduct and causation, that is all the law requires. See Capell v.
    Capell, 
    358 N.J. Super. 107
    , 111 (App. Div. 2003) (holding that evidence that a
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    husband shoved his wife into the bathroom counter during an argument was
    sufficient to establish simple assault).
    In concluding that John did not commit assault, the court evidently relied
    on three considerations: the parties' "pushing and slapping" was "mutual"; John
    wanted Doris "off of him"; and John wanted his phone back. The court stated:
    Under these circumstances, which this [c]ourt finds to
    be a mutual engagement of pushing and slapping over
    control of defendant's cell phone, the [c]ourt does not
    find that defendant's acknowledged action of grabbing
    plaintiff by her hair and pushing her head against the
    steering wheel in an effort to get his phone back and get
    plaintiff off of him constitutes assault.
    After John provoked Doris by recording, and Doris provoked John by
    grabbing his phone, the court suggests the two entered a fight by mutual consent,
    by finding a "mutual engagement of pushing and slapping." However, a "fight
    or scuffle entered into by mutual consent" is still assault, although it is graded
    as a petty disorderly persons offense. N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(a).
    Alternatively, the court suggested that John acted in self-defense, to "get
    plaintiff off of him," and acted in defense of his property, to "get his phone
    back." However, the court made no express finding that John "reasonably
    believe[d]" that the amount of force he used was "immediately necessary for the
    purpose of protecting himself against the use of unlawful force" by his wife. See
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    N.J.S.A. 2C:3-4(a). John thus must have believed he needed to grab his wife's
    hair and push her head into a steering wheel to protect himself. In his intoxicated
    state, he may well have done so.
    But that is not enough. He was obliged to prove that such a belief was
    reasonable, notwithstanding that he evidently could have protected himself by
    just leaving the car. See State v. Kelly, 
    97 N.J. 178
    , 198-99 (1984) (stating that
    a person must have both a subjectively honest belief, and an objectively
    reasonable belief, that the use of force was necessary). Absent essential trial
    court findings, we shall not conclude that John's assault was justified by self-
    defense.
    For the same reasons, we do not conclude his assault was justified by his
    desire to protect his personal property, his cellphone. See N.J.S.A. 2C:3-6(c).
    To establish that affirmative defense, the court was required to find that John
    "reasonably believe[d]" that the force used was necessary to prevent what John
    "reasonably believe[d]" was his wife's attempt to "commit theft, criminal
    mischief or other criminal interference with [his] personal property." 
    Ibid.
     Even
    if John could prove that he reasonably believed he needed to grab her hair and
    shove her face into the steering wheel to enable him to retrieve his phone, it is
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    doubtful he honestly and reasonably believed Doris's temporary seizure of his
    phone constituted a crime.
    In the alternative, the court found that even if Doris proved a predicate
    act, she failed to prove she needed an FRO.
    Even if the [c]ourt were to conclude that defendant's
    action of grabbing plaintiff by her hair and pushing her
    head against the steering wheel in the process of getting
    plaintiff off of him constitutes assault and recognizing
    that even one incident of assault can support the
    issuance of a final restraining order, under the facts of
    this case and noting the absence of any substantiated
    prior history of domestic violence, this [c]ourt would
    not find assault or that prong two of Silver would have
    been satisfied by defendant's admission . . . .
    The court cited R.G. v. R.G., 
    449 N.J. Super. 208
     (App. Div. 2017) for the
    proposition that "a physical confrontation alone does not require the issuance of
    an FRO."
    The court's analysis of the second prong of the Silver analysis fell short.
    Although the PDVA does not "automatically mandate[]" an FRO upon finding
    a predicate act, Kamen v. Egan, 
    322 N.J. Super. 222
    , 227 (App. Div. 1999), the
    second prong determination is "most often perfunctory and self-evident," Silver,
    
    387 N.J. Super. at 127
    . "[T]he guiding standard is whether a restraining order
    is necessary, upon an evaluation of the factors set forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25 -
    29(a)(1) to -29a(6), to protect the victim from an immediate danger or to prevent
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    further abuse."    
    Ibid.
       The six factors include: (1) the previous history of
    domestic violence between the parties; (2) "[t]he existence of immediate danger
    to person or property;" (3) the financial circumstances of the parties; (4) "[t]he
    best interests of the victim"; (5) the protection of the victim's safety in relation
    to custody and parenting time; and (6) the existence of a restraining order in a
    different jurisdiction. N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(1) to (6). The list is not exclusive,
    N.T.B. v. D.D.B., 
    442 N.J. Super. 205
    , 223 (App. Div. 2015), and the court may
    consider other relevant factors, N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a) (stating the court "shall
    . . . not be limited" to the listed factors).
    Here, the court considered only the absence of a previous history of
    domestic violence. The court did not address other factors, including John's
    propensity to drink and act out-of-control, as demonstrated by his actions against
    not only his wife, but his fellow police officers. We owe no deference to the
    court's second prong conclusion, as it lacked an evaluation of the relevant
    factors, and a statement of the court's reasoning. R. 1:7-4.
    In sum, we are constrained to vacate the trial court's judgment because it
    rested on an "overlooking or under-evaluation of crucial evidence"; the finding
    that defendant did not commit a predicate act of assault lacked legal reasoning
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    and may have been based on a mistake of law; and the court's determination that
    Doris did not need an FRO's protection also lacked adequate reasons.
    C.
    Doris's claims of evidentiary error warrant only brief comment. We will
    defer to the court's evidentiary decisions unless the court palpably abused its
    discretion, that is, its ruling was so misguided as to deny justice. See Grewal v.
    Greda, 
    463 N.J. Super. 489
    , 503 (App. Div. 2020). We discern no such abuse
    of discretion here.
    Regarding the decision to admit into evidence video-recordings from
    Fred's home, the court reasonably credited Fred's testimony that he produced the
    only recordings that still existed. Also, the court's decision to allow defense
    counsel to cross-examine Doris about her obligation to repay wrongfully
    received unemployment benefits was of no consequence, because the court
    expressly disregarded the testimony in its decision.
    The court also did not err in barring Doris's counsel from questioning the
    chief about his communications with DCPP, and denying her demand that he be
    provided a copy of the chief's reports, which he brought with him to trial. In
    both cases, Doris's counsel could have taken steps to secure those documents in
    advance of trial, but did not. Doris's counsel could have filed an appropriate
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    motion before trial under N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.10a(a), upon notice to the Division, that
    he sought disclosure of communications that are generally confidential.
    Likewise, counsel could have served a subpoena on the chief for his reports.
    Although discovery is limited in the usual summary trial of a domestic violence
    complaint, the trial in this case occurred months after the complaint; it continued
    over a three-month period; and the court allowed both sides to engage in limited
    pre-trial discovery. See Crespo v. Crespo, 
    408 N.J. Super. 25
    , 44-45 (App. Div.
    2009) (recognizing a trial court's discretionary authority to permit "limited
    discovery . . . to prevent an injustice" in a domestic violence case).
    The court also did not abuse its discretion in barring Doris from
    introducing into evidence her personal diary, to establish discord in the
    marriage. The court reasonably questioned its relevance and its trustworthiness.
    To the extent not addressed, Doris's remaining points lack sufficient merit
    to warrant discussion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).
    Finally, because the judge who decided this matter in the first instance
    made credibility determinations, we are constrained to direct that the remand be
    assigned to a different judge. See R.L. v. Voytac, 
    199 N.J. 285
    , 306 (2009).
    Judgment vacated and remanded. The TRO is reinstated. We do not retain
    jurisdiction.
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