In Re Brick Earl Harris, And Robert Hobson Brimlow ( 2024 )


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  •        IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON
    In the Matter of the Committed Intimate            No. 84501-2-I
    Relationship of
    DIVISION ONE
    BRICK EARL HARRIS,
    Respondent,
    and                                UNPUBLISHED OPINION
    ROBERT HOBSON BRIMLOW,
    Appellant.
    BOWMAN, J. — Brick Harris and Robert Brimlow lived together for 16
    years. In that time, they held themselves out as a couple, shared resources, and
    bought two houses together. When they separated, Harris petitioned for a
    division of assets, alleging a committed intimate relationship (CIR). Brimlow
    opposed the petition, arguing he and Harris were only housemates and business
    partners. Following a bench trial, the court ruled for Harris. It then awarded
    Harris one house and Brimlow the other. Brimlow appeals. Because the record
    supports the trial court’s conclusions and it did not abuse its discretion in dividing
    property, we affirm.
    FACTS
    Harris and Brimlow met at a mutual friend’s birthday party in January
    2003. At that time, Harris worked at Home Depot and owned a home in Everett.
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    Brimlow was a flight attendant for United Airlines and renting an apartment in
    SeaTac. Brimlow also owned investment properties in Burien, Tacoma, and
    Seattle’s Columbia City neighborhood.
    After the birthday party, Harris and Brimlow exchanged numbers and got
    to know each other by phone. They went on dates, and about eight or nine
    months into the relationship, they had sex. After having sex once, the two
    concluded they were not “compatible sexually,” and seldom expressed their
    affection to one another physically. Still, within six months, Brimlow gave Harris
    a key to his home, where they spent nearly every night in the same bed together.
    In those early years, Brimlow often read Harris to sleep.
    During their time together, Harris and Brimlow enjoyed seeing movies,
    going out to restaurants, and attending music concerts, theatre performances,
    and Cirque du Soleil shows. They also enjoyed travelling together. Harris
    estimated that over the course of their relationship, they took at least 30 to 35
    vacations. And the couple shared an interest in construction and renovation.
    Between 2003 and 2005, they worked on renovations on all three of Brimlow’s
    rental properties.
    In summer 2005, Harris and Brimlow bought a home from a friend’s
    grandmother—a “tiny fixer-upper” in Green Lake. The couple wanted to
    renovate, and they thought it would be a good opportunity to earn equity for
    retirement. To afford the house, Brimlow told Harris they could qualify for an
    interest-only loan, but Harris’ income could not support their mortgage
    application. Brimlow said the bank would only finance the purchase if they listed
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    Harris as a renter to show the property had income. But the parties agreed that
    they would refinance into a conventional mortgage when they could qualify and
    own the home jointly. So, at first, the mortgage, deed, and title to the Green
    Lake house named only Brimlow. And the parties executed a joint venture
    agreement (JVA), which showed the bank that Harris was a renter, but also
    allocated Harris a financial interest in the house.
    After purchasing the Green Lake property, Harris and Brimlow moved into
    the house together. They agreed to sleep in different bedrooms because they
    “both slept better when [they] slept alone,” so Harris set up his bedroom in the
    basement “because it was cool down there.” Harris then sold his Everett
    property in 2006. And in 2007, Harris and Brimlow bought another house in
    Burien to renovate and rent.1 Harris believed both men were on the title to the
    Burien house. They shared a joint bank account for projects on their houses, a
    Costco card, and the same homeowner’s and car insurance.
    In 2011, the parties refinanced the Green Lake house, putting both Harris
    and Brimlow on the deed and title. After refinancing, Harris tore up the JVA in
    front of Brimlow. Harris and Brimlow also added each other as domestic partners
    to their employers’ medical and dental coverage. And in 2012, when marriage
    became available to same-sex couples in Washington, Harris bought rings for
    him and Brimlow to wear. Harris also added Brimlow to his will and granted him
    1
    This is a different property than the rental property in Burien that Brimlow
    owned before meeting Harris. Brimlow eventually sold his rental properties in Burien
    and Columbia City. Brimlow’s Tacoma property was not at issue in the CIR
    proceedings.
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    a limited power of attorney, including health care decisions. Throughout the
    years, the couple gave each other Valentine’s day cards and sent joint Christmas
    cards to their neighbor.
    Around 2019, Harris started feeling unhappy with the relationship. Over
    the next couple of years, he realized it was ending. In early 2021, Harris
    consulted a family law attorney because Brimlow kept requesting that he sign a
    quitclaim deed relinquishing his rights to the Burien house. Then, in March 2021,
    he found Brimlow having sex with Harris’ coworker in their home. Harris
    described this as “the final straw” and, soon after, moved out of the Green Lake
    house. Harris then petitioned the court for a distribution of property, alleging he
    and Brimlow were in a CIR. Brimlow opposed the petition, arguing that their
    relationship was solely roommates and business partners.
    The case went to bench trial in July 2022. At trial, Harris testified to the
    above facts and entered into evidence photos of him and Brimlow on several
    vacations. He submitted images of joint Christmas cards they sent a neighbor
    that each of them signed. One card showed a picture of them together. Harris
    testified that between 2005 and 2016, they exchanged Valentine’s day cards. He
    entered some of those cards into evidence. Several cards were signed “Love,
    Rob” in Brimlow’s handwriting. Harris testified that in their relationship, “[w]e
    treated each other like we were married. We were best friends. We were
    boyfriends. We were business partners. To me it was just like a normal
    relationship.”
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    Harris called as witnesses Conlyn MacInnis, Challie Brooks, Renee
    Higbee, and Gloria Grimm, who all testified about the nature of his and Brimlow’s
    relationship. MacInnis, a work friend of Harris’, testified that Harris and Brimlow
    “acted like any couple would.” She testified that they were “not overly
    affectionate,” but they would hold each other and say “kind words to one
    another.” Based on her observations, MacInnis “just knew that they were in a
    relationship.” Brooks, a neighbor of the Green Lake house, testified that she
    “always thought [Harris and Brimlow] were a couple” because they always did
    things together. She testified that they “arrived to block parties together,” made
    plans together, vacationed together, and sat next to each other at dinner parties
    like couples do. Higbee, a former coworker of Harris and longtime friend,
    testified that she observed Harris and Brimlow “[h]ugging and kissing, . . . the
    normal stuff . . . couples do.” And Grimm, a longtime friend of both Harris and
    Brimlow, testified that she believed they were a “couple” based on “their body
    language and the way they acted around each other.” She said they were
    “affectionate” toward each other.
    Harris also called as a witness Joseph Hasson, a real estate appraiser,
    who valued the Green Lake house at $825,000. Hasson did not value the Burien
    house. Harris asked the court to award him the Green Lake house, award
    Brimlow the Burien house, and equally divide their retirement accounts.
    Brimlow testified that he and Harris were only friends and business
    partners. He said that early in their interactions, Harris wanted to pursue a
    romantic relationship with him, which he rebuffed. According to Brimlow, Harris
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    “was definitely very committed to a relationship,” and “it made him feel really bad
    when I turned him down.” Brimlow testified that their interactions were difficult
    after that because Harris’ “ardor had not seemed to cool much,” and that he
    rejected Harris’ advances twice more before 2005 when they bought the Green
    Lake house.
    Brimlow testified he intended to buy the Green Lake house alone, but he
    was worried he could not afford it. So, he asked Harris if he would like to rent a
    room in the house, help with renovations, and receive a proportional ownership
    interest in the house based on his contributions. Harris agreed, and they both
    moved into the house. Brimlow testified that he lived upstairs, Harris lived in the
    basement, and they shared the kitchen and living room.
    Brimlow said that shortly after they moved into the Green Lake house, he
    and Harris executed the JVA to establish their rights and interests in the home.2
    The JVA, titled “Month-to-Month Tenancy and Joint Venture Agreement,” granted
    Harris a “non-exclusive right to possession and the non-exclusive right to reside
    with [Brimlow]” at the Green Lake house month-to-month. Harris’ rent was set at
    half the monthly mortgage cost. It said that the parties agreed to jointly remodel
    and improve the residence. And the JVA created a structure for how the parties
    would divide proceeds from an eventual sale of the property; essentially,
    repaying costs of the project, reimbursing the parties for their contributions to the
    project, and allocating any remaining funds proportionally based on each party’s
    2
    The court reserved ruling on admission of the JVA at trial but admitted it into
    evidence in its “Addendum to Preliminary Findings and Conclusions about a Committed
    Intimate Relationship” (Addendum).
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    contribution of labor and costs. The JVA required the parties to create and
    contribute to a joint construction account. And it required Brimlow to provide
    Harris an annual accounting of the parties’ contributions and prospective
    proceeds. Brimlow testified that consistent with the JVA, he opened a joint
    account, Harris deposited money in the account for rent and utilities, and Brimlow
    used those funds to pay the mortgage.
    Brimlow testified that when interest rates dropped in 2011, he sought to
    refinance the Green Lake house. But he could not afford to do so alone, so he
    and Harris jointly refinanced, adding Harris to the title. Still, Brimlow said he
    continued to view Harris as his renter.
    As to their Burien house, Brimlow said he bought it in 2006 on an interest-
    only mortgage that he intended to refinance later. Harris expressed an interest in
    investing in the house, too, so they orally agreed that the JVA would apply
    equally to the Green Lake and Burien houses. Then, in 2011, he refinanced with
    Harris’ help and executed a quitclaim deed listing them both on the Burien
    property. But Brimlow said Harris was listed only to refinance at a lower rate, not
    to grant him an equal interest in the property.
    Brimlow testified that he and Harris maintained separate accounts for all
    purposes except for the joint construction account required under the JVA.
    Brimlow admitted that they shared auto, umbrella, and liability insurance and that
    he put Harris on his medical insurance as a domestic partner. But he claimed
    that he did so only as a friend.
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    Brimlow steadfastly denied that he and Harris had a romantic relationship
    other than a one-time sexual encounter. He said after 2005, Harris continued to
    pursue him, and he always rejected Harris’ advances. He said he had to
    repeatedly tell Harris to stop telling other people that they were a couple, but he
    ultimately “just gave up” because “[i]t was just too much work.” Brimlow testified
    that between 2003 and 2021, he had “a couple of dozen” sexual partners. He did
    not tell Harris about those partners because it was “none of his business.”
    When asked about the cards, rings, and vacations, Brimlow testified that
    he and Harris sent the neighbor Christmas cards because the three of them had
    a good relationship. And he testified that he gave Harris Valentine’s day cards
    because living with Harris was difficult, and giving cards “placate[ed]” him. He
    said that he signed lots of cards to his friends “Love, Rob” and that it was “just a
    platonic love.” Brimlow testified that he vaguely remembered Harris purchasing
    him a ring, but he never wore it. And he admitted that he often travelled with
    Harris but explained that he “travelled with people frequently.”
    Finally, Brimlow offered testimony from several friends about the nature of
    his and Harris’ relationship. Christian Caicedo, a romantic partner who lives in
    Spain that Brimlow met while traveling, testified that he believed Brimlow and
    Harris were friends and housemates based on Brimlow’s representation that he
    did not have another intimate partner. Sandra Thurnau, a neighbor, testified that
    she believed Brimlow and Harris “were business partners, and [Harris] was
    renting the basement from [Brimlow],” because she and Brimlow spoke about
    their contractual arrangement several times. Janice Bridges, a longtime friend of
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    Brimlow’s, testified that she did not believe they were a couple because Brimlow
    said they were just “roommates.” Craig Koball, a coworker of Harris’ and
    romantic partner of Brimlow’s, testified that he did not believe Brimlow and Harris
    were in a romantic relationship because Brimlow insisted they were just
    “housemates.” And George Banton, a longtime friend of both Brimlow and
    Harris, testified that he once asked Brimlow about the relationship, and Brimlow
    said that he and Harris were business partners. Banton also said that he did not
    believe they had a romantic relationship because when Harris introduced
    Brimlow as his “partner,” Brimlow would clarify that they were partners “[i]n
    business only.” Finally, Brimlow’s financial planner, a longtime colleague, and
    his real estate agent each testified that Brimlow told them that he and Harris
    were business partners and housemates and not romantically involved.
    After trial, the court weighed the competing testimony and found Harris’
    version of events more credible. The court explained that Harris “testified in a
    straightforward, calm, and forthright manner” and that his “claims about his
    relationship with [Brimlow] were reasonable in the context of the other evidence.”
    The court also found Harris’ witnesses credible. Accordingly, in its findings of
    fact and conclusions of law, the court found:
    (a) [T]he parties continually cohabitated for nearly 16 years; (b) the
    relationship existed for nearly another two years prior to that, for a
    total of 18 years; (c) the purpose of the relationship was primarily a
    romantic one, though they had business interests together; (d) the
    parties pooled their resources and services for the many joint
    projects they engaged in; and (e) the intent of the parties, including
    [Brimlow]’s to the end was to live together as a mostly committed
    and exclusive relationship.
    As a result, the court concluded that the evidence supported the existence of a
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    CIR. On July 19, 2022, the trial court entered “Preliminary Findings and
    Conclusions about a Committed Intimate Relationship” and the Addendum.
    Before dividing assets, the court asked the parties for proposed final
    orders distributing all community-like property consistent with its ruling. Harris
    submitted an asset spreadsheet valuing the two houses and his and Brimlow’s
    retirement accounts. He valued the Green Lake house at $825,000 with a
    mortgage of $313,534 for a net value of $511,466. He valued the Burien house
    at $565,000 with a mortgage of $149,768 for a net value of $415,232. And he
    valued his retirement assets at $49,389 and Brimlow’s at $492,838. Harris
    requested that the trial court award him the Green Lake house and Brimlow the
    Burien house. He asked the court to divide the parties’ retirement funds equally
    or, in the alternative, order Brimlow to pay him a $173,608 judgment to equalize
    their assets.
    Brimlow did not request a division of community-like property. Nor did he
    assign values to the houses. Instead, he argued that he was entitled to both
    homes because the evidence at trial showed that they were his separate
    property. Brimlow also asserted that some of the retirement assets are separate
    property and “will need to be traced by an expert in order to determine the
    separate vs. community-like portions in order for the court to divide them
    properly.”
    On August 25, 2022, the court entered final findings and conclusions and
    an order dividing property. It found that the parties were in a CIR no later than
    September 2003 and that both Harris and Brimlow were on the titles of the Green
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    Lake and Burien houses. Accordingly, it characterized those assets as
    community-like property. It awarded Harris the Green Lake house and Brimlow
    the Burien house. The court identified the retirement assets as possible
    community-like property but declined to distribute them or to order a judgment
    equalizing assets.
    Brimlow moved for reconsideration, which the trial court denied. Brimlow
    appeals.
    ANALYSIS
    Brimlow challenges several of the trial court’s findings of fact and argues
    they do not support the court’s conclusion that he and Harris were in a CIR. He
    also asserts that the trial court’s distribution of property is unfair.
    1. Findings of Fact
    Whether a CIR exits is a mixed question of law and fact. In re Marriage of
    Pennington, 
    142 Wn.2d 592
    , 602-03, 
    14 P.3d 764
     (2000). We review a trial
    court’s findings of fact for substantial evidence. In re Parentage of G.W.-F., 
    170 Wn. App. 631
    , 637, 
    285 P.3d 208
     (2012). Substantial evidence is that which is
    sufficient to persuade a fair-minded, rational person of the finding’s truth. 
    Id.
     If
    substantial evidence supports the finding, it does not matter that other evidence
    may contradict it. In re Marriage of Burrill, 
    113 Wn. App. 863
    , 868, 
    56 P.3d 993
    (2002). We will not substitute our own judgment for that of the fact finder, so we
    defer to the trier of fact to resolve conflicting testimony, evaluate the
    persuasiveness of the evidence, and assess witness credibility. G.W.-F., 170
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    Wn. App. at 637. Unchallenged findings of fact are verities on appeal. Muridan
    v. Redl, 3 Wn. App. 2d 44, 62-63, 
    413 P.3d 1072
     (2018).
    Brimlow challenges findings of fact 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7 in the Addendum.
    But he does not argue those facts are unsupported by substantial evidence.
    Instead, he argues that the trial court “dismissed the entirety of [his] case by
    summarily ignoring his testimony and that of the other witnesses who testified on
    his behalf.” According to Brimlow, the trial court “fell victim” to relying on an
    outdated pattern jury instruction in assessing credibility. We disagree.
    In assessing the credibility of witnesses and conflicting testimony, the trial
    court explained that it considers:
    [T]he opportunity of the witness to observe or know the things they
    testify about; the ability of the witness to observe accurately; the
    quality of a witness’s memory while testifying; the manner of the
    witness while testifying; any personal interest that the witness
    might have in the outcome or the issues; any bias or prejudice that
    the witness may have shown; the reasonableness of the
    witness’s statements in the context of all of the other
    evidence; and any other factors that affect the Court’s evaluation
    or belief of a witness or its evaluation of his or her testimony.
    This language mimics the language of 6 Washington Pattern Jury Instructions:
    Civil 1.02, at 27 (7th ed. 2022) (WPI).3 And because Brimlow cites no authority
    to support his claim that the court erred by using this language as a guide to
    assess witness credibility, we are not persuaded by his argument. See In re
    Marriage of Raskob, 
    183 Wn. App. 503
    , 517 n.25, 
    334 P.3d 30
     (2014) (if a party
    cites no authority in support of a proposition, we may assume that counsel, after
    3
    Brimlow erroneously identifies the source of the language as WPI 2.07, at 52.
    He points out that the comment to WPI 2.07 recommends against giving the instruction.
    While that is true, the comment to WPI 2.07 also clarifies that the portion of WPI 1.02
    “related to witnesses” and their credibility makes giving WPI 2.07 “unnecessary.”
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    diligent search, found none). Indeed, the note on use for WPI 1.02, at 29,
    instructs courts to “[g]ive this instruction in every case.”
    In any event, the trial court explained how it made its credibility
    determinations. It found Harris’ testimony more credible than Brimlow’s because
    Harris “testified in a straightforward, calm, and forthright manner,” and his “claims
    about his relationship with [Brimlow] were reasonable in the context of the other
    evidence.” In contrast, it found that Brimlow’s account of the nature of his
    relationship with Harris failed to explain how they lived “peacefully for so long
    when they had such different understandings of the relationship.” And the court
    found Harris’ witnesses more credible than Brimlow’s because Harris’ witnesses
    “observed [the couple] interact directly and regularly,” while Brimlow’s witnesses
    had “very limited interaction with them as a couple,” they had “obvious financial
    interests” in “testifying favorably” for Brimlow, or their knowledge of the
    relationship came from only Brimlow.
    The record shows that the trial court carefully weighed the competing
    testimony using appropriate factors. And substantial evidence supports the
    court’s findings. We reject Brimlow’s challenge to the trial court’s findings of fact.
    2. Conclusions of Law
    Brimlow argues that the trial court erred by concluding that its findings of
    fact support the elements of a CIR. We disagree.
    We review the trial court’s conclusion that the parties were in a CIR de
    novo. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 54. Although we defer to the trial court’s
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    findings of fact, we review de novo whether the trial court’s legal conclusions
    properly follow from those findings. 
    Id.
    A CIR is a stable, marital-like relationship where both parties cohabit with
    knowledge that a lawful marriage between them does not exist. Connell v.
    Francisco, 
    127 Wn.2d 339
    , 346, 
    898 P.2d 831
     (1995).4 The CIR doctrine stems
    from equitable principles and protects the interests of unmarried parties who
    acquire property during their relationship by preventing the unjust enrichment of
    one at the expense of the other when the relationship ends. 
    Id. at 349
    ;
    Pennington, 
    142 Wn.2d at 602
    .
    In determining whether a CIR exists, courts consider several factors,
    including (1) continuous cohabitation, (2) duration of the relationship, (3) purpose
    of the relationship, (4) pooling of resources and services for joint projects, and (5)
    the intent of the parties. Connell, 
    127 Wn.2d at 346
    . These factors are not
    exclusive, and no one factor is more important than another. Id.; Pennington,
    
    142 Wn.2d at 605
    . And we do not apply them in a hypertechnical fashion.
    Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 55. Instead, we “base the determination on the
    circumstances of each case.” 
    Id.
    Brimlow challenges the trial court’s conclusions that he and Harris (A)
    continuously cohabitated, (B) pooled resources, and (C) intended to form a CIR.
    We address each argument in turn.
    4
    We note that Connell uses the term “meretricious relationship” instead of CIR.
    We no longer use that term. See In re Meretricious Relationship of Long, 
    158 Wn. App. 919
    , 
    244 P.3d 26
     (2010).
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    A. Continuous Cohabitation
    The trial court concluded that Harris and Brimlow “continually cohabitated
    for nearly 16 years.” It found that they “began to cohabitate no later than
    September 2003, when [Harris] would stay nearly nightly at [Brimlow]’s old
    Burien house.” And they stopped cohabitating around March 19, 2021, when
    Harris moved out of their Green Lake house. Substantial evidence supports the
    court’s findings. Still, citing Pennington, Brimlow argues that continuous
    cohabitation usually requires the parties to consistently live with each other
    without other partners. And because Brimlow “had [many] other partners” during
    the time he lived with Harris, their “living arrangement . . . [did] not rise to the
    level of cohabitation.”
    In Pennington, our Supreme Court considered whether an on-again, off-
    again relationship amounted to continuous cohabitation. 
    142 Wn.2d at 603
    . The
    parties in that case lived together for six years, during most of which one party
    was married to another; broke up and briefly lived apart; reunited and lived
    together for two years; broke up again and lived apart for over a year, during
    which both parties dated other people and one party lived with another partner;
    then reunited again and lived together for less than a year before their final
    breakup. 
    Id. at 595-97
    . The court determined those facts established the
    parties’ “cohabitation was sporadic and not continuous enough to evidence a
    stable cohabiting relationship.” 
    Id. at 603
    .
    This case is different. The record shows Brimlow and Harris continually
    lived together between September 2003 and March 2021. Harris was unaware
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    that Brimlow had other partners during that time. Indeed, Brimlow testified that
    he “didn’t share that part of [his] life” with Harris. Further, Harris said that if
    Brimlow had disclosed other partners, he would have ended their relationship.
    Accordingly, when Harris discovered Brimlow’s infidelity, he moved out. These
    facts suggest a “stable cohabiting relationship.” Pennington, 
    142 Wn.2d at 603
    .
    The trial court did not err by concluding that this factor supports a
    determination that Harris and Brimlow were in a CIR.
    B. Pooling of Resources and Services for Joint Projects
    The court concluded that “the parties pooled their resources and services
    for the many joint projects they engaged in.” The court found that the parties
    shared a bank account and insurance accounts “that exceeded any interest in
    simply the Green Lake property.” It also found that the parties shared automobile
    insurance. And “[e]ach party at some point during their relationship carried each
    other on their employer’s health insurance policies, where each was identified as
    the other’s “ ‘domestic partner.’ ” The court also found that Brimlow “accepted
    the responsibility and benefits of being [Harris’] power of attorney and beneficiary
    on legal or financial instruments,” such as his brokerage account and will.
    Brimlow argues that their “pooled resources for purposes of investment in
    real estate as a joint venture” does not show that they did so for the purposes of
    a CIR but, rather, as only business partners. We rejected a similar argument in
    In re Meretricious Relationship of Long, 
    158 Wn. App. 919
    , 
    244 P.3d 26
     (2010).
    In that case, the trial court correctly found that purchasing two houses together,
    sharing the mortgage and other household expenses, and jointly working on
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    each other’s rental properties satisfied the pooling of resources factor. 
    Id.
     at 927-
    28. As in Long, substantial evidence supports the court’s findings that Harris and
    Brimlow pooled resources beyond that expected of business partners.
    The trial court did not err by concluding that Harris and Brimlow pooled
    resources consistent with a CIR.
    C. Intent of the Parties
    The trial court concluded that “the intent of the parties, including
    [Brimlow]’s to the end was to live together as a mostly committed and exclusive
    relationship.” It found that “while [Harris and Brimlow] did not have a regular
    sexual relationship, they ‘loved one another as deeply’ as any other committed
    relationship and that [Brimlow] was a ‘very loving person to [Harris],’ as [Harris]
    was to [Brimlow].” Brimlow argues that the findings do not support this
    conclusion because he and Harris “were in an asexual relationship,” he “had
    relations with many other people,” and they “slept in different rooms on different
    floors” of the Green Lake house. We disagree.
    The word “intimate” in the term “CIR” is “not intended to make sexual
    intimacy the litmus test” in determining the existence of a marital-like relationship.
    Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 61. And “[s]ex is not a threshold requirement for
    intimacy.” 
    Id.
     While courts may consider physical intimacy in determining
    whether the parties intended to form a CIR, it is not required. 
    Id.
     Similarly, while
    evidence of infidelity weighs against a court’s determination that the unfaithful
    party intended to form a CIR, it is not determinative. 
    Id. at 60
    .
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    Here, substantial evidence supported the court’s findings.5 The evidence
    showed Harris and Brimlow lived together continuously for 16 years. They
    bought two houses together and had at least one joint checking account. They
    shared homeowner’s and auto insurance policies and each added the other as
    domestic partners to their employer’s medical and dental insurance. They
    travelled and socialized extensively together. And they sent joint Christmas
    cards to their neighbor and exchanged Valentine’s day cards for several years.
    The trial court’s findings support its conclusion that Harris and Brimlow intended
    to form a CIR.
    In sum, we affirm the trial court’s conclusion that the parties were in a CIR.
    3. Division of Property
    Brimlow argues that the trial court erred in its distribution of property.
    Again, we disagree.
    If a court determines that a CIR exists, it then (1) evaluates the interest
    each party has in the property acquired during the relationship and (2) makes a
    just and equitable distribution of the property. Connell, 
    127 Wn.2d at 349
    .
    Courts presume that property acquired during a CIR is community-like.
    Pennington, 
    142 Wn.2d at 602
    . But a party may rebut this presumption if the
    distribution of property would unjustly enrich one party at the expense of the
    other at the end of the relationship. 
    Id.
     We review a trial court’s distribution of
    property from a CIR for an abuse of discretion. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 56. A
    5
    While Brimlow may have offered competing evidence, so long as substantial
    evidence supports the court’s finding, it does not matter to this court’s reviewing function
    that other evidence may contradict it. Burrill, 
    113 Wn. App. at 868
    .
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    trial court abuses its discretion if it bases its decision on untenable grounds or
    untenable reasons. Byerley v. Cail, 
    183 Wn. App. 677
    , 685, 
    334 P.3d 108
    (2014).
    Here, the trial court identified the Green Lake house and the Burien house
    as community-like real property. And it identified Harris and Brimlow’s retirement
    accounts as potentially community-like personal property. Evidence adduced at
    trial and in post-trial submissions valued the Green Lake house at $825,000 with
    a mortgage of $313,534, leaving a net value of $511,466. And the Burien house
    was $565,000 with a mortgage of $149,768 for a net value of $415,232.6 Post-
    trial submissions valued Harris’ retirement assets at $49,389 and Brimlow’s at
    $492,838. The court awarded the Green Lake house to Harris and the Burien
    house to Brimlow. While the award of the properties favored Harris, the court
    also chose not to divide the retirement accounts, which favored Brimlow.
    Brimlow argues the division was not fair because the court disregarded
    the JVA in which the parties agreed to share a proportionate interest in the
    properties based on their respective financial investments. But the trial court
    determined that the parties terminated the JVA. And it found credible Harris’
    testimony that the parties intended to use the JVA only to secure financing, not to
    6
    On appeal, Brimlow appears to dispute the value of the houses and asks us to
    take judicial notice of the most recent assessed values of the properties taken from the
    King County Assessor’s website. But Brimlow had several opportunities to offer
    evidence of the houses’ values below and chose not to do so. And we review the trial
    court’s division of property for an abuse of discretion, which requires us to look at the
    evidence before the court when it made its decision. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 56. As
    a result, we decline to take judicial notice of the current assessed values.
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    define their future financial relationship. Brimlow fails to show that the trial court
    abused its discretion in its division of property.
    We affirm the trial court’s conclusion that Harris and Brimlow were in a
    CIR and its division of property.
    WE CONCUR:
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Document Info

Docket Number: 84501-2

Filed Date: 7/1/2024

Precedential Status: Non-Precedential

Modified Date: 7/1/2024