ROBERT ABATE VS. THERESA ABATE (FM-16-0883-16, PASSAIC COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) ( 2021 )

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1921-19
ROBERT ABATE,
Plaintiff-Appellant,
v.
THERESA ABATE,1
Defendant-Respondent.
________________________
Submitted January 13, 2021 – Decided April 1, 2021
Before Judges Vernoia and Enright.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Passaic County,
Docket No. FM-16-0883-16.
Robert Abate, appellant pro se.
Maria A. Giammona, attorney for respondent.
PER CURIAM
1
Defendant also is referenced in the record as Theresa L. Meola-Abate.
In this highly contentious post-judgment matrimonial matter, plaintiff
Robert J. Abate appeals from the July 15, 2019 2 order entered by Judge Rudolph
A. Filko. He also appeals from the November 12, 2019 denial of his motion to
reconsider the July 15 order. We affirm, substantially for the reasons set forth
in Judge Filko's well-reasoned, comprehensive opinions.
I.
Plaintiff and defendant Theresa Abate were married on August 3, 2001.
Their son, Rick,3 was born in 2002. Defendant has two other children from a
prior relationship who were adopted by plaintiff and now are emancipated.
The parties divorced on October 12, 2011 and a property settlement
agreement (PSA) was incorporated into their judgment of divorce. Rick was
nine years old when his parents divorced. Under the terms of the PSA, defendant
was designated as Rick's parent of primary residence, and plaintiff was granted
parenting time two out of every three weekends, as well as two mid-week
dinners. Plaintiff also was entitled to holiday and vacation parenting time.
2
The order reflects a July 16, 2019 date, but was stamped "filed" on July 15,
2019.
3
"Rick" is a fictitious name we use to maintain his privacy. R. 1:38-3(d)(1).
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In 2012, plaintiff moved out of state for a job opportunity, triggering a
change in the parenting time schedule by consent order. By 2016, the
relationship between father and son soured. Indeed, by May 2019, plaintiff
certified that "over the course of the last three . . . and a half years, I have had
less than five . . . weeks of total overnight parenting time with [Rick]." Plaintiff
blamed defendant and his son for this "complete obstruction and refusal to
allow" him parenting time.
II.
Plaintiff returned to New Jersey in 2018. In April 2019, defendant filed a
motion seeking various forms of relief, including an increase in child support
and a modification of the parenting time schedule so that plaintiff and Rick
would directly coordinate any time they spent together. Plaintiff cross-moved
to terminate his parental rights and child support obligations; alternatively, he
requested that the parenting time schedule from the 2011 PSA be reinstated.
On July 15, 2019, without conducting oral argument, Judge Filko issued
an order denying plaintiff's request to terminate his parental rights and child
support obligation to Rick. The judge also denied plaintiff's alternate request to
reinstate the 2011 parenting time schedule. However, the judge permitted
plaintiff to engage in reunification therapy with Rick and enjoy liberal parenting
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time as arranged with Rick. In the event plaintiff elected to pursue therapy with
his son, the judge directed defendant to cooperate and share in the therapy costs.
Additionally, the judge ordered plaintiff to pay his share of outstanding
educational and unreimbursed orthodontic expenses for Rick and his
unemancipated sibling, found these expenses constituted child support arrears,
and directed the arrears be paid down monthly through an existing probation
account. Finally, the judge ordered plaintiff to secure vision and dental
insurance for Rick, and denied defendant's request to increase child support and
to claim Rick as her tax exemption until he was emancipated.
In denying plaintiff's application to terminate his parental rights and
eliminate his child support obligations, the judge found plaintiff's requests
"contrary to public policy," and "undoubtedly not . . . in the best interest of
[Rick]." Further the judge declined to reinstate the 2011 parenting schedule. He
explained that circumstances had changed since 2011 and that "it would not be
in the child's best interests to mechanically reinstate the former schedule,
especially now that the child is in his late teens." The judge also quoted from
plaintiff's certification that he had "absolutely zero father-son relationship" with
Rick. Further, the judge observed that other judges had ordered therap y and
therapeutic mediation dating back to January 2018, to provide an opportunity
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for plaintiff and his son to repair their relationship, yet plaintiff had not pursued
either option.
III.
Both parties sought reconsideration of the July 15, 2019 order. On
November 8, 2019, Judge Filko conducted oral argument on their cross
applications. Much of the argument focused on plaintiff's strained relationship
with his son. When the judge inquired if plaintiff had pursued reunification
therapy since the entry of his July 15 order, plaintiff confirmed he had not done
so.
Judge Filko denied the parties' cross applications for reconsideration,
finding the arguments advanced were "the same arguments that were made in
the motion or the cross motion that [he] considered extensively." The judge
added:
These are motions based upon information that was
provided extensively, and . . . the parties have had . . .
[an] extensive history of litigation in multiple counties
with at least a dozen prior orders, it's clear to me that
the parties have continuously had disputes dealing with
child support, dealing with visitation. This is not
something for the first time has been raised to the
[c]ourt . . . . [I]f it's the same and it's just a rehash of
the same arguments, it goes to the Appellate Division.
There is nothing more I can do.
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If there is something that I overlooked, or
perhaps a legal or a case that I misinterpreted and
counsel wants to point that out to me, then I will take a
look at it, and . . . if there is a mistake that I made, I
will reconsider, and I will then give a new decision, if
need be, but on both the motion and the cross motion, I
don't see that there is anything . . . other than what was
previously argued to me on these cases.
IV.
On appeal, plaintiff raises the following arguments:
I. THE TRIAL COURT MISAPPLIED ITS
DISCRETION BY EVISCERATING BOTH
AGREEMENTS REGARDING THE PARTIES'
PARENTING TIME, PARTICULARLY
WITHOUT [RECOURSE] FOR
ALTERNATIVE ARRANGEMENTS.
II. THE TRIAL COURT FAILED TO RECOGNIZE
THE ESTABLISHMENT OF A PRIMA FACIE
SHOWING OF CHANGED CIRCUMSTANCES
(Not raised below).
III. THE TRIAL COURT MISAPPLIED ITS
DISCRETION IN FAILING TO AWARD THE
APPELLANT-PLAINTIFF COUNSEL FEES
AND COSTS (Not raised below).
IV. [THE TRIAL] COURT ALLOWED FOR
PERJURY WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE AND
AWARDED ORTHODONTICS ASSIGNMENT
INTO PROBATION ACCOUNT.
V. [THE TRIAL] COURT [DISCRIMINATED]
AGAINST APPELLANT'S PARENTING
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RIGHTS AND ORAL ARGUMENT (Not raised
below).
Having considered these arguments in light of the record and the
applicable law, we conclude plaintiff's arguments lack merit.
In reviewing a trial court's fact-finding, our discretion is limited. Cesare
v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 411 (1998). A trial court's findings are binding on
appeal as long as they are "supported by adequate, substantial, [and] credible
evidence." Id. at 411-12 (citing Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Investors Ins. Co,
65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). This discretion is even more crucial in Family Part
cases, where the court has "special jurisdiction and expertise in family matters."
Id. at 412-13.
Regarding the parenting time arguments raised by plaintiff in Points I and
V, we conclude that because Rick is now nineteen, these issues are moot. See
N.J. Div. of Youth and Fam. Servs. v. W.F., 434 N.J. Super. 288, 296 (App. Div.
2014) (finding that the age of majority in New Jersey is eighteen and the issue
of child custody becomes moot once a child turns eighteen) (citing N.J.S.A.
9:17B-3)). However, even if plaintiff's parenting time issues were not moot, we
would find no basis to disturb Judge Filko's orders.
A party who seeks to modify a parenting time order has the burden to
show changed circumstances and that the existing arrangement no longer serves
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the best interests of the child. Abouzahr v. Matera-Abouzahr, 361 N.J. Super.
135, 152 (App. Div. 2003) (citations omitted). Here, it is clear that in 2019,
when plaintiff sought termination of his parental rights and child support
obligations, he sought parenting time with Rick only by way of alternative relief.
By this point, as plaintiff certified to the court, his relationship with Rick was
severely strained. Accordingly, Judge Filko, much like his predecessor judges,
entered an order to promote a therapeutic resolution to the ongoing difficulties
plaintiff experienced with Rick. In doing so, the judge declined to reinstate a
stale parenting time arrangement from 2011, which had been superseded by the
2012 parenting time consent order. The judge found the 2011 parenting
agreement ill-suited to Rick's best interests, particularly given his age and the
fact plaintiff had not "provided proof of any efforts to attend therapy with the
child." We are satisfied Judge Filko did not abuse his discretion in this regard.
Regarding Points II and IV, we discern no basis to conclude Judge Filko
erred when finding plaintiff owed monies for educational and orthodontic
expenses and that those expenses constituted child support arrears enforceable
through the Probation Department. In his July 15, 2019 opinion, Judge Filko
observed the issue regarding each party's obligation to pay orthodonture
expenses had been "litigated extensively" and that in January 2018, another
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judge had ordered plaintiff to share equally in Rick's unreimbursed orthodontic
expenses. Plaintiff did not appeal from this ruling. Similarly, Judge Filko
observed that plaintiff had been ordered five times to pay his share of another
son's educational expenses, "but has not actually paid anything toward [his
son's] tuition at this point." Thus, we decline to second-guess Judge Filko's
decision to enforce prior child support orders.
Also in Point II, plaintiff argues for the first time on appeal that Judge
Filko "failed to recognize the establishment of a prima showing of changed
circumstances" and that this matter should be remanded "for further factual
determination in modifying [his] child support obligations," including his
obligation to procure vision and dental insurance for Rick. We disagree.
When plaintiff initially moved for relief in May 2019, he was employed.
Following the entry of the July 15, 2019 order, plaintiff asked, in part, for Judge
Filko to reconsider the denial of his request to terminate parental rights,
terminate his child support obligation, and the order that he contribute toward
orthodonture expenses. However, he did not formally move to modify his child
support obligation based on a substantial change in circumstances in his
employment status. Rather, he sought to eliminate his child support obligations
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because he was not exercising parenting time with Rick. Moreover, he opposed
defendant's motion for reconsideration of her request to increase child support.
On October 10, 2019, plaintiff's attorney first notified the trial court that
plaintiff "was laid off from his employment last week, effective October 4,
2019." Plaintiff's attorney further stated he would provide the court "with any
updates as to [plaintiff's] job searches." Defendant's attorney noted at oral
argument on November 8, 2019 that plaintiff recently disclosed "he is now
unemployed [but t]here was nothing ever submitted or supplied" to her. Judge
Filko responded that "a letter telling me that somebody is unemployed is not [an
issue] before the court."
Also during argument on November 8, plaintiff's counsel strenuously
urged the court not to award defendant an increase in child support, stating,
"there is really no evidence that is being put forth to say that what Your Honor
did in the order was incorrect." Plaintiff's counsel added:
the only change in circumstances that we have are that
the defendant's income has increased. My client's
income, even though he did just lose his job just
recently, if we were to use the income he had prior to
losing his job, that income is actually less than the
income [another judge] was looking at in 2017, when
[the judge] denied my client['s] application to reduce
the child support.
....
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And this argument that now that the alimony has
terminated, that's a change in circumstances. Well that
terminated in 2016 . . . . So, it's not a new change in
circumstances that would warrant a review at this time.
Trial courts consider various factors when determining if there are
sufficient "changed circumstances" to warrant modification of a support
obligation. Lepis v. Lepis, 83 N.J. 139, 151 (1980). Some factors include an
increased cost of living, a change in the payor's income, and maturation of a
child. Ibid. "The party seeking modification bears the burden of showing such
'changed circumstances' as would warrant relief from the support or maintenance
provisions involved." Id. at 157 (citing Martindell v. Martindell, 21 N.J. 341,
353 (1956). Even if a payor is temporarily unemployed, a trial court has the
right to examine the "potential earning capacity" versus the actual income of a
payor when assessing the payor's ability to pay support. Halliwell v. Halliwell,
326 N.J. Super. 442, 448 (App. Div. 1999).
At the time plaintiff initially moved to eliminate his child support
obligations, the court found he was making an annual salary of $120,000 and
had no shelter expenses because he was living with his mother. We also note
that when plaintiff initially sought to terminate his child support payments and
later sought reconsideration of the judge's denial of this request, plaintiff failed
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to include a current case information statement and past statements that were
"executed or filed in connection with the order, judgment or agreement sought
to be modified." See R. 5:5-4(a)(4). This omission alone provided a basis for
the court to deny plaintiff's motions to terminate child support. A simple letter
from counsel advising plaintiff lost his job in October 2019 was no substitute
for the evidence required by Rule 5:5-4(a)(4).
Similarly, there was no basis for Judge Filko to reconsider his order
directing plaintiff to contribute to the unreimbursed health and educational
expenses of his unemancipated children. As the judge noted, these issues had
been litigated extensively and plaintiff had been directed to assume these
expenses under prior court orders. Moreover, plaintiff did not timely appeal
from those orders. Further, the PSA compelled plaintiff to "maintain health,
vision and dental insurance as available through his employment" for his
unemancipated children. Again, given plaintiff's failure to comply with Rule
5:5-4(a)(4), he provided no basis for Judge Filko to modify plaintiff's obligation
to contribute to his unemancipated children's health and educational expenses.
Regarding Point III, we find no basis to disturb Judge Filko's denial of
plaintiff's requests for counsel fees on his initial motion and his motion for
reconsideration. A judge's determination of fees should only be overturned "on
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the 'rarest occasion,'" and only for a "clear abuse of discretion." Barr v. Barr,
418 N.J. Super. 18, 46 (App. Div. 2011) (quoting Strahan v. Strahan, 402 N.J.
Super. 298, 317 (App. Div. 2008)). In awarding counsel fees, a court looks to
several factors, including the parties' financial needs and ability to pay.
Williams v. Williams, 59 N.J. 229, 233 (1971) (citations omitted). Courts also
consider other factors, such as the good faith of the parties, the results obtained,
and the extent of the fees incurred. R. 5:3-5(c).
Here, although plaintiff contends he should have been awarded counsel
fees because defendant violated his rights and prior court orders, Judge Filko
made no such findings. Instead, he concluded plaintiff failed to comply with
prior court orders by not engaging in therapy with his son and neglecting to
timely contribute to the orthodontic and educational expenses of his
unemancipated children. Indeed, Judge Filko noted plaintiff was ordered to pay
his share of one child's college tuition "five . . . times" and had "not actually
paid anything toward [that child's] tuition at this point." Further, the judge
observed plaintiff did "not claim in his certification to have made any effort
toward mitigating the orthodontic expense." Moreover, the judge found
plaintiff's request to terminate his parental rights and support obligations for
Rick was "not permitted by New Jersey law and is, in fact, contrary to public
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policy." Under these circumstances, we are satisfied Judge Filko did not abuse
his discretion in declining to award plaintiff counsel fees.
Likewise, we are not persuaded Judge Filko abused his discretion when
he opted not to conduct oral argument before issuing his July 15, 2019 decision.
We acknowledge that litigants should be permitted oral argument of motions
other than calendar matters and routine discovery applications when requested
"as a matter both of due process and the appearance of due process." Filippone
v. Lee, 304 N.J. Super. 301, 306 (App. Div. 1997); see also Pressler &
Verniero, Current N.J. Court Rules, cmt. 1.1 on Rule 5:5-4 (2021) ("[T]here is
a strong presumption favoring argument of motions other than calendar matters
and routine discovery applications."). To that end, Rule 5:5-4(a)(1) provides:
Motions in family actions shall be governed by
[Rule] 1:6-2(b) except that, in exercising its discretion
as to the mode and scheduling of disposition of
motions, the court shall ordinarily grant requests for
oral argument on substantive and non-
routine discovery motions and ordinarily deny requests
for oral argument on calendar and routine discovery
motions.
"The discretion afforded by Rule 5:5-4(a) is designed to give the judge
'the option of dispensing with oral argument . . . when no evidence beyond the
motion papers themselves and whatever else is already in the record is necessary
to a decision.'" Palombi v. Palombi, 414 N.J. Super. 274, 285 (App. Div.
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2010) (alteration in original) (quoting Fusco v. Fusco, 186 N.J. Super. 321, 328-
29 (App. Div. 1982)). "In short, it is the sole purpose of these rules to dispense
with what is regarded as unnecessary or unproductive
advocacy." Ibid. (quoting Fusco, 186 N.J. Super. at 328-29). Judge Filko
referenced both the Palombi and Fusco cases in his July 15, 2019 order, to
explain why he denied oral argument on the parties' initial cross applications.
In accordance with Palombi, we conclude the trial court properly
exercised its discretion in denying oral argument. Judge Filko's thoughtful July
15, 2019 written opinion makes clear he was familiar with the issues
comprehensively raised by the parties. Moreover, to the extent plaintiff believed
issues or facts were overlooked by the trial court on his initial cross-motion, he
had a full opportunity to address those issues, with the benefit of counsel, when
the judge heard extensive oral argument on the parties' reconsideration
applications. Following oral argument, Judge Filko found no basis to reconsider
his prior rulings. Thus, we are not persuaded the judge abused his discretion
when he declined to conduct oral argument on the parties' initial applications.
See D'Atria v. D'Atria, 242 N.J. Super. 392, 401 (Ch. Div. 1990); see also
Cummings v. Bahr, 295 N.J. Super. 374, 384 (App. Div. 1996).
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Plaintiff's remaining arguments lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion
in a written opinion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).
Affirmed.
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