Filed Date: 3/18/2008
Status: Precedential
Modified Date: 11/1/2024
The testimony presented at the hearing reveals that the birth mother, Karen A. (hereinafter Karen), is the mother of nine children, including Summer. She has been married to Summer’s father, Charles A. (hereinafter Charles), for one year. Charles is also the father of Karen’s eighth child, a two-year-old boy. In addition, Charles has three older children from prior relationships with three different women. At some point in the late
Karen was acquainted with the prospective adoptive mother June C. (hereinafter June) because June was a charge nurse at the nursing home where Karen has worked as a nurse’s aide for approximately seven years. It is undisputed that Karen approached June about the possibility of adopting Summer because she was aware that June could not have children, and that after June discussed the matter with her husband Ronald C. (hereinafter Ronald), June told Karen that they wished to adopt her baby. Karen explained that she decided to place Summer for adoption because she was feeling overwhelmed by the fact that she was working and studying to become a medical assistant, and was concerned about the financial strain on her family. June continues to work three to four days per week at the nursing home where she and Karen met, and where Ronald is employed as a union carpenter. June and Ronald own their own home, and Summer has her own room. During the course of the hearing, the prospective adoptive parents admitted that Ronald had used cocaine during the summer of 2006, but maintained that he had stopped his drug use after voluntarily entering an outpatient treatment program, which he attended for approximately six weeks. The couple did not disclose Ronald’s drug use on the application they submitted to become certified as adoptive parents.
The Family Court concluded that Summer’s best interests would be served by returning her to her birth parents. In reaching its determination, the court emphasized that there was no evidence that Karen was currently unfit, and that both she and June appeared to be loving, capable mothers. The court also expressed concern that Ronald had not been candid about the extent of his past drug use, and found that he did not disclose his drug use on the certification application because he knew he would face difficulties in becoming certified if he did so. In addition, the court noted that if Summer were returned to her birth parents, she would have the benefit of being raised with her siblings.
Domestic Relations Law § 115-b, which governs extrajudicial consents to private placement adoptions, “was enacted in 1972 to reform statutory and decisional law, perceived as unfair to adoptive parents and unsettling to adoptions generally, which permitted biological parents to revoke consent at any time before the final order of adoption and recognized their primacy of status. An effort was made by this reform to introduce certainty and finality by limiting a parent’s right to revoke consent, with the stated intention of balancing the rights of surrendering parents, adoptive parents and children” (Matter of Sarah K, 66 NY2d 223, 233-234 [1985], cert denied sub nom. Kosher v Stamatis, 475 US 1108 [1986] [citations omitted]). Pursuant to the statute, a birth parent may revoke an extrajudicial consent to adoption within 45 days of its execution (see Domestic Relations Law § 115-b [3]). If the prospective adoptive parents oppose revocation, the court must conduct a hearing to determine whether the best interests of the child will be served by returning custody of the child to the birth parents, by adoption of the child by the prospective adoptive parents, or by an alternative disposition (see Domestic Relations Law § 115-b [3] [b]; [6] [d] [ii]). Critically, at such a hearing, “the parent or parents who consented to such adoption shall have no right to the custody of the child superior to that of the adoptive parents, notwithstanding that the parent or parents who consented to the adoption are fit, competent and able to duly maintain, support and educate the child. The custody of such child shall be awarded solely on the basis of the best interests of the child, and there shall be no presumption that such interest will be promoted by any particular custodial disposition” (Domestic Relations Law § 115-b [6] [d] [v]).
The primary factors to be considered in determining what custodial disposition will be in a child’s best interests include the ability to provide for the child’s emotional and intellectual development, the quality of the home environment, and the parental guidance provided (see Eschbach v Eschbach, 56 NY2d 167, 172 [1982]; Matter of Baby Boy M., 269 AD2d 450 [2000]; Matter of Baby Boy P., 244 AD2d 491 [1997]; Matter of Baby Boy L., 206 AD2d 470, 471 [1994]). In addition, other relevant considerations include the original placement of the child, the length of that placement, the financial status and ability of the parents to provide for the child, and the relative fitness of the prospective adoptive parents and the birth parents (see
Upon balancing the relevant factors in this case, we find that the Family Court’s determination that it would be in Summer’s best interests to return to her birth parents is not supported by a sound and substantial basis. Significantly, in reaching its determination, the Family Court failed to give appropriate weight to the past actions of the birth parents, which cast doubt on their ability to maintain stable long-term relationships, and to protect Summer and provide her with proper parental guidance. Karen’s testimony reveals that she was married twice before, and that her seven older children were fathered by three different men. Charles was also previously married, and fathered his three older children with three different women. Moreover, at the time of the hearing, Karen and Charles had been married for only one year, making it difficult to predict whether their relationship will succeed in the long term. In contrast, June and Ronald had been married for eight years at the time of the hearing, and it is the first marriage for both of them.
Even more troubling is Karen’s past failure to protect her children from abuse, and the serious lapse of judgment which led her to remain in a relationship with one of the men who had abused her children for at least two years after that abuse was revealed. As Karen acknowledged at the hearing, a child protective proceeding was commenced against her based upon her failure to protect her twin daughters from being sexually abused by her second husband Christopher S. Despite the fact that the twins and two of her other children were removed from her care, Karen remained with her second husband through the
The fact that the children presently in Karen’s care appear to be doing well does not render her past lapses irrelevant in considering her relative fitness as a mother. We also note that Karen more recently displayed poor judgment by failing to tell her older children that she was pregnant with Summer, and taking no steps to emotionally prepare them for her decision to place the baby for adoption. Karen also admittedly smoked throughout her pregnancy, despite the well-known health risks which smoking poses to infants.
We further note that, in evaluating the quality of the parental guidance that Charles might provide, the Family Court did not take into account his admission that he does not have a close parental relationship with his three older children. Charles acknowledged that his 15-year-old son was adopted when the boy’s mother remarried, and that he had not seen his son since he was a baby. Moreover, Charles had not seen either of his older daughters for approximately two years, despite the fact that one of his daughters lives nearby. Charles also admitted that he had recently fallen behind in the child support payments he was required to make on behalf of his 18-year-old daughter, and that his continuing support obligation to her places additional economic pressure on the birth parents. In contrast, while the prospective adoptive parents are not wealthy, they are in a far better financial position to provide for Summer than are the birth parents. In addition, while Charles admitted drinking heavily at one point in his life, there is no indication that he ever received treatment for his alcohol use, which allegedly stopped completely at the time he met Karen.
In sum, the record demonstrates that Karen and Charles made the difficult decision to place Summer for adoption because they were concerned about their ability to provide for another child, and Karen was feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of working and going to school while caring for her large family. However, having voluntarily made that difficult decision, they are not entitled to a preference in determining Summer’s best interests merely because of their status as birth parents. While the decision in this case is a difficult one to make, we conclude that evidence presented at the hearing demonstrates that it would be in Summer’s best interests to remain in the loving care of the prospective adoptive parents, who are better able to provide her with stability and parental guidance. Mastro, J.E, Covello, Eng and Belen, JJ., concur.