DCPP VS. M.L.L., D.Q.T., S.H.B., AND D.R.G., JR., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF D.I.A.D.Q.T., M.G.G., I.Y.S.T., K.D.A.T., J.S.B. AND P.M.B. (FG-07-0037-19, ESSEX COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2021 )


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    APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
    This opinion shall not "constitute precedent or be binding upon any court." Although it is posted on the
    internet, this opinion is binding only on the parties in the case and its use in other cases is limited. R. 1:36-3.
    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-3569-18T3
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION
    OF CHILD PROTECTION
    AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    M.L.L.,
    Defendant-Appellant/
    Cross-Respondent,
    and
    D.Q.T., S.H.B. and D.R.G., Jr.,
    Defendants-Respondents.
    ______________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE
    GUARDIANSHIP OF D.I.A.D.Q.T.,
    M.G.G., K.D.A.T.,
    Minors/Cross-Appellants,
    and
    I.Y.S.T., J.S.B. and P.M.B., Minors.
    ______________________________
    Argued November 19, 2020 - Decided January 12, 2021
    Before Judges Ostrer, Accurso and Vernoia.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Essex County,
    Docket No. FG-07-0037-19.
    James D. O'Kelly, Designated Counsel, argued the
    cause for appellant/cross-respondent M.L.L. (Joseph
    E. Krakora, Public Defender, attorney; Robyn A.
    Veasey, Deputy Public Defender, of counsel; James D.
    O'Kelly, on the briefs).
    Casey Woodruff, Deputy Attorney General, argued the
    cause for respondent Division of Child Protection and
    Permanency (Gurbir S. Grewal, Attorney General,
    attorney; Sookie Bae, Assistant Attorney General, of
    counsel; Katherine Petrie, Deputy Attorney General,
    on the brief).
    Todd Wilson, Designated Counsel, argued the cause
    for minors/cross-appellants D.I.A.D.Q.T., M.G.G. and
    K.D.A.T. (Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law
    Guardian, attorney; Meredith Alexis Pollock, Deputy
    Public Defender, of counsel; Todd Wilson, on the
    briefs).
    Danielle Ruiz, Designated Counsel, argued the cause
    for minors J.S.B. and P.M.B. (Joseph E. Krakora,
    Public Defender, Law Guardian, attorney; Meredith
    Alexis Pollock, Deputy Public Defender, of counsel;
    Danielle Ruiz, on the brief).
    James J. Gross, Designated Counsel, argued the cause
    for minor I.Y.S.T. (Joseph E. Krakora, Public
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    Defender, Law Guardian, attorney; Meredith Alexis
    Pollock, Deputy Public Defender, of counsel; James J.
    Gross, on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Defendant M.L.L. appeals from a final judgment terminating her
    parental rights to six of her seven children, D.I.A.D.Q.T. ("Daniel"), now
    fourteen years old; M.G.G. ("Martin"), twelve; I.Y.S.T. ("Ilene"), ten;
    K.D.A.T. ("Kevin"), nine; J.S.B. ("Jade"), eight; and P.M.B. ("Pauline"), six.1
    Her seventh child, a girl almost four, is not involved in this matter. Defendant
    contends the Division of Child Protection and Permanency failed to prove
    prongs two, three and four of the best interests standard of N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a)(1) to (4) by clear and convincing evidence.
    The law guardian for Daniel, Martin and Kevin cross-appeals on behalf
    of the boys, joining in defendant's arguments and contending the severe
    behavioral and mental health problems the boys suffer, particularly Daniel,
    make their adoption unlikely, and that all three wish to return to their mother's
    care. Ilene, separately represented, had been of the same mind as her brothers
    but has since decided she would prefer to be adopted. Ilene's law guardian has
    1
    These are fictitious names used to protect the identity and privacy of the
    parties involved. See R. 1:38-3(d). The children's fathers' rights were also
    terminated in this action. None has appealed.
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    thus withdrawn her cross-appeal and supports the Division's arguments here.
    The law guardian for Jade and Pauline likewise urges affirmance.
    Having reviewed the record, we find no basis to second-guess the trial
    judge's findings as to defendant's unfitness, her inability or unwillingness to
    remediate the harm she's caused these children, the Division's reasonable
    efforts to assist defendant in overcoming the problems that led to their
    placement, and the absence of any alternatives to termination.         The only
    quarrel we have with the trial court's comprehensive and otherwise well-
    considered opinion is that the court failed to apply the test of the fourth prong
    — whether "[t]ermination of parental rights will not do more harm than good"
    — individually as to each of these six children.           Although individual
    consideration of each child is, of course, always essential, N.J. Div. of Youth
    & Family Servs. v. A.R., 
    405 N.J. Super. 418
    , 443 (App. Div. 2009) (noting
    the four prongs must be evaluated separately as to each child) it was
    particularly important here because at the time of trial, only one of these
    children was in a pre-adoptive home.
    Based, however, on the unrebutted testimony of the Division's expert
    regarding the absence of any real bond between defendant and any of the
    children, and his unequivocal view that the limited risk of harm to each child
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    posed by termination of defendant's parental rights was far outweighed by the
    potential for adoption, which is now a very real possibility for the five younger
    children as all are now living in pre-adoptive homes, we can affirm the
    decision as to Martin, Ilene, Kevin, Jade and Pauline, notwithstanding that
    error.
    Daniel, however, is a separate case. He has only recently been released
    from a residential treatment facility.      He is now residing in a step-down
    program in a group treatment home. Daniel's mental health issues and severe
    behavioral problems have, in the words of his counsel, "sabotaged" his chances
    of a permanent placement to date. While the evidence in the record would not
    suggest that defendant is able to assume his care, the court's failure to address
    specifically whether termination of defendant's parental rights might leave
    Daniel worse off, compels a limited remand for the trial court to address the
    fourth prong of the best interests test in light of his, and defendant's, current
    circumstances.
    This is a very old case. It's been tried twice and twice remanded on
    motion during the pendency of this, the only, appeal for the Division to assess
    one of defendant's relatives for placement, and for the court to consider the
    applicability of the Indian Child Welfare Act, the latter issue defendant has
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    now abandoned. The children were removed from defendant's care five years
    ago in January 2016.
    The facts leading up to the removal through the second termination trial
    are spread across eighty-seven pages of the trial court's written opinion, and
    we have no need to repeat them here. Suffice it to say that the children were
    removed because they were dirty and smelled of urine, and defendant had
    failed to provide them a suitable place to live or to plan for their care,
    including undertaking such basic tasks as enrolling the older ones in school.
    The Division had twice previously substantiated defendant for environmental
    neglect for permitting the children to live in a filthy, fly-infested apartment
    reeking of animal waste. A notable entry from the case sheets at that time
    documents that a meeting about the children between defendant and a Division
    worker had to be conducted outside in late October 2011, because the stench
    inside defendant's apartment made it difficult to breathe.      Child welfare
    personnel in both New Jersey and Florida, where plaintiff lived for two years
    between 2013 and 2015, documented defendant's unwillingness to take any
    initiative in caring for her children, expecting the child welfare agencies in
    both states to do for her and her children what she was unable or unwilling to
    do for herself or them.
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    When Florida's child protective services agency was on the verge of
    removing the children from her care in late 2015, defendant returned to New
    Jersey, at Florida's expense, without any money or a place to go.              She
    explained she had returned home expecting her mother to help her. Defendant
    was ineligible for financial assistance as she had exhausted her benefits and
    had lost her Section 8 housing, although unable to clearly explain why. She
    refused to contact shelters for vacancies, complaining it was "tiring calling
    dead end places" and that she would instead prefer to wait for return calls. She
    texted the Division worker, saying "if there's any housing [in Morris County]
    just make it happen because I'm tired and feel sick to keep stressing my body
    out like this."
    The Division arranged for a psychiatric evaluation of defendant during
    the summer of 2016.      The Division's psychiatrist reported that defendant
    suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder, unspecified bipolar disorder,
    unspecified anxiety disorder, panic disorder, maladaptive personality traits,
    cannabis abuse (in remission), and that she had been a victim of domestic
    violence. He concluded defendant required outpatient mental health treatment
    and perhaps intensive outpatient treatment but did find cognitive therapy to be
    advisable given defendant's "cognitive limitations and learning disabilities."
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    After the Division removed the children, defendant's visits with them
    were sometimes sporadic and often unfocused, even before she again relocated
    to Florida in late 2016, with her many times talking on her cell phone or not
    interacting with the children, who played among themselves. When defendant
    advised she was moving back to Florida, the Division's court-approved plan
    was still reunification.   Defendant maintained she could access services in
    Florida, and that a great-aunt could help her with housing to accommodate the
    children. Despite the Division's expressed reservations about that plan, the
    court approved it, ordering defendant to execute releases for any program she
    entered, which the Division would assess to determine whether it met the terms
    of the existing order for defendant to engage in services.
    When, four months later, defendant had not enrolled in services in
    Florida and had not executed releases, despite another court order and repeated
    requests, the court in March 2017 approved the change in the Division's
    permanency plan from reunification to termination.           Her visits with the
    children at that time, which the Division offered to conduct over Skype, were
    instead limited to conversations over the telephone because of defendant's
    inability to secure a computer. Workers reported that defendant never initiated
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    these calls, and when the workers called at pre-arranged times, defendant's
    phone was many times turned off.
    We digress from a chronological rendition of events to address the
    children's lives in placement, which have often been difficult, largely because
    of the challenges their behavioral problems presented. Daniel, the eldest, has
    severe behavioral issues and suffers from encopresis, or fecal incontinence,
    reportedly caused by psychological or emotional problems.           He has been
    diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder and attention deficit hyperactivity
    disorder. When first removed from defendant's care, Daniel and Martin went
    to live with Martin's paternal grandmother. 2 Within six months, however, she
    asked that Daniel be removed due to his "defiant" behavior, angry temper
    tantrums and soiling himself.       The Division moved him to a therapeutic
    resource home, the first of eight such placements. He was later suspended
    from school and kicked out of camps and clubs because of his angry,
    aggressive behavior and fighting. Martin also had behavioral issues, although
    much less severe than Daniel's. He has remained in his grandmother's care
    since his removal, and his law guardian reports Martin has moved out of a self-
    2
    Martin's father executed a voluntary surrender in favor of his mother.
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    contained classroom and become a good student.              His grandmother is
    committed to adopting him.
    Ilene and Kevin were initially placed together in a non-relative resource
    home. At the time of the second trial, Kevin was residing in a treatment home,
    following a crisis hospitalization in 2017 after he threatened to cut off a
    classmate's head with a knife. He was being educated in a self-contained
    classroom and had been in four other placements.           Ilene, who also has
    behavioral issues and mild intellectual disability, likewise received her
    schooling in a self-contained classroom and cycled through four different
    placements, including overnight placements. Although her behavior had much
    improved by the time of the second trial, case management organization
    services and therapy having been discontinued in 2018, she was still not in a
    pre-adoptive home.
    Jade and Pauline have remained together since being removed from their
    mother's care. They spent the first two-years post-removal in a pre-adoptive
    home.     Pauline qualified for services, and Jade was receiving therapy and
    classified as Preschool Disabled.      The family relocated to Pennsylvania,
    however, and was not permitted to take the girls with them.
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    That disruption was difficult for both children, especially Jade, who has
    both a learning disability and emotional issues, manifested by anger and
    aggressive behavior.   Jade's behavior by the time of trial, however, was
    reported to be much better, and she had transitioned to a regular classroom.
    The Division referred Pauline to a child study team in 2018, and her sibling
    visits at the Adoption House were temporarily suspended late that year because
    of her behavior. Although Pauline's behavior can be problematic at times, she
    has no learning disabilities. Both girls reportedly suffered from bed-wetting.
    Their initial resource family maintained contact and pursued licensing in
    Pennsylvania in order to resume custody of the girls. As of the second trial,
    Jade and Pauline were together in a new, non-adoptive resource home in New
    Jersey.
    Resuming the narrative, shortly after the court approved the plan for
    termination in March 2017, defendant reengaged in services. Florida family
    services advised that defendant was in its "intensive program," scheduled to
    undergo a psychiatric evaluation, receive individual therapy, and get "High
    Risk Newborn" services, as defendant had recently given birth to her seventh
    child. By May, Florida officials advised that defendant was living in a shelter
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    and voluntarily engaging in counseling, psychiatric services and parenting
    education.
    In a psychological evaluation conducted in New Jersey in July, however,
    defendant told the Division's psychologist, Dr. Yeoman, that the reports of her
    not enrolling the children in school and neglecting their hygiene were false.
    She claimed she had enrolled the children in school when they were six weeks
    old, and that the children's observed hygiene condition was as a result of the
    unaddressed condition of her prior home. She also denied reports that she had
    been evicted from several shelters.      Defendant told the psychologist the
    children would not have any difficulty transitioning out of their various
    resource homes back to her care as they had lived with her all their lives. She
    reported that Ilene had learning problems, and Jade and Pauline both had
    learning and behavior problems, the latter of which only started after their
    removal, and that she had already established specialized treatment for each of
    them, which no one could verify.
    Defendant's scores on intelligence tests reflected below average to
    average intelligence, and personality tests reflected "substantial narcissistic
    personality traits" and paranoia, and her clinical symptomatology suggested
    "labile emotions and frequent mood swings." After observing defendant with
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    her children, Dr. Yeoman concluded defendant demonstrated no understanding
    of the children's special needs, that her lenient parenting style would not
    permit them "to develop internal controls and an understanding of the
    importance of following rules," and that the amount of structure and guidance
    she could provide them "would be inadequate for healthy development." He
    highlighted her failure to take any responsibility for the children's out-of-home
    placement and her only recent willingness to comply with mental health
    treatment despite a life-long history of problems.
    Most significant, the psychologist noted defendant did not actively
    demonstrate affection for her children and enthusiasm for interacting with
    them, notwithstanding she had not seen them for eight months at the time of
    the evaluation. The children, likewise, demonstrated no reaction to her leaving
    the room, and did not actively seek her out and express affection for her.
    Defendant had her newborn with her during the evaluation, and the
    psychologist observed "on several occasions, the demands of attending to all
    her children exceeded her abilities, and important needs of her children were
    neglected."   She at one point directed then four-year-old Jade to hold her
    infant, whom Jade almost dropped, while defendant attended to another child.
    On another occasion when she left the room with one of the other children,
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    Martin knocked Kevin to the ground with a heavy toy, the baby started to cry,
    and Daniel, then ten, was left to attend to her. Dr. Yeoman found no strong,
    psychologically healthy bond between defendant and any of her six older
    children, describing her relationship with them as "more consistent with what
    is often found between a child and an extended family member, such as with
    an uncle or aunt." In contrast, Dr. Yeoman found Martin securely bonded to
    his grandmother.
    By the time of the first guardianship trial in April 2018, however, the
    psychologist had somewhat altered his opinion as to defendant's ability to
    parent her children. He testified he had only recently been provided with
    updated reports of defendant's participation in services in Florida. Having
    reviewed those records, which revealed that defendant had been engaged in
    treatment in Florida for nearly a year, and that Florida's child protective
    services agency had closed her case, having no concerns about her care of her
    infant, Dr. Yeoman amended his earlier assessment. Writing in an updated
    report that it appeared defendant had "demonstrated a greater commitment to
    treatment than initially indicated," he found the new information "could not be
    ignored."
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    Although acknowledging defendant's efforts, the psychologist still
    maintained he saw no evidence that "defendant has addressed the central issues
    of her case," or demonstrated the ability to maintain housing or achieve
    financial stability, and thus his opinion as to Martin, Pauline and Jade
    remained the same. As to Daniel, Ilene and Kevin, however, the psychologist
    opined that in light of "their ages and lack of adoptive homes," and defendant's
    "current commitment to treatment," that allowing defendant "an additional
    three months to address and remediate the central issues of her case is unlikely
    to cause them substantial harm."
    Thus, although remaining of the view that defendant would be unlikely
    "to address these issues sufficiently," given that she previously demonstrated
    no understanding of how her lenient parenting style put the children at risk of
    harm, was unaware of how she would need to change the way she parented in
    order "to suit each of her children's special needs" and took no responsibility
    for the children's initial or continued placement, Dr. Yeoman recommended
    defendant be given another, limited, chance to show she could be an adequate
    parent to her three oldest children. He identified seven treatment goals for
    defendant:
    (1) Gain sufficient understanding of the importance
    of structure and supervision for all of her children,
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    especially those with special needs. Demonstrate how
    she will change her parenting style to suit each of her
    children’s special needs.
    (2) Recognize her responsibility for her children’s
    initial and ongoing placement with the Division,
    identify the personal and parental deficits which
    contributed to their removal from her care, and
    demonstrate substantial improvement in those
    domains.
    (3) Demonstrate an appreciation for the difficulties
    her children would likely encounter if they were
    transitioned back into her care and develop a plan to
    sufficiently address these anticipated difficulties.
    (4) Demonstrate insight into the impact her mental
    health had on her ability to parent her children
    adequately and develop a plan to sufficiently address
    her mental health issues.
    (5) Consistently and actively participate           in
    telephone visitation with her children.
    (6) Achieve and maintain housing and financial
    stability.
    (7) Submit to a psychological reevaluation in three
    months to determine the degree of treatment progress
    made and if reunification is warranted at that time.
    Dr. Yeoman opined that if defendant could not demonstrate substantial
    progress toward each of those goals within a few months, then the only option
    for the children achieving permanency would be by termination of her parental
    rights.
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    Having heard Dr. Yeoman's testimony, the trial judge concluded the
    Division did not carry its burden on the second and fourth prongs of the best
    interests standard as to any of the children, and that defendant should be
    permitted an additional period to demonstrate that she could remediate the
    harm to the children resulting in their placement. 3 The judge accordingly
    dismissed the guardianship case and reinstated the Title 30 protective services
    action. The Division did not appeal that order. The judge further ordered the
    Division to meet with defendant to formulate a plan in conjunction with the
    Florida authorities to address Dr. Yeoman's treatment goals for defendant and
    ordered her to submit to a reevaluation in three months to assess her progress.
    Despite some initial efforts, defendant did not make significant progress
    toward her treatment goals. She missed visits with the children, cancelling
    3
    The court also declined to terminate the rights of Daniel, Ilene and Kevin's
    father and Jade and Pauline's father, notwithstanding that it found the Division
    proved the first three prongs of the best interests standard as to both men,
    stating "[t]he court does not terminate the rights of one parent when another
    parent could be fit." The Division did not appeal that order, and thus that
    ruling is not before us. We accordingly express no opinion on it. But see N.J.
    Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. H.R., 
    431 N.J. Super. 212
    , 228 (App. Div.
    2013) (rejecting defendant's attempt to rely on other parent's defenses to avoid
    termination of defendant's parental rights) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 288 (2007) (holding "[p]arental rights are
    individual in nature and due process requires that fitness be evaluated on an
    individual basis")).
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    flights, paid for by the Division, at the last minute,4 and refused to attend two
    scheduled reevaluations with Dr. Yeoman.       She was also evicted from the
    shelter where she had been living in Florida, and into which she had planned to
    move the children, because she failed to keep her room clean.            Florida
    authorities refused the Division's interstate request to inspect the new
    apartment defendant secured through an anti-homelessness program for its
    suitability for the children because she would not comply with that state's
    requirement for the inspection.
    Three months after the first guardianship trial, the court approved the
    Division's permanency plan for termination, and the Division filed a new
    guardianship complaint. Defendant finally attended a reevaluation with Dr.
    Yeoman in December 2018, five months after it was first scheduled.
    Defendant told the psychologist she could temporarily establish all six children
    with her and her youngest child in her new two-bedroom apartment; that she
    4
    When she cancelled one visit in June 2018 on the day before she was
    scheduled to arrive, she texted the worker, "my kids will understand." Upon
    learning from his resource parent that his mother had cancelled, Daniel had an
    explosive outburst, cursing and soiling himself. He twice hit the resource
    parent and threatened to poke her in the eye with a broom he brandished.
    Although he subsequently calmed down and apologized, the resource mother
    decided she could no longer care for him and asked that he be removed from
    her home. Daniel had two overnight placements before being moved to
    another resource home.
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    would be offered a larger apartment at the end of her one-year lease; and could
    never be dropped from the housing program; all of which were contradicted by
    the program's housing administrator with whom Dr. Yeoman spoke in order to
    understand defendant's current housing in Florida.          After reevaluating
    defendant, the psychologist opined that she had not demonstrated she could
    maintain stable housing for herself and her children and was "on a negative
    trajectory," given that she was already three months behind in her, heavily
    subsidized, rent in her new apartment and had yet to transfer the utilities into
    her name as required.
    Although Dr. Yeoman acknowledged defendant's compliance with her
    psychotropic medications, and that she had better insight into the problems
    that led to the children's removal, he found she continued to not appreciate the
    likely difficulties her children would encounter were they returned to her care.
    Moreover, she "continue[d] to be overwhelmed by completing the basic tasks
    necessary to maintain a stable life and reunification with her children " with
    only one child in her care — remaining late on her rent, failing to transfer the
    utilities into her name, and not completing the forms necessary to permit
    Florida authorities to initiate the home study process.      She had also not
    returned to therapy after completing a six-month program in November 2018.
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    Defendant's housing program encouraged her to continue counseling, as had
    Dr. Yeoman, but she didn't follow through. Defendant also cancelled trips to
    New Jersey to visit her children at the last minute and had never submitted a
    plan for reunification, despite having five months to do so.
    Dr. Yeoman wrote that "[i]f completing these tasks and managing her
    own life is more than [defendant] could handle," he had "little confidence that
    she could handle the stress and logistics of caring for six additional children ,"
    several with special needs. The psychologist did not undertake an updated
    bonding evaluation between defendant and her children because he saw no
    reason to anticipate any change, given how infrequently defendant had visited
    or spoken with them since his first bonding evaluation. He opined that none of
    the children would suffer severe and enduring harm were defendant's rights
    terminated and that doing so would provide the children an opportunity for
    permanent placement through select home adoption.              Dr. Yeoman again
    repeated his opinion of the strong, psychologically healthy bond between
    Martin and his grandmother, and that removing him from her care would likely
    cause him to suffer substantial harm to his development.
    At the second guardianship trial, Dr. Yeoman testified consistent with
    his report, and two Division employees, a supervisor in the adoption unit and a
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    family services specialist, testified to the Division's efforts to provide services,
    the children's status and the Division's plans to find them permanent homes.
    The family services specialist also testified to the Division's interactions with
    the Florida authorities and defendant's case manager in her anti-homelessness
    program. Included in that testimony was a report received just days before
    trial that defendant was then behind $480 in her rent and had recently failed a
    housing inspection for housekeeping issues, including letting her garbage
    block a neighbor's door. The Florida case manager also advised she had made
    a referral to child protective services that defendant was failing to provide
    adequately for her youngest child. The Division witnesses testified the plan
    for all of the children, but Martin, was select home adoption.            The law
    guardians for the children did not present any witnesses.
    Defendant testified in her own behalf. She acknowledged that she was
    again facing eviction, explaining she had to choose between paying her storage
    bill and paying her rent.     She also admitted she had an open matter with
    Florida's child protective services agency over her care of her youngest child ,
    had not returned to therapy, and that the Florida authorities had never
    conducted the home inspection she needed in order to permit the Division to
    assess her two-bedroom apartment's suitability for seven children.
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    Based on the facts adduced at trial and his assessments of the credibility
    of the witnesses who testified, the judge found the Division established all four
    prongs of the best interests standard by clear and convincing evidence. He
    relied on his findings from the first trial that defendant had endangered her
    children by environmental neglect by forcing them to live in unsanitary
    conditions, and her failure to enroll the older children in school. The judge
    further found the children's safety, health and development would continue to
    be endangered by their relationship with their mother based on her inability to
    maintain a minimal degree of stability in her own life and her inability or
    unwillingness to provide them a safe and stable home.          The judge noted
    defendant's inability to manage stable housing for herself and one child,
    finding no evidence that she could somehow more effectively provide for the
    other six children she had condemned to placement by her neglect and
    incapacity.
    The judge did not find defendant's account of her efforts since the first
    trial credible, noting "[s]he merely acknowledged a host of unresolved issues
    and either blamed others or offered a myriad of excuses for things undone."
    He concluded her testimony revealed her failure to comprehend the impact on
    the children of having been in placement for well over three years, and that her
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    "plan — just get the kids to Florida [and] everything will be right — lacks
    insight" into herself and them. Crediting Dr. Yeoman's testimony about the
    need the children have for permanency, which their mother cannot provide, the
    judge found further delay would only compound the harm they had already
    suffered.
    Based on the myriad of services the Division provided defendant,
    including after she relocated to Florida, the judge concluded the Division
    easily met its obligation to provide her the services she needed to correct the
    conditions that led to the children's placement. The judge also considered, and
    rejected, alternatives to termination, including relative placement, long -term
    specialized care, independent living and, as to Martin, kinship legal
    guardianship with his paternal grandmother, which was unavailable because
    she wished to adopt him.
    Finally, the judge concluded, based on the unrebutted expert testimony,
    that termination of defendant's parental rights would not do more harm than
    good, even as to those children, all except Martin, who were not then in pre-
    adoptive homes. The judge accepted Dr. Yeoman's testimony that defendant
    was not then fit to parent her children, and that additional time had not and
    would not change that, leading the judge to conclude the Division's plan of
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    select home adoption posed less risk to them than continuing their relationship
    with a parent who could not provide them the permanency they needed.
    Our review of a trial court's decision to terminate parental rights is
    limited. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 448-49
    (2012). We generally "defer to the factual findings of the trial court because it
    has the opportunity to make first-hand credibility judgments about the
    witnesses who appear on the stand; it has a 'feel of the case' that can never be
    realized by a review of the cold record." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
    v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 104 (2008) (quoting M.M., 
    189 N.J. at 293
    ).
    Having reviewed this record, we are convinced the judge's findings as to
    each of the four prongs of the best interests test have ample support in the trial
    testimony. Defendant's arguments that the Division failed to make reasonable
    efforts at reunification, failed to timely assess defendant's great aunt Edith as
    an alternative placement for the children, and that the trial court's findings as
    to the second and third prongs were thus inadequate are without sufficient
    merit to warrant any extended discussion here. See R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).
    Defendant claims the Division spoiled the chance the judge gave her
    after the first trial to prove her ability to parent her children by failing to
    transmit Dr. Yeoman's seven treatment goals to her Florida therapist when she
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    started therapy in May 2018.       Specifically, defendant argues the family
    services specialist "testified confidently" on direct that Dr. Yeoman's treatment
    goals were "submitted" to defendant's Florida service provider, but was forced
    to concede on cross "that she was not sure if [defendant's] therapist 'actually
    got Dr. Yeoman's recommendations.'"        A review of the transcript and the
    contemporaneous contact sheets in evidence tempts us to term the argument
    disingenuous.
    In response to a question form the deputy attorney general on direct, the
    family services specialist testified about the Division's efforts to ensure
    defendant was receiving the appropriate type of treatment in Florida, by stating
    "[t]he Division submitted Dr. Yeoman's recommendation" to defendant's
    service provider. The deputy did not explore the issue further and did not ask
    the case worker to review the case sheets documenting the Division's efforts.
    On cross-examination by the law guardian for Jade and Pauline, the worker
    again testified that she provided Dr. Yeoman's recommendations to "[t]he
    person . . . in charge of [defendant's] case," whom she "believe[d]" was "her
    actual therapist." That led to the following exchange between the two:
    Q: You don't know?
    A: No, I don't.
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    Q: So you're not sure if her therapist actually got Dr.
    Yeoman's recommendations?
    A. No.
    The law guardian likewise did not direct the worker's attention to the
    case sheets in evidence. A review of those documents makes clear, however,
    that not only had the case worker emailed Dr. Yeoman's last evaluation to
    defendant's Florida therapist on May 24, 2018, she also spoke with her on the
    telephone the same day and "advised [the therapist] of what [defendant] needs
    to be working on according to Dr. Yeoman's report." As that occurred exactly
    two weeks after defendant began her outpatient therapy in Florida, we dismiss
    defendant's argument that the Division's "blatant failure to do anything with
    Dr. Yeoman's treatment plan" requires reversal of this guardianship judgment.
    Defendant's argument that the Division failed to make reasonable efforts to
    reunify her with her children is simply belied by the overwhelming evidence to
    the contrary in the record.
    Defendant's argument that the judgment must be reversed because of the
    Division's failure to timely assess her great aunt for placement of the children
    is similarly constructed on isolated facts that obscure the larger picture. The
    Division concedes that it failed, through an oversight, to assess defendant's
    great aunt Edith. It also notes, however, that defendant did not raise the issue
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    at either guardianship trial, asserting the argument only in her brief on appeal.
    Notwithstanding, following the filing of defendant's merits brief, the Division
    attempted to assess Edith, submitting an interstate request to Florida. Edith
    failed to respond and was eventually sent a rule out letter from which she did
    not appeal.
    The Law Guardian for Jade and Pauline moved to supplement the
    appellate record with documents relating to the rule out. Defendant cross-
    moved to remand the issue for an evidentiary hearing to assess the basis of the
    Division's rule out letter, attaching a certification from Edith that she never
    received either a telephone call or letter from the agency supposedly
    conducting her interstate assessment. We granted the motion for remand, our
    second,5 and a different judge concluded upon hearing testimony that Edith's
    5
    We previously granted the Division's motion for remand to allow it to send
    notices under the Indian Child Welfare Act. Although defendant had never
    asserted Indian ancestry to the Division, she identified herself as Native
    American in a service referral document in 2018. When the Division belatedly
    discovered that fact, it sought a temporary remand to permit it to comply with
    the Act. After gathering information, the Division sent notice to the tribes,
    receiving a timely reply from the Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians that the
    children do not qualify as "Indian Children" pursuant to 
    25 U.S.C. § 1903
    (4).
    None of the other tribes responded. An order was thereafter entered by the
    same judge who presided over the second remand that the Indian Child
    Welfare Act does not apply to the children. Defendant confirmed at oral
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    assertion of not having received letters and calls from the interstate provider
    seeking to assess her for placement was not credible. The judge further found
    that the Division properly assessed and ruled out Edith as a placement resource
    for the children.
    Defendant does not contend the evidence was insufficient for the remand
    judge to have made that finding. Instead, she asserts we should admonish the
    Division for its failure to timely assess Edith and continues to claim its failure
    somehow renders the trial court's conclusion on the third prong unreliable.
    While we do not condone the Division's failure to have timely assessed Edith,
    the Division conceded its error and took steps to rectify it.      We thus find
    nothing to criticize. Defendant's argument that the trial court's finding on the
    third prong is undermined by the Division's failure to timely rule out a relative,
    whom she concedes — by not arguing otherwise — could not care for the
    children; a dereliction she never raised to the trial judge in any event, is
    obviously insufficient to overturn the judgment.
    This case, in our view, turned on the fourth prong — whether
    terminating defendant's parental rights without adoptive homes on the horizon
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    argument that she is not contesting that ruling and has accordingly abandoned
    the issue.
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    for five of the six children would not do them more harm than good. Our
    Supreme Court long ago acknowledged the "unfortunate truth that not all
    children, who are 'freed' from their legal relationship with their parents, find
    the stable and permanent situation that is desired even though this is the
    implicit promise made by the state when it seeks to terminate the parent-child
    relationship," N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.W., 
    103 N.J. 591
    , 611
    (1986) (quoting In re Angelia P., 
    623 P.2d 198
    , 210 (Cal. 1981) (Bird, C.J.,
    concurring and dissenting)). With that understanding, we have admonished
    that "[a] court should hesitate to terminate parental rights in the absence of a
    permanent plan that will satisfy the child's needs." N.J. Div. of Youth &
    Family Servs. v. B.G.S., 
    291 N.J. Super. 582
    , 593 (App. Div. 1996).
    Although the trial judge did not separately analyze the fourth prong as to
    each child as he should have, we have no doubt he was clear-eyed about what
    he was balancing in assessing that "fail-safe" prong — whether more harm is
    likely to befall these children by staying with their mother than by being
    permanently separated from her. See A.W., 
    103 N.J. at 610
    . And on that
    critical question, while the children's prospects for achieving permanency
    through adoption differed, those prospects were all balanced against one
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    constant — the unrebutted expert testimony that none of the children was
    bonded to defendant.
    None of the parties to this appeal requested oral argument. Because the
    deputy attorney general, however, had sent us several letters during the
    pendency of this appeal advising of changes in one child or another's
    placement status pursuant to Rule 2:6-11(f), and we thought it important to
    have a better understanding of where matters stood, we requested the parties
    orally argue the appeal and asked the deputy to provide us current information
    on the placement status of each child. In response, the deputy advised that
    Daniel was "stepped down" from the Youth Consultation Service - Holly
    Center to a Devereux Treatment Home two months ago; Martin remains in the
    adoptive home of his paternal grandmother, where he has been for the five
    years since removal; Kevin moved to an adoptive home ten months ago; and
    Ilene, Jade and Pauline are together in an adoptive home where they were
    placed over a year ago.
    As in N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. T.S., 
    417 N.J. Super. 228
    ,
    247 (App. Div. 2010), our review of the trial court's decision in this case has
    thus been "aided by the benefit of time." But unlike in that matter, where a
    culmination of events post-judgment caused us to question an otherwise sound
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    decision by the trial court terminating a parent's rights, 
    id. at 249
    , here post-
    judgment developments largely have tended to vindicate the trial judge's
    acceptance of the Division's testimony "that the children were still adoptable
    and capable of a permanent placement," A.W., 
    103 N.J. at 616
    , and thus that
    termination of defendant's rights as her children would not do them more harm
    than good. Now, unlike at the end of trial when five of these six children had
    only the prospect of select home adoption, five of the six are in pre-adoptive
    homes with the stable and permanent relationship with a nurturing adult such
    homes promise.
    While the law guardians for Ilene, Jade and Pauline urge us to affirm the
    decision terminating defendant's parental rights, thus freeing them for
    adoption, the law guardian for Daniel, Martin and Kevin echoes the arguments
    by defendant we have rejected, and adds that the trial court erred in finding
    termination was in the boys' best interests "where they firmly desire to return
    home, [Daniel's] and [Kevin's] prospects for adoption are exceedingly slim,
    and there is no compensating benefit to severing the parental relationship."
    While conceding that Martin has been in a pre-adoptive home since
    removal and Kevin's prospects for adoption have changed for the better, given
    he has been in a pre-adoptive home for over ten months, their law guardian
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    argues the court failed to take their and their brother Daniel's wishes to
    maintain a relationship with their mother and each other into account, and that
    the Division never considered placing fewer than all six children with
    defendant. They stress that defendant "has no issues with substance abuse or
    criminal activity and only minor concerns about her mental health."
    We agree with Daniel, Martin and Kevin that the trial judge erred in
    failing to address the children's wishes in his opinion, see E.P., 
    196 N.J. at 113
    , and to consider the children individually.6        We also agree that in
    6
    It is not correct that the Division did not advocate for addressing the children
    individually or consider placing fewer than all six with defendant. While
    pressing for termination of defendant's rights to all six children at the first
    guardianship trial, the Division sought, alternatively, to terminate defendant's
    rights to Martin, Jade and Pauline, all of whom were in pre-adoptive homes at
    the time of the first guardianship trial, consistent with Dr. Yeoman's opinion.
    The trial judge rejected that position, stating:
    [t]he court cannot merely look at the roster of children
    and determine that since [Martin, Pauline and Jade]
    have adoption possibilities and [Daniel, Ilene and
    Kevin] do not that it would be appropriate to terminate
    [defendant's] right to [Martin, Pauline and Jade] but
    let her work for a few months regarding [Daniel, Ilene
    and Kevin]. That approach is untethered to the statute
    and is without standard.
    As already noted, the Division did not appeal that decision, and as it is not
    before us, we express no opinion on it. To the extent it could suggest that a
    court is not to treat each child individually as to all four prongs of the best
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    comparison to the circumstances of many other parents facing termination of
    their rights to their children, defendant's problems appear as obstacles she
    could more readily overcome. But that only makes more tragic that defendant
    has not rectified problems that have persisted for almost ten years now, and
    resulted in the children having been removed from her care five years ago.
    Notwithstanding the efforts of two state child welfare agencies, defendant has
    never managed to provide a safe or stable home for any of these children or
    correct the problems that led to their removal. Indeed, throughout all these
    years, there has been only one period of nearly a year in which defendant was
    compliant with services or making any real effort at reunification with these
    six children, which coincided with the birth of her seventh child.
    Moreover, she never appeared to grasp the harm she had done and
    continues to do to them. There are entries in the case sheets, referred to at
    trial, of visits in late 2018 and early 2019 between defendant and the children
    supervised by the case worker, in which the worker relates defendant's
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    interests standard, as opposed to a finding that the Division had not clearly and
    convincingly established that defendant was unable or unwilling to eliminate
    the harm, we do not endorse it. See A.W., 
    103 N.J. at 613-14
     (discussing
    circumstances of each child vis a vis the parents and the child's potential for
    establishing a permanent relationship with another nurturing adult).
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    passivity in the face of aggressive play and roughhousing among the children.
    In one, the worker related that she several times had to redirect the children to
    keep them from hurting one another.        Each time the worker spoke to the
    children, defendant would interject to inform that worker that was how her
    children played, and that they "get their behaviors from her family."            On
    another occasion, shortly before the second trial, when the worker was again
    having to stop the children from too-aggressive play while defendant sat
    passively watching, defendant told the worker "that's how my kids play, if they
    didn't play like this then I would be concerned." Dr. Yeoman noted these
    visits at trial, testifying that defendant didn't appreciate the problem of letting
    this chaotic behavior go unchecked.
    The conclusion is inescapable that defendant remains oblivious to the
    serious behavioral problems exhibited by each of these children, which vary
    only in the degree of severity each demonstrates. The record is stuffed with
    reports of their aggressive and inappropriate behavior toward other children
    and resource parents, and it is one of the main reasons, as counsel has
    acknowledged, for the difficulties the Division has experienced in finding
    permanent homes for them. Dr. Yeoman opined years ago that defendant's
    "lenient parenting style" failed these children by not ensuring they could
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    "develop internal controls and an understanding of the importance of following
    rules," and that the amount of structure and guidance she could provide them
    "would be inadequate for healthy development."
    Even more troubling is Dr. Yeoman's observation during the bonding
    evaluation that defendant did not actively demonstrate any affection for her
    children or enthusiasm for interacting with them.          Having reviewed this
    voluminous record in some detail, that fact remains the most fundamental and
    striking here. Defendant has simply rarely, if ever, demonstrated love, care or
    consideration for any of these children, nor any delight or enthusiasm in
    interacting with them. Her failure to communicate such feelings to them, for
    we assume she has them, explains the absence of a bond between defendant
    and any of these six children and readily distinguishes this case from E.P.,
    which the Court characterized as one in which "a parent-child relationship that
    continued to provide emotional sustenance to the child" was "severed based on
    the unlikely promise of a permanent adoptive home." 
    196 N.J. at 114
    .
    There is nothing in this record demonstrating that any of these children
    is sustained emotionally by their relationship with defendant. As the Supreme
    Court has explained, "given the need for continuity, the child's sense of time, and
    the limits of our ability to make long-term predictions, [the best interests of the
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    child] are more realistically expressed as the least harmful or least detrimental
    alternative."   A.W., 
    103 N.J. at 616
     (quoting Albert J. Solnit, Psychological
    Dimensions in Child Placement Conflicts, 
    12 N.Y.U. Rev. L. & Soc. Change 495
    ,
    499 (1983-84)). Having reviewed the evidence and considered the Division's
    success in securing pre-adoptive homes for Ilene, Kevin, Jade and Pauline after
    entry of the judgment, we are satisfied that termination of defendant's parental
    rights is the least harmful or detrimental alternative for them and Martin.
    Accordingly, because there is sufficient support in the record for the trial court's
    conclusion that the Division proved the first three prongs of the best interests
    standard by clear and convincing evidence as to all six children, and likewise
    proved the fourth prong as to the five younger children, we affirm the termination
    of defendant's parental rights as to Martin, Ilene, Kevin, Jade and Pauline,.
    Notwithstanding our general confidence in the trial court's findings, Daniel's
    more significant problems, his uncertain future, his desire to retain his connection
    to his mother, and the trial court's failure to address specifically whether
    termination of defendant's parental rights might leave Daniel worse off,
    notwithstanding the unrebutted testimony that he lacks a healthy psychological
    bond with his mother, compels us to vacate the judgment as to him and direct a
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    limited remand for the court to address the fourth prong of the best interests test in
    light of his, and defendant's, current circumstances.
    Affirmed in part, vacated in part, and remanded.            We do not retain
    jurisdiction.
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