C.R.H. v. J.S.H. ( 2021 )

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37
C.R.H. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF
: PENNSYLVANIA
Appellant :
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v. :
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J.S.H. : No. 42 MDA 2021
Appeal from the Order Entered November 23, 2020
In the Court of Common Pleas of Lancaster County Civil Division at
No(s): CI-18-00287
BEFORE: BOWES, J., DUBOW, J., and MUSMANNO, J.
MEMORANDUM BY BOWES, J.: FILED JULY 13, 2021
C.R.H. (“Father”) appeals pro se from the trial court’s order that (1)
established custody between J.S.H. (“Mother”) and him concerning their child,
J.R.H.; (2) denied Father’s petition for contempt; and (3) granted Mother’s
petition for contempt. We affirm.
Father and Mother had “a volatile, intermittent relationship” which
produced J.R.H. in July 2016 and ultimately terminated acrimoniously in
December 2017. C.R.H. v. J.S.H., 219 A.3d 251 (Pa.Super. 2019)
(unpublished memorandum at 1-2). The trial court offered the following
summary of the pertinent procedural history of the parties’ custody litigation:
On January 12, 2018, Father filed a complaint for custody
seeking shared legal and physical custody of J.R.H., (hereinafter,
“child”). A custody conciliation conference was held on February
13, 2018, which resulted in a risk of harm hearing being scheduled
to determine if Father posed a risk of harm to the child due to his
pending stalking charge where Mother was the alleged victim.1 By
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order dated April 13, 2018, the risk of harm hearing was canceled
by agreement and another custody conciliation conference was
scheduled.
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1 An agreement was reached at the preliminary hearing that
the charge would be withdrawn after 90 days if there were
no violation of a no-contract provision.
Father filed a petition for interim relief on June 5, 2018,
requesting that the parents share transportation for custody
exchanges and that the matter proceed directly to a custody
hearing. By this time, the parents had come to an agreement
whereby Father had physical custody every Monday and
Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. and alternating
weekends. The request for interim relief was denied. A
conciliation conference occurred on July 25, 2018, after which the
conciliation officer submitted a recommended order maintaining
the informal custody schedule exercised by the parties. In
addition, the recommended order provided that any third parties
who accompany parents to exchanges shall not leave the vehicle
and shall not involve themselves in any way. The trial court issued
an order on August 22, 2018, adopting the recommended order.
On August 23, 2018, Mother filed a petition for contempt
against Father, alleging that Father willfully disobeyed the order
by permitting his paramour to be present and intervene at a
custody exchange. The court determined the contempt petition
would be addressed at the custody hearing.
A custody hearing was held before the Honorable Jeffrey J.
Reich on October 29, 2018 and October 31, 2018. On November
15, 2018, Judge Reich issued findings and a final custody order
providing for shared legal custody, retaining primary physical
custody with Mother, and granting Father partial physical custody
every Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. to Thursday at 8:00 a.m. and
alternating weekends from Friday at 3:00 p.m. to Sunday at 4:00
p.m. The order made provisions for one week of uninterrupted
vacation custody for each parent, and each parent was directed to
permit reasonable telephone access to the child and to
accommodate reasonable requests of the other parent for
alterations of any agreed-upon schedule.
In applying the facts to the relevant custody factors, Judge
Reich expressed concern for the parties’ toxic relationship and the
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impact of Father’s manipulative nature. The court thus found that
co-parent counseling would benefit the child and ordered the
parents to schedule cooperative parenting classes within ten days.
Judge Reich also found Father in contempt of the interim custody
order dated August 22, 2018, and awarded Mother $500.00 in
attorney fees.2
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2 Father filed a timely appeal and on June 20, 2019, the
Superior Court issued a decision affirming the trial court’s
custody determination but reversing the contempt finding
and sanction. The Superior Court found that although
Father had violated the spirit of the recommended order
following the custody conference of July 25, 2018, Father
could not be found in contempt because the recommended
order was not binding on the parties until formally adopted
by the trial court, and the behavior took place prior to the
trial court order adopting the recommendation. [See
C.R.H., supra (non-precedential decision at 21)].
On May 7, 2019, Father filed a petition for contempt and
special relief, alleging in part that Mother was not communicating
with him regarding the child’s insurance coverage, Mother refused
to accommodate any of Father’s requests to alter the custody
schedule, and Mother was denying him vacation time in violation
of the custody order’s vacation provision.
On June 11, 2019, Mother filed a reply to Father’s petition
for contempt, alleging that Father was attempting to circumvent
the November 15, 2018 custody order by routinely making
requests which would reduce Mother’s custodial periods. Mother
also alleged that Father was in violation of the court’s directive
regarding co-parenting counseling. Mother requested that the
contempt allegations be consolidated with the custody conference,
Father’s petition for contempt be dismissed, Father be found in
contempt of the November 15, 2018 order, and Mother be
awarded $500.00 attorney fees. When the parties were unable to
come to an agreement at a custody conciliation conference on
June 13, 2019, a follow-up conference was scheduled.
At the follow-up conference on September 10, 2019, the
parties agreed to enroll in co-parenting counseling. After another
follow-up custody conference on December 10, 2019, the parties
agreed to withdraw their respective contempt petitions. On
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December 23, 2019, Judge Reich entered an order stating that the
order of November 15, 2018 shall remain in effect.
Father filed a petition for modification and special relief in
June 2020, alleging in part that Mother was not addressing the
child’s behavioral needs and toilet training issues, Mother
frustrated Father’s attempts to obtain medical treatment and
insurance for the child, and Mother engaged in alienating
behaviors. As examples of Mother’s refusal to co-parent and
alienating behaviors, Father alleged that Mother refused to allow
items from Father’s home to pass to Mother’s home, the child had
reported to paternal grandparents that Mother strongly dislikes
Father and Father’s spouse, Mother refused to discuss a referral
that had been made to child protective services, and Mother
refused to accommodate reasonable requests for phone calls with
the child or modifications to the custody schedule. Father further
alleged that Mother was denying Father vacation time with the
child in violation of the custody order’s vacation provision. Father
requested sole legal custody and shared physical custody.
On June 22, 2020, the [trial court] issued an order granting
Father vacation custody from June 27, 2020 to July 4, 2020, while
granting Mother make-up time July 18, 2020 and July 19, 2020.
On August 14, 2020, Mother filed an answer with contempt
alleging that Father refused to return the child to Mother for make-
up time on July 18, 2020, pursuant to the order dated June 22,
2020. Mother requested compliance with the current custody
order, one day make-up time, co-parenting counseling, and
$1,000.00 attorney lees. A custody conference was held on
August 24, 2020, and the matter was recommended for a hearing
when no agreement was reached.
On August 28, 2020, Father filed a contempt petition
alleging that Mother refuses all of his reasonable requests for
phone contact and modifications to the custody schedule, and she
engages in parental alienation by withholding information while
thwarting Father’s efforts to be involved in decision-making.
Father requested primary physical custody until such time as
Mother completes counseling for alleged alienating behaviors and
mental health issues, co-parenting counseling after Mother has
completed individual counseling, $1,500.00 attorney fees, and an
additional $50.00 per alleged incident of contempt.
Trial Court Opinion, 2/7/21, at 1-4 (unnecessary capitalization omitted).
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On November 5, 2020, the trial court held a hearing on the pending
custody modification and contempt petitions. Father, Mother, Father’s current
wife (“Stepmother”), and Father’s mother (“Paternal Grandmother”) all
testified at the hearing. The trial court offered an extensive, detailed summary
of the evidence which we need not restate fully herein. See id. at 6-16. An
abridged version is as follows.
Father sought to support his petition for modification with exhibits that,
in his mind, spoke for themselves. At the request of the trial court, Father
offered testimony regarding each. The documents ranged from allergy testing
results that showed that, contrary to Mother’s prior assertion, J.R.H. was not
allergic to cats,1 to emails from J.R.H.’s daycare concerning his struggles with
potty training,2 to a printout of all of the messaging conversations between
Father and Mother for approximately sixteen months period preceding the
hearing, which Father maintained evidenced, inter alia, Mother’s lack of
support for Lancaster County Intermediate Unit (“IU”) services to address
J.R.H.’s behavioral issues.
Father explained that he was seeking sole legal custody and primary
physical custody because, as his exhibits evidenced, Mother puts her needs
ahead of J.R.H.’s needs, attempts to alienate J.R.H. from Father and his
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1Father acknowledged that, although J.R.H. is allergic to dogs, Father had
nonetheless recently obtained a puppy which Stepmother had desired.
2 Child was fully potty trained at the time of the modification hearing.
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family, and refuses to get along with Father. Father further opined that Mother
was in contempt of the November 2018 custody order through her repeated
refusals of Father’s requests to deviate from the custody schedule. Father
admitted that he had yet to attend co-parenting counseling mandated by the
November 2018 order, as well as his failure to comply with the June 2020
order requiring him to return J.R.H. to Mother on July 18, 2020, because he
thought it was instead in J.R.H.’s best interests to attend a birthday party for
Stepmother and her daughter.
Stepmother testified that Father devotes much time and energy to their
family, and that the current arrangement does not provide them with sufficient
time with J.R.H. She indicated that J.R.H. enjoys playing with her daughter
and neighboring children. Stepmother stated that J.H.R.’s transitions from
Father’s home to Mother’s custody are difficult, and that, although Stepmother
attempts to be courteous to Mother at exchanges, Mother ignores her.3
Paternal Grandmother offered testimony that she helps Father with
transportation and childcare. She attested to J.R.H’s relationship with Father’s
family. Paternal Grandmother indicated that Mother ignores her at custody
exchanges, and relayed the story of a time Mother failed to respond to a
request from Father to pick J.R.H. up early from day care due to an impending
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3 Given the history of conflict and the prior order precluding Stepmother’s
participation in exchanges, it is unclear why Father and Stepmother feel the
need for Stepmother to continue to be present at the exchanges, which take
place at a Turkey Hill convenience store.
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snowstorm, causing Paternal Grandmother to drive in conditions that doubled
the length of the trip.
Mother denied some of the accusations leveled at her and acknowledged
the veracity of others. Mother testified that, contrary to Father’s claims, she
does share pertinent information with Father, and she does not attempt to
interfere with his relationship with J.R.H. Mother testified that she does seek
to minimize the amount of contact she has with Father or his family to avoid
fresh conflict. Mother indicated that she regularly denies Father’s frequent
requests for additional time with J.R.H. because Father is demanding and
controlling, telling her what will happen rather than being respectful and
asking for her consent. Mother further acknowledged that Father has a
positive relationship with J.R.H. and has no interest in reducing Father’s
custodial time.
Following a thorough review of the case history and the evidence
proffered at the hearing, the trial court filed a detailed opinion explaining its
review of the relevant considerations and its decision that it was in J.R.H.’s
best interests to maintain the existing custody schedule. It therefore entered
an order providing that the parties shall continue to share legal custody, and
for Mother to retain primary physical custody with Father retaining the
previously-ordered periods of partial custody. The court further specified that
it is in J.R.H’s best interest for Mother and Father to participate in the
cooperative parenting counselling that had been ordered in 2018 but not
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undertaken. Additionally, in the court’s opinion, it indicated that it was
denying Father’s contempt petition but granting the petition filed by Mother.
Specifically, it found that Father knowingly and willfully disobeyed the June
22, 2020 order regarding returning J.R.H. to Mother for make-up time
following Father’s vacation time with him, and ordered him to pay $500 to the
County of Lancaster. See Opinion, 11/23/20, at 22.
Father filed a timely notice of appeal, and both he and the trial court
complied with Pa.R.A.P. 1925.4 Father states the following claims of error for
our review:
1. The trial court erred and abused its discretion when it
granted Mother primary physical custody of the child,
limiting Father’s periods of physical custody to alternating
weekends and one weeknight per week, without a
discussion about why this limited schedule for Father is in
the child’s best interest, in lieu of a shared physical custody
schedule or awarding [F]ather primary custody upon which
time [M]other can demonstrate the willingness to encourage
a relationship with [F]ather.
2. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in finding in
that neither party was more likely to encourage and permit
frequent and continuing contact between the child and the
other party.
3. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in finding that
both parents are equally able to perform parental duties on
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4 Although the trial court’s custody order was dated November 20, 2020,
notice of service of the order was not docketed until November 23, 2020.
Hence, Father’s December 20, 2020 notice of appeal was timely. We also
note that, while Father failed to file a statement of errors complained of on
appeal contemporaneous with his notice of appeal as is required by Pa.R.A.P.
1925(a)(2), he did comply with the trial court’s January 2, 2021 order
directing the filing of a statement.
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behalf of the child and that both parents are very involved
in the child’s life giving him attention.
4. The trial court erred in concluding that in terms of healthy
emotional development that this factor does not weigh in
favor of either party.
5. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in finding that
Mother is more capable than Father in providing for stability
and continuity for the child’s education, family and
community life.
6. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in failing to
consider that Mother’s efforts to keep the child from
spending time with Father as well as overt statements to the
child about father as well as [M]other[‘]s attempts to dictate
control and disrupt child’s time in [F]ather’s home.
7. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in limiting
Father’s periods of custody to the schedule imposed when
the court’s findings state that both parents are capable of
maintaining a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing
relationship that is adequate for the child’s needs.
8. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in limiting
Father’s periods of custody to the schedule imposed when
the court’s findings state that both parents are able to
attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental,
educational and special needs of the child and that Father is
certainly capable of tending to the child’s daily needs.
Furthermore [M]other[‘]s “relaxed[“] parenting style and
lack of concern in lieu of [sic] the child’s struggles and even
parental neglect contributed greatly to the child’s escalating
behavior.
9. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in limiting
Father’s periods of custody to the schedule imposed when
the court found that both parties are able to make child-
care arrangements and that the distance between the
parties’ residences does not weigh heavily in the court’s
decision.
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10. The trial court erred in concluding that in terms of healthy
emotional development that this factor does not weigh in
favor of either party.
11. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in heavily
weighing the conflict between the parties heavily in favor of
[M]other instead of heavily weighing this factor in favor of
[F]ather.
12. The trial court erred in awarding each party only one week
of uninterrupted physical/vacation custody, instead of two
weeks.
13. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in finding that
Father willfully disobeyed the custody order in contrast to
the best interest of the child and that [M]other yet again
refused an extraordinarily reasonable request to attend a
joint birthday party for the child in question as well as the
child[‘s Stepmother] and stepsister.
14. The trial court erred and abused its discretion in finding that
[F]ather did not meet the burden of proof in [F]ather’s
contempt petition that [M]other refused all telephone access
and reasonable requests of [F]ather even after the trial
court chronicles multiple occasions in which [M]other did
exactly that and even in its own opinion acknowledges
[M]other’s denial and undisputed prevarications.
Father’s brief at 15-18 (unnecessary capitalization omitted).
The following principles govern our review of Father’s challenges to the
trial court’s custody determination:
In reviewing a custody order, our scope is of the broadest type
and our standard is abuse of discretion. We must accept findings
of the trial court that are supported by competent evidence of
record, as our role does not include making independent factual
determinations. In addition, with regard to issues of credibility
and weight of the evidence, we must defer to the presiding trial
judge who viewed and assessed the witnesses first-hand.
However, we are not bound by the trial court’s deductions or
inferences from its factual findings. Ultimately, the test is whether
the trial court’s conclusions are unreasonable as shown by the
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evidence of record. We may reject the conclusions of the trial
court only if they involve an error of law, or are unreasonable in
light of the sustainable findings of the trial court.
S.T. v. R.W., 192 A.3d 1155, 1160 (Pa.Super. 2018) (internal quotation
marks omitted).
Pursuant to 23 Pa.C.S. § 5338, “[u]pon petition, a court may modify a
custody order to serve the best interest of the child.” 23 Pa.C.S. § 5338(a).
In entering any custody order, the trial court is to determine the best interests
of the child though consideration of the following factors:
(1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent
and continuing contact between the child and another party.
(2) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member
of the party’s household, whether there is a continued risk of harm
to the child or an abused party and which party can better provide
adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child.
(2.1) The information set forth in section 5329.1(a) (relating to
consideration of child abuse and involvement with protective
services).
(3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the
child.
(4) The need for stability and continuity in the child’s education,
family life and community life.
(5) The availability of extended family.
(6) The child’s sibling relationships.
(7) The well-reasoned preference of the child, based on the child’s
maturity and judgment.
(8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other
parent, except in cases of domestic violence where reasonable
safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm.
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(9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable,
consistent and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for
the child’s emotional needs.
(10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical,
emotional, developmental, educational and special needs of the
child.
(11) The proximity of the residences of the parties.
(12) Each party’s availability to care for the child or ability to make
appropriate child-care arrangements.
(13) The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness
and ability of the parties to cooperate with one another. A party’s
effort to protect a child from abuse by another party is not
evidence of unwillingness or inability to cooperate with that party.
(14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or member of
a party’s household.
(15) The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a
party’s household.
(16) Any other relevant factor.
23 Pa.C.S. § 5328(a).
“It is within the trial court’s purview as the finder of fact to determine
which factors are most salient and critical in each particular case.” M.J.M. v.
M.L.G., 63 A.3d 331, 339 (Pa.Super. 2013). While it is imperative that the
trial court consider each of the statutory factors, “the amount of weight that
a court places on any one factor is almost entirely discretionary.” O.G. v.
A.B., 234 A.3d 766, 777 (Pa. Super. 2020). See also D.Q. v. K.K., 241 A.3d
1112, 1117 (Pa.Super. 2020) (“The discretion that a trial court employs in
custody matters should be accorded the utmost respect, given the special
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nature of the proceeding and the lasting impact the result will have on the
lives of the parties concerned.” (cleaned up)). As we have explained:
it is not this Court’s function to determine whether the trial court
reached the right decision; rather, we must consider whether,
based on the evidence presented, given due deference to the trial
court’s weight and credibility determinations, the trial court erred
or abused its discretion in awarding custody to the prevailing
party.
E.B. v. D.B., 209 A.3d 451, 468 (Pa.Super. 2019) (cleaned up) (quoting King
v. King, 889 A.2d 630, 632 (Pa.Super. 2005)). See also D.Q., supra at
1117 (“[T]he knowledge gained by a trial court in observing witnesses in a
custody proceeding cannot adequately be imparted to an appellate court by a
printed record.”).
In the case sub judice, the trial court determined “that enumerated
custody factors four (stability and continuity), six (sibling relationships),
thirteen (level of conflict between the parties), and sixteen (other relevant
factors) weighed in favor of Mother, while factor five (availability of extended
family) weighed in favor of Father. “ Trial Court Opinion, 2/4/21, at 18 n.7.
See also Opinion, 11/20/20, at 16-21 (stating analysis of each factor). The
trial court found that the rest of the factors were either inapplicable or favored
neither party over the other.
Father’s first eleven issues attack the trial court’s determinations as to
specific statutory factors and its ultimate conclusion that the custody order
imposed reflects application of these factors to the evidence in this case. See
Father’s brief at 15-17. Father contends that many of these determinations
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were incorrect, and asserts that the trial court, finding no issues with Father’s
parenting ability, failed to explain why it was nonetheless in J.R.H.’s best
interests “to limit Father’s time with [J.R.H.] in such an extreme manner.” Id.
at 23.
The trial court cogently identified and addressed Father’s specific claims
of error seriatim in its Pa.R.A.P. 1925(a) opinion. See Trial Court Opinion,
2/4/20, at 18-28 (explaining the evidence supporting its credibility
assessments and analysis of the individual factors, the reasoning behind the
weight it placed upon them, and its overall custody determination). Father
does not contend that the trial court misstated the evidence, misapplied the
law, or made determinations that have no basis of support in the certified
record. Stated plainly, Father’s position is that the trial court erred in not
seeing things his way. In arguing against the trial court’s findings, Father
basically asks this Court to reexamine the evidence admitted at the
modification hearing in the light most favorable to his position, crediting his
testimony over Mother’s, and he asserts that the evidence, thus viewed,
renders the trial court’s decision unreasonable.5 In other words, Father
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5 For example, Father contends that his ability to provide childcare, through
himself and Paternal Grandmother, is “above and beyond” the ability of
Mother. Father’s argument against the trial court’s decision is a rhetorical
question: “How is limiting [F]ather’s time in the best interest of [J.R.H.] in
lieu of daycare when the child is not of school age and there is no legal
requirement to have any child attend a childcare service in lieu of childcare
provided by an immediate and or extended family?” Father’s brief at 46.
(Footnote Continued Next Page)
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“essentially ask[s] this Court to re-find facts, re-weigh evidence, and re-
assess credibility. That is not our role. As evidenced by the trial court’s
opinion, the trial court performed a detailed and thorough analysis of the
[J.R.H.]’s best interests. The trial court’s findings and determinations are
supported by competent evidence in the record and we will not disturb them.”
D.R.L. v. K.L.C., 216 A.3d 276, 286 (Pa. Super. 2019). Therefore, we
conclude that Father’s first eleven issues warrant no relief.
Next, Father contends that the trial court “erred in awarding each party
only one week of uninterrupted physical/vacation custody, instead of two
weeks.” Father’s brief at 56. Specifically, Father argues:
Father has clearly demonstrated a position that facilitates
opportunities for J.R.H. Vacations . . . are a part of these
opportunities. In that the child is not of school age and vacations
should be limited to summer recesses as J.R.H. grows closer to
school age[,] why is in the best interest of the child to be limited
to a single week verses 2 weeks of vacation? How is this limitation
in the best interest of the child? Particularly when the trial court
finds no concern as it pertains to fathers parenting, the
attachment between father and J.R.H. as well as father’s proactive
feverish nature? How does limiting father’s ability afford J.R.H.
opportunities for vacations the father has demonstrated well in
the best interest of the child?
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Father does not even attempt to explain why it as an abuse of discretion for
the trial court, which was clearly concerned with the adverse effects prior
disruptions in routine have had on J.R.H, to accept Mother’s position that it is
best for J.R.H. to maintain the current arrangement because it offers schooling
in addition to childcare. Instead, Father restates the testimony and suggests
that a failure to accept his view as “superior” is reversible error. Id. By doing
so, Father does not call in to question the reasonableness of the trial court,
but rather validates the trial court’s findings as to Father’s controlling and
condescending attitude.
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The trial courts focus was clearly on denying father any and all
modifications in an effort to frustrate father and impose its will
and not the best interest of the child.
Id. at 56-57.
The trial court addressed Father’s claim as follows:
Father misrepresents the vacation provision in the custody order
issued on November 20, 2020. The order states: “Each parent
shall be entitled to ten (10) days of uninterrupted
physical/vacation custody with the child each year. The ten-day
vacation period shall include the weekend period of physical
custody of the child that the vacationing parent would otherwise
have per the regular schedule of physical custody of the child.”
During the hearing, Mother offered to increase each party’s
vacation period from one week to ten days to alleviate conflicts
that have arisen between the parties in attempting to exercise
their periods of vacation custody-from weekend to weekend.
Father did not object or voice any opposition to Mother’s proposal.
Moreover, Father never made a request to increase the
vacation custody of each parent in his modification petition filed
on June 23, 2020, nor did he make such a request at the custody
hearing on November 5, 2020. As such, Father has waived this
issue on appeal.
Trial Court Opinion, 2/4/21, at 28-29.
Father fails to dispute the trial court’s indication that the increase in
vacation time to fourteen days was not raised during the modification
proceedings, and was therefore waived. Nonetheless, even assuming,
arguendo, that the issue is preserved, it is clear that no relief is due. Father,
again, points to no error of law or abuse of discretion, but merely requests
that this Court to review the evidence and determine that, instead of
increasing vacation from seven to ten days, it should have made it fourteen
days. Such determinations and micromanagement are not the work of this
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Court. See, e.g., E.B. v. D.B., supra at 468 (Pa.Super. 2019) (explaining
that “it is not this Court’s function to determine whether the trial court reached
the right decision; rather,” we consider whether the trial court abused its
discretion). Moreover, while Father baldly claims that the trial court was
determined to thwart him at every turn, he points to no record evidence of
bias or ill-will. Therefore, Father’s final challenge to the modified custody
order fails.
Father’s remaining issues concern the trial court’s contempt rulings. The
following principles guide our review. “Each court is the exclusive judge of
contempts against its process. The contempt power is essential to the
preservation of the court’s authority and prevents the administration of justice
from falling into disrepute.” Habjan v. Habjan, 73 A.3d 630, 637 (Pa.Super.
2013) (internal quotation marks omitted). “When reviewing an appeal from
a contempt order, the appellate court must place great reliance upon the
discretion of the trial judge.” Id. (internal quotation marks omitted).
Pursuant to the statute governing custody awards,
A party who willfully fails to comply with any custody order may,
as prescribed by general rule, be adjudged in contempt.
Contempt shall be punishable by any one or more of the following:
(i) Imprisonment for a period of not more than six months.
(ii) A fine of not more than $500.
(iii) Probation for a period of not more than six months.
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(iv) An order for nonrenewal, suspension or denial of
operating privilege under section 4355 (relating to denial or
suspension of licenses).
(v) Counsel fees and costs.
23 Pa.C.S. § 5323(g)(1).
To be in contempt, a party must have violated a court order, and
the complaining party must satisfy that burden by a
preponderance of the evidence. Specifically, the complainant
must prove certain distinct elements: (1) that the contemnor had
notice of the specific order or decree which he is alleged to have
disobeyed; (2) that the act constituting the contemnor’s violation
was volitional; and (3) that the contemnor acted with wrongful
intent.
J.M. v. K.W., 164 A.3d 1260, 1264 (Pa.Super. 2017) (en banc) (cleaned up).
Here, the trial court found that Father failed to prove his contempt
allegations by a preponderance of the evidence, but that Mother had proven
hers, and fined Father $500 in accordance with 23 Pa.C.S. § 5323(g)(1)(ii).
Father contests both of these rulings.
First, Father asserts that, in failing to return child to Mother promptly
on July 18, 2020, “Father clearly violated this order in the best interest of the
child.” Father’s brief at 58. Father suggests that he was forced to violate the
order because Mother refused a request that “[n]o reasonable person would
view . . . as unreasonable,” namely that J.R.H. attend the birthday party for
Stepmother, and her daughter, and him that Father had scheduled for a time
outside of his period of custody. Father contends that the trial court, in finding
him in contempt for this violation, “abused its discretion in that the focus was
on the court[’]s authority and not the best interest of the child.” Id.
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The trial court explained its ruling as follows:
On June 22, 2020, following a family business court
presentation, the court issued an order granting Father’s request
for one week of uninterrupted vacation time. In return, the court
informed Father that Mother would be entitled to make-up time
because one of the weekends being granted to Father was
Mother’s weekend. Thereafter, the June 22, 2020 order stated
that Father would return the child to Mother for make-up time on
July 18, 2020 and July 19, 2020. However, Father admitted he
did not return the child to Mother until 7:00 p.m. on July 18, 2020,
thereby depriving Mother of one full day of make-up time.
Father acknowledged he received the court order dated June
22, 2020. But Father claimed he was not aware of the make-up
time until the evening of July 17, almost one month later. Father
then claimed he did not read the order until Saturday morning,
July 18, 2020, after Mother sent the order to him. Given the
history of this case and Father’s meticulous preparation of exhibits
documenting the state of affairs between the parties, this court
found that Father was not credible when stating he did not read
the order prior to July 18, 2020.
Father also admitted that he knowingly, intentionally and
willfully disobeyed the court order after it was brought to his
attention. Father explained that his family planned a combined
birthday party for his wife, stepdaughter, and the child to occur
on July 18, 2020, and he chose not to comply with the court order
until after the festivities because he thought it was in the child’s
best interest to participate in the party. Text messages with
Mother on July 17, 2020 and July 18, 2020 confirm that Father
made a conscious decision to disregard the court order because it
conflicted with his own plans.
The court properly found that Father was in contempt for
knowingly violating the court order of June 22, 2020, the violation
was volitional, and Father did so with wrongful intent. In
consideration of Father’s present conduct and history of non-
compliance with directives that conflict with his own will, the court
also reasonably concluded that an unconditional fine would be a
suitable remedy to encourage prospective compliance with the
custody order.11
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11 Father’s contempt of the June 22, 2020 order reflects a
broader pattern of disregard for court directives. The
Superior Court agreed that Father previously violated the
spirit of a conciliation officer’s recommended order but he
could not be held in contempt for actions occurring before
the recommendation was formally adopted by the trial
court. In the order of November 15, 2018, the trial judge
issued a directive for the parties to engage in cooperative
parenting counseling, but Father did not comply because he
stated he was dissatisfied with the court’s custody
determination. Father also did not comply with the June 22,
2020 court order because he was dissatisfied with the dates
selected by the court for Mother’s make-up time. Father’s
behavior provides ample reason to conclude that he is likely
to continue to disregard the court’s directives in the absence
of meaningful consequences for doing so.
Trial Court Opinion, 2/4/21, at 30-31 (citations omitted).
We discern no abuse of the trial court’s discretion. Contrary to Father’s
suggestion otherwise, the court’s focus on ruling on the contempt petition was
properly centered upon vindicating its authority. See Habjan, supra at 637.
Further, the certified record supports the trial court’s findings that the
evidence sufficiently demonstrated all three elements of a contempt: (1)
Father had notice of the order in question; (2) Father’s disobedience of the
order was volitional; and (3) Father acted willfully. See J.M. v. K.W., supra
at 1264 (stating elements of contempt); N.T. Hearing, 11/5/20, at 43-46, 81-
83 (Father admitting he had notice of the letter and that he chose to follow
through with his family party plans rather than obey it). Consequently, we
have no basis to disturb the finding of contempt.
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Finally, Father asserts that, contrary to the trial court’s findings, he
proved that Mother was in contempt of the prior custody order. Specifically,
Father argues that he showed that Mother “consistently and in an absolute
fashion violated the provisions of the previous court order providing for not
only reasonable accommodations as well as access to the child while in the
other parties’ care.” Father’s brief at 59. Father highlights his evidence that,
concerning telephone access to J.R.H. while Mother is enjoying her periods of
custody, all Father wished to do was “to say I love you, goodnight which takes
seconds[.]” Id. Father further cites multiple examples of Mother’s rejections
of his requests for deviations from the standard custody schedule, contending
that, “[e]ven if the trial court does not agree with [F]ather in that all requests
are reasonable, at least some of them are given the varying circumstances
surrounding them.” Id. at 60. Father maintains that the trial court’s ruling
in favor of Mother amounts to an abuse of discretion given that the court
contemporaneously found “no issue with [F]ather’s parenting and
acknowledge[ed that J.R.H.] obviously wants to spend time with [F]ather[.]”
Id.
The trial court offered the following reasons for its ruling on Father’s
contempt petition:
The relevant provision of the November 15, 2018 custody
order addressing reasonable requests for more time with the child
states: “Each parent shall accommodate the reasonable requests
of the other parent for alterations to any agreed upon schedule,
as the circumstances and the best interest of the Child require.”
Father argues that Mother’s adherence to the days specified in the
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custody order was a violation because the order directs the parties
to accommodate the reasonable requests of the other party.
Father testified at the custody hearing that he has made
“countless” attempts to have additional custodial time with the
child. Mother responded by stating that she has agreed to give
Father additional custodial time, including allowing him to take the
child to the zoo and to an amusement park. However, while
Father believed every such request was reasonable, Mother did
not agree. For example, Mother did not generally agree to the
child being absent from daycare to be with Father because
daycare was like a school with lesson plans and structure, and the
child benefits from attending. Mother also acknowledged that her
relationship with Father affects how she views these requests,
primarily because Father is demanding and controlling. Father
does not respect Mother and he does not ask but rather tells her
how it is going to be.
To be punished for contempt, an order must be “definite,
clear, and specific-leaving no doubt or uncertainty in the mind of
the contemnor of the prohibited conduct.” Stahl v. Redcay, 897
A.2d 478, 489 (Pa. Super. 2006) (citations omitted). Because the
order forming the basis for civil contempt must be strictly
construed, any ambiguities. or omissions in the order must be
construed in favor of the defendant. Id.Here, the language of the prior custody order did not give
the parties guidance as to what would constitute a reasonable
request to alter the custody schedule such that a refusal to
accommodate the other party’s request would be a violation of the
order. Moreover, reasonable people can disagree as to whether a
request is “reasonable.” Furthermore, the court was unable to
conclude that Mother refused to accommodate all of Father’s
requests, or that any particular refusal was motivated by wrongful
intent. Therefore, Father failed to prove Mother was in contempt
of the court order in this regard.
Father also asserts Mother violated the November 15, 2018
custody order by refusing his requests for telephone calls with the
child. The relevant provision of the order states: “Each parent
shall permit reasonable telephone access to the Child while the
Child is in his or her physical custody.” As noted, an order must
be definite, clear, and specific, leaving no doubt or uncertainty in
the mind of the contemnor of the prohibited conduct, to be
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punished for contempt. Once again, the November 15, 2018
custody order did not provide guidance to the parties as to what
would constitute reasonable phone access, nor was it sufficiently
specific to put the parties on notice of conduct that would
constitute a violation of the order.
Moreover, Mother’s refusal to accommodate Father’s
requests were not motivated by wrongful intent. Due to the child’s
young age, phone calls would necessarily entail additional contact
between the parties and Mather testified credibly that she feared
increased contact with Father would only escalate the conflict
between the parties. Mother feared Father’s phone calls with the
child would be prolonged, involve other people, and lead to
comments being made about the other party. Mother also stated
that contact with Father was very stressful for her. Text messages
between the parties show that at least one phone call with the
child had been attempted unsuccessfully, and Mother concluded
the child was too young to talk on the phone.
For these reasons, the court did not err in finding that Father
failed to meet his burden of proving that Mother was in contempt
of the November 15, 2018 custody order.
Trial Court Opinion, 2/4/21, at 32-34 (footnotes and most citations omitted).
We agree. Unlike the clear and specific requirement that Father willfully
disobeyed, the provisions Father accused Mother of violating are open to
varying interpretations. Accord K.M.G. v. H.M.W., 171 A.3d 839, 847
(Pa.Super. 2017) (reversing contempt finding for the mother’s failure to
encourage the child to visit with the father where the order did not specifically
require such encouragement). The trial court’s ruling that Mother did not act
with wrongful intent in declining Father’s requests for phone calls and
additional time is supported by the record. The trial court was free to credit
Mother’s testimony concerning fears of disrupting J.R.H.’s bedtime over
Father’s self-serving representation that such calls would take mere seconds.
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Further, the trial court did not fail to act at all upon the information that
Father was not receiving any telephone time with J.R.H. during Mother’s more
extensive periods of custody. Rather, “[t]o address this situation, the [new]
custody order includes language for specific periods of telephone contact when
the child is in the custody of the other parent.” Trial Court Opinion, 2/4/21,
at 33 n.14. The trial court’s chosen course was not an abuse of discretion.
See, e.g., Mellott v. Mellott, 476 A.2d 961, 963 (Pa.Super. 1984) (affirming
denial of contempt petition because it was not of an abuse of discretion for
the trial court to instead clarify and expand its order). Hence, we affirm the
trial court’s order.
For the foregoing reasons, we find merit in none of Father’s challenges
to the trial court’s rulings concerning custody or contempt. We hope that
Father and Mother’s compliance with the now-years-past-due cooperative
parenting training will enable them to communicate with each other
respectfully and exercise their rights under the custody order for the benefit
of J.R.H. above all else.
Order affirmed.
Judgment Entered.
Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq.
Prothonotary
Date: 07/13/2021
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