Cassie Van Buren v. Richmond Dept of Social Service ( 2003 )


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  •                       COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA
    Present:   Chief Judge Fitzpatrick, Judge Annunziata and
    Senior Judge Coleman
    CASSIE VAN BUREN
    MEMORANDUM OPINION *
    v.   Record Nos. 2622-02-2 through                   PER CURIAM
    2625-02-2                         APRIL 15, 2003
    CITY OF RICHMOND
    DEPARTMENT OF SOCIAL SERVICES
    FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE CITY OF RICHMOND
    Theodore J. Markow, Judge
    (Robert J. Jacobs, on briefs), for appellant.
    (Kate D. O'Leary, Assistant City Attorney;
    Marc Yeaker, Guardian ad litem for the infant
    Johnny Collins; Karen Matthews, Guardian ad
    litem for the infants Catherine, Christina
    and Anthony Van Buren, on briefs), for
    appellee.
    In four separately filed and numbered appeals, Cassie Van
    Buren (mother) appeals the decision of the circuit court
    terminating her parental rights to her four children:   Catherine
    Van Buren (Rec. No. 2622-02-2); Christina Van Buren (Rec. No.
    2623-02-2); Johnny Collins (Rec. No. 2624-02-2); and Anthony Van
    Buren (Rec. No. 2625-02-2). 1
    * Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not
    designated for publication.
    1
    The record contains at least two different spellings for
    each twin girl's name. In this opinion, we will use the names
    listed in the final order dated September 3, 2002, and refer to
    the twins as Christina and Catherine.
    Mother contends the evidence was insufficient to support the
    terminations under subsection (1) or (2) of Code § 16.1-283(C).
    She also asks this Court to apply the ends of justice exception to
    Rule 5A:18 and find that the trial court applied an incorrect
    standard to support termination.    Upon reviewing the record and
    briefs of the parties, we conclude that these appeals are without
    merit.    Accordingly, we summarily affirm the decisions of the
    trial court.    Rule 5A:27.
    BACKGROUND
    On July 7, 1999, the Richmond Department of Social Services
    (RDSS) removed the children and placed them in foster care.    The
    twins, Catherine and Christina, were three years old at the time
    of removal, Anthony was four and Johnny was eight.    On July 8,
    1999, Charlotte Scharff with RDSS filed petitions alleging the
    children were abused and neglected.
    The First Hearing
    On February 20, 2002, the trial court conducted a de novo
    hearing on RDSS's petition to terminate mother's parental rights.
    Kelly Davis, a case worker with RDSS, began working with the
    family in July 1999.    She related how the three younger children
    had bruises and bite marks on their arms and legs when she first
    saw them.    Davis filed the initial foster care plan on September
    1, 1999, with a goal of return home by the target date of March
    2000.    The parents were to have bi-weekly visitation with the
    children.    RDSS provided the following services and referrals:
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    (1) refer mother to SCAN, a parents support group; (2) refer
    father to Richmond Behavorial Health Authority (RBHA) for
    substance abuse evaluation and treatment, if necessary; and (3)
    refer father to Commonwealth Catholic Charities for anger
    management.   RDSS indicated it would provide "other services if
    needed," involve parents in service plan updates, and inform them
    of court dates.
    Davis and the parents returned to court in May 2000 to review
    the foster care plan.    The report showed that mother attended all
    SCAN sessions.    Father advised RBHA he had no substance abuse
    problem, so RBHA did not recommend treatment; however, father
    attended a substance abuse education course through the Richmond
    Office of Community Corrections (ROCC), and in January 2000, he
    completed an anger management course sponsored by ROCC.    RDSS
    referred the parents for a parenting assessment and arranged for
    in-home services to work with the family.   The program goal
    remained "Return Home," and the target date was extended to
    December 2000.
    In April 2000, RDSS contracted with "Wilkerson's Consulting"
    (Wilkerson's) to provide in-home counselors "to work with the
    family" twenty hours per week to teach "effective ways of
    parenting."   Marshelle Anderson is employed by Wilkerson's, which
    is a private agency providing "[i]ntensive in-home counseling,
    parent aid [and] therapeutic mentoring."    She and other counselors
    worked with the family from April 2000 until April 2001.    The
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    frequency and length of Anderson's contact with the family
    increased to forty hours per week, five or six days per week.
    Anderson explained:
    In the beginning we were providing parenting
    services to assist [the parents] with better
    organizing their home. Keeping the home
    clean, washing the kid's clothes. Just
    daily living skills types of things. We
    were also doing about 40 hours of intensive
    in-home counseling.
    Anderson also worked on ways to discipline and redirect the
    younger children's behavior.    Anderson indicated that her
    company usually works with a family for a period of three to six
    months.    Anderson recalled that the three younger children
    "weren't speaking" at the time and "couldn't communicate very
    well."    Thus, "they would bite and push . . . to get what they
    wanted."   According to Anderson, the three younger children
    "were really hard to handle."
    Both case worker Davis and counselors with Wilkerson's noted
    that the home was disorganized and messy, and the parents were
    unable to control the children's behavior or maintain regular
    schedules and routines for things such as meals or bedtime.     Davis
    recalled that mother and father were receptive to recommendations
    and advice, but they had difficulty implementing them.     In
    addition to providing counselors, RDSS also provided daycare for
    the three younger children.
    Dr. Beverley Chamblin performed psychological evaluations of
    father and mother in May 2000, ten months after the children were
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    initially removed by RDSS. 2   The purpose of the evaluation was "to
    help the home care workers teach the Van Burens to be more
    constructive parents."   Dr. Chamblin also noted RDSS's concern
    regarding father's "somewhat negative and controlling attitude
    toward some of the assistance he is given" as well as mother's
    "very passive . . . behavior."    Father dropped out of school in
    the seventh grade.   He felt that he and his wife were good
    parents.   Father denied having any emotional problems or any
    problems with alcohol, even though his father had problems with
    alcohol.   Father told Chamblin he "drinks a six-pack of beer a
    day, especially on the weekends."    Father tested "within the
    middle of the Borderline range of intellectual functioning."
    Dr. Chamblin noted "[a] severe degree of intellectual impairment
    [a]s evidenced by the variability among his levels of achievement
    (ranges from moderate mental retardation to average)."    However,
    father's "[i]ntellectual impairment is secondary to central
    nervous system dysfunctioning and emotional factors, namely
    depression."   Although Dr. Chamblin could not pinpoint the origin
    of father's "neurological impairment," she opined that "[c]entral
    nervous system dysfunctioning appear[ed] to interfere the most in
    his intellectual efficiency."    Dr. Chamblin found father's
    thinking and reasoning "very simplistic and concrete and very
    2
    RDSS moved to admit and the trial court admitted father's
    evaluation; however, RDSS failed to move to admit the evaluation
    of mother. Therefore, her evaluation is not in the record.
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    rigid."   As a result, "he can think of only one alternative in
    each problem situation."   Father's "third grade [reading] level"
    prevented him from taking a "self-administered parenting
    inventory," which required at least a sixth grade reading level.
    Dr. Chamblin noted "[t]here is significant evidence to suggest the
    presence of alcohol dependence and dysthymic depressive disorder."
    She opined that father's neurological impairment might stem from
    alcohol abuse.   Personality tests revealed "an emotionally
    immature adult" who "uses strong defenses of denial and repression
    and flight and avoidance."   His emotional test responses indicated
    "that he easily regresses under stress and can become verbally
    aggressive."   In her summary, Dr. Chamblin recommended that father
    "be seen for psychiatric evaluation to discuss medical
    intervention for his depression."
    Although mother's evaluation was not made a part of the
    record, see note 2, supra, evidence established that she was
    passive and suffered from depression for which she had begun
    taking medication.
    In June 2000, RDSS returned the children to the parents for a
    "trial placement."   Wilkerson's continued to provide in-home
    consulting work with the family.
    Davis left RDSS in October 2000, at which time Sharon Crone
    took over as foster care case worker.   Crone worked with the
    family until September 13, 2001.    Crone "saw a deterioration in
    the children's behavior from the time [she] received [the case]."
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    In October 2000, the daycare facility that the children attended
    expressed concerns about the children's cleanliness and about the
    behavior of the three younger children.      Crone learned of four
    complaints made to Child Protective Services (CPS) and spoke with
    a CPS worker who had visited the home and who "told [Crone] her
    concerns." 3   Moreover, Crone "had seen the children on several
    occasions and [she] didn't see the concerns" pointed out to the
    parents by RDSS "being addressed."      Specifically, Crone noticed
    that the "children were dirty" and had "multiple ear infections"
    for which treatment was not sought until RDSS intervened.     Also,
    appointments for the children at therapy were not regularly kept.
    Crone "observed the house in disarray several times."      The
    top two bunks in the two sets of bunk beds in the children's
    bedroom contained "so much clutter" that the children had to sleep
    together in the bottom bunks.    On November 27, 2000, Crone saw
    "many bruises on the children."    Crone discussed the problem with
    the in-home workers, who indicated "they were addressing the same
    concerns," however, "they just weren't seeing any improvement."
    On November 28, 2000, RDSS removed the children from the parents'
    home a second time.
    3
    Trina Coleman, a Child Protective Services (CPS) worker
    for RDSS, received a complaint in November 2000 alleging lack of
    supervision and possible physical abuse. According to Coleman's
    testimony, RDSS determined that the complaint was founded, level
    three (moderate), for lack of supervision.
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    On December 6, 2000, Crone filed another Foster Care Service
    Plan.    The program goal was "Placement with Relatives" and the
    target date was July 2001.    Crone explained that, at the time,
    RDSS had been involved with the family for seventeen months and
    things were not improving satisfactorily, so she felt it was time
    to "move on to a new goal."    The relatives recommended by the
    parents to care for the children eventually declined to take them,
    so Crone advised the parents that she intended to change the goal
    to adoption.    After visiting the parents and advising them of the
    decision, father asked her to leave.     As she was leaving, mother
    assaulted Crone and threatened to kill her.
    Crone testified that father failed to follow through with
    further counseling at Catholic Charities.    Crone also asked the
    parents to return to SCAN for more parenting classes, which they
    did from March 26 until May 7, after which "they refused to go
    anymore."    According to Crone, the parents failed to see that
    Catherine attended weekly speech therapy sessions, despite
    arrangements being made for her to get there in a Medicaid van.
    Johnny also missed sessions with therapist Maureen Mayer.
    When asked if any other social service agencies had been
    involved with the family prior to RDSS's involvement, Crone
    testified that when Catherine and Christina were born in Caroline
    County, "they were removed for a very short time," and Johnny and
    Anthony "were living in the aunt's house."
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    Crone observed visitations after the children were removed in
    November 2000.   The parents "had poor interaction" with the
    children.   Specifically, Crone noted that father was "very rough
    with the children" and had to be redirected several times.     Crone
    also had concerns that father refused to address apparent problems
    with his use of alcohol.    Crone recalled that mother and father
    often argued and screamed at each other, causing the children
    anxiety.
    Crone noted that Johnny, although a child, "was often given a
    caretaker role."   It appeared to Crone that he "wasn't getting his
    emotional needs met."    Crone opined it was "traumatic" for Johnny
    to be "going back and forth" between his parents and foster
    care, and she felt "he needs some permanency.      He needs to know
    that one family is going to take him and he is going to be with
    them for the long run."
    Dr. Jennifer Paul performed psychological evaluations of
    Anthony and Christina.    Anthony, who was five years old at his
    June 2001 evaluation, "was very inattentive."     He jumped on things
    and had a hard time sitting still.      His "attentional skills were
    so poor," he was unable to complete an intelligence test intended
    for children his age.    Therefore, Dr. Paul could not determine his
    IQ.   His child development inventory indicated significant
    developmental delays.    Dr. Paul gauged Anthony's overall abilities
    "at the 2 year, 4 month level," two years, eight months below his
    chronological age.   Dr. Paul posited that Anthony's "developmental
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    delays may be related both to cognitive delays/limitations and
    also to previous environments."    She was "unclear how much
    stimulation he received in his previous environments and whether
    or not he received enough stimulation to promote normal
    development."    "Behavorial reports and observations" were
    "consistent with a diagnosis of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity
    Disorder [ADHD]"    According to Dr. Paul, "Anthony will need
    continued stimulation both at home and through a structured school
    program."
    Christina's August 2001 test results indicated that she "has
    significant developmental delays," especially in speech, for which
    she needs immediate therapy.    Like Anthony, Christina suffers from
    ADHD.    She tested at least one year below her peers in every
    category.    Dr. Paul said that Christina needed structure and
    consistency at home and at school and that a behavioral
    modification system should be implemented.    Dr. Paul recommended
    that both children be taken to a pediatrician or psychiatrist to
    discuss the possibility of using medication to control effects of
    their ADHD condition.    She also made several other recommendations
    for the parents, foster parents, and support personnel working
    with Anthony and Christina.
    In September 2001, Jenny Money took over for Crone as the
    foster care case worker.    She testified that Johnny had been in
    foster care since November 2000 and is doing well in school and in
    the foster home.    Christina, Catherine and Anthony are in a
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    therapeutic foster home and are "doing marvelously."   Money
    explained that therapeutic foster parents are trained to deal with
    a child's special needs.   All three younger children demonstrated
    delayed development in speech.    Christina also "suffers from
    underlying anxiety," and she and Anthony have been diagnosed as
    having ADHD.    In addition, Anthony shows signs of mental
    retardation.    All three younger children see a psychiatrist for
    medication and participate in speech therapy.    Anthony began
    taking medication in August 2001, and Christina began taking
    medication in October 2001.   Money stated that the children still
    need supervision and structure.
    When Money took over in September 2001, she reminded the
    parents about the services already in place.    Money also
    recommended that mother participate in an anger management class
    and that father attend Alcoholics Anonymous (AA).   Money directed
    father to obtain documentation of AA meetings he attended.
    According to Money, the parents have attended fourteen out of a
    possible 132 parenting classes offered during the time RDSS was
    involved in their case, making their attendance rate 11%.    Mother
    never attended anger management class, and father failed to
    provide written verification that he attended any AA meetings.
    Father told Money the AA meetings depressed him.
    When Money first got the case, the parents' home was
    condemned because of lead paint and electrical and plumbing
    deficiencies.    The parents moved in with friends, then lived in a
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    hotel for a few weeks until moving into the house they now occupy.
    Money observed several visits between parents and the children and
    recalled how Johnny would appear to stay by himself, isolated and
    ignored.   Usually some problem would occur with one of the younger
    children, such as Anthony choking after eating too many donuts or
    Catherine spilling an overfilled cup of drink on herself.
    Although Money referred father and mother "to family
    counseling at Commonwealth Catholic Charities," the parents
    decided to meet with Robert Osborn for counseling.   Initially,
    Osborn told Money he did not believe the parents could cope with
    children with special needs.   However, according to Money, he
    later altered that opinion and currently feels the parents could
    maintain the children in their home "as long as there were a lot
    of supportive services in the home."
    Sharon Jacobs has been the foster mother for Christina,
    Catherine and Anthony since December 3, 2001.   Jacobs explained
    how she and her husband were able to successfully alter the
    children's behavior by establishing a system of rules and
    rewards.   Jacobs noted that the children appear happier and more
    responsive.   She attributes their progress to the daily routine
    and structure she and her husband offer in their therapeutic
    foster home setting.   There have been no incidents of biting
    since the placement.
    Robert Osborn, a licensed clinical social worker, testified
    that he first met with the parents in October 2001 and has been
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    seeing them weekly.    Initially, both parents exhibited symptoms
    of "affective disorders," mother suffering from depression and
    father from bipolar disorder.    Both parents are currently taking
    antidepressants and their conditions are stabilized.    Although
    Osborn was not concerned about the children's safety if they
    returned home, he felt "there's still room for growth in their
    parenting skills."    Osborn opined they may pay less attention to
    the children's emotional needs and show inconsistency in their
    care.    According to Osborn, the parents have made much progress
    since their first meeting in October 2001.    He acknowledged that
    the parents failed to advise him they had psychological
    evaluations done in May 2000 and that access to those results
    would have been helpful in their treatment.    Osborn felt the
    parents might be able to be more effective with the children in
    terms of incorporating what they have learned if they were able
    to practice what they have learned for three or four months.
    Osborn noted that children with ADHD need "consistency,
    support," medication, and structure.     According to Osborn, the
    parents would need two to three months "to get back into the
    swing of parenting and be able to incorporate [their] new
    information."    Osborn noted that both parents came from
    dysfunctional family situations, making it more difficult for
    them to overcome their past and become effective parents.
    By order dated February 28, 2002, the trial court deferred
    making a determination "until early August 2002" in order to
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    allow the parents, who had recently been diagnosed and
    prescribed medication and therapy, to show that they could
    effectively remedy the situation causing removal and take care
    of their children.   The trial court directed RDSS to "provide
    appropriate services to determine if reunification of this
    family can be accomplished" and to "file a report of its efforts
    and any reaction thereto and results thereof" before the August
    hearing.
    RDSS's Report of Reunification Attempt
    Pursuant to the trial court's February 28, 2002 order,
    Money prepared and submitted a report "documenting the efforts
    made by [RDSS] to attempt to reunify" the parents with the
    children.   Money first changed the one and one-half hour
    bi-weekly supervised visits to unsupervised visits.    The visits
    took place in a playroom at the RDSS office; a two-way mirror
    enabled RDSS staff to observe.   If, during those visits, the
    parents "could demonstrate that they could keep the children
    safe, . . . then the visits could begin to take place at the Van
    Buren's home."
    By April 2002, visitation took place weekly and was
    increased to two hours.   In May 2002, "the visits were changed
    back from weekly to bi-weekly, as [the three younger children's]
    behavior had declined dramatically, and Mr. and Mrs. Van Buren
    were not demonstrating appropriate parenting skills."    "On many
    occasions," Money observed situations where the parents "have
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    not been able to keep the children safe, supervise them, or
    discipline them appropriately."   For example, "[d]uring
    unsupervised visits, Anthony has bitten his siblings on several
    occasions and he has fallen off the back of the couch and bumped
    and scratched his head."    Moreover, father "has been observed
    spitting on the children, and walking out in traffic while
    holding Christine and Katherine's hands."   Money noted that
    father "does not follow the instructions that [she] makes
    regarding the visits, [and] he spends little time actually
    interacting with the children, as he uses the telephone, leaves
    the room to smoke cigarettes, or" complains about the children's
    foster care case.    Money detailed several inappropriate comments
    made to the children by mother and father and noted that mother
    "has not shown any ability to discipline the children."    It
    "appear[ed]" to Money that the parents "rely on Johnny [the
    oldest child] to discipline his younger siblings."   The parents
    bring no toys or games with which to engage the children during
    the visits, instead promising them there will be toys when they
    return home.
    Money wrote that father "will not accept redirection, or he
    will deny that he responded in a particular way."    For example,
    he "attempted to schedule visits with Johnny through the foster
    mother, rather than scheduling them through [Money]."   When
    confronted with the issue, he denied making such a request to
    the foster mother.   Another time, father "went against [Money's]
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    recommendations and allowed" the mother, who had a suspended
    driver's license, to transport Johnny and him to an event in the
    city.    Money documented other instances in which father acted
    against her advice and "attempted to deceive [her]."
    Money reported that Anthony, Catherine and Christina's
    "foster parents . . . have noticed a decline in the children's
    behavior since the visits have been unsupervised."    Following
    the visits, "the children are much more aggressive" and they
    experience nightmares.    Christina "wets the bed for several
    nights following visits" and has "temper tantrums."    After one
    visit at which father spit water on the children, "the children
    were spitting on one another."    Following a visit on May 22,
    2002, Anthony's foster mother noted "6 small bruises on his
    back."    Anthony said "that Johnny had touched his back" and that
    "he had bitten" Johnny and his mother because they "were holding
    him tightly."    Money observed several situations where the
    parents failed to properly discipline or supervise the children,
    either ignoring the behavior or merely saying, "No," often to no
    avail, but refusing to actively address the situation.
    Money spoke with Debra Robbins, the therapist for the three
    younger children, and reported Robbins' opinion that father
    "would not be able to attend the children's needs, due to his
    own limitations."
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    The Second Hearing
    On August 7, 2002, the parties appeared before the trial
    court.   Prior to the hearing, Money submitted her report.   Four
    witnesses testified, including Osborn, the clinical social
    worker working with the parents.   The evidence established that
    father suffers from bipolar disorder, an "emotional disorder,"
    and mother suffers from depression.     Osborn noted that these
    "chronic conditions" can be treated in the long-term only if the
    parents regularly obtain and take their medication.
    The guardian ad litem for Johnny, the oldest child, advised
    the trial court that Johnny's "connection is very strong with
    the [three younger] siblings," and that connection is "clearly
    the stronger one."   Johnny lives with different foster parents
    than the three siblings.   Johnny's guardian ad litem reported
    that Johnny expressed that he did not desire to return home if
    his siblings did not return.   The guardian noted that Johnny's
    connection with his siblings would be cut off completely if
    Johnny remained at home alone with the parents and the parental
    rights to the younger siblings were terminated and they were
    adopted.   However, if Johnny remains in another foster home or
    is adopted by another family, there is a possibility that
    visitation among the siblings could be arranged.
    In light of Money's report documenting the parents'
    inability to safely care for the younger three children in a
    controlled setting for a short period of time, and because they
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    are doing so well in their foster home, the younger children's
    guardian ad litem recommended that "it's in their best interest
    to end this and move forward with the adoption."
    The trial court ruled as follows:
    I do find by the appropriate standard
    clear and convincing evidence that it is
    appropriate that there be termination of
    parental rights of all four children. I
    have no question in my mind whatsoever about
    the appropriateness of that decision, with
    the exception of Johnny.
    That one, I think Mr. Yeaker [Johnny's
    guardian ad litem] has set out at least
    three of the most obvious options. There's
    not one of them in that whole group that is
    a great one. I think the best one and the
    most likely to result in a long-term benefit
    for [Johnny] is going to be terminate and
    attempt to get him into an adoptive home.
    That needs to be done soon. He's eleven
    years old now. Time is running out for him.
    The trial court directed the attorney for RDSS to draft an
    order reflecting his ruling.
    The final order dated September 3, 2002, contains the
    following:
    The Court having heard and considered
    the evidence and arguments of counsel FINDS
    by a preponderance of the evidence that the
    goal of adoption is in the best interests of
    [the children]. The Court also FINDS by
    clear and convincing evidence that it is in
    the best interests of [the children] to
    terminate the parental rights of Michael and
    Cassie Van Buren and that Michael and Cassie
    Van Buren have failed to remedy the
    conditions, which led to [the children's]
    placement and continuation in the custody of
    the Richmond Department of Social Services.
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    Therefore the Court ORDERS that the
    residual parental rights of Michael and
    Cassie Van Buren are terminated, the goal of
    adoption is approved and the Richmond
    Department of social Services is granted the
    rights to place the child[ren] for adoption.
    ANALYSIS
    "When addressing matters concerning a child, including the
    termination of a parent's residual parental rights, the paramount
    consideration of a trial court is the child's best interests."
    Logan v. Fairfax County Dep't of Human Development, 
    13 Va. App. 123
    , 128, 
    409 S.E.2d 460
    , 463 (1991).     "'In matters of a child's
    welfare, trial courts are vested with broad discretion in making
    the decisions necessary to guard and to foster a child's best
    interests.'"   
    Id.
       The trial judge's findings, "'when based on
    evidence heard ore tenus, will not be disturbed on appeal unless
    plainly wrong or without evidence to support it.'"    
    Id.
     (citation
    omitted).
    Sufficiency of the Evidence
    Appellant contends the evidence was insufficient to support
    the termination under either subsection of Code § 16.1-283(C).
    Although the trial court did not specifically state under
    which subsection of the statute it found termination of mother's
    parental rights to be appropriate, RDSS's evidence and the
    language used by the trial court make clear that the termination
    occurred pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(C)(2).     Thus, we limit our
    sufficiency analysis to Code § 16.1-283(C)(2), which provides
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    that a court may terminate a parent's residual parental rights
    where a child has been placed in foster care as a result of
    court commitment if the court finds, based upon clear and
    convincing evidence, that (1) it is in the best interests of the
    child; (2) that the parents without good cause have been
    unwilling or unable within a reasonable period of time not to
    exceed twelve months to remedy substantially the conditions
    which led to the child's foster care placement; and (3) that
    reasonable and appropriate efforts of social, medical, mental
    health or other rehabilitative agencies have been made to such
    end.
    Clear and convincing evidence is "that measure or degree of
    proof which will produce in the mind of the trier of facts a
    firm belief or conviction as to the allegations sought to be
    established.   It is intermediate, being more than a mere
    preponderance, but . . . [less than] a reasonable doubt . . . ."
    Gifford v. Dennis, 
    230 Va. 193
    , 198 n.1, 
    353 S.E.2d 371
    , 373 n.1
    (1985).
    We view the evidence in the light most favorable to the
    party prevailing below and grant to that evidence all reasonable
    inferences fairly deducible therefrom.    Logan v. Fairfax County
    Dep't of Human Dev., 
    13 Va. App. 123
    , 128, 
    409 S.E.2d 460
    , 463
    (1991).   Although "[t]he termination of residual parental rights
    is a grave, drastic and irreversible action," Helen W. v.
    Fairfax County Dep't of Human Dev., 
    12 Va. App. 877
    , 883, 407
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    S.E.2d 25, 28-29 (1991), we "'presume[] [the trial court has]
    thoroughly weighed all the evidence [and] considered the
    statutory requirements,'" Logan, 13 Va. App. at 128, 
    409 S.E.2d at 463
     (quoting Farley v. Farley, 
    9 Va. App. 326
    , 329, 
    387 S.E.2d 794
    , 796 (1990)).
    The evidence, viewed in the light most favorable to RDSS,
    proved, by clear and convincing evidence, both (1) that RDSS
    made "reasonable and appropriate efforts" to help mother remedy
    the conditions "which led to or required continuation of the
    child[ren]'s foster care placement" and (2) that appellant,
    without good cause, failed "to substantially remedy" those
    conditions.   In reaching this conclusion, the court was required
    by Code § 16.1-283(C)(2) to "take into consideration the prior
    efforts of such agencies to rehabilitate the parent."
    The evidence established that RDSS began working with
    mother and father in July 1999 after it obtained custody of the
    children.   RDSS submitted a foster care plan with a goal of
    returning the children home, first by March 2000, then by
    December 2000.    During the children's temporary placement in
    foster care, RDSS assisted mother and father in obtaining help
    so as to improve their parenting skills and regain possession of
    their children.   The case worker referred mother to a parents
    support group and father to agencies to evaluate and treat him for
    substance abuse and anger management.   In April 2000, RDSS
    contracted with Wilkerson's to provide in-home assistance, and in
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    May 2000, RDSS had mother and father evaluated by a psychologist.
    The evaluation revealed that father has below average cognitive
    abilities, he is emotionally immature, and he may suffer from
    neurological impairment, alcohol dependence, and depression.    The
    evaluation recommended a psychiatric evaluation for possible
    medical intervention.   The evaluation found father to be rigid,
    simplistic, and limited in solving problems.
    Mother was found to be suffering from depression.    She was
    viewed as the more passive parent.    Evidence also indicated she
    had a problem controlling her anger.
    Eleven months after removing the children and providing
    services to help the parents be more effective and diligent,
    RDSS returned the children to the parents for a trial placement.
    Five months later, in November 2000, RDSS again removed the
    children based on a founded complaint of lack of supervision and
    deteriorating behavior by the children, which the parents were
    unable to control or ameliorate.     The children were again placed
    in foster care homes.
    The children had spent eleven months in foster care during
    the first removal and another twenty months after the second
    removal.   During that thirty-one month period, three different
    case workers worked on the case.     Throughout that period, RDSS
    provided services and referrals and made "reasonable and
    appropriate efforts" to help the parents remedy the conditions
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    which both "led to" and "required continuation of" the
    children's foster care placement in 1999 and 2000.
    By the time of the February 2002 hearing, the parents,
    Anthony and Christina had been diagnosed and were taking daily
    medication to manage their respective conditions.    Therefore,
    the trial court directed RDSS to attempt to reunify the family a
    third time and determine if they could parent the children
    effectively and safely now that Anthony, Christina, father and
    mother were being treated.   RDSS tried to expand visitation in
    hopes of reunifying the parents and the children; however, the
    case worker reported several instances in which father and
    mother acted inappropriately, failed to maintain control of the
    children, and/or demonstrated an inability to keep them safe.
    The record showed that the parents repeatedly placed Johnny
    in the role of caretaker for the three younger siblings,
    requiring him to supervise and discipline them.   This role was
    inappropriate for Johnny's young age and made him uncomfortable.
    Moreover, throughout RDSS's involvement, the parents continued
    to thrust Johnny into this role, neglecting his own needs.
    The record established that RDSS provided services and
    resources for an extended period of time, well over the
    twelve-month period.   Despite those services, mother and father
    failed to make reasonable progress towards eliminating
    substantially the conditions which led to the children's foster
    care placement.   See Code § 16.1-283(C)(2).
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    "'It is clearly not in the best interests of a child to
    spend a lengthy period of time waiting to find out when, or even
    if, a parent will be capable of resuming his [or her]
    responsibilities.'"   Richmond Dept. of Soc. Servs. v. L.P., 
    35 Va. App. 573
    , 584, 
    546 S.E.2d 749
    , 754-55 (2001) (quoting
    Kaywood v. Halifax County Dep't of Soc. Servs., 
    10 Va. App. 535
    ,
    540, 
    394 S.E.2d 492
    , 495 (1990)).
    Waiting indefinitely to find out if the
    [parents] might someday remedy the
    conditions that resulted in [the children's]
    foster care placement only prolongs the lack
    of stability and permanency in [the
    children's] li[ves], with no guarantee or
    even reasonable likelihood that the
    [parents] will ever be able to adequately
    care for [the children] in the future."
    
    Id. at 585
    , 
    546 S.E.2d at 755
    .
    Moreover,
    a parent's mental deficiency that is of such
    severity that there is no reasonable
    expectation that such parent will be able
    within a reasonable period of time befitting
    the child's best interests to undertake
    responsibility for the care needed by the
    child in accordance with the child's age and
    stage of development does not constitute
    "good cause" under Code § 16.1-283(C)(2).
    Id.
    The children are doing well, living with foster families
    who love them and provide safe, clean environments and
    appropriate supervision.   That situation contrasts sharply with
    the chaotic and unclean conditions they repeatedly experienced
    with the parents.   Being ADHD, Anthony and Christina require
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    care and supervision that father and mother cannot now provide.
    Johnny has undergone three years of foster home placement and
    uncertainty, and is now at the age where he needs permanence.
    The decision to terminate mother's parental rights to Johnny
    does not foreclose Johnny from maintaining a relationship with
    his three younger siblings.
    RDSS presented clear and convincing evidence that termination
    is in the children's best interests and it is not reasonably
    likely that the conditions which led to the children's neglect or
    abuse can be substantially corrected or eliminated to allow them
    to return within a reasonable period of time.
    Standard of Proof
    Mother contends the trial court based its findings on an
    incorrect standard.   She bases her argument on a statement in
    RDSS's closing argument and on language used in the draft of the
    final order prepared by RDSS.
    At the August 2002 hearing, counsel for RDSS summarized Code
    § 16.1-283(C)(2) as allowing termination if parents are "unwilling
    or unable within any reasonable period of time not to exceed 12
    months . . . to remedy the situation."   The final order, which the
    trial court directed RDSS to prepare, states that the trial court
    found by clear and convincing evidence that the parents "have
    failed to remedy the conditions" which led to removal and
    placement by RDSS.
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    On appeal, mother points out that RDSS misstated the law in
    its closing argument and in its draft of the final order in that
    the statute requires a showing that a parent need only "remedy
    substantially," not remedy completely, "the conditions which led
    to or required continuation of the child's foster care
    placement."   Code § 16.1-283(C)(2) (emphasis added).
    Mother failed to raise before the trial court the argument
    she makes here.   Rule 5A:18 provides, in pertinent part, that
    "[n]o ruling of the trial court . . . will be considered as a
    basis for reversal unless the objection was stated together with
    the grounds therefor at the time of the ruling."    Thus, we will
    not consider a claim of trial court error as a ground for
    reversal "where no timely objection was made."     Marshall v.
    Commonwealth, 
    26 Va. App. 627
    , 636, 
    496 S.E.2d 120
    , 125 (1998).
    The purpose of these rules is to ensure that the trial court and
    opposing party are given the opportunity to intelligently
    address, examine, and resolve issues in the trial court, thus
    avoiding unnecessary appeals and reversals.   Lee v. Lee, 
    12 Va. App. 512
    , 514, 
    404 S.E.2d 736
    , 737 (1991) (en banc).
    Mother acknowledges that she did not preserve these issues
    but asks us to invoke the "ends of justice" exception to Rule
    5A:18 in order to consider the merits of her claims.    "[T]he
    ends of justice exception is narrow and is to be used sparingly
    . . . ."   Brown v. Commonwealth, 
    8 Va. App. 126
    , 132, 
    380 S.E.2d 8
    , 10 (1989).   "In order to avail oneself of the exception, a
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    [party] must affirmatively show that a miscarriage of justice
    has occurred, not that a miscarriage might have occurred."
    Redman v. Commonwealth, 
    25 Va. App. 215
    , 221, 
    487 S.E.2d 269
    ,
    272 (1997).   The trial error must be "clear, substantial and
    material."    Brown, 8 Va. App. at 132, 
    380 S.E.2d at 11
    .
    In expressing its decision, the trial court found "by the
    appropriate standard clear and convincing evidence" to support
    its decision to terminate mother's residual parental rights.
    Moreover, we found in the previous discussion that RDSS
    presented clear and convincing evidence to support the trial
    court's decision.   That evidence proved that the mother failed
    to remedy substantially the conditions that caused the children
    to be removed and placed with RDSS.     Specifically, the evidence
    established that, after more than two and one-half years of RDSS
    assistance, the parents were unable to safely and appropriately
    supervise the children and take care of their special needs.
    Therefore, the record does not reflect any reason to invoke the
    good cause or ends of justice exceptions to Rule 5A:18.
    Accordingly, the decisions of the circuit court are summarily
    affirmed.
    Affirmed.
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