Gustavo Noel Hinojosa v. Steve Paul LaFredo ( 2020 )


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  • Affirmed and Opinion Filed December 31, 2020
    In The
    Court of Appeals
    Fifth District of Texas at Dallas
    No. 05-18-01543-CV
    GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA, Appellant
    V.
    STEVE PAUL LAFREDO, Appellee
    On Appeal from the 302nd Judicial District Court
    Dallas County, Texas
    Trial Court Cause No. DF-15-16693
    MEMORANDUM OPINION
    Before Justices Partida-Kipness, Nowell, and Evans
    Opinion by Justice Partida-Kipness
    The underlying proceeding involved a suit for the dissolution of an alleged
    marriage of a same-sex couple brought by appellant Gustavo Noel Hinojosa. In the
    first phase of a bifurcated trial, the jury determined the parties were not informally
    married. The trial court rendered judgment on the verdict and entered a take nothing
    judgment against Hinojosa. On appeal, Hinojosa seeks a new trial based on
    purported charge error. We affirm the judgment.
    BACKGROUND
    Hinojosa met appellee Steve Paul LaFredo in November 1997 at a bath house
    in New York City. The men began a romantic relationship. After dating for almost
    two years, Hinojosa moved into LaFredo’s co-op in September 1999. The men
    agreed that Hinojosa would pay LaFredo monthly rent of $1,200, which was roughly
    half of what Hinojosa was paying for rent at his apartment at that time. According
    to Hinojosa, the men also tried to roughly split their other living expenses.
    The couple spent Christmas 1999 at a home in the Catskill Mountains with
    Hinojosa’s friends, Linda Myers and George Wolfgang. LaFredo gave Hinojosa a
    Christmas card during the trip. On the back of the card he handwrote the following:
    “Will you Marry (commit) ME IN 2000? PLEASE!!! With all our friends and family
    in attendance!!!” Hinojosa testified that he took this as an honest proposal of
    marriage. In his mind, LaFredo asked him to marry LaFredo and he said yes.
    LaFredo, in contrast, testified that he did not intend this to be a marriage proposal.
    He was asking LaFredo to be committed, which is why LaFredo wrote “commit” in
    parenthesis after “Marry.” LaFredo testified that he and Hinojosa knew it was
    impossible for two men to legally marry at that time, and they both knew LaFredo
    was only asking Hinojosa to commit to the relationship in a commitment ceremony.
    After the holidays, Hinojosa and LaFredo began planning a commitment
    ceremony. LaFredo testified that they considered having a dinner in New York
    because lots of commitment ceremonies were happening at that time in New York.
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    They also considered Vermont because that state had recently legalized civil unions.
    Vermont was, thus, an option if they “wanted to do something that was recognized.”
    But LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa made “a very deliberate decision”
    against having the ceremony in Vermont “because this was a commitment ceremony
    and not a marriage, we were not looking for a piece of paper.” They ultimately
    decided to host the ceremony in Italy because Hinojosa spent his junior year of
    college in Rome studying architecture and LaFredo’s family is of Italian descent.
    Hinojosa took the lead in finding a location for the ceremony. The couple
    invited forty-seven of their friends and family to join them at a villa in Tuscany for
    a week-long celebration in October 2000. Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed on the
    language and design for the invitation, and Hinojosa sent the invitation to the guests.
    The invitation stated that Hinojosa and LaFredo “request your company to celebrate
    our union the week of October twenty-one to October twenty-eight Two Thousand
    at The Villa Petrolo Tuscany Italy.” Underneath that information, the invitation
    stated “Commitment Ceremony on October twenty-six at five o’clock in the evening
    at The Villa.” By all accounts, everyone who attended the week-long celebration had
    a wonderful time. In the days leading up to the commitment ceremony, guests toured
    Tuscany, enjoyed group dinners, and got to know one another. On October 26, 2000,
    they attended the commitment ceremony. And it is here that the parties’ description
    of events diverge.
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    The video of the ceremony shows the officiant, Ariel Sebastian, leading
    Hinojosa, LaFredo, and their guests into the villa before the ceremony while she
    smudged the room with burning sage to purify the room for the ceremony. During
    the ceremony, guests sat in chairs in a circle surrounding Ariel, Hinojosa, and
    LaFredo. Ariel described the ceremony as an “ancient pagan celebration of unity”
    during which Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed to take the other as their loving partner.
    The men exchanged rings, lit a unity candle, and accepted each other as life partners.
    At the conclusion of the ceremony, Ariel pronounced the men “Life Partner.” She
    did not use the term “marriage” or “spouse” during the ceremony.
    Hinojosa described the commitment ceremony as a wedding where he and
    LaFredo said vows, exchanged custom-designed rings, lit a unity candle, and shared
    a post-nuptial kiss after being pronounced life partners. At the reception, the couple
    cut the cake together, fed each other pieces of cake, and even pushed cake into each
    other’s faces. He told the jury that LaFredo never objected to him referring to the
    ceremony as a wedding in LaFredo’s presence, and that LaFredo told him that the
    ceremony was their wedding on more than one occasion.
    LaFredo on the other hand was adamant at trial that the event in Italy was only
    a commitment ceremony. To LaFredo, the ceremony “was an event to have friends
    and family celebrate our love for each other, be a part of support. As a same-sex
    couple, support was something that was important. The entire plan, all of the time,
    was to have a circle of friends and family that would support our relationship.”
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    LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa took deliberate steps to “exclude it from
    looking like a marriage.” These steps included choosing a location that did not
    recognize same-sex marriages or civil unions and purposely excluding the words
    “God” and “marriage” from the officiant’s script for the ceremony. Ariel was a
    friend of a very good friend who oversaw the ceremony and followed a script that
    he and Hinojosa put together. LaFredo did not know if Ariel was a minister or was
    licensed to perform any kind of wedding ceremony. He considered her more of a
    coordinator. LaFredo did not ask Ariel to get a marriage license for him, and he and
    Hinojosa never obtained a marriage license because “[w]e never talked about getting
    married.” LaFredo also testified that no one used the word “marriage” during the
    days leading up to the ceremony in Italy, and no one used the word marriage in any
    theme or in any response in front of the crowd or group.
    LaFredo further testified that when the couple returned to New York after the
    ceremony, he told coworkers that they had a ceremony and he introduced Hinojosa
    after that as his “partner.” But nothing changed between he and Hinojosa after the
    ceremony. LaFredo was consistent in his testimony that he has at no time called
    Hinojosa his spouse, he never introduced Hinojosa as his spouse, and never heard
    Hinojosa introduce him as Hinojosa’s spouse at any time. LaFredo also testified that
    he never intended to marry Hinojosa, and he took no actions to marry Hinojosa after
    the commitment ceremony. Even though Massachusetts legalized same-sex
    marriage in 2003 and he and Hinojosa travelled to Cape Cod, they did not talk about
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    going there to get married. According to LaFredo, he and Hinojosa did not ever talk
    about getting married. He also told the jury that he “does not honestly know” if he
    would have proposed marriage to Hinojosa in Christmas 1999 if same-sex marriage
    had been legally recognized at that time but, if he had, he “would have probably
    done additional steps if that would have been the case.”
    Hinojosa maintained that after returning to New York following the
    ceremony, he and LaFredo referred to themselves as married in front of others, and
    he introduced LaFredo to others as his spouse after the ceremony.
    Not surprisingly, the witnesses who testified on behalf of Hinojosa agreed
    with his view of the ceremony and his relationship with LaFredo, and LaFredo’s
    witnesses agreed with his view of these matters. Hinojosa’s witnesses felt the
    ceremony in Italy was a wedding ceremony and said the couple presented themselves
    as a married couple when they socialized in New York and later in Texas. Each of
    Hinojosa’s witnesses testified that they would be surprised or shocked to learn that
    the couple did not consider themselves to be a married couple. Although Hinojosa’s
    witnesses maintained that the couple behaved like a married couple or held
    themselves out as a married couple, none of his witnesses testified that they ever
    witnessed LaFredo referring to Hinojosa as his spouse or husband. Linda Meyers, a
    long-time friend of Hinojosa that he referred to as a surrogate mother, testified that
    she never witnessed LaFredo refer to Hinojosa as his husband when he interacted
    with other people, and she never witnessed Hinojosa refer to LaFredo as his husband.
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    Susan Held, another long-time friend of Hinojosa, testified that she never heard
    Hinojosa refer to LaFredo as his husband or his spouse.
    LaFredo’s witnesses testified that no one used the word “marriage” during the
    ceremony and they considered the event a commitment ceremony not a marriage.
    They also testified that they never heard LaFredo refer to Hinojosa as his spouse or
    husband in New York or in Texas. According to LaFredo’s sister-in-law, after the
    couple moved to Texas, she never heard the terms “married” or “spouse” or
    “husband.” LaFredo’s other witnesses agreed that LaFredo did not refer to Hinojosa
    as his “spouse” or his “husband” to others and did not tell people he was married.
    Milagros Beck, who had known LaFredo since the late 1980s and known Hinojosa
    since the late 1990s, further testified that she never heard Hinojosa refer to LaFredo
    as his husband or spouse.
    The couple returned to New York after the ceremony and continued to live
    together in New York until early 2005 when LaFredo’s company transferred him to
    Dallas. LaFredo moved to Texas in January 2005. Hinojosa moved to Texas in
    March 2005 after the sale of the co-op closed and he finished some projects for work
    in New York. The men bought a house together in Dallas and later a condo. The men
    signed the purchase documents as “single men” and were co-owners of the
    properties. Throughout the relationship, the men maintained separate bank accounts,
    filed separate tax returns as single individuals, and attempted to split their expenses
    evenly.
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    The relationship hit rough patches in 2006 and again in 2010. LaFredo
    testified that by 2014, he had had enough of the relationship and decided to end it.
    He moved to Houston in January 2014 for a job opportunity with a new company.
    Hinojosa did not move to Houston with LaFredo because, according to LaFredo,
    “we were having major problems at that time, and it was never a discussion.”
    LaFredo testified that he told Hinojosa in a phone call in April 2014 that he did not
    want to continue the relationship.
    Hinojosa disagreed with LaFredo’s recollection of the break-up. According to
    Hinojosa, when LaFredo moved to Houston in January 2014, the couple planned to
    see if the job was a good fit before moving Hinojosa to Houston. Hinojosa testified
    that he visited LaFredo in Houston a couple of times, but LaFredo visited him in
    Dallas many times and the two had sex on March 25, 2015. According to Hinojosa,
    the marriage became troubled May 2, 2015, and Hinojosa filed for divorce in late
    August 2015.
    LaFredo denied having sex with Hinojosa at any time after his move to
    Houston in January 2014. He testified that the couple had not had sex since October
    12, 2010. Although he admitted staying at the couple’s condo seven or eight times
    between January and April 2014, LaFredo maintained that he was only in Dallas for
    work-related reasons. After April 2014 he stayed at hotels or with other friends when
    he travelled to Dallas.
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    THE TRIAL
    Hinojosa filed for divorce on August 24, 2015. He pleaded that the couple
    were formally married on October 26, 2000 or, alternatively, established an informal
    marriage under the Texas Family Code as of March 1, 2005. According to Hinojosa,
    under either marriage theory, they ceased to live together as spouses about the time
    Hinojosa filed for divorce. At trial, Hinojosa presented evidence that LaFredo and
    he were formally married in a traditional, ceremonial wedding in Italy on October
    26, 2000, complete with the exchanging of vows and an exchanging of a kiss after a
    pronouncement by the officiant. LaFredo presented evidence that this was not a
    wedding at all but was merely a commitment ceremony.
    The jury charge, however, did not include a question regarding whether
    Hinojosa and LaFredo became formally married through that ceremony. Instead, the
    charge asked whether the men were “informally married,” and, if yes, on what date
    they were married. :
    SPECIAL INSTRUCTION1 FOR QUESTION NUMBER 1
    Two people are considered informally married if:
    a. they agree to be married, and
    b. after the agreement, they lived together in Texas as
    spouses, and
    c. there represented to others that they were married.
    1
    This special instruction tracked the statutory requirements for an informal marriage under TEX. FAM.
    CODE § 2.401(a)(2).
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    QUESTION NUMBER 1
    Are GUSTOVA NOEL HINOJOSA and STEVE PAUL LAFREDO informally
    married?
    Answer “Yes” or “No.”
    Answer:_________________
    If you answer Question 1 “Yes”, then answer Question 2. Otherwise,
    do not answer Question 2.
    QUESTION NUMBER 2
    When were GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA and STEVE PAUL LAFREDO
    married?
    Answer by stating the date of the marriage.
    ANSWER: ____________________________________
    Before delivering its verdict, the jury sent the following question to the trial judge:
    If a same sex couple met the requirements of informal marriage before
    June 26, 2015, does the Obergefell decision state whether the effective
    date of the informal marriage is the date of the Supreme Court decision
    or the date the conditions were met?
    The trial court provided the following response:
    You have all the law and instructions to answer the question in the jury
    charge.
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    In a 10 to 2 vote, the jury answered “No” to Question Number 1 and did not answer
    Question Number 2.
    On October 31, 2018, the trial court signed a Final Order on the verdict that
    ordered no marriage existed between Hinojosa and LaFredo and rendered a take
    nothing judgment against Hinojosa. The trial court denied Hinojosa’s subsequently-
    filed motion for new trial by written order on December 6, 2018. This appeal
    followed.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    Trial courts have broad discretion in formulating a charge to submit disputed
    issues to the jury. Wal-Mart Stores Tex., LLC v. Bishop, 
    553 S.W.3d 648
    , 673 (Tex.
    App.—Dallas 2018, pet. granted w.r.m.). The standard of review for jury charge
    error is abuse of discretion. Webb v. Glenbrook Owners Ass’n. Inc., 
    298 S.W.3d 374
    ,
    380 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2009, no pet.) (“We review claimed error in the court’s
    charge under an abuse of discretion standard.”). A trial court abuses its discretion if
    it acts in an arbitrary or unreasonable manner, or if it acts without reference to
    guiding rules or principles. Bishop, 553 S.W.3d at 673 (citing Downer v.
    Aquamarine Operators, Inc., 
    701 S.W.2d 238
    , 241–42 (Tex. 1985)). To determine
    whether an alleged error in the jury charge is reversible, we must consider the
    pleadings of the parties, the evidence presented at trial, and the charge in its entirety.
    Island Recreational Dev. Corp. v. Republic of Tex. Sav. Ass’n, 
    710 S.W.2d 551
    , 555
    (Tex. 1986). We do not reverse for jury charge error in the absence of harm. Bishop,
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    553 S.W.3d at 673 (citing Lone Star Gas Co. v. Lemond, 
    897 S.W.2d 755
    , 756–57
    (Tex. 1995) (per curiam)). For harm to result, the error must probably cause the
    rendition of an improper judgment. TEX. R. APP. P. 44.1(a)(1) (“No judgment may
    be reversed on appeal on the ground that the trial court made an error of law unless
    the court of appeals concludes that the error complained of. . . probably caused the
    rendition of an improper judgment.”); Friday v. Spears, 
    975 S.W.2d 699
    , 700 (Tex.
    App.—Texarkana 1998, no pet.) (“Error in the jury charge is reversible only if it
    probably caused the rendition of an improper verdict.”). We review the entire record
    to determine whether the submission or refusal to submit an instruction probably
    resulted in an improper judgment. Timberwalk Apartments, Partners, Inc. v. Cain,
    
    972 S.W.2d 749
    , 756 (Tex. 1998).
    To preserve error in the charge, the objecting party must present a complaint
    to the trial court that distinctly designates the error and grounds for the objection.
    TEX. R. APP. P. 33.1(a)(1); TEX. R. CIV. P. 272, 274; Ford Motor Co. v. Ledesma,
    
    242 S.W.3d 32
    , 43 (Tex. 2007). Any complaint pertaining to an instruction is waived
    unless specifically included in the objection. Bishop, 553 S.W.3d at 674 (citing
    Sears, Roebuck & Co. v. Abell, 
    157 S.W.3d 886
    , 891 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2005, pet.
    denied)); TEX. R. CIV. P. 274. Objections to the charge and requests for instructions
    must comport with the arguments made on appeal. Bishop, 553 S.W.3d at 674 (citing
    Cont’l Cas. Co. v. Baker, 
    355 S.W.3d 375
    , 383 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.]
    –12–
    2011, no pet.)). If the objection at trial is not the same as the complaint on appeal,
    the issue has not been preserved for review. 
    Id.
    APPLICABLE LAW
    Texas law provides two ways to enter into a valid marriage. Miller v.
    Berryhill, 5:16-CV-078-BQ, 
    2017 WL 2493626
    , at *4 (N.D. Tex. May 16, 2017),
    report and recommendation adopted, 5:16-CV-078-C, 
    2017 WL 2493131
     (N.D.
    Tex. June 8, 2017). The first is through a ceremonial marriage, performed by a
    person authorized to conduct a marriage ceremony. See TEX. FAM. CODE §§ 2.001,
    2.202. The second is when a couple enters into an informal marriage—i.e., a
    common law marriage. See id. § 2.401.
    In Texas, to enter into a valid ceremonial marriage: (1) a couple must obtain
    a marriage license; (2) the county clerk must execute the marriage license; (3) the
    ceremony must be performed within ninety days of issuance of the license; and (4)
    the ceremony must be conducted by a clergyman, state or federal judge, or other
    public official as defined by the family code.2 TEX. FAM. CODE §§ 2.001(a), 2.008,
    2.201, 2.202; Johnson v. Astrue, No. H-11-2748, 
    2012 WL 3561449
    , at *3 (S.D.
    2
    (a) The following persons are authorized to conduct a marriage ceremony: (1) a licensed or ordained
    Christian minister or priest; (2) a Jewish rabbi; (3) a person who is an officer of a religious organization
    and who is authorized by the organization to conduct a marriage ceremony; (4) a justice of the supreme
    court, judge of the court of criminal appeals, justice of the courts of appeals, judge of the district, county,
    and probate courts, judge of the county courts at law, judge of the courts of domestic relations, judge of the
    juvenile courts, retired justice or judge of those courts, justice of the peace, retired justice of the peace,
    judge of a municipal court, retired judge of a municipal court, associate judge of a statutory probate court,
    retired associate judge of a statutory probate court, associate judge of a county court at law, retired associate
    judge of a county court at law, or judge or magistrate of a federal court of this state; and (5) a retired judge
    or magistrate of a federal court of this state. TEX. FAM. CODE § 2.202(a).
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    Tex. Aug. 15, 2012) (“In Texas, a valid marriage can be established through a
    ceremony performed by a clergyman or other public official.”). Upon completion of
    the ceremony, “the person who conducts a marriage ceremony shall record on the
    license the date on which and the county in which the ceremony is performed . . . and
    return the license to the county clerk who issued it not later than the 30th day after
    the date the ceremony is conducted.” TEX. FAM. CODE § 2.206(a).
    The family code provides two methods for establishing the existence of an
    informal, or common law, marriage. One method is by presenting evidence that the
    parties filed a declaration of informal marriage with the county clerk. TEX. FAM.
    CODE § 2.401(a)(1). The filing of a declaration of informal marriage constitutes
    “prima facie evidence of the marriage of the parties.” Id. § 2.404(d). Evidence may
    be offered, however, to rebut “the existence of the marriage as sworn to or stated in
    the declaration.” Colburn v. State, 
    966 S.W.2d 511
    , 514 (Tex. Crim. App. 1998).
    The couple may also establish an informal marriage by demonstrating that:
    (1) they “agreed to be married”; and (2) “after the agreement they lived together in
    [Texas] as husband and wife”; and (3) there they “represented to others that they
    were married.” TEX. FAM. CODE § 2.401(a)(2); see also Russell v. Russell, 
    865 S.W.2d 929
    , 931 (Tex. 1993) (“Although such a declaration [of informal marriage]
    constitutes prima facie proof of the parties[’] informal marriage, the parties need not
    make the declaration to have a valid common law marriage.”). The party seeking to
    establish the existence of an informal marriage “bears the burden of demonstrating
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    the three elements by a preponderance of the evidence.” Farrell v. Farrell, 
    459 S.W.3d 114
    , 117 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2015, no pet.) (citing Small v. McMaster, 
    352 S.W.3d 280
    , 282–83 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2011, pet. denied)); Miller,
    
    2017 WL 2493626
    , at *5.
    ANALYSIS
    In two issues, Hinojosa seeks a new trial based on purported charge error.
    First, he complains the jury was not given the opportunity to determine whether he
    and LaFredo were formally married in Italy on October 26, 2000. Second, he
    contends the instruction that Texas did not legally recognize same-sex marriage prior
    to June 26, 20153 was an incorrect statement of the law and, alternatively, was
    incomplete, which confused the jury and probably resulted in an improper verdict.
    We address each issue in turn.
    I.       Refusal to include a question as to formal, ceremonial marriage
    In his first issue, Hinojosa complains the trial court abused its discretion by
    refusing his request that the jury charge include a question as to whether he and
    LaFredo became married on October 26, 2000 and by overruling his objection to the
    omission from the charge of a question regarding the existence of a formal,
    3
    On June 26, 2015, the United States Supreme Court issued Obergefell v. Hodges in which the Court
    held that “same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry,” and the state laws challenged in
    that case were “invalid to the extent they exclude same-sex couples from civil marriage on the same terms
    and conditions as opposite-sex couples.” 
    576 U.S. 644
    , 675–76, 
    135 S. Ct. 2584
    , 2604– 05, 
    192 L.Ed.2d 609
     (2015). Following Obergefell, Texas laws limiting marriage to heterosexual unions are now
    unconstitutional.
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    ceremonial marriage between he and LaFredo. We overrule this first issue because
    the question Hinojosa requested was not in substantially correct wording.
    The failure of the trial court to submit a jury question is not grounds for
    reversal unless the party submitting it has requested it in “substantially correct
    wording.” TEX. R. CIV. P. 278. A question tendered in substantially correct wording
    must be correct “in substance and in the main” and “not affirmatively incorrect.”
    Placencio v. Allied Indus. Int’l, Inc., 
    724 S.W.2d 20
    , 21 (Tex. 1987); Rivera v.
    Herndon Marine Products, Inc., 
    895 S.W.2d 430
    , 433 (Tex. App.—Corpus Christi–
    Edinburg 1995, writ denied). A request is affirmatively incorrect if it assumes
    material controverted facts. Collins v. Beste, 
    840 S.W.2d 788
    , 791 (Tex. App.—Fort
    Worth 1992, writ denied) (citing Placencio, 724 S.W.2d at 21). Similarly, a request
    is not substantially correct if it contains a term that requires a definition but the party
    fails to tender the definition. Select Ins. Co. v. Boucher, 
    561 S.W.2d 474
    , 479 (Tex.
    1978); Watson v. Brazos Elec. Power Co-op., Inc., 
    918 S.W.2d 639
    , 645 (Tex.
    App.—Waco 1996, writ denied) (“If a question contains a legal term, i.e., nuisance,
    and no definition of the legal term is offered, then the requested question does not
    provide guidance to the jury that would enable it to reach a proper verdict.”). Further,
    a request is not substantially correct if it is too vague. Coleson v. Lovette, No. 02-
    99-00366-CV, 
    2001 WL 1289491
    , at *5 (Tex. App.—Fort Worth Oct. 4, 2001, no
    pet.) (not designated for publication) (proposed question and instruction too vague
    to be considered substantially correct because they did not explain when the statute
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    of limitations began to run); Perez v. Weingarten Realty Inv’rs, 
    881 S.W.2d 490
    ,
    493 (Tex. App.—San Antonio 1994, writ denied) (“Jury issues which are too vague
    are not substantially correct.”).
    Here, Hinojosa requested submission of the following question and
    accompanying instructions to submit his claim that a formal marriage existed
    between he and LaFredo:
    Did GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA and STEVE PAUL LAFREDO become
    married on October 26, 2000.
    Answer “Yes” or “No.”
    ANSWER:_________________
    Every marriage entered into in this state is presumed to be valid
    unless expressly made void by Chapter 6.
    The law of this state applies to persons married elsewhere who
    are domiciled in this state.
    The Texas Pattern Jury Charges do not include a pattern charge on the existence of
    a formal, ceremonial marriage. As noted above, the family code provides the
    following requirements to enter into a valid ceremonial marriage: (1) a couple must
    obtain a marriage license; (2) the county clerk must execute the marriage license; (3)
    the ceremony must be performed within ninety days of issuance of the license; and
    (4) the ceremony must be conducted by a clergyman, state or federal judge, or other
    public official as defined by the family code. TEX. FAM. CODE §§ 2.001(a), 2.008,
    2.201, 2.202, 2.206(a).
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    Here, it is undisputed that Hinojosa and LaFredo did not meet the first three
    requirements of a formal, ceremonial marriage because they did not have a marriage
    license. This is not surprising because at the time of the October 26, 2000
    commitment ceremony same-sex couples were legally prohibited from obtaining a
    marriage license in Texas, and county clerks in Texas were prohibited from
    executing a marriage license on their behalf. Hinojosa argues on appeal that
    Obergefell retroactively removed those legal impediments to recognizing a formal,
    ceremonial marriage between he and LaFredo. In essence, LaFredo urges this Court
    to conclude that Texas must recognize any pre-Obergefell commitment ceremony
    between a same-sex couple as a formal, ceremonial marriage regardless of the
    character of the ceremony and the efforts of the parties to comply with applicable
    local requirements and laws. We decline to do so.
    Obergefell did not transform every same-sex relationship in the United States
    into a government-sanctioned marriage overnight. Indeed, in the five years since
    Obergefell issued, state courts continue to debate the question of whether Obergefell
    applies retroactively and, if so, to what extent. This remains an open question in
    Texas. See In re LaFredo, No. 05-18-01034-CV, 
    2018 WL 4561215
    , at *1 (Tex.
    App.—Dallas Sept. 24, 2018, orig. proceeding) (mem. op.) (“The legal question of
    whether Obergefell is retroactive has not been determined by the Supreme Court of
    Texas or by the U.S. Supreme Court.”); but see Ford v. Freemen, 3:18-CV-3095-B,
    
    2020 WL 4784635
    , at *1 (N.D. Tex. Aug. 18, 2020) (“the Obergefell holding applies
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    retroactively”) (citing Ranolls v. Dewling, 
    223 F. Supp. 3d 613
    , 624 (E.D. Tex.
    2016)).
    We need not determine the issue of retroactivity here, however, because the
    evidence at trial was conflicting as to whether Ariel Sebastian was a person qualified
    under the Texas Family Code to conduct a marriage ceremony. See TEX. FAM. CODE
    2.202(a). Even assuming without deciding that Obergefell applies retroactively and,
    as a result, relieved Hinojosa and LaFredo of establishing they obtained a valid
    marriage license in 2000, Hinojosa must still prove that he and LaFredo met the
    remaining requirements under Texas law to establish a valid, formal marriage—that
    the ceremony was performed by a person authorized to perform a marriage ceremony
    under section 2.202(a) of the family code. See, e.g., Obergefell, 576 U.S. at 675–76,
    (state laws are “invalid to the extent they exclude same-sex couples from civil
    marriage on the same terms and conditions as opposite-sex couples”) (emphasis
    added); see also Ranolls, 223 F. Supp. 3d at 625 (applying Obergefell retroactively
    and denying summary judgment because genuine issues of material fact with respect
    to parties’ marital status).
    Here, LaFredo testified that Ariel was a friend of a very good friend that he
    and Hinojosa chose to be their spiritual psychic. LaFredo did not know if she was a
    minister or was licensed to perform any kind of wedding ceremony. LaFredo viewed
    her as a coordinator, not a minister, who was overseeing the ceremony to make sure
    it flowed. According to LaFredo, Ariel followed the script that he and Hinojosa put
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    together. Although Hinojosa testified that he believed Ariel had the authority to
    preside over a wedding, he presented no evidence to support that belief. Further,
    Hinojosa’s counsel seemed to acknowledge the dispute and its impact on the
    question of whether a formal, ceremonial marriage formed in 2000 during the
    parties’ discussions about the charge at trial.
    At the informal charge conference during trial, Hinojosa’s counsel explained
    he was requesting a question and special instruction regarding formal ceremonial
    marriage. Specifically, counsel argued the charge should include (i) a special
    instruction regarding ceremonial marriage stating that two people are formally
    married if they agreed to be married, attended a ceremony that married them, and
    the ceremony was officiated by someone who had the authority to do so, followed
    by (ii) the question of “Are Gus and Steve married?” At the formal charge
    conference, however, counsel did not request that special instruction to go with his
    proposed question on formal, ceremonial marriage, nor did he request any
    instruction that set out the requirements to establish the existence of a formal,
    ceremonial marriage under sections 2.001(a), 2.008, 2.201, or 2.202 of the family
    code. Hinojosa proposed no instructions or definitions on what was required to be
    formally married in Texas or elsewhere on October 26, 2000 or at any other
    purportedly relevant time. Hinojosa also did not request granulated questions for the
    jury to answer whether each of those requirements were met. Instead, Hinojosa
    submitted a proposed question that asked the jury whether he and LaFredo became
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    married on October 26, 2000 without defining the term “married” or instructing the
    jury as to what requirements Hinojosa and LaFredo had to meet to become married
    under Texas law. Without such instructions or definitions, Hinojosa failed to submit
    a substantially correct proposed charge to obtain the fact findings necessary to
    establish that a formal, ceremonial marriage existed between he and LaFredo under
    Texas law. See, e.g., Watson, 918 S.W.2d at 645 (requested question insufficient to
    preserve error if legal term included in question is undefined); see also Janelli v.
    Janelli, 
    220 S.W.2d 255
    , 256 (Tex. Civ. App.—Dallas 1949, no writ) (evidence
    raised question of fact as to existence of ceremonial marriage).
    Given the defects in Hinojosa’s proposed question on the existence of a
    formal, ceremonial marriage, we cannot conclude Hinojosa requested the question
    in substantially correct wording or that the trial court abused its discretion in refusing
    to submit it in the charge. The trial court’s failure to submit Hinojosa’s proposed
    question is, therefore, not grounds for reversal. We overrule Hinojosa’s first issue.
    II.      Jury Instruction Referencing June 26, 2015
    In his second issue, Hinojosa contends the trial court abused its discretion by
    submitting the following jury instruction:
    Prior to June 26, 2015, Texas did not legally recognize same sex
    marriage.
    At trial, Hinojosa objected to the instruction in its entirety and requested that the trial
    court strike it from the charge:
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    HINOJOSA’S COUNSEL: Your Honor, my first objection is to the
    instruction entitled “Marriage Between Same-Sex Persons in Texas”
    which reads: “Prior to June 26, 2015, Texas did not legally recognize
    same-sex marriage.”
    I believe it is unnecessary. And although it is factually correct, it is
    flawed and should be omitted from the jury’s instructions because -- for
    multiple reasons.
    First: It is unclear from that instruction whether or not Texas now
    recognizes same-sex marriages formed prior to that date. It certainly
    causes confusion with the jury as to whether or not they need to apply
    any other instructions to the facts that occurred prior to that date or only
    to the facts that occurred subsequent to that date.
    And it tilts -- sort of edges the jury by suggesting the facts that occurred
    prior to that date should be ignored or bear no weight.
    Further, I believe, unfortunately, it gives them the unfortunate duty of
    deciding whether or not to retroactively apply it. This seems to be a
    matter of law and should not be before the jury.
    I’m objecting to the instruction entirely, and I’m requesting that the
    Court strike it from the jury charge.
    The trial court overruled these objections and included the instruction in the charge.
    On appeal, Hinojosa generally contends the instruction misstates the law and,
    alternatively, was incomplete, which confused the jury and probably resulted in an
    improper verdict. More specifically, Hinojosa argues first, that the instruction is a
    misstatement of the law because “when analyzing the current law that is to be applied
    to this case, the proper instruction should be that Texas legally recognizes same-sex
    marriages.” He also contends the instruction was incomplete and confused the jury
    because the instruction “consisted of what the law was” but “the jury was not
    instructed on what to do with what the law was” and “the exact importance of the
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    date was not explained to the jury” even though counsel for both parties referenced
    the date during opening statements and closing arguments. Hinojosa maintains this
    confusion manifested itself in the jury’s question during deliberations. According to
    Hinojosa, inclusion of the instruction probably resulted in an improper verdict
    because if the instruction had not been given, “the importance of that date would not
    have been emphasized to the jury.”
    Appellate jury charge complaints must comport with the objections made in
    the trial court. Bishop, 553 S.W.3d at 674. If the appellate complaint does not match
    the trial court objection, the complaint is not preserved for review. Id.; Ramirez v.
    Welch, No. 05-16-00681-CV, 
    2018 WL 3725254
    , at *14–15 (Tex. App.—Dallas
    Aug. 6, 2018, no pet.) (mem. op.) (addressing only complaints raised in the trial
    court and appeal). Here, Hinojosa’s first appellate argument, that the instruction
    misstated the law and should have stated that “Texas legally recognizes same-sex
    marriages,” was not raised in the trial court. Hinojosa failed to preserve this
    complaint for review and we, therefore, do not address it here.
    Hinojosa’s remaining appellate complaints are that the instruction was
    incomplete and confusing because it did not explain the importance of the date of
    June 26, 2015 and did not instruct the jury on what to do with the information
    provided in the instruction. These appellate complaints are different from Hinojosa’s
    trial court objections. Hinojosa has, therefore, not preserved these complaints for
    review. Accordingly, we overrule Hinojosa’s second issue.
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    Even if the asserted error had not been waived, Hinojosa has not established
    that inclusion of the instruction probably caused the rendition of an improper
    judgment. See TEX. R. APP. P. 44.1(a)(1). We reverse a judgment for charge error
    only if the error was harmful, meaning the error “probably caused the rendition of
    an improper judgment.” Thota v. Young, 
    366 S.W.3d 678
    , 687 (Tex. 2012). When
    harm is not presumed, we examine the entire record to determine whether the
    instruction probably caused the rendition of an improper judgment. Enbridge
    Pipelines (N. Tex.) L.P. v. Sullivan, No. 12-19-00147-CV, 
    2020 WL 2991499
    , at *3
    (Tex. App.—Tyler May 29, 2020, no pet.) (citing Gunn v. McCoy, 
    554 S.W.3d 645
    ,
    676 (Tex. 2018)).
    Here, Hinojosa points to the jury’s note during deliberations as proof that the
    instruction caused confusion and the rendition of an improper judgment. During
    deliberations, the jury sent the judge a note asking the following question:
    If a same sex couple met the requirement of informal marriage before
    June 26, 2015, does the Obergefell decision state whether the effective
    date of the informal marriage is the date of the Supreme Court decision
    or the date the conditions were met?
    The trial judge responded in writing as follows:
    You have all the law and instructions to answer the question in the jury
    charge.
    Neither party objected to that response and neither party requested that the trial court
    provide the jury with additional instructions.
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    The jury note does not support the conclusion that the instruction confused
    the jury and caused the rendition of an improper judgment because clarification
    sought by the jury regarding the “effective date” of the marriage was relevant only
    to the second question in the charge, which the jury did not reach. The effective date
    of a same-sex informal marriage is immaterial to the threshold question presented to
    the jury in Question Number One—whether Hinojosa and LaFredo met the
    requirements to establish an informal marriage. Seeking clarification as to the
    “effective date” of an informal marriage does not indicate confusion about the
    requirements of an informal marriage. Rather, it indicates, at most, a desire for
    additional instruction on how to determine the date of the marriage should the jury
    reach the second question in the charge.
    Moreover, the parties’ counsel both explained the significance of June 26,
    2015 during their closing arguments and told the jury how they should answer the
    second question. Hinojosa’s counsel told the jury the date of the informal marriage
    was March 19, 2005, which was when Hinojosa moved to Dallas following
    LaFredo’s work transfer. LaFredo’s counsel, in contrast, argued the parties were not
    informally married because the three requirements were not met either before or after
    June 26, 2015. LaFredo’s counsel told the jury that if they disagreed and answered
    “yes” to the first question, then the jury should find the date of the marriage to be
    June 26, 2015 when Texas recognized same-sex marriages. The jury had the parties’
    explanations of how to apply the law provided in the charge to the facts of the case.
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    Under those circumstances, inclusion of the instruction did not probably cause
    rendition of an improper judgment. See, e.g., Hagan v. Pennington, No. 05-18-
    00010-CV, 
    2019 WL 2521719
    , at *15–16 (Tex. App.—Dallas June 19, 2019, no
    pet.) (mem. op.) (exclusion of proposed instruction on who had the burden of proof
    did not probably cause rendition of improper judgment because the parties’ counsel
    explained to the jury which party had the burden of proof).
    CONCLUSION
    We conclude the trial court did not abuse its discretion by refusing to submit
    Hinojosa’s proposed question on formal, ceremonial marriage to the jury and by
    including the instruction referencing June 16, 2015. Accordingly, we overrule
    Hinojosa’s appellate issues and affirm the trial court’s judgment.
    /Robbie Partida-Kipness/
    ROBBIE PARTIDA-KIPNESS
    JUSTICE
    181543F.P05
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    Court of Appeals
    Fifth District of Texas at Dallas
    JUDGMENT
    GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA,                         On Appeal from the 302nd Judicial
    Appellant                                      District Court, Dallas County, Texas
    Trial Court Cause No. DF-15-16693.
    No. 05-18-01543-CV           V.                Opinion delivered by Justice Partida-
    Kipness. Justices Nowell and Evans
    STEVE PAUL LAFREDO, Appellee                   participating.
    In accordance with this Court’s opinion of this date, the judgment of the trial
    court is AFFIRMED.
    It is ORDERED that appellee STEVE PAUL LAFREDO recover his costs
    of this appeal from appellant GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA.
    Judgment entered this 31st day of December, 2020.
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