In Re JACOBE M.J. , 2013 Tenn. App. LEXIS 790 ( 2013 )


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  •                    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
    AT NASHVILLE
    Assigned on Briefs November 19, 2013
    IN RE: JACOBE M. J.
    Direct Appeal from the Chancery Court for Putnam County
    No. 201210A     Ronald Thurman, Chancellor
    No. M2013-01246-COA-R3-PT - Filed December 5, 2013
    This is a termination of parental rights case. Father appeals the trial court's termination
    of his parental rights on the ground of abandonment by willful failure to visit and willful
    failure to support pursuant to Tennessee Code Annotated Sections 36-1-113(g)(1) and 36-1-
    102(1)(A)(i). We conclude that the ground of abandonment by willful failure to visit and
    willful failure to support is met by clear and convincing evidence in the record, and that there
    is also clear and convincing evidence that termination of Father's parental rights is in the
    child's best interest. Affirmed and remanded.
    Tenn. R. App. P. 3. Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court Affirmed
    and Remanded
    J. S TEVEN S TAFFORD J., delivered the opinion of the Court, in which A LAN E. H IGHERS,
    P.J.,W.S., and D AVID R. F ARMER, J., joined.
    Jason F. Hicks, Cookeville, Tennessee, for the appellant, Jerry P. J.
    Martelia T. Crawford, Cookeville, Tennessee, for the appellee, Yvette F. D.
    OPINION
    I. Background
    The child at issue, Jacobe M. J., was born on January 7, 2009 to Jessica M. D.
    (“Mother”) and Jerry P .J. (“Father,” “Respondent,” or “Appellant”).1 Mother and Father
    1
    It is the policy of this court to use the initials of children and parties involved in juvenile court
    actions to protect the privacy of the children involved.
    were never married.2 Yvette F.D. (“Petitioner,” “Grandmother,” or “Appellee”) is the
    child’s maternal grandmother.
    On April 17, 2012, Grandmother filed a petition in the trial court, seeking to terminate
    both Mother and Father’s parental rights to the minor child. Grandmother also sought to
    adopt the child. As the ground for termination of their parental rights, Grandmother alleged
    that Mother and Father had abandoned the child by willful failure to visit and willful failure
    to support. Tenn. Code Ann. §36-1-113(g)(1); Tenn. Code Ann. §36-1-102(1)(A)(i).
    According to her petition, Grandmother obtained physical custody of the child on or about
    May 13, 2011, when she was granted temporary legal custody under a temporary restraining
    order. This temporary restraining order, which was entered by the juvenile court on May 13,
    2011, enjoins Mother and Father from “removing the minor child from the [Grandmother’s]
    physical custody.”3 Although Grandmother obtained physical custody through the May 13,
    2011 temporary restraining order, the testimony at trial revealed that the child had been living
    with Grandmother continuously since November of 2010, when Mother moved into
    Grandmother’s house with the child. Grandmother testified that Mother stayed with her “on
    and off” for several months, but that Mother often left the child in Grandmother’s care for
    days without indicating her whereabouts. When Mother moved out of Grandmother’s house,
    she left the child in Grandmother’s care.
    Father filed an answer to Grandmother’s petition on May 10, 2012. While he
    admitted that the child had lived with Grandmother since at least 2011, Father denied that he
    had abandoned the child and averred that he had “attempted to provide support to the child.”
    By order of July 2, 2012, a guardian ad litem was appointed to represent the child. On
    October 2, 2012, Father’s attorney filed a motion to withdraw, which motion was granted by
    order of November 14, 2012. The case was set for hearing and, on December 27, 2012,
    Grandmother’s attorney filed an affidavit of service, indicating that Father was served with
    notice of the hearing by certified mail. Thereafter, Father requested that he be appointed
    counsel. By order of January 24, 2013, Father was found to be indigent and an attorney was
    appointed to represent him. By order of January 30, 2013, the case was continued to April
    11, 2013 so that Father’s new attorney could prepare for the hearing; the same order also
    changed the child’s guardian ad litem.
    2
    Mother’s parental rights were terminated by default judgment entered on August 14, 2012. She
    is not a party to the instant appeal.
    3
    On June 12, 2012, the trial court entered a second temporary restraining order, enjoining Mother
    and Father from removing the child from any daycare or from the custody of any care provider.
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    Following the April 11, 2013 hearing, on May 14, 2013, the trial court entered a final
    judgment, terminating Father’s parental rights on the ground of abandonment. We will
    discuss the trial court’s specific findings below.
    II. Issues
    Father appeals the trial court’s termination of his parental rights. He raises two issues
    for review as stated in his brief:
    1. Whether the trial court erred in finding, by clear and
    convincing evidence, that the Father abandoned the child by
    willfully failing to support him and failing to visit him.
    2. Whether the trial court erred in finding, by clear and
    convincing evidence, that it was in the best interest of the child
    to terminate Father’s parental rights.4
    III. Standard of Review
    Under both the United States and Tennessee Constitutions, a parent has a fundamental
    right to the care, custody, and control of his or her child. Stanley v. Illinois, 
    405 U.S. 645
    ,
    651 (1972); Nash–Putnam v. McCloud, 
    921 S.W.2d 170
    , 174 (Tenn. 1996). Thus, the state
    may interfere with parental rights only if there is a compelling state interest. 
    Nash–Putnam, 921 S.W.2d at 174
    –75 (citing Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
    (1982)). Our termination
    statutes identify “those situations in which the state's interest in the welfare of a child justifies
    interference with a parent's constitutional rights by setting forth grounds on which
    termination proceedings can be brought.” In re W.B., Nos. M2004-00999-COA-R3-PT,
    M2004-01572-COA-R3-PT, 
    2005 WL 1021618
    , at *7 (Tenn. Ct. App. Apr. 29, 2005) (citing
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(g)). A person seeking to terminate parental rights must prove
    both the existence of one of the statutory grounds for termination and that termination is in
    the child's best interest. Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(c); In re D.L.B., 
    118 S.W.3d 360
    , 367
    (Tenn. 2003); In re Valentine, 
    79 S.W.3d 539
    , 546 (Tenn. 2002).
    Because of the fundamental nature of the parent's rights and the grave consequences
    of the termination of those rights, courts must require a higher standard of proof in deciding
    termination cases. 
    Santosky, 455 U.S. at 769
    . Consequently, both the grounds for termination
    and the best interest inquiry must be established by clear and convincing evidence. Tenn.
    4
    Although this appeal was originally docketed for oral argument, upon agreement of the parties, the
    case was ultimately submitted to this Court on briefs.
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    Code Ann. § 36–3–113(c)(1); In re 
    Valentine, 79 S.W.3d at 546
    . Clear and convincing
    evidence “establishes that the truth of the facts asserted is highly probable . . . and eliminates
    any serious or substantial doubt about the correctness of the conclusions drawn from the
    evidence.” In re M.J.B., 
    140 S.W.3d 643
    , 653 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2004). Such evidence
    “produces in a fact-finder's mind a firm belief or conviction regarding the truth of the facts
    sought to be established.” 
    Id. at 653.
    In light of the heightened standard of proof in termination of parental rights cases, a
    reviewing court must modify the customary standard of review as set forth in Tennessee Rule
    of Appellate Procedure 13(d). As to the trial court's findings of fact, our review is de novo
    with a presumption of correctness unless the evidence preponderates otherwise. Tenn. R.
    App. P. 13(d). We must then determine whether the facts, as found by the trial court or as
    supported by the preponderance of the evidence, clearly and convincingly establish the
    elements necessary to terminate parental rights. Jones v. Garrett, 
    92 S.W.3d 835
    , 838 (Tenn.
    2002).
    We note that in its May 14, 2013 order, the trial court specifically found that “after
    hearing the testimony of all the witnesses . . . the Grandmother, and her witnesses were very
    credible.” It is well settled that when the resolution of an issue in a case depends upon the
    truthfulness of witnesses, the trial judge who has had the opportunity to observe the witnesses
    and their manner and demeanor while testifying is in a far better position than this Court to
    decide those issues. See McCaleb v. Saturn Corp., 
    910 S.W.2d 412
    , 415 (Tenn. 1995);
    Whitaker v. Whitaker, 
    957 S.W.2d 834
    , 837 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1997). The weight, faith, and
    credit to be given to any witness' testimony lies in the first instance with the trier of fact, and
    the credibility accorded will be given great weight by the appellate court. See id.; see also
    Walton v. Young, 
    950 S.W.2d 956
    , 959 (Tenn. 1997).
    IV. Ground for Termination of Father's Parental Rights
    As set out in its May 14, 2013 order, the trial court terminated Father’s parental rights
    on the ground of abandonment pursuant to Tennessee Code Annotated Section 36-1-
    113(g)(1). In relevant part, the order states:
    2. The Court hereby finds that the allegations by the Petitioner
    Grandmother are abandonment by the Father, as to willful
    failure to visit and willful failure to pay child support, and that
    based on the testimony in open court, the court finds that the
    ground[] ha[s] been proven by clear and convincing evidence
    that the Father has willfully abandoned the child and that the
    Grandmother met her burden of proof.
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    The Court further finds that there has been absolutely no
    child support paid by the father since the minor child went to
    reside with the Grandmother in November 2010, that the father
    was not and is not disabled, that he has maintained employment
    during this period of time, and he had the ability to pay child
    support. The court further finds that the Father did not pay for
    any daycare costs, did not provide any food, clothing or other
    necessaries for the minor child since November 2010. The court
    finds that the grandmother did nothing to prevent the father from
    paying any form of child support and providing any necessities
    for the minor child.
    The court further finds that the father’s excuse that there
    was no court order or request for child support, is insufficient to
    offset his duty of support.
    Therefore, the court specifically finds that the father has
    willfully failed to support his minor child since November 2010.
    The court further finds that there were no visits between
    the Father and the minor child between November 2010 until
    February 2013, and the father’s excuse to this court was that his
    former attorney told him not to contact the Grandmother. The
    court finds that this excuse is insufficient because the Juvenile
    Court Order, he makes reference to, stated that neither parent
    could remove the child from the custody of the Grandmother
    and had nothing to do with contact or visits with the child. The
    Court further finds that the Father made no effort on his part to
    restore his relationship with the child until February 2013. The
    court finds that under the case law, the father has to take
    affirmative action or steps, which the father did not do in this
    case, to restore his relationship with his child, or to seek
    visitation. The court additionally finds that the Grandmother did
    nothing to prevent or hinder the father with his visitation.
    Therefore, the court finds that the Grandmother has proven
    father’s willful failure to visit with the minor child by clear and
    convincing evidence.5
    5
    Tennessee Rule of Civil Procedure 52 requires that, "[i]n all actions tried upon the facts without
    a jury, the court shall find the facts specially and shall state separately its conclusions of law and direct the
    entry of the appropriate judgment." It is too often the case that this rule is not strictly followed; however,
    this is not one of those cases. Here, the trial court made very specific findings concerning both its finding
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    Tennessee Code Annotated Section 36-1-102(1)(A)(i) defines “abandonment,” in
    relevant part, as follows:
    For a period of four (4) consecutive months immediately
    preceding the filing of a proceeding or pleading to terminate the
    parental rights of the parent(s) or guardian(s) of the child who
    is the subject of the petition for termination of parental rights or
    adoption, that the parent(s) or guardian(s) either have willfully
    failed to visit or have willfully failed to support or have
    willfully failed to make reasonable payments toward the support
    of the child; . . . .
    For purposes of this subdivision, “willfully failed to support” or “willfully failed to
    make reasonable payments toward such child's support” means the “willful failure, for a
    period of four (4) consecutive months, to provide monetary support or the willful failure to
    provide more than token payments toward the support of the child.” Tenn. Code Ann. §36-1-
    102 (1)(D).6 Willful failure to visit means “the willful failure, for a period of four (4)
    consecutive months, to visit or engage in more than token visitation.” Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-
    1-102(1)(E).7 As defined in Tennessee Code Annotated Section 
    36-1-102(1)(A)(i), supra
    ,
    the four month time period for the ground of willful failure to visit or support is the four
    months immediately preceding the filing of the petition to terminate parental rights. As noted
    above, the petition to terminate Father’s parental rights in this case was filed on April 17,
    2012.
    Prior to the filing of the petition for termination of his parental rights, Grandmother
    testified that Father had visited, at most, two times—once around Christmas of 2010, and
    again in January of 2011 around the child’s birthday. Neither of those visits occurred in the
    four months preceding the filing of the petition to terminate Father’s parental rights.
    However, after the petition was filed, sometime in January of 2013, Grandmother stated that
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    (...continued)
    regarding the ground for termination of Father's parental rights, and its determination that termination is in
    the child's best interest, see infra. Accordingly, we are able to make a meaningful review in this case, and
    we wish to commend the trial court for the specificity contained in its order.
    6
    Token support means that “the support, under the circumstances of the individual case, is
    insignificant given the parent's means.” Tenn. Code Ann. §36– 1– 102 (1)(B).
    7
    Token visitation means that "visitation, under the circumstances of the individual case, constitutes
    nothing more than perfunctory visitation or visitation of such an infrequent nature or of such short duration
    as to merely establish minimal or insubstantial contact with the child." Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102(1)(C).
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    Father contacted her to set up a visit. Grandmother did not oppose this request and agreed
    to meet Father, with the child, at a local restaurant. From the record, it is clear that during
    the relevant time period, i.e., four months prior to the April 17, 2012 filing of the petition to
    terminate his parental rights, Father did not see the child, nor did he attempt to do so. It was
    only after the petition was filed that Father attempted to see the child. Tennessee Code
    Annotated Section 26-1-102(1)(F) clearly states that: “Abandonment may not be repented
    of by resuming visitation or support subsequent to the filing of any petition seeking to
    terminate parental or guardianship rights or seeking the adoption of a child.” Accordingly,
    Father’s visitation after the filing of the petition cannot cure his failure to visit in the four
    month period prior to the filing date. However, even after the petition was filed, the record
    indicates that Father’s visitation was sporadic, and that his requests were made at his own
    convenience. After the initial visit in January of 2013, Grandmother testified that Father had
    visited with the child only four other times. Accordingly, even if we could consider the
    visitation after the petition was filed, based upon the record, we could only conclude that this
    visitation was, at best, token visitation. Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102(1)(C).
    Father testified that at one point while Mother was living at Grandmother’s home with
    the child, he and Mother had gotten into a verbal altercation at Grandmother’s home. At that
    time, Grandmother indicated that she did not want either Father or Mother at her home.
    However, other than this one occasion, there is no indication in the record that Grandmother
    ever kept Father from visiting with the child. In fact, as noted above, Grandmother
    accommodated Father’s visitation requests by bringing the child to meet him. In his
    testimony, Father attempted to explain his lack of visitation by stating that he was under the
    impression (based upon alleged statements by his attorney) that he would be in violation of
    the temporary restraining 
    orders, supra
    , if he tried to have visitation with the child. As noted
    above, the temporary restraining orders only enjoin Father from removing the child from
    Grandmother’s physical custody and from taking him from daycare or from his care provider.
    There is nothing in these orders to indicate any limitation on Father’s visitation.
    Concerning abandonment by failure to provide more than token support, Grandmother
    testified that during one post-petition visitation, the child had complained of being hungry,
    but that Father made no attempt to buy the child any food. Rather, Father waited until after
    the Grandmother had paid for the child’s meal then said: “If I had known he was hungry, I
    would have bought him something to eat.” In addition, she testified that Father had never
    offered any financial support for the child, and had not otherwise provided any necessities
    for the child such as diapers, food, or the like. Grandmother further stated that Father had
    never sent Christmas or birthday gifts for the child. Grandmother, however, did indicate that
    during the four or five visits (beginning in January of 2013), Father did purchase items (such
    as drinks and food items) for the child, totaling approximately $12.00. Other than these
    nominal expenditures, there is no evidence that Father provided any other support for the
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    child. Grandmother’s testimony reveals that she has paid for the child’s daycare expenses,
    his clothing, food, and everything else the child has needed.
    Father testified that he had offered to pay the child’s daycare expenses, but conceded
    that the Grandmother had ultimately paid the bill. Concerning the fact that he had never paid
    child support, Father testified that he would have paid child support had there been a court
    order requiring him to do so. When asked whether he had taken diapers or other necessities
    to Grandmother for the child, Father stated that he had not done so based upon his belief, see
    discussion infra, that he would be in violation of the temporary restraining order by doing so.
    Father did testify that he has been employed for most of the child’s life. The record indicates
    that although Father’s statement is true in that he has had a steady stream of employment, he
    has not retained any job for a significant time period. Rather, he appears to change jobs
    regularly because of layoffs or because he simply quits. However, from the record, it appears
    that, during the child’s lifetime, Father has had the means to pay some level of support, but
    has not done so.
    Tennessee Code Annotated Section 36-1-102(1)(H) states that “every parent who is
    eighteen (18) years of age or older is presumed to have knowledge of a parent's legal
    obligation to support such parent's child or children.” A parent’s obligation to support his or
    her child exists regardless of a court order requiring the parent to pay support. See, e.g., In
    re Shandajha A.G., No. E2012-02579-COA-R3PT, 
    2013 WL 3787594
    (Tenn. Ct. App. July
    17, 2013) As discussed by this Court in State ex rel. Hayes v. Carter, No.
    W2005-02136-COA-R3-JV, 
    2006 WL 2002577
    (Tenn. Ct. App. July 6, 2006):
    It is well settled in Tennessee that biological parents must, as a
    general matter, support their children until they reach the age of
    majority. See T.C.A. § 34-1-102(a), (b) (2001); Smith v. Gore,
    
    728 S.W.2d 738
    , 750 (Tenn.1987). Their support obligations are
    joint and several, and the extent of their obligations depends on
    their ability to provide support. . . . The parent's obligation to
    support, as well as the child's right to support, exist regardless
    of whether a court order exists, and regardless of whether the
    parents were ever married.
    
    Id. at *2.
    At the time of the filing of the petition, Father was over the age of eighteen;
    furthermore, there is no indication that Father was unaware, at any point in the child’s life,
    that he was the child’s natural father. Accordingly, like the trial court, we find Father’s
    argument that his failure to pay any child support due to the fact that there was not a court
    order requiring him to do so to be unpersuasive.
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    V. Best Interest
    When at least one ground for termination of parental rights has been established, the
    petitioner must then prove, by clear and convincing evidence, that termination of the parent's
    rights is in the child's best interest. White v. Moody, 
    171 S.W.3d 187
    , 192 (Tenn. Ct.
    App.1994). When a parent has been found to be unfit upon establishment of a ground for
    termination of parental rights, then the interests of parent and child diverge. In re Audrey S.,
    
    182 S.W.3d 838
    , 877 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005). The focus shifts to the child's best interest. 
    Id. at 877.
    Because not all parental conduct is irredeemable, Tennessee's termination of parental
    rights statutes recognize the possibility that terminating an unfit parent's parental rights is not
    always in the child's best interest. 
    Id. However, when
    the interests of the parent and the child
    conflict, courts are to resolve the conflict in favor of the rights and best interest of the child.
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-101(d). “The child's best interest must be viewed from the child's,
    rather than the parent's, perspective.” 
    Moody, 171 S.W.3d at 194
    .
    In addition to the ground of abandonment by willful failure to either visit or support
    the child, the trial court also specifically found that termination of Father’s parental rights
    was in the child’s best interest:
    3. In making a best interest analysis, the court has evaluated the
    factors set forth in TCA 36-1-113(i), as to best interest, and
    finds as follows:
    A. That the father has not made sufficient adjustment to his
    circumstances that would make it safe for the child to be in his
    home. In particular, the father, knowing the child has serious
    medical problems (i.e., Asthma), smokes at least one (1) pack of
    cigarettes per day, and his girlfriend smokes, as well.
    B. The Grandmother has provided a safe, stable and good
    environment for the child. The Father is without excuse for
    failure to visit as stated hereinabove. Grandmother has been
    there for the child. . . .
    C. The father does not have a meaningful relationship with the
    child and is not bonded to the child. The court finds that just
    because a child recognizes a person does not mean that they are
    bonded to that person. The [Grandmother]. . .[has] established
    a meaningful relationship with the child, and the child is bonded
    with the Grandmother.
    D. The child is safe with the Grandmother and his medical
    condition has improved because of the efforts of the
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    Grandmother, in caring for the child. . . .
    E. The father was neglectful of the child in that he has
    previously allowed the child to be in the presence of the Mother,
    whom he admitted, in open court was addicted to drugs, and
    allowed the Mother to drive and care for the child unsupervised.
    That the father continues to smoke knowing that the child
    suffers from a serious medical condition[, which is] aggravated
    by second hand smoke.
    F. The Grandmother’s home is safe and a good environment for
    the child. . . .
    G. The father has paid no child support, and the Grandmother
    has paid significant costs to care for her grandson.
    The Tennessee Legislature has codified certain factors that courts should consider in
    ascertaining the best interest of the child in a termination of parental rights case at Tennessee
    Code Annotated Sections 36-1-113(i). These factors include, but are not limited to, the
    following:
    (1) Whether the parent or guardian has made such an adjustment
    of circumstance, conduct, or conditions as to make it safe and in
    the child's best interest to be in the home of the parent or
    guardian;
    ***
    (3) Whether the parent or guardian has maintained regular
    visitation or other contact with the child;
    (4) Whether a meaningful relationship has otherwise been
    established between the parent or guardian and the child;
    (5) The effect a change of caretakers and physical environment
    is likely to have on the child's emotional, psychological and
    medical condition;
    ***
    (7) Whether the physical environment of the parent's or
    guardian's home is healthy and safe, whether there is criminal
    activity in the home, or whether there is such use of alcohol or
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    controlled substances as may render the parent or guardian
    consistently unable to care for the child in a safe and stable
    manner;
    (8) Whether the parent's or guardian's mental and/or emotional
    status would be detrimental to the child or prevent the parent or
    guardian from effectively providing safe and stable care and
    supervision for the child; or
    (9) Whether the parent or guardian has paid child support
    consistent with the child support guidelines promulgated by the
    department pursuant to § 36–5–101.
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(i). This Court has noted that, “this list [of factors] is not
    exhaustive, and the statute does not require a trial court to find the existence of each
    enumerated factor before it may conclude that terminating a parent's rights is in the best
    interest of a child.” In re M.A.R., 
    183 S.W.3d 652
    , 667 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005). Depending
    on the circumstances of an individual case, the consideration of a single factor or other facts
    outside the enumerated, statutory factors may dictate the outcome of the best interest
    analysis. In re Audrey 
    S., 182 S.W.3d at 877
    .
    Turning to the record, Grandmother testified about the child’s breathing issues, which
    include asthma, sinusitis, and bronchitis. In addition, the child has tubes in his ears. He also
    suffers from occasional bouts of eczema. Grandmother testified that the child’s condition
    has gotten better during his time with her. She stated that she makes sure he has regular
    doctor’s visits, and that he takes his prescribed medications on schedule. Grandmother
    further stated that pursuant to doctors’ orders, the child cannot be exposed to certain
    allergens, including smoke, perfumes, air fresheners, etc. Grandmother indicated that she
    has arranged her home so that the child will have minimal contact with such allergens.
    Father testified that he has lived in his fiancé’s home with her for approximately two
    years. Both Father and his fiancé have one child each from previous relationships. Both of
    these children live in the home with Father and his fiancé. Father briefly testified that the
    Department of Children’s Services had been involved with him concerning the child in his
    care and custody, but that the case had been closed with him retaining custody. The record
    does not elaborate on the particular facts surrounding the Department’s involvement.
    Regardless, Father’s fiancé testified that both she and Father smoke. She stated that Father
    smokes approximately one pack of cigarettes per day, and that she smokes approximately
    three “little” cigars per day.
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    The record indicates that Grandmother retired from employment with the Cookeville
    Police Department in March of 2013. At the time of the hearing, Grandmother stated that
    she was employed full-time as a fitness instructor. Grandmother testified that she owns a
    three-bedroom, two-bath home in Cookeville, where she has lived since 1996. The child has
    his own bedroom in the home. Grandmother testified that she does have family help from
    her father, the child’s great-grandfather, in caring for the child. The great-grandfather also
    testified at the hearing, and his testimony corroborates Grandmother’s.
    Concerning the child’s relationship with Father, Grandmother testified that: “He [the
    child] doesn’t ask about his father. We’ve had five visits. He doesn’t talk about his father
    after the visits and doesn’t ask about seeing him again.” Betsy Dunn, a friend of
    Grandmother’s, also testified. Ms. Dunn indicated that although she works for the Tennessee
    Department of Children’s Services, she was not testifying in her official capacity. Ms. Dunn
    stated that she had visited Grandmother’s home many times and had observed the child’s
    relationship with Grandmother. Ms. Dunn testified that the relationship between the
    Grandmother and the child is “more like a mother-son bond.” Ms. Dunn was also present
    at the meeting between the child and Father, which is mentioned above. She stated that
    although the child calls Father “Daddy,” the child did not appear to be overly excited to see
    him. Rather, she opined that the child treats the Father as a “playmate.” Father was also
    asked about his relationship with the child. In response to the question: “What kind of
    relationship do you and [the child] have,” Father answered: “At this point, because of the
    two-year process that’s been going on, it is slim. But that’s not nothing [sic] that I . . . don’t
    want to change.”
    From the totality of the circumstances, and in light of the statutory factors set out
    above, we conclude that clear and convincing evidence exists in the record to support both
    the trial court’s termination of Father’s parental rights on the ground of abandonment, and
    the trial court’s finding that termination of Father’s parental rights is in the child’s best
    interest.
    VI. Conclusion
    For the foregoing reasons, we affirm the order of the trial court, terminating Father's
    parental rights on the ground of abandonment by willful failure to visit and willful failure to
    support. The case is remanded for further proceedings as may be necessary and are consistent
    with this opinion. Costs of the appeal are assessed against the Father. Because Father is
    proceeding as a pauper in this appeal, execution may issue for costs if necessary.
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    J. STEVEN STAFFORD, JUDGE
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