In re Adoption of B.B. ( 2020 )


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    2020 UT 53
    IN THE
    SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF UTAH
    In the Matter of the Adoption of B.B.,
    a person under eighteen years of age
    R.K.B. and K.A.B.,
    Appellants,
    v.
    E.J.T.,
    Appellee.
    No. 20180612
    Heard on June 19, 2019
    Supplemental Briefing Submitted on July 9, 2019
    Filed on July 28, 2020
    On Direct Appeal
    Third District, Salt Lake
    The Honorable Keith A. Kelly
    No. 142900417
    Attorneys:
    Larry S. Jenkins, Lance D. Rich, David A. Jaffa, Salt Lake City,
    for appellants
    Angilee K. Dakic, Salt Lake City, for appellee
    ASSOCIATE CHIEF JUSTICE LEE authored the opinion of the Court,
    in which CHIEF JUSTICE DURRANT and JUSTICE PETERSEN joined.
    JUSTICE HIMONAS filed a dissenting opinion, in which
    JUSTICE PEARCE joined.
    ASSOCIATE CHIEF JUSTICE LEE, opinion of the Court:
    ¶1 This is an adoption proceeding involving a child (B.B.)
    whose unmarried biological parents are members of the Cheyenne
    River Sioux Tribe. The child was born in Utah and placed for
    adoption in a proceeding filed in the third district court in 2014. We
    are hearing the case for the second time on appeal. In the first
    appeal, a majority of this court reversed on the basis of a
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    determination that the child’s biological father (E.T.) had a right to
    intervene as a “parent” under a newly established federal standard
    of parentage under the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA).1 On
    remand, both E.T. and the Cheyenne River Sioux Tribe moved to
    transfer the case to the tribal court under section 1911(a) of ICWA,
    which provides that an “Indian tribe” has exclusive jurisdiction
    “over any child custody proceeding involving an Indian child who
    resides or is domiciled within the reservation of such tribe, except
    where such jurisdiction is otherwise vested in the State by existing
    Federal law.” 25 U.S.C. § 1911(a). The district court granted the
    motion on the ground that B.B. was “domiciled within the
    reservation” at the time this action was filed. We reverse.
    ¶2 The district court based its decision on two alternative
    grounds: (1) the child was domiciled on the reservation because his
    mother (C.C.) was domiciled on the reservation at the time of the
    child’s birth, and (2) the child was domiciled on the reservation
    because C.C. had “abandoned” him and transferred his domicile to
    that of E.T., who was domiciled on the reservation. We disagree on
    both counts. We hold that (1) C.C. was domiciled in Utah at the
    time of B.B.’s birth and (2) her initiation of formal adoption
    proceedings did not constitute an abandonment that shifted B.B.’s
    domicile to the reservation. We thus establish that the district court
    has jurisdiction, and reverse and remand for further proceedings.
    I. BACKGROUND
    ¶3 In December 2013, C.C. and E.T. were in a committed
    relationship and engaged in sexual intercourse that led to the
    conception of B.B. Both parents are members of the Cheyenne River
    Sioux Tribe, and both resided on the Cheyenne River Sioux
    Reservation in South Dakota at the time of conception and for the
    first six months of the pregnancy.
    ¶4 While on the reservation, C.C. decided to place B.B. for
    adoption.2 With that in mind, she contacted Heart to Heart, a Utah
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    1 See In re Adoption of B.B., 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 71, 
    417 P.3d 1
    . But see
    id. ¶¶ 158–67
    (Lee, A.C.J., joined by Durrant, C.J., dissenting)
    (concluding that ICWA incorporates state law standards of
    parentage and that the biological father in this case had failed to
    perfect his parental rights under state law).
    2Appellants dispute whether C.C. had “decided unequivocally
    on adoption,” citing C.C.’s deposition—including portions not in
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    adoption agency. Around June 2014, C.C. moved to Utah to be
    closer to friends and family and to pursue housing and
    employment opportunities. The stated plan was for E.T. to follow
    C.C. to Utah. But after the move, C.C. stopped communicating
    directly with E.T. and told him through family members that she
    planned to return to the reservation “soon.”
    ¶5 C.C. gave birth to B.B. in Utah on August 29, 2014. The next
    day, she signed a relinquishment of parental rights and consent to
    adoption and gave physical custody of B.B. to Heart to Heart. C.C.
    did not immediately inform E.T. of B.B.’s birth. Instead, she signed
    a false statement naming her brother-in-law as B.B.’s biological
    father. Heart to Heart then had C.C.’s brother-in-law sign a
    contemporaneous relinquishment of parental rights and consent to
    adoption in which he falsely represented that he was B.B.’s
    biological father and neither an enrolled member of a Native
    American tribe nor eligible for membership in one.
    ¶6 On September 4, 2014, the prospective adoptive parents
    filed their adoption petition in the district court. Four days later,
    C.C. went to court and executed a voluntary relinquishment of
    parental rights, a consent to adoption, and a consent to an order
    terminating her parental rights, again naming her brother-in-law as
    B.B.’s biological father. On September 25, 2014, the district court
    issued an order purporting to terminate C.C.’s rights and
    determine the biological father’s rights. The court then transferred
    legal custody of B.B. to Heart to Heart and authorized it to delegate
    custody to the prospective adoptive parents.
    ¶7 That same month, C.C. returned to South Dakota and told
    E.T. that she had given birth to B.B. and placed him for adoption.
    Three months later, E.T. moved to intervene in the adoption
    proceedings. The district court denied the motion. On appeal, this
    court held that E.T. was a parent under a newly established federal
    ICWA standard of parentage with a right to intervene in the
    adoption proceedings. See In re Adoption of B.B., 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 78,
    
    417 P.3d 1
    . We reversed and remanded the case to the district court
    on that basis.
    Id. ¶ 3.
        ¶8 On remand, E.T. and the Cheyenne River Sioux Tribe
    asked the district court to transfer the adoption proceedings to the
    tribal court under 25 U.S.C. section 1911. The district court granted
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    the record. The extra-record citations were improper, but do not
    affect our analysis because we conclude that the initiation of
    adoption proceedings does not constitute abandonment.
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    the motion to transfer under section 1911(a), which provides that
    an “Indian tribe” has exclusive jurisdiction “over any child custody
    proceeding involving an Indian child who resides or is domiciled
    within the reservation of such tribe, except where such jurisdiction
    is otherwise vested in the State by existing Federal law.” 25 U.S.C.
    § 1911(a). The district court based its decision on two alternative
    grounds. First, it held that B.B. was domiciled on the reservation at
    the time of his birth because his mother, C.C., was domiciled there
    at that time. Second, the court found that under the abandonment
    standard found in comment e of the RESTATEMENT (SECOND) OF
    CONFLICT OF LAWS § 22 (AM. LAW INST. 1971), C.C. had
    “abandoned” the child by initiating adoption proceedings after the
    child’s birth. The district court further interpreted this to mean that
    B.B. took on the domicile of his father, E.T., which was the
    reservation. Because the court deemed B.B. to be domiciled on the
    reservation at the time of the filing of the adoption petition on
    either or both of these grounds, it ordered the transfer of this case
    to the tribal court under 25 U.S.C. section 1911(a). The prospective
    adoptive parents then filed this appeal.
    ¶9 After oral argument, we issued a supplemental briefing
    order asking the parties to further address the controlling standard
    of “abandonment” in a case like this one. Specifically, we asked the
    parties to address whether abandonment is a federal or state
    standard in a case arising under 25 U.S.C. section 1911(a), and what
    the standard should be if the standard is federal.
    II. DISCUSSION
    ¶10 The jurisdictional question presented is controlled by
    section 1911(a) of ICWA. That provision states that tribal courts
    have “jurisdiction exclusive as to any State over any child custody
    proceeding involving an Indian child who resides or is domiciled
    within the reservation” of an Indian tribe. 25 U.S.C. § 1911(a). The
    key question here is whether B.B. was “domiciled” on the
    reservation at the time the adoption proceeding was filed. If so,
    then the tribal court has exclusive jurisdiction and the case should
    be dismissed on jurisdictional grounds. Otherwise, the child was
    domiciled in Utah, the district court retained jurisdiction, and the
    case should proceed to judgment here.
    ¶11 A child born out of wedlock typically takes on the domicile
    of the birth mother. See RESTATEMENT (SECOND) OF CONFLICT OF
    LAWS § 22 cmt. c (AM. LAW INST. 1971) (hereinafter RESTATEMENT).
    That general rule holds unless and until the mother “abandons” the
    child or takes other action. If and when there is an abandonment,
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    the child takes on the domicile of the person who then acquires the
    parental rights and obligations associated with the child. See
    id. § 22 cmt.
    e.
    ¶12 This background implicates the two questions answered
    by the district court here—whether the mother, C.C., was
    domiciled on the reservation at the time of the child’s birth, and
    whether she “abandoned” the child and thereby transferred
    parental rights and obligations to the father, E.T., who is domiciled
    on the reservation. We disagree with the district court’s
    determinations on both grounds.
    ¶13 Applying the uniform federal standard of domicile set
    forth in Mississippi Band of Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    (1989), we hold that C.C. was domiciled in Utah in light of
    uncontradicted evidence in the record of her intent to remain
    permanently in Utah when she moved here. As to abandonment,
    we hold that even if ICWA does mandate a uniform federal
    standard of abandonment and that standard is found in the
    Restatement, there is no basis for a determination that C.C.
    abandoned her child and transferred parental rights and
    obligations—and domicile—to E.T.
    A. C.C.’s Domicile
    ¶14 The United States Supreme Court established a uniform
    federal standard of “domicile” for ICWA proceedings in Mississippi
    Band of Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    (1989). Citing the
    Restatement, treatises, and “established common-law principles,”
    the court endorsed “generally uncontroverted” principles of
    domicile under which an adult’s “domicile is established by
    physical presence in a place in connection with a certain state of
    mind concerning one’s intent to remain there.”
    Id. at 47–48.
    “‘Domicile’ is not necessarily synonymous with ‘residence,’” as
    “one can reside in one place but be domiciled in another.”
    Id. at 48
    (citations omitted). The key is the person’s state of mind—her
    “intent to remain there” on a relatively permanent basis.
    Id. “One acquires a
    ‘domicile of origin’ at birth, and that domicile continues
    until a new one (a ‘domicile of choice’) is acquired” by moving to a
    new place with an intent to remain there relatively permanently.
    Id. Such intent may
    be established directly by express statements of
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    intention,3 or indirectly by circumstantial evidence (such as a
    decision to move to find new employment).4
    ¶15 C.C. was concededly domiciled on the reservation at the
    time she became pregnant with her child. Her stay in Utah was also
    brief—just a few months. And soon after giving birth and placing
    her child for adoption, there is no question that C.C. decided to
    return to live on the reservation. These seem to have been the
    grounds for the district court’s determination that C.C. remained
    domiciled on the reservation throughout her stay in Utah. The
    court found that C.C.’s intent was “to return to the Cheyenne River
    Sioux Reservation shortly after she relinquished her child.” In so
    stating, however, the court never identified any evidence
    suggesting that C.C. had that intent at the crucial time of relevance
    to domicile—when she initially left the reservation and moved to
    Utah. Instead it just pointed to the short duration of her stay in
    Utah, noting that she “reside[d] in Utah for only three or four
    months before returning to reside on the Reservation.” And in
    concluding      that    C.C.    “lack[ed]    credibility”    in   her
    relinquishment-form statement that she was not domiciled on the
    reservation, the court again highlighted the brevity of her stay and
    cited other events that happened after the move, such as C.C.’s
    return to the reservation within a month of giving birth to B.B. and
    misrepresentations about who B.B.’s biological father was. The
    district court also found that she probably did not understand “the
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    3 See RESTATEMENT (SECOND) OF CONFLICT OF LAWS Ch. 2 Topic 2
    Special Note (AM LAW INST. 1971) (hereinafter RESTATEMENT) (“A
    person’s declarations as to what he considers to be his home,
    residence or domicil are generally admissible as evidence of his
    attitude of mind. Such declarations are frequently contained in
    formal legal documents, as wills, deeds and affidavits; they may
    also appear in letters, in hotel and automobile registrations and, at
    times, are made by word of mouth.”).
    4 See
    id. (“In the absence
    of evidence as to the place where a
    person lives, . . . he will probably be found to be domiciled in the
    place where he works unless it can be shown that his job is only of
    a temporary nature. . . . Beyond all this, the place to which a person
    has the closest and most settled relationship is likely to be that
    where he votes, where he belongs to a church, where he pursues
    his various interests and where he pays taxes of the sort that are
    payable only by persons who are domiciled there. The courts
    frequently rely heavily upon such activities.”).
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    meaning of domicile” when she asserted in her affidavit that she
    was not domiciled on an Indian reservation.
    ¶16 A fact-intensive determination of a person’s domicile
    would ordinarily be a matter worthy of some deference on appeal.5
    But we defer to fact-intensive mixed determinations only where the
    district court applies the correct legal standard.6 And here it
    appears that the district court applied a mistaken understanding of
    the standard of domicile. Nowhere in the written ruling did the
    district court ever identify the relevant time for evaluating C.C.’s
    intent in moving to Utah. In relying so heavily on the short duration
    of her stay in Utah, moreover, it appears that the court was focused
    on the wrong timeframe when it found that C.C. intended to return
    to the reservation. The court seems to have determined only that
    C.C. decided to move back to the reservation after placing her child
    for adoption and that her stay here was short. That is insufficient,
    as a person can establish a new domicile by moving somewhere
    with an intent to remain quite permanently but change her mind
    soon after arriving. See Gardner v. Gardner, 
    222 P.2d 1055
    , 1057 (Utah
    1950) (“Short absence from a former abode may be sufficient to
    evidence abandonment thereof, although the party might soon
    change his intention. A floating intention to return to a former
    abode is not sufficient to prevent the new abode from becoming
    one’s domicile.”)
    ¶17 For the above reasons, we are not in a position to defer to
    the district court’s determination of C.C.’s domicile. And we
    conclude that all the evidence in the record indicates that she had
    the intention of remaining here permanently when she moved to
    Utah. In her affidavit submitted to the court, C.C. attested that
    when she arrived in Utah, she and E.T. “had agreed that [she]
    would move to Utah to be closer to some of [her] friends and
    family” and “get settled in with the employment and housing
    opportunities that had prompted th[e] move.” She also stated that
    the plan then was for E.T. to “come join [her] in Utah.” E.T.
    confirmed this understanding. In his affidavit of paternity, E.T.
    stated that C.C. had “moved to Utah to be closer to friends and
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    5 See In re Adoption of Baby B., 
    2012 UT 35
    , ¶¶ 42–43, 
    308 P.3d 382
    (noting that a fact-intensive mixed determination is subject to
    deferential review on appeal).
    6 See Jensen v. Intermountain Power Agency, 
    1999 UT 10
    , ¶ 10, 
    977 P.2d 474
    (“The question of the correct legal standard is a question
    of law, which we review for correctness.”).
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    family” and that they had “agreed that [E.T.] would move to Utah
    and join her once she got settled in to [their] new
    apartment/home.” These are core hallmarks of domicile—they
    indicate an intent to establish a new home and seek employment
    and housing opportunities. And they are the only pieces of
    evidence in the record that speak directly to C.C.’s intent upon
    moving to Utah. We reverse on that basis. We hold that the
    evidence in the record indicates that C.C. moved to Utah with the
    intent to remain here.
    ¶18 C.C. made untruthful statements about the identity of
    B.B.’s biological father. And her plans apparently changed soon
    after she arrived in Utah. But none of that undermines our
    conclusion about her intent at the time she first moved here. In fact,
    the evidence in the record about her change of plans is consistent
    with our analysis. In her affidavit, C.C. explained the change in
    plans, noting that “shortly after” arriving in Utah she met a former
    boyfriend who pressured her to reconcile with him and place the
    child for adoption. It was only then that C.C. stopped talking with
    E.T. and instructed family members to tell him that she “was fine”
    and “would soon return to South Dakota.” That in no way
    undermines the conclusion that C.C. initially moved to Utah with
    the intent to remain here.
    ¶19 Because a change of domicile occurs once a person
    establishes physical presence in a new jurisdiction with the intent
    to remain, we hold that C.C. was a Utah domiciliary at the time of
    B.B.’s birth. On that basis we reject the first rationale for the district
    court’s determination that it lacked jurisdiction—the conclusion
    that B.B. was domiciled on the reservation because his mother had
    retained that domicile.
    B. Abandonment
    ¶20 Above we noted that the United States Supreme Court has
    established a uniform federal standard of “domicile” under section
    1911 of ICWA. See supra ¶ 14 (citing Mississippi Band of Choctaw
    Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    , 48 (1989)). The appellee in this case
    asserts that this decision extends to the question of abandonment.
    And he asks us to embrace the principles of abandonment set forth
    in the Restatement—a resource relied on extensively in Holyfield—
    in reviewing the district court’s determination that C.C. abandoned
    her child and transferred the child’s domicile to E.T. (who
    remained domiciled on the reservation).
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    ¶21 The question whether ICWA requires the establishment of
    a uniform federal standard of abandonment is a difficult one. 7 We
    need not resolve it to decide this case, however, because the
    principles of abandonment in the Restatement are entirely
    consistent with Utah law. We thus review the district court’s
    decision without resolving the question whether abandonment in
    a case like this one implicates a uniform federal standard or a state
    standard.
    ¶22 In the paragraphs below, we first present the settled
    principles of abandonment reflected in both the Restatement and
    Utah law. Applying these principles, we conclude that the district
    court erred in ruling that C.C. abandoned B.B. and thereby shifted
    the child’s domicile to that of his biological father. Second, we
    respond to an implicit premise of the analysis of the district court
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    7  Because “abandonment [sometimes] affects domicile,” the
    district court seems to have assumed that there must also be a
    uniform federal standard of abandonment in ICWA cases. And it is
    true that certain principles of “domicile” were federalized in
    Mississippi Band of Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    (1989).
    But it may not follow that all subsidiary determinations that inform
    the domicile inquiry, such as abandonment, must also be
    conducted under a uniform federal standard. We see a number of
    grounds for disputing the breadth of such a conclusion:
    (a) “domicile” is a “critical term” in ICWA
    , id. at 44,
    whereas
    “abandonment” appears nowhere in the statute; (b) the elements of
    domicile that were federalized in Holyfield were matters involving
    “established common-law principles” that were “widely used” in
    courts throughout the country
    , id. at 47–48,
    while many questions
    affecting the law of abandonment differ from state to state; and
    (c) the policy concerns that motivated the decision in Holyfield are
    not implicated here.
    To the extent the governing principle of abandonment turns on
    premises on which the states are in disagreement, and on which
    there is no “established” common-law standard, we see grounds
    for the conclusion that ICWA permits the application of each state’s
    law. See 25 U.S.C. § 1901(5) (discussing the states’ exercise of their
    “recognized jurisdiction over Indian child custody proceedings
    through administrative and judicial bodies”);
    id. § 1921 (requiring
    the application of state law whenever it “provides a higher
    standard of protection to the rights of the parent or Indian
    custodian of an Indian child” than ICWA or other federal law). But
    we need not resolve this question here for reasons explained herein.
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    and the appellee—the notion that the jurisdictional regime set forth
    in section 1911(a), as interpreted in Holyfield, prevents an unwed
    Indian mother from evading tribal jurisdiction even when she is no
    longer domiciled on the reservation if the child’s biological father
    remains domiciled on the reservation. We show that this policy
    finds no support in ICWA and is actively undermined by Holyfield.
    1. Effect of Abandonment on a Child’s Domicile
    ¶23 Comment c to section 22 of the Restatement establishes the
    general rule that “[a]n illegitimate child has the domicil of his
    mother.” This and other comments also set forth a range of
    exceptions to the general rule—circumstances in which the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock may transfer to the domicile
    of someone other than the biological mother. The listed
    circumstances speak to the roles of adoptive parents (comment g)
    and unmarried biological fathers (comments a and c), making clear
    that the domicile of a child born out of wedlock and placed for
    adoption is that of the person who has parental rights in and
    obligations to the child. And they establish that parental rights and
    obligations—and thus domicile—remain with the birth mother
    unless and until someone else has assumed parental rights in and
    obligations to the child.
    ¶24 Yet another comment (comment e) establishes that an
    “abandonment” may also transfer a child’s domicile. RESTATEMENT
    § 22 cmt. e. According to the Restatement, this occurs when a
    parent “deserts the child” or “gives the custody of the child to
    another with the intention of relinquishing his parental rights and
    obligations.”
    Id. It was this
    comment—and this comment alone—
    that the district court decided to focus on. Citing this standard, the
    district court found that C.C. abandoned B.B. by “intend[ing] to
    relinquish all parental rights and obligations just two or three
    months into the pregnancy” and signing (invalid) relinquishment
    forms. It then claimed that “federal law require[d]” it to “look to
    Father’s domicile” because when an Indian child is abandoned by
    one parent, “the tribe and the other parent domiciled on the
    reservation . . . still have an interest in the exercise of exclusive
    jurisdiction.”8
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    8 The claim that this is a “requirement” of federal law is
    incorrect because it relies on a quote from the dissent in Holyfield.
    
    See 490 U.S. at 63
    (Stevens, J., dissenting). We therefore decline to
    address it further.
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    ¶25 This was error. When other comments in the Restatement
    are also taken into account, it becomes clear that a birth mother’s
    relinquishment of custody and signing away of parental rights in
    the formal adoption context does not amount to an “abandonment”
    because it is not done with the “intention of relinquishing . . .
    parental rights and obligations” immediately or unconditionally
    (let alone with an intent to surrender rights and obligations to an
    unmarried biological father who is not even a party to the
    adoption).9 A birth mother’s surrender of custody and waiver of
    her parental rights and obligations in the context of a formal
    adoption certainly evinces an intent to eventually turn over parental
    rights and obligations to a specific, state-vetted adoption agency or
    couple. But new rights in and obligations to the child will attach
    and replace the birth mother’s only when certain conditions are
    met—once the adoption is final. And for that reason, it is wrong to
    say that a birth mother intends to immediately and unconditionally
    relinquish parental rights and obligations—walk away from or
    “abandon” her child—when she chooses to put her child up for
    formal adoption rather than simply leave him at the doorstep,
    daycare center, or family friend’s home. In this case, C.C.’s
    “relinquishment of [her] parental rights and obligations” was both
    specific to the adoption setting and contingent on the finalization
    of the adoption. It was not done with an intent sufficient to
    constitute abandonment and transfer parental rights and
    obligations—along with the child’s domicile—to a third party as of
    the date of the relinquishment form.
    ¶26 These conclusions follow from several of the other
    comments to section 22 of the Restatement. The starting point is
    comment c. That comment says that the domicile of a child born out
    of wedlock will follow the domicile of the mother except in
    specifically enumerated circumstances.
    Id.
    § 22 cmt.
    c. The listed
    circumstances include abandonment under comment e and
    conditions “stated immediately below” in comment c.
    Id. The conditions “immediately
    below” indicate that the domicile of a
    child born out of wedlock will transfer to the domicile of the
    biological father only in limited circumstances—such as when he
    marries the child’s biological mother. Comment c states this point
    by negative (but clear) implication in the proviso that the child’s
    domicile remains with the mother “[a]fter the mother’s marriage to
    a man who is not the child’s father.”
    Id. (emphasis added). And
    the
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    9While E.T. was eventually allowed to intervene in the case, he
    was not a party to the adoption proceedings in September 2014.
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    implication is made explicit in the general rule of comment a—that
    a child born in wedlock “is assigned the father’s domicil.”10
    Id. § 22 cmt.
    a. These provisions demonstrate that the domicile of a child
    born out of wedlock shifts to that of an unmarried biological father
    only when his inchoate parental rights are perfected, as upon
    marriage of the biological mother and father.11 Where (as in the
    instant case) that has not happened, comments a and c establish that
    the child’s domicile remains that of the mother.12
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    10 The full quote from comment a is that a “child is assigned the
    father’s domicil when he lives with the father and has the same
    home as his.” RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. a. This adds another wrinkle
    for an unmarried biological father who has never lived with his
    child. Under the Restatement, even if E.T. married C.C. and thereby
    became B.B.’s legal father, B.B. would not acquire E.T.’s domicile
    unless and until B.B. lived with E.T. in his home.
    11 We need not and do not decide whether there are other events
    that could perfect an unwed biological father’s parental rights and
    obligations. (If the unwed mother deserts both her child and the
    unwed father, perhaps that would be such an event.) We hold only
    that (1) the Restatement ties the domicile of a child born out of
    wedlock to parental rights and obligations, (2) C.C. did not give up
    parental rights and obligations in B.B. by initiating formal adoption
    proceedings, and (3) in any case, E.T. had not perfected his parental
    rights and obligations in B.B. when C.C. filed the adoption petition.
    12 The law of relevance to this point has evolved somewhat since
    the time of the Restatement. Today an unmarried biological father
    may have the right to notice of a pending adoption and the
    opportunity to contest the adoption. See Lehr v. Robertson, 
    463 U.S. 248
    , 261, 267–68 (1983) (holding that an unwed biological father
    that “demonstrates a full commitment to the responsibilities of
    parenthood by ‘com[ing] forward to participate in the rearing of his
    child’” has a protected interest in “personal contact with his child”
    under the Fourteenth Amendment’s Due Process Clause and that
    adoption statutes distinguishing between biological mothers and
    unwed biological fathers “may not constitutionally be applied in
    that class of cases where the mother and father are in fact similarly
    situated with regard to their relationship with the child” under the
    Equal Protection Clause (alteration in original) (citation omitted)).
    In the context of an adoption, the unmarried biological father has
    the opportunity to seek to have his inchoate parental rights perfected
    (continued . . .)
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    ¶27 Comment g is also significant because it speaks to the effect
    of an adoption proceeding on a child’s domicile. This comment
    provides that the “effect of an adoption is to substitute a new
    parent-child relationship in place of that which formerly bound the
    child to his natural parents.”
    Id. § 22 cmt.
    g. From that proviso, it is
    clear that a mother taking a step toward an adoption that is not yet
    final cannot amount to an immediate and unconditional intent to
    relinquish her parental rights and obligations (an abandonment),
    let alone an intent to relinquish them to the biological father.13
    Instead, the initiation of an adoption is the start of a process that
    anticipates the relinquishment of a birth mother’s parental rights
    and obligations and the establishment of a new, specific
    parent-child relationship. When that process is complete, then “the
    domicil of the adopted child follows that of his adoptive parents.”
    Id. But that shift
    in domicile does not take place until the adoption
    is final. The child “takes the domicil of the adoptive parent” only
    “at the moment of adoption.”
    Id. These are settled
    principles of
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    and established. See
    id. at 262
    (“The significance of the biological
    connection is that it offers the natural father an opportunity that no
    other male possesses to develop a relationship with his offspring.
    If he grasps that opportunity and accepts some measure of
    responsibility for the child’s future, he may enjoy the blessings of
    the parent-child relationship and make uniquely valuable
    contributions to the child’s development. If he fails to do so, the
    Federal Constitution will not automatically compel a state to listen
    to his opinion of where the child’s best interests lie.” (footnote
    omitted)). But the upshot is the same—the child’s domicile follows
    the legal parent, and thus does not shift to the unmarried biological
    father automatically just because he has made some attempt to
    assert his rights.
    13 This is reflected in well-established principles of law
    endorsed across the nation. See Stanton Phillips, Adoption Law,
    Procedure and Practice, in 6 FAMILY LAW AND PRACTICE § 64.10[1]
    (Arnold H. Rutkin ed., 2019) (“The properly executed consent to
    adoption does not, in and of itself, normally terminate the parental
    rights or responsibilities of the person signing the document.
    Rather, most jurisdictions do not terminate the parental rights of
    the parent until the granting of the final decree of adoption. . . . In
    most jurisdictions, the birth parents’ parental rights remain in a
    state of legal limbo from the time of the signing of the consent to
    adoption until the entry of the final decree of adoption or legal
    termination of their rights.”).
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    adoption law. A birth mother thus retains her rights and
    obligations to a child unless and until the adoption is finalized.14
    ¶28 These principles are also reflected in Utah law. The Utah
    Code expressly provides that “[a] pre-existing parent of an adopted
    child” retains “all parental rights and duties toward and all
    responsibilities for” an adopted child until “the earlier of: (a) the
    time the pre-existing parent’s parental rights are terminated; or
    (b) . . . the time the final decree of adoption is entered.” UTAH CODE
    § 78B-6-138(1). True, once a birth mother signs a valid consent and
    relinquishment form, her involvement in the proceeding is
    normally over—the adoption is finalized, and parental rights and
    obligations (and domicile) are transferred to the adoptive parents.
    This is because a valid consent and relinquishment document is
    irrevocable as a matter of Utah law. See
    id. § 78B-6-126. But
    such a
    document (even an effective, irrevocable one) does not itself shift
    parental rights (or domicile). The shift happens only if and when
    the adoption is finalized or parental rights are terminated in a valid
    order—a point the code confirms by acknowledging a court’s
    authority to “enter a final order terminating parental rights before
    a final decree of adoption is entered.”
    Id. § 78B-6-112(3). ¶29
    The code confirms that unwed birth mothers remain legal
    parents in failed adoptions by providing that a parent’s execution
    of a relinquishment of parental rights and consent to adoption
    “may not be considered as evidence” that the signatory “has
    neglected or abandoned the child” in a case in which “the court
    dismisses the adoption petition.”
    Id. § 78B-6-133(4). This
    is
    significant. By stating that a relinquishment and consent “may not
    be considered” as evidence of neglect or abandonment in a case in
    which “the court dismisses the adoption petition,” see
    id., the legislature is
    clarifying that Utah law is in line with the settled
    standard set forth in the Restatement. The execution of this
    document may function as a relinquishment of parental rights and
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    14 We express no opinion on what challenges a birth mother may
    or may not face in regaining the ability to exercise these parental
    rights. See
    id. (“The period between
    the taking of the consent and
    the termination of parental rights leaves open a variety of issues.
    The child is still the legal child of the birth parent but such rights as
    care, custody, control or visitation with the child are waived. Those
    rights may be restored to a birth parent by an event, such as a
    fall-through in the adoptive placement. Obligations of the birth
    parent, particularly in the area of child support, will continue until
    the parental rights are terminated.” (emphases added)).
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    obligations to an adoption agency or the adoptive parents if the
    adoption is finalized. But it does not amount to an “abandonment,”
    or surrender of custody with an intent to immediately and
    unconditionally relinquish parental rights and obligations to
    anyone who might step into the parental role.15
    ¶30 The district court accordingly erred in its determination
    that C.C.’s relinquishment forms in the formal adoption context
    constituted an “abandonment” that resulted in the establishment of
    a perfected legal relationship between the child and his unwed
    biological father (and therefore a change in the child’s domicile).
    The mother’s consent to adoption does not itself evince an intent to
    immediately relinquish parental rights and obligations or establish
    a new parent-child relationship with anyone. C.C. continued to
    participate in the necessary court proceedings and did not leave
    Utah until after the court had entered an order purporting to
    terminate her parental rights. And a consent only waives the
    mother’s rights vis-à-vis the adoption agency (or the prospective
    adoptive parents with whom the child is to be placed).
    ¶31 So C.C.’s parental rights appear to remain intact to this
    day16—although we again express no opinion on what steps she
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    15  Appellants rightly called our attention to this statutory
    provision in their briefing. But they quoted the operative statutory
    language selectively, in a manner that was misleading. They
    quoted the general proviso that a relinquishment or consent “may
    not be considered as evidence” of abandonment, but omitted the
    above-noted qualifier—the language indicating that this principle
    applies only in a case in which “the court dismisses the adoption
    petition.” UTAH CODE § 78B-6-133(4) (emphasis added). That is
    troubling. Counsel should have quoted the full provision. The
    selective quote was misleading and inappropriate.
    16 The court did enter an order purporting to terminate C.C.’s
    parental      rights      based      on       her    two       signed
    relinquishment-and-consent documents. In re Adoption of B.B., 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 7, 
    417 P.3d 1
    . But the first one (signed the day after B.B.’s
    birth) was invalid as a matter of federal law because it failed to
    honor ICWA’s ten-day waiting period. 25 U.S.C. § 1913(a) (“Any
    consent given prior to, or within ten days after, birth of the Indian
    child shall not be valid.”). And the second one, though signed after
    the ICWA waiting period, was signed after the relevant date of the
    adoption petition. See 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 53
    (holding that the
    (continued . . .)
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    might need to take to be in a position to exercise those rights. See
    supra ¶ 27 n.14. Unless and until the adoption is finalized, B.B.’s
    domicile follows the domicile of his birth mother.17 Everyone
    agrees that the initiation of adoption proceedings (to which C.C.
    consented) did not transfer domicile to that of the prospective
    adoptive parents. By the same logic, it didn’t transfer domicile to
    that of a third party like E.T., either.
    ¶32 We are aware of no legal authority that says that a birth
    mother’s consent to an adoption amounts to an abandonment—a
    surrender of custody with an immediate, unconditional intent to
    relinquish parental rights regardless of the outcome of the adoption
    proceeding.18 To sustain the district court’s holding, moreover, we
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    tribal court had exclusive jurisdiction because the twin babies were
    domiciled on the reservation “when adoption proceedings were
    begun”); In re Adoption of Halloway, 
    732 P.2d 962
    , 966 (Utah 1986)
    (holding that “the propriety of [a] trial court’s assumption of
    jurisdiction turns on [the Indian child’s] domicile at the time the[]
    proceedings [a]re initiated”). In any event, that second consent was
    contingent on the entry of a final adoption order or an order
    terminating the birth mother’s parental rights (conditions that have
    yet to occur). See UTAH CODE § 78B-6-138 (stating that a birth parent
    retains all rights and duties until “the earlier of: (a) the time the pre-
    existing parent’s parental rights are terminated; or (b) . . . the time
    the final decree of adoption is entered”).
    17 In the context of an ICWA jurisdictional determination, B.B.’s
    domicile remains that of his mother at the time the adoption
    petition was filed. See supra ¶ 31 n.16. C.C. could not shift B.B.’s
    domicile after the fact by changing her own domicile.
    18  The authority that we have found cuts directly against this
    proposition. In Utah and elsewhere, abandonment is the
    permanent relinquishment of all rights in and obligations to a
    child—the kind of relinquishment that results in “the destruction
    of the parent-child relationship.” See State in Interest of Summers
    Children v. Wulffenstein, 
    560 P.2d 331
    , 334 (Utah 1977) (“[T]he
    father’s conduct demonstrated a conscious disregard of the
    obligations owed by a parent to a child, leading to the destruction
    of the parent-child relationship—an abandonment.”). And the
    destruction of a parent-child relationship necessarily requires the
    initiation of a new one. See HOMER H. CLARK, JR., 2 THE LAW OF
    DOMESTIC RELATIONS IN THE UNITED STATES § 21.1 (2d ed. 1987) (“As
    (continued . . .)
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    would have to take this novel premise a step further. We would
    have to hold not only that a birth mother’s consent to adoption is
    an abandonment or immediate and unconditional relinquishment,
    but also that her parental rights and obligations revert at the filing
    of the adoption petition to a third party whose parental rights are
    at best inchoate. This we decline to do.
    ¶33 So even if E.T. is correct that ICWA mandates a uniform
    federal standard of abandonment and the district court was correct
    to apply the standard found in section 22 of the Restatement, the
    district court’s decision cannot stand. The Restatement regime
    necessarily ties domicile to parental rights and obligations.19 And
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    a result of the adoption decree the legal rights and obligations
    which formerly existed between the child and his natural parents
    come to an end, and are replaced by similar rights and obligations
    with respect to his new adoptive parents.”).
    A biological parent’s consent to the initiation of an adoption
    proceeding may foreclose the right to rescind the relinquishment of
    parental rights vis-à-vis the adoption agency or prospective
    adoptive parents. See Phillips, supra ¶ 27 n.13, at § 64.10[1] (“The
    period between the taking of the consent and the termination of
    parental rights leaves open a variety of issues. The child is still the
    legal child of the birth parent but such rights as care, custody,
    control or visitation with the child are waived.”); UTAH CODE
    § 78B-6-126 (“A consent or relinquishment is effective when it is
    signed and may not be revoked.”). But we are aware of no authority
    that suggests such consent is an unconditional relinquishment
    foreclosing the restoration of parental rights when an adoption fails
    to come to fruition. Again, numerous authorities have reached the
    opposite conclusion. See, e.g., Phillips, supra ¶ 27 n.13, at § 64.10[1]
    (explaining that parental rights “may be restored to a birth parent
    by an event, such as a fall-through in the adoptive placement”);
    UTAH CODE § 78B-6-138(1) (stating that a birth parent retains all
    rights and duties until “the earlier of: (a) the time the pre-existing
    parent’s parental rights are terminated; or (b) . . . the time the final
    decree of adoption is entered”).
    19 The dissent’s contrary view rests on the unsupported
    assertion that “a finding of abandonment for purposes of domicile”
    “does not compel (or even influence)” a finding of abandonment
    “for purposes of adjudicating parental rights.” Infra ¶ 132; see also
    infra ¶¶ 57 n.23, 95 n.29, 106, 116, 118 n.31, 128–31. But this
    (continued . . .)
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    there is thus no basis for the determination that the birth mother’s
    relinquishment and consent to B.B.’s adoption shifted parental
    rights and obligations—and domicile—to his biological father.
    ¶34 The dissent believes that it is comment e (which deals with
    “abandonment”) that dictates the starting position in deciding the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock and placed for adoption—
    not comment c (which deals specifically with “[i]llegitimate
    child[ren]”) or comment g (which deals specifically with
    “[a]dopted child[ren]”). See infra ¶¶ 123–27. This is incorrect for at
    least two reasons.
    ¶35 First, B.B. is a child born out of wedlock and placed for
    adoption first and an (allegedly) abandoned child second. That
    alone should establish which comment sets the default rules in
    B.B.’s case—comment c, which (1) states that “[a]t birth an
    illegitimate child takes the domicil his mother has at the time as his
    domicil of origin” and (2) suggests (in conjunction with comment a)
    that the child’s domicile will not shift to that of the unwed
    biological father except in limited circumstances—such as upon
    marriage. See RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c (emphases added).
    Likewise, comment g speaks to B.B.’s situation directly. It is
    undisputed that B.B. was placed for adoption. It is the entire subject
    of this appeal whether that placement also constituted
    abandonment.
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    distinction does not hold up under the law. The abandonment
    standard for domicile purposes is the abandonment standard for
    parental-rights purposes. The Restatement is not inventing a new,
    freestanding principle of “abandonment” for the purpose of
    establishing a child’s domicile, as the dissent seems to believe. See
    infra ¶ 57 n.23 (lamenting the Restatement’s word choice as
    “unfortunate”). It is invoking a preexisting, parental-rights
    standard of abandonment in order to make a conflict-of-law
    determination of domicile. The language of the Restatement
    confirms that its use of “abandonment” is an intentional effort to
    capitalize on a legal determination used to adjudicate parental
    rights and obligations: “[A]bandonment . . . occurs when the parent
    gives the custody of the child to another with the intention of
    relinquishing his parental rights and obligations . . . . The rules of the
    forum are applied . . . to determine whether an abandonment has
    taken place.” RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (emphasis added); see also
    id. (“Under the local
    law of many states, a child who has attained years of
    discretion becomes emancipated upon being abandoned by both
    parents.” (emphasis added)).
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    ¶36 Second,       comment c       (the    comment          governing
    “[i]llegitimate child[ren]”) must set the default rule in this case
    because comment e assumes that the child at issue was born in
    wedlock—it presupposes that the child has taken on the domicile
    of his father. RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (beginning by explaining
    what happens when a father abandons the child and declaring that
    “a child abandoned by both parents simultaneously retains the
    domicil of the father at the time of the abandonment.” (emphases
    added)). But this is the default for children born in wedlock, see
    id. § 22 cmt.
    a (“[T]he child takes as his domicil of origin the domicil
    the father has at the time of the child’s birth . . . .”), not those born
    outside it
    ,
    id. § 22 cmt.
    c (“An illegitimate child has the domicil of
    his mother . . . .”). No doubt this is why Justice Stevens cited
    comment i’s standard—not comment e’s—in discussing what
    happens to the domicile of a child when she is “abandoned by both
    parents.” 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 62
    (Stevens, J., dissenting). Put
    simply, comment e starts from a place from which we know for a
    fact B.B. did not—a birth in wedlock.
    ¶37 For these reasons, we are not “discard[ing]” or “ignor[ing]
    the relevant comment—comment e.” Infra ¶¶ 118, 125. We are
    reading it in the context of the default rules laid out for children
    born out of wedlock (comment c) and subsequently placed for
    adoption (comment g). Those comments capture the importance of
    parental rights and obligations to the domicile determination and
    explain B.B.’s situation perfectly. Holding up comment e without
    accounting for the Restatement’s connection between parental
    rights and domicile—or the default rules that come with a child’s
    out-of-wedlock birth status and prospective adoption—leaves all
    the important questions unanswered: With what “intention” did
    C.C. give up custody? Who had “parental rights and obligations”
    in B.B. at the time of the filing of the adoption petition? Despite its
    claim that we are “ignor[ing] comment e’s directive to examine
    Birth Mother’s ‘intention,’” infra ¶ 119, it is the dissent that glosses
    over these questions.
    ¶38 We are likewise not holding that comment e’s provision on
    abandonment “doesn’t apply” “whenever an adoption looms in the
    background,” infra ¶ 119, or “whenever the abandoning parent
    contemplates a future adoption,” infra ¶ 127. We do not doubt that
    a parent “contemplat[ing] a future adoption” could still take
    actions that amount to an abandonment. We hold only that giving
    up custody and signing consent forms in order to start the formal
    adoption process does not itself constitute abandonment under the
    text of the Restatement. And we do so by focusing on the
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    “intention” with which a birth mother “gives . . . custody of the
    child to another,”20 RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e, and by reading
    comment e in conjunction with the comments governing children
    born out of wedlock and placed for adoption. It is the dissent that
    insists that other comments in the Restatement simply don’t apply
    in the circumstances we confront today. See infra ¶ 116 (suggesting
    comment a is “irrelevant”); infra ¶ 126 (claiming comment g—the
    comment governing “[a]dopted child[ren]”—is “irrelevant to this
    case”).
    2. Indian Parents’ Domicile Changes under ICWA
    ¶39 In coming to a contrary conclusion, the district court seems
    to have assumed that the jurisdictional regime set forth in 25 U.S.C.
    section 1911(a) (as interpreted in Holyfield) prevents any Indian
    parent from evading exclusive tribal jurisdiction—even if she is no
    longer domiciled on the reservation—so long as the other Indian
    parent remains a domiciliary of the reservation. (The appellee
    appears to have made the same assumption.) The district court
    highlighted the United States Supreme Court’s concerns about
    reservation-domiciled Indian parents “undermin[ing]” ICWA’s
    jurisdictional regime and echoed the Holyfield dissent’s assertion
    that even when an Indian child “is abandoned by one parent to a
    person off the reservation, the tribe and the other parent domiciled
    on the reservation . . . still have an interest in the exercise of
    exclusive 
    jurisdiction.” 490 U.S. at 63
    (Stevens, J., dissenting).
    Likewise, E.T. claims that “C.C. cannot merely place the child for
    adoption in Utah with non-Indians . . . in an effort to circumvent
    the protections afforded the child’s father and the Cheyenne River
    Sioux Tribe under ICWA.”
    ¶40 This policy, however, finds no support in ICWA and is
    actively undermined by Holyfield. The concern that animates it,
    moreover, is completely obviated once we apply a correct standard
    of abandonment (informed not just by comment e taken out of
    context, but by other surrounding provisions).
    ¶41 This case is distinguishable from cases like Holyfield and In
    re Adoption of Halloway, 
    731 P.2d 962
    (Utah 1986), in a significant
    respect. Here, the birth mother was not domiciled on an Indian
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    20 The record facts speak volumes on C.C.’s “intention” with
    respect to her actions in these proceedings—she made
    arrangements with Heart to Heart, participated in the necessary
    court proceedings, and left Utah only once the district court had
    entered an order purporting to terminate her parental rights.
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    reservation. Rather, she moved to Utah and became a Utah
    domiciliary before she gave birth to her child. See supra ¶¶ 14–19.
    This is important, as neither Holyfield nor Halloway can be read to
    foreclose an Indian parent’s right to legitimately change her
    domicile and invoke the jurisdiction of her state’s courts.
    a. ICWA, Holyfield, and Halloway
    ¶42 Section 1911(a) is not a straitjacket requiring exclusive
    tribal court jurisdiction for any child born to Indian parents so long
    as one of them remains domiciled on the reservation. ICWA calls
    for exclusive tribal jurisdiction only where “an Indian child . . .
    resides or is domiciled within the reservation.” 25 U.S.C. § 1911(a)
    (emphasis added). But again, the domicile of a child born out of
    wedlock follows the domicile of the mother. See RESTATEMENT § 22
    cmt. c. So when the mother of an Indian child born out of wedlock
    leaves the reservation and establishes a new domicile in one of the
    states before the child’s birth, there is no basis for the exclusive
    jurisdiction of a tribal court. An unwed mother who makes a
    legitimate change of domicile is not undermining the exclusive
    tribal court jurisdiction set forth in section 1911(a). See 25 U.S.C.
    § 1911(b) (granting tribal courts only concurrent jurisdiction where
    the Indian child is “not domiciled or residing within the
    reservation”).
    ¶43 This is exactly in line with the holding of Holyfield. Holyfield
    says that section 1911(a) is offended where a mother domiciled on
    a reservation is allowed to “obtain[] an adoption decree in state
    court merely by transporting her [child] across state 
    lines.” 490 U.S. at 46
    . That is what happened in Holyfield. The birth parents were
    domiciled on an Indian reservation and briefly left the reservation
    just to give birth to twin children and place them for adoption in
    Mississippi.
    Id. at 37–38
    . 
    Under well-established domicile
    standards followed in courts across the nation, the exclusive
    jurisdiction of the tribal court should have remained intact despite
    that temporary trip across state lines. The children should have
    been considered domiciliaries of the reservation because their
    domicile followed their mother and her brief trip across state lines
    did not change her domicile. Yet the Mississippi Supreme Court
    rejected that rule. Instead it held that the twins were not domiciled
    on the reservation because they had never “resided on or [been]
    domiciled within the territory set aside for the reservation.”
    Id. at 39
    (citation omitted). This was the holding reversed in Holyfield.
    And it was in rejecting that conclusion that the Holyfield court
    warned of the peril of allowing a party to circumvent the exclusive
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    jurisdiction of the tribal court “merely by transporting” a child
    “across state lines.”
    Id. at 46.
        ¶44 But the Holyfield court never suggested that ICWA’s
    exclusive-jurisdiction provision would be undermined if an Indian
    parent made a legitimate change of domicile. Quite the contrary. It
    specifically held that “the law of domicile Congress used in . . .
    ICWA cannot be one that permits individual reservation-domiciled
    tribal members to defeat the tribe’s exclusive jurisdiction by the
    simple expedient of giving birth and placing the child for adoption
    off the reservation.”
    Id. at 53
    (emphasis added). We made this same
    point in Halloway. “To the extent that Utah abandonment law
    operates to permit [an Indian] mother to change [her child’s]
    domicile as part of a scheme to facilitate his adoption by
    non-Indians while she remains a domiciliary of the reservation,” we
    held that “it conflicts with and undermines the operative scheme
    established by [ICWA] to deal with children of domiciliaries of the
    reservation and weakens considerably the tribe’s ability to assert its
    interest in its 
    children.” 732 P.2d at 969
    (emphases added).
    ¶45 As we explain, the recognition that an Indian parent can
    properly “defeat” the tribal court’s exclusive jurisdiction through a
    legitimate change of domicile was a point of common ground in
    Holyfield. The only disagreement went to the implication of that
    premise in a case in which the child remained domiciled on the
    reservation because the unwed mother did not enter the state with
    the intent to permanently remain.
    b. The Holyfield dissent
    ¶46 Justice Stevens asserted in dissent that the placement of the
    child for adoption was an “abandonment” sufficient to shift the
    child’s domicile to that of the adoptive 
    parents. 490 U.S. at 62
    n.11
    (Stevens, J., dissenting). He saw no difference under ICWA
    between an Indian parent’s permanent change of domicile and an
    Indian parent’s temporary trip across state lines to place a child for
    adoption.
    Id. at 60–63.
    Because the state courts would have been
    “required to give effect” to the Indian parents’ “choice of
    jurisdiction” resulting from an actual change of domicile, Justice
    Stevens thought that the courts should likewise defer “when the
    parents . . . have expressed an unequivocal intent to establish a
    domicile for their children off the reservation.”
    Id. at 62
    . 
    Justice
    Stevens proposed a basis for this conclusion in the law of
    abandonment, citing the Restatement for the proposition that “[a]n
    abandonment occurs when a parent deserts a child and places the
    child with another with an intent to relinquish all parental rights
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    and obligations.”
    Id. And he concluded
    that the parents in Holyfield
    had abandoned their children by placing them for adoption in
    Mississippi.
    Id. at 62
    n.11.
    ¶47 Justice Stevens cited some of the Restatement principles
    discussed above in reaching this conclusion—noting, in particular,
    that when a “child is abandoned by both parents, he takes on the
    domicile of a person other than the parents who stands in loco
    parentis to him.”
    Id. at 62
    . 
    Because the parents in Holyfield
    relinquished their children for adoption under state law, Justice
    Stevens said they had abandoned them and shifted their domicile
    to that of the prospective adoptive parents. And Justice Stevens
    thought that “no purpose of the ICWA [wa]s served by closing the
    state courthouse door” to parents who had done so.
    Id. at 63.
    Thus,
    in Justice Stevens’s view, ICWA “reflects a recognition that
    allowing [an Indian] tribe to defeat the parents’ deliberate choice of
    jurisdiction would be conducive neither to the best interests of the
    child nor to the stability and security of Indian tribes and families.”
    Id. at 60.
        ¶48 On this point the Holyfield majority disagreed. It thought
    that the Congress that enacted ICWA “was concerned not solely
    about the interests of Indian children and families, but also about
    the impact on the tribes themselves of the large numbers of Indian
    children adopted by non-Indians.”
    Id. at 49
    (majority opinion). And
    as noted above, the Court held that “the law of domicile Congress
    used in the ICWA cannot be one that permits individual
    reservation-domiciled tribal members to defeat the tribe’s exclusive
    jurisdiction by the simple expedient of giving birth and placing the
    child for adoption off the reservation.”
    Id. at 53
    . Applying these
    premises, the Holyfield majority rejected the Holyfield dissent’s
    abandonment determination. It held that the exclusive jurisdiction
    of the tribal court (established by the fact that the parents, and thus
    their children, were domiciled on the reservation) could not be
    defeated by that fact that “the twins were ‘voluntarily surrendered’
    by their mother” for adoption under state law.
    Id. at 49
    .
    ¶49 The interplay between the Holyfield majority and dissent
    confirms three main propositions of relevance to this case: (1) the
    dissent saw ICWA as respecting Indian parents’ “deliberate choice
    of jurisdiction,”
    id. at 60
    (Stevens, J., dissenting), while the majority
    said that principle is limited by concerns about “impact[s] on the
    tribes themselves,”
    id. at 34
    (majority opinion); (2) both sides
    agreed that reservation-domiciled parents may defeat the exclusive
    jurisdiction of the tribal court by effecting a legitimate change in
    domicile; and (3) the majority held that there was no abandonment
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    sufficient to shift the children’s domicile off the reservation while
    the dissent thought otherwise. Each of these points is significant.
    And together they sustain the conclusion we reach today.
    ¶50 The dissent in Holyfield clearly had a point about a
    reservation-domiciled parent’s “deliberate choice of jurisdiction”
    under ICWA. Under the terms of section 1911(a), there is no doubt
    that Indian parents are entitled to evade the exclusive jurisdiction
    of the tribal courts by making a legitimate change in domicile. See
    25 U.S.C. § 1911(a) (“An Indian tribe shall have jurisdiction
    exclusive as to any State over any child custody proceeding
    involving an Indian child who resides or is domiciled within the
    reservation of such tribe . . . .” (emphasis added)). This was common
    ground in Holyfield. 
    See 490 U.S. at 48
    –49 (“It is undisputed in this
    case that the domicile of the mother (as well as the father) has been,
    at all relevant times, on the Choctaw Reservation. Thus, it is clear
    that at their birth the twin babies were also domiciled on the
    reservation, even though they themselves had never been there.”
    (citation omitted));
    id. at 62
    (Stevens, J., dissenting) (“If [the Indian
    parents] had established a domicile off the reservation, the state
    courts would have been required to give effect to their choice of
    jurisdiction.”). The disagreement went to whether a
    relinquishment for an adoption under state law is a parallel move
    by an Indian parent—the kind of move that merits respect as a
    “deliberate choice of jurisdiction.” The majority said no. And that
    holding confirms the propriety of our abandonment analysis.
    c. Application to this case
    ¶51 If the abandonment standard endorsed by the district
    court and advocated by E.T. and (to a certain extent) the dissent
    were correct, then the parents in Holyfield would have abandoned
    their children and shifted their children’s domicile off the
    reservation. The Indian parents in Holyfield left the reservation,
    gave up custody of their children, signed a consent-to-adoption
    form, and returned to the reservation.
    Id. at 37–38
    (majority
    opinion). This was an abandonment under the standard E.T.
    advocates today. But such actions were deemed insufficient to
    constitute abandonment in Holyfield. See
    id. at 51
    n.26 (dismissing
    the Mississippi Supreme Court’s “conclusory” abandonment
    analysis and noting that the Indian parents’ consent to termination
    of their parental rights was invalid under ICWA and as such could
    not make the twins non-domiciliaries of the reservation). Only the
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    Holyfield dissent advanced the view of abandonment E.T. asks us to
    affirm today.21
    ¶52 Justice Stevens was right that when both parents abandon
    a child, his domicile shifts to that of the “person other than the
    parents who stands in loco parentis to him.”
    Id. at 62
    (Stevens, J.,
    dissenting) (quoting RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. i). And of course
    prospective adoptive parents usually do step into that role. But
    Justice Stevens believed that a formal adoption amounts to
    abandonment. And that is incorrect. Neither parental rights and
    obligations nor domicile shifts upon the signing of a consent form
    or relinquishment of custody. So there is no abandonment at the
    operative moment of the initiation of the adoption in those
    circumstances. This is a key takeaway from Holyfield. And it defeats
    any concern about abandonment being used to circumvent the
    exclusive jurisdiction of the tribal courts in this manner.
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    21   This reveals another defect in the dissent’s analysis—its
    proposed standard can be reconciled with ICWA precedent only by
    tacking on a “caveat[]” to the Restatement. The dissent claims that
    despite its text, the Restatement’s abandonment standard can cut
    in only one direction—in favor of exclusive tribal court jurisdiction.
    See infra ¶ 98 (asserting that its “doctrine of abandonment cannot
    be used by Native American Indian parents as part of a scheme to
    facilitate adoption of their children by non-Indians while they
    remain domiciliaries of the reservation” (citation and internal
    quotation mark omitted)). In other words, giving up custody of a
    child and placing him for adoption is not a domicile-shifting
    abandonment unless it results in exclusive tribal jurisdiction. This
    is the only way to reconcile its standard with the result of Holyfield,
    as the dissent partially admits. See infra ¶ 98 (“This exception . . .
    fits the United States Supreme Court’s decision in Holyfield, which
    . . . concluded . . . that the law of domicile Congress used in the
    ICWA cannot be one that permits individual reservation-domiciled
    tribal members to defeat the tribe’s exclusive jurisdiction by the
    simple expedient of giving birth and placing the child for adoption
    off the reservation.” (citation and internal quotation mark
    omitted)); infra ¶ 136 (citing this caveat as a reason its proposed
    standard would in fact have dictated the same result in Holyfield).
    And the fact that the dissent’s interpretation of the Restatement
    requires a special caveat to comport with this court’s and the High
    Court’s precedent confirms that it is neither the most natural
    reading of the text nor the most advisable.
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    ¶53 We decline to hold that ICWA mandates exclusive tribal
    court jurisdiction in any case in which either parent of an Indian
    child remains a domiciliary of the reservation, no matter what the
    reservation-domiciled parent’s legal relationship to the child is at
    the time of the filing of the adoption petition. That view distorts the
    terms of 25 U.S.C. section 1911(a), which makes exclusive tribal
    jurisdiction turn on the domicile of the Indian child, not the Indian
    parent. And it runs counter to Holyfield and Halloway for the same
    reason. We reject it on that basis.
    III. CONCLUSION
    ¶54 The congress that enacted the Indian Child Welfare Act
    was understandably concerned about the effects of “abusive child
    welfare practices” in separating “large numbers of Indian children
    from their families and tribes through adoption or foster care
    placement.” Miss. Band of Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    ,
    32 (1989). This federal statute, however, is not a directive for state
    courts to restructure settled doctrines of family law in an ongoing
    effort to advance those objectives alone. ICWA is a statute that
    balances multiple, competing policies, under terms and conditions
    voted into law in the text of ICWA.22
    ¶55 In Holyfield, the Supreme Court held that those terms and
    conditions demand the application of a uniform federal standard
    of “domicile” in determining whether a tribal court has exclusive
    jurisdiction under 25 U.S.C. section 1911(a). And that requirement,
    in turn, might ultimately direct us to incorporate a uniform federal
    standard of abandonment lifted from section 22 of the Restatement.
    But the district court did not follow that premise through to its
    logical conclusion. It took a single comment of that section out of
    context and established a novel standard of abandonment that runs
    counter to the Restatement as a whole and thwarts the express
    terms of the operative statute.
    ¶56 Section 1911(a) clearly allows an unwed birth mother
    initially domiciled on an Indian reservation to legitimately
    establish a new domicile in Utah and invoke the jurisdiction of the
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    22 See In re Adoption of B.B., 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 180, 
    417 P.3d 1
    (Lee,
    A.C.J., joined by Durrant, C.J., dissenting) (noting that ICWA is
    aimed not only at “protecting the integrity of Indian families” but
    also “at preserving the sovereignty of the state courts over adoption
    and paternity” and “protecting the children whose interests are so
    keenly implicated in adoption proceedings”).
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    mother of that option, the district court was not advancing the
    purposes of ICWA or following a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment. It was advancing a new policy preference and
    causing unnecessary delay to the outcome of a proceeding in which
    time is of the essence. We reverse the district court on that basis,
    remanding the matter so that this adoption might be brought to a
    speedy conclusion.
    JUSTICE HIMONAS, dissenting:
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    ¶57 The majority stumbles in holding that the Cheyenne River
    Sioux Tribe doesn’t have exclusive jurisdiction over this case.
    Unlike the majority, I would hold that, for purposes of determining
    domicile under a conflict-of-laws analysis, B.B.’s birth mother
    abandoned him before the filing of the adoption petition.23 And as
    a result of that abandonment, I would hold that B.B. took his birth
    father’s domicile (the Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation) by the
    time of the filing. In these circumstances—when an Indian child is
    domiciled on a tribe’s reservation—the plain language of the Indian
    Child Welfare Act (ICWA or the Act), 25 U.S.C. §§ 1901–63, vests
    exclusive jurisdiction over all child custody proceedings with the
    apposite tribal court. And because ICWA requires that we dismiss
    this case and cede jurisdiction to the Cheyenne River Sioux tribal
    court, I respectfully dissent.
    STANDARD OF REVIEW
    ¶58 We review questions of law for correctness, granting no
    deference to the lower court’s decision. See Smith v. Robinson, 2018
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    23 The Second Restatement of Conflict of Laws uses the rather
    unfortunate verb abandon when writing about a child’s domicile,
    and so I feel constrained to do the same. See, e.g., RESTATEMENT
    (SECOND) OF CONFLICT OF LAWS § 22 cmt. e (AM. LAW INST. 1971)
    (“[A] child domiciled with his mother and abandoned by her takes
    the domicil of his father if he has not been abandoned by him.”). I
    say unfortunate because in the vernacular, in the context of the
    parent-child relationship, the word “abandoned” is pejorative,
    conjuring up images of parents furtively leaving their infants on
    the doorsteps of strangers. But in the parlance of the Second
    Restatement, even the most selfless behavior can constitute
    abandonment, such as when a mother places a child for adoption
    with the dream of improving that child’s lot. See infra ¶¶ 100–10.
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    UT 30, ¶ 8, 
    422 P.3d 863
    . And we review a district court’s findings
    of fact for clear error, setting aside those findings only if they’re
    against the clear weight of the evidence. See Fort Pierce Indus. Park
    Phases II, III & IV Owners Assoc. v. Shakespeare, 
    2016 UT 28
    , ¶ 16, 
    379 P.3d 1218
    .
    ANALYSIS
    ¶59 We need to decide which court has jurisdiction over this
    case under ICWA. To answer that question, we have to decide
    where B.B. was domiciled when the adoption petition was filed.
    And to do that, we must analyze how abandonment affects an
    Indian child’s domicile under ICWA.
    ¶60 I start with a review of ICWA and United States Supreme
    Court precedent interpreting ICWA. I conclude that ICWA and
    precedent mandate that courts apply a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment when determining whether abandonment has
    caused a change in an Indian child’s domicile. I also conclude that
    the proper uniform federal standard of abandonment to establish
    domicile under ICWA is set forth in section 22 of the Second
    Restatement of Conflict of Laws. See RESTATEMENT (SECOND) OF
    CONFLICT OF LAWS § 22 (AM. LAW INST. 1971) (hereinafter SECOND
    RESTATEMENT). By assessing the facts of this case under that
    standard, I show that the district court correctly determined that
    C.C. (Birth Mother) abandoned B.B. before the time of filing and
    that B.B. was therefore domiciled on the Cheyenne River Sioux
    Reservation when the adoption petition was filed. I thus conclude
    that under ICWA, the Cheyenne River Sioux tribal court has
    exclusive jurisdiction over this case and that we’re obligated to
    dismiss it for want of subject matter jurisdiction.
    I. OVERVIEW OF ICWA
    ¶61 ICWA is a unique statute that represents an extraordinary
    act of federal intervention into an area of law generally reserved to
    the states. It helps to review both ICWA itself and United States
    Supreme Court precedent interpreting ICWA before delving into
    the legal analysis in this case.
    A. ICWA’s Background, Congressional Findings,
    and Operative Provisions
    ¶62 To paint a clear picture of ICWA, I begin with the Act’s
    background, and then I move on to its congressional findings,
    which are explicitly set forth in the Act itself. I end with its relevant
    operative provisions.
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    ¶63 Congress passed ICWA in 1978 in response to “rising
    concern in the mid–1970’s over the consequences to Indian
    children, Indian families, and Indian tribes of abusive child welfare
    practices that resulted in the separation of large numbers of Indian
    children from their families and tribes through adoption or foster
    care placement, usually in non-Indian homes.” Miss. Band of
    Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    , 32 (1989) (emphasis added).
    Studies conducted in 1969 and 1974 estimated that 25 to 35 percent
    of all Indian children had been separated from their families and
    tribes and placed with adoptive families, foster care, or institutions.
    Id. Furthermore, about 90
    percent of such adoptive placements
    were in non-Indian homes.
    Id. at 33.
        ¶64 Before enacting ICWA, Congress heard testimony from
    several witnesses that spoke to the effect that these adoptions had
    on Indian children, as well as on the parents and the tribes
    themselves.
    Id. Although most of
    the testimony focused on the
    harm to parents and children, there was also “considerable
    emphasis” on the harm to the tribes themselves caused by the
    “massive removal” of Indian children.
    Id. at 34.
    The Tribal Chief of
    the Mississippi Band of Choctaw Indians testified, for example, that
    Indian children are “the only real means for the transmission of
    tribal heritage” and that the removal of Indian children to non-
    Indian homes “seriously undercut[s] the tribes’ ability to continue
    as self-governing communities.”
    Id. He also testified
    that “[m]any
    of the individuals who decide the fate of our children are at best
    ignorant of our cultural values, and at worst contemptful of the
    Indian way and convinced that removal, usually to a non-Indian
    household or institution, can only benefit an Indian child.”
    Id. at 35.
        ¶65 These concerns are reflected in the congressional findings
    of ICWA, which state that Congress found “there is no resource
    that is more vital to the continued existence and integrity of Indian
    tribes than their children.” 25 U.S.C. § 1901(3). ICWA also
    recognizes that Congress found “that the States, exercising their
    recognized jurisdiction over Indian child custody proceedings
    through administrative and judicial bodies, have often failed to
    recognize the essential tribal relations of Indian people.”
    Id. § 1901(5). ¶66
    Based on these findings, Congress expressed its goal to
    protect Indian tribes, families, and children from the corrosive
    effect of the removal of Indian children from their families:
    [I]t is the policy of this Nation to protect the best
    interests of Indian children and to promote the
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    stability and security of Indian tribes and families by
    the establishment of minimum Federal standards for
    the removal of Indian children from their families
    and the placement of such children in foster or
    adoptive homes which will reflect the unique values
    of Indian culture.
    Id. § 1902. ¶67
    The operative provisions of ICWA, in turn, reflect the
    congressional findings and declaration of policy. Relevant here,
    section 1911(a) provides that “[a]n Indian tribe shall have
    jurisdiction exclusive as to any State over any child custody
    proceeding involving an Indian child who resides or is domiciled
    within the reservation of such tribe, except where such jurisdiction
    is otherwise vested in the State by existing Federal law.”
    Id. § 1911(a). ¶68
    ICWA, then, goes to extraordinary lengths to delineate its
    own legislative intent: “to protect the rights of the Indian child as
    an Indian and the rights of the Indian community and tribe in retaining
    its children in its society.” 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 37
    (emphasis added)
    (citation omitted).
    B. ICWA Domicile Under U.S. Supreme Court Precedent
    ¶69 Having discussed ICWA’s background, congressional
    findings, and operative provisions, I now concentrate on how one
    of the Act’s key terms—domicile—has been interpreted by the
    United States Supreme Court.
    ¶70 The Supreme Court addressed and explored the issue of
    domicile in an ICWA case in quite some depth. In Holyfield, the
    Court had to determine whether twin Indian children were
    domiciled on the Choctaw 
    Reservation. 490 U.S. at 42
    . The twins
    were born out of wedlock to two enrolled members of the
    Mississippi Band of Choctaw Indians, both of whom were
    domiciled on the Choctaw Reservation.
    Id. at 37.
    The mother gave
    birth to the twins off the reservation—in Mississippi—and both
    parents executed consents to adoption in Mississippi state court.
    Id. at 37–38
    . 
    The trial court issued a final decree of adoption a short
    while later.
    Id. at 38.
    The Mississippi Band of Choctaw Indians
    moved to vacate the adoption decree because, in its view, the tribal
    court retained exclusive jurisdiction over the proceedings under
    section 1911(a).
    Id. The trial court
    denied the motion, and the
    Supreme Court of Mississippi affirmed.
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    ¶71 In its opinion reversing the Supreme Court of Mississippi’s
    decision, the U.S. Supreme Court began by noting that ICWA itself
    does not define “domicile” and that the “meaning of ‘domicile’ in
    the ICWA is . . . a matter of Congress’ intent.”
    Id. at 43
    . 
    The initial
    question the Court had to confront, then, was “whether there is any
    reason to believe that Congress intended the ICWA definition of
    ‘domicile’ to be a matter of state law.’”
    Id. The Court held
    that there
    was no reason to look to state law, and that it was “beyond dispute
    that Congress intended a uniform federal law of domicile for the
    ICWA.”
    Id. at 47.
    The Court based this conclusion on three
    premises, two of which are unique to ICWA.
    ¶72 The Court began with the general premise that “in the
    absence of a plain indication to the contrary, . . . Congress when it
    enacts a statute is not making the application of the federal act
    dependent on state law.”
    Id. at 43
    (alteration in original) (citation
    omitted). As the Court explained, the primary reason for this rule
    is that “federal statutes are generally intended to have uniform
    nationwide application.”
    Id. And conditioning the
    application of a
    federal act on state law runs the risk that “the federal program
    would be impaired.”
    Id. at 44
    (citation omitted). The Court then
    looked to the purpose of ICWA to determine what Congress
    intended. In doing so, the Court found “two principal reasons” for
    the conclusion that Congress intended a uniform federal definition
    of domicile for ICWA.
    Id. ¶73 “First, and
    most fundamentally,” the Court found that
    “the purpose of the ICWA gives no reason to believe that Congress
    intended to rely on state law for the definition of a critical term;
    quite the contrary.”
    Id. at 44
    . Looking to the text of ICWA, as well
    as ICWA’s legislative history, the Court determined that “Congress
    was concerned with the rights of Indian families and Indian
    communities vis-à-vis state authorities” and that “its purpose was,
    in part, to make clear that in certain situations the state courts did
    not have jurisdiction over child custody proceedings.”
    Id. at 45.
    For
    that reason, the Court found it “most improbable that Congress
    would have intended to leave the scope of the statute’s key
    jurisdictional provision subject to definition by state courts as a
    matter of state law.”24 Id.
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    24 The Court’s reference to ICWA’s “key jurisdictional
    provision” is a reference to section 1911. See 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 36
    (“At the heart of the ICWA are its provisions concerning
    jurisdiction over Indian child custody proceedings. Section 1911
    lays out a dual jurisdictional scheme.”).
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    ¶74 Second, the Court noted the lack of nationwide uniformity
    that would result if domicile under ICWA hinged on state-law
    definitions of domicile.
    Id. The Court then
    explained that different
    states had ruled in opposite directions on factually similar cases
    that required an underlying finding of domicile—some finding the
    children to be domiciled on the reservation and others finding the
    children to be domiciled in the state.
    Id. at 45–46.
    The Court found
    that “a statute under which different rules apply from time to time
    to the same child, simply as a result of his or her transport from one
    State to another, cannot be what Congress had in mind.”
    Id. at 46.
       ¶75 Having held that Congress intended for a uniform federal
    definition of domicile to control in ICWA cases, the Court then
    determined what that definition should be. To do so, the Court
    “look[ed] both to the generally accepted meaning of the term
    ‘domicile’ and to the purpose of the statute.”
    Id. at 47.
        ¶76 Citing the Second Restatement of Conflict of Laws, the
    Court began by noting that domicile is “a concept widely used in
    both federal and state courts for jurisdiction and conflict-of-laws
    purposes, and its meaning is generally uncontroverted.”
    Id. at 48
    (citing SECOND RESTATEMENT §§ 11–23). A child born out of
    wedlock traditionally takes the domicile of its mother.
    Id. (citing SECOND RESTATEMENT
    § 22 cmt. c). Because it was undisputed in
    Holyfield that the mother was domiciled on the reservation, the
    twins were also domiciled on the reservation at birth.
    Id. at 48
    –49.
    ¶77 The Court then explained that the domicile of the twins
    could not be different “simply because the twins were ‘voluntarily
    surrendered’ by their mother.”
    Id. at 49
    . This is because exclusive
    tribal jurisdiction under section 1911(a) “was not meant to be
    defeated by the actions of individual members of the tribe, for
    Congress was concerned not solely about the interests of Indian
    children and families, but also about the impact on the tribes
    themselves of the large numbers of Indian children adopted by
    non-Indians.”
    Id. The Court thus
    thought it clear that “a rule of
    domicile that would permit individual Indian parents to defeat the
    ICWA’s jurisdictional scheme is inconsistent with what Congress
    intended.”
    Id. at 51. II.
    ABANDONMENT UNDER ICWA
    ¶78 This case turns on where B.B. was domiciled when the
    adoption petition was filed. In re Adoption of Halloway, 
    732 P.2d 962
    ,
    966 (Utah 1986) (“[T]he propriety of the trial court’s assumption of
    jurisdiction turns on [the Indian child’s] domicile at the time these
    proceedings were initiated.”). Where B.B. was domiciled depends
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    on whether, for purposes of establishing B.B.’s domicile, Birth
    Mother abandoned B.B. before the filing of the adoption petition.
    We invited the parties to provide supplemental briefing on this
    issue. More specifically, we asked the parties to brief whether
    Congress intended for a uniform federal standard of abandonment
    to control in ICWA cases for purposes of establishing an Indian
    child’s domicile and, if so, what that standard is. I conclude that
    Congress unmistakably intended for a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment to control in these cases. And I further conclude that
    the uniform federal standard of abandonment Congress intended
    is the one in the Second Restatement of Conflict of Laws.
    A. Abandonment Can Affect a Minor Child’s Domicile
    ¶79 Upon birth, a child acquires a “domicile of origin,” and
    that domicile continues until the child acquires a new domicile. See
    Miss. Band of Choctaw Indians v. Holyfield, 
    490 U.S. 30
    , 48 (1989).
    Because most minors are legally incapable of forming the requisite
    intent to establish their own domicile, their domicile depends on
    the domicile of their parents.
    Id. When a child
    is born out of
    wedlock, the child’s domicile of origin is that of the mother. Id.; see
    also 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    . This domicile continues until some
    action brings about a change of the child’s domicile. 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    .
    ¶80 It is a generally accepted principle that, for conflict-of-laws
    purposes, abandonment of a minor child can change that child’s
    domicile. This principle can be found in both the First and Second
    Restatements of Conflict of Laws. See RESTATEMENT (FIRST) OF
    CONFLICT OF LAWS § 33(1) (AM. LAW INST. 1934) (“[A] child
    abandoned by one parent has the domicil of the other parent, and
    . . . a child abandoned by both parents has the domicil of the parent
    who last abandoned it at the time of the abandonment; if both
    parents abandon it at the same time, it has the domicil of the father
    at the time of abandonment.”); SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e
    (“If a child is abandoned by his father, he takes the domicil of his
    mother if he has not been abandoned by her. So too, a child
    domiciled with his mother and abandoned by her takes the domicil
    of his father if he has not been abandoned by him. Except as stated
    in Comments f–i, a child abandoned by both parents retains the
    domicil possessed by the parent who last abandoned him at the
    time of the abandonment; a child abandoned by both parents
    simultaneously retains the domicil of the father at the time of the
    abandonment.”).
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    ¶81 This principle can also be found in federal case law. See,
    e.g., Simonds v. Simonds, 
    154 F.2d 326
    , 327–28 (D.C. Cir. 1946)
    (“Customarily a legitimate child takes the domicile of the father if
    he be living. One of the recognized exceptions to the basic rule has
    grown from the abandonment situation. Where the father is found
    to have abandoned the child it will take the domicile of the mother
    during the remainder of its minority, provided, of course, that the
    mother has not also abandoned the offspring.” (citations omitted)).
    ¶82 It turns up in state case law from around the country, too.
    See, e.g., Allman v. Register, 
    64 S.E.2d 861
    , 862 (N.C. 1951)
    (“Ordinarily the domicile of an unemancipated child, during its
    minority, follows that of the father. However, . . . where a father
    abandons the mother and child, the child’s domicile follows that of
    the mother.” (citations omitted)); 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    (“The
    law of domicile applicable here is well-established. At birth, an
    illegitimate child acquires the domicile of his or her mother. If the
    parents abandon the child, the child acquires the domicile of the
    party who stands in loco parentis to him or her and with whom he
    or she lives at the time of abandonment. However, unless a child is
    abandoned, or his or her domicile is otherwise lawfully changed,
    the child retains the mother’s domicile, even if he or she lives apart
    from her.” (citations omitted)).
    ¶83 Most relevant to this case is the rule that “a child domiciled
    with his mother and abandoned by her takes the domicil of his
    father if he has not been abandoned by him.” SECOND RESTATEMENT
    § 22 cmt. e; see also 25 AM. JUR. 2D Abandoned Child § 40 (2019) (“A
    child abandoned by the mother acquires the domicil of the father
    while a child abandoned by the father acquires the domicil of the
    mother.”).
    ¶84 Here, the district court found that Birth Mother abandoned
    B.B. before the filing of the adoption petition and therefore that B.B.
    had taken E.T.’s (Birth Father’s) domicile by the time of filing. Thus,
    the question we must answer is whether Birth Mother abandoned
    B.B. before the filing. To answer that question, I first determine
    what standard of abandonment applies to ICWA cases to establish
    an Indian child’s domicile.25
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    25  A footnote in Holyfield seems, at first blush, to suggest that it
    isn’t a generally accepted principle that abandonment can carry out
    a change in a child’s domicile. 
    See 490 U.S. at 51
    n.26 (“There is some
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    B. ICWA and U.S. Supreme Court Precedent Mandate a Uniform
    Federal Standard of Abandonment to Establish Domicile Under ICWA
    ¶85 ICWA and United States Supreme Court precedent require
    the courts to determine abandonment—for the purposes of
    establishing ICWA domicile—under a uniform federal standard.
    The majority doesn’t decide this issue, claiming that “the principles
    of abandonment in the Restatement are entirely consistent with
    Utah law.” Supra ¶ 21. Unlike the majority, I would decide this
    issue—given how essential it is to a proper domicile analysis—and
    conclude that a uniform federal standard applies because of ICWA
    itself and the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in Holyfield.
    ¶86 ICWA does not mention the words “abandon” or
    “abandonment,” let alone define them. But ICWA does use the
    word “domicile,” and the exclusive-jurisdiction provision in
    section 1911(a) depends on the Indian child’s domicile. And while
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    authority for the proposition that abandonment can effectuate a
    change in the child’s domicile, In re Adoption of 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 967
    , although this may not be the majority rule. See SECOND
    RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (abandoned child generally retains the
    domicile of the last-abandoning parent).”). But the correct reading
    of this footnote is that abandonment does not always necessarily
    effect a change in a child’s domicile. Holyfield’s citation to
    comment e of the Second Restatement proves this point.
    Comment e does provide that an abandoned child generally retains
    the domicile of the last-abandoning parent, as the footnote in
    Holyfield suggests, but only if the child is abandoned by both
    parents. SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (“[A] child abandoned
    by both parents retains the domicil possessed by the parent who
    last abandoned him at the time of the abandonment.”). So, when
    the child has been abandoned by both parents, an “abandoned
    child generally retains the domicile of the last-abandoning parent,”
    as Holyfield 
    suggests. 490 U.S. at 51
    n.26. In that context,
    abandonment would not necessarily effect a change in a child’s
    domicile—assuming the child’s domicile was already that of the
    last-abandoning parent. But as comment e also provides,
    abandonment can and does bring about a change in a child’s
    domicile under other circumstances. See SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22
    cmt. e (“If a child is abandoned by his father, he takes the domicil
    of his mother if he has not been abandoned by her. So too, a child
    domiciled with his mother and abandoned by her takes the domicil
    of his father if he has not been abandoned by him.”).
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    ICWA itself does not define “domicile,” the U.S. Supreme Court
    did so in Holyfield.
    ¶87 As discussed above, see supra ¶¶ 72–74, the Holyfield court
    found that it is “most improbable that Congress would have
    intended to leave the scope of [section 1911] subject to definition by
    state courts as a matter of state law” and that “a statute under
    which different rules [of domicile (and thus of jurisdiction)] apply
    from time to time to the same child, simply as a result of his or her
    transport from one State to another, cannot be what Congress had
    in 
    mind.” 490 U.S. at 45
    –46. Holyfield therefore held that “Congress
    intended a uniform federal law of domicile for the ICWA.”
    Id. at 47.
    So, while we may lack explicit guidance on the narrow issue of how
    abandonment affects domicile under ICWA, we emphatically don’t
    lack for guidance on how the law of domicile is supposed to
    function under ICWA.
    ¶88 If there’s to be a true uniform federal law of domicile for
    ICWA, then subsidiary determinations that effectively determine
    the domicile question, such as abandonment, must also rest on
    uniform federal law.26 If different standards of abandonment were
    to apply to the domicile inquiry depending on the state in which
    the proceeding takes place, then the work of Holyfield requiring a
    uniform federal law of domicile for ICWA would be all but undone.
    Applying state abandonment law to determine domicile would
    lead to an ICWA “under which different rules [of domicile (and
    thus of jurisdiction)] apply from time to time to the same child,
    simply as a result of his or her transport from one State to another,”
    a result that Holyfield declared “cannot be what Congress had in
    mind.”
    Id. at 46.
    So, I think it beyond dispute that, given Congress’s
    intent to have a uniform federal law of domicile to control in ICWA
    cases, Congress also intended for a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment to establish domicile under ICWA.
    C. The Uniform Federal Standard of Abandonment
    Is in the Second Restatement of Conflict of Laws
    ¶89 Having established that a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment must control in ICWA cases to determine domicile, I
    now turn to what that standard is. After considering the parties’
    arguments and surveying domicile law, I conclude that the best
    recitation of a uniform federal standard of abandonment to
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    26“Whether a child has been abandoned so as to bring the case
    within the scope of this Comment is a question involving the rules of
    domicil.” SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (emphasis added).
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    determine domicile in ICWA cases is in the Second Restatement of
    Conflict of Laws: “An abandonment [for purposes of establishing
    the domicile of a minor] occurs in two situations. It occurs when
    the parent deserts the child; it likewise occurs when the parent
    gives the custody of the child to another with the intention of
    relinquishing his parental rights and obligations.” SECOND
    RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e; accord 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    (“As a
    general matter, abandonment occurs when a parent deserts a child
    or places a child with another with an intent to relinquish all
    parental rights and obligations.”). Thus, I would hold that, to
    determine domicile in ICWA cases, an abandonment occurs when:
    (1) a parent deserts their child; or (2) a parent gives the custody of
    their child to another with the intention of relinquishing their
    parental rights and obligations, which is precisely what occurs in
    an adoption. I reach this conclusion for many reasons.
    ¶90 Restatements generally provide a helpful overview of the
    law as it exists across the country. “Restatements of law published
    by the American Law Institute purport to offer a synthesis of
    American common law, which articulates the reasoned,
    mainstream, modern consensus on principles of broad application
    intended to govern large numbers of cases.” Tincher v. Omega Flex,
    Inc., 
    104 A.3d 328
    , 353 (Pa. 2014). This means that restatements can
    be especially useful in a case such as this in which we must explain
    a uniform federal standard without express direction from
    Congress.27
    ¶91 Beyond just having theoretical value as a bellwether of
    what uniform federal standard of abandonment should apply here,
    the Second Restatement has been central to ICWA cases that turn
    on a determination of an Indian child’s domicile.
    ¶92 Perhaps most importantly, the United States Supreme
    Court relied heavily on the Second Restatement in deciding
    Holyfield. The Holyfield majority cited the Second Restatement’s
    chapter on domicile for the proposition that domicile is “a concept
    widely used in both federal and state court for jurisdiction and
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    27 In this spirit, this court has previously looked to restatements
    to help gain a better understanding of certain law as it exists across
    the country. For example, this court recently looked to restatements
    “as helpful bookends in our survey of the ‘generally recognized
    [law] in a majority of jurisdictions.’” C.R. England v. Swift Transp.
    Co., 
    2019 UT 8
    , ¶ 18, 
    437 P.3d 343
    (alteration in original) (citation
    omitted).
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    conflict-of-laws purposes, and its meaning is generally
    
    uncontroverted.” 490 U.S. at 48
    (citing SECOND RESTATEMENT §§ 11–
    23). The Holyfield majority also cited the Second Restatement for the
    proposition that children born out of wedlock traditionally take the
    domicile of their mother at birth.
    Id. (citing SECOND RESTATEMENT
    § 22 cmt. c). Both propositions were crucial to the Court’s
    conclusion that, under generally accepted law of domicile, the
    twins took the domicile of their biological mother at birth. See
    id. at 48–49
    (“It is undisputed in this case that the domicile of the mother
    (as well as the father) has been, at all relevant times, on the Choctaw
    Reservation. Thus, it is clear that at their birth the twin babies were
    also domiciled on the reservation, even though they themselves
    had never been there.” (citation omitted)).
    ¶93 Even the dissent in Holyfield contemplated the
    abandonment issue and drew from the Second Restatement in its
    analysis. The dissent pointed out that the twins in Holyfield may
    have been abandoned by both parents.
    Id. at 62
    . 
    And the dissent
    turned to the Second Restatement for a standard of abandonment:
    “[a]n abandonment occurs when a parent deserts a child and places
    the child with another with an intent to relinquish all parental
    rights and obligations.”
    Id. (citing SECOND RESTATEMENT
    § 22
    cmt. e). So, while the Holyfield majority didn’t address the issue of
    abandonment—and therefore we have no binding Supreme Court
    precedent on the issue—it’s persuasive that both the majority and
    the dissent chose to draw heavily from the Second Restatement,
    with the latter raising it in its discussion of abandonment. At the
    very least, this gives us some insight into what the Supreme Court
    might consider to be a uniform federal standard for abandonment
    when determining domicile in ICWA cases.
    ¶94 The U.S. Supreme Court isn’t the only court to have looked
    to the Restatement when faced with the issue of an abandonment
    potentially affecting domicile in an ICWA case. Quite the opposite.
    The Restatement’s standard for abandonment appears to be a
    mainstay of post-Holyfield opinions that have confronted this issue.
    In In re Adoption of S.S., the Illinois Supreme Court cited the
    Restatement when it recognized that there are exceptions to the
    general rules of domicile in cases involving abandonment and that
    “[f]or purposes of establishing domicile, abandonment occurs
    when the parent deserts the child or when the parent gives custody
    of the child to another with the intention of relinquishing his
    parental rights and obligations.” 
    657 N.E.2d 935
    , 942 (Ill. 1995).
    Similarly, the Colorado Court of Appeals has concluded that the
    common-law concept of abandonment in the Restatement and cited
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    in the Holyfield dissent could properly “determine whether the
    child [in that case] has been abandoned so as to change his domicile
    for the purpose of determining jurisdiction under the ICWA.” In re
    S.M.J.C., 
    262 P.3d 955
    , 962 (Colo. App. 2011), cert. granted, judgment
    vacated, No. 11SC371, 
    2011 WL 4018031
    (Colo. Sept. 12, 2011).28
    Likewise, the Western District of Oklahoma has relied on the
    Restatement in assessing how abandonment affects the domicile of
    an Indian Child. Comanche Indian Tribe of Okla. v. Hovis, 
    847 F. Supp. 871
    , 880–84 (W.D. Okla. 1994), rev’d on other grounds, Comanche
    Indian Tribe of Okla. v. Hovis, 
    53 F.3d 298
    (10th Cir. 1995). Although
    the Western District of Oklahoma didn’t discuss the standard for
    abandonment set out in comment e to section 22 of the Second
    Restatement—and relied on by the Holyfield dissent, In re Adoption
    of S.S., and In re S.M.J.C.—the court did cite extensively to section
    22 generally in making its abandonment determination.
    Id. at 880– 84.
    In sum, these cases demonstrate that courts at both the federal
    and state levels have turned to the Restatement to assess whether
    an abandonment has effectuated a change of domicile in ICWA
    cases.
    ¶95 Given the general purpose of the Restatement—to survey
    broad swaths of common law and distill widely applicable rules of
    law—and given the citations to the Second Restatement in ICWA
    cases from courts across the country, I believe that the standard of
    abandonment in the Second Restatement is the best approximation
    of the uniform federal standard Congress intended. As a result, an
    abandonment occurs for purposes of establishing domicile in
    ICWA cases when (1) a parent deserts their child or (2) a parent
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    28 The Colorado Supreme Court vacated the judgment in In re
    S.M.J.C. and remanded to the trial court for factual findings on the
    issue of abandonment in light of its ruling in D.P.H. v. J.L.B., 
    260 P.3d 320
    (Colo. 2011), which was a non-ICWA case that clarified the
    factual findings that a trial court must make before making a
    finding of abandonment for purposes of terminating parental
    rights, see
    id. at 324–26.
    To the extent that the Colorado Supreme
    Court intended for the In re S.M.J.C. trial court to rely on state
    standards of abandonment for terminating parental rights on
    remand in order to make a determination of domicile in an ICWA
    case, I respectfully submit that this isn’t what Congress intended.
    See supra ¶¶ 85–88.
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    gives custody of their child to another with the intention of
    relinquishing their parental rights and obligations.29
    D. Caveats to Second Restatement Standard
    ¶96 Having identified a uniform federal standard of
    abandonment, I now quickly note two caveats to the Restatement
    standard that are dictated by ICWA.
    ¶97 First, the language in the Second Restatement stating that
    the “rules of the forum are applied . . . to determine whether an
    abandonment has taken place” is inapplicable in ICWA cases.
    SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e. Instead, the rules applied in
    ICWA cases are simply the rules from the Second Restatement itself
    as I have set forth in this dissenting opinion. This is so because
    Holyfield requires a uniform federal law of domicile in ICWA cases.
    For that reason, the Holyfield court similarly concluded that because
    Congress could not have intended for different rules of domicile to
    apply simply as a result of an Indian child’s transport from state to
    state, “the general rule [from the Second Restatement] that domicile
    is determined according to the law of the forum can have no
    application 
    here.” 490 U.S. at 46
    n.21 (citation omitted). Because
    domicile can turn on abandonment, the abandonment inquiry must
    also be conducted on a uniform federal basis, not according to the
    rules of the forum.
    ¶98 Second, I agree with the Illinois Supreme Court that “the
    doctrine of abandonment cannot be used by Native American
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    29 Appellants R.K.B. and K.A.B. rightly point out that ICWA
    requires the application of state law if the relevant state law
    provides a higher standard of protection of parental rights to an
    Indian child than those provided under ICWA. See 25 U.S.C. § 1921.
    This “ensur[es] that parents of Indian children enjoy the highest
    level of protection of their parental rights available.” In re Adoption
    of B.B., 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 67, 
    417 P.3d 1
    . R.K.B. and K.A.B. argue that
    Utah state abandonment law should apply here if that application
    would result in greater protection of Birth Mother’s rights, such as
    her right to have the consequences of a voluntary relinquishment
    explained to her under section 1913(a), her right to withdraw her
    consent to adoption at any time prior to the entry of a final decree
    under section 1913(c), and her right to object to transfer to a tribal
    court under section 1911(b). These arguments are totally misplaced,
    however, because a finding of abandonment for purposes of
    establishing an Indian child’s domicile doesn’t affect Birth Mother’s
    parental rights under ICWA. Infra ¶¶ 128–32.
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    Indian parents as part of a scheme to facilitate adoption of their
    children by non-Indians while they remain domiciliaries of the
    reservation.” In re Adoption of 
    S.S., 657 N.E.2d at 942
    . This exception
    aligns with our decision in Halloway, in which this court expressed
    that Utah’s abandonment law “conflicts with and undermines the
    operative scheme established by [section 1911(a)] to deal with
    children of domiciliaries of the reservation and weakens
    considerably the tribe’s ability to assert its interest in its children”
    if it “operates to permit [a parent] to change [a child’s] domicile as
    part of a scheme to facilitate [the child’s] adoption by non-Indians
    while [the parent] remains a domiciliary of the 
    reservation.” 732 P.2d at 969
    . It also fits the United States Supreme Court’s decision
    in Holyfield, which cited Halloway favorably and concluded, “We
    agree with the Supreme Court of Utah that the law of domicile
    Congress used in the ICWA cannot be one that permits individual
    reservation-domiciled tribal members to defeat the tribe’s exclusive
    jurisdiction by the simple expedient of giving birth and placing the
    child for adoption off the 
    reservation.” 490 U.S. at 53
    . Because I
    ultimately conclude that exclusive jurisdiction lies with the
    Cheyenne River Sioux tribal court, see infra ¶ 137, I need not
    consider this exception here.
    III. BIRTH MOTHER ABANDONED B.B.
    ¶99 I next turn to the issue of whether Birth Mother abandoned
    B.B. under the uniform federal standard of abandonment. I agree
    with the majority that Birth Mother was domiciled in Utah when
    the adoption petition was filed.30 Below, I show that Birth Mother
    had abandoned B.B. for the purposes of domicile by the time the
    adoption petition was filed. Then I show why, under the
    Restatement standard, the majority errs by holding that B.B.’s
    domicile didn’t shift to that of his father before the filing.
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    30 I note, however, that Birth Mother submitted an affidavit in
    the district court after this appeal was filed that cuts against that
    finding. She testified in the affidavit that “she went to Utah to have
    the baby because [she] did not want anyone interfering with [her]
    choice of putting [her] son up for adoption,” that “she told people
    [she] was going to Utah for other reasons, but the adoption was the
    actual reason,” and that she “intended to return to South Dakota
    after placing [her] son for adoption.” But I don’t consider this
    affidavit on appeal because it’s not part of the appellate record, was
    unavailable to the district court when making its decision, and
    hasn’t been brought to our attention by the parties.
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    A. Birth Mother Gave Up Custody of B.B. with
    the Intention of Relinquishing Her Parental Rights
    ¶100 Whether Birth Mother gave custody of B.B. to another
    with the intent to relinquish her parental rights is a question of fact
    that this court reviews for clear error. See Fort Pierce Indus. Park
    Phases II, III & IV Owners Assoc. v. Shakespeare, 
    2016 UT 28
    , ¶ 16, 
    379 P.3d 1218
    . The district court found that “Birth Mother abandoned
    B.B. as that term is used in . . . the Restatement (Second) of Conflict
    of Laws § 22 Comment e.” Because I find ample support for the
    district court’s factual findings in the record, I conclude that the
    district court’s findings were not clearly erroneous.
    ¶101 The district court found that Birth Mother had
    abandoned B.B. for three reasons: (1) “Birth Mother, prior to B.B.’s
    birth, intended to relinquish all parental rights and obligations”;
    (2) “just over 24 hours after birth she formally relinquished her
    parental rights”; and (3) “she then came into Court a few days later
    to again relinquish her parental rights—executing the consent to
    adoption in court.” The district court also found that Birth Father
    was domiciled on the Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation when the
    adoption petition was filed. That’s why the district court found that
    B.B.’s domicile at that time was the Cheyenne River Sioux
    Reservation.
    ¶102 To support a finding of abandonment under the Second
    Restatement, Birth Mother must have either (1) deserted B.B. or
    (2) given custody of B.B. to another with the intention of
    relinquishing her parental rights and obligations. Neither party
    asserts that Birth Mother deserted B.B.; nor did the district court
    make any factual findings on that question. So, I review the district
    court’s findings only as to the second type of abandonment—
    whether Birth Mother gave custody of B.B. to another with the
    intent to relinquish her parental rights before the adoption petition
    was filed. She unquestionably did so.
    ¶103 First, Birth Mother gave up custody of B.B. before the
    adoption petition was filed. Although the district court’s ruling
    does not directly discuss whether Birth Mother had given up
    custody of B.B. by the petition’s filing, the parties agree—and the
    record supports a finding—that Birth Mother had indeed done so.
    And when asked at oral argument, appellants R.K.B. and J.K.B.
    confirmed that they had taken physical custody of B.B. before the
    filing. This is also corroborated by the transcript of a hearing on the
    adoption petition held after the filing, in which the judge remarked
    that R.K.B. and J.K.B. had “a beautiful little [baby] with [them] [that
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    day],” showing that B.B. arrived to court that day with R.K.B. and
    J.K.B. So although the district court didn’t make an explicit finding
    of fact about whether Birth Mother gave up custody of B.B. before
    the filing of the adoption petition, neither party disputes this fact
    and the record evidence supports such a finding. I thus conclude
    that Birth Mother had given up custody of B.B. by the time the
    adoption petition was filed.
    ¶104 Second, the district court didn’t clearly err in finding that
    Birth Mother intended to relinquish her parental rights. Birth
    Mother formed the intent to place B.B. for adoption months before
    delivery. At her deposition, Birth Mother said that she first decided
    to place B.B. for adoption “probably a couple months into the
    pregnancy . . . like two, three months into the pregnancy.” She also
    said that she first contacted the adoption agency, Heart to Heart,
    four to five months before B.B.’s birth.
    ¶105 Birth Mother not only formed an intent to place B.B. for
    adoption, but she also followed through on that intent soon after
    B.B.’s birth. Just twenty-four hours after B.B.’s birth, Birth Mother
    signed a notarized document titled “Relinquishment of Parental
    Rights and Consent of Natural Birth Mother to Adoption.” Both the
    introductory and concluding paragraphs of that document provide
    that “[b]y signing this document you are giving up your rights as a
    parent” and that “[y]ou cannot revoke the consent to your child’s
    adoption once you sign this document.” And the last line item that
    Birth Mother initialed states, “I understand that if I choose
    adoption for my child and sign the relinquishing papers, all my
    rights and responsibilities for this child will be ended, and that my
    consent is final, irrevocable and legally binding.” The consent to
    adoption also states, “I, [Birth Mother] do hereby relinquish and
    surrender said child for adoption to: Heart to Heart Adoptions.”
    Birth Mother initialed every line item and signed the consent to
    adoption.
    ¶106 To be sure, this consent to adoption would not be legally
    sufficient to terminate Birth Mother’s parental rights under ICWA,
    which prohibits any consent being given within ten days after the
    birth of an Indian child. See 25 U.S.C. § 1913(a). But it’s still highly
    indicative of Birth Mother’s intent to relinquish her parental rights
    for the purposes of abandonment. See 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 62
    n.11
    (Stevens, J., dissenting) (“[E]ven a consent to adoption that does not
    meet statutory requirements may be effective to constitute an
    abandonment and change the minor’s domicile.”); In re Adoption of
    M.L.L., 
    810 N.E.2d 1088
    , 1092 (Ind. Ct. App. 2004) (holding that a
    birth mother abandoned her child for purposes of jurisdiction
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    under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act when she took
    the child to live with a couple in another state, “signed a consent to
    guardianship and a consent to adopt, and helped them pack [her
    child’s] belongings, including [the child’s] birth certificate and
    social security card”).
    ¶107 Apparently not content with signing only the consent to
    adoption, Birth Mother also signed a statement about paternity in
    which she fraudulently named her brother-in-law as the biological
    father of B.B. Based on this misrepresentation, Heart to Heart and
    counsel for R.K.B. and J.K.B. had Birth Mother’s brother-in-law sign
    an affidavit declaring that he was B.B.’s biological father,
    relinquishing his rights to B.B., consenting to the adoption, and
    declaring that he was neither an enrolled member of nor eligible for
    membership in a Native American tribe. As we noted in In re
    Adoption of B.B., Birth Mother seems to have had her brother-in-law
    sign the affidavit “in order to make the adoption go faster.” 
    2017 UT 59
    , ¶ 87, 
    417 P.3d 1
    .
    ¶108 Birth Mother’s actions before the filing are sufficient on
    their own to support a finding of abandonment, but her
    postpetition actions confirm that she intended to relinquish her
    parental rights by the time the adoption petition was filed.
    Specifically, Birth Mother, a few days after the filing, appeared in
    court and signed a document entitled “Voluntary Relinquishment
    of Parental Rights, Consent to Adoption, and Consent to Entry of
    Order Terminating Parental Rights.” In this sworn document, Birth
    Mother stated, “I hereby voluntarily relinquish permanently and
    completely all of my parental rights and interests in the
    guardianship, custody, care and control of B.B. to Heart to Heart
    Adoptions.” She also reaffirmed her earlier untrue statement that
    her brother-in-law was B.B.’s biological father and confirmed that
    she understood that, by voluntarily relinquishing her parental
    rights, she would “be relieved of all parental duties, obligations
    and responsibilities” and “have no further rights regarding future
    care, custody, visitation or adoption” of B.B.
    ¶109 Appellants R.K.B. and K.A.B. argue that this postpetition
    reaffirmation is irrelevant to whether Birth Mother abandoned B.B.
    before the petition. I disagree because the reaffirmation helps
    clarify Birth Mother’s intent before the filing, much in the same way
    district courts may “allow parties to use post-breach evidence to
    establish and measure their expectation damages.” Trans–W.
    Petroleum, Inc. v. U.S. Gypsum Co., 
    2016 UT 27
    , ¶ 21, 
    379 P.3d 1200
    .
    The district court thus didn’t abuse its discretion by considering it.
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    ¶110 In sum, the record evidence confirms the district court’s
    finding that Birth Mother intended to relinquish her parental rights
    to B.B. by the time the adoption petition was filed.
    B. The Majority Errs in Interpreting and
    Applying the Second Restatement Standard
    ¶111 The majority holds that “giving up custody and signing
    consent forms in order to start the formal adoption process does
    not itself constitute abandonment under the text of the
    Restatement.” Supra ¶ 38. It also holds that B.B.’s domicile did not
    shift to that of his birth father at the time of the filing. Supra ¶ 2.
    That holding is based mainly on a misreading of the Second
    Restatement but also on some faulty assumptions about
    abandonment in the domicile context.
    ¶112 The proper interpretation of the Second Restatement—
    that the domicile of a child born out of wedlock switches to that of
    his father upon being abandoned by his mother—flows from a
    straightforward reading of its text. That’s all that we need because
    the Second Restatement addresses head-on how to determine the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock. The analysis it provides is
    simple and starts with the general rule in comment c that a child
    born out of wedlock “has the domicil of his mother.” SECOND
    RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c. Comment c then points us to comments e
    through i for exceptions to this general rule.
    Id. Two of these
    exceptions merit some discussion here. One kicks in when the child
    born out of wedlock is abandoned (comment e).
    Id. cmt. e. The
    other comes into play when the child born out of wedlock becomes
    adopted (comment g).
    Id. cmt. g. ¶113
    I discuss comment g below; for now, I focus on
    comment e. Comment e, entitled “abandoned child,” states that a
    “child domiciled with his mother and abandoned by her takes the
    domicil of his father if he has not been abandoned by him.”
    Id. cmt. e. What
    it means to abandon a child is also found in
    comment e: “An abandonment, as the term is used here, . . . occurs
    when the parent deserts the child; it likewise occurs when the
    parent gives the custody of the child to another with the intention
    of relinquishing his parental rights and obligations.”
    Id. ¶114 These provisions
    are clear-cut. A child born out of
    wedlock has the domicile of his mother.
    Id. cmt. c. That
    means that
    B.B. (a child born out of wedlock) would normally have Birth
    Mother’s domicile. But if the mother abandons the child—if the
    mother deserts the child or “gives the custody of the child to
    another with the intention of relinquishing [her] parental rights and
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    obligations”—the child “takes the domicil of his father if he has not
    been abandoned by him.”
    Id. cmt. e. ¶115
    One crucial question thus determines the outcome of this
    appeal: Did Birth Mother, before the adoption petition’s filing,
    abandon B.B. by giving custody of B.B. to another with the
    intention of relinquishing her parental rights and obligations? The
    answer, as shown above, is unquestionably yes. Supra ¶¶ 100–10.
    And, as a result, B.B. took the domicile of Birth Father (the
    Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation), giving the tribal court
    exclusive jurisdiction over B.B.’s adoption proceedings.
    ¶116 The majority rejects this uncomplicated analysis,
    misreading the Second Restatement. First, it eschews the Second
    Restatement’s clear provisions, almost ignoring its key provisions
    while overemphasizing irrelevant ones. Second, it confuses
    abandonment in the domicile context with abandonment in the
    termination-of-parental-rights context. Third, it asserts that if the
    abandonment standard that I endorse “were correct, then the
    parents in Holyfield would have abandoned their children and
    shifted their children’s domicile off the reservation.” Supra ¶ 51.
    1. The Majority Misinterprets the Second Restatement
    ¶117 The majority misinterprets section 22 of the Second
    Restatement in two key ways. First, it errs by concluding “that the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock will transfer to the domicile
    of the biological father only in limited circumstances—such as
    when he marries the child’s biological mother.” Supra ¶ 26. Second,
    it errs by assuming that abandonment for the purposes of domicile
    doesn’t apply in the adoption context. Supra ¶ 25. These errors are
    intertwined, and so I discuss each of them throughout this section.
    ¶118 The majority correctly recognizes the general rule for the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock, which is in comment c.
    Supra ¶ 26. But it doesn’t pay respect to a key exception that
    comment c scoops out of that general rule: the exception for
    abandoned children (comment e). SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22
    cmt. e. The majority discards comment e because it believes that “a
    birth mother’s relinquishment of custody and signing away of
    parental rights in the formal adoption context does not amount to
    an ‘abandonment’ because it is not done with the ‘intention of
    relinquishing . . . parental rights and obligations’ immediately or
    unconditionally (let alone with an intent to surrender rights and
    obligations to an unmarried biological father who is not even a
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    party to the adoption).”31 Supra ¶ 25 (footnote omitted) (alteration
    in original).
    ¶119 Practically speaking, under the majority’s standard,
    whenever an adoption looms in the background, comment e
    doesn’t apply and a child’s domicile doesn’t change until an
    adoption is completed—even if a birth mother shows an intent to
    relinquish her parental rights and gives up custody of the child
    before the adoption petition’s filing. Supra ¶ 27 (“[A] mother taking
    a step toward an adoption that is not yet final cannot amount to an
    immediate and unconditional intent to relinquish her parental
    rights and obligations (an abandonment) . . . .”). The majority
    characterizes “birth mother’s surrender of custody and waiver of
    her parental rights and obligations in the context of a formal
    adoption” as “certainly evinc[ing] an intent to eventually turn over
    parental rights and obligations to a specific, state-vetted adoption
    agency or couple.” Supra ¶ 25. But it holds that those actions don’t
    qualify as abandonment because a birth mother doesn’t “intend[]
    to immediately and unconditionally relinquish parental rights and
    obligations—walk away from or ‘abandon’ her child—when she
    chooses to put her child up for formal adoption rather than simply
    leave him at the doorstep, daycare center, or family friend’s home.”
    Supra ¶ 25. By so holding, not only does the majority inject new
    qualifiers into the abandonment standard—“immediately and
    unconditionally”—it also ignores comment e’s directive to examine
    Birth Mother’s “intention” for giving up custody. See SECOND
    RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e. Under comment e, if Birth Mother gave
    custody of B.B. to the adoption agency “with the intention of
    relinquishing [her] parental rights and obligations,” she has
    abandoned the child for purposes of domicile.
    Id. It doesn’t matter
    whether she was successful in relinquishing those rights and
    obligations, as long as she intended to. By signing the
    relinquishment forms here (which provided that “[b]y signing this
    document you are giving up your rights as a parent” and that
    “[y]ou cannot revoke the consent to your child’s adoption once you
    sign this document”), Birth Mother clearly intended to relinquish
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    31  I don’t advocate that Birth Mother’s abandonment
    relinquished her parental rights to anyone. I’m merely saying that
    she gave custody of B.B. to another with the intention of
    relinquishing her parental rights, thereby effecting an
    abandonment under the Second Restatement, which changed B.B.’s
    domicile (but left her parental rights fully intact).
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    her parental rights and obligations32—even though she didn’t
    accomplish that goal—and she, to that end, abandoned B.B. for
    purposes of domicile.
    ¶120 Besides holding that comment e doesn’t apply because
    Birth Mother didn’t abandon B.B., the majority makes it very hard
    for the domicile of a child born out of wedlock to change to that of
    the birth father, even if the birth mother has abandoned the child:
    “[T]he domicile of a child born out of wedlock will transfer to the
    domicile of the biological father only in limited circumstances—
    such as when he marries the child’s biological mother.” Supra ¶ 26.
    Under the majority’s reading of the Restatement, then,
    abandonment can never change the domicile of a child born out of
    wedlock to that of the birth father. See supra ¶ 36 (declining to apply
    comment e because the comment “starts from a place from which
    we know for a fact B.B. did not—a birth in wedlock” (emphasis
    added)). In the majority’s view, other than the presence of potential
    other unnamed “limited circumstances,” only marriage between
    the child’s biological parents can do so. Supra ¶ 26.
    ¶121 This interpretation is wrong, given that comment c—the
    comment about the domicile of a child born out of wedlock—points
    to abandonment under comment e as a way for the domicile of a
    child born out of wedlock to switch from that of the mother to that
    of someone else. SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c. Comment e, in
    turn, states that a “child domiciled with his mother and abandoned
    by her takes the domicil of his father if he has not been abandoned
    by him.”
    Id. cmt. e. Read
    in conjunction with comment c, the
    reference to “father” in comment e logically refers to the father of
    the child born out of wedlock (at least when determining the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock).
    ¶122 As supposed support for its conclusion, the majority
    relies first on comments a and c of section 22 of the Second
    Restatement—which are about the domicile of fathers and children
    born out of wedlock, respectively—and then on comment g, which
    is about adopted children. Supra ¶¶ 25–27. I now examine each of
    these comments.
    ¶123 I turn first to comments a and c. The majority recognizes
    that there are exceptions to when the domicile of a child born out
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    32This is strong evidence that Birth Mother even intended to
    “immediately and unconditionally relinquish” her parental rights
    and obligations, if I were to apply the majority’s abandonment
    standard.
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    of wedlock follows the domicile of the mother. Supra ¶ 26. Indeed,
    comment c announces that “[a]n illegitimate child has the domicil
    of his mother, except as stated in Comments e–i.” SECOND
    RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c. Comment c also says that “[u]pon a
    change of domicil by the mother during the child’s minority, the
    child takes the mother’s new domicil whether the child lives with
    the mother or not, except as stated immediately below and in
    Comments e–i.”
    Id. (emphasis added). ¶124
    The majority latches onto the exceptions “stated
    immediately below” and doesn’t let go of them. Supra ¶ 26. There
    are two exceptions listed. First, “[t]he child’s domicil will not follow
    that of a stepfather.” SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c. Second,
    “[a]fter the mother’s marriage to a man who is not the child’s father,
    the child’s domicil will be that of the mother.”
    Id. The majority relies
    on these exceptions to conclude “that the domicile of a child
    born out of wedlock will transfer to the domicile of the biological
    father only in limited circumstances—such as when he marries the
    child’s biological mother.” Supra ¶ 26. This conclusion, says the
    majority, is reinforced by comment a, which says “that a child born
    in wedlock ‘is assigned the father’s domicil.’” Supra ¶ 26 (citing
    SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. a).
    ¶125 This is flatly wrong. Not only does the majority ignore
    the relevant comment—comment e—neither exception in
    comment c “stated immediately below” applies here. No stepfather
    is involved, and B.B.’s domicile hasn’t changed because of a
    marriage. Although the exceptions imply that children born out of
    wedlock take their father’s domicile upon their father’s marriage to
    their mother, they do not say or imply that the only way for children
    born out of wedlock to take their father’s domicile is for their
    mother to marry him. And, as mentioned above, comment c—the
    comment about the domicile of children born out of wedlock—
    incorporates abandonment under comment e, proving that the
    domicile of a child born out of wedlock can change as a result of an
    abandonment. SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. c. And comment e
    even tells us how the child’s domicile can change upon being
    abandoned by the mother: it switches to that of the father.
    Id. cmt. e. ¶126
    Having discussed comments a and c, I now touch upon
    comment g—the comment about the effect of adoption on a child’s
    domicile. This comment is irrelevant to this case. Comment g
    merely tells us the domicile of an adopted child: an adopted child
    “takes the domicil of the adoptive parent” but only at the “moment
    of adoption.” SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. g. Discussing
    comment g, the majority asserts that the “shift in [the child’s]
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    domicile does not take place until the adoption is final.” Supra ¶ 27.
    I agree. But here we aren’t concerned about whether B.B. has taken
    the domicile of adoptive parents; he isn’t an adopted child. We care,
    rather, only about whether B.B. took the domicile of his birth father
    before the adoption petition was filed. 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    (“[T]he propriety of the trial court’s assumption of jurisdiction
    turns on [the Indian child’s] domicile at the time these proceedings
    were initiated.”). But comment g doesn’t help us decide that issue.
    Under comment g, when an adoption is contemplated for a child,
    that child’s domicile doesn’t flip to that of the adoptive parents until
    the adoption is final. But comment g doesn’t say or imply that—
    before an adoption petition is filed—the child’s domicile can’t
    change to that of the birth father, even when an adoption is
    contemplated. It most certainly can. Comments c and e allow that
    to happen through abandonment. SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22
    cmts. c, e. So, comments c and e—not comment g—are the relevant
    provisions here.
    ¶127 In all its discussion, the majority merely glosses over
    comment c’s reference to comment e—the comment about
    abandonment. This, perhaps, is because the majority’s
    interpretation, practically speaking, doesn’t apply comment e’s
    provision on abandonment whenever the abandoning parent
    contemplates a future adoption. Supra ¶¶ 25, 27. That cannot be. In
    defining abandonment, comment e uses language about “the
    intention of relinquishing . . . parental rights and obligations.”
    SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e. That language is a term of art that
    repeatedly appears in the adoption context.33 And it makes sense
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    33 See, e.g., In re Estate of Hannifin, 
    2013 UT 46
    , ¶ 13, 
    311 P.3d 1016
    (discussing agreements in which “a child’s parents agree with the
    adoptive parents to relinquish all their rights to the child” (citation
    omitted)); State ex rel. N.M., 
    2018 UT App 141
    , ¶ 13, 
    427 P.3d 1239
    (chronicling how a birth mother “advised the court that she wished
    to relinquish her parental rights to Child to allow Maternal
    Grandparents to adopt Child”); State ex rel. E.C., 
    2015 UT App 227
    ,
    ¶ 4, 
    359 P.3d 1264
    (per curiam) (noting that the mother
    “relinquish[ed] her parental rights so that the children could be
    adopted”); State ex rel. J.C.R., 
    2011 UT App 263
    , ¶ 3, 
    259 P.3d 1076
    (per curiam) (noting that a father had “confirmed that he wished to
    voluntarily relinquish his parental rights to his children, and
    acknowledged that he would have no further rights regarding the
    children’s future care, custody, visitation, or adoption”); State ex rel.
    (continued . . .)
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    that adoption-like language appears in a section about
    abandonment and domicile, given that many courts have
    recognized that the actions a parent takes while contemplating an
    adoption can arise to an abandonment, thus changing the child’s
    domicile or otherwise affecting the court’s jurisdiction.34
    Comment e thus suggests that abandonment applies in the
    adoption context and that events preceding an adoption petition’s
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    M.M., 
    2000 UT App 151U
    , para. 1 (dismissing a challenge to an
    adoption that alleged that the State “fraudulently misrepresented
    [the birth mother’s] competency to voluntarily relinquish her
    parental rights and consent to her child’s adoption”); In re Adoption
    of J.J., 
    1999 UT App 362
    , ¶ 1, 
    993 P.2d 257
    (per curiam) (noting that
    a mother “signed a relinquishment of parental rights believing her
    children would be adopted by . . . relatives”); In re Adoption of Infant
    Anonymous, 
    760 P.2d 917
    , 918, 920 (Utah Ct. App. 1988) (holding
    that a consent to adoption—which stated, “I hereby relinquish all
    of my parental rights”—was knowing and voluntary).
    34 See, e.g., 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 967
    (recognizing that “the trial
    court properly could find” that a child’s natural mother abandoned
    him before appearing in court and signing a consent to adoption
    when she “learned that [her child] was in an adoptive home and
    that an adoption was contemplated, yet she permitted him to
    remain there” and holding that “[u]nder traditional rules of law,
    [the child’s] domicile” would’ve changed at that time); In re
    Adoption of 
    M.L.L., 810 N.E.2d at 1092
    (holding that a birth mother
    abandoned her child for the purposes of jurisdiction when, before
    the filing of the adoption petition, she requested that others take
    the child “to live with them in [another state], signed a consent to
    guardianship and consent to adopt, and helped them pack [her
    child’s] belongings, including [her child’s] birth certificate and
    social security card”); In re Guardianship of Brazeal, 
    254 P.2d 886
    , 887
    (Cal. Dist. Ct. App. 1953) (holding that birth parents abandoned
    their child for the purposes of the minor’s residence and
    jurisdiction when they gave custody of their child to another couple
    shortly after the child’s birth with the “express understanding . . .
    that they should raise the child as their own child and that the child
    should not be informed as to her true parents” and the birth parents
    urged the couple to legally adopt the child).
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    filing can effect a change in the domicile of a child born out of
    wedlock. That’s what happened here.35
    2. The Majority Confuses Abandonment in the Domicile Context
    with Abandonment in the Context of Termination of Parental
    Rights
    ¶128 Besides misinterpreting the Second Restatement, the
    majority jumbles abandonment in the domicile context with
    abandonment in the context of termination of parental rights. It
    holds that the “district court . . . erred in its determination that
    [Birth Mother’s] relinquishment forms in the formal adoption
    context constituted an ‘abandonment’ that resulted in the
    establishment of a perfected legal relationship between the child
    and his unwed biological father (and therefore a change in the
    child’s domicile).” Supra ¶ 30. Similarly, the majority asserts that to
    affirm the district court’s ruling, it would “have to hold . . . that her
    parental rights and obligations revert at the filing of the adoption
    petition to a third party whose parental rights are at best inchoate.”
    Supra ¶ 32. From these statements, it appears that the majority
    believes that if it were to find that Birth Mother abandoned B.B.
    before the adoption petition’s filing, then it would have to hold that
    her parental rights have been terminated and surrendered to Birth
    Father. Not so.
    ¶129 The majority confuses abandonment—as the term is
    used in the context of terminating parental rights—with
    abandonment as used in the context of establishing domicile. In
    cases that involve the termination of parental rights, the term
    abandonment is used in a pejorative sense and typically serves as a
    proxy for a total abdication of parental responsibilities. See, e.g.,
    State ex rel. T.E., 
    2011 UT 51
    , ¶ 20, 
    266 P.3d 739
    (“[A] showing of
    abandonment requires satisfaction of a two-part test. First, the
    petitioner must demonstrate that the respondent parent has
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    35  There are scenarios in which the tribe no longer has exclusive
    jurisdiction. For example, once Birth Mother moved to Utah, she
    became a Utah domiciliary. Because B.B. is a child born out of
    wedlock, he took her domicile (Utah) when he was born. Utah. So,
    if Birth Mother hadn’t abandoned B.B. before the petition’s filing,
    B.B. would’ve been a Utah domiciliary, giving Utah courts
    jurisdiction over the adoption petition. But because she did
    abandon him before the petition’s filing, B.B.’s domicile switched
    from that of Birth Mother (Utah) to that of Birth Father (the
    Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation), giving the tribal court
    exclusive jurisdiction.
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    engaged in conduct that implies a conscious disregard for his or her
    parental obligations. Second, the petitioner must show that the
    respondent parent’s conduct led to the destruction of the parent-
    child relationship.” (citations omitted)). In those cases, it makes
    sense that abandonment would carry with it a negative
    connotation. Indeed, courts should not terminate parental rights—
    in the absence of a voluntary relinquishment—without first finding
    by clear and convincing evidence that the parent is no longer
    deserving of that constitutionally protected right. See, e.g., In re K.S.,
    
    737 P.2d 170
    , 172 (Utah 1987) (“The parent-child relationship is
    constitutionally protected, and termination of that relationship is a
    drastic measure to be used only when the evidence is clear and
    convincing that the parent is unable or unwilling to perform the
    duties and responsibilities of a parent.”).
    ¶130 But no parental rights are being adjudicated here. This
    appeal is purely about domicile and jurisdiction. Despite the
    majority’s characterization otherwise, we’re not deciding the
    adoption petition on the merits. All that’s to be decided today is
    which court gets to adjudicate the parties’ parental rights.36 And so
    our case law discussing abandonment in the context of terminating
    parental rights is generally inapposite here.
    ¶131 A finding of abandonment for purposes of establishing
    an Indian child’s domicile doesn’t affect Birth Mother’s parental
    rights. See supra ¶ 127 n.33. Indeed, courts often decide whether a
    child has been abandoned for purposes of jurisdiction, without
    deciding whether the abandonment terminated the abandoning
    parent’s parental rights. See supra ¶ 127 n.33.
    ¶132 In sum, a finding of abandonment for purposes of
    domicile is separate from a finding of abandonment for purposes
    of adjudicating parental rights. While the two determinations may
    turn on similar—if not identical—sets of facts, a finding of
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    36  We have done this before. In Halloway, we determined that
    the tribal court of the Navajo Nation had exclusive jurisdiction over
    an adoption proceeding and dismissed the adoption petition for
    lack of 
    jurisdiction. 732 P.2d at 972
    . After picking up the baton, the
    Navajo tribal court adjudicated the Indian birth mother’s parental
    rights less than one year later. T.R. Reid, Mormon-Navajo Adoption
    Fight       Settled,    WASH.       POST      (Oct.     30,     1987),
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/politics/1987/10/30
    /mormon-navajo-adoption-fight-settled/21450d04-6b25-467e-
    8e92-c5f5ba11ed6e/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.0829663044d1.
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    abandonment in one context does not compel (or even influence) a
    finding of abandonment in the other. For that reason, the majority’s
    assertions that our decision today could somehow impact Birth
    Mother’s parental rights under ICWA are misguided.
    3. The Majority Misapplies the Standard That I Endorse Today
    ¶133 Finally, the majority asserts that, to a certain extent, “[i]f
    the abandonment standard endorsed by . . . the dissent were
    correct, then the parents in Holyfield would have abandoned their
    children and shifted their children’s domicile off the reservation.”
    Supra ¶ 51. That conclusion is incorrect for three reasons.
    ¶134 First, the Holyfield parents relinquished custody and their
    parental rights at the same time. 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 37
    . Thus, even
    if they abandoned the children, the children’s domicile would’ve
    still been the Choctaw Reservation because the children’s father
    was domiciled there. See SECOND RESTATEMENT § 22 cmt. e (“Except
    as stated in Comments f–i, . . . a child abandoned by both parents
    simultaneously retains the domicil of the father at the time of the
    abandonment.” (emphasis added));
    Id. cmt. g (explaining
    that, in
    the context of adoption, a child doesn’t take “the domicil of the
    adoptive parent” until “the moment of adoption”).
    ¶135 Second, I see nothing in the Holyfield opinion that
    suggests that the parents gave up custody of their children before
    the adoption petition was filed. See 
    Holyfield, 490 U.S. at 37
    –38. And
    without a transfer of custody, there would’ve been no
    abandonment before filing the petition. See SECOND RESTATEMENT
    § 22 cmt. e (noting that one situation in which an abandonment
    occurs is “when the parent gives the custody of the child to another
    with the intention of relinquishing his parental rights and
    obligations.” (emphasis added)); accord 
    Halloway, 732 P.2d at 966
    (“As a general matter, abandonment occurs when a parent . . . places
    a child with another with an intent to relinquish all parental rights
    and obligations.” (emphasis added)).
    ¶136 Third, under the standard I endorse today, “the doctrine
    of abandonment cannot be used by Native American Indian
    parents as part of a scheme to facilitate adoption of their children
    by non-Indians while they remain domiciliaries of the reservation.”
    Supra ¶ 98. For that reason, the parents in Holyfield—who were
    domiciliaries of the Choctaw Reservation—could not have used
    abandonment to evade the tribal court’s jurisdiction. The result of
    Holyfield, therefore, would’ve been the same under the
    abandonment standard that I endorse.
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    IV. WE LACK JURISDICTION
    ¶137 Having established that B.B. was domiciled on the
    Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation when the adoption petition was
    filed, ICWA prescribes the outcome: the Cheyenne River Sioux
    tribal court has exclusive jurisdiction over this case. 25 U.S.C. § 1911
    (“An Indian tribe shall have jurisdiction exclusive as to any State over
    any child custody proceeding involving an Indian child who
    resides or is domiciled within the reservation of such tribe . . . .”
    (emphasis added)). Thus, no Utah state court has jurisdiction and
    the case must be dismissed. See, e.g., Ramsay v. Kane Cty. Human Res.
    Special Serv. Dist., 
    2014 UT 5
    , ¶ 17, 
    322 P.3d 1163
    .
    CONCLUSION
    ¶138 Under the uniform federal standard of abandonment for
    establishing domicile in ICWA cases, Birth Mother abandoned B.B.
    before the filing of this adoption petition. For that reason, B.B. had
    taken the domicile of Birth Father and was domiciled on the
    Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation at the time of filing. Thus, under
    ICWA, the Cheyenne River Sioux tribal court has exclusive
    jurisdiction over this case, and this case must be dismissed for lack
    of subject matter jurisdiction. Because the majority holds otherwise,
    I respectfully dissent.
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