SAMUEL K. BURLUM VS. NERMIN UCAR (FM-19-0035-15, SUSSEX COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2020 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-2471-17T4
    SAMUEL K. BURLUM,
    Plaintiff-Appellant,
    v.
    NERMIN UCAR,
    Defendant-Respondent.
    _____________________________
    Argued telephonically May 4, 2020 –
    Decided May 19, 2020
    Before Judges Fasciale and Moynihan.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Sussex County,
    Docket No. FM-19-0035-15.
    Janet S. Del Gaizo argued the cause for appellant.
    Thomas Joseph DeCataldo, Jr. argued the cause for
    respondent (Skoloff & Wolfe, P.C., attorneys; Thomas
    Joseph DeCataldo, Jr., on the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Plaintiff appeals from a December 19, 2017 amended dual judgment of
    divorce (AJOD) and multiple other orders entered by different family part
    judges.1 Judge Noah Franzblau issued the AJOD after conducting an eleven-
    day trial. The judge made extensive findings and conclusions of law, which
    appear in his eighty-four-page written decision, with which we substantially
    agree. We therefore affirm.
    On appeal, plaintiff argues:
    POINT I
    WHEN CUSTODY OF DIVORCED OR SEPARATED
    PARENTS IS AT ISSUE, "THE RIGHTS OF BOTH
    PARENTS SHALL BE EQUAL[,]" N.J.S.A. 9:2-4.2[.]
    POINT II
    THE TRIAL JUDGE ERRED WHEN HE DECLARED
    . . . PLAINTIFF AN UNFIT PARENT WITHOUT
    MAKING ANY FINDINGS THAT HIS CONDUCT
    HAS A SUBSTANTIAL ADVERSE EFFECT ON THE
    CHILD[,] N.J.S.A. 9:2-4.4(C)[.]
    POINT III
    THE TRIAL JUDGE FAILED TO ADEQUATELY
    PROTECT THE CHILD'S BEST INTERESTS WHEN
    HE REFUSED TO PERMIT PLAINTIFF TO CALL
    1
    These orders include: seven paragraphs of a January 23, 2015 order; three
    paragraphs of a February 13, 2015 order; one paragraph of an October 28, 2016
    order; two paragraphs of a December 16, 2016 order; three paragraphs of a May
    12, 2017 order; and, on a limited remand, a December 19, 2018 order.
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    WITNESSES FROM [THE DIVISION OF CHILD
    PROTECTION AND PERMANENCY (DCPP)] TO
    TESTIFY, AND FAILED TO ADMIT THE [DCPP]
    REPORT INTO EVIDENCE[.]
    POINT IV
    THE FIRST JUDGE'S CREDIBILITY FINDINGS,
    BASED ONLY ON CONFLICTING MOTION
    PAPERS AND HIS GUT FEELING, UNFAIRLY
    PREJUDICED . . . PLAINTIFF THROUGHOUT THE
    ENTIRETY OF THE LITGATION, INCLUDING THE
    FINAL DECISION[.]
    POINT V
    A CHILD'S BEST INTERESTS ARE NOT
    ADEQUATELY REPRESENTED WHERE HE HAS
    NO LEGAL COUNSEL, A PARTY APPEARS PRO
    SE, AND THE ISSUE UNDER REVIEW IMPACTS
    THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD[.]
    POINT VI
    THE SECOND JUDGE COMMITTED HARMFUL
    ERROR WHEN HE ALLOWED . . . DEFENDANT TO
    MOVE FROM SUSSEX COUNTY TO BERGEN
    COUNTY WITH THE INFANT CHILD, PROVIDING
    DEFENDANT WITH DE FACTO LEGAL AND
    RESIDENTIAL CUSTODY, AND IRREPARABLY
    CHANGING THE MARITAL STATUS QUO[.]
    POINT VII
    THE   TRIAL     JUDGE'S     FAILURE    TO
    RETROACTIVELY      ADJUST      PLAINTIFF'S
    PENDENTE LITE SUPPORT IS IN CONFLICT WITH
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    HIS FINDINGS OF FACT RELATIVE TO THE
    MARITAL LIFESTYLE[.]
    POINT VIII
    THE TRIAL [JUDGE'S] LEGAL FEE AWARD OF
    $60,000 TO DEFENDANT IS DUPLICATIVE,
    PUNITIVE IN NATURE, AND SO FAR EXCEEDS
    PLAINTIFF'S ABILITY TO PAY THAT IT MUST BE
    REVERSED[.]
    In his reply brief, plaintiff makes the following additional contentions, which
    we have re-numbered:
    POINT IX
    THE RECORD IS DEVOID OF THE TYPE OF
    EVIDENCE REQUIRED TO SUPPORT AN
    UNFITNESS DECLARATION[.]
    POINT X
    THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED BY DISREGARDING
    CREDIBLE     EVIDENCE   SHOWING    THAT
    DEFENDANT      IS  INTENTIONALLY    AND
    WILLFULLY TRYING TO DISAFFECT . . .
    PLAINTIFF AND [THE] CHILD[.]
    POINT XI
    THE TRIAL [JUDGE'S] FAILURE TO CONSIDER
    EVIDENCE ESSENTIAL TO THE CHILD'S BEST
    INTEREST[S] DEMANDS A REMAND[.]
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    POINT XII
    PLAINTIFF WAS UNFAIRLY PREJUDICED BY
    THE FIRST JUDGE'S IMPROPERLY MADE
    CREDIBILITY FINDINGS SUCH THAT HE WAS
    TREATED UNFAIRLY AND INEQUITABLY,
    RESULTING IN THE [JUDGE'S] FAILURE TO
    PROPERLY ENSURE THAT THE CHILD'S BEST
    INTERESTS ARE PROTECTED[.]
    POINT XIII
    WHAT    IF    PLAINTIFF'S   "CONSPIRACY
    THEORIES" ARE NOT THEORIES AT ALL?
    In our review of a non-jury trial, we defer to a trial judge's factfinding
    "when supported by adequate, substantial, credible evidence." Cesare v. Cesare,
    
    154 N.J. 394
    , 412 (1998). We also note proper factfinding in divorce litigation
    involves the Family Part's "special jurisdiction and expertise in family matters,"
    which often requires the exercise of reasoned discretion. 
    Id. at 413
    . In our
    review, "[w]e do not weigh the evidence, assess the credibility of witnesses, or
    make conclusions about the evidence." Mountain Hill, L.L.C v. Township of
    Middletown, 
    399 N.J. Super. 486
    , 498 (App. Div. 2008) (alteration in original)
    (quoting State v. Barone, 
    147 N.J. 599
    , 615 (1997)). Consequently, when this
    court concludes there is satisfactory evidentiary support for the trial judge's
    findings, "its task is complete[,] and it should not disturb the result." Beck v.
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    Beck, 
    86 N.J. 480
    , 496 (1981) (quoting State v. Johnson, 
    42 N.J. 146
    , 162
    (1964)).
    In bench trials, like here, our "[d]eference is especially appropriate 'when
    the evidence is largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility.'"
    Cesare, 
    154 N.J. at 412
     (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D., 
    149 N.J. 108
    , 117 (1997)). We recognize a trial judge who observes witnesses and listens
    to their testimony, develops "a 'feel of the case,'" N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 104 (2008) (quoting N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 293 (2007)), and is in the best position to "make
    first-hand credibility judgments about the witnesses who appear on the stand. "
    
    Ibid.
     In contrast, review of the cold record on appeal "can never adequately
    convey the actual happenings in a courtroom." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 448 (2012).
    Judge Franzblau made extensive credibility findings. He found defendant
    credible in all material respects. But, he found plaintiff "incredible." He
    reached that independent determination—which was the same finding made by
    an earlier judge—after an eleven-day trial and a detailed review of the
    testimony.   He found plaintiff's statements "def[ied] truth, logic, and any
    objective interpretation of the facts." According to the judge, plaintiff was
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    "unable to provide adequate or reasonable explanations for his conduct and/or
    statements." Although there are additional examples in the record supporting
    his findings, the judge outlined nine separate reasons "only as a sample to
    demonstrate the basis for . . . finding that [p]laintiff [was] not credible."
    Contrary to plaintiff's contention, the judge did not make an erroneous
    custody determination. Applying N.J.S.A. 9:2-4, the judge concluded that it
    would be in the best interests of the child to award defendant sole legal and
    physical custody. In his written decision, the judge found that statute factors
    one, two, three, four, seven, eight, ten, twelve, and thirteen weighed in favor of
    awarding defendant custody, and that none of the factors weighed in plaintiff's
    favor. In reaching that conclusion, the judge emphasized the importance of
    plaintiff's lack of credibility, "his demonstrated lack of stability, the parties'
    inability to agree[,] . . . [p]laintiff's untenable positions that prevented
    compromise, [his] persistent failure to acknowledge fathering another child, and
    concerns regarding [p]laintiff's general fitness."      The judge did not make
    summary conclusions, but rather he pointed to evidence adduced at trial to
    support his findings.
    Plaintiff argues, however, that the judge did not treat his parental rights in
    parity with those of defendant, resulting in an erroneous custody determination.
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    Along those lines, he argues that: (1) he was operating at a disadvantage during
    this entire matter due to the judge's bias against him; (2) his capacity to
    demonstrate his ability to care for the child was hampered by a presumption that
    he was an unfit parent who was entitled to only limited parenting time; and (3)
    his efforts to improve himself and create a stable home for the child were
    dismissed out-of-hand.
    Plaintiff is correct that "[i]n any proceeding involving the custody of a
    minor child, the rights of both parents shall be equal[.]"           N.J.S.A. 9:2-4.
    However, the record supports the various rulings during the pendency of the
    litigation that limited the child's exposure to plaintiff, especially given plaintiff's
    behavior and lifestyle. The judge's findings of fact, which we need not detail
    here, are indeed supported by the record. Contrary to plaintiff's contention, the
    judge did not reach an erroneous custody determination.
    Plaintiff argues that the judge erroneously declared him unfit without
    finding that his conduct caused a substantial adverse effect on the child. He also
    asserts that the judge erred by failing to provide him with a "pathway" back to
    joint legal custody or guidance for increasing his parenting time. Plaintiff is
    correct that "[a] parent shall not be deemed unfit unless the parent['s] conduct
    has a substantial adverse effect on the child." N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c). But the record
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    supports the judge's findings and conclusions that plaintiff negatively affected
    the child.
    For example, the record demonstrates that plaintiff: (1) failed to spend
    consistent time with the child in the marital home both before and after the
    parties decided to divorce; (2) failed to pay child support; (3) continued working
    at Extreme Energy Solutions (EES) for the better part of a decade without
    drawing any part of the $250,000 salary to which he was entitled under EES
    documents; (4) committed fraudulent conduct that had resulted in the imposition
    of a $1,100,000 fine and other outstanding debts 2; (5) engaged in a pattern of
    manipulative and deceitful behavior as to his available monies, residence,
    marital status and fatherhood; (6) lied about his dealings with defendant during
    the pendency of this case; (7) pursued extramarital affairs, offered monies to his
    paramours; (8) did not serve as an appropriate role model; (9) treated defendant
    with open hostility while in the child's presence; (10) failed to secure a residence
    2
    In In re Burlum, No. A-3316-17 (App. Div. Sept. 20, 2019) (slip op. at 8-9),
    we upheld a January 18, 2018 Final Decision by the Chief of the New Jersey
    Bureau of Securities (the Bureau Chief) concluding that plaintiff and EES
    violated the New Jersey Uniform Securities Law, N.J.S.A. 49:3-47 to -83. The
    Bureau Chief determined that they violated the law by "selling unregistered
    securities, acting as an unregistered agent, employing unregistered agents, and
    making untrue statements of material facts and omitting material facts necessary
    in order to make the statements they made not misleading." Id. at 1. The Bureau
    Chief imposed $1,125,000 in penalties.
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    that he was financially capable of maintaining; and (10) displayed a general lack
    of trustworthiness.     Thus, as to plaintiff's purported path towards self-
    improvement and increased role in the child's life, under the facts of this case,
    the record reveals the opposite and instead supports the judge's findings.
    Plaintiff contends that the judge erred by refusing to admit DCPP's report,
    pertinent to allegations that plaintiff had abused the child, and by refusing to
    permit plaintiff to call DCPP witnesses regarding those allegations. We see no
    abuse of discretion as to either evidentiary ruling. In his final decision, the judge
    stated:
    Defendant made several complaints to [DCPP]
    expressing concerns about injuries sustained by [the
    child], sexualized behaviors, and general concern for
    [the child's] safety with [p]laintiff. Ultimately, [DCPP]
    determined [d]efendant's allegations to be unfounded.
    During trial, [d]efendant stipulated to [DCPP's]
    conclusions. As a result, this [c]ourt precluded
    [p]laintiff from introducing [DCPP's] confidential
    reports and associated documents and from calling
    [DCPP] investigators as witnesses. While [p]laintiff
    continued to assert that [DCPP] materials would
    establish that [d]efendant was making false allegations
    to obtain custody, [p]laintiff made no proffer with
    respect to any [DCPP] document that reached that
    conclusion. As a result, this [c]ourt determined that the
    interest in maintaining the confidentiality of the
    [DCPP] documents outweighed any justification for
    their release and/or publication during trial. Further, as
    noted by Dr. Fridman, "[i]t seemed to me that
    [defendant] was not using the term physical abuse,
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    appropriately perhaps because English is her second
    language and I pointed out to her that the example she
    had just given would be a question of [plaintiff]
    considering putting [the child] in a situation which
    might be physically dangerous. This was not the
    common use of the term physical abuse . . . .
    [Defendant] said okay and agreed to this distinction[.]"
    Given the circumstances, this [c]ourt found no
    justification for the use of the [DCPP] documents or to
    call [the DCPP] witnesses during trial.
    Plaintiff now argues that the judge failed to protect the child's best
    interests and safety when it refused to permit plaintiff to present testimony from
    DCPP investigators and admit DCPP's file. Plaintiff insists that: (1) the file
    was replete with relevant information; (2) the reports in the file and the
    testimony from the DCPP witnesses would have revealed that defendant
    intentionally made videos of the child exhibiting sexualized behavior in order to
    "induce" a referral to DCPP in an effort to sever plaintiff's relationship with the
    child, and that in doing so defendant harmed the child; (3) defendant
    acknowledged the relevance of the DCPP file when she asked the judge to
    release it during discovery; and (4) the DCPP file was the only unbiased
    evidence "available in this case that focuse[d] solely on the child's welfare."
    Although defendant sought the file's disclosure during discovery, which
    the judge granted because of the possibility it contained crucial information, this
    did not establish its admissibility at trial.    As defendant notes, the rules
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    pertaining to discovery are far broader than evidence rules at trial. Moreover,
    once DCPP found the abuse allegations were unfounded, the DCPP file had no
    relevancy at trial. Contrary to plaintiff's representations, he did not make a
    satisfactory proffer regarding the usefulness of the file. Although he claimed
    that the materials in the file would show that defendant intentionally made false
    allegations against him and harmed the child in the process, he did not identify
    any document containing these conclusions. He had no answer when asked how
    the DCPP witnesses could testify to defendant's intent. He also admitted at trial
    that he had not made an allegation to DCPP that defendant harmed the child.
    Moreover, plaintiff's claim that the DCPP's file was the only unbiased
    evidence addressing the child's best interests is inaccurate. The judge had the
    benefit of the reports prepared by Dr. Dennis Shaning and Dr. Morton Fridman,
    as well as their trial testimony. Although plaintiff suggests that these reports
    were useless because they were tainted by a prior judge's credibility findings in
    January 2015, the trial judge found that the doctors properly based their
    conclusions upon their expertise.
    Plaintiff contends that the judge improperly required him to pay half of
    the costs of the marital home pending its sale, authorized the sale of the marital
    home, and permitted defendant to move to another county with the child.
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    Plaintiff concedes trial judges have discretionary authority to order the sale of
    marital assets pendente lite when "fit, reasonable, and just."        Randazzo v.
    Randazzo, 
    184 N.J. 101
    , 114 (2005). He insists, however, that by allowing the
    home to be put on the market in January 2015, the judge rendered an improper
    de facto pendente lite custodial decision, which paved the way for defendant to
    relocate with, and deny plaintiff access to, the child. According to plaintiff, the
    judge's subsequent order, which did in fact permit defendant to move prior to
    trial, "forever alter[ed] the pendente lite status quo[] and provid[ed] [d]efendant
    with de facto custody to . . . [p]laintiff's exclusion." We see no abuse of
    discretion here.
    Plaintiff ignores that: (1) he twice agreed to sell the marital home and
    then reneged; (2) the parties could not afford to live in that home without
    plaintiff making a steady financial contribution; (3) both Dr. Shaning and Dr.
    Fridman agreed that plaintiff had a narcissistic/sociopathic personality and was
    unreliable and unstable in all aspects of his life, and the judge had the benefit of
    these expert opinions when he permitted defendant to relocate; (4) he harmed
    the child by his absenteeism and disinterest after the child was born; (5) he had
    two years to obtain stable housing and employment and failed to do so; and (6)
    defendant demonstrated her ability to care for the child and that she needed to
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    be closer to New York to get her business functional so that she could provide
    for the child. Plainly, the judge's decisions were made not to harm plaintiff, but
    to ensure that a responsible individual cared for the child.
    Plaintiff also contends that the trial judge improperly altered the status
    quo pendente lite by requiring him to financially contribute towards the marital
    home.     Although plaintiff insists that defendant had voluntarily agreed to
    "support[] the family," defendant drew upon her premarital assets to pay the bills
    out of necessity after plaintiff's financial duplicity became apparent. Plaintiff
    admitted he knew that the home was beyond their means at the time they bought
    it and confirmed that he contributed some funds to assist with carrying costs.
    Moreover, plaintiff agreed in November 2014 to give defendant $2200 per
    month to assist with the bills for the home in which he continued to reside. The
    judge did not alter the status quo by mandating a payment of $2500.
    We reject plaintiff's contention that the judge abused his discretion by
    declining to retroactively adjust his support arrears. He contends the support
    orders that obligated him to pay half of the marital home's carrying costs pending
    its sale were not in accordance with the parties' marital lifestyle because their
    lifestyle revealed defendant was responsible for all marital expenses. The judge
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    found that the sole evidence of the parties' marital lifestyle was their expensive
    home, which required defendant use her savings to maintain. He stated:
    Defendant attempted to implement a standard of
    living that was consistent with her premarital standard
    of living. This [c]ourt finds that [d]efendant's standard
    of living was premised on [p]laintiff's representation
    that she would no longer have to work following EES's
    impending initial public offering and [p]laintiff taking
    [a] salary. When EES and [p]laintiff became immersed
    in the [Bureau] litigation and [p]laintiff continued to
    forfeit his salary, the marital lifestyle implemented by
    [d]efendant could not be maintained. The marital
    lifestyle essentially entailed owning and maintaining a
    luxury home. Unfortunately, since [d]efendant had
    shuttered her business to move to Sussex County, and
    [p]laintiff did not draw [a] salary from EES and EES
    did not complete the initial public securities offering,
    [d]efendant had to contribute pre-marital assets to
    maintain the marital lifestyle, including specifically the
    marital residence until it could be sold. Aside from the
    home, the parties did not live extravagantly. There was
    no evidence presented that the parties dined out,
    traveled or vacationed, purchased any luxury items or
    shopped for anything other than necessities.
    The judge addressed plaintiff's contention as to the pendente lite award in
    defendant's favor. The judge rejected plaintiff's argument that he incorrectly
    attributed him an annual income of $250,000. The judge noted that plaintiff had
    agreed to "forfeit" salaries, commissions, bonuses and benefits worth $250,000
    per year from 2009 through 2012, in favor of receiving 10,000,000 shares of
    EES stock. The judge found that plaintiff inadequately explained his failure to
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    receive any salary from EES, emphasizing that plaintiff: (1) did not demonstrate
    that he asked the EES board for a salary and was denied; (2) did not provide any
    financials indicating that EES could not afford to pay him a salary; (3) had been
    touted as invaluable to EES; and (4) offered no explanation as to why EES, by
    contrast, was willing to pay a salary of $40,000 to an employee who lacked
    industry experience. The judge concluded that "it would appear that [p]laintiff's
    receipt of no annual salary has been a strategic decision potentially made by
    [p]laintiff to limit his financial obligation to [d]efendant . . . and that [p]laintiff
    has been able to secure financial resources through other means that are beyond
    [d]efendant's reach."
    The judge also observed that plaintiff failed to provide any evidence that
    he sought other employment opportunities. Moreover, he questioned plaintiff's
    financial representations, noting that plaintiff: (1) failed to disclose his receipt
    of $102,934 from IMobile on January 10, 2015; (2) failed to identify the source
    of the $10,000 he claimed he earned from his LGBT article; and (3) managed to
    provide other women with money to cover their living expenses and pay for a
    sex machine. In sum, the judge concluded:
    Plaintiff's claim in support of his limited earning
    capacity is contradicted by his own representation of
    his value to EES, EES's board members'
    acknowledgment of [p]laintiff's value to EES as well as
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    by [p]laintiff's entrepreneurial skills and his consistent
    access to funds, which access has allowed [p]laintiff to
    buy a home and support other women and personal
    endeavors. For the foregoing reasons, this [c]ourt finds
    the imputation of $250,000 of annual income to
    [p]laintiff to be reasonable both retroactively and
    prospectively.
    Although plaintiff now renews his position that the pendente lite support
    orders do not comport with the marital lifestyle, no retroactive adjustment was
    warranted. Contrary to plaintiff's representations, the "marital lifestyle" here
    consisted of defendant involuntarily paying the parties' household bills with her
    premarital assets out of necessity because plaintiff's representations as to his
    impending wealth were entirely false.        Moreover, plaintiff ignores that he
    offered to pay defendant $2200 per month starting in November 2014, which
    was only $300 less than the court-ordered monthly payment that he failed to
    pay.
    Plaintiff contends that the judge abused his discretion by awarding
    defendant $60,000 in counsel fees. The award of counsel fees and costs in a
    matrimonial action rests in the trial judge's discretion. R. 5:3-5(c); Eaton v.
    Grau, 
    368 N.J. Super. 215
    , 225 (App. Div. 2004); Guglielmo v. Guglielmo, 
    253 N.J. Super. 531
    , 554-55 (App. Div. 1992). In deciding whether to make such an
    award, the judge should consider
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    (1) the financial circumstances of the parties; (2) the
    ability of the parties to pay their own fees or to
    contribute to the fees of the other party; (3) the
    reasonableness and good faith of the positions
    advanced by the parties both during and prior to trial;
    (4) the extent of the fees incurred by both parties; (5)
    any fees previously awarded; (6) the amount of fees
    previously paid to counsel by each party; (7) the results
    obtained; (8) the degree to which fees were incurred to
    enforce existing orders or to compel discovery; and (9)
    any other factor bearing on the fairness of an award.
    [R. 5:3-5(c).]
    Success in the litigation of the parties' dispute is not a prerequisite for an
    award of counsel fees. Kingsdorf v. Kingsdorf, 
    351 N.J. Super. 144
    , 158 (App.
    Div. 2002); Guglielmo, 
    253 N.J. Super. at 545
    . Also, where one party acts in
    bad faith, the parties' relative economic positions are of little relevance because
    the fee award is then intended "to protect the innocent party from unnecessary
    costs and to punish the guilty party." Yueh v. Yueh, 
    329 N.J. Super. 447
    , 461
    (App. Div. 2000).
    The court in Kelly v. Kelly, 
    262 N.J. Super. 303
     (Ch. Div. 1992),
    discussed the issue of counsel fees in matrimonial cases.
    Fees in family actions are normally awarded to permit
    parties with unequal financial positions to litigate (in
    good faith) on an equal footing. With the addition of
    bad faith as a consideration, it is also apparent that fees
    may be used to prevent a maliciously motivated party
    from inflicting economic damage on an opposing party
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    by forcing expenditures for counsel fees. This purpose
    has a dual character since it sanctions a maliciously
    motivated position and indemnifies the "innocent"
    party from economic harm.
    [Id. at 307 (citations omitted).]
    The Kelly court defined bad faith as intentionally misleading or deceiving
    another, thereby precipitating legal action, and noted that more than a simple
    mistake was required before a party would be found guilty of bad faith. Ibid.;
    accord Von Pein v. Von Pein, 
    268 N.J. Super. 7
    , 19-20 (App. Div. 1993). Other
    examples of bad faith include misusing or abusing the court process, seeking
    relief not supported by fact or law, intentionally misrepresenting facts or law, or
    otherwise engaging in vexatious acts for oppressive reasons.            Borzillo v.
    Borzillo, 
    259 N.J. Super. 286
    , 293-94 (Ch. Div. 1992).
    According to Rule 1:7-4(a), a judge in a non-jury trial and on motion must
    "by an opinion or memorandum decision, either written or oral, find the facts
    and state its conclusions of law." "[F]ailure to perform the fact[]finding duty
    'constitutes a disservice to the litigants, the attorneys and the appellate court.'"
    Chambon v. Chambon, 
    238 N.J. Super. 225
    , 231-32 (App. Div. 1990) (quoting
    Curtis v. Finneran, 
    83 N.J. 563
    , 569-70 (1980)). When a trial judge fails to set
    forth the reasons for his or her opinion, meaningful appellate review is inhibited.
    Id. at 232. The absence of adequate findings will generally warrant a reversal
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    of the trial judge's decision. Gordon v. Rozenwald, 
    380 N.J. Super. 55
    , 79 (App.
    Div. 2005); Clarke v. Clarke ex rel. Costine, 
    359 N.J. Super. 562
    , 572 (App.
    Div. 2003); Heinl v. Heinl, 
    287 N.J. Super. 337
    , 347 (App. Div. 1996).
    In awarding counsel fees to defendant, the judge first found that, while
    defendant demonstrated that her liabilities exceeded her assets, plaintiff's net
    worth could not be ascertained based upon the information he provided.
    Next, the judge noted that although defendant paid $263,855 towards her
    outstanding fees by depleting her pre-marital savings and by borrowing funds
    from her business' defined benefit plan and other third parties, she still owed
    more than $40,000 to her counsel. Plaintiff, by contrast, did not owe monies to
    counsel. Although plaintiff's financial circumstances were unclear, the judge
    was satisfied that⸻as evidenced by his demonstrated ability to raise funds for
    his housing and lifestyle, such as his support of other women and acquisition of
    a sex machine⸻plaintiff had the ability to contribute towards defendant's fees.
    Next, the judge found that while the parties' positions regarding custody and
    child support were advanced in good faith, plaintiff's claim for alimony was not.
    He also noted that defendant was awarded counsel fees on five prior occasions
    totaling $14,640, of which plaintiff had only paid $2000.
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    In considering the results obtained, the judge observed that defendant was
    successful in her pursuit of custody and in her opposition to plaintiff's requests
    for custody, child support, and alimony. She had not, however, prevailed in her
    requests for the judge to allocate a portion of her home equity loss to plaintiff
    and to require plaintiff to reimburse her for the depletion of her marital assets
    and the other debts she had incurred to support the family and marital home. As
    to plaintiff, he was not only unsuccessful in the claims noted above, but he failed
    to identify any assets subject to equitable distribution to which he was
    entitlement.
    Finally, the judge found that plaintiff's questionable conduct during
    litigation greatly contributed towards defendant's counsel fees. In particular, he
    faulted plaintiff for: (1) refusing to attend his deposition until plaintiff secured
    a court order; (2) unjustifiably refusing to answer questions pertaining to EES's
    structure and financial condition and also the existence of his second son in
    Wisconsin during his deposition and at trial; (3) refusing to pay pendente lite
    support and counsel fees in violation of numerous court orders; (4) filing
    motions to obtain Judge Farber's oath of office and bond and also to compel the
    appearance of out-of-state witnesses with invalid subpoenas; (5) filing repeated
    motions on the same issue; (6) his inability to confirm, during cross -
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    examination, that he had always been truthful with the court; (7) making false
    accusations about defendant's failure to include him in the selection of the child's
    school, as well as false assertions that he served as the child's primary custodian
    when defendant's mother returned to Turkey for several months; (8) reneging on
    his initial agreement to sell the marital house and thereby forcing defendant to
    file multiple motions; and (9) falsely claiming that defendant had interfered with
    his ability to attend Dr. Shaning's deposition.
    In sum, the judge concluded:
    In the context of [d]efendant's fee request, this
    [c]ourt finds that the attorney['s] fees charged by
    [d]efendant's attorneys are reasonable . . . especially
    based upon the contentiousness at every juncture. . . .
    However, recognizing that many, but not all, tasks
    would have had to be performed by [d]efendant
    regardless of [p]laintiff's questionable litigation
    conduct (e.g. deposing [p]laintiff, preparing a pendente
    lite motion, participating in discovery, and preparing a
    trial brief), and the fact that the [c]ourt found that the
    custody issue was pursued by both parties in good faith,
    this [c]ourt awards fees to [d]efendant only in [the]
    amount that this [c]ourt believes [was] incurred as a
    result of [p]laintiff's questionable tactics. On this basis,
    this [c]ourt orders that [p]laintiff reimburse [d]efendant
    for $60,000 of her attorney['s] fees.
    Plaintiff now contends that the judge's counsel fee award must be reversed
    because: (1) it was duplicative, as plaintiff had already been ordered to pay
    $14,640 for his bad faith conduct during this case; (2) it was punitive in nature;
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    and (3) it exceeded his ability to pay. Contrary to plaintiff's representation, the
    award is not duplicative because plaintiff only paid $2000 towards those earlier
    fee awards. As such, the judge included the remaining $12,640 in his final
    $60,000 award. In support of his final award, the judge set forth other examples
    of plaintiff's untoward conduct apart from the matters that gave rise to the earlier
    awards.
    Moreover, the judge thoroughly considered the plaintiff's economic
    situation, and his findings should not be disturbed based upon plaintiff's self-
    serving, unsubstantiated claims that he cannot afford to pay the fee award. As
    defendant points out, plaintiff managed to fund this appeal, thereby confirming
    the judge's finding that he has access to monies.
    Affirmed.
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