In re: Marriage of Susan

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October 6, 2006
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IN THE
APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS
SECOND DISTRICT
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In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court
JAMES A. SUSAN, ) of Lee County.
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Petitioner-Appellee, )
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and ) No. 04--D--82
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MONICA R. SUSAN, n/k/a )
Monica R. Cearlock, ) Honorable
) Jacquelyn D. Ackert,
Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding.
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JUSTICE O'MALLEY delivered the opinion of the court:
Respondent, Monica A. Susan, appeals the judgment of the circuit court of Lee County
granting petitioner James A. Susan's petition to terminate maintenance. Respondent argues that the
trial court's determination that she was cohabiting with Don Borski on a resident, continuing
conjugal basis (see 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004)) was against the manifest weight of the
evidence. For the reasons that follow, we affirm.
Petitioner and respondent were married on May 27, 1978. They had four children together:
Lacey, Jenise, Kelly, and James. On June 27, 2000, the trial court dissolved the marriage. The
dissolution order provided that petitioner pay respondent $750 twice per month for maintenance. On
April 27, 2005, petitioner filed an amended petition to terminate maintenance, alleging that
respondent was cohabiting with another person on a resident and continuing conjugal basis. On
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September 1, 2005, the trial court held a hearing on the petition, during which the following
evidence was adduced.
Respondent testified that she has lived in Stephenson, Michigan, since November 2000.
None of her children live with her. Respondent began "going out" with Donald Borski in February
2002. Borski lives in Stephenson, about five miles away from respondent. Borski has four children:
Chris, Ron, Mike, and Karen. After respondent began dating Borski, she did not date anyone else,
although she did have sex with one other person sometime in 2003. She has not had sex with Borski
for over two years.
One to two evenings per week, respondent has dinner at Borski's house. Two to three
evenings per week, respondent goes to Borski's house to watch television or do some other activity.
Respondent often sleeps over at Borski's house, and Borski often sleeps over at respondent's house.
Borski has a key to respondent's house. Respondent does not have a key to Borski's house, but he is
"always" home. When asked about other activities that she does with Borski, respondent stated that
they have gone fishing, to a casino, or out to eat. Respondent works full time at Osco Drug, either
from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. or from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Respondent and Borski have spent holidays together. Respondent testified that she spent
Thanksgiving and Christmas with Borski in 2002, 2003, and 2004. One Christmas, Borski, along
with his son Ron and Ron's two children, stayed at respondent's home. Borski and respondent
shared a bedroom. Respondent's daughters Jenise and Kelly stayed with her as well. Borski's
daughter Chris celebrated with them but spent the evening at Borski's home. Although she could not
recall at the hearing, respondent testified in a prior deposition that she and Borski spent the Fourth of
July together in 2002, 2003, and 2004. Respondent and Borski spent Easter together in 2003, 2004,
and 2005. If respondent had to work on a holiday, she would see Borski after work. Respondent
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also testified that she and Borski may have spent their birthdays together and that if Borski invites
her, she accompanies him to family events. Respondent testified that she has sent out Christmas
cards signed, "Love, Mom and Don." Respondent also sent Jenise a congratulations card signed,
"Love, Mom and Don."
Respondent and Borski have gone on trips together. They spent five days camping and four-
wheeling, along with respondent's son and her son's girlfriend. While camping, respondent and
Borski shared a bed in a camper. Respondent and Borski attended respondent's nephew's wedding
together in South Carolina. They spent a week in South Carolina and shared a hotel room but did
not share a bed. Respondent testified that she has twice visited Borski's brother with Borski and
stayed at Borski's brother's home. She could not recall if she visited Borski's brother a third time, in
2005. She also could not recall testifying at a previous deposition that she stayed with Borski's
brother for four days in 2005. Respondent and Borski have traveled together to Batavia, Illinois, to
visit respondent's friend. While there, the couple spent the night and shared a bed. Respondent and
Borski also traveled to Morris, Illinois, to visit Kelly. Borski accompanied respondent on a six-hour
drive to attend respondent's granddaughter's birthday party, and the couple spent the night. During
Easter 2005, respondent and Borski visited Jenise and shared a bedroom in Jenise's home.
Respondent testified that Borski owns his own home. Respondent does not have a financial
interest in Borski's home, nor does Borski have a financial interest in respondent's home.
Respondent pays her own utility bills. Borski has never paid any medical, clothing, or grocery
expenses for respondent or members of respondent's family. Respondent works full time; Borski is
retired. Respondent has never paid any of Borski's expenses. Respondent has bank accounts in
Menominee and Stephenson, Michigan, and in Morris, Illinois. Borski does not have a financial
interest in respondent's bank accounts. Respondent and Borski do not own any personal property
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together. They do not keep clothing at each other's home. They have never discussed marriage.
Respondent characterized her relationship with Borski as one of friendship.
Scott Rusinek, a private investigator hired by petitioner, testified that on at least one occasion
he followed respondent to Borski's home in the evening and watched her park her car in Borski's
garage. The next morning, Rusinek saw respondent and Borski leave the home together.
Following the presentation of evidence, the trial court made a number of factual findings.
The trial court found that respondent and Borski began dating in 2002 and have engaged in a sexual
relationship, "albeit infrequent," since that time. Respondent and Borski have spent most evenings
together, including overnight, either at Borski's or respondent's house. The trial court noted that
respondent presented no evidence that she ever spent an evening alone. The trial court also noted
that respondent and Borski share meals together and that it was implied that the party preparing the
meal was responsible for the expense of the meal. Respondent and Borski have vacationed together,
have visited family together, and have attended the wedding of a family member of respondent.
They have spent holidays together for the last few years. They sign greeting cards as "Mom and
Don." Respondent does not have a key to Borski's home nor does she have a garage door opener for
Borski's garage. Borski does have a key to respondent's home. Respondent and Borski do not share
any financial interests. They do not share joint bank accounts. They do not jointly own any
automobiles or real estate. They do not share personal property. Respondent and Borski each pay
their own respective expenses. Respondent has never loaned Borski money. Respondent and Borski
do not keep any of their clothing at each other's home. The trial court held that "The factors set forth
by the case law weigh in favor of a finding that [respondent] and [Borski] are cohabiting on a
resident, continuing, conjugal basis." The trial court noted that "[t]he only factor weighing against
such a finding is the interrelation of their personal affairs." Respondent timely appealed.
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Respondent contends that the trial court's determination that she and Borski were cohabiting on a
resident, continuing conjugal basis was against the manifest weight of the evidence.
The trial court's termination of maintenance was based on section 510(c) of the Illinois
Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (the Act), which provides, in pertinent part, that "the
obligation to pay future maintenance is terminated *** if the party receiving maintenance cohabits
with another person on a resident, continuing conjugal basis." 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004).
"The rationale behind termination of maintenance when resident, continuing, conjugal cohabitation
exists is the inequity created when the ex-spouse receiving maintenance becomes involved in a
husband-and-wife relationship but does not legally formalize it, with the result that he or she can
continue to receive maintenance." In re Marriage of Herrin, 262 Ill. App. 3d 573, 577 (1994). The
burden is on the party seeking the termination of maintenance to prove that the ex-spouse receiving
maintenance is involved in a de facto husband and wife relationship with a third party. In re
Marriage of Lambdin, 245 Ill. App. 3d 797, 801 (1993). In determining whether that burden has
been met, courts look to the totality of the circumstances and consider the following factors: "(1) the
length of the relationship; (2) the amount of time the couple spends together; (3) the nature of
activities engaged in; (4) the interrelation of their personal affairs; (5) whether they vacation
together; and (6) whether they spend holidays together." In re Marriage of Sunday, 354 Ill. App. 3d
184, 189 (2004). Our supreme court has indicated that a reviewing court will not disturb a trial
court's finding of a de facto husband and wife relationship unless that finding is contrary to the
manifest weight of the evidence. In re Marriage of Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d 456, 469 (1985); see also
Sunday, 354 Ill. App. 3d at 189. Every case in which a termination of maintenance is sought
presents a unique set of facts. In re Marriage of Bates, 212 Ill. 2d 489, 524 (2004). "No two cases in
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this area will be alike because no two personal relationships are alike." Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at
466.
Under the facts in this case, there can be little question that the trial court's finding of a de
facto marriage was not against the manifest weight of the evidence. Respondent and Borski had
been together for over three years at the time of the hearing, and the evidence demonstrated that they
spent nearly every night together during their relationship. The evidence also showed that the two
took many trips together and spent virtually all holidays together. In fact, the only factor from the
above list that weighs against the trial court's finding is the fourth factor: the evidence indicated that
respondent and Borski did not commingle funds or provide each other with monetary support.
Respondent argues that this fourth factor should be dispositive because "[m]aintenance is
predicated upon a need for support by the spouse who is to receive maintenance" and, thus, "the
most important question that arises in all termination of maintenance cases" is "whether the
relationship has materially affected the recipient spouse's need for support." While we agree with
respondent that "[m]aintenance is predicated upon a need for support by the spouse who is to receive
maintenance" (Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467), we disagree with her conclusion that the principle
dictates that the recipient spouse's need for support is a factor in determining whether a de
facto marriage exists. Quite to the contrary, it is well established that a finding of a de facto
marriage rests on consideration of the above factors, and no one factor is controlling. See Sunday,
354 Ill. App. 3d at 189 (courts look at the totality of the circumstances in light of the factors). Thus,
in Sappington, our supreme court rejected an argument that a recipient spouse's new relationship
could not be a de facto marriage solely because the two people did not engage in sexual intercourse,
and the court instead focused on whether the two people entered into a husband-and-wife-like
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relationship. Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467 ("it is the husband-and-wife-like relationship which
bears the rational relationship to the need for support, not the absence or presence of sexual
intercourse"). 1
For clarity, we draw a distinction between consideration of the recipient's financial needs and
consideration of the fourth factor above (the interrelation of personal affairs). The import of the
1
As discussed below, the quoted sentence from Sappington, and indeed Sappington itself, can
be read two ways. It can be read as relying on the "need for support" as a consideration in
determining whether a husband-wife relationship exists, or it can be read as stating that the existence
of a husband-wife relationship is the sole question in determining whether maintenance should be
terminated.
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fourth factor is not whether the new de facto spouse financially supports the recipient, but rather
whether their personal affairs, including financial matters, are commingled as those of a married
couple would typically be. See In re Marriage of Toole, 273 Ill. App. 3d 607, 612 (1995)
(considering among the totality of the circumstances the commingling of funds as indicator of nature
of relationship); In re Lambdin, 245 Ill. App. 3d 797, 804 (1993) (same); In re Johnson, 215 Ill. App.
3d 174, 181-82 (1991) (same).
In pressing her argument, respondent incorrectly assumes that "all termination of
maintenance cases" involve "relationships." Respondent's argument essentially confuses two
separate bases for terminating maintenance: termination due to substantial change in circumstances
and termination due to de facto remarriage. If a recipient spouse's relationship leaves the recipient
financially secure, there may be a substantial change in circumstances warranting the termination of
maintenance. See 750 ILCS 5/510(a) (West 2004). Of course, a substantial change in circumstances
can arise independently of any relationship, romantic, conjugal, or otherwise. On the other hand,
where the asserted ground for termination is not a substantial change but rather a de facto marriage
(750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004)), the goal is not to determine whether the relationship leaves the
recipient financially secure, but rather to determine whether the relationship leaves the recipient
effectively married. Indeed, in those cases examining whether there is a substantial change in
circumstances, the most important question obviously is whether the change in circumstances has
materially affected the recipient spouse's need for support. But in cases involving de facto marriage,
maintenance is terminated because the recipient spouse is involved in a husband-and-wife-like
relationship. Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467 (" 'it was the intention of our legislature to provide for
the termination of *** maintenance whenever the [recipient spouse] has entered into a husband-wife
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relationship with another' "), quoting In re Support of Halford, 70 Ill. App. 3d 609, 612 (1979).
While one of the numerous factors (none of which is individually dispositive) to be considered in
determining whether a relationship constitutes a de facto marriage is the interrelation of personal
affairs, the question of whether the relationship has materially affected the need for maintenance is
just as irrelevant as it would be if the marriage were de jure rather than de facto.
Our reading of the two sections and how they fit within the Act brings us to the same
conclusion. Section 510(a) of the Act (750 ILCS 5/510(a) (West 2004)) allows for either
modification or termination of maintenance based on need. Section 510(c) (750 ILCS 5/510(c)
(West 2004)), on the other hand, does not allow for modification of maintenance, but only
termination. The sliding scale approach under section 510(a) is a much more sensible means of
considering the parties' needs and adjusting maintenance to accommodate them than is the binary
approach under section 510(c). Because section 510(c) does not allow for reduced maintenance
payments, a court invoking section 510(c) based even in part on changed financial need would be
forced to choose between maintaining the status quo or terminating maintenance altogether,
regardless of the amount of change in need demonstrated. The fact that the legislature chose in
section 510(a) to provide for modification or termination of maintenance based on changes in need
and did not mention need or provide corresponding flexibility in section 510(c) leads us to conclude
that need is no more a factor in de facto than in de jure marriage situations.
Further, though it is true that "[m]aintenance is predicated upon a need for support by the
spouse who is to receive maintenance" (Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467), section 510(c) makes no
reference to any of the factors underlying an award of maintenance. Section 510(a), on the other
hand, explicitly incorporates the factors to be considered in awarding maintenance. 750 ILCS
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5/510(a--5) (West 2004) ("the court shall consider the applicable factors set forth in [section
504(a)]" of the Act, which lays out the factors to be considered in awarding maintenance). Thus, the
rationale underlying an award of maintenance, including the recipient spouse's need for support, is
expressly made relevant in a proceeding under section 510(a), but not in one under section 510(c).
A line of reported cases, some of which respondent cites, implies that the recipient spouse's
need is a central factor in determining whether maintenance should be terminated on the basis that
the spouse has entered into a de facto marriage. For example, in In re Marriage of Bramson, 83 Ill.
App. 3d 657 (1980), the court concluded that the recipient spouse had not "established a husband-
wife" relationship with a man, based on the facts that the two did not live together for a long period
of time, dated other people, and never "commingled their funds, as might be expected in a husband-
wife relationship." Bramson, 83 Ill. App. 3d at 662-63. The recipient also retained her name and
received mail at a different address from the man. Bramson, 83 Ill. App. 3d at 663. After
concluding that the two did not share a relationship tantamount to that of a husband and wife, the
court in Bramson continued:
"Moreover, the legislative intent does not appear to be an attempt to control public
morals. [Citation.] Rather, an important consideration, divorced from the morality of the
conduct, is whether the cohabitation has materially affected the recipient spouse's need for
support because she either received support from her co-resident or used maintenance
monies to support him. [Citation.]" Bramson, 83 Ill. App. 3d at 663.
Other appellate court cases have also implied that need is a factor in reviewing a finding
regarding whether a de facto marriage existed. In In re Marriage of Reeder, 145 Ill. App. 3d 1013
(1986), the court affirmed a finding that a couple had not entered into a de facto marriage. The court
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noted that the recipient spouse was the sole occupant of the basement of the man with whom she
cohabited, the man lived upstairs, the spouse paid rent to the man, she did not sleep in the man's
bedroom (although they did have regular sexual contact), the couple went out together very seldom,
the two had no joint bank accounts or co-owned property, the spouse did her own cooking and
chores, and the two did not vacation together. Reeder, 145 Ill. App. 3d at 1018-20. Based on these
facts, the appellate court concluded that the spouse's "need for support ha[d] not been materially
affected" by her cohabitation, and, accordingly, it affirmed the finding that the woman was not
engaged in a resident, continuing conjugal cohabitation. Reeder, 145 Ill. App. 3d at 1021.
In In re Marriage of Arvin, 184 Ill. App. 3d 644 (1989), the court held that a trial court's
conclusion that a couple established a de facto marriage was manifestly erroneous where:
"Judith testified that Hamilton's $100 contribution toward the oil bill was the only
contribution he made toward household expenses. The couple did not have a joint checking
account and did not commingle funds in any manner. [There was no evidence] that Judith's
cohabitation with Hamilton affected her need for support in any manner. *** [There was no
evidence that] Judith used maintenance payments to support Hamilton. Additionally, Judith
testified that she and Hamilton seldom ate together, she never did his laundry, and they only
occasionally slept in the same bedroom." In re Marriage of Arvin, 184 Ill. App. 3d at 649-
50.
In In re Marriage of Caradonna, 197 Ill. App. 3d 155 (1990), the court affirmed a finding that
a couple had not entered into a de facto marriage where the couple lived together for 10 months,
shared a bedroom, had sexual relations for 6 to 7 months, and did not share expenses. The court
reasoned that there was little evidence that the relationship "materially affected [the recipient
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spouse's] need for support, which in [its] view is an important factor in determining whether a de
facto husband-wife relationship has been established." (Emphasis in original.) Caradonna, 197 Ill.
App. 3d at 160. The court then emphasized the short duration of the couple's relationship as another
basis for affirming the finding that there was no de facto marriage. Caradonna, 197 Ill. App. 3d at
160.
In In re Marriage of Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d 171 (1994), the court reversed a finding that a
couple did not enter into a de facto marriage where they lived together, ate all of their meals
together, took vacations together, had joint checking accounts, and did not date other people.
Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d at 177. The court acknowledged several reported cases, including Bramson,
that "expressed the view that one factor to be considered in cohabitation cases is whether the
cohabitation has materially affected the recipient spouse's need for support because she receives
support from her coresident or has used maintenance funds to support him." Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d
at 177. However, the court reconciled its holding with those cases, on the ground that it did not
"believe that a shown need for support can be controlling and in itself sufficient to defeat a petition
to terminate maintenance when all other factors demonstrate an ongoing, conjugal relationship to
exist." Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d at 177.
Each of the cases above relies on several of the six factors listed herein in reaching a holding
regarding the existence of a de facto marriage, but each also discusses the recipient spouse's
financial needs, whether maintenance was used to purchase items for the alleged de facto husband,
and whether the alleged de facto husband provided support to the recipient spouse. Thus, each of the
cases refers to the recipient spouse's need as an additional justification for a finding, based on the
relevant factors, that maintenance should be terminated due to a de facto marriage. However, the
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plain language of section 510(c) of the Act does not contemplate an analysis of the recipient spouse's
needs. 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004). The justification for the de facto marriage rule has nothing
to do with financial need--the rule is designed to "remedy the inequity created when the recipient
spouse becomes involved in a husband-wife relationship but does not formalize the relationship" and
thus avoids termination of maintenance due to remarriage. Sunday, 354 Ill. App. 3d at 189. Under
the plain language of the Act, no further justification is needed. Roofe, 122 Ill. App. 3d at 60 (citing
Bramson for the proposition that the concern underlying the Act was for the recipient's need for
support, but stating that "[t]his does not mean *** that an economic analysis of the recipient's need is
necessary under the Act. The respondent was required to prove only that the petitioner was
cohabiting on a resident, continuing conjugal basis"); Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d at 178 ("We note that
an analysis based on need appears nowhere in the statute and would not be an appropriate
consideration were termination sought on the basis of petitioner's remarriage").
In reaching our holding, we note that our supreme court has taken an ambiguous stance on
the issue of whether need is to be considered in determining the existence of a de facto marriage. In
Sappington, the supreme court addressed the issue of whether a couple could be considered to be in
a resident, continuing conjugal relationship where they did not engage in sexual conduct.
Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 462. The court distinguished an appellate court case holding that, without
sexual conduct, there could be no finding of a de facto marriage, on the grounds that, in that case, the
parties did not go out together socially or travel together, while, in Sappington, the parties lived in
the same house alone for over two years, dated exclusively, and took vacations together (during
which they shared motel rooms and expenses). Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d 456, distinguishing In re
Marriage of McGowan, 84 Ill. App. 3d 609 (1980). The supreme court then reasoned as follows:
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"Maintenance is predicated upon a need for support by [the receiving spouse].
[Citation.] We believe that when two people live together *** it is the husband-and-wife-
like relationship which bears the rational relationship to the need for support, not the absence
or presence of sexual intercourse. Therefore, once an ex-spouse paying maintenance has
demonstrated that a husband-and-wife-like relationship does exist, it should be [i]ncumbent
upon the maintenance recipient to demonstrate that the relationship *** is not the type of
relationship which was intended by the legislature to justify the termination of the obligation
to pay maintenance." Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467.
The supreme court then quoted, without comment, two passages from appellate court cases:
the above-quoted passage from Bramson, and the following passage from Halford:
" 'We believe that it was the intention of our legislature to provide for the termination
of an ex-spouse's obligation to pay future maintenance whenever the spouse receiving the
maintenance has entered into a husband-wife relationship with another, whether this be by
legal or other means.' " (Emphasis added.) Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467, quoting Halford,
70 Ill. App. 3d at 612.
The supreme court's decision in Sappington leaves ambiguous its stance on whether need is a
factor to be considered in determining whether maintenance should be terminated under section
510(c) of the Act on the basis that the recipient is involved in a resident, continuing conjugal
relationship. On one hand, the supreme court stated that the intention behind the de facto marriage
rule is to terminate maintenance "whenever" a recipient has entered into a husband-wife relationship
with another (Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467), and the court relied on the nature of the couple's
relationship (in light of several of the factors relied on herein) in holding that the lack of a sexual
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relationship did not overcome the other factors (Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 466-67). On the other
hand, after reaching its holding, the supreme court referred to the "need for support," and it quoted
the above language from Bramson, which refers to the "consideration" that the cohabitation has
affected the recipient spouse's need for support. Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467. Though several of
the cases cited above rely on Sappington in referring to the recipient spouse's need for support (e.g.,
Arvin, 184 Ill. App. 3d at 649-50), we find Sappington to be ambiguous on the point, and thus we
instead rely on the plain language of the Act.
Though we agree with the ultimate holding of In re Marriage of Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d
99 (1999), that two cohabiting women may be considered de facto married, 2 we acknowledge our
disagreement with some of its language as it applies to the de facto marriage issue discussed herein.
The court there reasoned that "Illinois courts have routinely focused on the economic realities of the
ex-spouse's new relationship rather than on its moral or legal implications." Weisbruch, 304 Ill.
App. 3d at 105, citing Toole, 273 Ill. App. 3d at 611, Frasco, 265 Ill. App. 3d at 176-77, Halford, 70
Ill. App. 3d at 613, and Roofe, 122 Ill. App. 3d at 60. The court saw "the purpose of the statute [to
be] to prevent the injustice of requiring the paying spouse to continue paying maintenance to an ex-
spouse who uses the money to support someone else or is receiving support from someone else."
Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d at 105. This language misstates the purpose of section 510(c) of the
2
The holding in Weisbruch underscores the point that section 510(c) of the Act is invoked not
by the recipient spouse's purpose in not getting legally married, but rather by whether the recipient
spouse is in a relationship that meets the relevant factors, even if the spouse would be unable to enter
into a de jure marriage.
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Act, which was not enacted "to prevent the injustice of requiring the paying spouse to continue
paying maintenance" when the receiving spouse does not need it (Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d at
105), but rather to "remedy the inequity created when the recipient spouse becomes involved in a
husband-wife relationship but does not formalize the relationship" and thus avoids termination of
maintenance due to remarriage (Sunday, 354 Ill. App. 3d at 189; see also Reeder, 145 Ill. App. 3d at
1017).
The Weisbruch court went on to note that terminating maintenance based on a conjugal
relationship appeared "inconsistent" with the idea that the receiving spouse was still in need of
maintenance, and it stated that the "same inconsistency appears in Sappington, which states that the
most important factor is whether cohabitation affects the receiving spouse's need for support, yet
provides for the complete termination of maintenance even where the receiving spouse's needs are
not being completely met by his or her new partner." Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d at 106. The court
justified this "inconsistency" by stating that the true inquiry is "whether the receiving spouse has
formed a new relationship wherein the partners look to each other for support, not whether the
support provided is in fact adequate to meet the receiving spouse's needs." (Emphasis in original.)
Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d at 106.
First, we note that Sappington does not hold that the receiving spouse's need for support is
"the most important factor" in determining if cohabitation justifies termination of maintenance.
Weisbruch, 304 Ill. App. 3d at 106, citing Sappington, 106 Ill. 2d at 467-68. Even if, as discussed
above, Sappington can be read as endorsing Bramson's proposition that need should be considered,
nothing in Sappington gives any indication that need should be "the most important factor." That
aside, the references to economic realities in Weisbruch contradict the principles we have laid out
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above, which indicate that need is not a helpful factor in determining whether a couple carries on as
if they were married. Terminating maintenance based on de facto marriage is not "inconsistent" with
the idea of a recipient spouse's continued need. On the contrary, it is entirely consistent for a
receiving spouse to remain in a position of financial need even after his or her maintenance has been
terminated due to de facto marriage, because, as explained above, need is simply irrelevant to the
determination of whether a de facto marriage exists.
The rationale of the de facto marriage rule is that a receiving spouse who is de facto
remarried should be treated no differently from a receiving spouse who is de jure remarried.
Because the spouse's need is not relevant in determining whether he or she is de jure remarried, it is
not relevant in determining whether the spouse is de facto remarried. Thus, a recipient who is de
facto married can no more be heard to claim a right to continue maintenance based on need than
could a recipient spouse who enters into a formal, legal marriage. Here, the totality of the
circumstances supports the trial court's finding of a de facto husband and wife relationship and is
certainly not contrary to the manifest weight of the evidence. Thus, we hold that the trial court
properly granted petitioner's petition to terminate maintenance.
Based on the foregoing, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court of Lee County.
Affirmed.
GROMETER, P.J., and CALLUM, J., concur.
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