Sims v. Sims , 2020 ND 110 ( 2020 )


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  •                 Filed 6/2/20 by Clerk of Supreme Court
    IN THE SUPREME COURT
    STATE OF NORTH DAKOTA
    
    2020 ND 110
    Erica Lynn Sims,                                      Plaintiff and Appellant
    v.
    Larry David Sims,                                    Defendant and Appellee
    and
    State of North Dakota,                       Statutory Real Party in Interest
    No. 20190248
    Appeal from the District Court of Grand Forks County, Northeast Central
    Judicial District, the Honorable Jay D. Knudson, Judge.
    AFFIRMED IN PART, REVERSED IN PART, AND REMANDED.
    Opinion of the Court by Jensen, Chief Justice, in which Justices VandeWalle,
    Crothers, and Tufte joined. Justice McEvers filed an opinion concurring and
    dissenting.
    Kelsey L. Hankey, Grand Forks, ND, for plaintiff and appellant.
    Ward K. Johnson, Grand Forks, ND, for defendant and appellee; submitted on
    brief.
    Sims v. Sims
    No. 20190248
    Jensen, Chief Justice.
    [¶1] Erica Sims appeals from a judgment granting her a divorce from Larry
    Sims. She argues the district court’s parenting time decision is clearly
    erroneous, the court erred in determining the value of certain marital property,
    the court erred by failing to award her spousal support, and the court erred by
    ordering her to reimburse Larry Sims for half of the airfare he incurred related
    to missed parenting time.
    [¶2] We conclude the district court’s property valuations, parenting time, and
    spousal support decisions are not clearly erroneous. However, we also conclude
    the court erred by failing to include all of the parties’ stipulated terms related
    to the property distribution in the judgment without providing an explanation
    why the provisions were excluded, the court erred in determining the amounts
    Larry Sims was required to reimburse Erica Sims pursuant to the interim
    order, and the court abused its discretion by ordering a remedial contempt
    sanction without finding Erica Sims in contempt. We affirm in part, reverse
    in part, and remand.
    I
    [¶3] Erica and Larry Sims were married in 1999, and have two children
    together, GCS and DLS. The children were 17 and 14 years old at the time of
    the divorce trial. Erica Sims sued for divorce in December 2017.
    [¶4] In January 2018, Erica Sims moved for an interim order awarding her
    temporary primary residential responsibility for the children, ordering Larry
    Sims to pay child support, awarding her temporary possession of the marital
    home, ordering the marital expenses be divided, and requiring Larry Sims to
    pay spousal support. Larry Sims responded to the motion and agreed to most
    of Erica Sims’ requests, but he requested that neither party be awarded
    spousal support. He also stated that he was moving to California and asked
    for a downward departure in his child support obligation for parenting time
    travel expenses.
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    [¶5] After a hearing, the district court found the parties stipulated to interim
    primary residential responsibility for the children and joint decision making,
    occupation of the marital residence, and that each party would pay one-half of
    the mortgage payment. The court awarded Erica Sims temporary primary
    residential responsibility of the children and awarded Larry Sims six weeks of
    parenting time during the summer and parenting time during the school
    winter break. The court ordered Larry Sims to pay child support and all
    transportation costs for the children related to his parenting time. The court
    denied Erica Sims’ request for spousal support. The court ordered Erica Sims
    would have possession of the marital home and would be responsible for all
    ordinary maintenance and occupancy costs, but ordered the parties to be
    equally responsible for any extraordinary repairs and to pay half of the
    mortgage payment.
    [¶6] In June 2018, Larry Sims moved for an order to show cause, alleging
    Erica Sims violated the interim order by interfering with his summer
    parenting time. He requested the court order Erica Sims to reimburse him for
    the cost of the plane tickets for the children to fly to California and to pay his
    attorney’s fees related to the motion. The district court entered an order to
    show cause. After a hearing, the district court found Erica Sims willfully and
    intentionally disobeyed the order and denied Larry Sims’ right to parenting
    time. The court found Erica Sims was in contempt, ordered her to reimburse
    Larry Sims for the cost of the plane tickets, and amended the interim order to
    require the children to visit Larry Sims in California within a certain period of
    time and required Erica Sims to reimburse Larry Sims for half of the cost of
    the new plane tickets.
    [¶7] In August 2018, Erica Sims moved for an order to show cause, alleging
    Larry Sims violated the interim order by failing to pay one-half of the
    mortgage. Larry Sims responded to the motion and alleged he was financially
    unable to pay his half of the mortgage payment. The court denied the motion
    for an order to show cause, but found the interim order was clear and any
    refusal or deviation from either party’s obligation would be considered and
    resolved in the court’s final order.
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    [¶8] In December 2018, Larry Sims moved for an order to show cause. He
    alleged Erica Sims did not comply with the amended interim order because she
    failed to ensure the children were on the flight to California for his parenting
    time during winter break. He requested the court order Erica Sims to
    reimburse him for the cost of the plane tickets and that she pay his attorney’s
    fees for the motion. Erica Sims opposed the motion, arguing she did not
    disobey the order, she took the children to the airport and through security,
    but the children left while she was speaking to someone, and the children
    refused to get on the flight. The district court granted Larry Sims’ motion for
    an order to show cause and stated the issue would be heard during the divorce
    trial.
    [¶9] The parties filed a partial marital settlement agreement and parenting
    plan. The parties agreed Erica Sims would have primary residential
    responsibility for the children, subject to Larry Sims’ parenting time, Larry
    Sims would be solely responsible for all transportation costs for his parenting
    time, and he would receive a child support deviation for the transportation
    costs. They agreed to decision making responsibility for the children and the
    amount of Larry Sims’ child support obligation. They agreed on some of the
    property and debt distribution and agreed to the valuation date for their
    property and debts.
    [¶10] After a court trial on the remaining issues, the district court distributed
    the martial estate. The court awarded Erica Sims a net property award of
    $73,453.82, including the marital home. The court awarded Larry Sims a net
    property award of $6,583.16. The court denied Erica Sims’ request for spousal
    support. The court ordered Larry Sims to pay Erica Sims $4,015.10 for his
    share of the mortgage and auto loan payments pursuant to the interim order.
    The court awarded Erica Sims primary residential responsibility for the
    children, set a parenting time schedule, and ordered Larry Sims pay child
    support of $1,614 per month. The court found there was not sufficient evidence
    to find Erica Sims in contempt for violating the interim order related to
    parenting time, but ordered her to reimburse Larry Sims for half of the
    expenses for the missed parenting time. Judgment was entered.
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    II
    [¶11] Erica Sims argues the district court’s parenting time decision is clearly
    erroneous. She claims the court ignored significant evidence that was
    favorable to her and detrimental to Larry Sims, her testimony was
    corroborated by testimony from the children and the children’s therapists, and
    the record does not support the court’s findings.
    [¶12] A district court’s parenting time decision is a finding of fact subject to
    the clearly erroneous standard of review. Dick v. Erman, 
    2019 ND 54
    , ¶ 12,
    
    923 N.W.2d 137
    . A finding of fact is clearly erroneous if it is induced by an
    erroneous view of the law, there is no evidence to support it, or if on the entire
    record we are left with a definite and firm conviction a mistake has been made.
    Id. at ¶
    6. In awarding parenting time, the best interests of the child are
    paramount.
    Id.
    at ¶
    12. Parenting time with the non-custodial parent is
    presumed to be in the child’s best interest and is a right of the child.
    Id. [¶13] Extended
    parenting time with a fit non-custodial parent is routinely
    awarded if the child is old enough, absent a reason for denying it. Dick, 
    2019 ND 54
    , ¶ 13, 
    923 N.W.2d 137
    . But a non-custodial parent’s parenting time
    may be limited or eliminated if it is likely to endanger the child’s physical or
    emotional health. Rustad v. Baumgartner, 
    2018 ND 268
    , ¶ 8, 
    920 N.W.2d 465
    .
    “[A] restriction on visitation must be based on a preponderance of the evidence
    and be accompanied by a detailed demonstration of the physical or emotional
    harm likely to result from visitation.”
    Id. (quoting Wolt
    v. Wolt, 
    2010 ND 26
    ,
    ¶ 38, 
    778 N.W.2d 786
    ).
    [¶14] Erica Sims argued the children were emotionally harmed by parenting
    time with Larry Sims and requested parenting time be suspended until the
    children were ready to resume visiting their father. She claimed Larry Sims
    was responsible for the deterioration of his relationship with the children, he
    consistently placed the children in the middle of the divorce conflict, and both
    children experienced physical and mental health problems from the stress and
    anxiety triggered by their father. She alleged the children’s therapists
    recommended Larry Sims’ parenting time be suspended until he could show
    progress in understanding the children’s emotional and mental well-being and
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    the children feel comfortable seeing him, and the children were clear that they
    cannot have any parenting time with their father at this time. Larry Sims
    argued Erica Sims was alienating the children from him, and he requested
    “standard parenting time” including extended parenting time during the
    summer and winter break.
    [¶15] The district court considered the testimony from the children’s
    therapists, the children, Erica Sims, and Larry Sims. The court found Erica
    Sims’ testimony about the children’s relationship with Larry Sims was not
    “fully honest,” she had previously been found in contempt for failing to comply
    with the interim parenting time order, and she did not take any responsibility
    for the breakup of the marriage and the difficulty of the continuing relationship
    between the children and their father. The children testified they do not want
    to visit their father. DLS testified it was too hard to be away from her mother’s
    home for the summer, but DLS was told she could go to France during the
    summer for three months, the court stated it was hard to comprehend how DLS
    had such anxiety she could not go to California for a few weeks to see her father
    but could travel to a foreign country without parental supervision for three
    months, and the court stated it indicated the testimony about the girls not
    being emotionally able to spend time with their father was not entirely
    truthful. The court found the therapists did not have an opportunity to
    consider all of the circumstances of the case, Erica Sims did not fully support
    a relationship between the children and their father, the children’s testimony
    appeared to be contrived, and the divorce was having a profound effect on the
    children. The court found law enforcement conducted a welfare check at Larry
    Sims’ house during his parenting time and found nothing inappropriate was
    happening, Larry Sims took the children to do different activities and to visit
    places in California as the children requested, and he “truly seems to want to
    be able to continue, or to rebuild, . . . the relationship between him and [the
    children].” The court found parenting time with Larry Sims was not likely to
    endanger the children’s physical or emotional health and parenting time was
    appropriate.
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    [¶16] The district court found the testimony from Erica Sims, the children, and
    the children’s therapists was not credible, explaining:
    With all due respect to the opinion of [the children’s
    therapists], the Court notes that their opinions are based primarily
    on the information given to them by the children and their
    experiences with the children. Earlier in this case, the therapists
    wrote letters indicating that it would be appropriate for the girls
    to have a two week visit with Larry instead of a four week visit.
    Now they recommend no visit. They clearly want what is best for
    the children, but it is apparent to the Court that they have not
    been given the opportunity to consider all the circumstances in this
    case. It appears to the Court that Erica, despite outward
    appearances, is not fully supporting a relationship between Larry
    and the girls. The Court has previously found her in contempt in
    this case for not following through with parenting time clearly
    directed in the Interim Order. The Court does not find the
    testimony of the girls to be particularly forthcoming, and, in fact,
    it appears that much of the testimony, including the crying, was
    contrived. The Court is cognizant that the girls are going through
    a very difficult time right now, given the breakup of the family.
    There is no doubt, absolutely none, that what is happening
    between their parents is having a profound effect on the children.
    However, the Court simply does not come to the conclusion that
    parenting time with their father is likely to endanger the children’s
    physical or emotional health. Parenting time between Larry and
    the children is appropriate. It is also appropriate at the same time
    to craft a parenting time plan that takes into account the
    emotional state and the emotional needs of the children.
    [¶17] The district court ordered Larry Sims have parenting time one weekend
    each month in North Dakota during the school year at his discretion and with
    30-days’ notice. The court ordered Larry Sims have extended parenting time
    at his home during the summer starting two weeks after school is finished and
    ending three weeks before the start of school. The court also set a schedule for
    holiday parenting time.
    [¶18] “Findings of fact . . . whether based on oral or other evidence, must not
    be set aside unless clearly erroneous, and the reviewing court must give due
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    regard to the trial court’s opportunity to judge the witnesses’ credibility.”
    N.D.R.Civ.P. 52(a)(6). We do not reweigh the evidence or reassess the
    witnesses’ credibility. Conzemius v. Conzemius, 
    2014 ND 5
    , ¶ 6, 
    841 N.W.2d 716
    . “A choice between two permissible views of the weight of the evidence is
    not clearly erroneous, and our deferential review is especially applicable for a
    difficult child custody decision involving two fit parents.” Thomas v. Thomas,
    
    2020 ND 18
    , ¶ 4, 
    937 N.W.2d 554
    (quoting Dickson v. Dickson, 
    2018 ND 130
    ,
    ¶ 7, 
    912 N.W.2d 321
    ).
    [¶19] The district court found parenting time with Larry Sims is not likely to
    endanger the children’s physical or emotional health. Evidence exists in the
    record to support the court’s findings. Our case law is clear, we will not retry
    the case or substitute our judgment for the district court’s decision merely
    because we might have reached a different result. Carlson v. Carlson, 
    2020 ND 36
    , ¶ 6, 
    938 N.W.2d 413
    . We conclude the court’s parenting time decision
    is not clearly erroneous.
    III
    [¶20] Erica Sims raises several issues with the district court’s property
    distribution, including that the court’s valuation of the marital property is
    clearly erroneous and that the court failed to include some of the terms of the
    parties’ partial settlement agreement.
    [¶21] The district court must include all marital assets and debts in the
    marital estate and then equitably divide the property after applying the Ruff-
    Fischer guidelines. Lizakowski v. Lizakowski, 
    2019 ND 177
    , ¶ 7, 
    930 N.W.2d 609
    . A court’s property valuation and distribution are findings of fact, which
    will not be reversed unless they are clearly erroneous.
    Id. at ¶
    6; Lee v. Lee,
    
    2019 ND 142
    , ¶ 6, 
    927 N.W.2d 104
    . “A choice between two permissible views
    of the evidence is not clearly erroneous if the district court’s findings are based
    either on physical or documentary evidence, or inferences from other facts, or
    on credibility determinations.” Lee, at ¶ 6 (quoting Hoverson v. Hoverson, 
    2001 ND 124
    , ¶ 13, 
    629 N.W.2d 573
    ). The court’s valuation depends on the evidence
    the parties present, and this Court presumes the court’s valuations are correct.
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    Lee, at ¶ 6. A property valuation within the range of evidence is not clearly
    erroneous.
    Id. at ¶
    9.
    A
    [¶22] Erica Sims argues the district court erred in determining the household
    goods had a value of $2,000. She contends that property was already divided
    in the parties’ stipulation and she testified the property was worn down and in
    disrepair.
    [¶23] The parties’ testimony about the value of the household goods was
    conflicting. Erica Sims testified all of the furniture was falling apart or torn
    and that she did not think it was in good enough condition that it could be sold
    at a garage sale. Larry Sims testified the household goods were worth $15,000.
    [¶24] The parties stipulated to the division of the household goods, but district
    court’s valuation was necessary to decide an equitable distribution. The court
    explained there was limited evidence about the value of the property and
    $2,000 was the most reasonable value. We conclude the court’s valuation is
    within the range of evidence and is not clearly erroneous.
    B
    [¶25] Erica Sims argues the court’s valuations of Larry Sims’ tools, guns, and
    hunting and fishing gear; her horse tack; and her tools, guns, and bow are
    clearly erroneous. She claims the evidence supported the valuations she
    proposed for these assets.
    [¶26] The parties presented conflicting testimony on the valuation of the
    assets. The district court’s choice between two permissible views of the
    evidence is not clearly erroneous. Lee, 
    2019 ND 142
    , ¶ 6, 
    927 N.W.2d 104
    . The
    court’s valuations were within the range of evidence presented at trial.
    [¶27] This Court is not left with a definite and firm conviction a mistake has
    been made. We conclude the district court’s valuations of these assets were
    not clearly erroneous.
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    C
    [¶28] Erica Sims argues the district court erred when it did not consider or
    include various terms from the parties’ partial marital settlement agreement
    in the judgment. She contends the parties stipulated to include an
    indemnification clause necessary to protect her interest in Larry Sims’ military
    retirement and that Larry Sims would continue coverage for her as a former
    spouse under his Survivor Benefit Plan.
    [¶29] The relevant portion of the stipulation states:
    Erica shall be awarded a percentage of Larry’s disposable
    military retired pay, to be computed by multiplying fifty (50)
    percent times a fraction, the numerator of which is nineteen (19)
    years of marriage during Larry’s creditable military service,
    divided by Larry’s total number of years of creditable military
    service. Larry served for a total of twenty-[one] (21) years,
    therefore, Erica shall receive 1/2 x (19/21) = 45% of Larry’s
    disposable retired pay. Larry will take no action that would reduce
    Erica’s share of his military retired pay and indemnifying Erica of
    any reduction. Larry will elect to continue coverage for Erica as a
    former spouse under his Survivor Benefit Plan and she will be
    named as the beneficiary of the Survivor Benefit Plan. Any cost of
    the Survivor Benefit Plan will be deducted from Erica’s monthly
    payment. This paragraph may be changed by the decision of the
    Court regarding Erica’s federal retirement earned during the
    marriage. (The language lined out above was lined out prior to
    submission to the district court.)
    [¶30] The district court included the first two sentences of this paragraph from
    the settlement agreement in the judgment, but it did not include any of the
    remaining terms. The court did not provide any explanation for not including
    the rest of the parties’ stipulation.
    [¶31] This Court has “encouraged parties to reach peaceful settlements of
    disputes in divorce matters because there is ‘strong public policy favoring
    prompt and peaceful resolution of divorce disputes.’” Vann v. Vann, 
    2009 ND 118
    , ¶ 12, 
    767 N.W.2d 855
    (quoting Knutson v. Knutson, 
    2002 ND 29
    , ¶ 8, 
    639 N.W.2d 495
    ). We have said “To the extent that competent parties have
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    voluntarily stipulated to a particular disposition of their marital property, a
    court ordinarily should not decree a distribution of property that is inconsistent
    with the parties’ contract.” Eberle v. Eberle, 
    2009 ND 107
    , ¶ 15, 
    766 N.W.2d 477
    (quoting Kramer v. Kramer, 
    2006 ND 64
    , ¶ 6, 
    711 N.W.2d 164
    ).
    [¶32] The district court excluded some of the terms of the parties’ settlement
    agreement without explanation. We reverse the court’s property distribution
    and remand for the court to include the stipulated provisions in the judgment
    or to provide an explanation why these terms were not included.
    IV
    [¶33] Erica Sims argues the district court erred in the amounts it ordered
    Larry Sims to pay for the mortgage payment and household repairs pursuant
    to the interim order.
    [¶34] In the March 8, 2018 interim order, the district court ordered Erica Sims
    would be responsible for all ordinary maintenance and occupancy costs of the
    marital home, and “[t]he parties shall be equally responsible for any
    extraordinary repairs, and any disputes as to this characterization can be
    addressed at the trial and considered in asset or equity allocation.” The court
    also ordered, “Each party shall pay one-half of the mortgage payment on or
    before the due date, beginning with the next payment following entry of this
    Interim Order.” The court ordered Larry Sims to pay an F-250 truck loan.
    [¶35] At the time of the trial, the parties agreed they were equally responsible
    for $6,246.13 in home maintenance and repairs pursuant to the interim order.
    However, the parties did not agree on the amounts Larry Sims was required
    to pay for his share of the mortgage under the interim order. Erica Sims
    claimed Larry Sims owed $5,429.70, and Larry Sims claimed he owed $3,600.
    Erica Sims testified Larry Sims was supposed to be paying half of the monthly
    mortgage payment, but he did not make any payments after May 2018. Larry
    Sims testified he initially paid half of the mortgage but he stopped paying his
    half after May 2018 because he could not afford to pay both the mortgage
    payment and tax debt. He testified it was necessary for him to pay off the tax
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    debt to maintain his security clearance and keep his job. He testified he paid
    all but $3,600 for his half of the mortgage.
    [¶36] The district court found each party was responsible for paying half of the
    mortgage for nine months under the terms of the interim order, the mortgage
    payment was $1,206.60 per month, Larry Sims did not make any mortgage
    payments after May 2018, and Larry Sims is responsible for reimbursing Erica
    Sims $3,600 for his half of the missed mortgage payments. The court said it
    would not include the $3,600 for the missed payments in the property
    distribution because Larry Sims was responsible to pay that amount while the
    litigation was pending. The court ordered Larry Sims to reimburse Erica Sims
    $3,600 for the missed mortgage payments within one hundred eighty days of
    the notice of entry of judgment. The court also found Larry Sims was
    responsible for paying a F-250 truck loan pursuant to the interim order, he did
    not make all of the required payments on the loan, and Erica Sims incurred
    $415.10 in costs for payments on the loan. The court ordered Larry Sims to
    reimburse Erica Sims for the auto loan payments. The court did not separately
    address the home repairs, but ordered:
    Larry shall pay to Erica the amount to reimburse her for costs due
    to her under the Interim Order. The amount due is $4,015.10.
    This payment will relieve him of his obligations pursuant to the
    Interim Order in this action, to include, his share of the mortgage
    payment and the household repairs, and his obligation to pay for
    the F-250 truck payment.
    [¶37] Erica Sims argues the district court erred in determining the amount
    Larry Sims was required to pay to reimburse her for his half of the mortgage.
    She contends Larry Sims is responsible for half of the mortgage payment for
    the months of June through December, for a total of $4,223.10. The district
    court found Larry Sims was responsible for half of the $1,206.60 mortgage
    payment pursuant to the interim order and he did not make any payments
    after May 2018. The evidence supports the court’s finding. However, half of
    the mortgage is $603.30, the trial was held in December 2018, and the court
    found Larry Sims did not make any mortgage payments after May 2018.
    Under the terms of the interim order, Larry Sims was required to pay
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    $4,223.10 for his half of the mortgage for the months of June through December
    2018.
    [¶38] Erica Sims also argues the district court erred by failing to order Larry
    Sims to pay half of the household repairs pursuant to the interim order. Both
    parties agreed in their joint property and debt listing that they were equally
    responsible for $6,246.13 in home maintenance and repairs pursuant to the
    interim order. The court ordered Larry Sims to pay Erica Sims $4,015.10 to
    reimburse her for the costs due under the interim order, including his share of
    the mortgage payment and household repairs and his obligation to pay for the
    F-250 truck payment. The total amount the court determined Larry Sims was
    required to pay under the interim order did not include any amount for the
    household repairs. The court did not provide an explanation for not ordering
    Larry Sims to pay any portion of the household repairs.
    [¶39] We conclude the district court erred in calculating the amount Larry
    Sims was required to reimburse Erica Sims for the mortgage payments and by
    failing to require any reimbursement of the costs of the household repairs,
    absent an explanation of why the court ordered a lesser amount. We reverse
    and remand for the court to order Larry Sims to pay half of the household
    repairs as required under the terms of the interim order and to include the full
    amount Larry Sims was required to pay for half of the mortgage payment, or
    to provide an explanation of why it ordered a lesser amount.
    V
    [¶40] Erica Sims argues the district court erred by failing to award her spousal
    support. She claims the court did not consider the standard of living
    established during the marriage, the disparity in earning capacity, her
    foregone opportunities and contributions to Larry Sims’ earning ability, and
    the unequal burdens the divorce created upon the parties.
    [¶41] The district court’s decision about spousal support is a finding of fact,
    subject to the clearly erroneous standard of review. Tarver v. Tarver, 
    2019 ND 189
    , ¶ 15, 
    931 N.W.2d 187
    . The court may award spousal support under
    N.D.C.C. § 14-05-24.1 after taking the parties’ circumstances into
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    consideration. “The court must consider the needs of the spouse seeking
    support and the ability of the other spouse to pay.” Tarver, at ¶ 15. The court
    must also consider the Ruff-Fischer factors, which include:
    [T]he respective ages of the parties, their earning ability, the
    duration of the marriage and conduct of the parties during the
    marriage, their station in life, the circumstances and necessities of
    each, their health and physical condition, their financial
    circumstances as shown by the property owned at the time, its
    value at the time, its income-producing capacity, if any, whether
    accumulated before or after the marriage, and such other matters
    as may be material.
    Id. [¶42] The
    district court made findings about the Ruff-Fischer factors, Erica
    Sims’ need for spousal support, and Larry Sims’ ability to pay. The court found
    Erica Sims is currently employed close to full-time, her annual pay from
    employment is at least $37,123.94, she receives $1,278 per month in military
    disability, she has four college degrees including a master’s degree, she will
    receive $1,614 per month in child support, and $1,013 per month of Larry Sims’
    military retirement. The court found Erica Sims has the ability to work full
    time and increase her monthly income, she will immediately receive a portion
    of Larry Sims’ retirement, she will have the retirement accounts in her name,
    and she is receiving the majority of the value of the marital estate. The court
    found Erica Sims sacrificed her military career and some of her earning ability,
    but her sacrifice was mitigated by the fact that she earned multiple educational
    degrees during the marriage. The court found Erica Sims alleged $6,100 in
    monthly living expenses, she has a monthly income of $5,487.82 but it would
    be higher if she worked full time, and that she would be able to fully cover her
    monthly expenses if she worked full time. The court found Larry Sims’
    monthly income after the divorce will be $7,618.46 and his expenses will be
    approximately $4,775. The court concluded, “Based on the financial needs of
    the parties and their ability to pay, and also based on the distribution of the
    value of marital estate, the Court finds neither party needs spousal support
    and no spousal support will be awarded.”
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    [¶43] Evidence in the record supports the district court’s findings.
    We conclude the court’s spousal support decision is not clearly erroneous.
    VI
    [¶44] Erica Sims argues the district court erred by ordering her to reimburse
    Larry Sims for the transportation costs associated with his missed parenting
    time.
    [¶45] Larry Sims requested that the court hold Erica Sims in contempt for
    failing to ensure the children were on a flight so he could exercise his parenting
    time in California and that she reimburse him for the cost of the plane tickets.
    The district court found there was not sufficient evidence to find Erica Sims in
    contempt and the testimony indicated Erica Sims put the children on the plane
    to travel to California and the children snuck off on their own accord. The
    court further found, “However, as a result, it is also not appropriate for Larry
    to bear the full cost of the visitation expenses for visits with the children that
    never happened, regardless of whether or not the children were behind the
    denial of parenting time.” The court ordered Erica Sims to reimburse Larry
    Sims for half of the expense of the missed parenting time.
    [¶46] “Contempt of court” includes the “[i]ntentional disobedience, resistance,
    or obstruction of the authority, process, or order of a court[.]” N.D.C.C. § 27-
    10-01.1(1)(c). Under N.D.C.C. § 27-10-01.4(1), a court may impose a remedial
    sanction for contempt, including the payment of an amount sufficient to
    compensate a party for a loss or injury suffered as a result of the contempt,
    including an amount to reimburse the party for costs or expenses incurred as
    a result of the contempt. “The determination whether a contempt has been
    committed and remedial sanctions are warranted lies within the sound
    discretion of the trial court, and its decision will not be overturned on appeal
    unless there is a clear abuse of discretion.” Kautzman v. Kautzman, 
    2002 ND 118
    , ¶ 8, 
    647 N.W.2d 684
    (quoting Harger v. Harger, 
    2002 ND 76
    , ¶ 14, 
    644 N.W.2d 182
    ). The court abuses its discretion when it acts in an arbitrary,
    unreasonable, or unconscionable manner, or it misinterprets or misapplies the
    law. Cook v. Cook, 
    2020 ND 11
    , ¶ 5, 
    937 N.W.2d 286
    .
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    [¶47] The district court found there was not sufficient evidence to find Erica
    Sims in contempt. The interim order states Larry Sims “is responsible for all
    transportation costs for the children related to his parenting time.” The court
    imposed a remedial sanction by ordering Erica Sims to pay half of the costs of
    the plane tickets for the missed parenting time.
    [¶48] We conclude the district court abused its discretion by imposing a
    remedial contempt sanction after finding Larry Sims failed to prove Erica Sims
    was in contempt. We reverse the district court’s order.
    VII
    [¶49] Erica Sims argues the district court abused its discretion by ordering her
    to reimburse Larry Sims for transportation costs if the children do not comply
    with the ordered parenting time in the future.
    [¶50] The district court allocated parenting time costs, ordering:
    Larry shall be solely responsible for all costs and providing
    transportation for his parenting time. Larry is receiving a child
    support deviation based upon him being solely responsible for
    transportation costs. Should Erica or the children not comply with
    the parenting time as ordered, Erica shall reimburse Larry for the
    full cost any transportation related expenses associated with the
    parenting time within seven (7) days. This section does not
    preclude Larry from seeking an order to show cause with the Court
    for violations of the Judgment.
    [¶51] Erica Sims argues the district court’s order imposes a remedial contempt
    sanction for future acts without notice and a hearing. However, the court did
    not order a remedial sanction for future contempt. The court allocated future
    transportation costs for parenting time dependent upon whether the ordered
    parenting time occurs. It is not an abuse of discretion for a court to allocate
    parenting time expenses dependent upon whether the children actually visit.
    We conclude the court did not abuse its discretion.
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    VIII
    [¶52] We have considered the remaining issues and arguments and conclude
    they are either unnecessary to our decision or are without merit. We affirm
    the judgment in part, reverse in part, and remand.
    [¶53] Jon J. Jensen, C.J.
    Jerod E. Tufte
    Gerald W. VandeWalle
    Daniel J. Crothers
    McEvers, Justice, concurring and dissenting.
    [¶54] I agree with the majority in sections I through VI. For the reasons set
    forth below, I respectfully dissent in regard to section VII.
    [¶55] As noted by the majority in section III(C), the parties stipulated to
    various terms in a marital settlement agreement. Majority, at ¶ 28. One of
    the terms stipulated to was child support, which included “a deviation for
    transportation costs to exercise [Larry Sims’] parenting time.” The stipulation
    further provided under a transportation provision that “Larry shall be solely
    responsible for all costs and providing transportation for his parenting time.
    Larry is receiving a child support deviation based upon him being solely
    responsible for transportation costs.” The district court incorporated the terms
    of the stipulation into the judgment under its “child support” provision, but
    effectively changed the terms of the stipulation by adding the following
    transportation provision:
    Should Erica or the children not comply with the parenting time
    as ordered, Erica shall reimburse Larry for the full cost [of] any
    transportation related expenses associated with the parenting
    time within seven (7) days. This section does not preclude Larry
    from seeking an order to show cause with the Court for violations
    of the Judgment.
    [¶56] Similar to the majority’s discussion in section III(C), the district court
    included portions of the stipulation and then modified the transportation
    provision without an explanation. Majority, at ¶ 30. Here, it appears the court
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    is attempting to provide a sanction for a prospective contempt, based on the
    previous experience where the children deliberately “snuck off” at the airport
    to avoid visiting their father. As noted in section VI of the majority opinion,
    Erica Sims was not found in contempt for this action. Majority, at ¶ 45.
    Similar to the conclusion on the contempt issue, the court abused its discretion
    in modifying the terms of the stipulation without an explanation, and
    effectively imposed a prospective sanction without a finding of contempt.
    Should the children decide to “sneak off” again, Erica Sims will be paying for
    that indiscretion twice, first by having the agreed upon deviation reduce the
    child support she receives and then by having to reimburse Larry Sims for
    travel expenses he stipulated to pay.
    [¶57] I would reverse and remand the district court’s allocation of
    transportation for parenting time expenses.
    [¶58] Lisa Fair McEvers
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