In Re Adaline D. ( 2021 )


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    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
    AT KNOXVILLE
    July 20, 2021 Session
    IN RE ADALINE D. ET AL.1
    Appeal from the Chancery Court for Cumberland County
    No. 2019-CH-1665 Ronald Thurman, Chancellor
    ___________________________________
    No. E2020-01597-COA-R3-PT
    ___________________________________
    The maternal grandmother and step-grandfather of two children filed a petition to terminate
    the parental rights of the children’s biological mother and of their respective alleged fathers
    on the grounds of abandonment by failure to provide financial support, abandonment by
    failure to visit, and failure to manifest an ability and willingness to assume legal and
    physical custody of the children. The petitioners also averred that the alleged fathers had
    failed to establish paternity of their respective child. The trial court granted the petition,
    finding that each of the alleged statutory grounds for termination had been established by
    clear and convincing evidence and that terminating the parental rights was in the children’s
    best interests. Upon careful review of the record, we reverse the trial court’s finding as to
    the ground of failure to manifest an ability and willingness to assume legal and physical
    custody of the children but affirm its judgment in all other respects.
    Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court
    Affirmed in Part; Reversed in Part; Case Remanded
    KRISTI M. DAVIS, J., delivered the opinion of the Court, in which D. MICHAEL SWINEY,
    C.J., and J. STEVEN STAFFORD, P.J., W.S., joined.
    Ryan T. Logue, Morristown, Tennessee, for the appellant, Kayla D.
    Gregory E. Bennett, Seymour, Tennessee, for the appellant, Tyson N.
    Ivy J. Gardner, Crossville, Tennessee, for the appellees, Richard R. and Carla R.
    OPINION
    1
    It is this Court’s policy to protect the identity of children in parental termination cases by
    initializing the last names of parties and witnesses, as appropriate. Meaning no disrespect, we refer to
    certain parties and witnesses in this case by their first names.
    FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
    Kayla D. (“Mother”) gave birth to Adaline D. in August 2015 and to Lilah N. in
    March 2018. Tyson N. (“Tyson”) is the alleged biological father of Lilah N.2 Richard R.
    and Carla R. (“Petitioners”) are married and are the children’s step-grandfather and
    maternal grandmother, respectively. Petitioners first received custody of Adaline in
    November 2016 pursuant to an order from the Cumberland County Juvenile Court (“the
    juvenile court”), resulting from Mother’s admitted use of illegal drugs. Two years later, in
    November 2018, Mother regained custody of Adaline. Lilah was about eight months old
    at the time, and the juvenile court found that Mother’s “home is a proper placement for
    [Adaline] who should be reunited with her mother and sister.” However, just a few days
    later, on November 28, 2018, Mother returned to Petitioners’ home with both children,
    admitted to drug use, and called the Tennessee Department of Children’s Services (“DCS”)
    to make a referral on herself. DCS asked Petitioners to take in Mother and the children,
    and they stayed at Petitioners’ home until early February 2019.
    On February 13, 2019, Petitioners filed a petition for ex parte emergency custody
    of Adaline and Lilah in the juvenile court. The petition alleged that on November 28, 2018,
    nine days after regaining custody of Adaline, Mother admitted to relapse in using drugs
    and returned to live with Petitioners; that Mother became violent at Petitioners’ home on
    February 12, 2019; that while attempting to leave with the children, Mother wrecked into
    Petitioners’ truck; that the children were unrestrained in Mother’s vehicle; that Mother was
    arrested and taken to jail; and that both Mother and Tyson were actively using illegal
    narcotics. On the same day, the juvenile court entered an ex parte order placing custody of
    the children with Petitioners.
    On February 20, 2019, the juvenile court entered a preliminary hearing order finding
    probable cause for removing the children, leaving custody of the children with Petitioners,
    and mandating that all contact between the children and Mother and Tyson “be directly
    supervised” by Petitioners. The record contains no evidence of further proceedings in the
    juvenile court. Meanwhile, in May 2019, Mother pled guilty to reckless endangerment in
    the Cumberland County General Sessions Court with respect to the incident at Petitioners’
    home on February 12, 2019. She was sentenced to 11 months and 29 days in jail, but the
    sentence was “furloughed” to long-term treatment. Mother entered a twelve-month
    rehabilitation program on June 3, 2019.
    On September 20, 2019, Petitioners filed a petition for termination of parental rights
    and adoption of the children in the Cumberland County Chancery Court (“the trial court”),
    2
    Although Adaline’s biological father was also named as a party in the underlying action, he is not
    a party to this appeal. He failed to appear and did not respond to the petition to terminate his parental rights,
    and the trial court entered a judgment by default against him after finding that Petitioners proved by clear
    and convincing evidence the grounds for termination alleged against him. He is not referenced further in
    this opinion.
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    alleging as grounds for termination that, during the relevant statutory period, Mother and
    Tyson did not support the children, did not visit the children, and failed to manifest an
    ability and willingness to assume legal and physical custody of the children. In addition,
    Petitioners alleged that Tyson’s parental rights should be terminated for failure to file a
    petition to legitimate Lilah N. within thirty days after statutory notice of his alleged
    paternity, pursuant to Tennessee Code Annotated section 36-1-113(g)(9).
    Trial was held on September 16 and 17, 2020. Petitioners introduced the testimony
    of several witnesses. Brandon Griffin, an officer with the Crossville Police Department,
    testified that he responded to a domestic incident between Mother and Tyson on May 27,
    2019. According to Officer Griffin, Mother told him that she and Tyson had been arguing
    because Tyson did not want her to go into treatment. Tashua Stone, a Cumberland County
    Sheriff’s deputy, testified that she arrested Mother on February 12, 2019, on charges of
    leaving the scene of an accident, reckless endangerment, and vandalism, after responding
    to the incident at Petitioners’ home. Pam Cooper, a daycare worker, testified that she
    started taking care of the children since Adaline was eight or nine months old. Ms. Cooper
    said that Petitioners have been the ones primarily involved in the children’s daily drop off
    and that she has never seen Tyson. She had seen Mother only a couple of times when
    Adaline was around nine months old. Taylor Hammons, the children’s babysitter, testified
    that she has known Adaline since she was about one year old. Ms. Hammons has never
    met Tyson. She testified that on one occasion Mother did not pick up the children, and she
    had to keep them overnight and take them to Petitioners’ home the next day. Dakota R.,
    Mother’s half-brother and the children’s uncle, testified that he and Mother were “real
    close” growing up. Dakota said they had smoked marijuana together when they were in
    high school. He said he did not think Mother and the children had “really established” a
    relationship because Carla R. had Adaline since she was only months old. Dakota said that
    when he observed Mother with the children, Mother tried to be “motherly” but struggled.
    He added that whenever Adaline would have any type of “issue,” she would go to Carla
    instead of Mother. Dakota was present during the February 2019 incident at Petitioners’
    home and saw Mother attempting to leave with Adaline in the front seat of her car and
    Lilah in the back seat, both unbuckled, and then hitting Petitioners’ truck and house.
    Sydney R. is Dakota’s wife. Sydney testified that Petitioners provide a safe environment
    for the children and added, “I leave my [two-year-old] son with them all of the time with
    the girls.” She said that Mother had told her before that she used drugs whenever she feels
    “stressed or bored.”
    Petitioners also offered their own testimony. Carla R. testified that she and Richard
    R. have been married for nine years and that she has worked as a pharmacy technician for
    over eighteen years. Carla said that when Mother was six years old she learned that
    Mother’s biological father—and her then husband—was a drug user and had exposed
    Mother to drugs. Carla said she immediately pursued legal action to remove his visitation
    rights. They were divorced six months later. She also said that when Mother was twenty-
    one years old, Mother told her for the first time that Mother’s father had also sexually
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    abused her when she was six years old. Carla admitted that she and Mother do not get
    along. Concerning Mother’s history of drug use, Carla learned that Mother was using drugs
    when Mother was seventeen years old and tested positive for opioids after passing out at a
    cross country meet. Mother has told her that she has used meth, marijuana, and IV drugs,
    and that her pill of choice is Opana.3 According to Carla, Mother had unsuccessfully
    attempted rehabilitation four times, including detoxing in December 2017 when Mother
    was about six months pregnant with Lilah. Carla said that Mother “was trying to quit doing
    opioids. So Tyson introduced her to shooting up with Meth. It would take away the body
    ache of stopping pills.” One time when Mother was hospitalized for liver failure, Mother
    told Carla that Tyson “sometimes . . . comes in here and so I don’t feel the pain, he brings
    me some drugs.”
    Carla said Mother moved out when she turned eighteen. Mother came back to
    Petitioners’ home when she was pregnant with Adaline and was still living there when
    Adaline was born. A few months after giving birth to Adaline, Mother started using drugs
    again with coworkers. Mother started going out and would leave Adaline with Petitioners.
    Mother moved out with Adaline in July 2016; however, Petitioners still cared for Adaline
    every day, except Sunday when Mother would keep her until Monday morning when she
    would take her to day care. Carla said that when Adaline had her tonsils removed, Mother
    knew about the procedure, was able to come, but did not show up. Petitioners received
    custody of Adaline in November 2016 after Mother told Carla that “she was using drugs
    and asked if [she] would take Adaline.” Carla said that she did not hear from Mother from
    November 2016 to November 2018 and that Mother did not try to visit Adaline during that
    period. She explained that in November 2018, nine days after custody of Adaline had been
    returned to Mother, DCS showed up at her home with Mother, Adaline, and Lilah to ask if
    Petitioners could take Mother and the children in. “[Mother] would remain in custody of
    her own children, with us helping supervise. And she was to go to an outpatient treatment
    center at the hospital.” Carla said Mother went to treatment a couple of times but then
    stopped going. In February 2019, when Mother took the children from Petitioner’s home,
    Carla saw from the kitchen window that “Lilah was in the back and Adaline was standing
    up in the driver’s seat and [Mother] was driving into our house and into my husband’s
    vehicle.” Both children were unrestrained. She said Petitioners received custody of both
    children the next day because Mother was arrested. They have provided the children with
    everything they need and have enrolled them in kindergarten and daycare.
    Carla stated that neither Mother nor Tyson has given any type of support for the
    children during the four months preceding the filing of the petition to terminate their
    parental rights, but she acknowledged that Mother sent Adaline a birthday gift and
    Christmas gifts for both children. She added that Mother did not help support the children
    when Mother lived at Petitioners’ home. Carla also stated that neither Mother nor Tyson
    3
    “Opana is a very strong form of the narcotic oxymorphone and used to treat chronic pain.” State
    v. Irizzary, No. M2016-00465-CCA-R3-CD, 
    2017 WL 1205960
    , at *3 (Tenn. Crim. App. Mar. 31, 2017).
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    attempted to contact her about the children, other than one time when Tyson asked for a
    birthday picture of Lilah. She said that her address has not changed since Mother lived in
    her home and that her mobile number has not changed in the last ten years. She stated that
    neither Mother nor Tyson made consistent attempts to see the children. Carla said she
    never told Mother or Tyson that they were not permitted to see the children but that she
    had instructed them: “Have your attorney contact our attorney.”
    Carla testified that she is extremely close with the children and that they do
    everything together. The children call her “Mimi,” and they call Richard “Paw.” She said
    that Adaline knows Mother only as “the lady from McDonald’s,” where they would have
    visitation. She stated that neither Mother nor Tyson has a bond with the children.
    According to Carla, Adaline gets scared when she hears Mother’s name and says, “Don’t
    talk to me about that.” She said she is willing to take care of the children for the rest of her
    life, and the children have developed a bond with her husband as well.
    Richard R. corroborated much of his wife’s testimony. Richard said Adaline goes
    with him to feed the dogs and chickens and “follows [him] around everywhere.” He said
    the children love Carla more than anything in the world. Richard has been in Mother’s life
    for about ten years and, based on his experience as a former narcotics officer with the
    Crossville Police Department, has seen her “higher than a kite” before. He said that during
    the February 2019 incident, Mother “rammed” her car between his house and his truck
    after he refused to move his truck for her to leave because he could tell Mother was “high”
    on drugs. According to Richard, after Petitioners received emergency custody of the
    children, the only contact he had with Mother and Tyson was a text, to which he responded,
    “Have your attorney contact our attorney.” He has not told them that they cannot visit the
    children. Richard also stated that Mother and Tyson have not provided any financial
    support for the children. Richard said that he and the children have developed a bond, and
    he expressed concern with returning the children to Mother and Tyson because the children
    would be going to an environment where there had been repeated drug use.
    In addition to their own testimony, Mother and Tyson offered the testimony of two
    other witnesses. Paige Holdsclaw, program director at True Purpose Women’s Home,
    explained that the program is a year-long residential treatment program for men and women
    suffering from addiction. The program provides parenting classes, counseling, and
    treatment; offers accountability; and helps participants find jobs. According to Ms.
    Holdsclaw, Mother detoxed before entering the program although she was not required to
    do so. Mother was not allowed contact with anyone outside the program during the
    program’s first month, June 3 to July 3, 2019. Weekend passes can be obtained after ninety
    days, which allow for family members to take participants wherever they need to go;
    participants cannot drive themselves. After nine months, participants can come and go if
    they have been trustworthy. Ms. Holdsclaw said that Mother and Tyson got their own
    apartment at nine months but were still subject to random drug screens, were in contact
    with program staff daily, and were attending classes. Melanie Collier, a friend of Mother
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    and Tyson, testified that she went with Mother to the first supervised visit at McDonald’s
    and that she “could see right away that [Mother] needed some support.” According to Ms.
    Collier, Petitioners bought breakfast for Adaline, kept it at their table, and asked Adaline
    to come and get another bite. They also kept asking, “do you want to play with the cell
    phone?” In Ms. Collier’s view, visits at the park were worse. “I think anybody would be
    intimidated if you had somebody just breathing down your neck when you’re only trying
    to visit with your child.” She added: “I noticed that whenever there was a visit, [Petitioners]
    deliberately kept referring to [Mother by her first name] . . . so that their granddaughter
    never got the idea that [Mother] Kayla was her mother.” Ms. Collier testified that Mother
    would visit her in Crossville once a month.
    Tyson, Adaline’s alleged father, testified that he and Mother married in July 2019
    and live together with their daughter, Aurora, who was born in September 2019. Aurora
    was born while he and Mother were participating in the True Purpose year-long treatment
    program. He asserted that Lilah is his daughter but admitted that he had not had a DNA
    test to establish his paternity. Tyson said that he was in county jail when Lilah was born
    but that he went to sign her birth certificate once he was released. He stayed home with
    Lilah for four months because Mother was working at the time. He then began working at
    Stonepeak Ceramics in Crossville more than sixty hours per week, making $11.50 per hour,
    until he entered the treatment program. He said he had to stop working and begin
    volunteering for the first three months but thereafter began working at Denso
    Manufacturing, where he is still employed. He makes about $50,000 per year working fifty
    to sixty hours per week. Tyson admitted that he understands his obligation to support his
    children even without a court order. He said he did not pay any child support to Petitioners
    because he has “been blocked from trying to support them.”
    Tyson testified that in July 2019, his terms of probation were modified to include
    completing the True Purpose treatment program. He stated that program participants are
    not allowed to have outside contact for the first six weeks but that he tried to contact Carla
    once he was permitted to make phone calls. Tyson insisted that he did not willfully fail to
    visit Lilah. Instead, he explained: “Well, seeing how the court [emergency custody] order
    stated that we’re not to come within the vicinity of our children and would be restrained
    from being around the petitioners or the children, it’s kind of hard for me just to show up
    to her house, first of all, if I knew where it was. Second of all, they won’t respond to texts,
    calls, nothing. What am I supposed to do? Send a letter to them? I mean, I don’t know.”
    He said that he texted and called Richard multiple times to try to see Lilah. He said he
    asked for a picture of Lilah, but Carla did not send it. Tyson admitted that Petitioners never
    told him that he could not see Lilah and that he did not write any letters to her.
    Tyson explained that he started using drugs “[e]ver since [he] got hurt in the Army”
    and admitted that he was using Oxycontin and Oxycodone at the time of the February 2019
    court hearing when the children were placed with Petitioners. He said, however, that he
    passed all random drug screenings given during the treatment program and that he has been
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    clean almost sixteen months. Concerning Mother’s relapse in November 2018, which led
    to Mother and the children going to Petitioners’ home, he stated that he and Mother “had a
    moment of weakness.” After that time, he saw Lilah once during Christmas and another
    time when they went out to eat.
    Tyson did not have concerns about the children’s safety when staying with
    Petitioners. He stated that he submitted to a court-ordered hair follicle test but that he does
    not know the results. After initially stating that the children’s guardian ad litem never
    communicated with him, when pressed about receiving a business card from her at the
    February 2019 hearing, he said: “If that was on the day of the hearing, that was the only
    contact that we were out here.” He admitted he never reached out to the guardian ad litem.
    Tyson acknowledged that he has an eight-year-old daughter in Ohio whom he has not seen
    for over a year and for whom he does not pay child support.
    Mother testified that she did not have custody of Adaline when her second child,
    Lilah, was born. She said she was a month or two pregnant with Lilah when she entered a
    detox program. However, she later admitted that she was “further along than just barely
    pregnant” when she went for detox. Her youngest child, Aurora, was born in September
    2019 while Mother was enrolled in the year-long treatment program. Mother admitted she
    was using drugs during the pregnancy.
    Mother stated that she was first exposed to drugs when she was sexually abused and
    “forced with drugs at six years old” by her biological father. She said she started using
    “hard core” drugs when she was eighteen years old, including “Roxies, Opanas, Percs,
    [and] Hydros.” She dropped out during her first semester of college due to “struggling
    with addiction.” Over the years, she has also used meth, L.S.D., marijuana, and cocaine.
    Mother acknowledged using drugs with Tyson. She does not recall saying to Carla that
    Tyson “came and shot [her] up with Meth because [she was] pill sick in the hospital.”
    Mother has been in treatment programs three times, the last one being the only long-term
    treatment she has had. She admitted that her last treatment was court-ordered and that she
    would have to serve her sentence in confinement if she left the program. Mother started
    the treatment program on June 3, 2019 and completed it on June 3, 2020. She said she was
    five or six months pregnant with Aurora when she started the program. Mother did a six-
    week parenting class during the fourth month of the program. She also had trauma
    counseling with a clinical counselor every day during the program. Mother gets a Vivitrol
    shot once a month, which prevents a person from getting high from opiates. While Mother
    was pregnant with Aurora, she took Naltrexone, which is the pill form of Vivitrol.
    With respect to visitation of the children, Mother said that for the first thirty days of
    the treatment program, she was not allowed to have contact with anybody or leave the
    facility. She stated that prior to entering the program, she was “going back and forth to
    court. And [she] couldn’t do anything until [her] court cases were settled.” Mother stated
    that she had “been texting and calling after the court date and . . . they kept saying, ‘Have
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    your attorney contact our attorney.’” Once she began getting “one or two phone calls a
    week for five to ten minutes,” Mother called Carla “at work and she hung up on me.” She
    said she used the program director’s cell phone to text Carla and check on the children
    while in the program. After the program ended, she said she texted Carla and still received
    no response. Mother stated: “I have tried so much to reach out to them and I get ignored.
    I’ve sent presents. I’ve tried to do everything. I don’t even know if that’s their correct
    address. I have tried to see how my kids are and nobody responds back to me, so how can
    I move forward or try to set any visitations if no one will respond back.” She claimed that
    she does not know Petitioners’ home address or Richard’s cell phone number. She
    admitted the Petitioners have not “directly” told her that she cannot visit the children but
    maintained that they will not take her calls. Mother said she “wrote a Christmas letter in
    the Bible books that [she] sent [to the children].” Mother said she “didn’t know what to
    do. You know, I’m sitting here screaming, like ‘Let’s do something, please.’ And I’m
    getting no response back. You know, I was stuck in a really hard place that felt I had no
    options.”
    Concerning support of the children, Mother said that she worked at a restaurant for
    about a year, making two to three hundred dollars per week. She also worked forty hours
    per week at Good Samaritans for about a year making about $8 per hour and as as a janitor
    at Life Care Center making $11-12 per hour. More recently, Mother had cleaned houses
    once or twice a month, making about $50 per month. She said that during the treatment
    program she did not have the means to send support because she was required to volunteer
    her time. She confirmed she has never paid child support but affirmed she would be willing
    if Petitioners would respond to her. She said she did not send support because she did not
    know where to send it.
    Regarding the incident at Petitioners’ home in February 2019, Mother said she pled
    guilty to the charges “so [she] wouldn’t have a felony charge.” She said that she has “been
    high around [the kids], but . . . never actually got high around them.” Mother admitted to
    speaking with the guardian ad litem at the emergency custody hearing in February 2019.
    She said that the guardian ad litem never contacted her and that she never contacted the
    guardian ad litem. Mother stated that she has been at her current address since March 2020,
    paying rent, utilities, and a car loan. The children have private health insurance with Blue
    Cross/Blue Shield through Tyson. Mother asserted that she is “in a way different place
    now mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. . . . I’ve completely changed my life.
    The way I live, the way I think and the way that I’m a mom. It’s completely changed
    everything.” She highlighted that she and Tyson “have a one year old that is thriving. She
    is very well taken care of. And she wants to see her sisters.” Mother has had no encounters
    with law enforcement since the February 2019 incident. She has a driver’s license and a
    cell phone, and she is willing to get a job right away although she currently stays at home.
    On November 2, 2020, the trial court entered an order terminating Mother’s and
    Tyson’s parental rights, concluding that Petitioners had proven by clear and convincing
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    evidence three grounds for termination against both Mother and Tyson: abandonment by
    willful and voluntary failure to support the children during the statutory four-month period
    preceding the filing of the termination petition (May 20, 2019 through September 19,
    2019), abandonment by willful and voluntary failure to visit the children during the
    statutory period, and failure to manifest an ability and willingness to assume legal and
    physical custody of the children. The trial court also ruled that Tyson is not the legal father
    of Lilah because of his failure to meet statutory requirements and “by not being married to
    [Mother] at or within three hundred days of the child’s birth, failing to get a D.N.A. test or
    obtain a court order of paternity.” In addition, the trial court determined that it was in the
    children’s best interest to terminate Mother’s and Tyson’s respective parental rights. The
    trial court noted that it was concerned about “removing the [children] from their present
    environment and placing them somewhere else where there’s some question.”
    ISSUES PRESENTED
    The appellants raise the following four issues on appeal:4
    1. Whether the trial court erred in finding by clear and convincing evidence that
    appellants abandoned the children by failing to visit them.
    2. Whether the trial court erred in finding by clear and convincing evidence that
    appellants abandoned the children by failing to make child support payments.
    3. Whether the trial court erred in finding by clear and convincing evidence that
    appellants failed to manifest an ability and willingness to assume legal and physical
    custody or financial responsibility of the children and that placing the children in
    their legal and physical custody would pose a risk of substantial harm to the physical
    and psychological welfare of the children.
    4. Whether the trial court erred in finding by clear and convincing evidence that
    termination of their parental rights was in the children’s best interest.
    In addition, Tyson asks this Court to review:
    5. Whether the trial court erred in finding by clear and convincing evidence that he
    failed to file a petition to establish paternity to Lilah N.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    Our Supreme Court has explained that:
    4
    As to appellant Tyson, these issues apply only to Lilah N.
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    A parent’s right to the care and custody of her child is among the oldest of
    the judicially recognized fundamental liberty interests protected by the Due
    Process Clauses of the federal and state constitutions. Troxel v.
    Granville, 
    530 U.S. 57
    , 65, 
    120 S. Ct. 2054
    , 
    147 L.Ed.2d 49
     (2000); Stanley
    v. Illinois, 
    405 U.S. 645
    , 651, 
    92 S. Ct. 1208
    , 
    31 L.Ed.2d 551
     (1972); In re
    Angela E., 
    303 S.W.3d 240
    , 250 (Tenn. 2010); In re Adoption of Female
    Child, 
    896 S.W.2d 546
    , 547–48 (Tenn. 1995); Hawk v. Hawk, 
    855 S.W.2d 573
    , 578–79 (Tenn. 1993). But parental rights, although fundamental and
    constitutionally protected, are not absolute. In re Angela E., 
    303 S.W.3d at 250
    . “‘[T]he [S]tate as parens patriae has a special duty to protect minors....’
    Tennessee law, thus, upholds the [S]tate’s authority as parens patriae when
    interference with parenting is necessary to prevent serious harm to a
    child.” Hawk, 
    855 S.W.2d at 580
     (quoting In re Hamilton, 
    657 S.W.2d 425
    ,
    429 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1983)); see also Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
    , 747,
    
    102 S. Ct. 1388
    , 
    71 L.Ed.2d 599
     (1982); In re Angela E., 
    303 S.W.3d at 250
    .
    In re Carrington H., 
    483 S.W.3d 507
    , 522–23 (Tenn. 2016). Tennessee Code Annotated
    section 36-1-113 provides the various grounds for termination of parental rights. In re
    Jacobe M.J., 
    434 S.W.3d 565
    , 568 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2013); see also 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36
    -
    1-113(g). “A party seeking to terminate parental rights must prove both the existence of
    one of the statutory grounds for termination and that termination is in the child’s best
    interest.” 
    Id.
     (citing 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (c)).
    In light of the substantial interests at stake in termination proceedings, the
    heightened standard of clear and convincing evidence applies. In re Carrington H., 483
    S.W.3d at 522 (citing Santosky, 
    455 U.S. at 769
    ). This heightened burden “minimizes the
    risk of erroneous governmental interference with fundamental parental rights[,]” and
    “enables the fact-finder to form a firm belief or conviction regarding the truth of the
    facts[.]” 
    Id.
     (citing In re Bernard T., 
    319 S.W.3d 586
    , 596 (Tenn. 2010)). “The clear-and-
    convincing-evidence standard ensures that the facts are established as highly probable,
    rather than as simply more probable than not.” 
    Id.
     (citing In re Audrey S., 
    182 S.W.3d 838
    ,
    861 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005)). Accordingly, the standard of review in termination of parental
    rights cases is as follows:
    An appellate court reviews a trial court’s findings of fact in termination
    proceedings using the standard of review in Tenn. R. App. P. 13(d). In re
    Bernard T., 
    319 S.W.3d at 596
    ; In re Angela E., 
    303 S.W.3d at 246
    .
    Under Rule 13(d), appellate courts review factual findings de novo on the
    record and accord these findings a presumption of correctness unless the
    evidence preponderates otherwise. In re Bernard T., 
    319 S.W.3d at 596
    ; In
    re M.L.P., 
    281 S.W.3d 387
    , 393 (Tenn. 2009); In re Adoption of A.M.H., 
    215 S.W.3d 793
    , 809 (Tenn. 2007). In light of the heightened burden of proof in
    termination proceedings, however, the reviewing court must make its own
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    determination as to whether the facts, either as found by the trial court or as
    supported by a preponderance of the evidence, amount to clear and
    convincing evidence of the elements necessary to terminate parental
    rights. In re Bernard T., 
    319 S.W.3d at
    596–97. The trial court’s ruling that
    the evidence sufficiently supports termination of parental rights is a
    conclusion of law, which appellate courts review de novo with no
    presumption of correctness. In re M.L.P., 
    281 S.W.3d at 393
     (quoting In re
    Adoption of A.M.H., 
    215 S.W.3d at 810
    ). Additionally, all other questions of
    law in parental termination appeals, as in other appeals, are reviewed de novo
    with no presumption of correctness. In re Angela E., 
    303 S.W.3d at 246
    .
    In re Carrington H., 483 S.W.3d at 523–24.
    We give considerable deference to a trial court’s findings about witness credibility
    and the weight of oral testimony, as the trial court had the opportunity to see and hear the
    witnesses. State Dep’t of Children’s Servs. v. T.M.B.K., 
    197 S.W.3d 282
    , 288 (Tenn. Ct.
    App. 2006). Where an issue “hinges on the credibility of witnesses, the trial court will not
    be reversed unless there is found in the record clear, concrete, and convincing evidence
    other than the oral testimony of witnesses which contradict the trial court’s findings.” 
    Id.
    (citing Galbreath v. Harris, 
    811 S.W.2d 88
    , 91 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1990)); see also Franklin
    Cnty. Bd. of Educ. v. Crabtree, 
    337 S.W.3d 808
    , 811 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2010) (“If the trial
    court’s factual determinations are based on its assessment of witness credibility, this Court
    will not reevaluate that assessment absent clear and convincing evidence to the contrary.”).
    DISCUSSION
    In order to terminate parental rights, a trial court must find by clear and convincing
    evidence that: (1) statutory grounds for termination of parental and guardianship rights
    have been established, and (2) termination is in the best interests of the child. See 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (c). We begin our analysis by reviewing whether the proof presented
    at trial constitutes clear and convincing evidence of each ground for termination listed in
    the trial court’s Final Order.
    I.     Grounds for Termination
    Tennessee Code Annotated section 36-1-113(g) provides that abandonment, as
    defined in section 36-1-102, is a ground for terminating parental rights. 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (g)(1) (2017 & Supp. 2019). Section 36-1-102 provides, in relevant part, that
    abandonment occurs, among other instances, when
    For a period of four (4) consecutive months immediately preceding the filing
    of a proceeding, pleading, petition, or any amended petition to terminate the
    parental rights of the parent or parents or the guardian or guardians of the
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    child who is the subject of the petition for termination of parental rights or
    adoption, that the parent or parents or the guardian or guardians either have
    failed to visit or have failed to support or have failed to make reasonable
    payments toward the support of the child.
    
    Id.
     § 36-1-102(1)(A)(i). Here, Petitioners filed their petition for termination of parental
    rights and adoption of the children on September 20, 2019. The record supports the trial
    court’s finding that the relevant four-month period for a finding of abandonment ran from
    May 20, 2019 through September 19, 2019. We review accordingly.
    A.     Abandonment – Willful Failure to Visit
    One form of abandonment is failure to visit, which occurs when a parent, “for a
    period of four (4) consecutive months, [fails] to visit or engage in more than token
    visitation.” 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102
    (1)(E). “Token visitation” is “visitation, under
    the circumstances of the individual case, [that] constitutes nothing more than perfunctory
    visitation or visitation of such an infrequent nature or of such short duration as to merely
    establish minimal or insubstantial contact with the child.” 
    Id.
     § 36-1-102(1)(C). A parent
    may assert the absence of willfulness, which must be proved by a preponderance of the
    evidence, as an affirmative defense to abandonment by failure to visit. Id. § 36-1-102(1)(I).
    This Court has explained:
    Failure to visit or support a child is “willful” when a person is aware
    of his or her duty to visit or support, has the capacity to do so, makes no
    attempt to do so, and has no justifiable excuse for not doing so. Failure to
    visit or support is not excused by another person’s conduct unless the conduct
    actually prevents the person with the obligation from performing his or her
    duty, or amounts to a significant restraint of or interference with the parent’s
    efforts to support or develop a relationship with the child.
    In re Audrey S., 
    182 S.W.3d at 864
     (citations omitted); see also In re Adoption of Angela
    E., 402 S.W.3d at 640 (“A parent cannot be said to have abandoned a child when his failure
    to visit or support is due to circumstances outside his control.”).
    Here, the trial court found by clear and convincing evidence that Mother and Tyson
    willfully failed to visit the children “for a period exceeding” the four-month statutory
    period. The record supports this finding. On February 13, 2019, the juvenile court issued
    a custody order placing Adaline and Lilah with Petitioners, following Mother’s arrest for
    her actions at Petitioners’ home the day before. Richard testified that after he and Carla
    received custody of the children, the only contact he had with Mother and Tyson was one
    text to which he responded, “Have your attorney contact our attorney.” Carla said that
    Tyson asked for a birthday picture of Lilah once, that her address has not changed since
    Mother lived with them, and that her mobile number has not changed in the last ten years.
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    She corroborated Richard’s testimony that they had never told Mother or Tyson that they
    could not see the children but rather instructed them to have their attorney contact
    Petitioners’ attorney. The trial court credited Richard and Carla’s testimony.
    Mother and Tyson do not dispute their failure to visit the children during the
    statutory period; rather, they argue that such failure was not willful. They both point to the
    treatment program’s requirement that they have no contact with anyone outside the
    program for the initial thirty days. As the trial court did, we find that such requirement
    does not excuse their failure to visit the children during the relevant statutory period. First,
    Mother and Tyson did not visit the children before starting the treatment program in June
    2019. Both acknowledged that they were aware of their duty to visit the children, that the
    juvenile court’s order allowed visitation, and that Petitioners never said they could not see
    the children. Second, Mother and Tyson did not pursue visits with the children once
    allowed to do so during the treatment program. Ms. Holdsclaw, the program’s director,
    testified that after completing the program’s first ninety days, participants can obtain forty-
    eight-hour weekend passes that allow family members to take participants wherever they
    need to go. Mother and Tyson did not avail themselves of this option to visit the children.
    Third, Mother and Tyson did not attempt to stay in contact with the children through
    available alternative means, such as mailing cards or letters to the children. See In re Gavin
    G., No. M2014-01657-COA-R3-PT, 
    2015 WL 3882841
    , at *7 (Tenn. Ct. App. June 23,
    2015) (finding that father residing at a sober living facility had the capacity to remain in
    contact with his son by sending letters or cards).
    In addition, Mother argues that during her participation in the treatment program,
    she was “texting and calling [Petitioners] . . . and . . . they kept saying, ‘Have your attorney
    contact our attorney.’” The record shows conclusively that Mother’s earliest texts to
    Petitioners are dated September 26, 2019—the day after she was served with the petition
    to terminate her parental rights and well beyond the relevant statutory period. Tyson also
    asserts that Petitioners did not respond to texts or calls. Despite their allegations that
    Petitioners “blocked” them from seeing the children, Mother and Tyson admitted they
    knew they could petition the juvenile court to “enforce their right to visit” the children, but
    they did not seek the court’s assistance. Id.5 We find this argument unavailing to establish
    that their failure to visit the children resulted from circumstances outside of their control.
    See In re Adoption of Angela E., 402 S.W.3d at 640.
    Against this backdrop, we find that Mother and Tyson have “no justifiable excuse”
    for their failure to visit the children during the relevant statutory period. See In re Audrey
    S., 
    182 S.W.3d at 864
    . Finding nothing in the record to the contrary, we also defer to the
    5
    While parents are under no requirement to seek court assistance to enforce visitation rights, taking
    legal action to enforce those rights can preclude a finding of willfulness. In re Gavin G., 
    2015 WL 3882841
    ,
    at *7 (citing In re Joseph D.N., No. M2009–01353–COA–R3–PT, 
    2010 WL 744415
    , at *4 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    Mar. 3, 2010); In re M.L.P., No. W2007–01278–COA–R3–PT, 
    2008 WL 933086
    , at *11 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    Apr. 8, 2008); In re Adoption of A.M.H., 
    215 S.W.3d 793
    , 810 (Tenn. 2007)).
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    trial court’s specific finding that the testimony of Petitioners was credible while that of
    Mother and Tyson was questionable at best. See T.M.B.K., 
    197 S.W.3d at 288
     (stating that
    “the trial court will not be reversed unless there is found in the record clear, concrete, and
    convincing evidence other than the oral testimony of witnesses which contradict the trial
    court’s findings”). We thus affirm the trial court’s finding that this ground was proven as
    to both Mother and Tyson by clear and convincing evidence.
    B.     Abandonment – Willful Failure to Support
    Another form of abandonment is failure to support, which occurs when a parent,
    “for a period of four (4) consecutive months, [fails] to provide monetary support or . . .
    more than token payments toward the support of the child.” 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1
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    102(1)(D). Support is considered “token” when “the support, under the circumstances of
    the individual case, is insignificant given the parent’s means.” 
    Id.
     § 36-1-102(1)(B). An
    adult parent is presumed to know that he or she has a duty to provide support. Id. § 36-1-
    102(1)(H); In re Braxton M., 
    531 S.W.3d 708
    , 724 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2017). A parent may
    assert, as an affirmative defense, that the failure to provide financial support was not
    willful. 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102
    (1)(I). However, the parent bears “‘the burden of
    proof that the failure to . . . support was not willful’ and must establish the lack of
    willfulness by a preponderance of the evidence.” In re Braelyn S., No. E2020-00043-COA-
    R3-PT, 
    2020 WL 4200088
    , at *8 (Tenn. Ct. App. July 22, 2020) (quoting 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102
    (1)(I)).
    The trial court ruled that this ground for termination was established by clear and
    convincing evidence. Both Mother and Tyson admitted that they did not provide financial
    support for the children during the relevant statutory period despite knowing they had an
    obligation to so do even without a court order. Indeed, they did not provide support for the
    children at any point before entering the treatment program. Both described their history
    of full-time employment before and during some of the statutory period. Petitioners
    testified that the only support the children received from Mother and Tyson were birthday
    and Christmas presents in 2019, which would constitute, at best, token support—and the
    Christmas presents were given after the petition for termination was filed.
    Tyson sought to justify his failure to provide monetary support for Lilah by asserting
    that Petitioners blocked him from so doing, while Mother said she did not provide financial
    support because she did not know where to send it. Given that Mother returned to live at
    Petitioners’ home in November 2018 and left just three months before the beginning of the
    statutory period—in February 2019—as well as her and Tyson’s ability to send birthday
    and Christmas presents for the children at Petitioners’ home that same year, we agree with
    the trial court that these assertions are not credible. Nor do we find Mother’s and Tyson’s
    participation in the court-mandated treatment program a justification for their failure to
    provide support for the children. It is not as if their support was suddenly interrupted when
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    they entered the program; they had never provided support. The record supports the trial
    court’s ruling that this ground was established by clear and convincing evidence.
    C.      Failure to Manifest an Ability and Willingness to Assume Custody
    Tennessee Code Annotated section 36-1-113(g)(14) also provides a ground for
    termination of parental rights when
    [a] parent . . . has failed to manifest, by act or omission, an ability and
    willingness to personally assume legal and physical custody or financial
    responsibility of the child, and placing the child in the person’s legal and
    physical custody would pose a risk of substantial harm to the physical or
    psychological welfare of the child.
    This ground requires clear and convincing proof of two elements. In re Maya R., No.
    E2017-01634-COA-R3-PT, 
    2018 WL 1629930
    , at *7 (Tenn. Ct. App. Apr. 4, 2018). The
    petitioner must first prove that the parent has failed to manifest an ability and willingness
    to personally assume legal and physical custody or financial responsibility of the child.
    
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (g)(14). The petitioner must then prove that placing the child
    in the custody of the parent poses “a risk of substantial harm to the physical or
    psychological welfare of the child.” 
    Id.
     Our Supreme Court recently held that the statute
    requires “a parent to manifest both an ability and willingness” to personally assume legal
    and physical custody or financial responsibility for the child. In re Neveah M., 
    614 S.W.3d 659
    , 677 (Tenn. 2020) (citing In re Amynn K., 
    2018 WL 3058280
    , at *13). Therefore, if a
    party seeking termination of parental rights establishes that a parent or guardian “failed to
    manifest either ability or willingness, then the first prong of the statute is satisfied.” 
    Id.
    In finding that this ground was established by clear and convincing evidence, the
    trial court focused its analysis solely on Mother’s and Tyson’s failure to take any steps in
    the juvenile court to regain custody of the children. Mother and Tyson argue that the trial
    court made no findings as to the second element of this ground; that is, that placing the
    children in their custody would pose a risk of substantial harm to the children’s physical or
    psychological welfare. We agree. The trial court’s order is devoid of any reference to the
    substantial harm element of the statute. ‘“It is well-settled that a trial court speaks through
    its written orders—not through oral statements contained in the transcripts—and that the
    appellate court reviews the trial court’s written orders.”’ Williams v. City of Burns, 
    465 S.W.3d 96
    , 119 (Tenn. 2015) (quoting Anil Constr. Inc. v. McCollum, No. W2013–01447–
    COA–R3–CV, 
    2014 WL 3928726
    , at *8 (Tenn. Ct. App. Aug. 7, 2014)). This Court is
    thus unable to determine whether the trial court considered this element in reaching its
    conclusion.6 Accordingly, we reverse the trial court’s finding that this ground for
    termination was established by clear and convincing evidence.
    6
    The trial court’s order does not incorporate its oral ruling.
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    D.      Failure to Establish Paternity
    The parental rights of a putative father may be terminated for failure to visit, failure
    to provide child support, and failure to manifest an ability and willingness to assume legal
    and physical custody of the child. 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (g)(9)(A)(ii)-(iv). A
    putative father’s failure to file a petition to establish paternity of the child within thirty days
    after notice of alleged paternity also constitutes a ground for termination of his parental
    rights. 
    Id.
     § 36-1-113(g)(9)(A)(vi). Tyson meets the statutory criteria for Lilah because
    he is listed as her father on her birth certificate. See id. §§ 36-1-102, 117(c)(4) (providing
    that a putative father includes “a biological or alleged biological father of a child who, at
    the time of the filing of the petition to terminate the parental rights of such person,” had
    not been excluded by a DNA test and “is recorded on the child’s birth certificate as the
    father of the child”).
    The trial court determined that Tyson failed to establish paternity of Lilah “by
    failing to meet the requirements of T.C.A. § 36-1-102 (28)7 and T.C.A. § 36-1-113
    (G)(9)(B) by not being married to [Mother] at or within three hundred days of the child’s
    birth, failing to get a D.N.A. test or obtain a court order of paternity.” Section 36-1-
    102(28), in relevant part, defines “legal parent” as
    [a] man who is or has been married to the biological mother of the child if
    the child was born during the marriage or within three hundred (300) days
    after the marriage was terminated for any reason, or if the child was born
    after a decree of separation was entered by a court[.]
    
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102
    (28)(A)(ii). In addition, the statute states:
    A man shall not be a legal parent of a child based solely on blood, genetic,
    or DNA testing determining that he is the biological parent of the child
    without either a court order or voluntary acknowledgement of paternity
    pursuant to § 24-7-113. Such test may provide a basis for an order
    establishing paternity by a court of competent jurisdiction, pursuant to the
    requirements of § 24-7-112[.]
    Id. § 36-1-102(28)(B) (emphases added). Section 36-1-113(g)(9)(B) provides that the
    notice of alleged paternity required for termination of a putative father’s parental rights for
    failure to establish paternity, see id. § 36-1-113(g)(9)(A), may be given at any time after
    7
    The version of section 36-1-102(28) in effect at the time Petitioners filed their petition for
    termination of parental rights and adoption provides the definition for “Interstate Compact on the Placement
    of Children (ICPC).” We presume that the trial court intended to cite the immediately preceding version
    of the statute, which defines the term “[l]egal parent.” See 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102
    (28) (Supp. 2018).
    That definition did not change when then the statute was later renumbered to section 36-1-102(29).
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    the child’s conception and may include actual notice of a petition to terminate the putative
    father’s parental rights. 
    Id.
     § 36-1-113(g)(9)(B).
    Here, it is undisputed that Tyson received the required notice for termination of his
    parental rights, as Lilah’s putative father. By his own testimony, he held himself out as
    Lilah’s father, signed her birth certificate, and cared for her for several months early in her
    life; he also was served with a petition for termination alleging his paternity. In addition,
    the record makes clear that he was not married to Mother at the time of Lilah’s birth or
    within 300 days. Tyson testified that he neither obtained a D.N.A. test nor sought a court
    order to establish his paternity, as statutorily provided.
    The gist of Tyson’s argument on appeal is that the trial court “failed to look at those
    factors that go beyond mere appearance and fill in documents.” In essence, he asserts—
    without citation to legal authority—that the trial court should have disregarded the statutory
    requirements established by the legislature for establishing paternity and, instead, deemed
    sufficient the fact that the parties did not dispute that he held himself out as Lilah’s father.
    We disagree. Courts are not at liberty to disregard the clear mandates of a statute. See Ken
    Smith Auto Parts v. Thomas, No. E2018-00928-COA-R3-CV, 
    2019 WL 192442
    , at *6
    (Tenn. Ct. App. Jan. 15, 2019) (quoting Browning v. Browning, No. E2017-02354-COA-
    R3-CV, 
    2018 WL 4057245
    , at *3 n.3 (Tenn. Ct. App. Aug. 27, 2018)). We thus find no
    error in the trial court’s conclusion that Tyson failed to establish paternity of Lilah and,
    therefore, is not her legal father.
    II.    Best Interests of the Children
    In addition to proving at least one statutory ground for termination, a party seeking
    to terminate a parent’s rights must prove by clear and convincing evidence that termination
    is in the child’s best interests. See 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (c). Indeed, “a finding of
    unfitness does not necessarily require that the parent’s rights be terminated.” In re Marr,
    
    194 S.W.3d 490
    , 498 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005) (citing White v. Moody, 
    171 S.W.3d 187
    (Tenn. Ct. App. 2004)). Rather, our termination statutes recognize that “not all parental
    conduct is irredeemable[,]” and that “terminating an unfit parent’s parental rights is not
    always in the child’s best interests.” 
    Id.
     As such, the focus of the best interests analysis is
    not the parent but the child. Id.; see also White, 
    171 S.W.3d at 194
     (“[A] child’s best
    interest must be viewed from the child’s, rather than the parent’s, perspective.”).
    Tennessee Code Annotated section 36-1-113(i) provides the following nine factors
    for analyzing best interests:
    (1) Whether the parent or guardian has made such an adjustment of
    circumstance, conduct, or conditions as to make it safe and in the child’s best
    interest to be in the home of the parent or guardian;
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    (2) Whether the parent or guardian has failed to effect a lasting adjustment
    after reasonable efforts by available social services agencies for such
    duration of time that lasting adjustment does not reasonably appear possible;
    (3) Whether the parent or guardian has maintained regular visitation or other
    contact with the child;
    (4) Whether a meaningful relationship has otherwise been established
    between the parent or guardian and the child;
    (5) The effect a change of caretakers and physical environment is likely to
    have on the child’s emotional, psychological and medical condition;
    (6) Whether the parent or guardian, or other person residing with the parent
    or guardian, has shown brutality, physical, sexual, emotional or
    psychological abuse, or neglect toward the child, or another child or adult in
    the family or household;
    (7) Whether the physical environment of the parent’s or guardian’s home is
    healthy and safe, whether there is criminal activity in the home, or whether
    there is such use of alcohol, controlled substances or controlled substance
    analogues as may render the parent or guardian consistently unable to care
    for the child in a safe and stable manner;
    (8) Whether the parent’s or guardian’s mental and/or emotional status would
    be detrimental to the child or prevent the parent or guardian from effectively
    providing safe and stable care and supervision for the child; or
    (9) Whether the parent or guardian has paid child support consistent with the
    child support guidelines promulgated by the department pursuant to § 36-5-
    101.
    
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (i) (Supp. 2020).8 This list is non-exhaustive. In re Marr, 
    194 S.W.3d at 499
    . “Ascertaining a child’s best interests does not call for a rote examination
    of each of 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (i)’s nine factors and then a determination of
    whether the sum of the factors tips in favor of or against the parent.” 
    Id.
     “The relevancy
    and weight to be given each factor depends on the unique facts of each case.” 
    Id.
     “Thus,
    depending upon the circumstances of a particular child and a particular parent, the
    consideration of one factor may very well dictate the outcome of the analysis.” 
    Id.
     (citing
    8
    The legislature recently amended section 36-1-113(i). See 
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (i) (2021).
    We, however, apply the version of the statute in effect at the time the petition for termination of parental
    rights and adoption of the children was filed in this case.
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    In re Audrey S., 
    182 S.W.3d at 877
    ).
    The trial court found, and we agree, that both Mother and Tyson have “made a
    remarkable improvement” in their situation, considering their history of drug use. See
    
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113
    (i)(1). There is no evidence in the record that they have used
    drugs since their participation in the True Purpose long-term treatment program. The proof
    is that they are raising their youngest child, Aurora, in a stable environment with Mother
    currently staying home and Tyson gainfully employed. This factor weighs against
    terminating their parental rights.
    As addressed above, the record supports the trial court’s finding that both Mother
    and Tyson have failed to maintain regular contact or other visitation with the children. See
    
    id.
     § 36-1-113(i)(3). The record also establishes that neither Mother nor Tyson has ever
    paid any child support for the children, let alone consistently. See id. § 36-1-113(i)(9).
    Likewise, the record supports the trial court’s conclusion that Mother has not built a
    meaningful relationship with the children because Adaline has been in the care of
    Petitioners since birth and Lilah was not in Mother’s care during “any cognitive time
    period.” See id. § 36-1-113(i)(4). As to Tyson, although the testimony establishes that he
    cared for Lilah for a few months early in her life, we agree with the trial court that no
    meaningful relationship developed during a cognitive time period. These two factors
    weigh in favor of termination.
    While acknowledging that the testimony shows that both Mother and Tyson had
    made positive life changes by the time of trial, the trial court expressed concern about
    placing the children “in a strange home where there is question as to their parents’
    sobriety.” See id. § 36-1-113(i)(5). The best interests analysis focuses on the well-being
    of the child, not the parents’ progress. Mother and Tyson’s pattern or drug use and relapse,
    prior to their participation in the long-term treatment program, and the lack of a meaningful
    relationship with the children create a legitimate concern about removing the children from
    the only stable environment they have known most of their lives. This factor also weighs
    in favor of termination.
    The record shows that Mother admitted to using drugs while pregnant with both
    Lilah and Aurora9 and, therefore, committed physical abuse of the children. See id. § 36-
    1-113(i)(6). In addition, she pled guilty to endangering the children by attempting to leave
    Petitioners’ home in a car with the children unrestrained. Several witnesses confirmed that
    the children were unbuckled as Mother rammed the car between Petitioners’ home and
    truck. These facts apply to Tyson as well because he and Mother reside together. We
    9
    This Court has repeatedly deemed a mother’s drug use during pregnancy a form of severe child
    abuse. See In re Colton B., No. M2018-01053-COA-R3-PT, 
    2018 WL 5415921
    , at *8 (Tenn. Ct. App. Oct.
    29, 2018) (compiling cases).
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    agree with the trial court that this factor favors termination.
    The trial court stated that there was no proof presented as to whether Mother and
    Tyson’s home provides a healthy and safe physical environment. See 
    id.
     § 36-1-113(i)(7).
    Yet, the trial court concluded that this factor favors Petitioners. We disagree. While
    testimony in the record establishes that Petitioners’ home is healthy and safe for the
    children, the record contains testimony and exhibits tending to show that Mother and
    Tyson’s home also provides a healthy and safe environment. During Mother’s testimony,
    her counsel introduced into evidence multiple photographs of the apartment in which
    Mother and Tyson have resided with Aurora. The photographs show a modest, but clean
    and well-maintained home. As the trial court recognized, there was no evidence offered to
    the contrary. We conclude that this factor weighs against termination.
    After careful review, we conclude the trial court correctly found that the factors in
    Section 36-1-113(i)10 collectively weigh in favor of termination. Although we commend
    both Mother and Tyson for the adjustments to their conduct and conditions following their
    participation in the long-term treatment program—which we hope will continue moving
    forward—we find that these efforts have come too late. See In re Isabella G., No. M2016-
    02105-COA-R3-PT, 
    2017 WL 4407816
    , at *10 (Tenn. Ct. App. Oct. 3, 2017); In re A.W.,
    
    114 S.W.3d 541
    , 546 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2003). Mother’s and Tyson’s unjustified failure to
    pursue visitation of the children and to ever provide them with financial support severely
    hampers their arguments against termination of their parental rights. The resulting lack of
    a meaningful, stable relationship between them and the children is even more compelling,
    and it stands in stark contrast to the close relationship the children enjoy with Petitioners
    in the only stable home they have ever known. The statutory factors support the trial
    court’s conclusion by clear and convincing evidence that terminating Mother’s and Tyson’s
    parental rights is in the children’s best interests. We affirm.
    CONCLUSION
    We affirm in part and reverse in part the judgment of the Cumberland County
    Chancery Court. Costs of this appeal shall be taxed equally to the Appellants, Kayla D. and
    Tyson N., for which execution may issue if necessary.
    _________________________________
    KRISTI M. DAVIS, JUDGE
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    We agree with the trial court that the requirement of reasonable efforts by social services
    agencies, see 
    id.
     § 36-1-113(i)(2), is inapplicable here and that no evidence was introduced to show that
    any party’s mental and/or emotional status at the time of trial would prevent them from providing the
    children with safe and stable care and supervision, see id. § 36-1-113(i)(8).
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