Shearer Rebecca Agee v. David Steven Agee ( 2008 )


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  •                  IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
    AT JACKSON
    OCTOBER 9, 2007 Session
    SHEARER REBECCA AGEE v. DAVID STEVEN AGEE
    Direct Appeal from the Chancery Court for Crockett County
    No. 8037    George R. Ellis, Chancellor
    No. W2007-00314-COA-R3-CV - Filed May 16, 2008
    This is an appeal from the trial court’s modification of a child’s custody due to a material change in
    circumstances. Mother/Appellant appeals the trial court’s change of custody of her minor child to
    Father/Appellee. Specifically, Mother/Appellant asserts that the evidence does not support the
    finding of a material change in circumstances and also raises issues concerning trial court’s reliance
    on certain evidence. Finding no error by the trial court, we affirm.
    Tenn. R. App. P. 3; Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court Affirmed
    ALAN E. HIGHERS, P.J., W.S., delivered the opinion of the court, in which HOLLY M. KIRBY , J.,
    joined, and W. FRANK CRAWFORD , J., did not participate.
    Betty Stafford Scott, Mary Jo Middlebrooks, Jackson, TN, for Appellant
    Magan White, Jackson, TN, for Appellee
    OPINION
    Facts and Procedural History
    On September 8, 2000, Appellant, Shearer Rebecca Agee (hereinafter, “Mother”) and
    Appellee, David Steven Agee (hereinafter, “Father”), were married. In June of 2001, the parties
    separated; and, on July 5, 2001, Mother filed for divorce. After separating, Mother gave birth to the
    parties’ only child (hereinafter, “R. I. A” or “the child”) on February 8, 2002. In conjunction with
    their divorce, the parties entered into a Marital Dissolution Agreement and a Permanent Parenting
    Plan, under which Mother was designated as the Primary Residential Parent (hereinafter, “PRP”).
    The Final Decree of Absolute Divorce was entered on August 28, 2002.
    In early 2004, Mother learned that her National Guard Unit was on an “alert order” for a
    possible two (2) year deployment to Iraq. In July of 2004, Mother was officially notified that her unit
    would be deployed to Iraq. On July 9, 2004, Mother allegedly became suspicious that R. I. A. was
    being sexually abused while in Father’s custody.1 The next day, Mother contacted the National
    Guard and was removed from the “mobilization and deployment manning roster.” The following
    Monday, July 12, 2004, Mother reported her allegations to the Milan Police Department. Mother
    also contacted the Department of Children’s Services (hereinafter, “DCS”) and was directed to take
    R. I. A. to the Memphis Sexual Assault Resource Center (hereinafter, “MRC”).
    On August 23, 2004, the MRC performed a visual rape examination on R. I. A. The
    examination was inconclusive. Thereafter, and upon MRC’s recommendation, Mother also starting
    collecting and dating R. I. A.’s garments after her return from visits with Father. On August 27,
    2004, Mother took three garments to the Milan Police Department. Around this time, Mother also
    began taking R. I. A. to see Julia Austen, a licensed clinical social worker.
    The Milan Police Department interviewed Father and took samples of his blood, but did not
    process or test R. I. A.’s garments. Mother retrieved R. I. A.’s garments and delivered them to Work
    Care Resources, an independent laboratory in Jackson, Tennessee. Tests were performed on the
    garments and yielded inconclusive results. Following Work Care Resources’ testing, the Tennessee
    Bureau of Investigation (TBI) tested the garments. The TBI test results were negative for the
    presence of bodily fluids. No criminal charges were ever brought against Father.
    In October of 2004, Mother took R. I. A. to the emergency room at Jackson-Madison County
    Hospital, alleging that R. I. A. complained of buttocks and stomach pain. Mother told the hospital
    staff that R. I. A. might have been sexually assaulted. The staff conducted a visual examination of
    R. I. A.’s genitalia and directed Mother to return in a few days for a follow-up exam. Mother
    returned, as directed, and the staff examined the R. I. A. again. Their examination yielded
    inconclusive results.
    On October 6, 2004, Father filed a Petition for Change in Primary Residence, alleging that
    Mother had wrongfully accused him of abuse, and had forced R. I. A. to undergo horrific medical
    1
    This Court has thoroughly reviewed the specific allegations lodged against Father. However, in the interest
    of protecting the privacy of the parties, and especially of the child, we will not enumerate the allegations herein.
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    examinations, which were harmful to the child. Father further alleged that these accusations were
    made in order to alienate R. I. A. from him. On October 28, 2004, Mother filed a Response and a
    Motion for Civil Contempt, alleging that Father had violated various provisions of the parenting
    plan. On November 22, 2004, Father filed an Answer, denying all the material allegations of
    Mother’s motion.
    When R. I. A. returned from visiting Father over Christmas break, Mother asked her
    neighbor, a registered nurse, to examine R. I. A.’s genital area. On December 30, 2004, Mother filed
    a Motion for Civil and Criminal Contempt alleging that Father exercised more parenting time than
    he was entitled to under the Parenting Plan. On January 10, 2005, Father filed a Response, denying
    all of Mother’s material allegations. On January 14, 2005, Father filed a Petition for Contempt,
    alleging that Mother had assaulted him, and had made derogatory remarks in front of their child.
    Additionally, Father filed a Motion for Custodial Evaluation requesting that the Chancery Court
    order the parties to submit to psychological evaluations.
    On January 25, 2005, Mother filed a Motion to Terminate or Require Supervised Parenting
    Time, alleging that Father had sexually abused R. I. A.. Shortly thereafter, on February 1, 2005,
    Mother filed a Petition for a Restraining Order, and the Chancery Court issued a temporary
    restraining order that same day. Father responded on February 4, 2005, denying Mother’s allegations
    and filing his own Petition for Contempt, alleging that Mother refused to allow him visitation with
    R. I. A. On February 7, 2005, Father filed an Answer to the Petition for the Restraining Order and
    denied all material allegations contained therein. After the restraining order was issued, Mother took
    R. I. A. to the UT Medical Group for a follow-up visit, stemming from the MRC visit in August of
    2004. Another exam was performed, and, again, all tests were inconclusive.
    The Chancery Court held a hearing on February 23, 2005. In April of 2005, the trial court
    issued an Order, requiring both parties to submit to a Center for Children in Crisis Evaluation
    (hereinafter, “CCP Evaluation”).2 The Chancery Court also continued the hearing on Mother’s
    temporary restraining order until June 6, 2005.
    Pursuant to the Chancery Court’s April order, the parties submitted themselves to a CCP
    psychological evaluation at the LeBonheur Center for Children and Parents (hereinafter,
    “LeBonheur”).3 After conducting individual psychological evaluations of Father, Mother, and R.
    I. A., LeBonheur opined that it was extremely unlikely that Father had sexually abused the child.
    LeBonheur further opined that the relationship between Father and R. I. A. was positive, and that
    Mother exhibited many personality traits which suggest Borderline Personality Disorder. LeBonheur
    2
    The Center for Children in Crisis is part of the LeBonheur Children’s Medical Center, Center for Children and
    Parents (“CCP”).
    3
    Several LeBonheur psychologists and licensed clinical social workers conducted the evaluation of the parties
    and R. I. A. through a myriad of observations, interviews, assessments of parent-child interactions, and psychological
    tests. A “Multi-disciplinary Team Summary” report conveyed LeBonheur’s findings and represented a comprehensive
    summary of each of the professional’s conclusions.
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    concluded that, as between the two parents, Father “would clearly be the better primary residential
    parent, by far.”
    The trial court reviewed LeBonheur’s findings and allowed Father to have supervised
    visitation with R. I. A. The court also ordered that R. I. A. attend counseling with a licensed child
    psychologist, with the parties being required to participate collaboratively in R. I. A.’s therapy. In
    addition, Mother was ordered to complete long-term intensive therapy with a licensed therapist,
    skilled in personality disorders. R. I. A. began counseling with Dr. David Pickering, and both Father
    and Mother participated collaboratively in that therapy. From June 2005 until November 2005,
    Mother attended therapy sessions with Dr. Richard Spring, a licensed psychologist. In a letter dated
    October 10, 2005, Dr. Spring released Mother, stating that she had complied with the individual
    therapy requirements and that he had not “seen anything clinically that would confirm the LeBonheur
    report saying that she has Borderline Personality Disorder.”
    On October 11, 2005, the Chancery Court extended Father’s visitation to include visits in his
    home and required the parties to continue seeing Dr. Pickering for family counseling. Shortly
    thereafter, Mother learned that her job with the Army’s Counter Drug Unit would be terminated due
    to lack of funding. Mother sold her residence and notified Father of her relocation to Fulton,
    Kentucky. Both Father and Dr. Pickering objected to Mother’s moving outside the court’s
    jurisdiction. In response to their objections, Mother moved to South Fulton, Tennessee, to live with
    her mother and to remain within the trial court’s jurisdiction.
    On December 12, 2005, the Chancery Court entered an Order dismissing the numerous
    petitions and motions. The parties were instructed to abide by the “Shared Parenting Provisions”
    of the Permanent Parenting Plan and to continue family counseling with Dr. Pickering.
    On January 8, 2006, R. I. A. allegedly complained that her “bottom” hurt. Mother took R.
    I. A. to the emergency room at Parkway Regional Hospital in Fulton, Kentucky for an examination.
    The examination included a swab test, which proved to be inconclusive. Father claims that Mother
    made an additional accusation of sexual abuse the following day, January 9, 2006. Father contends
    that Mother made these accusations in order to avoid being deployed overseas with her National
    Guard unit.4
    On January 10, 2006, Father filed a Petition for a Change in Primary Physical Residence on
    a Temporary and Permanent Basis and for a Restraining Order. The Chancery Court issued a
    temporary restraining order against Mother, prohibiting her from having contact with R. I. A. The
    trial court held several hearings in order to determine whether the change in custody should remain
    permanent. During the course of these proceedings, Julia Austin, the social worker who had been
    counseling R. I. A. through play therapy, testified that, based on her observations and interaction
    with R. I. A., she was of the opinion that sexual abuse had occurred. In direct contradiction to Ms.
    4
    Mother was first taken off the deployment list following the first accusation in July 2004 and was honorably
    discharged following the accusation in January 2006.
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    Austin’s testimony, Dr. Pickering, the psychologist who had counseled with both parties and the
    child, testified that he observed no indication of sexual abuse, and opined that Mother’s leading
    questions and actions were geared towards furthering her own interests instead of the best interests
    of the child.
    On January 11, 2007, the Chancery Court ordered that Father would be the Primary
    Residential Parent of R. I. A. permanently. The order further stated:
    . . . [T]he Court found a significant and material change in
    circumstances sufficient to warrant a change in custody and the court
    ruled that temporary custody of the minor child shall be with the
    father, David Steven Agee, and the mother should have supervised
    visitation through the Carl Perkins Center.
    It further appears that the psychologist, Dr. David Pickering, who was
    agreed upon by the parties to use in this case, testified that in his
    expert opinion he has not seen signs that the child has been sexually
    abused and further that Ms. Shearer Rebecca Agee has not been able
    to work toward the best interests of the child and that in his expert
    opinion there has been a material change in circumstances.
    ...
    IT IS THEREFORE,              ORDERED,         ADJUDGED,         AND
    DECREED:
    1. That the Father, David Steven Agee, shall be the Primary
    Residential Parent of Rachel Agee on a permanent basis.
    2. That the Mother, Shearer Rebecca Agee, shall continue to receive
    supervised parenting time twice per week at the Carl Perkins Center
    in Alamo, Tennessee. In addition, Mother shall telephone the minor
    child once during the week, and once each day on Saturday and
    Sunday pursuant to the Consent Order entered with this Court on
    February 13, 2006.
    3. That the father’s child support obligation ceased as of January 2006
    and the mother is ordered to pay child support retroactive to January
    2006. That the parties shall provide counsel with the following
    documentation in order to calculate child support pursuant to the
    guidelines, retroactive to January, 2006; 2005 and 2006 income tax
    returns, proof of health insurance premiums attributable to the minor
    child, and current wage information.
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    4. That a Permanent Parenting Plan should be entered which
    incorporates all of the above.
    5. That the Mother, Shearer Rebecca Agee, was found to have not
    participated in the required counseling with Dr. Pickering in the last
    4 ½ months and she is instructed to do so.
    6. That this Order shall remain in full force and effect until further
    orders of this court.
    Issues
    Mother appeals and raises seven (7) issues for review as stated in her brief:
    1.     Whether a material change in circumstances occurred to
    warrant modification of the Permanent Parenting Plan.
    2.     Whether relocation in the State of Tennessee, less than 100
    miles, is a material change in circumstances.
    3.     Whether Dr. David Pickering, as an arm of the Court, is an
    unbiased, neutral advisor.
    4.     Whether the trial court erred in abdicating its decision
    making to a third party.
    5.     Whether this modification of the Permanent Parenting Plan
    violates T.C.A. § 36-6-112(c), the Protective Parent Reform
    Act.
    6.     Whether the trial court erred in admitting into evidence,
    and relying upon, a letter faxed from Dr. Pickering on
    January 23, 2006.
    7.     Whether this Court should award Mother attorney’s fees
    and costs incurred to file this appeal.
    Standard of Review
    This Court reviews findings of fact made by a trial court sitting without a jury under a de
    novo standard with a presumption of correctness for those findings, unless the preponderance of the
    evidence is otherwise. Tenn. R. App. 13(d) (2007). This Court reviews a trial court's conclusions
    of law de novo with no presumption of correctness. Union Carbide Corp. v. Huddleston, 
    854 S.W.2d 87
    , 91 (Tenn. 1993) (citing Estate of Adkins v. White Consol. Indus., Inc., 
    788 S.W.2d 815
    ,
    817 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1989). We note that the credibility of witnesses is a matter peculiarly within
    the province of the trial court. See Bowman v. Bowman, 
    836 S.W.2d 563
    , 567 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    1991). On appeal, we give great weight to the trial court’s ability to assess a witness’s memory,
    accuracy and truthfulness. 
    Id. -6- Discussion
                                           Material Change in Circumstances
    In child custody cases, the law is well established that when a decree awarding custody of
    children has been entered, that decree is res judicata and is conclusive in a subsequent application
    to change custody, unless some new fact has occurred, which has altered the circumstances in a
    material way, so that the welfare of the child requires a change of custody. Long v. Long, 
    488 S.W.2d 729
    (Tenn. Ct. App. 1972). In short, once the trial court has made an initial determination
    with respect to custody, it cannot entertain a subsequent petition to modify custody absent a material
    change in circumstances, such that the welfare of the child demands a redetermination. See, e.g.,
    Massengale v. Massengale, 915 S .W.2d 818, 819 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1995). A “material change in
    circumstances” justifying modification of a child custody order may include factors arising after the
    initial determination or changed conditions that could not be anticipated at the time of the original
    order. See Blair v. Badenhope, 
    940 S.W.2d 575
    , 576 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1996) (citing Dalton v.
    Dalton, 
    858 S.W.2d 324
    , 326 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993)). If the trial court finds that there has been a
    material change in circumstances, it will then consider the petition to modify custody using a “best
    interest” standard.5 Woolsey v. McPherson, No. 02A01-9706-JV-00125, 
    1998 WL 760950
    , at *2
    5
    The factors are enumerated in T.C.A. § 36-6-106:
    (a) In a suit for annulment, divorce, separate maintenance, or in any other
    proceeding requiring the court to make a custody determination regarding a minor
    child, the determination shall be made on the basis of the best interest of the child.
    The court shall consider all relevant factors, including the following, where applicable:
    (1) The love, affection and emotional ties existing between the parents or caregivers
    and the child;
    (2) The disposition of the parents or caregivers to provide the child with food,
    clothing, medical care, education and other necessary care and the degree to which
    a parent or caregiver has been the primary caregiver;
    (3) The importance of continuity in the child's life and the length of time the child
    has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment; provided, that, where there is a
    finding, under subdivision (a)(8), of child abuse, as defined in § 39-15-401 or § 39-
    15-402, or child sexual abuse, as defined in § 37- 1-602, by one (1) parent, and that
    a nonperpetrating parent or caregiver has relocated in order to flee the perpetrating
    parent, that the relocation shall not weigh against an award of custody;
    (4) The stability of the family unit of the parents or caregivers;
    (5) The mental and physical health of the parents or caregivers;
    (6) The home, school and community record of the child;
    (7)(A) The reasonable preference of the child, if twelve (12) years of age or older;
    (B) The court may hear the preference of a younger child on request. The
    (continued...)
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    (Tenn. Ct. App. Nov. 2, 1998). As this Court has previously recognized, there is a strong
    presumption in favor of the existing custody arrangement. Smithson v. Eatherly, No. 01A01-9806-
    CV-00314, 
    1999 WL 548586
    at *2 (Tenn. Ct. App. July 29, 1999) (citing Taylor v. Taylor, 
    849 S.W.2d 319
    , 332 (Tenn. 1993)). The party seeking to change the existing custody arrangement has
    the burden of proof to show both that the child's circumstances have materially changed in a way that
    was not reasonably foreseeable at the time of the original custody decision, and that changing the
    existing custody arrangement will serve the child's best interests. Geiger v. Boyle, No. 01A01-9809-
    CH-00467, 
    1999 WL 499733
    at *3 (Tenn. Ct. App. July 16, 1999) (citing Smith v. Haase, 
    521 S.W.2d 49
    , 50 (Tenn.1975.)); McDaniel v. McDaniel, 
    743 S.W.2d 167
    , 169 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1987);
    Hall v. Hall, No. 01A01-9310-PB-00465, 
    1995 WL 316255
    , at *2 (Tenn. Ct. App. May 25, 1995).
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    (...continued)
    preferences of older children should normally be given greater weight than those of
    younger children;
    (8) Evidence of physical or emotional abuse to the child, to the other parent or to
    any other person; provided, that, where there are allegations that one (1) parent has
    committed child abuse, as defined in § 39-15-401 or § 39- 15-402, or child sexual
    abuse, as defined in § 37-1-602, against a family member, the court shall consider
    all evidence relevant to the physical and emotional safety of the child, and
    determine, by a clear preponderance of the evidence, whether such abuse has
    occurred. The court shall include in its decision a written finding of all evidence,
    and all findings of facts connected to the evidence. In addition, the court shall,
    where appropriate, refer any issues of abuse to the juvenile court for further proceedings;
    (9) The character and behavior of any other person who resides in or frequents the
    home of a parent or caregiver and the person's interactions with the child; and
    (10) Each parent or caregiver's past and potential for future performance of
    parenting responsibilities, including the willingness and ability of each of the
    parents and caregivers to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-
    child relationship between the child and both of the child's parents, consistent with
    the best interest of the child.
    (b) Notwithstanding the provisions of any law to the contrary, the court has
    jurisdiction to make an initial custody determination regarding a minor child or may
    modify a prior order of child custody upon finding that the custodial parent has been
    convicted of or found civilly liable for the intentional and wrongful death of the
    child's other parent or legal guardian.
    (c) As used in this section, "caregiver" has the meaning ascribed to that
    term in § 37-5-501.
    (d) Nothing in subsections (a) and (c) shall be construed to affect or
    diminish the constitutional rights of parents that may arise during and are inherent
    in custody proceedings.
    T.C.A. § 36-6-106.
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    Under this standard, the primary inquiry is whether there has been a material change in the child's
    circumstances.
    Although there is no concrete definition for what constitutes a material change of
    circumstances, this Court has enumerated several factors that should be taken into consideration
    when determining whether such a change has occurred. In general, the change must occur after the
    entry of the order sought to be modified, and the change cannot be one that was known or reasonably
    anticipated when the order was entered. Turner v. Turner, 
    776 S.W.2d 88
    , 90 (Tenn. Ct.
    App.1988); Dalton v. Dalton, 
    858 S.W.2d 324
    , 326 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993). In addition, the material
    change in circumstances must be a change in the child's circumstances, not the circumstances of
    either or both of the parents. McCain v. Grim, No. 01A01-9711-CH-00634, 
    1999 WL 820216
    at
    *2 (Tenn. Ct. App. Oct.15, 1999). Finally, the change must affect the child's well-being in a material
    way. Dailey v. Dailey, 
    635 S.W.2d 391
    , 393 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1981).
    Tennessee courts have based modification of child custody decrees on the following criteria:
    the character of the custodian; the conduct of the custodian; and the child's welfare. Townshend v.
    Bingham, No. 02A01-9801-CV-00019, 
    1999 WL 188290
    , at *4-*5 (Tenn. Ct. App. Apr. 6, 1999).
    The child's preference is only one factor to be considered in deciding custody. See T.C.A. § 36-6-106
    (2001); Wilson v. Wilson, 
    987 S.W.2d 555
    , 564 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1998); Helson v. Cyrus, 
    989 S.W.2d 704
    , 707 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1998). The party seeking a change in custody has the initial burden
    to show a material change of circumstances which affects the welfare of the child. Harris v. Harris,
    
    832 S.W.2d 352
    , 352 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1992). The burden remains on the moving party to show that
    he or she is comparatively more fit than the party with custody under the challenged custody decree
    and to show that it would be in the child's best interests for the moving party to be the custodial
    parent. Gorski v. Ragains, No. 01A01-9710-GS-00597, 
    1999 WL 511451
    at *4, (Tenn.Ct.App. July
    21, 1999) (citing Nichols v. Nichols, 
    792 S.W.2d 713
    , 715 (Tenn. 1990)); Rust v. Rust, 
    864 S.W.2d 52
    , 56 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993).
    As set out above, the trial court specifically found that Mother’s subjecting R. I. A. to
    numerous exams constitutes a material change in circumstances. On appeal, Mother contends, inter
    alia, that this finding violates the Protective Parent Reform Act, T.C.A. § 36-6-112. Section 36-6-
    112(c) provides:
    If a parent makes a good faith allegation based on a reasonable belief
    supported by facts that the child is the victim of child abuse, child
    neglect, or the effects of domestic violence, and if that parent acts
    lawfully and in good faith in response to that reasonable belief to
    protect the child or seek treatment for the child, then that parent shall
    not be deprived of custody, visitation, or contact with the child, or
    restricted in custody, visitation, or contact, based solely on that belief
    or the reasonable actions taken based on that belief.
    T. C. A. § 36-6-112
    Mother argues that her concerns and actions were based on a good-faith belief that R. I. A.
    was being sexually abused by Father. Mother contends that R. I. A.’s behaviors and statements
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    provide an adequate basis for her to have a reasonable belief that Father was sexually abusing the
    child. Accusations of child abuse by one parent against another parent is one of the most difficult
    issues faced by the courts. Keisling v. Keisling, 
    196 S.W.3d 703
    , 722 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005). While
    we concede that any suspicion of sexual abuse is a grave accusation, which must be thoroughly
    investigated, the mistaken conclusion that a parent abused his or her child when, in fact, no such
    abused has occurred also has serious consequences. 
    Id. Therefore, “any
    concern about reporting
    allegations of child sexual abuse must be balanced with the awareness that false accusations of such
    abuse can be a ‘reprehensible tool’ against an ex-spouse, remarkable for its ‘brutal effectiveness.’”
    
    Id. In the
    instant case, Mother’s accusations were investigated by DCS and law enforcement
    officials. Numerous tests and examinations were performed; yet, none yielded any sort of proof
    indicating that Father had sexually abused R. I. A. Professionals at LeBonheur evaluated the parties
    and declared that there was no evidence, nor any personality traits, which would indicate that Father
    was an abuser. In addition, Dr. Pickering testified that he observed no signs of abuse by Father, and
    further opined that R. I. A. is comfortable separating from her parents (something that a sexually
    abused child typically will not do). Concerning Mother’s actions, Dr. Pickering testified that there
    was evidence to suggest that Mother “coached” R. I. A. into talking about events that did not actually
    occur, to wit:
    It’s my opinion, from the work that I’ve done with the [parties], that
    [Mother] often does ask questions of the child and do things in a
    leading sort of way that results in the child possibly having some ill
    feelings toward her father, which may not - which do not appear to be
    warranted. The child does not have those feelings with [Father]. The
    child does not exhibit those feelings with [Mother]. But on two
    occasions I have been played tapes that involved [Mother]
    questioning the child in a way that encouraged the child to agree with
    her, whether what she was saying was true or not.
    From our review of the record, there were at least four instances where the child was
    subjected to medical examinations, namely:
    1. The visit to an emergency room and to the MRC in August of 2004;
    2. At least one visit between August 2004 and January 2006 to the Jackson-Madison County
    General Hospital Emergency Room;
    3. An examination by Mother’s neighbor, a Registered Nurse, and,
    4. A visit to Parkway Regional Hospital in January of 2006.
    During these examinations, R. I. A. underwent visual inspections, in one occasion having her
    genitalia photographed, and she was also given numerous swab and blood tests. Father contends that
    Mother subjected R. I. A. to these examinations and tests in order to: (1) avoid deployment to Iraq,
    and (2) keep him from the child. Mother contends that her concerns were grounded in fact, that the
    tests and exams were necessary, and that they were only performed in the best interest of R. I. A.
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    Here, the trial court specifically held that the Mother is “in much need of counseling” and that the
    R. I. A. has been “subjected to four rape examinations of some sort or another in her young life.”
    The trial court notes that R. I. A.’s exposure to these examinations (and the possibility future exams)
    would be potentially harmful for the child. In its order designating Father as the permanent Primary
    Residential Parent, the trial court held that a material change in circumstances had occurred. The
    trial court’s finding was due, in part, to Dr. Pickering’s statement that he had not “seen signs that the
    child ha[d] been sexually abused,” and that the Mother “had not been able to work toward the best
    interests of the child.”
    In this case, it is clear that the accusations of sexual abuse were taken seriously and
    investigated thoroughly. After a full investigation, psychological evaluations, and numerous
    hearings, the trial court concluded unequivocally that Father did not abuse R. I. A. The record
    supports the trial court’s finding that Mother’s allegations were, in fact, false. Furthermore, there
    is sufficient evidence to support the trial court’s determination that the numerous interrogations and
    intrusive examinations, to which R. I. A. was subjected, were fueled by Mother’s hostility towards
    Father, and/or, by her desire to avoid deployment to Iraq. While we concede that Mother’s intentions
    may have initially been based upon her care and concern for R. I. A.’s welfare, the sheer number of
    hospital and doctors’ visits, and the fact that every test performed yielded no proof of abuse, should
    have given Mother pause. The record shows, however, that, despite the lack of proof, Mother
    continued to assert her position that Father abused R. I. A. The end result, i.e., R. I. A. being
    subjected to the same invasive tests over and over, and Mother’s insistence that R. I. A. was a victim,
    worked a significant and harmful disservice to the child’s best interests. This is, indeed, a material
    change in circumstances.
    As this Court has stated, “harm can result to a child when a parent’s natural and expected
    protectiveness regarding the prospect of sexual abuse by the other parent goes beyond reason” and
    becomes obsessive hyper vigilance. 
    Keisling, 196 S.W.3d at 723
    . Mother’s persistent allegations
    against Father and her relentless quest for evidence of sexual abuse may very well have resulted in
    lasting psychological damage to the child. The trial court’s decision to name Father as Primary
    Residential Parent is well-supported by this record, and this Court is satisfied that this change is in
    R. I. A.’s best interest.
    Dr. Pickering
    Mother also asserts that Dr. Pickering is not an unbiased, neutral advisor. Mother argues that
    Dr. Pickering has found fault with every action she has taken. Consequently, she contends that she
    “should not be required to counsel with Dr. Pickering and that he should not dictate any legal
    ramifications in this case.” Although Mother argues Dr. Pickering’s objection to her desire to
    moving that her desire to move to Fulton, Kentucky, was a personal attack, based upon the record,
    we disagree. Dr. Pickering testified that he did not believe the move would be in R. I. A.’s best
    interest because it would involve “moving from an area where [R. I. A.] was comfortable and knew
    the people around her to an unfamiliar situation.” Dr. Pickering also voiced concerns about Mother
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    moving out of the trial court’s jurisdiction. Dr. Pickering’s concerns appear to be relevant and
    voiced out of concern for R. I. A.
    On appeal, Mother also attacks Dr. Pickering’s alleged bias and asserts that the trial court
    erred in its reliance upon Dr. Pickering’s recommendations. Specifically, Mother takes issue with
    the trial court’s allowing into evidence Dr. Pickering’s January 23, 2006, opinion letter, in which he
    states, in relevant part, his recommendation that:
    [R. I. A. ] remain, for the time being, in her father’s physical custody,
    but that she begin supervised visitation with her mother. Since her
    mother currently resides in South Fulton, with [R. I. A.]’s maternal
    grandmother, I see no reason why her grandmother cannot be
    included in the visits, should she and Mrs. Agee wish.
    ...
    I would therefore recommend that the visits occur at the Exchange
    Club - Carl Perkins Center for the Prevention of Child Abuse, with
    Center staff providing the supervision.
    We first address whether Dr. Pickering’s letter was properly admitted. We afford the trial
    court wide discretion regarding the admissibility of evidence and will not overturn the trial court's
    determination absent an abuse of that discretion. Tire Shredders, Inc. v. ERM-North Central, Inc.,
    
    15 S.W.3d 849
    , 857 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1999). The transcript indicates that Mother’s lawyer conceded
    knowledge of the letter at the time it was introduced, to wit:
    The Court (to Mother’s counsel, Ms. Scott): Have you seen this [Dr.
    Pickering’s letter]?
    Ms. Scott: Yes, sir, Your Honor, this morning.
    The Court: Well, it appears the Court has already ruled about Dr.
    Pickering’s recommendations on 12 December. Let’s make this part
    of the record. It’s a fax from Dr. Pickering.
    (Evidence 1 was marked and filed, and is made a part
    of this transcript of evidence).
    No objection was lodged at the time the letter was admitted. It is well-settled that objections
    to the introduction of evidence must be timely and specific. See, e.g., Overstreet v. Shoney’s, Inc.,
    
    4 S.W.3d 694
    , 702 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1999). An evidentiary objection is considered timely if it is
    made either in a motion in limine or at the time that the objectionable evidence is about to be
    introduced. See Wright v. United Servs. Auto. Ass’n., 
    789 S.W.2d 911
    , 914 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1990).
    It was not until after the lunch recess that Mother objected to the letter, to wit:
    Ms. Scott: Your Honor, during the lunch break, I had a chance to
    look over the letter submitted by Dr. Pickering that was admitted as
    an exhibit, and I noticed it was faxed to Attorney Spencer’s office.
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    And I will not have the ability to cross-examine Dr. Pickering on this
    letter to Mr. Spencer.
    The Court: You’re talking about the letter dated January 23?
    Ms. Scott: Yes, sir. I’d like to object to the admission of that based
    on that.
    The Court: I guess I’ll have to treat that as a court record since it’s a
    letter to me. The objection will be noted.
    Ms. Scott: Okay. I thought it was mailed to you, but I saw at the top
    that it was faxed to Mr. Spencer’s office.
    The Court: Exhibit 1 is a - - actually it was - - you’re exactly right.
    Do we have the original?
    Mr. Spencer [Father’s counsel]: Judge, when I spoke with him
    Friday, he said, “I’m preparing the letter, and I will forward it to the
    Court.” I said, “Okay. Here is my fax number if you’ll also fax it to
    me,” which was done this morning. I, in turn, called my office
    enroute from Brownsville to here and said, “When that gets here,
    make sure that you fax it over to Alamo so that I’ve got a copy.” So,
    I don’t know his other protocol on how he sent the other.
    Ms. Scott: When we first started, I was handed it very quickly before
    it was entered, and I didn’t catch that.
    The Court: Well, when the original gets here, I’ll rule that it’s part of
    the court record. . . .
    On appeal, Mother alleges that the letter should have been omitted because it contains
    hearsay. However, the sole objection lodged at 
    trial, supra
    , was to the fact that the letter was a copy.
    A party may not argue for the evidence’s exclusion based upon one evidentiary law at the trial level,
    and then advocate a different reason for the evidence’s exclusion at the appellate level. See State
    v. Dobbins, 
    754 S.W.2d 637
    , 641 (Tenn. Crim. App. 1998). Having not made a specific or timely
    objection of hearsay at the hearing, Mother cannot be heard to complain on appeal.
    Mother next argues that the trial court relied too heavily upon Dr. Pickering’s opinions, and,
    in fact, abdicated its decision making role to the doctor. We disagree. At the January 23, 2006
    hearing, the trial court made the following relevant statements:
    It appears that the Court found that when you’re talking about an
    allegation of this seriousness, the Court takes it very seriously, and
    has on all these hearing. Because of the complexity of this, is the
    reason this Court decided, rather than do a licensed social worker,
    let’s have a psychologist or psychiatrist.
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    It further appears that the Court found that due to the complexity of
    this, this Court is satisfied that sending it to a child psychologist or
    psychiatrist, Dr. Pickering, was the appropriate thing to do in this
    matter.
    It further appears that the Court found that we have a parent who is
    in much need of counseling. Now, which one of these two parents it
    is, this Court’s going to have to take the position that it’s going to
    continue going with the psychiatrist, Dr. Pickering. I’m going to take
    the directed advice of Dr. Pickering and leave the temporary custody
    with [Father], but I’m going to order that [Mother] and her mother
    have the right to start visiting with the child under supervision of the
    Carl Perkins Exchange Club until further orders of this Court.
    It further appears that the Court found it extremely disturbing that this
    child has been subjected to four rape examinations of some sort or
    another in her young life. And the Court further found that to be
    potentially very harmful to the child and that is the reason that the
    Court is going to keep the Temporary Restraining Order in place,
    with the exception that [Mother] will have visitation rights to be
    supervised through the Carl Perkins Center.
    At the conclusion of the same hearing, Mother asked the trial court whether she would be
    allowed to telephone the child. The following dialogue occurred:
    The Court: Let’s run that through Dr. Pickering. If he gives it the
    green light, I’d say yes. Be specific with the days and the times.
    Does your client still have her appointment with Dr. Pickering?
    Ms. Scott [Mother’s Counsel]: Yes, sir.
    The Court: Well, she needs to tell him what’s transpired here and
    about this telephone visitation and see what can be done.
    Our review of the record reveals that the trial court relied not only upon Dr. Pickering’s
    suggestions, but also considered the testimony of other witnesses. Specifically, the trial court placed
    great importance upon the testimony concerning the number and nature of examinations, to which
    R. I. A. was subjected.
    The evidence adduced at the July 11, 2006, and November 4, 2006 hearings included the
    testimony from Mother, Father, R. I. A.’s maternal grandmother, Ms. Austin, and Dr. Pickering.
    The trial court also considered the report from LeBonheur, a letter from Dr. Herman DeBoard, a
    letter from Dr. Richard Spring, the Kentucky State Police Lab Report, and documents from the Carl
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    Perkins Center, as well as transcripts from prior hearings in this matter. The record simply does not
    support a finding that the trial court abdicated its decision making to Dr. Pickering.          Mother
    also argues that the trial court erred in continuing to require Mother to attend counseling with Dr.
    Pickering. In support of her contention, Mother asserts, inter alia, that she does not live close to Dr.
    Pickering’s office, that her schedule is not compatible with Dr. Pickering’s office hours, and that she
    cannot afford counseling with Dr. Pickering. The record reveals that any conflict as to Mother’s
    being counseled individually by Dr. Pickering has been resolved by the fact that she is now being
    seen by Dr. DeBoard.
    However, Mother is still required to see Dr. Pickering periodically as part of her participation
    in R. I. A.’s therapy. In June of 2005, the trial court ordered that R. I. A. attend counseling with a
    licensed child psychologist, that the parties participate collaboratively in the child’s therapy, and that
    the parties split the cost of the therapy. Additionally, Mother was directed to complete long-term
    intensive therapy with a licensed therapist skilled in dealing with personality disorders. Because Dr.
    Pickering has been working with R. I. A. and her parents since 2005, it appears that a change in the
    child’s therapist, in order to accommodate Mother’s wishes, would not be in the child’s best interest.
    The participation of both parents in this therapy is warranted and necessary. Despite the
    inconvenience alleged by Mother, we do not find that the trial court’s requirement that Mother
    participate in child’s therapy with Dr. Pickering is an “impossible goal.” Rather, Mother’s
    inconvenience pales in comparison to the child’s need for stability, continuity, and participation by
    both parents in her therapy. Mother’s individual therapy needs are being met by Dr. DeBoard. The
    trial court’s ordering Mother to continue her participation in R. I. A.’s therapy by Dr. Pickering is
    not overtly harsh when considered in light of the child’s needs and interests.
    Conclusion
    For the foregoing reasons, we affirm the judgment of the trial court. Mother’s request for
    attorney’s fees, pursuant to T.C.A. § 36-5-103(c), is denied. Costs of this appeal are assessed to
    Appellant, Shearer Rebecca Agee, and her surety for which execution may issue if necessary.
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    ALAN E. HIGHERS, P.J., W.S.
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