Benschoter v. Benschoter , 2017 Ohio 8827 ( 2017 )


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  • [Cite as Benschoter v. Benschoter, 
    2017-Ohio-8827
    .]
    COURT OF APPEALS
    LICKING COUNTY, OHIO
    FIFTH APPELLATE DISTRICT
    JUDGES:
    THOMAS DEAN BENSCHOTER                                :       Hon. W. Scott Gwin, P.J.
    :       Hon. John W. Wise, J.
    Plaintiff-Appellant/Cross-Appellee                :       Hon. Craig R. Baldwin, J.
    :
    -vs-                                                  :
    :       Case No. 17-CA-25
    LARA JANE BENSCHOTER                                  :
    :
    Defendant-Appellee/Cross-Appellant                    :       OPINION
    CHARACTER OF PROCEEDING:                                  Civil appeal from the Licking County Court
    of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations
    Division, Case No. 2015-DR-0877
    JUDGMENT:                                                 Affirmed in part; Reversed and Remanded
    in part
    DATE OF JUDGMENT ENTRY:                                   November 30, 2017
    APPEARANCES:
    For Plaintiff-Appellant/Cross-Appellee                    For Defendant-Appellee/Cross-Appellant
    KARIN L. COBLE                                            PAUL GIORGIANNI
    316 N. MICHIGAN AVENUE                                    1538 ARLINGTON AVENUE
    SUITE 600                                                 COLUMBUS, OH 43212-2710
    TOLEDO, OH 43604
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                             2
    Gwin, P.J.,
    {¶1}   Both Husband and Wife appeal the April 7, 2017 judgment entry of the
    Licking County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division.
    Facts & Procedural History
    {¶2}   On August 7, 2015, appellant/cross-appellee Thomas Benschoter
    (“Husband”) filed a complaint for divorce against appellee/cross-appellant Lara
    Benschoter (“Wife”). The parties were married on June 7, 1997 and have three minor
    children, K.B., born on January 6, 2000, R.B., born on September 1, 2001, and S.B., born
    on November 22, 2004.
    {¶3}   The magistrate issued an ex parte order on August 10, 2015, ordering
    Husband and Wife to share custody of the children equally. The magistrate held a hearing
    on August 21, 2015. On August 24, 2015, after interviewing the children, the magistrate
    vacated the ex parte order and stated he was not convinced of the accuracy of Husband’s
    description of his involvement and relationship with the children as set forth in his affidavit.
    The magistrate designated Wife as the residential parent of the children, ordered the
    children to counseling with any uninsured expense associated with counseling to be paid
    by Husband, and ordered the parties to propose a parenting time schedule.
    {¶4}   Wife filed an answer to the complaint and cross-complaint on September 2,
    2015. On September 22, 2015, the magistrate issued an order stating he wanted a
    recommendation from the children’s counselor regarding a temporary parenting schedule
    and ordered supervised visitation until he received that recommendation. The trial court
    appointed a guardian ad litem (“GAL”) for the children on October 28, 2015.                The
    magistrate issued an order on November 10, 2015, and declined to change the parenting
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         3
    time until he received a report from the GAL. Further, the magistrate ordered that, starting
    November 2, 2015, Husband was to pay: temporary child support of $1,439 per month,
    the mortgage on the marital home, real estate taxes on the marital home, insurance on
    the marital home, utility bills for the marital home, the family cell phones, the minimum
    payments on Chase and Capital One credit cards, insurance premiums for the family’s
    vehicles, and health insurance premiums for the family. The magistrate also ordered
    Husband to reimburse Wife $1,600 for expenses incurred for the children since the filing
    of the divorce action.
    {¶5}   Husband filed a motion on November 16, 2015 seeking increased parenting
    time, a reduction in the amount of child support, and to vacate the order for him to pay
    the $1,600. The GAL filed a memorandum on November 24, 2015 and he recommended
    Wife remain the residential parent, but that Husband receive unsupervised visitation. The
    magistrate held a hearing on February 5, 2016.
    {¶6}   The magistrate issued an order on February 17, 2016. The magistrate
    modified the temporary child support amount to $1,480.73, effective November 16, 2015,
    due to the fact that Husband earned more income in 2015 than indicated on his affidavit
    filed with his request for temporary orders. The magistrate deferred a decision on the
    $1,600 until the final divorce hearing. Finally, the magistrate ordered Wife to pay the
    utility bills for the marital home as of March of 2016.
    {¶7}   The parties agreed on April 21, 2016 that Husband would have
    unsupervised Local Rule 19 parenting time with the children and that the children would
    continue in counseling. Husband filed a motion for contempt on April 29, 2016 for the
    alleged failure of Wife to have the children attend parenting time and her alleged failure
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         4
    to have the children attending counseling. The magistrate held a hearing on the motion
    on May 31, 2016 and issued an order on June 9, 2016 overruling Husband’s motion for
    contempt. The magistrate found there was not clear and convincing evidence that Wife
    engaged in a course of conduct designed to estrange and alienate the children from
    Husband. Further, that Wife was complying with the court order to not be present during
    the exchange for Husband’s visitation time and the counselor recommended sessions
    with the children stop for a while because the sessions were too adversarial.
    {¶8}   Prior to the hearing on the final divorce, the parties’ filed the following
    stipulations: both parties’ exhibits shall be admitted without objection as to admissibility
    for evidentiary purposes; the parties agree the fair market value of the marital home is
    $208,000; and the parties agree the vocational report (Exhibit 50) shall be admitted into
    evidence.
    {¶9}   The trial court held a final hearing of divorce on August 4, 2016 and
    November 9, 2016. John Benschoter (“John”), Husband’s brother, testified that since
    Husband filed for divorce, the children will not speak to him. John went once with
    Husband to pick up the children for visitation and the children would not go with them.
    John loaned Husband money to help with living expenses.
    {¶10} Mark Poole (“Poole”) is the GAL. Poole testified Husband, Wife, and each
    of the children have undergone individual counseling. Further, there was an attempt to
    have counseling between Husband and the children, but it was not successful. Poole
    stated there is no abuse or neglect by either parent. According to Poole, no one has told
    him that Wife has or has not encouraged a relationship between Husband and the
    children, but it is Poole’s impression Wife is angry and it has rubbed off on the children.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                        5
    Poole testified Wife wants the children to make their own decisions and he thinks she has
    allowed that, but Poole also thinks Wife supports their decision not to see Husband. Poole
    believes the children are influenced by Wife’s feelings towards Husband and this has
    contributed to the children’s refusal to meet with Husband.
    {¶11} Husband goes to get the children for visitation, but the children will not go
    with him. Poole testified the children have made it very clear to him that they do not want
    to go with Husband. Poole describes the children as being “adamant” about that. The
    police were called once when Husband went to pick the children up for visitation. Poole
    believes the lack of visitation damages Husband’s relationship with the children.
    {¶12} Poole’s recommendation is that Wife remain the residential and custodial
    parent of the children and Husband have Local Rule 19 visitation. However, as to whether
    such Local Rule 19 visitation is going to occur, Poole stated, “I, you know, can’t answer
    that, but I believe he should have the opportunity to at least try to spend time with his
    children.”
    {¶13} On cross-examination, Poole stated his recommendation differs from the
    wishes of the children, as they do not want to see Husband. Further, that even though
    he issued his report and recommendation, he also recognizes in his report the children
    will not attend a visitation with Husband.
    {¶14} On re-direct, Poole testified he thinks Husband wants to have a relationship
    with the children, but Husband needs to understand these are older children who are
    cognizant of the decisions they are making.
    {¶15} Upon examination by the trial court, Poole stated Wife believes the children
    are old enough to make the decision whether to spend time with Husband. Poole
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                          6
    supports the children making this decision, but is concerned because they are still
    children, and their decisions are not always in their own best interest. When the trial court
    asked Poole for a suggestion as to what visitation might work in the future, Poole stated
    he wished he had an answer, but the children are “firmly entrenched in where they’re at
    and I don’t know if it’s going to take a time where they are maybe older and out of – out
    on their own to maybe, but right now I don’t have a – counseling – joint counseling hasn’t
    worked, they haven’t really wanted to cooperate with that.” Further, that the children are
    “clearly angry and they remain so and I haven’t see anything to – to change that.” Poole
    stated it is the children’s position that they do not want to see Husband or have a
    relationship with him. However, Poole testified there is nothing in his investigation to
    suggest terminating the relationship between Husband and the children is in the children’s
    best interest.
    {¶16} Poole testified to both his January 2016 report and July 2016 supplemental
    report (Exhibit 54). In his supplemental report, Poole detailed Husband and Wife’s highly
    contentious relationship and the children’s unwavering and steady assertion that they are
    angry with Husband and do not wish to see him. Despite the ordered Rule 19 visitation,
    the children have “steadfastly refused” to leave with Husband for any of these parenting
    times or communicate with him. Poole believes this position is supported by Wife.
    {¶17} In his July 2016 supplemental report, Poole concludes that the children
    having no contact or parenting time with Husband is not in their best interest, but
    recognizes the children are old enough to make cognizant, if unwise, decisions on their
    own. Poole acknowledges the children cannot be physically compelled or forced to attend
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         7
    parenting times with Husband.        Despite this, Poole recommends Husband have
    unsupervised visitation pursuant to Local Rule 19.
    {¶18} In his case-in-chief, Husband testified he moved out of the marital home on
    July 7, 2015. He is currently forty-two years old and has a Bachelor’s of Fine Arts degree
    in Graphic Design. Husband is a senior account director at Mindstream Interactive,
    making approximately $97,000 per year with average bonuses of $1,500 to $3,000 per
    year. As of June 30, 2016, Husband’s gross pay for the year was $49,125 and his net
    pay was $24,332.32, after the following is taken out of his pay: child support, Health
    Savings Account funds, social security, Medicare, state taxes, city taxes, medical
    insurance, dental insurance, and vision insurance.       Husband believes Wife’s salary
    warrants a significantly larger amount than what she has listed.
    {¶19} Husband testified that Exhibit 43 shows the mortgage balance as of October
    1, 2015. Further, that as of July of 2016, the mortgage balance is $155,922.99. Husband
    has made the mortgage loan payments since the parties’ separation.
    {¶20} Husband stated Exhibit 45 is a list of his expenses. Husband testified he
    cannot pay all the payments that are ordered (house payment, credit cards, insurance,
    child support), because his income is less than his expenses. His family has loaned him
    money to help with living expenses. Husband testified he and Wife received a tax refund
    in 2015 of $3,262 that needs to be allocated. Husband stated that from July to November
    of 2015, prior to the issuance of the temporary orders by the magistrate, Husband paid
    the house payment for the marital home, all utilities for the marital home, cell phone bills
    for himself, Wife, and the children, minimum credit card payments on two credit cards,
    and auto and health insurance for the family.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                        8
    {¶21} Husband stated he and Wife lived comfortably during the marriage, but
    probably a little beyond their means. Husband talked to Wife about going back to work
    during the marriage, but Wife did not want to. Husband testified Wife last worked full-time
    over eleven years ago she has been a homemaker with part-time jobs for the past eleven
    or twelve years.
    {¶22} As to the children, Husband testified that before he left the home, the kids
    saw him and Wife fighting and, when he left the home, the children stopped talking to him.
    If he attends their activities, the children ignore him and do not respond to him. Husband
    believes they are angry because he left the home and they are fueled by the anger of
    Wife. Husband stated he would not force the children to go with him, but wants to attend
    their events and be given an accurate schedule of their activities.          He wants to
    communicate with the children if they want to see him, but he wants it to be in person, not
    via text. Husband wants the opportunity to continue to demonstrate he loves the children.
    Husband does not care if Wife encourages the children to visit him or not.
    {¶23} Wife testified she has a Bachelor in Fine Arts. She has kidney disease that
    is under control with medication. Wife worked when she and Husband first got married.
    She lost her job and was downsized prior to the birth of their second child. She and
    Husband worked for themselves for a while. Husband then went back to work full-time.
    She continued to freelance and stay at home to take care of the children. Wife testified
    the employment situation evolved that way, but was also by agreement. She took care
    of the children, took care of the house, and freelanced on the side.
    {¶24} Wife currently has two part-time jobs. Wife testified she has been out of the
    workplace for fifteen years, so she would probably have to go back for some schooling;
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         9
    further, that she does not have time to do this due to the time committed to keeping the
    children’s schedules. S.B. is in travel basketball and baseball, R.B. is in travel softball,
    and K.B. works at the church nursery and baby-sits.
    {¶25} Wife stated Husband is paying the mortgage, car insurance, cell phone, and
    credit card bills. Wife identified Exhibit C as her anticipated expenses going forward that
    she has now or sees having in the future. As to the $1,600 she requested from Husband,
    Wife testified it was mainly all the children’s expenses prior to when Husband was ordered
    to pay child support. Wife identified Exhibit D as these expenses.
    {¶26} On cross-examination, Wife testified she keeps her eyes open for a job, but
    she is busy doing what she is trying to do. On Exhibit D, Wife confirmed she did not pay
    $275 and the amount also included a birthday gift for her niece.
    {¶27} Mark Greenwood, Wife’s father, testified he has a close relationship with
    the children. Further, that he is helping Wife pay bills and he hopes to get paid back.
    {¶28} On rebuttal, Husband testified he and Wife fought about Wife going back to
    work because they were living beyond their means. Husband feels the children are now
    older and can help out while Wife works full-time.
    {¶29} During his court-ordered visitation time, Husband shows up, knocks on the
    door, one of the children says they are not going with him, he says “I love you” and then
    leaves. Husband believes these exchanges are valuable because he can demonstrate
    he is still their dad. Husband gets no phone calls or text messages from the children and
    believes he has been “reduced to a paycheck.” Husband testified he has no relationship
    with his children.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                            10
    {¶30} Husband disputes the $1,600 amount because: he paid $250 for R.B.’s
    softball, the recreation department paid a $275 fee, the children already have bedsheets
    and blankets, and the meal expenses are higher than for three children. Further, because
    he is already paying the auto insurance that is included in the $1,600 amount.
    {¶31} The trial court issued a nunc pro tunc judgment entry and decree of divorce
    on April 7, 2017. The trial court found the duration of the marriage was from June 7, 1997
    to August 4, 2016. The trial court determined the division of property is fair, just, equitable,
    and made in compliance with R.C. 3105.171.
    {¶32} The trial court found Husband has a base salary of $98,255, with bonuses
    of $3,000 in 2015, $3,000 in 2014, and $1,250 in 2013, and Wife is employed at two part-
    time jobs, earning approximately $26,000 per year and an additional $1,000 per year
    through self-employment. The trial court found Wife’s income to be $27,000 per year and
    found she is not voluntarily underemployed at this time. The trial court further found the
    parties’ agreed the mortgage balance at the time of the divorce was $165,407.92. Finally,
    the trial court found Husband has a Health Savings Account with a balance of $9,564.94
    as of June 30, 2016, he regularly contributes to this account, the account is marital in
    nature, and Husband paid counseling and health expenses from this account during the
    pendency of the case in the amount of $3,130.
    {¶33} The trial court awarded legal custody of the children to Wife and ordered
    Wife the residential parent of the children. The trial court found it is in the best interest of
    the children for Husband to have parenting time with the children every other Sunday and
    every other holiday from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. The trial court stated it, “enters this
    limited parenting time schedule after considering all factors in R.C. 3109.04 and R.C.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         11
    3109.051,” the report of the GAL, and the children’s wishes, as the trial court found the
    children of sufficient age and maturity to express an opinion regarding parenting time.
    The trial court found the children are currently estranged from Husband in conjunction
    with the deterioration of their parents’ relationship and marriage.
    {¶34} The trial court noted the children did not have a particular reason for not
    wanting to see Husband, but said they never had a close relationship with him and he
    never seemed willing to listen or be part of their lives except for baseball. The trial court
    attributed some of this to the fact that Husband was the primary income earner and
    worked many hours, while delegating most of the parental responsibilities to Wife. The
    trial court noted the counseling between Husband and the children was unproductive and
    also stated Husband will need small steps to attempt to repair his relationship with the
    children, and should make sure time spent is focused on the children having a positive
    experience.
    {¶35} The trial court ordered Husband to pay $919.06 per month in child support.
    The trial court awarded Husband the tax exemption for the children beginning in 2017
    and every year after, provided he is substantially current in his child support obligation.
    The trial court awarded Wife the real estate with the mortgage balance of $165,407.92.
    Husband was awarded the Health Savings Account with the approximate balance of
    $9,564.95, free and clear of any claim of Wife. Husband was also awarded the remainder
    of the tax refund for 2015, which the trial court included on the balance sheet and utilized
    to reduce the equalization payment. The trial court found that to provide an equitable
    division of assets and debts, Wife shall pay Husband $18,903.30 at the time of the closing
    or refinancing of the real estate.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         12
    {¶36} With regards to spousal support, the trial court stated it reviewed and
    considered R.C. 3105.18, specifically those factors listed in (C)(A)(a)-(n), and found an
    award of spousal support to Wife to be reasonable. As to factors (a) and (b), the trial
    court found: Husband earns $98,000 per year and averages a bonus of $2,400 per year
    and is earning at his capacity, while Wife earns $26,000 per year and facilitates the role
    as primary caregiver for the children. While Wife has the capacity to work full-time and
    earn more, it would mean more time away from home. As the children get older, there is
    the possibility that Wife could increase her income. Regarding factor (c), the trial court
    found the parties are mentally and physically healthy and capable of working full-time. As
    to factor (d), the trial court found any retirement benefits were divided equally between
    the parties and Wife has separate retirement assets of $72,000 and $9,400. The trial
    court found the duration of the marriage to be nineteen years.
    {¶37} As to factor (f), the trial court found Wife left the workforce to become the
    primary caregiver and maintains that role, but, as the children get older, full-time
    employment should be available to her in the next couple of years. Regarding factor (g),
    the trial court found the parties are middle-class and were living above their means prior
    to the separation. The trial court found both have four-year graphic design degrees. As
    to factor (i), the trial court found the martial assets are equalized, but Wife has $80,000
    of separate assets. The trial court found factors (j), (k), and (n) are not applicable in the
    instant case. The trial court found, pursuant to factor (l), Husband can deduct spousal
    support from his income and Wife has to add it to her income. Finally, as to factor (m),
    the trial court found Wife withdrew from full-time employment to care for the children, but
    there was no testimony as to quantifying any lost income capacity.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                        13
    {¶38} The trial court stated that, based on the foregoing factors, spousal support
    of $2,500 per month is reasonable and appropriate. Further, that while the spousal
    support award is indefinite, the trial court retains jurisdiction to modify or terminate the
    award of spousal support.
    {¶39} As to the $1,600 judgment against Husband, the trial court found this
    amount included expenses that were not actually paid by Wife. Further, that Husband
    already paid for some of the fees in question, and continued to pay the mortgage and
    utilities when these expenses were incurred and prior to the temporary orders being
    issued. Thus, the trial court sustained Husband’s motion to set aside the $1,600 judgment
    against him.
    {¶40} Husband appeals the decision of the trial court and assigns the following as
    error:
    {¶41} “I. THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION WHEN IT DEVIATED
    FROM       THE    STANDARD       LOCAL     RULE    19   VISITATION     SCHEDULE        AND
    SIGNIFICANTLY REDUCED APPELLANT’S VISITATION.
    {¶42} “II. THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION WHEN IT ORDERED
    APPELLANT TO PAY SPOUSAL SUPPORT INDEFINITELY.
    {¶43} “III. THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN DETERMINING
    THE AMOUNT OF SPOUSAL SUPPORT.
    {¶44} “IV. THE TRIAL COURT ERRED IN FAILING TO DESIGNATE THE 2016
    CHILD TAX EXEMPTION AS BELONGING TO APPELLANT.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                         14
    {¶45} “V. THE TRIAL COURT PLAINLY ERRED WHEN IT DISTRIBUTED A
    HIGHER MORTGAGE DEBT TO WIFE FOR PURCHASING THE HOME, CONTRARY
    TO THE EVIDENCE.”
    {¶46} Wife also appeals the decision of the trial court and assigns the following as
    error:
    {¶47} “I. THE TRIAL COURT ERRED WHEN IT DESIGNATED THOMAS AS THE
    PERSON WHO MAY CLAIM THE CHILDREN AS DEPENDENTS FOR FEDERAL
    INCOME TAX PURPOSES FOR 2017 AND EVERY YEAR THEREAFTER.
    {¶48} “II. THE DIVORCE DECREE FAILS TO REIMBURSE LARA $1,565,
    REPRESENTING ONE-HALF OF THE $3,130 OF EXPENSES THAT THE COURT
    ORDERED THOMAS TO PAY ALONE.
    {¶49} “III. THE TRIAL COURT DID NOT ORDER THOMAS TO MAINTAIN LARA
    OR THE CHILDREN AS BENEFICIARIES OF THE LIFE INSURANCE POLICIES.
    {¶50} “IV. THE TRIAL COURT VACATED THE NOVEMBER 10, 2015
    TEMPORARY ORDER THAT THOMAS PAY LARA $1,600, THEREBY DEPRIVING
    LARA OF MOST CHILD SUPPORT FOR THE FIRST THREE MONTHS OF THE
    DIVORCE ACTION.”
    I.
    {¶51} In his first assignment of error, Husband contends the trial court abused its
    discretion when it deviated from the standard Local Rule 19 visitation schedule and
    reduced his visitation.
    {¶52} The standard of review for matters concerning visitation rights is whether
    the trial court committed an abuse of discretion. Booth v. Booth, 
    44 Ohio St.3d 142
    , 541
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                            
    15 N.E.2d 1028
     (1989). In order to find an abuse of discretion, we must determine the trial
    court’s decision was unreasonable, arbitrary, or unconscionable and not merely an error
    of law or judgment. Blakemore v. Blakemore, 
    5 Ohio St.3d 217
    , 
    450 N.E.2d 1140
     (1983).
    {¶53} Husband first argues that in order to reduce his visitation to minimal time
    less than standard Local Rule 19 visitation, Wife must show parental unfitness or other
    non-standard circumstances. However, this Court has not adopted such a standard and
    has previously held that, in order to further the child’s best interest, the trial court has the
    discretion to limit or restrict visitation rights. Hurst v. Hurst, 5th Dist. Licking No. 12-CA-
    70, 
    2013-Ohio-2674
    . “This includes the power to restrict the time and place of visitation,
    to determine the conditions under which visitation will take place, and deny visitation
    rights altogether if visitation would not be in the best interests of the child.” 
    Id.
    {¶54} Further, R.C. 3109.051(F)(2) provides that each court of common pleas
    “shall adopt parenting time guidelines.” However, the same section also provides that, “a
    court shall have discretion to deviate from its standard parenting time guidelines based
    upon factors set forth in division (D) of this section.” The code does not limit a downward
    deviation to situations of parental unfitness or non-standard circumstances, but instead
    requires consideration of the factors contained in R.C. 3109.051(D). R.C. 3109.051(A)
    provides that, “whenever possible, the order or decree permitting the parenting time shall
    ensure the opportunity for both parents to have frequent and continuing contact with the
    child, unless frequent and continuing contact by either parent with the child would not be
    in the best interest of the child.” Again, the code does not mention unfitness or non-
    standard circumstances, but requires the consideration of the best interests of the child.
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                          16
    {¶55} R.C. 3109.051 provides the trial court should consider fifteen factors in
    determining the children’s best interest regarding visitation. These factors include: prior
    interactions of the children with the parents; location or residence of each parent; the
    children’s and parents’ available time; age of the children; the children’s adjustment to
    home, school, community; the wishes and concerns of the children; the health and safety
    of the children; the amount of time available to spend with siblings; the mental and
    physical health of all parties; each parent’s willingness to reschedule missed parenting
    time; and any other factor in the best interest of the children.
    {¶56} Husband contends the trial court did not appropriately consider and review
    all the relevant factors, and instead focused only on one factor, the children’s wishes. We
    disagree. The trial court specifically stated in its judgment entry that it considered all
    factors in R.C. 3109.04 and R.C. 3109.051 and there is no evidence that the trial court
    did not consider these factors. While the trial court highlighted the wishes of the children,
    the trial court also specifically considered other factors such as the age of the children
    (17 ½ years old, 16 years old, and 13 years old), the prior interactions between the
    children and each parent, each parent’s available time, the fact that counseling between
    Husband and the children was unproductive, and the schedule of the children in terms of
    sporting events.
    {¶57} Upon review of the record and the trial court’s judgment entry, we conclude
    the trial court did consider the factors upon which evidence was presented by the parties
    according to the directive of R.C. 3109.051. We find the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion in determining the limited visitation schedule it established was in the children’s
    best interest. While Poole recommended standard Local Rule 19 visitation, he also
    Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25                                                          17
    testified he realizes the children would not attend such a visitation. When the trial court
    asked Poole what type of visitation might work, Poole said he wished he had an answer,
    but the children are “firmly entrenched in where they’re at” and joint counseling has not
    worked. Further, the trial court granted Husband the standard Local Rule 19 visitation
    during the parties’ separation, but as testified to by both Poole and Husband, the children
    refused to go with Husband each time he came to pick them up. Poole stated that, despite
    his recommendation, he realizes that children are old enough to make a decision
    regarding visitation, even if Poole believes it is an unwise decision and that the children
    cannot be physically compelled or forced to attend the visits.
    {¶58} Husband testified that though he currently has no relationship with his
    children, he wants to be able to show up at the marital home, knock on the door, tell the
    children he loves them, and leave. Pursuant to the visitation schedule established by the
    trial court, Husband can do this every other Sunday from 10:00 a.m to 4:00 p.m. and
    every other holiday from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. While the schedule is limited, it is not
    tantamount to no visitation at all. The trial court explained the rationale behind the limited
    visitation schedule and considered the appropriate factors in making its determination.
    {¶59} Husband argues the trial court erred in granting him less than standard
    Local Rule 19 visitation because Wife did not expressly object to this visitation. As noted
    above, we find the relevant inquiry is that of the best interest of the children and the trial
    court has the power to limit, restrict, or deny visitation altogether, regardless of whether
    the residential parent specifically objected to the standard visitation. Further, Poole made
    it clear that the children themselves objected to the standard Local Rule 19 visitation, as
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    he testified the children “made it clear they do not want to go with” Husband and the
    children are “adamant” about that.
    {¶60} Husband’s first assignment of error is overruled.
    II.
    {¶61} In his second assignment of error, Husband contends the trial court abused
    its discretion in awarding Wife spousal support of indefinite duration.
    {¶62} Husband argues there were no findings by the trial court to support spousal
    support of indefinite duration.    We disagree.        As discussed below, the trial court
    specifically cited and analyzed the relevant factors of R.C. 3105.18 in determining the
    amount and length of spousal support. We have previously held that the trial court need
    only set forth sufficient detail to enable a reviewing court to determine the appropriateness
    of the award. Hutta v. Hutta, 
    177 Ohio App.3d 414
    , 
    2008-Ohio-3756
    , 
    894 N.E.2d 1282
    (5th Dist.). We find there is sufficient detail in the trial court’s judgment entry to enable
    this Court to determine the appropriateness of the length and duration of the award.
    {¶63} In Hutta v. Hutta, 5th Dist. Delaware No. 10CAF0031, 
    2011-Ohio-3041
    , we
    noted that the Ohio Supreme Court’s opinion in Kunkle v. Kunkle, 
    51 Ohio St.3d 64
    , 
    554 N.E.2d 83
     (1990), does not stand for the proposition that permanent spousal support is
    mandated in marriages of long duration. However, “a marriage of long duration in and of
    itself would permit a trial court to award spousal support of indefinite duration without
    abusing its discretion or running afoul of the mandates of Kunkle.” 
    Id.
    {¶64} Husband contends that since the parties were not married twenty years and
    were only married nineteen years, it was not a “marriage of long duration” and thus
    indefinite spousal support was an abuse of discretion. We disagree. The trial court
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    specifically found the duration of the marriage was from June 7, 1997 to August 4, 2016.
    This is a period of nineteen years and fifty-eight days. This Court has previously found
    that in cases where the parties were married “almost twenty years” and the trial court
    retained jurisdiction over spousal support, the trial court did not abuse its discretion in
    awarding indefinite spousal support. Kraft v. Kraft, 5th Dist. Fairfield No. 08-CA-0039,
    
    2009-Ohio-5444
    .
    {¶65} This case is analogous to Kraft in that the parties were married almost
    twenty years and the trial court retained jurisdiction to modify or terminate the spousal
    support award and specifically noted that, as the children get older, there is the possibility
    that Wife could increase her income. Id.; see also Coward v. Coward, 5th Dist. Licking
    No. 15-CA-46, 
    2016-Ohio-670
     (stating the potential burden of a permanent spousal
    support order is ameliorated by the trial court’s retention of jurisdiction to review and/or
    modify the award). Additionally, throughout a majority of the marriage, Wife was a stay-
    at-home mother with only part-time jobs and the record reflects she had little opportunity
    to develop more than part-time employment opportunities outside the home due to her
    role as primary caregiver to the children. Keigley v. Keigley, 5th Dist. Fairfield No.15-CA-
    12, 
    2016-Ohio-180
    .
    {¶66} Accordingly, we find the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding
    Wife spousal support of indefinite duration. Husband’s second assignment of error is
    overruled.
    III.
    {¶67} In his third assignment of error, Husband argues the trial court erred in
    determining the amount of spousal support.
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    {¶68} Husband contends the trial court erred in awarding Wife $2,500 per month
    in spousal support. He argues the trial court did not justify its reasons for the amount of
    spousal support and that this amount will leave Husband with a monthly deficit.
    {¶69} R.C. 3105.18(C)(1) provides that a trial court may award spousal support
    when it is “appropriate and reasonable.” R.C. 3105.18(C)(1) sets forth the factors a trial
    court must consider in determining whether spousal support is appropriate and
    reasonable and in determining the nature, amount, and duration of spousal support.
    These factors include: (a) income of the parties, from all sources * * *; (b) the relative
    earning abilities of the parties; (c) the ages and the physical, mental, and emotional
    conditions of the parties; (d) the retirement benefits of the parties; (e) the duration of the
    marriage; (f) the extent to which it would be inappropriate for a party, because that party
    will be custodian of a minor child of the marriage, to seek employment outside the home;
    (g) the standard of living of the parties established during the marriage; (h) the relative
    extent of education of the parties; (i) the relative assets and liabilities of the parties; (l) the
    tax consequences, for each party, of an award of spousal support; and (m) the lost income
    capacity of either party that resulted from the party’s marital responsibilities.
    {¶70} We have previously held that a trial court need not acknowledge all
    evidence relative to each and every factor listed in R.C. 3105.18 and we may not assume
    that evidence was not considered. Hutta v. Hutta, 
    177 Ohio App.3d 414
    , 2008-Ohio-
    3756, 
    894 N.E.2d 1282
     (5th Dist.). The trial court need only set forth sufficient detail to
    enable a reviewing court to determine the appropriateness of the award. 
    Id.,
     citing
    Kaechele v. Kaechele, 
    35 Ohio St.3d 93
    , 
    518 N.E.2d 1197
     (1988). In this case, in its
    judgment entry, the trial court specifically stated it considered and reviewed the factors in
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    R.C. 3105.18. Additionally, the trial court listed each factor and the factual findings it
    considered when weighing those factors. Thus, we find there is sufficient detail to enable
    this Court to determine the appropriateness of the award.
    {¶71} Upon review of the record, we find no abuse of discretion in the trial court’s
    decision as to the amount of spousal support. The parties were married over nineteen
    years. Husband earns $98,000 per year and receives an average yearly bonus of $2,400.
    Wife earns $27,000 per year and is the primary caregiver for the children. The parties
    were living above their means prior to the separation. Both parties were questioned on
    their monthly expenses; Husband disputes the amounts in Wife’s proposed budget and
    Wife disputes the amounts in Husband’s proposed budget. The trier of fact is vested with
    the authority to weigh the evidence and assess the credibility of the witnesses in this
    regard. State v. DeHass, 
    10 Ohio St.2d 230
    , 
    227 N.E.2d 212
     (1967).
    {¶72} In addition, the trial court retained jurisdiction over the issue of spousal
    support as to the amount and the duration. The trial court specifically found that, as the
    children get older, full-time employment should be available to Wife in the next couple of
    years.    Thus, Husband can return to the trial court upon the proper motion should
    circumstances change. Dodson v. Dodson, 5th Dist. Stark No. 2001CA00327, 2002-
    Ohio-3091; Elder v. Elder, 5th Dist. Fairfield No. 2008-CA-74, 
    2009-Ohio-4868
    .
    {¶73} Husband also argues the trial court erred in awarding the amount of spousal
    support because it will cause his monthly expenses to exceed his income. However, as
    this Court has previously held, simply because spousal support creates a negative cash
    flow for one of the parties does not necessarily lead to a finding of an abuse of discretion.
    Daniels v. Daniels, 5th Dist. Muskingum No. CT2017-0002, 
    2017-Ohio-6976
    ; Compton v.
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    Compton, 5th Dist. Stark No. 2014CA00207, 
    2015-Ohio-4327
    . Further, a court must
    consider all statutory factors when making a spousal support award and not base its
    determination upon one factor taken in isolation. Kaechele v. Kaechele, 
    35 Ohio St.3d 93
    , 
    518 N.E.2d 1197
     (1988). This is just one factor the trial court could consider in making
    the determination as to spousal support.
    {¶74} Further, as noted above, each party disputed the other’s expenses post-
    divorce. However, the trier of fact is vested with the authority to weigh the evidence and
    assess the credibility of the witnesses regarding post-divorce expenses. State v. DeHass,
    
    10 Ohio St.2d 230
    , 
    227 N.E.2d 212
     (1967).            Upon review, we find the trial court
    appropriately considered the relevant factors in R.C. 3105.18, including the monthly
    income and expenses of each party.
    {¶75} Husband also contends the trial court’s finding that Wife was not voluntarily
    underemployed was an abuse of discretion. We disagree. Whether a party is “voluntarily
    underemployed” is a factual determination to be made by the trial court based upon the
    circumstances of each particular case. Rock v. Cabral, 
    67 Ohio St.3d 108
    , 
    616 N.E.2d 218
     (1993). There is no “magic language” requirement in deciding if an individual is
    voluntarily underemployed. Snyder v. Snyder, 5th Dist. Stark No. 2008CA00219, 2009-
    Ohio-5292. A determination with respect to these matters will only be reversed upon a
    showing of abuse of discretion.         
    Id.
       “In deciding if an individual is voluntarily
    underemployed, the court must determine not only whether the change was voluntary,
    but also whether it was made with due regard to the obligor’s income-producing abilities
    and his or her duty to provide for the continuing needs of the child.” Farrell v. Farrell, 5th
    Dist. Licking No. 2008-CA-0080, 
    2009-Ohio-1341
    .
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    {¶76} Husband argues that since Wife stipulated to Exhibit 50, the Vocational
    Report completed involving Wife, she stipulated to the opinion of the assessor that her
    earning capacity is $37,000. However, while Wife did stipulate that Exhibit 50 shall be
    admitted without objection as to admissibility, there is nothing in the record to show she
    stipulated to the result or opinion contained therein. Further, though Husband contends
    the trial court erred in not imputing the figure in the Vocational Report, the assessor in the
    report noted finding a full-time job in graphic design will take time and specifically noted
    “it will be up to someone besides this witness to decide how Mrs. Benschoter’s child care
    obligations affect her ability to do work whether in her home or outside.” Thus, the
    assessor did not take into consideration Wife’s child care obligations in reaching his
    result, whereas the trial court did.
    {¶77} We find the trial court did not abuse its discretion in failing to impute the
    additional $10,000 in income to Wife. Wife has not worked full-time for approximately
    fifteen years. She testified she lost her job before the parties’ second child was born and
    she then freelanced and stayed at home to take care of the children while Husband
    returned to work full-time. Wife stated the employment situation, “evolved that way, but
    was also by agreement.” Husband testified he wanted Wife to go back to work during the
    marriage, but acknowledged she has been a homemaker with a part-time job for about
    twelve years. Wife testified that since she has been out of the workplace for fifteen years,
    she probably would need to go back for some schooling, but currently does not have time
    because of the children’s’ schedules.
    {¶78} We find the trial court did not abuse its discretion in determining the amount
    of spousal support. Husband’s third assignment of error is overruled.
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    IV.
    {¶79} In his fourth assignment of error, Husband argues the trial court erred in
    failing to designate the 2016 child tax exemption as belonging to him. Wife agrees the
    trial court failed to designate which party can claim the children as dependents for tax
    purposes for 2016; however, she contends this court should designate the 2016 tax
    exemption as belonging to her.
    {¶80} Upon review of the judgment entry, the trial court did not allocate the 2016
    tax exemption. Husband asks this Court to “modify the judgment” to allocate the 2016
    tax exemption to him. We decline to do so, as pursuant to R.C. 3119.82, it is up to the
    trial court to make such a designation (“whenever a court issues * * * a child support order,
    it shall designate which parent may claim the children who are subject of the court child
    support order as dependents for federal income tax purposes * * *).
    {¶81} Accordingly, we sustain Husband’s fourth assignment of error in part and
    reverse and remand the case to the trial court to allocate the tax exemptions for 2016.
    V.
    {¶82} In his fifth assignment of error, Husband contends the trial court plainly
    erred when it failed to include the proper amount of the mortgage balance in the judgment
    entry spreadsheet.
    {¶83} In appeals of civil cases, the plain error doctrine is not favored and may be
    applied only in the extremely rare case involving exceptional circumstances where error
    seriously affects the basic fairness, integrity, or public reputation of the judicial process,
    thereby challenging the legitimacy of the underlying judicial process itself. Kell v. Russo,
    5th Dist. Stark No. 2011 CA 00082, 
    2012-Ohio-1286
    , citing Goldfuss v. Davidson, 79 Ohio
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    St.3d 116, 
    679 N.E.2d 1099
     (1997); Pratt v. Easton Technical Products, Inc., 5th Dist.
    Stark No. 2014CA00144, 
    2015-Ohio-3180
    . In Goldfuss, the Court explained that the
    doctrine should only be applied in extremely unusual circumstances where the error
    complained of, if left uncorrected, would have a material adverse effect on the character
    of and public confidence in the judicial proceedings. 
    79 Ohio St.3d 116
    , 
    679 N.E.2d 1099
    (1997).
    {¶84} Exhibit 43 provided the trial court with two values, the mortgage balance as
    of September 2015 and the mortgage balance as of July 2016. We find the trial court’s
    use of the value when the divorce was filed does not present exceptional circumstances
    that rise to the level of plain error, especially in a situation as in this case where traditional
    temporary spousal support was not ordered in a fixed amount, but where the monthly
    amount corresponded to expenses, including the home mortgage.
    {¶85} In his brief, Husband also asks this Court to modify the divorce decree to
    account for mortgage payments he made during the months between the time the trial
    ended and the trial court’s issuance of the divorce decree. However, Husband cites no
    legal authority in support of this proposition. Further, Husband did not make this argument
    to the trial court, either during trial or via a post-trial motion. Since he did not make this
    argument to the trial court, he has waived this argument of purposes of appeal. FirstMerit
    Bank, N.A. v. Shaheen, 5th Dist. Stark No. 2011CA00079, 
    2011-Ohio-6146
    .
    {¶86} Husband’s fifth assignment of error is overruled.
    Cross-Assignment of Error I.
    {¶87} In her first assignment of error, Wife contends the trial court erred in
    designating Husband as the person who may claim the children as dependents for federal
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    income tax purposes for 2017 and every year thereafter. Wife contends that the trial court
    did not make the appropriate determinations pursuant to R.C. 3119.82, but that the
    remedy is not to remand to the trial court for such consideration, but for this Court to
    reverse and remand with instructions to designate her as the person who may claim the
    children as dependents for 2017 and thereafter due to the presumption she has as the
    custodial parent. Husband concedes the trial court did not find the tax exemption is in the
    best interest of the children, but argues that evidence of such best interest was
    introduced, so the remedy is to remand for the trial court to expressly state its
    consideration of the statutory factors and state its finding as to best interest. We agree
    with Husband.
    {¶88} We review a trial court’s decision allocating tax exemptions for dependents
    under an abuse of discretion standard. Hughes v. Hughes, 
    35 Ohio St.3d 165
    , 
    518 N.E.2d 1213
     (1988). Thus, pursuant to Blakemore v. Blakemore, we must determine whether
    the trial court’s decision in awarding the tax exemptions to Husband was arbitrary,
    unconscionable, or unreasonable, and not merely an error of law or judgment. 
    5 Ohio St.3d 217
    , 
    450 N.E.2d 1140
     (1983). However, this discretion is both limited and guided
    by R.C. 3119.82. Thus, if the trial court allocates the tax exemptions to the non-custodial
    parent, it must find the interest of the child has been furthered and must consider any
    relevant factors concerning the best interest of the child in making such a decision. Doyle
    v. Metzer, 5th Dist. Stark No. 2015CA00002, 
    2015-Ohio-3738
    .
    {¶89} In this case, the trial court allocated the tax exemptions to Husband, the
    non-custodial parent. While the trial court did not expressly state it considered the factors
    in R.C. 3119.82 or that the allocation of exemptions was in the children’s best interest,
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    Husband did introduce evidence regarding best interest, such as testimony regarding the
    parties’ income, the relative financial circumstances of the parties, and the needs of the
    parents and children, along with extensive exhibits including previous tax returns, and
    paystubs from each party.
    {¶90} Accordingly, we reverse and remand the matter to the trial court to express
    its consideration as to the factors in R.C. 3119.82. Wife’s first assignment of error is
    sustained in part.
    Cross-Assignment of Error II.
    {¶91} In her second assignment of error, Wife contends the trial court erred in
    failing to reimburse her for one-half of the expenses the court ordered Husband alone to
    pay. Wife contends the magistrate ordered Husband to pay for counseling with “separate,
    non-marital funds” and that the trial court erred in not taking this into consideration in the
    equalization of the marital property.
    {¶92} In the 2015 magistrate’s order, the magistrate ordered the parties and
    children to engage in counseling.         The order provided, “any uninsured expenses
    associated with this counseling is to be paid by the plaintiff [Thomas].” Husband agrees
    he paid the counseling sessions from the Health Savings Account, which the trial court
    found he alone contributed to and is “marital in nature.” However, the magistrate’s
    temporary order does not order Husband to pay for counseling with separate, non-martial
    funds. Additionally, the trial court specifically found the division of property is “fair, just,
    equitable, and made in compliance with R.C. 3105.171.” We find the trial court did not
    abuse its discretion in this determination. See Cockerham v. Cockerham, 5th Dist. Licking
    No. 16-CA-88, 
    2017-Ohio-5563
    .
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    {¶93} Wife’s second assignment of error is overruled.
    Cross-Assignment of Error III.
    {¶94} In her third assignment of error, Wife argues the trial court erred in failing to
    order Husband to maintain the child as beneficiaries of the life insurance policies.
    Husband concedes this assignment of error.
    {¶95} Accordingly, Wife’s third assignment of error is sustained. We reverse and
    remand for the trial court to order Husband to maintain the children as the beneficiaries
    of the life insurance policies.
    Cross-Assignment of Error IV.
    {¶96} In her fourth assignment of error, Wife contends the trial court erred in
    vacating the November 10, 2015 temporary order that Husband pay her $1,600. Wife
    argues that, by vacating the temporary award, the trial court left her with little in the nature
    of support for July 2015 to November of 2015 when Husband began support payments
    to Wife. We disagree.
    {¶97} Husband testified that, prior to the issuance of the temporary orders by the
    magistrate in November of 2015, he paid the following: mortgage payment on the marital
    home, all utilities for the marital home, cell phone bills for himself, Wife, and the children,
    minimum credit card payments on two credit cards, and auto and health insurance
    premiums for himself, Wife, and children. Wife confirmed in her testimony that Husband
    paid these expenses from July of 2015 to November of 2015.
    {¶98} The trial court specifically noted that Husband fulfilled his child support
    obligation for these months prior to temporary child support being ordered by paying all
    household expenses. We find no abuse of discretion in this determination. Although not
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    specifically characterized as child support, Husband paying the aforementioned debts
    effectively provided Wife with temporary support and she was not denied child support
    for the first three months of the divorce action. Leister v. Leister, 5th Dist. Delaware No.
    97CA-F-07027, 
    1998 WL 751457
    . Accordingly, we find the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion in vacating the temporary order for Husband to pay Wife $1,600.
    {¶99} Wife’s fourth assignment of error is overruled.
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    {¶100} Based on the foregoing, we affirm in part and reverse and remand in part
    the April 7, 2017 judgment entry of the Licking County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic
    Relations Division. We reverse and remand in part for the trial court to: allocate the tax
    exemptions for 2016; express its consideration of the factors in R.C. 3119.82 as to the
    tax exemptions for 2017 and in subsequent years; and to order Husband to maintain the
    children as beneficiaries on the life insurance policies. The remainder of the April 7, 2017
    judgment entry is affirmed.
    By Gwin, P.J.,
    Wise, John, J., and
    Baldwin, J., concur