Hawn v. Hawn , 8 Ark. App. 69 ( 1983 )

Tom Glaze, Judge.

In this appeal, the sole issue is whether the trial court erred in denying appellant visitation with his thirteen-year-old daughter. The trial court also denied visitation to the child’s grandparents, who had intervened but chose not to appeal.

Herbert Hawn and Betty Hawn were divorced October 27,1980. By temporary order on February 26,1980, Betty was awarded custody of their daughter, Rita, and Herbert was granted visitation every other weekend. On March 19, 1980, the court modified its order and required Herbert’s sister to be present continuously during visitation. On May 12,1980, the court ordered that visitation cease, pending further orders of the court. On October 23,1980, the parties signed a property settlement agreement which resolved all matters, including custody, visitation and support. On October 27, 1980, Herbert took an uncontested divorce, and the court approved and made the parties’ agreement a part of its decree. The part of the decree relevant to the issue here is that the parties stipulated that the “court shall determine plaintiff’s (Herbert’s) visitation privileges with the minor child subsequent to this decree at the request of [his] attorney and without further hearings on the matter unless the court so orders.” The decree further provided that the “defendant (Betty) has agreed as a part of the consideration for the property settlement agreement not to seek child support and none is set by this court.”

Prior to the divorce, Betty and Rita moved to Texas to live. One month after the divorce, Herbert filed a motion with the court requesting visitation with his daughter. On October 1,1981, the paternal grandparents filed a motion to intervene, requesting that they be allowed visitation with their grandchild. On December 22, 1981, the Court heard testimony on the respective motions and denied visitation to Herbert and the grandparents.

At the hearing, the evidence was undisputed that Herbert previously had a drinking problem which led in part to the dissolution of the parties’ marriage. Herbert’s drinking also led to the court’s earlier orders restricting and denying his visitation rights with Rita. But Herbert also testified that he had quit drinking, and other witnesses presented testimony in support of his claim of sobriety.

The chancellor appeared to believe Herbert’s testimony, because the judge found that Herbert was an alcoholic, but “he (Herbert) amended that.” However, the chancellor voiced reservations about the resumption of vistation because of events which had occurred before Herbert became a recovered alcoholic. The judge noted that the problems that arose during the period in which Herbert drank were the reasons Rita did not want to visit her father.

In his findings, the chancellor made no mention of the conflicting psychiatric testimony offered by the respective parties. For instance, Dr. B. Travis Tunnell’s opinion was that the father’s visitation would be detrimental to Rita, while Dr. Brad Williams opined that Herbert and the grandparents should have contact with her. Tunnell’s testimony basically covered the family problems that existed before the parties’ divorce. Among other things, he related that Rita had witnessed fights between her mother and father. He also observed that Rita had experienced nightmares and headaches which subsided after Herbert’s visitation rights were terminated.

Except for Rita, Betty gave the only other testimony in support of terminating visitation. She testified that before the divorce Herbert had made Rita stand at attention as a disciplinary measure and had kept her up late working on a math problem. She conceded, however, that he never physically harmed their daughter. She further testified that Herbert took the time to play with Rita and had a good relationship with her. But since their move to Texas, Betty admitted that she had not encouraged Rita to visit her father. In fact, Betty testified that she had an unlisted telephone number which she would not give Herbert because she did not want him to contact Rita.

From our de novo review of the record, we find the evidence to be largely undisputed — excepting the opinions given by the parties and the psychiatrists on the ultimate visitation issue. The facts underlying those opinions are essentially the same. In sum, because of Herbert’s drinking problem and fights with his wife, his visitation rights were eventually terminated by the court. Since the divorce, no violence has occurred between the parties, and Herbert has quit drinking. At least, he had experienced ten months of sobriety immediately prior to the December 22 trial. Rita had evidenced her love for her father before and after her parents divorced, but her desire to reestablish a relationship has waned since her move to Texas. She presently expresses an unwillingness to visit her father or grandparents.

Because the chancellor terminated all visitation rights in this case, we have made every effort to fairly summarize (and detail where necessary) all the relevant facts, especially those which serve to support the court’s decision. From our review of the Arkansas appellate cases on the subject, the Supreme Court has on only one occasion affirmed a trial court’s denial of a parent’s visitation rights. Lumpkin v. Gregory, 262 Ark. 561, 559 S.W.2d 151 (1977). In Lumpkin, the Supreme Court found the father forfeited his rights because he (1) made no support payments; (2) refused to bring his son home after visits, and he beat up appellee when she went to pick up the child; (3) took the child to a pool hall; and (4) exposed himself to appellee’s teenage sister during his marriage to appellee. Most of the father’s acts in Lumpkin occurred after the parties’ divorce, and the acts were flagrant violations of the rights of the child and his mother. Even so, the Supreme Court left the father’s right to visitation open upon a future showing of changed circumstances.

Except for the Lumpkin decision, the Supreme Court and this Court have decided cases in which the termination of visitation was sought on appeal or ordered by the trial court; in each instance, the courts have upheld the parent’s right to visitation. Welch v. Welch, 5 Ark. App. 289, 635 S.W.2d 303 (1982) (Court reversed denial of visitation to mother during summer months when father had custody of child); Lewis v. Lewis, 260 Ark. 691, 543 S.W.2d 222 (1976) (Court reversed trial court’s denial of visitation to father who espoused religion to child and the mother); McCourtney v. McCourtney, 205 Ark. 111, 168 S.W.2d 200 (1943) (Court reversed trial court’s order granting father visitation upon written permission of mother); Lockhart v. Lockhart, 143 Ark. 276, 220 S.W. 44 (1920) (Court reversed the trial court’s denial of visitation to the mother whom father had divorced on grounds of adultery); DeReitmatter v. DeReitmatter, 75 Ark. 193, 87 S.W. 118 (1905) (Court affirmed decree awarding custody to mother because father was cruel and a drunk — even so, it upheld the court’s order permitting the father visitation after a showing that he had quit drinking); and Haley v. Haley, 44 Ark. 429 (1884) (Court affirmed visitation given to mother charged with immorality).

Undoubtedly, there are cases in which circumstances warrant the termination of a parent’s visitation rights. However, such action is a drastic one which our trial courts have cautiously employed and which our appellate courts have critically reviewed.

In the instant case, the chancellor’s decision to end Herbert’s visitation rights during the pendency of the parties’ divorce is not questioned. Following the divorce, however, Herbert has evidenced no violence toward Betty, and he had stopped drinking for ten months. Herbert appears to have resolved the two main problems that led to his divorce from Betty and severance from his daughter. Any other circumstances that might impede his efforts to be with Rita are matters over which he has no control. For example, Betty’s negative attitude toward Herbert and his relationship (or lack thereof) with Rita have only grown worse since the divorce; the same can be said for Rita’s perspective of her father. Presented with these circumstances, we perceive no steps that Herbert might take to regain his rights to see his child. For this reason, we are compelled to reverse the chancellor’s decision on the evidence as it existed on December 22.

In reversing, we recognize the conundrum in which the chancellor found himself when faced with a thirteen-year-old child who unequivocally stated she does not want to visit her father. Too, we recognize the chancellor’s concern over the father’s past conduct and its effect on the child. However, we are encouraged by the fact that Rita expressed that she loved her father and recanted that love only after having no contact with him for two years. The father expresses his love for his daughter and ostensibly has taken the necessary steps to, once again, establish a relationship with her. We also find solace in the testimony of Dr. Williams, who recommended that Rita have contact with her father, consistent with Dr. Williams’ testimony, Dr. Tunnell told the chancellor that severed relations [between a parent and child] are better healed than left severed even if the child is unwilling. Prior to this opinion, Tunnell had expressed his belief that Rita should have no contact with her father. His belief, however, was based on the misconception that appellee willingly had no contact with his daughter for eighteen months — a factor he indicated caused Rita to believe her father did not want to see her. Tunnell stated this lack of contact by the appellant evidenced no love and affection. However, on cross-examination, Tunnell said that he was unaware that the child’s telephone number was never given the father. In fact, as noted earlier, Rita’s mother had an unlisted number because she did not want appellant to have any telephone contact with his daughter. In sum, appellant was given no visitation privileges by the court nor was it possible for him to call his daughter.

Obviously, circumstances can and do change. Accordingly, we will not assume what has occurred, if anything, between the parties since the December 22 hearing. Therefore, we make no attempt to set the time and manner of visitation in this appeal but rather remand this cause for the chancellor to do so.

Reversed and remanded.

Cracraft, J., dissents.