Tonya Patrice Ray v. William Martin Ray v. Stephen Eric Staggs ( 2004 )


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  •                   IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
    AT NASHVILLE
    March 18, 2004 Session
    TONYA PETRECE RAY v. WILLIAM MARTIN RAY v. STEPHEN ERIC
    STAGGS
    A Direct Appeal from the Circuit Court for Davidson County
    No. 99D-662     The Honorable Carol Soloman, Judge
    No. M2003-01158-COA-R3-CV - Filed May 18, 2004
    Natural father of minor twin children appeals trial court's final order of custody and visitation on
    multiple grounds, alleging primarily that (1) the trial court erred in awarding visitation to stepfather;
    (2) the trial court erred in refusing to change children's surname to that of their natural father; and
    (3) the trial court improperly based its opinion on a sealed psychological report. We affirm in part,
    reverse in part, and remand.
    Tenn. R. App. P. 3; Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed in Part,
    Reversed in Part and Remanded
    W. FRANK CRAWFORD , P.J., W.S., delivered the opinion of the court, in which ALAN E. HIGHERS,
    J. and DAVID R. FARMER , J., joined.
    Clark Lee Shaw, Nashville, For Appellant, Stephen Eric Staggs
    Randle W. Hill, Jr., Nashville, For Appellee, Tonya Petrece Ray (Holland)
    John M. L. Brown, Nashville, For Appellee, William Martin Ray
    OPINION
    The present case is before this Court for a third time. During the pendency of this litigation,
    the appellee, Tonya Petrece Ray, has remarried. For the purposes of this appeal, we will refer to
    Tonya Petrece Ray as “Mrs. Holland.” Appellant Stephen Eric Staggs also married , and has since
    changed his last name to “Moore,” taking his wife’s maiden name as his own. For the purposes of
    this appeal, we will refer to Stephen Eric Staggs as “Mr. Moore.” As in the previous opinions, we
    will continue to refer to appellee William Martin Ray as “Mr. Ray.”
    The pertinent facts and procedural information were aptly summarized by the Middle Section
    of this Court in the Rule 10 appeal, Ray v. Ray, No. M2002-01553-COA-R10-CV, 
    2002 WL 1466095
     (Tenn. Ct. App. July 9, 2002):
    Tonya Petrece Ray gave birth to twins on December 19, 1997.
    Even though she was married to William Martin Ray at the time, the
    children’s undisputed biological father was Stephen Eric Staggs with
    whom Ms. Ray had had a romantic tryst in early 1997. Mr. Staggs
    intervened in the Rays’ 1999 divorce proceeding to formally establish
    his parentage of the twins and to obtain custody. The Rays vigorously
    opposed Mr. Staggs’s request for custody.
    Following a bench trial, the trial court concluded that Ms. Ray
    was unfit to have custody of her children. The court then awarded
    custody of the twins to Mr. Ray because he was comparatively more
    fit than Mr. Staggs. After Mr. Staggs’s lawyer pointed out that the
    trial court had used the wrong custody standard, the trial court entered
    another order concluding “by very clear and convincing proof that
    there is a substantial risk and danger of great harm to these children
    if placed with the natural parents.” Notwithstanding this finding, the
    trial court granted Mr. Staggs weekly supervised visitation and
    extended unsupervised visitation during the summer of 2000 and
    apparently the summer of 2001.
    Mr. Staggs appealed the trial court’s custody decision to this
    court. On October 5, 2001, we issued an opinion vacating the
    custody orders. We concluded, in part, that:
    The evidence presented at the December 1999 hearing
    regarding Mr. Staggs does not clearly and
    convincingly depict a person who would be an unfit
    parent. By the time of the hearing, Mr. Staggs had
    held a well-paying job for over eighteen months and
    had earned the trust and respect of his employer. He
    [was] also married to a woman he had been dating for
    approximately eighteen months, and he had been fully
    integrated into her family. He had earned the
    admiration and respect of his wife’s parents for his
    honesty and tenacity. He had also gained experience
    with young children and was serving as a volunteer
    coach for a YMCA youth basketball program. In light
    of this evidence, we find that the trial court placed
    undue weight on Mr. Staggs’s past conduct rather than
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    on his current fitness to have custody of his children.
    [Ray v. Ray, 
    83 S.W.3d 726
    , 737 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    2001).]
    Based on this conclusion, we vacated the portions of the
    January 12, 2000 and April 3, 2000 orders denying Mr. Staggs’s
    petition for custody of the twins and
    remand[ed] the case to the trial court with directions
    to conduct a hearing consistent with this opinion to
    determine whether Mr. Staggs is currently fit to have
    custody of his children and whether granting Mr.
    Staggs custody will expose his children to substantial
    harm. Pending this hearing, the trial court shall
    prescribe appropriate visitation for Mr. Staggs and his
    children. [Id. at 738.]
    Mr. Ray filed a Tenn. R. App. P. 11 application for
    permission to appeal on November 30, 2001, which has not yet been
    acted on by the Tennessee Supreme Court.
    On April 29, 2002, Mr. Staggs filed a motion requesting
    extended summer visitation during 2002 on essentially the same
    terms as his unsupervised visitation during the summers of 2000 and
    2001. The trial court heard argument on this motion on May 31,
    2002. According to an uncontradicted account of the May 31, 2002
    proceeding filed with this court by Mr. Staggs:
    2. Judge Soloman stated that according to the
    Appellate Court opinion, she felt that she could not
    give Mr. Moore [Staggs] an extended visitation
    because she felt that Mr. Moore was a dangerous
    person, that the minor twin children would be exposed
    to substantial risk of harm, that Mr. Moore was a bad
    person, and that she thought the Court of Appeals felt
    that Mr. Moore was an unfit parent and that according
    to their opinion, Judge Soloman did not go far enough
    in her order. Judge Soloman acknowledged that she
    had allowed the extended summer visitation for the
    previous two years, but she stated that she felt the
    Appellate Court, in their opinion, did not want her to
    allow any unsupervised visitation because Mr. Moore
    was a dangerous person. Judge Soloman stated that
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    she was having [a] difficult time interpreting the
    Court of Appeals [sic] opinion and that she kept a
    copy of the decision near her all the time. John M.L.
    Brown, attorney for Mr. Ray, stated that in last year’s
    agreed order allowing Mr. Moore to have an extended
    summer visitation with the minor children, Mr. Ray
    stated that he reluctantly agreed to allow the minor
    children to go with Mr. Moore. Mr. Brown stated that
    Mr. Ray was opposed to Mr. Moore having any
    summer or holiday visitation with the minor children.
    3. Mr. Moore’s counsel asked that he be able to see
    the children on Father’s Day for an extended visitation
    and Judge Soloman asked Mr. Ray what he had
    planned to do with the children for Father’s Day. Mr.
    Ray stated that he was going to spend the day with
    them, then he further stated that he was going to take
    them out of town. Judge Soloman then stated that the
    children would also be able to see Mr. Ray’s father,
    and then offered to allow Mr. Moore to spend one
    hour of supervised visitation with the children at
    McDonald’s for dinner on Father’s Day. Mr. Moore
    declined. Judge Soloman stated that Mr. Ray was the
    minor children’s father, and that Mr. Moore was their
    natural father. Mr. Shaw objected to that terminology.
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    5. Judge Soloman sua sponte indicated that Mr.
    Moore could not have an extended visitation with the
    minor twin children until he underwent a
    psychological evaluation and the minor children
    underwent a psychological evaluation determining
    what harm, if any, it would cause the children. She
    suggested Ray Potts and sua sponte ordered Mr. Ray
    to make an appointment for the children. Mr. Shaw
    asked the Court to set a time limit and Judge Soloman
    refused but she did set another court date for July 19,
    2002. Judge Soloman stated she would take the issues
    under advisement until the evaluations had been
    completed.
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    On June 19, 2002, Mr. Staggs filed a petition to hold Mr. Ray
    in contempt for refusing to permit his regular Sunday visitation on
    June 16, 2002. The trial court summarily declined to order Mr. Ray
    to show cause and dismissed the petition. On June 27, 2002, the
    court filed an order directing Mr. Ray to “take the subject children
    immediately for a thorough psychological evaluation” and ordering
    Mr. Staggs to “make an appointment and ... submit himself to a full
    and complete psychological evaluation” once the children have been
    evaluated. The trial court also suspended all of Mr. Staggs’s
    visitation “pending the outcome [of] the psychological evaluations
    prescribed above” and set the matter “for review” on July 19, 2002.
    Mr. Staggs filed an application for extraordinary appeal with
    this court on July 1, 2002, along with a motion for stay of the order
    suspending visitation and to remove the trial judge from the case on
    the ground of bias. In response to this court’s order, Mr. Ray filed a
    response to Mr. Staggs’s application and motions on July 8, 2002.
    While he did not take issue with Mr. Staggs’s account of the May 31,
    2002 proceedings, Mr. Ray asserts that an extraordinary appeal is
    unnecessary because the “trial court has done nothing more than show
    concern for the welfare of the subject children.”
    Ray, 
    2002 WL 1466095
     at *1-3.
    In ruling upon Mr. Moore’s extraordinary appeal of the trial court’s June 27, 2002 order, the
    court stated:
    The trial court’s June 27, 2002 order represents a clear
    departure from the accepted and usual course of judicial proceedings
    for three reasons. First, it is based on a palpable misinterpretation of
    our October 5, 2001 opinion. Nothing in this opinion concludes, or
    even intimates, that Mr. Staggs is an “unfit person,” that the trial
    court did not “go far enough” in its original order denying Mr.
    Staggs’s request for custody, or that this court “did not want ... [the
    trial court] to allow any unsupervised visitation because ... [he] was
    a dangerous person.” To the contrary, we held that the evidence
    “does not clearly and convincingly depict a person who would be an
    unfit parent” and that the trial court’s reasons for denying Mr. Staggs
    custody of his children “placed undue weight on Mr. Staggs’s past
    conduct rather than on his current fitness to have custody of his
    children.” Accordingly, we vacated the denial of Mr. Staggs’s custody
    request and remanded the case with instructions to conduct a hearing
    into Mr. Staggs’s current fitness to have custody of his children.
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    Pending this hearing, we succinctly directed the trial court to
    “prescribe appropriate visitation for Mr. Staggs and his children.”
    The second defect in the reasoning in the June 27, 2002 order
    is that it is not based on any material evidence regarding Mr. Staggs’s
    current fitness to exercise unsupervised visitation with his children....
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    The third defect in the June 27, 2002 order is the trial court’s
    decision, apparently on its own initiative, to require that Mr. Staggs
    and the twins be subjected to psychological evaluations.1 While
    Tenn. R. Evid. 706 permits a trial court to appoint expert witnesses,
    these appointments should not be made without some factual
    predicate for the necessity of such an unusual step. The factual
    predicate for requiring parents and children to submit to
    psychological examinations under Tenn. R. Civ. P. 35 is discussed at
    some length in Odom v. Odom, No. M1999-02811-COA-R3-CV,
    
    2001 WL 1543476
    , at *4-9 (Tenn. Ct. App. Dec. 5, 2001), pet. reh’g
    denied, (Tenn. Ct. App. Jan. 8, 2002) (No Tenn. R. App. P.
    application filed). The record indicates that the trial court lacked a
    factual basis for ordering that Mr. Staggs and the children undergo
    psychological evaluations.
    Accordingly, we vacate the June 27, 2002 order and remand
    the case for further proceedings consistent with this opinion and this
    court’s October 5, 2001 opinion. At the hearing currently scheduled
    for July 19, 2002, the trial court is directed to provide the parties an
    opportunity to present evidence both in favor of and in opposition to
    Mr. Staggs’s request for extended summer visitation and to make a
    decision regarding this request for visitation based on the evidence.
    At this juncture, we deny Mr. Staggs’s request to remove the trial
    judge from this case because errors in reasoning and failure to follow
    established procedures do not necessarily indicate bias, either in favor
    of or against a particular party.
    Id. at *4-5.
    1
    The trial court’s order includes the judge’s handwritten note that Mr. Moore agreed in open court to “submit
    himself to a full and complete psychological evaluation.” The record on appeal includes a second order, filed July 12,
    2002, directing Mr. Moore “to meet with Dr. Margaret Smith on July 17, 2002 at 2:00 p.m. for a psychological
    evaluation.” The trial court subsequently vacated its July 12, 2002 order after considering this Court’s opinion in Ray
    v. Ray, No. M2002-01553-COA-R10-CV, 2002 W L 1466095 (Tenn. Ct. App. July 9, 2002).
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    A hearing was held on July 19, 2002, during which the trial court was primarily concerned
    with identifying a suitable evaluator to conduct psychological examinations of Mr. Moore and the
    children. By order entered August 7, 2002, the trial court set forth the following pertinent findings
    from the hearing:
    [Mr. Moore] will have extended visitation with [the twins]
    from 6:00 p.m. on August 9, 2002, [until] 6:00 p.m. on August 18,
    2002.
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    The parties have agreed in open court that psychological
    evaluations are appropriate. Tonya Petrece Ray, William Martin Ray,
    and Stephen Eric Staggs (Moore) will therefore participate in
    psychological evaluations, including evaluations of parenting skills
    and propensity to abuse. [Mr. Holland] and Emily Moore [(“Mrs.
    Moore”)] may submit to such evaluations if they wish to do so. Such
    evaluations will be performed by Dr. Victor Pestrak who will
    determine whether the twins need to be evaluated and, if so, by
    whom.
    On August 21, 2002, Mr. Moore filed a motion for the assessment of court costs. Shortly
    thereafter, Mr. Ray filed a motion seeking execution of the unpaid balance owed by Mr. Moore on
    the child support arrearage judgment of $7,906.00, and of the court’s January 2000 judgment
    directing Mr. Moore to pay to Mr. Ray $585.00, representing the cost of parentage testing. Mr.
    Ray’s motion further sought a judgment against Mr. Moore “in the amount of $1,500.00,
    representing the attorney fees awarded in the order of January 12, 2000 [which was never] reduced
    to judgment.”
    Mr. Moore next filed a motion for “additional, appropriate visitation” with the twins in
    accordance with this Court’s October 5, 2001 and July 9, 2002 opinions. The motion further stated
    that Mr. Moore had arranged for an appointment with Dr. Pestrak to undergo psychological
    evaluation. On September 5, 2002, Mr. Moore filed a motion asking the court to “vacate its order
    requiring him to submit to psychological testing and to order the transfer of custody of [the twins]
    to their father, Eric Moore, as indicated by the opinions, orders, and directives of the Tennessee
    Court of Appeals.”
    A hearing was held on September 13, 2002 to discuss court costs, execution on prior
    judgments in favor of Mr. Ray, and Mr. Moore’s request for additional visitation. No testimony or
    substantive evidence was introduced regarding the issue of whether Mr. Moore was currently fit to
    act as the custodial parent for the twins or whether granting custody to Mr. Moore would pose a risk
    of substantial harm to the twins. On September 26, 2002, the trial court filed an order setting forth
    the following findings from the September 13, 2002 hearing:
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    (1) Mr. [Moore] will have supervised visitation with the twins
    every other weekend from 6:00 p.m. on Friday [until] 11 a.m. on
    Saturday....
    (2) Assessment of court costs incurred after January 12, 2000,
    will be held in abeyance until the final hearing of this cause. In no
    event, however, will Mr. [Moore] be required to pay for costs
    incurred by Mr. and Mrs. Ray in their orders of protection that were
    litigated at the commencement of this case.
    (3) The court has been tasked by the Court of Appeals to
    determine whether the twins would be substantially harmed by a
    transfer of custody from Mr. Ray to Mr. [Moore]. In order to do this,
    the trial court desires that Mr. [Moore] and the children submit to
    psychological evaluations to ensure that no substantial harm results
    to the children as a result of such transfer. Mr. [Moore] will therefore
    submit to a psychological evaluation, as previously ordered by the
    court and agreed to by him. Such evaluation will be performed by
    previous order. The children will be evaluated by Dr. James Walker,
    Vanderbilt [(“Dr. Walker”)].
    (4) The issue of whether Mr. Ray is entitled to execute on the
    arrearage judgment heretofore awarded in his favor and against Mr.
    [Moore] in this cause is reserved for the final hearing.
    (5) Mr. Ray is entitled to execute on the judgment for $585.00
    awarded to him and against Mr. [Moore] in the final decree of this
    cause. Interest may be calculated from January 12, 2000.
    (6) In [paragraph] 9 of the final decree in this cause, Mr.
    [Moore] was ordered to pay Mr. Ray an attorney’s fee of $1,500.00,
    but that award was not reduced to judgment. Mr. Ray is therefore
    awarded a judgment against Mr. [Moore] in the amount of $1,500.00,
    with pre-judgment interest from January 12, 2000.
    On October 17, 2002, Mr. Moore filed several motions seeking, inter alia, the assessment
    of court costs accrued after the trial court’s January 12, 2000 ruling, attorney’s fees, and payment
    of fees incurred for the psychological evaluations of Mr. Moore and his children.
    Another hearing was held on November 7, 2002, at which the psychological reports
    completed with regard to the twins and Mr. Moore were admitted into evidence. The court
    questioned Mr. Moore regarding his current wife’s ability to control her behavior despite an earlier
    violent confrontation with Mr. Ray outside of the courtroom, and the twins’ relationship with their
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    stepmother. The court also questioned Mrs. Holland about her current employment status and future
    career aspirations, her new husband, and the specifics of her current residence. The court’s order,
    entered November 22, 2002, stated in pertinent part:
    This cause came to be heard on the 7th day of November,
    2002, before the Honorable Carol Soloman, for the determination of
    custody and visitation issues as directed by the Court of Appeals. The
    Court is impressed with Dr. James Walker, Ph.D., and found his
    report to be very helpful and valuable.
    Based on Dr. Walker’s suggestion of a gradual transition, the
    Court finds it to be in the children’s best interest, after the
    acquiescence of Mr. Ray to the change of visitation and to the custody
    of Mr. Moore as follows:
    Mr. Moore shall have custody of the two (2) minor twin
    children....
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    During the week of February 10, 2003, Mr. Moore will take
    the children to Dr. Walker for further counseling and/or examination,
    and request a report to be filed under seal with this Court by February
    20, 2003, prior to the review on February 21, 2003.
    None of the parties, nor their mates, shall do anything to
    compromise the good mental health and peaceful transition of these
    babies. If they do, it will indicate serious problems to this Court. The
    step-mother, Mrs. Moore, shall not administer corporal punishment.
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    Further, the twins last name shall remain Ray as their two (2)
    slightly older siblings whom they have resided with their entire life.
    The child support, cost and attorney’s fees shall be addressed
    in a subsequent order....
    (emphasis in original).
    The trial court’s order further set forth a temporary schedule of visitation for Mrs. Holland and Mr.
    Ray so as to ease the twins’ transition into Mr. Moore’s custody.
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    On December 20, 2002, the trial court filed an amended order of custody and visitation,
    specifically denying Mr. Moore’s request for attorney’s fees on grounds that Mr. Moore was “the
    interloper in this marriage” and that “[h]is hands are colored with the shame of impregnating a
    [married woman].” The court’s order included the following additional amendments:
    Further, the support paid by Ms. [Holland] to Mr. Ray shall go
    to Mr. Moore immediately. There has not been a request for any
    other support. Mr. [Moore] owes to Mr. Ray a large judgment for
    child support that he has willfully failed to pay. Mr. Ray shall deduct
    $50.00 per month from the arrearage judgment beginning January 1,
    2003, for child support for his stepchildren as long as his visitation
    [of] at least 2 days a month is exercised. Also, $50.00 per month
    shall be deducted from the judgment until further notice. However,
    the judgment may be executed upon any remaining sums plus interest
    with notice to Mr. [Moore’s] attorney.
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    Further, the twins’ last name shall remain Ray, the same as
    their two (2) slightly older siblings, with whom they have resided
    their entire lives. Although the children are still of young age, their
    brother and sister are the only stable things in their lives outside of
    their former father. This Court envisions a traumatic effect upon the
    children undergoing so many startling changes, that the name change
    could potentially adversely affect the children. The children’s mother
    was named “Ray.” There is no embarrassment with this name, but to
    take a name of a man not related to the children, to wit the father of
    the wife Mr. [Moore] seems absurd at best. Mr. [Moore] was not
    born with the name of Moore, but chose it within the last year. He
    now wants these children to follow suit. There is no stability of
    respect in taking anyone’s name who is in the children’s lives with no
    history of longevity in the name chosen by Mr. [Moore]. Again, Mr.
    [Moore’s] name has only been Moore for a very short time. From
    Mr. [Moore’s] jump from one relationship to another this Court is not
    comfortable in making the children change their name with Mr.
    Staggs-Moore.
    Further, all cost [sic] accrued from January 21, 2000, to the
    entering of this order shall be paid 2/3 by [Mr. Moore], 1/3 to
    William Ray due to the majority of the costs arising from the
    numerous Interlocutory Appeals rather than from one appeal of the
    final order, for which execution may issue if necessary.
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    (emphasis in original).
    The trial court filed a second amended order of custody and visitation on December 30, 2002,
    deleting the statements and reasons offered in support of its decision to keep the twins’ last name
    as “Ray.” The court edited its finding to state only that the twins’ last name should remain “Ray”
    so as to reinforce or maintain the children’s connection with their two older siblings of the same last
    name, and with whom they had lived their entire lives.
    A final hearing was held on February 21, 2003, whereat Mr. Moore elected to proceed pro
    se due to his counsel’s unavoidable absence and despite the trial court’s offer to allow him to
    continue the proceedings until such time as counsel would become available. At the hearing, the
    trial court refused to reveal the content of Dr. Walker’s follow-up evaluation of the twins, to which
    none of the parties objected, and chose only to disclose Dr. Walker’s finding that the twins were in
    need of further counseling. The court moreover considered, inter alia, the specific issues of Mrs.
    Holland’s parental fitness for the purpose of awarding or granting standard visitation with the twins,
    and her child support obligations.
    The court heard testimony from Mrs. Holland’s current husband, William Ray Holland (“Mr.
    Holland”), concerning the twins’ alleged contact with a purportedly abusive relative, and the general
    care that he and Mrs. Holland provide and/or are willing to provide for the children. Ms. Annette
    Christine Kaiser (“Ms. Kaiser”), a co-worker and friend of Mrs. Holland, testified that Mrs. Holland
    maintains a comfortable home with adequate room for the twins and other children, and further noted
    that the children appear to have a good relationship with both Mrs. and Mr. Holland. Ms. Kaiser
    stated that, to her knowledge, there were no conditions or individuals present in Mrs. Holland’s
    home that would pose a threat of harm to the twins.
    Mrs. Holland testified that she had been exercising her visitation rights with the twins and
    averred that she was no longer an unfit parent and was therefore entitled to standard visitation with
    the children. Mrs. Holland discussed several changed circumstances in her life, including her
    marriage to Mr. Holland, a recent history of steady and gainful employment, a renewed interest in
    education and career, and a proven ability to maintain a safe and stable home environment.
    In an order filed April 25, 2003, the trial court set forth its findings from the February 21,
    2003 hearing, stating:
    The court considered the statements of counsel, testimony of
    the parties and their witnesses; the report of James Walker, Ph.D., and
    the entire record in this cause, from all of which the court finds and
    ORDERS as follows:
    (1) Dr. Walker’s report was delivered to the court under seal,
    and it will remain under seal. Neither the parties nor their counsel
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    may read the report without first having obtained an order from the
    court.
    (2) The aforementioned report suggests that the two children
    who are the subject of this litigation (“the twins”) are in some
    emotional stress, and Dr. Walker recommends the assistance of a
    child psychiatrist or psychologist to help alleviate the stress. Mr.
    Moore will therefore make arrangements to take the children for
    counseling with possibly Dr. Cathy Griffin, with the latter to
    determine the duration and intensity of the counseling. The adult
    parties to this case will make themselves available to attend such
    counseling if requested to do so by the counselor. Costs of such
    counseling that are not covered by insurance will be divided equally
    by Mr. Moore and Ms. Holland.
    (3) Ms. Holland has a duty to pay child support for four
    children, viz, the twins, and the two older children of Mr. Ray and
    Ms. Holland. The court has previously determined that guidelines
    support for four children, based on Ms. Holland’s income, is $622.00
    a month. Beginning in March 2003, and continuing in each calender
    month thereafter, Ms. Holland will pay $311.00 to Mr. Moore for the
    support of the twins, and she will pay $311.00 to Mr. Ray for the
    support of the two older children....
    (4) Mr. Moore’s duty to pay child support, as previously
    ordered, is terminated as of November 30, 2002.
    (5) From the evidence adduced at the hearing, the court finds
    that Ms. Holland is no longer an unfit parent. She has remarried and
    is gainfully employed, and she gives every indication that she is
    taking her parenting duties seriously.
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    (7) Neither Ms. Holland’s husband or Mr. Moore’s wife will
    administer corporal punishment to the twins. All of the parties and
    all persons in active concert and participation with them are enjoined
    from speaking derogatorily about each other in the presence of any of
    the children.
    (8) Following the twins’ birth, Mr. Ray believed himself to be
    their natural father. In fact, as was later determined, he was their
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    stepfather by virtue of his marriage to Ms. Holland who was then his
    wife.
    (9) T.C.A. § 36-6-303 provides, in pertinent part, that a
    stepparent “...may be granted reasonable visitation rights ... upon a
    finding that such visitation rights would be in the best interests of the
    minor child[ren] and that such stepparent is actually providing or
    contributing towards the support of such child[ren].”
    (10) The court specifically finds that the best interests of the
    twins would be served by permitting Mr. Ray to have certain
    visitation rights with them.
    (11) Mr. Ray has evidenced a willingness to provide or
    contribute toward the support of the twins. He is therefore ordered to
    pay the sum of $50.00 a month as his contribution towards the
    support of the twins.
    (12) Rather than pay the aforementioned $50.00 a month
    directly to Mr. Moore, [Mr. Ray] will deduct $50.00 a month from the
    judgment previously awarded to him and against Mr. Moore for
    unpaid child support. For so long as Mr. Ray continues to apply such
    monthly credits against the judgment, he will not seek to issue
    execution or otherwise attempt to collect the unpaid balance owed on
    the judgment. Should he later determine that he wishes to collect the
    balance owed on the judgment, he will take no action without having
    first given Mr. Moore at least 30 days’ notice of his intent to institute
    collection procedures.
    (13) The phrase “weekend visitation,” as used in this order,
    means 6:00 p.m. on Friday, until 6:00 p.m. on Sunday.
    (14) Ms. Holland will have weekend visitation with the twins
    on every other weekend, commensurate with her weekend visits with
    the two older children.
    (15) Mr. Ray will have one weekend visit with the twins every
    month on the first weekend of each calender month when the older
    children are with him. His first such visit will be on February 28 -
    March 2, 2003, and visitation in succeeding months will begin on the
    first Friday of each calender month when he is going to have the older
    children on that weekend.
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    (16) Mr. Ray may telephone the twins at Mr. Moore’s
    residence, provided that his calls are reasonable as to frequency, time,
    and duration. Mr. Ray and Ms. Holland may make occasional visits
    to the twins’ daycare or school, in order to have lunch with the twins.
    They will do this infrequently so as not to disrupt the twins’ school
    activities. Mr. Moore will advise daycares and schools of the court’s
    order in this regard.
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    (18) Mr. Ray will have visitation with [the] twins from 6:00
    p.m. on December 26 until 6:00 p.m. on December 28 every year.
    (19) The twins’ summer residential schedule will be as
    follows:
    (a) The twins will be with Mr. Ray for an uninterrupted week
    beginning at 6:00 p.m. on the Friday next following the end of the
    school year.
    (b) At the conclusion of Mr. Ray’s week, Ms. Holland will
    have the twins for four weeks, ending at 6:00 p.m. on the fourth
    Friday following the end of Mr. Ray’s visit.
    (c) During the four weeks when the twins are to be with Ms.
    Holland, Mr. Moore will have a weekend visit at the end of the first
    week and at the end of the third week.
    (d) At the conclusion of Ms. Holland’s four-week extended
    visit, the twins will be with Mr. Ray for an additional week.
    (e) At the conclusion of Mr. Ray’s additional week, Mr.
    Moore will have the twins for the remainder of the summer vacation,
    except that Ms. Holland will have weekend visitation at the end of
    Mr. Moore’s second week.
    (f) Standard visitation, as prescribed elsewhere in this order,
    will begin once [the] school year begins.
    (g) Mr. Ray’s monthly weekend visits will recommence in
    September.
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    (21) Court costs accruing since December 30, 2002, will be
    divided equally between Mr. Moore and Ms. Holland.
    Mr. Moore filed a timely notice of appeal of the trial court’s April 25, 2003 order, and
    presents eleven issues for review, which we restate as follows:
    1. Whether the trial court committed reversible error in awarding
    visitation to Mr. Ray, a non-related, third party, absent a finding “that
    denial of such visitation presented a risk of substantial harm to the
    children.
    2. Whether the trial court committed reversible error in finding, sua
    sponte, that Mrs. Holland was a fit parent, “without pleadings or [an]
    evidentiary hearing” to support the finding.
    3. Whether the trial court erred in refusing to change the twins’
    surname from “Ray” to “Moore.”
    4. Whether the trial court erred in its division of court costs.
    5. Whether the trial court erred in denying Mr. Moore’s request for
    attorney’s fees for litigation in this matter.
    6. Whether the trial court erred in restraining or prohibiting Mrs.
    Moore from administering corporal punishment to the twins.
    7. Whether the trial court’s finding that Mr. Moore failed to timely
    pay child support arrearages “was not supported by the evidence and
    should be stricken [from the record] along with the [court’s] order
    allowing execution with 30 days notice.”
    8. Whether the trial court erred in using or relying upon Dr. Walker’s
    sealed report in rendering its opinion.
    9. Whether the trial court erred in ordering Mr. Moore to obtain
    psychological counseling for the twins.
    10. Whether the trial court committed reversible error by using
    incorrect income figures to calculate Mrs. Holland’s monthly child
    support obligations to Mr. Moore.
    11. “Whether Mr. Moore is entitled to attorney’s fees from his appeal
    in this matter.”
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    Since this case was tried by the court sitting without a jury, we review the case de novo upon
    the record with a presumption of correctness of the findings of fact by the trial court. Unless the
    evidence preponderates against the findings, we must affirm, absent error of law. See Tenn. R. App.
    P. 13(d).
    I.
    The first issue presented for review is whether the trial court erred in awarding visitation to
    Mr. Ray. Tennessee Code Annotated § 36-6-303 (1996) states:
    Visitation rights of stepparents. – (a) In a suit for annulment,
    divorce or separate maintenance where one (1) party is a stepparent
    to a minor child born to the other party, such stepparent may be
    granted reasonable visitation rights to such child during its minority
    by the court of competent jurisdiction upon a finding that such
    visitation rights would be in the best interests of the minor child and
    that such stepparent is actually providing or contributing towards the
    support of such child.
    (b) Such decree shall remain within the control of the court
    and be subject to such changes or modification as the exigencies of
    the case require.
    The trial court’s final order set forth the following pertinent findings:
    (10) The court specifically finds that the best interests of the
    twins would be served by permitting Mr. Ray to have certain
    visitation rights with them.
    (11) Mr. Ray has evidenced a willingness to provide or
    contribute toward the support of the twins. He is therefore ordered to
    pay the sum of $50.00 a month as his contribution towards the
    support of the twins.
    It is apparent from the above-quoted excerpt that the trial court made the proper findings required
    under T.C.A. § 36-6-303(a). We note, initially, that the evidence in the record does not preponderate
    against the trial court’s finding that visitation with Mr. Ray was in the twins’ best interests. The
    record on appeal is sparse with regard to substantive evidence, and does not include any transcripts
    from hearings conducted prior to July 19, 2002. The court’s final order of April 25, 2003, states that
    the court “considered the statements of counsel, testimony of the parties and their witnesses; the
    report of Dr. James Walker, Ph.D., and the entire record in this cause” in rendering its decision. In
    Coakley v. Daniels, 
    840 S.W.2d 367
     (Tenn. Ct. App. 1992), this Court noted:
    Where the issues raised go to the evidence, there must be a transcript.
    In the absence of a transcript of the evidence, there is a conclusive
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    presumption that there was sufficient evidence before the trial court
    to support its judgment, and this Court must therefore affirm the
    judgment. McKinney v. Educator and Executive Insurers, Inc., 
    569 S.W.2d 829
    , 832 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1977). This rule likewise applies
    where there is a statement of the evidence which is incomplete. The
    burden is upon the appellant to show that the evidence preponderates
    against the judgment of the trial court. Capital City Bank v. Baker,
    
    59 Tenn. App. 477
    , 493, 
    442 S.W.2d 259
    , 266 (1969). The burden
    is likewise on the appellant to provide the Court with a transcript of
    the evidence or a statement of the evidence from which this Court can
    determine if the evidence does preponderate for or against the
    findings of the trial court.
    Id. at 370. See also Scarbrough v. Scarbrough, 
    752 S.W.2d 94
    , 97 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1988) (“When
    the trial court hears the evidence, but the evidence is not included in the record on appeal, it is
    presumed that the evidence supports the ruling of the trial court.”). We thus presume that the
    evidence presented to the court in the hearings prior to July 19, 2002, which the court relied upon
    in initially designating Mr. Ray as the custodial parent for the twins, supports the ruling of the court
    that visitation with Mr. Ray is in the best interests of the twins.
    With regard to Mr. Ray’s present support of the twins, we reiterate that Mr. Ray was the
    custodial parent for the twins at the time of the court’s final ruling, or immediately prior thereto, and
    thus we logically conclude that he was “providing or contributing towards the support” of the
    children. For these reasons, we find that the trial court did not err in awarding Mr. Ray visitation
    with the twins.
    We note, moreover, that Mrs. Holland did not and does not oppose the trial court’s award
    granting Mr. Ray visitation with the twins. Mrs. Holland did not brief the issue of step-parent
    visitation on appeal, but rather “defer[red] to Mr. Ray’s argument in this regard.” Mrs. Holland’s
    decision to withhold opposition to the trial court’s visitation award, and her deferral to Mr. Ray’s
    argument, can logically be construed or interpreted as her belief that visitation with Mr. Ray is in the
    children’s best interests.
    Mr. Moore argues that the trial court erred in awarding Mr. Ray visitation with the twins
    where the trial court made no finding that denial of such visitation would present a risk of substantial
    harm to the children. In support of his argument, Mr. Moore relies specifically upon the case of
    Engel v. Young, No. M2001-00734-COA-R3-CV, 
    2003 WL 1129451
     (Tenn. Ct. App. Mar. 14,
    2003), wherein the trial court granted visitation to the adult half-siblings of a minor child. The minor
    child’s natural mother appealed the trial court’s decision, and the Middle Section of this Court
    reversed the trial court’s ruling as to third party visitation, stating:
    In Hawk v. Hawk, 
    855 S.W.2d 573
     (Tenn. 1993), the
    Tennessee Supreme Court held that Article I, Section 8 of the
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    Tennessee Constitution protects the privacy interests of parents in
    their child-rearing decisions, as long as those parental decisions do
    not substantially endanger the welfare of their children. “Absent
    some harm to the child, we find that the state lacks a sufficiently
    compelling justification for interfering with this fundamental right.”
    Hawk, 855 S.W.2d at 582.
    Among those child-rearing decisions left to parents is the right
    to decide with whom a child associates and with whom the child may
    be responsibly left for brief periods of time. In Hawk, for example,
    the issue involved visitation with grandparents, and the Supreme
    Court held that courts could not award visitation to grandparents over
    the objection of the parents in the absence of a finding that the failure
    to award such visitation would result in substantial harm to the child.
    Where a court order has given primary or sole legal custody to one
    parent, the right to make child-rearing decisions rests with the
    custodial parent. Rust v. Rust, 
    864 S.W.2d 52
     (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993).
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    In summary,
    A court may not award a non-parent visitation
    unless the non-parent can show that denial of
    visitation presented a risk of substantial harm to the
    child. See Simmons v. Simmons, 
    900 S.W.2d 682
    ,
    685 (Tenn. 1995). If an order granting visitation does
    not include a finding on the issue of substantial harm,
    that order is invalid. See In re Askew, 
    993 S.W.2d 1
    ,
    4 (Tenn. 1999).
    Williams v. Thrailkill, No. W1999-01032-COA-R3-CV, 2000 Tenn.
    App. LEXIS 718, at *11 (Tenn. Ct. App. Oct. 23, 2000) (no Tenn. R.
    App. P. 11 application filed).
    Id. at *4-5.
    We do not find Engel to be controlling under the particular facts of this case. First, we note
    that T.C.A. § 36-6-303 does not require the court to make a finding of substantial harm in support
    of a stepparent visitation award. The plain language of the statute requires a court to find (1) that
    visitation with a stepparent is in the best interests of the children, and (2) that the stepparent is
    making contributions to the support of the children. As discussed, both of these factors are present
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    in the case at bar. Moreover, Engel involves a grant of visitation to half-siblings who never acted
    as parents to the minor child, and never enjoyed or exercised custody over the child.2
    The evidence in the record indicates that Mr. Ray, in his role as stepfather, raised the twins
    as his own for several years. Mr. Ray has remained a steady, positive, and loving parental figure in
    the lives of two young children who have already suffered more than their fair share of disruption,
    uncertainty, and instability. We therefore affirm the trial court’s ruling granting Mr. Ray visitation
    with the twins. Mr. Moore’s issue is without merit.
    II.
    Mr. Moore next presents for review the issue of whether the trial court “committed reversible
    error in declaring [Mrs. Holland] a fit parent without pleadings or an evidentiary hearing.” We quote
    Mr. Moore’s argument in support of his issue in its entirety:
    “It is a fundamental rule of law that in order to receive relief,
    a party must plead it, request it, and prove it in court with the
    opposing party having the opportunity to offer proof opposing the
    items requested.” Lewis v. Lewis, No. 89-287-II, 
    1990 WL 14022
    , at
    *3 (Tenn. Ct. App. Feb. 16, 1990) (no Tenn. R. App. P. 11
    application filed). [See also] West v. West, No.
    M1998-00725-COA-R3-CV, 
    2000 WL 64268
    , at *3 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    Jan. 27, 2000). The Lewis Court continues:
    A Court of Chancery has no jurisdiction of any
    matter not submitted to it in a pleading for
    adjudication; nor can the defendant be called on to
    respond to anything not alleged against him. Neither
    can a Court consider any evidence which does not
    directly, or indirectly, tend to prove or disprove the
    allegations contained in the pleadings. A decree can
    neither be based on allegations without corresponding
    proof, nor on proof without corresponding allegations.
    All decrees must be the concurring result of
    allegations justified by proof, and proof justified by
    allegations. A decree based on pleadings without
    proof, will be reversed on appeal, but will be good
    against collateral attack. A decree based on proof,
    2
    In W illiam s, the case relied upon by the Engel court as the basis for its summary judgment, this Court vacated
    a judgment of the trial court granting visitation rights to the minor child’s aunt. W illiam s, 2000 W L 33191365 at *4.
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    without pleadings, will not only be reversed on
    appeal, but will also yield to a collateral attack
    because such a decree is coram non judice, and
    absolutely void. The jurisdiction of the Court is
    circumscribed by the pleadings, and the pleadings are
    circumscribed by the Law.
    This fundamental rule of law has been upheld
    by the courts of Tennessee. The Supreme Court dealt
    with this issue in Fidelity-Phenix Fire Ins. Co. of
    New York v. Jackson, 
    181 S.W.2d 625
     (Tenn. 1944),
    citing a catalogue of Tennessee cases following this
    rule and quoting 15 R.C.L., at p. 604:
    [A] judgment will be void which is a
    departure from the pleadings, and
    based upon a case not averred therein,
    since if allowed to stand it would be
    altogether arbitrary and unjust and
    conclude a point upon which the
    parties had not been heard ....
    Therefore the rule is firmly
    established that irrespective of what
    may be proved a court cannot decree
    to any plaintiff more than he claims
    in his bill or other pleadings.
    (emphasis added) 
    181 S.W.2d 625
     at
    629.
    [Id.] at *4.
    In the case at bar the children’s mother did not “... plead it,
    request it, or prove it in court with the opposing party having the
    opportunity to offer proof opposing...” as to her present fitness as a
    parent. The Trial Court merely found sua sponte without proof that
    the children’s natural mother was a fit parent. Thus, the decree is
    based on proof, without pleadings and must be reversed on appeal.
    It is also subject to collateral attack because it is coram non judice,
    and absolutely void.
    In the instant matter, Mrs. Holland’s parental fitness is relevant only to the question of
    whether she is entitled to standard visitation with the twins. However, Mr. Moore fails to
    specifically appeal the trial court’s grant of standard or traditional visitation to Mrs. Holland in his
    brief, opting, rather, to focus his argument solely on the court’s alleged error in re-considering Mrs.
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    Holland’s parental fitness. We find that an issue regarding Mrs. Holland’s parental fitness is
    irrelevant where Mr. Moore fails to specifically challenge or appeal the trial court’s award of
    visitation to the mother. This court is not required to consider issues not properly before it, nor are
    we charged with the duty of interpreting or deciphering an issue to the point of relevancy. We
    therefore find Mr. Moore’s issue without merit.
    III.
    Mr. Moore’s third issue for review is whether the trial court committed reversible error in
    refusing to legally change the twins’ surname from “Ray” to “Moore.”
    In Barabas v. Rogers, 
    868 S.W.2d 283
     (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993), the Middle Section of this
    Court stated:
    Parties seeking to change a child’s surname bear the burden of
    showing good cause for the change.
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    The courts should not change a child’s surname unless the
    change promotes the child’s best interests. Halloran v. Kostka, 
    778 S.W.2d 454
    , 456 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1988); see also In re Marriage of
    Schiffman, 
    169 Cal. Rptr. 918
    , 921, 
    620 P.2d 579
    , 582 (1980); In re
    Cardinal, 611 A.2d [515, 517 (Del. Fam. Ct. 1991)]; Kristine C.
    Karnezis, Annotation, Rights and Remedies of Parents Inter Se
    With Respect to the Name of Their Children, 
    92 A.L.R. 3d 66
     § 8.5
    (Supp. 1992). Among the criteria for determining whether changing
    a child’s surname will be in the child’s best interests are: (1) the
    child’s preference, (2) the change’s potential effect on the child’s
    relationship with each parent (3) the length of time the child has had
    its present surname, (4) the degree of community respect associated
    with the present and proposed surname, and (5) the difficulty,
    harassment, or embarrassment that the child may experience from
    bearing either its present or its proposed surname. In re Saxton, 
    309 N.W.2d 298
    , 301 (Minn. 1981); Bobo v. Jewell, [
    38 Ohio St. 3d 330
    ,
    
    528 N.E.2d 180
    , 185 (1988)]; Daves v. Nastos, 105 Wash.2d 24, 
    711 P.2d 314
    , 318 (1985). The parent seeking to change the child’s
    surname has the burden of proving that the change will further the
    child’s best interests. In re Petition of Schidlmeier, 
    344 Pa. Super. 562
    , 
    496 A.2d 1249
    , 1253 (1985); In re M.L.P., 
    621 S.W.2d 430
    ,
    431 (Tex. Ct. App. 1981).
    Id. at 285-86; 287 (emphasis added).
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    The record on appeal in the present case does not include a petition, motion, or formal
    request for a change of the twins’ surname from “Ray” to “Moore.” Further, the record includes only
    the following discussion between Mr. Moore’s counsel and the trial court regarding Mr. Moore’s
    desire to have the twins’ surname changed to “Moore”:
    MR. SHAW: Oh. And the children’s name.
    THE COURT: Oh, the children’s name.
    MR. SHAW: Obviously, Mr. Moore wants his children to be named
    Moore.
    A brief discussion of Mr. Moore’s reasons for taking his wife’s maiden name ensued.
    Upon our review of the record and the particular circumstances of this case, we find that it
    is in the best interests of the twins to change their surname from “Ray” to “Moore.” We note that
    Mr. Moore failed in his burden to introduce sufficient evidence into the record showing good cause
    for the change. In fact, Mr. Moore introduced no specific substantive evidence to indicate good
    cause for the requested change, but rather relied solely on counsel’s assertion that Mr. Moore wants
    the twins’ surname changed in support of his argument.
    Despite the lack of evidence in the record specifically pertaining to whether good cause exists
    to require a change of the twins’ surname, our preeminent concern in this case is the best interests
    of the children. For the following reasons, we find that it is in the twins’ best interests to change
    their surname to “Moore.” First, Mr. Ray is not the biological father for these children, nor is he the
    custodial parent. Second, Mrs. Holland, no longer carries Mr. Ray’s surname; thus, neither of the
    twins’ biological parents currently have the surname “Ray.” Third, Mr. Moore is the natural father
    and custodial parent of the twins. In light of the confusion and instability that has inexcusably
    wreaked havoc in the twins’ young lives, we find that the children’s interests would be best served
    by cementing or affirming their bond to their natural father and custodial parent by a change in
    surnames. Finally, in his brief, Mr. Ray states that he “wants what is best for the children,” and
    concedes that “[w]hile he would like for them to continue to bear his name, ... a name change is
    probably appropriate under the circumstances.”
    To be frank, we are left with few options with regard to this issue. None of the parties
    involved have been a picture or model of stability. Mr. Ray, the party we find to be the most stable,
    is not the twins’ natural father, nor is he the custodial parent. Moreover, as noted, he concedes that
    “a name change is probably appropriate under the circumstances.” Thus, in this court’s view, we
    are left to choose only between the current surnames of the children’s biological parents. None of
    the parties contend that the twins’ surname should be changed to “Holland,” nor do we find it to be
    in the children’s best interest to give them the surname of a mother and stepfather with whom they
    do not reside. Therefore, we are essentially confined to conclude that the children should carry their
    natural father’s current surname of “Moore.” Despite evidence that Mr. Moore has made a concerted
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    effort to clean up his act and is currently involved in a committed marital union, we are deeply
    concerned by his history of relationship instability and the possibility that future marital discord
    could cause more suffering, confusion, and upheaval in these young children’s lives. We note,
    however, that Mr. Moore states in his brief that he and his wife “made a very thoughtful decision
    regarding the name they would both bear for the rest of their lives and came to the conclusion that
    “Moore” as [sic] the name they would choose for themselves and their children,” and we find no
    evidence to the contrary. We are thus inclined to trust that Mr. Moore has made the decision that
    he believes to be in the best interests of his children.
    Based upon the foregoing discussion, we find that the trial court erred in determining that the
    twins’ surname should remain “Ray,” and thereby reverse the court’s April 25, 2003 order, and all
    previous orders, to the extent that they deny Mr. Moore’s request for a change in surname.
    IV.
    The fourth issue presented for review is whether the “trial court committed reversible error
    in the division of court costs.” Mr. Moore’s argument, as stated in his brief, reads in pertinent part
    as follows:
    Similarly, in the case at bar, Mr. Ray, as previously noted by
    this Court, vigorously opposed all of the Appellant’s attempts in
    forming a relationship with his children and “... carried the battle to
    his wife’s lover at every turn.” Mr. Ray obsessively pursued these
    proceedings with unwarranted allegations, which significantly added
    to their expense and he ultimately did not carry the day. Appellant
    should not be burdened with a large court cost judgment from the four
    plus years of litigation, which was prolonged by Mr. Ray’s obsessive
    use of the judicial system regarding custody of two children who are
    not his.
    In an Order entered January 12, 2000, the trial court stated that
    the court costs would be divided between [Mr. Moore] and [Mrs.
    Holland]. In an Order entered September 26, 2002, the trial court
    states, “(2) Assessment of court costs incurred after January 12, 2000,
    will be held in abeyance until the final hearing of this cause. In no
    event, however, will [Mr. Moore] be required to pay for costs
    incurred by [Mr. Ray and Mrs. Holland] in their orders of protection
    that were litigated at the commencement of this case.” In another
    Order entered December 20, 2002, the trial court states, “Further, all
    cost accrued from January 21, 2000, to the entering of this order shall
    be paid 2/3 by Eric Staggs-Moore, [and] 1/3 to William Ray due to
    the majority of the costs arising from the numerous Interlocutory
    Appeals rather than from one appeal of the final order, for which
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    execution may issue if necessary.” In the final Order entered April
    [25], 2003, the trial court states, “21. Court costs accruing since
    December 30, 2002, will be divided equally between Mr. Moore and
    Mrs. Holland.”
    In the case at bar, the trial court intends to punish Appellant
    by requiring him to pay the court costs. The trial court has grossly
    abused her discretion by allowing her personal feelings [sic] get in the
    away [sic] of the law. The trial court seems to have taken it
    personally that Appellant has filed numerous interlocutory appeals,
    but Appellant would insist that if the trial court had followed the law
    and stopped Mr. Ray in his ridiculous rampage, he would not have
    been forced to file the interlocutory appeals.
    Mr. Moore’s brief generally appeals the trial court’s “division of court costs;” however, it is
    apparent that he is only challenging the trial court’s division of court costs as between him and Mr.
    Ray for costs accrued from January 21, 2000 through December 20, 2002. Therefore, we are not
    concerned with the trial court’s division of court costs between Mr. Moore and Mrs. Holland.
    The trial court is afforded discretion in taxing and assessing costs. Long v. Long, 
    957 S.W.2d 825
    , 833-34 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1997). On appeal, the trial court’s decision to award costs will
    be reversed if the trial court abused that discretion. Id. We find that the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion in its division of court costs among Mr. Moore and Mr. Ray for costs accrued from
    January 21, 2000 through December 20, 2002, and specifically note that there is absolutely no
    evidence in the record to indicate that the trial court assessed court costs against Mr. Moore as a form
    of punishment. Moreover, the evidence in the record does not support Mr. Moore’s characterization
    of Mr. Ray’s efforts to obtain or maintain custody of the twins’ as a “ridiculous rampage.” We thus
    find Mr. Moore’s issue without merit.
    V.
    Mr. Moore next presents for review the issue of whether the trial court erred in refusing to
    grant him an award of attorney’s fees.
    The trial court is vested with wide discretion in the allowance of attorney’s fees, and we will
    not interfere except upon a showing of an abuse of this discretion. Threadgill v. Threadgill, 
    740 S.W.2d 419
    , 426 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1987). While we refuse to adopt the reasoning expressed by the
    trial court in support of its ruling, we nonetheless find that the court did not abuse its discretion in
    refusing to grant Mr. Moore an award of attorney’s fees. All of the parties’ involved in this matter
    are to blame for the prolonged dispute, and thus must share in the costs and expenses of litigation.
    Despite Mr. Moore’s argument to the contrary, we find no evidence that Mr. Ray engaged in
    inappropriate, frivolous, or unwarranted conduct for the purpose of prolonging the dispute.
    Moreover, Mr. Moore’s counsel’s own brief, oral argument, and multiple motions for recusal appear
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    to suggest or explain that his tumultuous relationship with the trial court hindered timely resolution
    of this matter.
    We therefore find Mr. Moore’s issue without merit.
    VI.
    This Court next considers whether the trial court erred in prohibiting Mrs. Moore
    (stepmother) from administering corporal punishment to the twins.
    Tennessee has long recognized the rights of natural parents to raise their children without
    interference from the state. In Hawk v. Hawk, 
    855 S.W.2d 573
     (Tenn. 1993), our Supreme Court
    reaffirmed Tennessee’s strong commitment to protecting parental rights in holding that a parent’s
    right to raise his or her child without state interference is subject only to a showing that the parent’s
    decisions present a risk of substantial harm to the child. In holding that parental rights are a
    fundamental liberty interest under Article I, Section 8 of the Tennessee Constitution, the Hawk Court
    noted that “the right to rear one’s children is so firmly rooted in our culture that the United States
    Supreme Court has held it to be a fundamental liberty interest protected by the Fourteenth
    Amendment to the United States Constitution.” Id. at 578.
    As the twins’ natural father, Mr. Moore has a right to determine the reasonable and no-
    abusive methods of discipline to be administered to his children. As the children’s natural mother,
    Mrs. Holland is also entitled to a say as to the type and scope of reasonable discipline inflicted upon
    her children. In the unpublished case of Wilson v. Wilson, No. E2000-01374-COA-R3-CV, 
    2001 WL 703881
     (Tenn. Ct. App. June 22, 2001), the Eastern Section of this Court considered the sole
    issue of whether the evidence in the record preponderated against the lower court’s finding “of a
    material change of circumstance such that there existed a risk of substantial harm to the minor
    children sufficient to necessitate a change in residential custody.” Id. at 1. The court specifically
    considered the stepfather’s use of corporal punishment on the minor children despite the natural
    father’s adamant objection to such discipline, finding:
    While we recognize that children should be disciplined and that
    step-parents should be allowed to discipline the children residing in
    their household, there are other means of punishing children than
    whipping them with a “hickory” when one of their parents has
    specifically stated a preference against the use of such punishment.
    Id. at *6.
    The court did not find that the stepfather’s use of corporal punishment alone “r[o]se to the level of
    a change in circumstance such that a change in custody is required to prevent substantial harm to the
    minor children[;]” however, the court noted that this evidence was consistent with testimony
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    indicative of the mother and stepfather’s poor judgment, and supported a change of custody to the
    natural father. Id. at *6-9.
    It is clear from Mrs. Holland’s brief that she does not wish for Mrs. Moore to administer
    corporal punishment to the twins. We do not find Mrs. Holland’s request to be unreasonable and
    therefore conclude that the trial court did not err in ruling that Mrs. Moore is prohibited from using
    corporal punishment to discipline the twins. Our finding does not foreclose or effect Mrs. Moore’s
    ability to discipline the children in a reasonable, non-corporal, non-abusive manner. Moreover,
    should Mr. Moore have a reasonable basis for asking that Mr. Holland refrain from administering
    corporal punishment to the twins, we find that he would be entitled to such a request.
    VII.
    Mr. Moore next asks this Court to determine whether the trial court erred in finding that Mr.
    Moore failed to timely pay child support to Mr. Ray. Mr. Moore failed to raise this issue in either
    of his first two appeals despite the fact that the issue was available to him at the time of his first
    appeal. We are therefore unwilling to consider this issue. Moreover, we note that Mr. Moore is no
    longer obligated to pay Mr. Ray child support now that Mr. Moore is the custodial parent of the
    twins. Rather, the court determined that $50.00 would be deducted from the due and owing child
    support arrearages each month as support paid by Mr. Ray to Mr. Moore.
    Mr. Moore’s assertion or error is based solely upon his contention that the trial court
    incorrectly found, sua sponte, that he failed to timely pay child support in accordance with the
    court’s order. Mr. Moore did not, and does not, appeal his obligation to pay child support, nor does
    he dispute the amount of child support owed. We deem all other concerns to be immaterial to this
    matter, and therefore find Mr. Moore’s issue without merit.
    VIII.
    Mr. Moore’s eighth issue asks this court to determine whether the trial court erred in basing
    its final order of custody and visitation on Dr. Walker’s psychological report, where said report
    remained under seal and was not available for review by counsel. Mr. Moore’s argument is based
    upon three primary assertions: (1) the trial court did not have the proper factual predicate to order
    the twins to undergo psychological evaluation by Dr. Walker; (2) the report constitutes inadmissible
    hearsay not covered by any recognized exception; and (3) the trial court improperly prohibited
    counsel from reviewing the report prior to rendering its decision.
    To briefly reiterate the pertinent procedural history, the court first ordered the twins to
    undergo psychological evaluation by Dr. Walker in an order entered September 26, 2002, for the
    apparent purpose of determining whether the children would be substantially harmed by a transfer
    of custody. On November 22, 2002, the trial court entered an order of custody and visitation finding,
    inter alia:
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    During the week of February 10, 2003, Mr. Moore will take
    the children to Dr. Walker for further counseling and/or examination,
    and request a report to be filed under seal with this Court by February
    20, 2003, prior to the review on February 21, 2003.
    (emphasis in original).
    It is apparent that the court acted of its own volition in ordering further counseling for the children,
    as there was no discussion at the November 7, 2002 hearing regarding additional counseling or the
    fact that any report generated from such counseling would remain under seal.
    At the final hearing of February 21, 2003, the trial judge made the following statements from
    the bench regarding Dr. Walker’s sealed report:
    THE COURT: Now, let me tell you all, before we get started,
    Dr. Walker filed with [t]he Court, under seal, a – a report. The fee for
    Dr. Walker is $1,475, it’s to be divided three ways, so I do want to
    make copies of that for each of you, and we’ll – we’ll – that won’t be
    under seal.
    But I do not want anyone, except by court order, to read this
    report. I think it’s important for the children to think that when they
    talk to a doctor that what they say is in private.
    But the one thing I can disclose to you is that Dr. Walker is
    most concerned about the mental health of these children. He said
    they have some significant problems. And that he recommends that
    – that the family, Mr. Moore and his wife and the children, need to
    have professional assistance in dealing with this adjust – with this
    adjustment, and that the children desperately need a child
    psychologist or psychiatrist, he recommends.
    But as I understand it, a psychiatrist could, perhaps, give them
    medication. Hopefully, Dear God, they’re not going to need
    medication. What I would suggest is you all agree on a good child
    psychologist. And the reports are to be made to me, but under seal
    and no one’s to see them but me.
    It’s – He did recommend that Mr. and Mrs. Moore develop
    some assistance in – need some assistance – I’m sorry – in developing
    positive disciplinary strategies.
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    I’ll be glad to share this with whatever psychologist you all
    choose, but I don’t want to share it with the parties, I don’t think it
    helps. All I can tell you is that the children are in serious distress and
    that this doctor says they need psychological counseling.
    And, of course, I don’t think this is anything that we, as
    adults, did not expect. I was hoping it would not come to pass, but it
    did. It’s going to be under seal; unless you can convince me that the
    attorneys need to read it, it will remain that way, unless by court order
    it’s open.
    So, I want the children to get counseling immediately.
    The trial court’s initial order of custody and visitation and each of the subsequent amended
    orders reiterated its finding that Mr. Moore was required to take the twins to Dr. Walker for
    additional counseling, and that the doctor’s report from the counseling session should be filed under
    seal with the court. Mr. Moore did not file any pleading or motion objecting to any of the trial
    court’s orders requiring the twins to undergo additional counseling with Dr. Walker and further
    directing that the doctor’s report from the session be filed under seal with the court, nor did he enter
    an oral objection to the court’s finding or directive at the February 21, 2003 hearing.3 A party who
    invites or waives error, or who fails to take reasonable steps to cure an error, is not entitled to relief
    on appeal. See Tenn. R. App. P. 36(a), cmt. a.4 We therefore find that Mr. Moore’s issue is not
    properly before this Court.
    In the event that this Court is deemed to have a duty to consider Mr. Moore’s argument that
    the trial court improperly relied upon Dr. Walker’s sealed report in rendering its final decision of
    custody and visitation, we find his issue to be without merit. We note, initially, that the trial court
    aptly summarized the contents of Dr. Walker’s report to the parties at the February 21, 2003 hearing.
    Further, we have examined Dr. Walker’s sealed report and find nothing in his evaluation to
    contradict the court’s findings with regard to visitation, custody, and continued counseling. We
    therefore find the court’s failure or refusal to permit counsel access to or review of Dr. Walker’s
    report to be harmless error.
    3
    Mr. Moore voluntarily proceeded pro se at the February 21, 2003 hearing despite the trial court’s offer to
    allow a continuance. Although pro se litigants are entitled to fair and equal treatment, Whitaker v. Whirlpool Corp.,
    32 S.W .3d 222, 227 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2000), pro se litigants are not entitled to shift the burden of litigating their case to
    the courts. Id. at 222. Pro se litigants are not excused from complying with the same substantive and procedural
    requirements that must be adhered to by other represented parties. Id. at 222. W e thus find that Mr. Moore was charged
    with the responsibility of offering a proper objection to the trial court’s ruling at the February 21, 2003 hearing.
    4
    To briefly address Mr. Moore’s hearsay allegation, we note that neither he nor his counsel entered a proper
    and timely objection to Dr. W alker’s report as inadmissible hearsay. Failure to interpose proper and seasonable
    objections to hearsay equals a waiver and statements or records that would likely be excluded under a proper hearsay
    objection become sufficient evidence absent such objection.
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    As a final note, we stress that Dr. Walker’s report should have been made available to
    counsel where the court’s decision was based, at least in part, upon this evaluation. Should Mr.
    Moore or Mrs. Holland, as the natural parents of these children, desire to read or review the contents
    of Dr. Walker’s report, they should file a proper motion requesting the unsealing of said document.
    IX.
    We next consider the related issue of whether the trial court “committed reversible error in
    requiring [Mr. Moore] to seek counseling for the [twins].” Mr. Moore is apparently challenging the
    trial court’s April 25, 2003 order wherein the court found:
    [Dr. Walker’s sealed] report suggests that the two children
    who are the subject of this litigation (“the twins”) are in some
    emotional stress, and Dr. Walker recommends the assistance of a
    child psychiatrist or psychologist to help alleviate this stress. Mr.
    Moore will therefore make arrangements to take the children for
    counseling with possibly Dr. Cathy Griffin with the latter to
    determine the duration and intensity of the counseling. The adult
    parties to this case will make themselves available to attend such
    counseling if requested to do so by the counselor. Costs of such
    counseling that are not covered by insurance will be divided equally
    by Mr. Moore and Ms. Holland.
    The court briefly discussed the need for continued counseling during the February 21, 2003
    hearing without objection from Mr. Moore. We find that the trial court did not abuse its discretion
    in requiring Mr. Moore to seek further counseling for the twins. Dr. Walker’s sealed report indicates
    that the twins, especially the young boy, have “had some significant problems adjusting emotionally
    to their new home.” In his initial report dated October 18 and 22, 2002, Dr Walker noted that “[i]f
    undue distress persists after [the] transfer [of custody], appropriate consultation and/or counseling
    with a child psychologist should be sought.” This report was entered as an exhibit at trial without
    objection, and was made available to both parties.
    In her testimony at the February 21, 2003 hearing, Mrs. Holland stated that the twins were
    having a difficult time adjusting to the change in custody, noting:
    Q. Would you please tell [t]he Court generally how that visitation
    [with the twins] was going?
    A. At first, it was not very well at all. [The twins] had a lot of
    questions, they were, like, asking me “[W]hy do I have to go.” And,
    you know, the – Your Honor has ordered us not to, you know, discuss
    the court with them, and my expression to them was that they’re very
    lucky children, they have four people who love them very much.
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    THE COURT: I read that. I thought that was beautiful.
    [Q. (MR. HILL):] And it –
    THE COURT: Very good.
    A. – was very difficult to – for – for [my twin daughter]. At first, she
    would go and hide. She – she got mad at [my twin son], actually,
    because he told on her hiding place, it was under the bunk bed.... So
    we went to try and find her, and she got awfully upset with – with
    [her brother] because he gave away her hiding spot.
    But the – her – her reason for doing this is because she didn’t
    want to go to Mr. and Mrs. Moore’s house. She could not understand
    why she had to go. So I had to sit down and explain to her the best
    [way] that I could – possibly could.
    [My son’s] first visitation from Mr. and Mrs. Moore’s house,
    he kicked me, he screamed [at me] and called me the B-word, which
    I have never ever in my entire life experienced out of my son.
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    [My son] is not loving anymore, he does not just run up and
    say “I love you, mommy,” like he used to do, or “I [missed] you.”
    [My daughter], she seems confused on calling me “mama” or
    [Mrs.] Moore “mama.”
    Mr. Holland testified that the twins are not initially as affectionate towards him and Mrs.
    Holland, or their stepsisters, during their visits, but noted that they warm to the family members after
    a couple of hours. Ms. Kaiser testified that the children are more withdrawn since the change in
    custody. No evidence was offered in rebuttal to this testimony.
    On the basis of the above testimony and Dr. Walker’s reports, we find that continued
    counseling is in the twins’ best interests, and thereby conclude that the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion in requiring Mr. Moore to seek further counseling for the children. Mr. Moore’s issue is
    therefore without merit.
    X.
    We next consider Mr. Moore’s argument that the trial court incorrectly calculated or based
    Mrs. Holland’s child support obligations to appellant upon her 1999 income.
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    In its order of April 25, 2003, the trial court directed Mrs. Holland to pay to both Mr. Moore
    and Mr. Ray $311.00 per month in child support for support of her four children. The court’s
    support award covered the twins and Mrs. Holland’s two children with Mr. Ray, and was further
    based upon an income of $622.00 per month.
    The only evidence in the record regarding Mrs. Holland’s income is a single pay stub from
    her employer, Kessler Rehabilitation Services, listing her net bi-weekly income for the pay period
    ending December 7, 2002, as $757.59, and Mrs. Holland’s base assertion that she makes $12.50 per
    hour. There is no evidence in the record to indicate the average number of hours that Mrs. Holland
    works per week, or that the pay stub submitted into evidence is representative of her bi-weekly
    earnings. There is no evidence in the record that either Mr. Moore or his attorney ever questioned
    Mrs. Holland as to her income at the time of this appeal.
    Tennessee Code Annotated § 36-5-101(a)(1) (Supp. 2002) provides in pertinent part as
    follows:
    (a)(1) Whether the marriage is dissolved absolutely, or a
    perpetual or temporary separation is decreed, the court may make an
    order and decree for the suitable support and maintenance of either
    spouse by the other spouse, or out of either spouse’s property, and of
    the children, or any of them, by either spouse or out of such spouse’s
    property, according to the nature of the case and the circumstances of
    the parties, the order or decree to remain in the court’s control; and,
    on application of either party for spousal support, the court may
    decree an increase or decrease of such allowance only upon a
    showing of a substantial and material change of circumstances. In
    cases involving child support, upon application of either party, the
    court shall decree an increase or decrease of such allowance when
    there is found to be a significant variance, as defined in the child
    support guidelines established by subsection (e), between the
    guidelines and the amount of support currently ordered unless the
    variance has resulted from a previously court-ordered deviation
    from the guidelines and the circumstances which caused the
    deviation have not changed. The necessity to provide for the child’s
    health care needs shall also be a basis for modification of the amount
    of the order, regardless of whether a modification in the amount of
    child support is necessary.
    (emphasis added).
    Mr. Moore has presented no evidence of Mrs. Holland’s exact or near-exact monthly or
    annual income, nor is there any evidence in the record to show a “substantial and material change
    of circumstances” such as to justify an increase in Mrs. Holland’s child support obligations. We thus
    find Mr. Moore’s issue without merit.
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    If any variance exists as required by the Child Support Guidelines, Tenn. Comp. R. & Regs.
    1240-2-4, Mr. Moore may file a proper petition to modify Mrs. Holland’s child support obligations.
    We note that Mr. Ray does not appeal the trial court’s ruling regarding child support.
    XI.
    Mr. Moore’s final issue is whether he is entitled to recover attorney’s fees from Mr. Ray for
    his appeal in this matter.
    The record indicates that this matter has been prolonged unnecessarily by the parties by many
    petty and somewhat irrelevant issues. Although it appears that the parties do love these children,
    they have not shown a willingness to put the interests of these children first and set aside their
    individual animosity toward each other. Also, it seems that the apparent animosity of Mr. Moore’s
    counsel toward the trial judge has added to the strife and inability of the parties to work things out.
    Considering the record as a whole, and the matters that have transpired, we do not find that the trial
    court abused its discretion in any manner in refusing to award attorney’s fees to Mr. Moore.
    XII.
    In conclusion, the trial court’s order is reversed to the extent that it denies the request that
    the twin’s surnames be changed to Moore and it is ordered that such change be made by the trial
    court on remand. The order of the trial court is affirmed in all other respects and costs of this appeal
    are assessed against the appellant, Stephen Eric Moore and his surety.
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    W. FRANK CRAWFORD, PRESIDING JUDGE, W.S.
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