Singh v. Singh ( 2019 )


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  •           THE STATE OF SOUTH CAROLINA
    In The Court of Appeals
    Gunjit Rick Singh, Respondent,
    v.
    Simran P. Singh, Appellant.
    Appellate Case No. 2015-000434
    Appeal From Charleston County
    Gordon B. Jenkinson, Family Court Judge
    Judy L. McMahon, Family Court Judge
    Jocelyn B. Cate, Family Court Judge
    Jack A. Landis, Family Court Judge
    Daniel E. Martin, Jr., Family Court Judge
    Opinion No. 5698
    Heard February 12, 2019 – Filed December 18, 2019
    VACATED AND REMANDED
    O. Grady Query, Michael W. Sautter, and Brooke Hurt
    Maiden, all of Query Sautter & Associates, LLC, of
    Charleston, for Appellant.
    C. Vance Stricklin, Jr., of Moore Taylor Law Firm, P.A.,
    of West Columbia, Robert N. Rosen, of Rosen Law Firm,
    LLC, of Charleston, and Katherine Carruth Goode, of
    Winnsboro, for Respondent.
    LOCKEMY, C.J.: Simran P. Singh appeals various family court orders1
    approving agreements to arbitrate, arguing binding arbitration of issues pertaining
    to child custody, visitation, and support violates the children's constitutional rights
    and contradicts state law and court rules. We vacate and remand.
    FACTS
    Simran P. Singh (Mother) and Gunjit Rick Singh (Father) separated in January
    2012 and subsequently entered into a settlement agreement (the Settlement
    Agreement). Mother and Father have two children: S.K.S., who was born in 2001,
    and H.K.S.S., who was born in 2010. In the Settlement Agreement, Mother and
    Father agreed the children would reside primarily with Mother. The parties also
    agreed to submit certain potential disputes regarding child custody, child support,
    and visitation to a mutually agreed-upon arbitrator for binding arbitration. They
    further agreed the arbitrator's decisions as to such issues would "be binding and
    non-appealable" and the arbitrator's written award would "operate as a conclusive
    resolution" of such issues. In 2013, the family court granted the parties a divorce
    based on one year's separation and approved the Settlement Agreement, which the
    family court incorporated into its final divorce decree.
    Later that year, Father filed an action in the family court seeking modification of
    custody, visitation, and child support. Mother and Father entered a consent order,
    agreeing to dismiss Father's complaint and submit the matter to arbitration.
    Pursuant to this agreement, the family court issued an order to arbitrate, noting the
    parties understood the arbitrator's decision would "be final and binding upon them"
    and they had no right to apply to any court for relief if either was dissatisfied with
    that decision.
    An arbitration was held, and the arbitrator issued a temporary arbitration award,
    determining Mother was to retain physical custody over the children and Father
    would have visitation every other weekend. Thereafter, the arbitrator conducted a
    final arbitration to determine custody, visitation, and other matters.2 Before the
    arbitrator issued the final award, the parties again amended their agreement to
    1
    Five family court judges issued orders in this case.
    2
    Prior to the final arbitration, the parties modified their agreement and the family
    court issued an order reflecting this modification; the only change was the addition
    of a specification that attorney's fees and costs would include the fees and costs
    incurred in arguing an earlier motion.
    arbitrate, and the family court issued an order to arbitrate reflecting the
    amendment. That order included the following:
    d.     The parties understand that the Arbitration rules do
    not give explicit authority for the parties to submit child-
    related issues . . . to binding arbitration. However, the
    parties, upon advice of counsel and believing it to be in
    the best interest of their minor children, are submitting
    the issues . . . related to custody and support of their
    minor children . . . to binding arbitration. . . . The parties
    further acknowledge that this provision is submitted with
    their mutual consent and upon the authority of this Order
    of the Family Court. . . .
    ....
    h.     . . . . The parties' decision to refer this case for
    final, binding arbitration is made pursuant to the South
    Carolina Uniform Arbitration Act[3] . . . . It is the
    intention of the parties and the Order of this Court that
    beyond a request to the Arbitrator to reconsider issues
    which he had decided, the decision of the Arbitrator shall
    be final and binding except to the limited extent provided
    in the statutory procedure.
    j.     The parties also understand that the decision of the
    Arbitrator shall, pursuant to the South Carolina Uniform
    Arbitration Act . . . , become the Order of the Family
    Court and shall be enforceable by the Family Court, just
    as any Final Order. . . . The parties have agreed that they
    shall abide by and perform any and all aspects of the
    award rendered under arbitration and that a judgment
    shall be entered on each and every aspect of the award, as
    would otherwise be allowed with any Order of this Court.
    The amended agreement to arbitrate also contained a provision requiring a party to
    immediately pay a monetary penalty as liquidated damages if either party
    attempted to avail himself of the family court's judgment by appealing the award or
    asking the family court to change or modify the award. Although we are struck by
    3
    S.C. Code Ann. §§ 15-48-10 to -240 (2005).
    the parties' assumption of the authority to instruct the family court that it must
    accept the award as an order of the family court, the most astonishing condition of
    the amended agreement to arbitrate imposed an automatic and immediate penalty
    of $10,000 upon any party seeking to exercise their rights in a court of law as a
    punishment for challenging the arbitrator's decision.
    Thereafter, the arbitrator issued a partial arbitration award and, subsequently, a
    final arbitration award. In both, the arbitrator found a substantial and material
    change in circumstances had occurred and awarded custody of the children to
    Father with Mother to have visitation every other weekend and every other
    Wednesday. The final arbitration award also addressed child support and other
    issues between the parties.
    In a departure from her previous endorsement of arbitration, Mother moved for
    emergency relief, asking the family court to vacate the partial and final arbitration
    awards as to the issues of custody, visitation, and child support. Mother argued the
    awards were void pursuant to Rule 60(b)(4) of the South Carolina Rules of Civil
    Procedure4 because they violated the South Carolina Constitution and South
    Carolina statutory and case law. The family court held a hearing and issued two
    orders: the first denied Mother's Rule 60(b) motion as premature, and the second
    confirmed the partial and final arbitration awards.
    Mother then filed five motions to vacate the various orders of the family court
    relating to the parties' agreements to arbitrate, including the orders confirming the
    arbitration awards and denying Mother's Rule 60(b) claims. In these motions,
    Mother argued the orders were void under Rule 60(b)(4) because they purported to
    approve agreements to submit children's issues to binding arbitration or facilitate
    binding arbitration of children's issues.
    The family court held hearings on each motion. The court initially granted the
    motion to vacate the order approving the Settlement Agreement and the consent
    order dismissing Father's complaint and submitting the matter to arbitration;
    however, the court subsequently reversed itself and denied the motion, finding (1)
    Mother was estopped from objecting to the arbitration because she procured and
    accepted a benefit from the Settlement Agreement and the consent order of
    4
    Rule 60(b)(4) provides that "[o]n motion and upon such terms as are just, the
    court may relieve a party or his legal representative from a final judgment, order,
    or proceeding . . . . [when] the judgment is void."
    dismissal, (2) she waived her right to object by participating in the arbitration
    proceedings, (3) her due process rights were not violated because parents have the
    right to make decisions for their children, and (4) she waived her constitutional
    rights by agreeing to the arbitration and failing to timely challenge the arbitration.
    The family court ultimately denied the remainder of Mother's Rule 60(b)(4)
    motions.5
    While Mother's Rule 60(b)(4) motions were pending before the family court,
    Mother filed a Notice of Appeal of the order confirming the partial and final
    arbitration awards, which we held in abeyance until the family court ruled upon
    Mother's motions. Thereafter, Mother timely appealed all orders denying her Rule
    60(b)(4) motions. We now consider all of the orders Mother appealed.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    "Appellate courts review family court matters de novo, with the exceptions of
    evidentiary and procedural rulings." Stone v. Thompson, 
    428 S.C. 79
    , 
    833 S.E.2d 266
    (2019). The family court has discretion in deciding whether to grant or deny a
    motion made pursuant to Rule 60(b). Ware v. Ware, 
    404 S.C. 1
    , 10, 
    743 S.E.2d 817
    , 822 (2013). Thus, our review of such procedural rulings "is limited to
    determining whether there was an abuse of discretion." BB&T v. Taylor, 
    369 S.C. 548
    , 
    633 S.C. 548
    , 551, 
    633 S.E.2d 501
    , 503 (2006). "We review questions of law
    de novo." Ziegler v. Dorchester County, 
    426 S.C. 615
    , 619, 
    828 S.E.2d 218
    , 220
    (2019).
    Although the family court's resolution of a motion under Rule 60(b) is addressed to
    its sound discretion, the crux of the question presented to this court on appeal—
    whether issues involving children can be subject to binding arbitration—is a
    question of law. Thus, we review this issue de novo.
    LAW/ANALYSIS
    I.    Arbitration of Children's Issues
    As evidenced in the Settlement Agreement and the family court's various orders
    approving the parties' modifications to their agreement to arbitrate, both parties
    repeatedly agreed any arbitration award would be non-appealable. We also
    5
    The family court dismissed two of Mother's motions due to mootness, finding
    subsequent orders superseded the orders challenged in those motions.
    acknowledge that throughout the foregoing proceedings, Mother expressly agreed
    to submit these issues to binding arbitration and availed herself of the benefits of
    arbitration until the outcome no longer suited her. Nonetheless, the resolution of
    this question does not depend upon the rights of either parent or their waiver
    thereof; rather, the question we must decide is whether the family court—upon the
    request of the parents—can delegate its duty to determine the best interest of
    children to a private individual. We find it cannot.
    "Both federal and state policy favor arbitrating disputes." Towles v. United
    HealthCare Corp., 
    338 S.C. 29
    , 34, 
    524 S.E.2d 839
    , 842 (Ct. App. 1999). "Any
    doubts concerning the scope of arbitrable issues should be resolved in favor of
    arbitration." Carolina Care Plan, Inc. v. United HealthCare Servs., Inc., 
    361 S.C. 544
    , 550, 
    606 S.E.2d 752
    , 755 (2004). In South Carolina, arbitration agreements
    are governed by the Uniform Arbitration Act (the Arbitration Act). S.C. Code
    Ann. §§ 15-48-10 to -240 (2005). The Arbitration Act provides that a "written
    agreement to submit any existing controversy to arbitration . . . is valid,
    enforceable and irrevocable, save upon such grounds as exist at law or in equity for
    the revocation of any contract." § 15-48-10(a) (emphasis added). Section 15-48-
    10(b) sets forth exceptions to the application of the Arbitration Act. As our
    supreme court has explained, because the terms of section 15-48-10 are clear, "the
    court must apply those terms according to their literal meaning." Soil Remediation
    Co. v. Nu-Way Envtl., Inc., 
    323 S.C. 454
    , 457, 
    476 S.E.2d 149
    , 151 (1996).
    Further, "[w]here the terms of statutes are positive and unambiguous, exceptions
    not made by the Legislature cannot be read into the Act by implication." Vernon v.
    Harleysville Mut. Cas. Co., 
    244 S.C. 152
    , 157, 
    135 S.E.2d 841
    , 844 (1964).
    Section 15-48-10 does not specifically exclude the arbitration of issues involving
    child custody, visitation, and support. Therefore, we cannot read such an
    exception into the Arbitration Act.
    Article V, sections 1 and 12 of the South Carolina Constitution empowered the
    General Assembly to vest "[j]urisdiction . . . in matters appertaining to minors"
    with the courts. Pursuant to this authority, the General Assembly enacted section
    63-3-530 of the South Carolina Code (2010 & Supp. 2019), which vested family
    courts with exclusive jurisdiction over matters involving child custody, visitation,
    and support. However, this provision also gave family courts jurisdiction
    to require the parties to engage in court-mandated
    mediation pursuant to Family Court Mediation Rules or
    to issue consent orders authorizing parties to engage in
    any form of alternate dispute resolution which does not
    violate the rules of the court or the laws of South
    Carolina; provided however, the parties in consensual
    mediation must designate any arbiter or mediator by
    unanimous consent subject to the approval of the
    court . . . .
    § 63-3-530(39) (emphasis added). In addition, the Arbitration Act provides that
    when parties enter into an agreement to arbitrate pursuant to section 15-48-10, the
    making of such agreement "confers jurisdiction on the court to enforce the
    agreement under this chapter and to enter judgment on an award
    thereunder." § 15-48-180.
    Rule 3 of the South Carolina Court-Annexed Alternative Dispute Resolution Rules
    (the ADR Rules) identifies the actions subject to alternative dispute resolution:
    All civil actions filed in the circuit court, all cases in
    which a Notice of Intent to File Suit is filed pursuant to
    the provisions of S.C. Code § 15-79-125(A), and all
    contested issues in domestic relations actions filed in
    family court, except for cases set forth in Rule 3(b) or (c),
    are subject to court-ordered mediation under these rules
    unless the parties agree to conduct an arbitration. The
    parties may select their own neutral and may mediate,
    arbitrate or submit to early neutral evaluation at any time.
    Rule 3(a), SCADR (emphasis added); see also Rule 2, SCADR (defining
    arbitration as "[a]n informal process in which a third-party arbitrator issues an
    award deciding the issues in controversy" and providing such "award may be
    binding or non-binding as specified in these rules"). Pursuant to Rule 3(b) of the
    ADR Rules, "ADR is not required for" the following:
    (1) special proceedings, or actions seeking extraordinary
    relief such as mandamus, habeas corpus, or prohibition;
    (2) requests for temporary relief;
    (3) appeals;
    (4) post-conviction relief (PCR) matters;
    (5) contempt of court proceedings;
    (6) forfeiture proceedings brought by governmental
    entities;
    (7) mortgage foreclosures;
    (8) family court cases initiated by the South Carolina
    Department of Social Services; and
    (9) cases that have been previously subjected to an ADR
    conference, unless otherwise required by this rule or by
    statute.
    Rule 3(a) provides all domestic relations actions filed in family court are subject to
    court-ordered mediation. Further, Rule 3(b) does not specifically except actions
    involving children's issues from alternative dispute resolution.
    Rule 4 of the ADR rules gives parties express permission to submit certain issues
    in a domestic relations action to binding arbitration but does not specifically
    include issues relating to children. See Rule 4(d)(2), SCADR (providing "the
    parties may submit the issues of property and alimony to binding arbitration in
    accordance with subparagraph (5)") (emphasis added); Rule 4(d)(5), SCACR ("In
    lieu of mediation, the parties may elect to submit issues of property and alimony to
    binding arbitration in accordance with the . . . Arbitration Act . . . or submit all
    issues to early neutral evaluation pursuant to these rules.") (emphasis added).
    Although the language of Rule 4 suggests only issues of property and alimony may
    be resolved by binding arbitration, neither rule expressly prohibits parties from
    agreeing to arbitrate disputes involving child custody, visitation, or support.
    Because neither our arbitration statutes nor the ADR rules speak directly to
    disputes involving child custody, visitation, and support, we look to the role of the
    family court in protecting the best interests of children.
    Family courts in South Carolina have a unique role concerning the protection of
    children's fundamental rights and interests. In Ex Parte Tillman, our supreme court
    recognized children have fundamental rights under our state's Privileges and
    Immunities Clause, stating,
    [T]here is a liberty of children above the control of their
    parents, which the courts of England and this country
    have always enforced. When the parent, in asserting his
    claim to the custody of his child, disregards the
    correlative right of the child to care and maintenance at
    his hands, it is universally held that the right of the parent
    is at an end, and the child for itself, or another on its
    behalf, may assert the custody and control of the parent
    to be an illegal restraint upon its liberty.
    
    84 S.C. 552
    , 560, 
    66 S.E. 1049
    , 1052 (1910). More recently, in South Carolina
    Department of Social Services v. Cochran, our supreme court determined,
    [A] child has a fundamental interest in terminating
    parental rights if the parent-child relationship inhibits
    establishing secure, stable, and continuous relationships
    found in a home with proper parental care. In balancing
    these interests, the best interest of the child is paramount
    to that of the parent.
    
    364 S.C. 621
    , 626, 
    614 S.E.2d 642
    , 645 (2005). "Appellate courts must consider
    the child's perspective, and not the parent's, as the primary concern when
    determining whether [termination of parental rights] is appropriate." S.C. Dep't of
    Soc. Servs. v. Sarah W., 
    402 S.C. 324
    , 343, 
    741 S.E.2d 739
    , 749-50 (2013).
    In addition, we recognize a child's fundamental rights in many other circumstances.
    See Schall v. Martin, 
    467 U.S. 253
    , (1984) (recognizing the due process rights of
    juveniles in pretrial detentions); Parham v. J. R., 
    442 U.S. 584
    , 600 (1979) ("It is
    not disputed that a child, in common with adults, has a substantial liberty interest
    in not being confined unnecessarily for medical treatment."); Doe v. Bd. of
    Trustees, Richland Sch. Dist. Two, 
    2015 WL 3885922
    , at *2 (S.C. Ct. App. June
    24, 2015) (recognizing a student's procedural due process rights in a school transfer
    proceeding); In re Arisha K.S., 
    331 S.C. 288
    , 293, 
    501 S.E.2d 128
    , 131 (Ct. App.
    1998) (recognizing a child's due process rights in a juvenile proceeding).
    Longstanding tradition of this state places the responsibility of protecting a child's
    fundamental rights on the court system. As our supreme court expressed in 1910,
    The question of the custody of minors and their illegal
    restraint has always been recognized as a judicial
    question to be determined by the courts. That it is the
    function of the courts to decide issues of this kind has
    been held in this state by unbroken authority from the
    [c]ase of [In re] Kottman, [11 S.C. Eq. (2 Hill Eq.) 363
    (1834) . . . and Prather v. Prather[, 4 S.C. Eq. (4 Des.
    Eq.) 33 (1809)], to Ex parte Rembert, 
    82 S.C. 336
    , 
    64 S.E. 150
    [(1909)].
    
    Tillman, 84 S.C. at 563
    , 66 S.E. at 1053 (citation omitted). This responsibility
    originates from our recognition of the doctrine of parens patriae. The United
    States Supreme Court explained this doctrine as follows:
    Parens patriae means literally "parent of the country."
    The parens patriae action has its roots in the common-
    law concept of the "royal prerogative." The royal
    prerogative included the right or responsibility to take
    care of persons "who are legally unable, on account of
    mental incapacity, whether it proceed from 1st. nonage:
    2. idiocy: or 3. lunacy: to take proper care of themselves
    and their property." At a fairly early date, American
    courts recognized this common-law concept, but now in
    the form of a legislative prerogative: "This prerogative of
    parens patriae is inherent in the supreme power of every
    State, whether that power is lodged in a royal person or
    in the legislature [and] is a most beneficent
    function . . . often necessary to be exercised in the
    interests of humanity, and for the prevention of injury to
    those who cannot protect themselves."
    Alfred L. Snapp & Son, Inc. v. Puerto Rico, ex rel., Barez, 
    458 U.S. 592
    , 600
    (1982) (alteration in original) (footnotes omitted) (quoting Late Corp. of the
    Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints v. United States, 
    136 U.S. 1
    , 57
    (1890)).
    Our supreme court explained the doctrine in Cook v. Cobb:
    [T]he state, as parens patriae, may limit one's parental
    rights in order to promote a minor child's best interests.
    This principle is founded upon the state's duty to protect
    those of its citizens who are unable because of infancy to
    take care of themselves, and on the right of the child, as
    citizen and ward, to the state's protection. The right of a
    parent to the custody of his or her child is therefore
    subject to the power of the court to protect the child's
    welfare.
    
    271 S.C. 136
    , 145, 
    245 S.E.2d 612
    , 617 (1978) (citations omitted). Our supreme
    court, quoting Tillman, proclaimed, "The rights of the father and mother are both
    subject to the still higher right of the child to have its welfare safeguarded." 
    Id. at 145,
    245 S.E.2d at 617 (quoting 
    Tillman, 84 S.C. at 561
    , 66 S.E. at 1052).
    Likewise, our supreme court recognized as a part of parens patriae, the "[f]amily
    [c]ourt is vested with the exclusive jurisdiction to ensure that, in all matters
    concerning a child, the best interest of the child is the paramount consideration."
    In re Stephen W., 
    409 S.C. 73
    , 78, 
    761 S.E.2d 231
    , 234 (2014) (quoting Harris v.
    Harris, 
    307 S.C. 351
    , 353, 
    415 S.E.2d 391
    , 393 (1992)); see also 
    Cook, 271 S.C. at 140
    , 245 S.E.2d at 614 ("The welfare of the child and what is in [his] best interest
    is the primary, paramount and controlling consideration of the court in all child
    custody controversies."); Powell v. Powell, 
    256 S.C. 111
    , 116, 
    181 S.E.2d 13
    , 16
    (1971) ("It is the duty of all courts to do that which is for the best interest of minor
    children and to protect their rights at every stage of a proceeding, and this is
    particular[ly] true where their custody is involved."); Joiner ex rel. Rivas v. Rivas,
    
    342 S.C. 102
    , 
    536 S.E.2d 372
    (2000) (noting our courts have a "duty to zealously
    guard the rights of minors").
    Our laws governing child custody reflect the legislature's recognition of this duty.
    See S.C. Code Ann. §§ 63-15-10 to -260 (2010 & Supp. 2019). Section 63-15-30,
    which pertains to a child's preference for custody, provides, "In determining the
    best interests of the child, the court must consider the child's reasonable preference
    for custody. The court shall place weight upon the preference based upon the
    child's age, experience, maturity, judgment, and ability to express a preference."
    (emphasis added). Section 63-15-230(A) states, "The court shall make the final
    custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence
    presented." (emphasis added). Moreover, section 63-15-240(B) provides that "[i]n
    issuing or modifying a custody order, the court must consider the best interest of
    the child." (emphasis added). Thus, South Carolina law and the public policy of
    this state require the family court to maintain jurisdiction over issues involving
    children to ensure their best interests are served.
    Binding arbitration prevents family courts from acting as parens patriae to protect
    the best interests of children because it largely precludes judicial review of an
    arbitration award. "When a dispute is submitted to arbitration, the arbitrator
    determines questions of both law and fact. Generally, an arbitration award is
    conclusive and courts will refuse to review the merits of an award. An award will
    be vacated only under narrow, limited circumstances." Gissel v. Hart, 
    382 S.C. 235
    , 241, 
    676 S.E.2d 320
    , 323 (2009) (citations omitted). In Gissel, our supreme
    court further explained parties seeking to vacate an arbitration award face an
    extremely high hurdle:
    [F]or a court to vacate an arbitration award based upon
    an arbitrator's manifest disregard of the law, the
    governing law ignored by the arbitrator must be well
    defined, explicit, and clearly applicable. Case law
    presupposes something beyond a mere error in construing
    or applying the law. Even a "clearly erroneous
    interpretation of the contract" cannot be disturbed. The
    focus is on the conduct of the arbitrator and presupposes
    something beyond a mere error in construing or
    applying the law. An arbitrator's "manifest disregard of
    the law," as a basis for vacating an arbitration award[,]
    occurs when the arbitrator knew of a governing legal
    principle yet refused to apply it. Factual and legal errors
    by arbitrators do not constitute an abuse of powers, and a
    court is not required to review the merits of a decision so
    long as the arbitrators do not exceed their powers.
    
    Id. at 241-42,
    676 S.E.2d at 323-24 (citations omitted).
    Additionally, in Swentor v. Swentor, 
    336 S.C. 472
    , 
    520 S.E.2d 330
    (Ct. App.
    1999), we considered whether an arbitration award determining the parties'
    property division was binding on the family court. Applying the Arbitration Act,
    we concluded "the family court's traditional power to approve property and
    separation agreements, which includes the power to consider the substantive
    fairness of the agreement, simply does not extend to arbitration agreements and
    awards presented to the family court." 
    Id. at 482,
    520 S.E.2d at 336. Thus, we
    determined "the Arbitration Act prohibits the family court from exercising this
    power when presented with arbitration agreements." 
    Id. at 484,
    520 S.E.2d at 337.
    However, we also noted our holding was "limited to arbitration agreements
    resolving issues of property or alimony, and d[id] not apply to agreements
    involving child support or custody." 
    Id. at 485
    n.6, 520 S.E.2d at 338 
    n.6
    (emphasis added).
    As the foregoing demonstrates, the law governing arbitration generally forecloses
    the family court's ability to review the merits of an arbitrator's decisions.
    Furthermore, here, the parties' agreement to arbitrate goes one step further by
    imposing a $10,000 fine upon any party who seeks review of the arbitrator's
    decision.
    Although our supreme court has not specifically addressed binding arbitration and
    the family court's duty to protect the best interests of children,6 in Moseley v.
    Mosier, our supreme court considered whether a family court could hold a party in
    contempt for failing to pay the full amount of child support as provided in the
    parties' separation agreement. 
    279 S.C. 348
    , 
    306 S.E.2d 624
    (1983). There, the
    court held the following with regard to the family court's jurisdiction concerning
    child support:
    Family courts may always modify child support upon a
    proper showing of a change in either the child's needs or
    the supporting parent's financial ability. Today we
    clarify the issue by stating that family courts have
    continuing jurisdiction to do whatever is in the best
    interests of the child regardless of what the separation
    agreement specifies.
    
    Id. at 351,
    306 S.E.2d at 626 (emphasis added) (citation omitted).
    Subsequently, in Ex parte Messer, we recognized the enforceability of arbitration
    clauses in separation agreements, generally. 
    333 S.C. 391
    , 
    509 S.E.2d 486
    (Ct.
    App. 1998). However, we noted, "Moseley makes it clear except for matters
    relating to children, over which the family court retains jurisdiction to do whatever
    is in their best interest, parties to a separation agreement may 'contract out of any
    continuing judicial supervision of their relationship by the court.'" 
    Id. at 395,
    509
    S.E.2d at 487-88 (emphasis added) (quoting 
    Moseley, 279 S.C. at 353
    , 306 S.E.2d
    at 627). We concluded, "Parties to a separation agreement may agree to submit all
    disputes, other than those involving their children, to arbitration and thus deprive
    6
    However, in Kosciusko v. Parham, Op. No. 5690 (S.C. Ct. App. filed Nov. 6,
    2019) (Shearouse Adv. Sh. No. 43 at 48, 52), we recently concluded the court rules
    and established law of this state "preclude[d] the submission of children's issues to
    binding arbitration" and held the family court lacked "subject-matter jurisdiction to
    sanction or approve binding arbitration of children's issues").
    the family court of its traditional powers of enforcement over those disputes." 
    Id. at 395,
    509 S.E.2d at 488 (emphasis added).
    Although we did not expressly address the enforceability of arbitration clauses
    pertaining to the determination of children's issues in Messer, based on the
    principles our supreme court expressed in Moseley, we find family courts must
    retain jurisdiction over matters involving children to serve their best interests.
    In the eyes of the court, an agreement to arbitrate matters involving children stands
    in the same position as an agreement to award custody. The North Carolina
    Supreme Court, in addressing the same issue we face, reasoned:
    Just as parents cannot by agreement deprive the courts of
    their duty to promote the best interests of their children,
    they cannot do so by arbitration. Those provisions of an
    arbitration award concerning custody and child support,
    like those provisions in a separation agreement, will
    remain reviewable and modifiable by the court. With
    regard to these issues, the need for the court to protect the
    welfare of children outweighs the advantages of
    arbitration.
    Crutchley v. Crutchley, 
    293 S.E.2d 793
    , 798 (N.C. 1982). We apply the same
    rationale here. A court cannot be bound by an arbitration award and
    simultaneously act as parens patriae on behalf of a child. Therefore, although
    parties are free to agree to submit these issues to alternative dispute resolution, any
    agreement to limit the family court's ability to review such an award is
    unenforceable.
    Prohibiting courts from overseeing arbitration decisions that involve the best
    interest of a child infringes upon the public policy of this state. Our society has an
    inherent interest in every child. As we stated, family courts are charged with
    protecting that interest for every child. Arbitrators are not held to the same
    standards as family court judges, and the law does not impose upon them the same
    duty to act in the best interest of a child. According to the arbitration agreements
    Mother and Father entered into, the arbitrator usurped all of the decision-making
    authority of the family court but undertook none of the duties imposed upon the
    court. Under the arbitration agreements, this court would not have the ability to
    review the arbitrator's decision regardless of whether it conflicted with the best
    interest of the children. This opens the question of whether family courts would
    have the ability to modify such arbitration awards should a change in circumstance
    occur after a final award.
    We find the court rules, decisions, and laws of this state vest the family court with
    exclusive jurisdiction to decide issues involving children in the best interests of the
    children. Therefore, we hold any provision in an agreement or order that seeks to
    bind the court or limit its jurisdiction to determine the best interests of a child is
    unenforceable. Thus, the family court had no authority to order the submission of
    or approve the parties' agreement to submit such issues to binding arbitration. By
    doing so, the court improperly delegated its duty to safeguard the best interests of
    the children. Although parties are free to agree on their own to engage in
    alternative dispute resolution as to issues involving children, family courts must
    retain continuing jurisdiction over those matters, and any agreement of the parties
    to submit such issues to binding arbitration is unenforceable. 7 The family court
    has the duty to review any awards de novo and may modify, change, or vacate an
    arbitrator's findings as to child custody, visitation, and support in its own
    determination of the best interests of the children. Accordingly, to the extent the
    family court's orders sanctioned or ordered the submission of children's issues to
    binding arbitration, we hold such orders are void ab initio.
    II.   Estoppel
    The doctrine of equitable estoppel is often confused with waiver. "Equitable
    estoppel occurs where a party is denied the right to plead or prove an otherwise
    important fact because of something which he has done or failed to do." Parker v.
    Parker, 
    313 S.C. 482
    , 487, 
    443 S.E.2d 388
    , 391 (1994). "Waiver is a voluntary
    and intentional abandonment or relinquishment of a known right." 
    Id. However, "the
    distinction between waiver and estoppel is close, and sometimes the doctrines
    merge into each other with almost imperceptible gradations." Janasik v. Fairway
    Oaks Villas Horizontal Prop. Regime, 
    307 S.C. 339
    , 344, 
    415 S.E.2d 384
    , 388
    (1992) (citations omitted) (internal quotations omitted).
    Father argues Mother is estopped from challenging the arbitration of issues
    pertaining to their children because she agreed to the arbitration provision in the
    Settlement Agreement. We believe the argument presented by Father supports an
    assertion of waiver, rather than estoppel. Regardless, as we explained above, this
    case involves the fundamental rights of children in a custody action and the court's
    7
    Father concedes in his brief that the family court retains jurisdiction over issues of
    custody, visitation, and support.
    duty to protect the rights and interest of children. Thus, any waiver on the part of
    the parent cannot be found to abrogate the rights of the child or the duty of the
    court. See S.C. Dep't of Soc. Servs. v. Parker, 
    275 S.C. 176
    , 178, 
    268 S.E.2d 282
    ,
    283 (1980) (finding the doctrine of estoppel cannot "be applied to deprive [the
    State] of the due exercise of its police power or to thwart its application of public
    policy."); Blair v. Owens, 
    153 S.C. 94
    , 97, 
    150 S.E. 612
    , 613 (1929) ("The
    authority of a guardian does not extend to the doing of any act detrimental to the
    ward. He cannot waive, abandon, or release without consideration any right or
    interest of the ward . . . .").
    We acknowledge the parties made a conscious decision to include an arbitration
    provision in the Settlement Agreement and reaffirmed their desire to arbitrate those
    issues by entering into agreements to arbitrate, not once, but three times. A parent
    cannot waive the rights of any child or the duty of the family court. See Am. Mut.
    Fire Ins. Co. v. Passmore, 
    275 S.C. 618
    , 621-22, 
    274 S.E.2d 416
    , 418 (1981)
    (finding an illegal insurance policy cannot be made valid by the invocation of the
    doctrine of waiver or estoppel); Kelm v. Kelm, 
    749 N.E.2d 299
    , 304 (Ohio 2001)
    (finding because arbitration of visitation and custody matters violates public
    policy, "appellee has not, by virtue of her acquiescence to the original shared
    parenting plan, waived her right to challenge that plan's provision for arbitration of
    custody and visitation matters."); see also Kosciusko, Op. No. 5960 (Shearouse
    Adv. Sh. 43 at 50 n.12) (noting "subject-matter jurisdiction cannot be waived").
    CONCLUSION
    Based upon the foregoing, we vacate the family court's order confirming the
    arbitration award and remand this case to the family court for a de novo hearing on
    the issues of child custody, visitation, and support. Moreover, to the extent they
    submit issues of child custody, visitation, and support to binding arbitration, any
    portions of any orders appealed by Mother that purport to divest the family court of
    its ability to determine the best interest of the minor children are void and
    unenforceable.
    VACATED AND REMANDED.
    SHORT and MCDONALD, JJ., concur.