STATE OF NEW JERSEY VS. STANFORD YOUGHÂ (06-04-0402, PASSAIC COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) ( 2017 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-3701-15T1
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION OF CHILD
    PROTECTION AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    N.S.,
    Defendant-Appellant,
    and
    M.S.,
    Defendant.
    ________________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP
    OF J.S. and A.S., MINORS.
    ________________________________
    Submitted March 27, 2017 – Decided            March 31, 2017
    Before Judges Sabatino and Currier.
    On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Cape May
    County, Docket No. FG-05-27-15.
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, attorney
    for appellant (Laura Orriols, Designated
    Counsel, on the brief).
    Christopher S. Porrino, Attorney General,
    attorney for respondent (Melissa H. Raksa,
    Assistant Attorney General, of counsel;
    Jennifer   Russo-Belles,  Deputy   Attorney
    General, on the brief).
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law
    Guardian, attorney for minors (Aleli M.
    Crawford, Assistant Deputy Public Defender, on
    the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Defendant N.S. appeals the Family Part's April 18, 2016
    judgment terminating her parental rights to her minor children,
    J.S.   ("Jason"),   who   is   presently   eight   years    old,   and   A.S.
    ("Allison"), who is presently six years old.1              For the reasons
    that follow, we affirm.
    The children's biological father, M.S. ("Matthew"), is not a
    party to the appeal because about three weeks before trial, he
    made an identified surrender of his parental rights to his sisters
    and their husbands, the children's paternal aunts and uncles, who
    have been serving as the children's resource parents.                    More
    specifically, Jason resides with, and is to be adopted by, his
    paternal aunt J.P. and her husband D.P., while Allison resides
    with, and is to be adopted by, her paternal aunt L.E. and her
    husband D.E.
    1
    We use initials and pseudonyms for the family members to protect
    the privacy of the minors involved.
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    On   appeal,   defendant   argues   that   the   Division   of     Child
    Protection and Permanency ("the Division") did not prove prongs
    one, two, or four of the statutory "best interests of the child"
    test under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a).         She also argues that the judge
    should have recused himself from the guardianship trial because
    he formed a negative opinion about her while presiding over and
    making findings in the earlier abuse and neglect proceedings.
    I.
    We derive the following facts from the record that bear upon
    our consideration of the issues presented.
    The Division first became involved with this family on April
    30, 2012, when it received an allegation of inadequate shelter and
    environmental neglect.      The referent alleged hoarding conditions
    in defendant's home, as well as the presence of dead rodents in
    the kitchen sink and around the home, with rodent poison scattered
    on the floors "like chicken feed."         The referent reported that the
    home had a horrible smell, and there were electrical receptacles
    hanging out of the walls.         Finally, the referent raised concerns
    about the parents' mental health and defendant's prescription drug
    use.
    The Division investigated and found that the home was dirty,
    cluttered, and messy.      There were medication bottles on the floor
    of the parents' upstairs bedroom, as well as missing outlet covers
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    in the hallway, and a missing light switch cover in the living
    room, with wires protruding from the wall.
    Defendant denied that she was a hoarder.       The Division's
    investigation caseworker did not observe any rodents or rodent
    poison in the home as alleged by the referent.   However, defendant
    admitted there had been a dead rat in the kitchen sink "a month
    or two" earlier, which had since been thrown away.        She also
    admitted that the family members used rodent poison during the
    winter months, but claimed they did so only in areas inaccessible
    to the children, including the closet, the upstairs bathroom, and
    behind the refrigerator in the kitchen. She stated that the poison
    had been cleaned up.
    Defendant told the caseworker that she could not keep up with
    housework because the kids constantly made messes, she suffered
    from depression and an injured back, and she received no assistance
    from Matthew or other family members. Nevertheless, both defendant
    and Matthew separately assured the Division that they would clean
    up the house and remediate any safety issues.
    Defendant stated that the home was owned by Matthew's parents,
    and she and Matthew were responsible for paying only taxes,
    insurance, and utilities.   Defendant was not working outside the
    home, while Matthew worked as a janitor, and the family received
    government benefits, including food stamps.
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    Defendant disclosed to the caseworker that she suffered from
    depression,      for   which   she    took     medication,    and    attended
    counseling.     She also disclosed that she had back surgery about a
    year earlier, and she continued to take prescription medication
    for pain.      Matthew, meanwhile, admitted attending counseling for
    anger management, taking medication for a chronic illness, and
    occasionally smoking marijuana.
    Upon returning to the home on May 3, 2012, the Division
    caseworker did not note any safety concerns.               The home at that
    point had been straightened up a bit, although the parents'
    upstairs bedroom still needed work.             The Division consequently
    deemed   the    allegations    of    neglect   at   that   time     unfounded.
    Nevertheless, the Division kept the case open for services, in
    order to make sure the home remained clean and safe for the
    children.
    Thereafter, defendants cooperated for a period of time with
    the services provided and monitored by the Division.                     These
    services included parenting skills and homemaking/life skills
    services, psychological treatment and medication monitoring for
    defendant, and anger management counseling for Matthew.
    At times, the parents seemed to be making progress on the
    condition of the home, with the downstairs rooms appearing cleaner
    and less cluttered.     At other times, the downstairs rooms appeared
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    cluttered and dirty.        Moreover, the upstairs rooms were regularly
    in   a    messy   condition,   and    defendants    did   not    always    permit
    caseworkers to examine them.
    The   observed   conditions    reflected    more    than    inadequate
    housekeeping.       For example, at a visit on April 25, 2013, the
    Division's caseworker noted concerns about the condition of the
    children, remarking on their dirty clothing and their faces smeared
    with dried food and mucus.
    At a later visit on May 31, 2013, a caseworker observed trash,
    broken toys, and clothing strewn on the floor of Jason's bedroom,
    as well as smeared feces on the bedroom wall.               Responding to the
    caseworker's       statement   that    the   wall   needed      to   be   cleaned
    immediately, defendant stated that she had left the feces on the
    wall because if Jason could smear his feces, then he could clean
    them up as well.
    Jason was only four years old at the time.             Moreover, as an
    infant he was diagnosed with a genetic condition known as Cornelia
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    de   Lange    Syndrome   ("CDLS"),       which   causes   behavioral   and
    developmental problems,2 for which he receives services.3
    Several months later, on August 6, 2013, a caseworker observed
    Allison put a magnet in her mouth and told defendant.           Defendant
    took the magnet away from the child and blamed Jason for the
    incident, stating that Allison copies her brother's behaviors.           At
    the same visit, the caseworker again observed that Jason's bedroom
    was a mess, with bags of trash, toys, broken wood, and Pediasure
    bottles on the floor, and a potty chair was in the middle of the
    room with urine and a bowel movement in it.
    Defendant did not accept responsibility for maintaining the
    home.   After more than a year of services, she continued to blame
    her young children for making messes and not cleaning them up, and
    to disclaim any personal obligation to clean, citing her physical
    and mental limitations.    She referred to the children as her "ball
    and chain."
    2
    CDLS, also known as de Lange syndrome, is "[a] congenital
    disorder of infants marked by failure to grow, mental retardation,
    a growing together of the eyebrows, a low hairline (down on the
    forehead), a depressed bridge of the nose, low-set ears, short and
    tapering fingers, and a small head.     In some cases, the infant
    [also] has congenitally large muscles. . . ." J.E. Schmidt, M.D.,
    Attorneys' Dictionary of Medicine, D-15-16 (edition 2009).
    3
    Matthew was diagnosed with CDLS several years after his son, in
    2015.
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    On September 19, 2013, more than sixteen months after the
    initial referral, a Division caseworker and a service provider
    conducted an unannounced visit to the home.          No one responded to
    their knocks on the door, and they observed Allison standing on a
    dresser, banging on a first-floor window with an iPad.
    They contacted the police and after the officer arrived,
    about thirty-five minutes after the workers' initial arrival,
    defendant and Matthew finally opened the door.        She said she could
    not believe the worker had "called the f***ing police to come,"
    and explained that she and Matthew had been upstairs sleeping
    while Allison napped and Jason was at school, and with the doors
    closed and the air conditioner on they had not heard any knocking.
    She claimed she woke up when she heard Allison on the baby monitor.
    Defendant cursed at the workers and was belligerent during
    this entire visit.         On the first floor of the home, the workers
    found broken and overturned furniture, as well as clothing, trash
    bags,     loose   trash,     half-eaten   food,   dirt,   flies,   screws,
    construction tools, and dried dog food mixed with Cheerios strewn
    on the floor.      Defendant did not intervene to stop Allison from
    picking through the dog food in order to eat the Cheerios, nor did
    she intervene to stop her from picking up a baby spoon on the
    windowsill, which was surrounded by mouse feces, so the workers
    did so.
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    As     a    result   of      these       observations,      the   Division
    administratively      substantiated           defendant    and    Matthew     for
    environmental neglect, substantial risk of physical injury, and
    lack of supervision for Allison.             Because Jason was not home, the
    Division only substantiated environmental neglect and substantial
    risk of physical injury.       The Division removed the children on an
    emergent basis under the Dodd Act.4              After the Division filed a
    complaint for custody, the court approved the removal.                 Later, on
    January 6, 2014, defendants stipulated to being a family in need
    of services to ensure the health, safety, and welfare of their
    children.
    Upon removal from their parents, the children were placed in
    a resource home for one night, after which they were placed with
    their paternal grandparents.             They remained in that placement
    until   spring    2015,   after    the       grandmother   experienced    health
    issues.     Thereafter, the children were placed separately, with
    paternal aunts and uncles (Matthew's sisters and their husbands).
    These relatives expressed a desire to adopt the children, and they
    preferred adoption to kinship legal guardianship.
    4
    A Dodd removal is an emergent removal of a minor without a court
    order pursuant to N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.21 to -8.82 (the Dodd Act). N.J.
    Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. P.W.R., 
    205 N.J. 17
    , 26 n.11 (2011).
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    A Division caseworker testified at the guardianship trial
    that, although the children are separated, the paternal family is
    close-knit.        The paternal aunts both teach in the same school,
    they ensure that the children see each other at least three times
    during the week, and their families often spend time together on
    weekends.      Moreover, the resource parents have engaged with the
    Division     to    ensure    that      the    children       receive   all     necessary
    services.
    After       the   September      2013       removal,    the    Division's      goal
    initially was family reunification.                 The areas of concern included
    the state of the home, the parents' mental health, and the family's
    financial stability, since defendant was not working and Matthew
    worked only seasonally.          They struggled to pay their bills.
    The    Division      continued     to       provide    and    monitor    services,
    including:        family team meetings, parenting capacity evaluations
    and a parenting program; psychiatric and psychological services
    for   both     parents,      including            both   individual      and    couples
    counseling; and financial assistance, including furniture for the
    home and money to pay the family's electric bill. Division records
    also reflect that in the months after the removal, defendant sought
    substance abuse treatment, but only counseling was recommended.
    During      visits    to   the    family      home,     caseworkers      sometimes
    remarked on certain improvements that defendants had made in
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    cleaning and decluttering.       However, they also continued to note
    serious problems, for example, an overwhelming odor of cat urine,
    dirty carpets and mattresses, mold, and excessive clutter and
    dangerous items left out in the open, both inside and outside the
    home.   Moreover, on some occasions, the parents resisted showing
    the upstairs of the home.
    Due to continued problems at the home, the Division took the
    extraordinary step of retaining a hoarding response company to
    assist the parents in cleaning and decluttering the home and yard.
    This occurred in May or June 2014, more than eight months after
    the children's removal.
    Immediately after the hoarding company's intervention, the
    home was substantially improved. 5         Over time, however, issues
    returned.
    The Division provided visitation services to the parents
    through the Robin's Nest agency, along with therapeutic and family
    support services.      Defendants regularly attended visitation, and
    their interactions with the children were generally considered
    positive.
    At first, the visitation was supervised.       Over time, however,
    it   progressed   to   being   only   partially   supervised,   with   some
    5
    Division records reflect that defendant was briefly employed in
    the summer of 2014. However, she lost the job in September 2014.
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    unsupervised time.    In July 2014, the court granted an extension
    of the plan for reunification.        By September 2014, the children
    were engaged in overnight weekend visits with their parents in the
    hope of reunification in the near future.
    In October 2014, however, defendant suffered a mental health
    crisis.   When workers visited the home on October 3, 2014, at the
    start of a weekend visit, defendant was disoriented, confused, and
    slurring her words.   She reported hallucinations, stating that she
    had seen a dragon in the kitchen, and she could see things moving
    on the walls, but it was "no big deal."       She further stated that
    she had been hiding knives around the home because she thought
    someone was breaking in when she was alone.
    Matthew told the workers that defendant had been taking
    incorrect doses of her medication, and she had been hallucinating
    for months.   He said he did not tell anyone about this earlier
    because he did not want to delay reunification.
    Defendant was taken to the hospital, where she was evaluated
    and then released.    The weekend visit proceeded with Matthew only.
    When a caseworker visited four days later, on October 7,
    2014, defendant admitted she had been having hallucinations off
    and on since the children were removed. At the same visit, Matthew
    cried and said he "was done"; he wanted defendant out of the home
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    because he did not want her problems to affect his chances of
    getting the children back.
    About two weeks later, on October 23, Matthew reported that
    defendant became violent when he asked her to leave the home, so
    he called the police to remove her.            When questioned by the
    Division, defendant admitted throwing a bottle at Matthew, but
    denied trying to choke him, as he had alleged.       The following day
    Matthew obtained a temporary restraining order against defendant,
    and defendant began living with her sister.
    Thereafter, the Family Part granted additional extensions of
    the plan for reunification, through April 2015.         The Division had
    continued concerns about defendant's mental stability, so its plan
    was to seek reunification with Matthew only, first giving him some
    time to manage life on his own and become financially stable.
    Robin's Nest provided services to both parents individually,
    with   defendant's   visitation   fully    supervised    due   to    safety
    concerns.     As time went on, Matthew was granted unsupervised
    visitation with the children, and reunification with him appeared
    likely.
    On March 24, 2015, however, with reunification planned for
    the following month, Matthew advised the Division that he had
    dismissed   the   restraining   order   against   defendant,    and     they
    planned to mend their relationship.       Soon thereafter, the Division
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    learned that defendant had moved back into the marital home, and
    she had been in the home during one of the children's visits with
    Matthew,   violating   the   requirement   that   her   visits   with   the
    children be supervised by a Division-approved individual.
    Given these changed circumstances, the Division delayed its
    plan for reunification.      It also reinstated supervised visitation
    for both parents, due to concerns for the children's safety as a
    result of defendant's mental health issues and the animosity
    between the parents.     Nevertheless, some visits occurred in the
    home.
    The   Division    requested   another   extension     of    time   for
    reunification.   However, by order dated April 15, 2015, the court
    denied that request "because of continuing concerns and the lack
    of sufficient progress[.]"
    In May 2015, the Family Part approved a permanency plan of
    termination of parental rights followed by relative adoption. Then
    in June, the Division filed a complaint for guardianship, and
    terminated the abuse and neglect litigation.
    Thereafter, the couple's relationship remained unstable.             In
    August 2015, they reported they might divorce.             However, the
    following month, they reported they would remain a couple and
    hoped to parent the children together.       Defendant's mental health
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    also was uncertain, as she told her therapist in August 2015 that
    she was having hallucinatory thoughts about a mechanical bug.
    Moreover, notwithstanding that supervised visits were allowed
    at the home, the condition of the home remained problematic.              On
    visits conducted during this time period, the Division found the
    downstairs area to be moderately clean, although it sometimes
    smelled of garbage.       However, even as late as December 2015, the
    upstairs area was still partially under construction, as well as
    dirty and unkempt. The outside of the home was problematic because
    the porch was under construction, and the yard was overgrown and
    full of trash, including construction materials, scrap metal, and
    non-working vehicles.
    The testifying Division caseworker stated that reunification
    was not possible at the time of trial due to both the condition
    of the home, and defendant's failure to acknowledge the seriousness
    of the condition, which raised concerns for the children's well-
    being if they were returned to her care.       The caseworker conceded,
    however, that defendant was engaged in individual counseling, she
    was employed, and her mental health had improved such that the
    Division did not have any present concerns for her personal well-
    being.
    The    Division's    expert    psychologist,   Dr.    James   Loving,
    testified   about   his   January   2016   psychological   evaluation     of
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    defendant, and his bonding evaluations between defendant and the
    children, and of the children and their resource parents (with the
    exception of Allison's uncle, who could not attend due to illness).
    Dr. Loving diagnosed defendant with major depressive disorder
    that is recurrent and cyclical but in partial remission.          He also
    diagnosed her with an anxiety disorder, opioid use disorder in
    sustained full remission, and dependent personality traits.              He
    credited her with complying with services and persistently working
    to regain custody of her children.
    Nevertheless, Dr. Loving cited a number of factors that
    rendered defendant unable to provide a safe, stable, and healthy
    home to the children at present or within the foreseeable future,
    including:    her failure to consistently maintain a clean and safe
    home; her failure to recognize her personal obligation to do so
    as opposed to blaming others for the problems; and her failure to
    recognize the risk of physical and emotional harm to the children
    from conditions in the home.       Dr. Loving also underscored the risk
    that defendant's anxiety and debilitating depression would recur,
    and that she would fail to seek treatment; the risk of recurrent
    substance    abuse;   and   her   dependent   personality   traits,   which
    caused her to remain stuck in unhealthy situations and not function
    independently.
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    Dr.    Loving   testified     that     defendant's   relationship       with
    Matthew posed "a double-edged sword" as relates to reunification.
    On the one hand, Dr. Loving noted that the relationship was full
    of conflict and characterized by mutual defiance and immaturity.
    Thus, if the couple remained together, the children would be at
    high risk from the household conditions and marital conflict,
    which had not been fully remediated notwithstanding years of
    services.     Indeed, Dr. Loving believed it likely that the home
    would     devolve    to   much    dirtier     and   unsafe   conditions         if
    reunification occurred and the family were not closely monitored.
    On the other hand, Matthew had expressed to Dr. Loving an
    intention to end his relationship with defendant, and, if the
    couple separated, defendant would need to establish independent
    living for the first time in years, with no plan for doing so, and
    very few financial resources or sources of support.             Reunification
    under these circumstances, Dr. Loving opined, "would be a very
    long-term plan at best."         In the meantime, the children would be
    kept "in a situation of limbo that would be unhealthy for them
    over time."     Moreover, Dr. Loving noted that the plan was risky
    because    termination    of     the   marital   relationship    would     cause
    defendant severe stress, which in the past contributed to her
    debilitating depression and anxiety.
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    In terms of bonding, Dr. Loving found that the children had
    strong, positive attachments to their parents and to each other,
    as well as fairly strong and positive attachments to their resource
    parents.   Although Allison's uncle could not attend the bonding
    session, Dr. Loving stated that "[t]here is every indication that
    she experiences a similar attachment with" him as she does with
    her aunt, noting that through her play Allison indicated she
    perceived her uncle as part of her family.
    Dr. Loving acknowledged that if the children were permanently
    separated from their parents, they would suffer at least temporary
    confusion and be upset.     Jason would be at greater risk than
    Allison due to his age, the greater amount of time he spent in his
    parents' care, and his disabilities. But Dr. Loving also predicted
    if the children remained in their current homes and progressed
    toward adoption, which would allow them a sense of permanency,
    they would be capable of overcoming the loss of their parents and
    they would not suffer severe or enduring harm.
    Ultimately, Dr. Loving supported the Division's plan for
    termination of defendant's parental rights, followed by adoption
    by the children's resource parents, because defendant was unable
    to provide a safe, clean, stable, and healthy home to her children
    at present or in the foreseeable future.
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    In terms of defendant's future contact with the children, Dr.
    Loving testified that both aunts had expressed the same sentiment,
    that is, "ideally" defendant would remain involved.     However, the
    aunts were unsure what those arrangements would be given the
    history of conflict between defendant and Matthew's family.         In
    terms of the children's continued relationship with each other,
    the aunts told Dr. Loving that their families were very close, the
    children saw each other on a regular basis, and they would continue
    to facilitate frequent contact between them.
    The Law Guardian's expert psychologist, Dr. Jo Anne González,
    also testified at trial.    Dr. González performed a psychological
    evaluation of defendant, as well as bonding evaluations of the
    children and defendant, and of the children and their resource
    parents.   Allison's other resource parent, her paternal uncle, did
    attend this evaluation.    Her conclusions were largely the same as
    Dr. Loving's.
    Dr.   González's   psychological   examination   revealed   that
    defendant is self-centered, needy, and manipulative; she resists
    accepting responsibility for her actions; and she blames others
    for the problems in her life.   Moreover, her parenting assessment
    revealed that defendant has serious deficits in her parenting
    skills, rendering her unable to understand or meet her children's
    needs.
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    Dr. González diagnosed defendant with mood disorder, anxiety
    disorder,     personality   disorder,   and   a   history    of    opioid
    dependence.    She further concluded that defendant could not safely
    parent her children due to her mental health issues.        Dr. González
    also noted defendant's failure to acknowledge responsibility for
    her situation or her ability and obligation to remediate the
    problems that led to the children's removal.
    In terms of bonding, Dr. González found that the children had
    a strong and affectionate, yet insecure, attachment to defendant.
    In particular, the Law Guardian's expert found that the children
    were insecure about whether defendant could meet their needs; in
    this regard, she noted that during the bonding examination the
    children were hesitant to share information with their mother
    about their current homes, for fear of upsetting her.
    Dr. González believed the children would suffer a sense of
    loss if defendant's parental rights were terminated, with Jason
    more affected than Allison since he was older and had been in
    defendant's care for longer than his sister.      However, the expert
    concluded the termination would not cause the children irreparable
    emotional damage.    Rather, they would recover with guidance from
    their resource parents, with whom they had strong and secure
    attachments.
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    By contrast, Dr. González found that if the children were
    placed with defendant they would suffer from the loss of their
    relationships with their resource parents and resource siblings
    (cousins),6 which defendant would not be able to remediate because
    she would neither understand nor be sensitive to the children's
    sense of loss.        Moreover, Dr. González testified that if the
    children were returned to defendant they would face a significant
    risk of neglect, and defendant would have particular difficulty
    dealing with Jason, who is more challenging due to his disabilities
    and special needs.
    Finally,   Dr.    González   perceived   no   benefit     in    granting
    defendant additional time to eliminate the risks she posed to the
    children, because the children needed permanency.            In this regard,
    she estimated that if defendant's plan were to parent the children
    on her own, it would take between eighteen months and two years
    for her to establish her ability to do so.             Thus, Dr. González
    recommended that defendant's parental rights be terminated due to
    defendant's inability to provide safe and adequate parenting, and
    the children be adopted by their resource parents.
    Commenting on defendant's ability to see the children in the
    future after a termination, Dr. González testified that the aunts
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    Allison's     resource   sibling      participated    in     the   bonding
    evaluation.
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    told her "they're not closing the door on having contact with
    [defendant], but they want other things to change before" that
    happens.    At the same time, Dr. González did not recommend family
    counseling due to the level of animosity and distrust between
    defendant and Matthew's family members.
    Defendant did not testify at trial, nor did she present any
    fact or expert witnesses.
    II.
    A.
    Turning to the issues raised on appeal, we note the law in
    this area is well-established.          "Parents have a constitutional
    right to raise their children. . . .           But that right is not
    absolute.    It is a right tempered by the State's parens patriae
    responsibility   to   protect   children   whose   vulnerable   lives   or
    psychological well-being may have been harmed or may be seriously
    endangered by a neglectful or abusive parent."       N.J. Div. of Youth
    & Family Servs. v. F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 447 (2012).
    Under N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a):
    The division shall initiate a petition to
    terminate parental rights on the grounds of
    the "best interests of the child" . . . if the
    following standards are met:
    (1)    The child's safety, health, or
    development has been or will continue to be
    endangered by the parental relationship;
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    (2)   The parent is unwilling or unable
    to eliminate the harm facing the child or is
    unable or unwilling to provide a safe and
    stable home for the child and the delay of
    permanent placement will add to the harm.
    Such harm may include evidence that separating
    the child from his resource family parents
    would cause serious and enduring emotional or
    psychological harm to the child;
    (3)    The division has made reasonable
    efforts to provide services to help the parent
    correct the circumstances which led to the
    child's placement outside the home and the
    court    has   considered   alternatives    to
    termination of parental rights; and
    (4) Termination of parental rights will
    not do more harm than good.
    The Division must prove all four prongs of the statutory
    standard,    which   are   interrelated,   by   clear   and   convincing
    evidence.    F.M., supra, 211 N.J. at 447-48.
    On appeal from a termination of parental rights, we must
    recognize the Family Part's "specialized knowledge and experience
    in matters involving parental relationships and the best interests
    of children." Id. at 427. Thus, "[w]e defer to the family court's
    findings unless they are so wide of the mark that our intervention
    is required to avert an injustice.     So long as the record contains
    substantial and credible evidence to support the family court's
    decision, we may not second-guess its judgment."        Ibid.   See also
    N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.G., 
    217 N.J. 527
    , 552-53
    (2014); N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    ,
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    278-79 (2007).     We also "defer to the trial court's credibility
    determinations."    R.G., supra, 217 N.J. at 552.
    B.
    Here,   the   trial   court   specifically   found    the   witnesses
    presented by the Division and the Law Guardian to be credible, and
    found Dr. González's testimony particularly compelling.          The court
    noted that all of the evidence was unrebutted.
    Regarding the first prong of the Title Thirty statutory test
    for termination, the court found that the children's safety and
    welfare   would    continue   to   be    endangered   by   the    parental
    relationship, since defendant was unable or unwilling to provide
    a safe and clean home for her children. The court pointedly stated
    in this regard:
    Much of the theme and history of this case has
    to do with [defendant] and her deflection of
    responsibility for the conditions in the home
    that led to the removal.      She'd blame her
    husband for the conditions of the home; she'd
    blame third parties; she even blamed the
    children for the conditions of the home. At
    one point [Jason's] feces was observed to be
    smeared against the wall.        The Division
    inquired . . . why it hadn't been cleaned up.
    [Defendant] indicated that it was [Jason's]
    responsibility to clean it up because he put
    it there.   This fundamental lack of insight
    and acceptance of responsibility has not
    changed during the four years the Division has
    been involved with this family and it's not
    going to change.
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    Regarding the second prong of the statute, the court found
    that defendant was unwilling or unable to eliminate the harm,
    incorporating its prior analysis and noting the "multitude of
    services" provided by the Division.          Even defendant "herself
    reported that the home wasn't acceptable for the children to return
    to."   The court cited Dr. González's testimony for its conclusion
    that defendant "lacks the insight necessary to make the changes
    to allow her to provide a safe home for the children and that's
    not going to change[.]"   Finally, the court relied upon the expert
    testimony to conclude that delaying the matter would be harmful
    to the children, who were entitled to permanency.       As the court
    observed:    "[f]our years is enough."
    Regarding the third prong, the court cited the many services
    provided by the Division, and concluded that they constituted
    "more than reasonable efforts."       Moreover, the court found there
    was no alternative to termination of parental rights because the
    children were in safe and loving resource homes, and their resource
    parents wanted to adopt and were not interested in kinship legal
    guardianship.
    Finally, regarding the fourth prong, the court concluded that
    termination of defendant's parental rights would not do more harm
    than good because the children were in safe homes with resource
    parents committed to adoption, and defendant was not in a position
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    to   safely   parent   her    children,     nor   would    she     be   "within   an
    acceptable or reasonable time frame that it makes a difference for
    these kids."      In this regard, the court noted that defendant had
    no plan for her own future, let alone the children.                      The court
    acknowledged that the children would suffer a loss if defendant's
    rights     were   terminated,    but      concluded       that    the    loss     was
    "significantly outweighed by the possibility of adoption by a safe
    and loving home which can provide the safe environment [defendant]
    cannot."
    C.
    Defendant    disputes    the   court's      findings       with   respect   to
    prongs one and two of the statutory test.             She argues that, since
    at least June 2014, the house did not present a safety concern for
    the children, as evidenced by the fact that visitation was allowed
    in the home.
    Defendant acknowledges that, during this time frame, the home
    and yard were cluttered.         However, particularly with respect to
    the downstairs of the home, the Division allegedly noted only
    "housekeeping" concerns, not safety concerns, and as a matter of
    law "a messy house" that does not endanger the safety, health, or
    development of the children is insufficient to prove the first or
    second prongs of the statutory test.
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    Defendant maintains that the court erred by relying heavily
    upon the condition of the home at the beginning of the Division's
    involvement, as opposed to the time of trial.                 Further, she argues
    that the second floor of the home is irrelevant to the court's
    consideration because the children could be excluded from that
    portion of the home.
    Also with respect to the first and second prongs of the
    statutory test, defendant argues that the court erred by concluding
    she lacked insight and personal accountability to improve the
    conditions of the home.           In this regard, she notes her voluntary
    enrollment in therapy to manage her depression and anxiety, her
    compliance       with   services,    and   notations     by    service   providers
    indicating that she had shown progress and improvement in her
    acceptance of responsibility.
    Defendant further argues that the experts who concluded she
    lacked     insight      relied    upon     "imperfect     information      and     a
    misunderstanding of the underlying facts," particularly because
    they     never    visited   the     home      and   instead    relied    upon    the
    caseworkers' assessments.             She claims their opinions that she
    would     not    continue   to      improve     were   inconsistent      with    the
    observations of her treatment providers.               Moreover, she claims the
    court erred by crediting the experts merely because she did not
    present any expert testimony of her own.
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    Having carefully considered these arguments by defendant, we
    find no error in the court's conclusions as to prongs one and two
    of the statutory test. The record amply supports the trial court's
    conclusion that defendant endangered the welfare of her children
    through the condition of her home, she was unable or unwilling to
    eliminate the harm facing the children or provide a safe and stable
    home, and the delay of permanent placement would add to the harm.
    "The first two elements of the best interests of the child
    standard relate to the finding of harm arising out of the parental
    relationship."      In re Guardianship of D.M.H., 
    161 N.J. 365
    , 378
    (1999).    Thus, "evidence that supports one informs and may support
    the other as part of the comprehensive basis for determining the
    best interests of the child."          
    Id. at 379
    .
    Turning to defendant's specific arguments, we first disagree
    with her contention that the court erred by addressing the early
    conditions of the home.          These conditions were relevant to the
    prong one analysis and the harm caused to the children.                We note,
    however,    that   the   court   did   not    limit   its   analysis    to   the
    Division's initial involvement with the family.             It also addressed
    evidence of current conditions at the home, including defendant's
    admission    to    Dr.   González   that     the   home   was   not   currently
    appropriate for the children to be returned.
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    Moreover, contrary to defendant's argument, the record in
    this case does not reflect merely inadequate housekeeping.               As a
    result of defendant's incapacitating depression and anxiety, her
    immature and conflicted relationship with Matthew, and her failure
    to recognize the needs of her children, conditions at the home
    have regularly presented concerns for the children's safety should
    they be returned to defendant's care.
    Specifically, the evidence shows that at various times in
    2012 and 2013, the home was routinely dirty and cluttered, both
    upstairs and downstairs, and ultimately the children were removed
    due to the deplorable and unsafe conditions found on September 19,
    2013.     After the hoarding company's intervention in June 2014,
    conditions at the home appeared to have improved such that Division
    intended to reunify the family.        Just four months later, however,
    in October, the Division learned that defendant had been concealing
    the     deteriorating   status   of        her   mental   health,   including
    hallucinations that convinced her to hide knives around the home,
    which presented a danger to the children.
    Thereafter, between October 2014 and March 2015, defendant
    was out of the home.     While in-home visitation was reinstated for
    Matthew, the condition of the home at this time was unrelated to
    defendant.
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    After defendant's March 2015 return to the home, visitation
    was supervised, sometimes in the home, and the Division found the
    downstairs    to   be   adequately   clean.      However,   the   caseworker
    testified that the upstairs still remained dirty and unkempt, as
    well    as   partly     under   construction,     the   porch     was     under
    construction, and the yard was overgrown and full of materials
    that posed a danger to the children.          In the caseworker's opinion,
    the current condition of the home precluded family reunification,
    and Dr. González testified that defendant admitted as much during
    her December 2015 examination.
    Taken as a whole, this record manifestly supports the court's
    conclusions as to defendant's endangering the safety and welfare
    of her children, and her inability and unwillingness to maintain
    a safe and stable home.         See, e.g., N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. K.M., 
    136 N.J. 546
    , 550-53, 562 (1994) (affirming finding
    of abuse and neglect based, in part, upon dangerous and filthy
    living conditions in the home).           Moreover, we disagree with
    defendant's argument that the condition of the yard and the
    upstairs of the home are irrelevant to the court's consideration.
    The record reflects that the home is accessed through the front
    yard, and the children play in the yard.          Therefore, the presence
    of dangerous items in the yard is relevant to the overall safety
    of the home.
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    We further note that the second floor of the home is not
    unused space from which the children can be excluded.             It contains
    living space that is currently being used by the family, including
    the parents' bedroom.       This is an area of the home the children
    should be able to safely access, especially given the parents'
    history    of   leaving   the   children    unattended     downstairs     during
    waking hours, while the parents are upstairs.
    Contrary to defendant's argument, we find no error in the
    court's conclusions regarding her lack of insight and her failure
    to take personal accountability to improve the conditions of the
    home.     The evidence sufficiently shows that defendant lacked
    insight into her children's developmental needs and abilities, and
    her own obligations as a parent.          She excused the condition of the
    home by pointing to her mental and physical condition, or she
    blamed    her   husband   for   failing    to   maintain   the   home.       Most
    disturbingly, she at times blamed the children for creating messes
    and not cleaning them up, failing to take into account their young
    ages and their developmental abilities.
    The experts and the trial court did acknowledge defendant's
    engagement with services provided by the Division, as do we.
    Unfortunately, however, notwithstanding years of services, her
    efforts have not produced significant results in improving the
    factors that led to the children's removal.          Indeed, when examined
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    by Dr. González in December 2015, defendant effectively failed the
    parenting assessment, indicating that she continued to have little
    insight into her children's developmental needs or how to fulfill
    them.
    In this regard, the court reasonably relied upon the testimony
    of both Dr. Loving and Dr. González that defendant is presently
    incapable of safely parenting her children, and she will remain
    so for the foreseeable future.    The court also reasonably relied
    upon the experts' opinions that the children required permanence,
    and that a delay to allow defendant further time to prove herself
    would merely add to the harm already suffered.
    Finally, regarding the court's credibility assessments, we
    agree with defendant that the court was not bound to accept the
    testimonial evidence as true simply because defendant presented
    no witnesses.   Considering the opinion as a whole, it is clear the
    court accepted the witnesses' testimony because it was credible
    and supported by the documentary record, as well as the experts'
    examinations of defendant.
    Furthermore, contrary to defendant's suggestion, the experts'
    opinions are not invalid or less valuable because they did not
    visit the home.    To the contrary, the caseworkers' observations
    are the best evidence as to the condition of the home over the
    course of the Division's involvement.      A single visit by the
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    experts would be of little value.                Thus, we perceive no error in
    the court's credibility determinations.
    We likewise reject defendant's argument that the court erred
    in   finding    the    Division    had    proven      the   fourth    prong   of   the
    statutory      test.     This     element      is    addressed   to    whether     the
    termination of parental rights will do more harm than good.
    N.J.S.A. 304C-15.1(a)(4).           The fourth prong "is related to the
    first and second elements of the best interests standard, which
    also focus on parental harm to the children."                  D.M.H., supra, 
    161 N.J. at 384
    .      It "serves as a fail-safe against termination even
    where the remaining standards have been met."                  N.J. Div. of Youth
    & Family Servs. v. G.L., 
    191 N.J. 596
    , 609 (2007).
    The fourth prong does not require "a showing that no harm
    will befall the child as a result of the severing of biological
    ties."   In re Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 355 (1999).
    Rather, the question to be addressed is whether, after considering
    and balancing the children's relationships, the children will
    suffer a greater harm from the termination of the ties with their
    mother than from the permanent disruption of their relationships
    with their resource parents.             
    Ibid.
          Accord M.M., supra, 
    189 N.J. at 281
     (noting that expert testimony on bonding should be submitted
    by the Division).        The question is not which set of parents can
    provide a "better" home for the child, but what is in the child's
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    best interests.       N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.W., 
    103 N.J. 591
    , 603 (1986).
    In making an assessment under prong four, courts must be
    cognizant    of     the   State's   "strong   public    policy    in   favor    of
    permanency," and they "must not lose sight of time from the
    perspective of the child's needs."             K.H.O., supra, 161 N.J. at
    357.    Accord R.G., supra, 217 N.J. at 559.           They must consider the
    children's ages, their overall health and development, and "the
    realistic likelihood that [defendant] will be capable of caring
    for the child[ren] in the near future."           K.H.O., supra, 161 N.J.
    at 357.
    We   first    address    defendant's    arguments    questioning        the
    validity of the experts' bonding assessments of Allison and her
    resource parents, and the court's reliance upon the experts'
    conclusions.      Specifically, defendant faults Dr. Loving for going
    forward with the bonding evaluation of Allison and her resource
    parents without the presence of the uncle, and simply assuming the
    results would apply to him as well.           She also faults Dr. González
    for    allowing     Allison's   cousin   to   participate    in   the   bonding
    evaluation, because this changed the dynamic and the ability of
    Dr. González to assess the bond between Allison and her resource
    parents.
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    We perceive no basis for reversal based upon these arguments.
    We agree that Dr. Loving's assessment about Allison's bond with
    her resource father was impeded by the latter's non-participation
    in the bonding evaluation.           Townsend v. Pierre, 
    221 N.J. 36
    , 53-
    55    (2015)   (addressing     the   net    opinion   rule).        However,      his
    conclusion that Allison was bonded with her resource mother was
    supported independently by factual evidence and appropriately
    considered by the court.         Moreover, the court had the benefit of
    Dr. González's credible separate professional opinion that Allison
    was bonded with both of her resource parents.                    Hence, the court
    did not err in concluding she was bonded with her uncle as well
    as her aunt.
    We also find no error in the court's reliance upon Dr.
    González's bonding assessment of Allison and her resource parents
    because their biological daughter participated in the session.
    The    trial   judge   heard   competing      views   as    to    whether    it    is
    appropriate to conduct a bonding evaluation with an entire family,
    or just the parents and the child at issue.                Dr. Loving testified
    that he generally does not include other family members, but he
    admitted there were both "pros and cons" to including them.                        On
    the other hand, Dr. González testified that her preference was to
    include all who live in the household; and in this particular
    case, Dr. González wanted the cousin to be present because Allison
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    had a close relationship with her, and Allison had expressed fear
    of the assessment.
    In sum, the court was able to assess defendant's critique of
    Dr. González's methodology, and we have no basis for rejecting the
    court's acceptance of her conclusions.    A trier of fact, in this
    instance the Family Part judge, is free to accept or reject the
    opinions of any testifying expert, in full or in part.    See, e.g.,
    Becker v. Baron Bros., 
    138 N.J. 145
    , 159, 164-65 (1994); Angel v.
    Rand Express Lines, Inc., 
    66 N.J. Super. 77
    , 85-86 (App. Div.
    1961).
    Defendant faults both experts for allegedly ignoring concerns
    about the commitment of both sets of resource parents to the
    children, and the level of care they provide.    We find no merit
    to this argument.    The experts' reports indicate they considered
    the Division records, which included factual accounts of the
    caseworkers' interactions with the resource parents.   See N.J.R.E.
    703 (authorizing experts to consider written materials and other
    factual evidence not provided in admissible testimony).   Moreover,
    the experts met with the resource parents, except as previously
    discussed, and were able to assess their level of commitment to
    the children.    There is no indication that the children are
    mistreated in their resource homes, nor any reason to question the
    resource parents' commitments to adopt.
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    Next, defendant faults both experts for failing to adequately
    address the separation of the children, arguing that the "glaring
    absence    of   sibling    evaluation       data    renders        all   the    bonding
    evaluations deficient as a matter of law because the opinions fail
    to consider the harm that would be visited upon the children by
    remaining in separate homes."
    We disagree.       Defendant cites no legal authority requiring a
    bonding evaluation between the siblings.                   There is a preference
    for siblings to be placed together, N.J.S.A. 9:6B-4(d), but this
    is not always possible.            In this case, the Division initially
    placed    the   children    together    in    the        home    of   their    paternal
    grandparents,     but     that    placement    became           untenable     when    the
    paternal grandmother became ill.             Only at that point, in spring
    2015, were the children placed separately with their paternal
    aunts.    Although separated, the children as of the time of trial
    maintained close ties.           The aunts ensured that the children saw
    each other during the week and often on weekends as well.                             The
    experts    rightly   considered       these    facts        in    recommending        the
    termination of parental rights, and the court agreed with their
    recommendations.
    Finally,     defendant      emphasizes        her    strong      bond     with   the
    children, which was undisputed, and the caseworker's testimony
    that she was employed at the time of trial and the Division had
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    no present concerns for her well-being.     Based upon these factors,
    she argues that there was no reason to believe she would be unable
    to care for the children independently. She argues that she should
    be given an opportunity to establish herself as a single parent
    prior to a termination of her parental rights, and that concerns
    over possible future instability "cannot reasonably be held to
    significantly outweigh the harm that will stem from termination."
    We disagree with defendant's assessment of the record.         The
    sincerity of her love for her children, or them for her, is not
    doubted. Both experts found that the children had strong, positive
    attachments with their parents, and the visitation reports support
    that   opinion.    However,   Dr.    González   also   opined,   without
    contradiction, that the children's attachment to defendant was
    insecure.   Neither expert believed defendant was presently capable
    of caring for them.
    Thus, to the extent defendant wished to parent the children
    on her own, the record is bereft of evidence that it could happen
    immediately, as she argues on appeal.       Dr. Loving testified that
    reunification under such circumstances "would be a very long-term
    plan, at best," and Dr. González similarly opined that it could
    take up to two years for defendant to prove her ability to care
    for the children on her own.        Neither expert believed this plan
    would be in the children's best interests, because the children
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    had been placed outside the home for so long, and they required
    permanency.   The trial court credited these experts' opinions, and
    we have no basis for rejecting that credibility assessment.      The
    court appropriately gave much weight to the children's vital needs
    for permanency.   R.G., supra, 217 N.J. at 559.
    D.
    In her final argument, defendant maintains that the judge
    should have recused himself from the guardianship trial because
    he had overseen the case since its inception as an abuse and
    neglect proceeding, and because he denied the Division's April
    2015 request for an extension of time for reunification.         She
    contends that the judge was "frustrated" with her, and he had
    already formed an opinion about her that prevented him from
    engaging in a fair analysis of the record.     In this regard, she
    notes the judge's reliance upon "stale data" and his conclusion
    that there was a pattern of regression in the home conditions,
    when in reality the home had remained safe for an extended period
    of time.
    There is no requirement that guardianship proceedings be
    heard by a different judge than the one who presided over the
    abuse and neglect proceedings.   N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
    v. L.C., 
    346 N.J. Super. 435
    , 438-40 (App. Div. 2002).      To the
    contrary, there are policy justifications and efficiencies for
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    generally having the same Family Part judge hear both matters.
    
    Id. at 439
    .
    In addition, "judges are constantly required to adjudicate
    matters involving parties and related disputes which have come
    before the judge in a different proceeding."                   
    Id. at 440
    .       They
    "are    perfectly     capable    of    recognizing       the   different     issues
    involved, different standards of proof required and different
    remedies sought without 'prejudging' a defendant so as to implicate
    due    process   concerns."        
    Ibid.
              "Ultimately,   the   judge,      on
    appropriate application from a litigant, must consider whether her
    involvement in a case warrants that judge recusing herself from
    further consideration of the issues."               
    Ibid.
    Here, defendant never moved for recusal under Rule 1:12-2.
    Moreover, we discern no evidence of improper bias in the judge's
    handling of the case.           His denial of the Division's April 2015
    request   for    an   extension       of   time    for   reunification     was   not
    unreasonable, as the children had been in resource homes for more
    than eighteen months.         Nor does that denial constitute evidence
    that he had unfairly pre-judged the guardianship proceedings.
    As clearly set forth in the court's oral opinion, the judge
    appropriately reached his guardianship conclusions based upon a
    reasonable assessment of the entirety of the trial record.                         We
    find no basis to set aside his careful judgment of this case.
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    Affirmed.
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